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very happy New Year 2024 and welcome to this very special souvenir issue. If this is the first time you’ve picked up this magazine, where have you been? And if you’re worried you might miss the next issue, then you can register to receive the free digital issue – direct to your inbox every month. Just complete your details at lifeinmagazines.co.uk/latest-issue/#digital-editions or email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk with your details or you can opt for a hard copy direct through your letterbox.

This month’s issue focuses on the finalists and winners of the Above & Beyond Bromley Business Awards (The ABBBAs) – your winners. And thanks to some amazing sponsors, who backed this new borough-wide initiative, we were able to welcome over 200 guests at The Warren in Hayes, put on some great entertainment and celebrate the success of local businesses. Details of the event start on page 22.

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And remember, where possible please support local businesses. They contribute so much on our doorstep – from providing jobs to supporting the local economy.

According to research by Visa, for every £10 spent with independently-owned local businesses, approximately £3.80 is retained in the local area. Now that’s what we call a win-win.

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The Christmas tree in Trafalgar Square is donated to us by Norway as a thank you for our support in the Second World War. The very first tree was donated in 1947. The tree came by ship to the Surrey Commercial Docks in London to be unloaded. My father was a Stevedore in the docks at this time and was part of the gang that unloaded the tree.

As an eight-year-old child, he took me into the docks (with or without permission). He took me onto the ship and sat me up on the tree. I had never seen a tree so big. It had a lovely pine aroma - still remembered! So, my claim to fame is that I was the first child to see and touch the very first Christmas tree from Norway in 1947.

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Hello! I am Sachin Prakash, a budding 13-year-old photographer in Orpington. Here are a couple of my pictures.

These are wonderful, thank you Sachin. We’ll be publishing more pictures soon. If you would like to submit local pictures (old and new), to share with other readers you can email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk

Caught up with Mick Smith from Bromley Radio at The ABBBAs. Pssst, did you know we now host The Little Big Show on Saturdays at 11am? Listen in at www.bromleyradio.com

Met Jane Rogers (left) from Jane Rogers PR, Helen Manchip (middle) The Social Surgery and Caroline Wardell from Wardells Wardrobe at 1230 TWC Business Expo Day held at Clockwise Bromley.

Joined Bells Accountants as they hosted a quiz night to raise money for The Chartwell Cancer Trust - and we won!

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The coffee shop

by PAM PREEDY

We all have our favourite coffee shop.

Which is yours? Starbucks, Costa or one of the speciality coffee emporia? They are proliferating everywhere.

In the last few months three new coffee shops; Gail’s, Bread Ahead and the Black Sheep Coffee shop, have opened in the pedestrianised area near the Metro Bank, often next door to established shops such as Café Nero and Pret. Once you arrive at the venue of choice you are faced with further choices: Americano, latte, cappuccino; with and without caffeine. Then, there is the variety of milks: oat milk, various nut milks including coconut and hazel. They try to please all tastes. From Orpington to Petts Wood and Chislehurst, wherever two or three shops come together, there is likely to be a shop selling coffee.

Coffee can be traced back through the centuries to the ancient coffee forests of the Ethiopian plateau. There are various stories about how the coffee bean gained Kudos for its energy-giving qualities and, when turned into a drink in a monastery, would sustain the monks through long hours of evening prayer.

Gradually the popularity of coffee made its way north and east to the Middle East. The first coffee house is thought to have opened in 1550 in Constantinople, (Istanbul), poised to enter Europe and ultimately England. Coffee houses became taverns without the alcohol and provided social activities, such as conversation, listening to music and watching various performers, but most of all to keep up with the current news. There were those, such as a Venetian clergymen, who dubbed it the “bitter invention of Satan” in 1615. Pope Clement VIII decided to taste it and found it so satisfying that he gave it papal approval.

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Coffee houses in Constantinople became important centres for the exchange of information and became known as “Schools of the Wise.” In England they were known as “penny universities” because, for the price of a penny, one could purchase a cup of coffee and engage in stimulating conversation. By the middle of the 17th century, it was seen that the quality of the work improved by those who had switched from tea to coffee. There were over 300 coffee houses in London, many of which attracted like-minded patrons; merchants, brokers and artists. Many businesses grew out of specialised coffee emporia; Lloyds of London grew out of the Edward Lloyd Coffee house. It was also a place for spies to hear ‘interesting pieces’ of information for their spy-masters because the patronage was fluid and there was plenty to overhear.

In 1714, the Mayor of Amsterdam presented a young coffee seedling to King Louis XIV which was planted in the Royal Botanical Gardens of Paris. In 1723, a young naval officer Gabriel de Clieu received a seedling and braved horrendous weather, a sabotage attempt to destroy the seedling and a pirate attack to get it to Martinique where it thrived, and is thought to have led to the proliferation of over 18 million trees.

At first the Americans favoured tea, but in 1773 the colonists revolted against the heavy tax on it – The Boston Tea Party. They quickly changed their habits. Thomas Jefferson (3rd American President 1801-1808) referred to “Coffee: the favourite drink of the civilised world.”

It is interesting to look at the popularity of coffee in Bromley. The Bush Directory for 1900 records two Coffee Taverns and five Coffee Houses: in Chatterton Road, East Street, Simpsons Road and Palace Road, often run by ladies and therefore not considered a commercial venture.

By 1924 Kelly’s Directory recorded only two; in Chatterton Road and Palace Road. By the 1940s, there were only two real coffee shops in Bromley, Wilsons (above Robert Dyas) and the Importers Retail Salesroom Ltd (now Carpet Right). The coffee habit is increasingly popular, brought into Britain from America; a place to socialise with friends, conduct work meetings, read and now, at the same time, people can buy snacks and choose ‘take-away’ coffees.

Pay a visit to Bromley Historic Collections on the 2nd floor of Bromley Central Library to learn more about Bromley Borough’s history.

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Let’s talk about dementia Thursday 1st February 2024 2pm - 4pm Learn more about the lesser-known symptoms of dementia and what you can do to support a loved one.

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community NOTICEBOARD More than just a walk in the park Have you heard of ParkBathe? It's a peer-led green health movement using forest bathing that is spreading throughout green spaces in Bromley and the south east to help with:

• Mitigating social isolation and loneliness • Helping women feel safe in urban parks • Connecting local people • Showing how you can experience nature connection in a busy urban park

This is an initiative led by the community for the community and is 1. An accessible 1 hour free guided, slow and silent stroll through an urban green space that gets you "into your senses & out of your thoughts."

2. Uses mindfulness, forest school and forest bathing to encourage relaxation and lower anxiety for groups of 2-10 people.

3. Adaptable for all ages and abilities and specialised groups eg. families of children with ADHD/women who are fearful of walking alone/older people.

4. Aims to combat health inequalities by providing peer-led walks - i.e. "guided by the community for the community."

5. Provides a 'health map' for social prescribers offering a free continuous and consistent wellbeing service 'a bus-ride away.'

6. Our study with Derby university saw an overall 40% reduction in anxiety and a 50% reduction in 'over-thinking' after a 1 hr walk.

The January Challenge Charity 64 Million Artists has launched its 11th January Challenge with a call to action for people to sign up for the free daily creative challenges by email – and to encourage people who would like to become Creativity Champions for their community to get involved.

Each day throughout January, one Creativity Champion offers a suggestion for creative thinking, making, seeing and doing. The January Challenge activities are all free, accessible and are available in person at local workshops and online.

Since 2012, every year over 50,000 people across the UK have explored their individual creativity with The January Challenge, which is designed to boost creativity during the gloomiest month of the year and improve well-being and happiness.

