Waves of change by Ruby Murphy

Change.

Everyone experiences change in different ways throughout their life. It can have good or bad consequences, but eventually, everyone usually benefits from change. Some people are afraid of the effects change can have on them, but others thrive off it. Someone once said, ‘sometimes in the waves of change we find our true direction.’ For me, the change from primary school to intermediate was easy. I had my friends by my side to give me confidence, and everybody was friendly. Unfortunately, this is not the case for everyone. Self-esteem can have a big effect on kids around my age. Whether it is doubting or not feeling the best about yourself, self-esteem can ruin the chances of having fun at school. Some kids may feel insecure, or like they don’t fit in. Maybe kids are worried about what others think of them. There are more pressures for youth in today’s society than in the past. It’s important people acknowledge these pressures. If you are or know someone who has troubles with self-esteem or other mental health issues, talk to someone. There are support agencies that can help. I asked my teacher, Whaea Sarah Richardson, her thoughts about transitioning students.

Q: What do you think the challenges are for Year 7 students transitioning from primary to intermediate school? A: I think students worry about making new friends more than anything. Friends were a big part of making me feel safe and comfortable in my new environment. Q: What could a student do if they are feeling unsure or troubled at school? A: I think students need to feel they have an adult at school they can talk to who has their best interest at heart. To gain the perspective of some students moving on to intermediate school, I asked a group of Year 6’s from Flanshaw Road school how they were feeling about this transition to intermediate school. Most of the students were excited, and the main reason was that they will get to know a new environment and make new friends. Some felt nervous, even scared because they don’t know what the new learning environment is like and worry it will be harder than primary school. Feeling like this is totally normal. A couple felt sad because they will leave behind so many amazing experiences at primary school. I also asked what they were looking forward to. Lots of the students said they were excited to meet new and old friends and change around classes for the different subjects. Others said they were looking forward to the sports. I asked what they think will be the biggest change. Quite a few of the kids said the biggest change for them will be the new timetable and having to navigate their way around the school to their classes. Also, getting to know the Year 8’s and their new teacher. In my experience so far as a Year 7 student, one of the biggest changes is the diverse subjects I can study. I’ve also noticed there is more independence as there is less teacher and parent involvement in your learning. There are more expectations and deadlines that must be met. However, these expectations can get you ready for the years ahead at high school. For most people, the transition from primary to intermediate is a positive experience. Being worried and nervous is completely normal – in the end, you will build resilience and benefit from the changes. And remember – there are people who can help you along the way if you need someone to talk to. Also, be confident and always try your best. Success is not about perfection. It’s about progress. Give yourself time to settle into intermediate. You might find something you are passionate about, and if you keep your head held high, you’ll have a great experience at intermediate school.