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In our What’s On calendar of events, we highlight all the happening Christmas markets and events to ensure you make the most of the festive season. Finally, we invite you to share your own stories and reflections of local life – the random acts of kindness from strangers, the local heroes who make our borough a better place to live and work and local businesses who go ‘above and beyond’ for their customers. Write to us at hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk

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Joined Elizabeth Wakeling (left) and Jane Rogers from the Beckenham Business Association for their annual Beckenham Business Day. For details see beckenhambusinessassociation.co.uk

Attended a Startup Bromley workshop where we learned how businesses can market themselves by turning one great idea into 53 pieces of content.

Enjoyed catching up with Anna Young from Bells Accountants.

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Good King Wenceslas looked out…

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“Good King Wenceslas looked out” starts the traditional Christmas carol which tells the story of Saint Wenceslaus 1, the Duke of Bohemia (907-953). The Holy Emperor Otto (962-973) posthumously conferred on him the royal title, King. Later a preacher from the 12th century wrote that Wenceslaus “rose from his noble bed with bare feet and only one chamberlain (and) went around to God’s churches giving generously to widows, orphans, those in prison and afflicted by every difficulty, so much so that he was considered, not a prince, but the father of all the wretched.” He was the epitome of piety.

In England the oldest almshouse foundation still in existence is thought to be the Hospital of St Oswald in Worcester founded circa 990. Throughout the Middle Ages and beyond almshouses were built to provide long-term shelter for the disabled and aged infirm. They were founded and supported with donations from kings, church dignitaries, nobles and merchants. Whether these men provided the alms houses out of piety or their ulterior motive was to ease their passage to heaven with good works is not known in every case.

Almshouses can still be found in and around Bromley, dating from as early as the 1660s. During the Protectorate of Oliver Cromwell (1653-58), John Warner, Bishop of Rochester, was kicked out of the Bishop’s Palace.

When he was able to return, he wanted to build homes for ‘twenty poore widowes of orthodoxe and loyall clergemen.’ He looked for land, but nothing was suitable.

To aid him, Parliament passed the Bishop of Rochester’s

Penge Watermen's and Lightemen's Almshouses

Charities Act (1670) to enable the college (in the sense of a place to gather or to collect together) to be built anywhere within the diocese. Supported by other contributors, Bromley College was built on a piece of land, now on London Road behind a wall and trees opposite the Magistrates Court to the north of Bromley. The first almshouses, founded in the will of John Warner, were built in 1660-72 around a quadrangle. A second quadrangle was founded by Zachary Pearce and completed in 1821.

Finally land was purchased and improvements made to the grounds. In 1840 Mrs Sophia Shepherd, a wealthy clerical widow, funded the building of a separate block of seven cottages, Shepherd’s College, for the daughters who became homeless after caring for their widowed parents. Today the Colleges contain 47 self-contained dwellings.

In Beckenham, beside St George’s Church is a terrace of three small cottages, built by a City merchant. An inscription reads, "Anthony Rawlins Esq built these Houses for ye poor of this Parish of Beckenham Anno.

Dom. 1694". Rawlins was a wealthy City merchant.

Updated in 1881 and extended and altered in the twentieth century, they provide a small living room, kitchen and shower room downstairs and a single bedroom plus WC on the first floor up a narrow staircase. There is a small communal garden to the rear with three storage sheds.

In Penge (1840-41), founded by the Company of Watermen and Lightermen of the City of London, the Royal Watermen’s Almshouses were built for retired company freemen and their widows. The watermen ferried people and their luggage across the Thames and the lightermen transferred goods from one ship to another or to shore. Rules were strict for the almsmen with a relentless regime of prayer and devotion, but the diet was generally good with pleasant surroundings. For those members who could no longer manage life in their own homes, such places offered escape from poverty and danger outside. In 1973 the almspeople were moved to a new site in Hastings and the original buildings were converted into private homes.

A trawl through the internet will show other almshouse trusts founded in the Bromley and Beckenham area from time to time during the nineteenth and twentieth centuries.

Sadly, space is limited and I cannot write about them here.

Bromley College from the air (2021)

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INSIGHTS FROM THE SUPER

After six months in the job as Superintendent - Bromley Borough Neighbourhood Policing, we get the lowdown from Supt Luke Baldock on how things are shaping up locally..

How have the first 6 months in your new role been – what have been your priorities?

It has been challenging, but rewarding. My focus has been building strong partnerships, and listening to the public to tackle crime and anti-social behaviour. I intend that we achieve this by focussing on problems, and solving root causes rather than simply responding to the consequences. We have strong partnerships across the Local Authority, the London Fire Brigade, community groups, Councillors and more. I am hugely thankful to our partners who have been so receptive in working on our shared mission to make Bromley’s communities safer and stronger.

What feedback have you received from the public?

The early feedback was that the Met didn’t always listen, and set priorities centrally. Also, that we weren’t as visible as we should be. I have worked with my teams to meet communities, listen to their concerns and ensure they are

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The Christmas Book Club Author: Sarah Morgan Published: 26/10/23 Publisher: HarperCollins No of pages: 416 RRP: £8.99

If your guilty pleasure is like mine and you love a Hallmark Christmas movie, then look no further as here is the book version! Christmas wouldn’t be Christmas without Sarah Morgan’s new festive novel. By page 130 I was googling ‘cosy winter breaks’: how does Morgan do it?! This is an emotional and uplifting story, one of friendships old and new. We follow three best friends; Erica, Claudia, and Anna as they get together for their annual book club trip away. This year they arrive at the idyllic Maple Sugar Inn, which is run by Hattie. Hattie has no idea how her life will intertwine with the three friends when they arrive but soon everything becomes clear. If you’re a fan of Morgan’s previous books then this is a must read, and if you’ve never read one of her Christmas books before and you want to settle down with a cosy story for the festive season, then this is the book for you!

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setting our priorities. We are also looking to roll out posters in every ward with the details and photographs of your local teams, placed in key locations to ensure people know who their team is and how to contact them.

What local issues are on the increase and how are you tackling them?

Motor vehicle crime and burglary have sadly increased. We are giving communities crime prevention advice, and doing everything we can to gather intelligence to tackle the problem.

Finally, what are you particularly proud of?

I feel we have shown that we are ready to listen to what communities want from their local police. I have received several pieces of feedback recently that we are more visible, and listening more which is fantastic to hear. We can always improve, but I have to thank my teams for their efforts in delivering this, and I intend that we will continue to strive to improve.

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Local resident and bookworm, Zoe Hill, gives us the lowdown on what she’s reading – and more importantly, if it’s worth picking up!

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Twas the Nightshift Before Christmas Author: Adam Kay Published: 17/10/19 Publisher: Pan Macmillan No of pages: 160 RRP: £9.99 Adam Kay’s first book ‘This is Going to Hurt’ was a huge success and covered his diary entries while he was working in hospitals.

This book is more of his hilarious diary entries, but covers his time working in the hospital over Christmas time and is an ode to all those working on the front line during the festive period. It will make you truly grateful for the NHS and all they do all year round but especially at a time when people want to be with their loved ones.

It’s very, very funny, but also still has the shocking moments and would make a perfect stocking filler at only 160 pages long!

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Local girl 11-year-old Betsi Powley is a remarkable young lady.