Michael Rosen, Poet says: “The January Challenge is a lovely idea for people to think about the fact that you've got creativity inside you.

Everybody has - they're doing gardening and thinking, ‘Well, I'll put this over there, and do this over there, I'll just try that out’ - that's actually creativity!

If you just name five of the major problems of the world, or whatever it is, you can be sure that they need creative ways of dealing with them. Because if you're not creative about them, you'll just repeat your mistakes. So we need creativity. When you put something out there, either onto a piece of paper, or what you've actually done, is taken something out of your head, and this enables you to look at yourself taking you beyond feeling satisfied, it takes you into a kind of serenity.”

Nigel Clarke, founder of Dadvengers and CBeebies’ presenter said: “I think The January Challenge is amazing. It's really accessible for people because it just allows people to get into whatever might interest them. One creative prompt could be paints and things like that and another one could be music.

I do a lot of work with parents and families and I started something called Dadvengers, we're using that platform to share The January Challenge creative prompts for families and specifically for dads and men to get involved as it's usually a little bit more difficult to get men involved in creative activities.”

For more information visit www.64millionartists.com

GRACIOUS CARE AWARDS Gracious Care recently held its first Care Awards for team members and were joined by the Mayor of Bromley, Councillor Mike Botting, who presented the winners with their awards, certificates and flowers. Awards were given to Candy for ‘Care of the Year’; Samantha for ‘Best Newcome’; Catherine for ‘Most Gracious Care Workers Award’; Kiera for ‘Dementia Care Worker of the Year’; Vansley for ‘Best Attendance Award’; Aimée for ‘End of Life Carer of the Year Award;’ Mikilia for ‘Directors Award’.

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Charity spotlight Name of charity: BelEve UK What service do you provide? We

offer four core programmes for girls aged 8-22 years old.

• Beam Academy for girls aged 8-12 transitioning through school to build confidence, boundary setti ng, self-love and celebrating individuality.

• Empower Her to support girls aged 12-15 with leadership skill, mentoring and personal developm ent for girls.

Both of these programmes are run as weekly in-school sessions in term time, over 12 weeks. For this age group we also offer Afterschool & Holiday workshops.

• An educational sexual harassme nt programme called ‘It is That Deep ’ taught in school to equip young the tools to understand different form people with s of sexual harassment and safeguar d each other.

• Career Insight Days and 1:1 Men toring for girls aged 15 –22 years old.

Who is it available to? Girls and youn g women aged 8-22 years old.

How are you funded? We receive a blend of specific grants for our prog rammes plus individual giving and donations.

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accept donations? We welcome indiv idual giving and have an open Just Giving page where individuals can help transform the lives of youn g girls and women in our commun ity.

Do you run any events? Yes, holiday

women to get together.

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workshops, free career insight days and community trips for girls and young

help? We have proudly announced our search for 100 dedicated mentors support girls in achieving their full to empower and potential.

The campaign "Believe in Her Succ ess," aims to address the gender stereotypes that still limit over half 15-22. With the right opportunities of girls aged and guidance, girls can accomplish anything they set their minds to. Men has proven to be a powerful tool in torship helping girls gain confidence and skills necessary for their personal professional growth. and What is required: The biggest inves tment will be your time. We ask that you are committed for a minimum months once you are matched with of six a Mentee. You will be required to conn ect with your Mentee at least once for a minimum of 90 minutes. a month

Contact details: Email info@beleveuk .org

or see www.beleveuk.org

SUPPORTING LOCAL AUTHORS…

Jemma says: “I’ve always loved reading and studied English at university. I just had an idea and started typing – but my first draft stayed unfinished on my laptop for several years! My new Mysterious Mansions Series follows 12-year-old trainee housemaid Alice and reclusive young aristocrat Theo as they solve mysteries in Edwardian London. The target reading age is eight-12, but I hear from lots of adults who fancy something lighter to read.”

Photos: Emily Dews Photography

Jemma Hatt recently moved to Farnborough Village and is the author of nine books for children. Her Adventurers Series features a group of children and their Border collie as they search for adventure and treasure, everywhere from Cornwall to Cairo. It has been translated in multiple languages and the first in the series (The Adventurers and the Cursed Castle) was the winner of the 2020 BookBrunch Children's Selfies Awards.

Jemma’s books are available in paperback (from £6.99) from all major bookshops, as well as eBooks and audiobook through all major retailers. Signed copies and further information are available at www.jemmahatt.com

If you’re a local author or know of one, email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk for the chance to be featured.

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community NOTICEBOARD Empower your children!

Do you have a child that is naturally inquisitive about technology? Maybe they love gaming?

Harness their creative streak by enabling them to build their own computer with the help of James from Our Technician.

James offers a free consultation with families to find out the child’s needs, after which he arranges a session at the child’s home and brings all the necessary equipment. During the session, James lays out all the different components and parts, before teaching and guiding the student on how to build their own computer using their screwdriver. He delves into what each of the parts does, how they perform and even their history – a really informative and educational session that leaves children knowledgeable and with a sense of achievement when they switch the computer on.

To book a session with James or for more information call 020 8616 0244 or visit www.ourtechnician.co.uk

Coming up on The Little Big Show…

Show, brought to you from You can tune in to The Little Big s at 11am on Bromley Radio. rday Satu on es, azin Life In…Mag On the show in January: ing Monday of the year. We chat • Divorce day is the first work d, couple counsellor on to a fully qualified, Relate-traine importance of communication. the and work making a marriage his ind Bromley Radio (as well as • Find out about the brains beh der, Mick Smith. foun its view inter we as s), ideas and future plan ol Bromley borough secondary scho • Getting tough with teens! A facilitate in their can nts pare how on ce advi teacher offers his ol. teenager’s performance at scho nt and Macebearer, takes us • Peter Dunn, Mayoral Attenda es. ht into his roles and responsibiliti behind the scenes with an insig Plus plenty more!

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Charity appeal lunch for Ukraine

The Mayor of Bromley is teaming up with Bromley Borough Rotary Clubs to help raise funds for Rotary’s Ukraine project to support civilians with medical needs, shelter, generators and household items.

It takes place on Sunday 21st January at The Warren, Croydon Road, Hayes, BR2 7AL. £35 per person for three courses Bookings and payment to be made by Friday 5th January. King Henry VIII will also be entertaining guests!

For more information or to book email mayors.office@bromley.gov.uk

SUPPORTING LOCAL AUTHORS… Dena Scott retired from the legal profession four years ago at the age of 68. She has lived in Orpington most of her life and is married with two sons who are in theirs 40s. The title of her book is ‘A Man of No Substance’ and was published in 2022.

Dena said: “I had always enjoyed writing but with my career and family I couldn’t dedicate a great deal of time to writing. My experience was to write a few chapters and then return to them whenever possible. Retirement allowed me to focus and finally finish my book. I think my story would appeal to readers who enjoy the era of post WWII – programmes like Dads Army and The Land Girls.

However, it is not a war story as the timing is set after the war.”

Dena’s book covers several emotions including love, betrayal and distrust and she is in the process of writing a sequel. It is available on Amazon and from Waterstones and various other literary outlets online priced at £8.99.

If you’re a local author or know of one, email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk

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Pictured is Anna Young (left) from Bells Accountants, sponsor of the floral table decorations at the prestigious Above & Beyond Bromley Business Awards (The ABBBAs). Bells Accountants kindly donated the 24 bowls used on the night to Greener and Cleaner so that the Bromley Hub can rent them out in their party packs. Pictured with Anna and delighted to receive the donation is the charity’s Angela Hulm.

