The Secrets We Harbor In Our Hearts Secrets They are hard to be kept and always leaks

e all have secrets that we harbor in our hearts of hearts thus secrets come in many forms. For other people theirs are worse than others. In the event they are blurted out they will surely cause wars. For that reason, if you know your secret is a weapon that will cause mass destruction never let it out. In fact, never divulge it to anyone lest you want to start and stir trouble. The moment you tag your issue as a secret it is best to keep it to yourself up to your grave.

Sharing it is the root cause that will have the ripple effect. Many people make the mistake of confiding in their close friends and relatives and also swearing them to secrecy. Not many people have the heart to follow instructions to boot. Unwillingly they end up spilling the beans when they find themselves intoxicated or put under pressure. Henceforth always know the character of the person you are opening up to before you bare your soul away.

Have you ever looked at it this way, your secret might be burdening the next person that you would have

Wtold. This is another way to look at things because some have light and faint hearts that cannot keep information to themselves.

Truth be told, it is wise to bear the cross by yourself harboring your secret than divulging it and making the other person your conspirator by association. Even in families there are secrets that are not allowed by any nature to see the light of the day. If you so happen to get wind of such secrets just keep the tradition. One sage men highlighted secrets are best kept hidden. Opening the Pandora’ box will bring many issues that were buried deep in other people’s hearts. Undoubtedly, secrets are hard to deal with yet each and every day one has some that he or she eventually wants to let out through talking.

It is therapeutic to share your thoughts and secrets with others up until that information falls into the wrong ears or hands that is when trouble with a capital T starts. You cannot bend other people to your will, therefore this is the reason why they end up telling others what you would have told them in confidence.

Some although are noted as secrets yet they will be common knowledge just that people won’t talk

Families have secrets they dont disclose

about it in the open. Thus there are categories of secrets for example those which are well known by everyone but people can’t just come outright and say we know about it except yourself. If you happen to eavesdrop on a secret as long as it does not cause war or bodily harm be a sole of discretion and keep it even up to your grave but if your level of thinking believes it will help the next person then do not hesitate to let the cat out of the bag. The end will justify the means. Long kept secrets that you might happen to come by let them be. It’s difficult to handle secrets especially if they are not yours. There is this urge to tell the next person, sort of a fever in your blood to let it out. In a way that is how gossip starts. In life learn to mind your own business so that you won’t get into trouble. The moment you are interested in other people’s affairs or when you are a terrible gossip this will be the start of all hell to break loose. Have the decency to respect other people’s secrets especially if they have taken you into their confidence. People are

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Abigirl Phiri-Zimbabwe

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