Auburn-Opelika Parents January 2015

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Volume 5 Number 11

24 Columns

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Publisher’s Note Kendra Sumner

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Living With Children John Rosemond

Kids Health Watch The benefits of breast milk are many, and research continues to prove that “breast is best.”

Networking 101 for New Moms Find out how to stay connected, not become isolated, after baby.

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Kids Health Watch sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

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Dave Says Dave Ramsey

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Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

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A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

New & Expectant Parents Guide

7 Ways to Help When Baby Arrives

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Our guide tells you where to go in Lee County for “all things baby!”

Offer relief to a new family with these easy, yet creative, ideas.

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Get This!

Gerry Paige Smith

Parenting on the Plains Polly Dunn, Ph.D.

On The Cover Jackson Aaron Cottrell was born October 21st to Tim and Julie Cottrell of Opelika, AL. He has two adoring big sisters, Hannah (7) and Libby (4).

With Jackson’s addition to the family, he brings coos, smiles, and so much love. Our family is looking forward to a year full of Jackson’s milestones and making lasting memories.

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Departments 6

Bits and Pieces 9

School Bits 35

Family Calendar 40

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Publisher’sNote Last year, as I rang in 2014, my New Year’s resolution was to have no resolutions. After countless years of making promises to stick to a diet, put myself first more often, and start a new hobby, all failing by the third week of January, I realized I had been going about it all wrong. Leading each task with myself in mind was by far the main error of my resolution ways. So instead, in 2014 my resolution was just one word… ‘more’. I hoped for more time building my faith, more family togetherness, more fun, more friends, more planning, more, more and more! With just one word as my resolution, I knew there was no way I could fail.

Today, as I reflect on this past year, I definitely succeeded in sticking with my resolution of ‘more’. For example, as I focused on more time investing in my faith, I found it always growing and giving me strength for each day. The time spent with family throughout this year is where most of my memories and happiness lie.

As for the having ‘more fun’ and ‘more friends’ part, well, let’s just say that goes handin-hand. From meeting at the lake, or downtown for a magical parade, to volunteering at our children’s schools, it has been a blast! Those whom I have been blessed to call my friends have sustained me this year. Their genuine love for me and my family has encouraged me and made me proud to call them friends. In these friendships, we have seen that we are all moms with similar struggles and challenges and the natural support for each other makes our parenting path much easier. For those who know me well, the ‘more planning’ part is me, at my best. I thrive on making plans, organizing events, setting goals, and leading the way. It is where I find personal joy and strength that extends to all aspects of my life. So, needless to say, I planned and organized everything and everyone all year long! I guess that is mostly why I feel blessed to be able to bring Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine to our community each month. Being able to share local resources, family fun and events, as well as informative and research-based articles with our readers, fulfills me and makes my heart smile. Connecting families in our area with a common bond of parenting our children, through all its differing stages and cycles, is the overall goal where we have given it ‘more’!

Are you wondering what my 2015 resolution is? Yes, it is just one word… ‘grow’. Of course, I want to grow more in my faith, family, friends and community, but would also like to dig deeper to the roots in that growth. For starters, we are planting new roots in a new home. Our kids are excited to get to know new neighbors, have more friends over to play and make lasting memories in our new home and neighborhood. Another reason I choose the word ‘grow’ is for a daily reminder that my children are growing up so very quickly. Not only do I want to watch their growth and milestones, but I need to invest more into their growth by watering them, pruning them, being shade for them and knowing when to just stand in their shadows.

There are some personal areas of growth too, like wanting to push my volunteerism further into the community and out of my comfort zone. Giving back to others is not only rewarding to those helped, but the personal growth found along the way can be life changing. Also, planting those seeds for others can spark a growth that is long lasting.

Finally, my hope for growing Auburn Opelika Parents this year is that it will reach more families, provide a greater source of support and encouragement, and link our community to the common commitment of parenting with a purpose. It is my resolution to do my part in that growth. Here’s to a wonderful 2015 and to resolutions made, that take root, sprout and prosper. From one parent to another, Happy New Year!

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Auburn Opelika Lee County’s Foremost Parenting Source

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant role in our community.

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Kendra Sumner kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@auburnopelikaparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Contributing Writers Polly Dunn, Ph.D. Laura Handey Christa Hines Sara Marchessault Dave Ramsey John Rosemond Gerry Paige Smith Katie Wolter, M.D. Cover Photography Candy Avera www.pictureperfectbycandy.com

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LivingWithChildren

by John Rosemond

Moms Should Nurture, Not Enable Q: My buddy’s wife walks their 11-yearold into the classroom each day. Then she takes out his assignments and helps him get ready. We’re talking about a very capable kid who has no “issues” at all. My buddy says other mothers at his son’s school are also doing the same thing. My wife has heard about this and wants to start walking our very capable son into his 4th grade room. What are your thoughts?

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cause of some developmental problem or medical issue might need a parent to walk them into school, but that practice is unnecessary otherwise. My first thought is that this is a symptom of what is and has been happening in American mother culture for some time now. One mother ups the ante on the other mothers by taking enabling to a new level and it spreads like wildfire by some psychic transmission force that men have no aptitude for.

My second thought is that today’s moms generally seem to think that raising a child is all about nurturing; therefore, the more a mother nurtures, the better a mother she must be. This was

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not the case 60-plus years ago, when mothers could strike fear into the hearts of their kids with no more than a sideways glance. Now children strike fear into their mothers, who do not have a firm grasp of the fact that unless nurturing is balanced by an equal portion of authority, it turns into a toxic thing called enabling.

My third thought is that when I say stuff like this, some women think I’m— as one put it recently—“ragging” on women. No, I’m trying to help women understand what they have allowed themselves to become caught up in and swept along by. This is not about women, obviously, because women of my mother’s generation and before did not come close to fitting this description.

Since then, we have gone from men demeaning women to women demeaning themselves.

My fourth thought is that we seem to have misplaced a sense of purpose when it comes to raising children. The purpose is to help them become adults, and it should be self-evident that the more quickly they become adults and take on adult responsibilities, the better off they are. Walking a competent 11-year-old into class every day and

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helping him get situated significantly raises the likelihood that this child, 20 years from now, will still be living at home, being waited on hand and foot by his mother.

My fifth thought is that these mothers have too much time on their hands.

Lacking modern conveniences, having to wash clothes and dishes by hand and sweep and mop rather than fire up a vacuum cleaner, my mother and her peers did not have time to bring perfection to every aspect of their children’s lives. In fact, their callous disregard of our fragile psyches included making us wash, sweep, and mop along with them.

A mom who has the time to walk her 11-year-old into school every day and arrange his work for him needs to get out and volunteer with people who really and truly need her help.

My last and hopefully most sobering thought is that these moms are going a long way toward ensuring that their male children grow up with no respect whatsoever for women. Respecting and expecting are incompatible.

Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions on his website at www.rosemond.com.

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Free Weekday Admission this Winter to Callaway Gardens

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Enjoy all that Callaway Gardens has to offer throughout the winter months for free!

Admission to Callaway Gardens is FREE, Monday-Friday, Jan. 16 to Feb. 27, 2015 (weekdays only, excludes Saturday and Sunday). With gardens, lakes, trails, and wildlife to see, a day at Callaway Gardens is a family fun outing that will bring memories to last forever. www.callawaygardens.com.

Third Thursday Poetry Series at Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Arts

JCSM partners with the Third Thursday Poetry Series for an evening of jazz, food, and art. As the name suggests, guests are welcome to come and enjoy extended gallery hours and readings by selected poets on the third Thursday of each month at 7 p.m. On January 15 at 7 p.m., Kyes Stevnes is the guest poet. Kyes Stevens is a poet, small-time farmer/gardener and founder and director of the Alabama Prison Arts + Education Project in the College of Liberal Arts at Auburn University. She earned a MA and MFA at Sarah Lawrence College. Her poems have appeared in several journals, including the Blue Collar Review and Poetry Southeast.

The Museum CafĂŠ is open from 5 to 8 p.m. for tapas service. The jazz trio, Cullars Improvisational Rotation, opens for the readings with a shorter set from 6 to 7 p.m. This program has been made possible by grants from the Alabama State Council on the Arts and the National Endowment for the Arts. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Winter Invitation 2015 at Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center

January Invitation is an exhibition featuring two and three dimensional works based on common theme of circles. Bring the family out to see the art! The Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center provides residents and visitors with access to an outstanding schedule of art exhibitions, orchestra concerts, live theatre productions, lectures, art, music, dance, and theatre classes, art education programs, and special events for children and adults. The facility offers an art gallery, performance room, children’s gallery, conference room, and two art studios. The Art Center is located 222 E. Drake Ave. Auburn, 334-501-2963. www. auburnalabama.org/arts.

3rd Annual Polar Plunge

Presented by Auburn Parks and Recreation and Lee County Special Olympics. Proceeds benefit Lee County Special Olympics. Sign up, dive in, January 31, 9:00 a.m. and raise money for a great cause!

Brave the cold at the 3rd Annual Polar Plunge. Recruit sponsors to support you as you take the plunge in support of Lee County Special Olympics. Individual and group costumes are encouraged.

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Breastfeeding and New Mom Support

Hosted by East Alabama Birth Village, January 16, 6:30-7:30 p.m., at the Harris Center, Auburn.

Research has proven that community and peer-to-peer support is critical in helping new mothers reach their breastfeeding goals. Join us as we welcome all breastfeeding moms and moms-tobe to an informal support group. Working mothers are particularly encouraged to attend. An IBCLC will be attending, and we will have a scale so you can weigh your baby. Come experience community birth and breastfeeding support. www.birthvillage.org.

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Lullaby CD Released by Local Musicians, Martha’s Trouble

“A Little Heart Like You”. Available online and inside Cutie Pie, Auburn, Al. A Lullaby CD is for Kids of All Ages! Guarenteed to calm your child. This collection is a very organic, acoustic record, utilizing soothing, calming instruments and repetitive beats (with only hand percussion such as djembe, cajon, kanjira, and frame drum) for a sound that is both feel-good and relaxing. This album contains a total of ten songs, with four originals and some traditional lullabies thrown in, as well, such as “Twinkle Twinkle,” “Hush Little Baby,” and “You Are My Sunshine.” “A Little Heart Like You” is simply an expression of parental love and one that every child should hear. Visit www.marthastrouble.com.

