Auburn-Opelika Parents February 2015

February2015

Volume 5 Number 12

30 Columns

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Publisher’s Note Kendra Sumner

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Living With Children John Rosemond

Promoting Good Behavior at School

Learn what you can do at home to help them stay on “green light”!

The Upside of Parenting Teens Six perks that may have slipped your mind.

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Kids Health Watch sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

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A Page in a Book Gerry Paige Smith

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Dave Says Dave Ramsey

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Centsibly Southern Chic Laura Handey

Communicating with Your Tween

Learn steps for helping your tween feel heard by you, and create a deeper connection.

The Power of Positive Interactions

Learn the importance of balancing positive and negative interactions with your kids.

On The Cover Emily Waters, daughter of Gary and Jackie Waters, is a 16-year-old junior at Auburn High School. She is in Auburn High’s show choir “Elan” and will be in The Sound of Music musical this spring. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with her family and friends as well catching up on her favorite TV series, Vampire Diaries.

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Get This!

Gerry Paige Smith

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Parenting on the Plains Polly Dunn, Ph.D.

Departments 6

Bits and Pieces 10

School Bits 37

Family Calendar 44

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Publisher’sNote Have I ever told you that my background is in education…specifically, school counseling? Before kids and Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine, I worked in the school system, where I spent my days helping children and their families with academic, social and personal growth and goals. There were days where it was all about teaching elementary students about study skills and how to be a good friend. Other days were filled with one-on-one interventions with students having a bad day or needing some advice on how to handle a stressful situation. Being a school counselor, I was able to guide school-aged children toward personal successes, be a support to their families and provide a differing view and solution for teachers and staff.

Those days of counseling hold some of my fondest memories, where most of my personal growth took place. Little did I know that my school counseling degree and experiences would be a preparation for my biggest job yet to come…being a mom! Not so much in the diaper and tantrum stages, but in the more recent school age and preteen stages, have I noticed all my graduate school classes coming in handy. Some days I feel like I am sitting in a small group, therapy session teaching appropriate social skills and realize that I am really just driving the family down the road to get some dinner. My kids will be yelling about how someone is touching them or interrupting them as they are speaking and I am reminding them how we monitor our personal space and use our conversation manners. And it doesn’t stop there! Once back at the house and thinking I will get a nice private moment in bed with my book, in walks my tween daughter, slumped, as if carrying the world upon her tiny shoulders, and plops right down on the bed to lighten her heavy load. So, forget about my Calgon moment...time to clock in for an individual counseling session. As she unloads about today’s issues of ‘I need more cute clothes’, ‘Some kids at school said…’, and ‘Do I look fat today?’, I have to pull out all those counselor skills learned and hope for the best outcome.

My first instinct is to actively listen. With any tween/teen, they really just want us parents to listen. In the feature article, 5 Steps to Better Communication with Your Tween, the author points out that to actively listen you need to restate portions of what was said to you and to summarize what was heard, so that your teen knows you heard and may even understand what their concerns are. Also, she suggests incorporating ‘I-messages’ into your conversations. This is one of the greatest tips I learned from my counseling courses and days working with students. Saying, “I am sorry you are upset,” “I need you to listen better in class” and “I am proud of your hard work” can foster a better response and leave them feeling like they are understood. So, hopefully, my tween will hear that her stress of the day was heard, understood and empathized with, and she will walk out of her ‘session’ with me feeling more confident, cared for and with another tool in her bag to handle whatever comes her way at school the next day.

Whether you took a ‘Counseling 101’ class in college or not, as parents of tween/teens, we can often feel like we are therapists and our interactions are like mini-sessions with them. Our teens are experiencing new emotions, changes, independence, and interactions with other teens going through the same things. As parents, we need to help by being a comfortable place for them to go, with any issue that might arise. From one tween parent to another, just put that “Counselor’s In” sign on your door and listen, empathize and encourage. These tween/teen years will be a little bit easier to navigate through for both you and them.

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Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is founded on the principle that parenting is an exciting, diverse, challenging, and significant role in our community.

Auburn Opelika Parents Magazine is a community advocate for families and the parenting process.

Publisher Kendra Sumner kendra@auburnopelikaparents.com Editor DeAnne Watson deanne@auburnopelikaparents.com Associate Editor Kelly Watson Contributing Writers Polly Dunn, Ph.D. Laura Handey Dave Ramsey Michele Ranard, M.Ed. Stephanie Roberts, M.S. John Rosemond Gerry Paige Smith Laura Reagan-Porras Katie Wolter, M.D. Cover Photography Candy Avera www.pictureperfectbycandy.com

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by John Rosemond

Teens & Sleep New research finds that teens whose school days begin later than the national norm of approximately 8 a.m. achieve at higher levels than teens who start school earlier. The researchers in question recommend that school start times be extended to at least 8:30 am.

Am I missing something here? The problem, it seems to me, is not when the school day begins. The problem is teens whose parents let them stay up until all hours of the night playing video games, texting, talking on their cell phones, watching television, sufing the net, and listening to music on headphones. These teens, as has been known for some time now, aren’t getting enough sleep.

Bedtime is the problem, not school time.

Furthermore, it is well known that electronics of the above sort interfere with circadian rhythms. A teen using any of these devices well into the evening is going to have difficulty falling asleep.

This is yet another example of how the culture absolves parents of responsibility for their children (because that would constitute what’s come to be known as “blaming”) and

assigns it instead to some faceless institutional policy.

This is also an example of how institutions and bureaucracies tend to completely ignore the Law of Unintended Consequences when it comes to setting policy. Let me assure the reader that if a school decides to push its start time from 8 a.m. to 9 a.m., the teens who attend said school will simply use that as an excuse to stay up playing, texting, talking, watching, surfing, and listening for another hour. They will get exactly the same amount of sleep, come to school equally tired, and their achievement will suffer equally.

The solution to the problem of teens who don’t get enough sleep on school nights is for parents to step up to the plate and make it impossible for their kids to play, text, talk, watch, surf, and listen after a certain time. With nothing to do but twiddle their thumbs or read, these teens will fall asleep. And because their brains have not been bombarded with electronic stimulation prior to falling asleep, they will sleep more soundly. And because they will sleep more soundly, they will wake up refreshed and go to school prepared mentally to do their best.

Ah, but that’s the rub, of course. I refer to parents who will not set limits of any meaningful sort on their children’s use of electronics because, get this, it will upset them. And we must not, in America, have upset children.

As one parent put it to me recently: “I mean, but John, that’s what they’re all doing at night!” Meaning that if he shut down his teenage child’s electronic access after 8 p.m., the child would be placed at a significant social disadvantage, grow up feeling deprived, and never reach his full potential or some other such baloney.

My parents hardly ever let me do what “all” the other kids were doing. In retaliation, I left home and got married at age 20 and managed, somehow, to overcome the debilitating social limitations my parents had imposed on me and create a reasonably decent life for myself, wife, and kids. Oh, and my parents made me turn out my lights no later than 10 p.m. on school nights until I went to college.

But that was back in those benighted days when parents didn’t care what their children thought about any decision they made.

Some people actually call them the “good old days.” How ridiculous.

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Family psychologist John Rosemond answers parents’ questions on his website at www.rosemond.com.

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Teen Pottery Class at the Columbus Museum

Helen Keller Student Art Show of Alabama

Presented by the Birmingham Civil Rights Institute, the Helen Keller Student Art Show of Alabama will be held February 1-22, 2015, and features visually and hearing impaired children’s art work in the State of Alabama. The grand prize winners will be displayed in the historic Helen Keller birthplace in Tuscumbia, AL. The event is free to the public. For times, please visit www.bcri.org or call 205-328-9696.

Create your own pottery by learning how to hand build with clay. Join The Columbus Museum on February 14, 2:00-4:00 p.m.

The possibilities are endless!

Participants will learn the three basic methods of construction: pinch, coil, and slab. Your instructor will demonstrate each of the three construction methods and will share ideas for designing your pottery. Then you will begin your own unique piece of pottery. This class is ideal for both those new to working with clay and for those who have had previous instruction. $15 members/$20 future members. www.columbusmuseum.com.

Teen/Tween Book Club: Litwits

Bibliophile: noun: a person who collects or has a great love of books. LitWits is a book club all about themes. Read any book that fits the theme and bring it with you for group discussions and activities. Come to the January 27 (Animal Stories), book club event and take home a free book tote!

Other upcoming dates: February 10 (Romance/ Love Stories) and February 24 (Graphic and Manga Novels). All clubs meet at the Auburn Public Library, 4:30 p.m. Ages 13-18. 334-501-3196.

Moms and Sons: Nights in Auburn

While Daddy is out Dancing with the daughters, Mom needs to bring the boys and hang out at Niffer’s.

Come in on February 5th, 6th and 7th evenings and make it special for the little man in your life. Come and play our fun game called “Did you know?” We will have a special menu to include: An order of our signature corn nuggets, 2 burger of the month specials, non-alcoholic beverages, an order of our fried Oreos for dessert for a special price of just $29.95. www. niffersplace.com.

Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Benefit Weekend January 31-February 1

The Hudson Family Foundation’s Super Bowl Bash inside the Arena at Auburn University will be unlike any Super Bowl party you have ever attended. This awesome party is exclusive for our sponsors and guests only. Imagine the Arena and the Scholarship Lounge transformed into your own Super Bowl playground. Picture cool individual and group lounges throughout the Arena to enjoy the game, with plush seating and giant HD televisions everywhere. Our playing field will allow you to share football, food and fun with your family and friends. On January 31, The Band Perry and Cole Swindell, Live in Concert at the Auburn Arena. www.ticketmaster.com. For additional information, please contact Jenny Hall, 334-707-9007 or email info@hudsonfamilyfoundation.com Auburn Opelika Parents I February 2015

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Frozen Enchantment Daddy Daughter Date Night

This year’s ‘Frozen Enchantment’, the 26th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night Sponsored by Auburn Parks and Recreation, will be held February 5-7 at the Clarion Inn & Suites, Auburn.

Enjoy music by DJ Ozz, dancing, refreshments, photos, door prizes and dance contests. Price is $35 per couple, and $5 each additional daughter. www. auburnalabama.org/parks

Dandy-Dads Dinner Dance

Join us for an evening of dining, dancing and fun at this year’s dance, sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, on February 14! A special night out for fathers and daughters of all ages. Admission is $30 per couple/ $5 for each additional daughter. Ticket includes meal, corsage, boutonniere, activities and entertainment by DJ Ozz. www.opelika.org.

26th Annual Love Your Hearth Run & 8th Annual Crank Your Heart Ride The Love Your Heart Run is sponsored by the Exceptional Outreach Organization and the City of Auburn. The Love Your Heart Run is our premier fundraising event benefiting children and adults with special needs that participate in Special Olympics of Lee County, Best Buddies of Auburn University and City of Auburn Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Summer Camp. Participants may run or walk the event! The Crank Your Heart Ride is being held in conjunction with the 26th Annual Love Your Heart Run. The Crank Your Heart Ride was introduced in 2008 in an effort to broaden the Exceptional Outreach Organization’s annual fundraising event and further raise awareness of the many therapeutic programs we support throughout the community. Feb. 14, Chewacla State Park, Auburn. www.loveyourheartrun.com

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KidsHealthWatch

Sponsored by Pediatric Associates of Auburn

Breast is Best for Moms, Too In last month’s issue, I wrote about the plethora of benefits babies receive by being breastfed. This month, I would like to highlight the numerous maternal benefits of breastfeeding. As stated in January’s article, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that mothers exclusively breastfeed their babies for 6 months and to continue breastfeeding for at least one year or longer as mutually desired by mother and infant. The World Health Organization (WHO) recommends that mothers breastfeed their infants for a minimum of two years due to the overwhelming amount of positive benefits from breastfeeding. Again, this is in no way intended to cause guilt in mothers who did not or are not breastfeeding their babies, but instead meant to educate you, the reader, about the benefits of breastfeeding so that you can make an informed decision regarding infant nutrition.

