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COVER STORY Combatting Antisemitism on Campus............................................................................................................

1000 WORDS Ariela Ruback Recalls the Horrors of Oct. 7 ...................................................................................

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Farro and Roasted Carrot Jar Salad.....................................................................................................

FEATURES

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Tu Bishvat Across America.........................................................................................................................

Michal Elon with Hadassah.......................................................................................................................

Hebrew Free Loan...........................................................................................................................................

HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANCE

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A Tale of 2 Survivors on Holocaust Remembrance Day..........................................................

San Diego’s Holocaust Remembrance Exhibit..............................................................................

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Prayers & Passages........................................

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TORAH l BY RABBI-CANTOR CHERI WEISS

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& passages HONORING NATURE ON TU BISHVAT

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s I write these words from the comfort of my living room sofa, a relentless storm is raging outside. Winds are bending palm trees to a frightening angle, rain is flooding the streets, and even thunder – rare on the island of O‘ahu—can be heard occasionally pounding through the dark skies. For the second time this week, we have lost electrical power.

I have always had a great deal of respect for—and sometimes fear of—the forces of nature. Having spent the past several years living in Hawai‘i, I have learned how deeplyrooted respect for nature is in Hawaiian culture. The guiding principle is known as aloha 'āina or “love of the land” wherein nature is considered to be the very source of life. As such, we should always feel a sense of gratitude for its existence, conserving natural resources wherever possible, and living in harmony with nature rather than trying to dominate it.

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honor nature. While not specifically noted in the Torah as a holiday, its origin stems from the prohibition therein to avoid eating the bounty of a tree for the first three years after it has been planted. (The bounty of the fourth year was considered “holy” and as such to be given to the priests.) This particular date on the Hebrew calendar was selected by the rabbis as a way to calculate the age of all trees regardless of their actual planting dates.

They felt confident that in the Holy Land, by the fifteenth of the month of Shevat, most of the severe rains would have fallen, and trees would begin a new cycle of growth as Spring began to approach.

The followers of the Kabbalist Rabbi Isaac Luria (in 16th century Tz’ fat) celebrated Tu Bishvat with unique rituals, including a Seder (festive meal) as a way of honoring God’s Divine presence in nature; particularly the land, trees, and the blessings of abundance that they provided. Fruits, nuts, and wine of various colors formed the basis of their Seder, each item receiving its own specific blessing.

This tradition has been passed down

through the generations and has increased in popularity throughout the Jewish world with communities holding festive Seders and using special Haggadot written for the occasion. (Many Tu Bishvat “Haggadot” may be found online.)

In contemporary times, Tu Bishvat is often regarded as “Jewish Earth Day.” It is a great occasion to renew our commitment to safeguarding the health and well-being of our planet and educating ourselves (and each other) on how to preserve our natural resources. In Israel, the holiday has long been associated with the planting of trees—an admirable tribute to the renewal of nature.

God has entrusted us to be the caretakers of our planet: “The heavens belong to God, but God has given the Earth to human beings.”

(Psalms 115:16) Let us celebrate our holy mission on this Tu Bishvat by honoring God’s bounty and ensuring that it is available for all of the generations to come.

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n October 7, 2023, Ariella Ruback’s life changed forever when Hamas terrorists launched a brutal attack on her IDF base along the Gaza border. Her story is one of unimaginable loss, overwhelming terror, and incredible bravery. Ariella, who spoke at Chabad of Rancho Bernardo on January 14, 2025 as part of the Dr. Howard and Lori Kay lecture series, described how she survived the horrific events that saw 32 of her fellow soldiers—young men and women, each with their own dreams and futures—sacrificed their lives in defense of Israel.

Ariella’s base, just a three-minute drive from Gaza, was in the heart of the violence. The soldiers there were young, full of life, and dedicated to protecting their country. Ariella spoke passionately about her fallen friends—soldiers who loved parties, the beach, and good food, but who ultimately gave up everything to defend Israel.

Their loss is something Ariella carries with her every day, haunted by the thought that their lives, hopes, and futures were stolen from them in an instant.

Even before October 7, Ariella had recognized the growing threat.

In April 2023, she observed terrorist groups practicing military tactics near Gaza and reported it to her superiors, but nothing changed.

She grew more concerned as the weeks went on, especially when, just before Yom Kippur, she predicted that a war was inevitable. By October 6, Ariella was on high alert, monitoring the Gaza border throughout the night. She had no idea that the day ahead would be unlike any other.

On the morning of October 7, after a late-night Shabbat meal with her fellow soldiers, Ariella and her friends gathered to watch the

sunrise. Little did they know, it would be the last peaceful moment they would share. As Ariella closed her eyes for a brief rest before her shift, the base was shaken by sirens and explosions. At 6:20 a.m., the calm was shattered—terrorists were crossing the border, and the IDF base was under attack. Ariella rushed to the operations center to find chaos outside. The sky was black with smoke, and bombs rained down. Terrorists, wearing masks and carrying RPGs, machine guns, and grenades, advanced toward the base.

Despite the immediate danger, Ariella’s first priority was to warn her fellow soldiers. Many were off base, stationed at the kibbutzes they were responsible for defending, and others were fast asleep in the dorm. The situation was dire, and with no weapons, the soldiers were vulnerable. But Ariella’s concern for her friends outweighed her own fear. She managed to reach one of her friends in the dormitory, urging her to come to the operations center for safety. Her friend hesitated, fearing missile attacks, but Ariella made it clear that staying behind meant certain death at the hands of the terrorists.

In the operations room, the situation was horrific. As they hid behind computers for protection, the soldiers, including one officer who had brought his wife and baby to the base for Shabbat, sang softly to keep the baby calm, knowing they could be discovered at any moment. The tension was unbearable. Meanwhile, Ariella’s friends on guard duty tried to fight back, but after 20 minutes of resistance, they were killed by terrorist fire.

