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COVER STORY Celebrating Comunity & Culture with IAC & AJC......................................................................................

1000 WORDS God Gave Me Wisdom, Orthodox College Football Receiver Says..................................

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CELEBRATE COMMUNITY

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TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM..........................................................................................................................

FOOD

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Curry Magic Lentil and Chickpea Stew................................................................................................

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URJ: 10 Things to Know About Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights.......................................

FEATURES Israel Unfiltered with Jewish Federation of San Diego County.........................................

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Book Review: Here There Is No Why....................................................................................................

Restaurant Review: Nature Forward....................................................................................................

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Mazel & Mishagoss..................................

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TORAH l BY CHERI WEISS

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& passages INTO THE LIGHT OF CHANUKAH

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ne of the most delightful of all the Jewish holidays will soon be upon us. Who doesn’t love to break out the cherished Chanukiah from the cupboard, light the colorful candles, and sing the blessings and festive songs? What child doesn’t enjoy spinning the dreidel and cheering when it lands on the Hebrew letter gimel (because in the dreidel game, that’s when you win the pot of pennies or maybe chocolate coins, AKA gelt)? The Gimel stands for gadol—Hebrew for “great,” as in “Nes gadol haya sham”—“A great miracle happened there.” In Israel, the four letters on the dreidel (nun, gimel, hay, pay) stand for “Nes gadol hayah poh” or “A great miracle happened here.”

We treasure the joyful looks on children’s faces as they participate in these rituals.

It’s how they build Jewish memories that hopefully carry over into future generations.

Every year while lighting candles and singing songs, I recall my daughter’s excitement as she sang Ner Li (“I Have a Candle”)—her favorite Chanukkah song—while spinning round and round like a dreidel. She may now be well into adulthood, but part of me will

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always think of that happy little girl with elation and wonder in her eyes.

We teach children about the miracle of Chanukkah: How the small but brave band of soldiers led by Judah Maccabee defeated the much-larger Syrian-Greek army. How they had to cleanse the Temple, which had been defiled by the Syrian-Greeks. How, according to a popular Chanukkah legend, in order to rededicate the Temple, they needed to light the Menorah yet found just one small jar of “pure” oil—enough for one day but miraculously the light lasted for eight days.

Adults studying Jewish history in depth may come to learn that this “miracle” was likely a myth. While the battle was historically documented, the event concerning the oil and light was not mentioned in any book until the Talmud was redacted hundreds of years later. In all likelihood, the rabbis added it to provide a foundation for this holiday that did not rely solely on a bloody battle.

Throughout my adult years, I have searched for deeper meanings in the holiday of Chanukkah. The concept of miracles always draws me in, and I have considered what

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constitutes a miracle from multiple angles.

If we look at the story of the Maccabees defeating the mighty Syrian-Greeks, that certainly constitutes a miracle. Yet the lesson may not be that God was on their side; rather, it was their determination to succeed in the face of certain defeat. They may have believed that God was standing by them, but they knew that they had to take the steps to save themselves and the religion they wanted to practice as they saw fit.

Over the course of our own lives, we will encounter many obstacles that seem insurmountable. We may have dreams that seem impossible to fulfill. While prayer to the Divine may bring comfort, it is up to us to take whatever action we can to improve our situation. We cannot rely solely on God to change our lives. We need to dig deeply within ourselves to find an inner strength and creativity we may not have realized we possess. By walking toward the light, we can become part of the miraculous.

RABBI-CANTOR CHERI WEISS IS THE SPIRITUAL LEADER OF TEMPLE EMANUEL IN HONOLULU, HAWAII.

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Wide receiver Sam Salz #39, of the Texas A&M Aggies, during the game between the New Mexico State Aggies and the Texas A&M Aggies at Kyle Field in College Station, Texas.

PHOTO BY ISHIKA SAMANT/TEXAS A&M ATHLETICS.

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illiam Blake wrote in his 1794 poem “The Garden of Love” of a chapel with “‘Thou shalt not’ writ over the door.” Sam Salz, a Jewish wide receiver for the Texas A&M Aggies men’s football team, wears the Sabbath prohibitions on his jersey.

Salz, 21, who wears a kippah and tzitzit, said that he chose the number 39 to symbolize the lamed tet melachot, the 39 “work” categories banned on Shabbat.

“When the game is on Shabbat, I’m not there. If the game is after Shabbat, I’m there,” the 5-foot-6 wide, 160-pound receiver from Philadelphia said. “Thankfully, they allowed me to do that.”