Maternal Benefits-Short Term

There are both short and long term benefits for mothers who choose to breastfeed their infants. Some of the short term benefits are less blood loss after giving birth and quicker decrease in size of the uterus

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after giving birth. Increased child spacing is another benefit of breastfeeding secondary to lactational amenorrhea. For mothers who do not breastfeed at all or who stop breastfeeding their babies early on in infancy, there has been a significant increase in postpartum depression. In addition, the rate of abuse/ neglect was significantly increased in infants of mothers who did not breastfeed. There are many factors involved in weight loss, therefore studies on the effect of breastfeeding on postpartum weight loss have been inconclusive, however some studies have shown breastfeeding women to weigh less than women who formula fed their infants.

Maternal Benefits-Long Term

One of the many long term maternal benefits of breastfeeding is a decreased risk of type 2 diabetes mellitus in women who did not have gestational diabetes.

This decreased risk is cumulative, meaning that the longer a women breastfeeds, the more the risk decreases.

The risk of a woman developing rheumatoid arthritis is also decreased with a cumulative effect noted. Women with a cumulative history of breastfeeding for 12-23 months had a significant reduction in hypertension, hyper-

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lipidemia, heart disease, and diabetes. In addition, the risk of ovarian and breast cancer is reduced by 28% if a women breastfeeds for atleast 12 months. That risk decreases even further as a women breastfeeds for longer.

Summary

As you can see, breast is definitely best for mothers as well. As mentioned before, there are some contraindications to breastfeeding so if you are unsure of whether or not those contraindications apply to you and your baby, please ask your health care provider.

With the small exception of cases where breastfeeding is either not possible or prohibited because of health risks, breastfeeding is the absolute best nutrition a mother can provide her infant. To reiterate my previous article, breastfeeding leads to a multitude of benefits, both nutritional and non-nutritional, for both mother and baby and therefore should not be seen as just a lifestyle choice, but instead as a basic public health issue.

Dr. Katie Wolter is board certified in Pediatrics and is a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Lee County Medical Society, Medical Association of the State of Alabama, and the American Medical Association. She is passionate about breastfeeding medicine and is currently working on becoming an IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant). She is also a member of the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine. Dr. Wolter is married to her husband, Jeremy, and has four sons. She loves to spend her free time outdoors with her family and friends.

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Autauga County Schools

Lee-Scott Holds Annual Grandparents Day Program

Lee-Scott Academy held its annual Grandparents Day program on Friday, December 12th. The gymnasium was packed with grandparents, parents and other family as elementary students sang, played instruments and did sign language to a variety of Christmas arrangements.

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AU Gymnasts Visit Richland Elementary

Thank you to the Auburn University Gymnastic team who came and visited students at Richland Elementary School! The girls talked with the kids about working hard, practicing and having priorities when it comes to balancing school and daily life. The team also put on a demonstration of cartwheels, aerials and even a friendly handstand competition.

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Auburn 10th Grader Publishes Trilogy

Keara Harris is sixteen-years-old and in the tenth grade at Auburn High School. During the month of November, Keara took on the Nanowrimo challenge of writing a 50,000+ word book in the month. She ended up with 80,000+ words, and the first book of her trilogy, "What is Real Magic?". Book One is called "Courage".

The book is available on Amazon.com and CreateSpace. com. Keara has already started the second book, "Faith", and she is hopeful to have it out in the next few months.

Drake Middle School Students Adopt Student in Need

This Holiday season J.F. Drake Middle School students and staff participated in a community project, The Giving Tree. Each homeroom at DMS adopted a student in need and provided gifts. The outpouring of support for this project provided for 17 families which totaled 54 students in Auburn City Schools.

Medal of Honor Recipient Speaks at Auburn Junior High

Congressional Medal of Honor recipient Command Sgt. Maj. Bennie G. Adkins visited students at Auburn Junior High School recently!

CSM Adkins shared stories from his tours of duty during the Vietnam War that included his numerous close calls with death and how he persevered through it all thanks to his training. Having traveled through approximately 140 different countries, CSM Adkins stated that America is still the best thanks to the freedoms fought for by our military. At 80 years old, CSM Adkins is sharp and full of humor. He shook hands and took photos with everyone that approached him. It was a true honor to have such a decorated and humble veteran come speak to ACS students.

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Alabama Girl Scout Earns Life Saving Award

Ashley Jellison was already an amazing young woman, even before she saved the lives of two men who were drowning in the Gulf of Mexico. Jellison has been a Girl Scout for 11 years and earned many awards through her Scouting career, such as Junior Aide, Bronze Award, Cadette Leadership Award, Silver Award, and is currently in the process of working on her Gold Award, the highest award earned by a Girl Scout. Never did she imagine, though, that she would be pinned with the Bronze Cross, a Life Saving Award given to a registered Girl Scout who has saved or attempted to save human life under circumstances that indicate heroism or risk of her own life.

The criteria for the Life Saving Award includes being a registered Girl Scout at the time of the rescue, and saving, or attempting to save, human life only. Only four Bronze Crosses were awarded in 2013 and two were awarded in 2014, with Jellison being one of them.

Jellison, 16 years old at the time, was spending time with family at Crab Island in Destin, Florida, when two men became distressed in the deep current of the water. Seeing that these men didn’t know how to swim well, she jumped in to their rescue, pulled them into safer water and gave them lifejackets to float on until she could swim them to safety.

Ashley Jellison was pinned with the Bronze Cross on January 9, 2015. Elizabeth Brent, CEO of Girl Scouts of Southern Alabama said, “Girl Scouts build skills that will last a lifetime. Ashley recognized a need, knew she had the skills, and came to the aid of someone she could assist. She exhibited one of the keys of the Girl Scout program, "take action" and there's an individual alive today because of her courage to act. She is a great role model for all of us.”

Auburn Jr. High Student Earns Eagle Scout Award

Riley Hill, the son of Bruce and Doris Hill of Waverly, is among the 20 Lee County Boy Scouts earning their Eagle Scout rank to date. Currently serving as a troop instructor in Troop 15, chartered by Auburn Outdoor Adventures Inc., Hill earned 30 merit badges in his effort to achieve Scouting’s highest rank – including the Physical Fitness Merit Badge, which he considers his favorite because “it taught me how to get in shape.” For his Eagle Scout leadership service project, he led volunteers collectively logging 130 service hours to build an access ramp for people with disabilities for the Lee County Historical Society’s outdoor site. Hill, a ninth grader attending Auburn Junior High School, credits Scouting with making him more confident about trying new things and learning to work with others.

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Autauga County Schools

Trinity Band Students Celebrate Christmas Season with Music

In December, Trinity Christian School band students performed at Trinity United Methodist Church for their annual Christmas concert. Audience members heard beautiful harp prelude music followed by performances by the beginning, intermediate, advanced, and jazz bands. Thank you to Mr. Cornelius, Trinity’s band director, and the band students for a wonderful concert.

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Ogletree Elementary Winter Program

Ogletree Elementary School held their winter holiday program!

"Snow Biz: A Fun-Filled Musical Salute to the Joys of Winter" by John Jacobson and Mac Huff was a hilarious take on winter (even though it was 70 degrees in December). The Ogletree singers performed musical renditions of songs like "Snow Angel," "It Comes Out Snow," and "Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow," while the AllStar Children's theater acted out skits for the crowd.

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Auburn High School Helps Preserve Veterans’ Histories

Dr. Blake Busbins's students at Auburn High School are wanting to help preserve the legacy and contributions of local Vietnam veterans in the spring (April 30 & May 1, 2015) for the Auburn Veterans Project. Through conducting interviews, students record the oral histories of these veterans to submit to the Library of Congress and to place on a website they created. If you know anyone who may be interested in telling their story, please help us spread the word on this project. Go to the link for more information: http://auburnveteransproject.weebly.com/

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Induction Ceremony Held for Auburn Jr. High Honor Society Members

Congratulations to the 2014-2015 National Junior Honor Society. We had a wonderful induction ceremony to acknowledge these students and their achievements.

Gingerbread Fun at Lee-Scott Academy

Lee-Scott Academy First Graders used their creative skills to decorate Gingerbread Houses for the holidays.

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Pick Elementary Winter Program

Pick Elementary pulled off a spectacular "Snow Biz" Holiday performance! There were snowball fights, toothless hockey players and those goofy Zamboni brothers.

Auburn High School Students Receive ATOLL Certifications

Recently there was a special presentation of the Aquaculture Teaching Online Learning (ATOLL) Certifications to the current and recently-graduated Auburn High School students who successfully completed the program this past year. These are the first students in the State of Alabama (and the other 48 contiguous states) to receive this credentialing certification since the ACTE in Montgomery approved it last year for CTE Aquaculture Science in Alabama high schools.

ATOLL is administered through the University of Hawaii, a partner of AHS in this educational opportunity. Ten students received their certificates in front of a crowd of their parents and educators from AHS and Auburn University. Dr. Benny Ron also sent in his congratulations via video message from Hawaii for the ceremony.

Celebrating 25 years!

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These precious little ones deserve our attention, security and love. Just like home. Today, our commitment to your children continues with caring and experienced teachers, a stimulating and secure environment and an atmosphere of living, loving and learning you’ll only find at Growing Room.

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Richland Elementary Student Receives Award for Character

Markell Wagner, 2nd grader at Richland Elementary, was the recipient of the January 2015 "Character in Action" award from Judge Mike Fellows. Wagner was nominated by his teacher Ashley Wood. His nomination read: "In his class, there is a sweet precious girl with special needs. (On a day when her teacher aide was absent) Markell made sure the girl had everything she needed to get started for the day. He doesn't worry about being first in line, or making sure he is finished with his work first, he is worried about making sure his friend is taken care of before he takes care of himself. Markell is such a hard worker in everything he does! He has such a kind heart and thinks of others first. We love everything about Markell, especially his generous, giving spirit!� Markell was joined by his mother, two brothers, his principal at RES, as well as teachers from his 1st grade year at DRES, not to mention all his classmates at DRES sent him congrats cards!

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Yarbrough Students Perform Winter Program

There was a packed house of parents as Yarbrough Elementary School held their production of "Snow Biz: A Fun-Filled Musical Salute to the Joys of Winter"!

The kids sang hilarious winter-themed songs while acting out skits like the one where a students tries to sell popsicles to ice-fishermen!

