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• A CULINARY CHRISTMAS IN KC

• CRAFTS, RECIPES AND GIFT IDEAS

• ADD MORE JOY TO YOUR HOLIDAYS

who is in your

momtourage? lessons parents can

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DECEMBER 2020

IN EVERY ISSUE 10 Dear Teachers 11 Word from Dad 12 5 Things 14 Ask the Experts 27 Tasty Treats

HOLIDAY GUIDE, PGS. 26-43

30 Craft Corner 48 Date Night

SPECIAL SECTIONS 26 Holiday Guide

FEATURES

44 Winter Fun Guide 56 Calendar of Events

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IEP Meetings

Festive Snacks

Winter Fun Guide

Tips to prepare for a successful IEP meeting.

Create holiday treats that are packed with nutrition.

Find the best places to explore in KC this winter.

Our cover features Tyrann from Overland Park. Photo by Melissa Rieke Photography.

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ON THE COVER Momtourage Lessons Learned from Kids Tasty Treats Craft Corner Culinary Christmas Bring More Joy to Your Holidays

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EDITOR’SLETTER DECEMBER 2020

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like to plan and prep for the holidays so that when December rolls around, I can relax a bit and enjoy the season. I’m a big believer that my kids don’t need more stuff and that I’d rather give gifts of time together and experiences to create memories.

However, that didn’t work out so well for me last year. I was very pleased with the gifts we’d gotten the girls, which included tickets to a concert for one of their fave performers (out of town, so a built-in mini-getaway) and a trip to Disney World. Aaaand … drum roll … both were canceled. So my grand plan fell flat. If you’re reading this and you have teen girls, please feel free to send any and all suggestions for great gifts my way. But Christmas is much more than gifts, and our Holiday Guide has you (and me!) covered to help make this year special in your home.

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As I’m writing this letter, I’m thinking of how to word this next paragraph, as I plan to mention that this December marks the fifth anniversary of my dad’s unexpected passing.

I have my Spotify “Daily Drive” playing in the background. Once it ends, Spotify continues playing music, and the very first song generated is “Kodachrome” by Paul Simon.

I don’t typically listen to Paul Simon, so he rarely shows up on my playlists. But do you know who loved Paul Simon? My dad! So as I sit in front of my computer, trying to think of what to say, Dad drops by to say “Hi!” There’s not much else I can write after Pops steals the show here, so I’ll just say we miss him dearly and think of him often. He lives on in our hearts and memories.

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Q&A DEARTEACHERS

UNDERSTANDING MULTIPLICATION MADE EASY QUESTION: A while back I believe you had an article on

multiplication for those students who were not learning in traditional ways. You mentioned using three paper plates and five blocks to show 3 x 5 = 15, instead of rotely memorizing 3 x 5 = 15. Can you explain it again? I hope this helps my third grader who just doesn’t get multiplication. – Parent

ANSWER: Whether students do or don’t get multiplication, the best way to acquaint them with the concept is through the use of pictures, drawings and hands-on material. This gives them an understanding of what multiplication looks like and is not the time to drill children to memorize the facts. Later on, there is time to commit these facts to memory.

Here’s how the paper plate introduction to multiplication works. Have your children lay out three plates and place five blocks on each plate. Ask, “How many blocks did you use altogether?” Then have the children count the blocks. Repeat the activity using different combinations of plates and blocks.

Next, introduce the symbolism for multiplication, “x,” the “times sign.” Use the symbol in a sample multiplication sentence, such as 2 x 3. This time use blocks. The height of the blocks is 2, and the length is 3. The figure contains 6 blocks, so 2 x 3 = 6. Repeat this with other number combinations.

Now your children are ready to make multiplication cards, starting with 1 x 1 through 6 x 6 for younger children and continuing to 9 x 9 for older ones. Do not include the answers (products) on either the front or back of the card as the products should be determined by the learner.

Go back to the plates and blocks and have the children select a multiplication card at random. If it is 3 x 5, for example, they should follow the same steps as they did earlier. They should count all the blocks and then write the fact 3 x 5 = 15.

Work through all of the flash cards in this way.

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IS CHILD’S PROBLEM A WRITING DISABILITY? QUESTION: My elementary school child is a good reader, but she struggles with writing.

Could she have a learning disability? How can she be helped? – HELP

ANSWER: The learning disability that affects writing is called dysgraphia. It shows itself in difficulties with spelling, poor handwriting and putting thoughts down on paper. Children with dysgraphia are often good readers. Dysgraphia is genetic and often affects several family members.

There are warning signs that young children may have dysgraphia, such as not wanting to color or draw or, if they do, not holding a crayon correctly. In elementary school, drawing or tracing shapes can be difficult, and handwriting may be illegible. Plus, children who may have dysgraphia are reluctant to write.

And as they get older, they are able to talk about an idea; however, they cannot express the same idea in writing.

You definitely need to talk with your daughter’s teacher about the child’s writing problems to determine whether an evaluation for a learning disability is needed. With help, children with dysgraphia can succeed in school. It is important get it diagnosed and to start a strategy.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns. © Compass Syndicate Corporation, 2020

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I’d called my sister from work before Christmas to coordinate something, but she didn’t answer. Instead, my nephew at the grand, old age of two-and-a-half picked up the phone and showed how grown up he was.

I love everything about the Christmas season. The decorations, the hustle and bustle, even the minor angst about what to get whom—all are part and parcel of this time of year. Most of all, I love the faith that children have in the magic of Christmas.

Their belief is so pure I do everything I can to buoy it up, stretch it out and make it last as many years as I can. Hopefully, for a lifetime.

I knew what I had to do. Without hesitation, I pitched my voice as low as I could. “Eric, this is Santa.”

He giggled.

Hot dern, this was working! “Are you being good?”

My nephew giggled again. “Yes.” I kept my voice low. “If you’re good, I’ll know about it and you’ll get lots of presents for Christmas. You like presents, don’t you?”

He didn’t giggle this time. Even at that young age, he knew the value of gifts that come overnight near the winter solstice, journeying straight from their manufacture at the North Pole.

I prodded him for the answer I knew would come. “I already know what presents you want.” I didn’t, of course, but Santa did, and Eric had to know that fact. “So, are you being really good?”

“Yes.” “Okay, Eric, let me talk to your mom, now. Bye-bye.”

My nephew didn’t bid me farewell. He must have handed the phone directly to his mother, but I could hear his words to her as clearly as if he’d spoken them into my ear.

“Silly Uncle Bill, Santa Claus.”

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FIVETHINGS Weekly Planner I’ve been trying to do a better job of keeping a journal. Knock on wood, I’m doing a fairly good job. To keep that momentum going in the new year, I’m excited to break out the Flow Calendar from Workman, which combines my love of a paper calendar with my new hobby of journaling. Each week has a nice space to fill in with events and then next to each week is a blank page with a starter question, perfect for reflections and memories. Workman.com

Games Board games, word puzzles, card games, arcade and video games—I love them all! My younger enjoys games and is typically up to joining me, although my hubby and older don’t share the same fondness as we do for the pastimes. But over the holidays, I can usually get them all involved in at least one game night. I’m excited to have some classics to add to our mix this year.

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Lip Balm I love a good lip balm, especially in the colder months. Just in time for the holidays, Eco Lips introduces a holiday line which includes Candy Cane, Raspberry Truffle and Gingerbread.

They are the perfect treat for your lips to combat the cold and dry air, making your lips feel smooth and hydrated without being too waxy. And, they have just the right amount of scent and flavor. Perfect for stuffing those stockings! EcoLips.com

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Books When my girls were younger, we saw Jim “Mr. Stinky Feet” Cosgrove perform on several occasions. His highenergy, kid-inspired lyrics always got everyone clapping and singing along. He’s taken some of those songs and made them into books so that now kids can enjoy the songs and characters they love in print, as well as in song! Check out Sullen Sally, Bop Bop Dinosaur and Hark! It’s Harold the Angel. Perfect gifts for kiddos! JimCosgrove.com

Puzzles A few years back we started a tradition of completing a puzzle or two during the holidays. This year we’re excited that our puzzle of choice has a local flair. Featuring art by folk artist Eric Dowdle, the Kansas City wooden puzzle by Dowdle Folk Art brings together our love of our hometown and our love of puzzles! These high-quality puzzles have so many different images to choose from, you’ll want to order more than one!

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“The holidays are upon us and I love

“My dog has been neutered for five

“I have some visitors coming over for

putting up my Christmas tree, but every

years and like clockwork, after every

the holidays and I just adopted a shy

year, my cat figures out how to climb it

time he eats, he grabs his bed with his

and fearful dog. Any tips to help her

and inevitably bring it crashing to the

teeth and bites it and humps it

feel more comfortable and get our

ground—shattering all of the ornaments.

aggressively. Why does he do this, and

family acquainted with our new pet?”

How can I keep her out of the tree this

should I try to stop him?”

– Becca and Eric Miller

year?!”

– Tracy Lewandowski

– Sharon Witek

“I recommend providing a safe spot in “Dogs hump for many reasons such as

the house or a kennel to which your dog

“Try wrapping the base of the tree with

playing, status-seeking, arousal, anxiety,

can escape if she feels uncomfortable

aluminum foil. Cats dislike the feel of foil

or because it is relaxing for them. It

with the incoming people. If your pet is

and they hate the noise it makes when it

sounds like your dog is getting highly

overly nervous, consider putting your pet

crinkles. Cats also dislike citrus smells, so

aroused during feeding times. Dogs get

in another room or visiting the vet to

some people put lemon and orange peels at

energy bursts from things that are exciting

discuss medications if needed during

the base of the Christmas tree or even

to them such as eating, taking a bath, or

this time. I also recommend talking to

through the branches. There are some

having friends come over and they must

your family about how to slowly and

sprays that you can purchase to put in the

find an outlet for this energy. Some dogs

properly greet your new dog. Ask them

tree branches that that will give off an odor

run around with zoomies, some bark, and

to give your pet time to adjust to them

that cats do not like that may help deter

some hump. These are normal mammal

and avoid forcing interaction as that can

them from the Christmas tree. Avoid

behaviors, and many people ignore their

cause the acclimation to take longer.”

locating the tree where the cat can launch

dogs when they do this if it’s behind

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

off of furniture and into the Christmas tree.

closed doors. If this behavior bothers you,

Be mindful of the decorations you are using

I recommend doing some type of activity

as some of them can be dangerous for your

where he is releasing his energy through

cat, like tinsel. I would probably not use

physical exercise or mental stimulation

breakable ornaments until you and your

following feeding times.”

adventurous feline come to an

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

understanding.”

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

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If you have a question that needs answering, get in touch.

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As always, please consult your health care provider with any medical questions or concerns.

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ASK THE EXPERTS

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Why should my child learn to code?

What are some good, longer chapter-style books I can read aloud to my child?

Coding has been called “the literacy of the 21st century” for good reason. Just like math, science and literature, coding is a key aspect of understanding and succeeding in our technologically advanced world. Understanding computers and learning the basics of coding help children develop an appreciation of how things work. There’s a huge need for a generation that understands both technology and how it works. Regardless of whether your kids one day pursue a career in coding, learning to code teaches them confidence, logic, resourcefulness and problem-solving skills that will serve them well for the rest of their lives.

Jason Hansen Code Ninjas KC Area Owner

Chapter books make great read-alouds, but finding one that is the right length can be tricky. Get started with this list of chapter books that aren’t doorstoppers, but will take more than a couple bedtimes to finish. All can be placed on hold for pickup from any Mid-Continent Public Library branch with your library card.

The One and Only Ivan by Katherine Applegate has short chapters, perfect for a quick moment.

Clean Getaway by Nic Stone is one part road trip and one part family bonding.

The Wild Robot by Peter Brown features shorter chapters and is fast-paced.

Flora and Ulysses by Kate DiCamillo is action-packed and includes comic-style illustrations.

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Hand, foot and mouth disease is going around my child’s daycare.

Can you tell me about it?

Why are my child’s teeth so crooked?

Hand, foot and mouth disease is caused by a few different viruses. It results in red spots in the back of the throat and a rash on the hands and feet, and sometimes a fever. In younger kids, it’s often on the buttocks too. Children will typically be irritable, complain of a sore throat and not want to eat/drink due to the pain. Kids can feel pretty miserable, and unfortunately, because it’s a viral illness, we don’t have medicines to make it better. The most important things are making sure kids are staying hydrated and giving Tylenol and ibuprofen (if they are over 6 months) for pain. Symptoms typically resolve in seven to 10 days.

There is a genetic component to how teeth develop, and genetics play into the likelihood of whether your child will have crooked teeth as the adult teeth erupt. Other factors affect the development of teeth, too. One common example is thumb sucking. Thumb sucking for too long can cause a narrowing of the upper arch that may require treatment later. Another factor that may affect tooth position is if a child loses a baby tooth too early because of decay, it can disrupt the correct order in which the permanent teeth grow in and cause bite problems. Having a sweet treat from time to time is okay, but kids who constantly nibble or sip on snacks or drinks and don’t brush their teeth in between tend to get decay.

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Choosing an OB/GYN HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT SPECIALIST FOR YOU

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he American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists suggests girls between the ages of 13 and 15 begin visiting an OB/ GYN. Many wait until they’re 18 or older.

Maybe you’re 21 and just now looking into it.

Or maybe you just moved and have to start your search all over.