The alumnus of Kohelet Yeshiva in Merion, Pa., isn’t afraid to get his hands on some pig skin on the field, even though he keeps kosher and refrains from playing on holidays and fast days—all with the support of his coaches and team.

When a game is scheduled for Shabbat, he drops off a meal and some Torah books at the facility before nightfall on Friday and walks the two miles to the stadium on Shabbat, ready to enter the game after sundown.

The lone game in which Salz played was on Nov. 16, a Saturday, in the Texas A&M Aggies defeat of the New Mexico State Aggies 38-3.

At the time, Texas A&M was 8-2 and New Mexico State was 2-8.

“He played on one Texas A&M kickoff in the fourth quarter. The kick was not returned,” the Texas A&M athletics communications department said. “That is his only appearance in a game.”

The game began at 6:55 p.m., nearly an hour after Shabbat ended, and finished, some hours later, at 10:05 p.m.

Footage circulated on social media showing Salz’s teammates

appearing to point him across the field where he was supposed to line up before the kickoff.

Texas A&M, a public university with 60,000 undergraduate students on a 5,200-acre campus in College Station, has about 500 Jewish students, Salz said.

“It’s probably one of the only campuses in the country where you can go and feel safe as a Jew,” he said. “There is no antisemitism really there.”

Fellow students are often intrigued by his Jewish practices.

“We always have conversations on perspectives. Judaism, especially to them, is such a unique thing,” he said. “Being in the Bible Belt, you’ll get the questions from the Christian guys, who are curious on what we believe.”

“A lot of times, what we believe is not exactly represented accurately in the media. It never comes from a place of malice, but it always comes from a place of curiosity and interest,” he added.

Salz said that he is studying economics, but aspires to become a rabbi.

A rabbinic path might be more plausible than his football journey has been, especially considering he had never played football before and had only attended his first college football game in late 2021.

Still, he vowed that he would try out for a position.

He discovered the Jimbo Fisher Radio Show, hosted by the Aggies football coach, who has since been fired. The show welcomed an audience, who could submit questions.

Salz asked Fisher what he looks for in a walk-on, non-scholarship player. The coach gave a three-minute answer, he said.

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Wide receiver Sam Salz #39, of the Texas A&M Aggies, during the game between the New Mexico State Aggies and the Texas A&M Aggies at Kyle Field in College Station, Texas.

PHOTO BY ISHIKA SAMANT/TEXAS A&M ATHLETICS.

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After the show, Salz approached Fisher and asked him to sign a kippah and an inspirational note he wrote for himself, which read: “I made the Texas A&M football team this year. I became the first Orthodox Jew in college football.” (Salz reread the note several times daily for encouragement.)

As luck would have it, no sooner had Salz left the show when a homeless man asked him for food. Salz entered a store to buy something for the man and ran into Fisher and his assistant again.

Salz asked the coach if he could observe tryouts to see what he would need to do to train. Fisher agreed and gave Salz his business card.

Salz contacted members of the team asking for their advice. When he arrived at the tryout, a man guarding the field eyed him suspiciously.

He showed the guard the signed kippah and inspirational note, and he was allowed to enter.

Notebook in hand, he studiously recorded each training exercise.

He found a practice field on the other side of the fence, where each day he would copy the drills he had written down.

“God gave me the wisdom to even go to that field,” he said.

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Without professional-grade equipment, Salz trained with everyday objects that he used to simulate football training. He repurposed worn-out shoes as training cones to practice agility drills and footwork. Trash bins stood in for the line of scrimmage.

A member of the Aggies surprised him weeks later when he told Salz that teammates had noticed his training. The determination paid off, and he received a call that he had made the team.

“It is just a level of faith that I had to inherit in order for me to truly achieve that goal,” he said.

As it turned out, the first practice was on Yom Kippur, so the coach’s first exposure to the new Aggie was his religious obligations.

He had no problem with Salz passing on that first practice.

“I am lucky, but it’s also determination, and God’s help, that brought me to where I wanted to go,” he said. “I want people to know that they should be proud Jews and that your Jewishness should never stop you from doing what you want to do.”

TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM 1. According to Scripture and a popular song, around the walls of which Canaanite city did Joshua’s army march seven times, blowing their rams’ horns, “and the walls came tumbling down”? ____ a. Hebron ____ b. Jericho ____ c. Jerusalem ____ d. Shechem 2. What is the ending of this droll Yiddish saying regarding the brit mila (circumcision) ceremony: “The rabbi gets the fees, but the moyl gets the …”? ____ a. … blessings. ____ b. … sacramental wine. ____ c. … tips. ____ d. … mitzvah.