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Ariella’s story is a testament to the resilience, bravery, and unyielding commitment of Israel’s defenders. Her words remind us that the price of having a Jewish state is high, but the sacrifices made to protect it are invaluable. desperate fight. Another soldier, faced with the option to hide or fight, chose to defend his fellow soldiers. He used every bullet in his gun, holding off the attackers long enough to allow others to seek shelter.

He too fell in battle with the terrorists, his selflessness and courage left a lasting impact on Ariella.

The horrors didn’t end with the gunfire. As the battle raged on, Ariella, along with a few others, emerged from their hiding spots to assist the wounded. They applied tourniquets, knowing that if they didn’t act, their comrades would bleed to death. At 7:30 a.m., three snipers from the base arrived in the operations room, severely wounded. They asked Ariella to let in more soldiers, unaware that many had already been left behind.

But the brutality of the attack by the terrorist of Gaza only grew worse. Ariella spoke of the atrocities committed by the terrorists that day—her fellow observers burned alive, so charred that their bodies had to be sent to the United States for identification. One of her friends, a fellow observer, stayed on the radio to report the ongoing events until she was tragically burned alive in the attack. Despite the terror surrounding them, these brave soldiers continued their duty, putting their fear aside to protect their fellow Jews.

Even more harrowing were the fates of several young women from the base who were taken hostage, kidnapped by Hamas terrorists.

Some of those who survived were later tortured, wounded, and even killed by Gaza doctors—a stark reminder of the pure evil that permeates the enemy’s ranks. Ariella also learned that many of the bodies of her fallen comrades were decapitated, with Hamas terrorists attempting to sell their heads for $10,000.

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peace with terrorists is impossible. Gaza, she says, is filled with individuals who are bent on destroying Israel and its people, and the brutality she witnessed is proof of the evil they are capable of.

The terrorists did not simply attack a military base—they attacked a nation, targeting its soldiers, its civilians, and its future. Yet, despite the horrors, Ariella’s pride in her fallen comrades remains unshaken.

They fought not just for themselves, but for the future of the Jewish people.

Ariella’s story is a testament to the resilience, bravery, and unyielding commitment of Israel’s defenders. Her words remind us that the price of having a Jewish state is high, but the sacrifices made to protect it are invaluable. The 32 soldiers who gave their lives that day are not just names on a list—they were young people with hopes, dreams, and families. Ariella’s mission now is to make sure that they are never forgotten. Their bravery and their love for Israel should be remembered by all.

As Ariella continues to process the trauma and loss, she carries forward the memory of her fallen comrades, vowing to honor their sacrifice and share their story. In her eyes, the fallen soldiers are heroes who deserve to be remembered, not as victims, but as brave defenders who gave everything for a higher purpose: the survival of the Jewish state. Ariella is currently raising funds for the widows and warriors fund at https://www.war-in-israel.org.

At the time of this publication B”H five of Ariella’s friends from the observation base were freed from Hamas captivity and returned to their families and friends.

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COVER STORY | BY L'CHAIM STAFF & AISH Oz Laniado and Liat Reeis.

PHOTO BY LIAT FECO

OVERCOMING CAMPUS ANTISEMITISM StandWithUs, AISH initiatives work to support Jewish college students

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ince Oct. 7, 2023, Jewish students on college campuses have experienced an unprecedented wave of antisemitism that has caused thousands of students to feel unsafe, targeted and under attack. Most feel unprepared to understand and effectively respond to these situations.

To support Jewish students, Aish and StandWithUs’s San Diego Chapter have launched initiatives aimed at combatting antisemitism and providing support. Aish connects with people from all backgrounds through digital content, in-person discovery and exploration at the Dan Family Aish World Center in Jerusalem. StandWithUs’ San Diego chapter is part of an international, non-partisan education organization that supports Israel and fights antisemitism.

integrity, and ability to bring people together set her apart from a remarkable pool of candidates, including retired admirals and agency directors. Backed by a group of highly influential leaders, this initiative is not about quick fixes or surface solutions. It’s about tackling the roots of anti-Semitism in our county with courage, strategy, and purpose. This effort is for every American who believes in the values of Western civilization as we know it today. By fostering understanding, strengthening alliances, and empowering communities, we aim to safeguard the principles of freedom, justice, and unity that bind us all. Together, we will rise to this challenge with strength and unwavering resolve”.

Liat Reeis is a formidable Zionist, speaker, organizer and fundraiser as well as a successful businesswomen. In addition to her new role with SWU, she is Vice President of the Jewish National Fund in San Diego, the Chair for Women for Israel, and the Founder of the Christian and Jewish Alliance.

STANDWITHUS SAN DIEGO TASK FORCE

AISH’S ONLINE COMMUNITY

In February, the non-profit Stand With Us organization launched a pivotal task force in San Diego to combat anti-Semitism.

Heading up the initiative is Liat Reeis. With eight board members at her helm, all from different Jewish ethnicities, the initiative aims to address rising challenges through education, law enforcement partnerships, and community-building efforts.

They will use their varied resources and able finances to unite for Israel and against antisemitism.

Key areas of focus include tackling anti-Zionist and antiSemitic events, establishing new alliances, and strengthening existing relationships, particularly with non-Jewish allies in the Christian community. While progress is steady, the task force recognizes the urgency of moving faster to address these critical issues.

Efforts to work through the Board of Education have sparked various ideas, and a dedicated team of activists is driving these strategies forward. In parallel, the task force collaborates with interfaith communities, leveraging their shared values to host events that foster understanding and unity. These gatherings aim to build momentum, draw in more supporters, and strengthen the Jewish community’s ability to stand together.

Ultimately, the task force envisions building bridges between Jewish and interfaith communities, creating a united front for Israel and against anti-Semitism. Their commitment to this cause reflects a hopeful, proactive approach to addressing prejudice and fostering solidarity.

Executive Director of SWU Southwest Oz Laniado asserts, “We are proud to launch this transformative task force in San Diego under the leadership of Liat Reeis, whose passion,

Following discussions with both Jewish professionals and students regarding the lack of resources to deal with the sheer amount of antisemitism, especially on underserved campuses, Aish has launched United Against Antisemitism (UAA) with the support of Cross River Bank through its philanthropic arm, Foundation.

