Auburn-Opelika Parents September 2014

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Publisher’s Note Kendra Sumner

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Living With Children John Rosemond

Help for Your Child on the Spectrum

Beating the Mommy Blues

Discover five ways to recharge your spirit.

Social development and life skills for the autistic child.

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Kids Health Watch sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

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A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

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Dave Says Dave Ramsey

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Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

2014 Special Needs Resource Guide

Adapted Toys for Kids with Disabilities

Local and national resources Easy and inexpensive ways to assist you in caring for your child. adapt toys for a variety of play.

On The Cover Jamie Claire (7) and Jamison (5) Lazenby are the children of Mitch and Dawn Lazenby of Auburn. They attend Beauregard Elementary where Jamie Claire is in first grade and Jamison is in kindergarten. Both enjoy horseback riding and playing with their little brother, Jonah. Both girls love going to A.L.L. for Children in Auburn where Jamie Claire receives therapy for Dyslexia and an Auditory Processing Disorder. Jamison has ADHD and a Phonological Memory Disability and is also receiving therapy. Their favorite thing is learning that they can do anything.

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Get This! Gerry Paige Smith

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Parenting on the Plains Polly Dunn, Ph.D.

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Bits and Pieces 11

School Bits 40

Family Calendar 44

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Publisher’sNote What do you think of when you hear ‘life skills’? It is a term often used to describe all that one does to manage and cope with daily interactions within home, work and school environments. Skills that are gained will help with daily problem-solving, planning, time management, individual growth and interactions with others. In more simple terms, it is the ability to start your day by getting dressed, planning your daily schedule, communicating with others at school or work, and using your personal resources and knowledge to get tasks accomplished. Depending on one’s age, the life skill can be as simple as brushing your own teeth to as complex as managing your family’s financial accounts and paying bills. These are skills we are taught, practice, and hopefully, accomplish toward success that will help in our overall development. For the average person, these tasks are processed and learned differently than for those with a special need. For a child with a disability, it may take more time and teaching within an environment that fosters patience, developmental learning and structure. This month’s feature article, Social Development and Life Skills for a Child on the Spectrum, by Varina Mead of Easter Seals Central Alabama, sheds some light on and gives examples of how to help teach some of these daily skills. For example, establishing a routine in your home will give an atmosphere where a child will know what to expect next in their day. Having their clothing prepared and laid out will give a sense of routine to getting themselves dressed each morning and can lead to an overall sense of accomplishment. Being able to get dressed and ready to leave the house is an invaluable life skill. Also, within the daily routines, the author suggests making use of teachable moments, such as in the same getting dressed skill, teaching your child how to pick out those clothing pieces, matching them together, placing socks and shoes side-by-side and hanging up and putting away any items that will not be used that day. Social development is another area of learning that can be more difficult for a child with a special need. Being able to communicate and interact with others is key to the overall success of learning life skills. To help foster social development, included this month are some great local and regional resources that will not only help with questions and concerns you may have regarding a particular special need, but will also connect you with others in the community. In our Special Needs Resource Guide you will find that we have included camps, therapeutic programs and recreational groups where many social developmental goals are the focus. There are opportunities within the Lee County area to be part of Special Olympic teams, play groups and various support networks. Finding a fit for your family will not only encourage social interactions with peers, but provide a foundation for overall learning and support while teaching life skills. Finally, check out the calendar of events and plan to get involved! Many organizations such as March of Dimes, Lee County Autism Society and Best Buddies have upcoming events and fundraising efforts that will help raise awareness and support for our community. Or, simply volunteer your time and talents as a mentor, where together we can learn from each other and encourage growth here in the Auburn-Opelika area.

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Auburn Opelika Lee County’s Foremost Parenting Source

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant role in our community. Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Kendra Sumner kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@auburnopelikaparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Contributing Writers Polly Dunn, Ph.D. Richard Freeman, M.D. Laura Handey Varina Mead Pam Molnar Dave Ramsey John Rosemond Gerry Paige Smith Cover Photography Candy Avera www.pictureperfectbycandy.com

President Jason Watson Director of Sales Justin Sumner justin@auburnopelikaparents.com (334) 209-0552 Ad Design Tim Welch

Visit us online at www.auburnopelikaparents.com Auburn-Opelika Parents magazine is published monthly by KeepSharing, LLC. Mailing address: 1204 Owens Road Auburn, Alabama, 36830. The phone number is (334) 209-0552 and fax is (334) 826-7303. Auburn-Opelika Parents is copyrighted 2014 by KeepSharing LLC. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. Opinions expressed in Auburn-Opelika Parents magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the view of the owners, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products and services herein.

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LivingWithChildren by John Rosemond

When Parents Need to Correct Their Own Behaviors I absolutely love it when people begin to realize that the problems they’re having with a child are of their own making; when they begin to realize, in other words, that the child is not the problem—they are! All this time (however long that might be), they’ve been trying to correct the wrong person—the child—getting nowhere and becoming nothing but frustrated in the process. Instead, they need to correct themselves, and it goes without saying that correcting one’s self is much, much easier than trying to correct someone else. So, for example, when parents tell me their child will not do what he is told, I ask, “Is it possible that you aren’t really telling—that you are pleading and bribing and bargaining and cajoling and encouraging and then, when all that fails, demanding and threatening and screaming?” I point out that the simple secret to getting a child to do what he is told is to tell. It’s the difference between “You could really help Mommy out by picking up these toys” and “I want you to pick up these toys, right now.” Parents are often amazed to discover that children actually

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do what they are told (usually, that is, because there is no way to create perfection with imperfect materials). Another example involves parents who describe their kids as being argumentative. Almost always, the problem is that these parents are explaining themselves. The typical sequence goes as follows: First, a parent makes a decision or issues an instruction; second, the child demands to know the reason behind the parent’s action; third, the parent gives the reason; fourth, the child begins to protest that the reason is not valid or good enough; fifth, the parent begins to justify and defend the reason, and the argument is on! The simple solution, therefore, to the problem of the so-called “argumentative child” is for the parent to stop giving long-winded explanations and to instead begin using the most powerful four words in parenting: Because I said so. A mom recently shared her story of the liberation those four very “incorrect” words can bring. She writes: “Our oldest has always been our so-called difficult child, but I’ve just recently realized that

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the difficulties in question are the result of mistakes I’ve been making. As a consequence, I’ve been working hard to correct myself. I’m writing to let you know that it’s already paying off! Last night, for example, my son asked if he could play games on the computer. This has been a problem for us because although we don’t like him playing these games, we’ve allowed him to do so in order to avoid tantrums. Last night, though, I simply said, “No, you can’t.” He asked why, and I said, “Because I said so,” in the matter-of-fact way you recommend. He turned around and skipped out of the room! My husband and I just looked at each other, mouths agape. In the past, there would have been an argument and probably a huge blow-up.” These simple solutions benefit parents, for sure, but they also benefit children. Studies have discovered what common sense will affirm: Obedient children are much, much happier than disobedient children. Put even more concisely: Arguing is no fun for anyone. Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions on his website at www.rosemond.com.

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Auburn Parks and Recreation’s End of Summer Luau

Join Auburn Parks and Recreation Friday, Aug. 22 for the End of Summer Luau from 6 - 8 p.m. at Samford Pool. This Hawaiian-themed event will help make saying “so long” to summer just a little easier. Attendees are encouraged to wear their favorite Hawaiian attire and join in the hula contest. Admission is $2/person or FREE with a 2014 Splash Pass. Pictured, Andrea Mendez (L) and Alex Desantos (R) enjoy an evening of swimming and games at Auburn’s Friday Night Splash at Samford Pool on Friday, July 25.

Opelika High School Theatre Presents…

Opelika High Theatre Society presents "You're A Good Man, Charlie Brown" September 11, 13, 14, 16, 17 and 18 at the Opelika Center for the Performing Arts, 1700 LaFayette Parkway, Opelika. Admission is $5 for students and $7 for adults at the door. For more information, please call 334-745-9715.

Johnny Ray Century for Parkinson's Disease

Sponsored by East Alabama Cycling Club; September 27, 7 a.m. – 4 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. A USAC sanctioned non-competitive event. Registration opens 7:00 a.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church. Ride starts 8:00 a.m. CDT. 20 miles - Cusseta Commuter 34 miles - Twin Silos Shuttle 63 miles LaFayette Short Line 105 miles - Johnny Ray Century Helmets are required on all four ride options. No refunds: Ride goes rain or shine. 11:00 a.m. postride meal available to riders. 12:00 p.m. drawing for the Grand Door Prize!

Fall Art and Crafts Sale

Get a head start on holiday shopping with arts and crafts from the Rocky Brook Potters and Yarnhouse Fiber Artists, to be held at the Denson Drive Rec Center, Opelika on September 20, from 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Enjoy demonstrations by potters and other artists while you shop for beautiful handcrafted items made by local artists. Commission from the show will be donated to the Rocky Brook Rocket train restoration project. For more information, please call (334) 705-5558.

Friends of the Library Book Sale

Saturday, September 20, join the Friends of the Library for their fall book sale at the Dean Road Recreation Center, 8:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. The sale is open to the public, and hundreds of gently used books will be available for purchase, including bestsellers, classics, fiction, nonfiction, textbooks, and children’s books. All proceeds benefit the Auburn Public Library. If you would like more information about the book sale, or if interested in volunteering or joining the Friends of the Library, call 334-501-3190. Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

Signature Chefs Auction

The March of Dimes Signature Chefs Auction will be held on September 16 at the Auburn University Club. This culinary event will feature distinguished chefs and fine dining establishments in the East Alabama area. Enjoy a showcase of culinary masterpieces, a generous sampling of fine wines, fabulous entertainment and a lively auction featuring one-of-a-kind packages. For more information, or to attend, contact Linda Gross at (334) 513-7381 or email her at lgross@ marchofdimes.com. 6

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Auburn Beautification Council Plant Sale

The Auburn Beautification Council will host a plant sale on Saturday, September 20 from 8 a.m. - 12:00 noon at the Dean Road Recreation Center, 307 South Dean Rd. Don’t miss your chance to purchase flowers for fall planting! Plants available include pansies, violas, mums, and more. Prices range from $6 15. All proceeds from the sale go to support Auburn Beautification Council projects, including the downtown hanging baskets and plantings, Spring Azalea Trail, gardens at Kiesel Park, and beautification awards presented to Auburn homes and businesses. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Yellow Daisy Festival at Stone Mountain

Despite its growth from a small arts & crafts show to the four-day event that it has become today, the Yellow Daisy Festival at Stone Mountain, Georgia, continues to be a big show with a small-town feel. The mission of re-connecting families and friends with fun, shopping, live entertainment and good food has remained constant over the past forty-five years. Multi-generations of mothers, daughters and grandmothers meander the wooded trails together in search of the perfect item. More than 400 artists and crafters from 38 States and two countries display their works for your appreciation and purchase. Daily live entertainment, Children's Corner activities, and crafter demonstrations throughout the event as well as fabulous festival foods. Yellow Daisy Festival is free with paid parking admission. Vehicle entry to the park is $10 for a one day permit or $35 for an annual permit. September 4, 5, & 7: 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. September 6: 10 a.m. - 7:30 p.m.

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Best Buddies of Auburn University

Best Buddies of Auburn University is the largest chapter of Best Buddies International, an international organization that promotes one-to-one friendships between college students and buddies. Best Buddies programs engage participants in each of the 50 United States, and in 50 countries around the world. As a result of their involvement with Best Buddies, people with IDD secure rewarding jobs, live on their own, become inspirational leaders, and make lifelong friendships. Auburn's chapter is the largest in the country with more than 200 active members and 98 college buddy pairs. The chapter won the Most Outstanding Chapter Award at the Best Buddies International Leadership Conference, held in July 2013. If you would like for your teen or adult to participate in the 2013-2014 program, parents will be required to attend one of two meetings which will be held at the Dean Road Recreation Center gym on Monday, August 26 at 6 p.m. or on Tuesday, August 27 at 8 p.m. For more information, please visit Facebook and search for “Best Buddies of Auburn� or contact the President, Matthew Moore, at mdm0022@auburn.edu.

Church Serves Community on Serve Day

Church of the Highlands Serve Day is an annual event where church members across the state serve the community in different ways. This year, it is estimated that over 13,500 participated in various service projects across the state. Anna Charles Roughton and Taylor Bledsoe worked at the Salvation Army in Auburn, along with other volunteers, painting, and sorting and organizing donations.

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Autism Society of Alabama Hosts Camp ASCCA September 12-14

ASA's Fall Family Camp allows children (ages 6-21) and families living with Autism Spectrum Disorder to experience camp in a traditional setting with all the supports needed for success. Located on Lake Martin, Easter Seals Camp ASCCA provides opportunities to learn new skills; make new friends; and participate in programs such as swimming, canoeing, boating, fishing, arts & crafts, talent show, horseback riding, archery, climbing, and zip line. The Autism Society of Alabama will host 35 families for the 9th Annual Fall Camp. Scholarships will be provided for one child (age 6-21) on the autism spectrum and one parent per family. If accepted, a $25 non-refundable deposit will be required. Additional family members are welcome to attend at a cost of $110 per child (children must be at least 6 years old to attend) and $70 per parent. All children will be able to participate in the planned activities together. There should be one parent for each child in attendance. *ASA members receive priority; please make sure your membership is current. www. campascca.org.

