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Tuesday 13 to Saturday 17 February

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New Year - new diary! An annual ritual I love is putting down on paper my plans and goals for the year ahead and I feel more organised simply by writing them down. Included in my goals every year is ‘Spend more quality time with the children’...no matter how much time I spend with them, it never seems enough! Once all birthdays, holidays, bank holidays, term dates and parents’ evenings are noted down I feel, on paper at least, that I can balance my work and home life and head into the New Year more organised than the year I am leaving behind. Happy New Year!

My quote of the day: “There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.”

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The latest Pregnancy advice, baby products and news for new mums.

10 Nursery Listings 11 Ensure your child is happy at nursery Written by Kristen Harding a childcare expert

12 What’s On

Great days out and events to get keep little ones busy in the New Year and this half term.

14 Time to Start Sweating the Small Stuff 15 Winter Clubs and Classes

We take a look at some great ideas for keeping the little ones busy and active this winter.

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News & Views

STUDENTS INVITED TO THE BIG BANG UK YOUNG SCIENTISTS & ENGINEERS FAIR Registration is now open for the largest celebration of science, technology, engineering and maths (STEM) for young people in the UK, taking place at The NEC Birmingham between 14-17 March 2018.

The annual event aims to show young people the incredible wealth of opportunities available to them in STEM careers and to encourage the country’s future science and engineering talent. The Fair is an awardwinning combination of exciting theatre shows, interactive workshops and exhibits and careers information from STEM professionals.

Having grown from 6,500 visitors in its first year (2009) to over 70,000 in 2017, The Big Bang Fair is made possible through the collaborative efforts of over 200 organisations.

Valentine’s at The Maytime Inn

If you’re looking for the perfect Cotswold getaway this Valentine’s Day then The Maytime Inn in the picturesque village of Asthall cannot be beaten, you can even bring your dog! We had a wonderful, relaxing stay there in autumn 2017, though we left our pets (and children) safely at home.

On arrival we immersed ourselves in the cosy, intimate atmosphere and sat in the comfy sofas while reading the papers. We wasted little time enjoying some of the Inn’s expert selection of over 100 gins (we could also have opted for fine wines by the glass, craft beer on draught or by the bottle) without worrying about a designated driver. We took a scenic walk to enjoy the surrounding countryside before retreating back to the Inn to a table by the open fire for some award-winning food.

The Maytime has a selection of stunning, rustic en-suite rooms, decorated to the highest standard. The food, the walk (and the gin) conspired with the Hypnos beds and decadent

Young people can discover the world of robotics to life-and-death mathematical skills, and even an explanation of STEM using… food! They can also check out the projects created by students from across the UK that have made it to the national finals of The Big Bang Competition, which recognises and rewards young people’s achievements in all areas of STEM. At the event, those aged 11-14 are guaranteed to be inspired by STEM subjects and consider a career in those areas. School groups are invited to visit the first three days of The Big Bang Fair, which will also be open to the public on the Saturday. (No lone adults will be admitted)

FREE tickets to The Big Bang Fair are available now at www.thebigbangfair.co.uk

Carribob helps grown-ups keep kids safe and happy while out and about

Egyptian cotton sheets to ensure we had a blissful night’s sleep.

With delightful details such as Cow Shed smellies, so you don’t even have to pack shampoo, everything about this quintessential English Inn is a romantic haven for escaping the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

Reconnect this Valentine’s Day and indulge in some luxury at The Maytime Inn. Pre-booking is advised for both dining and accommodation either through the Inn’s website or over the phone. Best price for Valentine’s one-night stay at time of press £95 (for two).

The Maytime Inn, Oxfordshire www.themaytime.com 01993 822 068

Mums and dads can get a helping hand with Carribob carry-strap. On trips out with bikes and scooters, when the joy of riding has faded and the kids hand their little wheels over to the grown-up to carry (often at the furthest point from home), the handy strap can be clipped to bike or scooter wheels and slung over a shoulder, leaving hands free to hold small hands and keep children safe.

Created by mum of three Jordana Fawaz, Carribob can be adjusted to fit and can be worn cross-body. It folds neatly into a shoulder pad. Available in red, blue and lime green. A brilliant gift for any parent of young children!

RRP £14 www.carribob.com

The UK’s ‘Most Borrowed’ Children’s Authors Stories play a vital role in the growth and development of children. An adored book and the characters it features can become a comfort and a treasured companion, sometimes exactly what a child needs most. British online marketplace, Onbuy.com has uncovered a list of the top 20 ‘Most Borrowed Children’s Authors’ produced by the British Library.

1. Julia Donaldson 2. Daisy Meadows 3.

Roderick Hunt 4. Francesca Simon 5. Adam Blade 6. Jacqueline Wilson 7. Roald Dahl 8. Fiona Watt 9. Michael Morpurgo 10. Lucy Cousins 11. David Walliams 12. Jeff Kinney 13. Enid Blyton 14. Holly Webb 15. Claire Freedman 16. Jeanne Willis 17. Mink Inkpen 18. Giles Andreae 19. Terry Deary 20. Eric Hill.

As much as reading remains a valued past-time for many children 4 Families Oxfordshire

across the UK, it is disheartening that the number of young people visiting British libraries is on the decline. In 2016/17, just 64.7% of children aged 5-15 visited a library in the preceding 12 months. This is a significant decrease from 2008/09 (75.3%.). In 2016/17, 60.8% of children aged 5-10 visited a library outside of school in the preceding 12 months, a significant decrease from 2008/09 (72.2%.).