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Autauga County Schools

Trinity Presbyterian Church Hosts Reformation Celebration

On October 30, Trinity Presbyterian Church hosted its annual Reformation party, extending invitations to the families of Trinity Christian School. Many gathered to celebrate the origin of the Protestant Reformation—October 31, 1517 when Martin Luther nailed his 95 Theses to the church door in Wittenberg, Germany, emphasizing that Christianity is based not on works but on faith alone. The party celebrations included games, hayrides, inflatables, a costume contest, and a pizza dinner.

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Wrights Mill Road Students Learn About Electricity Safety

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Alabama Power has reached out to partner with ACS and help educate our students about electrical safety.

Tabatha White, of Alabama Power, visited with 4th graders at Wrights Mill Road recently to convey the importance of staying safe around electricity as well as where power comes from, how it is conducted/insulated and what to do when an electrical incident occurs.

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Wrights Mill Road Winter Production

“'Twas One Crazy Night Before Christmas” presented by WMR was a hilarious musical take on the holidays! The kids sang about everything from getting slippers again to having to sleep on the floor because relatives took over their home and they even tossed around that fruitcake no one can seem to get rid of.

Please send your school news and photos to: kendra@ auburnopelikaparents.com.

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Comprehensive Trinity offers a complete K – 12 classical, Christian education, including many enriching activities such as sports, band, choral ensemble, performing arts, and various student organizations.

Auburn High German Club Visits Dean Road

The Auburn High German Club and Samford the Tiger made a special trip to Dean Road Elementary to teach K-2 students how to carol in German! Then the Club Members split up into different classrooms to do crafts with the kids such as Pine Cone Christmas Tree and Popsicle Stick picture frame ornaments.

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Autauga County Schools

Lee-Scott Principal Reads to Students

LSA Elementary Principal, Matt Bruner, takes time to read to elementary students before the Christmas holidays.

Auburn High School Coach Recognized for 700 Career Wins

Coach Frank Tolbert will be recognized at the Board of Education meeting, for the recent accomplishment of 700 career wins as the head basketball coach of Auburn High School.

Tolbert has been with ACS for 46 years and coaching varsity basketball at AHS since 1980.

After suffering a broken arm during his last season at Alabama State where he was on a football scholarship, Tolbert decided to graduate and move on to coaching in 1969.

He landed his first as the head football coach at Drake Middle School that same year, but has been coaching at AHS ever since 1970 in a variety of sports from football (1070-1994), wrestling (1973-1976) as well as girls’ basketball (1978-1980) and girls’ track (1983-1987). Tolbert is a great asset to AHS and ACS, as a whole, as he has coached and touched the lives of countless young men and women in the community.

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Classical Literature Students Finish “Iliad” Projects

Eighth and ninth grade classical literature students at Trinity Christian School just recently finished reading Homer’s great epic, the “Iliad”. As part of their studies, each member of the class was assigned a section of the shield of Achilles to decorate based on descriptions in the “Iliad”. Once completed, each piece was fit together to form the complete shield. Great job, eighth and ninth grade!

Drake Middle School Dons Tacky Sweaters

J.F. Drake Middle School was ready for the Holidays!

Today they all got in the spirit and donned their tackiest of winter sweaters.

Please send your school news and photos by the 20th of each month to: kendra@ auburnopelikaparents.com.

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Autauga County Schools Fifth Grade Medieval Feast

Fifth graders at Trinity Christian School studying the Medieval Period recently held their own Medieval Feast. This unique ceremony began with the young ladies of the fifth grade introduced to trumpet fanfare and awarded a rose. The young men were then introduced and knighted. After participating in games, these young ladies and lords were treated to a feast of authentic medieval food. Thank you to all who helped with this special occasion!

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Richland Elementary School's 1st Grade Winter Program was a hit! The kids read poetry and sang songs like "Feliz Navidad," "Christmas Time is here," and "Santa Claus is Coming to Town!"

www.auburn.edu/cosam/sciencematters Science Matters is a summer enrichment program sponsored by the College of Sciences and Mathematics at Auburn University for students in rising grades 1 - 8. The program offers youngsters a supercharged science experience. Kids will explore the world of science through real experiments, technology and art projects, and hands-on activities. Kids that show a high interest or aptitude in science, math, or technology-related subjects will be right at home as they design and build, dabble in the art of chemistry, “become a flight specialist�, see amazing critters and more!

Science Matters offers six different science-themed weeks for students in rising grades 1 - 4, five weeks for students in rising grades 5 - 6, and two special courses offered through the Biodiversity Learning Center for students in rising 7th and 8th graders.

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All programs operate between 8am - 4pm daily. Prices range from $180 $230 per week/child. Multiple week discounts are available. Courses fill on a first-come-first-serve basis, so be sure to register today!

For more information or to download a registration form visit our website or contact Kristen Bond at kristen.bond@auburn.edu or by phone at 334-844-5769.

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Auburn High School Girls’ Swim Team Recognized at City Council Meeting

The Auburn High School girls’ swim team was recognized at Auburn City Council's meeting for their recent 6A-7A State Title!

This is quite an accomplishment especially considering the oldest athletes on the team are only in the 10th grade.

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Cary Woods Elementary Holiday Celebration

Here is a look at the 9:45 a.m. performance coordinated by Music Teacher Ginger Key and the special area teachers at CWES. The kids told holiday jokes like "What do you call a snowman in the summertime? ....... A puddle!" and sang songs like "Hip Hop Reindeer" where all the kids sang/danced decked out with sunglasses and antlers.

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Auburn Jr. High Drama Combats Bullying

Auburn Junior High School Theater students are raising awareness and combating bullying with the production of "Bullies and Bystanders: It’s Time for a Change" in November. This is the second year that AJHS has performed this program for the public.

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Choir Concert at Trinity Christian School

Music students of all ages performed their choir Christmas concert on December 2 at Pepperell Baptist Church in Opelika. Featured at the concert were Trinity Singers, Trinity Trebles, kindergarten through third grade music classes, and chimes.

The concert was directed by Trinity’s new music teacher, Mrs. Carolyn Boone. The school is so appreciative of Mrs. Boone’s efforts and her dedication to students!

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Dean Road Elementary Winter Program Dean Road Elementary School sang and jingled with all their strength to bring Santa Claus back into good spirits with their Holiday program!

Veterans Honored with Breakfast at Wrights Mill Road

The Wrights Mill Road Elementary School staff, faculty and students honored Veterans with a breakfast for Veterans Day.

Irish Dance Team Brings Home Awards

Celtic Traditions dancers competed in New Orleans with six girls to bring home a total of 21 awards (with three 1st places, five 2nd places, and six 3rd places). Pictured are dancers: Marissa Botting, Darcy Shepard, Hawley Marshall, Olivia Medina, Becca McDow, and Lexi Ramseur.

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A Page in a Book The Best Books from A to Z Sharing the alphabet is one of the tools out of the box when we begin to teach kids their first ‘school’ skill. Using the basic building blocks of our language, the alphabet is the most common touchstone that parents and caregivers turn to when seeking to expand kids’ knowledge base as they approach the reading age. The ABCs offer endless teachable moments with children and we’re surrouned by objects that all start with…a letter. But rather than falling back on the popular refrains of ‘A’ is for ‘apple’, ‘B’ is for ‘ball’ and so on – the following titles present 26 clever and refreshing introductions to the letters that get all English language learning started. Check out these titles that are the alphabetical order of the day!

ABCers

by Carole Lexa Schaefer, Illustrated by Pierr Morgan (Viking/Penguin) Exploring the alphabet becomes a team effort in Schaefer and Morgan’s creative take on the first letters that get it all started. Moving away from commonplace nouns and toward active descriptions of the moments that children experience in real life, this book teaches letters through shared activities that are familiar to kids and their playmates. The alphabet lives in the moment with delightfully illustrated offerings like ‘A’ is for ‘arm linkers’, ‘W’ is for ‘water splashers’ and more. Highlighting the things that children do together forms the theme that moves this tribute to the alphabet into the active mode category of great ABC titles!

by Oliver Jeffers (Philomel/Penguin) Expanding beyond the traditional approach of teaching the alphabet with one-on-one word association, author/illustrator Oliver Jeffers has turned his talents toward the letters that got it all started.

Crafting short stories (each only a few sentences long), Jeffers introduces every letter with a clear title page that features the starring member of the alphabet, followed by a brief tale that embeds the key player in both starting and supporting roles. Less about learning the alphabet and more about living it, this charming primer on the building blocks of our language is a richly crafted and awesomely sly paean to the letters that make the words that make the stories…about the letters we love.

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by Adam F. Watkins (Price Stern Sloan / Penguin) Tasked with building an alphabet, an army of robots undertake a project that creates a cacophony of sound as the ABCs takes shape. Using the phonetic approach, the letters of the alphabet are introduced through the sounds generated as each letter is hammered, hoisted, and wheeled into place. An onomatopoetic feast of hisses, beeps, puffs and whirs accompany each leading letter as the mechanical team of robots work to get the alphabet in shape and in order.

Just like the letters of the alphabet, each page reveals uniquely designed, marvelously illustrated robots that drive the energy in this picture book. This is the alphabet book that will be ‘yoinked’ off the reading shelf to enjoy again and again!

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Q. I receive child support payments for my two kids from my ex-husband. My new husband and I are using your plan to improve our finances, but we can’t agree on how to handle these payments. I’ve been keeping it in a separate account. He thinks we should combine it with the rest of our house money and budget. What do you think is best?

A. I don’t blame you for being protective of

the child support money. I’m sure the feelings you have stem from a desire to protect your kids. But if your new husband is a good guy, one who’s kind, loving and willing to treat these kids like they’re his very own, then my opinion is the money should go into the pile where it helps take care of the kids and family.

Your job as a parent is to be a blessing to your kids. That means feeding them, clothing them, educating them and giving them a good home. As long as these things are happening, and we’re talking about a functional, loving marriage, then all the money should be combined and be part of the family. Put it right at the top of your monthly budget, along with all your other household income.

Money is important, and I’d expect you to make sure your kids and your cash are

treated properly. But I’m talking about two responsible people being involved in a happy marriage, too. A healthy, loving relationship is one of the best gifts any couple can give to their kids.

Q. My son works, but he’s 19 and lives at home. He’s on my auto insurance and cell phone accounts, because we both get discounts on the plans. He’s supposed to pay his share of these bills, but lots of times he’ll say he doesn’t have the money. He’s a good kid, but what should I do to make an impression and teach him to be more responsible?

A. It sounds like it’s time for you to stand up

and be a dad, my friend. Take action!

First, you need to have a talk with him where you apologize for doing a poor job of communicating in the past and about this situation in particular. Be gentle and loving, but also be firm that from this point on you’re going to make him live up to his end of the bargain where the car insurance and cell phone are concerned.

Let him know with utter certainty you’re going to shut off his cell phone and cancel his insurance the next time he doesn’t have

his share of the money when the bill comes due. Then, do it if he doesn’t pay up on time!

You still have the control in this situation.

You just have to exercise it. Your son may not like it at first, but you’ll both benefit from the process.

Q. How do I get my girlfriend to take a more

active role in planning a family budget? We’re getting married in a few months, and everything between us is great except for this one area. She seems to want me to handle the money, and make all the decisions.

A. Try sitting down with her and explaining from your heart how important it is to you that she’s involved in the budgeting process. I believe it’s vitally important that financial decisions are made by husband and wife together – as one. Most women value communication in a relationship, and the process of doing a monthly budget together will be a wonderful sharing experience for the two of you.