An obstetrician, according to the American Pregnancy Association, usually offers services like annual Pap tests or managing pregnancy complications, attending births and providing postpartum care. Choosing an OB/GYN is a very personal decision. There is no right or wrong way to choose, and who you select may not be another person’s first choice. You might even choose someone, decide the fit isn’t right and make an appointment with someone new. That’s perfectly normal, too.

I will start by saying this: I’ve seen three different OB doctors in my life (I only switched due to moving and changes in insurance), and each had traits or strengths I appreciated. The saying, “to each her own” truly applies here. It may take a little research, extra phone calls and Google searches, but putting in the work will ensure you end up with the best choice for you.

It’s like choosing a (very medically qualified) friend who just so happens to know your entire medical history. No big deal. You need someone with whom you’ll be able to share uncomfortable symptoms and annoying aches and pains, and ask embarrassing questions that you wouldn’t ask just anyone.

So where do you start? If you are brand new to this, don’t be intimidated. You’ll find the right fit, and the process shouldn’t be too complicated. Here are a few steps to start this journey.

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Ask a friend or family member you trust Start by asking close friends, your older sisters, your mom, your aunt, your cousins—anyone you’re comfortable with— who they see or who they’ve heard positive feedback about.

Make a list of questions or concerns.

What made her choose this person? What sets this doctor apart from other OB/GYNs? Is the physician easy to get hold of if you have questions after your appointment? Is her schedule already booked? Your friend or family member’s word may be enough for you to set up your first check-up with the recommended doctor.

approach to prenatal care and delivery? How likely is it this OB will be available to deliver your baby?

You may also need someone who can coach you through labor and delivery and postpartum depression, for example. This factor would play a major role in your decision.

Select a hospital in network You’ve finally settled on an OB at a hospital with a good rating. Is it within your area code? Is it covered by your particular health insurance? Will you have to drive an hour and back just for a general appointment? These are just a few important points to consider.

Research their histories and specialties

Read reviews

Do you plan on getting pregnant and need an OB who specializes in high-risk pregnancies, for example? What is his or her

If physicians don’t receive 4- or 5-star ratings from prior patients, you might not want to waste your time. If you can’t find

references and haven’t heard reports of great patient interactions, that doctor may not be worth an interview. Try to read at least two or three solid reviews on your potential future physician.

See whether doctors have Facebook pages for their practices where they post updates and interact with patients or answer important questions. Scroll through comments and you’ll be able to tell whether a doctor has positive client relationships.

Trust your gut Let’s say you’ve already been to your first appointment. You didn’t really like the way your OB answered some of your questions. Or maybe you felt rushed.

Whatever the reason, you just didn’t leave your appointment feeling at ease. There doesn’t even have to be a valid reason.

Schedule your next appointment with a different doctor. If the wait time seems to increase with each visit or it’s nearly impossible to schedule a convenient time for you, try a different provider.

Know your communication style It’s not petty to want a doctor with a sense of humor. Or one who maintains a serious demeanor. Are you more comfortable with a male or female doctor?

Your personality type may prefer someone who handles anxiety well. One of my first OBs, for example, was extremely patient and knew I just dreaded doctor appointments.

I always felt comfortable chatting with her, and the appointment flew by.

On the other hand, if you hate small talk and want an OB who keeps it simple, barely talks unless it’s about Pap test results and doesn’t allow much time for chatting, you may opt for a more “cut to the chase” kind of doctor, and that’s okay, too.

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As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

Important Things to Consider When Choosing an OB/GYN • Communication. Choose an OB/GYN with whom you are comfortable talking and who supports your information.

• Does your doctor have experience with a condition or procedure (for example high-risk pregnancy, multiple births/twins, c-sections)?

• How does the OB manage pain during delivery?

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getting creative with behavior redirection We all need to refresh with downtime. Keeping kids busy certainly can be a good thing. We all need positive stimulation, but overscheduled kids might act out against overload.

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o many times kids—including my own—are mostly great until the minute a parent walks into the room. Then things hit the fan.

My kids may be still and quiet for a sitter, but the minute I get home, they start screaming and running all over. All parents are familiar with the scenario of picking up kids from a friend’s, entering with a pleading, “I hope they were good for you!” The reply? “They were great!” Of course they were.

Child behavior perplexes. Everyone has an opinion, right? Children are different, so naturally they will respond to things in distinct ways. Some are easily disciplined, and others will push you to your limits any chance they get. Parents have their own parenting styles as well. Mix those variables

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together, and you have yourself a melting pot of behavior modification. Add to the mix the fact that each stage of life with kids comes with new challenges. How do families sort through this soup?

After consulting multiple parents with kids of various ages, here are commonalities I found:

CONSISTENCY IS KEY. No matter what stage your kids are in, from infancy to adolescence, consistency plays a big role in everything. Whether they’re rolling over, walking, talking—or talking back—kids need to know you will follow through on discipline should they step over the line or have a breakdown in a store.

Something else we parents have to watch is the example we set. Have you ever noticed kids do as they see, good or bad? They say the things we say and copy what we do. The more you practice the behaviors you want your children to model, the more you’ll see your kids following the pattern.

SET EXPECTATIONS. Whether your family is running errands, attending an event or engaging in another activity, let kids know what’s planned. Depending on their age, have a pre-event discussion about what you and they expect to happen. Remember to let them know what the consequences will be if they choose to disregard your expectations. It doesn’t always have to be a long discussion— they may come to need just a quick reminder.

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GIVE THEM FOOD AND SLEEP. I’ve seen kids have all sorts of breakdowns over sleep and food. Grown-ups get cranky when we’re tired or hungry, but we generally can contain ourselves. Kids haven’t always mastered that skill. If they’re worn out or running on empty tummies, they may act out.

PROVIDE DOWNTIME. Ever been in a horrible mood and just needed a couple hours or so? This happens to every single person in my family—young or old, extrovert or introvert. We all need to refresh with downtime. Keeping kids busy certainly can be a good thing. We all need positive stimulation, but overscheduled kids might act out against overload.

STRIKE A POSITIVE NOTE. If you have a rough morning, remember that kids love to feed off that. I have first-hand experience with kids misbehaving because of my own bad mood or frustration. It doesn’t take much, and it doesn’t matter where you are. Breathe deeply, square your shoulders and take on the day with a hopeful and pleasant attitude. The kids will absorb some of your sunshine.

LET THEM GROW. The older kids get, the more independence they want. Even when they reach the ripe old age of 4. Give them age-appropriate opportunities to exercise autonomy. I remember when we were kids, we worked hard to prove to our parents we could handle more responsibility for ourselves. The more we proved we could handle on our own, the more we got.

Obviously, parents know their own kids best, and no one parenting approach will fit every family. Raising kids is not for the faint of heart, and everyone does things they promised they would never do. Get creative with behavior redirection, set clear expectations, then do your best to set your kids up for success.

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HOW TO PREPARE

for Your Child’s IEP Meeting

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n individualized education plan (IEP) is a key component of your child’s special education plan. By law, schools are required to provide services to kids who qualify. An IEP meeting is where educators and a child’s guardians set goals and identify which services will be provided. Although the meeting may intimidate parents, some preparation and research ahead of time can help you feel more informed and confident. After all, being informed will help you be a better advocate for your child as everyone involved develops a plan that will help your youngster have more success in school while keeping everyone happy. Here are six steps to help prepare you for your child’s IEP meeting.

Talk to the teacher Have a conversation with your child’s teacher to determine how things are going at school. The teacher can help identify your child’s strengths and challenges and may suggest what services would be helpful to him. If possible, observe your child in the classroom to get a feel for how social interactions and classroom learning are going. Knowing this information, as well as your student’s current math and reading levels, will help you assist in setting goals during the IEP meeting.

Read up

Have a conversation with your child’s teacher to determine how things are going at school.

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The school should send home a notice of meeting that states who will attend the IEP meeting, the reason for meeting and, if applicable, goals set in the previous IEP meetings. Carefully read the information sent home so you understand what to expect. You may also consider studying special education laws that pertain to your child’s needs so you know what services you can legally ask for.

Many websites and books can help parents prepare for IEP meetings as well. The more knowledge you have, the more confident and comfortable you will feel during the meeting.

Set goals Beforehand, write down questions you would like to ask at the meeting. This is also a great time to consider what visions and goals you have for your child and make note of them. Bring your notes with you to the meeting so you can refer to them throughout the process. Having a list of questions and an idea of goals you would like to see your child reach will help you make sure you

cover everything you had hoped for, even if the emotions of the meeting make it more difficult to remember your questions and concerns. Don’t be afraid to ask for additional services for your child. The school may not provide everything you had in mind, but it never hurts to ask.

Get organized Collect any paperwork you need or would like to bring to the meeting and gather it in one place so it is neat and organized for the meeting. Bring your notes from your observation, your list of questions and goals you would like to set, and any medical paperwork that pertains to the IEP meeting.

If you have had any private evaluations done, bring copies of those as well.

Bring an advocate Because IEP meetings can be intimidating, you might find it helpful to bring an advocate to the meeting with you.

This could be a lawyer or simply a spouse or co-parent. Having a person there both for support and to be another advocate for your child can be a good boost of confidence for

the parent to help ensure you meet the goals you would like for your child. Be sure to let your school know, in advance, who will be attending the meeting with you.

Be confident You know your child best and are the best person to represent her needs, challenges and successes. Although addressing issues your child faces in learning can be overwhelming and emotional, setting goals and securing the proper services are the best things you can do for your child’s success in school. Dress appropriately for the meeting, bring the documents and notes you prepared, and speak confidently and lovingly about your child. Your preparation and concerns will be apparent to everyone at the meeting, and you will have the reassurance that you were prepared and did your best to help your child be successful in school.

Books to Help Prepare for Your Child’s IEP Meeting Here are a few books to help you understand and prepare for your child’s IEP meeting.

• The Art of Advocacy: A Parent’s Guide to a Collaborative IEP Process

by Charmaine Thaner

• Better IEP Meetings Everyone Wins

by Cynthia M. Herr and Barbara D. Bateman

• Wrightslaw: All About IEPs by Peter W. D. Wright and Pamela Darr Wright

• Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy: The Special Education Survival Guide by Peter W. D. Wright and Pamela Darr Wright

• Your Special Education Rights: What Your School District Isn’t Telling You

by Jennifer Laviano and Julia Swanson

• The IEP from A to Z: How to Create Sarah Lyons is a part-time freelance writer and full-time mom. She lives in Olathe with her family.

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T he Momtourage

es, love is a battlefield. But have you tried being a mom lately?

There are more landmines, potholes and pitfalls than any frontline soldier could hope to count. It is for this very reason that moms need a group of friends to help navigate this very specific frontline we call parenting. Not just any friends, either. A momtourage. That unique collection of women who, each in her own way, provides a strand of support you didn’t even know you needed.

Here’s a list of the fundamental ladies you need in your corner:

THE “A” GAME MOM Nothing gets past her. This mom knows the date, location, weather forecast and lunch menu item for the next six

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months. In fact, she probably has a binder to help her keep it organized.

She also has contact names and numbers for every single parent, and she will gladly share them with you. After all, you have got to stop accidentally calling little Henry’s mom “Marissa” when her name is actually “Melissa.” The “A” Game mom is your lifeline when the craziness sets in, and her super power is organizing a moms night out so you can all get a piece of your sanity back. Find her.

How to find her: She’s the first one to sign up for anything.

How to thank her: A spa gift card. Being on point all the time is exhausting; she’ll appreciate a quick massage or mani/pedi day.

THE HUMORIST/LOUD MOUTH MOM The release of laughter is the only thing that’s going to get you through this season of your life. The Humorist mom knows how to whip out a joke to break the tension at a birthday party or send you a hilarious GIF to make the school pickup line a little more bearable. She probably curses a lot but is smart enough to do it out of earshot of the kids—most of the time. This mom will never be the quietest one in the room, but she will be the one you look forward to seeing make a fun commotion.

How to find her: She’s incapable of a serious face. Look for big smiles and a loud laugh.

How to thank her: Tickets to a live show or hilarious movie.

THE CALM INFLUENCE MOM We all need someone to really hear us.

And although our spouses are great for that, sometimes the person you need is a little more … well, mom-ish. This mom has been through everything you have, but is willing to turn off problem-solving mode and just listen. She’s gentle and kind, and maybe even shy. That’s because she’s taking it all in, paying attention to those around her. This mom will give great advice and ask you for some, too.

How to find her: She’s watching the kids play at the Christmas party, but not necessarily participating.

How to thank her: A weighted blanket and candles. She’s a sensitive and empathetic soul and will appreciate the thought.

been wanting to do that; time to sign up for the next one. The most important thing to remember is to keep this as a friendly competition. In fact, this mom may not even realize she’s filling this role for you. At the end of the day, she’s simply a motivator to be a better version of yourself.

How to find her: Girl, you know who she is. I don’t need to tell you.

How to thank her: No need. This is a distance relationship, but don’t be surprised if someday you end up as best friends. Life is funny like that.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son.

THE BE-YOURSELF MOM

THE OPPOSITE MOM This one is going to be tough, but you need her. She is the mom who does everything exactly the opposite of you. If you despise McDonalds, she’s definitely tossing chicken nuggets to her kids in the backseat. If you let your kids have an iPad, she’s the one who strictly limits screen time. But that’s okay. Having a wellrounded approach to parenting makes for more interesting kiddos, and if you stay squarely in your box of comfort, you’ll never get there. Let this mom surprise you with her methods—and maybe give one of them a try. You just might find she’s right!