Tom Allen helps St Christopher’s

LBHA firefighters go the extra mile ice Comedian Tom Allen helped St Christopher’s Hosp out sell night raise more than £2,000 during his fourrun in Bromley. the The Bromley-born comic invited staff and volunteers from up standhis of four all hospice to fundraise during the interval at year. last late e Theatr ill shows at The Church ng Tom, The total raised was £2,256.64 from the collection, meani to helped now has sador, ambas l officia who is St Christopher’s e. hospic the rting suppo time his during 9 £84,30 than raise more and , online and e He has previously hosted a quiz at the hospic ITV’s Tipping also pledged £31,550 from TV gameshows, including number of a on ham Syden in e hospic the visited Point. He has families. their and occasions, meeting staff, volunteers, patients pher’s Christo St rt suppo to ted Tom said: “I’m absolutely deligh ey Broml of people rful wonde the by raised and I know the money will go to support people across our community.”

Christine Head of Supporter Giving at St Christopher’s Hospice, to raise us Davies, said: “Tom’s generous support has helped people at rting suppo ue contin valuable funds which mean we can unity. comm our across life of end the as their “Each year we support more than 5,000 patients, as well more raise to have we work that ue contin To . carers families and crucial in than £16million each year and Tom’s support has been helping us build towards that total.”

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London Biggin Hill Airport’s Res cue & Firefighting Service took part in a 24-hour tyre flip fundraiser to raise money and awareness for Breast Cancer Awareness Mon th, which took place last year.

Their relentless strength and unw avering spirit were on full display as they flipp ed, flipped and flipped some more (24,480 time s to be precise!) to support those facing cancer.

The team were delighted to be joine d by representatives from London Fire Brigade, who sent crews and fire applianc es from ever y station across the London Boro ugh of Bromley in support.

Congratulations to the whole team on this fantastic achievement and raisi ng over £5,000 - enough to pay for a Macmillan nurse for one whole month helping people livin g with cancer and their families receive essential medical, practical and emotional support.

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INSIGHTS FROM THE SUPER

We are currently coming through a very challenging time for policing here in Bromley, and throughout London.

We have all seen in the news the impact that the Middle East conflict has had on the communities of London. As the Commissioner said earlier this week, there has been a significant rise in hate crime affecting every area. We continue to encourage the public to report all incidents of hate crime to us so they can be investigated fully, and we will support victims in every way we can.

This has had other knock on consequences, with the ongoing need to provide Bromley officers both to police central London demonstrations, and to assist in investigating the rise in hate crime. As a result, you may have noticed in recent weeks that your neighbourhood officers haven’t been as visible as I would have liked, but this has sadly been unavoidable due to the current demands across the capital and our officers are under significant pressure. I wish to publically note my thanks for

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Literary delights read & reviewed by Bromley borough residents

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Title: Book Lovers Reviewed by: Zoe Hill Author: Emily Henry Published: 12/05/22 Publisher: Penguin No of pages: 384 RRP: £8.99 (paperback)

Book Lovers is everything you want in a romance, a ‘will they, won’t they’, some cheesy moments (but in the best way possible); Henry knows the romance clichés and plays into them so well. Nora’s whole life is books. Charlie is an editor with a gift for creating bestsellers. And he's Nora's work nemesis.

Nora has been through enough break-ups to know she's the woman men date before they find their happy-everafter. That's why Nora's sister has persuaded her to swap her desk in the city for a month's holiday in Sunshine Falls, North Carolina. It's a small town straight out of a romance novel, but instead of meeting sexy lumberjacks, handsome doctors or cute bartenders, Nora keeps bumping into...

Charlie. This book will make you wish Sunshine Falls was a real place. And if you’re a book lover like me, then what can be better than reading about people whose lives revolve around the love of books.

4 stars

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the huge efforts all Bromley officers have made to support policing and the public at this time.

Work continues to improve policing in the borough, and to strengthen our foundations and partnerships. This month we are holding our first Retail Crime working group across a wide range of partners to target assaults and abuse of retail workers, along with reducing shoplifting. In March, we are holding the Bromley Anti-Social Behaviour Conference to fully understand the problem and how to tackle it together. My officers remain committed to listening to the problems affecting Bromley borough residents and working on solving them. This remains underpinned by a strong partnership and regular meetings with the council, Fire Brigade, Health services and many others to ensure we are progressing on what matters.

I wish everyone a happy New Year.

Superintendent Luke Baldock Bromley Borough Neighbourhood Policing

NON-FICTION Title:

Reclaiming the Sacred: Healing Our Relationships with Ourselves and the World Reviewed by: Jamie Wright Author: Jeff Golden Published: 2022 Publisher: Self Published (www. reclaimingthesacred. net) No of pages: 318 RRP: £14.74

Jeff Golden’s self-published Reclaiming the Sacred (which won the Grand Prize at the Nautilus Book Awards), is a ‘selfhelp’ book of sorts which has at its heart encouraging the reader to re-engage with the world around them. Golden weaves the wisdom of others, such as philosophers, psychologists and even fictional characters, along with his own years of research together to try to help establish a positive equilibrium in our relationship with money and the material world. Golden contends that the modern world and our thirst towards wealth actually obscures the sacred and ignores the abundance that is there to be discovered. This is a thought-provoking read which puts into perspective our place in the world and how we might achieve real happiness.

4 stars!

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MAYOR’S VOICE The run-up to Christmas has been a busy and highly enjoyable time for me and the Mayoral team, with so many special events taking place, from Christmas lights switchons, to carol services and a whole host of celebratory parties, all with much laughter and merriment shared between residents.

The Mayor and Mayoress of Bromley, Cllr Mike Botting and Cllr Kim Botting

impressed by all the residents who volunteer over the

But while the festive season can be joyous as we come together with friends and family, there will be others in our communities who find this a very challenging time of year, with feelings of loneliness being common over this period.

holidays to support those in the community who need it. There are so many local charities doing amazing work, including some who are very close to my heart, like those I am looking to support in my mayoral year, with information about this at www.bromley.gov.uk/ mayor.

So please do look out for each other, as sometimes something as simple as knocking on the door of a neighbour and inviting them round for a mice pie and a chat can make all the difference.

So, if you are in a more fortunate position, please do consider donating, to help ensure this great voluntary work can continue across the borough.

I look forward to meeting many of you in the new year as I continue my time as Mayor, but for now all I have left to say is a very Happy New Year!

And if you are struggling over the holidays and feel you need some help, please don’t suffer in silence as there is plenty of support available in Bromley, with much of this captured at www.bromley.gov.uk/ SupportingResidents.

Cllr Mike Botting Mayor of Bromley (2023-24)

I know there is no shortage of goodwill in Bromley and as the borough’s Loneliness Champion, I am constantly

Find out more and stay connected at www.bromley.gov.uk/mayor

Lines from Linda

I felt a prick in my upper thigh, (Yes just next to my buttock. Under it to be precise). I lifted my skirt Happy New Year! January is one of those months and glanced in the mirror. To my horror, a pine needle had injected that is filled with good intentions and resolutions. itself, like wasp sting, under my For me, since I gave up pantomime, it’s been about skin. Try as I did, and believe me, clearing up after Christmas. Because I have done so I gave it my best, but I couldn’t pull many pantos in the past, I now try and make a big thing the little green needle out. So, yes, I of Christmas. I invite friends for lunch and spend endless ended up in A and E. They were lovely, time shopping for food, meaning that in January, I have but I was put on a bed, asked to go on all fours, oodles of left-over food. And, of course, I overdo skirt lifted toward the back of my head (full Christmas the Chrissy decorations. Also, I always have had knickers on show), surrounded by two giggling a big real tree, which means I have to keep nurses armed with tweezers and a needle. They hoovering and picking up pine needles as the Taking down first had to call the on-call doctor to oversee that tree slowly disintegrates as it moves toward a quick bit of injecting and pressure pulling with the decorations the new year, after looking fabulous over the the tweezers would do the trick. is always a festivities. little sad The doctor also found it hilarious, but agreed, Taking down the decorations is always a little a needle and tweezer would be a quick solution. sad, but we tell ourselves there will be another So eventually the naughty pine needle was removed Christmas next year and it’ll come round in a jiffy. by two wonderful nurses, who then had to patch me up However, pine needles do not get lifted in a jiffy. And, with a large square of padding and two strips of plaster, they seem to go everywhere, so I spend ages disposing advising me not to wear jeans or trousers, as my bottom of them. They are like splinters if you are not careful would look a strange shape beneath the fabric. It was very which, last year I wasn’t and as I found out, one can end cold last January, but I stayed in skirts until I removed up in trouble. OK, it’s embarrassing, but I will reveal what the dressing. I then made a New Year’s Resolution and happened. followed it through. This year I had a beautiful, twinkling, artificial tree.