Managing director of Onbuy.com, Cas Paton comments: “It has never been more important to encourage our children to participate in the arts and to visit our libraries. Not least because it will open a world of skills, inspiration and opportunity, but because in times of need, the arts can also provide a comfort – a world away from any stress or sadness.

It’s escapism in its truest form.” www.onbuy.com/gb familiesonline.co.uk

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Boosting children’s self-esteem and life skills with Perform

TEN TOP NUTRITION TIPS FOR CHILDREN Ensuring small children eat a well-balanced diet may seem like an impossible task.

Nutritionist Charlotte Striling-Read has put together some simple tips, as part of Whitworths’ My Amazing Body campaign, to help.

1. FOCUS ON A BALANCE OF FOODS EVERYDAY Try to include foods from each of the main four food groups; starchy foods; fruits and vegetables; dairy foods and, lastly, protein and iron rich foods such as nuts, beans, meat and fish.

2. ESTABLISH A ROUTINE AROUND MEAL AND SNACK TIMES A routine helps children learn when to expect food. This helps to develop an appetite and a good awareness of hunger and fullness signals in the body.

3. AVOID TOO MANY FOODS HIGH IN SUGAR, SALT, FAT WITH FEW NUTRIENTS Crisps, sweets, cakes and biscuits are fine to have occasionally, but if they are a regular part of your child’s daily diet they can displace other more nutrient-rich foods.

4. MAKE SURE THEY ARE STAYING HYDRATED Try to always have some water with you to keep young, active children hydrated and offer water as an option alongside a meal.

5. TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF If mealtimes have become a battle ground, reduce the pressure on kids to eat all on their

plate and enjoy time spent together again.

6. ROLE MODEL One of the best ways to get your children gobbling up all the good foods is to eat them yourself.

7. DON’T FORGET ABOUT VITAMINS Children under five years are recommended to have a supplement with vitamin A, C and D. For children over five, a supplement containing 10mcg of vitamin D is recommended in the winter.

8. INCLUDE HEALTHY SNACKS AS PART OF THEIR ROUTINE Snacks are an ideal way to top-up energy and nutrient levels in-between meals. Try to focus on fruit and veggies, nuts and seeds and yogurt and cheese 9. AVOID TALKING NEGATIVELY ABOUT FOOD OR BODY IMAGE IN FRONT OF YOUNG CHILDREN The way adults talk about food, diets and body shapes can hugely impact how children feel about their own bodies. Try to encourage learning about the human body and explain how we are all different shapes and sizes.

10. MAKE FOOD FUN Christmas is a great time to enjoy and gobble plenty of veggies. At other times, indoor/ outdoor picnics or even blindfold taste tests can get children familiar with and enjoying a variety of healthy foods. www.brightlittlenuts.co.uk/my-amazingbody

All children find some things difficult. Some hate speaking out in class, some struggle making friends, and others have so much energy they find it hard to concentrate.

Perform is a unique drama school that uses drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s true potential.

“Perform is NOT a stage school” stresses Perform Producer, Karen. “It teaches life skills through fun drama games and end of term shows. The real aim of the classes is to help children develop the 4Cs: Confidence, Concentration, Coordination and Communication.

“Classes are small and have both a Producer and a Teacher. Children are offered a free trial and the Producer spends time beforehand with each parent to establish their goals. For instance, speaking more clearly or making eye contact when introduced to someone unfamiliar.”

Producers report back to parents after each class on the focus of the week and answer questions about the progress of individual children.

“Shy children often come to classes clinging to their parents. I can pretty much guarantee that within 5 or 6 classes, they will run in without waving goodbye,” reports Karen.

To book a free class in Oxfordshire, visit www.perform.org.uk/try

New music classes for babies and young children at Millets Farm

Monkey Music offer award winning music classes for babies from 3 months to 4 years. Their progressive, educational and fun four-stage curricula – honed over twenty years – is designed to nurture a lifetime love of music. The curricula are a good fit for each age group and the original musical material has been written with a sound understanding of how babies and children learn best.

At Rock’n’Roll babies from 3 months are very receptive to musical learning and can remember musical sequences and detect changes in pitch, melody and rhythm. Share precious time with your baby; your close bond will play an important part in their future emotional and intellectual development.

Book your FREE class today and meet new friends at age specific classes.

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Perform weekly drama, dance and singing classes

DATES: Wednesday 3rd January Thursday 29th March VENUES: Oxford, Abingdon, Didcot, Wallingford, Thame

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Education News RADLEY COLLEGE

COKETHORPE JUNIOR SCHOOL

Pupils at Cokethorpe Junior School celebrated the anniversary of their successful book club with an extraordinary author visit.

TV presenter, artist and author Jay Jay Burridge came to the School with a formidable-looking 3 m high dinosaur, which stood guard outside the School’s Mansion House, to promote his new book Supersaurs: Raptors of Paradise.

Mr Burridge gave a fascinating talk to the whole school about his writing process, the world he has created and showed-off the impressive technology used to bring his illustrations to life.

The day was extremely successful. Subsequently, Mr Burridge returned to Cokethorpe School to discuss the story further with the Junior School Book Club. The Book Club has proved to be incredibly popular and has included exciting events for the children including Skype chats and visits from authors. The club’s success can be seen in the 300 extra books being read across the whole school.

Radley offers an environment for boys to grow in self-confidence, thrive academically, and make the most of a range of opportunities. The door is open to talented candidates, regardless of means or background, to join us in the pursuit of excellence.

