Life In Orpington December 2019

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Welcome to the festive issue! We’re so excited that the countdown to Christmas has commenced!

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Someone else who’s equally excited about Christmas is Lord Harris at Tapi Carpets – have you ever noticed the fantastic festive display that illuminates Tapi Carpets' Head Office at night? Next time you’re in Orpington after dark, look out for it - they’re located near the War Memorial on Spur Road. We’d also like to thank Tapi Carpets for sponsoring our Christmas issue and you’ll find a Christmas message from them on the centre pages (p.24)

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Getting to know Orpington....................... 4 Churchill Theatre review........................... 7 Write it, say it, message it PRIZE GIVEAWAY.................................... 9 Noticeboard............................................ 10 Charity watch......................................... 12 Orpington in focus.................................. 15

It’s another bumper edition and there’s plenty to read in this month’s magazine – everything from last minute Christmas buys and how to host a stress-free dinner party, to winter warming tips and ideas for a zero waste Christmas.

What’s more, to help you spread the cost over the festive period, we’re also offering a 0% interest payment plan across the range!

We’ve also got all the latest community features including six pages of What’s On events in and around Orpington, the opportunity to win a Christmas hamper by completing the crossword and working out the anagram and our regular Community Noticeboard with important news, announcements and offers.

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Business................................................. 25 Crossword - PRIZE GIVEAWAY.............. 26 Health & beauty...................................... 29 Parenting................................................ 30 Travel...................................................... 33 Eco news................................................ 35 Did you know ......................................... 37 Pets........................................................ 39 Shopping................................................ 41 Life hacks............................................... 43 A final thought........................................ 44 Stockists................................................. 46

Nicky and Lauretta Nicky Grant and Lauretta Wright, Editors ps We’re continuing to increase the number of stockists where you can find your copy of Life In Orpington – see the list on page 46.

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This month we take a nostalgic look back at Christmas in and around our district.

You don’t have to look too far back to find scenes of that traditional Christmas image. The district has many picture postcard scenes of old churches and villages that, with a dusting of snow, could adorn any quality Christmas card!

The Christmas traditions we know today mainly originate from the Victorian period (1800s); 150-plus years of Christmas celebration and evolution of how we celebrate and the demand on retailers.

It seems that some traditions have died off such as the lights switch on in Locksbottom and a real Christmas tree on Orpington War Memorial roundabout. More recently, it's nice to see shops dressing their windows and making colourful displays, Santa's grotto still going strong at The Walnuts and the local Rotary club taking Santa around the streets on his sleigh.

Maybe you can share your memories of Christmas in the area on our Facebook page where there is a special post for you to provide your memories.

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In the past 20 years shopping has moved online via the Internet or via the large out-of-town shopping centres and these have taken trade from the High Street. Shopping online is not new of course, as prior to the Internet there were catalogue stores (eg Freemans, Universal, Littlewoods and Kays) where I’m sure many children happily viewed the toy pages in the hope that Santa would bring them a particular toy.

During the first part of the 20th Century Orpington was a growing town, with local commerce and retailers providing all that was needed to the local residents. They would go to their local shops and if they really needed something super special it was a trip to the larger towns or London. Christmas was no different then and shops were busy! The grocers, poulterers, butchers, bakers, fish mongers and dairies would have been working around the clock to supply the Christmas demand. Orpington and St Mary Cray had a number of quality retailers which customers would rely on year in year out. The Butchers such as Townend, Elton’s and Woods would have had queues many deep on Christmas Eve awaiting the freshest meat for Christmas and Boxing Days.

Of course, the local churches would have been busy, and the celebration of Christmas would have been a significant set of events in all of the local churches.

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I really enjoy reading the magazine. It is a great to get a feel for all that is going on in the area. As a relative newcomer to Orpington, having been here about 18 months, it really helps to get to know what is making Orpington tick each month and learn about the history of the area. As a big athletics fan I was excited to learn gold medal winner Dina Asher Smith is a local lady certainly helps to put our new home town on the map. I am sure everyone at life in is proud of our local hero. My husband tries to take credit as he thinks he is the centre of the world because when he moved to my home city of Leicester we won the premier League and found Richard 3rd (though I try to remind him that took a long time to happen!) Now we are here and Dina has 3 world championship medals! Looking forward to the Olympics. Watch out in case they find King Arthur in the priory gardens!

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On behalf of the committee and members of DMBC, I would like to thank you both for the help given to us via our entries in Life in Orpington. We have had successful season with a good number of spectators and including some that have joined as new members. Our final sailing session for 2019 was yesterday and we commence our 2020 season on Sunday 5 April. Finally, all at DMBC are all pleased to see that Lauretta is progressing well regarding her medical issues. Thanks one again for your continued support to DMBC. David Marks, Dolphin Model Boat Club

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A charity golf day was held at Cherry Lodge Golf Club to raise money for the Saxon Day Centre in Orpington. So far, £1,000 has been raised with more expected to follow.

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Cray Wanderers Fo otball Club has an nounced that it is of fering free bus travel to all home games for the res season, the next t of this of which (Potters Bar Town) takes pla on Saturday 7th De ces cember. Pick-up points are at The Inn, St Paul’s Cray Bull ; The White Hart, Orpington High St and The Daylight reet; Inn, Petts Wood.

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YOUR WISH IS GRANTED! Aladdin will showcase at The Churchill Theatre in Bromley from Saturday 7th December to Sunday 5th January, starring Christopher Biggins, Rikki Jay and Max Fulham. Featuring a wish-granting genie, an evil sorcerer and the timeless tale of The Twankey family, follow hee and his mother Aladdin, his brothers Wishee and Was ney. Tickets cost from jour Widow Twankey on a spectacular £20 from www.churchilltheatre.co.uk

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Community News - CHARITY WATCH Raising Awareness….

The Bereavement Café What service do you provide?

Qualified counselling for those going through grief.

Who is it available to?

Anyone who is suffering and needs some support.

How are you funded?

We fund it ourselves, but have had help from Moorgate Accountancy and the Petts Wood Residents Association.

Do you accept donations?

Yes, donations help us pay for refreshments and the hire of the hall.

When and where do you meet?

We meet monthly on the last Thursday of every month at Orpington Village Hall.

Are you looking for volunteers?

No, not really, due to it being a sensitive subject, we cannot have just anyone turn up.

How can people help?

Make a donation to help us run it, provide donations of tea, coffee and biscuits.

The Bereavement Café, which is currently working on getting charitable status, is located at Valentine & Turner, 262 High Street Orpington.

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Bromley Council has joined forces with a number of other London local authorities to become part of a Regional Adoption Agency run by children’s charity Coram. This brings together expertise to match more children waiting to be adopted more quickly with their new adoptive families.

‘Coram Ambitious for Adoption’ is now the first port of call for adoption enquiries on behalf of participating local authorities and provides adoption support for all of its adoptive families.

Anyone considering adoption across London and surrounding areas is invited to attend one of the free information events to learn more about the process, support and guidance available.