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what's on

Your essential what's on guide for events, activities, clubs and much more in and around Orpington.

There's something for everyone!

community & CHARITY Bromley 10K Charity Fun Run

Sunday 28th January, 10am start

Norman Park Athletics Track, off Hayes Lane, Bromley, BR2 9EJ Cost: Entry fee £19 (on-day registration) The Bromley 10K Charity Fun Run is back! The course comprises 270m + another 4 laps around the track, 4 laps around the park and final 300m on track. Water will be offered at various parts of the course and there are on site, changing facilities, toilets and parking.

The charity fun run will be raising money for Sport In Mind. Applicants should register on the day between 9am and 9.45am. For details see www. mccpromotions.com

u3a Orpington

3rd Monday of the month at 2pm

Crofton Main Hall, Orpington, BR6 8PR Cost: £12 a year Contact: Membersadmin@u3aorpington.org.uk or call 07732 005819 If you are retired or working part-time, why not join nearly 1,000 other members for access to over 95 different activities. Refreshments are provided.

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Mayor of Bromley’s Charity Appeal Lunch for Ukraine

Sunday 21st January, 12pm for 12.30pm start.

The Warren, Croydon Road, Hayes, BR2 7AL Cost: £35 per person for 3 courses Contact: 020 8313 4354 The Mayor of Bromley, Cllr Mike Botting, is teaming up with Bromley Borough Rotary Clubs to help raise funds for Rotary’s Ukraine project, set up to support civilians with medical needs, shelter, generators and other household necessities. King Henry VIII will be entertaining guests and bookings must be made

by Friday 5th January. For details email Mayors.

Office@bromley.gov.uk

The Free Hub

Every Tuesday (expect the third Tuesday of the month), 9:30am – 12 noon

Orpington Methodist Church, Sevenoaks Road, Orpington, BR6 9JH Cost: Everything is Free – tea, cake, leaflets, occasional expert advice and of course a warm welcome and someone to chat to guaranteed.

Contact: Email rotaryorpingtondistricteclub@gmail. com Where coffee, cake and chat are brought to you for free.

Community coming together. Every week is different.

Wheelchair friendly space. During January we will have plenty of volunteering opportunities for those interested.

For details see www.orpingtondistrict-e-club.co.uk

Macular Society Bromley Support Group

1st Tuesday of every month (except Jan & Aug)

10am for tea/coffee & biscuits Meeting starts at 10:30am, finishing at 12pm Bromley Town Church, 2 Ethelbert Road, Bromley, BR1 1JA Cost: Free Contact: No need to contact - just turn up and introduce yourself We are a local support group for people suffering with Age related Macular Degeneration (AMD). Being diagnosed with AMD can be devastating, so we look to provide social interaction and mutual support to those affected. We have a variety of speakers and a mixed and diverse programme. No need to book - just come along and introduce yourself!

Orpington 'Drop In' Parkinson's Café 1st Thursday of each month, 10.30am 12.30pm Sanctuary Café, Orpington Baptist Church, Station Road BR6 0RZ Cost: Free

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Polymyalgia Rheumatica & Giant Cell Arteritis Support Group

1st Wednesday of every month (except August & December) 2pm for refreshments followed by the meeting.

Finishes at 3.30pm

St Paul's Church, Crofton Road, Orpington, BR6 8JE Cost: £5 We are the local support group for the Bromley area for all who are affected by PMR and/or GCA, two little known and poorly understood conditions. Being diagnosed can be devastating and life changing. Our speakers range from rheumatologists to pharmacists, ophthalmologists to Bromley Lions Clubs. Our meetings are an opportunity to share with others who understand.

We are supported by the national charity - PMRGCAuk - which keeps us up-to-date with the latest medical advances. Call 0300 999 5090 for more information or visit pmrgca.org.uk/author/orpington

Exhibitions & Fairs Orpington Stamp & Postcard Fair plus Online auction & viewing Saturday 13th January, 10am-4pm

At Christ Lutheran Church Hall, 227 Poverest Road, Orpington, BR5 1RD Cost: Free entry Contact: Enquiries on 07864 264000 Come along and have a look! NEW: Auction viewing & online auction at 2pm with many interesting lots! You can find these at KJ Stamps in advance or turn up on the day to view and bid via our website (we are happy to help with this). For details see www.kjstamps.co.uk

Health, Beauty & FITNESS Flin's Online & Live Fitness Classes See website for class dates & times

Cost: PAYG £5-£8 Contact: Fran on 07976 412027 Online streaming plus live offerings, 40+ classes a week, early mornings, mid mornings and evenings including weekend classes. Box Fit, Total Body Conditioning, Yoga Mobility & Yoga Flow, Pilates, Zumba, Cross.

Training, Back2Fit, Pump and more: fitness for all!

Mornings at Westcombe Park RFC, evenings at Tubbenden School. I also offer a free monthly ‘Dance Because Nobody’s Watching’ event on the first Sunday of the month, 11am, at Tubbenden Junior School – all are welcome. See www.flinsfitness.co.uk for details.

Mel Crisp Yoga

Tuesday evening 7pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood - Vinyasa Flow Class (1hr) Cost: PAYG £12 or 4 classes for £40.

Tuesday at 8.15pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood – Hatha Flow (45mins) Cost: PAYG £9 or £30 for a block of 4 classes Wednesday at 9.45am at Orpington Village Hall Hatha Yoga classes (1hr)

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Mixed ability and beginners welcome at both classes.

Cost: PAYG £12, Block Payment Classes £40 for 4 consecutive classes. First PAYG class is free.

Contact: Mel on 07504 855 424. Email melcrisp41@ icloud.com www.melcrispyoga.com First class is FREE when mentioning Life In Orpington magazine Mel has partnered with the Primrose Centre (based in the grounds of PRUH) to offer Yoga For Breast Cancer patients on Tuesdays 2pm-3pm. Once registered with the charity (see www.primrosecentre.org.uk) the class is free to attend. For those who have finished treatment and have returned to work, a four-week block booking costs £8 per class and runs on Wednesday evenings from 7pm-8pm.

Yoga classes

Mondays, 10am - 11.15am & Fridays, 12.30pm - 1.45pm

Orpington Liberal Club Hall, 7 Station Rd, Orpington, BR6 0RZ Cost: £9.50 per class, pay as you go. Block booking reductions available.

Contact: Email katieknightyoga@gmail.com Friendly and welcoming mixed ability hatha yoga classes focusing on strength, balance and flexibility. Including breathing exercises, stretching, working towards yoga postures and finishing with a concentration and/or relaxation practice. Beginners welcome. For details see www.yogabeeskent.co.uk

libraries Did you know that the borough’s libraries run a variety of events throughout the month?