Not only did she beat cancer at the age of nine, but she then went on to raise money for numerous charities and launched her own pyjama range to help other children receiving treatment. Here, we chat with Betsi to find out more…

Betsi, you have had a very remarkable journey. Firstly, can you tell us when you were diagnosed with cancer – and what type it was?

It was November 2021 and Ewing Sarcoma, a rare soft tissue bone cancer. My tumour was on the muscles around my ribs, and it pushed my lungs flat and my heart to one side.

It must have been a bit of a shock to be diagnosed. What symptoms did you have that alerted you?

Yes, it was, but it was quite a while before I was diagnosed.

I was really tired all the time and would get out of breath.

You could hear a crackle as I was breathing. Under my arm, it was burning for about six weeks, which was where the tumour was pressing and causing nerve damage, which still hasn’t come back.

Following your diagnosis, what treatment was planned for you – and how did this impact on your daily life?

I had 14 cycles of chemo, then two weeks of radiotherapy, followed by four weeks of ‘Proton Beam’ radiotherapy. After all this, the tumour had significantly shrunk, so I then had major surgery to partially remove three ribs and shave my lung. I had to spend a lot of time in hospital, so I spent a lot of time off school and away from my friends and family.

When you were in hospital you noticed an issue with accessibility for your meds. Can you tell us more about this?

There are various lines that are permanently attached to you, which are used to administer medicines like chemo etc, directly into your body. A PICC line is a long cannula, in your arm that goes directly to your heart. A Hickman line & Portacath are similar, but on the side of your torso.

I didn’t like it when the nursing staff had to give me my meds, that they were pulling me about and I kept having to take my top off, for them to access the lines. Daddy kept cutting holes in my favourite pyjamas to allow them easier access to the lines. I kept crying and saying ‘I just want to be normal.’

After this observation, what did you decide to do?

I decided I would make my own specially adapted pyjamas, to sort this problem out. My plan is to give a pair of my adapted PJs to every child in the UK that has cancer, to make it a bit easier for them.

You’ve been really heavily involved in fundraising too, haven’t you?

I’ve been raising money to purchase the PJs to give to the other children with cancer, by holding various events and we have more events that will be taking place too. You can also buy one of our hoodies via the Real Eazy website, which has a ‘one for one promise’. Every hoodie sold automatically pays for a pair of adapted pyjamas for a child with cancer.

What’s your message to someone who is going through what you have been through?

Stay positive and try to smile at least ten times a day.

You’re an inspiration to so many people and a bit of an influencer on social media! How did that come about?

Yes, I’m almost at 100,000 Instagram followers! On New Year’s Eve in 2021, I started an Instagram page, to tell people about my experiences and what I was going through, showing positivity videos, like me having chemo or radiotherapy, to try and help others going through it.

Showing them that if I can do it, so can they! I get lots of lovely messages from people, both children and adults, saying that I have helped them while they are going through their treatment.

What’s next for Betsi the entrepreneur?

To push on with my acting, to keep building my Instagram followers and to donate lots of PJs to other children.

Finally, how can Bromley borough residents help or get involved in your fundraising efforts?

They can follow me on Instagram @betsiatthemarsden & help me get to 100,000 followers.

They can also go online to www.realeazy.uk and buy a hoodie knowing that with the ‘one to one promise’ they will also be donating a pair of lovely soft, adapted pyjamas to a child in the UK that’s currently in hospital with cancer. You can also see our new Christmas designs on there now.

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MAYOR’S VOICE In my message to you this month, I want to focus on last month’s Remembrance.

Remembrance is a time when we focus on the huge debt paid by our armed forces on behalf of the nation.

Whilst a sombre occasion in many respects, it is also a time of thanksgiving to those who have served.

I was privileged ahead of Remembrance Day to speak to Peter Lemon, perhaps the oldest veteran in the borough, and I want to thank Peter for sharing his stories, which are now available online at www.bromley. gov.uk/Remembrance.

Whilst I found Peter’s extraordinary tales particularly poignant in the context of Remembrance, I am so pleased we have been able to capture this to look back on at any time, which reveals something new to me upon every viewing. I hope residents will find the time to listen to these extraordinary tales, to reflect on their meaning, and to remember.

Remembrance also reminded me once again of the kindness that is all around us in Bromley. I visited so many dedicated volunteers assisting with the poppy

appeal all across the borough and saw so many generous donations being made on each of these stops, all raising money to support the armed forces community.

Bromley has more veterans than any other London Borough, which underlines the importance of the signing of the Armed Forces Covenant earlier this year, which renewed our commitment to supporting Bromley’s armed forces community. I have been pleased to see this support developing across the borough during my time as Mayor, with some of this being brought together on our website at www.bromley.gov.uk/Armed Forces.

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas.

Cllr Mike Botting Mayor of Bromley (2023-24) Find out more and stay connected at www.bromley.gov.uk/mayor

Lines from Linda

log. All was well, the potatoes had been boiled and shaken and were now happily roasting in the oven, It’s that time of the year when Christmas along with parsnips, cauliflower cheese and the vegetarian log. Then shopping is never-ending, or we are gearing up the turkey went in to warm through to face airports or motorways, because we are before carving. The stuffing I put in travelling. a pretty dish at the top of the oven to Up until a few years ago, I always spent Christmas away be served separately. Then the doorbell in pantomime. I started as a dancing babe and worked rang. Hubby shouted, ‘I’ll get it.’ Next thing my way up to Principal girl and finally Fairy Godmother.

I knew there was an almighty crash. Hubby, hurrying to Then I discovered Christmas and hung up my wand the door, had tripped on the wire from the Christmas and retired from panto-land. My first Christmas lights, bringing my beautiful tree down on top of ever, at my house, and in charge of catering. (I him. ‘I’ll sort it,’ I cried, failing to keep calm. ‘Just The fairy on invited eight people). I bought an enormous open the door to our guests.’ the top had Christmas tree, no artificial for us, this was my After lifting my tree, with the help of guests, first traditional Christmas since my childhood, to be bent where balls and fairy and fern needles were now and this tree hit the ceiling (well a little too tall sideways splattered over the whole room, we sorted it and actually, because the fairy on the top had to be to fit leaned the tree against the door, leaving the fairy bent sideways to fit). I overdid the décor, and it upside down with her skirt over her head. I then went twinkled like Blackpool promenade. back to the kitchen leaving hubby to pour large drinks.

I shopped for all the presents and spent the evenings I opened the oven door and shrieked. I hadn’t realised the (when I would have been doing two or three shows), bowl I had put the stuffing in was made of plastic. It had wrapping them all beautifully. Next was the food shopping. melted. Now, melting plastic was dripping from the top Every day I did a little in the run up to the big day. I was shelf to every dish below. My dinner was ruined, along with determined to make this a gourmet memorable feast. any hope for my best Christmas ever. We managed to find Came the big day. All was in place. Guests were arriving an Indian takeaway and all of us sat in silence eating it. at noon, plenty of time to have mulled wines or sherry

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and sit and chat to each other. I was happily cooking the three -course dinner. The turkey I cooked the day before. I am vegetarian but I was going to be the perfect host, and turkey, this day, was on the menu, along with a vegetarian

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All revved up A care home in Orpington made two car fanatics’ wish to get back behind the wheel bringing a car show to the home.

