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Dear Reader, It is good to be back after such an extraordinary spring and summer! We have done our best to find as many events that are safe to attend this autumn as possible and we have put together a list of clubs and classes that are operating. As lots of parents start the search for schools this September, we have compiled a list of open days for you; many of which are virtual this year. Please do check before attending any events or classes in case of any local lockdowns and stay safe. @familiesCambMag

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Annual festival of people, places and community is open for registrations England’s largest festival of history and culture will return in September and this year, support from players of People’s Postcode Lottery means as well as experiencing local events, visitors can participate in activities much further afield and see even more hidden places.

For the first time, the Heritage Open Days (HODs) programme will comprise a mix of in-person and digital events; communities will be able to celebrate the stories of the places and spaces that are important to them while staying safe and adhering to current social

distancing measures.

Every year around 50,000 volunteers give their time and effort to help create the largest cultural grassroots festival in the country.

Last year 5,700 events were organised which welcomed more than 2.4 million visitors. This autumn, some venues and outdoor spaces will open for pre-booked events and visits by small groups, while others will offer virtual tours and digital experiences. www.heritageopendays.org.uk 11th – 20th September 2020

Shop with Confidence

With Mothercare gone from the high street and online (once the household name for everything baby, toddler and maternity) where will we go now? Boots could be the new place to shop with everything from nappies and toys to changing bags and nursing bras. We have selected just a couple of things available: Nuby Penguin Inflatable Seat £26.99, Boots This easily inflatable floor seat is perfect for travel and comes in a plush fabric with stimulating toys, a mirror on a detachable tray and a cloud squeaky toy to encourage babies to play and learn. Nuby’s Super comfy, inflatable seat will help teach your baby to sit upright as well as keeping them safely cushioned with the padded arms and head rest. Machine washable too.

Babymel Gabby Backpack Changing Bag - Dusty Pink £55, Boots Parent in style with this new Gabby backpack. Spacious, durable, and most of all - stylish. With a wide and secure zipped closure for worry free days out.

Key Features • Water resistant outer material and lining • Backpack straps with integrated stroller straps • Wide opening with zipped closure for security • Six internal and external pockets for all your essentials • Machine washable padded changing mat • Insulated bottle holder with drawstring closure

Creation of Imaginary Worlds More Common

Children are far more likely to create imaginary worlds than previously believed, according to new research.

A University of Oregon study found 17% of children ages 8 to 12 invented imaginary worlds in detail, with many sharing their creations with friends who added complexity.

While varying widely in content, all imaginary worlds included details about an environment (e.g. forests, lakes, caves), the inhabitants (e.g. bandits, goblins, animals) and mystical components, such as a fountain that sprayed honey.

The author, Professor Marjorie Taylor,says: “We can be really impressed by the creativity of children left to their own devices. It is important to give them some time free of a schedule because they will come up with things that they really enjoy and will share with others."

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BELIEVE IT OR NOT: LOCKDOWN IMPROVED RELATIONSHIPS

You may disagree, but a study suggests that lockdown strengthened many parent’s relationships with their children.

Research by the University of Essex found that around a quarter of parents reported that their relationship with their children had improved during the government’s stay-athome policy. Less than 5% said it got worse.

The results are based on research for the Understanding Society Covid-19 survey, a nationally representative study that collected data from 5,500 parents.

Many parents who said they had closer relationships with their children had helped out with home schooling. Nearly 40% of parents who reduced their work hours to look after their children said their relationships had improved. Only 6% said their relationships had become worse.

However, fewer lone mothers reported an improvement in their relationships, and slightly more said they had become worse.

More info:www.understandingsociety.ac.uk

PETER RABBIT RETURNS

Peter Rabbit 2 is due for release on December 11th, 2020. To commemorate Beatrix Potter’s adorable animal tales, world famous luxury toy brand Steiff has designed a collection of the most beloved characters This Steiff Peter Rabbit is a classic gift for children enchanted by the mischievous character voiced by James Corden in the film Peter Rabbit 2 The Runaway, due for release in December.

Iconic German toy manufacturer Steiff created the world's first teddy bear in 1902. It is now a heritage brand collected by toy and bear enthusiasts worldwide.

Steiff toys and keepsakes are often gifted to children to mark special occasions like births, birthdays christenings and Christmas.

Steiff’s original antique bears sell for thousands at auction.

Brand-new designs like this Peter Rabbit plush range are suitable for children of all ages.

All authentic Steiff pieces still have the famous button in the ear, and limited editions come with a certificate of authenticity.

Pater Rabbit £89.99, Flopsy Bunny £92.99, Benjamin Bunny £89.99, available from www.steiffteddybears. co.uk Suitable from birth and machine washable at 30 degrees familiesonline.co.uk

News & views MOST CHILDREN SLEEP WITH MOBILE PHONE

Children are getting mobiles at an earlier age, with most now having their own phone by 7 years of age, according to an annual survey by Childwise, a leading specialist in research with children and young people.

The survey, based on interviews with 2,200 children in the UK ages 5 to 16, shows significant changes in the role of the mobile phone in young lives.

Mobile phone ownership is up - it is now the top device for children to access online content - and the average time spent on mobiles by children ages 7 to 16 is three hours and twenty minutes per day.