Your Ultimate Wedding Planning Experience!

Join us January 11 for the South's Elite Bridal Event at the Birmingham Jefferson Convention Center, where brides are able to meet face to face with wedding professionals and find everything you need to create the wedding of your dreams! You can see a photographer's pictures, taste samples of cakes and foods from the caterers, see your future gown and the tuxedo of your groom on the fashion show runway, listen to the music of your DJ, visualize the flowers that you will be carrying down the aisle, get ideas for your bridal registry, plan your honeymoon and so much more! See the South's most spectacular bridal fashion show production at 4 p.m. with professional models, dancers, recording artists and live entertainment! Registered brides will also receive a free one year subscription to “Brides Magazine” and will be eligible to win a deluxe, all-inclusive honeymoon trip! Register by purchasing your tickets on our website, or you will receive a registration form at the show. Tickets are $15 at the door, or you can click on the link to the left to purchase discounted tickets for $10 each. There is no charge for children 5 years old and younger. Don't wait in line...Order your tickets and get express entry to the show! www.eliteevents.com.

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KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

Breast Milk is Best Human breast milk is the best, and in pre-formula times, the only source of nutrition for infants. With the development of formula, our society began to move away from the “breast is best” mentality and began to see breastfeeding as a nuisance and inferior to formula feeding. Unfortunately, we began to see huge decreases in breastfeeding rates and in turn, huge increases in formula consumption. This led to a large financial and medical burden on society, the intricacies of which we are only beginning to understand.

Fortunately in the past 10-20 years, there has been a movement to research and learn why breast milk is the best source of nutrition for infants. A multitude of research has been done on the benefits of breast versus formula feeding and I believe we have only begun to scratch the surface. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that mothers exclusively breastfeed their babies for six months and to continue breastfeeding for at least one year or longer as mutually desired by mother and infant. The World Health Organization (WHO) recommends that mothers breastfeed their infants for a minimum of two years due to the overwhelming amount of positive benefits from breastfeeding.

This article is in no way intended to cause guilt to mothers who were or are unable to breastfeed, but only to provide

reasons as to why, if possible, breastfeeding is the optimal source of nourishment for your infant. With that being said, one of my greatest mentors once said, “Breastfeeding is not just a personal choice, but a public policy issue,” and I hope that after reading the below information you will agree.

Health Benefits

First of all, breastfeeding has been scientifically proven to reduce rates of pneumonia and ear infections. It has also been shown to decrease the severity of RSV (respiratory synctitial virus) infections. Research has also shown that the rate of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) can be drastically decreased by breastfeeding. Regarding SIDS, a recent article stated that “more than 900 infant lives per year may be saved in the United States if 90% of mothers exclusively breastfed for six months.” Even in babies with a family history of asthma and eczema, there is a significant decrease in the incidence of babies developing these conditions when they are breastfed exclusively for at least three months. Diabetes, both type 1 and 2, and obesity are decreased substantially in children who are breastfed exclusively.

Celiac disease, inflammatory bowel disease (Chrohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis), and childhood leukemia and lymphoma also

show significant decrease in infants breastfed versus those who are formula fed. In most cases these affects are dose-related meaning that the longer a mother breastfeeds her infant, the more protection the baby receives from negative health outcomes. However, with gastrointestinal infections, like the “stomach bug”, any amount of breastfeeding has been shown to decrease the rate of infection.

Despite all the above information, there still remains a cultural stigma regarding breastfeeding in our society which makes it extremely difficult for breastfeeding mothers to be successful. The old adage, “It takes a village to raise a family” is so true and without family and societal support we will never attain our breastfeeding goals. It is my hope that as more information is spread regarding the benefits of breastfeeding and more women stand up for their rights as breastfeeding mothers, that our societal attitude will move away from mere tolerance of breastfeeding mothers and their babies and toward one of embracing and supporting them.

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Dr. Katie Wolter is board certified in Pediatrics and is a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Lee County Medical Society, Medical Association of the State of Alabama, and the American Medical Association. She is passionate about breastfeeding medicine and is currently working on becoming an IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant). She is also a member of the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine. Dr. Wolter is married to her husband, Jeremy, and has four sons. She loves to spend her free time outdoors with her family and friends.

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Autauga County Schools

Thanksgiving at Jeter Primary School

Thanksgiving Feast at Carver Primary School

Kindergarten students at Carver Primary School celebrated Thanksgiving by having a feast.

Jeter Primary students celebrated Thanksgiving by making headbands and colorful wreaths.

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Live Museum at Northside School

Fifth grade students at Northside School recently presented the annual Live Museum. Students researched historical figures, dressed in costume, and gave presentations to students and family members about the characters.

Notasulga Knits Students at Notasulga High School are learning about 3D Printing with Yarn this semester. They are designing 3D garments, toys, and household items, and then "printing" them with handmade wooden needles. While this project is designed to promote spatial thinking, a skill that develops math and science skills, it is also a relaxing way to relieve stress, a fun way to exercise the brain, allows for self-expression and builds confidence. Students, their teacher, AND their principal are taking the class, taught by science education professor, Christine Schnittka of Auburn University. If you are interested in donating yarn for this project, contact Dr. Schnittka via email at schnittka@auburn.edu.

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Opelika High School High Theatre Society Wins Awards

Pajama Day at Southview Primary

The Opelika High Theatre Society won "Best Ensemble" and "Best of Show" for their One Act performance of "The Quilt, A Musical Celebration". In addition, Dean Jones, Paxton Moeller and Auburn Terry were named to the All Star Cast. Mr. Revel Gholston, OHTS Director, was also named the 2014 Teacher of the Year by the Alabama Conference of Theatre.

Southview Primary students wore pajamas to "Wake up to a Drug Free World" during Red Ribbon Week.

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Auburn High School Theatre Students Compete at Trumbauer

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10 Theatre AHS students competed at State Trumbauer recently at Troy University. Nine students earned Superior medals (the highest ranking possible) for their performances and one student earned an Excellent medal (the second-highest ranking). In addition, Collin Carter earned the 1st Place award in the state for his Solo Male Contemporary Comedic performance of “Moving Out,” and Maggie Hand earned the 2nd Place award in the state for her Technical Theatre Make Up Designs for Alice in Wonderland.

Trinity Students Tour Alabama Institute for the Deaf and Blind

Trinity’s third graders recently visited the Alabama Institute for the Deaf and Blind. Students were given a tour of the Deaf Campus by a student and interpreter, and they were able to see two elementary classes. At the Blind campus, students were able to meet another third grade student who read to the class from a Braille book.

You’re Invited!

Kids New Year’s Eve party!

When: December 31st Where: Niffer’s Place For: *Free Food and Fun! RESERVE YOUR TABLE! The countdown begins at 8:00PM. party hats and sparkling cider will be available all night.

Due to the incredible response in years past, and to keep from disappointing any kids, Niffers has set up a special web page for reservations for this event: Simply go to: http://www.niffersplace.com/new-years.html and reserve today

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* free food per child is with a paying adult meal, fun depends on you!

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Drugs are Tacky at Wrights Mill Road

5th Graders Dress up for Tacky Day at Wrights Mill Road. Pictured are Ashley C., Lilie H., Anna Louise P., Jayden J., and Millie M.

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Richland Elementary Student Earns CIA Award

Richland Elementary School is proud to announce that Harper Olsen is representing Auburn City Schools for the December Character In Action Awards with Judge Mike Fellows. Olsen was a huge help when it came to the RES PTO Super Fund Run. Even after she reached her goal she continued to give by assisting other students in raising money as well. The ceremony was held in the family court of the Lee County Justice Center. Here is a look at Olsen with Judge Fellows and her family.

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Autauga County Schools

Sticky Note Challenge at Auburn High School

Students at Auburn High are combating bullying with the Sticky Note Challenge, hosted by the Stand Club! The challenge is for the students to select one or two of the handmade sticky notes posted in the 9000 building at AHS and pass it along to another student in a different class, preferably someone they do not know!

Safe-T-Opolis at Pick Elementary Thank you to Alabama Power and Mrs. Cody Warren for visiting the 4th graders at Pick Elementary School last week for Safe-T-Opolis.

This is a beneficial partnership that educates ACS students about the importance of electrical safety.

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Polar Express Holiday Celebration

Auburn Parks and Recreation and the Auburn Arts Association hosted the Polar Express Holiday Celebration on Saturday, Dec. 6 at 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. at the Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. The event included holiday-themed arts & crafts, a visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, music, children's activities, a performance by the East Alabama Community Ballet, and a ride on a trackless train.

Pictured, Kirby Brandon (age 7) writes her Christmas letter to Santa at the Polar Express Holiday Celebration, hosted by Auburn Parks and Recreation and the Auburn Arts Association.

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Trinity Students Visit Washington, D.C.

Eleventh and twelfth graders from Trinity Christian School traveled to Washington, D.C. in November to tour our nation’s capital. Students visited major sites, such as Arlington Cemetery, the Capitol Building, the Supreme Court, the Library of Congress, the Lincoln and Jefferson Memorials, the Smithsonian Institute, Mt. Vernon, and Ford’s Theater. The eleventh and twelfth grade had a wonderful time on this much-anticipated trip learning about our nation’s history!

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Autauga County Schools

Ribbon Cutting at Cary Woods Elementary

Cary Woods Elementary School and Auburn University's College of Building Science students cut the ribbon on the new sidewalk at CWES! This service project is just one of many that have been made possible through the ongoing partnership of ACS and AU

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Beulah HS Student Council Members Work with Community Outreach Program

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Members of BHS Student Council helped pack food items for the Beulah Methodist Church Community Outreach Program. Pictured (left to right) are: Ashley Holloway, Brooklyn Burdette, Kaylynn Williams, Emily Scalf, Whitney Hadaway, Kaitlyn Brown, Kam Washington, Davis Owen and Kyler Fender.

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Celebrating 25 years!