Auburn Parks and Recreation Farewell Summer Block Party

Auburn Parks and Recreation hosted the 5th Annual Farewell Summer Block Party, sponsored by Chick-fil-A Magnolia Avenue, on Friday, Aug. 1 at Town Creek Park. Attendees enjoyed music by Jen Coates; sales tax holiday weekend goody bags for the first 150 individuals or families; inflatables, face painting, and hair streaking for the kids; food from Chickfil-A Magnolia Avenue; a dance demonstration and lesson from Celtic Traditions; and an outdoor movie featuring “The Blind Side.� Pictured, dancers from Celtic Traditions performed several dances and taught audience members a dance.

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KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

Keep Your Student Athlete Safe! Encouraging our kids to be physically active is an important part of teaching them to maintain a healthy lifestyle, but as youth sports have become more competitive and year-round sports participation has been encouraged, the rate of injury to young athletes has grown significantly. Here are a few ways to help keep your young athletes healthy: • Get a check-up. Each year every child should have a well-child check up with his/her physician. The physician will review your child’s growth and development and perform a detailed physical exam. Please make sure to discuss any previous injuries, concussions, and patient or family history of respiratory or cardiac concerns at this visit. This will help you and your physician determine which sports may be the best fit for your child. • Gradually build up stamina and strength. The ability to fully participate in vigorous physical activity does not develop spontaneously. Failure to condition prior to sports participation is one of the biggest contributors to risk of injury in young athletes. Maintaining

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cardiovascular endurance during the off season by continuing to walk or jog several days of the week will make the transition into a sport easier. Also, if your child is considering starting a new sport, encourage them to start training several weeks before the season begins. Contact the coach and ask for tips to help your child prepare. Remember to start gradually and build up slowly over time. Do not increase the duration or intensity of activity by more than 10% each week. • Warming up, stretching, and cooling down are just as important as the actual participation. Warming up allows muscles to become more limber and increases blood flow to important muscle groups. Active stretching, meaning stretching through a range of motion, will improve flexibility and limit muscle sprains/strains. Cooling down allows the muscles to begin to recover and to heal. • Stay hydrated and eat healthy foods. Processed foods, preservatives, and concentrated sugars have a negative effect on metabolism and athletic performance. Avoid artificial sweeteners and artificial ingredients. Healthy fruits and vegetables, healthy oils like coconut oil, and protein such as those from nuts or lean meats are necessary fuels for all athletes. Young athletes should drink mostly

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water during physical activity. For activities that last longer than one hour and are high intensity or occur during hot weather, I recommend four ounces of a sports drink per hour in addition to water. • Take any injury seriously. If something hurts, ask your child to stop immediately and rest. If the pain subsides, then allow him/her to restart exercise gradually. If pain recurs, do not allow your child to exercise for 48-72 hours. If pain persists after this period of rest, seek care for your child. Of course, if pain is severe or other worrisome signs occur, like swelling or bruising, then seek care right away. • REST! Maintaining glycogen stores and allowing muscles to heal and recover is critical to continued athletic improvement and performance. Kids should have at least two days a week without structured physical activity. After completing a competitive season of sports, young athletes should be allowed 2-3 months to rest before beginning a new sport or season. Dr. Rian Anglin, a board certified pediatrician, was raised nearby in Valley, AL. She attended Auburn University were she graduated summa cum laude with a BS in Molecular Biology. Despite her strong allegiance to Auburn, Dr. Anglin graduated from the University of Alabama School of Medicine in 2007 with her MD. Her passions in practice include promoting early childhood literacy, reducing toxic stress in childhood, and improving the practice of pediatric medicine through office based research. Dr. Anglin is married to her high school sweetheart, Paul. She is delighted to reside in Auburn with her husband and their two sons.

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1st Day of School for Auburn City Schools!

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Autauga County Schools Morris Avenue Intermediate Opelika High School Grand Opening Following two years of renovation and new construction, Opelika School Fitness Trail High School celebrated the grand opening on August 10, 2014 with a

ribbon cutting and community open house. Over 400 people attended the event and toured OHS. Joining OHS Principal Dr. Farrell Seymore, Superintendent Dr. Mark Neighbors and Mayor Gary Fuller were members of the OCS Board of Education, members of the Opelika City Council, representatives from Robins and Morton Construction and many other community leaders.

Morris Avenue Intermediate has teamed up with Dr. Sean Forbes from Auburn University to increase students’ minds and health by building a Fruit Fitness Trail. The trail is a little over a mile long and is composed of different fitness stations ranging from sit ups, to a vertical jump test, and even a cargo net climb. Each station is paired up with a fruit that is planted next to the station equipment. As the students go through the trail, they will learn the biology and composition of the actual fruit, the positive impact that the fruit can have on their daily nutrition, and then finally how that nutrition can elevate their fitness while doing different activities. By engaging both the students’ minds and bodies, it allows the students to capture their own personal growth in both their academics and also living a healthy and active lifestyle.

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Auburn High School Cheerleaders Volunteer at Lee Cty United Way

A group of Auburn High School cheerleaders (and a couple of their siblings) volunteered their time at the Lee County United Way to unload, sort and count school supplies that were donated throughout the county via the annual "Stuff the Bus" event. In July, more than 20 businesses/organizations around the county displayed bright yellow school bus shaped donation bins for "Stuff the Bus." After the supplies are sorted they will be split evenly and delegated among Auburn City Schools, Opelika City Schools and Lee County Schools. In 2013, the drive collected more than $10,000 worth of school supplies. Officials hope to exceed that goal in 2014.

Opelika City Schools Welcomes New Teachers The Opelika City Schools welcomed thirty new teachers to the system this year. Following orientation and training, the teachers and their mentors were treated to a luncheon sponsored by BancorpSouth. Pictured front row (l-r): Emily Letourneau, Natalie Downs, Haley Chambliss, Rebecca Lindsey, and Derek Hovell. Second row (l-r): Abby Chandler, Anne Marie Kochenour, Elizabeth Earnest, Kristen Blatt, Amy Cutts, Taylor Jacobsen, and Zach Blatt. Third row (l-r): Hannah Wilson, Winona Wilson, Melinda Surry, Linda Holm, Nicole Oliver, Nicole Redenius, Jillian Eshelman, and Jacob Guerin. Back row (l-r): Allison Wilson, Meredith St. Clair, Brenda Howell, Samantha Rogers, Rachel Smith, Katherine Prine, Jovantae Billingslea, and Jeremy Robinson. Not pictured: Sue Bentley and Kendra Jones.

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County Schools New Elementary Principal Lee-ScottAutauga Academy Announces

Lee-Scott Academy is pleased to announce the appointment of Mr. Matthew Bruner as the next Elementary Principal. Mr. Bruner previously served as Assistant Principal at Heights Elementary IB World School in Ft. Myers, FL, where he was considered a top performing, innovative professional with a special concern for continual improvement. Mr. Bruner comes highly regarded by staff, parents and students as being very positive, full of energy and enthusiasm for students, and dedicated to his profession. His career in education has solely been in elementary education where he has served as teacher and administrator for the past 15 years. As a school administrator, some of Mr. Bruner's experience includes administrator of new teacher programs, instructional leadership and staff development, curriculum mapping, writer and producer for professional school literature for stakeholders, writer, and coordinator of child study, mentor and peer support programs. Mr. Bruner holds a Master’s degree in Educational Leadership and a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education. Mr. Bruner and his wife, Linda, have two daughters, Marin (4) and Linden (1). "It has been such a pleasure to assimilate myself into the Lee-Scott culture and family. Everyone here has a passion and clear vision for doing what is best for children and providing a challenging and balanced academic and enrichment program. As I have met with each teacher over the past few weeks, getting to know styles, personalities, and passions, it is clear we have a dedicated and energetic elementary faculty. It will be such a pleasure to lead this group in maintaining academic excellence and continuous improvement." -Mr. Matt Bruner.

Auburn High School Student Named 2014 ACCESS Student of the Year

Auburn High's Haley Dorn was chosen out of more than 27,000 students statewide to be 2014 ACCESS Student of the Year!

LSA Cheerleaders Win AISA State Championship

Congratulations to LSA's Varsity Cheerleaders and their coach, Mrs. Allyson Schnarr for being named AISA East Large Varsity Champions and to the JV Cheerleaders and their coach, Mrs. Melissa King for being named AISA East Large Junior Varsity Champions! JV Cheerleaders Pictured (left photo): Front Row (L-R): Chauntel Kriel, Lauren Price, Mary Whitten Samford, Landon DeLamar, Lauren Newman, Annsley Cerovsky, Allison Dennis, Sarah Dorough, Anna Caroline McKelvey. Middle Row (L-R):

Bethany Bedsole, Kenedi Cleveland, Madison Helm, Jordan Huguley, Alli Scott, Carla Ingram. Back Row (L-R): Abbey McDanal, Katelyn Carroll, Haley Harper, and Emma Claire Davis. Varsity Squad Pictured (right photo): Front Row (L-R): Bailee Mims, Abbey Huguley, Mrs. Allyson Schnarr; Middle Row (L-R): Kara Pettit, Ellie Whatley, Kathryn Young, Kelsi Cleveland, Caroline Walker, Callie Smith; Back Row (L-R): Claudia Tucker, Holly Mitchell, Hannah Grace Wood and Gracie Braswell. Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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J. F. Drake Middle School Students Ready to Learn

The 6th grade Leopards began their first day of school in their homerooms discussing the first semester‘s schedule. It was a day of learning the ropes and gearing up for a fantastic 2014-15 school year!

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New Auburn City Schools Employee Orientation

The orientation gives newly hired teachers, staff and administration an opportunity to learn ACS guidelines, fill out all their employment paperwork as well as meet with potential insurance providers. It is just one of many efforts ACS has in place to interact and accommodate their employees.

RECONNECT at Auburn High School

Back to School means time to Reconnect for AHS students and parents. Reconnect is a visit to the school for tours, buying school gear, getting schedules and much more! Students look forward to this time all summer!

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Cheerleading Accolades

Congrats to our AHS varsity cheer squad! Here is a list of accolades the Auburn High School cheerleaders brought home from UCA camp at the University of Tennessee: 1st Place Cheer; 1st Place Extreme Routine; All Superior Award; Leadership Award; 7 All Americans. Two of the AHS senior cheerleaders were also asked to join the UCA camp staff next summer: Alexia Smith and Monet Williams.

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Smiths Station Queens Deliver Donations to Hospital

The Smiths Station Queens recently visited the UAB Women's and Infant Center, delivering baby gifts to children and families in need of preemie items. A community-wide baby shower was held to encourage donations and promote awareness of the Miracle Children's Network Hospital’s philanthropy. The Miss Alabama and Miss America organizations raise millions of dollars each year for this worthy cause. Pictured are Olivia Slocomb--Little Miss Smiths Station; Katelyn Carroll--Pre-Teen Miss Smiths Station; KeLeigh Edwards--Miss Smiths Station 2014; Katie Zeigler--Miss Smiths Station's Outstanding Teen 2014; Cadee Lyn Vining--Jr Miss Smiths Station.

University of Hawaii Educators Visit AHS Aquaculture Facility

A group of aquaponic educators from the University of Hawaii in Maui, visited Mr. Stan Arington at the Aquarium at Auburn High while on their professional development visit to Auburn University. They heard there was an aquaculture facility at AHS and just had to see it for themselves.

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Mr. Stan Arington took his group of Pick Elementary students to Town Creek Park as a part of the AHSome World of Water this summer. Mr. Arington and the kids caught a baby catfish, a couple of toads and even a crawfish that was hiding under a rock while learning about all the wildlife that exist right here in Auburn.

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Keep Calm and ‘Cary’ On!

Cary Woods Elementary School’s First Day of School was a huge success! Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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ACS Athletic Director Receives Athletic Director of the Year Honor

ACS's Athletic Director, Clay McCall, attended the AHSAA banquet in Montgomery recently to receive the AHSAA Athletic Director of the Year honor. His proud family was by his side. Coach Dan Norton attended to receive his Cross Country State Championship Coach Award. Ed Crum, ACS's Assistant Athletic Director, attended as well. ACS's Swimming and Diving Championship team was also honored.

