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Imaginative Play

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As the area’s leading faith-based health network, AdventHealth Shawnee Mission has always provided

care for the whole person, body, mind and spirit. That’s more important than ever as we work as a community to fight the coronavirus outbreak.

On behalf of our team members on the front lines, please wash your hands, practice social distancing, and if you are sick, isolate yourself and contact your physician.

EDITOR’SLETTER MAY 2020

Dear Class of 2020, This stinks, and I’m so sorry for you.

Because I have a senior, I know a lot of 2020 grads, and so many of you are near and dear to my heart. I’ve read a lot of things out there that offer a lot of advice, but I’m not going to tell you how to feel, because however you are feeling, it’s okay. And if you don’t want to make the best of this situation right now and see this as an opportunity for growth, it’s okay. And if you’d rather not think about it at all for the time being, that’s okay. But here’s what not to do: Don’t keep it inside. Please share with a friend, trusted adult, relative, teacher, etc., etc. You all are a social group.

Reach out when you need to—you have a lot of people ready and willing to offer any support you need.

My dad was a pretty smart guy. (I didn’t feel that way for a long time, but to borrow from Mark Twain, the older I got, the smarter he got.) In any situation, Dad would say to me, “This, too, shall pass.” It’s so true; it will pass. That doesn’t mean the going through is easy, but it will pass and, believe it or not, one day be a distant memory.

Here’s one piece of advice I will give: Hug your mamas. They are sad and wish more than anything they could sit in the stands, hear your name being called and watch you walk across a stage and receive a diploma.

You’ve worked so hard to get here, and they’ve been cheering you on since day one.

Best of luck to you, Class of 2020!

Margaret Sarver, Editor

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MOJOFORMOMS mōjō: 1. influence, especially magic power 2. mom joy

Three Questions: A Realist Mom’s Reality Check At this particular time in history, we can feel like problems are coming at us from all sides, problems that appear far from being solved. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed, stressed out and as though we—and the world around us—are spinning out of control at breakneck speed. Being a mom responsible for raising human beings in these perilous times ups the ante of these scary unknowns and frightening what-ifs.

Some of us are born optimists, better able to emotionally weather life’s storms. However, too much optimism can leave us with our heads in the sand, unprepared to confront the serious issues of our time. Others among us lean toward pessimism, riding these bumps in a struggle bus of stress and anxiety, ready for the road to fall out beneath us. Pessimism has its perks, helping us to prepare for worst-case scenarios, but it severely undermines our mental and physical health. So, what’s the ticket to smoother roads? Realism, the ability to see the world around us as clearly as possible. Not through the rosy spectacles of optimism, not through the bleak shades of pessimism, but rather with the clarity of a realistic outlook that aims to accurately assess and answer three important questions in the midst of our adversity: How long? How wide? How deep?

How Long?

(Permanence)

How Wide?

(Pervasiveness)

How Deep?

(Personalization)

Permanence asks this question: How long will this situation affect us? In the midst of a crisis, optimists tend to see adversity as short-lived, whereas pessimists can believe the adversity will never end and that Doomsday draws nigh. To pessimists, it’s the end of the world as we know it (and yes, #ITEOTWAWKI is an increasingly popular hashtag). A realist, instead, knows to question the permanence of a situation, avoiding all-or-nothing, never-or-forever thinking.

Pervasiveness asks this question: How widespread is this situation? Under negative circumstances, optimists will underestimate pervasiveness, whereas pessimists will exaggerate it, determined their entire world is imploding around them from all sides and every angle.

The sky is falling, all over the globe, they cluck. Our news cycles and social media only exacerbate this sense of global pervasiveness. A realist pauses to look at facts and asks, “How wide is this, really?”

Personalization asks this question: How deep is the source of this problem?

Not taking situations too personally is important but can also have negative consequences when we need to shoulder responsibility instead of blaming external circumstances or other people for our own flubs. At the other extreme, when we internalize problems too much, we can seize up with shame. Realists take responsibility, as needed, without getting stuck in the ruts of blame and shame.

Wendy Connelly, M.Div., is a podcaster (MoJo For Moms podcast), life coach and mother of two from Overland Park.

You can find Wendy’s latest podcasts, TV appearances, retreats and more at MoJoForMoms.com.

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soda bottle painted flowers eed a quick craft with supplies you already have for either May Day flowers or a cute Mother’s Day card? Perfect—this is your craft!

Step one: Pick out paint colors and pour onto a paint dish.

Step two: Dip soda bottle bottom into paint and use as a stamp to create flowers on the paper. Place flowers however you like.

Step three: Paint on the stems of the flowers.

Step four: Paint on the center of the flowers.

Step five: Let dry.

Step six: Hang or fold into a homemade Mother’s Day card.

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, son and two dogs. Janelle is a former health care executive director and is a mediator in Kansas, helping families in conflict. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

Painted Letter Canvases

Simple Recycled Bird Feeder

Fingerprint Charms

For TONS more great craft projects, log onto KCParent.com!

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List of supplies:

• Empty soda bottle • Assorted paints • Paint dish • Paint brush • Paper

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Materials needed:

• Paper • Scissors • Suckers • Markers/crayons • Ribbon • Cup • Hole punch

special one by treating family

and friends to a yummy “bouquet” that all kids are sure to enjoy making!

Step one: Design your flowers, cut out and color.

Step two: Cut a small opening in the middle of the flower for the sucker to slide through.

Step three: Design and decorate the cup.

Step four: Punch two holes on opposite sides of the cup and attach the ribbon for the handle (tie a knot at one end, slide it through and do the same on the other side).

Step five (optional): Place flowers in the cup and fill with anything you like or just the flowers. Deliver to someone you love to brighten his or her day!

Megan Coffey is a former kindergarten teacher and lives in Overland Park with her husband and two kids. She loves encouraging creativity with her children through art and play.

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TASTYTREATS

nutritious picnics Warmer temps are here! Why not take a step outside and have a good old-fashioned picnic? Not only can you take this time to spend with your kids in a more relaxed and peaceful eating environment, but you also can do it in a nutritious, homemade, creative style.

picnic benefits Fresh air | Opportunity to leave electronics behind | Quality family time | Meaningful memories Exposure to great locations: parks, lakes or your own backyard What’s great about picnics is they can be meticulously planned out or blissfully thrown together.

Whatever the case, here are the basic staples required for an ideal picnic: Picnic blanket | Coolers with ice packs | Eating utensils | Plates and cups | Napkins | Hand sanitizer

kebab it Meat Kebab

Veggie Kebab

Fruit Kebab

Mozzarella cheese cubes | Black olives Cherry tomatoes | Pepperoni Slices

Mushrooms | Onions Bell peppers | Cauliflower

Grapes | Pineapple slices Watermelon | Strawberries

Nutrition Benefit: Complete protein source

Nutrition Benefit: Fiber and antioxidants

Nutrition Benefit: Vitamin C and potassium

Tip: Can be eaten raw, roasted or grilled

jar it Salad Jar

Bean Jar

Fruit Jar

Spinach, kale, lettuce, other greens Corn | Black beans | Avocados

Kidney beans | Garbanzo beans Cannellini beans | Green beans

Mandarin oranges | Cherries Pineapple tidbits | Banana slices

Nutrition Benefit: B vitamins

Nutrition Benefit: Iron

Nutrition Benefit: Magnesium

bread it Whole Wheat Wrap

Whole Wheat Wrap

Whole Wheat Bagel

English Muffin

Cream cheese | Spinach Smoked salmon slices

Hummus | Swiss cheese Cucumber slices

Honey | Nut butter Raisins and banana slices

Nutrition Benefit: Omega 3s

Nutrition Benefit: Calcium

Tomato Sauce Shredded mozzarella cheese Turkey pepperoni slices Nutrition Benefit: Vitamin A and protein

Nutrition Benefit: Vitamin E and fiber

munch it Roasted chickpeas

Edamame

Dried Fruit with mixed nuts

Nutrition Benefit: Great way to try this legume

Nutrition Benefit: Vegetarian option for protein

Nutrition Benefit: Quick, easy and customizable

With these wholesome, nutritious picnic eats, go forth and enjoy all the fun summer has to offer!

Amy Hundley is a registered dietitian nutritionist, licensed in both Kansas and Missouri, and a published freelance nutrition writer. She is currently practicing as a clinical RD and has been a resident of Olathe since early childhood.

Sources: EatRight.org

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strawberry season It’s strawberry season! Some local patches are opening for picking with social distancing guidelines. Check KCParent.com for the latest info. If you aren’t able to get out to pick strawberries, get some from the grocery store and enjoy!

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In a medium saucepan, combine berries, sugar, water and lemon juice and bring to boil (add a bit of water if needed to prevent burning). Once it boils, slowly add cornstarch and water mixture. Then, simmer until the strawberries are soft and the syrup is thickened and reduced by one-third to one-half in volume (approx. 20 min). Remove from heat and let cool to desired temp before serving. You may strain for seeds if desired. Serve with favorite pancakes or waffles.

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• Eat them fresh—straight, with cream or in cereal!

• Make smoothies! Don’t be afraid to experiment. Toss strawberries, yogurt, ice, some additional favorite fruits and perhaps some milk all into the blender and voila! If you’re a recipe follower, the Food Network offers many great strawberry smoothie recipes.

• Bake pie and strawberry muffins. Share with friends and neighbors!

• If you still have berries...store them in the fridge until they are “about to turn.” Then clean and freeze them. Use the frozen berries year-round for smoothies, muffins and strawberry syrup with Saturday morning pancakes!

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FIVETHINGS Sporcle Been spending a lot of time together with the family?