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Caring for your children and laying a foundation for their growth and success has been our calling for the past 25 years. Our unique, caring approach is rooted in an understanding that each child is a gift and a responsibility.

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Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Honors Veterans

The service rendered by the men & women of the United States Armed Forces (active duty & veterans) calls for recognition frequently & consistently. For our freedom they give selflessly, a feat to be celebrated.

The Youth of eta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. Psi Gamma Zeta auxiliary showed their thanks by collecting and donating over 200 toiletry items to the Central Alabama Veterans Health Care System. (VA hospital Tuskegee, AL). Pictured are the youth at the entrance of the East Campus. Pictured from left to right are: Angel Bailey, TaNala Welch, Shonquala Burton, Elyssia Brown, Brailyn Johnson, Cammy Smith, Frances Bailey.

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Dean Road Elementary School recently held their first Polar Express Literacy Night. The night was hosted by Tanya Nolen, Title One teacher. Students and parents enjoyed spending time together rotating to different literacy stations. At the end of the night they enjoyed hot chocolate, cookies and reading a book together!

Pictured are teachers, parents, and students enjoying Literacy Night.

EXPERIENCE AUBURN’S ART MUSEUM SPECIAL PRESENTATION: Rembrandt, Rubens, Gainsborough and the Golden Age of Painting in Europe Organized by the Speed Art Museum, Louisville, Kentucky ON VIEW THROUGH JANUARY 4, 2015 Billy Renkl: Gleanings ON VIEW THROUGH JANUARY 25, 2015 1072 Society Exhibition ON VIEW THROUGH JANUARY 25, 2015 John Himmelfarb: TRUCKS JANUARY 25– MAY 10, 2015

Discover films, performances, youth studios, artist talks, café dining, unique gifts and more at JCSM.AUBURN.EDU Regular museum admission is free courtesy of JCSM Business Partners.

For the special presentation exhibition, a donation starting at $5 is recommended. © 2014 Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art, Auburn University.

Auburn University is an equal opportunity educational institution/employer.

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Autauga County Schools

Opelika High School Cross Country Team Honored at Board of Education Meeting

The OHS Boys Cross Country team was honored at the December 9 OCS Board of Education meeting for placing second in the AHSAA Class 6A Cross County Meet this fall. Ben Bryant won the Boys AHSAA Cross Country Individual 6A title and was honored for his State Championship.

Opelika Middle School Club Makes Cards for Cancer Patients

Members of the Opelika Middle School Cure Dawgs recently worked to make holiday cards for patients at the EAMC Cancer Center. The students meet weekly to complete projects that will help and encourage those with cancer.

Richland Elementary Honors Veterans

Richland Elementary School was filled with voices of students singing about their country in honor of the ones that protect this land! The RES choir put on a great show as the colors were presented at their Veterans Day program.

"How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!� --Maya Angelou

Auburn High School JROTC Finishes in Top 25

In early November the Auburn High School JROTC Raider team once again finished in the top 25 at the U.S. Army National JROTC Raider Championships in Molena, Ga. The Raider team was one of 93 teams invited to participate in The Raider National Championship competition from over 2,200 JROTC programs in the country. The team finished 24th overall out of the 93 teams.

AHS assistant principals snuck in on the team with a surprise congratulations.

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Students at Southview Primary participated in Colonial Day activities by learning about woodworking from Mr. Richard Barnes. They also learned about sewing, beekeeping, and blacksmithing.

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Wrights Mill Road Students Stay Drug Free

Wrights Mill Road students say, “We Pledge to stay Drug Free” by designing links for a Paper Chain of unity.

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Autauga County Schools Beulah Basketball Off to a Hot Start

Beulah’s Varsity Boys Basketball Team has continued it’s hot start after posting an exciting home opener win at the Bobcat Den. The Bobcats defeated Montgomery’s LAMP HS last Friday night in the season’s home opener 57-44 led by Senior Tony Brown with 25 points to start the season 1-0. New Beulah Boys Varsity Coach Doug Warren enjoyed his first win for the BHS home opener.

Then the Bobcats went on the road to defeat the Generals of Horseshoe Bend HS breaking open a close game to win 62 – 30. The win improved Doug Warren’s Bobcats to 2-0 overall. Tony Brown again led all scorers with 22 points, Cordarius Turner added 10, Cole McLelland, BJ Malone, Tez Turner, and Lonzie Portis each added six points. Davis Owen scored 3, Macio Malone 2 and Trent Lewis chipped in with one point. Pictured celebrating the team’s first victory home victory of the season with their new Coach Doug Warren is from left to right: Kneeling in the front row: Davis Owen (Jr), Lonzie Portis (8th), Tez Turner (9th), Cordarius Turner (9th), Ty McCants (11th), Trent Lewis (9th), and GeKari Cochran (10th). Standing in the back row: Cole McLelland (Sr), BJ Malone (Sr), Macio Malone (Jr), Tony Brown (Sr), Coach Doug Warren and Kelvin Miller.

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Celtic Dancers Bring Home Multiple Awards Celtic Traditions dancers competed in New Orleans with six girls, to bring home a total of 21 awards (with three 1st places, five 2nd places, and six 3rd places).

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Students Stand Up Against Bullying

Congrats to Layne and Mallory for winning the STAND Club Sticky Note Challenge! They both received gifts cards from Chick-Fil-A for standing up and speaking out to stop bullying.

Projects and More Projects at Trinity Christian School

Students of all ages have been working diligently on projects at Trinity Christian School.

Fourth graders retold the story of the fall of Troy with their Trojan Horse projects, eighth and ninth graders recently completed models of Egyptian pyramids for ancient history, and the tenth grade built replicas of feudal manor houses.

Snowballs at Cary Woods

Cary Woods Elementary School held their winter-themed Good Behavior Celebration recently. Students who display positive characteristics are rewarded at the end of each nine weeks with a day of active fun. The kids had "snowball" fights, built snowmen by toilet-papering other kids as well as having a relay race on "bouncy snowballs."

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Autauga County Schools

Prematurity Awareness/ACS Students Host Walk

Auburn High Future Business Leaders of America hosted a “Walk and Roll” for students, faculty members, families and community partners. Our goal was to have participants in this event to discover how to partner with organizations around our district in improving the health of premature babies and preventing birth defects. Shown, are FBLA Advisors and members: Sonya Hutchinson, Advisor; Kamisha Hill, VP, Audrey Marshall, Advisor, Anna Greene, Alabama FBLA District VP/AHS Treasurer, and Mona Robbins, President with Auburn Mayor Bill Ham, as he signs a Proclamation for Prematurity Awareness Day.

Third Grade Plants a Garden at Trinity

The 3rd Grade at Trinity Christian School has been hard at work planting and tending a garden of radishes and pumpkins. Students are enjoying checking daily on the progress of this hands-on project, and they will soon have a tasting day where they cook their radishes in different ways to see which they like the best!

Opelika High School Choirs Perform at City’s Veteran’s Day Program

Members of the Opelika High School Ovations and Chamber Choirs were honored to perform at the Veteran's Day program sponsored by the City of Opelika honoring CSM (Ret.) Bennie Adkins and all of those who have served in the military.

Zeta Youth Attend Leadership Conference

Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc. Psi Gamma Zeta Youth auxiliary members attended the 2014 Alabama State Leadership Conference in Montgomery. Psi Gamma Zeta Youth desire to emulate Zeta's ideals of service, scholarship, sisterhood, and Finer Womanhood. Through various programs sponsored by the Auburn Zeta graduate chapter, the youth gain greater self-esteem, develop lasting friendships, cultural enhancement, leadership skills, opportunities to learn about themselves, learn how to get along with others, internalize qualities that will make them good students and community citizens. PGZ members attending the conference from left to right are: Brailyn Johnson, Cammy Smith, Angel Bailey, TaNala Welch, Frances Bailey, Shonquala Burton, Elyssia Brown.

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Colonial Times at Pick Elementary

Students at Pick Elementary School learned about colonial times in early American civilization. They learned calligraphy, stitching, colonial recipes as well as learning to do the "Virginia Reel" folk dance.

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Richland Elementary Fund Run Raises Over $30,000

On Friday, November 7th, Richland had their Fund Run Reveal where their PTO president, Mrs. Kirsten Milenkovitch announced that the students raised more than their $30,000 goal: A total of 12,511 laps were run in the bus loop behind the school (almost 3000 miles) which brought in a total of $33,261.84.

Veterans Day Breakfast at Wrights Mill Road

The Wrights Mill Road Elementary School staff, faculty and students honored our veterans for Veterans Day. A welcome breakfast was held.

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Tammy Allison was recently named Teacher of the Year at Dean Road Elementary School. Mrs. Allison graduated from Auburn University in 1991 with a degree in Early Childhood for the Handicapped. She has worked in Pensacola, Florida and Dublin, Georgia before joining Auburn City Schools.

This year marks Mrs. Allison’s tenth year of teaching. Mrs. Allison is married to Rodney Allison and they have three children – Lily, Sam, and Kaylee Marie.

Pictured is Mrs. Allison with her family on the day of the “big announcement.”

From left to right Mike Speaks (Mrs. Allison’s father), Lily Allison, Rodney

Allison, Tammy Allison, Carolyn Speaks (Mrs. Allison’s mother, Tim and April Speaks (brother and sister-in-law).

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Allen Orthodontics came to visit Southview Primary School for National Orthodontics Month.

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Make a plan. The number-one mistake people make with their money is they don’t bother with a plan. They have no idea where their money is going! The money comes in and the money goes out, and only the names are changed to protect the innocent.

You have to do a budget! Put a name to every dollar you earn. Tell your money what to do instead of wondering where it went. Remember, it takes at least three months of practice and dedication to really make your budget work.

Save for emergencies. I promise you it’s going to rain from time to time, so you’ll need an umbrella. Save $1,000 in cash as quickly as possible for an emergency fund before you begin attacking your debt.

After you pay off all your debt except for your mortgage, increase your

emergency fund to cover three to six months of expenses. Layoffs happen, cars break down, and kids get sick. A fully funded emergency fund can turn these disasters into nothing more than minor inconveniences.

