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Publisher’s Note Lynn Knighton

Moms! Make You a Priority

2021 VBS Listing

Find out why and how to do it!

Sign your childr up for Vacation Bible Schools starting soon!

Kids Say the Wisest Things Beth Long, PhD, LPC, BCBA

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Create a Summer of Magic

Fun ideas your kids will love!

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Dave Ramsey

Practical tips for easing kids’ social media anxiety.

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On The Cover Brooke Lacsamana (17), daughter of Melanie and Norman Lacsamana. Grandparents are Medy and Nestor Lacsamana; Shirley and Philip Dumas.

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Brooke enjoys playing tennis, going to the beach, and hanging out with friends and family.

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May is here and that means we are rounding the corner towards summer break. After the school year we have all had I don’t think it can get here fast enough! As if the school year is not already filled with hectic schedules and challenges, add a pandemic to that and you have a real whirlwind on your hands. Whether you have been trying to navigate virtual school or yelling, “Don’t forget your mask!” as you rush out the door, we can all agree it is time for a break. I imagine the teachers who still have to maintain focus and decorum in the class are ready for a much needed break too! The good news is we are on the home stretch, which means it is time to do some planning for summer! Yeah!!! Many families have already planned vacations and registered their kids for summer camps but what about those in between times? After limited activities last year, kiddos are definitely going to want to be entertained this summer. Flip over to page 24 where Colleen Wright shares some fresh, easy ideas in Create a Summer of Magic. If you are looking for even more activities, this month you will also find our annual Vacation Bible Schools Guide on page 22. Can’t wait for summer and looking for some family friendly activities to participate in this month? Make sure you check out the Family Calendar on page 33. Once you get the kids’ schedules all straightened out, be sure you make time for yourself. After all, our children are not the only ones who need a break from this rough year. Navigating through a global pandemic alongside the regular school rush, laundry, and the endless list of other responsibilities makes parenting absolutely exhausting. It is important that we all take time to rejuvenate and focus on ourselves every now and then. Don’t let the mom/dad guilt kick in either. Taking time for yourself will refresh you and make you a better parent along with letting the children see you as a person, not just Mom or Dad. Moms, Make YOU a Priority, by Sarah Lyons, focuses on just that. She gives moms (and dads) suggestions of ways we can de-stress and find support. With Mother’s Day being celebrated this month, this is the perfect time to gather with your friends and celebrate the amazing job you do each day. Speaking of celebrations, I would like to take a moment to congratulate the class of 2021!! They have worked very hard and faced some big challenges this year to get to this point. I know all of the parents, grandparents and teachers are very proud of these young adults and wish them well on their next adventure. As parents, it can be tough seeing your babies grow up and thinking of the “lasts” that occur their senior year. The last prom, the last day of school, the last football game. However, this is also a time to celebrate a lot of new firsts! Focusing on the ‘firsts” is a great way to work through the transition and celebrate this new stage of life. As we enter the month of May, I hope you enjoy all of these celebrations and we wish you all a very happy Mother’s Day!

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he is not sitting in front of a video game living a virtual social life, they make sure he knows how to talk to people of all ages in a variety of settings, they help him find a job that expects him to be social, etc. How can you stop parenting from fear and start being proactive? 1. Stay present in the moment. If your child is crying over something silly, do not let it become anything more than a momentary heart break.

by Beth Long, PhD, LPC, BCBA

“Mom, You Worry Too Much” A mother and her adorable 4-year-old son recently came in for counseling. The mother and I spoke about how to help him transition away from his favorite activities without having tantrums. As we continued talking, I spoke with her about the importance of taking her own thoughts captive. I told her, “Just because he has tantrums at 4 does not mean he is going to become an emotionally troubled adult. This is all just part of the developmental process.” The sweet boy started nodding his head and said, “Please listen to her, you worry too much.” We both laughed and marveled at his wisdom. If you sometimes create a tragic mental story when your child misbehaves, you are a normal parent. Our fear of who they might become helps us handle difficult situations. When your child takes a piece of candy from the checkout line, your fear of him becoming a thief forces you to walk him to the cashier to give back the candy. When your daughter is disrespectful to adults, you make her write an apology note so that she thinks twice about how she speaks to people. Helping our children take the time to correct their mistakes is one of the most important experiences in the learning process. Having a little fear of who

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our children will become is not a problem. However, parenting from fear is detrimental to the emotional health of our children and ourselves. The problem with parenting from fear is that you define their future by their current actions. For example, your teenage son may not have a lot of friends. If you are parenting FROM fear, you take this behavior and begin to think your son is antisocial or has emotional problems. You may even begin to imagine your son is on the path to becoming a felon. Let’s be honest, your son may simply be an introvert, or he may simply prefer different activities than most of his peers. If you let your fear drive you as a parent, you risk becoming a consistently nagging parent riddled with anxiety and dissatisfaction. Instead, become a proactive parent that truly finds joy in the highs and lows of the process. Proactive parenting is when you help your children learn all the skills they need to be successful in life. Proactive parenting is noticing that your child may not have the confidence to engage socially. Proactive parents find social activities that are enjoyable to their son, they go out of their way to give him various social experiences, they make sure

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2. Observe, listen, and encourage them to share the thoughts behind their actions. Do not worry if there is not thought, their frontal lobes are not formed and sometimes it is simply an inability to control their impulses. Sometimes though, their thoughts may be appropriate even if their actions are not. 3. Learn to appreciate who God created them to be. Help them discover their unique personality, gifts, strengths, and weaknesses. Do not waste a moment worrying about who they are not when you could be enjoying who they are. 4. To help you fully understand what is developmentally appropriate, surround yourself with families in a similar age and stage. You will be surprised at the number of things you fear that are completely normal.

Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com.

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Pensacola Little Theatre Performs 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee

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200 South Palafox Pl., Pensacola. All day the first Saturday of each month. Bring in a receipt from a purchase made from another downtown business and receive 10% off your bill at 200 South. This is redeemable at Graffiti Pizza, World of Beer, Taco Agave and Blend Lounge. Must be a receipt dated that specific Saturday and can only be redeemed that same day. *Limit one discount total. For more info, find us on Facebook.

Pensacola Little Theatre will perform The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee April 30-May 16. While candidly disclosing hilarious and touching stories from their home lives, an eclectic group of six mid-pubescents spell their way through a series of words, hoping never to hear the soulcrushing “ding” of the bell that signals a spelling mistake. Directed by Jay Bixler with music direction by Tina Buran. For tickets or info, call (850) 432-2042 or visit www.pensacolalittletheatre.com/.

Gulf Coast Culture Fest 2021

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May 22 * 8 a.m.-10 p.m. Seville Square, 311 E Government St., Pensacola. This event brings together Gulf Coast artists, businesses, vendors and citizens for a day of music, dance, poetry, theater and visual art! Admission is free. A community-wide film festival will take place the night of the festival in Bartram Park. For more info, call (850) 417-7611 or e-mail forc3studiosllc@gmail.com.

8 p.m. May 14 * Pensacola Greyhound Track The FREE family-friendly drive-in movie will start at dusk on the Wind Creek Casino outdoor movie screen. Enjoy the movie from the comfort of your vehicle, or bring lawn chairs or a blanket to watch while safely socially distancing. Concessions will be available. For more info, call (850) 492-4660 or visit https://business.perdidochamber.com/.

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Bands on the Blackwater Spring Series Continues

7-9 p.m. Friday nights 5158 Willings St., Milton. Free outdoor spring and fall concert series held in downtown Milton. Pull up your boat or bring a lawn chair and relax while listening to some great music! For more info, call (850) 983-5400 or visit www.facebook.com/BandsOnTheBlackwater.

Shark School at the Navarre Beach Sea Turtle Conservation Center

April through August dates available. Explore local Gulf Coast sharks, shark biology and shark conservation. Participants receive an intro to sharks of the Gulf of Mexico, shark arts and crafts, shark tooth treasure hunt, Certificate of Completion, and early entrance to the NBSTCC. Each program accommodates up to 10 “enrolled students” and a guest/parent or guardian. For more info and to register, visit https://navarrebeachseaturtles.org/ or call (850) 684-3347.