3. How much time after marrying Leah did Jacob have to wait before marrying Leah’s sister, Rachel? ____ a. 7 days ____ b. 7 weeks ____ c. 7 months ____ d. 7 years 4. About how many Palestinian and Arab prisoners did Israel release in 2011 in exchange for the release of one Israeli soldier, Gilad Shalit, held hostage by Hamas? ____ a. 10 ____ b. 100 ____ c. 1,000 ____ d. 10,000 5. According to the Talmud, a price is unfair if it differs by more than what fraction from the regular market price? ____ a. One-tenth ____ b. One-sixth ____ c. One-quarter ____ d. One-half

6. Which Jewish movie star was born with the name Issur Danielovich? ____ a. Woody Allen ____ b. Tony Curtis ____ c. Edward G. Robinson ____ d. Kirk Douglas 7. Which of these animals is not kosher, even though it brings up its cud, because it does not have split hooves? ____ a. Camel ____ b. Rabbit ____ c. Hyrax ____ d. All of the above 8. What is the first commandment given to Adam in the Garden of Eden? ____ a. Go forth and multiply ____ b. Name all the animals ____ c. Do not eat the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge ____ d. Do not kill 9. What is a Jewish woman called who cannot remarry because her husband disappeared without proof of death? ____ a. Almanah ____ b. Kallah ____ c. Gerushah ____ d. Agunah 10. Each year from 2015 to 2020, what was the ranking of Israel among the most powerful nations of the world, according to the U. of Pennsylvania’s survey of 17,000 opinion leaders from 20 countries? ____ a. 3rd most powerful ____ b. 8th most powerful ____ c. 23rd most powerful ____ d. 38th most powerful Answers on page 21. ©2024 Felber, Starmark, Inc., all rights reserved.

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COVER STORY | BY L'CHAIM STAFF

CELEBRATING COMMUNITY, CULTURE The San Diego Jewish Community with IAC & AJC

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oin the San Diego Jewish community for an inspiring evening celebrating community, culture, and impact at the Israeli American Council Gala on January 9. Hear from remarkable speakers, including Elan S. Carr, CEO of the IAC and former U.S. Special Envoy to Monitor and Combat Anti-Semitism, who will share insights drawing from his extensive experience in public service and advocacy. Miriam Peretz, renowned educator and Israel Prize recipient will inspire with her story of resilience, turning personal loss into a mission of hope and empowerment. Dumisani Washington is the Founder and CEO of the Institute for Black Solidarity with Israel (IBSI), a pastor, musician, and author dedicated to fostering connections between the Black community and Israel through advocacy, education, and the arts.

IAC is a national community-based organization. By building an engaged and united Israeli-American community, the Jewish organization works every day to deepen the Jewish and Israeli identity of our next generation, empower the American Jewish community, and strengthen the bond between the United States and the State of Israel. IAC’s mission is to fight the scourge of antisemitism using the most powerful force: a strong and engaged community that has Israel at heart.

The San Diego chapter is vibrant and active, offering a wide range of activities and programs for individuals of all ages. Among its initiatives, the chapter features programs like “Keshet,” which is designed for young children aged four to eight and their families, where they learn about holidays, Israeli culture, and language. The chapter also offers the “Eitanim” entrepreneurship program for teenagers, with precredit from UCSD which connects them with Israel as a startup nation.

Additionally, “Mishelanu” focuses on engaging students at UCSD and SDSU through gatherings that celebrate holidays, foster ambassadorship for Israel, and combat antisemitism.

This year, the San Diego chapter hosted several community events, such as “Shishi Israeli,” which brought together hundreds of families to celebrate Israeli culture on Fridays. Since October 7, IAC has also organized rallies and events to support hostages and stand in solidarity with Israel.

By supporting the IAC, you are helping to combat antisemitism, foster Jewish identity, and promote the unbreakable bond between Israel and the Jewish community here in San Diego.

Together, we are building a powerful movement that stands strong in its values and makes a lasting impact.

On February 2nd, 2025, the community will come together for “Standing Together” a symposium for community learning and action, with the aim of combatting antisemitism. Partnering with Federation, AJC’s intention is to build on the success of last year’s inaugural event and expand in scope and size, with programming designed for allies of the Jewish community, a teen track, and additional breakout workshops to meet the growing needs of our community.

AJC and Federation will address rising antisemitism and develop tools to stop its spread. This symposium will bring together stakeholder and community members from across San Diego. All are invited to attend and explore new ways to work as a community, engage in civil discourse, and build bridges for the future.