A Radley education is about independent thought and learning with enthusiasm. It is about cultural awareness, academic ambition and the benefits of team sport. It is about learning to live with others, and preparation for the world beyond. Above all, it is about the core values that underpin success throughout a Radleian’s life: as leaders, as citizens, as human beings.

Places are available that can be funded up to 100%. The entry process begins in Year 6 for 11+ candidates, who we can fund through prep school for two years, or there are scholarships for Year 9 entry.

If you have a talented boy, please either contact: admissions@radley. org.uk or 01235 543 174 or complete the website form: www.radley.org.uk/funded-places

OXFORD HIGH SCHOOL

The younger girls at Oxford High can now enjoy all-year round woodland fun with their new Forest School, located on a corner of previously unused land on the Senior School site. OHS Junior School girls love the adventurous, creative and practical sessions in the outdoors and staff have been thoroughly supportive of the Forest School principles for learning, which complement the academic curriculum. As a city-centre school, it is really important that the children have the opportunity to connect with the outdoors and the girls in Reception classes can be seen here investigating the array of autumn plants and fauna - from admiring fallen leaves to finding minibeasts hiding under rocks!

MOULSFORD PREP SCHOOL

Moulsford Prep School has a recently restructured curriculum and new activities programme. After extensive consultation with senior school Heads, Moulsford’s new curriculum focuses on preparing boys for their next schools and ensuring they have robust life-skills. Intellectual agility, critical analysis, creativity, collaboration, exploration and enquiry are all strongly encouraged.

Teaching is specifically designed to get the best out of boys, with practical and outdoor learning and opportunities to develop resilience.

High expectations are set in terms of manners and discipline, with clear boundaries. Competitive sport is a vital. The single sex environment allows full advantage to be taken of the grounds and sports facilities, with teams and coaching to suit all levels of ability.

Moulsford encourages all-round achievement and aims to help boys find their individual strengths and talents – not only in the classroom, but also on the sports field, in the performing and creative arts and as considerate and well-mannered citizens who contribute positively to their community. familiesonline.co.uk

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Education News ABINGDON PREP SCHOOL

Abingdon Prep School Open Morning: Tuesday 27 February, 9:30am Wherever your interests lie, Abingdon Prep’s Other Half activities offer numerous opportunities for boys to get involved, learn something new, gain experience and develop talent. Art, drama, music or sport; over 50 activities are fully integrated into the timetable alongside, and equally important as, the academic curriculum.

Our academic credentials speak for themselves with boys at Abingdon Prep, for whom Abingdon School is considered appropriate, receiving an offer of a place for Year 9 at Abingdon School by the end of Year 5 at Abingdon Prep. The offer is based on the continuous assessment of each pupil and is conditional on the pupil maintaining his profile of achievement in Years 6 to 8 at Abingdon Prep. For these pupils, unlike at other prep schools, there are no entrance examinations to take prior to transferring to Abingdon School.

To find out more, come to our open morning or contact admissions: admissions. manager@abingdonprep.org.uk Tel: 01865 392303. www.abingdon.org.uk/prep

CRANFORD HOUSE SCHOOL

Co-education or single sex schooling?

It’s a question that many parents find themselves pondering as they plan their children’s school careers.

Thankfully, there is plenty of evidence and data available to help them choose.

As a reflection of the mixed world we live in, it seems clear that educating our children together is healthier for them socially, with friendships and collaborations occurring freely amongst boys and girls.

And in terms of academic outcomes, there’s also plenty of evidence that co-education results in boys participating more readily in class discussions and doing much better in subjects like Drama and Music than they might otherwise have done. What’s more, girls enjoy an increased ability to take risks in their learning and problem solving.

With many progressive independent schools now aligning their intakes accordingly and opening their doors to both boys and girls for the first time, it looks like the future is bright for co-education.

OUTDOOR LEARNING AT ORATORY PREP SCHOOL

Wrapped-up warm, the Pre-Prep children from Nursery upwards are always happy to explore the 65 acres of Oxfordshire countryside at the Oratory Prep School during Forest School. There are plenty of bugs and grubs to find in amongst the logs and leaves in Winter and in Spring they look forward to ‘Pond Dipping’, which is always a firm favourite with the children in every year group! The School is blessed with fantastic grounds that lend themselves well to outdoor learning and with woodland, ponds, pitches and playgrounds, plus the recent opening of a fabulous new Astro, the School can enjoy them all year round too. To see what the Oratory Prep can offer your son or daughter, please go along to the Open Morning on Saturday 24 February between 10.00am and 12.30pm. Please call 0118 984 4511 or email office@oratoryprep.co.uk for further information.

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Excellence in Independent Education since 1936 Year 5 Senior Experience Day Friday 15 June, 2018 www.cranfordhouse.net Cranford House is situated in Moulsford on the Oxfordshire/Berkshire border and operates an extensive school minibus network throughout both counties.

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Baby News

Greater risk of stillbirth if go to sleep on back in third trimester Research from The Midlands and North of England Stillbirth Study (MiNESS), published November 2017, found that women who go to sleep in the ‘lying on the back’ position have a 2.3-fold increased risk of late stillbirth (after 28 weeks’ gestation) compared with women who go to sleep on their side.

Led by Professor Alexander Heazell, Clinical Director at the Tommy’s Stillbirth Research Centre at St Mary’s Hospital, Manchester, MiNESS is the largest study to examine maternal sleep and late stillbirth.