Check their websites via www.better.org.uk/library/ london/bromley or call them for more information.

Orpington

Contact: 01689 831551 Email: Orpington.library@gll.org

Petts Wood

Contact: 01689 821607 Email: Pettswood.library@gll.org

Southborough

Contact: 020 8467 0355 Email: southborough.library@gll.org

St Paul’s Cray

Contact: 0208 300 5454 Email: stpaulscray.library@gll.org

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what's on MUSIC, entertainment & FOOD Into the Daylight – Jazz and Blues evening 4th January, 8pm

Daylight Inn, Station Square, Petts Wood, BR5 1LZ Cost: £5 admission (supporting Bromley Food Bank, Ukraine Appeal & MSF - Doctors without Borders).

Contact: 01689 877402. Book a table or walk in: www.thedaylightinn.co.uk Green Chain Quartet with special guest for Chicago Blues session: Shakey Vick. Then the first Thursday of every month. For details For details see www.greenchainquartet.com

Line Dancing - Carolina Country Music Club

Line Dance Classes – beginners and intermediates (Every Wednesday) 1st & 15th December (Live Music With Dancing) Times: 7.30pm-10pm Wednesdays, 7.30pm-11pm Fridays

Location: Pickhurst Infant School, Pickhurst Lane, West Wickham, Bromley BR4 0HL Cost: £6 Wednesday, £10 Friday Contact: 020 8462 5314 or email: jbhorniblow@btinternet.com Come along and give us a try, make new friends, keep fit and have fun! We cater for all abilities and all ages. Refreshments available (tea, coffee, biscuits).

For more information see www.facebook.com/ CarolinaCountryMusicClub

NETWORKING/business Bromley Ladies Who Latte

Last Wednesday of each month, 10am-12pm

Community House, CASPA Cafe, 11 South Street, Bromley BR1 1RH Cost: Free Contact: Email: bromleyladieswholatte@gmail.com Tel: 07947990923 A lively, local group for women in business covering the Bromley Borough. We welcome all types of businesses, from those who are just starting their journey to those who have been operating for some time.

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Cirque - The Greatest Show

Friday 5th – Saturday 6th January Friday 7.30pm, Saturday 2.30pm & 7.30pm

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Calendar Girls The Musical

Wednesday 10th- Saturday 13th January Wednesday – Saturday 7.30pm, Wednesday, Thursday & Saturday 2.30pm

Cost: Tickets from £22 Inspired by the true story of the Calendar Girls.

Following the death of a much-loved husband, a group of ordinary women in a small Yorkshire Women's Institute are prompted to do an extraordinary thing and set about creating a nude calendar to raise money for charity. The story of the Calendar Girls launched a global phenomenon: a million copycat calendars, a record-breaking movie, stage play and now a musical written by Gary Barlow and Tim Firth which coined the term "craughing" - the act of crying and laughing at the same time!

David Suchet - Poirot And More: A Retrospective Sunday 21st January, 2.30pm

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The inaugural Above & Beyond Bromley Business Awards (The ABBBAs) took place at The Warren in Hayes recently, where more than 200 attendees gathered to find out which local business stars had been announced as the borough’s finest.

From start-up companies and social impact innovators to best high street ventures and micro businesses, a wide range of industries were represented, as well as distinguished guests including Lord and Lady Harris from Harris Ventures and Tapi Carpets (headline sponsor); The Mayor of Bromley, Cllr Mike Botting and the Mayoress, Cllr Kim Botting; Mayoral Attendant and Macebearer, Peter Dunn; and Gareth Bacon MP.

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Throughout the course of the evening guests enjoyed a pre-dinner Champagne reception and a delectable three-course meal; had access to a pic ‘n’ mix sweet cart and fun photo booth; enjoyed the awards ceremony and danced the night away with ABBA classic songs from tribute band, ABBA Magic.

The event also helped raise a total of £1,050 for the MumMum Foundation, one of the Mayor’s charities this year, where guests took part in a fun ‘head and tails’ game to win a hamper worth over £70. They also took home gift bags with goodies from local companies including Molton Brown and Newton Wood, as well as confectionary, and information about Life In…Magazines’ third magazine launch this year, which will be in Beckenham.

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In this very special souvenir issue, the finalists and winners of The ABBBAs are detailed, along with information on what attendees, sponsors and winners thought of the debut event.

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The Warren in Hayes welcomed over 200 guests, with floral decorations sponsored

by Bells Accountants from local florist, Sweet Pea, and table wine sponsored by EJJB Consulting, The Social Surgery and Beckenham Business Association.

The team from Orpington Stagecoach makes the most of the photo booth, sponsored by People In Business (PIB).

Paul Andrews, MC for The ABBBAs, gives the thumbs up to get proceedings underway.

Lisa Ellams (left) from Junk N Disorderly catches up with the Bromley Buzz team – from the left: Sarah Marsh-Collings, Darren Weale and Zeenat Noorani.

The Clockwise Bromley team, who were also sponsors of The ABBBAs.

Michelle Simpson from Life In…Magazines with the team from Shampan Group, secondary sponsors of The ABBBAs.

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Lee Thomas from The Fairlight Group chats with David Winstanley, CEO of LBHA at the pre-dinner Champagne reception, which was sponsored by RBC Brewin Dolphin.

London Biggin Hill Airport were secondary sponsors of The ABBBAs. Pictured from the left are the airport’s Matthew Amer, Colin Hitchins, David Winstanley and Georgina Godfree, with Steven Thorne-Farrar from The Landing Hotel.

Ready to get the party started are, from the left: Sarah Marsh-Collins from Babel Monkey; Emma Mayeux from Brand Planning; Zeenat Noorani from The Clarity Coach; and Jackie Groundsell from 1230 The Women’s Company.

Lee Thomas (middle) from The Fairlight Group with his team along with Chandra Sharma (bottom right) from Elmcroft Business Services and Startup Bromley.

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WINNER

BEST STARTUP This category was open to businesses who have been trading for two years or less – a great achievement for all given that we had just come out of the pandemic.

Sponsored by Winner: Zap Kids Club Designed for children with complex needs, learning difficulties and ASD, ZAP’s vision is to create a truly accessible arts/crafts and sports holiday club that is fully inclusive for all children regardless of their SENd. Their motto is “Where your difference, makes no difference to us!”

The club also offers an opportunity for parents and carers to have much needed respite during holiday periods.

Pictured from the left with category sponsors are: Rebecca Gediking, Better; Stef Angel, Gina Bowen and Mikayla Osborn, Zap Kids Club; Loretta Awuah, Better.

Finalists: VR N3XT, Brightwater Memorial Park I can't even put it into words what winning means. I started this club because my son has got severe complex needs and there was nowhere for him to go in the holiday periods. And when you've got complex needs, holiday periods are a long time. So, I set it up literally last October, and we are now welcoming 100 families. We give them the much-needed respite they need, plus we have a great time with their kids. Winning is amazing and I can’t believe it. Thank you so much.”

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Waleed Sarwar and Atiya Naseer from VR N3XT

Jackie and Bill Heasman from Brightwater Memorial Park

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The BCFVSF team – from the left are: Samantha Baldwin, Samantha Britnell, Shanna Jarvis and Stephanie Lawrence.

“This means a lot for me and my team. The tireless nights and the incredible work that we are doing to literally change lives in Bromley and to the 2,500 children we supported this summer. This really is for them. So that's why I'd like to dedicate this award to all the children and families that need us more than ever.”