This year’s symposium will center on the belief that when we use our voices to push antisemitism and those who espouse it to the fringes of society, America becomes a safer place not only for Jews, but for all. The normalization of antisemitism in society is dangerous, and we must work together to tackle the unprecedented threats facing world Jewry and shape a new future for Israel and the Jewish people. A pluralistic society which protects the rights of Jews is healthier for other minority groups and one where civic institutions flourish.

PROGRAM OVERVIEW

Expect powerful speakers, breakout workshops led by key thought leaders, and interactive opportunities for dialogue, reflection and connection.

Participate in engaging workshops that will build on last year’s successful series and cover a broad array of topics including misinformation and disinformation, campus antisemitism, antisemitism and the DEI movement, antisemitism 101, and Jewish narratives in K-12 education.

There are three tracks for participants to attend workshops geared towards their lives and experiences. It is also an opportunity to join a cohort of individuals with similar interests and lived experiences. The following tracks will be offered: Jewish Community, Allies to the Jewish Community and Teen Track: Offered to all students currently attending high school (9th-12th grade).

Let’s stand together against antisemitism and make a lasting impact on our community!

Don’t miss these unique opportunities to be part of the solution.

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FOOD

CURRY MAGIC LENTIL AND CHICKPEA STEW

BY RACHEL BELLER, MS, RDN, CEO BELLER NUTRITIONAL INSTITUTE BELLERNUTRITION.COM

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ooking for a hearty, flavorful dish that’s as nutritious as it is delicious? Say hello to the Curry Magic Lentil and Chickpea Stew—a crowd favorite among the Beller Nutrition Masterclass participants! This dish isn’t just a protein and fiber powerhouse; it’s a nutritional superstar, thanks to the anti-cancer ingredients including the mild Curry Magic Spice blend.

Packed with a mild combo of coriander, turmeric, mustard seed, Ceylon cinnamon, cumin, garlic, ginger, paprika, fenugreek, cardamom, and black pepper, this mild spice blend takes your stew to the next level. These spices don’t just add incredible flavor—they work together in synergy to dramatically enhance the dish’s antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. For example, black pepper enhances the absorption of curcumin in turmeric, while Ceylon cinnamon and ginger amplify anti-inflammatory benefits.

Pair this nutrient-dense, power spice-infused stew with low-starch veggies like riced cauliflower or broccoli, and you’ve got a satisfying, energizing, and health-boosting meal. It’s quick, easy, and a delicious way to elevate your wellness—one curry-licious bite at a time!

CURRY MAGIC LENTIL AND CHICKPEA STEW

Active Prep Time: 10 mins ∙ Cook Time: 40 mins Ingredients 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil 1 yellow onion, chopped 4 cloves garlic, chopped 1 1/2 tablespoons grated fresh ginger 1 1/2 tablespoons Beller Nutrition Curry Magic 1 teaspoon ground cumin 6 cups vegetable stock 2 cups dry red lentils 1 1/2 cups cooked chickpeas, drained and rinsed 1 cup diced tomatoes, fresh or packaged

This dish isn’t just a protein and fiber powerhouse; it’s a nutritional superstar.

Directions

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Heat olive oil in a pot over medium heat. Add the onion and sauté 3 minutes.

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Stir in garlic, ginger, curry powder, and cumin and sauté an additional 2 minutes.

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Stir in vegetable stock, lentils, chickpeas, and tomatoes and bring up to a simmer. Cover, reduce heat to low, and let simmer 30 minutes, or until lentils are tender.

RACHEL BELLER IS A REGISTERED DIETITIAN NUTRITIONIST (RDN), CEO OF BELLER NUTRITIONAL INSTITUTE AND CREATOR OF THE BELLER NUTRITION MASTERCLASS. SHE SPECIALIZES IN ONCOLOGY AND WEIGHT MANAGEMENT. VISIT HTTPS:// WWW.BELLERNUTRITION.COM/ FOR MORE INFORMATION. THIS RECIPE WAS SUBMITTED BY THE NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION, SHARSHERET, THE JEWISH BREAST CANCER AND OVARIAN CANCER COMMUNITY. IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE HAS BEEN IMPACTED BY BREAST OR OVARIAN CANCER OR HAS ELEVATED GENETIC RISK, CONTACT SHARSHERET FOR FREE SUPPORT AND RESOURCES. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT SHARSHERET.ORG OR CALL (866) 474-2774.

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10 Things to Know about Hannukah Festival of Lights | BY RABBI EVAN MOFFIE

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ere are 10 facts I wish everyone knew about Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights.

