Love Where You Live - Jeff Jones

e r e e h v i w l ol ve you JEFF JONES

e r e e h v i w l ol ve you JEFF JONES

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Note from the Pastor Using This Workbook (Read This First) Outline for Each Session

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Session One: You are Here Session Two: Glow in the Dark Session Three: Loving our Neighbor Session Four: Not my Party

APPENDICES 84 86 90 91 92 90

Frequently Asked Questions Small Group Agreement Small Group Calendar Memory Verse Cards (Clip and Review) Prayer and Praise Report Small Group Roster

SMALL GROUP LEADERS 95 98 100 103

Hosting an Open House Leading for the First Time Leadership Training Notes

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note from the pastor

Welcome to Love Where You Live!

Did you know a million people live within a ten mile-radius of our church?

Think about that—all around us are a million stories, life experiences, hurts, and needs. And, while every one of these million people is deeply loved by God, statistics tell us a vast majority do not have a relationship with Him. This begs an important question: How has God uniquely placed you and me to live out and reflect His heart for those all around us?

Over the next four sessions, we will dive into an important discussion about how to tangibly and actively demonstrate God’s love right here and right now. We’ll discuss how God has placed each of us where we are at with a great purpose to live out. Out of all the series and conversations we have as a church, this might be God’s favorite because it reflects His heart for those far from Him. I’ve really enjoyed preparing these sessions, and I’m looking forward to diving into some big conversations together. A life of purpose and great impact is something most of us want—but it doesn’t just happen. It takes intentionality and being open to disruption when God brings needs and people into our daily lives. So, thank you ahead of time for being intentional with this discussion and being open to what God has to say to each of us personally and to all of us as a church. I’m excited to see what God will do in us and through us as we think through how to live out God’s big mission each and every day.

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Notice in the Table of Contents there are three sections: (1) Sessions; (2) Appendices; and (3) Small Group Leaders. Familiarize yourself with the Appendices.

Some of them will be used in the sessions themselves.

If you are leading or co-leading a small group, the section Small Group Leaders will give you tips for effective leadership, encourage you, and help you avoid a few common obstacles.

Use this workbook as a guide, not a straitjacket. If the group responds to the lesson in an unexpected but honest way, go with that. If you think of a better question than the next one in the lesson, ask it. Take to heart the insights included in the Frequently Asked Questions pages and the Small Group Leaders section.

using this workbook Tools to help you have a great small group experience!

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Enjoy your Small Group experience.

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Pray before each session—for your group members, for your time together, for wisdom and insights.

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Read the Outline for Each Session on the next pages so you understand how the sessions will flow.

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outline of each session WEEKLY MEMORY VERSES. Each session opens with a Memory Verse that emphasizes an important truth from the session. This is an optional exercise, but we believe memorizing scripture is a powerful way to grow spiritually. We encourage you to give this important habit a try. The verses for each session are also listed in the appendix.

INTRODUCTION. Each lesson opens with a brief thought that will help you prepare for the session and get you thinking about that week’s topic. Make it a practice to read these before the session. You may want to have the group read them aloud.

SHARE YOUR STORY. The foundation for spiritual growth is an intimate connection with God and His family. You build that connection by sharing your story with a few people who really know you and who earn your trust.

This section includes some simple questions to get you talking—letting you share as much or as little of your story as you choose.

HEAR GOD’S STORY. In this section, you’ll read the Bible and listen to teaching in order to hear God’s story—and begin to see how His story aligns with yours. When the study directs you to, you’ll watch a short teaching segment on video. You’ll then have an opportunity to read a passage of scripture and discuss both the teaching and the text. The goal isn’t to accumulate information, but to apply the insights from scripture to your daily life.

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A typical group session for the Love Where You Live study will include the following sections.

Read through this to get a clear idea of how each group meeting will be structured

STUDY NOTES. This brief section provides additional commentary, background, or insights on the passage you’ve studied or on some aspect of the video teaching.

CREATE A NEW STORY. In this section, you’ll have an opportunity to go beyond Bible study to biblical living. This section will also have a question or two that will challenge you to live out your faith by serving others, sharing your faith, or worshiping God. FOR ADDITIONAL STUDY. If you have time and want to dig deeper into more Bible passages about the topic, we’ve provided additional passages and questions. You can use them during the meeting or as homework. Your group may choose to read and prepare before each meeting in order to cover more biblical material. Or, group members can use the additional study section during the week after the meeting. If you prefer not to do study homework, this section will provide you with plenty to discuss within the group. These options allow individuals or the whole group to expand their study while still accommodating those who can’t do homework or are new to your group.

DAILY DEVOTIONS. Each week on the Daily Devotions pages, we provide scriptures to reflect on between sessions. This provides you with a chance to slow down, read just a small portion of scripture each day, and pray through it. You’ll then have a chance to journal your response to what you’ve read.