OHS Cheerleaders Named UCA Camp Champions

The Opelika High School Varsity and Junior Varsity cheerleaders recently attended UCA cheer camp at Auburn University. The Varsity squad received superior ribbons and spirit sticks each night of UCA camp. OHS Varsity placed first in each division: extreme routine, game day cheer, game day sideline and were named overall camp champions. They won one of the most prestigious awards at camp, the Tradition award. All-Americans included Taylor Carr, Katie Caroline Bennett, Maggie Williams, Emily Rajan, Keneisha Foreman, Africa Gaddis, Haleigh Heath, and Yumi Oh. Emily Rajan, Taylor Carr and Africa Gaddis received UCA staff applications. "Ope" and "Lika", OHS mascots, received superior ribbons and spirit sticks each night at camp. They also were named All-Americans, camp champions and each won a tradition award. The Junior Varsity cheerleaders received superior ribbons and spirit sticks each night. They placed first in game day sideline and

second in extreme routine, game day cheer and overall camp champs. Alyson Tyson was named All-American and Allie Heath won the jump off and a leadership pin award. Georgia White and the entire JV squad received a leadership pin award as well! Rachele Turner, a JV coach, won Homecoming Queen at the "dress your coach up" pep rally. As a group, the Opelika cheerleaders also won the “Most Spirit Award� on the second night of camp. 17

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AutaugaLee-Scott County Schools Academy Employees Awarded for Excellence

Lee-Scott Academy is pleased to announce a new award that is designed to recognize and reward employees of Lee-Scott who excel in their position. This award has been made possible by contributions from LSA families. The award is named the J. Smith Lanier, II, Excellence in Education Award in honor of J. Smith Lanier, II, who had grandchildren attend Lee-Scott and who valued education in general; Christian education specifically. To choose winners of this recognition was very difficult because so many of Lee-Scott's employees are outstanding every year. The first class of winners for 2013-2014 school year include the following: Bill Cantrell--Secondary Science; Julie Clardy--Elementary 6th grade; Karen Kincey--Elementary 6th grade; Trish Oliver--Fine Arts; Pam Zellner--Elementary 6th Grade.

FCA Hosts 3 on 3 Basketball Tournament for Youth

The Auburn University Chapter of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) hosted the FCA Brother’s Keeper 3 on 3 Basketball Tournament for area youth on Saturday, July 19 at the Boykin Community Center Gymnasium. Athletes competed in a 3 on 3 tournament, enjoyed lunch courtesy of local restaurants, and heard a motivational speech from former NFL player Chris Shepherd. Special thanks to Rev. Chette Williams, Rev. Randy Roberts, Auburn University students, and FCA volunteers for their time and efforts.

Auburn High Cheerleaders Impact Local Youth

The Auburn High cheerleaders spent the afternoon finger painting, reading and playing board games with kids in the community at "OUR HOUSE" through "BY OUR LOVE," an Alabama non-profit corporation that is the result of three years of local mission outreach to families in Ridgecrest Apartments. Thanks to the AHS Cheer Pals for giving back to the community by positively impacting our local youth.

Lee-Scott Academy Alum Crowned International Junior Miss Teen

On July 5, Lee-Scott alum and Southern Union student, Taylor Jones of Auburn was crowned 2014 International Junior Miss Teen in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Taylor competed against 41 beautiful girls from across the globe. This year there were contestants from the United States, Australia, Dominican Republic, Canada, Great Britain, and the Bahamas. As part of Taylor’s prize package, she will travel to Australia in November to help crown the new Australian Queens for 2015. She and her sister Queens will travel to Atlantic City for the Miss America Pageant, go on a Royalty Cruise, guest appear on a new TV reality show called “Live To Sparkle”, a National modeling contract, numerous photo shoots, feature in “Pageantry Magazine”, travel all over the country to other IJM state pageants, wardrobe allowance from Lasting Impressions, gift cards and much more. Taylor is the daughter of Barry and Elizabeth Jones of Auburn. If you would like Taylor to make an appearance at an event or help with any school or community activity, please contact her mom Elizabeth at caujones@yahoo.com. Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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Meg McGuffin was recently crowned Miss Phenix City. She is a student at Auburn University and will compete in Miss Alabama in June. Katie Zeigler is Miss Phenix City's Outstanding Teen. Katie is a sophomore at Glenwood. She will compete in the state pageant in March for the title of Alabama's Outstanding Teen.

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A Page in a Book by Gerry Paige Smith

We All Have a Story to Tell From the moment they begin to string words together, kids are off on their own storytelling adventures! Whether it’s disjointed narratives of their pretend-play or more cohesive descriptions of events in their lives, children love a good story – real or imagined. As they hear stories repeated, kids begin to recognize the elements that construct tales; the setting, the characters, and the plot. And for kids who love reading books, it’s a natural next step for them to want to craft stories of their own. The following titles are entertaining explorations of the art of story-telling. Whether the medium is art, voice or the writtenword, everyone has a story – and the charm is in the telling.

Lost for Words

by Natalie Russell (Peachtree) Prepared with a nice new notebook and colored pencils, Tapir is ready to create a story between its covers. But when nothing comes to mind as he confronts the blank, white pages, Tapir goes to visit his friends in hopes of overcoming his writer’s block. He learns that Giraffe fills his notebook with poetry. Hippo uses his notebook to tell exciting (mostly autobiographical) stories. Flamingo writes song lyrics and music onto her pages. Impressed by his friends’ talents, Tapir is still coming up empty for ideas of his own. After searching for inspiration, Tapir finally retreats to a quiet hilltop. And what he sees inspires him to put his pencils to the page – to finally tell his own story. A sweet reminder that not all tales need words, this book is a celebration of all the different ways a story can be told.

Help! We Need a Title!

by Herve Tullet (Candlewick) From the moment the first page turns, readers enter into a conversation with the casually drawn and engaging figures in Help! We Need a Title. An incongruous team of characters are surprised to the see the reader open their book – and are also unprepared with a story to tell. They make some false starts trying to entertain the reader before they decide what’s really needed is an author. When they pull the reluctant author into the picture with them, he organizes their suggestions into a short, but sweet story for the reader. The direct engagement of the characters as they break the “fourth wall” will delight both the read-aloud and independent reading sets. Originally published in France, Tullet’s candid style is ideal for introducing the elements of storytelling to young readers!

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A. I wouldn’t do that if I were you. You’ll get destroyed with penalties, because if you take money out of a 529 for anything other than college, you’ll be taxed at your current tax rate and hit with a 20 percent penalty. The other thing is you’ll have this weird feeling that you took money away from your kid. Technically, it’s your money. You put it there. But when you did, it was in your child’s name. Plus, that doesn’t really solve your problem. You’ve got a ridiculous amount of debt, and that little bit won’t move the needle very much. Having more money in your hands isn’t the big answer here. What you both need is a behavior change when it comes to money. My advice is to leave the 529 alone. Stop adding to it for the time being. Put any retirement saving you’re currently doing on hold, too. You guys need to start living on a budget, working a debt snowball plan and looking for extra income. Even tutoring would bring in some additional cash. I’ve got a feeling, too, that those masters’ degrees can provide you with more money than you’re currently making. It can be done, but it’s going to take a lot of hard work and discipline. It may even take four or five years to get this mess cleaned up, but you can’t keep living without a plan!

name. If Joe Crook signs an application with your name and address, and the credit card company issues the card without checking —they blind-issue cards about seven out of 10 times — then the card will be issued to the thief. Having your credit frozen does nothing to stop that from happening. Still, if they check your credit and it’s frozen, chances are they won’t issue the card. I’d also recommend having a good identity theft protection program in place. I have it on myself and all my team mem-

bers at the office. If you don’t have this, and someone gets a card in your name, the credit card company will demand that you pay the bill. You can insist it’s not you, but that won’t do much good. Then, you’ll have to go through the hassle of filling out affidavits and police reports. You may get out of paying for it in the end, but you’ll still have to spend dozens, if not hundreds, of hours dealing with the credit card company trying to get the whole mess straightened out!

Q. Do you recommend a credit freeze in order to protect against identity theft?

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mother often gets lost in the shuffle. Her job as support staff to her husband and children is essential, but lacking in personal growth. Women often let their family’s activities and accomplishments become their own. It is dark standing in someone’s shadow. Allow yourself to step back out into the spotlight. Mothers can continue to grow and evolve as individuals. By feeding your own fire, you are able to be a better mother and wife.

Take a class. Education is an important step in your evolution process. Your primary role as a mother is to teach your children, but that doesn’t mean you can’t learn new things yourself. Find something that interests you and learn more about it. Look at community colleges in your area. Most colleges offer continuing education classes in a variety of subjects to sharpen your skills or teach you something new. Visit the park district in your area for gardening, dance or cooking classes. Take advantage of free demonstration classes on weekends at local hardware and craft stores. Attend a lecture, join an acting workshop or enroll in a wine tasting course.

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Volunteer. Look beyond helping out in your son’s preschool class. There are so many great causes that need your help. Consider working at your local PADS, animal shelter or senior center. Giving back to your community recharges your soul. Cathy Fulgham, youth mentor and mother of two, explains her reasons for choosing to volunteer with teenagers. “Each and every one of our kids is so unique, so individual and quirky and fun and angst-ridden, it’s impossible not to learn from them. Being with them helps me to keep an open mind, to learn new trends, games, culture, etc. They also renew my hope in our future.” 22

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Go back to work. Moms need to reconnect with adults on a regular basis. We are intelligent people and need to challenge ourselves. Now is the perfect time to start the business you have been talking about. Research your options and talk to business mentors at your local SCORE office. If a business venture is too much to take on right now, consider a part time job that takes you out of the house. Flexible hour jobs may include retail, tutoring, or jobs within the school district like library aides and office staff. Just a few hours a week in another environment will make a world of difference. Have a regular Girl’s Night Out. Spending time socializing with

other women will do wonders for your mental health. Amy Chavous, mother of an active five-year-old, stresses the need for a girl’s night out. “It is important for a mom to have a girl’s night out because sometimes when you become a mother you can lose yourself. Being able to connect with other women through stories is a way to reassure yourself that not only are you doing the best you can as a mom, but you still have an identity outside of all your daily obligations.” Chavous suggests trying popular wine and canvas nights, chocolate tastings or hosting a book talk at your house.

Follow your dream.

Is there something on your list that you have always wanted to try? You may want to run a marathon, try scuba diving or take a ride in a hot air balloon. Dig deep into your soul and think selfishly for a moment. As mothers, we tend to push off our unachieved dreams onto our children, hoping to live vicariously through them. If you have always wanted to play the piano, don’t get piano lessons for your daughter, get them for yourself. Search the dark corners of your mind and find something to do just for you. Prove to yourself that you are never too old to try something new. As the saying goes, “If mom isn’t happy, no one is happy.” In other words, you can easily bring others down if you are not satisfied. Make yourself a priority. If you keep hitting the “Dismiss” button when your battery is low, you will eventually run out of juice. It is vital to keep recharging your spirit so you can be at 100% when your family needs you. AOP

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Easy Transitions for Your Fall Fashion Here in the beautiful Southern states, we go from nice spring weather to hot weather in an instant. Then, when fall sneaks in, we can go from cool mornings to warm afternoons and back to cool nights. It’s like a fashion roller coaster! This can lead to major confusion when it comes to your seasonal style. Today, Centsibly Southern Chic brings you tips to transition your closet with the shifting Southern climate. *Tip 1- Do some shopping! This is the perfect time to buy spring and summer items at half the cost. You can incorporate several of your favorite styles into fall and winter outfits simply by layering them with accessories. To stay on trend for the season with those summer styles, figure out what your seasonal color is (typically colors for fall and winter are jeweled tones) and have fun color blocking or incorporating a few of your spring and summer colors and styles into your wardrobe. Be aware of fabric! No summer fabric such as linen, or bright whites mixed in with spring brights, as this makes a major difference when it comes to seasonal style transition. Fashion NEWS FLASH! Pull out your spring pastels. Yes, they are being incorporated in with our fall colors. Your staple color for the fall is navy, and almost everyone has navy hanging in her wardrobe. Be sure to bring out that color blocking with those pastels. I love mixing jeweled colors with pastels. *Tip 2- Pull out your cardigans, light jackets, button-up tops and light weight scarves. You can layer all of these items, as needed. If it is 45 degrees when you Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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pointed toe flat or a camel/lighter color knee high boot. It’s still flat and very comfortable for that game day experience. If you are all about comfort, consider getting a good looking natural/gold or patterned closed toe flat. Find a shoe or heel that’s versatile with your everyday styles. Remember, prints can be a fun way to add to your simple seasonal change. *Tip 5- Dabble in your winter clothes from last year. Add your favorite spring colors and styles to a favorite winter piece and you have a new outfit. Just because clothing is deemed “winter wear” doesn’t mean we can’t dabble in it and try to combine some of it with our summer wear. We believe in saving money, looking good and maxing out the use of each season’s clothing. *Tip 6- Dresses/skirts are a perfect staple piece for all seasons. Once again, as stated above, pull from the colors that are in the dress/skirt and that will help you change your look from summer to fall/winter. Add boots, tights, leggings, jackets, cardigans, scarves and, of course, your favorite accessories. Dresses or skirts are great for versatility!

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Laura Handey is an independent clothing consultant in Pike Road, Alabama. You may reach her by email at laura@ centsiblysouthern. com or visit her website at www.centsiblysouthern.com.

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Teaching social development for the parent of an autistic child can be quite a stressful and

daunting task. Add in teaching life skills and you have a recipe for burnout. Although these concerns may feel like you are trying to climb an uphill battle, don’t be discouraged. A focused, patient, and consistent approach is key. In this article, we will share helpful tips and advice from some local professionals who work in the field of autism intervention. Let’s discuss social development. Your child may appear to be more withdrawn, try to isolate, or have a difficult time grasping communication concepts such as listening and following directions. Intense one-on-one interaction is best until your child appears more comfortable in gradually increasing groups. Throughout this article, several techniques are provided to help your child reach their full potential. You will hear the phrase “descriptive language”. Descriptive language refers to identifying objects as you see and use them (let’s put the pillow on the bed, the cup goes beside the plate, etc.). Here are some tips to keep in mind when working with your autistic child: Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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important to observe your child’s body language and listen to what he or she is saying through his nonverbal cues. By doing this, you will not miss attempts to initiate, such as pointing, eye gazing, gestures and grunts, which all have meaning. Do not anticipate all needs; wait to be asked for things and try as much as possible to make sure you are down on his physical level. Being face-to-face allows you the opportunity to receive communication cues from your child, no matter how small, and also allows him to study and learn your nonverbal cues with limited distractions. Being down on his level and using exaggerated expressions helps you to be the most interesting thing in the room!

