Issuu on Google+

Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Get Her Laughing

Get her laughing is a renowned dating and flirting strategy: a girl who finds you funny is far more likely to fall for your charms. In addition to leveling the ground between you, using humor will relieve the nervous tension of first date jitters, negate worries about "not being or looking good enough," and draw the two of you closer together. To get her laughing, use the following strategies.

1


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Develop Your Humorous Self

1. Learn how to be funny. It might sound trite to state the obvious but it's important to acknowledge the basics: if you're not funny, then you're not likely to make anyone laugh, least of all a girl you're keen to make laugh. Worse yet, trying to be funny when you don’t know how is cringe-inducing. Being genuinely funny will ensure laughter from a girl because she'll recognize your sincerity, your ability to see the world as a joyful and happy place. And being funny is innate, provided you trust your own sense of humor to shine through. Here are some helpful hints to improve your funny side:  Use your body language to express humor. Your facial expressions, body position, movements, and tone of voice can all impact how funny you seem. Don't be shy at making good use of your physical abilities to convey the funnier side of things, from pulling faces to funny walks! 2. Practice being funny all the time.

2


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com See the world with a humorous outlook and regularly try to transform everyday situations into funny anecdotes in your mind. The more that you practice this, the easier it gets and it will become second nature for you to respond in this way under pressure; situational humor is ultimately easier and more likely to work for you than memorizing reams of jokes made up by other people. 3. Expect to make mistakes with hit-and-miss attempts to get her laughing. That's part and parcel of being humorous – sometimes it just falls flat. Don't let it cause you to abandon the attempt; try again and show her that stuffing up doesn't bother you. If you like, why not make a joke out of a failed joke?! 4. Be self-effacing by placing yourself at the center of humorous anecdotes. aturally, be careful not to come across as a lame duck with serious low selfesteem issues, or as a perpetual clown. Avoid that by focusing on how your good qualities have pulled you through some challenging or embarrassing situations where other less humorous people might have responded in a frustrated, unforgiving, or annoyed way. Show yourself as a fun-loving guy who trips up now and then but readily dusts off the dirt and keeps on trying until you get to where you're headed. Being able to laugh at yourself and your own shortcomings will demonstrate to a girl that you're a down-to-earth kind of guy, able to handle criticism, and that you don't give up easily. In addition, if she's certain you're able to poke fun at yourself, it'll be easier to poke fun at her sweet little foibles when you're more familiar with one another without her seeing this as an attack on her. 5. Be positive and happy in your outlook. Closely linked to being funny, having a positive nature goes hand in hand with a good sense of humor. Being happy and positive to be around will win over most people, and it's especially alluring if you're able to be a positive source of morale boosting when she's feeling down. Trying to find the positive take in even negative situations will ensure that you come across as easygoing, considerate, and kind, all traits a girl can easily connect with.

3


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com  Think about the people who send out positive vibes. If you're not already competent with setting people at their ease, what do these guys do that you can put into action too?  Be playful. Being funny includes being playful, sometimes teasing, and always looking for the fun angle. The serious stuff can wait.  If you're feeling temporarily down or melancholy, try to keep this to yourself or beg off seeing her until you're feeling more upbeat. A lasting impression of you being down is not a good start to a relationship!

4


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Focus Your Attention on the Girl

1. Respect her. Respecting the girl's individuality and unique qualities is an essential part of earning her trust. With trust comes the ease of enjoying one another's company, making it easier to encourage her to laugh. Every girl is different and as such, different things will get her laughing from other girls. For you, this means accepting that what might have worked for one girl won't necessarily work with another girl. Spend time learning what works best in her case. And if it turns out that she doesn't seem to find anything funny, then maybe neither of you are going to click in general – sum it up for yourself by examining her response to your sense of humor! 2. Listen to her. Listening is an important part of creating humor. Good comedians observe everyone and everything around them to see what makes people tick; they take their observations and reflect them back at their audience by enlarging the funnier side of life's trials or pointing out things in a light that others might not have noticed the funny side of before. By listening carefully, you'll learn what she 5


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com really cares about, thinks about, and believes in, all important observations for you to know what get her laughing. Good listening will give you material to have fun with as well as to keep the wheels of conversation turning. Just make sure that whatever you learn about her and try to make funny is not something "sacred" to her, or you'll risk offending her. 3. Laugh with her. Laughter is infectious, so this part won't be hard to do. Laughing with her will raise your standing in her eyes. If you find her funny, and you're engaged with her jokes, happiness, and laughing, it will show her that you're special and care enough to fall into her rhythm and sense of humor.  Mimic her style of humor. If it's risqué, for example, use risqué humor yourself; if it's dark humor, use dark humor too, etc. Naturally, only follow her lead once you're absolutely sure of her style of humor – be careful to forgive nervous silliness on her behalf.  Find out her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her and laugh together. You'll be able to explore your favorites too once she's confident enough that you're a broadly humorous guy.  Once you know her particular likes in the area of comedy, try quoting lines from a show, or relating scenes that are particularly funny. This shows her that you're willing to enjoy her humor, which makes you very attractive!