See coramadoption.org.uk/adoption-events

Roadworks

Community News POLICE UPDATES Farnborough and Crofton Police report that there has been a marked increase in the theft of number plates and catalytic converters (especially from higher wheelbase vehicles) across the whole of Orpington.

Residents can buy tamperproof screws for number plates at motor spare shops.

Follow your teams on Twitter @MPSOrpington @MPSCrayValleyE @MPSCrayValleyW @MPSPetts Wood @MPSFarnCroft Did you know that Bromley Police has its own Facebook page? Every two weeks they provide residents with the opportunity to ask questions regarding local policing issues and to find out what is happening locally.

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On 9th December part of Orpington High Street will be closed due to works by Thames Water.

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The B258 High Street in St Mary Cray will be closed due to Thames Water works on 11th December.

Transport On Sunday 1st December there are no services to/from London Victoria. Orpington services will run from London Blackfriars instead, and will stop additionally at Elephant and Castle, but will be unable to stop at Brixton.

Engineering work is taking place between Lewisham and Orpington on Saturday 7th December and Sunday 8th December, closing various lines. Buses replace trains between Lewisham and Orpington.

From 10th-13th December trains towards Orpington after midnight will be unable to stop at Lewisham. Replacement buses will run between New Cross and Hither Green via Lewisham, with some journeys extended to Orpington. There will also be a 01:10 London Cannon Street to Orpington bus via Lewisham.

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what's on - NOV/DEC 2019 ARTS & CRAFTS

Your essential what's on guide for events, activities, clubs and much more in and around Orpington.

There's something for everyone!

We’re looking to hear about your news, notices and local events!

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Orpington Photographic Society Tuesday Evenings (until April 2020)

7.45pm - 10pm Small Hall, Christchurch, Charterhouse Rd, Orpington Cost: Up to 3 meetings free (see website for full details) Contact: www.orpingtonphotographicsociety.co.uk The Orpington Photographic Society is an active and progressive club that welcomes photographers at all levels who are interested in sharing photographic interests, talents and ideas with others during club nights and informal meet ups.

IndiGo Art Club for children aged 9-16

The Snowman and Friends Christmas Cards Saturday 30th November

10am - 12pm St John's URC, Orpington, BR6 0BG Cost: £14 (all materials provided) Contact: info@indigoartclub.com Come along and design your own Christmas Cards based on the popular characters from The Snowman and The Snowdog using Watercolour Pencils. All abilities welcome.

Impatient! Stories of Service User Advocacy Until 4th January 2020

Open Wed – Fri, and the first and last Sat of every month 10am – 5pm (last admission 4.30pm) Bethlem Museum of the Mind, Bethlem Royal Hospital Monks Orchard Road, Beckenham BR3 3BX Cost: Free Contact: www.museumofthemind.org.uk Service user advocacy groups are varied in nature: from grassroots to national, informal to established, conservative to radical, they reflect the diversity of society.

This exhibition highlights the material culture of some of these groups, and charts the development and impact of their voices, and the challenges they have faced.

christmas events CWJ Charity Christmas Shopping Evening Wednesday 27th November 5.30pm - 8pm

CWJ, Valiant House, 12 Knoll Rise, Orpington BR6 0PG Cost: £2 entrance fee (with free glass of prosecco Contact: amy.hickman@cwj.co.uk A great collection of stalls selling christmas gift ideas including: decorations, handbags and scarves, home furnishings, jewellery, local produce and stocking fillers.

Festival Of Lights

Sunday 1st December 1pm - 5pm

Beckenham Place Mansion Cost: Free (small charges apply for some of the craft activities) Contact: events@beckenhamplace.org Expect food, drink, music, workshops and stalls, plus the turning on of the lights.

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The Walnuts Christmas Grotto

Saturday 7th, 14th & 21st December: 10am - 4pm Sunday 15th & 22nd December: 11am - 3pm Monday 23rd December: 10am - 4pm Christmas Eve: 10am - 2pm

The Walnuts Shopping Centre Cost: Free Contact: www.thewalnutsshoppingcentre.com Meet Father Christmas and his elves - there's a free gift for every child.

Tubbenden Primary School Christmas Fair Saturday 7th December

11am – 2pm Tubbenden Primary School, Sandy Bury, BR6 9SD Cost: Free for children, Adults: £1 Contact: chair@tubbendenfriends.org.uk Santa’s Grotto, fun & games, music, face painting, raffle prizes and much much more!

Christmas Crafts - Pine Cones Saturday 7th December

11am - 4pm Bethlem Museum of the Mind, Bethlem Royal Hospital Monks Orchard Road, Beckenham BR3 3BX Cost: Free (Donations are accepted. Please register your interest.)

Contact: www.museumofthemind.org.uk Decorate pine cones collected from the site and cleaned by volunteers. With plenty of paint, glitter and sequins so that you can personalise each one. This is a free drop-in session suitable for all ages, taking place in the foyer by the Christmas tree.

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community & charity events Forget-Me-Not Survivors of suicide loss

Cost: Free Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub A free drop-in for parents/adults that need help with technology, getting online or using web applications.

Meet the first Thursday of every month

7.45pm - 9.45pm Cost: Free Contact: Sandra - 07519 105354 Email: sosl.orpington@gmail.com www.survivorsofsuicideloss.org.uk Twitter: @ForgetMeNotSoSl Forget-Me-Not offers support for all those affected by suicide loss. The group is self-led and informal, where you can connect with other survivors.

Orpington Unit St John Ambulance Volunteer First Aid Training Every Tuesday

Tinnitus Support Group Orpington 17th December

2pm - 4pm The Community Room, Orpington Fire Station, Avalon Road, Orpington. BR6 9AX Cost: Free Contact: 01622 691151 Email: enquiries@hikent.org.uk The Rotary Club of Orpington Crofton supports Hi Kent's Tinnitus Support Group that meets monthly.

Bromley Speakers Club

1st, 3rd and 5th Thursdays of each month

Meetings start at 7.15pm and finish at 9.30pm (except where stated - see website).

Ripley Arts Centre, 24 Sundridge Avenue, BR1 2PX Cost: Free Contact: vppublicrelations@bromleyspeakers.co.uk Facebook: www.facebook.com/BromleySpeakers www.BromleySpeakers.co.uk Practise your speaking skills and improve your confidence with a friendly and supportive group at Bromley Speakers.

Guests are welcome to come along free of charge.

Digital Drop-in

Every Tuesday during term-time

9.30am - 11.30am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR

7.15pm - 9pm Park Road, St Mary Cray BR5 4AS Cost: Free Contact: John Matthews John.Matthews1@sja.org.uk A weekly meet for the volunteers to learn and develop their first aid skills in preparation for providing first aid at local events in and around Orpington.

Farnborough Friendship Club

Thursday 5th and 19th December

8pm - 9.30pm The Scout Hut in Farnborough Village (at rear of no. 28 High Street) BR6 7BQ Cost: £6 per session of 8 meetings (There are 3 sessions per year) Contact: Secretary - 01689 855766 A small, friendly over 60s group, welcoming new members.