Don’t make the mistake of putting life’s emergencies on a credit card. You’ll end up paying on them for months or even years to come. An emergency fund gives you the peace of mind that comes with knowing you can handle whatever life throws at you.

Use the debt snowball. List all of your debts, except your house, from smallest payoff balance to largest.

Make the minimum payment on every debt except the smallest and put every extra dollar you can find toward the smallest debt until it is paid.

If you can find a way to generate extra income, do it! Take on a part-time job for a while or have a big yard sale and get rid of that stuff you never use, wear or didn’t want in the first place!

Then focus on paying off the next smallest debt, then the next, then the next, rolling the money over each time.

Have plastic surgery. Cut up all of your credit cards. We call this a plasectomy. Everyone says they pay off their credit cards each month, but the truth is virtually no one does.

People are more reluctant to spend money when they see tens and twenties leaving their wallets and going into someone else’s. You really feel it when you have to lay out cash. Get rid of the credit cards!

Invest for the future. When you’re debt-free and have a fully funded emergency fund, you’re ready to start planning for the future. Invest 15 percent of your income in a 401(k), Roth IRA and other tax-advantaged retirement plans. Why not more? Because the extra money you’ll save can go toward saving for college (if you have kids) or paying off your home early.

Do these things sound like a dream? Well, I can tell you from experience that some dreams do come true. Make 2015 the year you begin to live like no one else, so later you really can live like no one else!

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Parenting in isolation without moral support is lonely and emotionally debilitating. One of the most important ways to take care of yourself (and by extension your family) is to maintain a thriving social network that provides a healthy dose of physical, mental, and emotional support.

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Why support matters. According to a recent Gallup poll, stay-at-home-moms are at greater risk for depression than mothers who work. And, PostPartum Support International reports that one in eight women suffers from postpartum depression. Isolation can contribute to feelings of depression. Just a short burst of time spent with friends can boost a woman’s oxytocin levels, a natural hormone that decreases stress and anxiety.

Join a mothers’ group. In the “Better Mom, Better World” research study commissioned on behalf of MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) International by the Barna Group in 2010, researchers found that mothers believe they are more optimistic and resilient to life’s daily stresses and occasional crises when surrounded by a community of support.

Moms’ groups come in a variety of sizes, philosophies and commitment levels.

From faith-based organizations and moms of multiples’ clubs to attachment parent and stay-at-home only groups, options abound.

Shop around to find a group that fits your personality and parenting style. Visit the group as a guest. Ask the membership director questions like: • How often does the group meet?

• Does the group schedule moms-only events?

• If mom-only activities are scheduled during the day, is childcare provided?

• What types of play groups and activities does the group plan?

• How does the group support members?

(For example, educational speakers? Meals for moms of new babies?)

Schedule activities. Losing yourself in the day-to-day rotation of feedings, naps, baths and playtime may be fine for a while.

However, injecting your calendar with a sprinkling of activities throughout the week for both you and your child will energize you, give you something to look forward to and help you feel connected to the world outside your home. Not sure where to begin? Check with your local library and bookstore for story hours and seek out “Mommy and Me” groups which run the gamut from physical activities to musical education. If you work full-time, talk to other working moms about meeting up at the park or indoor play area for a short weekend playdate. (Check out the New & Expectant Parents Guide immediately following this article for other ideas.)

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Seek help immediately if you have suicidal thoughts or if you experience chronic symptoms of depression. For a complete list of symptoms, check out the National Institute of Mental Health’s website, http://www.nimh.nih.gov. we can find comfort knowing others can relate and that we aren’t alone. Thanks to social media like Facebook, Pinterest, MeetUp. com and mommy blogs, you can click into the land of the living without feeling the need to put clean clothes on or even brush your teeth!

Get active. Schedule time for an exercise class when your spouse is home or join a gym that offers quality childcare. Not only are fitness classes a fun way to get in shape, you’ll feel mentally refreshed, more patient, and more positive in general. And the more you go, the more you’ll get to know the other participants, which will make you feel more accountable about showing up.

If a gym is out of the budget, find a friend or two to walk with a few times a week, either around a park, the neighborhood or a mall on inclement-weather days.

As your children grow older, schedule time during or at the end of the walk for them to play at a park or indoor play area.

Share your talents. You may feel tempted to push your personal interests aside due to overwhelming family demands. Negotiate time with your spouse to pursue your hobbies and other interests. Share your interests by inviting friends to join you for a gardening or cooking class or to start a book club.

Create a calendar. You write everyone

else’s appointments on your calendar. Take yourself seriously, too. Honor your personal needs by making appointments with yourself, including fitness classes, walks with friends, moms’ meetings, dinner with a friend, classes you’ve signed up for, and so on. Sure, sometimes a sick child will throw a wrench into your plans, but isn’t flexibility one of the first lessons moms learn? When necessary, share your appointments with your spouse so he isn’t caught unaware. AOP

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Alright ladies, now that we have headed into a new year, let’s start looking forward to a new you! As you think about the various areas of your life that need improvement this year, I encourage you to think about your wardrobe and consider the role that clothing, and your personal style, plays in your daily routine. Step into your closet and ask yourself a few important questions:

1- Do you want to try wearing trends?

Do you find yourself looking through the latest style or fashion magazines, pinning your favorite styles on Pinterest or reading the current fashion blogs, and then telling yourself ‘maybe I can pull that look off’? This is a perfect sign that you can wear some of those fashion forward trends. Try it!

2- Are you stuck in a rut of endless worries about “what not to wear”?

If you look in your closet and find items that seem outdated or don’t fit... purge! This helps you narrow down

clothes you can’t let go of and maybe find some you didn’t even know you had.

3- Are you shopping at the same stores, or have multiples of the same items of clothing in your closet?

Stuck in a routine of buying the same styles and shopping at the same stores?

Get out and make shopping an adventure.

Make a point to shop in stores you don’t usually visit. This will force you to open up to new styles, and you might find that you like them.

4- Have you wasted your money on items of clothing that still have tags on them?

This often is impulse shopping...not really trying items on, buying multiples of items and forgetting you bought three in the same color or style, buying something and not getting home to test drive what you bought. As women, we all tend to do this. The only way to combat this problem is to make a conscious effort to try on newly purchased clothing within 24 hours of purchase. Much longer than that and it can easily be “out of sight, out of mind” and join the ever growing pile of unworn items.

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Now, I love a cute pair of workout clothes, but if you have a free day of fun with family or friends, let’s re-think comfort verses style.

6- Is your mind set: I’m older and my body has changed, so nothing looks good on me, except what I am used to?

This is not true! Your shape, your age, your style and every God-given feature on your body is something to embrace along with fun new trends. We all can wear items of clothing in our own way.

It’s about embracing it and finding what works best for you.

The months of January, February and March are when life slows down a bit and you can take care of yourself. An added bonus to all of this is that you won’t break the bank on your new look. You can find some great inventory and end of season sales this time of year. Try one of those styles you have been eyeing in the magazines or pinning on Pinterest.

Ladies, the truth is everyone needs a little style help from time to time and the start of a new year is the perfect time to redefine your style goals! So take the time to enjoy yourself and the new you. You deserve it! Happy New Year and Happy New You!

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Boutiques Belliboos

www.belliboos.com; 334-707-4086.

Your one stop shop for personalized gifts, monogramming, and embroidery services.

Whether you need Personalized Baby Gifts, personal items monogrammed, Corporate Promotional Items, or mass production services, you have come to the right place! We offer free pick-up and delivery on monogrammed orders placed in the Auburn / Opelika Area.

Cutie Pie

Hamilton Place Shopping Center, 2415 Moores Mill Road, Suite 210, Auburn.

334-826-1254. Kid’s clothing & shoes, maternity & monogramming, invitations & gifts, infants to pre-teen. Monday-Friday 9:00am6:00pm; Saturday 10am-4pm.

Fringe Kids

116 S. 8th Street, Opelika. 334-745-4497.

Upscale children’s consignment boutique in downtown Opelika. Fringe Kids carries infant Auburn Opelika Parents I January 2015

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3051 Frederick Road, Suite 3, Opelika.

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Monday-Friday 10:00am-5:30pm, Saturday 10:00am2:00pm. We can help you with gift, clothing & shoe needs from expectant mother to baby to child and beyond.

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Kids Clothes Connection

Auburn University Medical Clinic & Women’s Health

www.kidsclothesconnection.com; 334-5240606.

Twice a year consignment sale (Spring and Fall) for the Auburn/Opelika area. Offering gently used clothing, shoes, baby gear, baby furniture, toys, books, household items, and more.

Kidz World

1220 Fox Run Avenue, Opelika. USA Town Center. 334-705-8098 www.usatowncenter.com Huge selection of name brand children’s clothing and accessories, featuring Little Me, Bailey Boys, Rosalina, Duck Head and more.

One Eighty Wellness Spa

LOOK GOOD. FEEL GREAT. LIVE WELL. 1100 S. College Street Suite 204, Auburn.

824 Avenue A, Opelika. 887-1180; www. oneeightywellnessspa.com Prenatal Services include prenatal facials, massages and skincare products. We are proud to be the first in the area to carry Pretty Mommies™ Skincare Products, which are safe for both pregnant and nursing women and we use them during our Prenatal Facial Treatments and Massages. We are committed to promoting wellness during pregnancy through massage therapy. Our massage therapists are licensed with the Alabama Board of Massage Therapy and have received special Certifications in Prenatal Massage.

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The Breastfeeding Boutique

3rd Floor, East Alabama Medical Center, Opelika. 334-528-3600.

Breast pumps and supplies, nursing pillows, gowns for mom, bras and nursing camisoles, infant and preemie clothes, gift registry and so much more! It also features a special private room for nursing moms.

Prenatal Physicians 400 Lem Morrison Drive, Auburn.

334-844-5204. Professional services include routine gynecologic care, counseling and prescribing of birth control methods, morning after contraception, referral for pregnancy alternatives and diagnosis and treatment of STDs.