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Care UK’s Foxbridge House, on When lifelong car enthusiasts, Leslie Wheele, 83, and Terry Austin, 84, both residents at cars – the team quickly classical some of wheel the behind back get to wanted they Sevenoaks Road, told team members got into gear. to submit wishes, no matter how As part of the wishing tree initiative, the team at Foxbridge House encourage residents they’d like to do again. For big or small, whether they’re related to something they’ve never been able to do, or something Mk 3 outside their home.

GT6 a and Stag Triumph a with them surprising and gas the hitting involved Leslie and Terry, this car shows, including the Leslie, who you will often find hidden behind his classical car books, was a regular to many a lap in theTriumph Stag enjoyed each Terry and Leslie day, the On favourite. his was which – Goodwood Festival of Speed about the different car’s learn to opportunity the got also two and the GT6 Mk 3, leaving Leslie with tears of happiness. The history and take a sneak peek under the hood at their engines. school. I have Commenting on the surprise visit, Leslie said:“I have always loved cars since when I left the years – although I never had a jaguar, which it was I always wanted!”

had many cars over

Terry added: “I loved my ride in the car – there’s nothing like a classic sports car.”

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Household support fund Applications are being welcomed from those most in need, with the additional support being part of the latest phase of the Household Support Fund.

Applications for the £200 of support are now open to any resident across the borough who may be eligible.

The previous phase of Bromley’s Household Support Fund, which is funded by the Department of Work and Pensions, from June 2023, was targeted exclusively for residents who had been referred for eligibility reasons, with residents who have already received support since June 2023 not being eligible for further support.

community NOTICEBOARD Lights on for Bromley!

If you have previously benefitted from earlier rounds of the Household Support Fund prior to 1 April 2023 you can apply in this round provided you meet the eligibility criteria. This is a one-off award with one award per household, whilst funds last or until the end of March 2024. For details see bromley.gov.uk/ householdsupportfund Thank you to Mary Cody-Cowdery for sending this to us. Seen something interesting or useful to know locally? Email us at hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk

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Saints Church in Rev George Rogers of All has penned the d Orpington’s Bark Hart Roa 'May God gladden s: der rea for ge following messa and make your rit your heart, illumine your spi season!' as istm Chr this t path straigh you at our We look forward to seeing Christmas services:

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Bromley Town Centre’s Winter Light Spectacular proved popular with residents recently, with crowds gathering in Bromley High Street for the light up installations, live performances and a host of other activities delivered by Bromley Council and Your Bromley.

Spark! LED Drummers proved especially popular with visitors, wowing the crowds with their dazzling routines throughout the evening.

Residents also made the most of cocktail masterclasses, creating colourful drinks to match the glow-in-the-dark face painting that many had adopted for the evening.

Delivered in partnership with Your Bromley, the Winter Lights Spectacular was the third and final event of the BR1 Lates programme, which followed Bromley’s selection as one of the Mayor of London’s Night Time Enterprise Zones.

The programme saw an investment of £250,000 in events and improved infrastructure in Bromley town centre including lighting upgrades.

Bromley Council and partners Your Bromley BID are collectively providing match funding to the grant received from the Mayor of London.

Your Bromley BID Manager, Frances Forrest, said: “It was amazing to see our town come to life for Winter Lights Spectacular. We were delighted that several businesses in the town centre opened late too, making the most of the busy evening. It has been really exciting for Your Bromley to be involved in the BR1 Lates events this year and we hope visitors to the town have enjoyed these unique evenings.”

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community NOTICEBOARD Futures Week at LBHA

es Hosted by London Biggin Hill Airport, Futur to 15 at aimed event Week is a bi-annual le 18-year-olds, designed to inspire young peop re explo and on to consider a career in aviati the various opportunities available. During the week, participants experience a range of interactive activities, hear inspirational talks from industry professionals and take part in immersive sessions with the airport’s many resident aerospace businesses. n Feedback from previous participants has show h launc the rted suppo that Futures Week has to of many aviation careers, and enabled them es unlock their potential. The airport’s next Futur more For .

2024 ary Febru in place Week will take information visit bigginhillairport.com/early careers

A great place to live!

According to The London Borough Index by Essential Living the Bromley borough has been crown ed the best place to live in London for green space. The borough boasts 2,585 hectares of public green space s in total, with seven parks having been awarded Green Flag status.

SUPPORTING LOCAL AUTHORS… 76-year old Jon Sansom lives in Bromley and started out as a journalist on the Croydon Advertiser, before moving to Fleet Street on the Daily Mail. After a stint on a travel industry newspaper, he set up a PR consultancy firm and also worked as a photographer, which he still enjoys doing. John has written a series of books including The Rose Tattoo, The Lock Keeper, The End of the Pier and The Last Laugh, all published in the last five years.

He said: “I decided to start writing because the ideas just occurred to me and demanded that they be written - usually at about 3am. It was a roller coaster experience, from exhilaration when the plot was taking off in a direction I hadn’t planned, but less fun when checking for errors and typos. The one thing I learned is that writing a novel is a lot different to writing a new story. Surprise surprise!”

John’s books are all different and appeal to a wide audience. They are available via Amazon as paperbacks (£7-£12) or Kindle downloads (£2-£4).

For more details see www.sansombooks.com

If you’re a local author or know of one, email hello@lifeinmagazines.co.uk for the chance to be featured.

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THE KENTONES (Bromley Barbershop Harmony Club)

We always welcome new members who would like to sing barbershop.

A male chorus of 40+ singers providing entertainment in the Barbershop style (4 part unaccompanied harmony).

A smaller group (Acafellas) is available for limited space venues.

www.thekentones.co.uk Chairman: Kevin Phillips Tel: 07779 755510 Email: chairman@thekentones.co.uk Bookings: Martin Saunders Tel: 07526 437196 Email: bookings@thekentones.co.uk Membership: Tel: 07974 365715 Email: membership@thekentones.co.uk

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THE UK’S TOP 10 XMAS MARKETS (according to Google searches) 1.

Bath Christmas Market - 140,000 UK Searches Features over 150 chalets, each housing high-quality handmade crafts, food items and decorations.

2. Manchester Christmas Market - 137,000 UK Searches. As one of the largest and most popular Christmas markets in the UK, Manchester's event offers a diverse range of stalls distributed across ten different sites in the city, encompassing world foods, handcrafted gifts and festive drinks.

3. Birmingham Frankfurt Christmas Market 136,000 UK Searches. Offering a German twist on festivities, this market is recognised for its German food stalls.

4. Edinburgh Christmas Market - 136,000 UK Searches Edinburgh's market stands out for its stunning location, under the shadow of the historic Edinburgh Castle. The mix of unique gifts, festive food and drinks and a jovial atmosphere make it a must-visit.

5. Lincoln Christmas Market - 129,000 UK Searches Emulating the traditional German Christmas Market, Lincoln’s market is famous for its medieval square, illuminated by light decorations providing a unique atmosphere.

6. Leeds Christkindelmarkt - 128,000 UK Searches Another German-styled Christmas market, the Leeds Christkindelmarkt is renowned for providing a colourful programme of entertainment along with an extensive range of seasonal treats.

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Winchester Cathedral Christmas Market 112,000 UK Searches Held in the grounds of Winchester Cathedral, this market offers a festive experience framed by history and tradition. The market is known for its excellent standard of beautiful British craft stalls.

8. Glasgow Christmas Market - 98,000 UK Searches Scots and tourists alike love Glasgow's Christmas market for its friendly vibe and a wide range of food and craft stalls, wrapped in a cocoon of sparkling lights.

