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Somehow, every year on Rosh Chodesh Kislev, I find myself exhaling a month-long whoosh of air I didn’t notice I’d been holding in. The month of Cheshvan is a month when we generally get back into routine, and it’s also called “Mar Cheshvan (Bitter Cheshvan)” due to its lack of yamim tovim. Somehow, that bitterness always leaves an indelible imprint on me — so that I find myself waiting with bated breath for happier days soon to come. I know there are other reasons for the word mar. The word is a reference to Sarah Imeinu’s passing, and to the rain that we start to daven for in that month (mar meaning a drop of water in a bucket). Yet somehow, despite the potential that the month holds — with rain being the ultimate symbol of growth and expansion to come — I still find myself releasing that huge rush of air as the long-awaited month of Kislev arrives. This year, with the war in Eretz Yisrael and the increase in anti-Semitic incidents all over the world, that breath is an exponentially painful one to realize I’ve been holding in. There is the pain of having lost so many of our brothers and sisters. The pain of so many Jews having been taken into captivity. The pain of the unknown. And yet, somehow, like the rain of the month of Cheshvan and the potential that it symbolizes, looking back it’s possible to see refractions of light even in the murky bleakness. •
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The extensive chesed activities springing up everywhere to help every type of Jew and fill any and every need.
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The many attacks on Jews around the world, strongly condemned by authorities and leading to a greater awareness of Hashem Hu HaElokim.
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The Yidden who were released from captivity. The number is far too low (and we need every last Jew back right now!), but the simchah that ensued when the IDF found and freed one of the captives was simply palpable. I don’t know about anyone else, but I cried when I heard the news, and then I cried some more when I saw the dancing that ensued in Kiryat Gat that night.
These small reflections of light are surely symbolic of a grander light yet to come. Kislev, the chodesh shel ohr — the month of light — is now upon us, and the small droplets of light we experienced in Cheshvan are sure to be multiplied manifold. Kislev isn’t referred to as the month of light only starting from the days of Chanukah — when we experienced the miracle of the overflowing jug of oil. Rather, it’s referred to as a month of brightness from the very first day — because light and goodness are reflective of our experience all month long. May this month indeed be one of overwhelming brightness, joy, and illumination, and bring about all the yeshuos that we need. Ah gutten chodesh!
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Toldos Rising from the depths
When Yaakov comes before Yitzchak dressed in Esav’s garments made from goat skins, Yitzchak requests that he draw near and then he kisses him. At that moment, Yitzchak smells the fragrance of the garments, as the passuk states: “And he came closer, and he kissed him, and he smelled the fragrance of his garments” (Bereishis 27, 27). Rashi remarks that goat skins have a horrible smell and what Yitzchok smelled was the fragrance of Gan Eden that came into the room together with Yaakov. The Midrash in Bereishes Rabbah explains the word “בגדיו-his clothes” as “בוגדיו-his traitors”. The Midrash then brings two examples of traitors: Yosef Misisha and Yakum Ish Tzroros And tells us the stories behind. Yosef Misisha When the Romans planned to destroy the Beis HaMikdash they searched for someone to go into the Mikdash before them. They approached Yosef Misisha, a Jewish traitor, and offered to let him keep whatever he’d bring out of the Beis HaMikdash if he agreed to go in first. Yosef agreed and entered. He came out holding the golden Menorah, symbolic of Hashem’s shechinah. “Oh no,” the Romans said, “the Menorah is not appropriate for a non-aristocrat. It’s way too valuable. Go in again and take something else.” At this point, Yosef refused to comply. The Romans offered him a huge monetary reward,
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yet he still refused to go in, stating: “Not enough I angered my G-d once. Must I do so a second time?” In response to this, the Romans tortured Yosef horribly. “Woe to me that I have angered my Creator!” Yosef cried out, and then he passed away. Rav Chaim Shmulevitz provides additional insights on this Midrash. He says that Yosef Misisha was at an all-time low. Even our enemies, who were about to destroy the Beis Hamikdash, weren’t brazen enough to enter the Beis Hamikdash before him. Yosef was not only willing to make the first breach for them, he also removed the menorah. The Romans understood that the menorah wasn’t meant for simple people, yet Yosef wasn’t sensitive to this fact. Still, when Yosef suddenly understood how low he had fallen and that his fall had angered Hashem, he was able to withstand excruciating torture. His cries stemmed not from his physical pain but because he reached the level of kiddush Hashem that Rabbi Akiva had reached. (Parenthetically, the Ponevitcher Rav explains that this story teaches the tremendous impact and influence of kedushah. Yosef, the traitor who entered the Beis HaMikdash to disgrace Hashem, refused to go in a second time and was killed al kiddush Hashem as a result, due to his short exposure to the Beis HaMikdash and its holiness. The kedushah there affected him so deeply that it caused a complete turnaround.) Yakum ish Tzroros Yakum Ish Tzroros was an assimilated Jew, son
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of Rav Yosi ben Yoezer’s sister. Yakum was riding atop a majestic horse on Shabbos at the time that the Goyim were taking his uncle to the gallows. “How can it be?” Yakum questioned his uncle. “ I do whatever I please and have all the pleasures in life, yet you who toiled in Torah and mitzvos all your life are meeting with this end.” To this Rav Yosi responded, “If those who anger Hashem receive such a reward, how much greater will be the reward of those who follow His will?” “Who has done His will more than you?” Yakum replied. “If this is what those who do His will receive, how much more will those who anger Him receive [as punishment]?” Rav Yosi replied. These words pierced Yakum’s heart like the venom of a poisonous snake. He was overcome with remorse and killed himself with the four types of death meted out by Beis Din. Rav Yosi saw his nephew’s death bed floating in the air and said, “He has preceded me to Gan Eden.” In this story too, the protagonist was at a despicable level. He taunted his uncle before his death, instead of commiserating with him. He also engaged him in a discussion to lower his morale. And yet, despite his low level, his uncle’s words of truth led him to complete repentance. Rav Benzion Bamberger zt”l, mashgiach of Ponevitch, writes that within every lies a kernel of truth. Every Jew’s soul, even the sinners, has a spark that can be kindled and activated but we don’t usually pay attention to it. The Mesilos Yeshorim explains that one of the Yetzer Hora’s strategies is to make us busy and distract us from our spiritual goals because if we were a bit more attentive to the kernel of truth within us, we would immediately regret our sins and leave them entirely. Haksdosh Boruch Hu has instilled within all of us tremendous capabilities. I have been privileged to see this firsthand, in Eretz Yisroel, numerous times. For example, once while waiting for a doctor’s appointment, I noticed a non-affiliated looking secretary use the few minutes of time at her disposal to pull out a Tehillim and recite some. Another time, while at a rest stop in the middle of a trip, I watched our bareheaded bus driver
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take out a kippah and tefillin from the glove department and use them to daven shacharis. Rav Elya Lopian explained the passuk: “From the depths I cry out to you, Hashem” (Tehillim 130, 1) to mean that every Yid has the truth hidden in the depths of his soul. The measure of the depth differs from person to person. Someone who fears Hashem does not have to search far for that truth, but the further one is from Hashem, the deeper that his truth is hidden. Still, every single person can reveal the truth. Rav Rubman, in his sefer Zichron Meir, adds the following thought. When Yaakov stood before Yitzchak, Yitzchak thought he was Esav and he was frightened at the thought of having to bless him. But the smell of the traitors, Yosef and Yakum, comforted him. If traitors have such a deep point of truth hidden within them, then even a rashah could receive a bracha… In fact, a rashah needs a blessing even more so as to merit revealing the hidden light within him. One of the many incredible stories I heard about this war reveals this concept. On Simchas Torah, a marginally affiliated bochur from Netivot debated whether to go to shul for hakafos or not. He was tired, disconnected and unmotivated. After much inner debate, he tapped into that place of truth and pulled himself out of his warm bed and home and went to daven. During davening, the sirens began to wail. When he returned home, he saw that his bed had received a direct hit from a missile. The passuk in Micha 7:8 states: ”My enemies should not rejoice because I fell. I have risen. When I sit in darkness, Hashem is my light.” (Micha 7:8). Chazal explain this to mean that if I hadn’t fallen, I would not have risen. If I hadn’t sat in darkness, I would not have seen the light. Falling and sitting in the dark bring one to see the truth. No matter where we may be or how low we have fallen, we can rise from the depths, shake ourselves off, and tap into the light of the Shechina. Leora Gruen is an NLP business and life direction coach who facilitates networking groups for selfemployed women and personal development. Her workshops are available in Eretz Yisrael and internationally via Zoom.
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Shira Yael Klein
The Maharsha had a small yeshivah with many students and so the residents of his city decided to build a big, spacious building instead. They purchased a large lot and on the day of the hanachas even hapinah (corner-stone laying ceremony) all residents of the city arrived.The gabbai announced that the privilege of laying the first few cornerstones would be auctioned off, with the income from the auction being used to benefit the yeshivah. A man walked over to the gabbai and whispered in his ear, “I want to buy the first stone, even if it costs a fortune, because I want the yeshivah to benefit. But I want you to bid for me at the auction. I don’t want people to know who I am.”
his word, and did not reveal the identity of the anonymous benefactor.
ask the philanthropist if at least I can know his identity.”
Rumors abounded.
The philanthropist, upon hearing that the Maharsha himself wanted to know who he was, agreed to allow his identity to be revealed to him, on condition that no one else would find out.
“I wonder who it was,” one man said. “, Whoever it was will surely step up to lay the stone when it comes time for the hanachas even hapinah and then we’ll see him,” someone else replied. While the speculations took place, the gabbai unobtrusively sidled over to the anonymous doner. “How would you like to take care of laying the corner stone ?” he asked.
The gabbai agreed, and began the auction.
“60.” “70.” “100.”
“490 rubles!” The richest man from the city called out. 490 rubles was a huge sum of money. Who could top a bid like that? But the gabbai merely said, “500!”And so the first stone was sold to an anonymous man for the astronomical sum of 500 rubles—a sum which would benefit the yeshivah greatly. When the city’s residents got wind of the secretive nature of the bid, they wanted to know who stood behind it. But the gabbai kept 26
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“It’s true, I’m not a wealthy man,” the mansaid. “I mortgaged my house and spent all my money to make this contribution. My wife and I have been married for many years and have no children. I thought that maybe, in the zechus of this mitzvah, which I did secretly, Hashem would give me a child.” When the Maharsha heard this, he grew very excited. “I give you a berachah that you should have a son, and when he grows up, you should be zocheh to send him to my yeshivah!”
“50 rubles for the right to lay the first stone!” he announced.
The sums rose higher and higher with the gabbai putting in an occoastional bid on behalf of the man who’d approached him.
And so it was that the Maharsha invited the philanthropist to his house. He was shocked, however, when he saw who showed up. The man didn’t look like a wealthy gvir at all.
“I would like to give the honor to the Maharsha,” the man answered. “But don’t tell the Maharshah who bought the honor for him.” And so it was. When it was time to lay the cornerstone, the gabbai announced that the Maharsha would get the privilege and . everyon waiting to see the identity of the anonymous donor was Disappointed. “!” When the event was over, the Maharsha approached the gabbai, saying: “Please
And so it was. About a year later, the donor’s wife gave birth to a son. When the boy became a bar mitzvah, his father brought him to enroll in the Maharsha’s yeshivah. But the gabbaim, would not agree to accept such a young boy as a student. The man went to speak to the Maharsha, and when the Maharshah saw him and recalled his he instructed that the boy be allowed into the yeshivah. The above story was recounted by Rav Meshulam Dovid Haleivi Soloveitchik zt”l The Maharsha’s yahrzeit is Hey Kislev. (Adapted from Nifla’os HaTzaddikim by Reb Yaron Amit)
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Reb Yechezkel Shraga Lipshitz Halberstam The Stropkover Rebbe (April 5, 1908–November 9,1994)
Shira Yael Klein Reb Yechezkel Shraga was the third Stropkover Rebbe. He was a Rebbe already a rav when the holocaust broke out . He survived Auschwitz, although his wife and six of his children did not. After the war, he served as a rav in the DP camps, and then in the German city of Bamberg. He eventually made Aliyah to Eretz Yisrael, where he reestablished his chassidus.
I told this man to give me the key to his store, so that I could close it — because it is forbidden to have it open on the Sabbath — and he did not listen to me!” The German police officers turned to Moshe Katz. “Is it permissible to have the store open now?” They asked.
The rebbe then walked over to Moshe Katz and said gently, “Moshe, It’s Shabbos. It’s time to close the store.” “Listen, Mister,” Moshe replied harshly, fingering his big butcher’s knife. “This is my store, and I’ll do what I want here. Now beat it.” And so saying, he promptly called the police. When the police men arrived, the Rebbe walked over to them determinedly saying: “I am the chief rabbi of the city. 28
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To which the man replied, “If you want, I’ll give you another smack.”
Though this wasn’t the Rebbe’s usual form of expression, he felt that harsh words were necessary at the time.
“Rebbe, Moshe Katz*, the butcher didn’t close his store for Shabbos!” they cried.
The rebbe strode out of the shul, and though he didn’t turn to see who was following,most of his congregants were there. They reached Moshe Katz’s store and the rebbe instructed them to enter the store so that soon the store was filled with men dressed in their Shabbos best.
To this, the Rebbe said: “I got a smack, but now you’re going to give something to Hashem as well.”
“I am the grandson of the Divrei Chaim of Sanz,” the Rebbe responded to this provocation. “If you close the store now, it’ll be good for you. But if not, you will meet a bitter end.”
One Friday night in Bamberg, the rebbe was in shul davening Kabbalas Shabbos when several men entered the shul, and made a beeline for him.
When Kabbalas Shabbos was over, the rebbe banged on the bimah, stating: “Rabbosai! Moshe Katz’s store is still open. We must protest this chillul Shabbos!”
Shabbos, but the storeowner mocked his words of rebuke, even giving him a smack in the face.
Despite the warning he received, however, the man refused to close his store.