Around 1 in 225 pregnancies in the UK end in stillbirth. MiNESS estimates that if all pregnant women in the UK went to sleep on their side in the third trimester, there could be a 3.7% decrease in stillbirth, saving around 130 babies’ lives a year.

Although researchers cannot say for certain why the risk is increased, there are theories. In

the third trimester, when the woman is lying on her back, the combined weight of baby and uterus puts pressure on the main blood vessels that supply the uterus, which can restrict blood flow/ oxygen to the baby.

The Sleep On Side campaign, led

by Tommy’s, advises pregnant women to go to sleep on their side for any episode of sleep in the third trimester, including naps, going to sleep at night and returning to sleep. As the going-tosleep position is the one held longest during the night, women should not be concerned if they wake up on their back, but should simply roll back onto their side.

Action Medical Research, Curekids, Sands and Tommy’s funded the research. The Sleep On Side campaign is endorsed by NHS

England, the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, the Royal College of Midwives and the Royal College of GPs. www.tommys.org/sleeponside

YOUR NEW PREGNANCY BIBLE

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Recognised by women and their caregivers as simply the best pregnancy guide available, this latest (fifth) edition of Your Pregnancy Bible has been updated to take account of recent changes in antenatal and newborn care and to provide more comprehensive discussion of caesarean deliveries.

Given a fresh design, it still contains foldout sections on each of the trimesters and the birth process; week-by-week images of the developing baby; in-depth chapters dealing with all aspects of antenatal care, labour preparation, delivery experiences and care of the newborn; comprehensive reference sections on medical treatments and

procedures in both pregnancy and the postnatal period and an extensive glossary of ante- and neonatal terminology.

Written by a team of eminent specialists under the direction of a leading UK obstetrician, Your New Pregnancy Bible is filled with information about creating the optimum environment for a developing baby and safeguarding the health and wellbeing of the mother.

Your New Pregnancy Bible by Dr Anne Deans, published 8 February 2018 £24.99 octopusbooks.co.uk Look out for post on Families Cambridgeshire Magazine Facebook in late January 2018 for chance to WIN a copy of this book.

MAMAWAY REINVENTS 3-IN-1 JACKET FOR BUSY MUMS Expectant and new mothers will be wellprotected from the elements with Mamaway’s new 3-in-1 down jacket. Designed to support women throughout every stage of the pregnancy and birth process, the jacket is now water resistant and comes with a removable

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hood, making it an ideal addition to any mother’s wardrobe. The jacket is also ideal for baby wearing as the panel at the front can be reversed, allowing more room to transport your bundle of joy in a carrier or sling.

Teresa Chu, Marketing Director at Mamaway said, “Puffer jackets are a popular choice at this time of year, so we thought it would be good to launch a coveted style that mums could wear so they can feel as though they are remaining on trend while still being practical.”

Mamaway is committed to providing fashionable, practical options for mums, and has one of the largest

collections of maternity and baby-wearing clothes on the market. www.mamaway.co.uk Look out for post on Families Oxfordshire Magazine Facebook page in January 2018 for chance to WIN a Mamaway 3-in-1 coat.

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Nursery Listings 2018

ABC NURSERY AND PRE-SCHOOL Headington www.abcnurseryoxford.co.uk 01865 439051 Ofsted Good

CHARLBURY PRE-SCHOOL Chipping Norton www.charlburypreschool.org.uk 01608 811200 Ofsted Good

BEAR NECESSITIES DAY NURSERY Weston-on-the-Green www.bearnecessitiesnursery.co.uk 01869 351118 Ofsted Good

MAGPIES PRESCHOOL KIDLINGTON www.magpies.info/magpiespreschool 01865 842724 Ofsted Good

CHILD FIRST BANBURY www.childfirst.co.uk 01295 273743 Ofsted Good

PEAPODS NURSERY SCHOOL, Henley-on-Thames. www. peapodsnurseryschool.com 01491 628 395 Ofsted Good

BLEWBURY PRE-SCHOOL PLAYGROUP Didcot www.blewbury.oxon.sch.uk 01235 851786 Ofsted Good BUSY BEES DAY NURSERY Bicester www.busybeeschildcare.co.uk 01869 321 522 Ofsted Good BRIGHT HORIZONS MILTON PARK DAY NURSERY & PRE-SCHOOL Abingdon www.brighthorizons.co.uk 0330 057 8988 Ofsted Good

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www.childfirst.co.uk 01869 323730 Ofsted Good CHILDREY LITTLE DUCKS PRE-SCHOOL www.childreylittleducks.org Not Yet Rated DAFFODIL DAY NURSEY LTD Witney www.daffodil-nursery.co.uk 01993 883451 Ofsted Good FIRST STEPS PRE-SCHOOL Thame 01844 261335 Ofsted Good

PIPPINS DAY NURSERY & NURSERY SCHOOL, Headington. www.aurorachildcare.co.uk 01865 227872 Ofsted Good PUDDLEDUCK NURSERY Wallingford. www.puddleduckoxfordshire.co.uk 01491 521 217 Ofsted Good SANDFIELD DAY NURSERY AND PRE-SCHOOL Headington www.childbasepartnership.com/ sandfield-day-nursery 01865 744200 Ofsted Outstanding

Wallingford 0333 920 4333 Ofsted Outstanding

LITTLE BEARS PRE-SCHOOL Stadhampton. www.little-bears.com 01865 400 033 Ofsted Good

ST ANNE’S COLLEGE DAY NURSERY Oxford. www.st-annes.ox.ac.uk/ about/places/college-nursery Ofsted Outstanding