How to find her: Wait for your child to tell you that “so-and-so’s mom lets him do this!” Then go find that mom.

How to thank her: A personal coffee or cocktail evening out. Tell her something you tried because of her. It’ll bond you instantly.

Yes ma’am, she’s at the top of the momtourage. As your go-to for emergencies, babysitting, and even late night panic attacks, this mom has seen it all. Your house doesn’t have to be clean for her to stop by, and your sweats and a dry-shampoo bun will do just fine when you see her. Most importantly, there are no pretenses with this friend. She knows about your son’s hitting problem, your daughter’s potty mouth and your newborn’s inability to sleep more than 30 minutes. No matter what, no matter when, she picks up the phone when you call.

How to find her: This is someone you already know. Evaluate your friendships and decide who needs a promotion.

How to thank her: Return the favor.

Let her be herself around you, too.

THE COMPETITOR MOM You could also call her the Frenemy, but do we really need to make things so dramatic? This is a mom that unknowingly elevates you to be better.

She made gluten-free cupcakes with three hours’ notice? Well, you can too.

She ran a 5K last weekend? Well, you’ve

HOW TO START A MOMTOURAGE Forging friendships can be difficult, and forming a momtourage can take some time.

Here are some tips to get you started:

Join the PTA – It might be torturous, but you have to greet people to meet people.

Slap on a smile and say hello. That’s all you need to do. The rest will fall into place.

Don’t judge – It’s so easy to put labels on people. Treat each mom you meet as a blank slate. Let her show you who she is and decide whether you want her in your circle.

Not everyone’s a fit – Sometimes mom-ships just don’t pan out. Evaluate your friendships, and if someone isn’t pulling her respective weight, it’s perfectly fine to demote her to acquaintance rather than friend.

Go to class parties – Ugggghhhh. I know. They can be painful. But if you can’t bond with other adults over the joy your kids’ experience during Trunk or Treat, where else can you expect to? kcparent.com december 2020

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lessons learned

from the kids

“Oftentimes we are so busy looking down and running here and there we forget to look up and remember what God has created and all the beauty there really is in this world, even when it doesn’t feel like it.”

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arents are always teaching and guiding children through their lives. We can easily fall into the rut of simply seeing the adult as teacher and the child as learner. But what if we were to flip that? What if we adults pause for a moment and realize

children actually have quite a lot to teach us too? International best-selling author Bryant McGill says, “Our children can be our greatest teachers if we are humble enough to receive their lessons.” Whether we are 5 or 95, we are never too young to learn ... and learning from children can be healthy for us “old” folks!

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Get active.

If you watch, you know children are constantly active. Do they walk to the mailbox? Nope. They skip or run. Our toddler runs everywhere, even if it’s just to his room for a clean pair of underwear!

without stopping to pick it up and smell it. They can’t help but see a bird fly by and get excited. They see mud and have to jump in it! If there is a pile of leaves, they have to run through it or kick their feet in it. I guess it’s the little things they pick up on that they stop and appreciate, which makes us stop and reevaluate what’s important to us.”

Embrace getting older.

Keep a sense of wonder and curiosity.

Adults groan and roll their eyes when their birthdays come “One time when I was outside with my son, he said, ‘Mom, around. Some say it is just another day. Some pretend it isn’t look.

It’s like the sun is playing peek a boo with the clouds.’ I had happening. But children? Children tell everyone, including never thought of the sun and clouds like that before but wrote strangers, about their birthday or when it is coming. Our it down so I’d remember it,” says daughter recently celebrated her sixth “You make me feel like the world is much Danielle, an Olathe mom of three. birthday and was so excited she got up more beautiful, more fun, more interesting “Oftentimes we are so busy looking at 3:00 in the morning to whisper to me and less complicated than I sometimes think. down and running here and there we that it was her birthday and there were I know that your love is sincere, just like forget to look up and remember what streamers on her door. When is the last your words, which sometimes don’t make God has created and all the beauty time you shared that much excitement sense, but at the same time make all the there really is in this world, even over your own birthday?! sense in the world. You teach me to see when it doesn’t feel like it.” everything through different eyes, eyes that Be creative. are transparent and sincere, that still aren’t Laugh.

“My kids are so good at creating contaminated by the conventions and cliches Somewhere in the midst of raising without any kind of agenda. They that society suffocates us with. With you, four young children, I feel like I never seem to think, ‘Is this useful? everything is different, new, unexpected, lost my sense of fun and laughter.

Is this worth my time? Could I make exciting!

You live each moment intensely as Laughing bonds people together and money from this?’ They just create art if it were your last, and that makes me feel can truly be the best medicine. Seek because they enjoy creating art,” shares renewed and alive.” out moments to laugh and have fun Stephanie, an Overland Park mom of with your children. You’ll be glad ~ from ExploringYourMind.com three. you did.

Be present.

Julie Gettings, a licensed clinical social worker at KC ParentChild Interaction Therapy (KC PCIT), shares how being present is important: “Kids are so much better at living in the present moment. They don’t yet have our adult tendencies to dwell on the past or worry about what will happen in the future—habits that get in the way of really enjoying our lives. Kids have this amazing ability to lose themselves in whatever it is they’re doing—playing, reading, riding a bike—whereas adults are more likely worrying about a laundry list of things that need to be done. As adults we can benefit from paying more attention to what’s happening right now and letting go of our judgments about what we should be doing. Multitasking is great, but not when it gets in the way of enjoying our life and what’s happening right in front of us.”

Learn to say no.

While our children love to exercise their right to say no, I have to admit, this is something adults could use a life lesson in.

Many of us find ourselves overscheduled or saying yes to things we really shouldn’t do or can’t fit on the calendar. Sometimes less is more, so just say no!

Love like there is no tomorrow.

“Kids have an unfiltered and genuine love that is so pure. Their love is true. Sometimes as adults, we hide from showing love like this. It can make us feel vulnerable, and feeling vulnerable can be scary. Kids don’t have these same fears; they just love in big ways. There is nothing like the feeling I get when I see my niece and nephew. Their love is genuine, and it’s the best feeling in the world,” says Rebecca Chapin, positive behavior support specialist in Olathe.

I often look at my own children, especially our youngest who is 3, and am amazed at how simple things are, how pure joy is found in the ordinary, and the wonderment of life for him. My 6-year-old skips around the house, runs everywhere she goes and has endless amounts of energy and love to give. My 8-year-old can just grab art supplies and create something from nothing. My 9-year-old has the best laugh (and always has since he was itty bitty), especially if he is laughing about something inappropriate.

As I am writing this, I am struck with the realization that there is so much in each of them I can learn from and take with me as I tackle each new day.

Notice and be thankful for the small things.

Susie, a Bucyrus, KS, mom and grandma says, “Children always see the beauty in everything. They can’t walk by a flower

Julie Collett writes from Overland Park, where many of these lessons she is constantly learning from her own four children! kcparent.com december 2020

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G•U•I•D•E 27 frosty nutrition 28 shortcuts to sanity 30 flat santa craft 31 debt-free christmas 32 christmas worldwide 34 find holiday joy 36 abcs of the holidays 40 ring in the new year 42 gift guide

TASTYTREATS

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frosty nutrition

o the amazement and delight of some village children one Christmas, Frosty the Snowman came to life. Laughing and playing, he led the youngsters through a day of fun. Could Frosty’s secret energy have something to do with his snacking habits and not just his magical top hat? Let your kids try out some frosty and festive empowering snacks that might be a favorite of that magical snowman!

Snowman Cakes

Festive Candy Canes

Green & Red Christmas Trees

This snack provides your kids with whole grains, which are the best complex carbohydrate source needed for energy.

Potassium and vitamin C fill these festive canes with the nutrients needed for a strong heartbeat and immune system.

These trees are especially loaded with fiber from all the great ingredients. Fiber will keep your KC kids fuller longer.

Ingredients

Ingredients

Ingredients

• Rice cakes • Cream cheese • Raisins • Red and orange pepper (or alternatives such as carrots or apples)

• 2 bananas • 8 strawberries

• Cucumbers • Cherry tomatoes • Carrots • Whole grain crackers • Ranch dressing (for dipping)

Directions 1. Spread your cream cheese on the rice cakes and add snowman features.

“My kids enjoy assembling this snack themselves,” says Catherine, an Overland Park mother of two young daughters.

Directions 1. Slice fruit 2. Arrange on platter or plate alternating a strawberry slice with a banana slice to make the candy cane effect.

“This is a great way to get my teens to eat more fruit,” says Mary, a mom of three teenage boys from Olathe.

Directions 1. Slice cucumbers into rounds and stack in pyramid formation.

2. Cut carrots into desired shapes.

3. Decorate with veggie ornaments.

4. Add a stack of whole grain crackers for the trunk.

5. Serve with ranch dressing.

“We serve this snack at holiday parties, and all the kids dive in,” says Donald, a Lee’s Summit father of three children.

Amy Hundley is a registered dietitian nutritionist, licensed in both Kansas and Missouri, and a published freelance nutrition writer. She is currently practicing as a clinical RD and has been a resident of Olathe since early childhood. Amy can be contacted at AmyHundley05@gmail.com.

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Shortcuts

to S anity

(Avoiding a Mommy Meltdown)

If you’d rather not ask for personal help, take the opportunity to hire it out! If it’s within your means, hop on those swap sites or ask around for who makes the best gingerbread cookies, pies, etc., and help support local businesses and families trying to make some extra cash this season.

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t’s that magical time of year where, somehow, we have to make all the magic happen! Each year I feel the weight of the holidays fall on my shoulders thanks to the season’s mad rush, social media comparison and my own weird pressure I put on myself to make all the things happen in a festive manner. And each year, I’m exhausted by the never-ending to-do list I’ve created for myself. This year let’s put our heads together to share some shortcuts to sanity and ways to avoid a mommy meltdown.

It’s no surprise I would reference a book or podcast, and this time I have both! Kendra Adachi is known online as the Lazy Genius and has a podcast called The Lazy Genius Podcast, as well as a new book this year called The Lazy Genius Way. Both of these are amazing resources throughout the year but especially during this chaotic season as we shut down 2020. Adachi’s mantra is simple: “Be a genius about the things that matter and lazy about the things that don’t.” So first we need to name what matters during the holidays, build a plan around those things, and find some shortcuts for how to make it all happen while keeping a festive air about us.

The key is to sit down with your family before the Polar Express hauls us toward the holidays and the end of the year (finally!) and schedule what you

G•U•I•D•E know and what you would like happen.

This could include company holiday parties, family gatherings, the annual ugly sweater party or the weekend you bake Christmas cookies with all your sisters. One thing that I consistently want more of each Christmas, is downtime to read my beautiful Advent books. I always start and make it about halfway through before the practice inevitably falls by the wayside because everything becomes so frantic. So maybe that means I set aside Wednesday evenings to catch up on reading by the Christmas tree. I look forward to the quietness of the holiday season when I take a minute to soak it all up.

Another lens for viewing and planning some sanity savers is to honestly ask yourself what you enjoy during this time of year. What do your family and friends enjoy? Perhaps you enjoy different aspects of the season and could swap services? One of my very favorite part-time jobs while in college was wrapping gifts at our campus bookstore. I listened to holiday music overhead and chatted with customers while I wrapped their packages in perfect boxes in gorgeous paper. On the other hand, making sugar cookies and gingerbread houses with my children is not one of my favorite things. So perhaps I could swap with a friend, and she could bake for my family while I wrap her gifts. Another idea would be to have one friend make some freezer meals while the other bakes holiday treats. Then you can swap. This could make a fun girls night idea too. Also, have the freedom to drop some items off your list, such as those gingerbread houses. If they don’t matter to your family, skip them and use that time to do something you enjoy more, like visiting the Paulie’s Penguin Playground in Olathe.

Kristen Krogmeier, mother of two, says, “I start shopping Oct. 1 with a goal of being completely done shopping by Thanksgiving.

I also host a cookie exchange with good friends to lighten the baking load and to keep me from having too many in my home.”

Do you host holiday gatherings? Even if you enjoy hosting, say yes to any help offered. Scoot your hospitality pride aside and let your friends and family bring an appetizer, side, dessert, drinks or even paper plates. There’s no need to be a holiday hero, and you may be a happier host with some additional hands on deck. If you’re particular about how you’d like your gathering to be or which food you’d prefer, ask for specific help such as, “It would be great if you could bring a vegetable tray” or “I had in mind a nice loaf of bread from the Corner Bakery Cafe to go along with the soup.”

If you’d rather not ask for personal help, take the opportunity to hire it out!

If it’s within your means, hop on those swap sites or ask around for who makes the best gingerbread cookies, pies, etc., and help support local businesses and families trying to make some extra cash this season. We have actually moved away from all our family right before Thanksgiving, so because we were still unpacking, we ordered our entire Thanksgiving dinner from Hy-Vee. It was pretty amazing! We still had our traditional meal without the stress of making the magic happen. (Another year we moved on Christmas Eve too!)

Another Lazy Genius tip is to “decide once.” This could pertain to deciding once on what all teacher gifts will be for the year or even every year. You could decide once on which side you always bring (it could even be purchased instead of prepared at home!) This idea

has been around for a while now, but even giving children “something you want, something you need, something you wear and something to read” can help narrow down your choices in a sea of possibilities. Choose one festive outfit that’s your go-to for this year’s gatherings so you have a plan and don’t have to fret over what to wear last minute.