East Alabama Medical Center Prenatal Clinic

2000 Waverly Parkway, Opelika.

334-528-5808. www.eamc.org/programs Services include routine prenatal care, post-partum exams, contraceptive services, referrals and more. Small Wonders Program-To participate in the Small Wonders Maternity Care Program you must: Apply for Medicaid or be eligible to receive Medicaid, have been denied Medicaid and have no insurance, and live in one of the following counties: Barbour, Chambers, Lee, Macon, or Russell.

East Alabama Women’s Clinic

502 East Thomason Circle, Opelika. 334749-0390. www.eawomensclinic.com If you are in need of an annual exam, are having a baby, or are experiencing menopause, our experienced doctors are ready to assist you. In addition to quality care, you’ll find information on prevention, diagnosis, and treatment of conditions that affect women of all ages. www.auburnopelikaparents.com

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334-502-9888.

Premier OB/GYN

2412 Village Professional Drive. Opelika.

334-705-2900. www.thepremierobgyn.com Our mission is to provide exceptional, compassionate, comprehensive, cost effective quality of care to women of all ages.

Lee Obstetrics & Gynecology

2 locations: 121 North 20th Street, Opelika 334-737-0000 and 986 Drew Lane, Central Park Office Complex, Auburn. 334-821-3355; www.leeobgyn.com. Services offered- Obstetrics, gynecology, infertility, ultrasound, bone density, and childbirth classes.

Women’s Hope Medical Clinic

832 Stage Road, Auburn; 334-502-7000; www.womenshope.org Walk-ins are welcome. 24 Hour Hotline- 800395-HELP. All services are free and confidential including- Pregnancy testing, STI testing & referral for men and women, limited

ultrasound and prenatal care, education on all pregnancy options, education on sexual integrity & building healthy relationships, parenting education to earn FREE baby supplies, adoption education and referral, abortion recovery and support, emotional support, resource and referral network for medical care, housing, and other social services.

Pediatric Care Auburn Pediatric Dentistry

841 North Dean Road, Auburn. 334-8266651; www.auburnpediatricdentistry.com We do preventative services including sealants and mouthguards. Restorative work including space maintainers.

East Alabama Pediatric Dentistry

742 North Dean Road, Auburn.

334-321-0780; www.gatorgrins.com Dentistry for children and teenagers.

Liles Pediatric Dentistry

2320 Moores Mill Road, Suite 250, Auburn.

334-887-0099; www.lilessmiles.com Offering dental services for children and adolescents.

Pediatric Associates of Auburn

411 B. Opelika Road, Auburn.

334-821-4766; www.auburnpediatricassociates.com After hours on call emergency service: 334-821-4766 or 334-737-2364.

Services offered- prenatal consults, newborn care, routine physicals, immunizations, acute care, laceration treatment, hospital care, in house laboratory and more.

Auburn Pediatric and Adult Medicine, L.L.C.

2353 Bent Creek Rd # 110, Auburn.

334-887-8707. www.auburndoc.com Services offered- sick visits, newborn care, well child visits, immunizations, sports physicals and more.

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Pediatric Clinic, L.L.C.

2401 Village Professional Drive, Opelika and 260 East Glenn Avenue, Auburn. 334-7498121. www.thepedsclinic.com After hour clinics available. Provide primary care health services for infants, children and adolescents.

Parenting Programs Alabama Department of Public Health

All Kids Children’s Health Insurance Program; www.adph.org; 1-888-373-5437 A low-cost, comprehensive healthcare coverage program for children under age 19. Benefits include regular check-ups and immunizations, sick child doctor visits, prescriptions, vision and dental care, hospitalization, mental health and substance abuse services, and much more. Women, Infants and Children (WIC), 1-888-942-4673, a supplemental nutrition program for pregnant women, breastfeeding women, women who had a baby within the last six months, infants, and children under the age of five. One must meet income requirements and have a nutritional risk that proper nutrition could help to improve. Plan First Family Planning for Women- 1-888-737-2083, Alabama’s Plan First Program is a family planning program for women ages 19 to 55. Family planning can help you and your family have a better life.

East Alabama Birth Village

www.birthvillage.org We re-create the community village for our local families. By connecting you with local businesses and birth professionals, and helping supporters network with each other, the circle in which families have to travel for birth support is minimized and personalized. We are all working together to create healthy families and a healthier community. As you navigate the childbearing years, the EABV will be a source of knowledge and resources. Pre-conception, the EABV helps you connect to fertility assistance and support. In pregnancy and birth there is an extensive list of community resources for every aspect of the childbearing year. As parents, EABV can assist you in navigating East Alabama’s family resources. If you are struggling with miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss, you especially need to know what support is available to you. By holding Village Gatherings, we are connecting local families Auburn Opelika Parents I January 2015

with each other, meeting and greeting community businesses geared towards pregnancy and motherhood, and offering educational events to help empower ourselves as citizens.

Through our Birth Stories gatherings we are helping mothers share their stories in efforts to grow, heal, and celebrate together through loving compassion.

East Alabama Medical Ctr EAMC) 2000 Pepperell Parkway, Opelika. www.eamc.org Prepared Childbirth Class- 6 week program that helps parents-to-be prepare for the birth of their baby, both physically and emotionally. Discussions in pregnancy, labor and delivery, post-partum, initial newborn care, and breastfeeding. Registration for this class should take place during the 6th month of pregnancy. To register, contact the Health Resource Center at (334) 528-1260.

Breastfeeding Preparation- 2nd Saturday of each month; 10:00am-12:00noon; 3rd floor dayroom EAMC. FREE class for new mothers or pregnant women and their partners. The class includes information about breastfeeding, including techniques, storing milk, weaning, and helpful hints for working mothers.

528-1260 Breastfeeding Support Group- Each Thursday, 12:00-2:00pm. 3rd floor dayroom EAMC; FREE group provides a comfortable place for breastfeeding mothers to share ideas as well as seek emotional support. Infant weight scale available. 749-3411.

Small Wonders Program- designed to ensure that every Medicaid-eligible pregnant woman has access to medical care, with the goal of lowering Alabama’s infant mortality rate and improving maternal and infant health.

1-877-503-2259.

The Parenting Assistance Line (PAL)

1-800-962-3030. www.pal.ua.edu/index2.php A collaborative service of the University of Alabama Child Development Resources and the Alabama Children’s Trust Fund. When callers call the toll-free number, a parenting resource specialist will answer the phone, listen to you, then offer helpful information and support .Parenting is tough! Call for FREE confidential help. Parent Resource Specialists are available from 8:00am-8:00pm Monday- Friday.

Women’s Hope-Parenting Education

820 Stage Road, Auburn. 334- 502-7000. www.womenshope.org; All classes are free, 30

plus you can earn free baby items!

Earn While You Learn- offers individualized video lessons for expecting parents as well as families with children of all ages. Topics include baby’s development during pregnancy, SIDS, single parenting, discipline and emergency first aid.

Cradle Club- meets on the second Thursday of each month at 6:00-7:00 p.m.

Parent Talk- lunch-time program for adults only. Free lunch is provided with each session, giving parents a chance to connect with other parents for fellowship and encouragement.

24/7 Dad- focuses on characteristics every father needs and covers the universal aspects of fatherhood. Dinner and gifts are provided for the participants.

Doctor Dad- teaches dads how to care for their child’s basic health and safety needs.

Dinner and gifts will be provided.

Infant Classes and Play Groups Premier Spirit Academy

923 B Stage Road, Auburn. 334-821-7300. www.premierspiritacademy.com Parent & Tot Class- ages 18 to 35 months.

Each student is accompanied by a parent or guardian who participates in the learning of basic tumbling skills. Parents help their child on the equipment as well as their interaction with other children. This class also emphasizes development of the child’s overall muscle tone, balance, flexibility and perceptual skills as well as listening, self-discipline and social interaction.

Auburn Parks and Recreation

Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center, Auburn. 334-209-0171 Mommy and Me Music Class- Come dance and sing with your child! This is a fun and interactive class for parents or caregivers and children. Class includes dancing, singing, playing instruments, and more. Based on research showing the benefits of music for brain development, this is part of The Music Class curriculum. For more information or class samples go to www.themusicclass.com.

Healthplus Fitness Center

1171 Gatewood Drive #101, Auburn. 334887-5666; www.healthplusfitness.com Infant Swimming Resource™ - a nationally recognized survival swimming program which teaches infants and toddlers ages 6 months to 6 years using the ISR Self-Rescue™ method. www.auburnopelikaparents.com

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Water Babies - Baby’s first swim lesson.

American Red Cross Parent and Child Aquatics builds swimming readiness by emphasizing fun in the water. Parents and children class; eight 30-minute sessions that help children learn elementary skills, including water entry, bubble blowing, front kicking, back floating, underwater exploration, and more. Children must be at least 6 months old to participate.

Kindermusik at AUMC

Auburn United Methodist Church, 137 South Gay Street, Auburn. 334-826-8800. www.aumc.net; Kindermusik is the world’s leading music and movement program for children from birth to 7 years old. Offering all types of music, storytelling, movement, sign language and more. Ages newborn -7 years.

MOPS

www.facebook.com/AuburnOpelikaMops A faith-based organization geared towards mothers of preschoolers! It was created and continues to be encouraged to help mothers

come together to allow them fellowship time with one another and time for their children to have fellowship, meet new friends, socialize and give mom a break.

Photography

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Candy Avera, 334-663-6643 and 334-5011613; www.pictureperfectbycandy.com Professional photographer specializing in contemporary professional portraiture for all your life’s milestones! Make your photo sessions and memories Picture Perfect!

1001 Andrews Road, Opelika. 334-705-5560 Parent & Me Swim- Designed for parents interested in acquainting their young children to the water in a fun and safe environment.

Teaches infants, toddlers, and preschoolers’ water adjustment, blowing bubbles, underwater exploration and many other skills. Ages 6 months-3 years.

The Big Green Bus

334-332-8333; A mobile gym serving Lee County. We bring the gym to you! Schedule a play group for children as young as 18 months. Children learn the basics of gymnastics, build coordination, strength, and agility and will learn the importance of listening, following directions, waiting their turn, and being rewarded for good behavior.

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Remember when your babies were born? How all of a sudden your knowledge about diapers, choking hazards, and purchase options for snot-suckers was far more than you ever imagined?