Blue Wahoos Kick Off 2021 Season

The 2021 Blue Wahoos season will begin on the road against the Mississippi Braves May 4-9. Pensacola will host the Birmingham Barons at 6:35 p.m. May 11 for their home opener to begin a 12-game homestand that will feature the Barons (May 11-16) and the team’s first-ever match-up against the Rocket City Trash Pandas (May 18-23). Every Tuesday home game will be a Taste of Pensacola Tuesday in 2021, adding a local flair to the team’s popular Fat Tuesday promotion. For just $24, fans will receive a ticket to the Winn-Dixie Party Deck, a ballpark buffet dinner featuring samples from local Pensacola restaurants, unlimited water and soda, and an exclusive Blue Wahoos hat. Each Friday home game, the first 2,000 fans through the gates will receive an exclusive giveaway item. Each Saturday home game will once again feature a post-game fireworks spectacular over Pensacola Bay! Military Family Sundays will be held May 16 & 23 and June 6 at 4 p.m. Active or retired military members will receive a discount at the box office with valid I.D. and military families will be honored and recognized each week. Post-game, kids run the bases and family toss in the outfield will also return. Stadium capacity limits will be implemented to ensure fan safety during the 2021 season. For details, visit www.milb.com/ pensacola/schedule/ or call (850) 934-8444. In addition, Fireworks and Movie Night at Blue Wahoos Stadium will be held May 28 and feature The Secret Life of Pets 2. Gates open at 6 p.m.; movie starts at 7. Dogs are welcome. Following the movie, the Blue Wahoos will light up the Pensacola Bay sky with a fireworks show. A 20-minute intermission will precede the fireworks show, allowing dog owners whose animals may be spooked by the fireworks to exit the stadium. For the safety of all guests, all dogs must be on a leash for the entirety of the show. $5 admission. For more info, visit bluewahoos.com. Greater Pensacola Parents I May 2021

Pensacola Children’s Chorus Performs Showtime

May 7 & 8 @ 7:30 p.m. & May 9 @ 2:30 p.m. Saenger Theatre Showtime is a Broadway-style extravaganza featuring music from nearly every genre, ranging from classical to contemporary, pop to musical theatre, and so much more. For tickets or more info, visit www.pensacolasaenger.com/events/showtime or call (850) 434-7760.

Bands on the Beach Outdoor Concert Series

7 p.m. every Tuesday through October Located in the Gulfside Pavilion overlooking the Gulf of Mexico, the series features regional artists performing a wide variety of music. Spectators are encouraged to bring lawn chairs or blankets to the pavilion area. No pets are allowed and glass is prohibited. Concerts are provided and organized by the Santa Rosa Island Authority. For more info and schedule, visit https:// visitpensacolabeach.com/ whats-happening-bands-on-beach/ or call (850) 932-2257. 6

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Pensacon 2021

Pensacola Crawfish Festival

May 21: 1-10 p.m. * May 22: 10 a.m.-10 p.m. May 23: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. This year’s guests include actors from Star Wars, Star Trek, The Terminator, The Mandalorian, Mighty Morphin Power Rangers, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and My Little Pony. Writers and artists will also be there! Three-day passes are available for $80, or you can purchase single-day tickets for Friday, Saturday or Sunday for $34-$45 per day. The primary convention venue, the Pensacola Bay Center, is where ticketing, celebrity autographs and pho-to ops, and the vendor floor will be located. Other official venues include the Rex Theatre, the Pensacola Little Theatre, Voices of Pensacola, and UWF Historic Trust Bowden Building, among others. New to this year is Court of DeLuna. See the Venues page for specific venue hours and other details, and make sure you have the official Pensacon app on your smartphone during the convention. Pensacon proudly presents the seventh annual Pensacon Short Film Festival as one of its official events. As part of this convention, the films screened will celebrate science fiction, horror, fantasy, comic books, pop culture, animation, and documentaries. After each screening, there will be a short Q&A with filmmakers present. For more info, visit https://pensacon.com/.

3-10:30 p.m. April 30; noon-10 p.m. May 1 & 12:30-5 p.m. May 2 Seville Square and Fountain Park Our festival features thousands of pounds of boiled crawfish, fresh from Louisiana, brought to you by Pensacola locals, Cordova Crawfish Company. Cajun fare features include: boudin, jambalaya, etouffee, fresh and fried seafood, gumbo and more. Also live entertainment. Adults: $5 per day; ages 6-12: $2 per day; and ages 5 and under: free. For more info, call (850) 433-6512 or visit https:// www.fiestapensacola.org/crawfish-festival.

Burger Battle by the Bay 2021

11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. May 1 * Community Maritime Park If you purchased tickets for Burger Battle 2020, they are still good for 2021! Attendees get to taste numerous samples of grilled burgers made by both professional and amateur cook teams and vote for their favorite! Proceeds benefit Take Stock in Children Escambia County and the other community service projects of the Pensacola SubWest Rotary Foundation. Tickets are $15 in advance/ $20 at gate. For more info, find us on Facebook.

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Sara Ratliff, Escambia County School Librarians’ Association secretary, and Michelle White, ECSD’s coordinator of media services, had the honor of presenting this year’s Dr. Paula Gleason School Librarian of the Year Award to Laura Hobbs, Lincoln Park Elementary School’s media specialist. Ratliff and White also had the honor of presenting this year’s Dr. Paula Gleason School Library Principal Advocate of the Year Award to Ernest Ward Middle School’s Principal Nancy Gindl-Perry. Each received a plaque to display in their office or their school’s library.

Beulah Student’s Artwork Displayed in State Capitol

Hobbs, left, is shown here with Lincoln Park Elementary School Principal Cassandra Smith.

Gindl-Perry, left, is shown with Ernest Ward’s librarian Sherri Stallworth.

Each year a student artist has his or her work selected to be put on display in the Florida Capitol. During the March school board meeting, Dr. Tim Smith presented the 2021 Escambia County Art In the Capitol Competition winner, Gillian Zukoski, an eighth-grade student at Beulah Middle School. Her principal is Wilson Taylor and her visual arts teacher is Winston Foster. Alex Andrade is the Florida state representative who personally took Zukoski’s beautiful whale painting to the Florida Capitol building in Tallahassee, where it was on display until the end of March.

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Pensacola High’s Science Olympiad Team Competes at State

In the midst of a pandemic, the Science Olympiad STEM Competition forged ahead—virtually. Pensacola High School stayed the course of its annual presence at the Eastern Regional Science Olympiad Competition and then qualified to compete at the State of Florida Science Olympiad. At the Eastern Regional Satellite Competition, held February 20, the Science Olympiad team from Pensacola High School placed fifth out of 25 teams and moved ahead to state on March 27. “It takes a collective effort of every team member to qualify to state,” explained their coach and sponsor, Cheri Stephens. “They also took medals in six events at Regionals.” The winners at this year’s regional competition were: Fossils Test, 3rd place Victoria Greene; Build Event, Boomilever, 2nd place - Victoria Greene and Deanna Harwell; Wright Stuff, 3rd place - Andy Tran and Kathryn Tran; Ping Pong Parachute, 2nd place - Emily Wagner and Declan McGurk; Machines, 3rd place - Declan McGurk and James Hu; and Gravity Vehicle, 3rd place - Nicholas Mistry and Ian Tsubooka. On March 27, the PHS team of 15 students competed against 57 teams in a virtual State Science Olympiad. Congratulations go to Declan McGurk and James Hu, below, who took fifth place in the state in the Machines competition. “The entire team is to be commended for their tenacity,” said Stephens. “They didn’t let the pandemic slow them down at all.” The PHS Science Olympiad 2021 Team members were: Deanna Harwell, Victoria Greene, Emily Wanger, Declan McGurk, Aakanskha Bandurapalli, James Hu, Ian Tsubooka, Hanish Edupuganti, Danish Edupuganti, Lana Kader, Kathryn Tran, Andy Tran, Alysa Laren, Nicholas Mistry and Noah Anderson.

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Redeemer Lutheran students had an eggcellent time decorating eggs for Easter. It was egg-citing to see all the color combinations and designs that were created. No yolks, they did an egg-ceptional job on this sunnyside-up kind of day.

Bellview Students Participate in Library Groundbreaking

Some of Bellview Elementary School’s top Accelerated Readers got to attend the new school library’s groundbreaking ceremony and help move some dirt! They will be back next year, with their library cards ready, to cut some ribbon!

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St. Paul Completes Chemistry Lab

Seventh-graders at St. Paul Catholic School completed an inquiry-based chemistry lab identifying the properties of various mixtures and pure substances. They then determined the identity of an unknown mystery mixture using observation skills all while adhering to lab safety protocol!

Catholic High School Community ‘Springs’ to Action

The Spring Food Drive coordinated by the Pensacola Catholic High School Student Council brought in more than 30,000 items. The food was collected by Student Council volunteers who worked a “drive-by” station during two weekends in early March. Members of the Catholic High family including students, parents, past parents, alumni, faculty and staff contributed. The food was donated to the St. Vincent DePaul Society Food Pantry. A BIG THANK YOU to all those who donated to make this drive a HUGE success!

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Shepherd Speaks at East Hill Christian Chapel

East Hill Christian School students in grades 6-12 had the opportunity to hear from Randy Shepherd, evangelist and co-founder of Cross Fire Ministries, during recent chapel time. Shepherd uses sports to make a difference and teach about God through sports. He was able to convey to the students about how God has plans for each of their lives that may come to them in unexpected ways. Shepherd’s Christian evangelical organization is based in Asheville, NC.