When you feel like you’ve exhausted just about every option for fun and entertainment, check out Sporcle, a quiz website that has quizzes and trivia for just about every possible topic. Can you name the starting quarterback from all Super Bowl champs?

Surprisingly, I knew more than I expected to! How about matching lead singers to bands? Or guessing the state based off on its third most populous city?

Test your knowledge today! Sporcle.com

Visor Much to my girls’ chagrin, I wear a visor when out in the sun to keep the rays off my face. My trusty old visor from Big Cedar Lodge recently fell apart, so it was time for something new. I’m a review reader, and after looking through many options, landed on the Sunday Afternoon’s Aero Visor. It’s a nice fit, wicks away moisture from your forehead, contains sun protection, folds for easy packing and has a place to lock in sunglasses. While I’ll never be called stylish, this is probably the most stylish visor I’ve owned! Amazon.com

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Tai Jewelry My older recently had her wisdom teeth removed. I had a lot of time to kill in the waiting room, and I was thrilled with the collection of magazines they had on hand. I was able to catch up on the last several months of Oprah’s magazine. In one issue, she featured a monogram necklace from Tai Jewelry. It caught my attention, and I ordered one for my mom for her birthday. What a fun, colorful piece! Makes a great gift for Mother’s Day or any special occasion!

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The 31st Annual Jazzoo

A Toast to Tusks August 28, 2020 7:30pm–Midnight Proceeds from the event feed the Zoo’s 1,700 animals for the year, and provide funds for the Zoo’s education programs.

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Lessons from Lucy I am a big fan of humorist Dave Barry. My very favorite piece of his is “Bang the Tupperware Drum Slowly.”

Stop now, Google it and enjoy. One of his most recent books, Lessons from Lucy, not only features that Dave Barry wit and humor I love, but also includes touching stories and life lessons he’s learned from his dog, Lucy. It’s an easy read, a touching read, and contains such simple lessons we all need to be reminded of. Do yourself a favor and grab a copy today.

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For tickets and more information, visit JazzooKC.org

Yes, I wrote about this last month. After we sent the April issue to print, we got word that Jazzoo was postponed. I’m happy to share that the new date is Aug. 28. Great news! You now have plenty of time to secure a ticket for this fun event. As I mentioned earlier, not only can you enjoy live music from local bands, the zoo train and animals, but you’ll also savor samples from many local restaurants and tons of great food and libations. New month, same Jazzoo fun! JazzooKC.org

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“Good morning, glory.� Mom sat at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee before her, fully dressed for the day. Even if it was something as simple as a morning greeting, she found a way to make it better. “Morning, Mom.� I always felt better near her, even if I wasn’t able to articulate it. “Would you like some eggs, or would you prefer pancakes?�

My young palate always sought out both extremes, either salt or sweet. This morning, maple syrup won out. “You’d make pancakes just for me?� “I haven’t eaten either.� “Where’s everybody else?� I couldn’t believe my luck. “Terri and Judy are at Katie’s, Dad’s out on an errand, and Bob’s sleeping in. Come on, you can help.�

Thirty minutes later, I shoveled the last buttery lump of maple-soaked goodness into my mouth. “Thanks, Mom. That was great.�

She flashed a smile that still warms my heart whenever I think of it. “You’re welcome, sweetie.�

Mom never stopped amazing me with her little things. One day, a suggestion from her spurred Dad to make a bookshelf to hang over the head of my bed. Another time, she wanted to go out for a “piece of pie,� after her weekly card game/conversation fest with my grandparents, and I was invited to tag along.

The things she did were never big, but she always found ways that showed her love in deeds, rather than words.

Of course, moms the world over do the things that come naturally from a mother’s heart, and they do them out of love.

The other day, Sandi got up with me before the boys woke. I worked in the kitchen while she sat at her computer as Ian came down the stairs.

Sandi raised her face and smiled at him. “Good morning, glory.�

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Soothing separation anxiety

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any babies come into this world as friendly, happy and social bundles of joy.

“When my little guy was, like, 6 months and under, he would let anyone hold him. As long as he was held, he was happy,” says Amy Drake, Olathe mom.

And if you are lucky enough to have a social butterfly type of infant, you may think this personality trait will last and last. However, many families learn this is not the case.

Some babies can show signs of separation anxiety as early as 6 or 7 months of age, but for most babies, separation anxiety reaches its peak between 10 and 18 months. “It was around 9 months for my daughter. She was so friendly and happy—then, all of a sudden, she would cry when I left the room.

I had no idea what to do,” says Tamika Olsen, Kansas City, MO, mom.

When your baby exhibits signs of separation anxiety, the whole family can feel the stress. Hearing Baby cry and seeing your infant appear to be frightened is hard on you. You wonder why your once carefree baby is now upset at not being with you 24/7.

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This constant need to be with Mom or Dad can also take a toll. “I didn’t understand why he suddenly needed to be held all the time. It was like I suddenly couldn’t even make dinner without him crying for me,” Gina Granger, Shawnee mom, says. “I hated that he was upset, but it was also stressful to never be able to put him down.”

For parents in the throes of separation anxiety, here are some tips from other metro parents to help you, and your little one, make it through this tricky phase: Practice makes perfect. There are lots of ways to practice for longer separations.

Play peek-a-boo, allow your child to remain in a safe space alone while you leave the room for a few moments. Staying away for a brief time and then returning is a good way to build trust with your baby that you will, in fact, return.

Knowing is half the battle. Things that are familiar to Baby are less frightening.

If Baby cries at daycare drop off or with the sitter, or even with Grandma, that isn’t a surprise and shouldn’t be alarming. Baby will calm down quickly once Mom or Dad

has left, and it will happen even faster if you have a familiar good-bye routine. Once Baby recognizes that you say or do certain things, you leave and then you come back, he will trust the routine, and it will be comforting.

This too shall pass. While this phase can be frustrating and emotionally trying, it is only a phase. Remember to be kind to yourself and your child.

If you have serious concerns about your child’s anxiety about being away from you, many resources are available. You can speak with your child’s pediatrician, seek help through your school district’s Parents as Teachers program, consult with your babysitter or daycare workers or reach out to mental health professionals for tips.

The good news for parents struggling with this issue is that most children will pass the height of their separation anxiety by the time they are 2 years old!

Melissa Bellach is a freelance writer, wife and mother of three living in Overland Park.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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SIX SIMPLE RULES FOR RAISING A HEALTHY KID We all do our best to raise our kids to be as healthy as possible. Follow these simple tips to help promote a healthy lifestyle for your children.

1. Teach good oral hygiene.

4. Get plenty of exercise.

Children should brush their teeth with toothpaste that contains fluoride at least twice a day as soon as they have teeth. Start the habit early by letting your child brush his teeth all by himself. Once he has brushed, you can take the toothbrush and finish brushing for him. Many fun toothbrushes are on the market that make brushing more fun. Try out one with a light-up timer on it or with a favorite cartoon character—and let your child choose her favorite flavor of toothpaste. The more excited kids are to brush their teeth, the better their dental habits will be.

Guidelines from the Department of Health and Human Services say that children and adolescents ages 6 and older need at least an hour a day of physical activity. Be a role model to your child by exercising regularly as a family. Exercise doesn’t have to be boring. Be creative and think of activities the entire family can enjoy, such as nature walks, bike rides, a game of tag in the backyard or a dance party in the living room.

Cutting back on screen time also keeps your kids more active.

2. School them in sun protection.

Protect your kids from the sun’s harmful rays with sunscreen.

The American Academy of Dermatology recommends that all kids wear sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or higher, regardless of their skin tone. Make sure the sunscreen offers UVA and UVB protection.

If your kids are near water, double check the sunscreen is water resistant—and remind kids to take a break to reapply as well.

You also can cover your children’s skin with light layers and hats when the sun is at its brightest and give them sunglasses to protect their eyes.

3. Practice car seat safety.

According to Safe Kids Worldwide, correctly used child safety seats can reduce the risk of death by as much as 71 percent. However, three out of four car seats are not used or installed correctly. Safe Kids Metro Kansas City is a coalition that implements evidence-based programs—including car seat checkups and safety workshops—to help prevent childhood injuries. For a list of child passenger safety seat fitting and installations in the Kansas City area, visit MCHC.net/programs/ safe-kids-metro-kansas-city.

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5. Set a regular bedtime.

Catching enough zzz’s each night can benefit your children’s memory, behavior, attention span and emotional state. Follow a calming routine before bed each night, like a warm bath or reading a story, to help prepare your kids for sleep. Children require different amounts of sleep depending on their ages. Do your research to find the optimal amount of sleep your child needs per night and base your bedtime on that. Also try to put your youngsters to sleep at the same consistent time each evening. A routine bedtime leads to healthy sleep patterns that will follow your kids into adulthood.

6. Cultivate emotional health.

Your children’s emotional health is just as important as their physical health. Help your kids cope with their emotions by teaching them healthy social skills, allowing them to express their feelings and demonstrating positive emotional reactions. Emotionally healthy kids lead to physically healthy kids.

Regan Lyons is a freelance writer who lives in St. Joseph, MO, with her husband and daughter.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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Happy Mother’s As we do each May, we celebrate Mom! With all of the challenges the past few months have brought, Mom could use some pampering. Read on for creative ways to celebrate Mom and find out from local KC moms what they really want for Mother’s Day! To all the moms in Kansas City, we salute you and all you have done for your families in these unprecedented times!

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TO THE WORLD YOU ARE A MOTHER, BUT TO YOUR FAMILY

you are the world.