It’s an exciting time! It’s also a time that we are pushed and tested. Some mothers have never been so sleep-deprived. Others have never been so out-of-shape. Or overwhelmed by the support that comes to her door in the form of visitors to see her and the baby.

And that’s just after the first one!

As you move forward on your own parenthood journey, there’s a really good chance that someone you know and care about will have a baby. And because your mind is now focused on choosing a preschool or getting summer camp setup, you might need a little reminder about some things that you can do to help a new family settle into parenthood or a still-growing family adjust to their newest member. Here are seven ways you can help out a new family.

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Write down the birth story. Rare is the mother who does not want this documented! It is also rare that a new mother gets to do this right after her baby is born. She is usually preoccupied with the new love of her life! Falling in love can be time-consuming. This is where you come in as the friend who wants to support her. Mom might not have the time or inclination to write down the details, but she will remember them more clearly in the first couple of weeks after delivery.

This is the time to go and visit and bring a laptop, listen to the birth story, and type it up while she’s telling it to you. Including dads version is fun, and you can hold the baby after!

Fold her laundry. Unload her dishwasher. Sweep her floor. If

you know where her dishes go or where the broom is stored, chances are you are a good enough friend to do these things without feeling uncomfortable.

Don’t wait until she asks because she might not. While you’re sitting around chatting, your hands can be folding the basket of clothes or diapers. Or you can pick up the kitchen from two days worth of dishes. When you do these things you are giving your friend the gift of time, and for a new mother, nothing is more valuable.

Take the other kids to the park or out for a walk. The older kids

might be in the mood for a break from all the baby happenings. Fresh air is always a wonderful thing.

Help with posting and/or printing of photos. Sitting at her computer

and posting a few photos to her Facebook profile or printing out the pictures and getting them ready to mail is a gift you can give her that will certainly be appreciated.

It means she can go to bed early tonight.

Sit with the baby so she can shower. Or journal. Or call her boss to

check in after she’s been on leave for two months. She will feel like a new woman when she has a short break from the baby.

New moms often don’t want to be separated from their baby for long periods of time, but they do recognize that smelling like soap is nice. And having a moment to make phone calls that have been lingering is nice, too.

Start a small book club. (Or a movie group, foodie group, etc.)

A large part of parenthood is about building relationship with other parents. You

are no longer “Jim” and “Sandra.” You are now “Henry’s Mom” or “Kelly’s Dad.” The kids will be involved in social activities and it’s important for parents to be, too.

Having a social outlet to be a part of that welcomes children is a great way for parents to support each other and to have something fun to do!

Bring the new parents a picnic.

There’s a good chance that some people will bring whole meals and that’s wonderful. You could step off the beaten path and grab a brick of yummy cheese, gourmet crackers, a couple of salads from a local deli, and a bottle of wine.

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Put it in a basket with a note inviting them to picnic and enjoy some grownup conversation when the new baby is asleep. They’ll thank you for it!

Try one of these or think of your own way to help. Helping doesn’t have to cost you a lot of money or take up a lot of your time, but it will be appreciated in the weeks and months to come, and gratitude is priceless. AOP Sara Marchessault is a busy mom who values the people that help her so that she can be a better mom. When she isn’t playing with her kiddos, she is an author, coach, professor, and journal-writing expert.

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A Page in a Book The Best Hound in the House Since prehistoric times, dogs have occupied an important place in the lives of humans, both as working partners and as beloved members of the family. This millennia-old connection continues as today’s children still anticipate the moment when they can find the best dog companion to bring home. Healthy partnerships between children and their dog(s) provide kids with a dependable partner who offers unconditional love, active play and loyalty that lasts for the duration of their time together. For children who dream of finding and adopting a perfect puppy pal, the following titles address both the responsibilities and the rewards that come with canine companionship.

Froggy Gets a Doggy

by Jonathan London, Illustrated by Frank Remkiewicz (Viking/Penguin) Froggy’s mother has promised him that he can adopt a pet and he knows exactly what he wants. Mother thinks a bunny or mice are ideal because they are easier to care for. But Froggy knows with all his heart he needs a dog. His mom tries to dissuade him, explaining all the responsibilities that come with a dog. But Froggy is convinced that he’s up to the challenge if it means he can adopt the perfect pet. When Doggy comes home with Froggy, he learns that love is just one of the things that a new doggy needs to adjust to a new family.

From obedience training to “scooping up after”, ‘Froggy Gets a Doggy’ offers a humorous insight into the real commitment needed to bring a dog into the family – and the real joy that comes with finding the best canine companion!

A Perfect Place for Ted

by Leila Rudge (Candlewick) Ted has been overlooked for adoption in the pet store for so long that he finally decides he must venture out to find his own place to belong – a place where he is wanted. In an effort to be noticed, he joins the circus and stands on popcorn boxes, but the trained trapeze dogs get all the cheers. Ted enters a pet pageant, but he can’t compete with the pampered poodles. But just when Ted is about to give up on finding his place to belong, he sees a young girl posting a wanted notice for a furry friend (preferably one who enjoys long walks and ball games). Delightful pencil, ink and collage illustrations will charm readers as they follow Ted’s journey to be noticed and to find his forever home.

Mogie: The Heart of the House

by Kathi Appelt, Illustrated by Marc Rosenthal ( Simon & Schuster) In a very special house where sick children and their families stay during treatment at the nearby hospital, there are only a few rules (healthy eating, peace and quiet, and no puppies). In a neighboring house is a family of almost-grown puppies that are all leaving the litter as service animals, search-and-rescue helpers and show dogs. All except Mogie; he isn’t suited for any of those jobs. Adventurous Mogie wanders out into the neighborhood and discovers the very special house with sick children. Mogie can’t read the rules, but he CAN figure out just what kind of companionship each child needs to help them get well. Adapted from the true story of Mogie, the therapy dog at the Ronald McDonald House in Houston, this gentle tale celebrates the power of companionship between child and dog to strengthen the hearts of both.

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A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an all-inclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-728-1162 or email: momofpnk@gmail.com.

Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-705-8877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com.

Alabama Shakespeare Festival Alabama Shakespeare Festival, Montgomery. www.asf.net.

Auburn University Theatre Telfair B. Peet Theatre. www.auburn.edu/theatre.

Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org.

Callaway Gardens Free Admission Jan. 16 - Feb. 27. Admission to Callaway Gardens is free!

Monday-Friday. www.callawaygardens.com.

Chick-fil-A Family Night at Tigertown Every Thursday night.

Christmas Faire Through Dec. 21. The Arts Center, Wetumpka. www.arrac.org.

Cloverdale Playhouse “It’s a Wonderful Life, A Live Radio Play”. Montgomery.

Dec. 11-21. www. cloverdaleplayhouse.org.

Coastal Christmas Through January 1, 2015. Baldwin County, AL. www.alabamacoastalchristmas.com.

DeSoto Caverns Park Christmas Sound, Light, and Water Show. Nov. 1 - Dec. 31. DeSoto Caverns Park, Childersburg. www.desotocavernspark.com.

Discovery Hikes Explore the preserve and learn something new each month about plants, wildlife and nature with a trained naturalist who will offer your family fun opportunities for hands-on learning, exploration, and exercise! Discovery Hikes are offered the second Tuesday of each month from 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. For families with children ages 5 to 12.

Free admission. Donations welcomed. Cancelled in the event of rain. Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center is located at 2222 N. College Street, Auburn, and is just north of the AU Fisheries complex.

East Alabama Birth Village 3rd Monday of each month. Monarch Estates, Auburn. 6 p.m. www.birthvillageclass.com Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes.

Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www.opelikasportsplex.com.

Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center • Art Gallery Winter Exhibition: Holiday Small Works.

Dec. 1-22.

• Jan. 5 - Feb. 6. Winter Invitation 2015 Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Auburn. www. auburnalabama.org/parks.

Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art • Rembrandt, Rubens, Gainsborough, and the Golden Age of Painting in Europe. Through Jan. 4, 2015.

Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other families that look like their family (white parents/Asian child).

The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates. Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information.

McWane Science Center • “Island of the Lemurs Madagascar” IMAX. Through January 2015. Birmingham. www.mcwane.org.

December/January 2015

Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service

by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.). 334-887-5111. Try the practice of walking meditation or simply sit and enjoy the sights and sounds. The garden and labyrinth are always open and guests are always welcome.

Montgomery Zoo 23rd Annual Christmas Light Festival. Dec. 18-31.

Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com.

Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974.

Springer Opera House • Disney’s “Mary Poppins.” Dec. 4-21.

Springer Opera House, Columbus. www. springeroperahouse.org.

Virginia Samford Theatre Virginia Samford Theatre, Birmingham. www.virginiasamfordtheatre.org.

Parents Support & Moms Groups

Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/ Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http://groups.yahoo. com/group/auburnmommiesinalabama/.

Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580.

Auburn MOPS 1st Wednesday of each month, September-May. 9–11:30 a.m. Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. Meetings open to moms with preschool children ages 5 years and under. $5 per meeting; childcare $5 per child. $25 yearly membership dues. Weekly playdates, monthly moms night out, resources, and more. www.facebook.com/ AuburnOpelikaMOPS; AUMOPS@yahoo.com.

Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor.

Call 528-1260 to register.

La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Monday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ CORNERSTONE Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call Josie at 257-3950.

Main Street Farmer’s Market June 14-October 25. Broad Street, Alexander City. 256329-9227.

MOMS Club of Auburn, a group of stay-at-home moms that meets about twice a week to provide support for each other and fun interaction for kids. New website is www.auburnmoms.com.

Moms In Touch. Do you worry about your children?

Come experience how you can replace your anxiety and fear with peace and hope by praying with other moms. Moms In Touch International gathers moms together for one hour, once a week, to pray specifically and scripturally for our children and school. Won’t you join with us in prayer for this next generation?

Please contact Julia Farrow at julia@cornerstonebuzz. org for information about our local groups. For more information about Moms In Touch International, visit www.MomsInTouch.org.

Parent Educational Workshop - Autism 2nd Tuesday of each month, 6:00-7:30 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 800 2nd Avenue, Opelika.