Of concern, 57% of children always have the phone beside their bed and 44% feel "uncomfortable" if they are without a phone signal. 42% say they keep their phone on them at all times and never turn it off.

More info: www.childwise.co.uk

Reception Testing Delayed till 2021

The government’s plan to introduce Reception Baseline Assessment (RBA) will be delayed until September 2021 because of the disruption caused by the coronavirus pandemic.

In September 2017, the Department for Education announced that a new start-ofschool assessment for children ages 4 and 5 would be introduced as a baseline measure to track progress during primary school.

Children who start Reception in September 2021 will be the first group to take the new RBA during the first six weeks of the autumn term.

The test is due to eventually replace key stage 1 SATs in providing the baseline on which pupil progress scores are based.

The new tests have been criticised by some teachers, Head Teachers and parents, who claim it is unnecessary, will cause distress and could damage children’s future learning.

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Playtime with Dad May Improve Self-control

Children whose fathers make time to play with them from a very young age may find it easier to control their behaviour and emotions as they grow up, according to new research.

The study carried out by Cambridge University and the LEGO Foundation looked at how mothers and fathers play with children ages 0 to 3 and how it affects child development.

Although there are similarities, it found that fathers tend to engage in more physical play like tickling, chasing, and piggy-back rides, which researchers claim appears to help children to learn to control their feelings.

Professor Ramchandani, one of the authors of the study, said: “Physical play creates fun, exciting situations in which children have to apply self-regulation. You might have to control your strength, learn when things have gone too far – or maybe your father steps on your toe by accident and you feel cross.”

More info:www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0273229720300307

The Great British Beach Children’s Laureate to Remain for Further Year Clean is back

Cressida Cowell’s time as Children’s Laureate will continue for an additional 12 months due to the coronavirus outbreak.

The best-selling author of the How to Train Your Dragon series took the role in July 2019 and had been due to step down next year.

However, organisers BookTrust said the “exceptional circumstances” created by the pandemic meant Cressida will serve a threeyear term, staying until June 2022.

The role of Children's Laureate is awarded once every two years to a leading children’s author or illustrator to honour outstanding achievement in their field and to acknowledge their importance in creating the readers of tomorrow.

Cressida plans to continue with her ambitious campaign to make the magic of books and reading available to everyone by making a library in every school in the UK a compulsory legal requirement.

More info: www.childrenslaureate.org.uk

Become a Citizen Scientist during the annual Great British Beach Clean from 18 to 25 September.

Register to adopt a 100m stretch of beach and organise your own beach clean, with your family, a group of friends or ‘bubble’ in line with government guidance.

The Great British Beach Clean is more than just litter picking - people become citizen scientists and carry out a litter survey, recording what they find on the beaches to help show a national and international picture of the most common forms of litter.

Even if you don’t live near the coast, you can still take part by joining the Source to Sea Litter Quest and spot (and pick up!) common beach litter items in your local area. Did you know that 80% of the litter on beaches around the UK has travelled there from our towns, parks and rivers? More info: www.mcsuk.org

AUDIOBOOKS IMPROVE LITERACY

Audiobooks can benefit children’s reading skills, according to new research published by the charity, the National Literacy Trust.

The report looks at the advantages of listening to a recording of a novel being read, and the impact on young readers.

The research suggests that listening to a recorded story requires the same mental skills as reading in print, so audiobooks can help with understanding words and remembering information. They can also give children access to a broader range of texts and engage readers who might be reluctant, struggling or developing.

Emily Best, from the National Literacy Trust, said: "Audiobooks can be the key to unlocking a child's love of reading. They enable children of all reading abilities and interests to access and explore the incredible world of stories, which are brought to life by a range of exciting voices, different accents and sound effects.” More info: www.literacytrust.org.uk Families Oxfordshire 5

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Helping your Child Deal with Change Change can be a challenge for both parent and child, and is very often a trigger for a range of emotions.

Right now,as the world continues its journey back to some kind of ‘normality,’ it is important that you can help your child deal with the many changes that will come with this, including returning to school.

Change, when not supported appropriately by a caring adult, can feel like a traumatic experience for a child. This can then manifest as emotional issues down the line, so it is important that a child is supported gently and feels seen and heard when change is occurring.

It’s useful to remember also that children connect through fun, so while it is important to talk about change and the feelings associated with it, it’s also necessary to balance this up with time to play. In essence, children need time to process the change but also time away from focussing on it.

With the new school year approaching, here are some tips that can support your child: DEAL WITH YOUR EMOTIONS FIRST. Be aware of your own anxiety around the changes you are dealing with. When you can hold space for your own emotions and know how to support yourself, it makes you more able to hold space for your child’s emotions and understand how to help them. Seek support for yourself, even if it is just a chat with a friend. Remember that it is okay to be honest about your own emotions with your child as that will create connection between you and help your child understand that their emotions are also experienced by others.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD. Talk about the forthcoming changes. Giving your child advance notice will help them be more prepared. Read books or watch television shows that your child can relate to about the changes they are going to be dealing with.

LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD. Validate their feelings. It’s okay for them to feel what they feel. Don’t be tempted to try to rescue them from their feelings or tell them not to worry. By just letting them express how

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they feel, many children will feel better and this will lead to finding solutions to their worries. Observe your child’s physical needs too. If your child exhibits increased anxiety it is also beneficial to reflect with them on stressful past events they dealt with successfully.

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Settling in

The first half of this new term will see your child reconnecting with friends and classmates they may not have seen for months, getting to know a new teacher or even settling in at a new school.

Observe how your child feels around communication. Kids are often nervous about making new friends through fear of rejection and some role play might help them in the coming weeks. You could practise some conversation starters or developers to get them feeling confident about speaking to new people or getting to know other children better.

If your child has specific worries in their first few weeks back at school or is highly anxious about specific things or more generally, do share this with their teacher so he/she can support you both.

Teaching your child different types of mindfulness activities such as breathing and relaxation will also help them should they start to feel overwhelmed at school. These techniques can also be useful if they are struggling to settle to sleep at night. Remember that it’s best to practise the techniques fairly frequently in order for your child to be able to implement them confidently in stressful situations.

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Families Baby News

This issue of baby news is slightly different; having given birth to a beautiful daughter at the end of 2019 I thought you might appreciate my TOP TEN PRODUCTS for a newborn.

5. BRAVADO NURSING BRAS & EXPRESSING BRA

This might sound odd, but the expressing bra was a lifesaver, allowing me to express hands free this meant that I could eat, read and drink or even cuddle my daughter while expressing. www.bravadodesigns.com

6. SERAPHINE NURSING VESTS

1. STOKKE CHAIR WITH NEWBORN SEAT The newborn attachment meant that I could safely put my daughter down while busy in the kitchen or while we ate our dinner - the seat lies flat so that if she drifted off to sleep she was comfy and secure. The seat grows with your baby through the different stages, so we just swapped the newborn attachment for the baby seat at 6 months www.stokke.com

The vests are a great base layer for breast feeding mums so that when feeding out and about your post baby tummy stays completely covered! They look nice under a shirt too and adds extra warmth. www.seraphine.com

7. BJORN BABY BOUNCER

My daughter loved this chair, it has three different height adjustments so that she could lay flat (great if she fell asleep and when she was newborn) and upright (great for feeding if visiting family and friends). Plus the chair folds completely flat, making it great for travelling and storing. www.babybjorn.co.uk/baby-bouncers

9. CUDDLEDRY TOWEL

Bathing newborns can be a messy business, and when I bathed my boys I would end up soaked. This is a great towel that clipped round my neck so that I could cuddle my daughter in the towel while I dried her, which meant she was happy as she was close to me all the time. www.cuddledry.com

10. KENDAMIL ORGANIC MILK

I am a big advocate of breastfeeding, but for mums that can’t feed or end up having to supplement formula this is a great option. This has been made in the heart of the Lake District for over 58 years, the brand is committed to using the finest ingredients, all of which are sourced entirely from the UK. With The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge as customers it’s fit for a Prince! www.kendamil.com

8. BABY BJORN BABY CARRIER 2. MEDALA DOUBLE BREAST PUMP

A must for any breastfeeding mum. One of the quieter pumps on the market and also compatible with all hospital parts should your baby end up being premature. (Medala rent pumps to mums for just £47 a month). www.medela.co.uk

3. EWAN THE SHEEP:

Replicates the womb sounds which is a great soothing sound for babies to help when getting them off to sleep, Ewan has become part of our bedtime routine. The latest model even has a cry sensor! Available on www.amazon.co.uk

This has allowed me to continue to walk my dog as my daughter could sleep snugly in the carrier while we trekked along the local bridal paths (which are not wide enough for a pram).

As she has got bigger she has enjoyed being close and able to see what is around her, which isn’t so easy in a pram. www. babybjorn.co.uk/babycarriers/baby-carrierone-air

4. SNUZPOD

This bedside crib meant that my daughter could be right next to me during the night feeds and settled back off to sleep quickly , but also safe in her own space. www.snuz.co.uk familiesonline.co.uk

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Whizz Kidz

WHERE: Thame WHEN: September & October Opening soon Why not head to Whizz Kidz for a fun hour or two, or more should you little one not yet be tired. Large indoor softplay / entertainment centre which has everything you could want.

Child prices from £3.75 - £7.75 (age dependent); Adults free. www.whizzkidz-thame.co.uk/ e!

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Swish Online

WHERE: Cornerstone Art Centre, Didcot WHEN: 20 September 9am Featuring puppetry, Makaton and gentle audience interaction, Swish is a playful multisensory exploration of life underwater,with Olive the tidy turtle, and the positive ways we can reduce plastic in the ocean.

Best for children aged 3-7 years.

Suitable for those with complex needs. FREE www.cornerstone-arts.org

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Heritage Open Days

WHERE: Outdoor show at Cutteslowe Park WHEN: 12th September 11am, 1pm and 3pm (running time 45 minutes) Join wildlife enthusiasts Handmade Theatre for a new adventure, filled with a wonderful mix of original stories, puppets and music. Families of all ages are invited to take a peek into our gardens and woodlands to explore the wildlife living alongside us, from birds and bees to flowers and foxes. FREE www.thenorthwall.com

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The Story Museum

WHEN: 27th Sep – 29th Nov Based in the Magic Common Room for anyone who loves to tell, write and create stories. Each session starts with a storytelling session from our Story Leaders which is developed through an art form each week, expect drama, arts and crafts, music and magic. £15 per person for 2 hours Ages 8-10 www.storymuseum.org.uk

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WHERE: Oxfordshire WHEN: 11th - 20th September Discover local, hidden gems.