Catholic High Competes in Mock Trial Events

The Pensacola Catholic High School Mock Trial team competed virtually this year in debate and trial arguments. The fourteen-student team, moderated by English teacher Nikki Fuqua and mentored by current parent attorney Braden Ball, prepared arguments for both the prosecution and the defense in a case centered around first-degree murder. The team’s familiarity with Zoom acted as a bonus, and they advanced to the semifinals in their competition.

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Artist Study at Montessori

Montessori School of Pensacola students in the Primary level (3-6 years old) studied the artist Georgia O’Keefe. In Montessori education, students learn about the great artists and their styles. The students develop an understanding of different styles of artwork, get to experiment with artistic methods, and learn words associated with describing art. Dr. Maria Montessori didn’t believe that you could “teach” a child to become an artist; however, she was a strong believer in nurturing children’s creative abilities and teaching them to develop “an eye that sees, a hand that obeys, and a soul that feels.” Teaching art appreciation, and the skills associated with artistic expression, is an important part of art instruction in Montessori education. Art study is fundamental to children’s creative, visual, sensorial and emotional development. In their study of O’Keefe, students were read books about her, shown examples of her artwork, and invited to paint in her style as they looked at still life set-ups of different flowers and plants.

Cantonment Rotary Donates Motivational Books to JM Tate

The Cantonment Rotary Club, in partnership with Dickerson Literacy Initiatives, donated more than 1,500 hardback books from Gregory Zuckerman’s Rising Above series to students at J.M. Tate High School. The series contains motivational stories from some of today’s most successful athletes including Simone Biles, Venus and Serena Williams, Ronda Rousey, Stephen Curry, LeBron James, Tim Howard and others. Their powerful stories were captured to inspire students to work hard to overcome any obstacles life throws at them and to “rise above” those challenges to be successful adults. Each of our 9th- and 10thgrade students will receive a free book and have an opportunity to view a presentation by the author in which he discusses his relationship with these athletes and what motivated him to write the series.

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Catholic High National Honor Society Assists Easter Bunny

Members of the Pensacola Catholic High School National Honor Society delivered more than 100 goodie-filled Easter baskets to the Gulf Coast Kid’s House on March 25. These baskets were provided to children receiving support for advocacy services provided by Gulf Coast Kid’s House. The National Honor Society is moderated by alumnus and Religion teacher Christine Day and this basket project is one of two service projects carried out by the group each year.

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Montessori Students Run Laps to Raise Funds

Every year Montessori School of Pensacola students participate in the Minithon. For this fundraiser, students run laps for pledges. The MSP Minithon tradition goes back almost 40 years and includes tie-dyed shirts and ribbons for each student. This year, there was no annual potluck “feast” and there was the new option to Zoom in to watch the students run. Despite the classes having to run in their smaller divided pod groups, it was a happy experience to have a school function again, as so many events have been cancelled over the last year due to Covid.

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East Hill Marine Biology

The juniors at East Hill Christian School are studying the anatomy of marine life. They had the opportunity to dissect a small shark. Their instructor, Mr. Roper, was especially proud of the students as they were successful in identifying the anatomy of the shark based on the instruction they received.

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Global Learning Holds Reward Day

Global Learning Academy students who earned an A or B in citizenship for Quarter 3 got to participate in a PBIS Rewards Event. It was a fun, beautiful and meaningful day. Congratulations to these Explorers who are working hard to follow the P.A.C.T. (Practice honesty, Accept responsibility, Choose respect and Think safe).

Members of the Greater Pensacola Figure Skating Club recently took their audience “Back to the ‘80s” when life was a little more carefree. Performing their 25th Annual Showcase at the Pensacola Bay Center on April 9, skaters performed solos, trios and group numbers to everyone’s favorite ‘80s hits. Despite very limited ice, these skaters put on an amazing show every year! Skating at the Bay Center since 1996, GPFSC currently has more than 130 members ranging in age from 2½ to adult with skill levels from beginners to competitors. These skaters travel from Walton, Okaloosa, Santa Rosa, Escambia, Baldwin and Mobile counties to skate on the only ice in the Gulf Coast. GPFSC is a local 501(c)3 organization dedicated to expanding ice sports opportunities for all ages and abilities in the Gulf Coast Region. In 2020 the Club became a member of Learn to Skate USA which is endorsed by US Figure Skating, USA Hockey, US Speedskating and the Special Olympics. Learn to Skate USA offers a standardized curriculum designed to help skaters of all ages and abilities master the basics of ice skating. This new affiliation has opened the doors for future expansion and the ability to offer programs such as Adaptive Skating which is specifically designed for individuals with intellectual and physical disabilities. The 2021-2022 skating season is scheduled to begin in October and will include group classes for Tots, Youth, Teens and Adults of all abilities. Specialty classes will include Synchronized Skating, Spin and Jump, Power Skating, Hockey Skating Skills and more. Private lessons are also available. Registration for the 2021-2022 season will open in August. For more info, e-mail info@pensacolafigureskating.com.

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Escambia County School District performed very well in the recent Odyssey of the Mind virtual state tournament. Teams from ECSD took first place in all five competitions in their division. Ferry Pass Middle School’s teams excelled in this competition, taking first place in the state of Florida in four of the five problems and one of Brown-Barge Middle School’s competition teams took first place in the fifth! Every ECSD 2021 Odyssey team qualified for the World Finals. “Our teams have worked very hard,” said Ferry Pass Middle School Principal Juanda White. “They did an incredible job and we are so proud to share these accomplishments!” Odyssey of the Mind is a creative problem-solving competition that was designed under the principle that creativity can be taught. Both schools competed in Division 2 and due to Covid safety concerns, the teams all competed virtually. The awards were also announced virtually. “Students compete on a team of five to seven members against teams from across the area,” explained FPMS Coach Melissa Hughes. “To compete, students submitted a video where they presented their solution in a performance that could last up to eight minutes. They could append the video to explain how they designed their solution, so the complete video could not run more than 15 minutes.” Other than Hughes, FPMS coaches included: Scott Wittstruck, Jessica Hall, Cheri Stoker, Cindy Boles, Rebecca Van Fleet and Phoebe Allen. Both Brown Barge Middle School teams were coached by Carrie McGugin. The Odyssey of the Mind World Finals will be held June 11-12 in Orlando, but there is a virtual option as well. www.greaterpensacolaparents.com

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Students at Montessori School of Pensacola have been studying the different cultures, terrain, and habits of the people of the Andes. They used an elliptical exercise machine to simulate hiking, all while carrying a pack of “food.” As the students could tell you, it’s a really heavy pack! Students enjoyed this hands-on and realistic study of how primitive tribal members really experience life in the Andes. Most people think of how children are taught reading, writing and mathematics, but Montessori education also has a curriculum area called cultural! Montessori Cultural usually covers a variety of subjects, such as geography, history, science, zoology and botany. Maria Montessori called the cultural studies a “window to the world.” After learning about the earliest humans, children learn about ancient cultures, the fundamental needs of humans, and how people in different societies have met (and continue to meet) those needs. They study the origins and history of mathematics and language, which children at the elementary level find particularly relevant and interesting.

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Kindergartners at Redeemer Lutheran are always finding fun (and sweet) ways to learn. For Easter, they used jelly beans to practice their adding and subtracting skills. Math was everyone’s favorite subject on this particular day. And for perhaps the first time ever, no one complained about having to clean up.

East Hill Christian School held its annual spring book fair this past month. Students were especially excited to dress up for the Jungle Safari theme all week. It was exciting to get new books in the hands of our students and raise money to grow our libraries!

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Se Raising kids is one of the most life-changing and rewarding times of your life, but it can also be the most exhausting and draining. While moms typically make their kids their top priority, putting them above their own needs and wants, moms need to make time for themselves so they can continue to be at their best when it comes to supporting and taking care of their families. Moms, it’s time to make you a priority. Greater Pensacola Parents I May 2021

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Why Make Yourself a Priority? Your mental health is a important Being a mother has its emotional highs and lows. Your body goes through amazing changes both physically and mentally during pregnancy, birth, and the years that follow. It is important for moms to make their mental health a priority. Ask your significant other or a trusted friend to help you monitor when you are struggling. Ask for help if you feel you are not at your best emotionally. Taking care of your family on a day-to-day basis can be draining on your emotional reserves, but when you have participated in activities that make you feel happy and healthy, it is easier to be attentive and supportive to those around you.

Your physical health is a priority If you are physically exhausted, it is hard to be patient with your kids or get anything productive accomplished at home or work. Getting good rest, exercising, and eating healthy are important for moms to feel at their best. It’s also important for moms to make their health important by visiting the doctor, dentist, and other appointments to maintain health on a regular basis. So often moms will delay their own scheduled doctor visits to make time for their families but routine checkups can prevent issues before they arise.

