All in

G E O R G E

P O W E L L

PASTOR GEORGE POWELL

STUDY GUIDE

Copyright ” 2016 by Abundant Life Church. _____________________________ ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Published by LifeTogether.

Copyright and use of the curriculum template is retained by Brett Eastman.

Unless otherwise noted, all scripture quotes are taken from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 and 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

ISBN #: 978-1-945589-22-5 Printed in the United States of America

CONTENTS 04 06 07 08 09 10 11 12 13

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Welcome from Pastor George History of ALC Vision of ALL IN One Fund Explanation Faith Commitment Card Why Generosity?

Giving Ladder Using This Workbook (Read This First) Outline for Each Session

SESSION 1 ALL IN IS ABOUT LEGACY

SESSION 2 ALL IN IS ABOUT TRUST

SESSION 3 ALL IN IS ABOUT HONOR

SESSION 4 ALL IN REQUIRES COMMITMENT AND AVOIDS SHORTCUTS

SESSION 5 ALL IN IS ABOUT TRANSFORMATION AND A NEW NAME

SESSION 6 ALL IN IS ABOUT SURRENDER

APPENDICES

100 102 103 104 105

Frequently Asked Questions Lifegroup Agreement Lifegroup Calendar Memory Verse Cards (Clip and Review) Prayer & Praise Reports

TIPS FOR HOSTS

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Hosting an Open House Leading for the First Time Leadership Training 101

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Hello Abundant Life Family.

God never ceases to amaze me! In the 27 years I’ve had the privilege of pastoring Abundant Life Church, God has continually provided opportunities for us to pursue our mission of reaching as many people as possible for Jesus Christ. We have seen thousands of people come to know Jesus through ALC in the greater Portland/Vancouver area and all around the world.

Now He is giving us another opportunity to leave an even greater legacy. The question is, will you be a part of that legacy? My sincere prayer is that all of us who call Abundant Life home will be ALL IN. This book you hold in your hands is a valuable tool that I encourage you to dive into and use as a tool to grow your walk with Jesus. If you haven’t already, join a Lifegroup and engage in this study with others who are committed to taking this journey.

Yes, God has blessed our church immensely. But I believe He is ushering us into a new season of opportunity that will challenge us to take even greater steps of faith than we have ever taken. For this reason, we are starting a new two-year initiative called ALL IN. This ALL IN initiative will help launch ALC into a new season of opportunity to reach even more people for Jesus. Exciting days are ahead for us and I know you will want to be part of it. As we continue to carry out this mission in even greater ways I want to challenge you to ENGAGE . . . GROW . . . SERVE . . . and GO. This is a defining moment in the history of our church as we unite as ONE CHURCH around ONE VISION supported by ONE FUND. As we launch this two-year initiative I am praying that you will say without reservation, “I’m ALL IN. . .you can count on me!”

George Powell Sr. Pastor – Abundant Life Church

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HISTORY OF ABUNDANT LIFE CHURCH MINISTRY MILESTONES 1989 1993 1995 2004 2006 2007 2010 2014

ALC began meeting at the Pleasant Valley Elementary School with an average attendance of 55.

ALC began meeting at the Pleasant Valley SDA Church building with an average attendance of 175.

ALC closed on the purchase of the property on 172nd and Hemrich Rd. Phase 1 of the building was completed and the first services were held in the new building.

Phase 2 of the building opened; it is now home to all of our Family Ministries.

ALC began praying about becoming a multi-site church and the Parkrose Christian Church building became part of ALC. Our first multi-site campus was opened.

ALC opened the Sandy Campus at the Mt. Hood Athletic Club.

Two years later it was moved to its permanent location on Champion Way. ALC opened the Vancouver Campus at the Firstenburg Community Center. This same year ALC began a feasibility study on the expansion of the Happy Valley facility.

HAPPENING NOW 2015

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Vancouver moved into a permanent facility.

ALC funded the build and opened a second church in Ecuador and raised our child sponsorships to over 400 kids through Compassion International with a heart to care for vulnerable kids around the world.

ALC began a partnership with Embrace Oregon to care for foster kids and DHS case workers with a heart to care for vulnerable kids in our community.

ALC invested a Sunday with SERVE the City renovating local schools and ministries around all of our campuses.

Happy Valley Community is expanding at a rapid rate with over 1700 new homes scheduled to be built around the Happy Valley Campus as well as water and sewer services being placed at the church doorstep.

ALC helped our partner church in Italy move into a new building allowing them to reach more people for Jesus.

VISION OF ALL IN ALL IN is a defining moment in the history of our church. It’s an all-out, faith filled endeavor to reach more people for Jesus than ever before… locally, regionally and globally. Together we will grow deeper, love wider, and reach farther than ever before. ALL IN is our rally cry as a church to take new ground in the name of Jesus Christ.

ALL IN is a personal expression of commitment coupled with a group expectation. When somebody says, “I’m ALL IN,” they are making the choice to fully engage. That person is not withholding anything from the pursuit of the vision, the task or the relationship. And when a group says, “We’re ALL IN,” there’s an additional sense of unity that pulls individuals who are ALL IN into a team that can accomplish even more.

OUR PRIMARY GOAL FOR ALL IN IS 100% PARTICIPATION We believe that if each person at Abundant Life Church decides to grow deeper with God, amazing things will happen. Lifegroups will explode, ministries will grow, outreach across our community and world will increase, and giving will multiply exponentially. As a result, the lost will be found, the hurting will be comforted, the addicted will be set free and God’s love will shine throughout our communities. Through God’s strength we will ENGAGE, GROW, SERVE, and GO like never before!

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ONE FUND EXPLANATION You may have taken part in church campaigns in the past to which you were invited to give a second gift “over and above” your usual giving to the church. It was likely explained to you that this second gift would be used to make special projects, like new buildings or renovation, possible. In this case, there was a “General Fund” used to fund the ongoing ministry of the church and then a “Building Fund” or a “Campaign Fund” designated to fund the construction or other special project.

While, over the years, this approach has been sufficient for many churches, we also recognize the potential for confusion by such an approach. It required an explanation regarding which fund would pay for what. And, for those not already giving to the vision and the mission of the church, an “over and above” approach was not a good first step to begin their giving journey.

We think it’s time for a change! ALL IN will be our one unifying commitment to generosity as a church family. For the next two years, everything we do, our entire collective vision as a church, will be a part of ALL IN. Because we are one church, with one vision, funding that vision with one fund, everyone can participate.

Let’s face it, we are all a part of the Abundant Life Church family and we are part of ONE MISSION – a mission to ENGAGE, GROW, SERVE, and GO. This mission is at the heart of the DNA of Abundant Life Church and we want to be a part of the DNA of every person who calls ALC home. To make this mission possible, we are excited to introduce OneFund, a single fund that will unify the generosity of every person at ALC and make the ALL IN vision and mission a reality.

Over the coming weeks, you will be invited to make ONE COMMITMENT. We are trusting that God will reveal to each of you what that one number is; the number that will represent your total, radical, sacrificial generosity to the Kingdom over the next two years.

“But since you excel in everything – in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you – see that you also excel in the grace of giving.” 2 Corinthians 8:7 (NIV) “I will not sacrifice to the Lord my God burnt offerings that cost me nothing.” 2 Samuel 24:24 (NIV)

GIVING CHART

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FAITH COMMITMENT CARD WHAT I NORMALLY GIVE IN A YEAR.

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WHY GENEROSITY?

Generosity is really the “hidden gem” in the process of disciple making. Think about it; there is very little we do that does not require some type of financial decision. Do we go out to eat? Do we grab a Starbucks on the way to work? Do we buy the newest and more expensive athletic shoes or the ones from the clearance rack? Do we buy a new car or a used car? If we’re honest with ourselves, we would all likely agree that we’ve experienced the allure of money at some point in our lives.

For this reason, Jesus spoke often on the topic of our treasure (or money in today’s terms), our possessions, our attitude about our possessions, and in the end, who really owns everyone’s possessions. We only need to look to the story of the rich young ruler (Matt. 19:16-22) to realize that the stewardship of our resources is very important.