Speakers, social evenings, quizzes & ‘chats’. On 5th December make a DIY Christmas greenery table decoration.

There is a Christmas Social evening on the 19th December.

Orpington 'Drop In' Parkinson's Café 3rd Thursday of each month

10.30am - 12.30pm Sanctuary Café, Orpington Baptist Church, Station Road BR6 0RZ Cost: Free Contact: 0344 225 3622 www.localsupport.parkinsons.org.uk Pop in for a cuppa and a chat, share information, experiences and meet new friends.

Sunday 8th December

10.30am – 2pm Priory Gardens, Church Hill, BR6 0HH Cost: Adults: £6.50, Under 12s: £4.50, Under 3s: Free Contact: www.orpington1st.co.uk/events/ Join hundreds of Santas and run, jog, or walk your way round the beautiful Priory Gardens in the third Orpington Santa Dash - Organised by Orpington 1st, the Santa Dash is a fun, festive, 2km run starting in Priory Gardens and finishing in Orpington's Market Square.

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Christmas Church Services - Green St Green Baptist Church

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Nativity Service: Sunday 15th December at 10.30am Carol Service: Sunday 22nd December at 6.30pm

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Bereavement Café

Last Thursday of the month

11.15am - 1.15pm Orpington Village Hall Cost: Free Contact: www.facebook.com/bereavementcafe If you're struggling with the loss of a loved one why not come along to The Bereavement Cafe to meet other people who feel the same and qualified bereavement counsellors? All are welcome.

family & kids Stories In a Box Every Monday

9:30am – 11.30am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Free Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub A short course combining craft and literacy. Make 'props' based on a favourite children's book then use your props for shared reading, improve storytelling and literacy skills.

Child-minder drop-in

what's on - DECEMBER 2019 Just Babies

Every Tuesday

1.30pm - 3.30pm St Nicholas Church,14 Leamington Avenue BR6 9QB Cost: Free Contact: Rosemary Fordyce on 01689 854 261 or rosemaryian@btinternet.com New mothers share experiences and offer each other support.

Home-ed Group

Every Tuesday & Thursday during term-time

9:30am – 11.45am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Free but must be a home-schooled child Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub Various weekly classes and structured sessions designed to teach children everyday learning.

Family Crafts

Every Wednesday

9:30am – 11.30am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Voluntary donation of £1 Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub A stay-and-play session for minded children. Max of 4 children per adult.

9:30am – 11.30am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Free Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub Create festive items that all the family can share and enjoy. Typically includes making wreaths and table centrepieces, window or tree decorations, boxes or packaging for festive presents, cards and paper crafts.

Tiny Tots Playgroup

Tiny Tots Active

9:30am – 11am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Free Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub Baby & toddler group which has a variety of toys for all ages between 0 & 5 years old. Free snacks are provided.

9:30am – 11am Oasis Community Hub, St Mary Cray Primary Academy, High Street, St Mary Cray, BR5 4AR Cost: Free Contact: 07899 923052 Email: oasis@st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk www.st-marycray.bromley.sch.uk/oasis-hub A free-play toddler group with focus on running around and being active. Free snacks are provided.

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what's on - DECEMBER 2019 Teen Parents Group Every Friday

1pm - 3pm Blenheim Children and Family Centre, Blenheim Rd, BR6 9BH Cost: Free (pregnant or a parent aged 19 or under) Contact: 01843 447177 A fun, informal group offering advice and support with money, socialising & positive behaviour strategies with your child. Free crèche, free lunch and the possibility of free driving lessons.

Crafty Crochet

First Wednesday of the month

10.30am - 12.30pm Cost: Free Share your love of crochet with friends. All welcome, refreshments provided.

Lego Club

First and second Saturday of the month

10.30am - 11.30am Inventive building fun with Lego bricks - build something fantastic. For children aged eight-11. (please book)

Chess Club

Saturday 7th and 14th December,

Sunday Fun Club

Sunday 8th December

12pm - 2.15pm St John's Church Hall, Lynwood Grove BR6 0BG Cost: Free Contact: 01474 852922 www.stjohnsurc.org.uk Email: sundayfunclub@stjohnsurc.org.uk For children in school years 3-6. Fun, crafts, cooking, games and much more plus a free cooked lunch for every child.

2.30am – 4pm Cost: Free - For children aged 7-11 A new Chess club for beginners run with the support of Chess in Libraries and Communities. (please book)

Oddfellows

Tuesdays 10th December 2pm - 4pm An afternoon social group.

10.30am - 12pm Cost: Free Share and develop your creative skills over a cuppa. All welcome

Petts Wood Library

Story time

Mondays and Fridays

Contact: 01689 821607 Email: Pettswoodl.library@gll.org www.better.org.uk/library/london/bromley

2pm For 2 – 4 years olds

Tuesday 3rd December Every Thursday

Craft & Chat

Every Monday

10am – 11.30am Jubilee Country Park by John Bruce

Crafty Crochet

Baby Bounce & Rhyme

10.30am – 12.30 am

Age 0-2. Spaces limited, first come first served

Tuesdays 9.45-10.15am & 2.30-3pm

Baby Bounce and Rhyme

Hard of Hearing Club

10am – 10.30am and 11.00am – 11.30am Age 0-2. Spaces limited, first come first served

11am - 12pm Cost: Free

Every Thursday

2.15-3.15pm Cost £1 refreshments provided Join Jennifer Randall to commemorate 75 years since the V2 rocket attack on the Crooked Billet, Bickley in November 1944. Contact the library to book.

Books Aloud

Fridays 4-4.45pm Age 4-7 with parents/carers Story and craft

what's on - DECEMBER 2019 Locksbottom, BR6 8NE Cost: Free Contact: 01689 852631 www.yeoldewhytelyon.co.uk Great band playing rock covers thru the decades. (BT Sports now showing at the pub)

Live Music - Fleetwood Mac Tribute Band: Chain Saturday 14th December

8.30pm to 11pm Orpington Liberal Club, 7 Station Road BR6 0RZ Cost: £5 Contact: Chris 07522 636397 Peter Green era and the classic Buckingham Nicks line up. Please contact to reserve / purchase advance tickets.

Or purchase on the door.

Newspapers, Coffee & Chat

Live Music - The Heartbeats

Chat about the week’s news

8.45pm Ye Olde Whyte Lyon, Farnborough Common, Locksbottom, BR6 8NE Cost: Free Contact: 01689 852631 www.yeoldewhytelyon.co.uk The Heartbeats are now recognised as one of Kent’s premier ‘Fifties / Sixties’ bands. They play classic numbers, as well as a few of the lesser played, but instantly recognisable, tunes that are synonymous to an era of fabulous music. (BT Sports now showing at the pub).

Saturdays monthly 2.15-3pm Age 3+ with parents. Spaces limited, first come first served.

SOUTHBOROUGH Library

Contact: 020 8467 0355 www.better.org.uk/library/london/bromley/ southborough-library

Stay and Play 10am - 10.45am Meet other parents, play and have fun with your child.