Use this section to seek God on your own throughout the week. This time at home should begin and end with prayer. Don’t get in a hurry; take enough time to hear from God and talk to him!

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you are here “Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.�

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Everyday life can sometimes feel a bit random.

Have you ever asked this question: “God, why do you have me here?” Many of us feel like our current situation is somewhat unimportant compared to other people’s. And so, it’s easy to think that for God to use us in a big way, it’s somewhere out there—in a faraway land or a more prominent position.

However, God wants us to understand that our greatest ministry is not somewhere out there, but is right in front of our noses—where we already are. Your neighborhood, school, workplace, and social circle aren’t an accident. They are assignments. We are surrounded by people who need to know Jesus and we have been given the message of reconciliation to share with them.

What does it look like for us to be faithful and fulfill our assignments? In today’s session, we’ll discuss how we are called to live as Christfollowers wherever we are. God loves the people in our lives and He has a purpose for our presence where He has placed us.

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Leader Notes + If your group is new, welcome newcomers. Introduce everyone—you may even want to have name tags for this first meeting. + Open your group with a brief prayer asking God for insight as you study. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion. + Before you start this first meeting, get contact information for every participant. Take time to pass around a copy of the Small Group Roster on page 93 or a blank sheet of paper. Ask someone to make copies or type up a list with everyone’s information and email it to the group during the week. + Whether your group is new or ongoing, it’s always important to review your values. On page 86 is a Small Group Agreement with important values for sustaining healthy, balanced groups. Choose one or two of these values—ones you haven’t previously focused on or have room to grow in—to emphasize during this study. + The Small Group Calendar on page 90 is a tool for planning who will host and lead each meeting. Consider rotating hosts and leaders and take a few minutes to plan future meetings.

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share your story Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

What brought you here? What do you hope to get out of this group?

Share a time you had to change your perspective about a situation and look at it as an assignment from God. How did this experience change you?

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watch the video NOTES FROM THE SESSION

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hear God’s story READ 1 CORINTHIANS 7:17-24 (NIV)

Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God’s commands is what counts. Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.

Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. For the one who was a slave when called to faith in the Lord is the Lord’s freed person; similarly, the one who was free when called is Christ’s slave. You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings. Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.

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What does it mean to live as a believer?

What are the commands that every believer is called to keep?

What does Paul mean when he said “you should not become uncircumcised�?

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study notes

The passage we studied from 1 Corinthians talks about circumcision, which can seem very strange unless you understand how this practice relates to the religious history of the time. For Jewish people of the day, circumcision was the sign of the covenant between God and Abraham. All of Abraham’s male descendants, the Jews, were circumcised to demonstrate they were in a covenant with God.

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When Jesus died on the cross we received a new covenant, and therefore men no longer need to get circumcised. The problem was that some of the Jewish believers thought even Gentile believers should get circumcised. However, Paul explained this is not the case. The Jewish believers were so concerned about the Gentile believers being circumcised, but this is not what matters. It is about our heart. “For it is we who are the circumcision, we who serve God by his Spirit, who boast in Christ Jesus, and who put no confidence in the flesh.”

Philippians 3:3

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create a new story In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

What situation has God assigned to you right now? What does it look like to be faithful there?

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What does it mean that you were bought at a price? What does this tell you about your value to God?

“Keeping God’s commands is what counts.” How do you keep God’s commands on a daily basis?

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God has not only placed you somewhere, he’s placed you in relationships with others. Take a look at the Circles of Life diagram below and write the names of two or three people you know who need to know Christ. Commit to praying for God’s guidance and an opportunity to share with each of them. Would they be open to joining the group? Share your lists with the group so you can all be praying for the people you’ve identified.

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This week how will you interact with the Bible? Can you commit to spending time in the Daily Devotions? Tell the group how you plan to follow Jesus this week, and then, at your next meeting, talk about your progress and challenges.

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Give each person an opportunity to share prayer requests. If you’d like, you can write these on the Prayer and Praise report on page 92.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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for additional study Take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into God’s Word.

Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own. Jot down your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. You may even want to use a Bible website or app to look up commentary on these passages. If you like, share what you learn with the group the next time you meet.

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READ ROMANS 12:1-2

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

How does this passage relate to 1 Corinthians 7? What is similar?

What is different?

What does it mean to be a living sacrifice?

What happens when we are transformed by the renewing of our mind?

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READ 1 CORINTHIANS 10:23-33

“I have the right to do anything,” you say but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. No one should seek their own good, but the good of others. Eat anything sold in the meat market without raising questions of conscience, for, “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it.” If an unbeliever invites you to a meal and you want to go, eat whatever is put before you without raising questions of conscience. But if someone says to you, “This has been offered in sacrifice,” then do not eat it, both for the sake of the one who told you and for the sake of conscience. I am referring to the other person’s conscience, not yours. For why is my freedom being judged by another’s conscience? If I take part in the meal with thankfulness, why am I denounced because of something I thank God for? So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved.