Other sanity savers include stocking up and keeping baking and cooking staples on hand for when you have a moment and inspiration to make something. Also, utilize your freezers and make and freeze all your cookie doughs, pie crusts, parts of sides and dinner or complete freezer meals to save you in the coming weeks. Kristen Krogmeier, mother of two, says, “I start shopping Oct. 1 with a goal of being completely done shopping by Thanksgiving. I also host a cookie exchange with good friends to lighten the baking load and to keep me from having too many in my home.”

As you go through the next few weeks, keep a note handy to write down or type things and ideas that helped or would help next year so each year becomes easier and easier.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 10, Mason, 8, and Slade, 5, and loves all the traditions and memory-making of the holidays but wishes for more space in between to savor the season.

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CRAFTCORNER

Materials Needed: • Wrapping paper • Pencil • Assorted markers • Tape/glue stick • Red, white and black

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f lat santa

lthough we might be unable to physically be with all our loved ones this holiday season, we can send a stand-in: a life-sized picture of our little ones! This is a fun activity for kids, which you can customize to really any character you want and also can give your children a chance to work at their skill level. Some other holiday character options are an elf, gingerbread kid or even a snowman!

This craft is, of course, inspired by the ever popular Flat Stanley!

Step one: Trace your child’s body with a pencil onto the white side of the wrapping paper.

Step two: Use current sizes of clothing as a template to trace top and bottom of Santa’s outfit on red construction paper. If you are feeling bold, free-hand the clothing. Cut out and either tape or glue onto wrapping paper body outline.

Step three: Draw boots and mittens onto black paper, cut out and tape or glue onto wrapping paper.

Step four: Measure out hat size using your child’s head that you traced on the wrapping paper. Draw out pattern for hat and then cut out.

Step five: Cut out white “fluff” for hat, shirt, sleeves, belly and boots.

Feel free to draw out pattern or just cut out. Tape or glue down.

Another option is to use cotton balls. Please note using cotton balls will make mailing the project more difficult.

Step six: Add facial features with markers and googly eyes. Add a beard if you want with cotton balls!

Step seven: Let your Flat Santa dry and either hang for some fun holiday decorations or wrap back up to easily send in the mail!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, son and two dogs. Janelle is a former health care executive director and is a mediator in Kansas, helping families in conflict. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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construction paper (or markers)

• Scissors • Cotton balls (optional) • Googly eyes (optional) • Current sized kiddo top and bottom (optional)

G•U•I•D•E

8 WAYS

TO HAVE A DEBT-FREE HOLIDAY

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t happens earlier and earlier every year.

The holiday music starts to play at the start of November, and the stores set out holiday items before Halloween is even over.

And the commercials for toys—as well as the toy catalogs from Target and Amazon!

That’s when I really start to feel anxious.

What will we get for our relatives this year?

How will we show our appreciation for people like teachers and daycare providers without wearing out our credit card? Don’t worry … here’s some help!

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Have a plan. Yes, this means using that dirty word: budget. I set up a budget in Excel every year and love it because I can easily set formulas to do the addition and subtraction for me. This way I can play with numbers to see how much I actually have available to spend on each person on my shopping list. If doing a budget in Excel isn’t your thing, head to HomeEverAfter.com/ christmas-shopping-list-planner-budgetspreadsheet-free-printable for a free downloadable and printable holiday budget planner.

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Rack up the credit card reward points, but only if you can handle it.

If your credit card has a rewards program where you can get gift cards based on how much money you put on your credit card, use

it. Caution: You must be able to pay off every cent you put on by the due date. If you don’t have it budgeted, don’t spend it. I’m able to earn a few hundred dollars’ worth of gift cards for holiday spending every year using this system, which I can then use to shop or just give the gift card as a gift itself. If you go to CreditCards.com/reward.php, they compare the top credit card reward programs for you.

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Rack up the MyPoints. I’ve been a member of MyPoints.com for many years and have earned gift cards not only by reading emails (5 points each), but by sometimes spending money with certain merchants they support. I’m quickly working toward saving up 10,000 MyPoints, which will equal $50 cash in my PayPal account. The bonus is that I use my credit card to purchase gifts I would have bought anyway, so I double my holiday earning power. Pro tip: Also check out Swagbucks, Fetch and Receipt Hog.

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Make it yourself! Gifts in a jar (TipJunkie.com/jar-homemade-gifts), like cookie, cake, pie and drink mixes and other homemade treats, always go over well, and they are cheap to make! Put them in reusable containers, and you’ve gone green, as well!

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Give up on trying to impress. Sure, the mailman would dig a $100 gift card to a local restaurant (who wouldn’t?!), and

your sitter would love a $100 iTunes card, but you probably can’t afford that or you wouldn’t be reading this article. Do what you can and let people appreciate you for who you are!

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Sell stuff. Getting rid of your clutter not only makes you money, but it also makes room for incoming holiday gifts. You can sell books, toys, clothes, movies, music and more at consignment shops and on Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist.org.

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Buy used. Now that your “trash” is going out of your house, you can find “treasure” at thrift stores, consignment shops, garage sales, Amazon.com and eBay.com.

What a great way to save at least 50 percent on items you’re looking for.

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Buy nothing! To stay out of debt, consider not buying a gift for your spouse and letting him or her know you want nothing but to live a debt-free life full of security and hope for the future. If you just can’t stomach that, the two of you might have fun trying to find something for each other on a $10 budget each! A love poem is free and goes a long way in my house.

Kerrie McLoughlin blogs at TheKerrieShow.com about her roller coaster life homeschooling five kids.

CHECK OUT KCPARENT.COM FOR LOTS OF GREAT IDEAS FOR GIFTS AND STOCKING STUFFERS THAT WON’T BREAK THE BANK.

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n the United States, the traditional Christmas meal typically includes turkey, ham or roast, eggnog or cocoa, and an array of cookies and pies.

Around the world, Christmas is a little different. This holiday season take your tastebuds on a culinary tour around the globe, savoring signature foods served at Christmas celebrations all over.

Australia

Australian Christmases are warm and sunny, and the holiday occurs in the middle of summer vacation. Many families celebrate with barbecues and picnics. A beloved tradition is Carols by Candlelight, with outdoor caroling, and meals end with delicious desserts and baked goods. Purchase some here in KC at the local Australian bakery, Banksia (BanksiaBakehouse.com).

The shop sells Australian-style fruit mince tarts, Christmas cakes and plum puddings (with brandy custard).

Mexico

In Mexico, many families enjoy the tradition of tamales made from pork or chunks of beef or chicken. Tamales have also been enjoyed in the United States and South America for centuries. It is said that tamales are especially significant at Christmas because they are a symbol of the Virgin Mary, carrying in her the baby Jesus or a mother carrying a future life, especially if the tamale contains an olive. For many families, making tamales together is a labor-intensive family ritual as friends and relatives are invited to spend a day or more preparing the favorite dish. Locally, our favorite authentic tamales are prepared at Dos de Oros (DosDeOrosRestaurant.com), where you can purchase hot tamales ready to serve or frozen tamales you can steam and warm at home.

Italy

An Italian Christmas would not be complete without an array of sweet cookies and golden breads. The cookies are often dipped in coffee or a dessert wine. The most popular treats are inspired by their region of origin, often along early spice routes. It’s said the amaretti cookie, made with bitter almonds, originated in Venice during the

G•U•I•D•E Renaissance. Taralli, popular in Southern Italy, are ring cookies, reminiscent of bagels, and can be sweet or savory with ingredients that can include black pepper, fennel, lemon glaze and sprinkles. Carollo’s Italian Gourmet Grocery (CarollosDeliKCMO.com) offers a wide selection of delicious homemade Italian cookies, including powdered crescents, lemon taralli, buccellate (Italian fig cookies) and long amaretti with almonds. A holiday must for many Italian families is a cheerfully wrapped panettone.

Jasper’s (JaspersKC.com), Kansas City’s most beloved Italian restaurant, is known for serving the most delicious gourmet Italian meals and the best panettone in town.

Slovenia

Povitica is a festive Slovenian cake served during holidays and celebrations. The cake is made into a loaf of delicious dough rolled with fillings and baked into a beautiful swirl.

Kansas City’s own bakery, Strawberry Hill Povitica Company (StrawberryHill.com), continues the tradition baking the Eastern European dessert bread since 1984. Visitors can visit the bakery to watch the artisan bakers prepare the delicious bread (viewed through glass windows) and buy the sweet treat fans love all year long, but especially during the holidays.

Germany

Gingerbread is a beloved Christmas tradition dating back to 16th-century Germany. The charming, detailed cookie houses decorated with sweet treats are a holiday staple. Wally’s Pastry Shop (Facebook.com/wallyspastryshop) makes exquisite gingerbread houses as whimsical centerpieces for your holiday table. They also make houses entirely of chocolate!

Sweden

The St. Lucia Festival is the centerpiece of Swedish holiday traditions. Legend says that Lucia came to Scandinavia when Sweden was suffering a famine. She steered a ship, shining with light and filled with food, across the waters of Lake Vännern in the province of Värmland, saving the people of Sweden from starvation. Each year, she is celebrated on Dec. 13 with an early

breakfast of saffron buns, ginger cookies and coffee. The oldest daughter in the family wears a white gown with a red sash and a crown of lingonberry branches with seven lit candles. This tradition is celebrated annually in Lindsborg, KS, the heartland’s “Little Sweden.” For Christmas, families feast on smorgasbord (or smörgåsbord, as it’s written in Swedish), called the julboard (its holiday name) of food, including ham, pork sausage, an egg and anchovy mixture (gubbröra), herring salad, potatoes, pickled herring, liver pâté, wort-flavored rye bread (vörtbröd) and a special fish dish, lutfisk. You can find many of these items, as well as chocolates, cookies and festive drinks in the food market at Ikea (Ikea.com).

Japan

Beginning in the 1970s, when the first KFC opened in Japan, America’s own classic fried chicken became the traditional holiday food of choice for many Japanese families.

In fact, KFC (KFC.com) is so popular that Christmas orders are placed up to two months in advance. It all started when the original owner of the first KFC in Japan sold a Christmas “party barrel” as an homage to a traditional American turkey dinner. Many families enjoyed taking on the American food as their new tradition, and now KFC is the signature food for a Japanese Christmas, with some locations even featuring Colonel Sanders dressed as Santa Claus.

Europe

Europe is known for delicious cookies and gourmet chocolates, and you can find a wide selection at European Delights (EuropeanDelightsKC.com). The small shop sells a large selection imported deli meats, cheeses and foods, including nearly 300 varieties of candy from nations all over Europe.

At Christmas, they stock up on beautifully boxed chocolate. The boxes look like European houses and villages decorated with wreaths and lights, making a perfect holiday gift.

Kristina Light’s family enjoys tamales from Dos de Oros, povitica from Strawberry Hill and European chocolates as part of their holiday festivities each year. kcparent.com december 2020

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Bringing Joy to the Holidays

If you are able to take the “musts” of the season and turn them into a family activity, you’ll feel the pressure on you ease a bit.

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o you remember the days when the thought of Christmas filled you with such an excited expectation that you could barely sleep? Now that I’m responsible for making those memories for my children, I’ve found the holidays have more stress, pressure and cost than I’d ever imagined. Still, my heart is to enjoy the holidays with my family. The question is how to do that.

Bringing joy back to your holidays takes a little self-examination to determine what takes joy from your holidays. Everyone is different, but the main points of stress in most people’s lives seem to be busyness, finances and family.

Prioritize, prioritize, prioritize To begin to declutter your schedule, make a list of what is most important for you to accomplish this season. What do you want to do? What matters most to you? What are your traditions?

Pull out your calendar and mark down the nonnegotiables like work parties, children’s events and family obligations.

Next, take a look at the things you need to do and schedule them. Baking, cleaning, shopping. Make it fun. Involve your kids in the baking. Get the entire family to spend three hours on a Saturday morning to get the house clean then go out and have a

G•U•I•D•E snowball fight. Set aside one day with your spouse to get your shopping done.

If you are able to take the “musts” of the season and turn them into a family activity, you’ll feel the pressure on you ease a bit. Baking and cleaning time is cut in half. Stress is released knowing you aren’t the only one doing things. You’ll have more time to spend doing the fun stuff you actually want to do with your family. Plus, by involving your kids, you are actually teaching them a life skill. As long as you release expectations of perfection from a 5-year-old decorating a cookie or a 7-year old cleaning a toilet, you are going to come out ahead. And your kids might really enjoy the quality time spent with you.

Now, it’s time for your want-to list.

Schedule in your personal traditions, but don’t overpack your schedule. Tamara Russell, a teacher, says, “Remember, more is less. Avoid the temptation to overplan for the holidays.” And take energy level into account, especially if you have young children. For example, if you’re going ice skating one night that week, plan on a low-key event the next, like building a gingerbread house or snuggling down with hot chocolate and a Christmas movie.

Finally, it’s okay to say no. You don’t have to do everything. Giving yourself a little extra margin to rest, relax or be spontaneous will go a long way in staying healthy and happy during a high pressure season.

Don’t Finance the Holidays To ease stress, our priorities need to go beyond our time and into our finances. Putting Christmas on a credit card, even if it’s to provide the perfect gift or experience, is never a good idea. Kansas City’s Roy Browning spent his career in the finance and mortgage industry and now spends his time helping others with their personal finances. “You can’t do everything, so what’s the most important to you?