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M O M I N H E R O W N S TY LE

THIS MOTHER’S DAY, TAKE TIME TO APPRECIATE WHAT SHE ENJOYS A great way to show your love for special people is to spend time exploring their interests, and the same is true when it comes to honoring our moms this Mother’s Day. We’ve developed a list of ways to celebrate moms with a variety of interests, but the most meaningful part of the experience is the cherished time together. The shared experience could be just as meaningful as the activity itself.

Here are our suggestions to make Mom feel honored:

Laughter is infectious in happy homes.

If your mom loves to laugh, find a joke website and try out new jokes. In the process, you could create all sorts of funny memories as you test the jokes on others.

Music might be your mom’s passion.

If that’s the case, develop a lineup of concerts and live music opportunities you could attend with her. The summer offers many free outdoor concerts to experience, and you could also look for the next local concert of one of her favorite musicians.

Find a fun cooking class to attend together if your mom loves making culinary creations. It could be a chance for her to refine her skills and for you to learn something new.

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If you have a fitness-loving mom, consider signing up to run a 5K with her.

She could challenge you to meet your fitness goals, and she might provide a little competition on the side.

Many moms love the beach, but we are pretty landlocked here in Kansas City. To help Mom feel as if she were somewhere tropical, consider redecorating a room in the house with a beach theme. Even better would be scheduling a time for the whole family to go to one of the local lake beaches and have a day of fun in the sun and sand.

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Having a green thumb and a love for gardening is a skill of many moms. If that’s the case for your mom, take her to a local nursery and pick out flowers. You could also plant a garden—an endeavor that would give you a shared activity all summer long. If you want to take it a bit further, consider taking her to Powell Gardens or the Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens.

We all enjoy binge-watching a good show. To spend some quality time with Mom, why not indulge with her in a marathon viewing of her favorite show?

Photography might be one of your mom’s hobbies. If it is, take her to some new spots outdoors, let her capture some amazing images and find some places for her to showcase the final product.

Instead of just buying Mom chocolate or sweets, consider taking her on a tour of some of the best places to buy indulgences in Kansas City. After all, what problems in life would not melt away after visiting Christopher Elbow Chocolates and Andre’s Confiserie Suisse? While you are at it, find some other local artisan chocolate and candy makers.

If your mom loves family game night, find a new game you haven’t played before that you are sure she will love. If you have played just about everything, make up your own game with Mom’s help.

Perhaps your mom enjoys simple pleasures in life—like going for a walk.

In that case, accompany her along her favorite walking path. To make the occasion more memorable, scout out the scene beforehand and strategically place notes of appreciation for her along the way.

Enjoying nature and the peacefulness of the outdoors is often something moms crave as a reprieve. To make the most of the outdoors, plan a picnic lunch for her in her favorite nature spot.

Moms teach us so many important life lessons, but there is always something new they can teach us. By celebrating what Mom enjoys, not only will you have the opportunity to create a memory, but she will also likely teach you a new skill. In the process, you might learn something about her that you didn’t know before.

Does your mom love to sew or make things with her hands? Take her to a craft store and pick out items for a project you can do together. If you are not crafty yourself, let your mom teach you some of her skills.

If Mom loves reading, join a book club with her or go hear one of her favorite authors speak. Not only will the experience give you a shared memory, but it will also give you a chance for many meaningful discussions.

Allison Gibeson is a Lee’s Summit writer and mom who would love to go on a chocolate tour of Kansas City this Mother’s Day.

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ue Heck from The Middle knows what a not-sogreat Mother’s Day gift is like: a drugstore-bought inflatable foot bath, salad tongs from the Frugal Hoosier, yellow pants and a day all to herself that resulted in a session to organize the junk drawer. KC Moms, can you relate? The day devoted to honoring and recognizing mothers is quickly approaching. Whether you are looking for a gift for your wife, your own mother, or you simply want to send a hint for your own gift, we’ve got your back. Here are some ideas for making sure the special mom in your life knows that you care!

A Day “Off” Think about what Mom does every day to make sure things run smoothly: everything from making breakfast and getting the kids ready for church to packing lunches for the next day. For this gift, you need to be sure you think about ALL the things Mom would normally do, and make sure to take them off her plate. She may still want to hang around the house and be with the family, but be sure to wipe down the counter after a meal, change the baby’s diaper or defuse a sibling argument before Mom has to step in. Overland Park mom Gwen Valverde says this about her perfect Mother’s Day: “As long as I don’t have to cook or clean, I’m good!”

Time to Herself Mom may want some time to herself for Mother’s Day, a bubble bath, a book in bed or being alone in a quiet house. For this gift, make sure Mom has everything she needs to relax so she doesn’t end up organizing or cleaning around the house instead! A mom of three in Shawnee, Shana Nelson, says last year her husband and children gave her the alone time she craved. “He let me sleep in, made me breakfast, then took the girls for the day so I could do what I wanted. He nailed it!”

Mom’s Choice

Let Mom pick the day’s activities and meals. Ask Mom to plan the day before Mother’s Day approaches, so you can make the necessary arrangements. Hannah Cowden, mom of four in Springhill, describes her dream Mother’s Day: “A nice lunch out after church with my husband and kids, playing games together and later visiting my own mom!”

Whatever she picks, be sure the family is ready to have a good attitude and not complain about Mom’s choice.

Mom’s Day (or Night) Out Does the mom in your life find it difficult to squeeze in some girl time? Time with fellow moms might be just the ticket. Take care of things at home so she can schedule a spa day, happy hour or a whole night out with some other moms. She will come back refreshed! Josephine Huhs, an Overland Park mom of two, says, “Last year, a few moms and I went to the Elms in Excelsior Springs for a getaway night. It was wonderful!”

A Letter from the Kids Hearing from your own children is so meaningful. A Bonner Springs mom, LeAnn Carver-Jones, shares that even though her boys are older, she still enjoys “a note written from the heart. I cherish their writing.” Whatever the age, moms love reading and rereading special notes from their children. If you have younger children, providing prompts can help. What do you like about Mom? What do you enjoy doing with her? Why are you happy she’s your mom?

No matter what you decide to do for your mother, remember that all moms really want the same thing.

Pandia Graves, a Shawnee mother of three, says it well: “Just to be thought of and felt appreciated would be nice.”

Need Gift Ideas?

Local goodies often make for a special one-of-a-kind gift! Check out these local KC mom-owned companies for a unique present Mom is sure to love: 74 Harley Street: Overland Park mom Susan Mayer takes vintage pieces and transforms them into new designs for one-of-a-kind jewelry. 74HarleyStreet.com Amina Hood: This KC mom sells ready-to-wear hats for all seasons that are sure to make a statement. AminaHood.com Growing Days: Local mom Tamara Day has an online store and retail space in Prairie Village that sells specially curated finds for all your living spaces. Shop.GrowingDays.com Farmdog Studios: Based in KCMO, Amy January sells wood art, home décor and apparel, all with a local flair.

FarmDogStudios.com Emily Cline is a freelance writer and instructor of education at a local university. She lives in Lenexa with her husband, Joseph, and 3-year-old son, Fitzgerald. She plans on strategically placing this article in her husband’s path with her favorite ideas circled to ensure a fabulous Mother’s Day.

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5 This famous female pilot from Kansas was given the same first name as her mother: ________.

1 Ann ________ started a committee in 1868 to start “Mother’s Friendship Day.” Her daughter Anna continued her work, and “Mother’s Day” began in 1908.

6 In 1600s England, Mothering Sunday took place on the fourth Sunday of ________.

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________ Martin is the mother of Chiefs quarterback Patrick Mahomes.

2 About 25 percent of ________ purchases are made to celebrate Mother’s Day. 3 The first sound a baby can vocalize.

8 There are 85 million mothers according to the U.S. ________.

4 This is the number one day for ________ to mothers— approximately 122 million annually.

10 President ________ signed Mother’s Day into law in 1914.

9 Mother’s Day is celebrated on the ________Sunday of May every year.

12 ________ Mother statue stands in Penn Valley park with an inscription from the biblical book of Ruth.

14 Mother’s Day is the ________ highest selling day for flowers.

15 Yilda ________ is the mother of KC Royals catcher Salvador Perez.

10 In 1870 Julia ________, the poet who wrote “Battle Hymn of the Republic,” suggested a day of peace and strongly advocated that other women stand up against the war. Her efforts led to Boston’s recognizing mothers on the second Sunday of June.

11 ________ Truman, from Independence, was First Lady and mother to daughter Margaret.

13 In Greek mythology, spring festivals were held in honor of the maternal goddess ________.

Down: 1 Jarvis | 2 Flower | 3 Ma | 4 Calls | 9 Second | 10 Ward | 11 Bess | 13 Rhea Across: 5 Amelia | 6 Lent | 7 Randi | 8 Census | 10 Wilson | 12 Pioneer | 14 Third | 15 Diaz

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Be consistent The key to training your child that your answer stands is to remain consistent.

Once you have decided to say no, do not change your mind. Giving in after you have said no teaches your children you can be worn down if they are persistent enough.

“Consistency is key,” says Janelle Waldron, mom of five. “If I say no, I don’t change my mind. I also try to take my time answering.

That way I don’t say no too quickly, and I can make a better decision.”

Talk later

NO MEANS NO “Can I have a piece of candy?” my daughter asked me one morning, right after breakfast.

“No, we aren’t going to have candy right now. It’s too early,” I said.

What followed was not my best mom moment. My child began to ask repeatedly for candy. I repeatedly said no, and the scene ended with my daughter trying to climb onto the counter to reach the candy. I took her to her room, where she cried for several minutes and we both ended up tired and frustrated.

How can one avoid this scene or at least improve the situation? Getting your child to accept your answer of no and move on can be easier with some time and training.