During the ALL IN initiative, we will talk a lot about generosity. It is important to understand that generosity impacts much more than just our money. Generosity is a by-product of our spiritual transformation. Jesus, who we know had little in the way of possessions, was the most generous person who ever lived. The stronger our relationship with Jesus grows, the more generous we become. Generosity is, without a doubt, a matter of the heart.

The Generosity Ladder is a tool designed to help us think more about our generosity journey. To move up this ladder is an intentional effort that starts with a transformation of the heart. Climbing this ladder is not about us, rather moving up the ladder is an exercise that brings us closer to God. Over the next few weeks, as you look at and think about this ladder, ask yourself, “Why is my generosity important to God?” Below is a tool, (based on a $50,000 annual income), to help you think through your commitment to ALL IN.

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Maximize: How to Develop Extravagant Givers in Your Church by Nelson Searcy, p. 204, Baker Books, Grand Rapids, MI (2010)

THE GENEROSITY LADDER

T AGAN V A R T EX

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I give over and above my tithe to ALC. I faithfully give the ďŹ rst 10% of my income to ALC. I give faithfully and consistently to ALC, but less than 10% of my income.

I give to ALC but not consistently.

I have not given to ALC before.

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USING THIS WORKBOOK

Tools to Help You Have a Great Lifegroup Experience!

in the Table of Contents there are four sections: (1) The introductory materials; (2) Sessions; (3) 1 Notice Appendices; and (4) Tips for Lifegroup HOST. Familiarize yourself with these sections. Some of the Appendices will be used in the sessions themselves.

is much more than a Lifegroup workbook. It has been designed as a constant companion for the 2 This ALL IN Initiative. Bring it with you to Sunday services and refer to it throughout the week. What we do in

Lifegroup, the messages we hear (find the pages for sermon notes), and every aspect of our life together will be guided by this study guide during these weeks.

you are HOSTing or co-HOSTing a Lifegroup, the section “Tips for HOSTS” will give you some 3 Ifexperiences of others that will encourage you and help you avoid many common obstacles to effective Lifegroup leadership.

this study guide as an advisor. If the group responds to the lesson in an unexpected but honest way, 4 Use go with that. If you think of a better question than the next one in the lesson, ask it. Take to heart the insights included in the Frequently Asked Questions.

5 Enjoy your Lifegroup experience. Have fun.

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Pray before each session—for your group members, for your time together, and for wisdom and insights.

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Read the Outline for Each Session on the next pages so that you understand how the sessions will flow.

OUTLINE OF EACH SESSION A typical group session for the ALL IN study will include the following sections: INTRODUCTION. Each lesson opens with a brief thought that will help you prepare for the session and get you thinking about the particular subject you will explore with your group. Make it a practice to read these before each session.

COME TOGETHER. The foundation for spiritual growth is an intimate connection with God and God’s family. You build that connection by sharing your experience with a few people who really know you and who earn your trust. This is helpful preparation for being able to share what Christ has done in your life with anyone you meet—which is what a disciple is ready to do. This section includes some simple questions to get you talking—letting you share as much or as little of your story as you feel comfortable doing. Each session typically offers you 2 options. You can get to know your whole group by using the icebreaker question(s), or you can check in with 1 or 2 group members for a deeper connection and encouragement in your spiritual journey.

WATCH THE VIDEO. When the study directs you to, you’ll start the video and watch a short teaching segment. You can watch the videos online at rightnowmedia.org or with the ALL IN DVD available at each Abundant Life Church campus.

Each session’s teaching will include biblical insights from Pastor George, interactions with others about aspects of the ALL IN life, and powerful worship music to lead us into God’s presence. Space is provided in this study guide to take notes that you can use in the discussion to follow.

LEARN TOGETHER. In this section, you’ll have an opportunity to read a passage of Scripture and discuss both the teaching and the text. You won’t focus on accumulating information but on how you should live in light of the Word of God. We want to help you apply the insights from Scripture practically and creatively, from your heart as well as your head. At the end of the day, allowing the timeless truths from God’s Word to transform our lives in Christ should be your greatest aim.

STUDY NOTES. This brief section provides additional commentary, background, or insights on the passage you’ll study in the Learn Together section.

GROW TOGETHER. God wants you to be a part of His Kingdom—to weave your story into His. That will mean change.

It will require you to go His way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By making small, simple choices, we can begin to change our direction. This is where the Bible’s instructions to “be doers of the Word, not just hearers” (James 1:22) comes into play. Many people skip over this aspect of the Christian life because it’s scary, relationally awkward, or simply too much work for their busy schedules. But Jesus wanted all of His disciples to know Him personally, carry out His commands, and help outsiders connect with Him. This doesn’t necessarily mean preaching on street corners. It could mean welcoming newcomers, hosting a Lifegroup in your home, or walking through this study with a friend. In this study, you’ll have an opportunity to go beyond Bible study to biblical living.

SERMON NOTES. Use this space to capture the key insights you want to remember from the weekend teaching during this ALL IN series.

DIGGING DEEPER. If you have time and want to dig deeper into more Bible passages about the topic at hand, we’ve provided additional passages and questions. These can be found in the Appendices under the Session number and title.

Your group may choose to read and prepare ahead of each meeting in order to cover more biblical material. If you prefer not to do study homework, this section will provide you with plenty to discuss within the group. These options allow individuals or the whole group to expand their study while still accommodating those who can’t do homework or are new to your group.

DAILY DEVOTIONS. Each week on the Daily Devotions pages we provide scriptures to read and reflect on between sessions—a month’s worth of reflections to keep God’s word near your heart. This provides you with a chance to slow down, read just a small portion of scripture each day, and reflect and pray through it. You’ll then have a chance to journal your response to what you’ve read. Use this section to seek God on your own throughout the week. This time at home should begin and end with prayer. Don’t get in a hurry; take enough time to hear God’s direction.

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ALL IN is about

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1 By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.

Hebrews 11:8 NIV

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INTRODUCTION You are someone’s legacy.

You are someone’s legacy. In fact, many people have stepped out in ways they didn’t have to that have resulted in. . . you. Start with your parents and grandparents and think for a moment about all the people who have spoken and acted into your life. No, it hasn’t always been in positive ways, but even negative stuff can end up affecting you in good ways. Life’s hurts can help us become healers, and hardships can push us toward hope and character. The best way to be grateful for the legacy we’ve received is to practice the legacy we want to leave those who come after us. The question we want to answer is, “Knowing what I have received, how will I provide the same for others?”

During the next six weeks we’re going to be thinking about Abraham. Though he lived over four thousand years ago, his legacy is still touching people around the world. He was a man of faith and of failures. In other words, he was someone we can identify with. Abraham had to make a decision about what kind of legacy he was going to leave behind: a stay put, “same old; same old” legacy of never following where God led or a “step out in faith,” obedient kind of legacy that God could bless in many ways. Abraham decided to go for it, even though he didn’t know where he would end up.

But our journey will be more than six weeks— we’re embarking on a two-year adventure called ALL In. We are trusting God to do a great work in bringing us together in ways we have never experienced before.

We are going to discover the ways the Lord wants to use each of us and all of us together to accomplish great things for Him.

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COME TOGETHER Each of us has a story. The events of our life—good, bad, wonderful, or challenging—have shaped who we are. God knows your story, and He intends to redeem it—to use every struggle and every joy to ultimately bring you to Himself. When we share our stories with others, we give them the opportunity to see God at work.

When we share our stories, we also realize we are not alone—that we have common experiences and thoughts, and that others can understand what we are going through. Your story can encourage someone else, and telling it can lead to a path of freedom for you and for those you share it with.

Before you start this first meeting, get contact information for every participant. Take time to pass around a sheet of paper. Ask everyone to introduce themselves, then write down their contact information. Ask someone to make copies or type up a list with everyone’s information and email it to the group this week.

Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to give you insight as you study. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

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Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

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What drew you here to this group? How are you anticipating God will grow you through this ALL IN study?

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If your group is new, welcome newcomers.

Introduce everyone—you may even want to have name tags for your first meeting.

Whether your group is new or ongoing, it’s always important to reflect on and review your values together. On page 102 is a Lifegroup Agreement with the values we’ve found most useful in sustaining healthy, balanced groups. We recommend that you choose one or two values—ones you haven’t previously focused on or have room to grow in—to emphasize during this study.

We’ve discovered that healthy groups rotate the responsibilities of the group. This helps to develop every member’s ability to shepherd a few people in a safe environment.