How to Make Yourself a Priority? Find your tribe Having a group of friends that understand what it’s like to raise children, work, maintain a healthy lifestyle,and commit to a loving marriage is important for moms to feel “normal” and supported. Moms groups (like MOPS), online meetups or groups, book clubs, or church groups are great places to meet other moms that you have things in common with and connect.

Set aside time Between running errands, extracurricular activities, housework, and spending time with your kids it can be hard to set aside time for yourself. Spending time alone, with your spouse (without your kids), and with friends is so important for 19

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moms to feel energized for another day. Add time for you to the family calendar to assure that it happens on a regular basis and any child care needs are met.

Exercise A good exercise routine not only keeps you healthy and fit, but it can also help you feel better about yourself as well as give you an extra energy boost for the long days of mothering. Taking time for exercise can also give you a chance to be alone and listen to a podcast, audiobook, or music you enjoy while working out. If your exercise takes you outside, you also get an added boost of Vitamin D which has been proven to help you feel happier too.

Treat yourself Moms work hard. Allow yourself a treat such as a coffee, a new outfit, a fresh haircut, pedicure, or a sweet treat on occasion. Giving yourself permission to treat yourself can boost your mood and acknowledge that you work hard and deserve something special. You don’t have to spend a lot of time or money, it’s more about putting yourself first on occasion.

ties, accept help when offered, or trade babysitting with a friend so you can have a much needed date night. If your significant other offers to help out around the house, let them, even if it isn’t exactly the way you would have done it. Accepting help can be a big relief and can give moms the chance for some much needed time to focus on themselves.

Talk to someone Sometimes we just need someone to talk to about our feelings, what is going on in our lives, and share the details of everyday life. One way moms make themselves a priority is to find a friend or family member you can chat with on a regular basis. Some may find it helpful to talk to a counselor if you have a lot to work through and have dealt with depression or feel like you could use some unbiased advice.

Take up a hobby What do you love to do? Many moms find they have forgotten the hobbies they used to enjoy prior to kids. Make time for yourself and your interests. Seek out an old hobby or find a new one - reading, running, sewing, scrapbooking - whatever activity gets you excited is what you need to make time for. Whether you do your hobby with a group of friends or on your own, you will not regret making time for something that is important to you. It’s not possible to put yourself first all the time when you are a busy mom but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t set aside time when you are the priority. It’s important for your mental and physical health and well-being and will make you a better mom overall. GPP

Ask for help Moms are used to helping others and many of us have a hard time reaching out and asking for help. However, when a friend asks, we are the first to offer assistance. Give others a chance to help you. Set up a carpool so you are not always the one playing taxi with the kids for their after school activi-

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Marcus Pointe Baptist Church 6205 North W Street Pensacola, 32505 Theme: Destination Dig Dates: June 14-17, 2021 Times: 9:00am - 12:00pm Ages: K4 - 5th grade Neighborhood VBS Xtreme will be at 10 different locations throughout our community! Register your child for one or ALL of our Vacation Bible School events by going to our website, www.pensacolachurch.org/events. (850) 479-8337 www.pensacolachurch.org

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Charity Chapel 5820 Montgomery Avenue Pensacola, 32526 Theme: Saddle Ridge Ranch Dates: June 21 - 25, 2021 Times: 9:00am - 12:00pm Ages: 4 years (must be 4 by June 25) - 7th grade Registration form will be posted on our church web page: www.charitychapel.org, beginning May 3. Greater Pensacola Parents I May 2021

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East Brent Baptist Church 4801 North Davis Highway Pensacola, 32503 Theme: Mystery Island: Tracking Down the One True God Dates: July 12-16, 2021 Times: 8:00am - 12:00pm Ages: 5 years - 5th grade (850) 477-5812 info@eastbrent.com www.eastbrent.com

First Baptist Church of Pensacola 500 North Palafox Street Pensacola, 32501 Theme: Destination Dig Dates: June 21-25, 2021 Times: 8:30am 12:00pm Ages: Completed Pre-K - 6th grade (850) 433-5631 www.fbcp.org

Hillcrest Baptist - Nine Mile Campus 800 East Nine Mile Road Pensacola, 32514 Theme: Concrete and Cranes Dates: June 21-25, 2021 Times: 8:30am 12:00pm Ages: Completed K - 5th grade

Marcus Pointe Baptist Church 10 different locations throughout our community Pensacola, 32505 Theme: Destination Dig Dates: June 12, 2021 Times: 10:00am - 12:00pm Ages: K4 - 5th grade Church VBS. Register your child for one or ALL of our Vacation Bible School events by going to our website, www.pensacolachurch.org/events. (850) 479-8337 www.pensacolachurch.org

Marcus Pointe Baptist Church 6205 North W Street Pensacola, 32505 Theme: Destination Dig Dates: June 18, 2021 Times: 5:00pm - 8:00pm Ages: K4 - 5th grade VBS Friday family fun night. Register your child for one or ALL of our Vacation Bible School events by going to our website, www.pensacolachurch.org/ events. (850) 479-8337 www.pensacolachurch.org

Myrtle Grove Baptist Church 5920 Lillian Highway Pensacola, 32506 Dates: July 5-9, 2021 Times: 9:00am-12:00pm Ages: 5 years old-completed 5th grade (850) 455-7389 plcadmin@mgbc.church myrtlegrovebaptistchurch.org

Myrtle Grove United Methodist Church Virtual Event Theme: Discovery on Adventure Island Dates: Registration deadline is Wednesday, July 7 and Monday, July 12 is the starting date Ages: Any age VBS is virtual and on-line and you can access the VBS site at any time. Packs of material and craft supplies are available on a first come first serve basis and will be handed out until they are gone. There is no charge for our materials or participating in the program. You can register for VBS by contacting the Education Director at the phone number above or with email jlbpensmgumc@ gmail.com. (850) 456-7463 church.office@mgumc.org www.atthegrove.church

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Potential Church Kids Camp (VBS) 3351 Creighton Road Pensacola, 32504 Theme: Kids Camp (VBS) “Wings” Dates: June 16-18, 2021 Times: 6:00pm-8:30pm Ages: Pre K - 5th Kids Camp is an experience unlike any other! Using fun, games, craft time, & drama, they’ll learn how Christ helps them to be CONFIDENT no matter how scary or uncertain their situation. Registration online. (954) 434-1500 www.potentialchurch.com/kidscamp

St. Luke United Methodist Church 1394 East 9 Mile Road Pensacola, 32514 Theme: Rocky Railway Dates: June 21-25, 2021 Times: 9:00am - 12:00pm Ages: 4 years (by September 1st) rising 6th grade Registration: www.stluke-umc.org (850) 477-3145 www.stluke-umc.org

Upper Room Church and Pensacola Beach Community Church 655 Pensacola Beach Boulevard Pensacola, 32561 Theme: Gods Wonder Lab Dates: July 19-July 23, 2021 Times: 9:00am - 12:00pm Ages: Preschool - 3rd grade We will be diving into “Gods Wonder Lab” and learning about all the miracles He has performed!! Registration online. (850) 384-0766 leah@upperroompensacola.com www.upperroompensacola.com

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Would you like to infuse your childrens’ summer with the same magic from your childhood? Make the season stand out by doing the joyfully unexpected, whether it’s throwing a well-established rule out the window or granting one another’s fanciful wishes. Here are a few unique ways that your family can spend time together and create unforgettable memories in the process. Greater Pensacola Parents I May 2021

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Grant-a-Wish Challenge

Can your family make one another’s wishes come true? Start this project by asking older children and adults to each make a list of what they’d like to do before summer ends, no matter how small, big or crazy the wishes may be. Help younger children by providing a few ideas to get them started, and then writing down their items. Once you’ve shared the lists, ask each person to choose their top two wishes. Write one final family wish list that includes everyone’s top wishes, and then have some fun. Can your family figure out how to make them come true? You may be surprised at how many fanciful wishes you’re able to grant. If it truly is impossible, you may need to get creative and do the next best thing. Instead of climbing Mount Everest, perhaps the family can take Dad on the nearest hiking trail. Giving your preschooler a visit with a unicorn isn’t possible, but a toy unicorn is. Or perhaps there’s an equestrian center or zoo nearby, where she can see horses or other exotic animals.