There will be lots of activities to try that will help with your child’s development.

music, dance & film Live Music - The Short and Curlies

Saturday 28th December

Scottish Dancing Beginners Classes for Adults Orpington and District Caledonian Society​

Every Monday evening during term time

8pm - 10:15pm St Paul's Church Hall, Crofton Road BR6 8JE Cost: £5.50 (1st session free!)

Contact: www.orpingtonscottishdancing.com Our friendly teachers & experienced dancers will help you learn the steps, formations and dances. Come on your own or with friends for a free taster session. No partner needed. You can be assured of a warm welcome & lots of fun!

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Fridays

2pm - 3.45pm Cost: Free Bring along a craft project and exchange tips with others

Wednesday 4th December

Thursdays 2.15-3pm

Lego Drop In

Last Tuesday of the month

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what's on - DECEMBER 2019 sports, outdoors & NATURE

Aladdin

2pm (for 1 hour) Darrick & Newstead Woods & Tugmutton Common Meet outside the cricket pavilion Tugmutton Common Cost: Free Contact: samwalsham@hotmail.com www.walkingforhealth.org.uk Walks are led by trained volunteer leaders and provide a friendly and sociable atmosphere. No booking needed, but if it is your first visit please arrive ten minutes before.

Various Churchill Theatre, Bromley Cost: Tickets from £20 Contact: tickets@churchilltheatre.co.uk Starring stage legend Christopher Biggins as the iconic Widow Twankey, and hot off the heels of Cinderella, this year's panto will be a magic-carpet ride you'll never forget, in the wish-granting family panto, Aladdin. Packed with all of the traditional pantomime ingredients Churchill Theatre audiences expect, Aladdin will feature a star cast, a lampload of comedy, jaw-dropping special effects, sensational song and dance and plenty of boos and hisses the whole family will enjoy.

Short Mat Bowls

Jack and the Beanstalk

2pm - 4pm

Various Churchill Theatre, Bromley Cost: £13, Under 16s £10 (ticket price includes a drink and a biscuit) Contact: tickets@churchilltheatre.co.uk This Christmas the Churchill Theatre Studio presents Jack And the Beanstalk, a show for children 3+ and their families. Join the company that brought you The Elves and the Shoemaker and The Owl and the Pussycat as they keenly cultivate the famous tale of the boy who had faith in a hand full of magic beans, climbed into the clouds, met a Giant and risked all for his ‘Dear old Mum’. Told in rhyme, this ‘Fee-Fie-Foe’ Fun show will be seeded with silliness, watered with rhythm and bathed in music - an all ‘organic’ storytelling experience that once it takes root will bloom in your memory forever!

Bromley Ramblers: Walking for Health Every Wednesday

Every Friday afternoon Crofton Halls, Orpington, BR6 8PR

Cost: First session free Contact: 020 8466 6894 or email msthrn@yahoo.co.uk New players welcome. We play in a relaxed and informal environment. A selection of communal bowls is available, so all you need to bring is flat shoes with a smooth sole.

Seasonal Walk Around Jubilee Country Park Saturday 28th December 2019

Meet at 10.30am at Blackbrook Lane car park, BR2 8AY (near the entrance to Bromley High School).

Join us for a seasonal walk around Jubilee Country Park, lasting about an hour, led by John Bruce from the Friends of Jubilee Country Park. Please wear footwear suitable for muddy or rough terrain. Well behave dogs welcome.

theatre/ Performances Misfits - Three short plays

Thursday 5th - Saturday 7th December

8pm start, doors open 7:30pm Chelsfield Village Hall, Bucks Cross Road, BR6 7RL Cost: £8.50 Contact: Box office- 07816 505448 www.ticketsource.co.uk/chelsfieldplayers Mother Figure & Between mouthfuls by Alan Ayckbourn.

Last panto in little Grimley by David Tristam Caberet style seating, please bring own nibbles but buy drinks from the bar.

Bring the Family to enjoy

Saturday 7th December 2019 – Sunday 5th January 2020

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Saturday 7th – Friday 20th December

The Self family with Father Christmas last year!

Christmas Sing-a-long

Thursday 19th December

5pm & 8pm Churchill Theatre, Bromley Cost: Tickets from £24 Contact: tickets@churchilltheatre.co.uk Conductor Georg Tormann (BBC 1 - All Together Now) returns after last year’s sell out Christmas Sing-a-long to lead audience members through a selection of Christmas hits, including Merry Christmas Everyone, Santa Claus is Comin’ to Town, The Fairytale of New York, All I Want for Christmas is You, White Christmas and many many more.

With a live band, 100 strong choir and special guest star soloists, this is one Christmas Party you won’t want to miss!

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Bromley’s newest bike shop... We have everything from your little person’s first balance bike to custom builds and everything inbetween.

On Small Business Saturday, customers go out and support all types of small businesses, online, in offices and in stores. In celebration of Small Business Saturday, which takes place on 7th December this year, we approached some of our supporters to ask for their best small business tips…

Feel free to stop by for a coffee and cake in our café and let us help you find what you need.

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Ted Kingswood, Storeys Ltd

“Always be yourself, be honest and treat your clients how you’d like to be treated - you can’t go wrong if you’re authentic.”

“Make colourful memes out of your customer reviews to post on social media, you can use free apps such as Canva to do this fairly easily.”

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He was named both Greater London’s No 1 Membership Advisor and National Best Newcomer at the ceremony, despite only being an FSB Advisor for 12 months. Piyush says: “These awards are down to all the small businesses – both members and supporters of the FSB and the local business community – who believe in and support me. Without them engaging with me and recognising how I can help them, I would not have won either award.”

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STOREY’S LTD

What’s the Storey?

ANTIQUARIAN MAP AND PRINT DEALERS

Tel. 0207 836 3777

Email: storeysltd@btinernet.com | www.storeysltd.co.uk

Situated between Covent Garden and Leicester Square and close to Charing Cross Railway Station, Storey’s has been in business since 1984.

Nestled in the historic walkways between Covent Garden and Leicester Square is the pedestrianised street of Cecil Court, the ultimate destination for art, antiques, books, culture and curiosities. Here’s where you’ll find Storey’s; specialists in antique maps and prints.

Offering an insight into how the company originated and how it has developed over the years following the rise of the Internet, Timothy Kingswood, whose family originated from Bromley, explains how he’s putting Storey’s firmly on the map…

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hen asked what I do for a living I have often hesitated in my response. Print dealer?

Map dealer? Shop or gallery owner? My passports over the years have held at least one of these titles.

AN ACCURATE MAP OF THE COUNTY OF SURREY BOWEN; EMANUEL (1693-1767)

Original antique copper engraved map with original handcolouring. Drawn by Emanuel Bowen. Published by J. & T. Bowles & R. Sayer, London, 1780. Finely detailed map with notes and descriptions of the history and topography of the county Mounted in cream. Map size: 69 x 52cm. Mounted size: 89 x 72cm

Price: £750.00

AN ACCURATE MAP OF THE COUNTY OF SUSSEX BOWEN; EMANUEL (1693-1767)

Original antique copper engraved map with original handcolouring. Drawn by Emanuel Bowen. Published by J. & T. Bowles & R. Sayer, London, 1780. Finely detailed map with notes and descriptions of the history and topography of the county.