Churches, museums, gardens: lots of venues open their doors to the public.

Booking recommended. FREE www.heritageopendays.org.uk

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PYO Pumpkins

WHERE: Millets Farm Centre, Abingdon WHEN: From 26 September Open weekends and daily during half term. Have fun picking, wheeling and weighing your own pumpkin! www.milletsfarmcentre.com/ what-s-on

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Summer Story Walks

WHEN: 13th Aug – 27th Sept Join the Story Leaders on a walk through the beautiful Christ Church Meadows and encounter flying turtles, clever rabbits and hungry snakes. Walks start and finish at The Story Museum and include riddles, games and races along the way - all at a safe 2 metres distance!

Please note that numbers for this event are strictly limited to 4 tickets. £5 per person www.storymuseum.org.uk

Tiny Toads

WHERE: River & Rowing Museum WHEN: Every Thursday 10:15 - 11am Film, craft activities and fun, bringing the Museum to life for your little ones. Each week will feature the exclusive film premiere of ‘Storytime with Maddy’ with a different theme and characters. www.rrm.co.uk 01491 415600

WHEN: 10th October–29th November (Saturdays and Sundays) WHERE: Fairytale Farm, Chipping Norton When daylight fades the entire Enchanted Walk will become a magical wonderland of fairy lights, which will delight children and adults. The Mermaid Garden, Giant’s Camera, The Extinct Band, Giant Party Poppers, and Light Fountains will be a blaze of colour and the Dancing Water Fountains will be illuminated. From £7 www.fairytalefarm.co.uk 01608 238014

Halloween

WHERE: Waddesdon Manor WHEN: Saturday 24th October – Sunday 1st November 10 – 5pm Throughout October halfterm there will be Waddesdon Manor’s ever-popular Halloween trail, spooky treats to tickle your tastebuds, and crafty activities for everyone to get involved with. waddesdon. org.uk/ whats-on

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Hey Diddle Diddle

WHERE: Oxford Playhouse WHEN: From 5th October (Online using Zoom!) Mondays 11 – 11.30 Sing-along sessions for pre-school children and their adults.

Sessions for the Autumn term are now. FREE (booking required) www.oxfordplayhouse.com

Family-friendly Halloween Event

WHERE: Fairytale Farm, Chipping Norton WHEN: 24th October - 1st November Free games and activities for younger children. In their ‘Fairytale Baddies and Spooks’ event, they have free pumpkin carving for every child, free spooky biscuit decorating and a colouring corner and enter the on-site competition. Visitors can also look out for spooky fairytale characters. From £7 www.fairytalefarm.co.uk 01608 238014 familiesonline.co.uk

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Weekly drama, dance and singing classes WHERE: Oxford: Wednesdays; Abingdon: Saturdays and Thursdays; Didcot: Fridays; Wallingford: Saturdays Confidence building fun for 4-12s.

A unique mix of drama, dance and singing specially formulated to bring out every child’s true potential. Classes are kept small to ensure lots of individual attention. No-obligation, FREE trial sessions. Call today!

020 7255 9120 www.perform. org.uk/tryenquiries@perform. org.uk

Mathnasium Learning

WHERE: Centres Summertown, North Oxford Running real time online (Mathnasium@home) Monday-Thursday & Saturday Where Maths makes sense! By producing a tailor-structured learning plan for each student according to his/her knowledge and skill level, the Mathnasium Method can help children in Years 2-12 better understand maths and leap ahead. Try the FREE maths skills assessment/trial session. 01865 655968 www. mathnasium.co.uk/northoxford

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Stagecoach Performing Arts

WHERE: Venues throughout Oxfordshire Bring out the best in your child and encourage them to develop excellent communication skills, grow in self-esteem and enjoy the benefits of improved coordination. Term starts September. From £15 for twoweek trial www.stagecoach. co.uk 0800 915 0199

The Oxford School of Ballet

WHERE: Woodstock Road Tuition in classical ballet for children from 3 years. Pre-school classes teach children the basics; children can then progress through the pre-primary and beyond. www.oxfordballet.co.uk 01865 511097

Pegasus Theatre Street Dance Junior

WHEN: 9th September – 25th November Try out your own choreography and make friends as you work together to create a short performance to show to family and friends at the end of term. This course is open to all levels and experience and recommended for ages 8-11.

Wednesdays 4-5pm. £100 www.pegasustheatre.org.uk 01865 812150

WHEN: Kids Club Starts 19th September Once a month on Wednesdays 3.45-5.00pm after school and regularly in the holidays, activity sessions for kids aged 6-9 years. No Parents! Packed with trails, quizzes, games, craft, active learning, kitchen science and outdoor fun.