1. Hanukkah Is Not “Jewish Christmas.”

The parallels are striking. Both happen near the end of the secular year, center around light, and involve gift-giving. But, despite their outward similarities, the two are vastly different in religious meaning.

Christmas is a central Christian holiday, marking the birth of Jesus. Hanukkah, which is not found in the Hebrew Bible, celebrates the rededication of the Temple by a group of Jewish fighters and priests known as the Maccabees. Hanukkah has gained outsized spiritual attention in America because of its proximity to Christmas, but historically it has been a relatively minor Jewish holiday.

2. There Is No One Right Away To Spell “Hanukkah.”

The first letter of the Hebrew word is chet, which has no English equivalent. Many traditional Jews prefer “Ch,” even

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though it is a different sound than the “ch” in a word like “chapter.” Some prefer the “H,” but the “H” lacks the guttural sound of the Hebrew. Both are used interchangeably.

3. The Hanukkah Candelabra Is Known As A Hanukkiyah, Not A Menorah.

The menorah is the seven-wicked candelabra that stood in the Temple. It became a symbol of Judaism and is carved into one of the gates of Rome as a symbol of the Roman conquest of Judea in 70 C.E. The hanukkiyah, in contrast, has nine wicks. One wick, typically in the center, is set apart from the others and known as the shamash. It is used to light the other eight candles.

4. We Light The Candles From Left To Right, But Add Candles Each Evening From Right To Left.

In other words, we start by lighting the right-most candle on the first evening of Hanukkah. Then we add another candle to its left. We light that new candle first, and then light the rightmost candle. This process continues through eight nights. Learn

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how to light the Hanukkah candles.

5. Some Families Replace Eight Nights Of Gift Giving With A Mix Of Learning, Social Action, And Giving.

At my synagogue, we encourage families to take at least one night to volunteer as a family or gather toys and clothing to donate. Ner Shel Tzedakah (“Candle of Righteousness”) is a project in which families and individuals devote the sixth night of Hanukkah to learning about the problem of poverty.

And this Social Justice Gift Guide offers option for giving gifts to loved ones while also bettering the world.

6. The Custom Of Playing With A Dreidel Is Based On A German Gambling Game.

A game involving a spinning top with various letters printed on its side was played in both Germany and England from about the 16th century onward. European Jews adopted the game and replaced the German and English letters with Hebrew ones. Now, the dreidel game is used to amuse children throughout the holiday.

7. A Dreidel Made In Israel Is Different Than A Dreidel Made Outside Of Israel.

Outside of Israel, the letters on the dreidel are an acronym for “A great miracle happened there.” In Israel, the letters stand for “A great miracle happened here.”

8. Traditional Hanukkah Foods Are Fried In Oil. Oil symbolizes the miracle of Hanukkah. According to Jewish tradition, the Maccabees found a tin of oil in the Temple after they recaptured it. It was only supposed to provide enough light for one night, but it miraculously lasted for eight.

Ashkenazi favorites include latkes and sufganiyot (find recipes for both), and every Jewish community around the world has its own traditional Hanukkah cuisine.

9. There Are Two Main Hanukkah Stories.

The origins of Hanukkah lie the battle between the Jewish zealots known as Maccabees and the Seleucid King Antiochus.

The Maccabees won, and the holiday began as a way to celebrate their victory. This story is told in the apocryphal Book of Maccabees.

When Jews had lost their independence and were ruled by the Roman Empire 500 years later, Jewish leaders downplayed the military part of the story and focused on the religious miracle of a tin of oil lasting for eight days. The emphasis on the spiritual rather than the military aspects of the holiday made it less susceptible to Roman suppression.

10. Many American Jews See Hanukkah as a Celebration of Our Religious Freedom.

The Maccabees began their revolt because Antiochus forced the Jews under his control to adapt Hellenistic practices. He placed a sculpture of the Greek god Zeus in the Temple.

Today, we take the opportunity to celebrate our right to practice Judaism freely in America—and remind ourselves of the imperative to ensure this freedom for people of all faiths around the world.

Note: This article was originally published by the Union for Reform Judaism online at reformjudaism.org/jewish-holidays/ hanukkah/10-things-know-about-hanukkah-festival-lights.

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ANNOUNCING ISRAEL UNFILTERED STEP INTO THE STORY OF ISRAEL

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ewish Federation of San Diego is proud to introduce Israel Unfiltered, a new annual trip offering San Diego Jewish teens an unforgettable opportunity to deepen their connections to Israel, their Jewish identity, and their peers. Thanks to the visionary support and generosity of local leaders Dana and Julie Zeff, this initiative underscores Federation’s commitment to strengthening the next generation’s relationship with Israel and the global Jewish community.