Mounted in cream. Map size: 69 x 52cm. Mounted size: 89 x 72cm

Price: £750.00

Owned and managed by the Kingswood family of Bromley. The business specialises in antique maps and prints from the 17th century until 1918. The website showcases a very wide variety of maps and prints held in stock. Subjects include Botanicals, Caricatures, Sports, Military and Naval.

A custom framing service is offered, with a wide selection of mouldings to choose from.

A visit to the shop is highly recommended to browse.

STOREY’S LTD 1 & 3 Cecil Court, Charing Cross Road London WC2N 4EZ

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From an early age I have always had an interest in history and the shop that I now own reflects that interest through maps. In 1984, my father, Ted Kingswood, purchased a second-hand antiquarian bookshop in Cecil Court, Charing Cross, from a business colleague called Norman Storey. At that time dad's principal business was supplying books and periodicals to universities in West Africa, so he asked if I would manage the shop.

With the rise of the Internet, bookselling became more difficult and in 2004 I stopped selling books, allowing room to develop the business in a direction that was both viable and reflected my interest.

Since then it has expanded into two adjoining shops. The original displays maps of the world from the 17th century until post First World War, while the adjacent shop exhibits original engravings by artists such as James Gillray and William Hogarth. I tired of being called 'Norman' and 'Storey's' is now the name above the door.

Most of us will look at a current map and read it literally but within the map is an historical read.

In the 17th century, London had a population of 600,000 and the City extended from the Tower in the East to the Palace of Westminster. In the 1660s, Samuel Pepys, (1633-1703), would often walk from lifeinmagazines.co.uk

his home in Seething Lane to Greenwich; his diary describes the activity in the fields and meadows of Rotherhithe.

The London metropolitan area now covers 3,000 square miles; if Pepys were to make the same journey today the buildings, noise and smells would be alien to him. His return journey home via boat in the dark with the river in flood, however, would be the same now as in 1660.

In 1675, the cartographer, John Ogilby, (1660-1676) published the Britannia Atlas. Contained within were strip road maps of all the principal roads of Britain.

The trip advisor of its day, Ogilby's atlas highlighted the market towns and villages with the distances in between and recommended inns or indeed, where not to stop. If travelling by coach from London to Dover, for example, Ogilby advised passengers not to disembark at the top of Shooter's Hill to admire the view: highwaymen would lie in wait to relieve you of your valuables!

It’s strange to think that in the same decade (1660), Samuel Pepys would have observed in the distance, those same coaches working their way along the Old Kent Road.

Today when asked what do I do for a living, I respond 'I have a hobby job'. That title is certainly not on my passport!

For more information on Storey’s see www.storeysltd.co.uk

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STOREY’S LTD

ISLE OF THANET

Original antique steel-engraved map Engraved & published by Thomas Moule 1843 Hand-coloured Mounted in cream

ANTIQUARIAN MAP AND PRINT DEALERS

Specialising in antique engravings and original maps

Image size: 26 x 20cm Mounted size: 41 x 35cm

Custom framing service

Price: £75.00

AN ACCURATE MAP OF THE COUNTY OF KENT

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BOWEN; EMANUEL (1693-1767) Original antique copper engraved map.

With original hand-colouring.

Drawn by Emanuel Bowen.

Published by J. & T. Bowles & R. Sayer, London, 1780

KENT - CARY, 1792

Original antique copper engraving Engraved & published by J. Cary, 1792 With original colour Mounted in cream

Finely detailed map with notes and descriptions of the history and topography of the county. Mounted in cream Map size: 69 x 52cm | Mounted size: 89 x 72cm

Image size: 10 x 14cm Mount size: 24 x 29cm

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CHISLEHURST – Sheet 114

Original map published

by Geographia Ltd, 1933 Original colour-plate lithograph Scale 5 inches to the mile Mounted in cream Image size: 18 x 30 cms Mounted size: 63 x 49 cms Price: £60.00

KENT - BACON, 1910

Original antique map published

by G. W. Bacon 1910 Original colour lithograph Mounted in cream Image size: 47 x 31cm Mounted size: 65 x 50cm Price: £75.00

KENT - CARY 1809 Original antique copper engraving Engraved & published

by J. Cary, 1809 With original colour Mounted in cream

Original antique steel engraving Engraved by B.R. Davies Published by Day & Son, 1863 With original colour Mounted in cream

Image size: 21 x 26 cm Mount size: 36 x 42 cm

KENT - FULLERTON Original antique steel engraved map Published by A. Fullerton, 1833 With original hand-colour

Image size: 43 x 29cm Mounted size: 58 x 46cm

Map size: 18 x 24cm Mounted size: 34 x 40cm

Price: £125.00

Price: £75.00

KENT - MOULE

KENT - PIGOT, 1838

Image size: 26 x 21 cm Mounted size: 42 x 36 cm

Image size: 36 x 23cm Mounted size: 52 x 40cm

Price: £125.00

Price: £175.00

Original antique steel-engraved map Engraved & published

by Thomas Moule 1843 Hand-coloured. Mounted in cream

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Original antique steel engraved map.

With original hand colouring Published by Pigot & Co. 1838

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BECKENHAM, SYDENHAM – Sheet 111

Image size: 43 x 29cm Mounted size: 58 x 46cm

Image size: 18 x 30 cms Mounted size: 63 x 49 cms

Price: £95.00

Price: £60.00

BROMLEY – Sheet 112

ORPINGTON – Sheet 131

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I work locally as a Celebrant, in and around Orpington. Having been an Orpington resident for most of my life, I feel it is important to work closely with the community that I live in, and as a result of that, I have also co-founded The Bereavement Café in Orpington.

So, my role as a Celebrant is to work with families who have lost a loved one and help them create a unique and fitting ceremony, to help them say goodbye.

But I have also introduced something called, “Remember Me” and that is to help people document their wishes before they die. This is a really simple way of instructing your loved ones with what you want, when that time comes. We can discuss everything from music choices, your life story, colours, themes, and have it all recorded safely, so that when the time comes your family members aren’t left scratching their heads trying to work out what you would have wanted.

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On the market

If you suffer from Irritable Bowel Syndrome, a new chewable probiotic called Alflorex is on the market to make it easier for the elderly, very young, disabled or unwell, who may find swallowing traditional tablets difficult. The product contains the natural 35624® culture – shown in clinical trials to reduce bloating and gas, abdominal pain, urgent diarrhoea and constipation, all the main symptoms of IBS. A monthly supply costs £27.50, equating to 88p a day. For details see precisionbiotics.com

Natural ingredients for your skin

If you read one book...