UAA provides a dedicated, safe space for support, action and community-building among Jewish students and young professionals. The private online community ensures a space where Jewish students can freely express themselves, discuss difficult situations, get answers to their questions, share resources and ideas, and collaborate to implement action items against antisemitism.

“We’re excited to partner with Aish to combat this age-old hatred called antisemitism,” said Gilles Gade, founder and CEO of Cross River. “Aish has been the bedrock of Jewish education and values, has created the tools to fight against disinformation, bias reporting and campus agenda-driven instruction, and has led many initiatives to seek truth, honesty and integrity.”

“Together with Aish, we are taking a stand to ensure that college students feel supported, safe and inspired to aspire to become future leaders with courage and conviction, with untainted truth and a rejection of falsehood, with the freedom to think and act without fear of consequences, retribution or violence,” Gade said. “The launch of United Against Antisemitism embodies our belief that lasting change begins with thinking and teaching what is right, what is true, and what we believe will bring peace and harmony amongst nations.”

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incident reporting and expert insights on Jewish thought and advocacy. Through live events, real-time Q&A sessions and interactive tools, UAA aims to empower Jews to stand united and foster resilience in the face of ongoing challenges.

“UAA isn’t just building a platform,” said Rabbi Steven Burg, CEO of Aish. “It is a movement dedicated to empowering Jewish identity, resilience and connection. Thanks to the support of our partners at Cross River Bank, we’re reaching new audiences of students, offering spaces where Jews everywhere can explore, unite, and take action together.”

The initiative for UAA came about after representatives from U.S. college campuses, including Hillel directors, shared that they didn’t have enough resources to adequately serve their student populations in the face of the overwhelming antisemitism students are facing.

Beatie Deutsch, an American-Israeli marathon champion and community leader, serves as the UAA program manager. Deutsch is known for her accomplishments as a public advocate for the Jewish people and has more than a decade of experience directing programming for thousands of Jewish students and young professionals globally.

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“The UAA space will enable Jewish students who feel isolated and on distant campuses, as well as those on more centralized campuses who feel they don’t have enough resources,” Deutsch said. “I think more than anything else, students need community.

They need a space where they can feel safe and where they realize they’re not alone.”

She continued, “UAA is a space where students can get connected, come together, learn from student leaders and their peers, and feel that they can make a meaningful impact in response to the antisemitism that is going on.”

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FARRO AND ROASTED CARROT JAR SALAD

BY TAMAR ROTHENBERG, MS, RDN AUTHOR, CANCER DIET FOR THE NEWLY DIAGNOSED

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eing low-carb is trendy but it’s all about choosing the right carb! In reality, consuming whole grains is highly recommended to lower the risk of developing several cancers.

Make this portable mason jar salad for a filling and nutritious meal during the colder months. Packed with flavor and nutrients, this jar salad is perfect during a busy day or a cozy night in.

This recipe combines the nutty flavor of farro with the natural sweetness of roasted carrots, complemented by the freshness of green onions and cherry tomatoes, and a satisfying protein of your choice.

Why this jar salad?

Farro: Excellent source of fiber with a chewy, satisfying texture.

Roasted carrots: Add a hint of sweetness. (You can use any pre-roasted vegetable in place of the carrots.)

Sunflower seeds: High in vitamin E for immunity support.

FARRO AND ROASTED CARROT JAR SALAD

Makes 4 servings Ingredients 1 1/2 cups farro, rinsed and cooked 2 cups carrots, roasted 4 green onions, chopped 2 cups cherry tomatoes, sliced 3 servings protein of choice (tofu, black beans, or mild flavored plant meat, etc.)

1/3 cup sunflower seeds 8 cups romaine lettuce For the Creamy Lemon Dill Dressing: 3/4 cup Greek yogurt, 2% 4 Tbs lemon juice 1 1/3 Tbs minced garlic 4 Tbs olive oil 1 1/3 Tbs dill 1/4 tsp salt and pepper, or to taste Directions 1. Cook farro: in a medium saucepot, bring water to a boil. Add farro and simmer for 25-30 minutes until soft but still a bit chewy.

2. Dressing: Combine Greek yogurt, lemon juice, garlic, olive oil,

Make this portable mason jar salad for a filling and nutritious meal during the colder months. dill, salt, and pepper. Adjust to taste.

3. Layer: In 4 mason jars, start with the dressing. Layer green onions, cherry tomatoes, cooked farro, roasted carrots, protein, and sunflower seeds, and top with romaine lettuce.

4. Store and enjoy: Seal the jars and refrigerate. When you’re ready, invert into a bowl, toss well, and enjoy!

TAMAR ROTHENBERG, MS, RDN, IS A REGISTERED DIETITIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN BREAST AND OVARIAN CANCER IN HER PRIVATE PRACTICE IN LOS ANGELES. SHE HAS A CERTIFICATE OF TRAINING IN VEGETARIAN NUTRITION AND HERBAL FORMULATIONS IN CANCER CARE; AND CO-LED THE CLINICAL STUDY, COPING WITH CANCER IN THE KITCHEN, PUBLISHED IN NUTRIENTS. TAMAR LENDS HER EXPERTISE TO SHARSHERET THRIVERS THROUGH NUTRITION COACHING. CHECK OUT TAMAR’S OTHER RECIPES IN HER BOOK, CANCER DIET FOR THE NEWLY DIAGNOSED: AN INTEGRATIVE GUIDE AND COOKBOOK FOR TREATMENT AND RECOVERY. VISIT TAMAR’S WEBSITE AT HTTPS:// WWW.TAMARROTHENBERGRD.COM/ FOR MORE INFORMATION.

This recipe was submitted by the non-profit organization, Sharsheret, The Jewish Breast Cancer and Ovarian Cancer Community. If you or someone you love has been impacted by breast or ovarian cancer or has elevated genetic risk, contact Sharsheret for free support and resources. For more information, visit sharsheret.org or call (866) 474-2774.