Booking essential. 01993 810211 or email frontofhouse@sofo.org.uk www.sofo.org.uk/kids-club £3.50/session

Oxfordshire Taekwon-do & Little Pumas

WHERE: Abingdon, Didcot, Grove A revolutionary method to encourage and motivate 4-7-yearolds as well as traditional methods for 7-14-year-olds. Get fit, learn self-defence and make friends.

From £28/month www.oxfordshiretkd.co.uk 07831 950 850

Amber’s Art Classes

WHERE: Garsington, Oxford Private classes for both children and adults as well as afterschool classes and small group art classes. Holiday clubs available too. From £15/hour www.ambersartclasses.com 01865 361883 or 07766 686883

Shaolin Mantis King Fu

WHERE: New Marston Primary School & St Gregory The Great School Practical and theoretical training, multi-level practice situations in a controlled environment.

6-14 years. Availability Sunday mornings and Wednesday and Thursday evenings. Trial classes offered. From £25/month www.oxfordkungfu.co.uk 07917 334 818

Brookes Sport Swim School

WHERE: Oxford Brookes University Children up to 4-yrs can join Pre-school programme on Monday afternoons, and Thursday mornings. From 4 years and up, is Swim School (Stages 1-7), on weekday afternoons from 4:00pm, and Saturday mornings from 8:30am. From £30.14/month www.brookes.ac.uk/ brookes-sport/facilities/swimming/ swim-school swimming@brookes.ac.uk 01865 488 354

Gymnastics

WHERE: Various locations Jumping, bouncing, rolling, climbing – children are natural gymnasts. Encourage a healthy relationship with movement and confidence by signing your child up to a regular class with a specialist instructor. Use the British Gymnastics Organisation website to locate classes in your area. www.british-gymnastics. org/discover Families Oxfordshire 9

Independent School Open Days ABINGDON SCHOOL Park Road, OX14 1DE 01235 849041 (Admissions) / 01235 521563 (Main) www.abingdon.org.uk Online Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 10.00 – 11.00 ABINGDON PREPARATORY SCHOOL Frilford, OX13 5NX 01865 392303 www.abingdon.org.uk/prep Online Open Morning: Saturday 12th September and Saturday 10th October 10.00 – 11.00 CHANDLINGS SCHOOL Oxford, OX1 5ND 01865 730771 www.chandlings.org.uk Open Morning: Saturday 19th September 10.00 – 12.00 Booking essential COKETHORPE SCHOOL Witney, OX29 7PU 01993 703921 www.cokethorpe.org.uk Open Day: Saturday 10th October CRANFORD HOUSE Moulsford, OX10 9HT 01491 651218 www.cranfordhouse.net Whole School Open Morning: Saturday 10th October 9.30 – 12.00 Senior Experience Days (Year 7 entry only): Wednesday 23rd September and Wednesday 7th October DRAGON SCHOOL Oxford, OX2 6SS 01865 315405 www.dragonschool.org Prep School Open Morning: Saturday 19th September 9.15 – 12.30 Pre-Prep School Open Morning: Friday 2nd October 10.15 Virtual Pre-Prep and Prep School Open Morning: Saturday 10th October 9.30 – 10.30 HEADINGTON SCHOOL Oxford, OX3 7TD 01865 759115 (Prep School Admissions) / 01865 759872 or 759861 (Senior School) www.headington.org Virtual Prep School Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 10.00 – 12.00 Virtual Senior School Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 10.00 – 12.30 MAGDALEN COLLEGE SCHOOL Oxford, OX4 1DZ 01865 242191 www.mcsoxford.org Whole School Open Morning: Saturday 19th September from 9.30 Sixth Form Open Evening: Tuesday 29th September 17.30 – 19.00 Year 7 and 9 Open Evening: Friday 2nd October 17.30 – 19.00 Junior School Open Morning: Friday 9th October 9.30 – 11.00 ONLINE REGISTRATION ESSENTIAL FOR ALL EVENTS MOULSFORD BOYS’ PREP SCHOOL Moulsford-on-Thames, OX10 9HR 01491 651438 (Registrar) www.moulsford.com Virtual Open Day: Saturday 26th September From 10:00 Please contact Mrs Jill Morrin (Registrar) on admissions@mouslford.com directly to arrange an individual appointment and tour.

OUR LADY’S ABINGDON SCHOOL Abingdon-on-Thames, OX14 3PS 01235 523147 (Junior School) / 01235 524658 (Senior School) www.olab.org.uk Whole School Open Mornings: Tuesday 22nd September, Saturday 26th September (September 2021 entry only), Tuesday 22nd September, Wednesday 30th September, Monday 5th October.

All require pre-event registration.