9. York Christmas Market - 95,000 UK Searches York's famous St Nicholas Fair has a mix of artisan gift stalls and festive foods, interspersed with traditional carol singing, all set within the medieval city walls.

10. Cardiff Christmas Market - 95, 000 UK Searches Established for over 20 years, Cardiff's Christmas market brings together talented artists, craftspeople and food and drink producers from across Wales, adding a unique charm to the festive season.

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How to create a wildlife haven with your real Christmas tree

and place onto soil or leaves under large shrubs, trees Whether you’ve got a Nordmann Fir standing pride of place, or a Fraser Fir is your tree of choice, Dobbies’ Keston store is encouraging you to repurpose your Christmas centrepiece once the festivities are over.

The company’s Horticultural Director, Marcus Eyles, outlines how people can recycle their cut Christmas trees to create a wildlife haven for small animals and insects to shelter in during the winter months: Remove the tree from your house carefully to stop any loose needles from dropping. Wear thick gloves to protect your hands.

Using a good quality pair of secateurs, starting from the topremove each branch as close as possible to the main trunk.

Stack the branches together four or five pieces high

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Repeat this process until all the branches are used.

This will provide a great shelter for small animals and insects to protect them from the worst of the winter weather. Marcus points out that the needles and branches will breakdown over time to produce organic matter than will enrich the soil.

For the main trunk of the tree use a pruning saw to cut into 30cm lengths, which can then be stacked to make a mini log pile which is a great habitat for wildlife to shelter in.

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• Choose a theme: Decide on a colour

scheme or theme that resonates with you. It could be traditional, modern, rustic or even based on a specific colour palette.

• Lights, lights, lights: Start with a good

base of lights. They add that magical glow to your tree. For a 7ft tree, 400-700 lights are recommended.

• Layering technique: Place your largest ornaments first, spreading them evenly around the tree. Then, add medium-sized ornaments and finally, the smallest ones.

This creates depth and visual interest.

• Mix textures & shapes: Combine

different textures and shapes to add visual interest. Mix glass, metallic, and fabric ornaments for a dynamic look.

• Add a topper: A stunning tree topper can be a real showstopper. It could be a star, an angel or even something quirky like a large bow.

• Incorporate personal ornaments:

Hang ornaments that hold sentimental value or reflect your interests and hobbies. It adds a personal touch.

• Garlands & ribbons: Wrap garlands or ribbons around the tree for an extra layer of decoration. It ties the look together.

• Balance & proportion: Step back

occasionally and make sure the ornaments are evenly distributed. Avoid clustering them all in one area.

Did you know…?

The tradition of hanging stockings by the fireplace comes from a story about St. Nicholas. It's said that he threw bags of gold coins down a chimney, which landed in stockings hung by the fire to dry. It was this tale that inspired the modern tradition!

Source: History.com

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Christmas gift ideas for all the family

Whether you’re looking for a one-off find for a tech-obsessed uncle or need something for your own sanity, here are some interesting gifts that could be just the ticket this Christmas…

The family game

Roll out the red carpet, set up the game board, and prepare for a year of gaming excitement!

Ginger Fox has launched Ant & Dec's Limitless Win Board Game, priced at £24.99, that will keep you glued to your seats, dice in hand, and minds abuzz! See gingerfox.co.uk

A friend-ly reminder

Got a friend who could do with a ‘Hug in a Mug’? As an award-winning women’s wellness brand, HotTea Mama offers a selection of teas, specifically aimed at supporting women’s monthly cycles, from early teens, through to 30s and beyond!

Keeping mother earth in mind, every HotTea Mama organic tea bag ismade from corn starch meaning they areplastic free, gluten free and vegan friendly, not to mentionheat sealed (avoiding the use of any glue) and biodegradable. They cost from £6 and are available from hotteamama.com

The Xmas Day lunch

If you’re cooking for Christmas and expecting guests, making sure you’ve got the gear (and well as the idea!).

Stellar has just launched its new Eclipse Bakeware, which includes a Roasting Tin ideal for festive roasts.The 40 x 28 x 6cm roasting pan with rackis made from aluminised steel to offer exceptional heat conduction and longevity, with a durable, abrasion resistant non-stick coating on all items. It is also dishwasher safe, rustresistant and comes with the company’s lifetime guarantee.

Costing £40, it’s available from stellar.co.uk

For the techie geeks

For those on the lookout for some great tech, IMOU’s Knight 4K Ultra HD Wi-Fi Outdoor Security Camera won’t disappoint and provides a practical solution to keeping homes safe. With an RRP of £149.99, the gadget comes complete with smart colour night vision, AI-based detection, built-in floodlight, an alarm and two-way talk capabilities.It is currently available atCurrysandVery with a £50 saving at the time of writing. For details see imoulife.com/uk

For the foodie fan

If you haven’t heard of how great air fryers are, where have you been? The 6L Turbo Blaze Air Fryer is a new launch from COSORI and features a dynamic DC motor that cooks food up to 46% faster than previous models. It’s equipped with nine cooking functions and five fan speeds, making it an ideal gift for those looking for a versatile appliance that achieves delicious results. It’s available from Amazon for£159.99.

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Theatre lover? You can’t go wrong with the gift of a great show at The Churchill Theatre. And there are plenty coming up – from Cinderella and comedy shows, to Calendar Girls and One Night of Elvis – take a look at churchilltheatre.co.uk For something really unique and practical, check out Petts Wood Interiors at www.pwilimited.co.uk where brothers Michael and Richard can carve that special something for that special someone. See www.pwilimited.co.uk or call 07725 806461.

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The cost-of-living crisis has meant that most of us have had to watch the pennies this last year, meaning that important household purchases have been put on the backburner. Why not club together with fellow family members if someone has a bad back and could do with a new mattress or bed? The Bed Post offers Life In readers special discounts when you show their advert.

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Got someone who’s a foodie? Treat them to a Prosecco Brunch at Japanese restaurant, Xenia, based in Locksbottom.

It will set you back just £30.

See xenialoungebar.com

Got a travel fan in your household? Treat them to a mini staycation perhaps?

Something they can look forward to. Give travel agents Jude Greene-Steward from Aspire Travel or Liz Engel from Travel Counsellors a call and they’ll sort you out with a trip to remember. Jude can be reached on 020 8331 5995 and Liz is on 020 8663 6717.

Got a friend with their own business? If they work from home, offer them a change of scenery by booking in a coworking space at Newman Flexible Workspace or Devonshire House Flexible Workspace. If you book a day, you can get the second day completely free – and who doesn’t like a freebie – especially at Christmas! www.newmanbusinesscentre.co.uk

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Perhaps they’re hosting the family or giving back to the community in some way? Book a clean up session with Bright & Beautiful, where Samantha and her team will help get homes looking slick in no time at all. Call 01689 414961 or see brightandbeautifulhome.com

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Everyone loves a bunch of flowers – and if you’re visiting friends or family this Christmas, make sure you show your appreciation via a bouquet. Both Time For Flowers (01689 485044) and Green on The Green (01689 851666) are ready, willing and able to get the perfect bloom for you.

For a unique night out, give Bromley Little

shows include Time 10. Theatre a go.andUpcoming the Conways and The Picture of Dorian Gray for starters see bromleylittletheatre.org

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Treat someone to a gorgeous gift from Newton Wood Epsom Salts – their 1kg Quintessential Jar makes a fabulous gift for a mum, daughter, sister or wife and costs just £15.