Establish Traditions

Traditions can be as big as an annual trip to Disney, but it’s often the simple

activities that stick with us. Memorable Summer Activities Seemingly small treats and pleaStar Show: Find as many constellations as you can. sures loom large With phone apps such as Skyview, you can point your phone at the sky for help identifying constellations, in memory. planets and more. Instead of cutting waterDoorstep Surprise: Turn the wildflowers they pick melon slices as into miniature bouquets placed in small $1 vases from expected, make the craft store. Supervise younger children as they a few diagonal ring neighbors’ doorbells and leave their cuts and turn surprise gifts. the melon into a canoe or other Firefly Nightlight: Let your children bring nature home carving like for a night by keeping a few caught fireflies in their those shared at rooms, in jars with air holes. They can release the www.watermelfireflies the next morning. on.org. Do this often, and your Evening Glide: Take a family walk before or after children will look dinner each evening, paying attention to any flowers, forward to seebirds or other summer sights. ing the carvings throughout the Old School: Introduce your children to one of your summer–and childhood favorites, whether it’s hosting a lemonade for many sumstand, making a fort, or another activity. mers after. As your children grow, the fruit collecting natural treasures by providing will bring to mind all of their good summer special “treasure chest” containers for memories. their finds. When you return home, spend If you’re planning to spend time at the time together turning those shells and beach, encourage your childrens’ love of driftwood into wind chimes, or use paint to

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transform rocks into toy figures. This, too, can become an annual tradition.

What Rules?

Summer vacation is a great time to shake things up and step away from the rulebook. Surprise and excite your children with fun and creative activities that break the rules. How about starting a meal with dessert first, instead of last? Imagine their glee at seeing desserts placed on their lunch plates. Or, hold a contest that requires everyone to play with their food. Make extra servings of broccoli, mashed potatoes or another side, and challenge family members to make the most creative creature from the leftovers. If bedtime is always at 7pm, take advantage of school vacation and grant special “late nights” when your family spends extra time together collecting fireflies, enjoying an outdoor fire or savoring another fun activity. Tell them in the morning that they’ll have a special night, so their excitement and anticipation builds throughout the day.

Share a Special Place

Does your family have a favorite picnic spot, or another outdoor space where you like to spend time together? If not, think

about what everyone enjoys doing, and take a drive through the region. Search for a park, bike trail, swimming nook or other place that isn’t too crowded. Once you’ve found it, bring your family and a “Fun Kit” filled with simple items, such as a Frisbee, ball, books and playing cards. Leave the phones and other electrical devices at home so that you can share downtime together, relaxing, talking and creating your own fun.

Host Your Own “Parent Trap”

Everyone enjoys a good role reversal. Instead of packing every day with plans, scatter unscheduled days throughout the summer. These are great opportunities to let your children become the “parents” and direct the day. Where do they want to go? What do they want to do? This is often a great chance to see if your summer has fallen out of balance. If your days are packed with plans, they may ask for a simple weekend at home. If they’ve spent a lot of laid-back time in the

backyard, they may ask to hop from one place to another all day. Children will relish the role of parent and some will assume it completely. How far they take it is up to you. You may wish to set limits based on your family’s needs, how far you’re willing to travel, or how long the role reversal will last. With a little thought and flexibility, your family can spend unique time together creating memories that your children will remember, and even pass on to kids of their own, someday. GPP

Colleen Wright is a freelance writer and mom of a spirited tween who inherited her love of the beach and annual traditions.

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Practical Tips for Easing Kids’ Social Media Anxiety Teens text, tweet, snap, and post like crazy. In fact, about half of teens use social media every day, and for some, this means checking Instagram, TikTok, or Snapchat dozens (or hundreds!) of times a day. While many teens find connecting with friends online a positive experience, social media can affect kids’ mental health -- especially tween girls. The tricky part for parents is identifying the tipping point between a healthy relationship to social media and its negative effects. You can do this by understanding how your kid uses various platforms, helping them learn to recognize their own limits, and supporting them in finding a healthy balance of online and offline socializing. Though fear of missing out (FOMO) is a classic sign of social media distress, it’s hard to know what’s natural teen angst and what’s cause for concern. Many parents have observed their previously outgoing teen grow increasingly withdrawn as they become more immersed in social media. But research into a potential link between increased smartphone and social media use and teen mental health diagnoses has yet to pinpoint a direct cause. Still, the correlation is strong enough to suggest parents approach social media with care, especially if your kids are in a high-risk group. Simply being aware of what your kids are doing, what kinds of experiences they’re having, and how they feel about their interactions can go a long way toward protecting your kid. If you see your kids struggling -- maybe they’re always stressed out after being on the phone or

they’re staying up too late texting -- step in. Here’s what you can do:

Listen. It can be easy to dismiss social

media stress as superficial, but for many tweens and teens, social media is social life.

Don’t judge. Snapchat seems a little dumb, doesn’t it? But for tweens and teens, connecting with their peers is a normal part of child development. For you, it meant hours on the phone. For them, it means lots and lots of rainbow vomit. Accept that this is important to them. Encourage their

offline lives. FOMO can chip away at kids’ self-esteem, but the best defense is a strong sense of what makes kids unique, worthy, and valuable. Help kids participate in sports, clubs, drama, volunteer work, or even online hobbies to help them weather the ups and downs of social media anxiety. Set limits. Listening and validating are

important, but parents also need to set some basic limits around when and where the phone or computer can be used. Start with turning phones off an hour before bedtime and storing them in your room to help kids resist the temptation to stay up late texting. You can suggest they tell their friends they’ll be signing off at a specific time, so they won’t be expecting a response.

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their own memes, choreograph their own dances, or design their own games. Encouraging kids to use the creative side of social media tools can shift their focus to a sense of accomplishment.

Use social media settings. All apps

have settings to help you keep a lower profile. You can turn off your status so friends don’t know that you’re online, mute people to disengage for a while, and go into “ghost mode” so your friends can’t find you. Some apps even have features that limit your time or remind you to take a break. Using these settings lets you take some control over your use, which can help relieve anxiety.

Ask open-ended questions. You don’t need to solve their problems for them. But you can help them think about what is and isn’t working for them. Here are some questions to try: • Are there any habits you might want to change? (Such as not checking your phone before bed.) • What would happen if you turned off your phone? For an hour? A day? • Have you thought about rewarding yourself for not checking your phone or social media for a certain amount of time? (Make a game of it!) • What are the pros and cons of using Instagram and other social-networking apps? • What would happen if you unfollowed or unfriended someone who was making you feel bad on social media? • Do you notice that you have better or worse reactions to posts or messages depending on how you feel that day? The Child Mind Institute contributed to this article. Learn more at childmind.org.

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Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Digital Rentals, and DVDs Arlo the Alligator Boy

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Abandoned as a baby, half-human, half-alligator Arlo has spent his life living in a swamp with his adoptive mom. Now in his teens, Arlo learns that his father lives in New York City. Determined to meet him, Arlo sets off for the big city. On his journey, he meets new friends and learn some life lessons. This is a weird film but with its charming animation, memorable soundtrack, and strong emphasis on accepting people for who they are, it’s a good film for young viewers. Photo ©Netflix

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ing unrealistic beliefs about marriage, low commitment levels, and difficulties working as a team. Of particular note, negative communication styles, poor communication skills for handling disagreements, and attitude differences regarding important issues can also be overcome.

Couples split up for numerous different reasons, ranging from lack of common interests and significant life changes to money issues, cheating, and sex. But one of the top reasons couples don’t survive that’s commonly cited by therapists is communication problems. So it’s essential couples understand the role communication styles play in marital discord. Throughout their relationship, many couples alienate each other as they try to communicate their needs. As misunderstandings escalate, even minor issues can turn into major ordeals. The reason for these serious disputes usually has more to do with the way couples communicate than what they are trying to say. Fortunately, some factors can be changed if couples put forth the effort, explain Stanley and Howard Markman, coauthors of Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love. These include improvGreater Pensacola Parents I May 2021

Communication Styles There are five communication styles, according to Ronald B. Adler and George Rodman in Understanding Human Communication. Many of these patterns are devastating to relationships. Nonassertive communicators tend not to express their thoughts or feelings when conflict arises. They avoid issues or accommodate their partner instead. While nonassertiveness can be used to protect oneself from more harm or embarrassment, this style is often the result of low self-esteem. Alternatively, it may be an inability to communicate one’s own needs. 30

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Two more styles of ineffective communication are direct and passive aggression. A person who uses direct aggression attacks the other through criticism and name-calling. Passive aggression is harder to recognize but equally troubling. A passive-aggressive partner might agree to comply with a request but with no intent to follow through. He may also use guilt, jokes, and withholding as weapons against his spouse. The indirect approach is another style of communication. A partner may offer subtle hints rather than discussing the issue directly. Sometimes this effectively gets the point across while preventing hurt feelings or a negative response. But it also leads to misunderstandings and the opportunity for the receiver to avoid or ignore the message. Assertive communicators, according to Adler and Rodman, are the most effective because they are direct and clear about their feelings. They don’t try to control or hurt the other person. Assertive partners may not look forward to some discussions. But they’re able to handle these in a manner that ends positively and leaves couples feeling good about each other. If you see yourself or your partner in any of the first four styles, you’ve probably experienced many of the problems these styles often create. Quarreling, escaping, and resentment often result. If these problems become too frequent, they can ultimately destroy your relationship.