Try ‘Happiness the Inside Job: The 7 Ways to Life-Changing Happiness’ by Matt Pepper, who lectures on happiness and wellbeing for medical teams at Great Ormond St Hospital and runs a private consultancy to motivate people from all walks of life. The book has been a hit with young people and is aimed at improving mind-sets, overcoming personal unhappiness and enabling us to start enjoying life again.

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You skin type will determine what natural ingredients are best for you. To make it easier, here’s the lowdown…

OILY SKIN Your face is usually shiny - and it’s not because you’ve just exercised! Make sure you choose lightweight skincare and avoid touching your face.

Ingredients: Witch hazel, avocado, Apple Cider Vinegar, Tea Tree Oil.

DRY SKIN Your skin feels tight – even a few hours after you’ve moisturised. It might also be flaky. Make sure you use a rich moisturiser at least twice a day.

Ingredients: Argan Oil, Sunflower seed oil, aloe vera, jojoba oil.

COMBINATION SKIN You’ll typically have a shiny forehead and nose and the rest of your face will feel tighter and dryer. Make sure you use different products for different parts of your skin – a bit of a pain but it’s worth it.

Ingredients: Honey, oatmeal, green tea.

What we thought...

Nicky tested Davines’ Naturaltech Well-being shampoo and OI conditioner, which are available from MIYU Boutique Salon in Petts Wood. She says: “As soon as you start using the shampoo and conditioner you can tell that they are luxury products. For a start they smell amazing and they really feel like they are nourishing your hair. A little goes a long way with the shampoo, which effectively washes your hair while gently perfuming it. The conditioner has a thick, rich texture which left my hair soft, shiny and healthy looking. All of Davines products are sustainable, natural products so they not only look after your hair but also the environment."

Well-being shampoo costs £17.30 for 250ml and OI conditioner costs £19 for 250ml This December MIYU have some beautiful Davine gift packages in stock and every box comes with a free shampoo - a great way to spoil your loved ones this Christmas! lifeinmagazines.co.uk

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Craft ideas for kids

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pop the balloon to create a lace bowl. Fill with sweets

4. Abstract art: Collect badges and buttons and use them to create interesting wall art. You could make a heart shape, initials, a rainbow, smiley face…

5. Potato printing: Cut a potato in half and then draw a design into one of the flat edges. Cut around the outline with a sharp knife to create a potato stamp.

Younger children can collect leaves and paint the leaf before pressing onto fabric to decorate.

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There’s ‘2 for 1’ offers when you travel by Southeastern or Stagecoach to a selection of Kent attractions including Howletts Wildlife Park, Canterbury Cathedral, Dreamland Margate and Spa Valley Railway.

See visitkentoffers.co.uk to download your voucher!

Instagram has introduced a new ‘Restrict’ feature that helps users have more control over negative comments and cyberbullying. The social media platform consulted with teens to determine how it can help users who are being bullied. Teens said that they were reticent to block bullies on the app because the bully would be notified which might then escalate the situation - and also because when a user blocks someone on Instagram, they give up the ability to see what the bully is doing. Now users can restrict the actions of anyone who posts negative comments or sends offensive messages. Once someone has been restricted, the user who restricted them has to approve their comments before they’re posted. The user and the user who has been restricted can see the comment but it will not appear to others unless approved. Direct messages from a restricted user will appear in a separate inbox and if the original user chooses to read the message, the restricted user will not be notified. To restrict someone, swipe left on the person’s comment, use the privacy tab in settings or go directly to the profile of the account you want to restrict.

make bunting. Hang up and admire.

3. Doilies: Lay a doily over a balloon and cover with PVA glue. When it’s dry,

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ready to go! Dot them around your flower beds or in plant containers.

2. Bunting: Cut pieces of fabric or felt into triangles then thread with wool to

ICE ICE BABY Royal Tunbridge Wells in Kent is offering two real outdoor ice rinks this Christmas.

The ice rink in Calverley Grounds will have an additional ice rink for parents and toddlers (aged two-four years) as well as the main rink, and in the evening visitors can try their hand at Bavarian Curling, a traditional German ice game. The ice rinks are open from now until 5th January excluding Christmas Day. See visittunbridgewells.com

Will you?...

The most important thing in life isn't money or possessions, it’s family. Incredibly, over 75% of people with children under 18 do not have a will which means their children do not have an appointed guardian. Without you or appointed guardians, social services could take your children into care before deciding who is legally responsible for them. Southeast Legacies feels strongly about changing that, which is why they’re sending school discount vouchers to encourage parents to take the first step. They say: "Writing a will isn’t a morbid thing, it’s about love. It’s about protecting those you care about. It’s about your family knowing that you have considered them and ensuring that they are looked after should they be left without you.”

Give them a call (see p5) to get a will drafted from just £99 for you and your family.

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K2K Stars Performing Arts Academy based at Bishop Justus School on a Saturday with classes in musical theatre, dancing, singing, acting, ballet, tap & acro for children aged 2 to 16

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They’re available at selected retailers and cost £3.99 for a 385g bag.

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Take the kids to see Santa.

His grotto in the Walnuts is open at the weekend (Saturdays and Sundays) from Saturday 7th December until Christmas Eve. (pXX).

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Sample some puddings ahead of the big day. Lillypuds do some great options including this alcohol-free option, which costs £12.35 for 454g. See lillypuds.co.uk

Enter our competition to win a Christmas hamper filled with a range of goodies.

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Plan for a day out of the kitchen at Christmas and book to have dinner at the George & Dragon in Downe! With delicious options on offer, you can get on with enjoying some precious family time rather than perfecting the turkey (pXX).

A new women’s fashion boutique in the heart of Farnborough village, stocking a wide range of carefully curated and on-trend brands.

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Get into the festive spirit by taking in a panto with the kids! Aladdin is running at Bromley’s Churchill Theatre from 7th December to 5th January starring Christopher Biggins. See churchilltheatre.co.uk

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Rest those tired feet from all that shopping with a reflexologist appointment from Melanie at Soulistic Therapy. Your body will thank you for it! (pXX)

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Support local! We've got some amazing local businesses offering great products & services. So let's make the most of them & help keep money in our local economy by aiming to shop local whenever we can.

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5 things to do on a coach

6 WAYS TO SPOIL YOUR POOCH 1. Offer healthy treats: Get healthy nutritious food for your dog that targets their specific needs and helps maintain healthy skin, joints and digestion.

dog for afternoon tea complete with doggy ice cream and homemade dog biscuits. You can even toast your friendship with a glass of pawsecco.

2. Head to a doggy spa: In recent years, spas

5. Buy some new clobber: The majority of dogs have

have opened up that give your pup the pampering it deserves. These include spa baths, mud treatments and conditioning treatments that will have your dog relaxed and looking like the supermodel it is.

collars, but many owners only replace these when they are broken. Why not treat your dog to a new collar that they can show off when going on walks?

3. Get a puppy pedicure: Glamourise your dog with

pooch pals, why don't you throw a puppy party? Get all of your toys and treats out and have your friends and theirs round for a party that they will never forget.

a pooch pedicure. Give your pup a nail trim and grind so they can have the smoothest paws in town.