Moshe Katz thrown for the loop, stammered: “Eh, well, it says in the Bible that it is forbidden. But I’m not religious.” The policemen were not impressed. “Give the rabbi the key!” they ordered. Moshe handed the rebbe the key and motioned to his followers to leave the store. Then, while the policemen watched the rebbe locked up the store. And when the policemen were out of the vicinity, the rebbe returned the key to Moshe telling him that the store needed to remain closed on Shabbos.. The Rebbe was zealous in his desire to uphold the sanctity of Shabbos. A different time, he went to protest in another Jewish store that was open on
A week or two later, tax inspectors came around on Friday night to inspect the stores, in search of illegal goods. In t hose post war day, many store owners sold things on the black market, but the Jews whose stores were closed for Shabbos weren’t caught. When the inspectors reached the store of this man, however, theycaught him red handed with illegal goods and immediately threw him into jail and confiscated his store. Only after extensive efforts were made, and a lot of money passed hands, was the man able to get out of jail and flee to a different city. He was left, however, with little more than the shirt on his back. The Stropkover Rebbe’s yahrzeit is Vav Kislev. (Adapted from Nifla’os HaTzaddikim by Reb Yaron Amit)
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Chapter 11 Reca p : Na ch m a n a nd De bbie c all a te chie fr ie nd about the threateni ng em ai l , and he tel l s them that the sender has hi dden hi s i d en t i t y wel l . Only if Nachman and De bbie s hare m ore det ai l s wi l l he be abl e to hel p them .
I slept badly that night. The anonymous messages floated around my head. Russian spy? Novichok poisoner living next door to my family? Should we move? If we did, and if our neighbor’s reason for moving in next door to us was specifically to do us harm, how would moving help? Surely it would just make him want to follow us wherever, or maybe to act precipitously and attack us before we moved? So what should we do? Leave at the dead of night when Xavier was sleeping so he wouldn’t know we’d gone? A midnight flit isn’t quite the same as moving house. The former can be done without alerting the neighbors, but with the latter…well there’s a bit of a giveaway that you’re leaving with all the kerfuffle of the huge moving van schlepping boxes in and out of your house…
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Actually, our boxes would have to come out; why would we move boxes in? My thoughts show you how badly I slept. Xavier was getting to me. And if he was getting to me; he was getting to Debbie and the kids. Having the knight-inshining-armor freak out wouldn’t do the Damsel in Distress and the mini-damsels (or whatever the male equivalent of damsel is, for Avi) any good either. I sat bleary eyed over breakfast, the equivalent of an intravenous injection of caffeine in a very small shot glass. I needed the hit, not the comforting hot drink. “You were very restless last night,” Debbie commented. She shot me a wordless look that said: “You still worried about those messages?” Non-verbal communication is a skill you learn when you have
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teenaged or young adult kids around who never let you have any privacy. I managed to signal her a “yes” without nodding my head or saying a word and she nodded without nodding. The kids, who were in and out of the kitchen, grabbing food on the hoof, before going to do what kids that age do bein hazmanim, didn’t catch onto a thing.
Sighing inwardly, I went to answer it, girding my loins, as it were, against the upcoming confrontation.
At least that’s what I told myself. Looking back however, now, I doubt we were that clever.
It wasn’t Xavier and I almost sagged with relief. Then I stiffened when I took a second look at my caller.
When the kids were out of earshot, I reverted to verbal communication, which works better as a whole, however good we are at subliminal messaging.
A bland looking middle-aged man stood there, neatly dressed in a suit and tie. He had the kind of forgettable face you couldn’t describe to the police ten minutes after seeing it, clean shaven except for a barely-there moustache. His shoes were highly polished.
“I’m not sure what to do,” I said. “Maybe we should install surveillance cameras,” Debbie suggested, “Really good ones, that pick everything up and record everything. That way we can really keep an eye on him.” “He’d notice, wouldn’t he?” I said, although the idea was appealing. The idea of Xavier seeing the cameras and deciding we were a threat to whatever dastardly plan he had in mind for us, was less so. “Maybe see if you can find some really tiny little spy cameras that still deliver all of that tech,” Debbie said. “I’m sure real spies, Russian or otherwise, don’t rely on huge clunky highly visible CCTV cameras.” “Yeah, like there’s a spy shop right next to Kosher Kingdom on Golders Green Road,” I said. “Oh, and another one opposite, near the dry cleaners!” Debbie shot me a hard look. “Look. On. Line. Dear.” She said and walked out of the kitchen. A little later, I heard the front door close and her car start up. I had to go to the office, so I made a note on my phone to surreptitiously search for a professional spy shop from the office computer. The broadband connection was much better from there. I packed my briefcase and was about to head out to the
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“Mr. Feld? Mr…er …Natchman Feld?” he said, mispronouncing Nachman. I didn’t even feel like correcting him. “Yes?” I asked. I felt as suspicious as a street cat watching someone approach along the pavement, clenching her leg muscles and getting ready to flee. “May I step inside please? What I have to talk to you about doesn’t warrant standing on the doorstep. It’s of a highly confidential nature. If you get my meaning.” He tapped the side of his nose knowingly. His English was …English. Not Russian, or some other suspiciously foreign accented English. It was the real thing. I relaxed a teensy tiny bit. Anyone who spoke the Queen’s English couldn’t be all bad… Or could he? I stood aside. “You must forgive me,” I said, trying to sound posh, and not like a Golders Green Yid. “Things have been rather tense around here, and I’ve become very wary of ….” I didn’t know how to finish the sentence. Wary of whom? Russian spies? Strangers? People moving in next door resulting in weird messages by email and through my letterbox?
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The stranger nodded and waved his hand in a “I know what you mean,” gesture. “That’s exactly why I’m here, Mr. Feld,” the stranger said in the same posh but soothing voice. “To discuss your new neighbor, Mr. Roberts.” I let him walk past me into my living room where I indicated that he should sit down in an upright but nicely upholstered chair. I have found, to my chagrin, that it’s harder to get rid of visitors when I let them sit on my couch. Either it’s just deliciously too comfortable, or I need to get it reupholstered because they physically can’t get up. I shall have to do some experiments on that couch. Meanwhile, this stranger sat on an easy-to-get-out-of chair. I sat down opposite him on an even easier-to-get-out-of hard chair with a barely upholstered seat which I could leap up from like a wild cat. Or whatever creature leaps up the quickest. I’m not much into zoology. We don’t even own a goldfish. “My name is Montague Stilton,” he said. “I represent a company called YourBequest.com.” “Quite a name,” I said guardedly. “On both counts: yours, and the company’s. Was your family in the cheese making business?” He looked at me in bafflement, then, getting the joke, he laughed uproariously. “You almost got me there Mr. Feld!” he guffawed. Then he stopped laughing almost as quickly as he started. It was unnerving. “What’s your company about?” I asked. “The name is more or less self-explanatory,” he said. “It’s about safeguarding people’s inheritance and bequests.” “Was it you who sent those messages about Xavier Roberts?” I asked. “You got messages? Not from us. We don’t send messages. We pay visits. Like I’m doing now.” “We got two messages,” I said. “One by email and one through our letter box, in an envelope. If it was you, it would put my mind at rest about …well, about who it was.” “Sorry,” he said. “So…” I said, letting the sentence hang. He was beginning to annoy me, and I wanted him out of my
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house already. “Xavier Roberts bought the house from a Mr. and Mrs. Bernstein, right?” he said, eventually. He had taken out a small tablet and was typing on it. “Right,” I said. I didn’t want to be any more helpful than I needed to be. “Do you know why they were selling?” he asked, without looking at me. “Yes, they needed the money to move into a nursing home.” I deliberately didn’t name the nursing home. “I see. Can you tell me which nursing home, please?” Typing, typing. “I don’t see why you need to know this, to be honest,” I said. I felt like that cat from earlier, only this time I wanted to hiss at him. He looked up from his tablet and looked at me. “They have an uncle in South Africa they barely know or have anything to do with, but as he has no other family, he has reconnected with them in his will. He’s just died and left them a large sum they don’t know about. I think if they knew about it, it might make them feel better about the large bills of the care home. It’s a large sum, and I’d rather speak to them face to face. This kind of thing isn’t best done over the phone or digitally.” “I see,” I said. “Lucky old Bernsteins.” “So, if you could tell me which care home…” “I’ll do better than that,” I said, “I’ll take you there. Personally. It’s time I visited them anyway. I don’t have the car though; my wife took it. Did you come by car?” If you’re wondering about my change of heart, I was as wary as ever. I wanted to watch how Montague behaved and what he did when I took him there. I didn’t want to just send him to my dear friends, the Bernsteins, without me being there to watch over them. I looked at his face. If he was reluctant, or shocked by my suggestion, he did a great job of covering it up. “Excellent,” he said, “Yes, I have my car outside. Can we go right away? Or is there somewhere else you need to be?” To be continued…
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CLEVER BUT CLUELESS More on Teaching Social Skills To The “Out-Of-Sync” Child Chanie was celebrating her eighth birthday with a group of
listening skills. As is often the case with children in this category, she
classmates. They had finished eating and were getting restless so
was socially inept and lacked “friendship skills.”
Chanie’s mother suggested she open the presents. Anticipation mounted as she lifted the first present from the pile and began to tear
“Clever but clueless,” her mother sighed.
off the wrapping paper.
Lacking Friendship Skills
A beautiful sticker and stationery album peeked through the torn
The ability to get along with others and make friends is one of the
paper. Her classmates murmured appreciatively. But Chanie frowned.
most important set of skills that children can acquire as they grow.
“I already have one of these,” she said plaintively. “Chanie!” her
Acquiring these skills can be difficult for any child, but is invariably so
mother chided her, glancing at the name on the birthday card. “Say thank you to Rachel!” “Thank you,” the birthday girl said tonelessly as she opened another gift. This one was a gameboy. A gasp of envy and approval went up from the crowd of eight year olds encircling her. “But this isn’t the one I wanted.” As if someone had thrown a pail of cold water over the young guests,
for those with attention deficit or other learning disabilities. Kids with learning problems often develop low self-esteem. If, at the same time they are socially inept, the tendency toward low selfworth is greatly magnified. They may become shunned or rejected by their peers. Helping them become socially competent can go a long way toward bolstering their self-confidence. It may help them avoid negative and destructive experiences that can scar for life.
the excitement and congeniality in the room swiftly died. A few of the
How can you judge whether your child is socially inept and requires
girls turned away stiffly, hurt and chagrined by Chanie’s rudeness—
assistance in building friendship skills? If he or she does fit this profile,
perhaps wondering if they were next in line to be humiliated.
most of the criteria below, adapted from the writings of childhood-
Chanie’s mother tried to salvage the situation by calling her daughter
development expert Dr. John Brentar, will apply.
to the side and whispering a few succinct reproaches in her ear. “You
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The child complains that he has no friends and is not invited to birthday parties and social events with classmates or neighborhood children. He tends to be withdrawn and spends a lot of time by himself (while actually preferring to be with peers).
to pull things back on course by introducing a new game. The girls’
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He has difficulty participating in team sports or group activities.
feeble response, however, signaled the party was all but over.
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She shows poor sportsmanship and overreacts when her team loses.
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Her teacher reports social difficulties in the classroom as well. She complains that classmates won’t include her in recess activities, tease or bully her, or simply ignore her.
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He resents or won’t listen to your suggestions, and refuses to acknowledge that his own behavior plays a key role in alienating his classmates. His self-awareness is extremely limited.
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He often behaves in markedly immature ways. He cannot sustain social interaction, often wandering off in the middle or a conversation or game. He does not pick up the cues in other’s behavior to know that it is time to stop joking, teasing or roughhousing. As a result, what begins as pleasant interaction degenerates into a quarrel or fistfight.
are behaving terribly,” she hissed. “If you don’t show appreciation for the presents, everyone will be very upset with you and never again want to come here to play with you, do you understand?” Chanie hung her head but the damage was done. Her mother tried
Chanie ended up by herself in a corner, feeling morose and disgraced, as one by one, the girls recited perfunctory thank-yous and good-byes and drifted away. “It was a disaster,” Chanie’s mother told me later, describing the incident. “What do I do with her?” If I hadn’t known Chanie’s mother well, I might have wondered if her daughter’s rude behavior was the result of poor upbringing and improper role-modeling at home. But I knew that to be far from the case. Both of Chanie’s parents were gracious people who took parenthood seriously. Chanie herself was actually a bright and well-meaning child, although she grappled with learning difficulties in reading and
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If you realize your child’s learning difficulty is hampering his social
Cooperative education activities in which teachers pair off students
interactions, there are many ways you can guide him toward
can be particularly effective in the effort to include the rejected
better social skills. Try practicing the three R’s: Provide social skills
child in the classroom. These activities enable the child to use his
instruction that is relevant, deals with real-life, and delivered in real-
academic strengths while simultaneously developing his social skills.
time.
For example, students can work together to complete experiments,
That means watching for teachable moments to coach your child in
bulletin boards and “peer-tutoring.” In setting up these arrangements,
his interactions with others and doing so right away (or soon after).
the teacher should take pains to assign the socially inept child to
Focus on specific behaviors. Offer prompts before your child acts,
work together with a “high-status” socially skilled child who will be
and praise him for positive interactions.
accepting and supportive of the rejected child.
“Encourage all members of the family to assist in the creation of a support system for the child,” suggests noted educational specialist
The teacher must constantly search for opportunities to encourage
Richard Lavoie. “Siblings play a particularly important role in such a
appropriate social interactions for the socially inept child, even
system. Create a non-competitive home (and school!!) environment
going so far as to invent situations to throw students together for the
where the child learns to celebrate his own small victories. The child
benefit of the socially handicapped child.
must learn to view his progress within the context of his own previous performance, not the performance of others.” Encourage role-playing. Help your child rehearse his behavior in “pretend” situations. You may need to play several, even all of, the roles until your child feels comfortable participating. Using puppets can help.
For example, “Leah, would you please go over to Shonnie’s desk and tell her that I would like her to bring me her composition notebook?” Or ,“Chaim, I would like you and Moshe to return all the Level One readers to the book closet down the hall.” Easing The Pain Of Rejection Rejection is one of the painful experiences one can suffer in life. The
Choose roles. Act out the scene. Start with role-playing your own
student with social skill deficits invariably experiences rejection in
child’s behavior by saying, “If you don’t let me play this game,
any activity that requires students to select their classmates for teams
I’m going to steal the ball and not give it back!” Let the role-play
or groups. This selection process generally finds the rejected child in
continue with the child posing as an adult and saying, “What’s
the painful position of being the “last one picked”.
going on here? Why are you two fighting?” or whatever he or she
“A teacher should prevent these humiliating ordeals by pre-selecting
deems appropriate in moving the drama forward.
the teams or drawing names from a hat,” suggests Lavoie. Or one can intervene at the point when six or eight students have still
Afterwards, ask questions about what happened. Praise the child
not been chosen. Assign half of the students to one team and the
if he recognizes actions and words in the role-play that were
remaining students to another. This prevents any one student from
appropriate, or that helped resolve a problem or conflict.
being shamed as the “last one picked.”