Even Jesus gave others the opportunity to serve alongside Him (Mark 6:30-44). Look at the FAQs in the Appendix for additional information about HOSTing or leading the group.

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Use the Lifegroup Calendar on page 103 for planning who will HOST and lead each meeting. Take a few minutes to plan HOSTs and leaders for your remaining meetings.

Don’t skip this important step! It will revolutionize your group.

WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online on Right Now Media at rightnowmedia.org under the Abundant Life Church channel or on the ALL IN DVD. Included are not only Pastor George’s teachings, but also some training videos from some of the ALC Lifegroup team. Use the space provided to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the scripture passage and questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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LEARN TOGETHER Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced as well as the Bible passage.

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READ: GENESIS 12:1-8 The Lord had said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you.

2 “I will make you into a great nation, and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing.

3 I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.”

4 So Abram went, as the Lord had told him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he set out from Harran. 5 He took his wife Sarai, his nephew Lot, all the possessions they had accumulated and the people they had acquired in Harran, and they set out for the land of Canaan, and they arrived there.

6 Abram traveled through the land as far as the site of the great tree of Moreh at Shechem. At that time the Canaanites were in the land. 7 The Lord appeared to Abram and said, “To your offspring I will give this land.”

So he built an altar there to the Lord, who had appeared to him.

8 From there he went on toward the hills east of Bethel and pitched his tent, with Bethel on the west and Ai on the east. There he built an altar to the Lord and called on the name of the Lord.

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- Think for a moment about being a member of Abram’s household. He announces at breakfast one morning, “Last night the Lord spoke to me. Today we’re packing up and hitting the road.” What would be some of your questions?

- Based on the passage from Genesis for this session, what kind of legacy was Abram creating by his actions in Genesis 12:1-8?

- In the video several people shared about the legacy impact others had on their lives. What examples come to your mind about ways people have built a legacy into you?

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STUDY NOTES The Lord had said to Abram (v.1). Before God changed his name to Abraham (father of many) the patriarch of Israel was Abram (exalted father). When we see the title “Lord” (Large cap/ small caps), it indicates God’s name Yahweh, which won’t be explained until Exodus 3. But since Moses was writing these chapters, he used the title for God that was most familiar to him.

I will bless (vs. 2, 3). We bless when we speak or deliver good into someone’s life. God not only promised to do good for Abram, He also promised to make Abram’s life into something good for others.

All peoples on earth will be blessed through you (v.3). The idea of legacy has a lot to do with understanding that the blessings of God aren’t supposed to stop with us. Blessings flow through us to others. We can’t even imagine how much God might bless others through us.

So he built an altar there to the Lord (v.7).

Abram was aware of God’s company and leading. But it was more than knowing He was there; he responded in worship. He acknowledged the Lord and expressed his confidence in Him.

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GROW TOGETHER God wants you to be part of His kingdom—to weave your story into His. That will mean change—to go His way rather than your own.

This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By starting with small, simple choices, we begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way—giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God.

In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

- Reflect on the action words Pastor George shared: Engage, Grow, Serve, and Go. Which one especially resonates with you? Which one do you find the most challenging?

- In what ways do you feel that God is calling you so He can leave a legacy through you, as He did with Abram? What has been your response so far?

- How does the challenge to leave a legacy change your perspective on how you’re living right now?

Tell the group how you plan to follow Jesus this week, and then, at your next meeting, talk about your progress and challenges.

- Stack your hands just as a sports team does in the huddle and commit to taking a risk and going deeper in your group and in your relationships with each other.

- Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 105.

- Close your meeting with prayer.

- When it comes to stewardship and generosity, would you say that God wants something FOR you or FROM you?

What’s the difference between those two perspectives?

- If stewardship is a new term in your Christian experience, it has long been used to refer to God’s entrusting us with the management of the resources He gives us: time, talents, and treasure. These things may seem to be ours, but they ultimately belong to Him. Even what we earn, we have earned using time, strength, and skill God has provided to us.

- This week how will you interact with the Bible? Can you commit to spending time in daily prayer or study of God’s Word (use the Daily Devotions section to guide you)?

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into his word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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SERMON NOTES

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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DAY 1

DAY 4

By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.

This mystery is that through the gospel the Gentiles are heirs together with Israel, members together of one body, and sharers together in the promise in Christ Jesus.

Reflect:

Reflect:

Read Hebrews 11:8

It’s easy to think, if God told me to go, I’d go—but have you? Under what circumstances have you responded to God the way Abram did?

DAY 2

Read Matthew 28:19-20 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

Reflect:

In what ways are you personally ALL IN to Abundant Life’s mission? Where might God be calling you to Go?

DAY 3

Read Proverbs 3:35 The wise inherit honor, but fools get only shame.

Read Ephesians 3:6

What you have in Christ you have not in any way earned. As you begin to engage with the ALL IN study, in what areas of life are you wanting to be more active in sharing the inheritance you have in Christ?

DAY 5

Read Philippians 4:19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

Reflect:

How can we know the truth of this promise unless we are willing to stop gripping on to the things of this life as if they were our true security? What do you need to release into God’s hands as you seek to be ALL IN to what He wants to do in you?

DAY 6.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session.

Reflect:

Note that legacy parallels inheritance. What faith legacy are you creating at this point in your life? What would you change?

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ALL IN is about

TRUST

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not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

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Philippians 2:4 NIV

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INTRODUCTION When the Bible talks about faith it means more than believing something other people don’t think is true. Biblical faith isn’t just on the inside; it affects everything. In fact, the faith commended in God’s Word is about trust and letting go; it’s about being ALL IN. Trusting God is easy when it doesn’t really matter, when there’s nothing at stake. But what about when trusting God comes with a price tag? What about when having everything that God longs to give us requires that we let go of

things we also want to hang on to? In one of Jesus’ shortest parables He said, “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field.

When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.” (Matthew 13:44). There’s a lot in this little story, but the main point is that in order to get the priceless treasure of the kingdom of heaven for free, the man has to sell everything just to buy the farm. He has to go ALL IN and then he gets the treasure.

As we continue our journey with Abram, we’re going to see that he’s holding even the Promised Land loosely.

He doesn’t own it yet but he’s not trying to hoard it in the meantime. He’s ALL IN for God’s plan, God’s timing, and God’s way of doing things. He’s trusting God even when the next step isn’t clear.

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COME TOGETHER As we said last week, when we share our stories with others, we give them the opportunity to see God at work. Your story is being shaped, even in this moment, by being part of this group. In fact, few things can shape us more than community.

When we share our stories, we can encourage someone else, and learn. We experience the presence of God as He helps us be brave enough to reveal our thoughts and feelings.

Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking:

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When you think of the expression “ALL IN,” what are some of the inspiring or funny pictures that come to your mind?

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Describe a time when someone trusted you and it made a big difference in your life.

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Trust is one of the core values of healthy Lifegroups. It’s normal to see our sense of trust in the rest of the group grow from week to week as we get to know each other better and better. Last week you may have looked at the Lifegroup Agreement on page 102 but if there are several new people this week it would be worth reviewing those basic agreements.

• Take care of any housekeeping matters at this point, making sure the locations for upcoming meetings are clear and talking about any other specific assignments.

• Give newcomers an opportunity to ask any questions they might have for the group.

WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online on Right Now Media at rightnowmedia.org under the Abundant Life Church channel or on the ALL IN DVD. Included are not only Pastor George’s teachings, but also some training videos from some of the ALC Lifegroup team. Use the space provided to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the scripture passage and questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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LEARN TOGETHER Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced and the Bible passage on the next page.

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READ: GENESIS 13:1-9 So Abram went up from Egypt to the Negev, with his wife and everything he had, and Lot went with him. 2 Abram had become very wealthy in livestock and in silver and gold.

3 From the Negev he went from place to place until he came to Bethel, to the place between Bethel and Ai where his tent had been earlier 4 and where he had first built an altar.

There Abram called on the name of the Lord.

5 Now Lot, who was moving about with Abram, also had flocks and herds and tents. 6 But the land could not support them while they stayed together, for their possessions were so great that they were not able to stay together. 7 And quarreling arose between Abram’s herders and Lot’s. The Canaanites and Perizzites were also living in the land at that time.