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TU BISHVAT ACROSS AMERICA

BY JEWISH NATIONAL FUND

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ur Jewish tradition teaches us to revere the act of planting seeds that will bear fruit for future generations. With its Tu Bishvat Across America program, Jewish National FundUSA is doing exactly that by celebrating the ‘Original Earth Day’ all while connecting children to their roots and to the land of Israel.

Synagogues and Jewish schools around the country participate by planting trees and using Jewish National Fund-USA’s provided curriculum to learn about the importance of celebrating and honoring our planet, and our Jewish heritage.

Tu Bishvat Across America provides participants with an innovative Tu Bishvat curriculum, created by Jewish National Fund-USA’s Boruchin Center grantee, IsraelLINK, that schools and synagogues can implement, as well as an engaging tree planting competition that comes with exciting prizes. Anyone who plants a tree before February 13will also be entered to win a free round-trip ticket to Israel on El Al and a spot to participate in a Jewish National FundUSA volunteer mission trip! In the wake of the devastating rocket attacks on northern Israel over the last year, the need for tree planting is greater than ever, and the chance to make a real-world impact is a meaningful experience for students of all ages.

Here in San Diego, Tu Bishvat Across America offers an opportunity to gather as a community with our friends and loved ones while celebrating Judaism’s deep connection to nature and the agricultural traditions that may feel distant but are always kept close at heart. At B’nai Tikvah Synagogue in Carlsbad, Tu Bishvat has been an annual celebration of peoplehood and appreciation for

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the earth’s bounty. Naomi Gabai-Fisher, the synagogue’s Director of Education, says that she is excited to partner with Jewish National Fund-USA after having incorporated the organization’s tree planting and environmental stewardship into the synagogue’s programming in the past. Just last year, the community enjoyed a showcase of historic JNF tree-planting posters, and they look forward to formally collaborating for this important holiday.

For Teri Naftalin of San Diego, who is the Israel Programs Admission Director for Jewish National Fund-USA in Southern California, Tu Bishvat Across America is a chance to recognize the organization’s work and more than a century of commitment to the environment.

She shared, “Tu Bisvhat Across America allows communities to connect with our work in the way we are most well-known for, that is, planting trees, while learning about Jewish tradition and opening the door to exploring all our other work and our many circles of impact.”

After all, while planting trees is a mitzvah, developing Israel’s green landscapes in the north and south also increases their ability to attract tourists, improving those regions’ economies, and supporting the growth of small businesses in more rural areas, which then helps to develop the north and south as attractive destination centers for visitors and new residents.

Tu Bishvat may be just one day, but honoring nature never goes out of style, and Tu Bishvat Across America programs and contests run through March 1, 2025. For those in the area, B’nai Tikvah invites the larger San Diego community to join them on February 7, at 7 pm at Bethlehem Lutheran Church, 925 Balour Drive, in Encinitas.

ANSWERS TO TEST YOUR JEWISH IQTM 1. d. Yes, without conditions. The view of the School of Hillel prevailed in this dispute with the School of Shammai. On her wedding day, every bride is beautiful (Ketubot 16b-17a).

2. b. Born to Ukrainian Jewish immigrants, Cooper developed the first portable cellular phone at Motorola. It was 9 inches tall and weighed 2.5 pounds. He placed the first public cell phone call on April 3, 1973. Ten years later, Cooper left Motorola and founded the leading company in billing cellular phone services, which was later sold for $23 million.

3. b. Egypt. Israel bombed nuclear reactors being developed in Saddam Hussein’s Iraq in 1981 and in Bashar al-Assad’s Syria in 2007.

4. d. All were prohibited, leading to the revolt led by the Maccabees and their victory, which we celebrate today as Chanukah. The “reign of terror” between 140 and 138 B.C.E., described in the Book of Maccabees, was the first instance in history of religious persecution.

5. c. Sciatic nerve, because the angel that wrestled with Jacob struck Jacob’s hip socket on the sciatic nerve (Gen. 32:33). That’s why you won’t find filet mignon (known as steerbutt in parts of the South) next to the kosher ribeyes.

6. c. Rachel died giving birth to Jacob’s twelfth and last son, Benjamin. Jacob buried her outside Bethlehem, where her tomb can be visited today.

7. d. The longest-serving prime minister, Netanyahu was elected PM six times for a total of more than 16 years.

8. a. Oppenheimer, the movie, won the 2023 Golden Globe Award for best drama.

9. c. Great-great-grandson: Jacob – Levi – Kehat – Amram – Moses.

10. a. Balaam, a gentile prophet with the ability to curse, was hired

by Balak, king of Moab, to curse Israel so the Moabites could defeat Israel in battle. Although Balaam tried his best to curse them, he could only bless Israel instead. _____________________________________ 0–2 Talmid/Talmida (Student) 3–5 Melamed/Melamedet (Teacher) 6–8 Talmid Chacham/Talmidat Chacham (Scholar) 9 – 10 Gaon/Gaona (Genius) _________________________________________ Your comments are welcome at Felber@Jewish-IQ.com ©2025 Felber, Starmark, Inc., all rights reserved.

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MICHAL ELON SURVIVOR OF OCTOBER 7TH ATTACK SHARES HER COMPELLING STORY WITH HADASSAH

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an Diego Hadassah hosted a survivor of October 7 and her twin sister at a very special brunch at the Hilton Garden Inn San Diego/Del Mar in December. Entitled “Rebuilding Hope…Rebuilding Lives: A Life Changing Hadassah Story 2024,” Hadassah’s 28th National President Carol Ann Schwartz introduced Nurse Michal Elon and her sister.

Michal and her husband, Rabbi Omri Elon had often spent Shabbat on the IDF Zikim training base north of the Gaza strip, offering a break to the IDF Rabbis. During the weekend of October 7, 2023, eight of their 10 children joined them at their barracks.

“We volunteer with the soldiers to create a family environment. We talk to them. We bring board games and play with them. We lead activities,” Michal Elon shared. This was to be a weekend of joy and celebration during Simchat Torah with special dishes prepared for the soldiers.

On the morning of October 7, the family awoke to the sound of an explosion at 6:20 a.m. Michael was caught off guard. She thought it odd that soldiers would be doing exercises on Shabbat.