Is it more important for you to have a beautifully decorated home with all the decorations or to create family memories?” he says. “Take a look at what would be the most important thing.”

To keep a lid on your spending, you have to determine how much you can afford to spend. Christmas is expensive. Between gifts, food and extra activities, blowing a budget is easy. Having a plan can ease your personal and relational stress, but it’s important to work together. “The first thing is a conversation between the husband and wife, out of sight of the children. Talk about what you can afford to spend and agree. It’s really important to be together on this,” Browning says. “Sometimes because of financial limitations and the budget being tight, you might determine that we can’t spend as much on each other because we want to spend more on the kids.”

Family or Foe? While spending time with our family is supposed to increase our joy, often it just increases our stress. Counselor Connie

Bennett states in Psychology Today that the holidays can bring an emotional overload.

“You may feel overcome by loneliness, become annoyed by meddling relatives or lose patience with your loved ones.”

During those times, take a deep breath and give your family the benefit of the doubt. Everyone is going through a hectic season, and sometimes things can come across different than what they’re intended.

Try to look past the behaviors that can cause hurt or irritate to the motive behind them.

Usually, it’s genuine love and concern for you. Bennet recommends looking at your family through rose-colored glasses. “Then graciously thank them for their misguided attention. Rather than view your situation with annoyance, be grateful instead.”

Perhaps the most important adjustment we can make during this season is to let go of our expectations. Make plans but hold them loosely. Life happens to all of us, and you may just find your greatest source of joy in the unexpected moments instead of those you’ve planned.

Christian Barnes lives in Kansas City with her husband and two nearly grown sons.

She’s fascinated by how children think and learn and enjoys sharing any information she’s gathered with others.

Creative Gift Giving Looking for a way to stretch your dollars? Creative gift giving could be the answer. Consider these ideas this Christmas:

• Make it personal. One year, I sent relatives a bag of “My Favorite Things,” which included foodstuffs that I loved. I filled a bag with Topsy’s popcorn, a great salad dressing and a local marinade. It went over well and was something they could use.

• Give a group gift to a large family like a gift card to the zoo, an outdoor adventure park or entertainment venue instead of individual gifts.

• If you have a particular skill like painting, knitting, cooking or woodworking, use it. People love receiving a little piece of personal artistry.

• Give the gift of time to those hard-to-buy-for people. Invite them over and make a special meal or bring them lunch or dinner and plan on playing a game or watching a movie together.

• Keep in mind someone’s love language when picking a gift. A good gift doesn’t have to be about the money spent; it can be about the time spent on choosing or creating it.

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ABCs of the Holidays Cut these pages out and tape or magnet them to your fridge or a mirror in your bathroom to begin and end each day with a plan to make the holidays magical!

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is for Angels. They are all around us throughout the year, yet they seem closer during this holiday season. Discuss guardian angels with your children, and perhaps create a small angel tree in your child’s bedroom. Encourage him or her to name each angel, and then keep one on the nightstand to keep watch all year.

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is for Christmas Cookies, of course! Whether you purchase prepared sugar cookie dough or make your own, don’t worry about the mess. Cookie cutters are available online, and you can find colored icing at your grocery store. Fill cute baggies tied with ribbon and share the cookies with neighbors and friends.

Take pics for family!

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is for Dasher. You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen, Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen. You know the rest. Have fun making reindeer and writing their names in glitter, then string them on your holiday mantle.

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is for Bells. If we are lucky, the Salvation Army bells will be ringing this season throughout our city. Bells have a special place during the season, as they ring in churches and bell choirs. Try making a bell wreath. Simply Google “jingle bell wreath” and you’ll find the easy steps. Hang them on doorknobs to ring out a festive jingle every time you open the door!

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is for Santa’s Elves. That Elf on the Shelf may be a bit overdone, but you can still discuss how your children can be little elves and spread kindness wherever they go.

is for Fa La La La La, La La La La! In 1944 Judy Garland sang this popular Christmas song in the movie Meet Me in St. Louis. The emotion of holiday music, old and new, is powerful. Play it, dance to it and let it bring the magic of Christmas into your home. Visit BrownieLocks.com to find fun Christmas carol trivia.

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is for Good Will. This year more than ever, we all need to bring good will to friends, family, neighbors and teachers.

Make a list of activities you can do together to bring smiles, such as serving in a food kitchen, making cards to send to soldiers or bringing flowers to an elderly neighbor.

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is for Icicles. In our region, winter brings many opportunities to sled, ski and ice skate.

And those icicles can at times shimmer in the sunlight. If you see one in a safe and opportune locale, break it off and look at the clear beauty.

Discuss how icicles form and then melt.

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is for Holy. No matter who we celebrate during this time, deem the season holy.

All faiths hold reverence to a holy entity. Explain this to your children and discuss all religions. This encourages inclusion, an open mind and worldly attitude.

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is for Jolly. The legend of jolly old St. Nick can be traced back hundreds of years to a monk named St. Nicholas, believed to be born sometime around 280 A.D. in Patara, near Myra in modern-day Turkey. He was admired for his piety and kindness, and it’s said he gave away all his inherited wealth and traveled the countryside helping the poor and sick. The name Santa Claus evolved from Nick’s Dutch nickname, Sinter Klaas, a shortened form of Sint Nikolaas, which is Dutch for Saint Nicholas.

Food for thought!

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is for King. Many kings are a part of the season, including the three kings that came bearing gifts for baby Jesus, who as an infant was born a King. Setting up a manger scene can be a tradition your children will carry with them throughout their lives. When I was a child, my mother always gave me the opportunity to set up the straw and wooden manger scene in our home. My aunt gave me a lovely porcelain manger scene for Christmas one year, and I treasure it to this day. The kings, the animals, the baby and the shepherds all have their place!

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is for Lights. Be creative! There are so many options to put on a Griswold-worthy show around your home. Involve the children so they feel a part of the fun.

is for Mistletoe. Who hasn’t kissed under the mistletoe? The custom of kissing under this pretty, bright green sprig with red berries comes from England. There was kissing under the mistletoe in the illustration in the first book version of A Christmas Carol, published in 1843. The original custom was that a berry had to be picked from the sprig before a person could be kissed, and when the berries were gone, there could be no more kissing! kcparent.com december 2020

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is for New Year. We will all look to 2021 with hopeful hearts for a better year!

Make this a festive occasion at home with feasting on crab legs, hotdogs, tacos or homemade soup.

Whatever you serve, this night will be remembered.

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is for Poinsettia. These bright red leaves offer a splash of color to frigid winter, and the story of why they are the Christmas flower, said to come from an old Mexican legend, is so sweet! A young girl named Pepita was sad that she didn’t have a gift to leave for baby Jesus at Christmas Eve services. Her cousin tried to comfort her and said that Jesus would love any present, no matter how small. With no money to buy a gift, Pepita picked a bouquet of weeds that she walked past on the way to church. When she got there, she left the weeds at the bottom of the Nativity scene. Suddenly, the weeds transformed into beautiful red flowers.

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is for Rudolph. What is the holiday season without this classic? Plan to pop popcorn, light the fireplace and snuggle under fuzzy blankets as you enjoy this sweet show. Its timeless message of inclusion and accepting differences never goes out of style. Rudolph, “the most famous reindeer of all,” was born more than a hundred years after his eight flying counterparts. The red-nosed wonder was the creation of Robert L. May, a copywriter at the Montgomery Ward department store. In 1939, he wrote a Christmas-themed story-poem to help bring holiday traffic into his store.

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is for “Oh Holy Night.” The songs of the season always call up memories for each of us. Begin your own holiday tradition by introducing your children to these classic goosebump-raising melodic masterpieces!

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is for The Sound of Music, the iconic movie. Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens, bright copper kettles and warm woollen mittens, brown paper packages tied up with strings, these are a few of my favorite things! Begin a holiday family tradition with this delightful film. When Christopher Plummer sings “Edelweiss,” I’m reminded of a music box that played this tune that my father gave me when I was a little girl.

is for Tradition. We all have traditions from the holidays, like the way we hang our stockings or light our Menorah, the special corn casserole our grandmother made or the ribs our grandfather smoked. Discuss what tradition your family will make and then keep it every year!

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is for Quality Time.

Obviously, everyone has been at home many more days and hours than usual.

Even so, this time can be a bit more “homey” with the right attitude and ambiance. Draw from your own memories to create a holiday home, filled with love and togetherness.

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is for Vacation. Go away from home— if even to a local hotel—for a day.

Your children will enjoy the holiday decorations and staying in a different room for a change. Many local places are now offering reduced rates, and you can go over the river and through the woods for a brief reprieve!

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is for Wassail.

This warm apple drink dates back to another tradition in England, when villagers would go door to door in their neighborhood wassailing, which meant offering the hot mulled cider to neighbors and singing carols. Also, they would go to orchards and sing to ensure a good apple harvest come spring.

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is for eXercise! Keep the blood flowing and mood up by exercising throughout this season of eating treats and snuggling with popcorn and hot chocolate.

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is for Uncles, Aunts and Grandparents! With luck, family will be able to visit and stay for the holidays in your home, or you will visit them. Make sure you have your children spend time with them and listen closely to their stories.

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is for Yule. Discuss the history of the yule log, which is a custom from years past that involves selecting a log to burn on Christmas Eve. It is also a delicious recipe you can find online.

is for Zoey! Rudolph’s girlfriend in the 1998 animated movie Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. She sings the sweet song “There’s always Tomorrow.”

Google it and play the uplifting tune!

An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

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HOW TO RING IN THE NEW YEAR WITH KIDS

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3, 2, 1 . . .Happy NewYear!

othing is more exciting than ringing in a new year. However, staying up until midnight isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Here are some fun ways you and your crew can celebrate that won’t have everyone yawning the following day.

Host a Noon Year’s Eve Party!

Many local family attractions host Noon Year’s Eve parties for families with young children, but why bother going out when you can stay in? Choose a simple yet customizable spread like personal pan pizzas or a taco bar, where family members can pick and choose their favorite toppings. Try your hand at a new board game or invest in a puzzle the crew can work on throughout the coming wintry days. Print off photos that encapsulate the highlights of the past

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year and make a 2020 scrapbook as a family that can be enjoyed years later. Then toast a cheer to the last noon of the year!

yourself a date when your time capsule can be opened, be it next New Year’s, five or even 10 years from now.

Build a Time Capsule Make time stand still by capturing the essence of your family’s favorite things this year. You could make a physical box full of treasures—a favorite family read-aloud, a souvenir purchased on vacation, a CD with favorite songs and more. Or consider going digital, downloading images of popular movies, books or politicians from the year’s election campaigns into your online storage.

What was the best thing you ever ate in 2020? Draw a picture about it and include it! Don’t forget to include mementos from a year unlike any other, such as a face mask and phrases like social distancing. Give

Get Active Get a head start on that fitness resolution!

If snow is on the ground, pour some hot cocoa in a thermos and break out the sleds (check out KC Parent’s website for a comprehensive listing of all the best sledding hills in KC). If flurries aren’t around, head to a local skating rink to have some wintry fun (and perfect those triple loops) together.

Have a Modified Late-Night Celebration Who says you have to wait until the clock strikes midnight here to celebrate the dawn of a new year? Be on the lookout for livestreamed New Year’s celebrations on

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the other side of the world and break out the party streamers when the clock strikes midnight there. Pick your desired locale to view based on when you want bedtime to be.

For each hour leading up to the big event, choose a different activity (a dance party for the first hour, a crafting station to follow it, a Silly String fight, followed by watching a favorite family movie, etc.). When it’s “midnight,” have a balloon drop and stream the classic song “Auld Lang Syne.”

Go Digital Did you know streaming services like Netflix have kids New Year’s celebration programming? It’s true! Just input “Countdown” in the search bar, and characters from your little ones’ favorite series will pop up. Pick from a variety of shows, all of which will ring in the new year at a very comfortable 8:00 in the evening. Your kids will be none the wiser!

Have a Good Samaritan Party There’s no better way to spend the last day of the year than making memories doing something good for the community.

Offer to volunteer at a soup kitchen or animal shelter. Or simply work for a purpose at home, building blessing bags—Ziploc bags full of travel size toiletries and fast food gift cards—to place in your car and pass along the next time you see someone down on his luck at a busy intersection. Consider making gift baskets for your neighbors—dollar store treats such as candy, art supplies and a DVD make for a great surprise. Wrap up the presents, place them on the door step and then make a run for it. Your kids will love the thrill of doing something kind in secret, but if you feel your neighbors need a heads-up, feel free to text them about the not-so-anonymous gift!

Ring in New Year’s ... on New Year’s Day If you have babies or little ones who still don’t sleep through the night, staying up late by choice means only one thing: You’ll be suffering for it the following day. The solution? Celebrate New Year’s Day instead of New Year’s Eve! Hail it a jammy day, where the attire of choice is none other than your favorite loungewear and pj’s. Order breakfast in or make something out of the box midday like fondue. Interview all members of the family, discovering their favorite part of the old year, their dreams and resolutions for the new one. Ring in the day with a mocktail or sparkling cider. Cheers to a new year!