OXFORD HIGH SCHOOL Oxford, OX2 6XA 01865 559888 www.oxfordhigh.gdst.net All Admissions events are suspended until further notice. Oxford High School are currently offering virtual meetings with their Head (Dr Helen Stringer) and Head of Prep (Mrs Jessica Williams) via video call and can be booked online at www. oxfordhigh.gdst.net/admissions/visit-us/ RADLEY COLLEGE Abingdon, OX14 2HR 01235 543174 www.radley.org.uk Virtual Visiting Days: Saturday 12th September, Saturday 26th September and Monday 5th October ST HELEN AND ST KATHARINE Abingdon, OX14 1BE 01235 530593 www.shsk.org.uk Virtual Open Day: Saturday 3rd October Virtual A-level Options Opening Evening: Thursday 8 October Virtual Open Junior Department (Year 5 and 6 entry only): Thursday 15th October THE MANOR PREPARATORY SCHOOL Abingdon, OX13 6LN 01235 858462 www.manorprep.org Open Morning: Saturday 3rd October 10.00 – 12.00 THE ORATORY PREPARATORY SCHOOL Goring Heath, RG8 7SF 0118 984 4511 www.oratoryprep.co.uk Open Events to OPS have been temporarily postponed. Please visit www. oratoryprep.co.uk/Open-Mornings for up to date details about any physical open days as dates are announced.

THE ORATORY SCHOOL Woodcote, RG8 0PJ 01491 683522 www.oratory.co.uk Virtual Open Morning: Saturday 10th October 9.30 – 12.30 THE UNICORN SCHOOL (A Specialist School supporting pupils with dyslexia and related learning difficulties for boys and girls 6 – 16) Abingdon, OX14 1AA 01235 530222 www.unicorndyslexia.co.uk Open Mornings: Tuesday 6th October 9.00 – 12.00 and Wednesday 18th November 9.00 – 12.00

es for Funded Plac

We have Funded Places that can be worth up to 100% of the fees at 13+. Radley is a top boys’ boarding school near Oxford.

To find out more about Funded Places join us at Radley on

7th November 2020 To book a place please call the number below or, follow the web link.

01235 543174

www.radley.org.uk/funded-places

RADLEY

All details are correct at time of printing.

All events require booking unless otherwise indicated.

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Good School's Guide

Your Guide To Choosing A Secondary School Working out which secondary school will be right for your child isn’t easy. When so many in the county are highly regarded by locals (and a few not so much) - it can simply add to the stress. With so many opinions, not to mention results and league tables, how can parents possibly know what ‘the best’ school is?

Stumbling your way through the admissions process with minimal research could prove a high-risk strategy. You may end up with a great school but you could also miss spectacularly.

Canny parents save time - and worry - by knowing what information matters (and what doesn’t) and how to get hold of it.

Popular schools, whether state or fee paying, are often oversubscribed. With only a finite number of places on offer, there’s a balance to be struck between aspiration and the cold, hard reality of the admissions mechanics. If your child is one of a thousand others in search of a year 7 place, a tiny detail can have a huge impact. For state schools, you can find out what application numbers were like previous years via the admissions authority or the school itself. Living a few metres out of catchment area for a popular maintained secondary school or academy, or achieving a fractionally lower score in an entrance exam for a private establishment could be all it takes to miss out.

But, depending on which way you look at it, perhaps we should be grateful that in our part of the country – unless you plan on sneaking into a neighbouring authority - we don’t have to deal with the tortuous, drawnout admissions processes and waiting lists associated with grammar schools which occupy every waking thought of ambitious parents elsewhere in England.

When conducting research, can you rely on word of mouth? Dinner party desperation – courtesy of other parents’ views on schools – isn’t yet a recognised syndrome (though it probably should be). Yes, the grapevine can be brilliantly helpful - but always supplement it with your own research and drill down into any top line figures you’re given.

The government’s data dashboard makes comparing state schools a doddle. Particularly

good is the way you can see not just how well pupils are doing but their journey there.

Brilliant children who end up with brilliant GCSEs show that a school is doing its job.

Students who start off middling and end up with stellar results is testimony to a school’s commitment to helping everyone achieve the maximum progress.

If you want more information about a particular school, you might be best off talking to someone who really knows their stuff. You may find teachers at your current school know the lay of the land when it comes to secondary schools. Also, The Good Schools Guide reviews many good local state and independent schools. All are recommended by parents. If a school you have your eye on isn’t here, you may want to ask why.

Some schools are making up for lost time by holding numerous open days this autumn while others are sticking with ‘virtual open days’ for the time being. This is their opportunity to show off and they tend to grasp it with both hands. With every picture telling a thousand words, schools like to say it with a swimming pool or multi-million pound performing arts centre. But check what exactly the message is – like who gets the chance to use the fab facilities. If they’re restricted to a small elite of top achievers, what happens to the also rans? When looking at a school online, try to not allow your judgement to be led too much by the standard of the presentation but more by the substance of what you’re being shown. These online events and tours are still in their infancy for most establishments and are not always super smooth. When you’ve found the right school(s), it’s essential you don’t make mistakes with your applications.

With state schools, start with your local

authority’s website for information such as schools’ contact details, open day dates and application forms. For schools that wholly, or partly, manage the admissions process themselves (including independent and faithbased state schools), their own websites are the place to start. Independent schools, tend to administer their own assessments which can often involve a written test - although many are not academically selective - and an interview.

The one thing you can’t change, regardless of research and preparation, is the type of child you have. Some children thrive on competition, others are unnerved by it. Some children need to be a five-minute walk from home, others would love a remote boarding school. Schools may specialise in sports, music, drama or technology and that should also be factored into your thinking. If that’s the big draw, go for it. But be honest with yourself and know that transforming a child with a yen for a small, low-key atmosphere into a happy extravert who thrives on corridor horse play and a cast of thousands isn’t an option. Go for a school that’s going to make your child happy – not you.