The Elon family stayed in the shelter with all the trainee soldiers.

They found it unusual that the commanding officers had not returned to the shelter.

They were not aware that terrorists had surrounded the base, believing instead this was a rocket attack.

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the base takeover by Hamas terrorists. Michal saved a badly injured female soldier, with a serious head trauma who was shot in her watch tower. A second wounded soldier fell into the barracks and Elon tried to save him; however, his injuries were too severe.

While Michal was treating another wounded soldier, she was shot three times by a terrorist infiltrator at point blank.

“He looked me in the eye, raised his gun and shot me. He hit me in my arm, stomach and chest. I didn’t know what to do. I felt my hand falling like it wasn’t connected to my body,” Elon said.

Mical used her head scarf as a tourniquet, ultimately saving her life. She shared her story without animosity or bitterness, her sister filling the blanks as she had a cough.

Schwartz is quoted as saying, “It has been more than a year since Hamas brutally raped, sexually abused and mutilated Israeli women and girls. However, despite overwhelming evidence, the UN has not held Hamas accountable or taken decisive steps towards justice and accountability.”

“As a global humanitarian organization, Hadassah remains committed to standing up for women everywhere.”

Mical’s husband assisted with her wounds as she directed him along with the soldiers who stopped her bleeding with their shirts.

Miraculously she remained conscious and after 3 hours she was transferred along with 2 injured soldiers to a medical facility. Later, Mical was transported to Hadassah Ein Kerem in Jerusalem for specialized surgery where nerve damage was repaired in her arm.

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Later they learned that close to 2,500 terrorists slammed into Israel from land, air and sea killing 1,400, mostly civilians. At least 212 hostages of all ages were seized while Israeli towns and cities were bombarded with thousands of rockets.

“The bullet in my chest is still in there. I don’t feel it. They decided to leave it because it is close to critical vessels and it isn’t safe to try to remove it,” she said.

Mical credits her children with being the heroes. “They were so brave. They did a lot there. I feel they’re strong,” she said.

Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America is the largest Jewish women’s organization in the United States. With nearly 300,000 members, donors and supporters, Hadassah brings women together effecting change regarding issues such as ensuring Israel’s security, combating antisemitism and promoting women’s health care.

ABOUT HADASSAH

Hadassah leads 65 organizations, speaking at the United Nations’ annual 16 days of activism against gender-based violence on October 7, 2023 and beyond.

Through its Jerusalem based hospital system, the Hadassah Medical Organization, (HMO) Hadassah helps support exemplary care for over 1 million people annually, including world renowned medical research. Hadassah’s hospitals serve without regard to race, religion or nationality.

Once completed, the 323,000 square foot Gandel Rehabilitation Center, will care for 10,000 patients annually. Heading the Gandel Foundation as the new Center’s major donors are John and Pauline

Gandel of Melbourne, Australia.

In 2005, Hadassah earned a Nobel Peace Prize nomination for building bridges to peace through medicine. Hadassah additionally supports two youth villages setting at-risk youth in Israel on the path to a successful future.

Hadassah’s advocacy program with nearly 400 advocates met in Washington DC and in their home congressional districts to advocate for policies advancing the US-Israel relation to combat rising antisemitism and improving women’s health.

Visit Hadassah’s National Action Center to continue advancing critical legislation in the 119th Congress supporting US-Israel alliance, fighting the rising tide of antisemitism and advancing women’s and public health.

Hadassah recently announced the 2024 class of Evolve Leadership Fellows. They have undergone an extensive application process prior to selection as the next generation of Hadassah leaders. All fellows are involved in communal work as volunteers or members of national and local nonprofit organizations in addition to Hadassah. Currently there are 17 evolve communities.

During this critical time, it is vital that we nurture Hadassah leaders to help ensure a strong Israel and fight back against antisemitism.

Hadassah is an amazing, ever growing organization assisting people on a multitude of levels. I am personally honored and proud to be a third-generation member, along with my sister Sharon due to the generosity of our grandmother of blessed memory, Anita Finerman.

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EXTENDING A HAND UP HEBREW FREE LOAN OF SAN DIEGO EMPOWERS COMMUNITY MEMBERS

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ometimes a hand up is all you need, and Hebrew Free Loan of San Diego (HFLSD) offers just that! HFLSD stands as a beacon of hope and compassion, offering interest-free loans to individuals and families facing financial hardship or looking to realize their dreams. Rooted in the Jewish value of gemilut chassadim (acts of loving-kindness), HFLSD offers a unique product to the San Diego Jewish community, providing a lifeline for those in need and empowering people to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

Offering a diverse range of loan programs, HFLSD addresses various financial challenges faced by members of the San Diego Jewish community. These include: • Education Loans: Supporting students pursuing higher education, from undergraduate and graduate degrees to vocational training.

• Small Business Loans: Empowering entrepreneurs to launch and grow their businesses, creating jobs and contributing to the local economy.

• Personal Needs Loans: Assisting individuals and families facing unexpected expenses such as medical emergencies, home repairs, and temporary job loss.

• Emergency Loans: Providing immediate financial relief for those facing urgent and unforeseen circumstances.

Beyond providing financial assistance, HFLSD prioritizes building meaningful relationships with its borrowers. The organization offers guidance and support, connecting individuals with resources and empowering them to achieve long-term financial stability. Every loan recipient meets with a financial planner to begin their path to financial security.

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recipients are carefully vetted based on three key qualifications: 1. Jewish Affiliation: Do you identify as Jewish, live in a Jewish household, or work for a Jewish organization?

2. San Diego Residency: Have you lived in San Diego County for a minimum of six months?

3. Demonstrated Need: Can you provide proof of your financial need?

HFLSD works closely with each individual loan recipient to understand their specific needs and ensure that the financial support provided will truly help them, without creating further financial strain. The goal of HFLSD is to empower those in need to achieve a secure financial future.