8 So Abram said to Lot, “Let’s not have any quarreling between you and me, or between your herders and mine, for we are close relatives. 9 Is not the whole land before you?

Let’s part company. If you go to the left, I’ll go to the right; if you go to the right, I’ll go to the left.”

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- Is God reliable? Is He trustworthy? As you think about what you’ve heard from the video and God’s word just now, what examples of God’s trustworthiness jump out at you?

- Based on verses 8-9, why did Abram give Lot the first choice of lands on which to settle? In what ways was this trusting God? - Clearly, Lot didn’t care what God thought about his choice of location; he was interested in what appeared to be the better choice. Read ahead one more verse – how does Genesis 13:10 indicate he was about to make a bad choice?

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STUDY NOTES Where his tent had been at the beginning (v.3).

Returning from his time in Egypt, Abram set up camp near Bethel. God had told him this was the heart of all the land that would eventually be his.

Their possessions were so great that they could not dwell together (v.6). Both Abram and Lot had prospered on their travels and their livestock herds were so numerous that they couldn’t graze on the same lands, which caused strife between the herdsmen.

Let there be no strife between you and me (v.8). Abram valued his family ties. He and Sarai had no children of their own yet and he was determined to keep peace in his extended household. If this meant creating some distance for practical reasons, he was willing.

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GROW TOGETHER In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

- What does trusting God look like in your life right now? In what areas of life do you need to have an open hand with God? - What kinds of baggage from your past or barriers in the present might be hindering your ability and willingness to trust God and the body of Christ?

- How is control the opposite of trust?

- Here are some simple ways to connect with God. Tell the group which ones you plan to try this week, and talk about your progress and challenges when you meet next time.

- Prayer. Commit to personal prayer and daily connection with God. You may find it helpful to write your prayers in a journal.

- Daily Devotions. The Daily Devotions provided in each session offer an opportunity to read a short Bible passage five days a week during the course of our study. In our hurry-up world, we often move

too quickly through everything—even reading God’s Word! Slow down. Don’t just skim, but take time to read carefully and reflect on the passage.

Write down your insights on what you read each day. Copy a portion of scripture on a card and tape it somewhere in your line of sight, such as your car’s dashboard or the bathroom mirror. Or text it to yourself! Think about it when you sit at red lights or while you’re eating a meal. Reflect on what God is saying to you through these words. On the sixth day summarize what God has shown you throughout the week.

- Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 105.

- Close your meeting with prayer.

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into his word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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DAY 1

DAY 4

Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Reflect:

In what ways is your heart involved in your responses to the ALL IN Initiative?

Read Philippians 2:4 (NKJV)

How does trusting God translate into less concern about self and more interest in helping others and the body of Christ?

DAY 2

Read Matthew 6:33

Read Matthew 6:21

Reflect:

DAY 5

Read Hebrews 11:6

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

Reflect:

Reflect:

This is the alternative to worry Jesus offers in the extended passage of Matthew 6:25-34. In what ways is worry a clue that we’re not trusting God?

DAY 3

Read Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

If faith and trust are closely related in our relationship with God, what evidence is apparent in your life that you believe “that He is” and you believe “that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him”?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

Reflect:

How do these verses describe the way you’re approaching your participation in the ALL IN Initiative?

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3 These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.

Mark 7:6 NIV

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INTRODUCTION Honor is not a word or an action that shows up regularly in life today. The concept may be mentioned in military settings or in discussions about what it means to honor one’s parents, but honor is seldom part of our daily routine.

When we begin our morning, we probably don’t think, Today I want to live an honorable life.

The absence of honor has a lot to do with the shallowness of our relationship with God and with other people.

So, what is honor? The word summarizes appropriate respect and actions toward someone’s character, role, or position. The more someone’s character, role, and position harmonize, the easier it should be to honor them. This is true of no one more than it is true of God. And yet, as we will see in this session, we often struggle with honoring God in consistent ways.

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One of the passages we looked at last week included the phrase “In all your ways acknowledge Him” (Proverbs 3:6). Honoring God is not only acknowledging Him, but acknowledging Him in all our ways. Jesus was quoting Isaiah who was taking a direct quote from God when He said, “These people honor Me with their lips but their heart is far from Me.” We want to be a people who do a lot more than give lip service to the idea of honoring God.

COME TOGETHER Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

Sharing personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

- In your life, who have you run across that you would say was easy to honor? What was it about that person that caused that response in you?

- How has this series caused you to reevaluate how you use your resources?

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WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online on Right Now Media at rightnowmedia.org under the Abundant Life Church channel or on the ALL IN DVD. Included are not only Pastor George’s teachings, but also some training videos from some of the ALC Lifegroup team. Use the space provided to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the scripture passage and questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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LEARN TOGETHER Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage on the next page.

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READ: GENESIS 14:14-24 When Abram heard that his relative had been taken captive, he called out the 318 trained men born in his household and went in pursuit as far as Dan.15 During the night Abram divided his men to attack them and he routed them, pursuing them as far as Hobah, north of Damascus. 16 He recovered all the goods and brought back his relative Lot and his possessions, together with the women and the other people.

17 After Abram returned from defeating Kedorlaomer and the kings allied with him, the king of Sodom came out to meet him in the Valley of Shaveh (that is, the King’s Valley).

18 Then Melchizedek king of Salem brought out bread and wine. He was priest of God Most High,19 and he blessed Abram, saying, “Blessed be Abram by God Most High, Creator of heaven and earth.

20 And praise be to God Most High, who delivered your enemies into your hand.”

Then Abram gave him a tenth of everything.

21 The king of Sodom said to Abram, “Give me the people and keep the goods for yourself.”

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God Most High, Creator of heaven and earth, 23 that I will accept nothing belonging to you, not even a thread or the strap of a sandal, so that you will never be able to say, ‘I made Abram rich.’ 24 I will accept nothing but what my men have eaten and the share that belongs to the men who went with me—to Aner, Eshkol and Mamre. Let them have their share.”

- Why did Melchizedek bless Abram?

- How was giving a tithe to Melchizedek actually honoring God? What’s the parallel for us today?

- What are some ways Abram honored God throughout this passage?

- What are some ways he also shows honor to others?

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STUDY NOTES Now when Abram heard that his brother was taken captive (v.14). Abram honored his relationship with Lot by “having his back” when he could have stayed at a distance. He was ALL IN when he went after Lot’s captors. God calls us to live out our relationships with honor.

So he brought back all the goods (v.16). Abram routed the raiders and recaptured everything and everyone that had been taken. Every aspect of this episode has God’s fingerprints all over it.

Melchizedek king of Salem (v.19). This figure appears without any introduction or background. He is mentioned again in Psalm 110 and in Hebrews 7:1-22 in discussing the unique role of Jesus who is both our king and priest, much as Melchizedek served both those roles. It is clear that Abram and Melchizedek recognized in one another an allegiance to the God above all gods.

And he (Abram) gave him (Melchizedek) a tithe of all (v.20). When God blessed Abram with a victory, his first thought was “how can I honor God in return for this great blessing?” (vs.

17-24).

I have raised my hand to the Lord, God Most High, the Possessor or heaven and earth (v.22). Abram understood that accepting bounty from the king of Salem would make him indebted to him and he insisted on giving credit for his abundance to God Himself and no other.

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GROW TOGETHER God wants you to be part of his kingdom— to weave your story into his. That will mean change. It will require you to go his way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By making small, simple choices, we can begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way, by giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God. In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned in this session.

- What is a way that you are honoring God currently with your resources? Share with the group as a means for inspiring others.

- What steps will you take this week to grow in your relationship with God? If you’ve focused on prayer in past weeks, maybe you’ll want to direct your attention to scripture this week. If you’ve been reading God’s Word consistently, perhaps you’ll want to take it deeper and try memorizing a verse. Tell the group which one you plan to try this week, and talk about your progress and challenges when you meet next time.

- Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 105.

- Close your meeting with prayer.

- During the ALL IN Initiative, what changes have you made or considered making about the way you honor God with your time, your resources, or your relationships?

- What are the three things we communicate when we give our best to God? - How does having an ALL IN attitude and an ALL IN heart like Abram’s bring honor to God?

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into his word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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DAY 1

DAY 4

Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.

But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.”