4. Take them to afternoon tea: Romantic meal

6. Throw a party: If your dog isn't shy and has other

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PET CORNER

Here’s our cat Monty getting into the festive spirit! Monty is four years old, loves tuna and enjoys chasing all the wildlife in the garden. He also loves posing - as I am sure you can tell!

Meet our lovely rescue cat Roxy! He arrived in our home in October and already feels very much part of the family. We love him to bits!

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2. Get colouring: Adult colouring books have become all the rage recently and are great at taking you back down memory lane to childhood.

5. Meditate! Use the time travelling to meditate – this is especially good if you’re not a great traveller.

There are apps you can download that will talk you through relaxing, visualising and meditating.

3. Plan a break: What better way to plan your next getaway while you’re travelling? Take inspiration from the sights you see along the way.

to the super cool ‘Candy Crush’ on your mobile, there are plenty of games out there – it’s just a matter of choosing your favourite.

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What the Foreign AND Commonwealth Office can AND can’t do Issue you with an emergency travel document if you’ve lost or had your passport stolen

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Investigate crimes or get you out of prison

Contact friends and family back home Provide help if you’ve suffered an assault, are a victim of crime or are ill in hospital Contact you if you are detained Help in cases of forced marriage and parental child abductions

It’s all about George!

My pet tortoise is called George and he is 17 years old and a Horsefield tortoise. His 18th birthday is coming up on the 23rd of December. George sleeps in a long tank with light and heating to keep him at the right temperature. His tank is in the front room, which is quite warm for him. He mainly eats weeds and salad, but every now and then we treat him to broccoli, banana and dandelion leaves from our garden.

He loves to walk in the garden and dig in the dirt, climb through bushes and grass and charge across the patio. He has to be watched outside because some birds like sparrow-hawks would kill and eat him if they got the opportunity so we have to be very careful where he is walking at all times.

When George is walking through the house, he has a few favourite spots to stop and sleep in.

Just a few are under my desk chair, under the sofa and between the cupboard and the wall.

He loves to sleep, but equally, he rampages a lot, which is when he throws himself at the walls of his tank and storms up and down, making a lot of noise. The vet recently said that when he does this outside, he is trying to find a female. I am not sure he realises after 17 years that there are no females behind the shed or under the apple tree! George is an active, loud pet who is so funny to just watch.

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4. Play a game: From the traditional ‘I Spy’ classic

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1. Listen to a podcast: There are thousands out there to cater for all tastes. A few we like include ‘Stuff You Should Know’, ‘Ted Talks Daily’ and ‘Strictly Come Dancing’.

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Eco News HOW TO HAVE A ZERO WASTE CHRISTMAS

Christmas can be the most wasteful time of the year - with excess packaging, gift wrap, food and more. But Christmas doesn’t need to be so wasteful; here are ten practical suggestions to help you on your way to a zero waste Christmas...

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Reuse gift wrappers, gift bags, ribbons and other bits that you’ve received over the year. You can then reuse them to wrap and decorate your Christmas gifts. You can also use old magazines or newspapers. Or why not wrap the grandparents’ presents in their grandchild's art work?

Decorate gifts in leaves rather than bows and avoid using sticky tape instead use twine or ribbons.

3. Made with love

Why not use your creative skills and make someone a unique handmade gift? If you're a keen cook, cakes, jams and chutneys make great presents. Or try making your own soaps, candles or jewellery.

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Shopping local is a great way to reduce your carbon footprint and helps your local community at the same time. We have plenty of great local stores and markets in and around Orpington to choose from.

Shopping at local butchers, bakers, farm shops or greengrocers means it is likely that a decent percentage of the produce has had a short field-tofork journey. This not only supports local farmers, but it also means the food is likely to contain more nutrients and have less packaging.

7. Practise responsible shopping.

When shopping, try and think about buying stuff that will not harm the environment. Where possible, opt for ethical and renewable products and think about the materials too - choose items made of recycled cloth instead of leather for example.

8. Avoid food wastage

Buy good quality products which are built to last, they may cost a little bit extra, but they will last longer - which keeps them out of landfill for longer.

5. It's crackers

9. Invest in re-usables

Christmas crackers scream landfill, so try making your own this year.

Make sure they are not foil coated or covered in lots of glitter. Or you can buy reusable Christmas crackers.

They can be filled with whatever you like - a handmade paper hat, a handwritten joke, a chocolate or a useful gift. They look festive and the kids will love helping make them. lifeinmagazines.co.uk

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6. Shop local

Most people buy too much food over the holiday season which leads to a lot of waste. To avoid this aim to stick to a food plan; work out your menu and only buy what you need to. Try not to impulse buy and aim to reuse leftovers in curries, pasta, soups, omelettes, fillings etc.

4. Buy quality over quantity

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Avoid using disposable tableware over the holiday season - invest in reusable tablecloths and napkins.

10. Solar power lights

Opt for solar powered outdoor and where possible, remember to turn your Christmas lights off when you’re out or go to sleep.

Have a merry and zero-waste holiday season!

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The amount of wrapping paper thrown away at Christmas in the UK alone

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Royal Mail delivers around 150 million cards and packages during the Christmas period and it’s estimated that around one billion Christmas cards could end up in the bin.

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Statistics show that around six million trees are thrown out after Christmas, creating more than 9,000 tonnes of additional waste.

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Estimates suggest that 4,200 tonnes of aluminium foil gets thrown away

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Research shows that over 120,000 tonnes of plastic packaging will be thrown out, rather than recycled.

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Photos at Christmas are always important and now with our mobiles at hand it's never been easier. How about documenting your Christmas this year with some not often captured moments? * Dressing the tree marks the start of festivities. Get some close ups of your favourite baubles - don’t use a flash and your lights will glow. * Wrapping presents is always fun especially when accompanied by a glass of Baileys. Shot 1: reams of

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Let the games begin! Ditch the small talk in favour of some favourite board games it will get your guests relaxed in no time at all!

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Mood lighting is key - whether you're using fairy lights or candles or just dimming the lights, check that everything works!

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Music - come up with a playlist to suit all tastes. Ask your guests before they arrive what their three favourite songs are to add to the list.

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Food checks - double check with your guests what they like/don't like or are allergic to. Some might be vegan or gluten intolerant so it's best to check. If you're celebrating an event - don't forget the cake!

paper & ribbons. shot 2: wrapped presents and you looking very pleased with yourself! * Christmas jumpers!! Get a group shot in front of the tree in your seasonal knitwear. Think about your composition - perhaps Christmas tree to the side and family seated and standing around it. Plan this before Christmas whilst presents are still intact and hey presto - you have your Christmas card for next year!

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butter (cut into cubes), 1 tbsp caster sugar finely grated zest 1 lemon, 85g marzipan, 250g mincemeat, icing sugar (for sifting)

Here’s how:

Preheat the oven to 200C. Put the flours in a mixing bowl & mix, add the butter & rub in until it resembles fine breadcrumbs. Stir in the sugar & lemon zest, then mix in 3-4 tablespoons of water until it comes together. Work the dough into a ball then roll out onto a lightly floured surface.