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Give a short explanation Your children will better understand your reason for saying no to them if you give them a reason. Amy Cameron, Olathe mom of three, says, “When I tell them no, I usually give them a why. I think they’re more likely to accept my answer when they understand.” Make sure your answer is short and to the point.

If your children ask for a new toy, the answer can simply be, “No, we can’t afford to buy a new toy today.” Be careful not to get pulled into back talk or arguments that all their friends have one. Keep your response short. “I said no.” If your child continues to engage, walk away and do not look back.

Talking about your rules and expectations is particularly important to do when your child is calm and you are not in the middle of discussing whether or not your child can have something asked for.

After the fact, sit down and let your child know that when you have made a decision, it is final, and you will not change your mind no matter how much pleading and pestering he does. If the begging continues, you will walk away and will not discuss the topic further. This is also a good time to explain why you say no to things. Typical reasons are the activity is not safe, your child isn’t old enough, you cannot afford it, it is not healthy or it goes against your family beliefs or values. These reasons are not debatable. Keep your discussion calm and listen to your child. Let him know you understand why he is upset with your decision but you will not be changing your mind. Give healthy suggestions that can help your child deal with anger in the future.

Some ideas could include going to his room to calm down, taking a walk, breathing deeply, or doing something he enjoys, reading, drawing or building with Legos.

Keep the discussion positive and if it starts to get heated, walk away.

Starting the training process at a young age is easier, but you can start at any stage of parenting. Training can take months or years as your child pushes the limits and tests you for inconsistency. Parenting is always a challenge, but raising a child that understands healthy boundaries and safety is worth it.

Sarah Lyons is a part-time freelance writer and full-time mom. She lives in Olathe with her family.

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the power of imagination “Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.”

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jokingly refer to my firstborn’s second birthday as the Year of the Box. It was around this time when I realized that birthday presents and Christmas gifts were of absolutely no interest to my inquisitive little boy—all he really wanted to do was play with the box the gift came in.

It’s no surprise then that my husband and I considered the train table that made its way into our home on his next birthday a two-part gift. Sure, there was the train table itself. But then there was also something equally enticing: the fantastic piece of cardboard it came in! That box was bulky and cumbersome and, heaven knows, it didn’t add any aesthetic value to our home. But it lived a long life—many lives, actually. It was a spaceship, a race car, a barn, a zoo and, lastly, a house that, according to my then preschoolaged son, had specs that put the latest HGTV dream home to shame. It was a place not only for pretend but a winning locale for hide and seek, a great new residence for a growing collection of stuffed animals and blankets, not to mention a surprising spot for nap time.

That box wasn’t the first in our house nor the last, but it served as a great reminder that it doesn’t take much for a child’s imagination to run wild.

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Albert Einstein once said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.” Our own little budding geniuses need time to explore, harness their own imaginations and understand their world around them through play. As parents, we can open this world to them in some very simple ways.

Keep It Simple

(Like, Really Simple!)

Toys that talk and flash and move may seem exciting at first blush, but all the bells and whistles seldom hold a child’s attention for very long. Why? It’s simple. When a toy does all the work on behalf of a child, it doesn’t leave room for the child to be much more than be a spectator. (And, let’s be honest, what parent actually likes housing any more devices that add commotion to the mix?) The simpler the toy, the easier it is for a child to unlock its potential in a multitude of functions. Because not all toys are created equal, be choosy about what you allow in your doors. Go for quality openended toys such as Legos, Lincoln Logs and wooden blocks over a quantity of any

other. And don’t underestimate the value on non-toy “toys,” things like empty cereal boxes, canned goods and reusable shopping bags to supply an imaginary grocery store, or stationery and postcards for a writing station. A costume closet can be built on the cheap by hitting consignment sales and garage sales, or find them new in stores or online the day after Halloween. Lastly, a collection of tools and old electronics, such as retired cd players, computers or phones make for a perfect maker space. Before doing away with old devices, let your child tinker away. At worst, they have a mess on their hands but will learn the basic parts of a device. At best, you might discover that you have the makings of great in-house tech support!

Less Is More

Minimalism is something of a buzzword these days, but clean spaces have a timeless merit and the science to prove it. Just as our bodies operate and integrate several complex systems in an organized fashion, so our brains desire external environments that are equally as tidy. Psychotherapist and professional organizer Cindy Glovinsky says, “Order feels good, in part, because

it’s easier for our brains to deal with and not have to work so hard.” This is not only true of adults but also of children. Is it any wonder when every item in the playroom is dumped, a child often leaves to find something else to do? Overstimulating spaces can be overwhelming and produce anxiety. Keeping toy collections and clutter to a minimum makes for a happy family.

But one big benefit of the less is more philosophy is that it allows physical space for kids to be more engaged in the toys and spaces they do have. If you can’t stomach getting rid of the massive toy collection your kids have acquired throughout the years, consider keeping only a portion of the toys out and rotating them to keep them fresh and engaging.

Take a Journey Without Moving an Inch

Imaginations take flight when given a little inspiration. When you read books together, you’re giving your child a passport to new worlds on and off the pages. How can you not help but root for Wilbur to live and

mourn when Charlotte dies within Charlotte’s Web? Likewise, readers hope and pray that James and his motley crew of buggy friends make it to dry land in James and the Giant Peach. And there’s nothing quite like entering the world of Narnia, where it is always winter but never Christmas, for the very first time.

Before you know it, your children will be pretending to be a beloved character off on some heroic quest, and key words and catchphrases from books will become part of your family culture.

Join in the Fun

I have a funcle (a fun uncle) that made every encounter as a child awesome. He gave his full and undivided attention when I talked to him and he always had an arsenal of new jokes on hand—not to mention, an uncanny ability to pull quarters out of my ears! Less some spare change, our encounters never cost him a thing, but I always looked forward to seeing him because he was a child at heart himself. We parents all desire to do the same, but let’s admit it, play can be hard as an adult. There

are dishes to clean, mounting laundry piles to fold and bills to pay. Sometimes, sitting on the floor and being the tickle monster seems like a mis-prioritized way to spend a few minutes. But playing with your kids sends an important message. It tells them they take priority over all the other things vying for your time.

Lauren Greenlee is a boy mom of three who loves nothing more than building a fort with her boys and reading with a flashlight inside.

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Genesis Mighty Camps At Mighty Camps, we create an enriching summer camp experience for kids ages 5–12 packed with active, fun-filled days that your child will be stoked to be a part of! Sport workshops, field trips, STEAM

programming, improv classes, swimming, and character programming fill our days at Mighty Camp. Avoid a long, boring summer at home and join the Mighty Camp family in 2020! Register today: 913.210.1775.

Locations: Ridgeview & Overland Park, St. Joseph & Topeka SW. See display ad on pg. 34. www.genesishealthclubs.com/camps

Johnson County Museum Johnson County Museum summer camps offer the chance to explore history! Young historians interact with museum exhibits and explore areas off limits to the public in History Geek Camp (ages 10-14). We will travel to an historic site for more fun! KidScape Summer Adventures (kids entering 1st grade through age 9) explore JOCO Museum and KidScape! Discover history through crafts and projects Continued on page 38

Get creative at the Nerman Museum!

At ASOP, we focus on being a compassionate school with a positive Growth Mindset approach to help students take ownership of their learning.

Come play with CLAY this summer at Ceramic Cafe. Check out our summer camps specializing in Clay and Glass Fusing.

MULTIMEDIA CAMPS AVAILABLE FOR YOUNGER KIDS! 9510 Nall | Overland Park, KS 913.383.0222

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Summer programs will be held from June 8 through July 24, 2020. High School students in grades 9-12 can complete up to 1.5 credits in subjects including math, science, social studies, English, Spanish and art. All courses are accredited by the State of Kansas. Middle school students, grades 4-8, can attend the Academic and Arts Camp, focusing on individualized academic tutoring as well as creative expression. All programs are from 9 am until 1 pm, Monday through Friday.

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The Accelerated Schools of Overland Park 10713 Barkley St., Overland Park, KS Call or visit our website: 913-341-6666 www.AcceleratedSchoolsOP.org

Classes (ages 5-14) combine engaging, interactive tours with unique studio projects.

Tuesdays-Fridays, June 4-July 31 10 a.m.–noon or 2–4 p.m.

Preregistration is required.

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inspired by our exhibits. New activities and explorations each week! Open Art Studio for before and after care, and Museum members receive a 20% discount. See display ad on pg. 39. www.JCPRD.com/museum

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YEAR-ROUND PROGRAMMING Call Today to Experience the Crème Difference!

Kansas City School of Music, the premier music school for children and teenagers in the Kansas City area, offers summer camps in piano, guitar, violin, viola, cello, voice, musical theater, music theory, jazz theory, chamber music, keyboard ensembles, and worship music. All camps meet Monday through Friday for three hours each day. Morning and afternoon camps are available. Private lessons are also offered in the summer. Visit www.kansascityschoolofmusic.com or call 913.888.2444. See display ad on pg. 43.

Kansas City Young Audiences Sing, Dance, Act, Create, and Play! Kansas City Young Audiences offers children performing and visual arts classes, camps, and private instruction at their creative space on Main Street. Summer Camps begin in June.

Scholarships are available. Hurry and enroll today for a summer full of fun! 816.531.4022.