Reflect:

Reflect:

Read Proverbs 3:9-10

How ALL IN are you to this challenge of honoring God with everything?

DAY 2

Read Revelation 4:11 You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being.

Reflect:

How does this verse make the case that everything we are and everything we have should be available to God?

DAY 3

Read Matthew 8:8-9 The centurion replied, “Lord, I do not deserve to have you come under my roof. But just say the word, and my servant will be healed. For I myself am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. I tell this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and that one, ‘Come,’ and he comes. I say to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.”

Reflect:

Read Luke 19:8

What happened in Zacchaeus that would cause him to honor God with 100%?

DAY 5

Read 1 Samuel 2:29-30 Why do you scorn my sacrifice and offering that I prescribed for my dwelling? Why do you honor your sons more than me by fattening yourselves on the choice parts of every offering made by my people Israel?’

“Therefore the Lord, the God of Israel, declares: ‘I promised that members of your family would minister before me forever.’ But now the Lord declares: ‘Far be it from me! Those who honor me I will honor, but those who despise me will be disdained.

Reflect:

God let Eli know that he was honoring his sons more than he was honoring the Lord. What promise did God also give that we can count on?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

How did this centurion combine faith with honor to acknowledge Jesus’ power?

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ALL IN requires

COMMITMENT

and Avoids Shortcuts

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4 To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne.

Revelation 3:21 NIV

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INTRODUCTION The first three sessions in this ALL IN study have focused on the components of a great decision: legacy, trust, and honor. In our case, God is at the center of each of these aspects of the two-year commitment we’re making. We know that God is at work to build a great legacy and inviting us to join him; we trust him as an expression of the relationship he wants to have with us; and we honor him because we realize that as much as he has done for us up until now, there is more and even better ahead.

Now we want to make sure we’re not being distracted or diverted from God’s best. In this session we want to think about the waiting part of commitments and the dangers offered by the shortcuts that will present themselves.

When Jesus took the aging apostle John aside and told him to write the seven memos to churches that make up the first three chapters of Revelation, one of his repeated promises to believers in any of the churches was directed to those who stayed the course, who made

the commitment and then did not falter or wander from the way before them. He called them “overcomers.” In our case, trusting and waiting on God presents an obstacle. We want the trusting to be easy and the waiting to be short. Instant and simple is the way we like it; but it is seldom God’s way. While He wants us to overcome head-on, we are looking all around for a shortcut or a detour.

The way forward looks hard—and it is. Real commitment isn’t easy. It can make us nervous.

But when we’ve run the course called ALL IN for the next two years, the great things that will happen will not be because we found a shortcut around the challenge but because we discovered God made a way where there seemed to be no way. To Him will be the glory… as it always is.

To Him will be the glory… as it always is.

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COME TOGETHER Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

As we have said in previous lessons, sharing our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Your story may be exactly what another person needs to hear, and your listening to others’ stories is an act of love and kindness to them—and could very well help them to grow spiritually. Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

- What does commitment mean to you? To what are you committed?

- Who is the most “committed” person you know? To what are they committed?

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WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online at rightnowmedia.org or on the ALL IN DVD. This fourth session video will cover another significant aspect of ALL IN. The video discussion cuts to the heart of how we approach commitments and how we often get off track. After watching the video, have someone read the Scripture passage and questions in the Read section and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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READ GENESIS 15:1-6; GENESIS 16:1-3 After this, the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision: “Do not be afraid, Abram.

I am your shield, your very great reward.”

2 But Abram said, “Sovereign Lord, what can you give me since I remain childless and the one who will inherit my estate is Eliezer of Damascus?” 3 And Abram said, “You have given me no children; so a servant in my household will be my heir.”

4 Then the word of the Lord came to him: “This man will not be your heir, but a son who is your own flesh and blood will be your heir.” 5 He took him outside and said, “Look up at the sky and count the stars—if indeed you can count them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be.”

6 Abram believed the Lord, and he credited it to him as righteousness.

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kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps I can build a family through her.”

Abram agreed to what Sarai said. 3 So after Abram had been living in Canaan ten years, Sarai his wife took her Egyptian slave Hagar and gave her to her husband to be his wife.

- What shortcuts did Abram and Sarai each come up with? Why? - In Abram’s case, the shortcut was discussed between him and God; in Sarai’s case, the plan was hatched between Abram and her. How did this make a difference in the outcome?

- What does it mean that Abraham’s faith was “credited to him as righteousness”?

- How does Sarah blame God to justify her shortcut? (verse 16:2) - Why is it important to honor God?

Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian slave named Hagar; 2 so she said to Abram, “The Lord has

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STUDY NOTES Both these chapters in Genesis (15 & 16) include fascinating details about God’s dealings with Abram and Sarai.

I am your shield, your very great reward (15:1).

God doesn’t need our money; he wants our hearts. Whatever blessings he pours into our lives, nothing compares with the gift of his presence and his love for us. Abram was a little stuck on measuring things from this world’s limitations.

You have given me no children (15:3). Any time we leave out the word “yet” in a statement we make to God we are revealing a lack of trust or an attitude of impatience. God not only renewed his covenant with Abram, he gave him a glimpse of the future captivity of his heirs in Egypt as well as the way they will be built into a nation to inherit the Promised Land (15:9-14).

Abram believed the Lord, and he credited it to him as righteousness (15:6). The New Testament (Rom. 4:3, 9, 22; Gal. 3:6) points to this passage as evidence of God’s saving people by faith, not by works.

The Lord has kept me from having children (16:2). Basically, Sarai was saying, “God put a road block in front of me, but I think I see a shortcut around it.” God may allow us to pursue our detours, but the consequences and costs are high.

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Both these chapters in Genesis (15 & 16) include fascinating details about God’s dealings with Abram and Sarai.

GROW TOGETHER God wants you to be part of his kingdom— to weave your story into his. That will mean change. It will require you to go his way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By making small, simple choices, we can begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way—giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God.

- Real commitment: if it was easy, everybody would be doing it. In this fourth session of ALL IN, everyone should be feeling the weight of the challenge. And no one can carry that weight alone. That’s why ALL IN is not just an individual or couples’ challenge, but one before the entire church. We’re ALL IN this together. And since God is with us, we need to faithfully acknowledge him when we think and talk about the commitments he wants us to make.

In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned in this lesson.

- Each of you in the group has different gifts and abilities. And every small group has tasks and roles that need to be done. How could you serve this group—perhaps with hospitality or prayer, by organizing an event, research or study of a topic, by worshipping or inviting new people?

- Have you ever been tired of waiting on God? Have you taken any shortcuts?

- When it comes to thinking about our finances, some people struggle with spending too much, and other people struggle with saving too much. Both are indicators of our desire to want to live the American dream and control our situations rather than to turn them over to God. Do you resonate with this? Where do you struggle?

- We’re a little like Abram in Genesis 15, nervous about what is going to happen with our stuff. Could you truly say that you are giving in a way that is changing you? Or has it become comfortable, routine, or stale?

- Why is it so important to “stay the course” after we make an ALL IN commitment?

- If you were to truly ask yourself the question, “What am I not giving and why?” how would you answer that as it relates to honoring God with ALL that you have and ALL that you are?

- Spend some time praying about those you know who might respond to a simple invitation: to come to a church service, to join your small group, or even to just have coffee and talk about spiritual matters. Ask the Holy Spirit to bring to mind people you can pray for.

- Groups grow closer when they serve together. How could your group serve someone in need? You may want to visit a shut-in from your church, provide a meal for a family who is going through difficulty, or give some other practical help to someone in need. If nothing comes to mind, spend some group time praying and asking God to show you who needs your help. Have two or three group members organize a serving project for the group, and then do it!

- What makes you nervous as you think about making an ALL IN commitment? Where does this nervousness come from? How might this actually be a good thing?

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into His Word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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DAY 1

DAY 4

Jesus replied, “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.”

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.

Read Luke 9:62

Reflect:

How will you keep from getting distracted or looking back during the next two years?

DAY 2

Read Romans 12:1

Reflect:

As someone said, “The only problem with a living sacrifice is that it keeps crawling off the altar.” This verse is Paul’s invitation to “all in” commitment. What is keeping you from being a living sacrifice?

Read Revelation 3:21 To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne.