If he cannot initiate a response, ask a question to help him figure things out. For example: “Do you think that running away with the ball will help the child get invited into her classmates’ game?”
“Most important, the teacher must clearly demonstrate acceptance of and affection for the isolated or rejected child,” stresses Lavoie in The Teacher’s Role In Fostering Social Skills. “This conveys the constant message that the child is worthy of attention. The teacher should use her status as a leader to elevate the status of the child.”
Sometimes you’ll have to spell out why the socially inept child’s tactics are doomed to fail in securing the result he or she so desperately craves.
We all face social situations around the clock — at home, school, and in other settings. Every one, at one time, or another has “put their foot in their mouth,” committed an embarrassing faux pas, or
For example, Chanie’s mother took her daughter aside after the
put himself on the wrong side of others. Teachers and parents should
party and talked about the great disappointment Chanie’s friends
draw on these personal experiences to put themselves in touch with
felt when she expressed disdain toward their presents. She role-
the pain felt by the child who constantly feels rejected or out of sync
played one of the friends recounting to her mother, with tears in her
with his peers.
eyes, how her gift was scorned. Chanie’s eyes opened wide with awareness at this revelation, and they too filled with tears—tears of empathy.
That empathy will help them to ease a child through social challenges and acquire the friendship skills that bring sunshine into our lives.
An acclaimed educator and social skills specialist, Mrs. Rifka Schonfeld has served the Jewish community for close to thirty years. She founded and directs the widely acclaimed educational program, SOS, servicing all grade levels in secular as well as Hebrew studies. A kriah and reading specialist, she has given dynamic workshops and has set up reading labs in many schools. In addition, she offers evaluations G.E.D. preparation, social skills training and shidduch coaching, focusing on building self-esteem and self-awareness. She can be reached at 718.382.5437 or at rifkaschonfeld@gmail.com. You can view the web at rifkaschonfeld.com
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Later that night, as Eli lay in bed waiting for sleep to overtake him, a sudden urge for a drink of orange juice overtook him. His parents didn’t like it when he came out of bed after bedtime. He’d have to tiptoe his way toward the kitchen. Eli’s fuzzy red slippers muffled his footsteps in the carpeted hallway, but he froze near his father’s office causing the floorboards to creak. The light was on in the office. Maybe, if Eli played his cards right, tonight he’d finally learn why the Katzes had relocated to Vienna so suddenly. On impulse, Eli snuck closer to the door of the office, and put his ear to it.
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Vienna. What critical information was his father talking about? “A month…but that might have changed…. No. No. No worry about bugs…. The scrambling software is in order.” All thoughts of the orange juice flew out of Eli’s head as he considered his father’s words. Abba had once told him that scrambling software was a program that people used to automatically scramble and mask their words over the phone conversation so that any third party listening in—aka any enemies— would only hear gibberish and not the true conversation. So, Abba was using scrambling software now. He was clearly discussing top secret information. “Yes, I know about the backup, but I don’t think I’ll need it. They have no reason to suspect me of being here for anything less than a diplomatic mission…I’m keeping an eye out on them. Thank you for your concern. Shalom.” Eli heard the phone click off and then the sound of clicking and typing. The image of Abba sitting at his laptop computer back in Holland suddenly sprung to mind. Abba was a diplomat during the day, and that meant that he was in charge of Israel’s international relations, but he also had a hobby of fiddling around with his computer— using it to monitor other people’s computers. “Uncovering encrypted data,” Eli had heard Abba tell Ima. Ima’s response had been something like:
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“Careful, your hobby might get you into hot water one day.” Eli wasn’t sure if Ima’s concern was due to the nature of Abba’s hobby—was it legal to monitor another person’s computer? — or due to the nature of the people whose computers he tried to monitor. Eli’s head began to spin. Maybe, as a diplomat, Abba had discovered top secret, dangerous information, and that information was what had brought them out to Vienna. They have no reason to suspect me of being here for anything less than a diplomatic mission. Which meant that the Katzes were in Vienna for reasons other than a diplomatic mission. The cup of orange juice that he’d come out of bed for suddenly seemed like a good idea. If only everything were as easily obtainable. Eli began continuing down the hallway, but he halted in his tracks when the door to his father’s office suddenly opened. “Eli?” Eli leapt slightly at the sound of his father’s voice, and to his chagrin, he lost his footing, tumbling inelegantly onto the carpeted hallway floor. “Uh, yeah Abba,” he croaked. Bending over slightly, Abba held his hand out to help Eli back into a standing position. “I’m sorry you hurt yourself, motek,” he said. “Are you okay?” Eli nodded and then blushed. He didn’t feel like he deserves his father’s sympathy after listening in to his conversation. “You’re not the greatest eavesdropper, you know,” Abba added. “I can give you a few pointers if you want for next time.”
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The blush on Eli’s cheek deepened, but it then faded in the face of Abba’s suggestion that they both head into kitchen for that coveted cup of orange juice. Now, how could Abba have known? Eli watched as Abba busied himself at the fridge and counter, filling two cups with the juice. “Uh, I’m really sorry,” he said lamely, as his father worked. “I… uh…uh…I’m sorry” “You shouldn’t have listened in on my phone conversation,” Abba told Eli, handing him a cup of juice before setting his own cup down and sitting beside him at the table. “But now that you did, maybe you can tell me what you were so curious about?” Eli’s mind began to whirl. What wasn’t he curious about. “Uh, I guess I wanted to know more about the move, and why we needed to come here instead of going back to Israel like planned. Is anything dangerous going on?” “It sounds like you have some valid questions and concerns,” Abba said with a laugh. “But the truth is that’s for your own sake you’re better off not knowing the answer to those concerns.” “Why? So that if the bad guys capture me, I’ll have nothing to tell them?” Abba laughed. “You have quite an imagination, Eli,” he said. “Why would you think that there are bad guys following us?” Eli’s thought of the man in the MercedesBenz and on the street—who resembled the man who’d been on the tram. Why indeed? I know there’s backup, but I don’t think I’ll need it.
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According to Abba, the family was safe. He obviously didn’t feel threatened in any way. To tell him then, or not? Hours after having seen the man downstairs the notion of telling his father about the incident seemed like a silly one. So what if a man in a slow-moving MercedesBenz had followed him home? There’d been nothing overt about the man to turn him into a criminal. Nothing really dangerous and Eli didn’t want Abba to think that he was a scaredy cat. Eli and Abba downed their cups of orange juice in silence. When they were done, Eli wordlessly got up to toss their cups into the garbage bin in the cabinet under the sink. Suddenly, he froze. A wire was jutting out of the cabinet hinge. His heart skipped a beat. “Abba,” he whispered. “Can you look at this please?” Like a bolt of lightning, Abba had crossed the room and was at his side. Shining the flashlight from his phone over the area of Eli’s concern, he pulled out a small, almost invisible object with a wire. “A listening bug,” he mouthed. Eli’s heart sank. But then Abba took his phone, turned on a program of sorts and waved it over the tiny wire in his hands. “The bug isn’t working,” he said more audibly this time. “But where there’s one bug there may be others. I’m going to have to check the apartment to see where they were placed.” To be continued...
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RIDING THE WORLD Land & Sea’s Strangest Transports
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The Bamboo Train, Cambodia Also known as the “Norry”, the Bamboo Train is a unique mode of transport that hauls passengers and cargo between the city of Battambang and Phnom Penh, the capital of Cambodia. At least, at one point, it did. Today the railway tracks are mostly in disrepair, meaning the bamboo ride only runs about 7 kilometers (about 4 ½ miles) to a nearby village and back. The Norry consists of a platform made of planks of bamboo, laid over two axles and reused military tank wheels, and powered by a small motor. Though, with its simple bamboo platform and crude axles, the bamboo train seems to be held together by mere threads, it can still pick up speed to an impressive 31 mph.
Reindeer Sledging, Finland A reindeer is a type of deer that lives in the northern parts of Europe, Asia, and North America.
Typical to the reindeer are their large, branching antlers.
Sledging is the
activity of traveling or sliding downhill over snow on a sled. Put those two together and it sounds like a ride at an amusement park in the North Pole, right? Actually, you’re only partially right because for the native Sámi people of Lapland, Finland—near the Arctic Circle (a long way away from the North Pole) this is daily life! These indigenous folk (people inhabiting or existing in a land from the earliest times) have
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Totora Reed Boats, Peru Totora reed (aka schoenoplectus californicus) grows in swampy areas throughout the Andes, in Central America, and much of the southern United States, where it’s known as California bulrush. Ancient discovered painted ceramics indicate that, two thousand years ago, Moche fishermen of Peru used these reeds to construct pointy prowed boats. The cool thing is that even today,
fishermen
along
Peru’s northern coast still build and use these boats, which they call caballitos (little horses). To make them,
they
take
dried
totora reeds and tie them tightly together.
This is
not simple work. Making caballitos
de
totora
demands
hard
physical
labor often under the hot sun. Once the boat is ready for use, the fisherman sits, kneels or stands on the widest part of the boat, and paddles through the waves, using a wooden or bamboo oar, to get to the deeper water beyond. Uros people of Lake Titicaca in Peru use boats made from totora reeds for their daily transportation, known as balsas, which are generally larger than the ones used on the Pacific coast. Some natives use totora for utensils and some even build their houses with totora. Talk about a next level game changer!
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Camel Safaris, Rajasthan, India We all know that way back in the beginning of time, - in the days of our forefathers, Avrohom, Yitzchok and Yakov, the preferred mode of transportation was via camelback. When the Torah recounts Yakov’s departure with his family from Lavan’s house, Lavan blamed Yakov for the theft of his idol, and the Torah mentions that Rachel Imeinu was on a camel.Camels, often referred to as ‘ships of the desert’, are great in dry, arid climates because they can go for long periods without drinking water. This is because they have an amazing internal storage system, their hump, that stores their water for them and keeps them from dehydrating over the long treks in the desert. Today in the deserts of Rajasthan, India, camels are still used for transportation, especially for thrilling camel safaris.
Venetian Gondolas, Italy Venice, a city in Italy, is built on a group of 118 small islands separated by expanses of open water and canals.
Over 400 bridges link these islands together.
Most of the time,
Venetians prefer to walk to the places they have to go because that’s generally the fastest and most efficient way to move around Venice. The second-best option, however, is via water transport. For centuries, the gondola, a sleek, keelless (flat-bottomed) boat with gleaming black paintwork, was a major means of transportation and the most common boat seen sailing within Venice. Though in modern times, the gondola still plays a role in the city’s public transportation serving as traghetti (small ferries) over the Grand Canal, today the vaporetto boat (a water bus) is the number one transportation in Venice. Nevertheless, the elegant gondola is still the most famous symbol of Venice and a huge hit with tourists.
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Funiculars, Various Countries A funicular is a cable railway system that travels up and down a mountainside. The system uses two cars that are permanently attached to opposite ends of a cable looped over a pulley at the upper end of the track. As one car goes up, the other goes down, and they are counterbalanced to ensure safe and efficient travel along the railway track. The name “funicular” comes from a Latin word that means “rope” because, in the past, they used actual ropes and were moved by people or animals. The oldest known funicular is in Hohensalzburg Castle, Austria and is known as the Reisszug. Funiculars aren’t just useful; in places like Valparaiso, Chile, and Switzerland, they offer travelers some seriously epic views. They’re both a smart and scenic way to get around.
Habal-Habal, Philippines Imagine a motorcycle, but stretched out to carry up to eight people, their goods, and sometimes even livestock! Sounds like a ride on the back of Dr. Seuss’ seven hump wump of Mr. Gump, right? Well, this motorized version of the seven hump wump extends widthwise as opposed to lengthwise and it’s called the Habal-Habal. It’s probably also more dangerous. Typical Habal-Habal drivers are very skilled, but at the end of the day, they’re still driving a two-wheel motorcycle that’s balancing many people. Not to mention that the HabalHabal is usually used for transportation over country roads that are really dirt tracks no wider than the width of one person. Still, rain, sun, wind; almost nothing stops Filipinos from riding their Habal-Habals when they need to get somewhere. Poor Filipinos will often load up their Habal-Habal with fifty kilo bags of rice, huge bags of coconuts plus passengers. Some drivers of a Habal-Habal have been known to load up eight people: one on the handlebars, one on the gas tank, four behind the rider, and on the footrails one person hanging onto another. I’m not sure about you, but I have no intention of getting on the back of that thing with another seven passengers plus their luggage! Though it’s probably fun to watch.
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Tuk-Tuk: The Urban Transport Phenomenon Ever heard of the tuk-tuk? Ever heard the sound of a tuk-tuk? The tuk-tuk is a motorized version of the traditional pulled rickshaw or cycle rickshaw (A rickshaw is a light twowheeled hooded vehicle drawn by one or more people and a cycle rickshaw is a threewheeled bicycle with a hooded seat for passengers behind the driver). Originating in Thailand but common throughout modern-day Asia and especially India, the tuk-tuk got its name from the ‘tuk tuk tuk tuk tuk’ sound that the earliest (tuk-tuk) engines made. While they might seem unconventional, tuk-tuks are an important mode of transportation for millions of people in places like India. Tuk-tuks work very well in large, congested cities (and with 1.4 billion people, they’ve got plenty of those in India!). Not only can tuk-tuks comfortably seat 5 people, they’re smaller, more practical, and can weave through traffic jams and tight streets faster than regular cars and buses. Also, they’re often cheaper than taxis, and are perfect for tourists who want to do their sightseeing as they travel through the city via this totally open-air vehicle.
Maglev Trains, Asia The maglev train in China, South Korea and Japan is a super cool, futuristic way to travel. Maglev (no, it’s not a Hebrew word – its name is sourced in the two words - magnetic levitation) is a system of train transportation that uses two sets of electromagnets: one set lifts the train off the track while the other pushes it forward. These trains rise about four inches above the ground and can zoom at a speed of up to 431 km/h (268 mph). That makes them one of the quickest forms of ground transportation on the planet. Bet you wouldn’t mind trading in your morning bus ride for a ride on the Maglev, eh?
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Chicken Buses, Guatemala Guatemala has a unique mode of transportation that’s hard to miss, called the “chicken bus.” Foreign travelers call these buses chicken buses because along with its human passengers, cargo sometimes includes chickens or other live animals. Not only do animals ride the bus as passengers, but the bus is also often used to transport all types of merchandise like overflowing baskets of vegetables, fruits, flowers, textiles, and more. The is
chicken the
bus
preferred
transportation
in
Guatemala
choice
of
public
for
connecting
departamentos (provinces) and towns. These buses are used throughout the country, and more people ride them than drive cars. Where do the actual buses come from; you ask?