2. Reading together. Reading with your child can be one of the best ways to bond, as well as helping him develop the skills necessary for learning language and listening skills. Functional reading will help to set the foundation for independence later in life (cooking, shopping, scheduling daily activities…). Some children on the spectrum have short attention spans, so you may want to select a short book or plan on reading in segments. Find a quiet comfortable room where you and your child cannot be interrupted and make sure to point out objects as you read and discuss the characters and pictures. You may find that he becomes intensely interested in one topic and wants to read everything he can on that particular subject! No matter what type of child you have, keep the reading a fun time and it can be a special time for you both.

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3. Encouraging communicative gestures. Helping your child express thoughts, needs and emotions through gestures can be a wonderful tool (and can usually make for some fun games)! One tip is to secure a favorite toy inside a clear and difficult-to-open container. Hand the sealed container to him and encourage him to open. If he is unable to do so, he will then hand it back to you and gesture for you to open. This is a communicative gesture and is a foundational building block for later communication. Another tip is to place things just out of reach so he has to ask, point or gesture. Eat a favorite food in front of your child without offering any to him and wait for him to communicate that he wants some. Engage your child in constructing a block tower and then knock it down saying

“uh oh!” Do this several times and then knock it down without saying anything and wait to see what your child says or does! All of these skills will help to encourage your child to interact with the world around him. Be patient, be consistent, use descriptive language, and keep it positive (though sometimes that can be challenging). Never feel intimidated to seek outside help for yourself or for your child. Another valuable skill to teach that fosters independence is life skills. Life skills are everything from preparing a meal, hygiene and grooming, money manage27

ment, organization and other skills you would use to help live productively in the world around you. Establishing life skills is one of the foundations for confidence and greater independence. Here we will share some information to incorporate into your everyday routines with your child.

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making a simple picture chart for certain situations (undressing for bath time, getting dressed, etc.) can be a helpful tool to help him understand “what comes next”.

Life skills are everything from preparing a meal, hygiene and grooming, money management, organization and other skills you would use to help live productively in the world around you. Establishing life skills is one of the foundations for confidence and greater independence.

2. Getting dressed. Sometimes, simply getting your child dressed can be a task worthy of a sigh at least. Making sure you continue to use your descriptive phrases (shirt on, pants up, etc.) will help teach and allow the child to do as much as possible. Laying clothes out on the bed, for example, can be useful in helping your child identify in groups and learn how to follow three-step commands. Lay the clothes on a surface, ask him to get one of the articles and help walk him through the “shirt on” process. The same descriptive language used for getting dressed can be used for undressing (shirt off, pants down, socks off…). Always try to encourage him to remove the clothes himself with as little help from you as possible; again, patience is key here. This may take more time in the beginning, but can help advance independence as time goes on.

3. Making mealtime a teachable moment. For mealtimes, try to stick to the same routine of everybody sitting at the table together for each meal as much as possible. This allows for a comfortable opportunity for social interaction and practice. Have your child help you set the table by putting the napkins on the table or beside the plate. Make sure that as you are serving his plate or when you set it down on the table that you identify the objects on it. Enjoy this time with your child and family. Mealtime can be a great opportunity to learn more about each other and for you to gain support as a caregiver.

4. Maintaining a bedtime routine. This is a special time to read stories and spend some quality time learning more about him in a calm environment. Try to stick to the same routine every night and keep bedtime as consistent as possible. A well-rested child who knows what to expect and when to expect it, will have a greater opportunity to engage in the world around him!

With an estimated 50,000 children in Alabama living with autism, new resources are popping up all over the state to help support you and your child. Become knowledgeable and take advantage of the services and support groups that are available to help support you as a caregiver and provide valuable opportunities for development in your child. AOP

Varina Mead, a mother of two, Prattville native and current Director of Marketing for Easter Seals Central Alabama, has enjoyed working in the family service field for over 15 years. Raised by a single mother with Cerebral Palsy, Varina learned from an early age that she wanted to work in disability advocacy and education. Easter Seals Central Alabama is a collection of programs designed to assist children and adults with disabilities, find greater independence, enhanced quality of life, and be seen for their abilities.

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Making playtime twice as much fun is as easy as adding games and gear that invite kids to pair up and play hard. Two-player toys encourage a natural ebb and flow between kids that strengthens their sense of sportsmanship, teamwork and fair play. Games and gear designed for two players are also ideal encouragement for children to find playmates, make friends and connect with peers. It’s time to double the good times with the following recommended toys and games that take two!

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Table tennis is an addictive sport. With broad paddles, light-as-air balls and a small net, it’s one of the easiest sports to just walk up and play. And while you may have to look harder for a regulation-size ping-pong table to play on, you can now bust out a recreational set that turns any smooth table into a table tennis arena! The EastPoint Everywhere Table Tennis Set includes net anchors that simply unspool the retractable net according to a table width, and clamp into place onto the sides of the table top. Two paddles and three balls come with the set, so you can get your game on in minutes. Lightweight, compact and portable, this table tennis set is perfect for family reunions, playdates, church outings, or any event with tables that can quickly be transformed for a ping-pong-pair showdown.

Perfect for pairs, the Spiro Hop Bouncer is a sturdy improvement over traditional teeter-totters. On a stable tripod base, the Spiro adds bouncing and spinning to the normal see-saw ups and downs. With inflatable balls absorbing the impact under the seat, there are no more tongue-biting, hard landings when the seats hit the ground. While unevenly weighted kids on a traditional see-saw could keep one child ground-bound and the other stuck aloft, the Spiro assembly includes an adjustable bar to account for weight differences. Additionally, the counterbalance action of the ball seat adds lift on the rebound to keep the up and down going strong. Complete with stakes to anchor the set for outdoors and padded floor protectors for indoor use, the Spiro Hop Bouncer definitely levels-up over old-school see-saws with its flexibility to accommodate diversity between two riders.

OgoSport Disc Set

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Featuring elements from several sports, the OgoSport Disc Set has ‘catch-and-throw’ at its heart, but it’s range of activities expands far beyond. The round disc frames a trampolinelike surface that catches the ball and then adds extra spring as a player launches the ball back. Additionally, with its large surface area, smaller hands can have a better chance at snagging the ball with the disc. The disc floats in water and is great for lofting water balloons as well. It’s also easy to create OgoSport Disc gameplay based on other sports baseball, soccer and more! Like an over-sized FrisbeeTM that also throws, catches and bounces balls, the OgoSport Disc set is a versatile and actionpacked combination of two-person action!

Whether your kids are in pretend-play mode as secret agents or on the move as bona-fide explorers, giving them the means to communicate at a distance will amplify the whole experience! The Ultra Range Walkie Talkie set features a simple click-and-hold button to talk – with a volume control for those sensitive missions that require a “sneak” factor. The walkie talkies’ sturdy construction is a plus, but it’s the extended talking range of this set (up to two miles!) that makes it a real winner. Ideal for hiking, outdoor festivals, and neighborhood expeditions, best buddies will love having their own channel to communicate as they explore their bigger world. Paired with a sense of adventure, the Ultra Range Walkie Talkies take the conversation to the extreme!

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Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

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LOCAL COMMUNITY RESOURCES Autism Society of Alabama

The Autism Society of Alabama (ASA) responds daily to requests for information. 877-4AUTISM. www.autism-alabama.org Parent Support- ASA has support groups to address a variety of issues. Monthly meetings in a variety of settings throughout the state provide support and information, guest speakers, informative topics, and question and answer sessions. Lending Library- ASA has over 400 books and media on autism spectrum disorders that are available to our members. Items can be checked out through the office at 4217 Dolly Ridge Road, Birmingham, AL. If you have books on autism that you are willing to donate or for info on our lending library, please call 1-877-4AUTISM. ASA collaborates with various state and local agencies to increase awareness in the community, schools, and in the medical and professional arenas to promote education, understanding, resources, and to encourage the early diagnosis of autism.

Smith Group Behavioral Consulting

www.smithgroupbehavioralconsulting.com; 3329077 (cell with confidential voicemail). Autism, Developmental Disabilities, Organizational Behavior Management, and Education. 1) Working with Educators: Behavioral observation and consultation, functional assessments and functional analyses of maladaptive behavior, skill assessments, social skills training, development and monitoring of behavior reduction plans, competency-based training in ABA for teachers and school system staff, and classroom set-up and modifications to maximize learning. 2) Working with Families: ABA intervention programs for children with Autism Spectrum Disor-

Benson Behavior Services

Jon N. Benson, M.S.,BCBA, jnbenson1@hotmail.com; 334-452-1709. “From Challenge to Change”. Practical behavior therapy for parents and teachers. Offering in-home or school-based behavior therapy for autism and developmental disabilities. Hours and availability determined on a case-by-case basis.

Easter Seals Alabama

Consists of eight community rehabilitation program sites and the world’s largest barrier free recreational camp, Camp ASCCA. Easter Seals Alabama services include: Medical Rehabilitation, Early Intervention, Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech and Hearing Therapy, Job Training and Employment, Child Care & Camping and Recreation. Easter Seals Achievement Center- 510 W Thomason Circle, Opelika, AL. 334-745-3501 Camp ASCCA Easter Seals- 5278 Camp ASCCA Drive, Jackson’s Gap, AL. 256-825-9226 or 800843-2267. A special place where campers with disabilities have the opportunity to express their individuality and independence within a carefully supervised setting. Their families also are provided with a chance to relax in the knowledge that over thirty years of experience goes into providing a safe environment where fun can be had by all. The activities offered at Camp ASCCA include horseback riding, swimming, canoeing, fishing, arts and crafts, repelling, zip-line, water tubing, archery and rifle range, mini-golf course, paved nature trails, and more. www.campascca.org Easter Seals Central Alabama- 2125 East South Boulevard, Montgomery, AL. 334-288-0240.

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ders, helping parents maximize their child’s learning at home by evaluating the home environment and home schedule, academic tutoring, development of behavior plans to reduce maladaptive behaviors at home, potty training programs, and training for immediate family members, extended family members, church staff, babysitters, etc.... on Autism Spectrum Disorders, ABA or other related topics. • Alabama Scottish Rite Learning Centersoffers evaluations for Alabama school age children, generally age 7 through 9th Grade. Program has a network of speech/language pathologists, available to perform this free service. Children from all over Alabama are evaluated at various locations as time and funding permit. If you have a child at least 7 years old (and has been in a structured reading program for at least 6 months) that is exhibiting signs of learning language deficits, the speech,

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language and literacy evaluation will facilitate early identification and intervention for language learning differences. www.alsrlcenter.org/ALSR_Learning_Center/Welcome • All for Children-2290 Moores Mill Road, Suite 400, Auburn. 209-2009: www.all-forchildren.com; private practice providing the children of this area quality speech, language and literacy intervention. • American Cancer Society- Relay For Life of Lee County- www.relayforlife.org/leeal Support Groups-Bossum Buddies: EAMC Health Resource Center, Opelika. 288-3432. Caregiver Support- Oak Park Dining Room, 1365 Gatewood Drive, Auburn. 3rd Thursday of the month. For more information or to reserve your spot, contact Cheri Rudgers 826-1899. TOUCH (Today Our Understanding of Cancer is Hope)- This general cancer support group is for survivors and their family and caregivers. East Alabama Health Resource Center, Opelika. 288-3432. I Can Cope- EAMC Health Resource Center, Opelika. 288-3432. General cancer educational program for recently diagnosed cancer patients. Look Good…Feel Better- 288-3432. Free program conducted by cosmetologists to improve appearance related side effects of cancer. Sessions conducted as cancer patients request services and as cosmetologists are available. American Cancer Society- 3054 McGehee Rd, Montgomery. 334288-3432. Offers free wigs, turbans, and hats to cancer patients. • Auburn University-Auburn University Autism Center was established in August 2003 with the vision of providing much needed services to individuals with autism spectrum disorder, their families, schools, and other agencies whose goal is to optimize the potential of individuals with autism. This vision translates into a model demonstration site for best practice; diagnostic services for children with autism spectrum disorder; training for families, teachers, and related professionals; outreach consultation; and research opportunities relative to effective intervention strategies. www. auburn.edu The Autism Center provides: a model demonstration site for best practice education of persons with autism spectrum disorder, diagnostic services for children with autism spectrum disorder, outreach consultation services for families, schools and agencies that serve people with autism spectrum disorder, training for families, teachers and related professionals, and research opportunities relative to effective intervention strategies for people with autism spectrum disorder. Best Buddies- The largest chapter of Best Buddies International, an international organization that promotes one-to-one friendships between col-

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lege students and buddies. Founded in 1989 by Anthony Kennedy Shriver, Best Buddies is a vibrant, international organization that has grown from one original chapter to almost 1,500 chapters worldwide. Best Buddies programs engage participants in each of the 50 United States, and in 50 countries around the world. As a result of their involvement with Best Buddies, people with IDD secure rewarding jobs, live on their own, become inspirational leaders, and make lifelong friendships. The chapter won the Most Outstanding Chapter Award at the Best Buddies International Leadership Conference, held in July 2013. The Summer Learning Clinic is an intensive fourweek program that the Department of Rehabilitation and Special Education offers for students with mild learning problems, learning disabilities, behavioral difficulties and/or autism spectrum disorders. Since 1990, over 2,900 such students have received individually designed tutorial instruction through this outreach program. Instruction for students ages 6-13 is offered in reading, math, and language arts, with emphasis on areas of concern for individual students. 844-2004. Speech and Hearing Clinic- Haley Center, 844-9600. offers screening tests for the general public free of charge each semester. The clinic performs audiological and speech-language evaluations, aural rehabilitation support and other clinical services for children and adults. Speech and language assessments related to language/speech delay, developmental delay, autism, cleft palate, stuttering, voice disorders, feeding/swallowing, and literacy. Auditory treatments include hearing aid selection and dispensing, assistive listening devices, and auditory rehabilitation.