What does it mean to not seek your own good but the good of others?

In this passage Paul explained how Christians caused others to stumble by eating or refusing to eat certain foods. How do we cause people to stumble today?

How does this passage relate to the topic “Love where you live”?

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daily devotions

Day 1 READ MATTHEW 22:37-39

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

REFLECT

We show our love to God by loving our neighbor. Who is the neighbor in your life that you need to love?

Day 2 READ 1 CORINTHIANS 10:32

Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God. REFLECT

Maybe you never consciously caused anyone to stumble, but how often do you go out of your way and encourage the people around you? How can you point the people around you to God?

Day 3 READ COLOSSIANS 3:23

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

REFLECT

Today, try to go about your daily life while keeping in mind that everything you do is for the Lord. At the end of the day journal about your experience.

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Day 4 READ EPHESIANS 4:2-3

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

REFLECT

Sometimes it is easier to love the non-Christians in our life than our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. This verse makes it very clear that we need to be united with love and peace.

Is there anyone in your life with whom you need to practice some extra patience?

Day 5 READ 1 CORINTHIANS 9:20-23

To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel that I may share in its blessings.

REFLECT

Paul isn’t saying we don’t have our own personalities. Instead, he’s saying that we can find points of commonality with others, and we can put others before ourselves so we can share Christ with them. What are some ways you can do this in your own relationships?

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Day 6 Use the following space to reflect on what you learned this week and what God is saying to you.

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glow in the dark SE SSI O N 2

In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Matthew 5:16

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Many of us who grew up in the church were taught to stay away from non-Christians because they would pull us away from our faith. As a result, the longer a person has followed Jesus, the more isolated they become from those who are far from God. In the same way, Jesus’ disciples were taught that good Jewish believers should stay away from those who were ungodly because they would make you unclean.

Light is meant for dark places. Instead of leading His followers away from tough and scary places, Jesus often takes us on perilous paths to engage those far from God. Jesus has a big heart for those in the darkness, which means we should too. If we follow Jesus, he calls us not to be safe, but to be dangerous.

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share your story Open your group with a brief prayer asking God for insight as you study. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

Then begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking: How have you been looking at the people in your life differently since the last session?

Did you grow up in a home or religious system that taught you that to be more faithful meant isolating yourself from the “bad” people? Or, did you grow up believing you were the kind of “bad” person religious people would stay away from? Share with the group.

What do you think it means to “glow in the dark”?

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watch the video NOTES FROM THE SESSION

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hear God’s story READ MATTHEW 16:13-18

When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.

Why do you think it was so important to Jesus, who knows everything, to ask the disciples the question, “Who do you say I am?”

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Do you see a connection between Jesus asking this question in Caesarea Philippi (regarding what we just learned in the video about this area) and Peter (who later denied Jesus) being the one who answered the question?

Why did Jesus call Peter “blessed�?

In your own words, what exactly is Jesus revealing in verse 18?

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study notes

Matthew 16:18 says, “An I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.” This is the first time the word, “church,” is mentioned in the New Testament—it literally means “the called out ones.” The disciples would have understood this word to mean something like a movement. When we think of church today we most likely think of a building, but it is essential to remember that Jesus initiated a movement of people changed by his grace who would be empowered to transform the world. So, we don’t go to church—we are the church.

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create a new story In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

Caesarea Philippi was the darkest place known to the disciples and it was there that Jesus promised to build his church. In the same way that Jesus brought light to darkness, we are called to glow in the dark. What does this mean for you personally?

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Jesus calls us to be brave and bold. Naturally it is easier for many of us to isolate instead. What are reasons that we choose to isolate instead of glowing in the dark?

Jesus asked the disciples, “Who do you say I am?� What would you answer?

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Jeff challenged us to not play defense but instead to play offense and bring the hope of Jesus to the people in our lives. In the last session we asked you to write some names in the Circles of Life diagram. Who did you identify as the people in your life who need to meet Jesus? Go back to the Circles of Life diagram on page 18 to help you think of various people you come in contact with on a regular basis; people who need to know Jesus more deeply.

Consider ideas for action and make a plan to follow through on one of them this week.

Here are some simple ways to connect with God. Tell the group which ones you plan to try this week, and talk about your progress and challenges when you meet next time.

+ PRAYER. Commit to personal prayer and daily connection with God. You may find it helpful to write your prayers in a journal.

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+ DAILY DEVOTIONS. The Daily Devotions provided in each session offer an opportunity to read a short Bible passage five days a week during the course of our study. Take time to read carefully and reflect on the passage. Write down your insights about what you read each day. Copy a portion of scripture on a card and tape it somewhere in your line of sight, such as your car’s dashboard or the bathroom mirror.