Interestingly enough, the
answer is the good ‘ol US of A. The chicken buses are actually ten-yearold (at least) refurbished school buses from the United States and have over 150,000 miles on them. They’re auctioned at around $2,000 and sold to people who then drive them down to Guatemala. Upon arrival, these buses undergo a major overhaul, internally and externally. They’re painted in striking, bold colors and often personalized to their new owner’s preference. It’s common for each bus to have a name, usually a woman’s name or the name of the bus line. So don’t be surprised to see a green and red Esmeralda with outlandish shiny bumpers and lights if you’re in the area. And if you have gumption, jump on for a ride!
There you have it, from the chicken buses of Guatemala to the levitating trains of China, a world of thrilling transportation methods waits to be explored. Which one will you hop on to next?
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Coyote
ַ קא ָיאטי
קא ָיאטיס זענען אין די זעלבע משפחה פונעם הונט און פוקס, ַ אבער זענען ענליך און נאנטע קרובים צום וואלף. זיי זענען גאר שטארק פארשפרייט -אין די הויכע מיליאנען -און געפינען זיך אין יעדע סארט געגנט -בערגיג ,מדבריות ,וועלדער, וויסטענישן און אפילו אין באוואוינטע פלעצער (יא ,כ'האב שוין געזען איינס דא אין מאנסי .)...מען טרעפט זיי איבער גאנץ דרום- אמעריקע און זיי שפרייטן זיך צוביסלעך שוין אריין ווייטער קיין צפון. זיי זענען זייער שעמעדיג און אטאקירן נישט קיין מענטשן ,נאר פאנגען זייער עסן שטיל און אוממערקבאר.
Coyotes are of the same family as the dog and fox, but are most similar to, and close relatives of, the wolf. They inhabit-in numbers as high as upper millionsevery type of area; mountains, deserts, forests, plains and even populated areas (yes, I have seen one here in Monsey...). They can be found all over North America, and are spreading to the South as well. Very modest, coyotes don’t attack people and their food is obtained quietly and unobtrusively.
קא ָיאטי וועלן אויסגראבן אדער זוכן א פארלאזטע די טאטע און מאמע ַ נעסט -אונטער אן אראפגעפאלענע אדער ווארצלן פון א בוים (בילדער לינקס -אויבן און מיטן -ביי וועלכע מען זעט אז די נעסט האט עטליכע אריינגענג) ,צווישן שטיינער (בילד אויבן רעכטס). די מאמע וועט אויסבעטן די גאנצע נעסט מיט טרוקענע גראז און אויך האר ,וואס זי שלעפט ארויס פון איר אייגענע קערפער! זיי געבוירן יערליך צווישן 2און 12קינדער ,אבער נארמאל וועט דאס זיין נאר ...6די קינדער וועגן ס"ה עטליכע הונדערט גראם און האבן נישט קיין ציין .נאך 12טעג הייבן די ציין אן ארויסצוקומען .די אויגן עפענען זיי ערשט נאך 10טאג ,הייבן אן צו גיין נאך 20טעג און לויפן ביי 6וואכן. נאך 12-15טעג וועט זיי די מאמע אנהויבן צו געבן איבערגעקייטע פלייש און ביי 4-6וואכן וועלן זיי שוין באקומען א מייזל ,א 'רעביט' ,אדער א שטיקל הערש אליינס צו עסן .ביי אכט מאנאטן וועלן זיי זיין אזוי גרויס ווי זייער עלטערן און א חודש דערנאך וועלן זיי אויך וועגן די זעלבע. The mother and father coyote either dig a nest, or look for an abandoned one beneath a fallen tree, at the root of one (see upper and center photos at left, showing several entrances to the nest), or between rocks (see upper right photo). The mother spreads the nest with dry grass and fur pulled from her own body. They have between 2 and 12 children, though 6 is average. Pups weigh all of several hundred gram and don’t have teeth. Their eyes open after 10 days, teeth start coming in after 12 days, walking begins after 20 days, and running after 6 weeks. After 12-15 days, the mother starts to give pups regurgitated meat, and by 4-6 weeks they get their own mouse, rabbit, or piece of deer. At 8 months, they are as big as their parents and a month thereafter, their weight is the same.
קא ָיאטיס וועלן פאנגען און פארצוקן אליינס .אויב עס וועט זיך זיי ַ פארגליסטן א הערש אדער גרעסערע חיה ,וועלן זיי דאס טון מיט א גרופע צוזאמען. דער הייליגער בורא האט זיי געשאנקען גאר שטארקע הער ,זע און שמעק קראפט .זיי קענען שמעקן מייזלעך אדער ראצן וועלכע לויפן דורך אינעם ערד אונטער זיך .זיי וועלן ארויפטאנצן ,געבן א דייוו אראפ (זע בילד אויבן לינקס) ,אויפגראבנדיג און כאפן דעם חיה .גרעסערע חיות'לעך ,ווי 'רעביטס' אדער 'סקווירלס' ,וועלן זיי נאכלויפן. קא ָיאטיס זענען נישט קיין מפונקים און עסן כמעט אלעס וואס קומט ַ זיי אונטער די האנט .א טיילווייזע ליסטע :הערשן ,שאף ,האזן ,פייגל ,פרעש, שלענג ,פיש און אינזעקטן 90% .איז טאקע חיות ,אבער די איבעריגע איז גראז און פרוכט און צומאל אפילו ניסלעך אדער תבואה. אן אייגנשאפט וואס זיי האבן פונקט ווי וועלף איז זייער בילן און שרייען. קא ָיאטיס אפשטעלן ,אויפהייבן די עטליכע מאל יעדן טאג וועלן זיך די ַ קעפ צום הימל און שרייען (זע ביידע בילדער אונטן) .ווען די קינדער זענען נאך גאר פיצל ,הייבט מען זיי שוין אן מחנך צו זיין מיט דעם .זיי מאכן 11 סארט קולות ,וועלכע איז איינגעטיילט אין 3קאטעגאריעס :אלארעם (עס איז צרות ,)...גריסן (סתם 'העלוי') און זיך פארבינדן איינער מיטן צווייטן. Coyotes generally attack and capture food independently. When capturing deer or larger animals, however, they do so in groups. Hakadosh Baruch Hu created coyotes with exceptional visual, auditory and olfactory abilities. They can smell mice and rats which run beneath the earth. They jump up, dive (see upper photo at left), dig in, and catch the animal. Larger animals like rabbits or squirrels require a chase. Coyotes aren’t picky with their food and eat almost everything they can get their hands on. A partial list: deer, sheep, rabbits, birds, frogs, snakes, fish and insects. 90% is animals, but the rest are grass and fruit, and sometimes nuts or grains. A similarity they share with the wolf is vocalization. Several times a day the coyote lifts its head towards the sky to bark (see both lower photos). Young cubs are taught to do this. They emit 11 types of calls, consisting of 3 varieties: alarm (trouble on the horizon), greeting (a simple hi) and communication.
קא ָיאטי לויפט נאך א 'רעקאן' ,פאר א גוטע סעודה... .1א ַ .2וויבאלד זיי פארצוקן אסאך ציגן ,שאף און רינדער פון מענטשן, שטעלט מען ארויס 'טרעפס' זיי צו כאפן. קא ָיאטי שארפט זיינע ציינער מיטן בייסן אויף א צווייג. .3א ַ קא ָיאטיס בייסן זיך אסאך איינער דעם אנדערן ווען זיי זענען .4קליינע ַ יונג -זיך אנצוגרייטן פארן לעבן שפעטער ווען זיי וועלן דארפן פאנגען. קא ָיאטיס שארפן זיך די ציין איינער קעגן צווייטן. .5צוויי ַ 'קאגער' [=אמעריקאנער קא ָיאטיס זענען נאכגעלאפן א יונגער ָ .6צוויי ַ לייב] ,ווען דער לעצטער איז ארויפגעלאפן אויף א צוים זיך צו ראטעווען.
1. A coyote chases after its meal; a raccoon. 2. Because it attacks farming goats, sheep and livestock, traps are set up to ensnare coyotes. 3. A coyote bites on a twig to sharpen its teeth. 4. Pups often bite each other-to prepare themselves for a predatory life. 5. Two coyotes fight fiercely one with each other. 6. Two coyotes ran after a young cougar (=American lion). The latter saves itself by running onto a fence.
פאקטן און ציפערן פלאץ :גאנץ דרום און צענטראל אמעריקע ,און זענען אויפן וועג אריין קיין צפון וואג :זכרים 18-44 ,פונט; נקיבות15-40 , לענג :צווישן 3.5און 4.5פיס | וויידל 16 :אינטשעס הייעך 15-20 :אינטשעס קינדער :פון 2ביז ,12אבער נארמאל 6יעדע יאר עסן 90% :חיות; 10%גראז ,פרוכט ,ניס ,תבואה אד"ג. 'קאגערס' ,וועלף און מענטשן שונאיםָ : לעבן :ביז 15יאר באפעלקערונג :אין די הויכע מיליאנען
TIDBITS Habitat: North and Central America, and en-route to South America. Weight: Males, 18-44 lbs; females, 15-40 lbs. Length: Between 3.5-4.5 ft. | Tail: 16 in. Height: 15-20 in. Children: Between 2-12 (generally 6) a year Food: 90% animals; 10% grass, fruit, nuts, grains, etc. Enemies: cougars, wolves and Humans Lifespan: Up to age 15 yrs. Population: Upper millions
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אין קורצן פון פריער: נאך ָ ביורא געביידע – ָ ָ ציא ַ סא ַ אירענא שולץ אינעם ָ ַ ָ אירענא סענדלער זיצט אינעם שוץ-בונקער – ַ ַ וואס קריג לע-ארבעט רבעט-קאלעגע צוזאמען מיט איר ַא ַ ָ ָ ַ ָ ָ ַ ַ ַ ַ ָ ברעכט אויס און די דייטשן באמבארדירן ווארשע .זי דערמאנט זיך ווי אזוי זי האט אנגעהויבן צו ארבעטן דארט ,זיך אנגענומען פאר די געּפייניגטע אידן און געפעלשט ָ דאקומענטן צו קענען זיי גיבן מער שּפייז ָאדער הילף. ַ ליינט ווייטער מיט שּפאנונג!
