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—LOVE— off-the-shelf by the book

Rhonda Rhea | rhondarhea.com
My favorite part of dusting the bookshelves in my office is the part where I never really do it. At all.

And actually, it’s my personal belief that if there’s dust on a bookshelf, that means there aren’t enough books on it.

Incidentally, I’m always on the lookout for more books. And for more reasons to buy more books. Okay yes, I may have a bit of a book problem. Some may think me “shelf-ish” (I know, I can’t believe I said it either). I think I’d rather call it a dust problem, but whatever.

My favorite way to dust the bookshelves? Turn on the ceiling fan. After a few swirls of the fan I figure the dusting is done and I can sit down and read a book.

I won’t deny that I do have a lot of shelves—with a lot of books protecting all those shelves from dust. I was standing in the doorway staring into my office the other day and suddenly found myself thinking it’s a little embarrassing that though I have so many shelves and so many books, there’s not a book in there anywhere that I can pull to open up a secret passage. What an unfortunate oversight.

Neglected secret passages aside, though, there are oversights along this life journey that are so much more unfortunate. I wish I could tell you that I’ve never overlooked a person. I would love to tell you I’ve never neglected giving needed attention to the people I’m called to love. But I have.

Does it ever happen to you? You see someone across the room and avoid eye contact so the person doesn’t mistakenly feel welcomed into a conversation. Or you’re at the grocery store and quickly jerk your cart to an aisle you don’t need to visit to dodge a conversation with the neighbor down the street.

I so regularly need to dust off my compassion and grace and to become intentional in the way I love.

Active love doesn’t avoid. As a matter of fact, it purposefully searches out opportunities to love—even to love the unlovely.

To love the annoying. The foolish. The depressing. The smelly. The inconvenient people. An active love, dusted off and in use, is a love that goes yet beyond that. A God kind of love runs to meet those people. It’s no secret that we can love like that as we allow the God of love to do it in us.

Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. The one who does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1 John 4:7-8 HCSB

To love unselfishly is to allow the God who is love to work in us. Anytime we do not love others, we’re testifying to the world that the gospel hasn’t changed us on the inside as we claim. It’s like shelving our gospel effectiveness. Our love for others is our testimony. We’re the book others read, as it were.

By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another. John 13:35 HCSB

O Lord, may we be quick to love the unloveliest. As You work Your love in and through our lives, may we ever love like You. Here’s hoping we’re on the same page. Me? I’m mostly an open book.