Or text it to yourself! Think about it when you sit at red lights or while you’re eating a meal. Reflect on what God is saying to you through these words. On the sixth day summarize what God has shown you throughout the week.

Give each person an opportunity to share prayer requests. If you’d like, you can write these on the Prayer and Praise report on page 92.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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for additional study Take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into God’s Word.

Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own. Jot down your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. You may even want to use a Bible website or app to look up commentary on these passages. If you like, share what you learn with the group the next time you meet.

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READ MATTHEW 5:14-16

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

What is the purpose of the light?

Are you ever tempted to hide the light?

Why does Jesus call us the light?

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READ ISAIAH 60:1-3

“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you.

See, darkness covers the earth and thick darkness is over the peoples, but the Lord rises upon you and his glory appears over you. Nations will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn.”

What command does God give us in this passage?

The darkness obviously refers to life without God. Many people in our culture experience this darkness to be hopelessness. How can we be a light for people who have lost hope?

What promise does God give us?

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daily devotions

Day 1 READ 1 PETER 3:15

But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.

REFLECT

How do you prepare yourself in case someone asks about your faith? Are you kind and loving? Or is your goal to simply convince them that you are right?

Day 2 READ EPHESIANS 5:15-17

Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.

REFLECT

People who don’t follow Jesus will remember our actions way more than our words. So ask yourself, “Do I make wise choices?”

“Do my actions reflect Jesus?”

Day 3 READ 2 PETER 3:9

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

REFLECT

Is there someone in your life you have been praying about for a long time who still hasn’t accepted Christ? Don’t be discouraged. Instead, remember how the Lord has been patient with you and is also patient with your friend.

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Day 4 READ ROMANS 8:26

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.

REFLECT

Sometimes it is hard to get out of bed, and sometimes it is difficult to pray and live up to the purpose God has given us.

On those days, don’t forget that Jesus gave us the Holy Spirit to work in us and through us. Ask God to open your ears and your heart so that you might experience the Holy Spirit, especially on days when you feel down and hopeless.

Day 5 READ ROMANS 10:15

And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”

REFLECT

Don’t forget that you are sent to bring the Good News!

It is a privilege to share the gospel!

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Day 6 Use the following space to reflect on what you learned this week and what God is saying to you.

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loving our neighbor SE SSI O N 3

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind”; and, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

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We can make things so complicated, but Jesus boiled down true spirituality in a few simple concepts—loving God and loving others, and being responsive and open to the people God puts right around us.

Throughout his ministry, Jesus modeled how to be a loving neighbor. He always had an open ear and a healing touch. He dined with sinners and welcomed the children to be with him. Jesus was never too busy or too tired to engage with someone and show kindness and love. He allowed his life to be disrupted by the needs around him.

He was the ideal good neighbor—and, if we want to follow him, we also need to make room in our lives for the people around us.

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share your story Open your group with a brief prayer asking God for insight as you study. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

Then begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking: How did you “glow in the dark� since our last session?

All of us can probably think of a neighbor in our past or present who was great and others who were difficult. What makes a good neighbor good? What makes a bad neighbor bad?

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hear God’s story READ LUKE 10:25-37

On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?” He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.” But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”

In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’

“Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

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Why do you think the “expert in the law” asked Jesus, “Who is my neighbor?”

How did he want to justify himself?

Why did we expect the Priest or the Levite to help? Why did they pass by the other side and ignore the man who was attacked?

Why was Jesus’ audience shocked that the Samaritan helped the man? What did they expect him to do? Why did Jesus choose the Samaritan to show neighborly love to the man on the ground?

Do you think the “expert in the law” was really the one testing Jesus? With what challenge does Jesus leave him?

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Study Notes

The reason Jesus set up the Samaritan to be the good neighbor is because of the long-standing conflict between the Jews and the Samaritans. The origin of this disagreement started after the death of King Solomon when the Kingdom of Israel split into two parts. “When all the Israelites heard that Jeroboam had returned, they sent and called him to the assembly and made him king over all Israel. Only the tribe of Judah remained loyal to the house of David” (1 Kings 12:20). Read the whole chapter of 1 Kings 12 as well as 2 Chronicles 10 to better understand this conflict.

It is interesting that the parable of the Good Samaritan is not the only time in the Bible the Samaritans are mentioned. In John 4:1-42, Jesus met a Samaritan woman at a well and asked her for water and the first thing she said to him was, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” Jesus then offered the woman living water and she and many other Samaritans came to believe in him.

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create a new story In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

What does it mean to love God with all your heart, soul, strength and mind?

Who do you identify with in this story? Who do you want to identify with?

What does it mean to be a good neighbor?

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How aware are you of the needs of your neighbors? Does your schedule allow you to be disrupted when you come across a need? Do you need to make any changes?