ַ קא ּפיטל :11פעלשונגען ַ ווארשע ,סעּפטעמבער .1939
הארבסט ָיאר ,1938איז ָ אין ַ נאך ַא ַ כוואליע פון ּפליטים ּפלוצלינג ערשינען אירענאס ָ ַ אין ַ האבן ווארשע .די צוויי ַ ַ סטראטעגיע ווי דעבאטירט די ריכטיגע ַאזוי זיכער צו ַ מאכן ַאז די ָארימע אידן, ָ ָ געווארן פון ּפגעזאגט וועלכע זענען ָא זאלן ַ בענעפיטןָ , באקומען רעגירונג-הילף. ָ ָ כישוף-ראד; געווארן ווי ַא עס איז די רעגירונג ָ האט ַארויסגעגעבן געזעצן וועלכע ָ האבן דיסקרימינירט קעגן אידן, ָ אירענאס ָ ַ געטראפן האבן און די צוויי דאס צו ַ קלוגע וועגן ָ פארמיידן .מיט די ַ ָ קוראזשפול געווארן מער צייט זענען זיי און ַא ָ דאּפטירט נייע טעכניקן. די צוויי ָ האבן ּפונקטליך געוואוסט עסן-מא ַ ַ גאזינען ַארבעטער זענען וועלכע פאר זייער צוועק; זיי ָ סימּפאטיש ַ ַ האבן געקענט די ַ באגלייבטע ַארבעטער אין זייער ָאפיסעס ,ביי וועם מען ָ האט געקענט 732.930.2500
ַ ַ ַ אידענטיפיקאציע- פאלשע באקומען ָ ַ קארטלעך און דאקומענטן. ַ די ַאקטיוויטעטן ָ שטארק האבן זיי ַ פארבינדן .פון צייט-צו-צייט פלעגט ַ אירענא שולץ זיך וואונדערןָ ,אדער אפילו ָ שאקירטַ ,אז ַא ַ זיין ָ אויספאלגער זא גלייכע פון געזעץ ווי זיַ , וואגט זיך צו טון ַאזויפיל אומלעגאלע ַ ַ זאכן צו העלפן די ָאפענע, ַ פארּפייניגטע אידן. ָ אין די לעצטע וואכן פון פרידן, ָ בעפאר די קריג ָ ָ אויסגעבראכן, האט האבן זיי ַ ָ געארבעט כמעט ָאן אויפהער מאל ַא ָ טאג .צוויי-דריי ָ 12שעה ַא ָ טאג, זונטאגָ , ָ האבן ַאריינגערעכנט שבת און ָ געטראגן טרוקענע עסן ,געלט און זיי מעדיצינען צום אידישן ַ קווארטל. פא ַ ַ ָ ַ רשאפט האט אירענא שולץ ַ ַ ַ ַ ַ פאלשע מאגאזיןּ-פאס און אן ַא פונעם בריוו אונטערגעשריבענער ָ ָ סא ַ ָ דירעקטאר דזשען לע-ביורא ציא בראסינסקי .ער ָ דא ַ ָ האט געמיינט ַאז ער
שרייבט אונטער ַא בריוו איבער ָ דאס ַ געהאלט פון דעם רייניגער פונעם געביידע. זומער ָיאר 1939איז געווען שרעקליך. יעדעס קינד אין ַ ווארשע איז געווען אירענאס ָ ַ פא ָ ַ האבן רארימט .די צוויי ַ געדארפט זוכן נייע וועגן און קונצן צו האבן ָ פאר זיי .זיי ָ רשאפן עסן ַ פא ַ ַ נאנט ַ צוזא ַ ַ רעכטמאן, מגעארבעט מיט אסתר ציא ַ סא ַ ָ ַאן ַא ָ לע-ארבעטער, מאליגער ָ וועלכע מען ָ רויסגעווארפן צוליב האט ַא ַ אירענא איר אידישקייט .אסתר און ָ געווארן אינעם זענען ביידע אויפגענומען ָ סא ַ ָ ביורא אין ָיאר 1932און זענען ציאלן נאנט ַ געווארן ָ ָ באפריינדעט. אסתר איז געווען ַ בארימט אינעם ביורא ַ ָ פאר איר געטרייע ַארבעט" .די אומגלויבליכע אידישע מיידלָ , וואס קען ַאלעס ַארלעדיגן ",פלעגט מען ָ זאגן אויף טא ַ פא ָ האט ַא ָ איר" .זי ָ גראפישע זכרון און נאטורליכע ַ איר ַ רעאקציע צו ַאלעם איז ַא קאלעגעס ָ האבן אירע ָ שמייכלָ ", געזאגט. 11/15/2023
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זי איז ָאבער געווען ַא איד. ָ אסתר איז ַ געווארן פונעם פארשיקט ָ סא ַ ָ ביורא ,ווינטער ָיאר ,1938-1939 ציאלן ווען די רעגירונג ָ האט ַארויסגעגעבן סא ַ ַא געזעץ ַאז ַאלע אידישע ָ ציאלע- ָ ַארבעטער ַ ּפגעזאגט ווערן. דארפן ָא ַ "לאז ָאּפָ ", ָ רעכטמאן האט אסתר טאג פון ַארבעט ַ געזאגט איר לעצטע ָ ָ פאר ַ אירענא ,וועלכע ָ ַ געהאט ַא שלעכט האט דא ַ אויג אויף ָ בראסינסקי" ,כ'וועל זיך ַאן פא ָ עצה געבן .ג-ט וועט מיר נישט ַ רלאזן. בראסינסקי .ער ָ דא ַ ס'איז נישט ָ האט וואס ער ָ נישט קיין ברירה .קוק ָ האט מיר געשריבן". ַ ָ דאן געוויזן האט איר אסתר ַאן ָאפיציעלער בריוו אין וועלכע בראסינסקי ַאנטשולדיגט זיך ַ דא ַ ָ פארן דארפן ָא ָ איר ַ ּפזאגן ,און ער ַאנערקענט פאר זעקס ָיאר ָ ַאז ַ האט זי געטריי און ערליך אויסגעפירט ַאלע אירע פליכטן .ער פארשּפרעכט איר ָ ַ דארט אויך הייסַ ,אז ָ רעקאמענדירן צו סיי וועלכן ער וועט איר ַארבעטסגעבער. האט אים ָאבער ַ אירענא ָ ַ פארדעכטיגט. ⋅⋅⋅ וואס די פייפער ָ נאך ָ ָ האט געפיפן ַ ָ ַ ָ און אנגעדייטעט אז די באמבארדירונג דא ַ האט ָ איז ַאריבערָ , בראסינסקי זיך הויך ָאנגערופן" :ביטע ,ביטע ,יעדער איינער .כ'מוז עּפעס ָ זאגן ".יעדער איז געווארן" .יעדער איינער ָ ָ זאל ביטע שטיל ַאהיימגיין .מען ַ דארף נישט ַאהיימנעמען ַארבעטַ ,אריבערגיין צו הייזער ָאדער טון נטאג וועלן מיר זען ָ מא ָ וואסָ . סיי ָ וואס מען טוט ווייטער". ַ אירענאס ָ ַ צוזאמען האבן די צוויי רלאזט די געביידע ,ווען זייערע ַ פא ָ ַ גאז- ַ ַ שווארצע מאסקעס הענגען פון דער זייט. רויך-קנוילן ָ האבן זיך געהויבן איבער ָ די ַ שטאט .עלעקטריציטעט גאסן פון ַ אויסגעשאלטערט און די איז געווען ַ טראמווייען זענען געבליבן שטיין ווי ּפא ַ ַ ראליזירט. ַ ָ דערשראקן ,ווי אלע מענטשן אין ווארשעָ , ַ האבן זיי ָאנגעהויבן דעם וועג ַאהיים .סירענעס פון פייערלעשער און האבן זיך געהערטָ . מבולאנסן ָ ַ שאקירט ַא ָ האבן זיי זיך ָאנגעשטויסן אין עטליכע- ָ שטאקיגע הייזער ,וועלכע זענען אין מינוטן 732.930.2500
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יעצט איז ַ אירענא שוין געווען זיכער דא ַ ַאז ָ ברא- סינסקי איז ַ צוזאמען מיט זיי אינעם קא ּ ָ נספי- ַ ראציע צו העלפן די אומשולדיגע, אומגליקליכע אידן. וויכטיג אויף ַא צווייטער ַ ּפלאץ .ציווילע ַ געשטאנען איבער די ַארבעטער זענען ברענעדיגע העלצער פונעם הויז און געזוכט איבערלעבער .זיי ָ האבן נישט געפונען .עטליכע קערּפער זענען געלעגן ווארטנדיג ַאז מען ָ אין דער זייטַ , זאל זיי ַאוועקפירן. ַ ָ ַ יענע נאכט האט אירענא געהערט
רא ָ מאמע די ַ צוזאמען מיט איר ַ ַ דיא, ָ וועלכע ָ געמאלדן ַאז 41דייטשע האט מבארדירער ָ בא ַ ָ האבן ַאנטייל גענומען טאקע אויף ַ אינעם ַא ַ ווארשע .צוויי זענען ָ ָ ַא ָ געווארן און איבער 100 ּפגעשאסן רא ָ געווארן. ציווילע מענטשן זענען גע'הרג'עט האבן זיי נישט ָ ווארט ָ קיין ָ געזאגט איבער פראנטָ , ָ ָ נאר וואס עס טוט זיך אויפ'ן איבערגעגעבן ַאז די דייטשע ַא ַ טאקע איז בליץ-שנעל און מעכטיג. ַ צוויי טעג שּפעטער ָ אירענא געזען האט ַא ַ לאנגע ליניע פון מענער ,צו ַאלט און צו יונג צו דינען אינעם מיליטערַ .אלע געהאלטן ָ ַ ָ שאוולען אויף זייערע האבן ּפלייצעס און ַ מארשירט צום טייך .גרויסע געהאנגען אויף די ַ ָ ּפלא ַ ַ גאסן קאטן זענען ַ ַ און געבעטן די באפעלקערונג צו באשיצן מא ָיאר פון ַ היימלאנד .דער ַ ַ ָ ווארשע דאס באפוילן די איינוואוינער צו ָ האט ַ ָ גראבן ַ איינפאכע שוץ-ליניעס קעגן די דייטשן. ָ שאוולען ַאנטקעגן הילטער'ס מעכטיגע ַ ַ נצער-טאנקען. ּפא רא ָ האט די ַ כמיטאג ָ ָ יענעם ָ דיא נא ַ ַ ָ פראנקרייך ענגלאנד און געמאלדן ַאז ַ ָ דייטשלאנד. האבן דעקלערט קריג אויף די ערשטע גוטע נייעס אין דריי טעג. מאמע ָ אירענאס ַ ַ האט פון ָאנהויב קריג צום ערשטן ָ מאל געשמייכלט. דער ָאּפטימיזם איז געווען ָ גאר קורץ. דינסטאג ,סעּפטעמבער ָ ,5 ָ ַ האט גאנץ פרי ּפא ַ ַא ּפוילישער ָ ליציאנט געזעצט אויפ'ן טיר פון זייער דירה .מיט זיינע אויגן ּפאניקָ , ברייט ָאפן פון ַ האט ער געשריגן רלאזן ָ פא ָ דארף שוין ַ ַאז מען ַ דאס הויז. וואפנטע ָ בא ָ "דייטשע טרוּפןַ , טראקס און ָ טאנקעןָ ", ַ געזאגט כמעט ָאן ַאן האט ער ָאטעם" ,זענען אויפ'ן וועג קיין ַ ווארשע. מען ָ גראבט גרובער .מען מוז בויען ַא ריקאדע אויפ'ן ַ בא ַ ַ גאס". אירענא'ס ַ ַ שאפע – אין ָאנווייזנדיג אויף וועלכע עס זענען געליגן אירע ַ באליבטע האט ער ָ ביכער – ָ פארגעזעצט מיט ַא "דאס ,און יעדע ַ טאןָ : באפעלערישע ָ ַ זאך וואס מען קען רירןַ , ָ דארף געלייגט ווערן ריקאדע צו ָ בא ַ אויפ'ן ַ בלאקירן די דייטשן. ָאבער שוין!" אירענא ָ ַ האט ּפרובירט מסביר צו זיין ּפא ַ ַאז עס איז נישט מעגליך .דער ָ ליציאנט ָ האט ַארויסגענומען זיין שטעקן און עס ַאריינגעשמעטערט מיט כעס אינעם האט זיך ָ לאך ָ וואנטַ .א ָ ַ פארמירט אינעם 11/15/2023
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ַ ּפלאסטער" .קריגס-געזעצן זענען ַאריין פא ַ גאס איז ַ קראפט .די ַ ַ רמאכט. אין יעדער מוז שוין ַארויסגיין!" אונטער די שטרענגע אויגן פונעם ָאפיציר ָ האט מען אויסגעליידיגט ַאלע וואס קען דינען ַ הייזער און ַאלעס ָ פארן האט געהייסן ַ ריקאדע .ער ָ בא ַ ַ מאכן ַא מענטשליכע קייט איבערצוגעבן פון אויבן מא ַ ראּפ ַ ַא ָ טראצן ,טישן און בענקלעך .מיט ַ ָ ָ ווייטאג האט אירענא צוגעקוקט ווי אירע בא ַ באצירן די הויכע ַ ביכער ַ ריקאדע צו בלאקירן ַא דייטשער ַ ָ טאנק. איר מומע ,וועלכע ָ האט געוואוינט האט ַאריינגענומען איר ַ דערנעבןָ , מאמע, ָ ַ ַ ַ דזשענינא .אירענא אליינס האט נישט אויסגעפאלגט די ַ ָ באפעלן און געבליבן אין נאכט ָ איר ליידיגע דירה .די ערשטע ַ האט דארט ַ זי ָ פארברענגט אין דער טונקל און געזארגט איבער איר ַ זיך ָ מאמע. ָ פראנט נישט גוטע גריסן פונעם ָ האבן ָאנגעהויבן צו קומען .די ערשטע ַ געפאלענע זענען ָאפיציעלע ליסטעס פון ַ וואנט .יעדער ָ ערשינען אויפ'ן ַ געהאט האט בא ַ ַא ַ קאנטן ָאדער משּפחה-מיטגליד אין ָ מונדירן .די הערצער האבן געציטערט. נאכט ָ טאג און ַ ָ האבן די דייטשן ַ געהאמערט איבער די ּפוילישע הויּפטשטאט .פייערן ָ ָ האבן געברענט ָ איבעראל און עלעקטריציטעט איז ַ ַ ַ ַ ַ געווען א פארגאנגענהייטּ .פלאקאטן געווארנט איבער ניצן ַ ָ ָ וואסער זיך האבן ַ צו ַ נויטפאל- וואשן .אויסער געציילטע ניזאציעס – פייערלעשערַ , רגא ַ ָא ַ וואסער- סא ַ ּפאליציי און די ָ ָאּפטיילונגָ , ציאלע- ָ ביורא – וועלכע זענען געווען אין דינסט, ָ שטאט געווען טויט. איז די האבן זיך גערוקט ָ די דייטשן ָ גאר שנעל. וואךָ , ביים ענדע פונעם ערשטן ָ האבן זיי געהאלטן סך-הכל 20מייל פון ַ ַ ווארשע. ָ ַ ָ ָ אינעם זעלבן טאג ,האבן קאנאנען ָ ָאנגעהויבן ַ הויּפטשטאט פאלן אויפ'ן ערא ַ ָ ָ ּפלאן- טעראר .ביי די – ַא נייער ָ ָ בא ַ ָ כאטש האט מען מבארדירונגען, געקענט לויפן זוכן שוץַ .ארטילעריע האט ָ ָ נאר געגעבן עטליכע סעקונדעס פון ָ ווארענונגַ :א קורצער פייףַ ,א קורצער ָ מאמענט פון שווייגענישַ ,א ליכטיגער
בליץ און ַ דאן דער מעכטיגער אויפרייס. ָ בא ַ ָ ָ האט מבארדירונגען, טראץ די ַ אירענא ָ ַ געשּפאנט צו די טאג-טעגליך האט ָ ַארבעט .זי ָ דארט אויסגעפולט ַ ָ באריכטן, געשריבן דאקומענטן, ָ טעלעפאנירט צו קליענטן און צו הויז- אייגנטימער .רוב ַארבעטער זענען געבליבן אינדערהיים און מען ָ האט זיך דערטרונקען אין די פילע ַארבעט ָ וואס ַ מען ָ געדארפט ענדיגן. האט
ָ "דאס ,און יעדע ַ זאך ָ וואס מען קען רירןַ , דארף געלייגט ווערן אויפ'ן ַ ַ ריקאדע בא צו ָ בלאקירן די דייטשן. ָאבער שוין!" ַ אירענא איז געשטיגן אויפ'ן לייטער ָ ָ סא ַ אינעם ָ געווארן ַאן לן-ביורא .זי איז ציא דמיניסטרא ָ ַ טאר ,מיט ַא קליינע ,אייגענע ַא נאכן ערשטן ָ ָאפיסָ . וואך פונעם קריג, בא ַ אויב די ָ מבארדירונגען זענען נישט געווען גענוגָ , האבן ּפליטים ָאנגעהויבן צו פארשוועמען ַ ַ ווארשע. דא ַ ָ בראסינסקי ,און זיין דזשען ַ פיא ָ גא ָ דזשא ַ ַ ווסקא ,זענען טרא געהילף
ַ אירענאס ָאפיס און ַאריינגעקומען אין פא ַ ַ רמאכט די טיר .ער איז געבליבן שטיין, מיט זיינע הענט געקרייצט איבער זיין ַ ברוסטקאסטן. ָ דא ַ ָ לעצטנס האט בראסינסקי ַ אירענא די אחריות צו ארויפגעלייגט אויף העלפן די ּפליטים פון די ּפוילישע מערב- שטעט ,וועלכע די דייטשע ַארמיי ָ האט ַ אינוואדירט און ַאנעקסירט .שטייענדיג ָ ָ יעצט אין איר אפיס ,האט ער זיך ָ ָ כ'האב דיר "כ'האב מורא ַאז ָאנגערופן: געגעבן צופיל משּפחותָ , דאס מערסטע דזשא ַ ַ גא קען דיר העלפן .עס וועט אידן. ַ אויפגאבע .דיינע נישט זיין קיין גרינגע ַ ַ ליפיקאציעס קענען יעצט גוט צוניץ קווא קומען". "דזשא ַ ַ ער ָ גא וועט האט צוגעענדיגט: דיר שוין איבערגעבן ַאלע איינצלהייטן. כ'האב ָ ָ נאך ַא זיצונג". כ'מוז לויפן. ַ ָ ַ ָ דזשא ַ ַ גא האט אראּפגעלייגט א טעקע ַ אירענא'ס טיש ,אויף וועלכע עס אויף בא ָ איז געווען אויפגעשריבן ַ ראווסקי .עס ָ האט אויסגעזען ַאזוי ווי ַאלע טעקעס, ָאבער אינעווייניג זענען געווען פינף ליידיגע געבורט-שיינען ,א היּפשע ָ צאל חתונה-ערלויבענישן און ָ נאך ַא ּפעקל ַ רעגיסטראציע- אומאויסגעפולטע ָ פארמען. ַ "דאס זענען ַ ָ אירענא שולץ, פאר דוויגא ַ ַ דאנעקע און דיר ".געבנדיג א ַיא האט זי ָ ווינק מיט איר אויג ָ פארגעזעצט: דא ַ "אונזער הויּפט ,דזשען ָ בראסינסקי, וואס איר טוט ָ רופט ָ דא 'קריעיטיוו פא ַ ציאלע ַארבעט '.איך קען דיר ַ סא ַ ָ רשאפן ָ ַ ָ נאך פון די אלע דאקומענטן". האט געשּפירט ַאז ָ אירענא ָ ַ דאס בלוט קאּפ ָ לויפט איר ָאּפ פון ּפנים .איר ָ האט זיך גענומען דרייען .מען ווייסט ַאלעס "דזשא ַ ַ גא, איבער זייער שווינדלערייען. ַ כ'פארשטיי נישט". "כ'בין זיכער ַאז דו וועסט וויסן ָ וואס כ'דארף מער ָ ַ גארנישט צו טון מיט דעם. ָ זאגן". ַ אירענא געווען זיכער ַאז יעצט איז שוין בראסינסקי איז ַ דא ַ ָ צוזאמען מיט זיי אינעם ַ ָ נסּפיראציע צו העלפן די אומשולדיגע, קא אומגליקליכע אידן.