One such success story is that of Sarah, a single mother who received an emergency HFLSD loan to cover her rent when her caregiving job experienced a temporary slowdown. “HFLSD helped me keep a roof over my head,” Sarah shares. “Without their support, I wouldn’t have been able to afford my rent this month and continue providing for my family.” This loan has been a lifeline for Sarah, allowing her to maintain stability for herself and her children.

HFLSD is committed to long-term sustainability and expanding its reach. Through strategic partnerships, community outreach, and a dedicated team of volunteers, the organization continues to grow and evolve to meet the ever-changing needs of the community. Since inception, HFLSD has allocated over $1.3M in loan funds to the community, while maintaining a 0% loan loss.

TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE IMPACTFUL WORK OF HEBREW FREE LOAN OF SAN DIEGO, VISIT WWW.HFLSD.ORG OR EMAIL INFO@HFLSD.ORG.

By Giving Generously

YOU AND THESE PUPPIES CAN HELP ISRAEL AND CHANGE THE WORLD!

Create personal Mitzah Projects or simply donate to change the lives of Israelis who are blind, veterans with PTSD, and children with special needs.

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HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANCE DAY

A Tale of Two Survivors Bailin’s daughter was murdered by Hamas in the south on Oct. 7; Alla Lopatin lost her home in the north to Hezbollah attacks

BY JOSH HASTEN | JNS.ORG

Holocaust survivor Galina Bailin (left) with a member of the International Fellowship of Jews and Christians.

PHOTO: MISHEL AMZALLEG, IFCJ.

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eremonies held around the world on Monday, Jan. 27, marked International Holocaust Remembrance Day. The date for the annual commemoration was proclaimed by the United Nations in November 2005, marking the date of liberation of the Auschwitz-Birkenau Nazi death camp by the Soviet army on Jan. 27, 1945. It is now 80 years since the camp’s liberation.

According to the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum the purpose of the day is two-fold: “To serve as a date for official commemoration of the victims of the Nazi regime and to promote Holocaust education throughout the world.”

Statistics shared by the International Fellowship of Christians and Jews (IFCJ), an organization that provides vital assistance to Holocaust survivors, shows there are about 240,000 living survivors (as of 2023), with around 147,000 residing in Israel.

Unfortunately, according to Israel’s Welfare and Social Affairs Ministry, approximately 2,500 Holocaust survivors were thrust into extreme trauma once again by the events surrounding the Oct. 7, 2023, Hamas massacre. In addition, around 2,000 survivors were forced to flee their homes as a result of the ensuing war.

Galina Bailin, 87, from Ukraine, managed to survive the Holocaust as a small child when her family fled to Uzbekistan. Her older brother was murdered by the Nazis, and another brother was disabled fighting for the Red Army. With the fall of the Iron Curtain, she made aliyah to Sderot, opposite the Gaza Strip, in the early 1990s.

Bailin said (via a translator) that on the evening of Oct. 6, 2023, she was visiting her daughter Zena, 60, who also lives in Sderot, as she did nearly every week.

Early in the morning on Oct. 7, Zena drove her mother home, as Zena was scheduled to spend a day of fun with other adults and seniors as part of an organized trip to the Dead Sea for residents from several area communities.

As they entered the house, sirens wailed, warning of incoming rockets, and Galina urged her daughter to cancel her plans. However, Zena refused, as she had already paid for the trip.

Zena met up with the group and got into a minivan. A flat tire forced the vehicle to pull over at a bus stop. Not long after, Hamas terrorists who had infiltrated Sderot approached the stranded pensioners, shooting 13 dead at close range, including Zena.

Galina, who lives adjacent to the Sderot police station, could hear the battle taking place there between the police and terrorists from Gaza. When Zena didn’t answer the phone or return Galina’s calls, she was justifiably concerned.

“During the Shoah when I was a little girl, I wasn’t afraid because my mother was protecting me. We didn’t have a lot to eat, only rice and rice pudding for years, but my mother made sure there was food,” she said.

“But now, on Oct. 7, I was afraid, and I feel guilty I couldn’t protect

my daughter the way my mother protected me,” she added.

“At my daughter’s funeral I felt like my life was over, that I no longer had a reason to live. But my grandchildren and great-grandchildren, they say, ‘Grandma, we need you.’ They are the ones keeping me alive.”

Alla Lopatin, 93, managed to flee the Nazis with her family by train from the town of Bialystok in Poland, moving to eastern Ukraine and eventually Siberia. She remembers the trains stopping and having to routinely hide under the cars during German bombings.

She said (via a translator) that she attributes her family’s survival to her father’s role in the Soviet army. The family was given preferential treatment, including clothing and a special card for bread, which she remembers waiting in line for at 5 a.m. Lopatin said that people were sometimes murdered for these cards.

The family made aliyah to Israel after the fall of the Iron Curtain in the 1990s, first to Safed, before moving to the northern border town of Kiryat Shmona.

Lopatin’s daughter Irina, Alla’s sole caretaker and provider, is a dentist with a clinic in Kiryat Shmona. They were evacuated from the city after Hezbollah opened a second front on Oct. 8. The two are currently renting an apartment from a friend in Jerusalem.

Irina said they are experiencing extreme financial difficulties, as they are currently paying rent and arnona (property tax) on the dental clinic. The clinic and their apartment were both damaged as a result of rocket attacks and need repair.

Both mother and daughter said they are afraid to go back home.

“This evacuation reminds me of the first evacuation I went through during the Shoah. I was very afraid [after Oct. 7]. I couldn’t believe something like this could happen here in Israel. I feel safe here in Jerusalem, but I don’t know when we will be going home,” said Alla.

“The horrible trauma and suffering of these two women—and, sadly, so many others in Israel today—must move us to action,” said Yael Eckstein, president of IFCJ. “For those survivors who have suffered, first in the Holocaust, and again on Oct. 7, we have a huge obligation—to turn remembrance into action. IFCJ is committed to providing emotional and material support, kindness, and dignity to those who have been through the worst,” she continued.

“Every hour, at least two Holocaust survivors die. And so, for these final years that they are with us, we will do everything to make sure that they are living with dignity and hope,” she added.