Motor Behavior Lab- in the Department of Health and Human Performance provides a motor development program for kindergarten children with low motor proficiency. 844-4483. The Center for Disability Research and Service- 215 S. Donahue Dr. in the Dawson Building, Auburn University Campus. offering additional resources to improve the lives of Alabama citizens with significant disabilities. Housed in the Dawson Building, the center is an extension of the Department of Special Education, Rehabilitation, Counseling/ School Psychology in the College of Education and will focus on developing initiatives in autism and developmental disabilities, assistive technology, program evaluation and employment and community support. Research relating to autism spectrum disorder will expand on the work previously conducted by the Auburn University Autism Center, which has been absorbed by the new center. In addition, the new center will collaborate on projects with the Auburn Transition Leadership Institute, which provides support to youths with disabilities by providing continuous improvement resources to assist with their transition to adulthood. • Autism Hope Center- 706 604 6333. www.autismhopecenter.com The Autism Hope Center is a free resource to both families and professionals throughout the Chattahoochee Valley. Since 2005, we have been instrumental in bringing programs, services, and support to individuals and their families in our area. We host a monthly support group and a number of monthly inclusive events. Additionally, the center

helps connect families to advocates and helps promote self-advocacy. • Brain Jogging & Camp Academia- 1507 Vernon Road, LaGrange, Ga. and 1022 2nd Avenue, Columbus, Ga. 706-884-4492. www.campacademia. com Areas of focus: Dyslexia, language processing deficiencies, ADD/ADHD, autism spectrum disorders and processing speed. Camp Academia has four primary programs designed to help your child achieve his or her potential: Consultation / Testing Services– Full evaluation of your child’s strengths and weaknesses in learning utilizing both formal and informal methods and recommendations for charting their educational path. Brainjogging– Camp Academia’s research-based learning tool is designed to enhance learning efficiency and proficiency by “exercising” weak areas of the brain. Camps– Three-day residential camps and Summer Booster Sessions are designed to evaluate and prepare your child for the upcoming school year. • Cast Ministries.org- Auburn, AL. 332-8411 and 821-1000. Amputee Support- If you or someone you love has suffered a loss of limb, we invite you to join our “team” as we learn to turn our weaknesses into our strengths. The Christian Amputee Support Team is committed to: “pursuing abundant life for amputees through the love of Christ.” • Hospice of East Alabama Medical Center665 Opelika Road, Auburn, AL. 826-1899; 800-3034677. Hospice treats the whole person instead of

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the disease. Its focus is on the family as well as the individual. Hospice emphasizes quality of life rather than duration. The patient’s pain is treated aggressively, and suffering is recognized and dealt with by members of the interdisciplinary team. The patient’s final wishes are attended to, and efforts are made to allow terminally ill patients and their families to remain together in peace, comfort, and dignity as they experience the end of life. Hospice services extend to any location: a home, the hospital, an assisted living facility, Bethany House, or a nursing home. Our goal at Hospice of EAMC is to help our patients live fully by managing pain and symptoms so that their days are filled with more joy and comfort. We seek to provide patients and their families with physical, emotional, social and spiritual support throughout their journey. Hospice of EAMC now serves parts of eight counties within a 50-mile radius of its office in Auburn, AL. Hospice of EAMC is the only area hospice linked directly with the services and support of East Alabama Medical Center. We can offer seamless transitioning of patients from inpatient care to their own homes or to a nursing home if needed. • In His Hands: Special Friends MinistryLakeview Baptist Church. 1600 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn. 887-7094. www.lakeviewbaptist.org. Program designed to help families who have children with special needs be able to worship together while their children are shown and taught about the love of Christ by familiar adults. Our goal is to form teams of buddies for each special friend that will assist them on Sunday mornings. Buddies will volunteer on a weekly or monthly rotation. • Lee County Autism Resource & Advocacy742-2694. Opelika. After realizing the need for a local non-profit for the benefit of the autism families in Lee County, a group of dedicated parents has worked to develop Lee County Autism Resource & Advocacy. Together with educators, business professionals and parents we hope to bring the communities of Lee County a better understanding of autism spectrum disorders and how families are affected as well as provide workshops, trainings and support for educators and parents. Monthly meetings will be held the 2nd Tuesday of each month. Age appropriate social groups are also available. Like us on Facebook (Lee County Autism Resource & Advocacy). • March of Dimes Alabama Chapter- Birmingham, AL. 205-824-0103. www.marchofdimes.com Central Division in Montgomery, AL. 334-277-6910. • Opelika Lions Club- www.opelikalions.org; Service league providing support for diabetic awareness, sight conservation and The Miracle League Ball Field for Children with Disabilities. • RehabWorks 4 Kids- 528-1964. A service of East Alabama Medical Center. We offer pediatric physical, occupational and speech therapies to children 0-18 yrs of age with a variety of diagnoses including: cerebral palsy, autism spectrum disorders, developmental delay, receptive-expressive language delays/disorders, feeding/swallowing disorders, sensory integration disorders, torticollis, augmentative communication needs, sensory-motor group that meets weekly for 3-week sessions throughout the year & referrals to other community resources. kelly.shaw@eamc.org. Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

• Storybook Farms- 300 Cusseta Road, Opelika, AL. 444-5966. www.hopeonhorseback.org; The year-round equine assisted activities are tailored to serve children ages 2 years to young adults who are challenged with life-threatening illnesses, disabilities, mental and/or emotional trauma, and grief. The gentle nature of our horses provides hope and healing. In addition to our “hope on horseback” riding programs, Storybook Farm also provides weekly Enrichment Classes for local school system’s inclusive special education classes, “Forever Families” quarterly events for families created by adoption or fostering, as well as annual events such as Easter Eggstravaganza, SBF Horse Show, Fall Festival, and the Christmas Celebration. • The Alabama Institute for Deaf and Blind- Serving Lee County and the surrounding area. www.aidb.org Alabama School for the Blind- 705 South Street East, Talladega, AL. 256-761-3260. Alabama School for the Deaf- 205 South Street East, Talladega, AL. 256-761-3278. Helen Keller School of Alabama- 1101 Fort Lashley Avenue, Talladega, AL. 256-761-3377. The Marianna Greene Henry Special Equestrian Program- Talladega, Alabama has a covered indoor arena and a 3/4 mile Sensory Trail for students from preschool age to middle age for both therapeutic and recreational riding year round. mgheques@aidb.state.al.us • The East Alabama Mental Health Centerwww.eastalabamamhc.com; Family and Children’s Services-2300 Center Hills Dr., Building II; Opelika, AL. 742-2112. A public non-profit corporation established in 1967. The Center is a comprehensive community mental health center that provides a continuum of services for persons with a serious emotional disturbance, developmental delay, mental illness, mental retardation, and/or substance abuse problem. Prevention, consultation, and education are important aspects of the Center’s service delivery system. Services are provided to persons living or working in Lee, Russell, Chambers, and Tallapoosa Counties and are prioritized to serve the most severely disabled and those least able to afford services. CHINS Intervention Program-The Center provides a range of services for children residing in Lee County who have been, or are at risk of being adjudicated CHINS (Child in Need of Supervision). These children display behavior problems such as truancy, breaking curfew, and refusing to follow the rules at school and at home. ABC Child Development Center- The ABC (Actively Believing in Children) Child Development Center provides intensive services for toddlers and preschool children with autism or pervasive developmental disorders in an integrated child care setting. Godparent Project -The Godparent Project provides parenting education, life skills training, and referral to community resources for pregnant and parenting adolescents. Special Deliveries-The Special Deliveries program provides parent education, support, and referral services for families of infants and toddlers. The program also provides intensive in-home family support services for at risk families of children ages 0 to 5. Other programs-Substance Abuse Prevention Programs, Parent Power, In-School Programs,

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After-School and Summer Alternative Programs, Family Strengthening Programs, Mommy and Me, & ACATA: Alliance Counteracting Alcohol and Tobacco Advertising. • The Exceptional Outreach Organization (E.O.O.)- Organized in 2000, the Exceptional Outreach Organization is a nonprofit 501 (c) 3 organization whose mission is to provide programs for exceptional individuals with special needs by fostering growth through recreation, education, and social activities. Comprised of a volunteer Board of Directors with zero administrative costs, E.O.O. works to raise funds and awareness to sponsor and support Special Olympics of Lee County, the City of Auburn Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Summer Camp, Best Buddies of Auburn University, Premier Athletics Shining Knights Therapeutic Cheerleading Team, and other therapeutic related programs. E.O.O. hosts the annual Love Your Heart Run and Crank Your Heart Ride as its sole fundraising event. 2015 marks the 26th Annual Love Your Heart Run and 8th Annual Crank Your Heart Ride, which will take place at Chewacla State Park. www.loveyourheartrun.com. • The Little H.A.P.I.E. Tree Preschool (Helping Auburn Parents-Intervening Early)- 721 E. University Drive, Auburn, 8874956. The preschool program is designed to provide intensive early intervention services for children with developmental disabilities ages 3-5 years old. We utilize strategies based on the science of applied behavior analysis (ABA) in teaching our children. We also offer speech therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy as needed for children enrolled. The primary focus of intervention is language acquisition but additional areas such as self-care skills, play skills, social skills, and pre-academic skills in preparation for kindergarten are also important. Our teachers plan developmentally and age appropriate lessons for children enrolled and utilize thematic teaching. Additional teaching procedures used at Little H.A.P.I.E. Tree include but are not limited to the following: discrete trial teaching, incidental teaching, least-to-most prompting sequences, most-to-least prompting sequences, shaping, reinforcement and differential reinforcement. There are four classrooms, each of which is supervised by a Lead Teacher certified in Early Childhood Special Education. Each Lead Teacher has the support of a full-time Teacher Assistant. Through a partnership with Auburn University we provide training at both the undergraduate and graduate level for a number of disciplines including Education, Human Development and Family Sciences, and Psychology. • The Sunshine Class- Farmville Baptist Church, 3607 AL. Hwy. 147 N., Auburn. 8877361. Specially adapted for individuals with special needs to truly shine! We personalize the Bible and encourage a close and intimate relationship with Jesus through Bible stories, life experiences, prayer, and praise. Class meets every Sunday morning. For more information on the class and other possibilities for individuals with disabilities, please email office@farmvillebaptistchurch.org.

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team work, social skills, Zumba, swimming, and other physical recreation activities. The campers also participate in cultural experiences, such as attending a Montgomery Biscuits baseball game and the Wild Animal Safari, Pine Mountain, GA. 26th Annual Love Your Heart Run / 8th Annual Crank Your Heart Ride- The annual Love Your Heart Run is sponsored by the Exceptional Outreach Organization and the City of Auburn Parks and Recreation department. The Love Your Heart Run is the premier fundraising event benefiting children and adults with special needs that participate in Special Olympics of Lee County, Best Buddies of Auburn University, Premier Spirit Academy Shining Knights Therapeutic Cheerleading Team and City of Auburn Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Summer Camp.

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Awesome Goals Soccer- The program will focus on learning soccer skills in a safe and accepting atmosphere. Practice will be Sundays, 2:003:00pm. Lynette at awesomegoalssoccer@gmail. com Basketball- Practice and enjoy organized games. Beginning Sept 23, 1:00-3:00pm. Covington Center, 705-5550. Christmas Ball- December 12, 6:00-8:00pm. Program is designed to provide a social outlet for mentally challenged adults. Sponsored by Opelika Parks & Recreation and EAMH-MR. David Scott with Opelika Parks and Rec. Covington Center. Expressions of a BraveHeart Program- Sponsored by Auburn University Social Work Program and the Opelika Parks and Recreation, Expressions of a BraveHeart is a fine arts program for youth and young adults (11-21 yrs. old) with special needs. Offering art, music and dance classes to youth and young adults. Classes are held on 2nd and 4th Mondays from 5:30-7:00pm. John Huling, JHuling@opelika.net Special Olympics Swim Team- Participants must be 8 years of age or older and have an intellectual disability. Organizational meeting, October 14, 5:00pm. John Huling, JHuling@opelika.net.

