Lasting bonds between mothers and daughters

DIANA TRASATTI STAFF WRITER DLT722@CABRINI EDU

The bond between mothers and daughters is becoming an increasing hot topic on college campuses.

The relationship between a mother and daughter is unique because of their similarities. Little ferent than with her father. The daughter can feel freer to speak on more issues because the mother can possess a better understanding of the situation. This is according to Dr. Edna Barenbaum, professor of psychology, to their mothers. In early childhood years, they are dependent on their mothers. The adolescent years serve as a time of separation, when young girls go off to try and discover their own identity and are more distant.

In some cases girls feel that their fathers are the one they can turn to.

Going off to college is a major event not only for adolescents, but also their

Maternal instincts are in full effect during this time period.

“I feel that since I work and am away at school my mom wants to do more for me when I’m home,” Kristin Willis, a sophomore education major, said.

College is the time when mothers want to increase their care for their children, ters seek career advice, marriage issues and child care. It is these factors that can increase the bond in the relationship. tablish guidance. girls will eventually grow up to be women, so they do not have the need to push their mother away.

“The more similar your life is, the closer you are to somebody,” Dr. Kathleen McKinley, professor of sociology, said.

Close mother-daughter relationships are healthy.

“Mothers are supposed to be your supporter and enforcer, not just your friend. They are supposed to establish rules and guide you through life. I respect my mom,” Bridget Cantwell, a sophomore nursing major, said.

This differs for males. Boys have to prove their masculinity and gain a sense of independence. They must separate themselves from both parents to achieve this.

A daughter’s relationship with her mother is dif-

“Even though there are some issues that I would talk to my mom about instead of my dad, I still feel that I am closer to my father,” Dora Peters, a sophomore criminal justice major, said.

The different life stages go in conjunction with the mother-daughter relationship. During the prenatal period infants are attached