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It was a bright, sunny day in sleepaway camp, and me and my friends were sitting outside, writing It was a bright, sunny day in sleepaway camp, and me and my friends were sitting outside, writing letters to our family. I was sucking on a sticky piece of caramel and I felt something strange on it. letters to our family. I was sucking on a sticky piece of caramel and I felt something strange on it. I took it out, and there were 2 of my teeth on it! I ran into my bunkhouse, and looked in the mirror. I took it out, and there were 2 of my teeth on it! I ran into my bunkhouse, and looked in the mirror. I saw 2 gaping holes, one on either side, right in the middle of my mouth! My mouth was filling with I saw 2 gaping holes, one on either side, right in the middle of my mouth! My mouth was filling with blood, and I was starting to panic. I didn't know if they were baby teeth or adult teeth, so I ran to the blood, and I was starting to panic. I didn't know if they were baby teeth or adult teeth, so I ran to the nurse. As soon as she saw, she got grossed out and didn't know what to do, so she said I should call nurse. As soon as she saw, she got grossed out and didn't know what to do, so she said I should call my mother. My mother was freaking out when she heard. The director sent a picture of the teeth my mother. My mother was freaking out when she heard. The director sent a picture of the teeth and my mouth to my mother, and she decided she would call our dentist, and they would tell us if they and my mouth to my mother, and she decided she would call our dentist, and they would tell us if they were baby teeth or adult teeth, and what we should do about it. Recently we switched dentists, but were baby teeth or adult teeth, and what we should do about it. Recently we switched dentists, but for some reason my mother hadn't wanted to tell our old dentist that we were switching. She couldn't for some reason my mother hadn't wanted to tell our old dentist that we were switching. She couldn't explain it, but she decided she'd tell them a different time. Anyways, my mother called our new dentist, explain it, but she decided she'd tell them a different time. Anyways, my mother called our new dentist, but that week was July 4th so they were on vacation for the whole week. My mother was freaking but that week was July 4th so they were on vacation for the whole week. My mother was freaking out, but then she remembered she never told our old dentist we weren't going to them anymore! We out, but then she remembered she never told our old dentist we weren't going to them anymore! We called them, and Baruch Hashem they were able to tell us that they were just baby teeth, and I was called them, and Baruch Hashem they were able to tell us that they were just baby teeth, and I was fine. But if they had known I wasn't going to them anymore, they wouldn't have helped us! Thank you fine. But if they had known I wasn't going to them anymore, they wouldn't have helped us! Thank you Hashem that my mother hadn't told them we weren't going to them anymore! Hashem that my mother hadn't told them we weren't going to them anymore!
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I was at school and I finished my water bottle. I asked my teacher if I can fill it up. She said no. I was at school and I finished my water bottle. I asked my teacher if I can fill it up. She said no. Later on the bus I saw that my water bottle was opened. I realized that if I would’ve filled my Later on the bus I saw that my water bottle was opened. I realized that if I would’ve filled my water bottle up it would have leaked. Thank you Hashem!! water bottle up it would have leaked. Thank you Hashem!!
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My brother was in a big rush one morning and mistakenly grabbed his younger brothers pair of My brother was in a big rush one morning and mistakenly grabbed his younger brothers pair of shoes that looked similar to his own. Much to his dismay, when he got on the bus and tried to put shoes that looked similar to his own. Much to his dismay, when he got on the bus and tried to put them on properly, he couldn't get them on- this was quite an embarrassing situation!My mother was them on properly, he couldn't get them on- this was quite an embarrassing situation!My mother was out of town, and couldn't bring the right shoes so she tried calling a friend to see if she could help. out of town, and couldn't bring the right shoes so she tried calling a friend to see if she could help. This friend happened to have helped my mother with ordering things and she had recently ordered This friend happened to have helped my mother with ordering things and she had recently ordered a new pair of shoes for this particular brother - and because she was helping with my brothers a new pair of shoes for this particular brother - and because she was helping with my brothers school's Chinese auction she had somehow mistakenly ordered the shoes to the schools addressschool's Chinese auction she had somehow mistakenly ordered the shoes to the schools address(a mistake that never happened to her before or after:)! So sitting in the school office was a (a mistake that never happened to her before or after:)! So sitting in the school office was a perfect pair of shoes for him to have on the spot! What hashgacha! Thank you Hashem!! perfect pair of shoes for him to have on the spot! What hashgacha! Thank you Hashem!!
C.K., 13 We were in a car accident on chol hamoed sukkos. It was serious, and ruined our car. There was a We were in a car accident on chol hamoed sukkos. It was serious, and ruined our car. There was a lot of clear hashgacha pratis! First of all there was somebody in every seat of the van, but the other lot of clear hashgacha pratis! First of all there was somebody in every seat of the van, but the other car hit us in the only place nobody was, in the back (it totally smashed in that part). Also we were an car hit us in the only place nobody was, in the back (it totally smashed in that part). Also we were an hour away from the frum community, but it was hashgacha pratis because our uncle was driving only hour away from the frum community, but it was hashgacha pratis because our uncle was driving only a few minutes behind us and was able to pick us up right away while my father stayed with the fire a few minutes behind us and was able to pick us up right away while my father stayed with the fire trucks and police cars. Thank you Hashem! trucks and police cars. Thank you Hashem!
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Listen Up! “Did anyone ever call you a ‘good listener’?” a certain teenage daughter asks her mother one Friday night while parked on the couch after licht bentshing. Mother knows where this is going. Ears perked and defenses up, she promptly puts down the magazine she’s been skimming and begins a feverish attempt to recall what Daughter was talking about just before she picked it up. “Yes,” she responds a tad too quickly, chin raised. “Of course people have!” “Really? Who?” “I don’t remember exactly who said it, but all my friends know I’m a good listener!” And without further ado, Daughter smirks like a detective who’s just cracked an extensive mystery case. “That’s interesting,” she says and goes on to open her own magazine. “Why? Do you think I’m not a good listener?”
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“I never said that—” “You should know that quieter people are naturally good listeners, so I was born a good listener.” “Okay.” Daughter proceeds to delve into an article, while Mother returns to her magazine for about ten seconds, until she realizes she’s not really seeing the words. “What makes you think I’m not a good listener?” “Nothing.” “No, tell me. What am I not doing that good listeners do?” “I dunno. Eye contact?” Mother stares at her daughter’s eyes for a long time. When she hears her husband open the front door after shul, instead of leaping off the couch and slipping into the kitchen to chop the salad in a looking-busy-but-
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Humor VIbes almost-ready kind of way, she greets him with her best eye-contact and asks in a somewhat threatening tone, “Do you think I’m a good listener?” “Sure,” he says nonchalantly. She searches his face for any trace of a smirk and, thankfully, comes up empty-handed. There, she thinks. But as she slices the cucumbers and retrieves the chummus from the fridge, the niggling selfdoubt balloons into full-fledged horror. Has she messed up her beloved children?! Not given enough attention, warmth, love… And this one’s already practically an adult! And with all those parenting classes under her belt! What has she done?! Breathe, she reassures herself. They’re fine. After all, that’s what teenagers do for a living. They shake up the ground that their parents walk on. S’all good. But every time Daughter opens her mouth at the seudah, Mother makes it her business to look at her. See? she attempts to telepathically communicate to Daughter. I told you I’m a good listener! The next day, while teenage girls everywhere sleep, morning dawns bright and early for the rest of the household. Especially for Good Listening Mothers, who hear the singing of the birds, the clicking of doorknobs, and the mysterious flushing of toilets by Little People not yet toilet trained. And being one of those Good Listening Mothers, she artfully shoos Little People out of the bathroom and into one of the bedrooms, where she looks deep into their eyes and suggests they practice the greatest
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oxymoron known to mankind: “Play quietly.” She then tiptoes down the excessively creaky stairs and grabs a siddur from the shelf, hoping against hope that she will have five uninterrupted minutes of blessed prayer during which she can recite her morning blessings. But, lo and behold, as she makes her way to the couch, Mother notices yesterday’s socks strewn over the floor, and magazines and a sprinkling of used tissues decorating the couch. So while she sings Mah Tovu and Adon Olam, she sweeps across the room, trying to bring some order to a volcanic setting. But then she notices the Cheerios decorating the floor in the foyer — when did that happen? — and the coats sunbathing on the bench instead of resting on their proper hooks. And when she opens the coat closet— Oh my! Whom does she bump into but her very own toddlers who were, apparently, not playing quietly upstairs after all… Then, while they giggle out of the closet and she places the last coat on its hook, she hears the words “haGomel chasadim tovim l’amo Yisrael” tumble out of her mouth with the enthusiasm and finality of an overpracticed valedictorian speech. And she freezes in her Cheerio-crunching tracks. Because she has come to the sobering realization that, despite her best efforts, she is eons away from being a good listener. Because how can she be a good listener to her family when she doesn’t even pay attention to the words that come out of her own mouth daily — the words that profess Hashem’s constant goodness and beneficence? It’s an ear-opening lesson, and at the end of Shabbos, she researches appropriate data on the subject. Here’s what she comes up with:
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Good-Listening Basics 1. Make Eye-Contact Truthfully, staring into your speaker’s eyes can get a little distracting, like if you start noticing that one eye is bigger than the other, or you begin to wonder how they got their eye-liner to last through Shabbos. If you have to look away, better to look upward (think UFO sighting) or sideways (Is that my kid eating all the cholent at the kiddush?) than to look down (I’d rather be washing dishes than listening to you go on about the decor at your niece’s sheva brachos).
2. Demonstrate Interest Make sounds like “Mm-hmm” and “Totally!” as opposed to sounds like “Zzzz” or “a bas Yisrael doesn’t chew gum .”
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5. Face the Speaker How the dishes will get washed, the laundry clean, homework done, and supper made while we’re doing all this facing and eye-contacting is beyond me. But don’t look at me; look at the speaker.
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7. Don’t Think about What You’re Going to Say Next Meaning, when your twenty-five-year-old daughter goes on about how her shidduch date last night didn’t actually speak English, and that Google Translate might work for your interactions with the cleaning lady but not so much here, rein in the words that are sitting on the tip of your tongue (“Does tomorrow night work for a second date?”).
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Autumn Salad
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It’s fall! Delve into autumn with this vibrant and nutritious autumn salad!
Ingredients: Arugula 1 medium
Sweet potato, peeled and diced
1 small
Red onion, thinly sliced
1 ripe
Avocado, peeled, pitted, and cubed
½ cup
Dried cranberries
½ cup
Toasted pumpkin seeds
1 cup cooked
Quinoa
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Olive oil
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Honey mustard
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Lemon juice
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Honey Salt, to taste Pepper, to taste
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3. Spread the diced sweet potato on a baking sheet in a single layer and roast for 20-25 minutes, or until tender and golden brown, turning occasionally. Allow to cool.
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Quinoa Salad
This salad offers a harmonious blend of textures and flavors. The freshness of the vegetables complement the sweetness of the cranberries and everything is brought together with a tangy and aromatic dressing. A delightful side dish or a light main course, this is one dish you’re sure to enjoy!
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A hachnosas Sefer Torah in the flourishing community of Tampa, Florida, dedicated by Reb Shimon Sirkis of Tampa.
שמחת התנאים בבית תולדות צבי ספינקא – פאלטישאן – ספינקא קאנאדא Tenoim in courts of Toldos Tzvi Spinka, Faltishan and Spinka Canada
הילולת הרה"ק מפשעווארסק זי"ע אצל בנו האדמו"ר מפשעווארסק Yurtzeit of the Pshevorsk Rebbe Zy”u by his son the Pshevorsk Rebbe
קביעת מזוזה אין די נייע 'טאוק קאושער' געשעפט אין מאנסי
Kevias Mezuzah in the New 'Talk Kosher' Kosher Technology Store in Monsey
שמחת נישואי נכדת האדמו"ר מפאפא הכלה בת הגה"צ ר' פנחס חיים גרינוואלד אבד"ק פאפא מאנסי בן האדמו"ר מפאפא חתן האדמו"ר מסטראזניץ עב"ג החתן בן הרב יוסף גדלי' מאנדל מחשובי חסידי פאפא מאנסי Wedding for granddaughter of the Pupa Rebbe
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Cinnamon Flax "bran" Muffins Ingredients
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2 cups Ground Flax Seed
Preheat your oven to 350ºF (177ºC) and line a muffin tin with paper liners.