Scheduled for June 16 to July 7, 2025, Israel Unfiltered invites rising high school juniors and seniors to embark on a journey through Israel’s vibrant culture and complex realities. Guided by the tagline “Step into the Story,” the program offers activities such as floating in the Dead Sea, sandboarding in the Negev Desert, exploring ancient landmarks, and connecting with local communities.

“This trip is about more than sightseeing,” said Heidi Gantwerk, Federation President & CEO. “We want these teens to experience Israel through a diversity of perspectives, build lifelong friendships, and develop the confidence to engage in meaningful conversations about their identity and Israel when they return home. This is a step toward becoming thoughtful leaders and advocates.”

One highlight of the trip is the participation of teens from San Diego’s sister region, Sha’ar HaNegev. The experience will foster lasting bonds, uniting participants through shared history and culture. San Diego and Sha’ar HaNegev teens will engage in fun activities, meaningful conversations, and opportunities to learn from one another.

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advocating for Israel, they will gain a deeper understanding of the modern Jewish experience and return home confident in their ability to articulate their perspectives and share their stories.

Federation prioritizes participant safety. While the trip’s goal is to explore Israel, a backup plan is in place to pivot to European destinations with rich Jewish histories, such as Prague or Krakow, if safety concerns arise. This ensures participants will still engage with meaningful Jewish narratives.

Inclusivity is also central to Israel Unfiltered. The program welcomes all Jewish teens, regardless of how they identify, their beliefs, or their personal abilities. Federation’s commitment to creating a safe and supportive environment ensures that participants can explore their connection to their Jewish roots authentically and without political agendas.

Generous subsidies from Federation and the Zeff family make this experience accessible to more teens, particularly those who might not have other opportunities to travel to Israel. “This trip is an investment in our community’s future,” added Gantwerk. “By fostering a deep connection to their heritage, we hope these young travelers return inspired to share their experiences and strengthen our local Jewish community.”

Whether standing at the Western Wall, exploring the Jewish history of Europe, or building relationships with peers, Israel Unfiltered offers teens a profound way to explore their heritage. The program builds lifelong bonds, cultivates a nuanced understanding of Israel, and fosters a sense of belonging within the Jewish community.

Don’t let your teen miss this chance to “Step into the Story.” For more information and to join the interest list, visit israelunfiltered.org.

ANSWERS TO TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM

1. b. The walls of Jericho came tumbling down in the first victory of Joshua’s conquest of the land of Canaan (Joshua 6:20), as recounted in a popular song sung by Acapeldridge, among others.

2. c. … tips. Less whimsical, but you could give yourself a point for d.

3. a. Jacob married Rachel seven days after her father Laban tricked Jacob into marrying Leah, but then had to work another seven years for Laban to “earn” Rachel again.

4. c. Israel released 1,027 prisoners, among whom 280 had been sentenced to life in prison for attacks against Israeli targets, and who were responsible for killing 569 Israelis. One of the prisoners, Yahya Sinwar, released from four life sentences, went on to lead Hamas during and after the October 7, 2023 attacks that killed 1,200 Israelis and took hundreds hostage.

5. b. Any price that differs by more than one-sixth from the market price is considered unfair and gives the overcharged customer or underpaid merchant the right to annul the sale.

6. d. Kirk Douglas was born Issur Danielovich and became known as Izzy Demsky before taking his stage name. In an interview with People, he regretted the change, because “It’s more interesting to keep your original name.” Woody Allen was born Allen Konigsberg.

Tony Curtis was born Bernard Schwartz. Edward G. Robinson was born Emanuel Goldenberg.

7. d. All are not kosher (Lev. 11:4-6).

8. a. Go forth and multiply (Gen. 1:28).

9. d. An agunah, meaning chained woman, cannot remarry because if her husband is alive, she would be guilty of adultery. An almanah is a widow; a kallah is a bride; a gerushah is a divorcee.

10. b. Israel, with one-tenth of 1 percent of the world’s population, was consistently ranked the eighth most powerful country in the world. _____________________________________ 0–2 Talmid/Talmida (Student) 3–5 Melamed/Melamedet (Teacher) 6–8 Talmid Chacham/Talmidat Chacham (Scholar) 9 – 10 Gaon/Gaona (Genius) _________________________________________ Your comments are welcome at Felber@Jewish-IQ.com ©2024 Felber, Starmark, Inc., all rights reserved.