What steps will you take this week to grow in your relationship with God? If you’ve focused on prayer in past weeks, maybe you’ll want to direct your attention to scripture this week. If you’ve been reading God’s Word consistently, perhaps you’ll want to take it deeper and try memorizing a verse. Tell the group what you plan to try this week, and talk about your progress and challenges when you meet next time.

Give each person an opportunity to share prayer requests. If you’d like, you can write these on the Prayer and Praise report on page 92.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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for additional study Take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into God’s Word.

Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own. Jot down your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. You may even want to use a Bible website or app to look up commentary on these passages. If you like, share what you learn with the group the next time you meet.

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READ MARK 10:17-27

As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. “Good teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

“Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.’” “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.” Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.

Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!” The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God! It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” In what ways is this story similar to the story of the Good Samaritan? And how is it different?

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Why was the rich man unable to do what Jesus said? What does it look like to be generous? Could you be more generous? What hinders you?

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READ JOHN 8:1-11

“Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.

But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there.

Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

How is this story related to being a good neighbor?

Do you think one sin is worse than others?

Which is easier for you: to accept Jesus’ grace for your life or to extend grace to your neighbor?

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daily devotions

Day 1 READ ROMANS 12:9-11

“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. “ REFLECT

Don’t be fake and pretend to love, but truly let the Lord transform your heart so that you can love genuinely. Why does Paul say to “honor one another above yourselves”? Why is this important?

Day 2 READ LUKE 6:35

“But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.”

REFLECT

Just like the Good Samaritan loved the injured Jew, we are called to love the people we don’t even like! Who are those people in your life? How can you start loving them?

Day 3 READ PHILIPPIANS 2:3-4

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

REFLECT

Don’t worry about keeping up with your neighbors (co-workers, friends, relatives) by trying to impress them with your house, your car or your kids. Rather, show interest in their life and look for opportunities to serve them.

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Day 4 READ LEVITICUS 19:18

“Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.”

REFLECT

With all the focus on loving your neighbor and the people who don’t know God, don’t forget to also love your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. At times it seems easier to love non-Christians than Christians, so today’s challenge is to search your own heart and let go of any grudge or negative feelings toward a fellow believer.

Day 5 READ HEBREWS 13:1-2

“Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”

REFLECT

We are living in a culture where many of us don’t even say hello to others as we walk by them. What if we started smiling at people more, and saying “Hi”? Or maybe even buying the coffee for the person behind us in line at the local Starbucks? What are other ways that you can show hospitality to strangers?

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Day 6 Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

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not my party SE SSI O N 4

“Then the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full.”

Luke 14:23

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In the Bible we read that Jesus was invited to two kinds of parties: the “sinner” parties and the Pharisee parties. Interesting enough, Jesus always had a great time at the sinners’ parties, but he disrupted the Pharisees’ parties. The Pharisees were always surprised and really upset that Jesus would be interested in connecting with irreligious people. They would have expected Him to only want to be with “righteous” people, but not “sinners.” But, Jesus made it clear that these religious leaders had missed the heart of God. It’s easy for the same thing to happen in church today—we can lose sight of those we are called to invite and instead craft environments for those of us who are already Christ-followers. When we gather together, it’s a party, but it’s not our party.

This is the Father’s party; we are His servants, privileged to prepare the party for those who have yet to come and who are far from God.

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share your story Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

What do you think makes a great party?

Is it hard for you to invite people to church or does it come naturally?

Explain why.

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watch the video NOTES FROM THE SESSION

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hear God’s story READ LUKE 14:15-24

When one of those at the table with him heard this, he said to Jesus, “Blessed is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.” Jesus replied: “A certain man was preparing a great banquet and invited many guests. At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’ “But they all alike began to make excuses.

The first said, ‘I have just bought a field, and I must go and see it. Please excuse me.’ “Another said, ‘I have just bought five yoke of oxen, and I’m on my way to try them out. Please excuse me.’ “Still another said, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’ “The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.’ “‘Sir,’ the servant said, ‘what you ordered has been done, but there is still room.’ “Then the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full. I tell you, not one of those who were invited will get a taste of my banquet.’”

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Pastor Jeff explains that as believers we represent the servant in this story. Who do you think are the original guests? And who are the poor, crippled, blind and lame? And who are the ones on the roads and country lanes?

All the first invited guests had an excuse as to why they couldn’t come. What do those excuses say about them?

How did the host react when the first guests declined his invitation?

Why do you think the host wanted a full house? (v.23) What does the full house represent?

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study notes

Jesus was telling the parable of the great banquet when he was a dinner guest at a Pharisee’s home. The interesting fact is this was the last time the book of Luke mentions that Jesus was invited to a Pharisee’s party. The reason Jesus chose that location to share this parable can be understood as Jesus giving them one more warning: The time is coming; are you going to accept the invitation to my party or not?