Money isn’t the most important thing in the world, but the way a couple handles money is representative of their dreams, passions and fears. It’s also indicative of their vision for the future!

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by Stephanie Roberts, MS

My mother always told me that my brother and I didn’t come with an owner’s manual. I never thought much about that statement until I attended graduate school in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis, and went on to work with children and families. The most frequent request was for help with behavior issues at school. Parents report they rack their brains trying to come up with ideas on how to correct or punish their child to stop inappropriate behaviors.

While I still can’t seem to find an “owner’s manual”, we are lucky to have several strategies that can be helpful for problems that parents face every day.

Recently a mother of a five-year-old boy asked what she could do to stop her son Auburn Opelika Parents I February 2015

from coming home with “red notes”. In his classroom, the teacher has a color system in place and different behaviors warrant a clip to be moved up and down a traffic light diagram. Green indicates that there was good behavior, yellow indicates that there were a few instances of inappropriate behavior, and red indicates that the child had several instances of inappropriate behavior. If a child moves their clip to red, they lose privileges for the day and a “red note” is sent home. After speaking with this mother, she said that she had tried providing incentives for weeks in which her son stayed on green the entire week and removing privileges on days his clip moved to red. Nothing seemed to work. She expressed her frustration of trying to manage his behavior at school since she could not be there to ensure he was behaving.

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Load up on reinforcement!

When your child comes home with a good report, lay on the positive praise!

Let them know you are proud they had a good day while avoiding discussing other non-successful days. Simply focus on the good. It may also be helpful to provide extra time on activities that they already earn (e.g., extra 10 minutes of TV or computer time).

Encouragement is key!

If your child comes home with a negative report, instead of giving a lecture, you may find it more helpful to provide encouragement for success on the next day. For example, if Johnny comes home saying his clip was moved to red, say, “I can see you’re disappointed, but I know you will have a better day tomorrow.” www.auburnopelikaparents.com

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Discussing strategies to have a better day may be helpful at this point. Ask them, “What do you need to do tomorrow to make sure you stay on green? I know you can do it!” This not only allows them to come up with an answer and be more independent, but provides the opportunity for you to coach and encourage your child.

Expectations – a must! Let them know what you want!

Make sure your child knows what is expected of them. Classroom rules are most likely reviewed the first week of school.

Make sure your child has a firm understanding of what is expected. Just because they can recite the rule does not mean they understand what it means. It may be helpful for you to ask them to give you examples of what the behaviors associated with a rule look like or for you to role-play specific problematic areas with them.

Review expectations

For children who have a particularly hard time remembering things, it may be helpful to review the expectations before each school day or at the beginning of each week. This will make it more likely they will remember what behaviors they will have to display to meet their goals. Discussing the consequences of not displaying the appropriate behaviors may also be necessary at this time to further promote success.

Set obtainable and reasonable goals

Remember, we want to set our kids up for success! By setting smaller goals at first, it will increase the likelihood that your child will come into contact with the reinforcing qualities of their good behavior and they will be more motivated to continue these behaviors. Gradually, the behaviors required for reinforcement can be increased. Remember, it is easier to start small and move up, than to start too big and move back.

For example, instead of setting the goal of staying on green five out of five days, you could start your goal at staying on green three out of five days. Obviously, as parents, our ultimate goal is for our children to be good every day; however, it is important to keep in mind your child’s current performance. After a few weeks of success, increase the goal required for reinforcement (e.g., four out of five days on green). By setting lower, more obtainable goals and allowing them to come into contact with reinforcement, you are re-establishing their motivation and setting up a positive relationship. Just because a child “used to be able to do it”, or “behaved better in the past”, does not matter. Today is what matters, so we must start at the current levels.

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Also remember, slip-ups are acceptable. Building in a cushion for those “uh-oh” days is important. Even adults have bad days. We are setting ourselves up for disappointment if we always expect perfection from our children, especially when WE are not perfect all of the time.

Contracts are key

Behavior contracts can have motivating and lasting effects with children. Not only will it outline the expectations and consequences for their behavior but also serve as a way to keep you organized. This may be especially helpful if you have multiple children and are managing multiple behaviors.

Each contract should outline exactly what is expected of the child, when you expect it to be completed, and what will happen if they do/do not follow-through with the behavior.

These consequences should be positive.

For example, if they meet their goal, they could earn an item or extra privilege at the end of the week. Contracts can also be helpful with home behaviors such as chores, morning routines, bedtime routines, etc.

Each child is different

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It is important to identify valuable items or activities to reward good behavior. If your child is old enough, you can simply ask them what they would like to work for.

If not, you can incorporate their likes and interests. Another strategy is displaying a variety of items in front of the child that you think they may like and recording which one they choose first. This provides a good hypothesis of what is motivating at that time.

Sometimes, what we think the child will like, doesn’t actually help motivate behavior. The child may indeed like playing with something, but it may not be good enough to STOP bad behavior.

Isolate the best stuff, so they are more motivated to earn it! Pick new, exciting things that the child doesn’t get all the time.

Just because a child loves the iPad doesn’t mean they will work extra hard to earn five more minutes. However, a new iPad game that they ONLY play on green days may do the trick!

Adopting some or all of the above strategies may help your child’s behavior at home and school! But, keep in mind that progress takes time. By celebrating and rewarding small successes, you will see an increase in positive behaviors and motivate your child to stay on green! AOP Stephanie serves as a senior consultant for Butterfly Effects with over 3 years of experience in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis. She has worked in a variety of clinical settings including homes, schools, center based, and residential programs. Stephanie graduated from Auburn University with her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology in 2011. She earned a Master’s degree in Psychology with a concentration in Applied Behavior Analysis/ Developmental Disabilities from Auburn University and became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst in 2012.

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Combining Two Seasons to Make One Style I know we are probably all maxed out after the holidays when it comes to shopping, so thinking about our style and ourselves is not quite in the picture just yet.

We are slowly approaching spring and summer and we desperately need to shop, but we just can’t get it together financially, mentally or physically. Don’t fret, ladies, as soon as the last cold spell ventures through pull out those spring and summer items from last year, but keep some fall and winter pieces in your closet to help create a new transitional wardrobe and a brand new style. My job is to help you enjoy feeling stylish and do so without breaking the bank. The best way to do this is combining two seasons to make one style. Think about what you need to put together to complete an outfit.

1- Think of the material.

Make sure your fabric texture works for the season.

2- Think color.

Color is key for all seasons. Find out what the colors are for the season and

work them into your wardrobe. For spring, add your pastels in with grays, blacks and jeweled tones.

3- Utilize t-shirts or tanks.

Both of these items make the perfect layering piece for any season, and you can dress them up or down. If it’s cool at night add a cardigan, light jacket, or spring scarf to give yourself that extra coverage. Have fun with heels and jewelry to accessorize the outfit.

4- Wear maxi skirts or dresses.

These are great for seasons. Some mornings and evenings in the spring can be cool, so find a chunky sweater, cardigan or scarf to throw on for an added layer.

5- Purses are a must.

I know this sounds crazy, but it’s not, and it’s a definite must have for all seasonal attire. A purse (oversized or clutch) is a simple accessory that can really bring your outfit together, not to mention it is a functional piece. You can put a layer of clothing in your larger purse for those early morning or late evening climate changes.

6- Buy some new jewelry.

Going into seasons this is a must have. You can change up any outfit simply by adding new pieces of jewelry.

On average this only costs between $4 and $20.

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7- Pull out last year’s shoes.

Unless they have been worn out then there is no need to throw them away. You can always take them to your local shoe store for a little repair and cleaning up.

8- Revamp your closet using old and new pieces.

Before you are too brash about getting rid of clothes you think aren’t in style, look to your favorite website or style magazine and see how you might transition those items into your new style. If you still can’t see it happening, then yes, find a new home for them. I love mixing and matching my clothes. I have items I bought from a flea market that I have been able to modernize with my style. So work with all your pieces if you can, but don’t be afraid to move them on as well.

9- Shop winter sales.

You can find fall and winter items for half the cost during seasonal sales. This will save you tons of money and you will have a style worth showing off for the spring and summer.

Enjoy the seasons, but don’t break the bank. Take everything you have and think of it as painting a canvas!

Laura Handey is an independent clothing consultant in Pike Road, Alabama. You may reach her by email at laura@ centsiblysouthern. com or visit her website at www. centsiblysouthern. com.

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I’ll be the first to admit that living with teenagers can be one challenging ride. It’s quite a perplexing chapter to parent young adults who are forming (and modifying!) their identities daily. They feel ready for lots of stuff for which they are in no way ready.

There are moods and unpredictable behavior. And don’t get me started on the condition of their rooms or new expenses that arise!

The whole friend/authority thing is confusing, too.

While we understand it can be unwise and unhealthy to be our teen’s friend, there are plenty of moments it feels perfectly natural to do so—to laugh, shop, share music, and learn new things together as friends.

One thing I am sure of: we cannot resolve to simply “survive” this developmental chapter. That Auburn Opelika Parents I February 2015

won’t serve anyone. Instead, we can be more intentional about savoring our teens. Savoring? The quality that makes something interesting or enjoyable is what it means to savor, and I bet if you pause for a moment, lots of “interesting” will spring to mind.

When we choose to savor our teens, we are able to avoid seeing only pitfalls and will not be able to miss the glories.

The following reminders are from a parent (me) who truly understands those days when a teen driver forgets to open the garage door before backing out (and all those bizarre fashion choices!). There is all sorts of sweetness to be found when, as parents, we adjust our attitudes and squint just a little.

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1) You both made it through childhood intact.

Cue the confetti! This victory is worth celebrating. Really!

It wasn’t always rosy—remember chronic ear infections, all those meals they couldn’t cut up their own pork chop, and those mortifying demonic temper tantrums in the grocery cart? You made it. You rule.

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At first blush, this may not sound savor-worthy, but think about it. As they are forming opinions and making discoveries about themselves, you are probably held more accountable in the process. That’s good for both of you. Are you worried about the dangers of alcohol and drug-use? If so, you are likely modeling better behavior since they are watching closely. Part of their process as they clarify who they are morally and ethically is influenced by interactions with you.

2) You probably have more time now.

And time is money. Teens are lower maintenance in terms of their physical needs and supervision so you likely have more time now for your personal interests. Suddenly you are free to explore what makes your heart sing or devote more time to church, a career, or your spouse. The pressure to rush home to the sitter or carve out “mommy and daddy time” is over and probably a welcome change. If your kids used to make you feel guilty about leaving them, I bet this is history.

Traveling or entertaining guests at home? Suddenly much less-stressful.

5) You may have more household help.

It’s nice when there are strong arms around capable of operating a vacuum, the microwave, and the washing machine. Even if you have to nag, sending them to the grocery store is a perk. And it’s easy to forget that just a short time ago you had to drag them with you on those boring errands, but now they can stay behind happily.

6) There’s a whole world of wonder to enjoy together now that they’re older.

3) You have the opportunity to have more meaningful discussions .

Whether it’s a sitcom you both love, baking, a sports team, Scrabble, cars, a book series, or pilates—don’t forget that many such activities were not options when they were little.