Magdalen College School Magdalen College School is an independent day school in Oxford for boys aged 7 – 18 and girls in the Sixth Form. Founded in 1480, the school is located in the centre of Oxford, on the banks of the River Cherwell and within the heart of the University. It is part of the foundation of Magdalen College with which it still retains close links, and the school provides 16 boy choristers for the renowned College Choir. In terms of academic results and university entry, MCS is year-on-year one of the most consistently high performing schools in the country. The school was named the Southeast Independent Secondary School of the familiesonline.co.uk

Year 2019 by The Sunday Times. Over 10% of the pupil body receives a bursary or scholarship to attend MCS, with this number growing every year.

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An outstanding independent day school for boys and girls aged 2-11

Abingdon

To challenge, cherish and inspire

EXCELLENCE IN INDEPENDENT EDUCATION FOR BOYS AND GIRLS AGED 2-18

OpenMorning Saturday, 10 October 9:30am-12:00pm

Top grade of

‘excellent’ in all areas

- Latest ISI Inspection

Virtual tours available at any time Please book via our website

www.manorprep.org

Places are limited, please book in advance At Cranford House, we are proud to offer a vibrant, exciting and motivating education to boys and girls aged 2-18. Rated ‘Excellent’ in all categories, we specialise in academic achievement, outstanding pastoral care and superb extra-curricular opportunities for all. Join us at our upcoming open events to see our school in action for yourself.

Cranford House School, Moulsford, Wallingford, Oxfordshire OX10 9HT www.cranfordhouse.net

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Virtual Open Junior Department Thursday 15 October Come along to find out more about entry into Year 5 or Year 6

Book your place www.shsk.org.uk 01235 530593

Independent day school for girls aged 9–18 ABINGDON • OXFORDSHIRE

School bus service across the Thames Valley

Families Education Chandlings Prep School Chandlings is a leading co-educational prep school for children aged 2-11 set within 60 acres of beautiful grounds yet just five miles from Oxford itself. Alongside such an enviable location, we pride ourselves on exceptional academic achievement, genuine pastoral care and superb facilities. Our teachers are passionate about education and our children are curious, creative and independent.

We offer impressive sports facilities, a huge range of enrichment activities such as yoga and archery as well as extensive private rural surroundings that include a low-ropes course in the Bluebell Wood. The wellbeing of our children is at the forefront of everything we do, along with the

Cranford House School

Cranford House continues to enjoy a growing national reputation for excellence as one of the UK’s leading small independent day schools.

Situated on the Oxfordshire-Berkshire border, we offer a vibrant education to girls and boys aged 2-18. Our new Sixth Form opened its doors this September 2020, marking the same date that we welcomed Senior School boys to Year 7. Rated ‘Excellent’ in all categories, our school specialises in academic achievement, outstanding pastoral care and extra-curricular opportunities for all.

We have an excellent reputation for providing pupils with a balanced, all-round education within a

warmly nurturing environment. Set in over 14 acres of rural South Oxfordshire, our aim is to encourage pupils to achieve their full potential, becoming motivated, confident and happy individuals, recognising the importance of respect and support for others, but ready to seize life’s opportunities.

See what a Cranford House education could offer your child at one of our upcoming open mornings this Autumn Term. Open Week 5-9 October and Whole School Open Morning Saturday, 10 October.

Places are limited, please pre-book in advance. www.cranfordhouse.net

Manor Preparatory School

‘To challenge, cherish and inspire’ Situated in Abingdon, the Manor Preparatory School is an independent co-educational day school that welcomes children aged 2-11.

The school has a wonderfully happy, creative atmosphere where every individual is valued and nurtured to reach their potential. The Manor’s most recent ISI Inspection awarded every area of school life the highest possible rating of ‘Excellent’.

Inspectors commented that “Pupils approach every day with an overwhelming passion to learn and develop.”

This is in part due to the exceptionally caring and invigorating tone of the school, where laughter is

St Helen and St Katharine

A cheerful, determined, plucky atmosphere greets new joiners as they start their St Helen and St Katharine journey in our Junior Department.

A close-knit tribe of up to 40 girls in Year 5 and Year 6, the Juniors are under the care of the dedicated team of primary teachers, and surrounded by the supportive spirit of the school community. They embrace exciting subjects such as new modern foreign languages and science, learn different sports, join wacky clubs and always have time for a game or two in the Juniors’ special breakout space.

At St Helen’s we always remember that our Juniors are still young, and therefore we carefully familiesonline.co.uk

importance of developing positive mental health, and lies within the fabric of the school community.

We consistently gain outstanding academic results to highly selective senior schools and with our small class sizes we ensure that our children are both challenged and inspired. With us, your son or daughter will discover themselves, have space to grow and make memories to last them forever.

Please come to our safe and socially distanced Open Morning on Saturday 19 September 10.00am-12.00pm. Booking is essential. www.chandlings.org.uk/ open-mornings

an essential part of the school day and children’s personal development being further strengthened by staff who act as excellent role models.