only do couples learn to communicate more effectively, but they may also develop deeper bonds and intimacy. This can have a lasting effect on your relationship. This technique sometimes referred to as Intentional Dialogue, is used in Imago Relationship Therapy. Through this technique, couples learn how to talk to their partner, share feelings, and really hear and understand each other. Also referred to as Couple’s Dialogue, it uses a speakerlistener approach and consists of four steps. Imago Therapist Eleanor Payson A.C.S.W. shares this process in her handout, Making the IMAGO Conscious. But before getting started, there are essential “ground rules” couples must follow. First, explains Payson, the person who needs to have a discussion must initiate it by making a request for a specific time. Couples often jump into important discussions without making sure it’s convenient for their partner. If the time requested isn’t convenient, your partner should schedule a time better suited to both of you. The discussion should be held within twenty-four hours. Also, when making your request for a dialogue, don’t disclose the details. Tell your partner only the topic to avoid undue worry. When the scheduled time arrives, the person making the request is responsible for reminding the other. During your dialogue, stick to the topic, and if other issues arise, save them for later. Finally, your dialog should consist of four steps: mirroring, summarizing, validating, and empathizing. After you complete these steps, switch roles so that each of you has the opportunity to share your thoughts and feelings.

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Changing old patterns isn’t easy and requires work. But learning to communicate with your partner effectively can be achieved. One method of communication therapists teach clients can make arguing, yelling, and avoidance a thing of the past. Not

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To begin your dialogue, sit close and facing each other. The first speaker is the person who requested the dialog. During the four-step process, as explained by Payson, the receiver should not interrupt, except to check his understanding of his partner. Furthermore, he should not discuss his feelings, perspective, or anything else until the roles are switched. The first step is to mirror. After the sender describes her concern, the receiver will mirror what his partner said and then ask if he understood correctly. If he has, he then asks if there’s more. This exchange continues until the speaker has finished. Next, the receiver summarizes his partner’s discussion and what he believes she’s trying to say. He should then ask if he got it all. If not, the mirroring process continues until he has received all of the important details. Now the receiver needs to validate his partner by explaining that he understands her feelings and why. If the receiving partner does not yet understand his spouse’s feelings, the mirroring process continues. Once the mirroring spouse understands his partner’s feelings, it is time to empathize. This means to be able to experience the thoughts and feelings of his partner. Empathy is vital to any relationship as it “allows both partners to transcend, perhaps for a moment, their separateness and to experience a genuine ‘meeting,’” says Payson. “Such an experience has remarkable healing power.” Therefore, during this step, your partner should indicate he empathizes with your specific feelings. Finally, switch roles and begin the process again.

If communication problems are impairing your relationship, don’t wait for irreparable damage. Other effective speaker-listener techniques are available, as well. In Fighting for Your Marriage, Markman, Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg teach similar communication skills through the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program (PREP) approach. Look for other good books as well. Keep in mind that for some couples, therapy may be required. In her recent book, The Wizard of Oz and other Narcissists, Payson describes the narcissistic personality. Individuals with this disorder may not be capable of empathy, a vital element of these recommended forms of communication. If this may be a problem in your relationship, or for other reasons you and your partner can’t work through this process on your own, look for an Imago or similar type therapist. Finally, remember, as Markman, Stanley, and Blumberg point out, “Good marriages take work. Contrary to popular belief, it’s not how much you love each other that can best predict the future of your relationship, but how conflicts and disagreements are handled.” So learn these techniques early in your relationship, or before misunderstandings escalate—and you’ll dramatically increase your chance for a successful, long-lasting relationship. GPP Kimberly Blaker is a freelance lifestyle writer. She’s also founder and director of KB Creative Digital Services, an internet marketing agency, at kbcreativedigital.com.

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Shark School at the Navarre Beach Sea Turtle Conservation Center 10-11:30 a.m. 8740 Gulf Blvd. Navarre Beach. Explore local Gulf Coast sharks, shark biology and shark conservation. Each program accommodates up to 10 “enrolled students” and a guest/parent or guardian. For more info and to register, visit https://navarrebeachseaturtles.org/ or call (850) 684-3347. Natural Healing/Cancer Study 2-4 p.m. Ever’man Educational Center, 315 W. Garden Street, Pensacola. FREE. A group that studies the illness of cancer. Presentations are done through DVDs or by live speakers who share personal insights and experiences. Call (850) 433-5353 ext. 10 or visit http://everman.org/. 200 South Outdoor Market 3-8 p.m. 200 South Palafox Place, Pensacola. Every month we will have local creatives featuring their newest creations, including: macrame, homemade baked goods, pet treats and accessories, jewelry, vintage clothing for men and women, art, photography, girls’ clothing and accessories, woodworking, coffee and natural body products. For more info, find us on Facebook.

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Wednesday, April 28

Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled to take to the skies at 10:30. For details, see April 27 listing.

Friday, April 30

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. While candidly disclosing hilarious and touching stories from their home lives, an eclectic group of six mid-pubescents spell their way through a series of words, hoping never to make a spelling mistake. Directed by Jay Bixler with music direction by Tina Buran. For tickets or more info, call (850) 432-2042 or visit www.pensacolalittletheatre.com/. *This show contains language and themes which are intended for mature audiences only.* Mike Epps in Real Life Comedy Tour 7:30 and 11 p.m. Pensacola Bay Center. Actor and comedian Mike Epps will be joined on stage with some of comedy’s most talented and sought-after entertainers, including Lavell Crawford, Karlous Miller and Kountry Wayne. Tickets on sale at the Pensacola Bay Center Box Office and Ticketmaster.com. For more info, visit www. pensacolabaycenter.com/ or call (850) 432-0800. Pensacola Crawfish Festival 3-10:30 p.m. Seville Square and Fountain Park. Our festival features thousands

Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled to take to the skies at 10:30. Masking and socialdistancing requirements will be in effect on the flight line. The museum and these practices are open to DoD ID card holders and their guests who can access NAS Pensacola. For more info, visit www.navalaviationmuseum.org/blueangels/.

of pounds of boiled crawfish, fresh from Louisiana, brought to you by Pensacola locals, Cordova Crawfish Company. Cajun fare features include: boudin, jambalaya, etouffee, fresh and fried seafood, gumbo, and more. Also live entertainment. Adults: $5 per day; ages 6-12: $2 per day; and ages 5 and under: free. For more info, call (850) 433-6512 or visit https://www.fiestapensacola.org/crawfish-festival. Pensacola Opera Presents Heartbreak High 7 p.m. Pensacola Opera Center, 75 South Tarragona St., Pensacola. Heartbreak High is a brand-new concept for a classic Donizetti opera. Led by stage director Corey McKern, the characters and story are transported into a 1950s-era high school—poodle skirts, leather jackets and all. This 90-minute production will be sung in Italian with English dialogue. Limited capacity performances will be held, with audience members required to wear masks throughout the performance. For more info, find us on Facebook.

Saturday, May 1

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Crawfish Festival Noon-10 p.m. Seville Square and Fountain Park. For details, see April 30 listing. Rosamond Johnson Beach Day Ceremony 10 a.m.-noon under the Star Pavilion on Johnson Beach, which is part of the Gulf Islands National Seashore. Johnson was the first Escambia County resident to die in the Korean War. He posthumously received the Purple Heart on August 21, 1950. For more info on this celebratory day, visit Perdidochamber.com.

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FamilyCalendar Evening of Stargazing at Big Lagoon State Park 6-11 p.m. 12301 Gulf Beach Highway, Pensacola. Event is free with paid park entry: $6 vehicle with up to 8 people, $4 single-occupant vehicle. Clear skies permitting, telescopes will be set up to project views of the moon, planets and other celestial objects onto screens. Visitors are asked to park in the top paved lot to avoid driving through and lighting up the viewing area when leaving. Call (850) 492-1595 to verify when the front gates will be locked. 12th Annual Navarre Sunset Stampede 5K 5:30 p.m. kids’ fun run; 6:30 p.m. race. This is a fast and flat, certified out and back course along beautiful White Sands Boulevard. Legendary awards ceremony and beach party at Juana’s Pagodas with live music, food and drinks right on the sand of beautiful Santa Rosa Sound. Registration is limited so SIGN UP EARLY at https://navarresunsetstampede.itsyourrace.com/. 200 South Small Business Saturday All day the first Saturday of each month. 200 South Palafox Pl., Pensacola. Bring in a receipt from a purchase made from another downtown business and receive 10% off your bill at 200 South. This is redeemable at Graffiti Pizza, World of Beer, Taco Agave and Blend Lounge. Must be a receipt dated that specific Saturday and can only be redeemed that same day. *Limit one discount total. For more info, find us on Facebook. Burger Battle by the Bay 2021 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Community Maritime Park. If you purchased tickets for Burger Battle 2020 - they are still good for 2021. Attendees get to taste numerous samples of grilled burgers made by

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both professional and amateur cook teams and vote for their favorite! Proceeds benefit Take Stock in Children - Escambia County and the other community service projects of the Pensacola SubWest Rotary Foundation. Tickets are $15 in advance, $20 at gate. For more info, find us on Facebook.