Samantha, BCFVSF

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Jenny Chandler, Louise Crocker, Bobby Shirley and Poonum Dhul from Orpington Village Hall.

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WINNER

This was a nominated category to highlight individuals who have demonstrated outstanding service in helping others and who always look to serve their wider community. It was a close call between the finalists and winners, with just one point separating them all.

Sponsored by Winner: Jane Knight Jane set up Successful Mum’s Career Academy as a result of her own experience of having nowhere to turn to and wanted to provide a platform where mums could find work, start a business and get their mojo back after having a family.

She set about helping 100 women back to work, but has since helped almost 9,000 women including those who have been victims of domestic abuse and ex-offenders.

Sponsor of the Community Hero category, London Biggin Hill Airport’s CEO, David Winstanley (left), presents the Community Hero award to Jane Knight (middle) and her team – from the left: Julia O’Dwyer, Georgina Crispin and Julie Doyle.

Finalists: Cliff Shepherd, Amanda Stone

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Cliff Shepherd picked up the finalist award for his contribution as a leader of the Orpington & Bromley Gateway Club. Under Cliff's leadership, the club provided a vital lifeline for adults with learning disabilities.

“This is really special for all the mums that we’ve supported in the Bromley borough. It’s a fantastic achievement, but I couldn't have done it without my team, the community and all the people I’ve worked with in Bromley. I think everywhere you go there's somebody that has been involved with working with us, so it's all about mums supporting mums.”

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Amanda Stone was nominated for her involvement at Bromley Borough Foodbank, where her campaigning led to support for supermarket vouchers to be supplied to eligible families.

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Sponsored by Winner: James Broomfield Through his company Our Tech, James has helped hundreds of customers with computer support in the borough of Bromley and beyond.

Customers nominated him for many reasons, amongst which included his dedication to getting problems solved, explaining things in simple terms and being up-to-date and knowledgeable about his industry.

James is a regular fundraiser for local charities and his work doesn’t just involve IT issues - he also helps children with an interest in technology to build their own computers.

Sponsors of the Best Individual category, Warren Mcgrath (left) and Alwyn Fitzgerald (right), present James Broomfield from Our Technician with his award.

“This award means everything to me. All the hard work and effort that I put into helping all my customers, and to actually be recognised for it, that means just absolutely everything.”

James Broomfield, Our Technician Chas Jordan from Fair Contract Associates picked up the finalist certificate for his contribution to the Bromley Business Network. According to those who nominated him: “People gravitate to Chas. There are members of the group that he has taken under his wing, helped them to develop their business and been an ear to listen to their challenges and bounce ideas off. His considerable business knowledge accumulated over the years is freely shared and he is, effectively, a mentor to many of the group members.”

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This award focusses on businesses who have gone to great lengths to improve their sustainability efforts, reduce their environmental impact or contribute to conservation as part of their sales process. Not only are they doing great things for our community, but they are also making the world we live in a better place.

Sponsored by Winner: Anastasia’s Pantry Anastasia was inspired by her own struggles and hunt for healthier food which led to her developing granola and protein balls with honest ingredients and no hidden nasties.

The company operates a zero-waste policy (all food is either used or donated), offers her products packaging free wherever she can and provides her products in recyclable, biodegradable or compostable packaging.

Finalists: Junk N Disorderly, Hattrill & Co

“It's very rewarding to have won the Best Environmental Company in Bromley, considering we have been here for less than a year. It's very fulfilling to have your hard work recognised and it gives me the motivation to continue serving the community, not only within Bromley but also UK-wide. So, this award makes me very happy, thank you!”

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A delighted Lisa Ellams from Junk N Disorderly collects her certificate.

James Russell and Anastasia Safonova from Anastasia’s Pantry with their award.

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BEST SOCIAL IMPACT COMPANY This accolade highlights companies who consciously and systemically serve or solve a local community need, such as promoting diversity, equity and inclusion to those who are under-represented or bridging gaps between individuals or groups and their community.

Sponsored by Winner: Successful Mums Career Academy

Pictured with sponsor Sufian Miah from Shampan Group are, from the left: Julie Doyle, Julia O’Dwyer, Jane Knight and Georgina Crispin.

They offer a multitude of courses including back to work and confidence courses, business start-up courses and autism awareness qualifications.

They work in partnership with the Job Centre Plus to reach women from low-income backgrounds and those affected by domestic violence, as well as HM Prison enabling them to reach ex-offenders.

Finalists: Mytime Active, Zap Kids Club “This award is so important for the team; for all of us to understand and remember the impact we have as Successful Mums Career Academy on the many thousands of mums we’ve helped across the Bromley borough. Also, for the impact that we are making as a team for these women’s little children and their big children. If mum is happy and has a job she loves, then the household is happy too.”

Jane Knight, Successful Mums

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It’s smiles all round for Debra Weekes (left) and Chloe Louch from Mytime Active.

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Gina Bowen from Zap Kids Club is delighted to collect her certificate.

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BEST BUSINESS – INDEPENDENT

This award celebrates those who have gone ‘above and beyond’. The competition was fierce, with just four points between the winner and finalists.

Sponsored by Winner: Judge & Priestley LLP Established since 1889, the company offers a work experience and mentoring programme to give young people an insight into the legal profession and to encourage them to consider a legal career.

In their submission, they referenced the charitable work that they do including annual participation in the ‘Will Aid Free Will’ campaign, where they waive their fees for writing wills in exchange of voluntary donations to the Will Aid charities such as Age UK, British Red Cross, Actionaid, NSPCC, Sightsavers and Save the Children.

Finalists: Bells Accountants, Stagecoach Orpington

FINA

Pictured with Joanne Bell (middle), founder of Bells Accountants are, from the left: Louise Thomas, Helen Atack, Anna Young and Jenny Darby, all Bells Accountants.

Nita Newsome and Steven Taylor from Judge & Priestley pick up the award for Best Business Independent.

“It’s a fantastic opportunity for us to show what we do and we are committed to being involved with the community. All of our staff and our partners are committed to working hard with the community and this is just an absolutely fantastic opportunity for us.”

Steven Taylor, Judge & Priestley

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Pictured are the Stagecoach Orpington team – from the left: Martha Banks, Felicity Corbould-Dawe, Nathan Corbould-Dawe and Lucy Williams.

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BEST BUSINESS - HIGH STREET This award welcomed submissions from owners and managers of High Street retailers and shone a light on those offering outstanding customer service and engaging in the local community.

Sponsored by Winner: Ollie Polly Play Cafe

It’s Champagne and celebrations for Neil and Amy Mitchell from Ollie Polly Play Cafe.

“It’s amazing! From starting in pop-ups in local churches and then finding our place on the high street and then opening three weeks before covid; and shutting down, everything going belly up, to actually having made it through the other side of that and been awarded this award is absolutely outstanding. I’m so, so grateful, thank you.”

Neil Mitchelle, Ollie Polly Play Cafe

The business was inspired by Amy and Neil’s (the owners) two children.

They wanted to create an environment where parents and carers can relax, build friendships and enjoy great food, whilst their children play and learn.

They have been featured on Channel 5 news for their dedication to offering healthy children’s meals with no added salt.

Finalists: Wellingtons Electrical, Southeast Legacies

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Pictured with co-owner of Southeast Legacies, Anthony Rockliffe, are the company’s Kelsey Wills (left) and Samantha Fincham.

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With a focus on sole traders or small businesses, the Best Micro Business rewarded those doing great things in our community. The judges reported that it was great to see so many entrepreneurs following their dreams and passions and serving their community, whether they were part of a small team or doing it single-handedly.