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BOOK REVIEW

HERE THERE IS NO WHY PHILIP GRAUBART'S LATEST BOOK

BY DEBORAH VIETOR

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e are invited to follow the life journey though Jerusalem of Judah Loeb, struggling young and idealistic writer, attempting to save his career in 1983 to his claim as a Pulitzer Prize winner in 2005. His purpose? Travel to Israel and unveil the mystery of the death of his former college professor, Chaim Lerner.

Artfully crafted, the story paints vivid, sensual descriptions of the cuisine, sights and sounds of Jerusalem. Multi-layered, topics include the Holocaust, Zionism, Israeli politics, religion and history, romance, lies and deceits, truths, what it means to be a Jew, and specifically how often in life there truly is no why.

We meet Chaim Lerner, Auschwitz survivor with celebrated status in Israel, Loeb’s former girlfriend Michal, Chaim’s wife Zehava and their son Yoav. Charlie is Loeb’s former college roommate and plays an integral part in the story.

In Loeb’s investigation regarding the death of Chaim Lerner, the ultimate mystery, was it suicide due to illness and depression from the Holocaust or was he pushed from a balcony? His interest takes on an almost obsessional quality, spanning many years.

Lerner certainly had cultivated enough haters who despised his political views and sometimes cavalier description of G-d and Germans during the Holocaust. How and why did some people survive? While Loeb idolized him during his college years, his fascination piqued by the easy manner with which a survivor behaved, he learns there is much more to this man than anyone would believe. Many even thought of Lerner as some sort of a King of Auschwitz.

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the history of the Jews, land and ideology. Michal and Hannah even interviewed a suicide bomber, much to the horror and fear of Loeb. We question and learn both sides of the Israeli conflict.

Context of the Holocaust is intertwined, forming a connection between father and daughter, touching on the sensitive subject of his own wife’s suicide related to advanced cancer. He was certainly learning much about his daughter and she of him and his past relationship with Michal as the chapters switch from 1983 to 2005.

Lerner could be engaging, charming and fascinating one moment, then change immediately into a critical, overbearing, drunken bore much to the chagrin of Loeb.

The why’s we encounter are too many to count. What are the conflicting stories about how Lerner died? Why did Michal seem to keep her relationship with Loeb so secretive decades ago?

What was Loeb withholding from Hannah and others regarding his connection with Michal over the years? What were the true views of each of the characters, including Charlie regarding Judaism? This is truly a mystery within a mystery waiting to be solved.

Ultimately we learn about faith, truth, redemption of the human spirit through the exquisite storytelling of Philip Graubart, Rabbi and acclaimed writer. Author of eight books, he has served pulpits in Massachusetts and California, held leadership positions at the Shalom Hartman Institute, National Yiddish Book Center and the San Diego Jewish Academy where he currently teaches.

RESTAURANT REVIEW

NATURE FORWARD A BOLD LEAP INTO FUSION AND FARM-TO-TABLE EXCELLENCE

BY SALOMON MAYA

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pening a restaurant today requires more than courage—it demands nerves of steel. Between an unpredictable economy, a shifting labor landscape, and the relentless judgment of social media, the restaurant industry can feel as precarious as brain surgery. A single harsh review, typed in seconds, can ripple far and wide. For many, such challenges are reason enough to steer clear of this fraught industry.

Not for Hellen Kalach.

Kalach is the visionary behind Nature Forward, the world’s first SoCal bistro to blend French Mediterranean and Mexican flavors with an uncompromising dedication to organic, farm-to-table dining. Tucked away in a cozy La Jolla corner, just a stone’s throw from the bustling UTC mall, Nature Forward is a study in contrasts.

Its intimate space feels expansive, thanks to a floor-to-ceiling mirror that doubles its perceived size. Handwoven sculptures from Morelos, Mexico, adorn the walls, lending an artisanal warmth to the bistro’s design. Somehow, it is both homey and luxurious—a balance few achieve and even fewer master.

Kalach herself mirrors this dichotomy. Her voice is soft, her demeanor understated, yet her vision is anything but timid. Her passion for creating a healthier, more connected world radiates through every element of her restaurant. “I spent 10 years in France perfecting pastries and learning the art of bread,” she shares, reflecting on her winding path. “When I returned to Mexico, I started a snack company and planned to open a café, but life had other plans. This is my first restaurant, and it’s terrifying—but also thrilling.”

Her menu is no less daring, weaving her multicultural background into dishes inspired by a Cancún boutique hotel and the comforting flavors of her grandmother’s kitchen. “I’m not a chef; I’m a baker,” Kalach says modestly. “But every recipe is mine.” She partnered with

a chef to refine her creations and later brought in another to elevate the experience.