6


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Prompt Laughter

1. Practice one-liners. Not quite a cheat code, but one-liners can be a good beginner's way of finding the right words for the right moment. One-liners can help bring about a laugh, or at least, a happy smile when needed; just don't confuse witty one-liners with lame pick-up lines! There are many one-liners you can find with a quick search on the internet, but here's a small sample of one-liners showing how you might use them:  Never frown, you never know who might be noticing your smile. - If she's feeling a little blue, this can be a caring but fun pick-me-up that shows you love her wonderful smile.  When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. (Franklin D. Roosevelt) - If she's a little annoyed about something that's happening in her life, this can be a way of showing you care and a way to encourage a gritty laugh.

7


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com  The shinbone is a device for finding furniture in a dark room. - Trying to make her laugh if she hurts herself, or to deflect your own pain if you hurt yourself.  I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure. - For those times when you can't make up your mind or if she's dithering! 2. Be silly. There are some truly silly things you can do to make her laugh. Naturally, all of the following are highly dependent on how well you know this girl and whether or not she appreciates "silly"; and remember that the joke's best when you're able to laugh at yourself:  Paw her like a cat and meow. Ask to be groomed.  Make silly faces. Pretend to be choking on a golf ball, pretend to be a goldfish, pretend to be gagging on a moldy piece of cheese when eating something delicious, etc. Or, go to a photo booth together, pull very silly faces and take the photos; this is guaranteed to start some laughs when you check out the wacky results!  Give deadpan, teasing responses to silly questions. For example, if she says "Do you date a lot?", respond in a cocky tone with something like: "Not usually, normally I spend all my time on Second Life pretending I've a life, can't you tell? (Insert genuine grin)"[1] Be sure to smile genuinely when delivering such a cocky response, and be aware that this sort of retort can fall flat if she thinks you're making fun of her.  Act dumb. Give her a really blank look in response to something she's asked or said, as if you don't know the answer and it's causing you great confusion while you try to "get it". Only keep this up as long it takes to be funny – it's not something to be overdone.  Do impersonations of funny performances from comedians like John Cleese, Rowan Atkinson, or Charlie Chaplin; or impersonate people both of you know, if that's safe ground. Mimic their voices, facial expressions, movements, or even lines.  Stretch out your tongue as far as you can get it, and then a bit further. Think giraffe or Gene Simmons. Move your tongue to one side of your mouth.

8


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com Extend it to one side. Loll your eyes. Wait for her reaction – don't keep this up too long though!  Tell her to dare you to do something really silly, then do it (as long as it's not illegal, of course).  Flirt while being silly. 3. Tickle her. If you know her well enough, try a tickle! Tickling is an amazing way to break down the barriers and get the laughter going. It's hard not to laugh when you're being tickled... The only qualifications on this is that she must be someone who doesn't mind being tickled. It's hardly going to win you a prize if she can't stand being tickled and you won't leave off. Try this (and never stop smiling):    

Ask her if her feet are ticklish. Whatever her answer, ask if you can test this out. If she lets you, remove her footwear and start tickling her feet. Aim higher - tickle the sides of her tummy or her neck, and see how she reacts! Provided she's laughing and happy about it, all is good. Stop at any sign she isn't enjoying the tickle.

4. Do fun and adventurous things together. Fun activities that have a thrill or an exciting edge are good for invoking laughs. It's up to you what might work best but some ideas include going for a ride on a cycle, scooter, or motor cycle together, taking a helicopter tour of the city, water sliding, visiting a local theme park (dodgem cars are great!), or maybe even taking a bungee jump together if you're game (the laughter will follow!). If it's novel and exciting, it's bound to make her laugh. 5. Find funny material to keep her laughing when you're not around. Send her emails or text messages that are funny and cute at the same time. Many of the following suggestions can serve to make her laugh and can be great topics of conversation when you meet up again too:  Find a website that specializes in cute, funny pictures of soft, furry animals doing funny things, such as kittens sitting in a shoe, pigs in boots, baby 9


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com pandas, a kitten being friends with a dog, or a pony eating an ice cream, etc. Send her some of the photos to make her laugh.  Send her funny jokes about things you know will make her laugh. Either do a focused search for jokes online, or send on any jokes you've been sent that you found funny and think she will too – the beauty of this latter method is that she'll feel like "one of the boys" if she realizes she's being sent material normally reserved for your male friends!  Send her funny photos of yourself, from baby photos to now.  Share the links with her to funny sites that you enjoy.