Unfortunately the Pharisees didn’t accept the invitation and instead did everything in their power to crucify Jesus. But since nothing is impossible for Jesus, he chose to do a miracle in the life of one of the Pharisees who seemed to hate Jesus and his followers the most. Read more about the transformation from Saul to Paul in Acts 9:1-31.

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create a new story In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

Do the people we invite into our home or church feel comfortable? How can we build an inviting environment?

What are some ways you are tempted to make church your party instead of the King’s party? Are there any preferences you need to give up for the sake of those who are far from God?

What did you learn about the Kingdom of God from today’s teaching?

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Reading the parable of the banquet communicates an urgency to invite people.

How do you respond to this urgency?

This week how will you interact with the Bible? Can you commit to spending time in the Daily Devotions? Tell the group how you plan to follow Jesus this week, and then, at your next meeting, talk about your progress and challenges.

Give each person an opportunity to share prayer requests. If you’d like, you can write these on the Prayer and Praise report on page 92.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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for additional study Take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into God’s Word.

Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own. Jot down your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. You may even want to use a Bible website or app to look up commentary on these passages. If you like, share what you learn with the group the next time you meet.

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READ MATTHEW 22:1-14

Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come. “Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’ “But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them.

The king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city. “Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests. “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. 12 He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless. “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

This passage is similar to our passage in Luke. What is the same and what is different?

Identify the characters of the parable. Who are the King, the son, and the servants?

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In Luke, the original guests were uninvited after their refusal; the original guests in this passage were killed. Why were they treated so differently?

What do the wedding clothes signify?

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READ ACTS 13:47- 49

For this is what the Lord has commanded us: “‘I have made you a light for the Gentiles, that you may bring salvation to the ends of the earth.” When the Gentiles heard this, they were glad and honored the word of the Lord; and all who were appointed for eternal life believed. The word of the Lord spread through the whole region.

Who are the Gentiles in your life?

What does it mean to bring salvation “to the ends of the earth”?

How have you witnessed the word of the Lord being spread?

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daily devotions

Day 1 READ PSALM 96:1-3

“Sing to the Lord a new song; sing to the Lord, all the earth.

Sing to the Lord, praise his name; proclaim his salvation day after day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples.”

REFLECT

Give thanks to the Lord because he has given you eternal life.

Also give thanks to God because He has chosen you to declare his glory among your neighbors.

Day 2 READ MATTHEW 28:19-20

“ Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

REFLECT

This is not a suggestion; Jesus commands us to “go and make disciples.” It is not a way of living but rather our ultimate goal as Christians. Pray right now for opportunities to invite your friends and family to church.

Day 3 READ PROVERBS 10:12

“Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.”

REFLECT

Whatever your past with your neighbors, co-workers, or friends, don’t keep a grudge against them. Instead, encounter them with love. Forgive them and ask God to change your heart and to fill it with love.

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Day 4 READ ROMANS 13:10

“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”

REFLECT

Pray that God would give you a genuine heart for lost people, especially for the lost people you encounter on a daily basis.

Think right now of a person and pray for her/him by name.

Day 5 READ ROMANS 1:16

“For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes: first to the Jew, then to the Gentile.”

READ JOSHUA 1:9

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

REFLECT

What is hindering you from sharing the gospel? Don’t be afraid of sharing the good news of Jesus - be brave and know that you are not alone. God is with you! Pray that God will replace your fear with confidence and courage.

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Day 6 Use the following space to reflect on what you learned this week and what God is saying to you.

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appendices frequently asked questions

What do we do on the first night of our group?

Like all fun things in life—have a party! A “get to know you” coffee, dinner, or dessert is a great way to launch a new study. You may want to review the Group Agreement (pages 86-87) and share the names of a few friends you can invite to join you. But most importantly, have fun before your study time begins.

Can we do this study on our own?

Absolutely! This may sound crazy, but one of the best ways to do this study is not with a full house but with a few friends. You may choose to gather with another couple or a few friends who would enjoy going out for dinner and then walking through this study.

What if this group is not working for us?

You’re not alone! This could be the result of a personality conflict, life stage difference, geographical distance, level of spiritual maturity, or any number of things. Relax. Pray for God’s direction, and at the end of this study, decide whether to continue with this group or find another. However, don’t bail out before the four weeks are up—God might have something to teach you. Also, don’t run from conflict or prejudge people before you have given them a chance. God is still working in your life, too!

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Resources to make your small group experience even better!

Who is the leader?

Most groups have an official leader. But ideally, the group will mature and members will rotate the leadership of meetings. Healthy groups often rotate hosts and leaders on a regular basis. This model ensures that all members grow, give their unique contribution, and develop their gifts.

How do we handle the childcare needs in our group?