The results are nothing short of extraordinary. Signature dishes like shakshuka feature tomatoes sourced from three fields to achieve unparalleled richness, while borekas—delicately stuffed pastries Kalach calls “SoCal borekas”—offer a nod to her French Mediterranean influence. Even the zaatar comes from a deeply personal place, prepared by her aunt in Mexico. And then there’s the banana bread: a moist, flavorful ode to simple ingredients done exceptionally well.

Everything at Nature Forward is made from scratch, from the chili oils to the café de olla, brewed with a reverence for tradition. This is not a place trading on buzzwords like “organic” and “farm-fresh” to justify inflated prices. Instead, the quality speaks for itself, with locally sourced ingredients—many from Coastal Roots Farm— shining in every bite.

Kalach’s dedication to storytelling extends beyond the plate. A customer-suggested Rueben sandwich, now a menu staple, embodies the warmth and connection she aims to foster. “People come here and feel loved,” she says simply.

Accessible pricing ensures that this elevated experience remains inclusive. For now, Kalach’s focus is on perfecting her craft, but the future is bright. “I’d love to open more locations,” she admits, “but only if we stay true to what makes this special.”

With Nature Forward, Kalach proves that bold flavors, heartfelt traditions, and uncompromising quality can create something truly revolutionary. This isn’t just a bistro—it’s a love letter to what food should be.

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HUMOR | BY STEPHANIE D. GITTLEMAN

mazel

& mishagoss THERE'S NO PLACE LIKE THE MOVIES...

WITH MY MOTHER

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reating fond family memories ranks high priority for me. That’s exactly why I like to give “experiences” to my loved ones for Chanukah (instead of eight materialistic tchotchkes that just sit on shelves, gathering dust) so when my elderly mother suggested I treat her to see the movie Wicked, I saw no harm in complying.

The first red flag should’ve been ridiculously obvious. Mom wore her bright red sparkly pumps. “I’m so excited!” she exclaimed as we stood in line. Then she punctuated her enthusiasm by clicking her heels together three times, which was red flag number two … and one that also went over my head! And that’s a real shame because what happened next could have been avoided, had I been able to help manage her expectations. “When is that cute farmgirl Dorothy gonna tell us she’s not in Kansas anymore??!” she repeatedly hissed over the next two hours and forty minutes of the film.

This behavior did NOT exactly endear her to the hundreds of movie-goer neighbors who were seated nearby. But they tolerated it better than her other diatribe in which she kvelled… “Goldblum, Goldblum….Jeff Goldblum? Gotta be Jewish, right? Well, what do you know? The Wizard of Oz is a member of our tribe! What a mensch!”

Then there was that first incredible solo

that Ariana Grande belted out, after which my mother turned to me and immediately proclaimed, “Cousin Esther lip-syncs that song so much better than this girl does.”

Speaking of music, naturally the volume was far too loud for her liking, so I had to enlighten her. “It’s called Dolby Surround Sound for a reason, Mom. So you feel like you’re actually in “Emerald City.” To which she retorted… “Hmmph! The entire time we were married, your father never once bought me any Emerald jewelry, even though he knew darn well it was my birthstone!”

Okaaaayyyy.

About halfway through the movie she evidently became bored because she started showing off her wicked witch impersonation, admittedly terrifying when performed while wearing dentures. “I’ll get you, my Pretty!

And your little dog too!” I overheard the concerned mother next to us reassure her tearful little girl that their labradoodle was safely waiting for her back home. Sigh…

But just as I allowed myself get emotionally involved with what was transpiring onscreen, I was startled to find an usher standing over my mother, ordering her to turn off her cellphone flashlight—which I didn’t even realize she knew how to use! Sure enough, I glanced down to see her large white purse glowing obnoxiously brighter than

the colorful hot-air balloon featured in the critical Defying Gravity climax—a moment the entire audience had been looking forward to for years. “My mouth is dry and I’m trying to locate a piece of gum. So sue me!” she said indignantly as dozens of sticks of Wrigley’s pelted us from annoyed patrons.

It was in this moment I wished I only had a Brain to quickly flee the cinema. Or the Courage to apologize to the entire audience.

Or the Heart to tell my mother that while we all find her personality adorably charming, not everybody shares this sentiment.

When at last the movie mercifully came to its dramatic conclusion and the words “To Be Continued” flashed on the screen, my mother stood up and announced to the entire theater, “Don’t worry! None of this really matters because it’s all just a bad dream she had after getting a nasty bump on her keppie.” Then she matter-of-factly whispered into my ear, “Prequel Shmrequel! They never even sang ‘Ease On Down the Road!’ Get your money back, dear.”

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