1 tbsp Baking Powder 1/4 tsp Sea Salt 2 tbsps Cinnamon 6 Egg (room temperature) 1/3 cup Coconut Oil (melted) 1/2 cup Water (warm)
In a medium bowl, mix together ground flax seed, baking powder, salt, and cinnamon. Use a whisk to stir until well combined. In another bowl, beat eggs with a whisk for 30 to 60 seconds. Add coconut oil and water, mixing until combined. Add wet ingredients to dry and stir until combined. Let the batter sit for 1 to 2 minutes to thicken slightly. Divide the batter between muffin cups and bake for 20 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Let cool and enjoy!
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הילולת הרה"ק רבי גדליה משה מזוועהיל זי"ע אצל האדמו"ר מזוועהיל Yurtzeit of Reb Gedalya Moshe of Zvehill Zy”u by the Zvehill Rebbe
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שמחת הברית בבית תולדות אברהם יצחק – ביאלא בני ברק Bris in courts of Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok and Biala Bnei Brak
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הילולת הרה”ק רבי גדליה משה מזוועהיל זי”ע אצל האדמו”ר מזוועהיל Yurtzeit of Reb Gedalya Moshe of Zvehill Zy”u by the Zvehill Rebbe
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זידיטשוב באר שבע- שמחת החתונה בחצרות טעמעשוואר
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Wedding in courts of Temishvar and Zidetchov Beier Sheva
Siyum and Hespedim in Mesivta Tiferes Lipa for Yahrtzeit of Hagoen R' Avraham Eidelman zt"l given by Dayan Brody and his son R' Chaim Zev Eidelman
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Dear Lakewood, Toms River, Jackson, Howell, and Manchester community members,
Did you attend a local event or anything exciting happening in your shul?
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We appreciate your contribution to our community and look forward to showcasing the vibrant happenings around us. Best regards, Lakewood Vibes
אדמו"ר מלוצק מוצש"ק בפאר ראקוועי Loitzk Rebbe Motzei Shabbos in Far Rockaway
הערשי היל:צילום
שמחת הבר מצוה לבן האדמו"ר מפיטסבורג ונכד האדמו"ר מקרעטשניף ירושלים Bar Mitzvah for a Son of the Pitsburg Rebbe and Grandson of the Kretchnif Yerishulayim Rebbe
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שמחת התנאים לנכד הדמו"ר מבאיאן עב"ג הכלה נכדת הגר"מ ארנסטר ראש ישיבת ויזניץ Tenoim for Grandson of the Boyan Rebbe with granddaughter of Rabbi Menachem Erenster Rosh Yeshivas Visnitz
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No Talking in Shul Contest Gets Even More Exciting! Since the inception of our magazine, we've been thrilled to see 1300+ kids join our fantastic No Talking in Shul Contest contest. Burich Hashem! Now, we're taking it up a notch and making it even more exhilarating. Our new goal is to encourage entire classes to participate each week.
Here's How it Works: Class Representatives: Designate one person from your class to be the official representative. This representative will sign up the entire class to participate in the contest. Individual Submissions: Every individual participant must continue sending in their weekly submissions as they have been doing. Monthly Raffle: To add to the excitement, we will introduce a new monthly raffle. Every participant who submits their entries during the month will have a chance to win $100 cash prize. Class Prizes: Classes that participate stand a chance to win a spectacular Chanukah Party, generously sponsored by Lakewood Vibes, for the entire class.
Let's make this No Talking in Shul Contest a fun experience for everyone. Keep submitting your entries, encourage your classmates to join.
ה- הקב, הוא יברך את כל מי ששומר פיו ולשונו שלא לדבר בעת התפילה, דוד ושלמה, משה ואהרן, אברהם יצחק ויעקב,מי שברך אבותינו ויזכה, ויחולו עליו כל הברכות הכתובות בספר תורת משה רבינו ובכל ספרי הנביאים והכתובים,ישמרהו מכל צרה וצוקה ומכל נגע ומחלה . ויעבוד את השם אלוקינו תמיד באמת ובתמים ונאמר אמן,לראות בנים חיים וקימים ויגדלם לתורה לחופה ולמעשים טובים
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Contest Hodu… Baruch Sheamar… Shema… Imagine a shul where everyone is focused intensely on their tefillos and there are no outside noises whatsoever. Imagine the hum of davening and kedusha in that shul. The malachim carrying prayers directly up to the holy throne…
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Winners of last weeks contest: Avrohom Kellner, Eliezer Witkin, Sruli Weitz, Motti Shoner
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CHECK OFF THE TEFILLOS THAT YOU WERE IN SHUL FOR AND REFRAINED FROM TALKING:
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Shabbos day Leining
שמחת החתונה לבת האדמו"ר מטאלנא Wedding for Daughter of the Tolna Rebbe
יהושע פרוכטער:צילום
ביאלא פשיסחא אשדוד- שמחת השבע ברכות בבית טאלנא Sheva Bruches in Courts of Tolna and Biala Peshischa Ashdod by Kehilas Biala Peshischa
שמחת השבע ברכות לבת האדמו"ר מטאלנא בירושלים Sheva Bruches for Daughter of the Tolna Rebbe in Yerishulayim
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CLASSIFIEDS Apt. For Rent Jackson - Short-Term Rental - Up to 10-Months. Furnished - Mansion Style Home. Acre Property. Available Immediately - Near Minyan - 732.414.7371 Club at Jackson 21 - Nash Model - $3400 Negotiable 732.414.7371 Riverwood Chase - Biggest Model - $3200 - Available Immediately - 732.414.7371 River wood chase, beautiful, nice house $3300 Call 917.714.8341 Toms River, St. Regis area, 4br/3b brand new house $5000 Call or text 718.791.4181
Office For Rent Chestnut: Brand-New 4-Room Office Space 2 Bathrooms, Kitchenette, Near Route 9. 732414-7371
Help Wanted Children’s Clothing Sales Looking for F/T & P/T saleswoman for children’s clothing store. Sundays are a must. Please call/text/WhatsApp 347.388.6427 Real Estate Office in Lakewood looking to hire a full time bookkeeper, call 347-860-1578
Oak and Vine, 5br/3.5 bath, duplex, beautiful apt. Call 929.216.0413
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Oak and Vine, private house 3br/2b Call 212.596.8887
Gold gown for sale $300, Size 8-10 ladies, Blk/gold Call 347.486.2360
Nicely redone house in Lakewood available for rent. Call/ Text 917.510.6331
Gown for sale $125 preteen (14-18) Call 347.486.2360
Jackson NJ Stunning 4 bedroom 3000 sf home on pristine 1 acre lot (no pool) available short term or yearly furnished or unfurnished next to 3 minyanim mill pond area 3850 a month for a 1 year rental Call 718.812.4106
Gown for sale Girls ivory/champagne jumper gown size 14 $85 Call 347.486.2360
5-acre property with 7000 sqft house + 11,000 sqft structure in the town of Monroe. Very suitable for Yeshiva or Shabbotons etc Please call MK Realty at 845.782.0205 Miami Beach Carriage Club North Beautiful 2 BDR, 2 bath, Ground
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Selling gorgeous gold & white gown Size 4 worn once $550 obo 848.224.3301 Shoes/Slippers Brand new size patent leather maroon flats size 37 boutacelli classica . Silver leather slippers Ralph migel. $10 each. 848.224.3301
Sheitels Mazali brown 12” sheitel Brand new S/M cap $600. Good quality used sheitel (freshly washed and set) S/M cap $250 732.552.6584 E-bike Great condition 35 mph, 45 mile range, 750 watt, 48 volt. Call/Text 848.238.8268 Selling Stunning Light Blue Maternity Gown $300, size L/XL. Also selling new black Kare Spade cross body bag, $95 Call/Text 612.269.9509 Tiffany necklace, great condition. Retails $225 and selling for $180! Text 732-597-1894! Stroller Cybex Priam 3 Stroller - Brand new closed box. Chrome/Black or Chrome/Gray. Orig. $999 selling for $599. Call/Text 412-8181581 Professional Camera Canon EOS 4000D with full kit of add-ons for sale originally $499 selling for $399 obo 732-942-0957 Brand new white desk, in original box, approx. 4 ft. long. Call 848.333.1503 Blush/pink gown for sale. Size 2-4. Bought from exquisite gowns. $375 OBO. Call/text 212.470.3969 Mamaroo Swing in excellent condition. Paid $130, selling for $75. Text 732.506.1377
Brand New Bose Earbuds brand new closed boxes lucite kitchen selling 2 for $80, please call/text 732-947-0438 Gowns for sale Lt. blue gorgeous floral gown from Exquisite size 6 Beautiful cream & gold gown size 6 Text 732.604.6433 Stunning ivory Miri vort dress size 4 orig. $850, selling for $550 neg. Call or text 848-329-2715 Black Miri’s gown for sale/rent size 8. Cost 1850, 1300/500. Exquisite gown size 10 black ruffles paid 700, sale/rent 450/250. Both worn once, perfect 732-534-1078 Brand New! Grey Genuine Leather reclining couch. Originally from Katz’s furniture. 845.274.5173 Bugaboo Bee for sale! Grey carriage and bassinet with extra blue hood. $400. 845.274.5173 Selling : Gorgeous ladies black and white gown. size 6-8. $150. call/text 848-221-0928. Black Colmar coat w gorgeous fur. New w tags. Size 18 months. Retail $288 selling for $215. Call/ text 848-326-1867 Selling gorgeous Blush gown, Size 20 preteen, Worn once. $300. call or text 732-833-3397
$500 Tomahawk Steakhouse gift card for sale for $425. Call/ Text: 347-907-5013
Dress for sale Stunning ivory Miri vort dress size 4 orig. $850, selling for $550 neg. Call/text 848-329-2715
Cybex Priam 3 Stroller Brand new closed box. Chrome/ Gray. Orig. $999 selling for only $499! Call/Text 412.818.1581
Cybex Eezy s twist 2 stroller. Brand new in box gray/ black selling for $200 obo call/text 848525-6505
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CLASSIFIEDS Size 4 cream/pink gown for rent/ sale w velvet ribbon. 200/375 call/text 732-569-2336 Girls Black Pramie coats Brand new condition sizes 5,6,7 $65/ea. And Boys BRAND NEW T.O. Coat Size 12 $98 Call or Txt 848-224-3769 Blush/pink gown for sale Size 2-4. Bought from exquisite gowns. $375 OBO. Call/ text 212-470-3969 for more info Halo BassiNest Swivel Sleeper 3.0 Brand-new in box. Paid $220, selling for $170 obo, Call/ Text 917-848-0086 Top of the line used E-bike for sale. Perfect condition! 750w motor, 28 mph, 50-60 miles range. Beast of a bike. 900$ Call/text-848-299-1887 Canon Pixma G3202 All in one CP with megatank Brand new in box. Priced at $200+ tax selling for $180 OBO 732-552-3587 Brand New Men’s Ferragamo F-80 Watch with Grey Silicone Band and Gold Face. Retails for $699, selling for $525. Call/text 443-621-6615 Brand New Bose Earbuds quiet comfort, noise canceling $200 obo, call/text 848-373-5863 Ebike 7 months old good condition 32 mph 45 mile range 750 watt 48 volt selling for $1,200 848-201-8448 Beautiful custom luxury paintings. Call/text - 848-2991887 to reserve yours today.
Plumbing Emergency late hour service All your plumbing needs
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Babysitting Warm caring experienced babysitter, for evenings & Night hours, References available. 347.731.0221 Newborn Babysitting (Ages 6-8 weeks at starting date) Located in Sunset Grove off Prospect and Williams HoursMonday-Thursday9:30-2:30 Fridays 9:30-11:45 Contact Elizabeth Hirsch 908-489-6757 or Miriam cohen 908-489-3967 Experienced Morah Available for subbing Monday – Thursday, Available for evening and overnight babysitting Bergen/clover area. Call 732.503.8590 / Text 347.409.6070
Personalization Bas Mitzva/Gift Item Cricut by Brocha for all your cricut needs Call or text 480-2433928
Lost and Found Lost Someone borrowed from Mechitza Gemach poles and taupe curtains. If found in home, shul or hall please call 732 370 2235 Found DJI Drone found near Pine Street 732-370-3405 Lost Bugaboo bee stroller with maroon hood. Please call/text 908-910-8832 Found Cream colored leather glove
outside chasuna hall Wednesday, November please call 347.277.2676
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Found White gold and diamond earring on East 7th St. Please call 908-787-3036
866.603.4249 to receive a reminder on that day. Recordings are available on Torah Anytime 718.298.2077 ext.1932
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Found Pink baby jacket in parking lot of Sparkles/ Eyes on Nine / Shoe Palace plaza. Please call or text 732-956-6383
Lshem Mitzva. Giving away beautiful 4 door china closet. Mahogany color. Good condition. Call (no text) 732.276.7114 or email gmalky123@gmail. com for pictures
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1997 Grand Marquis for sale, Please call 732-905-0734 for more information.
Folding Cot Gemach. Save this number for when the guests are coming! 347.464.4774
2017 Toyota Sienna xle White exterior, beige interior, 8 passenger, runs great, clean body, 56k miles, 26k miles Call/Text/ whatsapp 732.685.2503
Bris Gemach Quiet comfort, noise canceling $200 obo, call/text 848-373-5863
2017 Buick Enclave Fully loaded 128,000 miles, dual sunroof, 7 seater, $11,800, text 732-209-1017
Zichron Naftali jewish dvd gemach/challenging times. Men/women/kid dvds -1/2week, provide dvd player/external dvd drive. Used dvd donations pls leave in mailbox. 917-628-1785
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Elle diamonds Selling lab and natural diamonds 732-806-1543
Shiurim Mastering Bitachon! Listen to a series of Shiurim building Bitachon step-by-step visit: bit.ly/bitachon613 or to listen by phone text: @bit613 to 774.353.0907 to get the call-in info. Reb Shalom Mordchai Rubashkin’s Wednesday night shiur. Every other week at Khal Agudas Achim. Text “shiur” to
Ayin Horah The renowned Rebetzin Aidel Miller from Yerushalayim Is now available to remove “Ayin Horah” over the phone. Call till 5:00 PM: 718.689.1902 or 516.300.1490 Mishnayos for the Kedoshim Many of those killed on Simchas Torah and during the current war may not have ppl to learn Mishnayos/say Kaddish for them. Please learn a perek/ mesechta Leili Nishmas text 201241-2875
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At Elazar Tesser’s Siyum on Bava Kama and horias. Sachar Jaffe on the keys and guitar by Shmaya Sauber.
At Menachem Zev Tober's Siyum on Bava Basra.