Lauren Greenlee is a freelance writing mom of three from Olathe who enjoys ringing in the New Year with her family by watching It’s a Wonderful Life and eating raclette. kcparent.com december 2020

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Pinkfong Baby Shark Dancing DJ Boogie to the beat with Dance Detection Technology. When you move and groove, the Baby Shark will dance with you! Plays seven fun songs and popular remixes, plus three interactive games. $39.99, ages 2+, BabyShark.wowwee.com

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Under-the-Sea Mermaid Palace Splash into an undersea adventure with exciting play spaces built in, including a royal throne, slides, clamshell bed, seashell vanity, working gate and swing. $49.99, ages 3-8, LakeshoreLearning.com

Sharon, Lois and Bram’s Skinnamarink Based on the classic folk song made famous by a beloved trio of children’s entertainers, this picture book is best sung aloud! A timeless anthem of love and inclusion. $17.99, ages 3-7, PenguinRandomHouse.com

Roybi Robot

Insulated Sportee Bottle

A sleek, adorable robot with lots of things to share. Designed to provide personalized education based on your child’s individual learning pace and interests, with more than 500 lessons, including language learning, basic STEM, stories, games and songs. $199.95, ages 3+, RoybiRobot.com

Made for active toddlers, offers chilled drinking with a big kid look, featuring an insulated base to keep drinks cool, and easy-grip sides. $13.99, TommeeTippee.com

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Band Together Duck is a solo act, but in this delightful book, he learns all about the joys of friendship. $14.99, ages 4-8, APA.org/pubs/magination/ band-together

Imagine That! The Sesame Street Music of Joe Raposo & Jeff Moss Broadway and television actress Rena Strober is joined by friends Jason Alexander, French Stewart and the DOTZ blind children’s choir to celebrate the classic music from Sesame Street. $9.99 (digital album), $14.99 (CD); a portion of all sales goes to Guide Dogs of America and Gavin’s Groupies, RenaStrober.bandcamp.com

Songs Across the Pond This transatlantic alliance, pairing an acclaimed American kids musician and standout UK family music maker, results in a thoroughly triumphant partnership—a hooky, sunny, ’60s-flavored rock ‘n’ roll collection the whole family will enjoy. $13.99, BradyRymer.com/songsacrossthepond

Jeepers Peepers, the “Ask and Answer” Question Game Party Pack

Just Add Fruits & Veggies

Am I a monkey? A hamburger? An astronaut? A car? That’s the question on everyone’s mind—or glasses. A hilarious family game with 208 cards, 12 pairs of glasses, spinner, bingo chips and game ideas. $59.85, ages 6+, SuperDuperInc.com

This cool STEAM kit will deliver hours of exploration, creativity, learning and enjoyment. With more than 20 science and art activities—all involving what’s already in your kitchen. $22.95, ages 8+, GriddlyGames.com

Go Go Bird An intelligent flying bird that’s a perfect mix of traditional R/C and today’s trending drone toys. You can challenge your friends to a race, perform aerial tricks or see who can land in the most unique places using its intuitive remote control. $49.99, ages 8+, Amazon.com

Burger Academy Hello Friend/Hola Amigo A fun, bouncy bilingual song from 123 Andrés’ Grammy Award-winning album, now brought to life in a whole new way that’s perfect for story time sharing. $8.99, ages 1- 6, 123Andres.com

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Featuring a picnic aesthetic, visual instructions and chunky foam burger-themed components to serve both visual and hands-on learners. $15.00, ages 8+, shop.UltraPro.com kcparent.com december 2020

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Johnson County Museum

Winter Fun Guide

Make your visit extra special with a step back in time. The 1954 All-Electric House will be decked out for the holidays.

Enjoy the sparkle of an aluminum tree, the glow of big bulb light strings, and the nostalgia of the vintage décor throughout the house. On December 10, Samantha Bradbeer will take guests on a virtual tour through Hallmark’s history of card giving. Don’t forget to shop the museum store for unique holiday finds! See display ad on pg. 53. JCPRD.com/museum

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Kansas City Zoo

Ceramic Cafe is a paint-your-own-pottery and glass fusing studio serving the Kansas City area. Our creative assistants guide you through the creative process; showing how supplies and techniques can help the inspired and help those who need an extra

boost of inspiration to create a masterpiece they are proud to call their own! The whole creative process from start to finish takes about a week. Reservations recommended and paint-at-home kits available for purchase. See display ad on pg. 50. CeramicCafeKC.com

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beat the winter blahs with

movie-inspired fun

by Kristina Light

national treasure Home Theater: National Treasure stars Nicholas Cage as historian and code-breaker Ben Gates.

He’s been searching his entire life for a rumored treasure. The movie is filled with thrills, adventure and intrigue as Gates races to get ahead of those that betrayed him. National Treasure appeals to many age levels so that both younger and older children will enjoy.

Edible Pyramid. Make crispy rice treats and then cut and stack them into the shape of a pyramid.

If you are ambitious, you can frost and add detail with gel paint.

Treasure Hunt! Create a treasure hunt for your kids to follow, complete with clues, mysteries and a prize at the end. Another fun idea is to play the board game Clue or to solve cryptograms. Better yet, each write your own cryptogram and trade with family members to solve. Or, hide a treat and the only way to find the treat is by solving a cryptogram puzzle.

a very merry unbirthday Home Theater: In Disney’s animated classic Alice in Wonderland, the Mad Hatter sings the “Unbirthday Song” about the 364 days a year that are NOT your birthday. Enjoy the film, then celebrate with your own unbirthday party!

Backwards Dinner! Decorate the party with an unbirthday banner and upside down decorations.

Invite your children to a backwards dinner and encourage them to wear their clothes backwards.

Then dine backwards, starting with dessert and ending with appetizers.

Play Backwards Games! Create a pin the tail on the donkey game, but place many tails on the donkey.

Then, blindfold the contestants one at a time as they take turns removing one of the donkey’s tails. The object of the game is to remove the correct tail—the one in the proper spot. Replicate the concept to play other favorite games backwards. Play Candyland beginning at the finish line. Play Old Maid where the winner is the player holding the maid at the end. Raid the game cabinet and see what games inspire your kids.

winter the dolphin Home Theater: Is winter making you long for the beach? Cuddle up with Winter the dolphin for an at-the-beach, heartwarming family film, Dolphin Tale. A boy rescues Winter the dolphin when her tail is lost in a crab trap. With creativity, he persuades a team of scientists to develop a prosthetic tail enabling the dolphin to swim again.

Dolphin Sandwiches! Local grocery stores sell sandwich cookie cutters in dolphin shapes. If you are unable to find these, you can purchase food-coloring markers in the bakery aisle and let the kids draw ocean scenes on their sandwiches.

Dolphin Olympics! Create two teams and compete in some fun races. Catch Fish in Your Mouth: Dolphins can jump up and catch a fish in midair with their mouths. Provide everyone with a cup of goldfish crackers (5-10/person) and see who can successfully toss them into the air (one at a time) and catch them in their mouths. Award one point per successful catch. Balance a Ball on Your Nose: Give each player a plastic ball and, using a timer, determine who can balance the ball on the nose the longest (no hands!).

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snowed in Home Theater: Dean Jones, the iconic actor of Disney’s Herbie movies and That Darn Cat, stars in this oft-forgotten but fun-filled slapstick family comedy, Snowball Express. Jones’ character, John Baxter, inherits a Rocky Mountain ski resort and, along with his family, must fix up the property and make it profitable in order to keep it.

Eat Tortilla Snowflakes. Warm flour tortillas for 15 seconds in the microwave. Fold the tortillas in half once and then in half again, so you create a pie wedge shape. Using clean scissors, cut as you would paper snowflakes. Unfold tortillas. Brush with butter or spray with non-stick cooking spray.

Sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar or shredded mozzarella cheese. Bake until just warm and slightly crisp (about 4 minutes at 250˚).

Snowball Fight! Try an indoor snowball fight. Create indoor snowballs using balled up white socks, white tissue paper or giant pom-poms. Create two teams and divide the space into two sections.

Set a timer for 2-5 minutes and have each team throw snowballs to the other side. If a snowball lands on your side, you may throw it back to the opponent’s side. This continues until the time expires. The team with the fewest snowballs on its side wins.

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Has winter caused you to be iN a rut when it comes to dates with your significant other? If so, check out these dates that start with the letter N! NORTH ITALIA We recently enjoyed a new place to us—North Italia in Leawood. They have locations in 12 states, and while we generally steer clear of most chain restaurants, this is one we highly recommend! It’s open, airy and casual with excellent Italian food. We started off with the zucca (zucchini) chips; grilled cauliflower with a fried egg and baby asparagus; and grilled bread with olive oil. We devoured the bread and chips. They were super yummy. And the flavors of the cauliflower blew us away. For our entrees, we ordered the burrata tortelloni with cherry tomato, basil, pecorino and rustic tomato sauce and the grilled wild striped sea bass, served with roasted cauliflower, fennel, zucchini, and broccolini. Dessert was a shared order of the Italian butter cake with wild blueberry preserve, whipped lemon creme fraiche, cinnamon crumble and basil. WOW. Everything was so delicious. We can’t wait to go back!

NORTHLAND SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA Northland Symphony Orchestra is a group of approximately 65 student, community and professional musicians that performs free concerts in the Northland. We recently attended a concert that was basically an homage to humor in music. It was a fun performance to attend, that’s for sure! In the first half, NSO performed all four movements of Haydn’s Symphony No. 45.

During the final movement, one-by-one, the orchestra members stopped playing and left the stage, which was a nod to what inspired Haydn to write the piece. And it was the perfect segue into intermission! The second half of the Northland Symphony’s performance included 14 variations on the “Happy Birthday” song (imitating Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, ragtime, tango and various other composers and music styles), wrong notes played on purpose, meandering strings scales, a cat opera solo and a tune played entirely by plucking the strings.

FAMILY TREE NURSERY For a fun activity, head to Family Tree Nursery to create a holiday container.

They have locations in Liberty, Shawnee and Overland Park that offer an excellent selection of trees, shrubs, annuals, perennials, edibles, plants and gardening supplies. Plus, they have gifts and home decor. Their employees are always readily available to help with anything you might need—and we were definitely in need of help when we put together our holiday container.

We chose a small pot, which was pre-filled by the nursery with potting soil and sand. Then, we chose a spruce top, a skirting bundle, two bundles of greens and two berry picks. We were also able to purchase additional picks. Be sure to check out Family Tree Nursery’s website and Facebook page for information on when the workshops are being held. This year, they will have in-person workshops (by appointment), as well as take-home kits.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives with her husband in Kansas City.

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(Family Features) hether you’re planning a princess tea party or a superhero birthday bash, the secret to organizing a party your child will treasure is to keep your little one’s interests at the forefront.

If your child does well in smaller groups, keep the guest list small. Plan the menu around her favorite foods and look for little touches that celebrate the unique joy she brings to your family. Make his big day extra special with these simple tips that make childhood birthday parties manageable but magnificent:

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Set a theme. Building your celebration around a

Add some fancy to the food. If your party menu

theme that reflects your child brings an added touch of fun and excitement. Popular options include a favorite color, sport, activity or character. While the Internet offers a mind-boggling array of ideas for crafting the perfect theme, there also are a variety of party-ready options for busy moms with limited time.

calls for more than cake and ice cream, you can take advantage of another avenue to carry through your theme.

A little creativity, some clever monikers and a few basic modifications can quickly transform everyday snacks into festive fun. For example, a dinosaur party might feature Brontosaurus Burgers and T-Rex Trail Mix. The options are nearly endless, and if you’re at a loss, you can find ample inspiration online.

Decorate the guests. There’s no reason to stop with streamers and balloons. Integrate your guests into the decor with fun activities that bring your theme to life.

Face paint, washable tattoos or stamps let little guests take an active role in the party and express a little creativity of their own.

Amp up the activity. Create opportunities for all the little partygoers to participate in the festivities with interactive games that tie back to the theme of the party.

Old-school favorites like pin-the-tail on the donkey can be updated to reflect today’s popular characters; makeyour-own slime or clay is the perfect project for a group of mad scientists; or a treasure hunt can be adapted to nearly any theme.

Offer a fond farewell. No birthday party is complete without treats to send partygoers home happy. However, goodie bags need not be costly or elaborate. An inexpensive item such as bubbles or sidewalk chalk tied in theme-colored ribbon is a fun choice for many ages. When it comes to candy, favorite Hershey’s products—from Kit Kat Miniatures to Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups Miniatures to iconic Kisses chocolates—are now available in birthday-themed designs for a sweet ending to any celebration.

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Winter is seriously the hardest. The stir-crazy kids, the germs, the being stuck inside. It gets to you after a very short time.

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arenting is full of excitement and challenges. One of the most challenging aspects of parenting includes keeping your little humans active and engaged during the long winter months. “Winter is seriously the hardest.

The stir-crazy kids, the germs, the being stuck inside. It gets to you after a very short time,” says Monica Wells, Kansas City, KS, mom. When the slick roads, the cold winds and the threat of every virus known to man combine to keep you and your kids home for extended periods of time, life can get chaotic. “The kids’ energy levels don’t subside just because we can’t go out and play,” says Robin Allen, Olathe mom. So, how do you keep your kids from bouncing off the walls while you are stuck inside?

We have five tips to keep your winter days wonderful!