You likely yielded to their child-related interests and developmental needs at the time (and Dora!). Now there is engaging stuff for both of you to enjoy together. AOP

It’s one thing to discuss matters of faith or politics when they’re ten. But as young adults, exchanges about life, philosophy, and character truly make a difference. You teen may come to you for spiritual guidance or ethical dilemmas, and engaging her in such conversations (with compassion and understanding) can have significant consequences.

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Music to Their Ears

Recommending the Best Toys and Products for Kids

One of the earliest connections we make with our children is through music. From the whispered lullabies that soothe their souls to the cheerful songs that entertain and raise their spirits, we use music to connect with the hearts and minds of children every day. Encouraging children to explore music through play also helps them discover styles, themes and lyrics that they can connect with independently. It’s just a matter of time before kids grow old enough to commandeer your playlist and speakers.

The following resources encourage kids to find their own beat, cultivate their individual musical taste and add their distinctive voice to a musical landscape they create.

by Gerry Paige Smith

Jungle Jingles

Rockstar Guitar

Making creative rhythm available to the younger set, the Jungle Jingles set puts the first musical means into the littlest hands. With wild style, this artistically crafted set of instruments features musical tools that are instantly accessible to beginners.

Including an Antelope slide whistle, Giraffe maracas, a sinuous snake stick for percussion and more – this collection of early instruments invites kids to explore a jungle of new sounds. Get ready for wild results as the preschool set leads the beats with the Jungle Jingles musical instrument set from Toysmith!

Kids who crave the spotlight jump to center stage with the Rockstar Guitar from International Playthings. Featuring three preprogrammed songs, the fret board also includes buttons that encourage independent composition using a variety of sounds and rhythms. The pull up swing bar, light-up strumming section and hands-free mic add even more rock star style to every performance moment. Whether your child loves singing along or is ready to create their own signature sound, the Rockstar Guitar will move your music-maker from fan to home-famous in an instant!

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KidiJamz Studio

Learning Tunes Karaoke

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Today’s musical landscape has turned the spotlight toward the producers and DJs who craft the sounds behind the superstars. Give your budding musician the early tools to craft their own musical mix with the KidiJamz studio. With 20 kid-friendly tunes to start, artists can enhance and alter music with various styling and rhythms in the studio. The microphone allows digital voice effects and there’s even a scratching disc and a detachable music player so they can to take their latest cuts on the road. The big variety of tools available with the KidiJamz Studio combine with ease of use so that the youngest music producers can create musical styling that’s all their own!

(V-Tech)

Preschool sing-a-long takes a giant step forward with VTech’s Learning Tunes Karaoke machine. Complete with 15 ‘standards’ in three different modes of play, the microphone also features voice effects using a slider button that alters their voice with hilarious results.

Learning songs that feature numbers and letters can get a whole new sound treatment with robot voice, echoes and more! Additionally, the LED screen features interactive facial expressions and animations that enhance engagement with this entertaining musical partner.

Paige Smith is a freelance writer and syndicated columnist living in Alabama. More on GET THIS! at www.PageBookMedia.com.

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Over the years I have learned a few strategies that help my daughter and I communicate, despite our adolescent and menopausal mood swings, respectively. Three strategies, open ended questions, active listening and I-Messages have become a natural part of parenting for me.

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Re-state or rephrase again to check meaning. Don’t assume understanding. Check it out. This step requires a little bravery because I risk rejection and if she is particularly hormonal or in a rebellious or angry mood, it can hurt. Being willing to check out my interpretation with Grace shows my vulnerability. Over the years, I’ve seen her respond by opening up more.

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Grace: “She’s okay, but she’s always with her new boyfriend Matt now. (Grace rolls her eyes.) He’s cool, but they are just so in to each other.”

Mom: “So, they are really into each other?” - Active listening Grace: “Yeah, I feel like the third wheel on a lopsided tricycle. It sort of makes me mad.”

Mom: “You are angry because you feel left out?” - Confirmation of meaning Grace: “Yes, especially at lunch.”

Mom: “What can you do about that?” Open ended question Grace: “I guess I could go eat at Elizabeth and Lilian’s table.

Mom: You feel left out because of how Amy and Matt relate to each other, especially at lunch. But you are willing to eat with other friends. - Summarize Grace: Yes, but I really miss Amy. Mom: I know you miss your private time with Amy, but I am really proud of you for trying new things. - I-Message Grace: Thanks, Mom. David Brashear, a licensed clinical social worker who works with tweens and parents states that parents who take the time to learn and practice these skills, reap rewards beyond measure. He shares that parent-tween bonds strengthen, joint problem solving occurs more readily and risky teen behavior improves when parents practice these skills. As a parent, I simply enjoy the closeness and trust that comes from many conversations with open ended questions, active listening and I-messages.

Talking to your kids about school, healthy habits, peer pressure, sex, drugs, rock and roll, as well as making positive choices, is a lot to tackle during the tween years. The simple practice of developing discussions with open ended questions, active listening and I-messages can be the key to the kind of communication that keeps our children safe. And isn’t that what every parent wants? AOP Laura Reagan-Porras is a professional freelance writer and clinical sociologist.

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A2Z Local Homeschooler’s Association For homeschooling families in the Auburn/Opelika Lee County area of Alabama. A2Z Loop is an all-inclusive support group open to all homeschool families in the Auburn/Opelika area regardless of differences in beliefs, cultures, nationality, race, religion, or method of home schooling. For more information call 334-7281162 or email: momofpnk@gmail.com.

Alabama Mentor’s Foster Parent Training Classes Offered in the Opelika Auburn area. Call 334-705-8877 x 18 to register or email: Deanna.Hand@thementornetwork.com.

Alabama Shakespeare Festival • “Always Patsy Cline”, Through Feb. 8.

• “Alice in Wonderland”, Jan. 24 - Feb. 15.

Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net.

Auburn University Theatre Telfair B. Peet Theatre. www.auburn.edu/theatre.

Birmingham Children’s Theatre • “Queen of Hearts and the Terrible Tarts”, Feb. 2-20.

• “Play to Win: Jackie Robinson”, Feb. 3-20.

Birmingham Children’s Theatre. www.bct123.org Bosom Buddies (a breast cancer support group) Meets at The Health Resource Center the first Thursday of the month at 6 p.m. (334) 528-1260. www.eamc.org.

Callaway Gardens Free Admission • Through Feb. 27, admission to Callaway Gardens is free, Monday-Friday.

• Jan. 16-27 Callaway Gardens School of Needle Arts. www.callawaygardens.com.

Chick-fil-A Family Night at Tigertown Every Thursday night.

Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre • “Romeo et Juliette”, Atlanta Ballet. Feb. 6-14.

• “Snow White”, Atlanta Ballet. Feb. 14-15.

Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre. www.atlantaballet.com, DeSoto Caverns Park Valentine Laser Light Show. Feb. 6-15. www.DeSotoCavernsPark.com Discovery Hikes Explore the preserve and learn something new each month about plants, wildlife and nature with a trained naturalist who will offer your family fun opportunities for hands-on learning, exploration, and exercise!

Discovery Hikes are offered the second Tuesday of each month from 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. For families with children ages 5 to 12. Free admission. Donations welcomed.

Cancelled in the event of rain. Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center is located at 2222 N. College Street, Auburn, and is just north of the AU Fisheries complex.

East Alabama Birth Village 3rd Monday of each month. Monarch Estates, Auburn.

6 p.m. www.birthvillageclass.com Expressions of a BraveHeart Program A fine arts program for teens and young adults with special needs (ages 11–21), sponsored by Opelika Parks and Recreation, utilizing Auburn University faculty and students, as well as community volunteers. Two 30-minute sessions of art, dance/creative movement and music will be offered and participants will select 2 of the 3 classes. Expressions meets every 2nd and 4th Monday twice a month for 1.5 hours. Opelika Sportsplex, 334.705.5560. www.opelikasportsplex.com.

Georgia Aquarium Mommy and Me Ticket Offer. Jan. - April 2. $39.95 plus tax ticket offer: Receive an adult ticket and up to 4 children’s total tickets (ages 5 and under). www.georgiaaquarium.org Hardin Center for Cultural Arts Dinosaurs Alive! Feb. 7 - Aug. 3.

Hardin Center for Cultural Arts, Gadsden. www.culturalarts.org Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center • Through Feb. 6. Winter Invitation 2015 • Southern Craftsmen, Feb. 9 - Mar. 12.

Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. Auburn. www.auburnalabama.org/parks.

Jule Collins Smith Museum • John Himmelfarb: Trucks. Jan. 24 - May 10.

Jule Collins Smith Museum, Auburn. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Lee County Parents of Chinese Children helps children understand, see and grow up with other

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families that look like their family (white parents/Asian child). The group is 100% free! We try to eat out at Asian establishments monthly and have playdates.

Families that are waiting to adopt are welcome! We accept any families with adopted children from all Asian countries. Contact Melody at mmhilyer@bellsouth.net for more information.

McWane Science Center • Early Learning Destination exhibition, through Feb. 1.

• Mindbender Mansion. Jan. 31 - June 15.

McWane Science Center, B’ham. www.mcwane.org.

Meditation Garden and Labyrinth Come and Find the Quiet Center... in the Meditation Garden and Labyrinth, provided as a community service by Village Christian Church, 700 East University Drive, (across from Auburn Early Ed.). 334-887-5111.

Try the practice of walking meditation or simply sit and enjoy the sights and sounds. The garden and labyrinth are always open and guests are always welcome.

Newnan Theatre “Almost Maine.” Jan. 22 - Feb. 1. Newnan Theatre, Ga. www.newnantheatre.org.

Opelika-Auburn Newcomers Club A club for new women in town which offers fun social activities, meets for lunch on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Call Joan at 501-4974.

Riverside Theatre “Much Ado About Nothing”, Jan. 28 - Feb. 1.

Riverside Theatre, Columbus State. www.theatre.columbusstate.edu/productions Springer Opera House “Lend Me a Tenor”. Jan. 22-31. Springer Opera House, Columbus. www.springeroperahouse.org.

Telfair Peet Theatre “Once Upon a Mattress”, Feb. 19 - Mar. 1.

Telfair Peet Theatre, AU Campus. www.auburn.edu (334) 844-4748.

Virginia Samford Theatre Virginia Samford Theatre, Birmingham. www.virginiasamfordtheatre.org.

Parents Support & Moms Groups

Auburn Mommies, a fun group of moms in the Auburn/Opelika area that meet weekly for playgroups and Mommy and Me walking twice a week. We also have a Mommies Night Out once a month. Http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/auburnmommiesinalabama/.

Auburn Mommy and Me Big Dog Running Co, Auburn. 10–11 a.m. Social time, story time, music/movement, arts & crafts. Ages 9 months–3 years. Free! 334-209-2580.

Auburn MOPS 1st Wednesday of each month, September-May. 9–11:30 a.m. Trinity United Methodist Church, Opelika. Meetings open to moms with preschool children ages 5 years and under. $5 per meeting; childcare $5 per child. $25 yearly membership dues. Weekly playdates, monthly moms night out, resources, and more. www.facebook.com/ AuburnOpelikaMOPS; AUMOPS@yahoo.com.

Breast Feeding class meets the second Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon on EAMC’s third floor. Call 528-1260 to register.