Very carefully. Seriously, this can be a sensitive issue. We suggest that you empower the group to openly brainstorm solutions. You may try one option that works for a while and then adjust over time. One approach is for adults to meet in the living room or dining room and to share the cost of a babysitter (or two) who can watch the kids in a different part of the house. This way, parents don’t have to be away from their children all evening when their children are too young to be left at home. A second option is to use one home for the kids and a second home (close by or a phone call away) for the adults. A third idea is to rotate the responsibility of providing a lesson or caring for the children. This can be an incredible blessing for kids. Finally, the most common solution is to decide that you need to have a night to invest in your spiritual lives individually or as a couple and to make your own arrangements for childcare. No matter what decision the group makes, the best approach is to dialogue openly about both the problem and the solution.

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small group agreement OUR PURPOSE To provide an environment where participants experience authentic community and spiritual growth.

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OUR VALUES GROUP ATTENDANCE

To give priority to the group meeting. We will call or email if we will be late or absent. (Completing the Group Calendar on page 90 will minimize this issue.)

SAFE ENVIRONMENT

To create a safe place where people can be heard and feel loved. (Please, no quick answers, snap judgments, or simple fixes.)

RESPECT

To be gentle and gracious to fellow group members with different spiritual maturity, personal opinions, temperaments, or “imperfections.” We are all works in progress.

DIFFERENCES

CONFIDENTIALITY

To keep anything that is shared strictly confidential and within the group, and to avoid sharing improper information about those outside the group.

ENCOURAGEMENT

To be not just takers but givers of life. We want to spiritually multiply our life by serving others with our God-given gifts.

FOR GROWTH

SHARED OWNERSHIP

To remember that every member is a minister and to ensure that each attender will share a small team role or responsibility over time.

ROTATING HOSTS/

To encourage different people to host the group in their homes and to rotate the responsibility of facilitating each meeting. (See the Group Calendar on page 90.)

LEADERS AND HOMES

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our expectations Refreshments/mealtimes _____________________________________

Childcare ________________________________________________

When we will meet (day of week) _____________________________

Where we will meet (place) __________________________________

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We will begin at (time) ______________ and end at ______________

We will do our best to have some or all of us attend a worship service together.

Our primary worship service time will be ________________

Date of this agreement ______________________________________

Date we will review this agreement again _______________________

Who (other than the leader) will review this agreement at the end of this study ________________________________________________

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group calendar Planning and calendaring can ensure the greatest participation at every meeting. At the end of each meeting, review this calendar. Be sure to include a regular rotation of host homes and leaders, and don’t forget birthdays, socials, church events, holidays, and mission/ministry projects.

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DESSERT/MEAL

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Monday January 15

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Memory Verse Cards SESSION ONE

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Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches 1 Corinthians 7:17

In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

Matthew 5:16

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“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind”; and, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Luke 10:27

Then the master told his servant, “Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full.”

Luke 14:23

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prayer & praise report PRAYER REQUESTS

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SESSION ONE

SESSION TWO

SESSION THREE

SESSION FOUR

small group roster NAME

EMAIL

PHONE NUMBER

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small group leaders

Key resources to help your leadership experience be the best it can be.

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hosting an open house If you’re starting a new group, try planning an “open house” before your first formal group meeting. Even if you have only two to four core members, it’s a great way to break the ice and to consider prayerfully who else might be open to joining you over the next few weeks. You can also use this kick-off meeting to hand out study guides, spend some time getting to know each other, discuss each person’s expectations for the group and briefly pray for each other. A simple meal or good desserts always make a kick-off meeting more fun.

After people introduce themselves, have everyone respond to a few icebreaker questions: + What is your favorite family vacation? + What is one thing you love about your church/our community? + What are three things about your life growing up that most people here don’t know?

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Next, ask everyone to tell what he or she hopes to get out of the study. You might want to review the Small Group Agreement and talk about each person’s expectations and priorities.

Finally, set an open chair (maybe two) in the center of your group and explain that it represents someone who would enjoy or benefit from this group but who isn’t here yet. Ask people to pray about inviting someone to join the group over the next few weeks. Hand out postcards and have everyone write an invitation or two. Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson. Each group could then report prayer requests and progress at the end of the session.

You can skip this kick-off meeting if your time is limited, but you’ll experience a huge benefit if you take the time to connect with each other in this way.

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leading for the first time Sweaty palms are a healthy sign. The Bible says God is gracious to the humble. Remember who is in control; the time to worry is when you’re not worried. Those who are soft in heart (and sweaty-palmed) are those whom God is sure to speak through.

Seek support. Ask your leader, co-leader, or close friend to pray for you and prepare with you before the session. Walking through the study will help you anticipate potentially difficult questions and discussion topics.

Bring your uniqueness to the study. Lean into who you are and how God wants you to uniquely lead the study.

Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Go through the session several times. If you are using the video, listen to the teaching segment and Study Notes. Don’t wait until the last minute to prepare.

Ask for feedback so you can grow. Perhaps in an email or on cards handed out at the study, have everyone write down three things you did well and one thing you could improve on. Don’t get defensive. Instead, show an openness to learn and grow.