Parent Support Group - Autism 1st Monday (unless national holiday), 9:00-11:00 a.m.

Location varies so check www.leecountyautism.com for complete information.

Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth.net.

Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook.

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Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@ insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com.

Mom’s Morning Out

Auburn United Methodist Church, Children’s Day Out Program, every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information.

Trinity United Methodist Church (Opelika) Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:45–12. $15 per child, $5 each additional.

Support Groups

Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love. Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey. This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov).

Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama.

For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334-8263082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net.

GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past?

Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness? You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail Sherry at Women’s Hope: 334.502.7000 or sherry@ womenshope.org Don’t let the regret of the past rob you of the joy in the future. Call us today. We are here to help.

Sports

Auburn University Basketball Dec. 20, 23, 29, Jan. 3, 10, 17, 21, 27.

Auburn University Women’s Basketball Nov. 20, Dec. 2, 4.

Auburn University Equestrian Jan. 30.

Auburn University Football Nov. 22.

Auburn University Gymnastics Jan. 23, 30.

Auburn University Swimming & Diving Jan. 16, 17, 18, 24.

Auburn University Tennis Jan. 17, 18, 31.

Auburn University Track and Field Jan. 17.

Auburn University Volleyball Outback Bowl vs. Wisconsin, Jan 1. 11 a.m. (CST) Columbus Cottonmouths Columbus Civic Center, Ga. Dec. 19. Jan. 10, 16, 18, 24, 30, 31.

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December/January 2015

Saturday, December 27 Sunday, January 4 Community Kwanzaa Celebration Birmingham Civil Rights Institute. www.bcri.org.

Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids!

Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453.

Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 4-9 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Great Southern Gun & Knife Show BJCC. www.bjcc.org.

Sunday, December 28

Wednesday, January 7

Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 4-9 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Monday, December 29 Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 2-7 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Tuesday, December 30

Totally Sports Covington Rec. Ages 5-12. $25.

Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 2-7 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Family Film Fest 10 a.m. “Frozen” and 12 p.m. “Hook”. National Infantry Museum, Columbus.

Wednesday, December 31

New Year’s Eve at Ariccia Auburn University Hotel. 844-5120.

New Year’s Eve Street Celebration Downtown Montgomery. 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. Free.

New Year’s Eve BASH Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 8 p.m. - 1 a.m.

334-705-5467.

Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 2-7 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Family Film Fest 10 a.m. “Frozen” and 12 p.m. “Hook”. National Infantry Museum, Columbus.

Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Weekend www.hudsonfamilyfoundation.com.

Tuesday, January 6

Family Film Fest 10 a.m. “Hook” and 12 p.m. “Frozen”. National Infantry Museum, Columbus.

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Family Film Fest 10 a.m. “Hook” and 12 p.m. “Frozen”. National Infantry Museum, Columbus.

Thursday, January 8

“Sister Act”. RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Nature Walks: Birds The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 8:30 a.m.

Friday, January 9

Eric Church: The Outsiders World Tour B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com.

Keith Sweat Wind Creek Casino & Hotel. Wetumpka. www.ticketmaster.com.

Monster Jam BJCC. Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

Free admission to USS Alabama Memorial Battleship Park Mobile. Free to Alabama Residents.

Saturday, January 10

31st Annual Polar Bear Dip Orange Beach. 251-980-5118.

Holiday Public Ice Skating Columbus Civic Center. 2-7 p.m. www.columbusiceskate.com.

Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Weekend www.hudsonfamilyfoundation.com.

WWE Live Garrett Coliseum. www.ticketmaster.com.

Winter Interest Garden Workshop Hills & Dales Estate, LaGrange. 706-882-3242.

Monster Jam BJCC. Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

Second Saturday at Columbus Museum Free admission. www.edu@columbusmuseum.com.

11th Annual Red Shoe Run Benefitting Ronald McDonald House Homewood. www.redshoerun-bham.com.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

Friday, January 2

Sunday, January 11

Thursday, January 1

Professional Bull Riders Columbus Civic Center. www.columbusciviccenter.org.

First Fridays ‘Satin Soul’ Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 7 p.m. www.eventcenterdowntown.com.

Saturday, January 3

Great Southern Gun & Knife Show BJCC. www.bjcc.org.

Professional Bull Riders Columbus Civic Center. www.columbusciviccenter.org.

Home Depot Kids’ Workshop ‘Learn How To Build a Mini Sled’ 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. www.workshops.homedepot.com.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

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Wedding Extravaganza Columbus Trade Center. 12:30-4:30 p.m.

Southern Bridal Show BJCC. Birmingham. www.bjcc.org.

K-12 Art Club Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 1:30 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Tuesday, January 13

Cold Weather Treats Covington Center, Opelika. Fee $10, Ages 3-5 years.

3:30 p.m.

Breastfeeding and New Mom Support Harris Center, Auburn. 6 p.m. www.birthvillage.org.

Discovery Hikes: Birds The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 3:30 p.m.

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Wednesday, January 14

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Thursday, January 15

“The Tallest Tale Ever Told” Riverside Theatre, Columbus State. www.theatre.columbusstate.edu/productions.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Third Thursday Poetry Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Arts. Auburn. 7 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

State Symphony Orchestra of Mexico Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www.eastalabamaarts.org.

Friday, January 16

“The Tallest Tale Ever Told” Riverside Theatre, Columbus State. www.theatre.columbusstate.edu/productions.

Brother Sun in Concert at Sundilla 7:30 p.m. AUUF, Auburn.www.sundillamusic.com.

Saturday, January 17 Missoula Children’s Theatre production of “Aladdin” 334-201-4892.

“The Tallest Tale Ever Told” Riverside Theatre, Columbus State. www.theatre.columbusstate.edu/productions.

Country Music Night featuring Doug Stone EventCenter Downtown, Opelika.

Free Fee Day Talladega National Forest.www.fs.usda.gov/goto/ alabama/districts/talladegaRD. Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

Sunday, January 18

“The Tallest Tale Ever Told” Riverside Theatre, Columbus State. www.theatre.columbusstate.edu/productions.

Free Fee Day Talladega National Forest.www.fs.usda.gov/goto/ alabama/districts/talladegaRD. Bridal Expo 2015 Auburn Marriott Opelika Hotel & Conference Center.

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2015 Progressive Insurance Atlanta Boat Show www.atlantaboatshow.com.

Monday, January 19

Robert E. Lee Birthday First White House of the Confederacy, Montgomery. 11 a.m. 334-242-1861.

Free Fee Day Talladega National Forest.www.fs.usda.gov/goto/ alabama/districts/talladegaRD.

Wednesday, January 21

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus Sun www.bjcc.org.

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Thursday, January 22

Tedeschi Trucks Band Alabama Theatre, B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com.

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Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus Sun www.bjcc.org.

Birmingham Boat Show BJCC. www.bjcc.org.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Artist Talk: Rick Lowe Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

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Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus Sun www.bjcc.org.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Saturday, January 24

Columbus Symphony Orchestra presents Music in America RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

Southern Garden Symposium Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus Sun www.bjcc.org.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

FDR Birthday Celebration FDR State Park. www.gastateparks.org/FDR.

Marathon, Half Marathon, 5K at Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com.

Southern Garden Symposium Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus Sun www.bjcc.org.

“Created Equal” Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Faculty Recital Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Wednesday, January 28

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Thursday, January 29

Merle Haggard Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.ticketmaster.com.

“Anything Goes” RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Film “American Transport” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 4 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Jazz! Food! Art! Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 4 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Junior Recital Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 6 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Saturday, January 31

The Band Perry The Auburn Arena. AU Campus. www.ticketmaster.com.

Side by Side Concert with the Columbus Symphony Orchestra RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org.

Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids!

Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453.

3rd Annual Polar Plunge Samford Pool, Auburn. 9 a.m.

Glow in the Park Run Orange Beach. www.glowintheparkrun.com.

Birmingham Feline Fanciers CFA Allbreed Cat Show Zamora Shrine Temple, Irondale. www.birminghamfeinefanciers.com.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

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For Kids Who Dig Dinosaurs

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

I’ve not yet met a child who hasn’t had a grand passion for dinosaurs. For some kids it’s a phase, an intense fascination for a few years that they eventually outgrow. For other children, dinosaurs receive an unprecedented level of focus. These kids collect an almost encyclopedic collection of dinosaur facts.

They pronounce with authority long and complex names like giganotosaurus and archaeopteryx even before they can remember or recite their own address. The following toys provide hours of prehistoric play that satisfies both the child with an appreciation for the giants of the past as well as the obsessive dinosaur aficionado!

by Gerry Paige Smith

Dinosaur Backpack

Velociraptor & Pterosaur

(Unipak)

Kids are never too young to fall in love with dinosaurs. Finding the best creatures from the Cretaceous for little hands is easy with the Dinosaur Backpack from Unipak. The soft backpack that can double as a playset, houses four small non-allergenic, nontoxic plush dinosaurs (T-Rex, Velociraptor, Stegosaurus and Brontosaurus) that are just the right size for the toddler set. The adjustable-for-size backpack also features small windows that allow the occupants to peek out when they’re on the move or waiting for the next playdate. Get the smallest dinosaur fans started early with something plush, prehistoric and infinitely portable.

(Blocco)

Young dinosaur fans can seize the power to craft their own dinosaurs with the extraordinarily tactile Velociraptor and Pterosaur set from Bloco. With 125 colorful soft foam shapes plus 46 caps and connectors, kids have all the elements they need to recreate Velociraptor and Pterosaur models. While the instruction sheet gets them started on the traditional build, the surplus of colorful foam shapes encourages variation and experimentation as kids discover their power to craft their own mash-up designs. Colorful, easy to assemble and durable, the Bloco Velociraptor and Pterosaur set offers hours of creative play as dino fans invent their own unique contributions to the bestiary that populated the ancient earth!

Elasmosaurus Skeleton Model

Dinosaur Park

(Constructive Playthings)

Everything a kid needs to immerse himself in the age of dinosaurs can be found in the Dinosaur Park. Easily assembled, the park landscape features artfully rendered scenery as well as multi-level platforms that are ideal for staging an endless array of dinosaur encounters. The 3-D element and broad footprint of this set (almost two feet long) also make it a good choice when more pre-school paleontologists arrive from group play. Complete with a dozen dinosaurs ready to roam, a full-scale prehistoric playtime is just moments away with the Dinosaur Park from Constructive Playthings.