BRIGHT HORIZONS LITTLE STARS NURSERY Didcot 0333 122 3156 Ofsted Outstanding

LORD WILLIAMS’S SCHOOL DAY NURSERY, Thame www.lwsdaynursery.co.uk 01844 260231 Ofsted Good

ST CLEMENT’S CHURCH PRESCHOOL 01865 202512 www. stclementschurchpreschool.co.uk Ofsted Good

BRIGHT HORIZONS MONGEWELL PARK DAY NURSERY AND PRE-SCHOOL

SMART TOTS DAY NURSERY, Banbury. www.completechildcare. co.uk 01295 259393. Ofsted Good SUMMERTOWN MONTESSORI NURSERY www.montessorinorthoxford.org 01865 311364 / 554954 Ofsted Good THE AUNTIES’ OLD SCHOOL NURSERY Stanton-St-John & Wheatly www.theoldschoolnursery.co.uk 01865 351215 Ofsted (both) Outstanding THE CO-OPERATIVE CHILDCARE DAY NURSERY Oxford www.thecooperativechildcare.coop 0800 954 0669 Ofsted Good THE FARMHOUSE NURSERY SCHOOL Witney www.thefarmhousenurseryschool. co.uk 01993 700797 Ofsted Outstanding THE WANTAGE NURSERY AND PRE-SCHOOL www.wantagenursery.co.uk 01235 760213 Ofsted Good WILLOW COTTAGE NURSERIES Farmoor Setting, Oxford www.willow-cottage.com/farmoorsetting 01865 865206.

Ofsted Outstanding

Catholic independent day and boarding school for boys and girls aged 2 to 13 Independent day and boarding school for boys aged 4-13

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To attend an Open Day or to arrange an individual visit, please contact us: pa.registrar@moulsford.com 01491 651438 • www.moulsford.com Moulsford Preparatory School, Moulsford-on-Thames, Oxon, OX10 9HR

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Ofsted ratings correct at time of printing. Please check each nursery prior to visiting.

Helping you find the right place for your little ones our 2018 guide to some of the nurseries local to Oxfordshire

Moving on

ENSURING YOUR CHILD IS HAPPY AT NURSERY By Kristen Harding The process of introducing a child to a new caring environment can throw up a number of challenges. However, some can be prevented if your child’s nursery gets to know up front what both you and your child need and want from the childcare arrangement.

Before a child arrives at a new nursery, nursery staff should take time to fully understand your child’s home routine. In this way, potential issues can also be nipped in the bud early.

Settling In

This is a key part of the adjustment process. A change in environment can upset a child and parents are generally stressed and worried when their child is unsettled. For this reason, it’s vital that your chosen nursery takes time to help your child gently settle in. Communication between your child’s nursery and yourself is very important at this stage. You need to develop a trusting relationship with the staff and settle into the new arrangement just as much as your child does. In fact, it’s often parents that have most difficulty leaving a child behind in a new setting! However, communicating regularly and in as much detail

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as you need with the nursery setting can help ease your nervousness and worry. In turn, any insecurity your child is feeling will also lessen.

Separation Anxiety

Regardless of the time taken beforehand, separation anxiety is a natural and sometimes unavoidable part of leaving a child at a nursery.

Generally, separation anxiety lessens over time but you can help by ensuring that nursery staff understand as much as possible about your child’s individual needs, how they behave when they are sad, anxious or upset and what helps calm them. This will ensure that your child’s nursery cares for your child in the very best way during this difficult period.

Often the anxiety of a child lessens when his nursery assigns a key worker to him. By identifying one particular carer who is going to form a strong bond and connection with your child, he will have the stability of knowing there is an individual there that he can rely on.

Eating

Meal times at nursery are important and can have a real impact on the confidence and comfort of a young child. What your child is used to at home may differ greatly from what occurs in the nursery setting, whether it’s the food eaten or the way in which meals are consumed.

When you visit your child’s nursery, try to do so at meal time occasionally. In a good setting, you will see nursery staff leading by example, engaging children with different food choices, helping

them to learn about what they are eating and introducing new foods gradually. Meal times at nursery, as at home, should be unpressurised and enjoyable.

Potty Training

This is another key milestone in your child’s development and reaching it may throw up stumbling blocks! Again, it is important to remember that each child is different and so will begin to learn at a different point and progress at a different speed to other children.

A good nursery will ensure there’s no feeling of peer pressure between parents or children!

Don’t start potty training as your child is starting nursery. When you do decide to begin, ensure it’s not at a time of change or a stressful period at home. Share training methods with your child’s nursery to ensure consistency of approach. For instance, do you want nursery staff to ask your child if he would like to go or do you want them to sit him on the potty at specific times of day?

Sleep

It is important that home and nursery work together over nap times, as the needs of individual children differ. When a child starts at a nursery, the nursery should follow the child’s home routine before adapting it slowly to suit the nursery pattern. It’s then helpful if you try to prevent your child taking extra naps, as his routine is likely to be disrupted. If your child struggles to sleep at the nursery, a toy or blanket from home can provide comfort and help them drift off.

Whilst challenges are bound to arise during your child’s time at nursery, most particularly at the beginning, these can generally be dealt with as long as there is good communication between you and your child’s setting.

Kristen Harding is a childcare expert at Tinies Childcare UK. For more information, visit www.tinies.com

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Families Fun AIR PLAY

WHERE: The Oxford Playhouse

W hat’s Onto

WHEN: 12-13th January Ride the wind and dream with Air Play, a modern circus spectacle that brings to life the very air we breathe. Flying umbrellas, largerthan-life balloons, giant kites floating over the audience, and the biggest snow globe you’ve ever seen will make you gasp in wonder and laugh until it hurts.