See display ad on pg. 35. www.KCYA.org

Kansas City Zoo Make your summer a little wilder with Summer Break Camp. Camp runs May 26 through August 14. Learn the inside scoop about the Zoo’s creatures. A typical week includes exclusive zoo tours, animal encounters/shows, science experiments, games, and crafts. Half day camps for ages 4-5, full day for ages 5-15. COST: 1/2 day: $125, full day: $260, Before/Aftercare (3:30pm-5:30pm): $15. 10% discount for FOTZ Members. Check out single day camp options the week of 4th of July. See display ad on pg. 35. www.KansasCityZoo. org/programs/day-camps

KC Parks and Recreation Get ready for 10 weeks of fun with KC Parks Summer Enrichment Camp! This year’s camp includes great field trips to Science City and Worlds of Fun. Campers will also enjoy weekly swimming lessons, guest speakers, art projects, sports and more! At the end of the summer, we’ll bring all the camps together for a giant cook-off and Olympic festival. Specialty sports camps are also available. Visit www.KCParks.org for details. See display ad on pg. 43.

MCC College for Kids MCC’s College for Kids offers enrichment opportunities for kids and teens ages 5-16 in a fun and safe environment where they enjoy educational and hands-on learning activities.

Classes are designed to engage youth in new experiences, develop new interests, teach meaningful skills and excite students about learning. College for Kids is available on all Campuses. New this year: Lunch care options, Early and Late drop off, and All Day options.

Register at www.mcckc.edu/collegeforkids.

See display ad on pg. 43.

Missouri Military Academy Summer Camps Build confidence, learn to lead, and have fun! For boys, choose Confidence or Leadership Camp for experiences such as paint ball, rappelling and obstacle courses to build teamwork and leadership skills.

Summer Academy focuses on academic support, plus fun, outdoor activities. New in 2020—All Sports Camp and Band and Choir Camp (co-ed). See display ad on pg. 38.

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Nerman Museum Early Explorations classes (ages 5-7) and Contemporary Creations classes (ages 8-11) are interactive art learning experiences.

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WHY SUMMER IS A great TIME TO START MUSIC LESSONS

You Have Time on Your Hands Homework and extracurriculars fill the school year to overflowing, but oftentimes summer has the opposite problem: not enough to do.

This makes summer the perfect season to explore a new instrument. Not only do lessons provide a source of structure to an otherwise lackadaisical landscape, but with all that free time on their hands, kids actually have an adequate opportunity to practice and put those newfound skills to the test.

You Don’t Have to Commit to a Full Year One of the biggest drawbacks to signing up for a fine art during the school year is that families often must commit to a either a semester or a full school year of lessons or classes. What happens if your child discovers a month into lessons that oboe isn’t all it was cracked up to be? Summer, on the other hand, is a great time for students to explore whether or not they really like playing an instrument. Many private teachers offer short-term summer sessions, so kids can decide for themselves whether music lessons are for keeps.

Unsure of just what instrument might be a good fit? Check out a program like REW’s Exploring Instruments Camp, where students can try out a handful of instruments and determine which one is “the one.”

It’s a Great Way to Make Lasting Friendships Summer music intensives, group lessons and musical theater camps are great ways for children with similar passions to meet. Common ground,

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coupled with working together toward the end goal of a concert or performance, can build relationships that last far beyond the summer.

It Keeps Skills Fresh If your child has been taking music lessons throughout the school year, summer can be a critical time to fine-tune those skills and build retention that would otherwise be lost. For students who participate in band or orchestra throughout the school year, private summertime lessons can help players make encouraging gains. Likewise, students that take private lessons during the school year may find summer band camp or group lessons to be a motivational jumpstart. Summer is also a great time for students to mix it up and try new things, like learning techniques in a new genre such as jazz or bluegrass.

It’s the Gift That Keeps on Giving Music lessons are an investment in a child’s future. Unlike some hobbies, musical skills can be enjoyed and fine-tuned throughout an entire lifetime— and you never know where they may take your child. Learning a new instrument can also be a gift to the whole family. An excited and eager music student soon discovers that practicing is a form of self-expression, creativity and stress relief. And that practice provides an in-house concert to all who listen.

Lauren Greenlee is a mom of three, a violin teacher and a writer hailing from KC. Her boys all take piano lessons, and their practice is often the soundtrack to her days.

June 8 – August 14, 2020

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CAMPGUIDE exhibitions in the Nerman Museum. After exploring selected works of art, students create original works of art in the studio classroom. Classes are offered Tues.-Fri., June 4-July 31, with individual sessions from 10AM-noon or 2PM-4PM. Register at www.nermanmuseum.org or call 913.469.2323. See display ad on pg. 36.

Summer at Pembroke Hill Make this summer a game changer!

Learn a new language, create a work of art or explore a new hobby. The Summer at Pembroke Hill program creates a fun learning environment for every student. Our program offers flexibility by allowing you to enroll in any of the weeks you choose.

Open to the community, students ages 2-18 are able to participate in our comprehensive summer camp. Enroll online today at www.

PembrokeHill.org. See display ad on pg. 42.

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We employ certified educators and conduct instruction (typically) in a 3 to 1 learning environment. We guarantee results for our core programming and our ACT/SAT courses. We offer FREE ACT practice exams throughout the year, and overall instruction is designed to increase student abilities and improve confidence. We use a token system to encourage hard work, raise confidence, and increase attendance. See display ad on pg. 45. www.KansasCitySylvan.com

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Train all summer at Tiger Rock’s Martial Arts Summer Camp. For only $189, you can spend your summer training at our studio. Fee includes summer training uniform and belt and unlimited martial arts lessons. Hurry! You must register for this offer by June 1. Classes fill up every summer, so register today!

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e all remember that first time we were dropped off at summer camp. I recall going with a couple of my girlfriends and traipsing down the dirt path to our cabin and choosing our bunks together. Making new friends is great when you’re all in it together.

One biggie that helps your child feel love from home is to get the address of the camp and mail a postcard or care package ahead of time so your camper will get mail early in the week. Also, be sure to provide enough cookies, granola bars or juice boxes for everybody in the cabin so your child can share. Another idea is to hide a special comfort item from home, perhaps a stuffed animal, blanket or hat, so your child will find it when he unpacks his bag.

Most camps provide a list of recommended items, so take time to read over it with your child. It’s okay to begin packing in advance so you can find all the items and eliminate last-minute searches for sunglasses and bandanas. Don’t pack what you know won’t be used, such as a washcloth if your child never uses a washcloth to wash his face, or anything

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else out of the ordinary routine. And don’t buy all new clothing for camp! At camp, children shouldn’t have to worry about getting dirty, so pack the old sneakers, flip-flops, t-shirts and shorts. Of course, purchasing a few new things for them to wear while there builds anticipation.

Plenty of socks and underwear is a must— include a baggie for kids to stash stinky items. Some shirts and shorts can be worn more than one day. Also, toss in a jacket, just in case.

Invest in a label maker. Many brands are available; seek out labels that will stay in place on everything. Also, make sure your kids can handle carrying their bags themselves, which helps with independence.

Check the swimsuit requirement for girls. Some camps only allow one-piece suits for girls. And for boys, make sure their swim trunks fit properly.

We parents want our kiddos to be happy, but be careful about what you commit to. Don’t promise your child she will be bunking with her best friend or cousin if the camp doesn’t honor these requests. Also, resist the urge to make the

vow to come rescue a child who wants to come home. That kind of promise makes camp tough on everyone—camper, counselor and parents.

Another good idea is to practice independence skills with your children before camp. For instance, if your child needs practice combing her long hair or handling basic cleanup chores, give her the time to learn. A little toothbrush holder and small tube of toothpaste will seem like a treat, and a small deodorant or new hair ties will add to the desire to clean up.

And do go to the camp preview day if there is one. That way, you can answer questions your child may have and you’ll get to see where the kids will be sleeping and eating and hanging out.

Remember, you know your children better than anyone. Take your cues from them, and this will be a camp experience you all talk about for years!

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Teen Parent, Private Eye How far should you go to respect your teen’s privacy?

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eens by nature crave independence and privacy. As parents, how far should we go to respect their privacy while still ensuring they’re making sound decisions?

“The goal is for teens to gradually assume more responsibility for their own judgment about things,” says Dr. Rochelle Harris, clinical psychologist, Division of Developmental and Behavioral Sciences at Children’s Mercy. “This isn’t clear cut—like when they turn 16, you get off of their Facebook or Instagram. It’s really more of making sure those foundations of communication are there.”

Determining how much oversight tweens or teens require often depends on their level of maturity, their friends and their personality.

Maturity can vary greatly, especially in the middle school years.

Where one tween might not have put away her dolls completely, another might be more keyed into social issues and sexual experimentation in middle school—which means you’ll need to have a stronger handle on what’s happening in her social circle.

“Who our kids hang out with will determine who they become,” says Tom Kersting, psychotherapist and author of Disconnected: How to Reconnect Our Digitally Distracted Kids.

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wiggle room they give their kids. While your teen will try to make you feel as if you’re the lone drill sergeant compared to his friends’ parents, stand firm about what you think is appropriate for your child.

“Our job as parents is to make sure our kids are safe and doing the right things,” Kersting says.

No mysteries. As soon as your child has access to any digital device, create a “digital citizenship contract” (check online for examples) to make your expectations for online behavior and your house rules crystal clear.

Establish sensible consequences to help your kids learn from their mistakes. For example, rather than taking away their phone for two months, set tighter limits like less daily phone time and increased oversight from you until they prove they’re responsible enough to handle it.

“A month later, if something similar happens, you do the same thing,” Harris says.

Strike a healthy balance by setting a curfew for when all electronics are turned off each evening.

“Nothing good happens at 12:30 on a school night if your teen has her phone in her room,” Harris says.