La Leche League, a support group for nursing moms, meets the 2nd Monday of each month at 6:30 p.m. @ CORNERSTONE Family Chiropractic, Airport Plaza, 323 Airport Road Suite E, Auburn. For more information call Josie at 257-3950.

Main Street Farmer’s Market June 14-October 25. Broad Street, Alexander City.

256-329-9227.

MOMS Club of Auburn, a group of stay-at-home moms that meets about twice a week to provide support for each other and fun interaction for kids.

New website is www.auburnmoms.com.

Moms In Touch. Do you worry about your children?

Come experience how you can replace your anxiety and fear with peace and hope by praying with other moms. Moms In Touch International gathers moms together for one hour, once a week, to pray specifically and scripturally for our children and school. Won’t you join with us in prayer for this next generation?

Please contact Julia Farrow at julia@cornerstonebuzz.

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org for information about our local groups. For more information about Moms In Touch International, visit www.MomsInTouch.org.

Parent Educational Workshop - Autism 2nd Tuesday of each month, 6:00-7:30 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 800 2nd Avenue, Opelika.

Parent Support Group - Autism 1st Monday (unless national holiday), 9:00-11:00 a.m.

Location varies so check www.leecountyautism.com for complete information.

Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama Single Moms Outreach of East Alabama offers 2nd Saturdays, group classes, and more. Contact Penny Messer at 334-444-6827. Email smoea@bellsouth. net. Website www.smoea.vpweb.com or find us on facebook.

Teen Moms (for moms under 20) is a ministry that connects trained adults with pregnant girls and teenage moms. Support meetings, classes, job preparation, devotions and games. Call Laura Fuller at laura@insideyfc.com or 334-501-5637. www.insideyfc.com.

Mom’s Morning Out

Auburn United Methodist Church, Children’s Day Out Program, every Monday-Thursday from 9 a.m.–12 noon. $10 per child for the entire morning, $2 each additional child. Attendance will be on a first come-first served basis. Contact Barbara Dawsey at 826-8800 for more information.

Trinity United Methodist Church (Opelika) Monday, Wednesday, and Friday 8:30am-1:30pm.

Please call Camille for rates. 251-282-0191.

Support Groups

Caregiver Support Group Caring for a family member or friends can be rewarding, but it’s not easy. Whether you are the caregiver for your parents, spouse or a dependent child, this group is for you! Learn ways to cope with every day stresses of caring for someone you love.

Gain tools and resources to help you on your journey.

This program is supported by the Opelika Sportsplex, Lee-Russell Agency on Aging and HomeInstead Senior Care. This group is open to the public. Meets the last Monday of each month at 12:30 p.m. at Opelika Sportsplex AAC. Instructors are: Valeri White (Sportsplex), Bridgette Sager (Home Instead Senior Care), Lisa Askew (Lee-Russell Council of Gov).

Food Allergy Support of East Alabama The Food Allergy Support of East Alabama group offers support through the sharing of information and resources. We are also working to increase awareness of food allergies in the state of Alabama.

For more information, visit our website at www. foodallergysupporteastal.org or call Barbara at 334826-3082; bkg2007@bellsouth.net.

GRACE - Post-Abortive Support Group Are you struggling with feelings of regret or sadness from having a pregnancy termination in your past?

Do you feel like you can’t share these struggles with anyone? Would you like to find healing and forgiveness?

You are not alone. Women’s Hope Medical Clinic wants to help you! You are invited to take part in our GRACE abortion recovery group. This confidential group gives you the opportunity to process the grief of your termination in a safe and non-judgmental setting. If you would like more information about the times, dates and location for this group, call or e-mail Sherry at Women’s Hope: 334.502.7000 or sherry@womenshope.org Don’t let the regret of the past rob you of the joy in the future.

Call us today. We are here to help.

Sports

Auburn University Baseball Feb. 13, 14, 15, 18, 20, 21, 22, 24, 25, 27, 28.

Mar 1.

Auburn University Basketball Jan. 17, 21, 27. Feb. 7, 10, 17, 24. Mar. 7.

Auburn University Women’s Basketball Jan. 26. Feb. 5, 15, 19. Mar. 1.

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Family Calendar Auburn University Equestrian Jan. 30. Feb. 14. Mar. 7.

Auburn University Gymnastics Jan. 23, 30. Feb. 13, 27. Mar. 13.

Auburn University Softball Feb. 6, 7, 8, 12, 13, 14, 15, 18, 26, 27, 28. Mar. 1.

Auburn University Swimming & Diving Jan. 16, 17, 18, 24. Feb. 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21.

Auburn University Tennis Jan. 17, 18, 31. Feb. 6, 13, 15, 26, Mar 1.

Auburn University Track and Field Jan. 17.

Columbus Cottonmouths Columbus Civic Center, Ga. Jan. 16, 18, 24, 30, 31.

Feb. 15, 20, 21, 27, 28, Mar. 5.

Wednesday, January 21

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus www.bjcc.org.

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Mardi Gras Madness 5K Woodruff Park, Uptown Columbus. Tot Trot/1M/5K. www.bigdogrunning.com.

Thursday, January 22

Tedeschi Trucks Band Alabama Theatre, B’ham. www.ticketmaster.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus www.bjcc.org.

Birmingham Boat Show BJCC. www.bjcc.org.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Artist Talk: Rick Lowe Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

“Almost Maine” See ‘Newnan Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

“Lend Me a Tenor” See ‘Springer Opera House’ in ONGOING section.

Friday, January 23

Southern Garden Symposium Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus www.bjcc.org.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Sips Under the Sea Georgia Aquarium. www.georgiaaquarium.org.

Saturday, January 24

Spectrum Story Time ‘Bedtime’ Auburn Library. 10 a.m. 501-3196.

Columbus Symphony Orchestra presents Music in America RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

Southern Garden Symposium Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus www.bjcc.org.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

FDR Birthday Celebration FDR State Park. www.gastateparks.org/FDR. “Alice in Wonderland” See ‘Alabama Shakespeare Festival’ in ONGOING section.

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John Himmelfarb: Trucks See ‘Jule Collins Smith Museum’ in ONGOING section.

Sunday, January 25

Marathon, Half Marathon and 5K at Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com.

Southern Garden Symposium Callaway Gardens. www.callawaygardens.com.

Ringling Bros and Barnum and Bailey Circus www.bjcc.org.

“Created Equal” Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

“Hamlet” Samford University. www.operabirmingham.org.

Family Story Time Auburn Library. 4 p.m. 501-3196.

Tuesday, January 27

Faculty Recital Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

Teen/Tween Book Club: Litwits Auburn Library. 4:30 p.m. Ages 13-18. 501-3196.

Wednesday, January 28

Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Toddler Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

“Much Ado About Nothing” See ‘Riverside Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Thursday, January 29

Merle Haggard Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.ticketmaster.com.

“Anything Goes” RiverCenter for the Performing Arts, Columbus. www.rivercenter.org.

A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Film “American Transport” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 4 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Jazz! Food! Art! Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 4 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Junior Recital Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 6 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music.

“Much Ado About Nothing” See ‘Riverside Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Spectrum Story Time ‘Love’ Auburn Library. 7 PM. 501-3196.

Preschool Time Auburn Library. 10 AM and 1 PM. 501-3196.

Saturday, January 31

The Band Perry The Auburn Arena. AU Campus. www.ticketmaster.com.

Side by Side Concert with the Columbus Symphony Orchestra RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org.

Young Eagles Day–FREE Airplane Rides for Kids!

Columbus Airport. Ages 8-17. 8:30-11:30 a.m. (weather permitting). 706-324-2453.

3rd Annual Polar Plunge Samford Pool, Auburn. 9 a.m.

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Glow in the Park Run Orange Beach. www.glowintheparkrun.com.

Birmingham Feline Fanciers CFA Allbreed Cat Show Zamora Shrine Temple, Irondale. www.birminghamfeinefanciers.com.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu.

“Much Ado About Nothing” See ‘Riverside Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Mindbender Mansion See ‘McWane Science Center’ in ONGOING section.

Lab Coat Kids Science Show Imagine It! Atlanta’s Hands On Children’s Museum. www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Weekend Jan. 31 - Feb. 1. www.hudsonfamilyfoundation.com.

SuperBowl 5K/10K/1 Mile Uptown Columbus. 10 a.m. www.bigdogrunning.com

Sunday, February 1

Helen Keller Student Art Show of Alabama Feb. 1-22. Birmingham Civil Rights Institute. www.bcri.org.

“Much Ado About Nothing” See ‘Riverside Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Created Equal Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 PM www.jcsm.auburn.edu.

Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Weekend Jan. 31 - Feb. 1. www.hudsonfamilyfoundation.com.

Birmingham Feline Fanciers CFA Allbreed Cat Show See Jan. 31 for details.

Bridal Expo By Weddings of Georgia Flat Creek Country Club, Peachtree City, Ga. www.peachtreecity.11alive.com/events Science Wondershop with Dr. Science Imagine It! Atlanta’s Hands On Children’s Museum. www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org

Monday, February 2

Free Weekday Admission to Callaway Gardens See ‘Callaway Gardens’ in ONGOING section.

Hudson Family Foundation Super Bowl Weekend Jan. 31 - Feb. 1. www.hudsonfamilyfoundation.com.

“Queen of Hearts and the Terrible Tarts” See ‘Birmingham Children’s Theater’ in ONGOING section.

Tuesday, February 3

“Play to Win: Jackie Robinson” See ‘Birmingham Children’s Theater’ in ONGOING section.

Baby Time Story Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Wednesday, February 4 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Toddler Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Puppet Show: A Sweetheart for Fox Auburn Library. 3:30 p.m. 501-3196.

Thursday, February 5

21st Annual Alabama Lifestyles Expo Caribe Resort, Orange Beach. www.alabamaadvantage.com 26th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night Auburn. www.auburnalabama.org/parks Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” Feb. 5-7. www.familytheatre.org A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu

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Family Calendar Gallery Talk: “The Nature of All Things, Drawings and Paintings by Victor Koulbak” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Middle School Honor Band Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. www.auburn.edu/ music Ancestors: An Exhibition by Cynthia Farnell Biggin Gallery, AU Campus. 5 p.m. www.auburn.edu/ music Concert and Jazz Concert Auburn Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music Preschool Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Game On: Unplugged Board Games Ages 9-12 years. Auburn Library. 4 p.m. 501-3196.

Moms and Sons: Nights in Auburn Niffer’s Place, Auburn. Special night in with your son!

Menu special includes appetizer, burgers and dessert!

Games and prizes too! www.niffersplace.com

Friday, February 6

World of Wheels Birmingham. www.worldofwheels.net Valentine Laser Light Show See ‘DeSoto Caverns Park’ in ONGOING section.

26th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night Auburn. www.auburnalabama.org/parks Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” Feb. 5-7. www.familytheatre.org Moms and Sons: Nights in Auburn Niffer’s Place, Auburn. Special night in with your son!

Menu special includes appetizer, burgers and dessert!

Games and prizes too! www.niffersplace.com First Fridays: Shop Local, Eat Local Downtown Opelika. Extended hours until 8 p.m. www.opelikamainstreet.org First Fridays ‘Satin Soul’ Event Center Downtown, Opelika. 7 p.m. www.eventcenterdowntown.com “Romeo et Juliette” See ‘Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre’ in ONGOING section.