From £10 www.oxfordplayhouse.com 01865 305305

places Things to do, be had go and fun to ages in for kids of all

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Ugly Duckling

Little Ashmoles Fun

Centre, Didcot

WHEN: 18 & 25 January:

WHERE: Cornerstone Arts

Cotswold Wildlife Park

WHEN: 14 January: 11.30 &

WHERE: Burford

14.30

10.00 – 17.00

tutti frutti and York Theatre

events complemented by daily

Andersen’s well-known tale with a

adventure playground, farm yard

Family £24

Adult £15; Child £10;

01235 515144

WHEN: January & February:

Moving through all four seasons,

Wonderful animals and seasonal

Royal bring to life Hans Christian

activities: penguin feeding,

menagerie of mischievous animals.

fun and single-gauge railway!

www.cornerstone-arts.org

Under 3s FREE

WHERE: Ashmolean Museum 10.30 – 11.15

Explore, play and learn together

with a different theme each month.

All welcome but particularly

suitable for 3–5 year olds. Drop-in.

Every Thursday in term-time. £1 per child

www.ashmolean.org/events

PEPPA PIG’S ADVENTURE

www.cotswoldwildlifepark.co.uk

WHERE: The New Theatre Oxford

Deep Frozen Weekend

Join Peppa as she gets ready to

WHEN: 13 & 14 January:

the woods with her school friends,

Enjoy a day of winter magic with

and Gerald Giraffe.

of Disney’s Frozen, Frozen

www.atgtickets.com

WHEN: 24 – 25 January:

WHERE: The Story Museum

go on an exciting camping trip to

10.00 – 17.00

including Pedro Pony, Suzy Sheep

a special sing-along screening

£18.15-£23.15

themed face painting, dressing

up and winter crafting. Booking recommended.

Adult £7.50; Child £5

www.storymuseum.org.uk

The Fiddler on the Roof WHERE: The Oxford Playhouse

The Thing That Came From Over There WHERE: Pegasus Theatre

WHEN: 26 & 27 January: 19.30 Gonzo Moose present this fast paced rollicking ride mixing paranoia, suspense and hilariously gruesome deaths inspired by the movies of the 1950s. Suitable for ages 8+.

Adult £13; Child £9 www. pegasustheatre.org.uk

Penguin

WHERE: The North Wall Arts

Centre WHEN: 27 January: 11.00 & 14.00 Exciting, surreal and full of surprises, Penguin is based on the award-winning book by Polly Dunbar, with songs by Tom Gray of Gomez that will have everyone joining in. For ages 2-8.

Adult £8; Child £6 www.thenorthwall.com 01865 319450

WHEN: 15 – 20 January

The story follows Tevye, a poor

Jewish milkman who lives in a small Ukrainian village with his wife and five strong minded daughters.

Oxford Operatic Society.

Cinderella Green: the Recycling Queen

From £10

www.oxfordplayhouse.com 01865 305305

HUSH-A-BYE

WHERE: The Oxford Playhouse WHEN: 13 – 14 January

Experience the sights, sounds and smells of a woodland wonderland.

An interactive show for the very

young (3 – 5 years), with live music and enchanting puppets. £8

www.oxfordplayhouse.com 01865 305305

Winter Walks

WHERE: Greys Court, Near

Henley-on-Thames WHEN: January & February Explore the estate at Greys Court on a crisp winter’s day. Come early to see a beautiful, frosty view. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ greys-court 01491 628529 12 Families Oxfordshire

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Winter Warmer Gallery Family Trail

WHERE: Museum of Oxford

WHEN: Until 2 February Find out how people kept warm in the past in this Winter trail that takes you around the Explore Oxford galleries. Pick-up from Town Hall Gift Shop.

FREE www.oxford.gov.uk/events

Family Open Afternoon WHERE: Soldiers of

Oxfordshire Museum, Woodstock WHEN: 14 February: 14.00-16.00 Activities for kids aged 3-9.

Drop-in. Make precious gifts for a loved one. £2 per child; under 3s FREE www.sofo.org.uk

WHERE: The Story Museum WHEN: 27 & 28 January: 11.30 – 12.30

Cinderella Green works really hard for her two, not-so-

environmentally-minded

stepsisters, when all she really

wants to do is spend more time with her beloved wildlife.4+.

Adult £8; Child £6

www.storymuseum.org.uk

The Play That Goes Wrong

BEST NEW COMEDY WINNER WHATSONSTAGE AWARD 2014

WHERE: The Oxford Playhouse

WINNER OLIVIER AWARD 2015

WINNER BROADWAY WORLD UK AWARD 2015

WHEN: 22 - 27 January

The Cornley Polytechnic Drama Society are

putting on a 1920s murder mystery, but as the

title suggests, everything that can go wrong… does! Hilarious results ensue…

From £10

★★★★

‘GENUINELY HILARIOUS. BOY, DOES IT HIT THE FUNNY BONE’ DAILY TELEGRAPH

★★★★★

‘I FEARED I WAS GOING TO HYPERVENTILATE’ DAILY MAIL

N ON L AS SEE ROYA

THE RIETY VA

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Families Fun THE LITTLE MATCH GIRL (and other happier tales) WHERE: The Oxford Playhouse WHEN: 13 – 17 February

Steeped in the metaphor and meaning that runs through the veins of

Andersen’s enduring stories, this will be a night to delight, transport and

surprise. Expect music, puppetry, dark magic... and perhaps some modern truths. 9+.