Premier Spirit Academy

923 B Stage Road, Auburn, 821-7300. www.premierspiritacademy.com Shining Knights Cheer Team- Premier Athletics and Auburn Parks and Recreation are proud to sponsor the Shining Knights Cheer Team. Formed in 2006 and formerly known as the Shining Stars, the Shining Knights are a competitive cheerleading team consisting of intellectually challenged girls and boys, ages 8 and up, who are physically functional. The cheerleaders compete against other special needs teams from around the country. • The Miracle League of East Alabama- “Every Child Deserves A Chance to Play Baseball.” West Ridge Park, Opelika. The Miracle League is an organization that provides the opportunity for persons of ALL AGES with cognitive or physical disabilities to play baseball. Giving ability a chance The Billy Hitchcock Miracle Field Complex -the largest of its kind in the country-will serve Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

disabled people of all ages and their families from the East Alabama and West Georgia area. The complex is located alongside the other baseball fields and the playground area at West Ridge Park. The playground includes slides, tunnels, a sandbox and swings all completely accessible for the disabled. The baseball field includes a dugout, a handicap-accessible announcers’ box, as well as picnic tables and a pavilion. www. miraclefield.org

RECREATION CAMPS Easter Seals Camp ASSCA

256-825-9226; www.campascca.org Alabama’s Special Camp for Children and Adults. ASCCA is a nationally recognized leader in therapeutic recreation for children and adults with both physical and mental disabilities. Providing weekend and week sessions, open year-round. Located in Alabama on Lake Martin, offers campers a wide variety of recreational and educational activities. Activities include horseback riding, fishing, tubing, swimming, environmental education, arts and crafts, canoeing, a “splash pad”, outdoor adventure elements like the zip-line, and much more. • Camp Frog- The Autism Society of Alabama. Camp ASCCA, Jackson’s Gap. September 12-14; Ages 6-18 years and their families. Scholarships available. www.autism-alabama.org • Camp Newhope & Camp Newsong205-877-2224; www.alfoundationforoncology. org/campnewsong.php. A free program open to all grieving children in Alabama. Camp sessions are held at the YMCA Hargis Retreat in Chelsea, Alabama for children ages 6-18. • Camp Shocco for the Deaf- 1314 Shocco Springs Road, Talladega, AL. 256-761-1100; www. campshocco.org; This camp gives every hearing impaired student, ages 8-high school, an opportunity to have an unforgettable week of fun, games, and spiritual growth. Not only that, they learn the essence of teamwork, while also developing their own unique abilities and talents that can often be overlooked. There is no language barriers, therefore, they are never excluded. • Camp Smile-a-Mile-1-888-500-7920; www.campsam.org; Children’s Harbor on Lake Martin. Year round challenging, recreational and educational experiences for young cancer patients, their families as well as young adult survivors from Alabama at no cost. Our purpose is to provide these patients, families and survivors with avenues for fellowship, to help them cope with their disease, and to prepare them for life after cancer. • Camp Sugar Falls & Camp Seale Harris205-402-0415; www.southeasterndiabetes.org Provides kids with the chance to learn about effective diabetes management, while at the same time allowing them to interact with other children living with this same illness.

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• Lakeshore Foundation-205-313-7400; www.lakeshore.org Offers a wide range of fitness, recreation, athletic and education programs to children and adults who experience diagnostic conditions including spinal cord injuries, cerebral palsy, multiple sclerosis, stroke, amputation, and visual impairment.

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DISABILITY-SPECIFIC ORGANIZATIONS • Asthma & Allergies-Asthma & Allergy Foundation of America. 800-727-8462, www.aafa.org • Attention Deficit Disorder-To identify an ADD group in your state or locality, contact either: Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD). 800-233-4050; www.chadd.org • Attention Deficit Disorder Association (ADDA)- 800-939-1019; info@add.org; www.add.org • Autism- Autism Society of Alabama4217 Dolly Ridge Road; Birmingham, AL. 877-4-AUTISM; 205-951-1364; contact@autismalabama.org; www.autism-alabama.org • Blind/Visual Impairments- American Foundation for the Blind- 800-232-5463; afbinfo@afb.net; www.afb.org • Cerebral Palsy- United Cerebral Palsy of Greater Birmingham- 800-654-4483; www.ucpbham.com • Downs Syndrome- Down Syndrome AlabamaBirmingham; 205-988-0810; www.downsyndromealabama.org

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• Epilepsy- Epilepsy Foundation of AlabamaMobile, AL. 800-626-1582; www.epilepsyfoundation.org/ • Food Allergies- The Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network- www.foodallergy.org • Head Injury-Alabama Head Injury Foundation- Hoover, AL. 800-433-8002 ; www.ahif.org • Intellectual & Developmental DisabilitiesThe Arc of Alabama, Inc., Montgomery, AL. 866-243-9557; info@thearcofalabama.com; www.thearcofalabama.com • Learning Disabilities-Learning Disabilities Association of Alabama- Montgomery, AL. 334-277-9151; www.ldaal.org • Mental Health- NAMI Alabama-Montgomery, AL. 800-626-4199; www.namialabama.org • Speech and Hearing- Speech and Hearing Association of Alabama; 256-325-8885; Info@ AlabamaSHAA.org www.alabamashaa.org • Spina Bifida- Spina Bifida Association of Alabama- Madison, AL. 256-325-8600; www.sbaofal.org • Tourette Syndrome- Tourette Syndrome Association Mid-South Regional Office-Auburn, AL. 334-502-0055.

• United Cerebral Palsy of Mobile, Inc.Mobile, AL. 888-630-7102; info@ucpmobile.org; www.ucp.org/ucp_local.cfm/160

ORGANIZATIONS FOR PARENTS • Exceptional Parent Magazine- Publishes monthly magazine for parents of children with disabilities and professionals providing services to children and families. www.eparent.com • Family Voices of Alabama- Encourages families to develop individual partnerships with their children’s care providers, and to look for opportunities to impact systems change by working collaboratively with the many agencies in the state that care about services for children and youth with special needs; www.familyvoices.org • FighterMom™-is a program for any mom who not only cares for a child with a demanding disease or health condition, but who wants to get organized to defeat that condition by raising money, winning publicity, working with researchers, and making her case in Washington. www. fightermom.org • May Center for Autism Spectrum Disorders- Pathways Educational Series: Guiding

families after an autism diagnosis. 6298 Veterans Pkwy, Suite 9B. Columbus, Ga. 706-571-7771. This FREE education series runs for eight consecutive weeks. Meetings last 90 minutes. Childcare is provided. The first four weeks are designed for parents of children newly diagnoses with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD). The second four weeks are designed for parents struggling to manage problem behaviors at home. • Parent to Parent USA- provide emotional and informational support to families of children who have special needs most notably by matching parents seeking support with an experienced, trained ‘Support Parent’. www.p2pusa.org • Parent Training and Information Center / Early Intervention Family Alliance- Alabama Parent Education Center (APEC)- Wetumpka, AL. 866-532-7660; www.alabamaparentcenter.com. • Partners in Policymaking of AlabamaMontgomery, AL. 800-846-3735; http://acdd.org • The Epilepsy Foundation Parents Website- www.epilepsyandmychild.org/ • The Sibling Support Project- a national effort dedicated to the life-long concerns of brothers and sisters of people who have special health, developmental, or mental health concerns. www.siblingsupport.org AOP

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Talking with Kids About Suicide Recently I’ve had to talk to my children about a topic no parent wants to discuss with their kids. Suicide. As a psychologist, I have a clinical understanding of suicide, but as a parent I know it’s hard to explain to your children why someone would attempt to take their own life. I have truly struggled with finding the right words. Since I wrestle with these feelings, I am sure that you might too, so I wanted to share some tips that might help in your conversations with your children: Gather your courage to talk to your children. As parents, we want to protect our children from terrible things. But it is also our obligation as parents to be honest with our kids when tragedy does strike. My rule of thumb is that if the bad news is something I think they will hear about from other children, then I want to be the one who talks to them about it first. I would rather my children hear heartbreaking news from me, in a way that is personal and takes into account their feelings and questions, than from a child on the playground who may not provide correct or appropriate information. When talking about suicide, keep your conversation at a level that’s appropriate for your child’s age. The younger the child the more vague and short your descriptions can be, while older children will have more questions and want more details. Be honest if you don’t have all the answers to their questions by saying “I don’t know” or “We may never know.” I can say with assurance though that hiding what is going on from your children if it is publicly known will do more harm than good in the long run. You’d rather have your children know that you are a person that they can talk to about tragedies, rather than a person who hides from them. Explain suicide in a way they can understand. One of the hardest things for children to understand is why someone would try to take their own life. Kids usually have experienced the death of a loved one to an accident or illness. While difficult to cope with, there are usually clear answers to how or why the person died. When talking about suicide, you can explain what depression is and then tell your children that sometimes people feel so sad or upset that their mind is in a sense suffering from an illness. Even though the person may have looked happy or good on

the outside, they had a sickness in their mind that made them not be able to cope with their sadness in a way that was healthy. One explanation for kids that I like from Suicide Awareness Voices of Education is “Our thoughts and feelings come from our brain, and sometimes a person’s brain can get very sick – the sickness can cause a person to feel very badly inside. It also makes a person’s thoughts get all jumbled and mixed up, so sometimes they can’t think clearly. Some people can’t think of any other way of stopping the hurt they feel inside. They don’t understand that they don’t have to feel that way, that they can get help.” Encourage them to talk to trusted adults. After learning of a suicide or suicide attempt, children will naturally have questions and want to talk more about what’s going on. Encourage your children to talk with you, their

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teachers, school counselors, or other trusted adults. I reminded one of my daughters recently that if she had questions about this that she needed to ask an adult, not another child. When I asked her why, she said, “Because kids don’t always know what they’re talking about.” Even she understands that! As adults, we don’t always know what we’re talking about either, but we can respond in a way that is both sensitive and appropriate to the situation. To talk to someone for free 24 hours a day, call The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK(8255). Dr. Polly Dunn received her Ph.D. from Auburn University in 1999. She is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently serves as the Director of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center, a position she has held for over ten years. Dr. Dunn is also the founder of www.ChildPsychMom.com where she blogs about what works and what doesn’t in her hectic life as a child psychologist, wife, and mom of four.

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Every parent is always on the lookout for new, fun, educational, developmental and inexpensive toys for their child. A parent with a special needs child can find toy shopping to be more of a frustration and challenge. Adapted toys are one of the many sub-categories of Assistive Technology (AT) which refers to devices, tools and adaptations made to objects to help your child (or any individual) do something they may not have otherwise been able to do. AT can come in many shapes, sizes and packages. It can be purchased off the shelf, customized, can be high tech or low tech, or developed to fit a specific need. AT can help your child to move independently and explore the world around her. With the assistance of AT, your child can attend birthday parties, participate in family routines and activities, play and explore books and toys to help advance learning! In this article, we will explore options you can use to adapt toys you probably already have, easily and inexpensively, to help your child with a variety of play. A couple of tools of the trade are hot glue guns (keep out of reach of children) and battery interrupters. If you are not familiar with those items yet, just wait, you will be and you will find them to be a very valuable tool in your box. Below are some simple adaptations made to classic toys and activities to help make it easier and less frustrating for you and your child to play and learn! Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

• Games – Use puff paint or glue to outline the sections on a board game. Add velcro to each section and attach to game pieces for added stability and ease of placement. For card games, consider using a hairbrush to slide cards into for stable holding or cut a “shelf” out of a piece of inexpensive foam!

Art – Crayon/pencil holders can be made out of many different things depending on your child’s grip. A foam ball (similar to a stress ball) can be used as a grip for a crayon when a small incision is made and the crayon securely inserted. A pill bottle with an “x” cut at the bottom can also be used to securely insert a crayon for easier grasp. For painting, consider sponge painting (an insert can even be added to help with grip if needed), or add paint into an empty roll-on deodorant container to roll-on the paint!

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many of the toys he/she wants and sees other kids playing with, all by themselves!

• Reading – This is such an important activity that any adaptation you find that works…do it. You may find that a giant chip clip or giant paper clips (such as the kind used on clipboards) secured to each page may make turning each page easier. Separated contact lens cases attached to the pages work well also. Generous amounts of hot glue dots or felt pads (like the ones used on the bottom of chairs) are helpful to help fluff and separate pages for easier turning. •

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with less complexity may offer a less frustrating option for your child. Use a permanent black marker to outline the placement of each puzzle piece on the board. You can also color each section on the board with a different color and then color the back of the matching puzzle piece with the same color for matching fun!

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able to grasp a magnetic wand you can purchase one or make one out of a tube or pvc pipe based on your child’s grip. Add magnetic tape to the wand and to the toys for easier maneuvering. Your child can use the wand to attach and manipulate the toy as well as pick it up to move to another location!

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to the bubble machine so the child can operate the bubbles using the large button switch and watch it go! You can add in a game by trying to pop all of the bubbles yourself “in a hurry” while allowing your child to be in control! Locate resources in your area and talk with other parents to see what adaptations they have made to help their child learn and play. There is a known adapted toy lending library located in Huntsville at United Cerebral Palsy of Huntsville. Soon there will be one in Montgomery at Easter Seals Central Alabama! A wonderful online resource, used for this article, is the Tots-n-Tech website (tnt.asu.edu). Play with your child and think creatively so they can, too! AOP Varina Mead, a mother of two, Prattville native and current Director of Marketing for Easter Seals Central Alabama, has enjoyed working in the family service field for over 15 years. Raised by a single mother with Cerebral Palsy, Varina learned from an early age that she wanted to work in disability advocacy and education. Easter Seals Central Alabama is a collection of programs designed to assist children and adults with disabilities, find greater independence, enhanced quality of life, and be seen for their abilities.