Since the beginning of Israel’s war in the north and the south, IFCJ has distributed over $132 million in aid to Israelis, including Holocaust survivors, deeply affected by the war, providing basic needs and strengthening civilian defense systems throughout the country.

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Holocaust Exhibit in San Diego Honors Survivors Reflection on International Holocaust Remembrance Day COURTESY SAN DIEGO JEWISH WORLD

Local officials and prominent San Diegans including Holocaust Survivors and their families open the RUTH Remember Us The Holocusst exhibit at the La Jolla Library. PHOTO BY RUTH REMEMBER US THE HOLOCAUST.

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he United Nations General Assembly designated January 27—the anniversary of the liberation of AuschwitzBirkenau—as International Holocaust Remembrance Day, a time to remember the six million Jewish victims of the Holocaust and the millions of other victims of Nazi persecution.

Here in San Diego, we have many survivors, and RUTH Remember Us The Holocaust is our San Diego Holocaust exhibit, now open.

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In a remarkable display of community solidarity, over 350 people gathered at the La Jolla Library for the opening of the RUTH Remember Us The Holocaust exhibit. The event, which exceeded expectations in both turnout and emotional resonance, drew a diverse audience that included elected officials, community leaders, and, most importantly, 15 Holocaust survivors.

Among the dignitaries present were San Diego Mayor Todd Gloria, El Cajon Mayor William Wells, former Chula Vista Mayor Mary Salas, San Diego City Councilmember Raul Campillo, San Diego County Assessor Jordan Marks, San Diego City Council President Joe LaCava, and San Diego Library Director Misty Jones. These leaders joined together to offer opening remarks, underscoring the significance of the exhibit and its role in fostering a deeper understanding of Holocaust history.

A particularly emotional moment came during the yellow ribboncutting ceremony, led by Holocaust survivors, and by Irwin Jacobs and Lee Goldberg. The yellow ribbon, a symbol of solidarity with hostages around the world, added a layer of significance to the occasion, reminding everyone of the ongoing struggles for freedom and justice across the globe.

The exhibit itself, located in the heart of La Jolla Library, is designed to educate and inform visitors about the atrocities of the Holocaust while highlighting the stories of those who survived and rebuilt their lives in the face of unimaginable adversity. By showcasing these personal histories alongside the broader historical narrative, the exhibit aims to inspire reflection, empathy, and a renewed commitment to ensuring that such atrocities are never repeated.

For those who attended, the event was a powerful reminder of the importance of remembrance. “We are here not only to honor the survivors but to ensure that future generations understand the devastating consequences of intolerance and hate,” said Jacobs, a longtime advocate for Holocaust education and remembrance.

For those who were fortunate enough to attend, it was an unforgettable experience—a reminder of the past, a reflection on the present, and a call to action for the future. The La Jolla Library Holocaust exhibit is not just a space to view history; it is a space to connect with it, to learn from it, and to ensure that its lessons are never forgotten.

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mazel

& mishagoss WHAT'S YOUR (NEWISH JEWISH!) SIGN? 2025 is the ordained year for Kosher astrology. Maybe not ordained, but I need these Jewish-y horoscopes to sound legit. So, find your old sign and brace yourself.

PISCES: “PLOTZ"

You’re known to collapse, faint, shatter, burst, or explode. Embrace this dramatic expression as people buy tickets for your vivid performance. Born under a Kvelling moon?

Folks find your boastful nature a bissel overthe-top. Do use caution on Chanukah when some balabusta maven criticizes your brisket.

Nod and smile, don’t plotz!

AQUARIUS: AFIKOMAN

Due to your reclusive nature, people are always searching for you and you turn up in the most unexpected places. However, it’s presumptuous of them to expect to be rewarded when they discover your whereabouts, so just shake their hand (like the mensch you are) and say, “Nice to finally meet you!” Stay in plain sight during Passover. Your hostess will thank you.

ARIES: ALIYAH

What a year ahead for you, dear Aliyah!

Whenever there’s a dilemma, the proper solution will be, “Israel!” That’s right, this is the year to make your home in our homeland. When not busy moving to Israel, prepare to be called up in front of the entire congregation (multiple times!) to read complicated passages from the torah. That’s what you get when born under a descending mishagoss moon in the 7th house.

TAURUS: TSURIS

What were your parents thinking conceiving you nine months ago? Truly the most challenging sign! A dark cloud follows you everywhere. Either that or your Bubbe’s making you pay for not dancing with her at that fancy shmancy shindig simcha. To avoid trouble, dear Tsuris, stay inside when your zaftig tuchus is rising with the sun.

GEMINI: GUILT

You either get guilt or give guilt! Depends if you’re a water or fire sign. If your planet aligns, you’ll tell friends and family they shouldn’t feel bad not checking on you because it takes too much effort (after your terrible fall down the stairs) to answer the phone. So they’re doing you a favor!

CANCER: CHUTZPAH

People either love you or despise you. There’s no sugar-coating things for you, darling Chutzpah. Don’t want to wait for a table at DZ Akin’s? Give the hostess a piece of your mind. 2025 is the year of the Weasel for you but that’s the Chinese zodiac and we don’t have time to get into it, so just gey avek!

LEO: LOX

Slimy, but always coming out on top. Forget the forest, you’re King of the Bagel! Nobody holds a brunch without your presence. And you’re highly compatible with someone much creamier than butter. Guess who?

VIRGO: VEY ISMIR

Whatsa matter? You can’t just exclaim, “Oy!” like a normal Jew? Always gotta stand out, prompting people to ask, “What’s that mean?” So now explain yourself, Vey ismir!

Go on…we’ll wait.

LIBRA: LATKE

Check your cholesterol in 2025. This is a really greasy sign to be born under. Adding insult to injury is dunking yourself in sourcream. For shame! Applesauce is your NY’s resolution.

SCORPIO: SCHLEMIEL & SCHLIMAZEL

The twin sign! You’ve been immortalized in Laverne & Shirley’s theme song. Google it, unless you’re old!