(Geoworld)

While the earth shook under the enormous weight of the land giants like Tyrannosaurus Rex and Titanosaurus, another large dinosaur predator was looming just under the surface in the oceans of the late Cretaceous period. For today’s budding paleontologist, a fantastically detailed skeleton of the ancient marine dinosaur Elasmosaurus is lurking just below the surface in a block of gypsum, waiting to be excavated and assembled. Dedicated dinosaur hounds can use the tools included in this model kit to free the skeleton of one of the ancient oceans’ most elegant hunters and reconstruct its bones into a fossil model to marvel over for years to come!

Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

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by Dr. Polly Dunn

Should My Child Repeat a Grade?

Q. I know it’s still early in the school year,

but I’m thinking about having my daughter repeat second grade. Her kindergarten and first grade years were great, but something happened this year. Her second grade teacher says that she struggles with her work all day. When we work with her one on one at home, we don’t see a lot of issues. But we aren’t in the classroom with her, so we don’t know what to do. Please help!

A. First of all, kudos to you for your efforts in making your child’s education a top priority! I can only imagine your concern with this situation. While having your child repeat second grade is one option, there are others that you should consider before making that decision.

First, you should schedule a parentteacher conference to address your concerns. Given that she seemed to do so well in kindergarten and first grade, there may be some issues going on in her second grade classroom that are impacting her ability to succeed that are not related to her abilities at all. Her teacher can give you insight into that, especially if you can coordinate consultation with her kindergarten and first grade teachers where she had prospered.

Next, given the difficulties you are describing, you should consider having her evaluated by a child psychologist in your community to determine if she has any attention problems or learning disabilities.

If she does, you’ll want to consult with her psychologist and teacher to get the help she needs to address those issues, rather than having her repeat a grade.

Finally, consider if there are any other issues going on in her life this year that have contributed to her struggles. Some examples include a divorce, a move to a new home, a new sibling, or any other upheaval. If that’s the case, then you should consider addressing those issues

before having her repeat an academic grade. She might benefit from talking with the school counselor or a child psychologist to address any issues that may be impacting her classroom functioning.

With half of the school year left, it’s also especially important to give her an educational boost during after school hours. Whether you choose after school tutoring, computer games with an academic focus, or just some extra emphasis on reading and math at home, you can use the coming months to improve upon her weaknesses and enhance her strengths. Ask her teacher for ideas

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on how you can best help her improve at home.

Whatever you decide, it’s important not to rush into your decision. Instead, use the rest of the school year to evaluate her needs, provide her with extra help, and prepare her for the coming academic year, whether she repeats second grade or not.

Best of luck!

If you’ve got a parenting concern that you’d like to see featured in a future issue, submit your idea or question to polly@ childpsychmom.com. I look forward to hearing from you!

Dr. Polly Dunn received her Ph.D. from Auburn University in 1999. She is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently serves as the Director of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center, a position she has held for over ten years. Dr. Dunn is also the founder of www.ChildPsychMom.com where she blogs about what works and what doesn’t in her hectic life as a child psychologist, wife, and mom of four.

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Exodus: Gods and Kings

Annie (2014) MPAA Rating: PG Overall: B Violence: B Sexual Content: BLanguage: B Alcohol / Drug Use: CThe MPAA has rated Annie PG for some mild language and rude humor.

Quvenzhané Wallis became the youngest person ever nominated for a Best Actress Oscar when she starred in the 2012 movie Beasts of the Southern Wild.

Now the 11-year-old takes on the iconic role of a feisty foster child in the movie Annie (based on the Broadway Musical). Luckily she brings the same spunk to the title character that helped her win a nod from the Academy Awards.

Annie lives with four other girls (Zoe Margaret Colletti, Nicolette Pierini, Eden Duncan-Smith, Amanda Troya) in a New York City foster home run by Miss Hannigan (Cameron Diaz), a mean and usually inebriated caregiver. The girls have learned to sneak in and out on the fire escape, thus avoiding any more contact than necessary with their unhappy and punitive housemother. Despite the less than ideal situation, Annie remains eternally optimistic that one day her parents will return and reclaim her.

Things seem to change for the better when political hopeful Will Stacks (Jamie Foxx) snatches Annie from the middle of the road just before she is hit by a speeding van. Luckily for the struggling mayoral candidate, someone catches the act on his phone camera and uploads it to the Internet. The viral clip instantly boosts Will’s popularity with the city’s voters.

Will’s campaign manager Guy (Bobby Cannavale) couldn’t be happier with the near mishap. He convinces Will, a germophobic loner, to take Annie to lunch.

He’s even more confident they can win the election when Will reluctantly agrees to let Annie move into his upscale New York penthouse. At first, Will’s assistant Grace (Rose Bryne) doesn’t feel comfortable with the false premise designed only to increase ratings. But she can’t help being enchanted by the outgoing little girl who is soon charming everyone at Stack’s cell phone company.

Like the 1982 film adaptation of the same stage play, this version has plenty of melodic interludes. And the cast puts in more than adequate performances.

But don’t expect as many big production numbers as the first movie. Will Starks, a confirmed bachelor, doesn’t have a houseful of servants ready to break into song and dance when Annie arrives on the doorstep.

As expected, this film includes the same content concerns as its predecessor.

Miss Hannigan is only sober enough to throw herself at any man who unluckily crosses her path. That results in both mild sexual innuendo and some suggestive dialogue. Her depiction of a caregiver is also a disservice to every diligent, compassionate adult that opens his or her home to needy children.

The script manages to update itself by examining the behind-the-scenes motivations of a do-good politician. As well, it makes cell phones and social media an integral part of the storyline. And happily for fans of the play and/or original film starring Aileen Quinn, this movie keeps the best parts of each, especially the tunes that left you wanting to break out singing as you left the theater.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: C+ Violence: CSexual Content: ALanguage: A Alcohol / Drug Use: A The MPAA has rated Exodus: Gods and Kings PG-13 for violence including battle sequences and intense images.

Hollywood has taken another Biblical prophet and turned him into an action hero -- the militant Moses. Even NRA-supporting Charlton Heston (who played Moses in the 1956 movie The Ten Commandments) isn’t as radical as this Moses (portrayed by Christian Bale) who initially attempts to free the slaves by arming a group of terrorist-like zealots and making furtive attacks on the Egyptians.

In Director Ridley Scott’s version, when God speaks to Moses it’s in the form of Malak (Isaac Andrews), a young boy who looks like he’s been in a scuffle. After Moses and his insurgents burn a flotilla of Egyptian supply boats, Malak appears to the prophet and rails on him for taking so long to get the slaves out of town. Moses irreverently reminds Deity that the Hebrews have been enslaved for 400 years. Malak responds by saying, in essence, “Watch this.” That’s when the plagues begin raining down on Egypt -- frogs, flies, lice, boils, locust, disease and death -- affecting both the captors and their slaves.

So it’s no surprise the Hebrews are a little leery about following Moses. He didn’t keep them safe from the plagues. He grew up in the luxury of Seti’s (John Turturro) palace. He has a familial relationship with Ramses (Joel Edgerton), the next in line to lead. And he isn’t all that comfortable with his role as God’s spokesman. He’s also more inclined to do his talking with a sword, something that leaves dead bodies lying around more than once. Or maybe this troubled Moses is just a reflection of Christian Bale’s feelings about his title character. In an interview in Los Angeles, Bale is quoted as saying “I think the man was likely schizophrenic and was one of the most barbaric individuals that I have ever read about in my life.”

Whatever the reason, this Old Testament story will likely be another disappointment for those familiar with the Bible. Like this year’s Noah (starring Russell Crowe) who employed rock monsters to build the ark, Moses get some extra help to part the Red Sea. But we don’t get any sense it is a benevolent being behind the receding waters. Instead Exodus: Gods and Kings offers a spiritually neutered script that has nearly every ounce of faith wrung out of it. It doesn’t measure up to the Biblical account and unfortunately it also fails as a compelling action adventure. Yet while there’s plenty of battle scenes, hangings and some gruesome depictions of feasting alligators, facial sores and chariots plunging down the side of a mountain, the film doesn’t have any other content concerns for most teens and adults. Even Moses and Zipporah’s (María Valverde) wedding night is left to the imagination. Just be prepared for more of a G.I. Joe Moses than a God-fearing one.

What Parents need to know about Exodus: Gods and Kings...

Violence: A battle scene depicts violence on a broad, epic scale and also includes close-ups of characters being stabbed, impaled and cut with swords.

A government leader hangs random families -- we see two of these with a mother, father and children being executed. Other scenes depict soldiers using bows and arrows, and other implements, to randomly terrorize and kill. Corpses are shown. Characters are pulled from boats and consumed by crocodiles in a river, with the blood turning the water red. In several scenes animals are depicted being slaughtered and butchered. With the exception of the crocodiles, little blood or explicit detail is seen within the aforementioned violence.

Sexual Content: A married couple kisses on their wedding night, and he undoes a bow at the top of her garment.

Language: None noted.

Alcohol / Drug Use: Characters are seen drinking, but nothing identifies the beverages as being alcoholic.

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What Parents need to know about Annie...

Violence: A man is punched in the face. Kids engage in a scuffle. A character is almost hit by a speeding vehicle. An adult threatens a group of children.

Sexual Content: A woman is mistaken as a prostitute. Brief embracing and kissing is shown. Mild sexual references and some crude sexual humor are included. A character makes sexual advances toward others.

Language: The script contains about a dozen mild profanities and curses. Some crude sexual comments are included.

Alcohol / Drug Use: A foster caregiver often appears to be drunk. A character makes a comment about a sleeping aid. Characters drink in a bar.

Other: A man cleans his tongue with hand sanitizer. A politician makes some crude jokes involving urination.

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Ask your doctor about screening options for colorectal cancer, including the new, annual take-home test called FIT or iFOBT. If you are at high risk for colorectal cancer, you may need to be screened more frequently.

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