Fre

From £10

e!

www.oxfordplayhouse.com

IRIS FESTIVAL OF IMAGINED WORLDS WHERE: Cheney School, Headington WHEN: 9 February: 15.00-18.00

Celebrate novels set in imaginary worlds, such as Tolkien, C.S. Lewis, Lewis Carroll and J.K. Rowling. Visitors can walk through different

fictional worlds, with workshops, stalls, and activities themed on novels and their authors.

FREE www.eoccc.org.uk info@irisproject.org.uk

Hoooo’s for dinner?

WHERE: Sutton Courtenay

Winter Wetland Birds

WHERE: Earth Trust, Little Wittenham

WHEN: 28 January: 9.30 – 11.00

Environmental Education Centre, nr Didcot WHEN: 13 February: 10.00 & 13.00 Become a detective with a difference! Discover what our local owls have been eating for dinner. Dissect an owl pellet and be amazed at what you find. Booking essential. 6+. £4 per child bbowt.org.uk/whats-on

01865 305305

The Light Fantastic

Fairtrade products, such as cocoa,

bananas and sugar. Free with entry

to the Garden. Glasshouse opening times only.

Adult £5; Child FREE

www.botanic-garden.ox.ac.uk

WHERE: Didcot Railway Centre

WHEN: 17 & 18 February Visit the locomotives, coaches, wagons and buildings. Ride in coaches from the 1930s behind some Great Western steam locomotives, or in a Steam Railmotor or Diesel Railcar. Adult £10; Child £8 www.didcotrailwaycentre.org.uk

birds and their habitats; booking essential.

Adult £8; Child £4

YANA AND THE YETI

www.earthtrust.org.uk

Chinese New Year Celebration

Going Underground WHERE: Banbury Museum

WHEN: 10 February: 10.30-12.30 & 14.00-16.00

Travel underground to make a fun, crafty animal. Saturdays and every

day during school holidays until 14 April. Tickets from Museum Shop.

www.banburymuseum.org

Discover plants that produce

Steam Days

where you’ll learn more about local

£2 per child

WHEN: 26 February – 11 March

The Theatre, Chipping Norton WHEN: 14 February How do insects use light to see the world and what has that got to do with bank-note forgeries?

Find out on a dazzling journey across the spectrum in a fun family exploration of the amazing properties of light. 8+. Booking essential.

Adult £9.50; Child £7.00 www.chippingnortontheatre.com 01608 642350

a guided walk around Thrupp Lake,

Drop-in.

WHERE: Oxford Botanic Garden

WHERE:

Join local expert Ben Carpenter on

01865 407792

Fairtrade Fortnight Event

WHERE: Blenheim Palace, Woodstock

WHEN: 17 February

Enjoy a traditional Double Guan

Yin Chinese Lion dance. Meet-and-

WHERE: The North Wall Arts Centre WHEN: 13 February

A dark, funny and poignant tale of a small child’s determination to

be understood and her discovery that friends can come in the most unexpected shapes and sizes. 5+.

Adult £10; Child £8

www.thenorthwall.com 01865 319450

greet opportunities with the lion.

Tuck into delicious Chinese street

food in the Great Court, festooned with strings of Chinese lanterns.

Adult £24.90; Child £13.90 www.blenheimpalace.com

Mud Pie Monday

WHERE: Earth Trust, Little Wittenham

WHEN: 12 February: 10.00-11.30 Drop in for Mud Pie Monday - buckets of mud and buckets of fun! Wellies and waterproofs advisable. Please take your own bucket and spade/trowel if you have them. £4 www.earthtrust.org.uk familiesonline.co.uk

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Weight Management

WHY IT IS TIME TO START SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF There is not a more certain sign that it is January than the well-fitting trend for positive change. How many people have already asked the dreaded question?

“What are your new year’s resolutions?”

The craze falls seamlessly alongside an acute awareness of having over-indulged during Christmas. Even as a Weight Management Coach at Achieve Healthy Weight Loss Oxfordshire, I can empathise. Having said this, it is the shared morale that makes now a great time to get focused.

I have some tried and tested tips to help achieve a healthier lifestyle. Let the guilty feelings fade in light of the steps that will lead to a healthy weight loss journey.

Give the goals your all, or give up?

Why do we get sucked into setting these annual resolutions that we full well know we just won’t stick to?

For a start, we like to imagine ourselves doing well. Then we over commit, one small change just doesn’t seem to cut it. There is so much we want to achieve that starting with anything other than the whole package does not seem worth getting out of bed for.

During my years of working in weight management, this is a conversation I have had many times. We feel we need more motivation.

Being in the right frame of mind for getting started is also a challenge many of my clients express, regardless of the time of year.

As we struggle to maintain the high standards we’ve set for ourselves, the thought of giving up becomes more tempting. That is precisely where I think we go wrong. We expect too much of ourselves.

Make Small changes to see a big difference

The fact is - one small change is really all we need. It is better to start walking your kids to school every day rather than trying to squeeze three gym session into your already busy week. Your body is going to be more grateful for one extra piece of fruit each day than for a week of solely eating fruit and veg, just to fall at the hurdle of an all you can eat buffet. When small changes are repeatedly made, the real long-term differences to our health become visible.

Small lifestyle changes are easier to keep because they are small in nature. They will not take masses of your time, or require lots of motivation either. Small changes are sustainable and encouraging. If you find yourself able to stick to eating soup for lunch in January, you might become more motivated to cut out one biscuit with your afternoon tea in February.