Besides sleep deprivation, research suggests that the more time a teen spends online, the more likely she’ll experience

cyberbullying. A study presented to the American Public Health Association also finds that “hyper-networkers,” or teens who spend three or more hours a day on social networking sites, were 84 percent more likely to have used illicit drugs and three and a half times more likely to have had sex.

Inquiring minds want to know. Teens are likely to shut you out if you get too nosy.

Instead, ask “naive” questions to get them thinking critically about issues that can happen online and in their social circles. For example: “I’m hearing a lot about cyberbullying.

What does that look like?”

“If someone says something nasty and you push ‘like’ on it, does that mean you’re part of that bullying or are you saying you like that person? What does that mean?”

“Use that as an opportunity to talk about the fundamentals of communication,” Harris says. “Don’t text a friend when you’re upset.

Don’t spread gossip—it may make you feel like you’re connected with someone, but it isn’t really the way to connect and it can be very hurtful.”

And ask if they’d be comfortable with someone they love and respect, like Grandma, seeing what they’ve posted on their Snapchat account.

When to pry. Tell your kids that you’ll be checking their social media content and text messages.

“If kids know that their parent is going to be looking through their stuff, they’re less likely to get themselves in a pickle somewhere with inappropriate content or privates sites where they’re talking to people from all over the country,” Kersting says.

Some areas of a kid’s life should be offlimits, like bedrooms and private journals, say most experts.

“The only exception to this is if you are concerned for their safety. In that case, wellbeing trumps privacy,” says therapist Lisa Ruff, LMSW, who counsels children, teens and adults at her private practice in Leawood.

Before snooping through his room, talk to your teen to see whether you can figure out why he seems troubled. Consult with your child’s physician if you notice changes in behavior, school avoidance, changes in diet or sleep or withdrawal from favorite activities, family and friends.

Set aside time together. To help get your child out of her bedroom and into the family room with you, Kersting suggests carving out a device-free 15 to 20 minutes each evening for “mandatory family talk time.” This might be at dinnertime or before bed.

“This is such a hugely important way of developing a connection with our kids—for our kids to trust us and be able to communicate with us freely and tell us the things that are bothering them,” he says.

At least once a month, spend time one-on-one with your teen without the distractions of phones or other electronic devices to ensure that you’re both present with one another.

“Let them pick what to do,” Ruff advises.

“Without siblings being present, homework to be done or an activity to rush to, conversation flows easier.”

The time you spend with your teen will benefit him now and into the future, says Kersting. “Kids that actually enjoy hanging out with their parents are the ones that all of the research shows are overall better human beings as they progress in terms of their happiness, well-being, self-esteem, achievements and so forth.”

Freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines and her husband are the parents of two digitally charmed kids. She is the author of Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

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xperienced moms know it’s the silence that should terrify you. If you have enough uninterrupted quiet to get anything productive accomplished, you better go search for your children, especially during the toddler years. For example, there was a day I had sipped hot coffee, responded to an email and reached for my coffee cup once again when I realized it had been silent too long.

“Guys? What are you doing?” I called, knowing it would not end well.

As I entered their room, I let out a sigh.

The destruction I saw was my own fault.

I had enjoyed the silence instead of being suspicious of it. They smiled and ran past me, laughing one by one, as I surveyed the room around me. The drawers had been emptied, the diapers were tossed everywhere, the closet was thrown open, and blankets, clothing and hangers covered each bed and the floor. The blinds were askew, and the curtains hung off the rod. It couldn’t have been longer than five minutes, but the damage was done. As I began to clean up, I realized it was silent again.

I entered the kitchen, and in unison all three shouted, “Snack!” One sat on a pantry shelf with his fist in the cereal box, passing the contents to the others as they all dropped crumbs and pieces all over the floor. After letting out a groan, I gave each a bowl of cereal, swept the rest into a pile and reached for my now ice-cold coffee. “At least I have a constant source of material,” I said aloud for no one to appreciate.

As a child, I loved writing stories and had dreams of growing up to be a published author. As life became busy and I became a mom, I set my dreams aside to fit in all my other responsibilities. Three kids later, I rekindled my love for writing by starting a family blog. The dream of being a published writer once again seemed possible as I prepared to send my third child to preschool for a few days a week, giving me more time to work on my writing skills. About the time I turned in our preschool registration forms, I found out I was unexpectedly pregnant a fourth time.

What is your passion? I encourage you to pursue it even in the busiest, most challenging times.

Your whole family will benefit from a fulfilled and happy mom or dad.

I was determined not to give up on writing and used the opportunity to document my pregnancy.

As with most pregnancies, we had an ultrasound scheduled for 21 weeks gestation. My husband and I decided we would find out the gender of our new addition. Not only did we learn the gender, we also found out we were expecting not one baby but three! I was pregnant with triplets! The next few months were a blur of rushing to purchase extra cribs, baby gear and a vehicle to seat a family of eight.

The triplets were born in September of 2014 and are now active, destructive and loving toddlers I have to potty train, feed and clean up after in addition to taking care of our three older children. Most of the time, I love being a mom with a big family.

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However, the truth is that going places is a pain, my house is always a mess, and the kids fight like normal siblings. The kids all have their own challenges we help them work through, and it can be very overwhelming, even on a good day.

The unexpected addition of our triplets has taught me so many things and forever changed my outlook on life—for the better.

One thing I have learned and want to share with parents, regardless of how many children they have, is they don’t have to give up on what they enjoy just because they are busy. My timing for starting a writing career may not have been ideal, but if I waited for the perfect time, I am sure it would never come. Writing is my sanity and makes me feel refreshed and ready to tackle another day of diapers, snacks,

laundry and chaos. I get up early in the morning, stay up late at night, sneak out to coffeehouses when my husband comes home from work and pray for the triplets to nap so that I can write my heart out. I have been a mom for 12 years, but I have been a writer my whole life and am not willing to give it up again. What is your passion? I encourage you to pursue it even in the busiest, most challenging times.

Your whole family will benefit from a fulfilled and happy mom or dad.

Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including 6-year-old triplets and lives in Olathe. She has had hundreds of articles published in more than 90 parenting, family and women’s magazines.

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The Best Bedtime Stories 10 books to help your child sleep

Got a sleep-resistant child? Maybe it’s time for your little night owl to hit the books. Why not use a nightly bedtime story to help build and reinforce healthy sleep habits, overcome common sleep saboteurs and boost parent-child bonding? Whether you add these titles to your child’s bookshelf or wrap them up for a parent-tobe, you’ll be giving the gift of blissful rest.

One Minute till Bedtime: 60-Second Poems to Send You off to Sleep edited by Kenn Nesbitt, illustrated by Christoph Niemann Sleep-supporting bedtime stories don’t have to be lengthy. One Minute till Bedtime, a collection of poems edited by former children’s poet laureate Kenn Nesbitt, offers bite-size bedtime reading that helps send children to sleep while building an enduring love of poetry. Parents and children will love the illustrations by New York Times illustrator and award-winning artist Christoph Niemann.

Good Night Yoga: A Pose-by-Pose Bedtime Story by Mariam Gates, illustrated by Sarah Jane Hinder Yoga is proven to quiet the mind, calm the body and promote sounder sleep. For a sweet sendoff to sleep, add these kid-friendly yoga poses to your family’s nighttime routine. You don’t need supreme flexibility or any special equipment to practice simple yoga postures, like sun breath, cloud gathering, and ladybug & butterfly, that will relax restless kids and help them wind down.

Sweet Dreams, Lima Beans (The Secret Life of Beans) written and illustrated by Laura E. Pasternak Originally created to help her own children cope with sleeping in two different households, Pasternak’s sweet picture book helps children separated from a loved one at bedtime. Whether children are missing a deployed parent or dealing with divorce, separation or another loss, Sweet Dreams, Lima Beans helps reduce separation anxiety and lets kids feel safe and loved at bedtime.

Mindful Moments at Bedtime by Paloma Rossa of Cottage Door Press, illustrated by Stephanie Fizer Colleman A simple mindfulness practice can help calm anxiety that often accompanies bedtime for sleep-resistant children. This peaceful picture book walks parents and children through 12 mindful moments to share before bed, creating a loving, calming bedtime routine that promotes sounder sleep.

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Sleep Time Is Awesome Time by Charles C. Martin Kids who struggle with sleep may develop negative thoughts and feelings around bedtime that can reinforce insomnia, bedtime resistance and nighttime awakenings. This book helps to interrupt that cycle by reframing negative sleep associations, reducing anxiety and building healthy habits to help children fall asleep peacefully.

Bear Can’t Sleep (The Bear Books) by Karma Wilson, illustrated by Jane Chapman Winter is the perfect season for this tale of a bear who can’t hibernate. Will Bear learn to fall asleep with the help of his forest friends? This sweet board book can help reinforce the importance of rest and gets families ready for a cozy night’s sleep.

Sweet Dreams Moonbeams by Sara Conway, illustrated by Kelly Breemer This lovely, whimsical story of a fox family and other forest creatures preparing for sleep makes an excellent baby shower gift. Stunning illustrations and holographic foil will hold little ones’ interest as they learn to associate bedtime with harmony, peace and love.

A Big Kid Bed Is Coming! (How to Transition and Keep Your Toddler in Their Bed) by Liz Fletcher, illustrated by Greg Bishop The big kid bed transition strikes fear into the hearts of parents everywhere.

This picture book helps calm nerves (parents’ and kids’) and paves the way for a smooth switch by framing the transition as a fun, inspiring adventure for Louie the elephant.

Devin & Evan Sleep From 8-7: Teaching Children the Importance of Sleep by Whitney Roban, Ph.D. If a full night of sleep sounds like an impossible dream, add this book to your child’s bedtime lineup. This story of twin brothers Devin and Evan teaches kids about how sleep helps them live their best life, and addresses common childhood sleep problems, from trouble falling asleep at night to waking up before dawn.