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Family Calendar Ongoing:

A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an all-inclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-7281162 or email: momofpnk@gmail.com. Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-705-8877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com. Alabama Shakespeare Festival Alabama Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net. Birmingham Civil Rights Museum Pieces of a Dream: Mixed Media. Through August 24. Birmingham Civil Rights Museum. www.bcri.org. Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org. Callaway Gardens • Farmers Market. Weekends in August. Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com. DeSoto Caverns Park DeSoto Caverns Park, Childersburg. www.desotocavernspark.com. East Alabama Birth Village 3rd Monday of each month. Monarch Estates, Auburn. 6 p.m. www.birthvillageclass.com Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes. Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www.opelikasportsplex.com. Friday on the Green Town Green at Russell Crossroads. Alexander City. Through August 29. Facebook. Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center • Art Gallery Fall 2014 Exhibition: Diptychs. Sept. 8-Oct. 10. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art • Matt Moulthrop: Auburn Oak and Heartwood: Woodturned Vessels by Ed, Philip, and Matt Moulthrop. Through Sept. 21. • Picturing An Era: Art from the Great Depression to the Second World War. Through Sept. 21. • John Augustus Walker’s Historical Panorama of Alabama Agriculture. Through Sept. 21. Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other families that look like their family (white parents/Asian child). The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates. Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information. McWane Science Center • Animation - featuring Cartoon Network. Through August 30. • “Island of the Lemurs Madagascar” IMAX. Through January 2015. Birmingham. www.mcwane.org. Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.). 334-887-5111. Try the practice of walking meditation or simply sit and enjoy the sights and sounds. The garden and labyrinth are always open and guests are always welcome. Montgomery Ballet www.montgomeryballet.org. Montgomery Performing Arts Montgomery Performing Arts. www.mpaconline.org. Newnan Theatre Company

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• “Sordid Lives”. Aug. 28 - Sept. 7 • “The Gin Game.” Sept. 25 - Oct. 5. Newnan Theatre Company, GA. www.newnantheatre.org. Old Alabama Town Back to School. Sept. 1 - 30. www.oldalabamatown.com. Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974. Springer Opera House “Shrek: The Musical.” Sept. 18-Oct. 4. Columbus. www.springeroperahouse.org. Virginia Samford Theatre Virginia Samford Theatre, Birmingham. www.virginiasamfordtheatre.org.

Parents Support & Moms Groups

Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/auburnmommiesinalabama/. Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580. Auburn MOPS 1st Wednesday of each month, September-May. 9–11:30 a.m. Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. Meetings open to moms with preschool children ages 5 years and under. $5 per meeting; childcare $5 per child. $25 yearly membership dues. Weekly playdates, monthly moms night out, resources, and more. www.facebook.com/ AuburnOpelikaMOPS; AUMOPS@yahoo.com. Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor. Call 528-1260 to register. La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Monday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ CORNERSTONE Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call Josie at 257-3950. Lee County Autism Support Group meets every other month. Call Julie Brown 887-3903 or Florence Evermom 887-5005. Covenant Presbyterian Church on Shelton Mill Road in Auburn. Main Street Farmer’s Market June 14-October 25. Broad Street, Alexander City. 256-329-9227. Moms In Touch. Do you worry about your children? Come experience how you can replace your anxiety and fear with peace and hope by praying with other moms. Moms In Touch International gathers moms together for one hour, once a week, to pray specifically and scripturally for our children and school. Won’t you join with us in prayer for this next generation? Please contact Julia Farrow at julia@cornerstonebuzz. org for information about our local groups. For more information about Moms In Touch International, visit www.MomsInTouch.org. Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth. net. Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook. Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com.

Mom’s Morning Out

Auburn United Methodist Church, Children’s Day Out Program, every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information.

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Trinity United Methodist Church (Opelika) Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:45–12. $15 per child, $5 each additional.

Support Groups

Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love. Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey. This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov). Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama. For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334826-3082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net. GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past? Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness? You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail Sherry at Women’s Hope: 334.502.7000 or sherry@womenshope.org Don’t let the regret of the past rob you of the joy in the future. Call us today. We are here to help.

Sports

Auburn University Football Aug. 30, Sept. 6, 27. Auburn University Soccer Aug. 29, 31, Sept. 12, 14, 21. Auburn University Volleyball Sept. 12, 13, 19, 20, 26. Montgomery Biscuits Baseball Aug. 17-21, 28-30, Sept. 1. Auburn High School Football Aug. 22, 29, Sept. 12. Opelika High School Football Aug. 29, Sept. 12, 26.

Friday, August 22

End of Summer Luau Samford Pool, Auburn. 6-8 p.m. 11th Annual Thunder on the Gulf Orange Beach. www.thunderonthegulf.com. Friday On the Green Town Green at Russell Crossroads, Alexander City. 6:30 PM. Russell Crossroads on Facebook. Crosby, Stills & Nash BJCC. www.bjcc.org. Beach-Side Movie at Callaway Gardens ‘Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs 2’ www.callaway.com. UniverSoul Circus Legion Field, B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com. End of Summer Luau Samford Pool, Auburn. 6-8 p.m.

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Caving at The Forest Ecology Preserve Auburn. 10-11:30 a.m. Admission is $5 for nonmembers and $4 for members. Children under 3 are free. 334-707-6512. MainStreet Farmer’s Market Alexander City. 256-329-9227. Rumble On Noble 10: Motorcycle & Music Streetfest Anniston. www.rumbleonnoble.com. Color Me Auburn 5K www.aualum.org/5k. 2nd Annual Farm Y’all Festival Cullman. www.farmyall.com. Lowe’s Build-and-Grown Kid’s Clinics ‘Monsters vs Aliens Robot’ Opelika Lowe’s. 10 AM. www.lowesbuildandgrow.com. ReStore’s Flea Market benefiting Habitat for Humanity 7 AM - 1 PM. 3831 Pepperell Pkwy, Opelika. Saturday Jam Sessions Old Alabama Town, Montgomery. 9 AM-12 noon. www.oldalabamatown.com. Dragon Boat Race & Festival Riverfront Park, Montgomery. 8 AM - 4 PM. www.montgomerydragonboat.org. Astronomy Night at CCSSC Columbus. www.ccssc.org. Summer Sunset Music Series at Callaway Gardens www.callaway.com. Keith Urban Oak Mountain Amp. www.ticketmaster.com. UniverSoul Circus Legion Field, B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com.

Sunday, August 24

Open Auditions for 2014 Production of “The Nutcracker” Sponsored by East Alabama Community Ballet. Nix Dance Studio, Auburn. 2-5 p.m. www.eacballet.com. Southern Bridal Show BJCC. www.bjcc.org. Keith Urban Verizon Amp, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com. UniverSoul Circus Legion Field, B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com. Festival Peachtree Latino Piedmont Park, Atl. www.festivalpeachtreelatino.com. Open Auditions for 2014 Production of “The Nutcracker” Sponsored by East Alabama Community Ballet. Nix Dance Studio, Auburn. 2-5 p.m. www.eacballet.com.

Monday, August 25 Comprehensive Childbirth Preparation Birth Village, Opelika. 6-8:30 PM. www.birthvillageclass.com.

Tuesday, August 26 Discovery Hike Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 3:30 PM. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Downtown Opelika Farmer’s Market Downtown Square. 3-6 PM. www.opelika.org.

Wednesday, August 27 World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. A Little Art Talk with Scott Bishop: James Peale, Still Life with Watermelon and Peaches Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. A Little Art Talk JCSM. 12-12:15 PM. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

August/September 2014

Jay Leno Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre. Atl. www.ticketmaster.com.

Thursday, August 28 World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. Nature Walks Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 8:30 AM. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Aerosmith: Let Rock Rule Philips Arena, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com.

Friday, August 29

AUsome Amphibians & Reptiles Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 4-5 p.m. Admission is $5/person. Children 3 and under are free. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Football, Fans and Feathers Southeastern Raptor Center at the Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Vet School, Auburn. 4 p.m. 334-8446943. Locker Room Tours Jordan-Hare Stadium, Auburn. 4-6 p.m. 334-844-8817. World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. Friday On the Green Town Green at Russell Crossroads, Alexander City. 6:30 PM. Russell Crossroads on Facebook. 16th Annual Sky High Hot Air Balloon Festival Callaway Gardens. www.callaway.com. PlainsFest Gay Street Municipal Parking Lot, Auburn. 7 p.m. Free concert: Ben Rector and Switchfoot. Labor Day Weekend at Stone Mountain Georgia. www.stonemountainpark.com. Summer Sunset Music Series at Callaway Gardens www.callaway.com. Dragon Con Atlanta. www.dragoncon.org.

Saturday, August 30

Auburn Alumni Association Hospitality Tent Wallace Center Lawn, Auburn. www.aualum.org. World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. MainStreet Farmer’s Market Alexander City. 256-329-9227. Harry Potter Family Fun Day 2014 The Montgomery Zoo. Limited spaces. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids! Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 AM (weather permitting). 706-324-2453. ReStore’s Flea Market benefiting Habitat for Humanity 7 AM-1 PM. 3831 Pepperell Pkwy, Opelika. 16th Annual Sky High Hot Air Balloon Festival Callaway Gardens. www.callaway.com. Labor Day Weekend at Stone Mountain Georgia. www.stonemountainpark.com. Summer Sunset Music Series at Callaway Gardens www.callaway.com. Great Clips 300 Benefiting Feed the Children Atlanta Motor Speedway. www.ticketmaster.com. Dragon Con Atlanta. www.dragoncon.org.

Sunday, August 31 World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. Okra Festival Burkville, Al. 334-324-7222. Sweet Tater Festival Cullman. www.sweettaterfestival.com.

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16th Annual Sky High Hot Air Balloon Festival Callaway Gardens. www.callaway.com. Labor Day Weekend at Stone Mountain Georgia. www.stonemountainpark.com. Labor Day Weekend Concert on Lake Martin The Amp. www.lakemartin.com. Family Fitness Triathlon www.callawaygardens.com. Dragon Con Atlanta. www.dragoncon.org.

Monday, September 1

World’s Largest Peanut Boil Luverne, Al. 334-382-8590. Sweet Tater Festival Cullman. www.sweettaterfestival.com. Football, Fans & Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn Vet School. 4 PM. 844-6943. Hummingbirds at the Forest Ecology Preserve 10-11 AM. 334-707-6512. Songs in the Woods Forest Ecology Preserve. 3-5 p.m. 334-707-6512. Zoobiliation 2014: The Wildest Party In Town! 6 p.m. - close. www.montgomeryzoo.com. March of Dimes’ Signature Chefs Auction Auburn University Club. 334-513-7381. Labor Day Weekend at Stone Mountain Georgia. www.stonemountainpark.com. Old Seale Russell Co. Courthouse Labor Day Fair www.muscogeemoms.com. Dragon Con Atlanta. www.dragoncon.org. Yellow Daisy Festival Stone Mountain, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. Sesame Street Live: Make a New Friend Fox Theatre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com.

Wednesday, September 3

A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Thursday, September 4 Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Yellow Daisy Festival Stone Mountain, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free.

Friday, September 5

First Fridays ‘Satin Soul’ Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 7 p.m. www.eventcenterdowntown.com. First Fridays “Shop Late, Eat Local” Opelika shops will stay open until 8 p.m. www.opelikamainstreet.org. Football, Fans & Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater, Auburn Vet School. 4 p.m. 844-6943. Yellow Daisy Festival Stone Mountain, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com.

Saturday, September 6 Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. Bug Blitz at FDR State Park Georgia. 8 p.m. 706-663-4858. Grandparents Day at Oxbow Meadows oxbow.columbusstate.edu. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. Yellow Daisy Festival Stone Mountain, Georgia. stonemountainpark.com.

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Family Calendar 1812 Militia Camp Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org.

Sunday, September 7

Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. Yellow Daisy Festival Stone Mountain, Ga. www.stonemountainpark.com. 1812 Militia Camp Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org.

Tuesday, September 9 Discovery Hike Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 3:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve.

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Hummingbirds at the Forest Ecology Preserve 10-11 a.m. 334-707-6512. Sesame Street Live: Make a New Friend Fox Theatre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com. 33rd Original Birmingham Oktoberfest www.dashausbham.com. Waverly Fall Boogie 11:30 a.m. - 8 p.m. www.standarddeluxe.com.

Sunday, September 14 Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. 33rd Original Birmingham Oktoberfest www.dashausbham.com. Songs in the Woods Forest Ecology Preserve. 3-5 p.m. 334-707-6512. Sesame Street Live: Make a New Friend Fox Theatre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com.

Wednesday, September 10 Monday, September 15 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Auburn Area Community Theatre Auditions “A Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Auburn. 6-8 p.m.

September 16 Thursday, September 11 Tuesday, Auburn Area Community Theatre Auditions “A Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Nature Walks Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 8:30 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free. 33rd Original Birmingham Oktoberfest www.dashausbham.com. 4th Annual Brad Powe Memorial Wild Hog Rodeo Camden, Al. www.wilcoxwebworks.com/bp. “Great is Thy Faithfulness Fall Dinner for Ladies” Lakeview Baptist Church, 6:00pm. $10 per person ($5 for Students), with speaker, Tara Rogers Viars. For tickets, please email lakeviewladiesatthewell@ gmail.com or call Christy Scoggins (912-585-2160) or Elizabeth McFarling (205-612-6859).