Saturday, February 7

Knights of Ecor Rouge Mardi Gras Parade Fairhope. 251-929-1466.

Mystic Mutts of Revelry Parade Fairhope. 251-929-1466.

World of Wheels Birmingham. www.worldofwheels.net Annual Chili Cookoff Gadsden. www.downtowngadsden.com Dinosaurs Alive! Hardin Center for Cultural Arts See ‘Hardin Center for Cultural Arts’ in ONGOING section.

26th Annual Daddy Daughter Date Night Auburn. www.auburnalabama.org/parks 2nd Annual Empty Bowls Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center. www.auburnalabama.org/parks Bela Fleck and The Knights Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www.eastalabamaarts.org Country Music Night with Doug Stone EventCenter Downtown, Opelika. www.eventcenterdowntown.net Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” Feb. 5-7. www.familytheatre.org Gusto!

2015 Benefiting the Schwob School of Music. National Infantry Museum, Columbus. (706) 507-8431.

Beaker Bash: Unlock the Puzzle McWane Science Center, B’ham. www.mcwane.org Home Depot Kids’ Workshop ‘Learn How To Build a Heart Box’ 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. www.workshops.homedepot.com

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Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu

Sunday, February 8

World of Wheels Birmingham. www.worldofwheels.net Annual Chili Cookoff Gadsden. www.downtowngadsden.com Irvin Mayfield and the New Orleans Jazz Orchestra Opelika Center for the Performing Arts. www.eastalabamaarts.org Created Equal Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu K-12 Art Club Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 1:30 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Big To Do: A benefit for the Children’s Program at Hospice Atlanta Center www.stonemountainpark.com Science Wondershop with Dr. Science Imagine It! Atlanta’s Hands On Children’s Museum. www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org

Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu High School Honor Band Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. www.auburn.edu/ music Symphonic and Jazz Band Concert Auburn Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music Nature Walks The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 8:30 a.m.

Preschool Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Comedy Night Featuring James Gregory: The Funniest Man in America Event Center Downtown, Opelika. www.eventcenterdowntown.net Love on the Harriott II Riverboat: Valentine’s Cruise Montgomery. www.funontheriverfront.com “The Southern Soul” Red Door Theatre, Union Springs. www.reddoortheatre.org.

Friday, February 13

Homeschool Printmaking Workshop The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com Discovery Hikes The Forest Ecology Preserve, Auburn. 3:30 p.m.

Baby Time Story Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Teen/Tween Book Club: Litwits Auburn Library. 4:30 p.m. Ages 13-18. 501-3196.

All You Need is Love Friday Night Drop In Sweetheart Dance. Opelika Parks and Rec. 7 p.m. www.opelika.org Cirque D’Or. Montgomery Performing Arts Centre www.mpaconline.org Maids of Jubilee Mardi Gras Parade Fairhope. www.cofairhope.com Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” www.familytheatre.org Free Weekday Admission to Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com Second Saturday at The Columbus Museum www.columbusmuseum.com Friday Night Drop In Sweetheart Dance Opelika Parks and Rec. 501-5560.

Valentine’s Swing Dance with the Auburn Knights Event Center Downtown, Opelika. www.eventcenterdowntown.net Love on the Harriott II Riverboat: Valentine’s Cruise Montgomery. www.funontheriverfront.com “The Southern Soul” See Feb. 12 for details.

Wednesday, February 11

Saturday, February 14

Monday, February 9

Peter and the Starcatcher RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org Free Weekday Admission to Callaway Gardens www.callawaygardens.com Art Gallery Winter 2015 Exhibition: Southern Craftsmen See ‘Jan Dempsey Community Arts Center ‘ in ONGOING section.

Story Time: Pajama Time Auburn Library. 7 p.m. 501-3196.

Tuesday, February 10

Ringling Bros and Barnum & Bailey Circus: Legends Feb. 11-15. Philips Arena, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com Homeschool Printmaking Workshop The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Toddler Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Fractured Fairy Tales: Snoring Beauty Ages 4-7. Dress up like story book character for story time. Auburn Library. 3:30 p.m. 501-3196.

Thursday, February 12

Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” www.familytheatre.org Art with the Masters The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Film: “American Transport” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 4 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu

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Dandy Dads Dinner Dance Opelika Parks and Rec. 6 p.m. $30/couple. www.opelika.org Music City Hit Makers RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org Mike Epps: The Real Deal Tour Columbus Civic Center. www.columbusciviccenter.org 19th Annual Battle of Mobile Bay 5K Race Dauphin Island.

Alabama Wildlife Center’s Wild About Chocolate Harbert Center, Birmingham. www.awrc.org Mardi Gras Parade and Gala Talladega. www.talladegaritz.com Family Theatre presents “Our Miss Brooks” www.familytheatre.org Teen Pottery Class The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com Second Saturday: Family Fun Day at the Columbus Museum Free admission. Columbus, Ga. www.columbusmuseum.com Second Saturday Lee County Historical Society Museum. Loachapoka. www.leecountyhistoricalsociety.org

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Family Calendar “The Love Songs: Elvis & Buddy” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. www.asf.net 26th Annual Love Your Hearth Run & 8th Annual Crank Your Heart Ride Chewacla State Park, Auburn. www.loveyourheartrun.com Dandy Dads Dinner Dance Opelika Parks and Rec. 501-5560.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu Love on the Harriott II Riverboat: Valentine’s Cruise Montgomery. www.funontheriverfront.com “Snow White”, Atlanta Ballet See ‘Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre’ in ONGOING section.

“The Southern Soul” See Feb. 12 for details.

Sunday, February 15

Ringo Starr and His All Starr Band BJCC. www.bjcc.org Big Machines Day McWane Science Center, Birmingham. www.mcwane.org Created Equal Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Science Wondershop with Dr. Science Imagine It! Atlanta’s Hands On Children’s Museum. www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org

Monday, February 16

Order of Mystic Magnolias Mardi Gras Parade www.cofairhope.com Washington’s Birthday American Village, Montevallo. www.americanvillage.org Dream Marches On Youth Day of Service Montgomery. www.handsonriverregions.org

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Tuesday, February 17

The Book of Morman Feb. 17-22. BJCC. www.ticketmaster.com Mardi Gras Day in Mobile www.mobilebay.org International Film Festival 3 p.m. AU Campus. www.auburn.edu/music Jazz and Concert with OHS Jazz Opelika Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music Baby Time Story Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Wednesday, February 18

Columbus Kids Market Consignment Sale Feb. 18-21. www.columbuskidsmarket.net A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu 2015 Progressive Insurance Atlanta Boat Show www.atlantaboatshow.com Toddler Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Thursday, February 19

Taste of Homewood www.homewoodchamber.com Third Thursday: The Extraordinary Contraptions The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com Columbus Kids Market Consignment Sale Feb. 18-21. www.columbuskidsmarket.net A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu

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Talk: “The Gates Of Opportunity: LBJ, The Civil Rights Movement, and America’s War On Poverty 50 Years Later” Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Third Thursday Poetry Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Arts. Auburn. 7 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Maroon 5 Phillips Arena. www.ticketmaster.com Preschool Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Friday, February 20

Women’s Conference sponsored by Lakeview Women’s Ministry Featuring author & Christian Aplogist Mary Jo Sharp.

6pm. Tickets $20-$30, $10 students. www.lakeviewbaptist.org Jason Aldean: 2015 Burn It Down Tour BancorpSouth Arena. www.ticketmaster.com Black Jacket Symphony presents Pink Floyd ‘Dark Side of the Moon’ Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.mpaconline.org Russian National Ballet: Swan Lake RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org Mercedes-Benz Marathon Weekend Bham. www.mercedesmarathon.com Columbus Kids Market Consignment Sale Feb. 18-21. www.columbuskidsmarket.net Lunch & Lecture: India Unveiled: Spirit, Tradition, People The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

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Saturday, February 21

Girls, Glitz and Glamour Covington Rec Center, Opelika. Ages 5-13; $15. 10 a.m. www.opelika.org Mercedes-Benz Marathon Weekend Bham. www.mercedesmarathon.com The Time Jumpers featuring Vince Gill, Kenny Sears, and Ranger Doug Green. RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org Camp Museum: A Surreal Good Time The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com Columbus Kids Market Consignment Sale www.columbuskidsmarket.net “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

All Things Girly!

Covington Center, Opelika. Fee $15, Ages 5-13 years.

10 a.m. 501-5560.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu Spectrum Story Time ‘Sounds’ Auburn Library. 10 a.m. 501-3196.

“The Southern Soul” See Feb. 12 for details.

Sunday, February 22 Mercedes-Benz Marathon Weekend Bham. www.mercedesmarathon.com

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January/February 2015

Animal Enrichment Day The Montgomery Zoo. www.montgomeryzoo.com Jewish Food Festival & Treasure Market Montgomery. www.templebethor.net Created Equal Film Series Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 2 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Chamber Choir Concert Auburn First Baptist Church. 2:30 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music Broadway in Birmingham: Book of Mormon BJCC. www.bjcc.org Science Wondershop with Dr. Science Imagine It! Atlanta’s Hands On Children’s Museum. www.childrensmuseumofatlanta.org “The Southern Soul” See Feb. 12 for details.

Monday, February 23

Black History Month Program Birmingham Civil Rights Institute. www.bcri.org

Tuesday, February 24

Agape of Central Alabama presents Michael Oher RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org WWE Smackdown Philips Arena, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Baby Time Story Time Auburn Library. 10 AM and 1 PM. 501-3196.

Teen/Tween Book Club: Litwits Auburn Library. 4:30 p.m. Ages 13-18. 501-3196.

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Wednesday, February 25 A Little Art Talk Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Engineering Showcase at McWane Science Center Bham. www.mcwane.org “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Toddler Time Auburn Library. 10 AM and 1 PM. 501-3196.

Thursday, February 26

“The Producers” Feb. 26 - Mar. 14. Springer Opera House. www.springeroperahouse.org A Little Lunch Music Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn.

12 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Live Jazz Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 6 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu Southern Circuit Tour of Independent Filmmakers Spring 2015 Jule Collins Smith Museum of Fine Art. Auburn. 5 p.m. www.jcsm.auburn.edu “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Junior Recital: Amanda Anderson Goodwin Recital Hall, AU Campus. 6 p.m. www.auburn.edu/music Spectrum Story Time ‘Bedtime’ Auburn Library. 7 p.m. 501-3196.

Preschool Time Auburn Library. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. 501-3196.

Game On: Unplugged Board Games Ages 13-18 years. Auburn Library. 4 p.m. 501-3196.

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Family Calendar Friday, February 27

Kathleen Madigan RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org American Traditional Archery Tannehill Ironworks Historical State Park. www.tannehill.org “The Importance of Being Earnest” Alabama Shakespeare Festival. Feb. 27 - Mar. 15. www.asf.net “Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Boots and Bow Ties at Lazenby Farms Auburn. 6:30 p.m. Tickets $60 per person. Dinner, silent auction, and live entertainment. Proceeds benefiting Learning Tree & HAPIE Program and Residential School. www.lazenbyfarm.com Baby Time Story Time Auburn Library. 10 AM and 1 PM. 501-3196.