Big Kid Bed written and illustrated by Leslie Patricelli Parents and tots love the bright, playful images Leslie Patricelli creates as her lead baby character copes with familiar early childhood milestones.

In Big Kid Bed, Patricelli’s colorfully illustrated pages help toddlers conquer a rite of passage—so parents can get a peaceful night’s rest, too.

Malia Jacobson is an award-winning sleep and health journalist and the author of 50 Ways to Help Your Child Sleep So You Can Sleep Too.

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“The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.”

– DENIS WAITLEY

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e can’t wrap our kids in bubble wrap and then expect them to be self-sufficient. How do we raise independent children while still allowing our children to be kids? How do we prepare our children for being self-sufficient adults? One of the big goals we parents should have for our children is for them to become as self-sufficient as possible.

No matter your child’s current age, you can always find ways to set the groundwork for them to become more independent.

First, let’s take a look at toddlers, who, by nature, are our little explorers. We parents have great intentions as we tell our kids no, of course. We worry about their safety, health and wellness. What if instead of saying no, we try to focus on yes? Yes, let’s feed the dog. Yes, let’s pick up our toys. Yes, let’s set the table. At this age, welcome their willingness and do things side by side. Yes, let’s feed the dogs together!

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Teaching children from a very young age to help with household responsibilities not only gives children responsibility-building tasks, but also helps build a sense of selfworth from the start. Try to focus on the mindset that this is our home, and we all are responsible to take part in making sure we look after it. This builds ownership and independence for everyone in your family. I know it takes more work to teach a toddler to sit and fold washcloths than to just fold them yourself. Teaching independence is hard work! The sooner you start, the easier it will be.

As children get older and into middle and high schools, increase their responsibilities. Come at it from two angles.

First, focus on what your children love to do. Have kids who love to mess around in the kitchen? Perfect! Teach them to make dinner a few nights a week. Once they are in that routine, add on additional responsibilities related to cooking. Maybe

it’s doing the dishes, planning meals or making a grocery list. Are your kids good on the computer as well? Have them do the online grocery ordering since you can always add or delete items before the order is placed. Teach them to reorganize the fridge and the pantry. Teach them all the roles and responsibilities around the one main thing they enjoy. Focusing on what they want to do will set everyone up for success. Of course, kids won’t enjoy every aspect, but really who does? Can you see the pride building in your children as they become better and better with tasks they enjoy?

Once your kids have gotten into their new routine of doing the things they enjoy, talk with them about what they find super challenging. This, of course, is the harder side to tackle. One example that comes to mind is a lot of children find making phone calls challenging. Today, we often send a text or email and call it good, but learning

this skill is important. Help children master the phone by setting up appointments for anything and everything. Maybe they need a haircut, so you might chat with them about checking the household calendar for ideal times for them to go. They might need to practice the conversation with you or even hear you make an appointment on speaker phone a few times first. We all have so many appointments, and teaching your children to set up their own appointments early will help them in the long run. Even most entry level jobs have some sort of phone related tasks, and by starting early the process of making phone calls, you are teaching your children to be that much more independent.

Your kids may not need work on phone skills, but the list of life skills adults need is long. Pick something together, then help your youngsters master that step to independence. Most young adults need help learning about managing money, applying for jobs and buying a car or house. The great thing is you do not have to be the expert in

all of these areas to help your child learn these skills. What better way for teens to learn about buying a new car than having them there with you when you buy a new car? If you don’t feel knowledgeable about a topic you want to teach your children, find someone who is able to teach you together.

What if you are short on time, energy or hands to teach? Have an older sibling instruct a younger one or ask Dad to teach a kiddo. I love a perfectly folded sheet, but you know what I love more? My husband and my son. Who really cares if their folded sheet isn’t as tidy as mine? If my husband is teaching our son to do something, I could care less about perfection!

In addition to helping your children learn to manage new tasks, it is also important to understand there will be mistakes. As hard as they are to watch, mistakes are really a teaching and learning opportunity for both sides. Your children will learn more about how the mistake is handled than about the actual mistake itself.

Give kids some room to try to figure things out first. Then, when needed, help solve the problem instead of just fixing it. Fixing things in the moment for struggling kids is so much easier, but in the long run, so much growth comes from the learning to figure things out. Help your children develop the confidence to take a leap, knowing you will be there with a net if they do fall.

No matter your children’s ages it is never too early or too late to start teaching them about responsibilities to help mold them into responsible and independent people. Just start somewhere with something and build from there. Yes, there will be mistakes along the way, but what better way to learn than to learn together as a family!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, son and two dogs. Janelle is a former health care executive director and is a mediator in Kansas, helping families in conflict. She loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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Simple Tips and Tricks for Organizing Photos Take a look at your photos just from today and delete ones that don’t make the cut. Make this a habit while you’re relaxing in the evenings, so you only keep your best photos to organize.

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re you behind on organizing your family’s photos? You’re in good company! With the rise in technology and the ease and accessibility of cameras on our smartphones, the sheer number of photos is overwhelming. So how do you come up for air in the sea of photos? Luckily, we do have some ideas and resources for you.

First, start with today, really. Take a look at your photos just from today and delete ones that don’t make the cut. Make this a habit while you’re relaxing in the evenings, so you only keep your best photos to organize. Depending on your time, patience and volume of pictures, continue deleting any photos you don’t wish to keep. Then if you have Amazon Prime, you can back

them up using their photo app on your phone. Then a never-ending project for me is to catch up on years past by going back and weeding out my photo folders on my computer. If you have non-digital photos you’d like to digitize and be able to organize too, check out a service like LegacyBox.com.

Second, decide how and why you would like to organize your photos. Do you have a computer and hard drive you’d like to copy and paste them to? Do you want to organize them in the cloud? Do you want to make prints or print photo books? Or maybe you would just like to organize them better right on your phone.

Personally, I am old school and like to put them in folders on my computer and also back them up on an external hard

drive. Ideally, I periodically plug my phone into my computer and copy and paste all my photos into folders. As for my folder system, I like to keep it as simple as possible.

I create a new folder for each year on my PC and add monthly folders labeled with numbers first so they stay in order, for example “5 May 2020.” That method makes it easy to find certain photos when your kids start to need actual printed photos for school projects. Then I weed through those photos and delete and maybe even edit some. Sometimes I even make subfolders for birthday parties or for photos I want to print out.

Photographer and mother of three Terri Demarest says, “I have a folder for each season/year. So ‘fall 2019’ is an example of

one folder’s title. In that, I have subfolders if we go on a special vacation (such as one for ‘Arizona’), and then the kids’ yearly photos get a folder (‘Everett 6YO’). The rest of the photos are in the main folder ‘fall 2019.’ I also put videos in a separate folder there too and then all phone pics are in a folder called ‘phone pics,’ which are both still subfolders for the main year/season.” Demarest says a seasonal reminder is helpful to remember to order new prints and back up her photos.

Jennifer Schmidt, mother of two, has yet another technique to organize her family’s photos. “Every event is in its own folder within the computer’s photos folder and labeled date first (year, month, day), such as ‘2014.06.13’ plus the name of the event. As you scroll down, the folders become more recent. Then each of my kids has their own separate folder within the main photos folder.

Then I take photos that just my daughter, Haddie, is in and put them in subfolders in her folder, even if the photos are from the same thing like a trip to the zoo. The photos of my son, Mason, go in his separate folder, and Haddie’s go in hers. Then I have a whole other folder in the ‘photos’ folder for that event that have photos of both of them together. I do split photos up from the same event, which I’m sure would drive some people crazy, but I like my system and I’ve done it since before the kids were bor,n so it’s easy to keep up with. My thought process is, if I ever need pictures of just Mason or just Haddie, it’ll be easy to find them!”

That leads to the discussion of prints and the importance of displaying family photos in your home. An article on DesignAglow. com showcases the importance of displaying family photos. “It lets children learn who they are and where they fit,” says Judy Weiser. a psychologist, art therapist and author based in Vancouver. “They learn their genealogy and the the uniqueness of their own family and its story. When a child sees a family portrait with them included in the photograph they say to themselves, ‘These people have me as part of what they are, that’s why I belong here. This is where I come from.’”

But getting behind on actually printing physical copies of photos happens so easily.

It’s just another line item on the to-do list, right? But if we would just sit down and

take 10 minutes, we would be able to check that box and feel accomplished. Especially if our photos were already organized! Many businesses offer photo printing services with varying levels of quality, price and accessibility, such as CVS, Walgreens, Shutterfly.com and Mpix.com. So get those frames updated with fresh prints and see the delight on your family’s faces when you relive special memories together. Small photo books can be a fun gift for your children in stockings or Easter baskets or just because. They make nice gifts for grandparents and other family members too. Services like Chatbooks.com or subscriptions like GrooveBooks.com help you make small photo books from your phone and mail them right to your door Personally, I made my children a baby book of each one’s first year using Shutterfly and then liked my neighbor’s idea of printing a family yearbook each year. I used Shutterfly for my first few and now am frustratingly years behind. I simply go in chronological order, giving each month a different background color. These books are such treasures to look back on the life you are building and living with your family. Demarest also makes a family yearbook using Artifact Uprising.

If you know me, you know I love a good podcast episode. An exceptional one about photo organizing is episode 41 on Laura Tremaine’s 10 Things to Tell You with guest Miss Freddy. This was my introduction to MissFreddy.com, and she is a wealth of knowledge and services available to help you get a handle on your photo organization.