Prayerfully consider launching a new group. This doesn’t need to happen overnight, but keep growth as a goal. Not all Christians are called to be leaders or teachers, but we are all called to be “shepherds” of a few someday.

Share with your group what God is doing in your heart. God is searching for those whose hearts are fully his. Share your trials and victories. We promise that people will relate.

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leadership training 101 Congratulations! You have responded to the call to help lead your group. As you prepare to lead, whether it is one session or the entire series, here are a few thoughts to keep in mind.

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Remember that you are not alone. It is common for good leaders to feel they are not ready to lead. Moses, Solomon, Jeremiah, and Timothy were all reluctant to lead. God promises, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5).

Whether you are leading for one evening, for several weeks, or for a lifetime, you will be blessed as you serve.

Don’t try to do it alone. Pray right now for God to help you build a healthy leadership team. If you can enlist a co-leader to help you lead the group, you will find your experience to be much richer. This is your chance to involve as many people as you can in building a healthy group. All you have to do is call and ask people to help. You’ll probably be surprised at the response.

Just be yourself. If you won’t be you, who will? God wants you to use your unique gifts and temperament. Don’t try to do things exactly like another leader; do them in a way that fits you! Just admit it when you don’t have an answer, and apologize when you make a mistake. Your group will love you for it, and you’ll sleep better at night!

Prepare for your meeting ahead of time. Review the session and the leader’s notes, and write down your responses to each question. Pay special attention to exercises that ask group members to do something other than engage in discussion.

These exercises will help your group live what the Bible teaches, not just talk about it. Be sure you understand how an exercise works, and bring any necessary supplies (such as paper and

pens) to your meeting. If the exercise employs one of the items in the appendix, be sure to look over that item so you’ll know how it works. Finally, review “Outline for Each Session” so you’ll remember the purpose of each section in the study.

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Pray for your group members by name. Before you begin your session, go around the room in your mind and pray for each member by name. You may want to review the prayer list at least once a week. Ask God to use your time together to touch the heart of every person uniquely. Expect God to lead you to whomever He wants you to encourage or challenge in a special way. If you listen, God will surely lead!

When you ask a question, be patient. Someone will eventually respond. Sometimes people need a moment or two of silence to think about the question. If silence doesn’t bother you, it won’t bother anyone else. After someone responds, affirm the response with a simple “thanks” or “good job.” Then ask, “How about somebody else?” or “Would someone who hasn’t shared like to add anything?” Be sensitive to new people or reluctant members who aren’t ready to say, pray or do anything. If you give them a safe setting, they will blossom over time.

Provide transitions between questions. When guiding the discussion, always read aloud the transitional paragraphs and the questions. Ask the group if anyone would like to read the paragraph or Bible passage. Don’t call on anyone, but ask for a volunteer, and then be patient until someone begins. Be sure to thank the person who reads aloud.

Break up into smaller groups each week. If your group has more than seven people, we strongly encourage you to have the group gather at times in discussion circles of three or four people during the Hear God’s Story or Create a New Story sections of the study. With a greater opportunity to talk in a small circle, people will connect more with the study, apply what they’re learning more quickly, and ultimately get more out of it. A small circle also encourages a quiet person to participate

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and tends to minimize the effects of a more vocal or dominant member. When you gather again at the end of the section, you can have one person summarize the highlights from each circle.

Small circles are also helpful during prayer time. People who are unaccustomed to praying aloud will feel more comfortable trying it with just two or three others. Also, prayer requests won’t take as much time, so circles will have more time to actually pray.

When you gather back with the whole group, you can have one person from each circle briefly update everyone on the prayer requests. People are more willing to pray in small circles if they know that the whole group will hear all the prayer requests.

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Rotate facilitators weekly. At the end of each meeting, ask the group who should lead the following week. Let the group help select your weekly facilitator. You may be perfectly capable of leading each time, but you will help others grow in their faith and gifts if you give them opportunities to lead. You can use the Small Group Calendar to fill in the names of all meeting leaders at once if you prefer.

One final challenge (for new or first time leaders): Before your first opportunity to lead, look up each of the five passages listed below. Read each one as a devotional exercise to help yourself develop a shepherd’s heart. Trust us on this one. If you do this, you will be more than ready for your first meeting. + Matthew 9:36 + 1 Peter 5:2-4 + Psalm 23 + Ezekiel 34:11-16 + 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-12

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Since 2004, Jeff Jones has served as Senior Pastor of Chase Oaks Church, a large multi-campus church in North Texas. He is a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary and helped launch the Center for Church-Based Training, an organization that helps churches around the world disciple and develop new ministry leaders. He is coauthor of the book, "The Leadership Baton" and most recently authored, "Distinct

by Design." Jeff has been married to his wife Christy for 28 years, and they have two adult sons, Collin and Caleb.

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