See newton-wood.co.uk/product/ quintessential

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Your essential what's on guide for events, activities, clubs and much more in and around Orpington.

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There's something for everyone!

community & CHARITY The Free Hub

Every Tuesday (expect the third Tuesday of the month), 9:30am – 12 noon

Orpington Methodist Church, Sevenoaks Road, Orpington, BR6 9JH Cost: Everything is Free – tea, cake, leaflets, occasional expert advice and of course a warm welcome and someone to chat to guaranteed.

Contact: Email rotaryorpingtondistricteclub@gmail. com Where coffee, cake and chat are brought to you for free. Community coming together. Every week is different. During December we have Bromley Loneliness Champion attending to offer advice on loneliness on the 12th December, plus free mince pies on 19th December.

For details see www.orpingtondistrict-e-club.co.uk

Macular Society Bromley Support Group

1st Tuesday of every month (except Jan & Aug)

10am for tea/coffee & biscuits Meeting starts at 10:30am, finishing at 12pm Bromley Town Church, 2 Ethelbert Road, Bromley, BR1 1JA Cost: Free Contact: No need to contact - just turn up and introduce yourself We are a local support group for people suffering with Age related Macular Degeneration (AMD). Being diagnosed with AMD can be devastating, so we look to provide social interaction and mutual support to those affected. We have a variety of speakers and a mixed and diverse programme. No need to book - just come along and introduce yourself!

u3a Orpington

3rd Monday of the month at 2pm

Crofton Main Hall, Orpington, BR6 8PR Cost: £12 a year Contact: Membersadmin@u3aorpington.org.uk or call 07732 005819 If you are retired or working part-time, why not join nearly 1,000 other members for access to over 95 different activities. Refreshments are provided.

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cHRISTMAS Beckenham Chorale Christmas Concert Saturday 2nd December, 7pm – 9pm

St George’s Parish Church, High Street, Beckenham, BR3 1AX Cost: Tickets £15, £20 includes programme and free drink during the interval The Chorale will perform highlights from Handel’s Messiah, accompanied by St Paul’s Sinfonia and a soprano soloist. We will also sing a selection of carols and seasonal music, some well-known, some less so, and some for the audience to sing as well.

For details see www.beckenhamchorale.org.uk

Help for families in need during Christmas 17th December, 11am-1pm (Carol Service) 1.30pm-3pm (Hamper distribution)

Triumphant Church International, 36 Chislehurst Road, Orpington, BR6 0DG Cost: Free Contact: Call 01268-921348 or see www.triumphant.org.uk Please register urgently for your hamper at www. triumphant.org.uk/christmas-angels-project-2023 as we have limited places.

We are calling on families in need and individuals to pick up a Christmas Hamper on Sunday 17th December after our Carol service from 11am till 1pm. Recipients are invited to join the carol service.

Family Christmas Concert 9th December, 4.30pm

All Saints Church, Bark Hart Road, Orpington, BR6 0QD Cost: Tickets £10 in advance, £12 on the door.

Unwaged and 18-25 years £5. Under 18 free.

Contact: Call 07947 061761 for tickets and info.

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The Orpington Chorale are delighted to be once again joining with the children of St James Primary School Petts Wood for our Christmas concert in Orpington Parish Church. The performance starts at the family friendly time of 4.30 pm and includes extracts from The Messiah.

For details see orpingtonchorale.org.uk

Health, MINDSET & Beauty Flin's Online & Live Fitness Classes See website for class dates & times

Cost: PAYG £5-£8 Contact: Fran on 07976 412027 Online streaming plus live offerings, 40+ classes a week, early mornings, mid mornings and evenings including weekend classes. Box Fit, Total Body Conditioning, Yoga Mobility & Yoga Flow, Pilates, Zumba, Cross.

Training, Back2Fit, Pump and more: fitness for all!

Mornings at Westcombe Park RFC, evenings at Tubbenden School. I also offer a free monthly ‘Dance Because Nobody’s Watching’ event on the first Sunday of the month, 11am, at Tubbenden Junior School – all are welcome. See www.flinsfitness.co.uk for details.

Mel Crisp Yoga

Tuesday evening 7pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood - Vinyasa Flow Class (1hr) Cost: PAYG £12 or 4 classes for £40.

Tuesday at 8.15pm at Christ Church URC, Petts Wood – Hatha Flow (45mins) Cost: PAYG £9 or £30 for a block of 4 classes Wednesday at 9.45am at Orpington Village Hall Hatha Yoga classes (1hr) Mixed ability and beginners welcome at both classes.

Cost: PAYG £12, Block Payment Classes £40 for 4 consecutive classes. First PAYG class is free.

Contact: Mel on 07504 855 424. Email melcrisp41@ icloud.com www.melcrispyoga.com First class is FREE when mentioning Life In Orpington magazine Mel has partnered with the Primrose Centre (based in the grounds of PRUH) to offer Yoga For Breast Cancer patients on Tuesdays 2pm-3pm. Once registered with the charity (see www.primrosecentre.org.uk) the class is free to attend. For those who have finished treatment and have returned to work, a four-week block booking costs £8 per class and runs on Wednesday evenings from 7pm-8pm.

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Mondays 10am-11.15am & Fridays 12.30pm-1.45pm

Orpington Liberal Club Hall, 7 Station Rd, Orpington, BR6 0RZ Cost: £9.50 per class, pay as you go. Block booking reductions available.

Contact: Email katieknightyoga@gmail.com Friendly and welcoming mixed ability hatha yoga classes focusing on strength, balance and flexibility. Including breathing exercises, stretching, working towards yoga postures and finishing with a concentration and/or relaxation practice. Beginners welcome. For details see www.yogabeeskent.co.uk

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Orpington

Contact: 01689 831551 Email: Orpington.library@gll.org

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Contact: 01689 821607 Email: Pettswood.library@gll.org

Southborough

Contact: 020 8467 0355 Email: southborough.library@gll.org

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Contact: 0208 300 5454 Email: stpaulscray.library@gll.org

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theatre/ Performances Churchill Theatre, Bromley

MUSIC, entertainment & FOOD Ceilidh with live band

14th December, 2pm – 4.30pm

Liberal Club, Station Road, Orpington, BR6 0RZ Cost: £10 Contact: Tel: 01689836407 Email: janetmaile@rocketmail.com Join us for a great afternoon of Ceilidh dancing to a live band. Everyone welcome. Come on your own or with a partner.

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Into the Daylight – Jazz and Blues evening 7th December, 8pm

Daylight Inn, Station Square, Petts Wood, BR5 1LZ Cost: £5 admission (supporting Bromley Food Bank and Ukraine Appeal) Contact: 01689 877402. Book a table or walk in: www.thedaylightinn.co.uk Green Chain Quartet with special guests 'After Hours'.

Then the first Thursday of every month.

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Line Dancing - Carolina Country Music Club

Line Dance Classes – beginners and intermediates (Every Wednesday) 1st & 15th December (Live Music With Dancing) Times: 7.30pm-10pm Wednesdays, 7.30pm-11pm Fridays

Location: Pickhurst Infant School, Pickhurst Lane, West Wickham, Bromley BR4 0HL Cost: £6 Wednesday, £10 Friday Contact: 020 8462 5314 or email: jbhorniblow@btinternet.com Come along and give us a try, make new friends, keep fit and have fun! We cater for all abilities and all ages. Refreshments available (tea, coffee, biscuits).