Before you know it you are making positive changes to your health day in, and day out and as a byproduct of having shed a few Christmas lbs.

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Start to get support

delivered by healthy lifestyle provider Thrive

Tribe and funded by Oxfordshire County If you want to get more active, have a look at Council. This article is based on their vast your week and consider when you may have the time to exercise. Have a look at what is out experience in the field of weight management.

For more information visit:www. there - a gym timetable or local classes. It is achieveoxfordshire.org.uk important to know what is on offer and to be realistic about how much time you can dedicate to this. You may well decide that the gym is not for you. Then get creative about getting more movement into your day by walking the dog or going to the playground with the kids.

Writing down your goals can make your IN PARTNERSHIP WITH: commitments easier to track. We have a downloadable wall chart on the Achieve Healthy Weight Loss Oxfordshire website, accompanied by more professional advice on how to start achieving healthy weight loss.

Even at the risk of dampening your January enthusiasm let me assure you - one small change is Discover our leading really all we need.

You can start to lose weight today with Achieve Oxfordshire

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Weight Management

Professionals at Achieve Healthy Weight Loss

Oxfordshire. The free weight loss service

weight loss programmes Visit our website to discover how you could access free resources and take the steps to living a longer and happier life.

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Winter Clubs & Classes WITH THE NIGHTS CLOSING IN AND THE TEMPERATURE DROPPING, the idea of sending your child out on to the football pitch, tennis court or athletics track is not an attractive one.

But active after school activities offer children great developmental benefits including:

Improved Academic Performance

Indoor Rock Climbing

Research has found that children from

This activity is also

disadvantaged backgrounds who

growing in popularity

participate in after-school clubs get

across the country with

better results at age 11 than their peers.

a centre likely to be

very close to you. Even

Enhanced Socialisation Skills Making friends with children from

the NHS recommends

broaden their social experience, whilst

provides unique

outside their school allows children to

it as an activity that

extra-curricular activities at school give

physical and mental

children the chance to enjoy a different

benefits whilst at the

type of social experience with their

same time catering for

school friends and other children in their class.

Better Health and Fitness According to the National Association of

Sport and Physical Education, kids aged 5-12

should exercise for at least 60 minutes of each day, and this figure shouldn’t be ignored just because it’s cold outside.

Stress Relief Exercise helps to relieve stress built up by homework, exams and peer pressures.

As parents, we are responsible for setting up

opportunities for our children to keep active during winter months.

So here are our ideas for keeping your restless young one on the go – and the good news is you don’t have to force them (or you!) outside:

Trampoline Clubs and Parks

These are popping up all over the country and classes are fun and social. The UK now has over 190 trampoline parks and most offer kids a safe environment to cut loose as well as lessons and classes for children from as young as toddlers upwards try - Bounce Milton Keynes.

all ages, fitness levels

and abilities. Try Rock Solid Climbing Wall, Oxford.

Girl Guides and Scouting Scouting and Girl Guides are experiencing

an unprecedented surge in popularity. Why?

Because they offer an antidote to the modern world with adventure being at the heart of everything they do. From as young as 6,

children can get involved in learning outdoor

skills and undertaking leadership qualifications, as well as enjoying camps and residential

experiences. However, waiting lists can be

long so act quickly! To register interest visit

www.girlguiding.org.uk or www.scouts.org.uk

Ice Rinks/Snow Slopes Local snow slopes and ice rinks are great

You can access indoor classes for most outdoors sports such as football, cricket and tennis at leisure centres or school recreation halls. Likewise for toddlers and pre-schoolers, multi-sport and ball skills classes are often run inside during winter.

How Many is Too Much?

Whilst clubs and classes are important for children, be careful how many activities you sign your child up for. Some require significant time commitment. For example, joining a swimming class can involve two or more weekly training sessions, as well as competitions. Are you and your child up for that? What else will suffer or be sacrificed? If your child’s opportunity to have unstructured time for play will go by the wayside, then this is probably not a good thing. Children these days have much more structured lives than ever before and already often have less unstructured play time than previous generations. Research indicates that unstructured play with minimal adult supervision helps children to learn important social skills, use their imagination, concentrate and be more self-directed.

places to get kids active during the winter and offer kids the opportunity to try tobogganing,

skiing or snowboarding, or get a pair of skates on. There are indoor and outdoor rinks and centres, depending on how you feel about braving the cold or damp weather. Try Sno-Zone Milton Keynes.

FRESH AIR

If you do opt for indoor class and club options for your child during winter, try to get them some regular fresh air at weekends when time and weather permit.

Consider heading to the countryside or a beach (even at the darkest time of year), where you can breathe different air and be closer to nature. You don’t have to organise a full itinerary and it doesn’t have to cost much either. Simple games like running races on a beach or climbing a tree can be exhilarating for children after a week cooped up at school, and being outside is both refreshing and invigorating for everyone and will improve everyone’s mood!

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Indoor Sports

The National Trust offers loads of activities at their sites across the UK including treasure hunts, nature trails, and even horse rides.

The Woodland Trust has great expanses of woodland which are ripe for families to explore and provide a great natural habitat for nature walks. Some are very ancient and provide a great historical backdrop of legend and myth.

It’s also worth checking out The Wild Network which brings together thousands of people and groups across the UK to share the simple goal of getting children back in touch with nature. www.nationaltrust.org.uk www.woodlandtrust.org.uk www.thewildnetwork.com

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