SAGITTARIUS: SHMATTEH

“You’re not leaving the house looking like you got dressed in the hamper!” This is spoken by the person in your life who used to be a Gemini. Go put on some real clothes from Nordstrom!

CAPRICORN: COKAMAMIE

You may as well be born under Mashuganah in Retrograde! You’re odd, but delightfully off-kilter! Nu? Was being a Capricorn so much to kvell about in the first place?

STEPHANIE D. GITTLEMAN WILL INJECT HUMOR INTO ANYTHING YOU HIRE HER TO WRITE. EMAIL HER AT THEQUOTEGAL@YAHOO.COM.

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TO KNOW

NOW WHAT THEY'RE TALKING ABOUT

SAN DIEGO PHILANTHROPISTS UNITED WITH 2,500 ZIONISTS AT THE GLOBAL CONFERENCE FOR ISRAEL

2024 Gala Deborah Bucksbaum Maio and Lee Maio JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE’S 2025 HEART & SOUL GALA CELEBRATES ACCOMPLISHMENTS AND RECOGNIZES HONOREES, RETIRING CEO

Jewish Family Service of San Diego (JFS) will hold its annual gala, one of San Diego’s largest fundraisers, at The Rady Shell at Jacobs Park on Saturday, April 26, 2025.

JFS will share its recent success as a community resource for individuals and families in need and celebrate the contributions of Honorees Susanna and Michael Flaster and Karen and Jeff Silberman, with a special tribute to retiring JFS CEO Michael Hopkins.

Guests enjoy dinner, live music and much more.

All proceeds will benefit JFS’s ongoing programs to empower individuals and families, provide San Diegans with housing and nutrition solutions, support aging with dignity, and provide critical services to immigrants and refugees living in our community.

This year’s gala honorary chairs are Evelyn and Ernest Rady and chairs are Marie Raftery and Dr. Robert Rubenstein.

Tickets start at $450. To learn more or register, visit: www.jfssd.org/ gala.

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2,500 proud Zionists, including more than 70 from San Diego, attended Jewish National Fund-USA’s Global Conference for Israel in Dallas from November 14-17, 2024, fueling torches of light that continue to shine brightly even in these darkest of times.

The delegation included philanthropists, pro-Israel community members of all faiths and from 10 different countries, long-time Jewish National Fund-USA partners (donors), rabbis, clergy, and cantors who attended the conference’s Rabbinical Summit, and teenagers and young adults who participated in the conference’s High School and College Summits.

“How incredible to see so many committed Zionists, people from all backgrounds, with different perspectives, coming together for a common goal—to ensure a strong Israel for all,” said Jewish National Fund-USA Chairman, Dr. Sol Lizerbram.

The spirit of “Am Israel Chai,” “the people of Israel live,” resounded throughout the Hilton Anatole as attendees bonded over a commitment to uphold and honor the shared values that supporters of America and Israel so dearly value, sharing sentiments of solidarity, a celebration of Israeli resilience, and a desire to reimagine a bright future for residents living in and currently evacuated from, Israel’s North and South.

They were also united by their collective determination to bring the remaining hostages back home and to rebuild the communities that experienced widespread devastation on October 7.

“As survivors of what has become the largest attack on Jewish people since the Holocaust —and as witnesses to the most devastating tragedy since Israel’s founding—we carry an immense weight,” said Michal Uziyahu, mayor of the Eshkol region on the border with Gaza.

“When confronted with such darkness, we face a crucial choice: we can passively watch as history unfolds around us, or we can actively choose to shape it.”

Scores of Israelis attended the event, including displaced residents of hard-hit communities like Kibbutz Re’im and Kibbutz Be’eri, civil defense officers who fought Hamas terrorists, American lone soldiers who moved to Israel to serve in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF),

residents from northern Israel, and others including Olympian Peter Paltchik, who represent Israel on the global stage.

“Together, we’re building a future that will have a lasting impact for generations to come,” said National Conference Co-Chair Michael Miller.

Featured speakers at the multi-day summit included the former commander of British forces in Iraq and Afghanistan, Col. Richard Kemp; Co-Founder and CEO of Boundless and author of the newly-released book Stand-Up Nation, Aviva Klompas; Max Webb Emeritus Rabbi, Sinai Temple, Rabbi David Wolpe; Assistant Professor of Management, Columbia University Business School, Shai Davidai; Actor & Comedian, Michael Rapaport; and Israeli leaders including several mayors.

“The Global Conference for Israel was the most exhilarating, validating, and inspiring experience,” said Jewish National FundUSA San Diego President, Jacqui Schneider. “Just being together with 2,500 Zionists, people who love and support our homeland and the future of the Jewish people, was so empowering.”

Jewish National Fund-USA’s 2025 Global Conference for Israel will take place on October 23-26, 2025, in Hollywood, Fla. Early Bird Registration closes February 28, 2025. For more information, visit jnf. org/global2025 or contact globalconference@jnf.org.

SAN DIEGO JEWISH ACADEMY ANNOUNCES NEW PROGRAMS AND OPPORTUNITIES TO HELP STUDENTS ACHIEVE ACADEMIC SUCCESS AND PERSONAL GROWTH

Students at San Diego Jewish Academy now have several new programs and opportunities to support their academic success and personal growth.

“We always look for new and innovative ways to ensure that our students achieve their academic goals,” said Mike Quigley, Associate Head of School and Head of Maimonides Upper School.

“With these new programs, we are providing even more choices that can help our students grow, learn, and realize their full, individual potential.”

These new offerings include Academic Coaching for core middle and upper school classes, offering additional academic enrichment and support through a more personalized learning experience for all students.

Additional new offerings to help support students and their academic goals, including Summer School Geometry and Chemistry as part of 25/26 program of studies and ACT test prep courses on campus next year.

“At SDJA, we are consistently looking for new ways to support and challenge our students,” continued Mr. Quigley. “These new programs inspire creative thinking and empower student learning that are the foundation of San Diego Jewish Academy.”

For more information, visit https://www.sdja.com.

SINGING & SHARING a variety of traditional Jewish music We welcome new members!

Email Rita for more info: rheller8@gmail.com

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