The school aims to help simplify the logistics of family life and has created an extensive daily bus service covering Oxfordshire and surrounding areas, as well as fully flexible wraparound care, much of which is free of charge.

For further information please visit our website www.manorprep.org.

craft their education to instil in them a sense of academic curiosity from the very beginning. We teach interesting and stimulating topics in the classroom but also allow ample time for students to build friendships, pursue their interests and above all become accustomed to the pace of their new school.

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Abingdon Prep Online Open Mornings Saturday 12 September Saturday 10 October 10.00am-11.00am Book an online visit or open morning: abingdon.org.uk/prep

Outstanding Day and Boarding School for Girls and Boys 4 - 13 years

BOYS WILL BE...active at Moulsford Prep day and boarding school of 360 boys aged 4 – 13 years

VIRTUAL OPEN DAY SATURDAY 26 SEPTEMBER 2020, 10am To book a place, please email admissions@moulsford.com call 01491 651438 or visit our website Moulsford Prep School, Moulsford-on-Thames, Oxfordshire OX10 9HR

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Pre-Prep Open Morning Saturday 2 October Virtual Open Morning Saturday 10 October Discover the Dragon: +44 (0) 1865 315 413 |

admissions@dragonschool.org

www.dragonschool.org Dragon School, Bardwell Road, Oxford OX2 6SS

Personal visits also available

Families Education Abingdon Prep

What makes Abingdon Prep so special?

We care – we build confidence, support and encourage our boys and we nurture a love of learning that will set them on a path to getting the most out of education for many years to come.

We provide an enormous range of opportunities and we indulge creativity. Boys are asked to get involved, to work hard and to be kind. Our teachers are experts in boys’ learning; we know how to get the best from them whether they are shy or sensitive, robust or confident – and they are usually a mixture of all four! There is no typical Abingdon Prep boy.

Dragon School, Oxford

Dragon School is one of the leading Prep schools in the UK educating boys and girls from 4-13 years old. It is a vibrant, happy and aspirational school; fueling excellence by promoting a love of learning, inclusivity, opportunity and a strong sense of community and fun. The Dragon’s reputation as a School where every child can find, explore and develop their talents has been well earned over many generations.

The Pre-Prep provides a wonderfully nurturing environment for curious young Dragons from Reception to Year 3. Sitting amid stunning open playing fields on the banks of the River Cherwell, the Prep School has an excellent academic and

extra-curricular reputation and offers a range of flexible boarding options.

The launch of DragonQUEST at the Prep - an exciting and varied enrichment programme on Saturday mornings - is testament to the Headmaster’s desire to keep Dragon at the forefront of educational innovation whilst ensuring the welfare and happiness of children comes first.

Our Admissions team would love to help your child to become a Dragon.

Please visit the website, email admissions@ dragonschool.org or call

Moulsford Prep School

Moulsford is a thriving independent Prep School of 360 boys aged 4 - 13 years, set in tranquil and picturesque grounds on the banks of the River Thames surrounded by the rolling hills of South Oxfordshire.

At Moulsford, the message is straightforward.

We want our boys to receive the broadest possible education, while remembering that they will learn best when happy and settled. Our down-to-earth, family-focussed approach embraces the fact that boys of this age should be having fun at the same time as learning.

Boys progress, many with scholarship awards, to leading senior independent day and boarding

Radley School

Radley offers an environment for boys to grow in self-confidence, thrive academically, and make the most of an enormous range of opportunities. The door is open to any talented candidate, regardless of their means or their background. Radley’s Funded Places Open Day is on Saturday 7th November 2020. You will be invited to a talk by the Warden, including a Q & A session, followed by an informal tour of the school. To book a place, please either contact us: admissions@radley.org.uk or 01235 543 174 or complete the enquiry form on our website www.radley.org.uk/Funded-Places Radley has places that can be funded up to 100% familiesonline.co.uk

Equally important as our impressive academic record is the ‘Other Half’, with over 100 extracurricular activities from Amazing Avatars to Ukulele Club - and there is plenty of fresh air and space to enjoy.

Take a look at our website to see all that the boys do, and come and meet us online, either privately to chat to the Headmaster or at our online open mornings on Saturday 12 September and Saturday 10 October from 10.00am-11.00am.

To book visit: Abingdon.org.uk/prep

schools including Eton, Radley, Harrow, Wellington, Marlborough, St Edwards, Bradfield, Cokethorpe, Shiplake, Pangbourne and The Oratory.

Pre-Prep boys visit Forest School weekly and a broad range of extra-curricular opportunities include judo, fencing, golf, cycling, stand-up paddleboarding, sailing, indoor rowing, archery, clay pigeon shooting, art club, music theory, photography, LAMDA, slacklining and circus skills.

of the fees. The entry process begins early in Year 6 for 11+ candidates, who we can fund through prep school for two years, or there are scholarship places available for Year 9 entry.

If you have a talented boy, who excels academically or at music, sport, art or drama then please get in touch admissions@radley.org.uk or 01235 543 174.

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A remarkable school in the heart of Oxford To book your place at our events: mcsoxford.org/opendays registrar@mcsoxford.org +44 (0)1865 242191

Open Event

Saturday 19th September 2020 from 9.30 am Register your place online