Work It Out. Regular exercise helps to reduce risk factors of cardiovascular disease, such as high cholesterol, high blood pressure, Type 2 diabetes and obesity, according to a multitude of studies. The science makes a great argument for being active, but we parents know our kids are happier when they have outlets for their

endless energy. “My kids are happier and, as a family, we get along better when we exercise. Staying active is a key to our sleep habits, how we eat and our ability to relax during the downtimes,” says Laura Purdue, Olathe mom. Staying active when you are stuck in the house gets a bit complicated, but it doesn’t have to be impossible. Try getting your kids involved in a regular workout routine. You can try making obstacle courses in the living room, playing red-light-green-light or Simon Says or have a push-up contest. Try workout videos or invent some routines yourself! These small efforts can make all the difference and can get your blood pumping!

Get Crafty. In today’s Pinterest world, crafting is always an option. But it doesn’t have to be over-the-top or stressful. Choose projects that align with your kids’ interests and your household vibes. “I look to Pinterest now and then, but mostly we do crafts that fit with what is going on with our family at the time,” Joelle Martin, Kansas City, MO, mom says. “We make cards for neighbors and friends. We paint pictures for people on their birthdays.” Coloring in a coloring book, making paper dolls or

drawing a picture for the grandparents are all crafts that excite the imagination. And craft time offers bonus benefits. Children who use their hands for cutting, coloring, writing and playing with Play-Doh develop stronger hand muscles and greater finger dexterity—all of which help with the ability to write and to hold a pencil correctly.

Crafting at home is a boredom buster that can help set your child up for success down the road!

Mix It Up in the Kitchen. “Cooking is our go-to in the winter. Not only is it fun for the kids, it helps me with meal planning!” says Gretchen Kelley, Shawnee mom.

Cooking with your kids sounds like a great way to make a mess, but it is also a great way to make memories and happily pass a cold, wintry afternoon. No matter what is on the menu, kids love to help. And teaching them about nutrition, where their food comes from and how dinner gets on the table are life lessons important at any age! Try checking out some kid-friendly cookbooks from the library or finding some online tutorials to get you started. Before you know it, you could be cooking up meals with the next Top Chef Junior!

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Learn, Learn, Learn. Just because you are stuck inside doesn’t mean you have to put learning and fun on hold. From online learning apps to playing Crazy Eights, you can find a million ways to teach your children while having fun indoors.

“We set up flash card challenges. We play board games. I have some workbooks, but I actually feel like my kids learn more through imaginative play, playing with toys or dressing up,” says Samantha Brown, Overland Park mom. Designating a theme day can help to narrow down your choices.

Choose a topic, a period in history or an animal to learn more about. Incorporate your theme into the stories for the day, your dress-up games and your snacks to help make learning fun and interactive. Your local library is a great place to go to add depth to any topic!

Melissa Bellach is a freelance writer, wife and mom of three living in Overland Park.

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winter read-alouds: fun with poetry

By Jan Pierce

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hile your family is working and learning from home, why not make your read-aloud times really special? Maybe you’re reading a classic chapter book as a family, or a biography or nature books that open the door to environmental learning. Whatever you’re reading, don’t forget to include some rhymes and poems.

A few decades ago, children consistently knew classic folk and fairy tales, nursery rhymes and various poems when they entered school.

Today that isn’t true. For a variety of reasons kids have become more focused on popular contemporary songs and stories rather than classic literature. They know all about Frozen or Lion King, but they aren’t familiar with The Old Woman Who Lived in a Shoe.

But there are good reasons to make some time for poetry, both classic and contemporary. Here are some of them:

Poetry can boost social/emotional growth.

• Poetry is full of expression and emotion. It can help a child learn how others think and feel.

• Reciting poems can build community. It’s a bit like singing a song together, with all the rhythms and rhyming words.

• Enjoyment of poetry can build emotional resilience. Children can say, “I feel that way, too,” or, “Now I understand why my friend was afraid.”

Response to poetry has a physical component.

• Poetry is the most kinesthetic of all literature. It is filled with rhythms and musical beats. It invites a physical response.

• Reciting poems gives a child’s mouth, tongue and breathing a good workout. It builds fluency and expressive skills.

• Poetry is filled with patterns and sequences; it has a musical quality that creates interaction.

Poetry can support and improve cognitive learning skills.

• Poetry builds and extends vocabulary. It places new words in a quick context supporting access to meaning.

• Poems build phonemic awareness such as pitch, voice inflection and variations in volume.

• Poetry invites creativity and self-expression. Children learn that reading is not just a list of rules to follow, but a world of meaning.

• Poetry can improve both reading and writing skills as children gain a deeper love of language.

• Poems can aid in memorization skills. The structure of poems makes them easier to remember than longer passages.

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From the cradle on, children love poetry. Look for anthologies of children’s poetry to get an overview of poets or search for your favorite children’s authors, as many of them have written verse as well as stories. Read the poems to your children, but don’t forget to have them memorize some of them for the valuable skills gained and the sheer fun of it. Here are some children’s poetry favorites: The Oxford Illustrated Book of American Children’s Poems, edited by Donald Hall Animals, Animals

by Eric Carle

A Treasury of Poetry for Young People, more than 150 poems by six American poets Favorite Poems Old and New, more than 700 poems edited by Hellen Ferris Read Aloud Rhymes for the Very Young

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Best Mother Goose Ever

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Now We Are Six

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the Discovery Barn, and Stingray Bay. Stroll down Tiger Trail and through Elephant Expedition. Let your cubs run loose in the Tropics see the animals of Australia. See display ad on pg. 45. KansasCityZoo.org

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tune in to from the comfort of your couch.

The Library can help make this season a special one. See display ad on pg. 61.

MyMCPL.org/celebrate.

The National Museum of Toys and Miniatures

Discover for yourself what life was like for the Mahaffies, their neighbors, and westwardbound travelers following the Civil War. Experience travel in a real stagecoach with a ride around the grounds and visit the animals. Explore the 1865 house where you can see cookstove demonstrations. Listen to the blacksmith hammer iron as they share stories of fixing the company stagecoaches.

We are open year-round; activities and admission vary, visit Mahaffie.org or call 913.971.5111. See display ad on pg. 57.

Visit The National Museum of Toys and Miniatures and explore two must-see collections. Located on the UMKC campus, T/m is home to the world’s largest fine-scale miniature collection and one of the largest historic toy collections on public display.

The museum’s newest exhibit, Bridging the Gender Divide: Toys that Build STEM Skills, examines how toys once marketed primarily to boys have evolved to encourage all children through play to explore science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. See display ad on pg. 44. ToyAndMiniatureMusuem.org

Mid-Continent Public Libraries

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Getting organized for the holidays is always a daunting task, but Mid-Continent Public Library can provide some help with solutions that are free and easy!

Download seasonal tunes and find recipe or decorating suggestions from popular magazines. Reserve your choice of holiday DVDs for checkout through curbside pickup, and gather for virtual programs you can

With more lights, more trees and special sights all around, Union Station’s Home for the Holidays has something for everyone.

Holiday Classic Movies. Family Fun Experiences. A weekly outdoor craft market. The biggest indoor tree! New this year – Holiday Reflections walk-through village in Grand Plaza. Discover eight festive photo ops for your family photo

or a just-for-fun selfie. Included in your ticket is access to the massive model train display and the mini ride-on train (additional ticket required). See display ad on pg. 49.

UnionStation.org/Holidays.

Urban Air Looking for the best year-round fun? With new adventures behind every corner, Urban Air Adventure Park is the ultimate indoor playground. Take birthdays to the next level or spend a day of fun with the family and you’ll see why we’re more than just a trampoline park. Let the kids fly through the park on our sky rider, take on our climbing walls, or reach new heights on our trampolines. Urban Air. Let ‘em fly. See display ad on pg. 55.

Youthfront Seeking some social-distanced family fun this holiday season? Come to camp! Fully decked out for Christmas, Youthfront’s Camp West in Edgerton, KS, features an illuminated lake walk with outdoor interactive experiences to retell the Nativity story. Sip hot chocolate by a bonfire, enjoy music, family game stations and much more. Christmas at Camp also features a Holiday Mart with local vendors and handcrafted items. 6 nights only: December 3-5 & 10-12. See display ad on pg. 58. Youthfront.com/christmas

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Take the family to Holiday Reflections thru Jan 1 at Union Station. Enjoy sky-reaching lights, decorated trees, forest friends —plus a bigger-than-ever Rudy’s Wonderland.

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Take the family to see the Liberty Light Show Dec. 4-6 and 11-13 at Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Christmas light display synchronized with live musicians.

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Help animals find their forever home by giving to the Home for the Holidays donation match campaign.

To learn more or donate visit GreatPlainsSPCA.org/ holiday-match.

Dec 12 & 13, head to the Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center for Santa’s Virtual Workshop.

Pre-purchase a table for up to eight and enjoy a virtual visit from Santa and more!

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Head to Urban Air (Lenexa) for Jumperoo on select days. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent.

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We encourage readers to call ahead or verify online before heading out to events. There may be changes due to weather or government regulations. Most events require advance reservations.

1 Tuesday Holiday Reflections Thru Jan 1, Union Station.

Enjoy sky-reaching lights, decorated trees, forest friends—plus a bigger-than-ever Rudy’s Wonderland. UnionStation.org

Santa’s Gingerbread Station Thru Dec 24, 11:00-8:00, Crown Center. Santa Claus will welcome visitors throughout the holiday season for visits, wish lists and photos. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Festival of Colors 10:00, MCPL360. Join Mr Stinky Feet for songs about the colors of the seasons. To enjoy this virtual program, go to Facebook.com/mcpl360.

Winter Magic Thru Jan 2, 5:00, Oakwood Drive (Swope Park). Drive through nearly one mile of a magical holiday light show experience.

Purchase tickets online at WinterMagicKC.com.

The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru Jan 3, Streaming. The Coterie presents a streamed production of Mesner Puppets’ The Snowy Day and Other Stories by Ezra Jack Keats.

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Letters to Santa Thru Dec 9, the View. Write a letter to Santa then drop it off at the View’s North Pole Mailbox, and Santa will write back!

Grandview.org A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 31, streaming via KC Repertory Theatre. Kansas City’s beloved 40-year tradition returns as an innovative digital experience. KCRep.org

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3 Thursday Little Critter’s Day Out 9:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Your little critter will enjoy twoand-a-half hours of fun and education. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Frozen 10:30, Union Station Extreme Screen.

Classic holiday movies are back at KC’s biggest screen. Get your tickets, then get set to enjoy these beloved family favorites.

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Small Group Nature Hike 10:00, Prairie Oak Nature Center. Join the nature center for a casual walk through our nature trail. Leawood.org

Festival of Lights 4:00, Powell Gardens. Walk a mile-long path spread out over 25 acres that features a variety of immersive light displays.

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Holiday Shopping 11:00, Crown Center.

Enjoy the holiday decorations and shopping at Kansas City’s iconic Crown Center.

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Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children. 816.235.8000

Holiday Lights on the Farmstead Thru Jan 7, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Enjoy a light show synchronized to festive music.

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Christmas at Camp Thru Dec 5 & Dec 10-12, Youthfront Camp West. Interactive experiences retelling the Nativity story, music, family game stations and much more. Youthfront.com

Start your holiday season with a visit to our free

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4 Friday Elf Thru Dec 10, Union Station Extreme Screen. Classic holiday movies are back at KC’s biggest screen. Get your tickets, then get set to enjoy these beloved family favorites.

UnionStation.org/holiday Sleigh Selfie Station 10:00, Legends Outlets Lawn. Santa’s sleigh will be available for photos during center hours throughout the holiday season. LegendsShopping.com Youth Drop-In Days 1:00, Alexander Majors House.

Explore the experiences of those who moved west to find their fortunes—some who succeeded and many who failed. WornallMajors.org Coleman House Opening Online, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. The annual opening of the Coleman House will be aired virtually at Facebook.com/toyandminiaturemuseum.

Störling Dance Theater’s Child of Hope 2020 Thru Dec 13, TCH Olathe Studio. The richness and inspiration of Christmas and the Nativity story is brought to life. CultureHouse.com

Christmas Open House 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy the Heritage Center decorations, make an ornament and visit the historic Mahaffie house! Mahaffie.org

Holiday Luminary Walk Today & tomorrow, Overland Park Arboretum. The arboretum transforms into a wonderland of candles, music and holiday fun. OPKansas.org

Fancy Camera Bootcamp Online, Melissa Rieke. Learn how to take photos like a pro from a pro. MelissaRiekePhotography.com/FCB

Sar-Ko-Aglow Thru Jan 10, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. Take a nighttime stroll around Rose’s Pond to view the beautiful annual light display in Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park throughout the holiday season. Lenexa.com

5 Saturday Decorate for the Holidays Family Tree Nursery.

Fresh cut wreaths, garlands, swags and trees are a traditional and festive way to decorate your home. FamilyTreeNursery.com

Visit Santa at the Lex 5:00, Historic Lexington.

Enjoy a small-town parade in which all the parade entries glow in the dark! Visit Santa and shop the stores that line Main Street.

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Celebrate the Season Online with MidContinent Public Library. Discover recipes, music, and holiday magic through the library’s resources at MyMCPL.org/Celebrate.

Liberty Light Show Dec 4-6 and 11-13, various times, Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Christmas light display synchronized with live musicians.

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Sea of Lights Thru Jan 10, Sea Life Kansas City Aquarium. Guests can explore the Sea of Lights event, the only underwater light spectacular in Kansas City. VisitSeaLife.com

Whiz Kids Green Energy 2:00, Prairie Oak Nature Center. Investigate current concepts in environmental issues and energy resources through practical lab experiments and models.