DAY 5

Reflect:

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

DAY 3

Reflect:

As the One who overcame, what help does Jesus offer to us as we seek to be overcomers?

Read John 16:33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

Reflect:

If yesterday’s verse was overwhelming, how does this one settle things a bit?

Read Romans 12:2.

How might the next two years be the most transformative work of God in your life since you became a follower of Jesus? How does that possibility influence your willingness to be ALL in?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

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ALL IN is about TRANSFORMATION and a New Name

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Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.

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INTRODUCTION It’s ALL IN time. This will be our last session together before we make our ALL IN commitment when we gather this Sunday. We will meet next week to celebrate and continue to grow, but what happens between now and then will mark a significant change in many people’s lives. We trust this Lifegroup will be able to look back on these days as a time when God worked in unexpected ways to bring about far more than we asked or thought.

For many of us, the ALL IN Initiative has been a defining moment in which God worked on the

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process of transformation in our lives. As we will see in this session, God never stops working on us. Even someone who was ALL IN, like the apostle Paul was, could write, “I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him until that day.” (2 Timothy 1:12 NIV).

We trust this has been and will continue to be a time of remarkable spiritual growth for the entire Abundant Life family. We’re ALL IN this together, and God is going to do a great thing.

COME TOGETHER Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

Telling our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

Sharing our stories requires us to be honest. We can help one another be honest and open by creating a safe place; be sure that your group is one where confidentiality is respected, where there is no such thing as “stupid questions,” where you listen without criticizing one another.

- Do you have any nicknames? What do they signify?

- Since we’re going to talk a lot about transformation in this session, let’s talk about what we mean when we use the word “transformed.” What are the differences between an appearance or surface transformation (getting made up to play a part) and core transformation (what happens to a caterpillar on the way to becoming a butterfly)? Why would one be more desirable (or more difficult) than the other?

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WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online on Right Now Media at rightnowmedia.org under the Abundant Life Church channel or on the ALL IN DVD. Included are not only Pastor George’s teachings, but also some training videos from some of the ALC Lifegroup team. Use the space provided to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the scripture passage and questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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READ: GENESIS 17:1-8 1 When Abram was ninety-nine years old, the Lord appeared to him and said, “I am God Almighty; walk before me faithfully and be blameless. 2 Then I will make my covenant between me and you and will greatly increase your numbers.”

3 Abram fell facedown, and God said to him, 4 “As for me, this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of many nations.5 No longer will you be called Abram; your name will be Abraham, for I have made you a father of many nations. 6 I will make you very fruitful; I will make nations of you, and kings will come from you. 7 I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you. 8 The whole land of Canaan, where you now reside as a foreigner, I will give as an everlasting possession to you and your descendants after you; and I will be their God.”

- Why did God change Abram’s name?

Does acceptance of a name like “Christian” or “Christ-follower” make a difference in a person’s life?

- Using Abraham as an example, how would you describe God’s transformation plan?

- What was the most memorable thing Pastor George or one of the participants in the circle said about change in the video?

- What areas of life does God want to transform in each of us?

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STUDY NOTES I am Almighty God; walk before Me and be blameless (v.1). Cause, action, result—God was pointing Abram to a transformed way of living.

The order is significant. We often try to reverse it: once I’m blameless, maybe I can walk before Almighty God. Our approach is impossible; God’s approach is possible because He makes it so.

No longer shall your name be called Abram (v.5). In Abram’s case, God takes some beginning-of-life stuff (like getting a name and the act of circumcision) and makes it muchlater-in-life stuff. God changed his name from Abram (exalted father) to Abraham (father of a multitude) and established a practice for each generation of sons of the covenant before the first of those sons was born.

As you read this passage about Abraham, notice how God’s move in his life affected everything—name, property, offspring, and possessions. God was declaring His right to all of it.

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GROW TOGETHER God wants you to be part of his kingdom— to weave your story into his. That will mean change. It will require you to go his way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By making small, simple choices, we can begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way—giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God. In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned in this lesson.

- Share a significant past experience where God shaped you more into the image of Jesus.

- What is the new identity we take on when we follow Jesus? How should that identity shape our lives?

- What name would you like God to give you?

What do you want your life to look like so that he would give you that name?

invitation: to come to a church service, to join your small group, or even just to have coffee and talk about spiritual matters. Ask the Holy Spirit to bring to mind people you can pray for.

- A strong group is made up of people who are all being filled up by God, so that they are empowered to love one another. What specific steps will you take this week to connect with God privately, so he can “fill you up?” If you’ve focused on prayer in past weeks, maybe you’ll want to direct your attention to scripture this week. If you’ve been reading God’s Word consistently, perhaps you’ll want to take it deeper and try memorizing a verse. Tell the group which one you plan to try this week. Then, at your next meeting, talk about your progress and challenges.

- Ask “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 105.

- Close your meeting with prayer.

- What is the next step in your transformation process? What is God asking you to do to make you more like Christ?

- Spend some time praying about those you know who might respond to a simple

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into His Word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet this is no cause for shame, because I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him until that day.

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.

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Reflect:

How is God going to be involved in the making and the keeping of your commitment next Sunday?

DAY 2

Read 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

Reflect:

How does this verse describe the work of transformation Christ is currently carrying out in your life?

DAY 3

Read John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Respond:

As you prepare for next Sunday, are there any ways you are letting your heart be troubled or afraid? How might making the commitment before you take you into the peace Christ has for you?

Read Philippians 2:12-13

Reflect:

As the ALL IN study has unfolded, how have you experienced this verse to be true in your own life?

DAY 5

Read Romans 8:31-32 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?

Reflect:

How do these verses confirm your confidence as you prepare for the ALL IN commitment moment this Sunday?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

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ALL IN is about

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But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.Â

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INTRODUCTION Last Sunday, many of us came out of the stands, suited up and got into the game. It’s not too late to be a part of the team. God has great things ahead for all of us.

At times in our lives we want to have it both ways; ours and God’s. It is not surprising that when we try to live this way the results are a mess. As we will discover with this last look at Abraham, sometimes we need to be reminded that God’s way is ultimately the best, even when it looks like it will cost us everything. The life of surrender is choosing God before anyone or anything else.

The life of surrender is choosing God before anyone or anything else.

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COME TOGETHER Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

As we have said in previous lessons, sharing our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Your story may be exactly what another person needs to hear to encourage or strengthen them. And your listening to others’ stories is an act of love and kindness to them—and could very well help them to grow spiritually. Begin your time together by using the following questions and activities to get people talking.

- Whether you have already committed this past weekend or whether you will commit this next weekend, would you share your story about what God has done in your life over these last several weeks to cause you to fully surrender to him?

- Describe in three words or less what you are feeling about the next two years. How can others in this group support you and pray for you during this journey?

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WATCH THE VIDEO

You can watch the video online on Right Now Media at rightnowmedia.org under the Abundant Life Church channel or on the ALL IN DVD. Included are not only Pastor George’s teachings, but also some training videos from some of the ALC Lifegroup team. Use the space provided to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the scripture passage and questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

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LEARN TOGETHER Use the following questions to guide your discussion of the teaching and stories you just experienced, and the Bible passage on the next page.

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READ: GENESIS 22:1-8

where is the lamb for the burnt offering?”

Some time later God tested Abraham. He said to him, “Abraham!”

“Here I am,” he replied.

Abraham answered, “God himself will provide the lamb for the burnt offering, my son.” And the two of them went on together.

Then God said, “Take your son, your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on a mountain I will show you.”

- What is the meaning of the word “offer” in verse 2 and how important is it in understanding the way God wants us to see everything in our possession?

Early the next morning Abraham got up and loaded his donkey. He took with him two of his servants and his son Isaac. When he had cut enough wood for the burnt offering, he set out for the place God had told him about. 4 On the third day Abraham looked up and saw the place in the distance. 5 He said to his servants, “Stay here with the donkey while I and the boy go over there. We will worship and then we will come back to you.”

- What did surrendering Isaac do for Abraham?

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- What does “surrender” mean in our relationship with Christ?

- Is the value of surrender (like worship, trust, and honor) wrapped up in what these things do for God or in what these things accomplish in us?

Abraham took the wood for the burnt offering and placed it on his son Isaac, and he himself carried the fire and the knife. As the two of them went on together, 7 Isaac spoke up and said to his father Abraham, “Father?”