Thursday, May 6

Pensacola Opera Presents Heartbreak High 7 p.m. Pensacola Opera, 75 South Tarragona St., Pensacola. For details, see April 30 listing.

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing.

Sunday, May 2

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 3 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Crawfish Festival 12:30-5 p.m. Seville Square and Fountain Park. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Opera Presents Heartbreak High 3 & 7 p.m. Pensacola Opera, 75 South Tarragona St., Pensacola. For details, see April 30 listing.

Tuesday, May 4

Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled to take to the skies at 10:30. For details, see April 27 listing.

Wednesday, May 5

Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled to take to the skies at 10:30. For details, see April 27 listing.

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Pensacola Children’s Chorus Performs Showtime 7:30 p.m. Saenger Theatre. Showtime is a Broadwaystyle extravaganza featuring music from nearly every genre, ranging from classical to contemporary, pop to musical theatre, and so much more. For tickets or more info, visit www.pensacolasaenger.com/events/showtime or call (850) 434-7760. Live streaming available for Friday & Sunday!

Saturday, May 8

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Children’s Chorus Performs Showtime 7:30 p.m. Saenger Theatre. For details, see May 7 listing.

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Sunday, May 9

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 3 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Children’s Chorus Performs Showtime 2:30 p.m. Saenger Theatre. For details, see May 7 listing. Pensacola Symphony Orchestra in the Park 3 p.m. Museum Plaza, 120 Church Street. Pack a lawn chair or a blanket, and join us for a free outdoor performance! This event will feature a small ensemble of PSO musicians and will be a wonderful way to experience live music in an outdoor setting. For more info, call (850) 435-2533 or visit www.pensacolasymphony.com/.

Tuesday, May 11

Rain: A Tribute to the Beatles 7:30 p.m. Pensacola Saenger Theatre. In celebration

of the anniversary of Abbey Road, RAIN will bring the greatest hits of this epic recording to life, in addition to all your early Beatles favorites. This performance is “the next best thing to seeing the Beatles.” For tickets or more info, visit www.pensacolasaenger.com/ or call (850) 595-3880.

to take to the skies at 10:30. For details, see April 27 listing.

Thursday, May 13

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing.

Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled to take to the skies at 10:30. See April 27 listing. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team First Home Game of the 2021 Season 6:35 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Birmingham Barons. Every Tuesday home game will be a Taste of Pensacola Tuesday in 2021, adding a local flair to the team’s popular Fat Tuesday promotion. For just $24, fans will receive a ticket to the Winn-Dixie Party Deck, a ballpark buffet dinner featuring samples from local Pensacola restaurants, unlimited water and soda, and an exclusive Blue Wahoos hat. For info, visit https:// www.milb.com/pensacola/schedule/.

Wednesday, May 12

PenArts Presents I and You 4 p.m. Gordon Community Art Center, 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. Lauren Gunderson’s I and You is a play that will appeal to middle schoolers and up. Tickets for this fast-paced and powerful play, with its surprise ending, are available at Eventbrite.com. Tickets are $2 for 21 and under, $5 for over 21. For more info, call (850) 857-8961 or visit https://downtownpensacola.com/. Blue Angels Practices Gates open at 9:30 a.m. and the Blues are scheduled

PenArts Presents I and You 4 p.m. Gordon Community Art Center, 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. For details, see May 12 listing. Open Mic at The Gordon 7-10 p.m. 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. Free, no admission charged. Come join in as a performer or audience participant! Performers can sign up for a time slot when they arrive. Come be inspired by the creativity and talent of our local artists in a safe environment! For more info, call (850) 857-8961 or visit https://downtownpensacola. com/.

Friday, May 14

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Giveaway Friday 6:35 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Birmingham Barons. Each Friday home game, the first 2,000 fans

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FamilyCalendar through the gates will receive an exclusive giveaway item. For more info, visit https://www.milb.com/ pensacola/schedule/. PenArts Presents I and You 4 p.m. Gordon Community Art Center, 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. For details, see May 12 listing. Flicks on the Field: Max 8 p.m. Pensacola Greyhound Track, 951 Dog Track Road. The FREE family-friendly drive-in movie will start at dusk on the Wind Creek Casino outdoor movie screen. Enjoy the movie from the comfort of your vehicle, or bring lawn chairs or a blanket to watch while safely socially distancing. Concessions will be available. For more info, call (850) 492-4660 or visit https://business.perdidochamber.com/.

Saturday, May 15

Ever’man Cooks! Debby’s Kitchen 11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Monthly on the third Saturday. Ever’man Educational Center, 315 W. Garden Street, Pensacola. This class is for the novice cook at any age. It will be educational, fun & offer basic knife & sauce skills. Cost: $5. For more info, call (850) 4335353 ext. 10 or visit http://everman.org/. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Fireworks Saturday 6:05 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs.

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Birmingham Barons. Each Saturday home game will once again feature a post-game fireworks spectacular over Pensacola Bay! For more info, visit https://www. milb.com/pensacola/schedule/.

celebrates America’s unique musical art form with a stunning lineup of top talent, from local jazz standouts to world-renowned acts. For more info, call (850) 4338382 or visit https://jazzpensacola.com/.

PenArts Presents I and You 7:30 p.m. Gordon Community Art Center, 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. For details, see May 12 listing.

Sunday, May 16

Pensacola Symphony Presents Mendelssohn, Symphony No. 3, “Scottish” 1:30 & 7:30 p.m. Saenger Theatre. The moldering ruins of the chapel at Holyrood Palace, where Mary, Queen of Scots lived and loved, were the inspiration for Mendelssohn’s “Scottish” Symphony. For info, call (850) 435-2533 or www.pensacolasymphony.com/. Gulf Coast Kid’s House East Hill Yard Sale 8AM to noon in the GCKH parking lot, 3401 North 12th Avenue. This event is free to the public, and parking will be located across the street at Rev. H. K. Park. There will be over 40 vendors selling their wares, and we are recruiting for vendors. To sign up as a vendor there is a $25.00 fee, and each vendor will receive one parking space in our parking lot with one empty space placed between vendors to ensure social distancing. Learn more by visiting www.gulfcoastkidshouse.org or by calling 850-595-5800. Evening of Stargazing at Big Lagoon State Park 6-11 p.m. 12301 Gulf Beach Highway, Pensacola. For details, see May 1 listing. Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 7:30 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola JazzFest 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Seville Square Park. This free festival

Pensacola Little Theatre Presents The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee 3 p.m. For details, see April 30 listing. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Military Family Sunday 4 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Birmingham Barons. Each Sunday, active or retired military members will receive a discount at the box office with valid I.D. and military families will be honored and recognized each week. Post-game kids run the bases and family toss in the outfield will also return. For more info, visit https://www.milb.com/pensacola/schedule/. Pensacola JazzFest 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Seville Square Park. For details, see May 15 listing. PenArts Presents I and You 2:30 p.m. Gordon Community Art Center, 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. For details, see May 12 listing.

Monday, May 17

Pensacola Futures Tennis Championships Through May 23. Roger Scott Tennis Center, 2130 Summit Blvd. This USTA Pro-Circuit event features a wild card tournament, a qualifying tournament, and a main draw tournament. More than 100 world-ranked players from 20 nations will compete for $25,000 in prize money and world ranking points. The entire event is free for

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Tuesday, May 18

Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Giveaway Friday 6:35 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Rocket City Trash Pandas. For details, see May 14 listing.

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University of Florida IFAS Extension Science Hour Noon-1 p.m. via Facebook Live. The University of Florida IFAS Extension Escambia County is the liaison between research conducted by scientists at the University of Florida and our local community. This month, Mark Nicklaus will discuss Sea Turtles—what do you do when you see them? Visit https://www. facebook.com/escambia.extension to watch the presentation. For more info about Science Hour, contact Carrie at (850) 475-5230 or ctsteven@ufl.edu.

Friday, May 21

The Gulf Breeze Chapter of Powerful Women of the Gulf Coast Monthly Meeting 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Meets the 3rd Friday of every month at Beef O’Brady’s, 344 Gulf Breeze Parkway in Gulf Breeze. Program includes education segments and presentations by local business women. Lunch

Pensacon 2021 1 p.m. Pensacola Bay Center and other local venues. Pensacon is an allinclusive event that encompasses many genres of the fan community. Expect sci-fi, fantasy, horror, comics, anime, gaming and much more! For more info, visit www.pensacon.com.