Friday, September 12

Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Sesame Street Live: Make a New Friend Fox Theatre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com. 33rd Original Birmingham Oktoberfest www.dashausbham.com.

Saturday, September 13

Bug Blitz at FDR State Park Georgia. 8 p.m. 706-663-4858. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. Astronomy Night at the CCSSC 8 p.m. www.ccssc.org. 2nd Annual Tri-City Latino Festival Columbus Civic Center. www.columbusciviccenter.org. Second Saturday Family Fun Day at Columbus Museum Free admission. www.edu@columbusmuseum.com. Second Saturday @ Lee County Historical Society Museum Loachapoka. www.leecountyhistoricalsociety.org. Second Saturday @ Riverfront Park Montgomery. 5-9 p.m. www.funinmontgomery.com.

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Christmas Story” Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Auburn. 6-8 p.m.

Wednesday, September 17 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Thursday, September 18 Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Poetry Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 7 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free. Pizza Pizzazz Covington Rec Center, Opelika. Ages 6-11 years. $15. 3:30-4:30 p.m. Zoobilation 2014 Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org. The Taste of the South Atmore, Al. www.atmorechamber.com. Zoobiliation 2014: The Wildest Party In Town! 6 p.m. - close. www.montgomeryzoo.com.

Friday, September 19

Rangers in Action Demonstration Ft. Benning. 9:30 a.m. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Mike Epps BJCC. www.bjcc.org. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org.

Saturday, September 20 Bug Blitz at FDR State Park Georgia. 8 p.m. 706-663-4858. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org. Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org.

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Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. 51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org. Oktoberfest The Hotel at Auburn University. Adam Keeshan at (334) 321-3165 or at adam.keeshan@auhcc.com. JapanFest Gwinnet Performing Arts Center, Atl. www.japanfest.org. Auburn Beautification Fall Plant Sale Dean Rd Rec Center. 8 a.m. - 12 noon. Fall Arts and Crafts Sale Denson Rec Center, Opelika. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. 705-5558. Saint George Middle Eastern Food Festival Birmingham. www.saintgeorgeonline.org. French Colonial Garrison Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org. Hank Williams 91st Birthday and Collectors Fair 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.thehankwilliamsmuseum.net. Wiregrass Model Railroad Show and Sale National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan. 334-790-6284.

Sunday, September 21

51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org. Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. JapanFest Gwinnet Performing Arts Center, Atl. www.japanfest.org. French Colonial Garrison Fort Toulouse-Fort Jackson, Wetumpka. www.fttoulousejackson.org. Wiregrass Model Railroad Show and Sale National Peanut Festival Fairgrounds, Dothan. 334-790-6284.

Monday, September 22 51st Annual Shrine Circus at the Columbus Civic Center www.columbusciviccenter.org.

Wednesday, September 24 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Paul Taylor Dance Company Opelika Performing Arts Center. www.eastalabamaarts.org.

Thursday, September 25 Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Fall Concert Series Kiesel Park, Auburn. 6-7:30 p.m. Free.

Friday, September 26

Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Friday Football Luncheon 12 p.m. 334-844-8817. Football, Fans, and Feathers Edgar B. Carter Amphitheater. 4 p.m. www.auburn.edu. Jordan-Hare Stadium Locker Room Tours 4 p.m. 334-844-8817. 14th Annual Blue Jean Ball Pat Dye’s Crooked Oaks Hunting Lodge, Notasulga. 5-11 p.m. 334-844-6753.

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Ballet and the Beasts Montgomery Zoo. 6 p.m. Free. www.montgomeryzoo.com. Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. PorktoberQue Houston County Farm Center, Dothan. www.porktoberque.com.

Saturday, September 27 Family Theatre presents “The Velveteen Rabbit” 7:30 p.m. www.familytheatre.org. Market Days on Broadway Columbus. Star Light, Star Bright Astronomy Event FDR State Park, Georgia. 706-663-4858. Water Wonders at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. 706-663-4858. The Rock Ranch Grand Fall Season Grand Opening (Hats off for Heroes Day) www.therockranch.com. Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids! Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453. Johnny Ray Century for Parkinson’s Disease Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. 7 a.m. - 4 p.m. Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. 26th Annual Jubilee Festival Daphne. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.eschamber.com. 26th Annual Taste of the Bayou Bayou La Batre, Al. 5-8 p.m. www.bayoulabatrechamber.com. 23rd Annual Irondale Whistle Stop Festival www.irondalewhistlestopfestival.com. Titus Bluegrass Festival Titus, Al. 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. Facebook.com/pages/TitusBluegrass-Festival. 17th Annual Echota Cherokee Tribe of Alabama Festival and Pow Wow www.echotacherokeetribe.homestead.com/index. 3rd Annual Flomaton Railroad Junction Day Flomaton, Al. www.flomaton.com. PorktoberQue Houston County Farm Center, Dothan. www.porktoberque.com.

Sunday, September 28 Art in the Park at FDR State Park Georgia. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. 706-663-4858. Jazz on the River Columbus Civic Center. 6 p.m. Free. www.columbusciviccenter.org. Art Club: Fold the Flock Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art Auburn. 1:30 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu. Birmingham Home & Remodeling Show BJCC. www.bjcc.com. 26th Annual Jubilee Festival Daphne. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. www.eschamber.com. 17th Annual Echota Cherokee Tribe of Alabama Festival and Pow Wow www.echotacherokeetribe.homestead.com/index.

Looking ahead... Oct. 2. Marvel Universe Live! BJCC. www.ticketmaster.com. Oct. 2. Wine, Women & Shoes Moores Mills Country Club, Auburn. www.winewomenandshoes.com/eamcf. Oct. 3. Ausome Amphibians & Reptiles Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. www.auburn.edu/preserve.

Oct. 4. Music & Dancing On the Mountain FDR Park, Georgia. 7-9 p.m. 706-663-4858. Oct. 4. Disney Junior Live! Presents Pirate & Princess Adventure www.columbusciviccenter.org. Oct. 8, 10. Disney On Ice Presents “Frozen” Philips Arena, Georgia. www.ticketmaster.com. Oct. 10. On the Tracks Downtown Opelika. 6 p.m. www.onthetracks.org. Oct. 11. Creepy Wonderful Critters- Bats! The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. www.auburn.edu/preserve. Oct. 14-19. Greater Columbus Fair Columbus Civic Center, Georgia. www.columbusciviccenter.org. Oct. 18. Syrup Sopping Day at Loachopoka www.syrupsopping.org. Oct. 24. The Great Pumpkin Splash SportsPlex, Opelika 6-8 p.m.

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Oct. 28. Fall Festival Children’s Carnival Opelika SportsPlex. 5:30-8:30 p.m. Oct. 30. Wings of Freedom Tour www.facebook.com/auburnopelikaairshow. Oct. 31. The City of Auburn’s Downtown Trick-or-Treat 6-8 p.m.

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Step Up: All In

The Giver

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: BViolence: B Sexual Content: BLanguage: CAlcohol / Drug Use: BThe MPAA has rated Step Up All In PG-13 for some language and suggestive material. Channing Tatum didn’t have a lot of Hollywood clout when he played a vandal forced to do community service at a dance school in the original Step Up movie. Since then his career has taken off and so has the dance-filled franchise, which has already grossed over $564 million worldwide. Step Up: All In is the fifth title to release and brings back stars from previous films for a battle in Las Vegas. I don’t know who has the smarter marketing strategy -- the Step Up franchise or the promotion team who has found yet another film to spotlight the bright lights of the famous Strip. Either way you won’t see anything new. The desert city has its best marquees highlighted and Step Up: All In recycles the same old storyline: a troubled but seriously ripped hero, an uneasy love relationship and incredible dancing. If you can put up with the first two, then the dance moves are worth the ticket price. Ryan Guzman is back from Step Up Revolution as Sean, leader of The Mob. After earning $50,000 for a Nike commercial, the Miami-based crew settled in Tinsel Town with dreams of making it big. But now a string of unsuccessful auditions has left them at the end of their finances. They’ve decided to pack up and head home. Sean, however, is too stubborn to give up and parts ways with the rest of the troupe. A little later, after getting a job as a handyman in a Los Angeles dance studio, he stumbles across a competition called The Vortex. The winner of the Las Vegas contest gets a steady job with a three-year contract for a stage show in the city. But rather than reassemble his old crew, Sean goes looking for a new one. He starts with the curly haired Moose (Adam Sevani) who helps muster a group of talented dancers (from previous movies). The first hurdle they have to clear is deciding which of them is in charge. Sean thinks it should be him. But Andie (Briana Evigan from Step Up 2: The Streets) has other ideas. Once that is settled, the gang begins planning their audition tape. Sean knows his main competition on The Vortex reality show will be Jasper (Stephen Stevo Jones) and the Grim Knight crew. What he doesn’t expect is to see The Mob there as well. It’s a lightweight story with stilted dialogue, overacting and a sentimental monologue. The predictable plot doesn’t offer any problems you know won’t be resolved before the next big battle. Even Sean’s emphatic use of a strong sexual expletive seems out of place in a script that is relatively void of profanities. Still, you have to remember the story -- as flimsy as it is -- is only there to tie together a string of amazingly choreographed routines. On that front the performers come through. Dancing for a livelihood is a tough career. That may be why some of these characters make this competition seem like a life and death contest. But considering some of the alternative ways people find to solve disputes, maybe the dance floor isn’t such a bad place to battle it out for supremacy.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: AViolence: C Sexual Content: ALanguage: A Alcohol / Drug Use: A The MPAA has rated The Giver PG13 for a mature thematic image and some sci-fi action/violence. What would you give for world peace? With conflicts regularly breaking out in various places around the globe, this question is one each of us has likely contemplated. But such is not the case for the residents of The Community. They live in a utopian environment achieved by eliminating diversity, making their communications precise, prohibiting lying, and administering a daily injection to each individual to insure the health of all. Overseen by the Elders, every person’s life is regulated from his or her birth and placement into a family unit, to their childhood education, assignment to a job, and eventual departure to “elsewhere” in their old age. The society runs so perfectly that no one even thinks to ask what have they given for world peace. No one, except perhaps “The Giver” (Jeff Bridges). Jonas (Brenton Thwaites), a resident of The Community, is about to graduate to adulthood. At the annual ceremony where the career placements are made, the presiding Elder (Meryl Streep) withholds his pronouncement until the end. To the surprise of everyone, instead of being a drone pilot or a nurturer like his friends Asher and Fiona (Cameron Monaghan and Odeya Rush), Jonas is selected to be the next “Receiver of Memory”. Although this is a great honor, Jonas is entirely unsure of what this titled role entails until his training with The Giver begins. The old man, whose position Jonas will one day assume, explains that he is the keeper of memories from the past. The knowledge he possesses about a time before The Community was formed allows him to council the Elders when they face problems beyond their present experience. The wise man will share this information with the young apprentice by clasping his hands, then transferring images and experiences right into Jonas’s mind. Despite his deliberate upbringing, nothing has prepared Jonas for the explosion of thoughts and feelings that the Giver asks him to receive. Introduced to joy, happiness and love, it doesn’t take long for him to catch a glimpse of what his mentor means when he says there is so much more to the world than what life in The Community offers. Yet as he comes to understand pain, sorrow and loss too, he starts to sympathize with why The Elders are trying to protect the citizens. It isn’t until Jonas begins to question the costs incurred by his society in order to maintain the benefit of a peaceful existence that he recognizes he may have to use his own judgment to decide if things should change. Based on a popular young adult novel by Lois Lowery, The Giver also presents the viewer with this age-old conundrum: Which is better? World peace without individual choice, or individual choice that will almost certainly lead to a world without peace? These mature themes make this film a poor choice for young viewers. But it is a strong contender for raising important discussion topics with older children and teens. Featuring solid performances and intriguing art design, The Giver has a lot to offer those willing to thoughtfully receive.

What Parents need to know about Step Up All In...

Violence: Soldiers shoot and kill one another (no blood shown). Some die. Poachers shoot an elephant for its ivory. Real news footage is shown of various world conflicts, protests and disasters. Lethal injections are given to infants, the elderly and the disobedient. A character is chased by law enforcers, and electrocuted with a weapon. A teen and child are dropped from a height into a turbulent river. Characters struggle to survive against the elements. Sexual Content: A teen couple holds each other’s hands and kiss on a couple of occasions. Body chances during puberty are alluded to. Language: None noted. Alcohol / Drug Use: None noted.

What Parents need to know about The Giver...

Violence: Characters exchange verbal jabs and then proceed to “battle” on the dance floor. Some characters lie or mislead others. Sexual Content: Couples kiss on several occasions. Characters make sexist comments. Female judges ask men to remove their shirts while auditioning. Some mild innuendo and crude sexual humor are included. Brief shots of nude statues and paintings are shown. Language: The script includes a strong sexual expletive and infrequent scatological slang, mild crude terms and some profanities. Alcohol / Drug Use: Characters drink in social settings and at home. Auburn Opelika Parents I September 2014

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