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6 Sunday Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent. com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 31, streaming via KC Repertory Theatre. Kansas City’s beloved 40-year tradition returns as an innovative digital experience. KCRep.org

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Störling Dance Theater’s Child of Hope 2020 Thru Dec 13, TCH Olathe Studio. The richness and inspiration of Christmas and the Nativity story is brought to life. CultureHouse.com Festival of Lights 4:00, Powell Gardens. Walk a mile-long path spread out over 25 acres that features a variety of immersive light displays.

PowellGardens.org The Fairy Princess 2020: Virtually from Your Home 6:00, Kansas City Museum Virtual. The Fairy Princess, a Kansas City tradition since 1935, is virtual and free. Facebook.com/kansascitymuseum A Kansas City Christmas 5:00, Online at LenexaBaptist.com. Celebrate the Christmas holiday with a wonderful and uplifting performance by the LBC choir. LenexaBaptist.com

7 Monday Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family.

KansasCItyZoo.org Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com Antique Christmas Tree Display Thru Jan 3, Territorial Capital Museum. Decorated trees will be on all levels of the museum. Facebook.com/ HistoricLecompton/events Santa’s Wonderland Thru Dec 24, Bass Pro Shops & Cabela’s. Families can enjoy the tradition of safe, free photos with Santa thanks to new measures and a contactless experience.

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8 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Laser Holiday Magic Thru Jan 3, Gottlieb Planetarium. Vibrant animations and gorgeous abstracts dance above your heads, as the music takes you away from the hustle and bustle.

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Enjoy the holiday decorations and shopping at Kansas City’s iconic Crown Center.

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Christmas in the Park 5:30, Frank White Jr Softball Complex. The entire family will delight in the magic of this drive-thru winter wonderland. MakeYourDayHere.com

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10 Thursday Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children. 816.235.8000

Holiday Luminary Walk Today & tomorrow, Overland Park Arboretum. The arboretum transforms into a wonderland of candles, music and holiday fun. OPKansas.org

Sleigh Selfie Station 10:00, Legends Outlets Lawn. Santa’s sleigh will be available for photos during center hours throughout the holiday season. LegendsShopping.com

Nature Story Time 10:30, Prairie Park Nature Center (Lawrence). Each week will feature a story and a live animal. Color a coloring page after the presentation. 785.832.7980

Fancy Camera Bootcamp Online, Melissa Rieke. Learn how to take photos like a pro from a pro. MelissaRiekePhotography.com/FCB

Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Mini Holiday Express Ride-On Train 10:00, Union Station. Take a magical journey through giant nutcrackers, toy-making elves and more.

UnionStation.org Störling Dance Theater’s Child of Hope 2020 Thru Dec 13, TCH Olathe Studio. The richness and inspiration of Christmas and the Nativity story is brought to life. CultureHouse.com A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 31, streaming via KC Repertory Theatre. Kansas City’s beloved 40-year tradition returns as an innovative digital experience. KCRep.org

Youth Drop-In Days 1:00, Alexander Majors House. Following the Civil War, the United States had to find a way to come back together—a process which was not easy or neat. WornallMajors.org

Outdoor Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Holiday Lights on the Farmstead Thru Jan 7, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Enjoy a light show synchronized to festive music. OPKansas.org Christmas in the Park 5:30, Frank White Jr Softball Complex. The entire family will delight in the magic of this drive-thru winter wonderland. MakeYourDayHere.com

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11 Friday Polar Express Thru Dec 24, Union Station Extreme Screen. Classic holiday movies are back at KC’s biggest screen. Get your tickets, then get set to enjoy these beloved family favorites.

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Holiday Reflections Thru Jan 1, Union Station.

Enjoy sky-reaching lights, decorated trees, forest friends —plus a bigger-than-ever Rudy’s Wonderland. UnionStation.org Santa’s Wonderland Thru Dec 24, Bass Pro Shops & Cabela’s. Families can enjoy the tradition of safe, free photos with Santa thanks to new measures and a contactless experience.

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Santa’s Virtual Workshop Today & tomorrow, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center.

Purchase a table for up to eight and enjoy crafts, cookies and a virtual visit from the North Pole! Pre-reg at JCPRD.com

Santa’s Gingerbread Station Thru Dec 24, 11:00-8:00, Crown Center. Santa Claus will welcome visitors throughout the holiday season for visits, wish lists and photos. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Santa’s Little Helpers 10:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Listen to the program and see a live animal up close. There will be activities and Santa’s favorite snack for you to enjoy. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Festival of Lights 4:00, Powell Gardens. Walk a mile-long path spread out over 25 acres that features a variety of immersive light displays.

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Holiday Shopping 11:00, Crown Center.

Enjoy the holiday decorations and shopping at Kansas City’s iconic Crown Center.

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Decorate for the Holidays Family Tree Nursery.

Fresh cut wreaths, garlands, swags and trees are a traditional and festive way to decorate your home. FamilyTreeNursery.com Santa’s Express Drive-Thru Lights 5:30, National Agricultural Hall of Fame. Our popular Santa’s Express is transformed into a drive-thru wonderland of lights and music. AgHallOfFame.com

13 Sunday Sea of Lights Thru Jan 10, Sea Life Kansas City Aquarium. Guests can explore the Sea of Lights event, the only underwater light spectacular in Kansas City. VisitSeaLife.com

Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent.com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com A Kansas City Christmas 5:00, Online at LenexaBaptist.com. Celebrate the Christmas holiday with a wonderful and uplifting performance by the LBC choir. LenexaBaptist.com

Liberty Light Show Dec 14-23, 6:00, Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Bring the family and enjoy a Christmas light display synchronized with music. LibertyLightShow.com

15 Tuesday Little Acorns 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. There are critters in those woods!

Critters may think they’re sneaky, but they always leave a trail! MDC.mo.gov Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children. 816.235.8000 It’s Cookie Time 10:00, MCPL360. ‘Tis the season to bake and eat! What are your favorite treats? To enjoy this virtual program, go to Facebook.com/mcpl360.

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Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com

Music & Movement 10:30 & 2:30, Wonderscope. Music and movement has great brain-building benefits. Come sing, dance and play with us! Wonderscope.org

Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family. KansasCItyZoo.org

Decorate for the Holidays Family Tree Nursery.

Fresh cut wreaths, garlands, swags and trees are a traditional and festive way to decorate your home. FamilyTreeNursery.com

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A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 31, streaming via KC Repertory Theatre. Kansas City’s beloved 40-year tradition returns as an innovative digital experience. KCRep.org Winter Magic Thru Jan 2, 5:00, Oakwood Drive (Swope Park). Drive through nearly one mile of a magical holiday light show experience.

Purchase tickets online at WinterMagicKC.com.

17 Thursday Mini Holiday Express Ride-On Train 10:00, Union Station. Take a magical journey through giant nutcrackers, toy-making elves and more.

UnionStation.org Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children.

816.235.8000 Outdoor Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

The Dickens Carolers 7:00, MCPL360. Get into the Christmas spirit with a performance by these festive singers dressed in Victorian attire. To enjoy this virtual program, go to Facebook.com/mcpl360.

18 Friday Virtual Father Christmas Online, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Father Christmas will be done virtually in 2020 on social media and on our website: ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org.

The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru Jan 3, Streaming. The Coterie presents a streamed production of Mesner Puppets’ The Snowy Day and Other Stories by Ezra Jack Keats.

TheCoterie.org Youth Drop-In Days 1:00, Alexander Majors House. This drop-in day will focus on fun crafts (great for gifts!) that explore various aspects of Victorian holiday traditions. WornallMajors.org Celebrate the Season Online with MidContinent Public Library. Discover recipes, music, and holiday magic through the library’s resources at MyMCPL.org/Celebrate.

19 Saturday Sleigh Selfie Station 10:00, Legends Outlets Lawn. Santa’s sleigh will be available for photos during center hours throughout the holiday season. LegendsShopping.com Lenexa Holiday Farmers Market 10:00, the Commons: Lenexa Civic Campus. Local vendors will offer a variety of products on two special shopping days. Lenexa.com/FarmersMarket Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent. com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com Santa’s Gingerbread Station Thru Dec 24, 11:00-8:00, Crown Center. Santa Claus will welcome visitors throughout the holiday season for visits, wish lists and photos. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

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Holiday Reflections Thru Jan 1, Union Station.

Enjoy sky-reaching lights, decorated trees, forest friends —plus a bigger-than-ever Rudy’s Wonderland. UnionStation.org

Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family.

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Back to the 50s Noon, Summit Lanes. Enjoy Back to the 50s when games, shoe rentals, hot dogs and sodas are just 50 cents each with a $5 cover charge. SummitLanes.com Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego.

Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Hometown Holidays Thru Dec 24, downtown Liberty. Write letters to Santa, tour holiday light displays and enjoy shopping this holiday season. Enjoy virtual and socially distanced events. LibertyMissouri.gov Private Christmas Bookings Thru Jan 4, Strawberry Hill Museum. Call to book a socially distanced private weekday tour with an ethnic lunch or dinner! StrawberryHillMuseum.org.

Liberty Light Show Dec 14-23, 6:00, Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Bring the family and enjoy a Christmas light display synchronized with music. LibertyLightShow.com

22 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Laser Holiday Magic Thru Jan 3, Gottlieb Planetarium. Vibrant animations and gorgeous abstracts dance above your heads, as the music takes you away from the hustle and bustle.

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23 Wednesday Mini Holiday Express Ride-On Train 10:00, Union Station. Take a magical journey through giant nutcrackers, toy-making elves and more.

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Antique Christmas Tree Display Thru Jan 3, Territorial Capital Museum. Decorated trees will be on all levels of the museum. Facebook.com/ HistoricLecompton/events Visit KidScape 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

Play in a whimsical child-sized village where kids pretend to be grown-up. JCPRD.com/museum Fancy Camera Bootcamp Online, Melissa Rieke. Learn how to take photos like a pro from a pro. MelissaRiekePhotography.com/FCB

24 Thursday Christmas Eve Christmas Eve Services 3:00, 5:00 & 11:00, Lenexa Baptist Church. Start your Christmas celebration with a candlelight service.

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Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego.

Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

The Snowy Day and Other Stories Thru Jan 3, Streaming. The Coterie presents a streamed production of Mesner Puppets’ The Snowy Day and Other Stories by Ezra Jack Keats.

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Festival of Lights 4:00, Powell Gardens. Walk a mile-long path spread out over 25 acres that features a variety of immersive light displays.

PowellGardens.org Winter Magic Thru Jan 2, 5:00, Oakwood Drive (Swope Park). Drive through nearly one mile of a magical holiday light show experience.

Purchase tickets online at WinterMagicKC.com.

27 Sunday Bridging the Gender Divide 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Exhibit explores how toys once marketed to boys have evolved over time to encourage all children. 816.235.8000 Polar Bear Passage 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Visit Nuniq, the zoo’s newest polar bear at home in the Polar Bear Passage. Reserve a time online and plan a visit with the family. KansasCItyZoo.org A Kansas City Christmas 5:00, Online at LenexaBaptist.com. Celebrate the Christmas holiday with a wonderful and uplifting performance by the LBC choir. LenexaBaptist.com

Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com

29 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Holiday Lights on the Farmstead Thru Jan 7, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Enjoy a light show synchronized to festive music.

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30 Wednesday Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Visit Incredible Pizza 11:00, Incredible Pizza.

Bring the family to enjoy the buffet along with indoor rides and lots of games! Visit KCParent.com for a coupon! IncrediblePizza.com Christmas in the Park 5:30, Frank White Jr Softball Complex. The entire family will delight in the magic of this drive-thru winter wonderland. MakeYourDayHere.com

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Visit KidScape 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Play in a whimsical child-sized village where kids pretend to be grown-up.

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The 100-foot Mayor’s Christmas Tree is at home at Crown Center Square and bedazzled with 37,500 festive holiday lights through Sunday, Jan. 3, 2021. Inside Crown Center Shops, you can see the exhibit “40 Years of Mayor’s Christmas Tree Ornaments.”

Be sure to take photos in front of the giant Christmas wreath measuring 18 feet in diameter and weighing 800 pounds.

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You’ll find great gifts for your family and friends at Crown Center.

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SEA LIFE Kansas City Aquarium shimmers with winter holiday spirit this December with the Sea of Lights experience!

Beginning Dec. 5, guests can explore the Sea of Lights event, the only underwater light spectacular in Kansas City. Sea of Lights will feature the Scuba Claus Dive Show on select days and times. The event runs until Jan. 10.

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Kansas City’s original outdoor ice skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. The Ice Terrace season runs through March 7, 2021. NEW for 2020: Reservations are required for ice skating and may be made two days in advance.

2020-2021 season pricing: Adults and children of all ages $7. Skate rental is $4. Non-skaters wishing to enter the fenced area must pay admission. Visit CrownCenter.com.

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Union Station will host a full season of holiday traditions while also adding unexpected and exciting new twists.

Holiday treats include classic Christmas movies, breathtaking decorations, mustexperience attractions, holiday shopping, delicious goodies and spontaneous moments. It will be everything you love and more, including a walk-thru holiday wonderland that will transport guests into a world of stunning beauty and visual delight. Details at UnionStation.org.

6. TOYS OF CHRISTMAS PAST The National Museum of Toys and Miniatures is open for visitors and a wonderful holiday stop for families to reminisce about toys Santa has delivered over the years.

Whether a favorite electric train set, a special dollhouse, a keepsake tea set or the greatest pinball game ever, your treasured toy memories are part of the museum.

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