Saturday, May 22

Shark School at the Navarre Beach Sea Turtle Conservation Center 10-11:30 a.m. 8740 Gulf Blvd. Navarre Beach. For details, see April 24 listing. Natural Healing/Cancer Study 2-4 p.m. Ever’man Educational Center, 315 W. Garden Street, Pensacola. For details, see April 24 listing. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Fireworks Saturday 6:05 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Rocket City Trash Pandas. For details, see May 15 listing.

Pensacon 2021 10 a.m. Pensacola Bay Center and other local venues. For details, see May 21 listing. 200 South Outdoor Market 3-8 p.m. 200 South Palafox Place, Pensacola. For details, see April 24 listing. Gulf Coast Culture Fest 2021 8 a.m.-10 p.m. Seville Square, 311 E Government St., Pensacola. Event brings together Gulf Coast artists, businesses, vendors and citizens for a day of music, dance, poetry, theater and visual art! Admission is free. A communitywide film festival will take place at night in Bartram Park. For more info, call (850) 4177611 or e-mail forc3studiosllc@gmail.com. A Spring Celebration at The Gordon 7 p.m. 306 N DeVilliers St., Pensacola. Join our young dancers as they present a dance and our young actors as they present a short play. These youth will be joined by guest singers and musicians. Afterwards, we’ll be holding a “dessert bar.” Tickets are $2 each. For more info, call (850) 857-8961 or visit https://downtownpensacola.com/.

Sunday, May 23

Pensacon 2021 10 a.m. Pensacola Bay Center and other local venues. For details, see May 21 listing. Pensacola Blue Wahoos Minor League Baseball Team Military Family Sunday 4 p.m. Blue Wahoos Stadium. Vs. Rocket City Trash Pandas. For details, see May 16 listing.

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White Tie Rock Ensemble Presents: Yacht Rock at the Fairgrounds 8-10:30 p.m. Pensacola Interstate Fairgrounds, 6655 Mobile Highway, Pensacola. Come celebrate the sounds of summer with the White Tie Rock Ensemble as they present a tribute to: Hall and Oates, Steely Dan, The Doobie Brothers and TOTO along with hits from Christopher Cross, ACE, Player, Rupert Holmes, Kenny Loggins, Boz Scaggs, Pablo Cruise and more! For more info, visit https://www.visitpensacola.com/. Fireworks and Movie Night at Blue Wahoos Stadium: The Secret Life of Pets 2 6 p.m. gates open; 7 p.m. movie starts. $5 admission. Dogs are welcome. Following the movie, the Blue Wahoos will light up the Pensacola Bay sky with a fireworks show. A 20-minute intermission will precede the fireworks show, allowing dog owners whose animals may be spooked by the fireworks to exit the stadium. For the safety of all guests, all dogs must be on a leash for the entirety of the show. For more info, visit bluewahoos.com.

Saturday, May 29

Trash Bash with the Navarre Beach Sea Turtle Conservation Center 8-10 a.m. Held the last Saturday of each month. Meet in the main Navarre Beach Parking Lot near the Sand Crab Pavilion. Graffiti Bridge 5K Run/Walk 6:15-7 a.m. check-in at 17th Ave. (Race start line). Race will start at 7:30. Iconic collectors’ medals will be handed out to every finisher. We will close down the street two hours prior to the race start for you to have

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access to the world-famous Graffiti Bridge. Unless a train comes you’ll have uninterrupted access to “tag” the bridge. Call (850) 435-9222 or visit https://runpensacola.com/. Pensacola Grand Carnival Parade 2-6 p.m. Palafox and Garden Streets in historic downtown Pensacola. For more info, visit https://pensacolamardigras.com/. Southern Blues Show: Memorial Weekend Celebration 8 p.m. Sanders Beach-Corinne Jones Resource Center, 913 South I Street. Artists include Nikki Demarks, Lebrado, Will Easley and Simone De. Cash bar and food available. $25 advance tickets/ $40 at the door. For more info, visit https://www.visitpensacola.com/.

Sunday, May 30

The Allman Betts Band Live in Concert 8 p.m. Pensacola Saenger Theatre. The Allman Betts Band includes Devon Allman & Duane Betts on guitars and vocals, and in addition to new music, the show includes classic songs by The Allman Brothers Band, the legendary group founded by Devon and Duane’s fathers, Gregg Allman & Dickey Betts. For tickets or more info, visit www.pensacolasaenger.com/ or call (850) 595-3880.

Wednesday, June 2

Emmanuel Sheppard & Condon Fiesta Days Celebration 7:15 p.m. Seville Quarter. Join the Surrender of the City in Phineas Phoggs as local dignitaries such as the mayor, fire chief, supervisor of elections, Escambia

County sheriff and Pensacola Naval Air Station commanding officer surrender the City of Pensacola and its citizens to DeLuna and his Queen for the Fiesta Season. For more info, visit https://www.fiestapensacola.org/.

Thursday, June 3

Tunes by the Dunes 2021 7 p.m. 8649 Gulf Blvd., Navarre. The Navarre Beach Area Chamber of Commerce hosts this annual free summer concert series every Thursday evening June 3-August 12. Enjoy a relaxing evening at the Sand Crab Pavilion for live local music and local food vendors. Spectators are encouraged to bring their own beach blankets and lawn chairs. For more info, call (850) 939-3267 or visit www.navarrechamber.com/tunes-by-the-dunes for band schedule.

Friday, June 4

Grand Fiesta Parade 7 p.m. Come catch some beads, hear the sounds of local high school marching bands, and enjoy watching beautiful floats parade through downtown. In addition to the dozens of local krewes parading, special appearances will be made by a masked DeLuna LXXI, his queen and their court. For more info, visit https:// www.fiestapensacola.org/.

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200 South Small Business Saturday All day the first Saturday of each month. 200 South Palafox Pl., Pensacola. For details, see May 1 listing. Fiesta Boat Parade 4 p.m. Join us as DeLuna’s court, crew and parade of vessels set sail on the beautiful Pensacola Bay. To watch the colorful cruise from land, the best views will be from Sanders Beach-Corinne Jones Resource Center or Plaza de Luna in downtown Pensacola. For more info, visit https://www.fiestapensacola.org/.

Every Tuesday This Month

Story Sprouts Outdoor Fun 10-11 a.m. Ever’man Educational Center, 327 W. Garden Street, Pensacola. Children ages 3-5 are invited to do arts & crafts, make a snack and have story time. The classes are creative and have an organic, environmental and local twist. Free. Call (850) 433-5353 ext. 10 or visit http://everman.org/. Funky Yoga Flow 6-7 p.m. Ever’man Educational Center, 327 W. Garden Street, Pensacola. Free. Funky Flow is a creative hour with fun postures and music, combining yin and yang postures. Please wear comfortable clothing. All you need is yourself, a mat if you have one and an open mind. Call (850) 433-5353 ext. 10 or visit http://everman.org/. Bands on the Beach Outdoor Concert Series 7 p.m. every Tuesday through October. Located in

the Gulfside Pavilion overlooking the Gulf of Mexico, the series features regional artists performing a wide variety of music. Spectators are encouraged to bring lawn chairs or blankets to the pavilion area. No pets allowed and glass is prohibited. Concerts provided and organized by the Santa Rosa Island Authority. For more info and schedule, visit https:// visitpensacolabeach.com/whats-happening-bandson-beach/ or call (850) 932-2257. Tuesday Jazz Jam 7:30 p.m. Seville Quarter, 130 East Government Street. Featuring various jazz vocalists and musicians weekly. The jazz concert will start in the Lili Marlene room. For more info, call (850) 434-6211 or visit www.sevillequarter.com/.

Every Friday During the Month of May

Bands on the Blackwater Spring Series 7-9 p.m. Friday nights. 5158 Willings St., Milton. Free outdoor spring and fall concert series held in downtown Milton. Pull up your boat or bring a lawn chair and relax while listening to some great music! For more info, visit www.facebook.com/BandsOnTheBlackwater or call (850) 983-5400.

Every Saturday During the Month of May

Palafox Market 9 a.m.-2 p.m.; Martin Luther King, Jr. Plaza. Fresh produce, live plants, baked goods, fine art, and antiques are just a few of the items offered by vendors at Palafox Market in Downtown Pensacola. Items originate directly from onsite vendors who grow, make, or create the fruits, vegetables, herbs and art for sale. For more info, call (850) 434-5371 or visit www.palafoxmarket.com. Santa Rosa Farmers Market 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Berryhill Road next to Locklin Technical School and Friendship Baptist Church. Providing local goods, including seasonal produce, eggs, chicken, jams, jellies, home-baked treats, fresh breads, honey, pickles and local arts and craft items. For more info, call (850) 398-2558 or find us on Facebook.

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