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Cinderella

Sat 2nd - Sun 31st Dec, Various times

Cost: Tickets from £22 You shall go to the ball this Christmas with musical theatre star and television personality Brenda Edwards as The Fairy Godmother in the spectacular family pantomime, Cinderella. Brenda will be joined by comedian and ventriloquist John Kimmons as Baron Hardup and the hilarious Steven Dalziel as Buttons.

Packed with all of the traditional pantomime ingredients Bromley audiences expect, Cinderella features laughout-loud comedy, stunning scenery, beautiful costumes, and plenty of boos and hisses.

Puss In Boots – A Christmas Adventure Sat 9th – Sat 23rd December 10:30am and 1:15pm

Cost: Tickets from: £12.50 It’s Christmas and Puss in Boots finds himself alone and lonely and so he embarks on an exciting journey back to his past! Along the way he meets new pals, has colourful adventures and learns what it means to find friendship again. Filled with original music, interactive fun and larger than life characters this show is the perfect Christmas treat for the whole family. From the creators of sell out shows A Storymakers Tale and The Chronicles of Buster Bunny. Age 2+

Calendar Girls

Wed 10th – Sat 13th January 2:30pm and 7:30pm

Cost: Tickets from £22 Inspired by the true story of the Calendar Girls.

Following the death of a much-loved husband, a group of ordinary women in a small Yorkshire Women's Institute are prompted to do an extraordinary thing and set about creating a nude calendar to raise money for charity. The story of the Calendar Girls launched a global phenomenon: a million copycat calendars, a record-breaking movie, stage play and now a musical written by Gary Barlow and Tim Firth which coined the term "craughing" - the act of crying and laughing at the same time! With unforgettable songs, every performance continues to add to the millions already raised for Blood Cancer UK and prove that there is no such thing as an ordinary woman.

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Home & Garden THE COUNTDOWN TO CLEAN-MAS

‘Tis the season to be jolly – but with Christmas just around the corner, many families across the country are feeling the stress of the festivities, as they begin to get their homes ready for the holidays.

Whether you’re readying your house for the arrival of the family, or you’re tackling that tedious mulled wine stain on your carpet, cleaning and laundry expert, Dr. Beckmann has given the gift of cleaning this Christmas, with a festive 12-day Countdown to Christmas top tips, to ensure your humble abode is merry and bright this festive season:

the alcohol with a cloth until the liquid is absorbed, then sponge with cold water.

DAY 6: Tackle the teapot

Descale your kettle ready for the winter warming hot drinks.

Fill your pot with a mixture of half water and half vinegar, leave to soak overnight. Rinse thoroughly in the morning to remove any lingering odours, then boil up some fresh water.

DAY 7: 5-star appliances

DAY 1: Dreaming of a white Christmas

First things first, it’s time to rescue your Christmas decorations from the attic and give them a well-needed dust.

Tackle the dishwasher and washing machine with a good clean. Home appliances are on a never-ending cycle during the holiday season, so using a specialised cleaner to banish the bacteria will ensure your clothes and dishes are left fresh and clean.

DAY 2: A truly clean Christmas

DAY 8: The Molar Express

Pop your favourite Christmas classics on and go through your house top to bottom and get rid of anything you don’t need - ready for the new year! Don’t forget to clean those usually forgotten items such as handles, doorframes and skirting boards.

DAY 3: Winter windows

Give your windows a spruce with a glass cleaner, ensuring those mucky fingerprints are eradicated before the celebrations begin. If you don’t have any in the cupboard, simply mix white vinegar, distilled water and a drop of essential oil, then shake. Spray the solution lightly over the affected area and wipe to rid your windows of any unsightly marks.

DAY 4: Cleaning down the chimney

One of the cosiest parts of the Christmas is gathering round the fireplace, but charcoal often has a nasty habit of getting everywhere! You can eradicate these grinch-worthy stains by blotting the blemish with cool water mixed with normal washing up liquid. Finish by dabbing the area until the liquid is absorbed.

DAY 5: Merry mulled wine

Everyone loves a chocolate Advent Calendar in the run-up to Christmas, but with kids around there is bound to be chocolate trodden into the carpet or spilt onto the sofa. Be sure to scrape any excess chocolate off the stain, then blot the mark with a damp cloth. Finally apply a stain remover or detergent to the stain and scrub!

DAY 9: Tinsel toilet treatment

Spritz your toilet and get in all the nooks and crannies to ensure a sparkling bathroom for when the guests come over. Pop in a reed diffuser and it’s ready to go.

DAY 10: Paw-fectly clean

Spruce up your pet’s bed ready for the Christmas fun, pop it in the washing machine for a deep cleanse, then give any stubborn marks a scrub.

DAY 11: Overwork that oven

Deep clean your oven ready for Christmas dinner. Squirt oven cleaner all over the exterior and interior of the oven.

Leave overnight, then use a cloth to scrub the spillages away. Your oven will be shining clean and fresh in no time!

DAY 12: Christmas magic

Alcohol stains can be a nightmare before Christmas to get out of your carpets and furniture, especially mulled wine.

If you have an unfortunate spillage, make sure you blot

Pop all of the family’s Christmas jumpers in the wash ready for the big day! Pop the kettle on and sit down and enjoy a cuppa – you’ve earned it!

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A GUIDE TO ECO-FRIENDLY GIFT-WRAPPING With sustainability being increasingly important, the founders at needi (needi. co.uk) share some great tips on how to be more sustainability focussed when it comes to wrapping gifts this year…

Odd shapes: Tissue paper is your best friend when it comes to wrapping awkward shaped objects. Another tip is to keep all boxes from deliveries; cardboard boxes are great for wrapping candles or glasses as they help to protect fragile gifts, and boxes are easier for wrapping spherical shaped presents. If the box has an unsightly address label stuck to it, a few seconds of a blast with a hairdryer will allow it to peel off easily.

Eco-friendly wrapping: Craft paper makes an excellent substitute to the heavily patterned and plastic-

Did you know…

London Gatwick has achieved Level 4+ ‘Transition’ of the Airport Carbon Accreditation scheme

coated wrapping paper we find in the shops. Wallpaper is another great alternative and the thickness means it is better quality than traditional wrapping paper so less chance of tearing. Another reusable wrapping material is a vintage scarf. They can be found in abundance in charity shops and markets. Place the gift in the middle of the scarf, pull each corner up to the top and secure with an elastic band, allowing the corners to drape over the gift like an exaggerated gift tie. You can add a Christmas decoration or even a pretty brooch for the finishing touch.

Wrapping accessories: Always keep the inside

packaging from deliveries you have throughout the year.

Put it in a shredder and ‘hay-presto' you have wrapping hay! Ribbons are a pretty and sustainable way to secure gift wrap too. Pull each length of material through a pair of hair straighteners to remove any creases and you have a brand new beautiful looking ribbon to use.

The only institutionally-endorsed, global carbon management certification programme for airports. The global scheme independently assesses and recognises the efforts of airports to manage and reduce their carbon emissions through six levels of certification: ‘Mapping’, ‘Reduction’, ‘Optimisation’, ‘Neutrality’, ‘Transformation’ and ‘Transition’.