10


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Get the Balance Right

1. Don't leave the laughter hanging. The moment of transition between a good laugh and your continuing conversation is very important. You've just told a funny joke or related an hilarious incident, she's laughed her head off... and now, silence. Silence will pull apart the good your humor has injected into the conversation. Always be ready with conversational follow-throughs. Whether they're serious, light-hearted, or funny, it's important to keep the conversation going. For example, if you've just cracked that joke and she's laughed, at least be ready with a line like "And so, what are your thoughts about X,Y,Z" (leading on from the joke material perhaps), or, "What do you like about your job?", or "How about we order something to eat, all that laughing's got my appetite up" (followed by small talk), etc. Stay with the drift and keep in mind that there's no need to come up with laugh after laugh. 2. Avoid jokes or sarcasm that will plummet your standing in her mind. These are the jokes that border on insulting, are insulting, or are simply crude. Avoid telling any sexist, ethnic, or religious jokes. These are touchy topics at the

11


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com best of times and are definitely not safe ground unless you know the girl incredibly well – even then, be careful!  Don't make fun of women, her friends, her family, or female matters. And definitely do not make jokes about weight, appearance, or dress size.  Don't make jokes about her. It doesn't matter how funny you see them and how inoffensive you mean them to be – she will be likely to take offense and see the joke in its worst light. Equally, don't laugh at her, under any circumstances, unless you don't want to see her again.  Steer clear of being mean about other people as a form of humor. Not only is humiliating people not funny, it will also have her wondering if you'll turn on her next.  When you don't know her well, avoid the bloke jokes, including sarcastic, dark, or intimidating ones. When you know her better, you'll be better prepared to know whether she's alright with this sort of humor or not. In judging the suitability of your sarcastic or ironic remarks, keep in mind the comment by Agnes Repplier that "humor brings insight and tolerance; irony brings a deeper and less friendly understanding." If in doubt, keep it friendly rather than darkly clever. 3. Relax – don't burden her or yourself with the need to laugh. Laughter is spontaneous and wells up from humorous situations and trying to see the good side to all things. And equally, there are times when laughing isn't appropriate or it just doesn't feel right. Trust your instincts on when not to try and make the girl laugh, for example, when it's a somber occasion, or when something very serious has happened.  In wanting to "make a girl laugh", the intent matters. It's not possible to make anybody do anything against their will unless you're coercing them. That's hardly likely if you want laughter as the result! If she finds you funny, that's fantastic, but if not, you might simply have to rethink your strategy and assess your limitations.  Try not clown around too much – a little is funny, too much is embarrassing for both of you.

12


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com  Trying to be funny when you don't feel funny, or when it just isn't clicking for you, will cause you distress and can take away from the enjoyment of spending time with this girl. Don't try too hard!  Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each other's company.

13


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Get Her Laughing Tips  Be daring in your humor at times. It may surprise her in a good way.  Develop an easy to learn catchphrase or gimmick (called an "inside joke") that she can repeat, thus making her seem part of your special joke together (e.g. "Winka woo").  If a joke falls flat and she looks at you like you're an idiot, the most important thing is to remain calm, smile and try to change the subject. or say another lame joke! She'll usually be forgiving.  Use fresh material and current affairs as sources of inspiration for your humor.  Watch some stand-up comedy shows to get a feel of comedic timing. Keep notes of anything funny that you think might work in your situation.  Be careful if resorting to "funny" pick-up lines. Most pick-up lines are corny and with the advent of the internet, everyone's read them. If you're going to deliver one, make sure it's a good one and do it with style.  Even if you're not interested in the girl for dating reasons, many of these ways of making a girl laugh can be useful for keeping in the good books of sisters, co-workers, friends, etc. You'll likely want to drop the flirting or the tickling though!  Wait a second to think up something. Or to think if your joke is really funny or not!  Listen to music that isn't too hardcore and don't get ahead of yourself. Also don't listen to sad music either. Rather listen to relaxing and chilling music. The more inspiring, exciting, and motivating the better. Music changes your mood and causes you to think on a different path and say something or act different than you normally would.-Larry Ballard

14


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

Get Her Laughing Warnings  Don't say anything offensive! Although some may find it funny, most don't.  Don't say anything funny about her!  If you're always joking around her, she may find it hard to take you seriously. Pick your moments to show your more serious side too.  Do not appear as if you're trying too hard. It makes the girl feel you lack self-confidence or that you're socially desperate.  If you've been dating a girl for a while, don't joke about marriage. She'll get the wrong idea and think you're being serious.  Before you make fun of a hobby, find out if it's something she does or cares about. You might end up making fun of her whole life's work.  Never laugh at your own joke until others laugh.  In the early stages of dating a girl whom you'd like to make laugh, don't bring up anything too sexually charged – she might think you're sexobsessed!

15


Get Her Laughing – 101waystogetexback.com

 Get instant access to our 69 minute High Definition video explaining exactly how to Get Her Laughing!  Gracie Lewis, Lucy Collett and Mellisa Clarke will teach you exactly what a “Sense of Humour” is, and how to quickly develop yours.  Learn the three ways to be funny and the right way to use each method. – Don’t put her off with bad humour!  Understand how to be both funny and attractive at the same time and escape the “Friend Zone”!  Get Her Laughing now for our special introductory offer price of just $9.95!

 Full 60 Day “No Questions Asked” Money Back Guarantee. NO SPAM – We will never share your details with anyone.

16


Get Her Laughing