“Yes, my son?” Abraham replied.

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STUDY NOTES Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering (v.2).

God asked Abraham to sacrifice his only son, the fulfillment of God’s promise, not because he wanted to kill Isaac, but because he wanted Abraham to experience as deeply as possible the truth that life is about doing it God’s way, even when it appears it will be too hard.

We don’t really know what it’s like to “let God” until we are willing to “let go.” For a disciple, a follower of Jesus, every area our lives is in some stage of surrender, including the resources we have…and He has a right to it all.

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GROW TOGETHER How has God changed your story during this six-week study? What new things is he asking you to do? What truth has transformed your heart? Think about specific steps you want to take to live a new story, to walk more closely with God so you can be part of His story, engaged in his kingdom.

- If your group still needs to make decisions about continuing to meet after this session, have that discussion now. Talk about what you will study, who will lead, and when you will meet.

- Review your Lifegroup Agreement on page 102 and evaluate how well you met your goals.

Discuss any changes you want to make as you move forward. If you plan to continue to meet, and your group starts a new study, this is a great time to take on a new role or change roles of service in your group. What new role will you take on? If you are uncertain, maybe your group members have some ideas for you. Remember you aren’t making a lifetime commitment to the new role; it will only be for a few weeks. Maybe someone would like to share a role with you if you don’t feel ready to serve solo.

- Close by praying for your prayer requests and take a couple of minutes to review the praises you have recorded over the past five weeks on the Prayer and Praise Report on page 105.

Spend some time thanking God for all he’s done in your group during this study.

- Why does God ask us to give things up to receive something new? What is he asking you to give up right now?

- Why would God ask us to surrender something we love?

- “Surrender everything you know about yourself to everything you know about God.” React to this statement from Pastor George.

- As this is the last meeting in this study, take some time to celebrate the work God has done in the lives of group members. Have each person in the group share some step of growth they have noticed in another member. (In other words, no one will talk about themselves. Instead, affirm others in the group.) Make sure each person gets affirmed and noticed and celebrated— whether the steps they’ve made are large or small.

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DIGGING DEEPER If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time between now and our next meeting to dig into his word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own, jotting your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. These are found under DIGGING DEEPER in the Appendices.

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DAILY DEVOTIONALS

There are six days of devotions.

On the last day, read back over your responses and let that guide a final time of reflection.

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But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.

Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.

Reflect:

How is this a picture of joyful surrender?

What are some aspects of your life that you still need to surrender to God for His plans?

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And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

Read Philippians 3:7-8

Read Hebrews 11:6

Reflect:

In what ways does this verse describe basic surrender to God on our part?

DAY 3

Read John 12:24

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Read John 8:36

Reflect:

How has your commitment to the ALL IN Initiative affected the sense of freedom that you have in Christ?

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Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

Read Galatians 2:20-21 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!”

Reflect:

How do you identify with Paul’s description of the surrendered life in these verses?

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FAQs What do we do on the first night of our group?

Like all fun things in life—have a party! A “get to know you” coffee, dinner, or dessert is a great way to launch a new study. You may want to review the Lifegroup Agreement (page 102) and share the names of a few friends you can invite to join you. But most importantly, have fun before your study time begins.

Where do we find new members for our group?

This can be troubling, especially for new groups that have only a few people or for existing groups that lose a few people along the way. We encourage you to pray with your group and then brainstorm a list of people from work, church, your neighborhood, your children’s school, family, the gym, and so forth. Then have each group member invite several of the people on his or her list. Another good strategy is to ask church leaders to make an announcement or allow a bulletin insert.

No matter how you find members, it’s vital that you stay on the lookout for new people to join your group. All groups tend to go through healthy attrition—the result of moves, releasing new leaders, ministry opportunities, and so forth—and if the group gets too small, it could be at risk of shutting down. If you and your group stay open, you’ll be amazed at the people God sends your way. The next person just might become a friend for life. You never know!

How long will this group meet?

Most groups meet weekly for at least their first six weeks, but every other week can work as well. We strongly recommend that the group meet weekly for the first two sessions. This allows for continuity, and if people miss a meeting they aren’t gone for a whole month. At the end of this study, each group member may decide if he or she wants to continue on for another study. Some groups launch relationships for years to come, and others are stepping-stones into another group experience. Either way, enjoy the journey.

Can we do this study on our own?

Absolutely! This may sound crazy, but one of the best ways to do this study is not with a full house but with a few friends. You may choose to gather with another couple who would enjoy some relational time (perhaps going to the movies or having a quiet dinner) and then walking through this study. Jesus will be with you even if there are only two of you (Matthew 18:20).

What if this group is not working for us?

You’re not alone! This could be the result of a personality conflict, life stage difference, geographical distance, level of spiritual maturity, or any number of things. Relax. Pray for God’s direction, and at the end of this six-week study, decide whether to continue with this group or find another. You don’t typically buy the first car you look at or marry the first person you date, and the same goes with a group. However, don’t bail out before the six weeks are up— God might have something to teach you. Also, don’t run from conflict or prejudge people before you have given them a chance. God is still working in your life, too!

Who is the leader?

Most groups have an official leader. But ideally, the group will mature and members will rotate the leadership of meetings. We have discovered that healthy groups rotate HOSTs/leaders on a regular basis. This model ensures that all members grow, give their unique contribution, and develop their gifts. This study guide and the Holy Spirit can keep things on track even when you rotate leaders. Christ has promised to be in your midst as you gather.

Ultimately, God is your leader each step of the way.

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How do we handle the childcare needs in our group?

Very carefully. Seriously, this can be a sensitive issue. We suggest that you empower the group to openly brainstorm solutions. You may try one option that works for a while and then adjust over time. Our favorite approach is for adults to meet in the living room or dining room and to share the cost of a babysitter (or two) who can watch the kids in a different part of the house. This way, parents don’t have to be away from their children all evening when their children are too young to be left at home. A second option is to use one home for the kids and a second home (close by or a phone call away) for the adults. A third idea is to rotate the responsibility of providing a lesson or care for the children either in the same home or in another home nearby. This can be an incredible blessing for kids.

Finally, the most common solution is to decide that you need to have a night to invest in your spiritual lives individually or as a couple and to make your own arrangements for childcare. No matter what decision the group makes, the best approach is to dialogue openly about both the problem and the solution.

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LIFEGROUP AGREEMENT Our purpose is to provide a predictable environment where participants experience authentic community and spiritual growth.

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Group Attendance

To give priority to the group meeting. We will call or email if we will be late or absent. (Completing the Group Calendar on page 103 will minimize this issue.)

Safe Environment

To help create a safe place where people can be heard and feel loved.

(Please, no quick answers, snap judgments, or simple fixes.)

Respect Differences

To be gentle and gracious to fellow group members with different spiritual maturity, personal opinions, temperaments, or “imperfections.�

We are all works in progress.

Confidentiality

To keep anything that is shared strictly confidential and within the group, and to avoid sharing improper information about those outside the group.

Encouragement for Growth

To be not just takers but givers of life. We want to spiritually multiply our life by serving others with our God-given gifts.

Shared Ownership

To remember that every member is a minister and to ensure that each attender will share a small team role or responsibility over time.

Rotating HOSTs/ Leaders

Encourage group members to rotate the responsibility of facilitating each meeting.

LIFEGROUP CALENDAR Planning and setting dates can help ensure the greatest participation at every meeting. At the end of each meeting, review this calendar. Consider rotating the host, and don’t forget birthdays, socials, church events, holidays, and outreach/ ministry projects.

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MEMORY VERSES SESSION ONE By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.

Hebrews 11:8 SESSION TWO Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

Philippians 2:4, NKJV SESSION THREE These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.

Mark 7:6 SESSION FOUR To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne.

Revelation 3:21 SESSION FIVE Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.

Philippians 2:12-13 SESSION SIX But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 8 What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.

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HOSTING AN OPEN HOUSE If you’re starting a new group, try planning an “open house” before your first formal group meeting. Even if you have only two to four core members, it’s a great way to break the ice and to consider prayerfully who else might be open to joining you over the next few weeks. You can also use this kick-off meeting to hand out study guides, spend some time getting to know each other, discuss each person’s expectations for the group and briefly pray for each other. A simple meal or good desserts always make a kick-off meeting more fun.