HOW TO REDUCE YOUR SINGLE-USE PLASTIC Plastic pollution has become one of the most pressing environmental issues facing our planet due to the rapid increase in production of single-use plastics. The good news is that reducing your consumption of single-use plastic can be incredibly easy. If we all try some simple hacks to reduce our reliance on single-use plastic, we can together make a huge impact. Here are some ideas from experts at The Breteau Foundation*:

T-Shirt to tea towel: One of the major sources of plastic pollution is our clothes, with materials such as polyester, nylon and other synthetic fibres all being forms of plastic.

So, when your favourite t-shirt has had its day, think twice about automatically throwing it in the bin. Old clothes and materials make great cleaning rags and cloths. Simply tear them or cut them up. Not only does this reuse your clothes, it will also save you money on cleaning rags – a win-win!

Get loose: When shopping for groceries, choose loose fruit and vegetables where possible, instead of prepackaged ones in plastic bags. The more we all switch to doing this where possible, the more our supermarkets will get the idea that we don’t need plastic for our veg!

Embrace reusable water bottles: Whilst it may seem like a small swap, humans use approximately 1.2

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million plastic bottles per minute in total, so switching to a reusable water bottle can save billions of plastic bottles going to landfill each year.

Bamboo brushing: Plastic toothbrushes contribute to the growing plastic waste problem. Make a sustainable switch by opting for bamboo toothbrushes. Bamboo is a biodegradable and renewable resource, offering a planetfriendly alternative to traditional plastic toothbrushes.

BYO bags: Avoid single-use shopping bags where possible and opt for reusable bags, which are sturdy and longer lasting. It’s a good idea is to have a foldable bag in your regular handbag, your car or work bag, so that you always have one with you.

Top tupperware: If you know you will have to eat lunch on the move, why not plan ahead and prepare your lunch at home in a Tupperware or reusable container. By doing so, you will not only save yourself a hefty Pret sandwich price tag, but you will avoid the plastic waste that comes with shop-bought sandwiches and lunch items. *The Breteau Foundation aims to inspire and empower over 1 million primary school children around the world to take action against plastic pollution in their homes and communities. For details see breteaufoundation.org/fight-against-plastic

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Festive Cranberry Trifle

This delicious Festive Cranberry Trifle is a real crowd pleaser, plus it’s not a tricky one to try. It's a real treat for the taste buds and sure to spread some Christmas cheer…

What you’ll need: • • • • • • • •

1 packet of trifle sponges 300g fresh cranberries 100g sugar 500ml custard 300ml double cream 2 tablespoons of sherry (optional) Handful of flaked almonds Grated zest of an orange

To make:

Cranberry Compote: Place the fresh cranberries and sugar in a saucepan with a splash of water. Simmer gently until the cranberries burst and the mixture thickens. Allow it to cool.

Swap the sugar!

It’s often the hidden sugars in our food that catch up unawares, including mealtime favourites such as ketchup.

The average ketchup may contain around 4g sugar per serving, which leaves quite a dent in the recommended 30g daily amount. That’s why switching to a healthier alternative is just one easy way to reduce your intake. Real Good Ketchup is produced with 100% natural ingredients and no added sugar, meaning it can boast 75% less sugar and 80% less salt than regular ketchups. It’s available in a BPA-free, 100% recyclable and child-friendly easy squeezy bottle from £2.40 from Ocado, Wholefoods Market and Amazon. For details see www.realgoodketchup.com

Fancy a mulled wine?

Custard: If you're making custard from scratch, bring 500ml of milk to a simmer. In a bowl, whisk 4 egg yolks, 2 tablespoons of sugar, and 2 tablespoons of cornflour until smooth. Gradually pour the hot milk over the egg mixture, whisking continuously. Return the mixture to the saucepan and heat gently until it thickens.

Assembling the Trifle: Layer the trifle sponges at the bottom of a glass dish. If you like, drizzle sherry over them for an extra kick. Add a layer of cranberry compote on top of the sponges. Pour the custard over the cranberries.

Whip the double cream until it forms soft peaks and spread it over the custard. Sprinkle flaked almonds and grated orange zest for a lovely crunch and zesty kick.

Chill: Pop it in the fridge for a few hours to let the flavours meld together.

Serve: Just before serving, garnish with a few extra cranberries and a dusting of icing sugar.

CHRISTMAS PUD

TOPS DESSERT CHOICE

An age-old tradition, and a stalwart for Christmas dinner, the humble Christmas pudding remains the most popular sweet option for the festive table, according to research.

Artisan Christmas pudding brand, LillyPuds, commissioned the SMPL research into Christmas food and drink trends, which reveals details on Christmas purchasing, planning and eating. And, although it’s the meat and potatoes that come out on top for most respondents, Christmas pudding was ranked as top choice for dessert, ahead of mince pies and Chocolate Yule Log. Alongside Christmas pud, 60% of those surveyed will also buy another dessert, with a chocolate-based pudding being a top choice, with dietary requirements, personal preference and quality ingredients also being key considerations.

Did you know that mulled wine has a long history dating back to ancient Rome? The Romans would heat wine with spices to ward off winter chills and illnesses. It was also believed to be a sign of wealth and social status. Today, it remains a popular winter beverage, especially in Europe and is often enjoyed at Christmas markets and festive gatherings. Besides being a delightful winter warmer, mulled wine has some potential health benefits. The spices used, such as cinnamon and cloves, contain antioxidants and anti-inflammatory properties. We’ll drink to that!

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BLT IS 85 YEARS OLD!

by BRUCE WALLACE, chair of Bromley Little Theatre Where in Greater London can you see brilliant live theatre for less than 15 quid?

I’ll tell you where, Bromley Little Theatre (or BLT – yes, we know!)

Our home, just a stone’s throw from Bromley North station and peeking out from behind the Railway pub (could there be a better location?) was once a Victorian bakery, but from 1938 our daily bread has been performing award-winning drama.

We put on all sorts of plays, from brand new, to old favourites, occasionally a musical, but never a pantomime” Oh no we don’t”!

There’s a play every month on our main stage and 5 or 6

Half of Brits unaware of Vit D guidelines

A new survey from the British Nutrition Foundation reveals that half of us are unaware of the UK Government’s guidelines for vitamin D supplements. The UK Government recommends that everyone should consider taking a daily 10mcg vitamin D supplement from October to March to ensure we get enough to keep bones and muscles healthy.

Some 50% respondents said they weren’t aware of this recommendation and, according to the survey, while 28% people are fully aware of this recommendation, only 7% of all Brits admitted to taking them between October and March. While 24% said they take Vitamin D supplements all year round, 44% people said they never take vitamin D supplements, the main reason (22%) being that they were unaware of its benefits.

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times a year we run smaller, more intimate, productions in our bar area, where audiences literally get close to the action – and the actors.

This year we’ve been celebrating our 85th birthday and we want to secure the theatre for future generations for another 85.

In late 2022 we started on a programme of re-developing our quirky, memorable building to make it fit for the future.

We’ve made good progress this year and the ground floor has been completely remodelled – and we even paid for it all ourselves.

The next phase sees the arrival of a new lift, foyer, entrance and an accessible staircase - we certainly won’t miss the free step-class the old staircase demanded.

Next year will be busy – so if you’re interested in watching or taking part in a play, or getting involved with helping us raise funds, don’t be a stranger!