Sponsored by Winner: Bigoh Coaching The company was founded by certified business coach, Bayo Igoh, to help people get the tools they need to change their lives for the better. Bayo said: "My true passion is empowering others to succeed. I find joy in helping others identify their highest potential, then providing the mindset shifts, frameworks and motivation needed to make it a reality.”

Bayo has partnered with businesses as well as charities, federations and networks enabling them to achieve their goals, objectives and potential.

Finalists: Our Technician, Blue Lozenge Ltd

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James Broomfield from Our Technician collects his finalist certificate.

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“This award means lots and lots to me. To set up my coaching and mentoring practice has taken a lot of effort. To be recognised and rewarded for this is just unbelievable. It’s a culmination of support and help from many people and I do it with one purpose – to help others to succeed, particularly if they’ve gone through some negativity themselves. So I’m amazingly chuffed, thank you!”

Bayo Igoh, Bigoh Coaching

BEST HOSPITALITY BUSINESS This award gave hospitality businesses the opportunity to shout about what they do, how they go the extra mile and what they do to stand out from their competition. It welcomed submissions from all kinds of hospitality businesses from pubs and hotels to restaurants and nightspots.

Sponsored by Winner: Churchill Theatre

Sandra Lehane (left) and Janice Hinton from Churchill Theatre are delighted to pick up the award for Best Hospitality Business.

“We're absolutely thrilled with this award. Everyone at the theatre, all the different departments, everyone works so hard behind the scenes, just making sure that everyone has a really great time. And we really are a real team and we love what we do!”

Janice Hinton, Churchill Theatre

In their submission Churchill Theatre said that their work was more than just a job and that their USP is their passion for what they do – to create thrilling, innovative entertainment and hospitality experiences for every single customer.

The theatre is very involved in the local community; they support charity fundraisers, offer work experience to young people, as well as workshops for everyone. They also work with those with SEN and specialist schools, as well as looked after children and young careers.

Finalists: Shampan Spinning Wheel, Fish Union

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The team at Shampan Group collect their finalist certificate for Shampan Spinning Wheel. From the left are: Sirajpasha Syed, Tajul Islam Sayem, Raju Gurung, Jodie King, Sadek Miah and Sufian Miah.

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Andrew Roberts and Richard Kirkwood from Fish Union, based in Chislehurst, collect their finalist certificate for Best Hospitality Business.

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The Best Innovation award highlighted companies who have demonstrated exceptional innovation in their field, whether this was leading the way in new and ground-breaking products, services or technologies, to those who had pivoted during the pandemic or seen great growth due to innovation.

Sponsored by Winner: Charitable Travel When you book a holiday or cruise with Charitable Travel, they sacrifice travel agency commission so that their clients can make a free 5% donation to a registered charity of their choice.

Every penny of profit earned by Charitable Travel, everything that they do and offer helps support charity fundraising and good causes.

Finalists: Brightwater Memorial Park, Ollie Polly Play Cafe

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Jackie and Bill Heasman from Brightwater Memorial Park collected their finalist certificate.

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Proud owners of a finalist certificate are Neil and Amy Mitchell from Ollie Polly Play Cafe.

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Ally Ware (left) and Melissa Tilling from Charitable Travel were delighted to scoop the award for Best Innovation Company.

“This award means so much. I've been in the travel industry for 36 years and came up with this idea before the pandemic. But launching during a pandemic, when nobody could travel was incredibly difficult. We've had amazing support from the community in Bromley and this recognition is incredible for the team. And we're blessed with how amazing our team is. I can't wait to take this back to everybody and say, ‘Look guys, we've really been recognised by our community.'”

Melissa Tilling, Charitable Travel

BUSINESS PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR This award gave others the opportunity to nominate someone who really stands out in business, whether they’re a great connector of people or always adopt a positive mindset in the face of adversity. The judges reported that it was wonderful to read about exceptional businesspeople in our community who truly make a difference to the lives of Bromley residents.

Sponsored by Winner: Chas Jordan

Chas Jordan, founder of the Bromley Business Network and owner of Fair Contract Associates, won the final award of the evening – Business Personality of The Year - and is proudly pictured with his wife Lorraine.

“I’m absolutely flabbergasted, I'm so surprised.

It means so much to me personally because it's recognition of what the network does, not recognition of what I do. I can't do it without those guys behind me. We are a network and we’re a band together and they all look out for each other. When I got the call initially to say I was a finalist, I was genuinely lost for words. Thank you, that’s all I can say, thank you.”

Chas Jordan, Founder of Bromley Business Network and owner of Fair Contract Associates

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Chas was nominated by a group of people from the Bromley Business Network who described him as ‘a mentor to many’ and whose ‘considerable business knowledge is freely shared.’

The group also stated “Chas has a big heart and he is constantly looking for ways to help other people. This not only includes the members of the Bromley Business Network, but also extensive charity work and fundraisers.”

Finalists: James Broomfield, Imogen Loucas

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Nominees said “It's more than a job for Imogen - it's a passion. She is dedicated to helping new businesses succeed.”

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A huge thank you to the judges of the inaugural Above & Beyond Bromley Business Awards, who gave up their time to dedicate themselves to judging nearly 300 entries.

They were…

Lee Thomas, The Fairlight Group

Lee has lived in and around the Bromley borough since the early 70s and runs the Fairlight Group of Companies, with Flexible Workspaces, offices, industrial units, as well as FRI leases and residential and commercial developments. He lives in Chislehurst and when he’s not busy working or visiting the gym, enjoys a plethora of activities including badminton, sailing, car track days and cycling to name just a few.

Kristel Valaydon, KV Comms

Kristel is a brand marketing, comms and PR geek, and has worked with a diverse range of clients across B2B and B2C sectors, both in the UK and internationally. Her company, KV Comms, helps brands build their community through connection in their comms - from strategy and training workshops to delivering 1-2-1 services. Kristel has lived in Petts Wood for 15 years and enjoys finding great local food gems.

Gary Valentine-Fuller, Valentine & Turner

Gary plays many roles within the local community including BID Director, Toastmaster, Funeral Director, Charity Founder, School Governor, Army Reservist and Rotarian to name just a few. Gary is the proud founder and chairman of registered cancer charity, The MumMum Foundation, and active Honourable Secretary of the Royal British Legion. He lives in Orpington with his wife Kirsty and two young daughters, Darcy and Scarlett.

Aysha Best-Forbes, Bromley resident judge

Aysha was chosen as a resident judge, and in her application she highlighted that her law degree, previous employment and experience meant that she is able to be objective and impartial when it comes to judging. She said: “I’m passionate about recognising and rewarding excellence in customer experience.” In her spare time Aysha loves socialising with friends, travelling and getting together with the family.

Chandra Sharma, Elmcroft Business Services

Chandra is an experienced businessman who has owned three separate businesses and has spent several years managing Out of Town Retail superstores. His current business, Elmcroft Business Services, offers stationery and workwear and he is also partner in The People Skills Course. Chandra is a passionate supporter of small businesses and in his spare time he loves spending his time with family or in his shed mending and repairing things.

The ABBBAs would not have been possible without the help of all our sponsors. Thank you for backing this very important initiative for the borough’s businesses – large and small.

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Lord Harris of Harris Ventures and Tapi Carpets & Floors, The ABBBAs’ headline sponsor.

Michelle Harvey from Michelle Harvey Life Celebrant and trustee of The MumMum Foundation, informs attendees about the important work of the charity.

The Mayoress of Bromley, Cllr Kim Botting, chats to guests.

Fran Flin from Flin’s Fitness and husband, Jim, enjoy the Heads and Tails game, which saw over £1,050 raised for The MumMum Foundation.