After people introduce themselves and share how they ended up being at the meeting (you can play a game to see who has the wildest story!), have everyone respond to a few icebreaker questions:

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What is your favorite family vacation?

What is one thing you love about your church/our community?

What are three things about your life growing up that most people here don’t know?

Next, ask everyone to tell what he or she hopes to get out of the study. You might want to review the Lifegroup Agreement and talk about each person’s expectations and priorities.

Finally, set an open chair (maybe two) in the center of your group and explain that it represents someone who would enjoy or benefit from this group but who isn’t here yet. Ask people to pray about inviting someone to join the group over the next few weeks. Hand out postcards and have everyone write an invitation or two. Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson. Each group could then report prayer requests and progress at the end of the session.

You can skip this kick-off meeting if your time is limited, but you’ll experience a huge benefit if you take the time to connect with each other in this way.

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LEADING FOR THE FIRST TIME Sweaty palms are a healthy sign.

The Bible says God is gracious to the humble. Remember who is in control; the time to worry is when you’re not worried. Those who are soft in heart (and sweaty palmed) are those whom God is sure to speak through.

Seek support.

Ask your leader, co-leader, or close friend to pray for you and prepare with you before the session. Walking through the study will help you anticipate potentially difficult questions and discussion topics.

Bring your uniqueness to the study.

Lean into who you are and how God wants you to uniquely lead the study.

Prepare. Prepare. Prepare.

Go through the session several times. If you are using the DVD, listen to the teaching segment.

Consider writing in a journal or fasting for a day to prepare yourself for what God wants to do. Don’t wait until the last minute to prepare.

Ask for feedback so you can grow.

Perhaps in an email or on cards handed out at the study, have everyone write down three things you did well and one thing you could improve on. Don’t get defensive. Instead, show an openness to learn and grow.

Prayerfully consider launching a new group.

This doesn’t need to happen overnight, but God’s heart is for this to take place over time. Not all Christians are called to be leaders or teachers, but we are all called to be “shepherds” of a few someday.

Share with your group what God is doing in your heart.

God is searching for those whose hearts are fully his. Share your trials and victories. We promise that people will relate.

Prayerfully consider whom you would like to pass the baton to next week.

It’s only fair. God is ready for the next member of your group to go on the faith journey you just traveled. Make it fun, and expect God to do the rest.

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LEADERSHIP TRAINING 101 Congratulations! You have responded to the call to help shepherd Jesus’ flock. There are few other tasks in the family of God that surpass the contribution you will be making. As you prepare to lead, whether it is one session or the entire series, here are a few thoughts to keep in mind. We encourage you to read these and review them with each new discussion leader before he or she leads.

1. Remember that you are not alone.

God knows everything about you, and He knew that you would be asked to lead your group. Remember that it is common for all good leaders to feel that they are not ready to lead. Moses, Solomon, Jeremiah and Timothy were all reluctant to lead. God promises, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). Whether you are leading for one evening, for several weeks, or for a lifetime, you will be blessed as you serve.

2. Don’t try to do it alone.

Pray right now for God to help you build a healthy leadership team. If you can enlist a co-leader to help you lead the group, you will find your experience to be much richer. This is your chance to involve as many people as you can in building a healthy group. All you have to do is call and ask people to help. You’ll probably be surprised at the response.

3. Just be yourself.

If you won’t be you, who will? God wants you to use your unique gifts and temperament. Don’t try to do things exactly like another leader; do them in a way that fits you! Just admit it when you don’t have an answer, and apologize when you make a mistake. Your group will love you for it, and you’ll sleep better at night!

4. Prepare for your meeting ahead of time.

Review the session and the leader’s notes, and write down your responses to each question. Pay special attention to exercises that ask group members to do something other than engage in discussion. These exercises will help your group live what the Bible teaches, not just talk about it. Be sure you understand how an exercise works, and bring any necessary supplies (such as paper and pens) to your meeting. If the exercise employs one of the items in the appendix, be sure to look over that item so you’ll know how it works. Finally, review “Outline for Each Session” so you’ll remember the purpose of each section in the study.

5. Pray for your group members by name.

Before you begin your session, go around the room in your mind and pray for each member by name. You may want to review the prayer list at least once a week. Ask God to use your time together to touch the heart of every person uniquely. Expect God to lead you to whomever He wants you to encourage or challenge in a special way. If you listen, God will surely lead!

6. When you ask a question, be patient. Someone will eventually respond.

Sometimes people need a moment or two of silence to think about the question. Keep in mind, if silence doesn’t bother you, it won’t bother anyone else. After someone responds, affirm the response with a simple “thanks” or “good job.” Then ask, “How about somebody else?” or “Would someone who hasn’t shared like to add anything?”

Be sensitive to new people or reluctant members who aren’t ready to say, pray or do anything. If you give them a safe setting, they will blossom over time.

7. Provide transitions between questions.

When guiding the discussion, always read aloud the transitional paragraphs and the questions. Ask the group if anyone would like to read the paragraph or Bible passage. Don’t call on anyone, but ask for a volunteer, and then be patient until someone begins. Be sure to thank the person who reads aloud.

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8. Break up into smaller groups each week or they won’t stay.

If your group has more than seven people, we strongly encourage you to have the group gather sometimes in discussion circles of three or four people. With a greater opportunity to talk in a small circle, people will connect more with the study, apply more quickly what they’re learning and ultimately get more out of it. A small circle also encourages a quiet person to participate and tends to minimize the effects of a more vocal or dominant member. It can also help people feel more loved in your group. When you gather again at the end of the section, you can have one person summarize the highlights from each circle. Small circles are also helpful during prayer time. People who are unaccustomed to praying aloud will feel more comfortable trying it with just two or three others. Also, prayer requests won’t take as much time, so circles will have more time to actually pray. When you gather back with the whole group, you can have one person from each circle briefly update everyone on the prayer requests. People are more willing to pray in small circles if they know that the whole group will hear all the prayer requests.

9. Rotate facilitators weekly.

At the end of each meeting, ask the group who should lead the following week. Let the group help select your weekly facilitator. You may be perfectly capable of leading each time, but you will help others grow in their faith and gifts if you give them opportunities to lead. You can use the Lifegroup Calendar to fill in the names of all meeting leaders at once if you prefer.

10. One final challenge (for new or first time leaders): Before your first opportunity to lead, look up each of the five passages listed below. Read each one as a devotional exercise to help yourself develop a shepherd’s heart. Trust us on this one. If you do this, you will be more than ready for your first meeting.

Matthew 9:36 1 Peter 5:2-4 Psalm 23 Ezekiel 34:11-16 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-12

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Join Pastor George Powell and a team from Abundant Life Church in Portland, OR as together they explore how to go ALL IN for Jesus.

Using the story of Abraham, this study examines how we can increase our trust, surrender our fears, and leave a legacy of faithfulness for generations to come. With practical teaching, engaging conversation, and meaningful insights, Pastor George will challenge you to reconsider your own walk with Jesus and rethink your commitment to Him. Discover what it means to be ALL IN!

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ABOUT PASTOR GEORGE The seed was planted in Pastor George Powell’s heart to start a church when a ministry professor said to him, “You know George, in order for you to be in a growing church, you might just have to start your own.”

Pastor George’s practical and down to earth preaching style invites you into a real and honest conversation about the Bible, faith, and spiritual topics each weekend.

Those words took root in Pastor George’s heart and led he and his wife Ann to accept a call to go to Portland, Oregon in 1989 to do just that . . . start a church on the southeast side of Portland in what felt like the middle of nowhere!

Now, 27 years later, and with a vision to reach as many people as possible for Jesus, Abundant Life Church has grown to over 4,000 people who call ALC home, meeting in three campus locations, and also an online campus. Pastor George’s practical and down to earth preaching style invites you into a real and honest conversation about the Bible, faith, and spiritual topics each weekend.

With a heart to reach people around the world, Abundant Life Church has planted churches and engaged in strategic partnerships in India, Ecuador, Mexico, Africa, Italy, and various other countries around the world and has sponsored and rescued over 1000 children from poverty through those ministries.

George has been married to his wife Ann since 1975 and they have two sons and three grandchildren.

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