90% say high street is vital for healthy communities New research by flexible workspace provider, SiGNAL, reveals that the UK public’s passion for the local high street is as strong as ever, with shoppers keen to support local businesses, but that innovations such as mixed-use space and later opening hours are required to attract people to visit more frequently.

When asked if they believe that a vibrant local high street is an essential part of a healthy, connected local community, an overwhelming 90% responded with ‘yes’. Furthermore, an even larger majority of people (95%) say that they think it’s important to support local businesses in their area. So why is it that so many are choosing not to shop on their high street, and what might tempt them to do so more often? Some 66% of respondents said they would be more likely to do so if they were already there for another reason, such as working in their office, attending the cinema, or visiting the dentist.

To this end, 81% say that they would welcome a mix of office space and workspace being introduced to the high street alongside retail, services, leisure and hospitality. What’s more, not only would people welcome workspace being added to the high street, but 55% say they would actively make use of such space, including co-working and micro-offices.

When asked about other ways in which the high street could be improved and thus attract them to shop there more often, 43% of respondents said that later opening hours would make a big difference, with a further 11% saying that earlier opening hours would help.

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A COMMUNITY WITHIN THE COMMUNITY Mytime Active’s Primetime programme has transformed where and how the over 60s access wellbeing throughout Bromley.

Mytime Active’s Ann Wilbourn explains: “Everyone locally knows our leisure centres - The Pavilion, The Spa at Beckenham, Walnuts, West Wickham, Darrick Wood Swimming Pool - but we're so much more. We understand the challenges some people face merely reaching a venue, so we also take activities into community spaces, such as Crofton Hall, Wickham Hall, Blundells, St. Marks Church Hall and Farnborough Village Hall. These smaller locations can be less intimidating for frailer customers, and many have easy access, ensuring inclusivity.

Wellbeing Wednesdays

by RUBY BARROW

Being mindful of our wellbeing isn’t just for Wednesdays and the key to keeping your wellbeing safe is that one rule doesn’t fit all. Don’t be disheartened if you try an activity to relax and you feel as though it didn’t work. It’s natural and normal for your body to take time finding what is best suited for you. Here are ten ideas to try instead: 1. Learn to understand and manage your feelings.

2. Be opened-minded to new experiences.

3. Treat sleep as a necessity not a chore.

4. Talking to someone about how you feel and understanding that it doesn’t make you weak is one of the first steps in looking after your mental health. It is also one of the hardest as it is overcoming societal pressures and expectations.

5. Be mindful of not only yourself but others; create strong connections that you trust.

6. One of the most important ones is Be You and never feel you have to change the way you are.

There is room for you to grow and learn but never become disconnected with yourself.

7. Be in the present, allow your mind to focus on one thing at a time.

8. Some people find listening to music helps create a time for the mind to relax.

9. Keep active, whether that be by going to the gym, cleaning, making the bed etc. Everyone takes things at their own pace and that is okay.

10. Try to remember that it won’t last forever, there will be a breakthrough however small it may be. It will still be there and remember you can do this - your well-being is yours to take control of.

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“Many of our more physically able Primetime customers take advantage of the 60+ free bus travel to attend classes and socialise each day at different venues around the borough. This holistic, interconnected approach allows customers to visit 11 sites for physical and social activity, nurturing a vital sense of community.”

Under the one Primetime umbrella, members can engage in everything from senior football, line dancing, table tennis, Pilates, dementia-friendly golf, senior circuits, Zumba Gold and strength and stability exercises to social gatherings like coffee meet-ups and Christmas and summer gatherings.

Plus, caregivers attend for free.

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The top 5 foods damaging your teeth

by Dr Richard Marques, Devonshire Place Dental

1. Tomatoes are surprisingly acidic, causing tooth erosion and damage to the enamel. If eating them raw, always consume with other foods such as in a salad, so as not to directly expose your teeth as much.

2. Crisps are full of starch that ultimately turns into sugar in the mouth. This then gets trapped between the teeth and creates bacteria causing plaque.

Always floss after eating!

3. Citrus fruits like oranges and lemons have high acid contents which damages the tooth enamel. Try swap ping citrus fruits for bananas and watermelons which are much less acidic and aim to drink fruit juices through a straw.

4. Popcorn, much like crisps can get stuck in the spaces between your teeth causing a build-up of plaque.

You should also be wary of un-popped kernels that can chip the teeth. If you do choose to snack on popcorn, avoid adding salt or sugar.

5. White bread contains simple carbohydrates including sugar which dissolve in the mouth, creating erosive acids when you chew. Food particles also get trapped easily between the teeth. Rinse with an anti-bacterial mouthwash and use dental floss to prevent build ups.

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A Final Thought…

The worst driver on the road is the distracted driver

by DEBBIE PALMER

Analysts have been paid millions by insurance companies to predict which group of drivers is the most likely to have an accident. I can tell you, without doubt, it doesn’t matter which group you belong to, if you are not concentrating on the road ahead, you are going to have an accident at some point soon.

Speed: You need to be at the correct speed for the hazard, as well as always being able to stop in the distance you see to be clear, on your own side of the road.

I like to think of myself as a safe driver, but last Thursday night, I was travelling home from the Kent RoSPA (Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents) Advanced Drivers and Riders AGM, where I had just been made Chairwoman.

I had just come off the A2 and was on home ground. In my head I was composing an email to all our members.

Suddenly, I found I had to break hard to avoid a car coming around the mini roundabout. The word ‘suddenly’ should alert all good drivers. Things don’t happen suddenly, things evolve. I should have been aware of the car approaching the roundabout, not when it was on it. I got away with it.

But that is the problem; because we don’t suffer, we don’t learn from our mistakes.

Put into simple terms, think what you are doing, look further ahead and slow down earlier for the hazard. This gives you more TIME to react.

Your car can have all the safety features in the world, but if the nut behind the wheel is not looking what is happening around them, your driving is not safe.

The most important thing is that your driving is safe and legal.

There is a simple formula to safe driving using the following sequence to any potential hazard.

Information: Look further ahead, more than you usually do, the saying is ‘Eyes on main beam’. Look to the sides, check all three mirrors. Once you are aware of what is going on, use the information to plan. Let other drivers know your intentions by signalling in plenty of time, so they can react. The information stage runs through every phase of the system.

Position: ‘See and be Seen’. When taking a bend to

the right, come further over to the left to see more. When taking a bend to the left, if it is safe, come out to see further. But never put yourself in a dangerous position. If you can’t see, you can’t go.

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Gear: ‘Brakes are for slow, gears are for go’ - lose the speed before you select the correct gear to negotiate the hazard.

Acceleration: To keep the car stable, wait to increase your speed until the wheels are in a straight line.

How many of us have got in the car, exhausted, our only thoughts are about getting home and putting our feet up? The Highway Code rule 91 states ’Driving when you are tired greatly increases your risk of collision.’ Most of us would never drive over the legal alcohol limit, but how many of us have driven home tired, is there anyone that hasn’t?

RoSPA has a saying: ‘Accidents don’t have to happen.’

Our Kent Group are all volunteers who wish to promote driver education and driver improvement. We cover all of Kent and Southeast London. If you join us, you will be given a demonstration drive, then be assigned to a tutor for one-to-one coaching in Advanced Driving Technique, which enables you to reach test standard.

If you are having too many ‘suddenly’ moments, need some help or want to be an even better driver, contact the Kent Advanced Driver at www.kentrospa.org.uk.

I have learnt my lesson, will you?

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