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The Better.org team enjoy making fun memories at the photo booth, courtesy of People In Business (PIB).

Guests were treated to free sweets, courtesy of The MumMum Foundation.

The Mayor of Bromley, Cllr Mike Botting, chats to Anthony Rockliffe and the team from Southeast Legacies.

Guests enjoying the Heads and Tails game.

Judges, including Gary Valentine from Valentine & Turner, were appreciated for their time and dedication in deciding who were worthy finalists and winners.

ABBA tribute band, ABBA Magic, get attendees on the dance floor to end the night in style.

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The ABBBAs brought people together to highlight and celebrate local businesses who go ‘above and beyond’ within our borough, and to provide people with the opportunity to meet, network and celebrate each other’s successes. The event also helped to raise over £1,050 for local charity, The MumMum Foundation, which helps families affected by cancer. Below is just a small selection of what attendees and sponsors of The ABBBAs had to say….

“These awards represent the best people in Bromley. We’re sponsoring our hometown and we’ve been here nearly 50 years. It’s something to give back to the business community and something that the borough hasn’t had for a while and we’ve all enjoyed it. I hope we carry on with the awards.”

Lord Harris, Harris Ventures “It was a fantastic event and it’s so important to have these kinds of events within our borough to celebrate local businesses. People will be talking about this event for some time - we’re really looking forward to next year!”

Darren Weale, Sarah Marsh-Collings & Zeenat Noorani - the Bromley Buzz podast team

“It was such an emotional evening. Thank you for recognising and celebrating our hard work. We cannot express how grateful we are to you all.”

Sammy Baldwin, Bromley Children and Families Voluntary Sector Forum

“In my role as Mayor, I have been fortunate and privileged to have visited many small businesses. Many do truly go above and beyond for the benefit of their customers and their communities.

A can-do attitude, communicating at the right level, adaptability, self-belief and creativity are the bedrock of many businesses.”

Cllr Mike Botting, Mayor of Bromley

“The idea behind the awards is one of positivity, bringing everybody together. There are amazing things happening in the Bromley borough and it was very important to sponsor The ABBBAs as it offered the opportunity to back a brilliant initiative and be a part of all the good work that has been done and celebrate success. Bromley needs to be back on the map and personally I thought it was amazing, amazing, amazing!”

Sufian Miah, Shampan Group “Having sponsored the ABBBAs, mainly the fun photo booth, it was really nice to have seven new small businesses contact us on the back of that as a result of our sponsorship with an interest in joining PIB. And what a great initiative for the borough!”

Michelle Harvey, People In Business (PIB)

“Thank you so much for the opportunity to join you at this fantastic event. You have started something really great for Bromley businesses.”

Saveena Mills-Baptiste, HSBC

"The ABBBAs have brought something completely new to the borough and have provided a platform to showcase the amazing work that businesses do, shining a spotlight on companies that naturally (and often quietly) go above and beyond.

The ABBBAs brought together some truly incredible people and provided an opportunity to celebrate one another’s success.”

Jane Knight, Successful Mums

“The ABBBAs is hugely important because we're recognising excellence from small businesses and enterprises. This sort of networking also makes the borough stronger, attracts inward investment, creates economic value and gets local jobs for local people. The airport has a moral responsibility. We're a small airport, but we are there for the community. It's really important that we act as a good neighbour. So, we should be supporting smaller businesses, so they can flourish.”

David Winstanley, CEO, London Biggin Hill AirportAirport “The inaugural event celebrated local businesses and local people and has been fantastic – a packed event at The Warren and very well supported. It was almost like watching The Oscars ceremony. And well done to the sponsors for getting behind this event too.”

Mick Smith, Bromley Radio

“The ABBBAs was a resounding success and it was truly amazing to see how businesses have embraced their social responsibility and are actively making a difference in Bromley. This event highlighted the fact that it is possible to build a successful business while also giving back to the community. Thank you for shining a light on those who make a positive impact.”

Jo Hope-Butler, trustee of The MumMum Foundation

The ABBBAs will be back for its second year in November and will again highlight and celebrate the borough’s best businesses.

If you’re a business who would like to apply to be considered for an award or if you would like to make a nomination, submissions will be open from this March at www.the-abbbas.co.uk Tickets are expected to go quickly (the debut event sold out within just three weeks!), so watch this space for when tickets are released. Alternatively, if you would like to be notified of when tickets are available email awards@lifeinmagazines.co.uk.

Think you could be a judge? Write to us at awards@lifeinmagazines.co.uk and tell us why in no more than 150 words.

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We look forward to welcoming you to The ABBBAs 2024!

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Yesterday's child: A new year eulogy

by DAVID ALSTON

I have lived in Bromley for almost a century, and feel privileged to be able to weigh the balances between progress and disappointment in the place of my birth. Progress there has undoubtedly been, but sadly much of the borough has been spoiled physically and irrevocably over recent years. I cannot bear to think about such too much.

Sufficient it is to say that we have lost so many old friends, replaced by treks to the ever-expanding supermarket, where often quality is not always the criterion. Repeated street disruption promotes hazard, but this we have also had to endure. Of yesterday we have of course the inevitable memories.

Gone are the days of childhood, where wandering around toy-department stores (of which there were several at Christmastide) lit up the eyes of seasonal childhood. Just as days of delight with anything and everything could be compared with similarities as always sustaining and welcoming various others.

As a child I recall vividly being taken by my mother (my grocer father was dealing with turkeys at his Market Square outlet in David Greig's) in order to examine suitable family gifts for all and sundry! (Perhaps mainly for me, or so I imagined!)

The Co-op in Widmore Road had a wonderful Toy Department wherein were mouth-watering gifts within a range of toys on offer. The ever-welcoming FW Medhurst in the Market Square was the top of the tree and has never been superseded. Its magical southern (removed from here) corridor entrance provided a spinetingling experience which included exciting Punch and Judy land! Much I would enjoy both here and later when Santa Claus would find his way to our bedsides! Yuletide is past another year, but memories of past seasons remain and will do for all time. And why not? For this is the stuff of which the human spirit is made up.

And as through the years memories remain, so will the urge to do what one can to keep for ever the spirit of Christmas. As for the hostilities of war which were, of course, frightful, there were signs of(removed) human considerations and kindnesses of our fellowmen in the face of adversity and nothing can erase them.

The wonders of VE Day stamped an indelible mark on my life. (removed) I shall never forget the thrill of awakening on May 8th 1945 - VE Day -to the sight of our front garden host to the beams of searchlights. These had been set up overnight to transform, as best they could, the broken but yet ever hopeful parish church tower clock! Such was a day never to be forgotten, as it were by its celebrations and its joys. Years have passed, but not the sights and sounds of that truly memorable day. Nothing indeed can erase its excitement and its pleasures. (removed) To all who have ever lived and loved in this beautiful part of the world, A happy New Year!

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The Countdown Is On!

You may have heard the rumours - and they’re true!

We’re launching Life In Beckenham a monthly community magazine distributed to 7,000 households every month and also available online and from a selection of pick-up points throughout Beckenham.

Life In Beckenham will feature all the things that you love about its sister magazines (Life In Orpington and Life In Bromley), including local heroes, puzzles and competitions, What’s On events, plus plenty of positive, inspiring local news and lifestyle articles.

Inspiring the community one page at a time We offer a range of advertising options – from super affordable £10 a month classified listings for micro businesses, to full page ad campaigns and bespoke packages for more established businesses.

We celebrate local people & encourage residents to shop local!

If you’re interested in being included in our very special debut issue early next year (including a discounted rate), email us at

hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk or call 020 3488 9959

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