Use a shape cutter to stamp out 9cm circles (save the excess pastry) and use to line a 12-hole bun tin, gathering up the edges into folds. Cut the marzipan into 24 pieces and roll into balls to add two to each pastry case. Spoon in the mincemeat then use the remaining pastry to cut our Xmas shapes. Bake for 12-15 minutes, cool for 5 minutes then sprinkle with icing sugar to serve. Instead of marzipan you can add salted caramel – both taste divine!

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Stay warm this winter When you cook using the oven always leave the oven door open when you remove the food - it will help warm up the room.

Make your own draught excluder by stitching a long sausage shape and filing it with rice. You could make a smaller one to keep on your car dashboard too (this helps avoid condensation in the morning).

If you've got open chimneys consider installing a chimney balloon.

Move furniture away from radiators to allow heat to circulate and add radiator reflector foil.

If you are finding it hard to warm up, try doing 10 minutes exercise - you can follow a YouTube video or make up your own but it will help warm the cockles!

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Real Xmas Tree Maintenance Tips

Prepare the trunk: before installation, saw off the bottom 3cm of the trunk to create a fresh cut that opens up the pores in the bark. If these pores are blocked, water cannot be absorbed, and the tree is likely to dry out faster than expected.

Trees need routine: do not expose the tree to sudden changes in temperature as they prefer steady conditions.

Keep it away from any heat sources: Christmas trees should be positioned away from heat sources, including radiators and fireplaces. Trees dry out faster in heat and so displaying it in a cooler place will

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maintain the freshness of the tree.

Water the tree: place your tree in plain water within a Christmas Tree stand. The water will keep the pores open and the stand will hold your tree up straight.

Then keep watering: top up your tree every day, as it is likely to drink up to 2-3 pints (1-2 litres) of water per day, depending on its size and your central heating settings. If the water runs out, the pores will close and prevent any future water from being absorbed, even after a refill.

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A Final Thought…

Raising awareness of myeloma

by TONY PAGE, a Chartwell Unit CCCB (‘chemo cancer chair buddy’) of Lauretta Wright (Editor of Life In Orpington).

There are three main groups of blood cancer leukaemia, lymphoma and myeloma, but there are more than 100 individual types. Blood cancer is the fifth most common cancer in the UK, with more than 250,000 people living with it. Some 40,000 people are diagnosed each year. Of these, approximately 5,700 are diagnosed annually with myeloma, (multiple myeloma), the one that I have. This blood cancer forms in a type of white blood cell (a plasma cell). At any one time there are around 17,500 people living with myeloma in the UK alone.

Diagnosis day

I vividly remember the exact time and day of my diagnosis; Saturday 9th June 2018 at 10:30am and I was at PRUH’s Chartwell Unit as an inpatient. I was suddenly surrounded by four consultants and two nurses. ‘This doesn’t look good’ I thought, and I was right. Dr Bowcock and Dr Ceesay got straight to the point; my biopsy showed I had multiple myeloma and my kidney function was critical at 18%, plus something called ‘light chains’ were over 10,000. None of this made sense then, although these names and figures would play a big part in my life from that moment onwards.

A specialist key nurse, Fiona Gebbie, who, along with my family, were to become the main ‘rocks’ in my life, stayed at my bedside and tried to tell me in plain English what it all meant, including the most important and dreaded words that it was ‘incurable’ but manageable. After Fiona left I sat there for what seemed like hours trying to get my head together to make that dreaded phone call home to the family. I tried to sound upbeat and cheerful, but I didn’t want to stay on the phone too long as I didn’t think I’d be able to keep it together.

Was it my fault?

What had I done wrong to have caused this cancer?

Smoking at an early age? Drinking? My diet? Of course, I later realised that it had nothing to do with any of these; it was something that could occur at any time to anyone.

But at the time I didn’t know this and was looking to blame myself, feeling very guilty that I was now a burden on my family. Being a fairly positive person, I quickly adopted the attitude of ‘it is what it is - so I’ll just get on with it’. I continue to use this phrase to this day. I was determined to be strong going forward for myself and for those around me. The family have of course been brilliant; without them I would find this long journey so much harder to endure.

The journey

It has been six months of continual hospital appointments, weekly chemotherapy sessions, injections and numerous other medication. Fortunately, my body absorbed everything that has been chucked into it and by August I was being put forward for a stem cell transplant called ‘autologous’. The

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process is miraculous; the people who came up with this need to have knighthoods - and a pay packet that reflects what they do! Plus all the NHS staff too. The transplant was on 1st February 2019, another fantastic experience of what the NHS can and did achieve for me. Unfortunately, after going into full remission after six weeks I relapsed six weeks later with ‘light chains’ going up to 3,051. I am now on another six-seven months chemo cycle with a permanent PICC for up to one year or longer. Again my body copes with everything and long may it continue. The side effects from some of the medication is awful and people have horrendous problems with things like bone pain, sickness, constipation and days when they cannot even get out of bed. I am thankful that I can still get up, take the grandchildren to school, play with them and drive myself about. There are several more months to go on this journey and then ongoing maintenance indefinitely after that.

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Final thoughts

There are several people in my life - family and friends - who have either got cancer or have been touched by their family members who have it. You hear lots of stories about how they are, how they cope and their problems and fears. I just want to say to all of them and anyone who has found the time to read this article that cancer will not win in the end.

We, the human race, will defeat this ghastly disease and obliterate it from our daily routine. The ‘C’ word will then be known as 'conquered'. This has already happened with Polio, so wouldn’t it be fantastic if we could say that about cancer of all kinds in a few years’ time?

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CELEBRATING OUR 20TH BIRTHDAY !

We opened the doors to our first store in Chislehurst 20 years ago in November. It began with five family members, all of whom are still involved in the business today. As local residents we realised that there were not many other travel agencies in the local area. We saw this as an opportunity to bridge a gap in the market and bring employment to the area.

NHS & family roll of honour

There are so many to thank, some of whom I don’t even know their names. Those I miss - please except my apologies and be assured you are and will always be in my thoughts.

Dr Bowcock, Dr Ceesay, Dr Rice, Dr Garland, Dr Cox, Dr Gkreka, Dr Donohoe, Dr Cuthill, Helen Gillespie at Kings, ALL the Chemo nurses at Chartwell – Grant, Jo, the two Debbies, Billy, Vimbai, Emily and the rest of the team (you know who you are), Josie and Kay, the Chartwell inpatient ward nurses and managers, the catering and cleaning staff on the ward (without whom I would not have had a fabulously clean environment and some great ‘grub’ every time I was admitted), not least my specialist key nurse network of Fiona, Vicky and Caroline, whose knowledge of all things cancerous amazes me. Most of all, thank you to my immediate and close family and friends for the wonderful support and help they’ve given me. Without my wife Pam, daughters Wendy and Andrea, son Keith, all their partners and all my grandchildren, plus my extended family and friends, my journey so far would have been almost impossible. I know that I can count on them all for the tough times that I am sure still lie ahead.

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