Saturday, February 28

Jekyll and Hyde RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org Nascar Xfinity and Camping World Truck Series Double Header Atlanta Motor Speedway. www.ticketmaster.com 22nd Annual Orange Beach Seafood Festival and Antique Car Show Orange Beach Sportsplex. 251-981-1524.

Russell Forest Run Alexander City. www.russellforestrun.com Alabama Horse Council Horse Fair Garrett Coliseum. www.alabamahorsecouncil.org Steampunk Jewelry Workshop The Columbus Museum. www.columbusmuseum.com

January/February 2015

Pinewood Derby Race Gentian Baptist Church, Columbus. (706)341-2499.

“Once Upon a Mattress” See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

Canopy Trail Oxbow Meadows. oxbow.columbusstate.edu Chris Tomlin ‘Love Ran Red’ Concert Dothan Civic Center. 7 p.m. www.dothanciviccenter.org VIP Bed Race 2015 Uptown Columbus. www.valleyinterfaithpromise.com.

March

March 1 “Once Upon a Mattress”. See ‘Telfair Peet Theatre’ in ONGOING section.

March 1 5K Trail Run, Tot Trot & Sunday Stroll.

Kreher Preserve & Nature Center. www.auburn.edu/ preserve March 1 Dr. Seuss’s Birthday Celebration.

McWane Science Center. www.mcwane.org SPRING BREAK March 4 “Peter and the Starcatcher”. RiverCenter for the Performing Arts. www.rivercenter.org March 5-9 Auburn Area Children’s Theatre Presents: “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory”. www.auburnact.org.

March 6 First Fridays ‘Shop Late, Eat Local’.

Downtown Opelika. Until 8 p.m. www.opelikamainstreet.org March 6 Little Big Town. BJCC. www.bjcc.org March 7 Science on Saturdays. Kreher Preserve & Nature Center. 10 a.m. www.auburn.edu/preserve March 7 Junior Adventure Challenge.

Chadwick Ln, Auburn. Ages 4-10 years. junioradventurechallenge@gmail.com March 11-22 “The Borrowers”. Springer Opera House, Columbus. www.springeroperahouse.org

March 12 Nature Walks ‘Migration’. Kreher Preserve & Nature Center. www.auburn.edu/preserve March 14 Fit as a Fiddle: A 50+ Lifestyle and Health Fair. Harris Center, Auburn Parks and Rec. 9 AM. 501-2930.

March 14 Lee County CASA Superhero 5K. Downtown Opelika. www.bigdogrunning.com.

March 15 I Love Lucy, Live! Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com March 17 Kids in the Kitchen. Covington Center.

Age 5-8; $10 fee. 3:40 p.m.

March 18 Disney Live: Pirates and Princess Adventure. Montgomery Performing Arts Centre. www.mpaconline.org March 19 Special Olympics Lee County Area Bowling Tournament. 1 p.m. AMF Auburn Lanes.

March 19 Miranda Lambert. BJCC. www.bjcc.org March 23-25 Spring Break Camp. Kreher Preserve & Nature Center. www.auburn.edu/preserve March 24 Ariana Grande with Rixton. Philips Arena, Atl. www.ticketmaster.com March 28-29 Tiger Kids Tri and Tiger Tri Super Sprint. James E. Martin Aquatics Center, AU Campus. www.triauburnal.com March 28 Bark in the Park. Kiesel Park, Auburn.

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Gottman discovered that relationships were most successful when couples had five positive interactions for every one negative interaction. In general, his research showed that it took a lot of positives (five to be exact) to cancel out the effects of just one negative interaction!

Imagine that!

Not only is this ratio a good guideline for marriages, but it’s a useful goal to strive for in our interactions with our children.

As parents we are usually quick to address problem behaviors, complaints, or criticisms with our children, but Gottman’s magic ratio suggests that we need to be even more diligent about giving them our praise, compliments, and affection.

How can you apply the magic ratio to your parent-child interactions? Draw a line down the middle of a piece of paper.

Label the left side as “Positive” and the right side as “Negative.” Carry the piece of paper with you for a day or two and tally your positives and negatives. Tell your child you love him? Give yourself a point in the positive column. Need to discipline your child for misbehavior? Put a point in the negative column.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay to provide discipline to your children. But when thinking about Gottman’s ratio, you have to consider how your child views the interaction. And most children would consider being disciplined a negative!

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with your kids, make an effort to even it up. Aim for an equal number of positives and negatives.

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Dr. Polly Dunn received her Ph.D. from Auburn University in 1999. She is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and currently serves as the Director of the Auburn University Psychological Services Center, a position she has held for over ten years. Dr. Dunn is also the founder of www.ChildPsychMom.com where she blogs about what works and what doesn’t in her hectic life as a child psychologist, wife, and mom of four.

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MPAA Rating: PG Overall: B+ Violence: C+ Sexual Content: B Language: AAlcohol / Drug Use: C The MPAA has rated Paddington PG for mild action and rude humor.

I have fond memories of watching the original Paddington Bear television series in the 1970s, so it was with a mix of anticipation and skepticism that I sat down to view the beloved character’s first big movie appearance. The good news? Unlike most trailers, the one for Paddington focuses on the movie’s worst moments.

The film begins with Paddington’s early days in Peru, where he lives with his very industrious Aunt Lucy and Uncle Pastuzo (voiced by Imelda Staunton and Michael Gambon) until an earthquake destroys their home and takes his uncle’s life (possibly the most frightening point for young viewers). Aunt Lucy, apparently well read, suggests her nephew leave for London because the people there cared so well for their children during World War II. So she puts the youngster on a freighter with a tag around his neck that reads, “Please look after this bear. Thank you.” The talking cub (voiced by Colin Firth) ends up on the platform of Paddington Station in England’s capitol, and that’s where he meets the Browns.

Henry and Mary Brown (Hugh Bonneville and Sally Hawkins) and their children Judy and Jonathan (Madeleine Harris and Samuel Joslin) have mixed feelings about taking the stranger in -- and none of them involve the peculiarity of discovering an orphaned, talking bear in a tube station. Mary’s mother instincts immediately engage in the need to rescue the little ursidae. Henry however, who makes his living as a risk analyst, is anything but pleased with the notion. His first reaction is to call his insurance company and add special coverage for Paddington. It’s a good thing he does, because their new friend’s first bath doesn’t go as planned.

From this point forward the Browns focus on finding Paddington a permanent home, ideally with the English explorer who originally visited Peru and offered the bear’s family a place to stay if ever they were in London. Meanwhile grumpy Mr. Curry living next door unwittingly becomes involved in plot to capture the cub and have him stuffed -- a ruse planned by the evil taxidermist.

Stupid antagonist aside, the plot proves amazingly compelling. To begin, the writing is spiced with just the right amount of British humor. Other moments involve slapstick humor that never gets out of hand, and had the children in my screening laughing more than I’ve heard during a movie for some time. Finally the visual impact of this film is mesmerizing. The animated bear is perfectly integrated into a live action environment filled with intricately designed sets, props and locations. There are a few pitfalls family viewers should be aware of, yet I’m confident the production will offers audiences much to enjoy. For the most part, it stays true to the original spirit of Paddington. And it is one of those rare movies that will entertain parents and children alike.

MPAA Rating: PG-13 Overall: CViolence: D Sexual Content: BLanguage: D+ Alcohol / Drug Use: B The MPAA has rated Taken 3 PG-13 for intense sequences of violence and action, and for brief strong language.

The challenge of sequels is keeping the plot fresh while staying true to whatever made the franchise popular with audiences in the first place. In the case of Taken, it may be action star Liam Neeson and his gravely voice. Unfortunately, every plotline centers on his character’s family who is continually being hounded by miscreants. And Bryan Mills (Neeson) is a one-trick pony when it comes to defending them. He always responds with an all out assault on anyone who threatens his daughter Kim (Maggie Grace) or his former wife Lenore (Famke Janssen), a woman for whom he still has feelings. And that means by the time the credits role in this series of movies there is a throng of dead guys.

In the past films he’s had to rescue his daughter Kim from kidnappers who forced her into the foreign sex trade and then free himself and Lenore from revenge-seeking abductors in Istanbul. This time the action happens at home.

Bryan returns to his apartment to find Lenore dead in his bed. The cause of death is a slit throat. Yet she looks more like a Sleeping Beauty laid peacefully to rest. Moments later, two armed officers rush into the bedroom to find Bryan kneeling beside the bed with a knife in his hand. Clearly being framed for the murder, the bereaved husband disarms the police and jumps out the window.

Most of the movie consists of him outrunning the law enforcers including a bumbling Inspector (Forest Whitaker) who is so fixated on apprehending the supposed killer that he neglects looking for any other suspects.

The Taken franchise has always been about safeguarding one’s family. But the cost of doing so is horrendous. Bryan might be able to justify killing off bad guys, but in one scene he causes a massive highway accident that sends a cargo box hurtling down the roadway, crushing car after car as is bounces and careens before landing on top of a sedan. While Bryan manages to avoid death by explosion on several occasions, I highly doubt the people in those vehicles made it out alive. There are also hundreds of thousands of dollars in property damage left in his wake. Yet this vigilante walks away at the end of the movie without facing a single consequence for any of it.

With the prevailing appeal of sequels, it’s no surprise the script left itself open for a follow-up should filmmakers decide to revisit Bryan Mills and his troubled family. But unless they want him to defend the next generation, they’d be mistaken to pull this embattled and aging ex-operative out of retirement again.

What Parents need to know about Taken 3...

Violence: A character is kidnapped at gunpoint and forced into the trunk of his car with a dead dog. He is later shot. A man finds a woman dead in his bed.

He is confronted by police with their guns drawn. He attacks and disarms them before escaping. Later he chokes an officer and pushes him out of a moving car. Several huge explosions cause property damage and presumably death.

Students run from a university campus after police officers swarm a building with guns. Characters engage in brutal hand-to-hand combat. A man puts a gun in his mouth and shoots himself. He is seen falling to the ground but there is not blood or other injury depicted. A man uses waterboarding techniques to get information. Scores of characters are gunned down with handguns or automatic rifles.

Numerous explosions occur. Characters are stabbed, electrocuted and beaten.

Sexual Content: Two women canoodle in a hot tub with a man. A man is seen in his underwear. Brief kissing and embracing is shown.

Language: Crude terms for sexual activity are used along with a strong sexual expletive in a non-sexual context. The script also includes scatological slang, cursing, profanities and some terms of Deity.

Alcohol / Drug Use: A couple has a glass of wine before dinner. Characters drink in a hot tub.

What Parents need to know about Paddington...

Violence: A character hangs the man by his feet while dangling over a river and threatens to “remove body parts” if he doesn’t cooperate. After giving her the information, the woman cuts the rope and he falls into the river -- it is not implied that he drowns. A character shoots a bear and other humans with tranquilizer darts. An earthquake forces a family of three bears from their home; the “father” bear’s hat is found in the rubble, indicating he died.

Sexual Content: A male character dresses as a woman to disguise his identity; when another character tells him he looks pretty, he remarks, “That’s what they’ll think in jail”. A woman uses sensuality to entice a man to help her engage in a plot to kidnap a bear.

Language: There is a muffled use of the word “bloody”.

Alcohol / Drug Use: Within a comedic context, two characters engage in a game where they both drink a large amount of liquor, later seen inebriated.

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