האדמו"ר מנדבורנה ירושלים בביקור אצל האדמו"ר מראחמיסטריווקא לעיקוואד Nadvorna Yerishulayim Rebbe visits the Rachmestrivkah Lakewood Rebbe
ברק בסעודת יארצייט של רבי גדלי׳ משה מזעוויהל זצוק״ל באוק ען וויין-כ"ק מרן אדמו"ר מזוטשקא אמסנא שליט"א מבני
בהשתתפות האדמו"ר ממונקאטש,סיום הש"ס ע"י הרה"ג ר' חיים מיכל קאהן Siyum Hashas by Reb Chaim Mechil Kohn
Photo Credit: JDN
האדמו"ר מטריסק בביקור אצל הגר"ד לאנדא ראש ישיבת סלבודקה Trisk Rebbe visits Hagaon Rabbi Dov Landau Rosh Yeshivas Slabodka
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MOVE It was an honor to interview Yechiel of FM Home Loans and hear about the services his company offers as well as important tips for purchasing a home.
Hi, Yechiel. Tell us a little about yourself and what you do. I’m a loan officer at FM home loans, a mortgage bank that has thus far helped hundreds of families and individuals purchase homes. My mother’s been a branch manager at FM for as long as I can remember. As a child, I learned about DTI (debt-to-income) ratios and LTV (loan-to-value) ratios while other kids learned how to ride bikes (I have since figured out biking). I was always fascinated by house closings, and as a kid I’d accompany my mother to many of them. As soon as I was old enough to think about my future, I knew I would become a loan officer. Three years ago, I got my loan-officer license and started working for FM. Since then, I’ve seen rates fluctuate from the lowest to highest numbers in thirty years. It’s been fun helping clients through these fluctuations.
Elchonon Weinberg
What is a preapproval, and how easy is it to receive? A preapproval is essentially a bank (or broker) confirming the review of a buyer’s finances and that the buyer meets the initial criteria for the loan they desire. When a potential buyer contacts a loan officer, the officer works with the buyer to figure out what he can afford, and which loan is best for his needs. This is based on the buyer’s income, expenses, and credit score. After that conversation, the loan officers sends the potential buyer for preapproval, with documents detailing the loan request, the down payment available, and the loan program they will use (FHA, Conventional, VA, etc.). It’s a very quick process, which most real estate agents require a buyer to undergo prior to showing them a house. Realtors don’t want to show buyers houses they can’t afford.
Is there an easy way for a potential buyer to calculate if they will be approved for a house they see advertised? My clients usually text me an address, and I respond with a thumbs-up or thumbs-down in a few minutes. I do this after we have a short initial conversation. To calculate this on your own, follow this formula:
Business Vibes Take your monthly pretax income. Multiply that number by 45 percent. That’s how much you can afford to pay toward debt monthly. Next, use an online mortgage calculator to figure out how much your monthly payments would be for the house you saw advertised. Add this sum to the monthly expenses that show up on your credit report (not food or uber rides, just other loans and leases). If your debt with the new mortgage falls below 45 percent of your income, you should be good to go! Please note that this calculation works only for W2 income. For 1099 income, the calculation isn’t as simple.
offer on, but I don’t think I’ll be approved, what can I do? Ideally, that shouldn’t happen. First you should see how much you can afford to pay back every month, and only then should you look at homes. However, if a potential borrower can’t get approved, then a cosigner can make the loan possible. Additionally, paying off a car loan or a different loan can help you get approved for a larger mortgage.
What tips should people keep in mind if they know they’ll be applying for a mortgage in the near future? 1. Improve your credit by
Are there any details that are different for firsttime homebuyers?
paying off debt. This can improve your credit score very quickly. 2. Don’t take on unnecessary
Yes. First-time homebuyers are a different parashah. They can buy a house anywhere, with any bank, and their rates will be a drop better than for non-first timers. However, the difference isn’t usually that significant. In certain areas, though, local banks are incentivized by the government to give a number of loans to “median-income first-time homebuyers.” They need to hit a certain number, and when they fall behind on that number, they can offer loans at extremely cheap rates and with great terms. In the Lakewood area, there are a few banks that can make these great offers, and when a borrower comes to me who fits the criteria for such a loan (with his median income, not being a cosigner, etc.), I encourage him to try there first!
If I see a house I’d like to make an
monthly payments. Now isn’t the time to put tuition on credit cards if you can’t afford to pay it at the end of the month. 3. Speak to a loan officer early. This is something I can’t stress this enough. I have clients with sixty days of credit repair (i.e., they can clean up their credit report in sixty days), which would save them hundreds of dollars a month on their mortgage payments — but they only reach out to me once they have a contract to close in forty-five days.
Yechiel, thanks for all this valuable information. Wishing everyone hatzlachah in finding their home — whether it’s their first or beyond!
Elchonon Weinberg of FM Home Loans can be reached at Eliweinberg@kw.com or 732-330-8344
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Chemed
Corner of 4th St.
Clifton
Across Lingerie Shop
Cedarbridge
At the Fire house
Cedarbridge
Oak & Vine
Granite
MONDAY - FRIDAY
SHUTTLE SCHEDULE
office@carescouncil.org
1:00 Locust Route
12:00
added to the business listing please email:
#2 - GRANITE 1:00
The Rishon Center 130 1st St Lakewood 206. Golden Rose Flowers & Gifts 207. That Hat 208. Vaping Connection
Gourmet Glatt Plaza 1700 Madison Avenue 183. CSO Radio 184. Toys 4 u 185. The Nuttery 186. Vineyard 187. Gourmet Glatt 188. Verizon 189. Schreibers shoes 190. Hatcraft 191. The Gym Lakewood 192. Immediate Medical Care 193. Nails 194. Linen Garden 195. Kaylah's Jewelry 196. Zober Cleaners 197. Fraylich Uniform 198. J2 Pizza 199. Brooklyn Southwest 200. Step on Me Flooring 201. Judaica Plaza 202. Chase Bank 203. Shoppers Paradise 204. Sprinkles 205. Emporio
Shloimy's Plaza 95 East Kennedy Blvd 171. Shloimy's Kosher Supermarket 172. Coco Nails 173. Best Cleaners 174. Prime Ninety-Five 175. New Additions 176. Little Women Too 177. Trousseau 178. French Press 179. Shell Station 180. Photo express 181. Best cleaners 182. Upper Crust
158. Latin Bistro Grill 159. Celebration Boutique Lakewood 160. Technoman Repair & Services 161. Bagel Nosh 162. Lakewood Cleaners 163. Clearview Eyewear 164. Paradise Garden Boutique 165. Express Laundromat 166. Brothers Restaurant 167. Metro by T-Mobile 168. Ideal Travel Services 169. Latino Agency 170. Ruby Kitchen
MONDAY - FRIDAY
SHUTTLE SCHEDULE
Downtown Lakewood 140. DB Electronics 141. NPGS 142. Pizzaleh 143. Twin City Jewelers 144. Sewing Alterations By Edith 145. Suitshoppe 146. Creative Kids 147. Ladida 148. Authentic Kosher Chinese 149. Latino Community Connection 150. lI Center Electronics and Repair 151. Clover Women's Clothing 152. BMBGLLC 153. TechSafe Recyclers 154. Cesar's Beauty Salon 155. Eat a Pita 156. El Oaxaqueño Supermarket 157. Exito Fresh Market
Cedar Bridge Shopping 123. Polka Dot Boutique 124. TOTTINI 125. Piccolino 126. Focus Camera 127. A Shoe Dream 128. The Hat Box 129. Secure Data Recovery Services 130. Mike's Chicken 131. Tomahawk Steakhouse 132. Chase Bank 133. GB Clothing 134. Seasons Supermarket 135. Chai Urgent Care 136. Juice by Julie 137. Whimsy 138. The Cookie Corner 139. The Uniform Shoppe
CHEMED HEALTH 1771 Madison Ave 118. CHEMED 119. Cubicles 120. WIC Lakewood Office 121. Professional Career Services 122. Yapchik
104. Building Bridges 105. Brain Builders 106. Evergreen Supermarket 107. French Press 108. Asisa Urgent Care 109. STYLE AND TREND 110. Augenbraun Bridal 111. PERROQUET 112. ELEMENO 113. His Place Collection 114. Mefoar Judaica 115. Precious Health of Lakewood 116. Dr. Shanik 117. Children’s dental
For comments and suggestions or to be
Evergreen Plaza 945 River Ave 100. Center of Town 101. J2 Pizza 102. Wine on the 9 103. Optical Eyeland
Grand Central Plaza 355 Cedarbridge Ave. 62. Cosmetic Center 63. Direct Line Carpet 64. Simi's Socks & Shells 65. Molly's Jewelry 66. Trendsetting 67. Sary's Wig 68. Sole Connection 69. The Lighthouse 70. Kova Hats
37. Pizzano 38. Rena's 39. Health Market 40. Namery 41. Royal Kids 42. Copier Toners 43. I-optix 44. Rite Aide 45. M&T Bank 46. Glatt Bite 47. B&B Party Shop 48. Shoe Spot 49. Lakewood Nail Salon 50. Shalom Cleaners 51. European Finesse 52. Hosiery Plus
Clifton Shopping Center 163 East Kennedy Blvd
Cedarbridge Area 250 Cedar Bridge Ave. 27. The Lingerie Shop 28. Finale Boutique 29. Dimensions 30. Whimsy Childrens Wear 31. Coco Nails 32. Miri's 33. Out to Lunch 34. Step in Elegance 35. Caplan Cuts 36. The Custom Shoppe
22. Circa NY 23. Express Cleaners 24. Supreme Health 25. Emes Pharmacy & Grocery 26. Living Quarters
Washington Square 415 Cedarbridge Ave.
Partial list of local businesses the Lakewood Shuttle commutes Lakewood residents to:
#1 - LOCUST ST
Harmony
10
12
CNR 4th st
CLIFTON
CHEMED
Paid for, in whole or in part, under the Urban Enterprise Zone program.
Day | Day after Thanksgiving | Christmas Day
Labor Day | Columbus Day Election Day | Veteran’s Day Thanksgiving
President’s Day | Good Friday | Memorial Day | Independence Day
New Year’s Day | MLK’s Birthday | Lincoln’s Birthday
Lakewood Township observes the following holidays so please call the phone system Ext. 9 to check the schedule updates on these holidays.
Thank you for making this service a success!
Children under the age of 8 must be accompanied by an adult.
It is expected that all riders will be respectful of the driver and other passengers.
Take your seat promptly and quietly.
Allow passengers to exit the bus before boarding.
No food or drinks are allowed on the shuttle.
Strollers are permitted on the shuttle but must be folded prior to arrival of the shuttle.
Before planning your trip, please check with our phone system if there are any changes to the schedule.
Scheduled times fluctuate slightly, so it is important that you be at your stop five minutes early.
ביטע אויספאלגן די פאלגענדע אנווייזונגען .פאר די טובה פון אלע "שאטל" באניצער
Hanover
Todd Plaza
11
GOURMET GLATT
across TAG office
SHUTTLE HOTLINE
732.929.6929
Effective: July 1, 2023
DOWNTOWN ROUTES
LAKEWOOD SHUTTLE SCHEDULE
PLEASE NOTE: Our goal is to provide reliable, safe, and affordable transportation to residents of Lakewood Township. For this to be successful, we need you, our passenger, to follow some basic guidelines and policies so everyone will have a positive experience.
Grove
Hanover
9
8
6
5
4
3
2
1
Pick-Up / Drop-off
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added to the business listing please email:
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78. Gingerbread
74. Children’s Dental
73. Dr. Shanik
72. Mefoar Judaica
71. Moda Home
70. Eternity Jewelers
69. His Place Collection
Cross Plaza - 32 Cross St.
63. French Press
57. Evergreen Supermarket
75. Scarpe
56. Precious Health
55. Pizza on the 9
Evergreen Plaza - 945 River Ave.
53. Linen Loft
51. ZBerman
Chateau Plaza - 916 River Ave.
45. Nail Spa
48. Friendly Urgent Care
41. Laundromat
35. Print flash
39. Toys 2 Discover
47. Shell Station
40. Upper crust
34. Closeout Connection
46 Mr. Clipper
Todd Plaza - 1091 River Ave.
By shopping locally, you are supporting our local stores and businesses!
SEAGUL SQUARE
CROSS PLAZA
9
CHATEAU PLAZA
LOOP ROUTE MAP
Paid for, in whole or in part, under the Urban Enterprise Zone program.
Day | Day after Thanksgiving | Christmas Day
Labor Day | Columbus Day Election Day | Veteran’s Day Thanksgiving
President’s Day | Good Friday | Memorial Day | Independence Day
New Year’s Day | MLK’s Birthday | Lincoln’s Birthday
Lakewood Township observes the following holidays so please call the phone system Ext. 9 to check the schedule updates on these holidays.
Thank you for making this service a success!
Children under the age of 8 must be accompanied by an adult.
It is expected that all riders will be respectful of the driver and other passengers.
Allow passengers to exit the bus before boarding.
No food or drinks are allowed on the shuttle.
Strollers are permitted on the shuttle but must be folded prior to arrival of the shuttle.
29. Check Cashing
24. Burger King
23. Dollar General
22. M & T Bank
21. Beacon Flooring
20. Hazorfim
19. Shira's Salon
18. Pastel
17. TH interiors
Chestnut Plaza - 1201 River Ave. 28. River Pharmacy
15. Rebecca's
7. Exquisite Gowns
27. Eyewear Unlimited
14. Cross Fitness
6. Pediatric Dental
26. Condor
13. Photo Point
5. Shirtsleeve Mens Wear
25. Four Corners
12. Heads of Class Outlet
4. Judaica Square
Before planning your trip, please check with our phone system if there are any changes to the schedule.
11. Kiwi Health Food
3. Vineyard
16. The Yellow Door
10. Purple Orchids Lingirie
2. Toys 4 U
8. Borsalino
9. Cleaners
1. Gourmet Glatt
Gourmet Glatt / Seagull Square - 1328 River Ave.
Partial list of local businesses the Lakewood Shuttle commutes Lakewood residents to:
Scheduled times fluctuate slightly, so it is important that you be at your stop five minutes early.
ביטע אויספאלגן די פאלגענדע אנווייזונגען .פאר די טובה פון אלע "שאטל" באניצער
Our goal is to provide reliable, safe, and affordable transportation to residents of Lakewood Township. For this to be successful, we need you, our passenger, to follow some basic guidelines and policies so everyone will have a positive experience.
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