So keep taking those photos and know that you can have a plan of action to maintain some order with them. Our children’s lives are incredibly well documented, and it really does bring me so much joy to look back on those moments both big and small. The key is to find a way that makes sense to you and that you will be able to maintain. I feel like this ties in with personality types a lot—but that’s an article for another day.

Stephanie Loux is the mamarazzi to Layla, 9 1/2, Mason, 8, and Slade, 5, who dabbles in photography and is grateful for her handy phone to capture her children’s childhood. She may have also made an entire photo book of her golden retriever, Thor, too. kcparent.com may 2020

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truly believe that boredom can be a gift for our kids because it forces them to get creative—and get along. It never hurts to put a few fun suggestions in front of them to get them started. Some of the following ideas kids can do on their own, and some you’ll want to get involved in.

Lego Masters. Break out the Legos because kids of all ages can get in on this one. Start by taking turns tossing out ideas for things to build. If you’re stuck, you can find great ideas on printable Lego cards online. For example, you might tell the kids to build a refrigerator, then everyone tries their best to build one.

Everyone’s creation will be different, so it’s not really a competition, but it’s fun seeing what everyone comes up with! After you’re done building, pop some popcorn and turn on Lego Masters (Hulu).

Art show. Kids love to draw and color! I have tons of artwork on my fridge, but how about really showcasing their special artwork of the day? All you need is a long piece of thin rope or yarn strung from one end of a room to another. Hang finished pictures using clothespins, pretend you’re having a grand gala opening, serve some snacks, and you have an art show! Bonus activity: Get some canvases, paint and a variety of paintbrushes, so the kids can create art to hang on your wall that can be switched out with other pieces they’ve created.

Restaurant. I loooove when my kids play restaurant because I get to be the diner sitting at the table reading my book while they serve me different foods and drinks!

They get to play waiters, hostesses, managers and cooks (depending on age and what they are making, of course). What a great opportunity to do some cooking and baking with them as well!

Write and illustrate a story. Kids are full of stories, but some aren’t old enough to write them down. That’s where you come in! Have each kid tell you a story that’s been running around in his mind, and you can either write it out or type it. Then have your child illustrate it! If you’re creating the story on the computer, you can go to free photo sites like Pixabay to grab images for the story!

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Play-dough. This one just takes a few minutes of your help, and then the kids can take off on their own, creating for hours. You could always just buy the stuff, but here’s a simple recipe, as well. Pair with a rolling pin and cookies cutters for even more fun!

1 c. flour ½ c. salt 1 c. water 1 T. oil 2 t. cream of tartar Food coloring Mix all ingredients, except food coloring, on low heat in a pan. Once the consistency is that of play-dough, take pan off heat, let cool, then add food coloring a few drops at a time. Knead until the color is all mixed. Grab some cookie cutters and other kitchen items and let the fun begin! Store in air-tight containers or baggies.

Scavenger hunt. Take out a piece of paper and write down different items in the house.

If you have two teams doing the scavenging, write the same items down on another piece of paper. Ideas include a winter glove, a cotton swab, a doll shoe, a pie pan, etc.

Send the teams off, and whoever gets back with the most items from the list first wins a prize.

Play with your food. Break out the mini marshmallows and spaghetti noodles and have the kids construct creations like houses, bridges, towers and more! If you have rice around (and you should right now!), put a bag into a large baking pan and let the kids play around in it on the kitchen floor. Excess can be vacuumed up, and the rest can be put into a bag to play with later.

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Perler beads. You may know them as those things that go crunch when you vacuum, but kids recognize them as hours of fun! Using flat, plastic shapes with spikes, kids can create all sorts of things by placing Perler beads in different patterns. You can turn creations into necklaces, magnets, cool things to put inside school binders! Once the beads are in place, you’ll need to place parchment paper over them and iron on low until the beads melt together. Flip it over and do the other side, then they are stuck together and ready to go!

their arms using washable markers. Then it’s time for a bubble bath for the kids to wash off makeup—and germs, for the parenting win!

Marco Polo. No, I’m not talking about

Salon. This is another one of my favorites

the swimming pool game! I’m talking about the smartphone app that lets you leave video messages for friends and family.

Depending on the ages of your children, let them make all the video messages they want for their friends and especially for grandparents! My own dad and grandma love to see what we’re up to each day indoors and in our backyard.

because I usually can get a 5-minute back or neck massage while playing this. It’s also a blast to have the kids do my makeup, wipe it all off and start again. Then I get to do their makeup or, for my boys, tattoos on

Kerrie McLoughlin doesn’t really mind being safely tucked inside with her five kids and does all the things on this list! Check up on her at TheKerrieShow.com.

maintain your SANITY!

visit kc virtually

By Kristina Light When homebound, we can still connect with our community through online resources.

Science City at Union Station Science City offers an entire library of fun, creative activities you can do at home with your kids in their online Maker Studio’s Instructables Library: Instructables.com/ member/Maker+Studio/.

National Museum of Toys and Miniatures You can explore the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures collections virtually through their online database.

ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org/collections/

National WWI Museum and Memorial The National WWI Museum and Memorial offers educational online exhibits, so you can learn more about the Great War. Topics covered include the Armistice, Christmas Truce, WWI A-Z and more. TheWorldWar.org/ explore/exhibitions/online-exhibitions

Kansas Children’s Discovery Center The Kansas Children’s Discovery Center has produced daily tutorials for parents looking for educational activities they can do at home, available at KansasDiscovery.org/home.

Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art We are proud to have one of the finest art galleries in America right here in Kansas City.

You can explore the collections virtually and learn about the pieces and the artists who created them. Art.Nelson-Atkins.org/collections

Mid-Continent Public Libraries To accommodate the growing demand for digital books, MCPL has added more eBooks and eAudiobooks to its collection, including 5,000 new children’s eBook titles! There are currently more than 300,000 digital copies of materials that are available to be checked out with no wait.

KCPT Use the PBS app to stream your favorite PBS shows, create the perfect watchlist, connect with your local station and more.

KCPT.org/anywhere/

Truman Presidential Library and Museum The Truman Presidential Library and Museum is currently closed for renovation. While they are closed, you can explore tremendous online resources for research and learning.

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Homemade Fun Some classic fun can be made at home!

Here are some easy ways to create homemade bubbles, lollipops and Popsicles.

Lollipops and Popsicles Buy inexpensive Popsicle molds and make your own frozen treats. Mix your favorite concoction, pour it into the mold, freeze and enjoy! Some favorites: n Lemonade n Instant n Fruit

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Popsicles. These are not edible but are lots of fun! Fill a Popsicle mold with tempera paint, freeze, pop out and let the kids use the paint pops to paint on white paper.Â

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EASY Homemade Lollipops n Chocolate

Lollipops: Purchase Wilton

easy melt chocolates, molds and lollipop sticks.

Melt, pour into the mold, and pop out when hardened to enjoy. n Jolly

Rancher Lollipops: Materials you need

are hard Jolly Ranchers, cookie sheet, aluminum foil, parchment paper and lollipop or Popsicle sticks. Preheat oven to 275°F. Line cookie sheet with a piece of aluminum foil topped with a piece of parchment paper. Unwrap and place Jolly Ranchers together in groups of two or three. Leave enough space between them so they won’t melt together and so you have room to place a stick in them as they soften. Place the baking sheet into the preheated oven and let the Jolly Ranchers melt together slightly, about 6 minutes (watch closely). Remove from the oven and quickly twist the sticks into the melted Jolly Ranchers before the candies harden.

Bubbles & Wands Materials needed: 1 c. water 2 T. light corn syrup or 2 T. glycerin 4 T. dishwashing liquid Mix together and have fun!

You can make many easy varieties of bubble wands.

Here are a few simple ideas: Bend a wire coat hanger into fun shapes and use it as a bubble wand. For a wand this large, aluminum pie plates work great to hold the bubble solution.

Bend pipe cleaners into favorite shapes and use them.

These are easier for children to bend.

Use string and soda straws. Simply run some string through a soda straw or two (straws cut to be shorter work too) and tie the string together—essentially creating a straw necklace. Then hold onto the straws and dip the string into the bubble solution.

Straws work by themselves—but be sure to blow the bubbles and not the solution!

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1. Flint Hills, 2. Fort Osage, 3.Thomas Hart Benton Studio, 4. Strawberry Hill Museum, 5. Legler Barn, 6. Scout Statue, 7. Browne’s Marketplace, 8. Vaile Mansion, 9. Parkville Nature Sanctuary, 10. Negro Leagues Baseball Museum

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FISHING IN KC

Both Kansas and Missouri have several large lakes in the area, as well as many smaller lakes, streams and rivers with public access and good angling.

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hough sometimes seen as an old man’s pastime, fishing can be a fun family affair. Some of my favorite childhood memories come from fishing with my family. The metro area has lots of fishing opportunities for families to enjoy. Both Kansas and Missouri have several large lakes in the area, as well as many smaller lakes, streams and rivers with public access and good angling.

Before you head out, check with state wildlife departments for important rules and regulations. Both states require people 16-64 years old to have a fishing permit in public areas for the state where they are fishing. Area rules will usually be posted near popular fishing places like docks, dams and marinas. In the case of streams, rivers or ponds that might be on private property, always ask permission before fishing.

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State wildlife and local parks and recreation departments are also the best sources for free fishing education and fishing opportunities.

State wildlife and local parks and recreation departments are also the best sources for free fishing education and fishing opportunities. The Missouri Department of Conservation (MDC. MO.gov/fishing) and the Kansas Department of Wildlife and Parks (KDWP.State.KS.us/index.php/news/ Fishing) post public fishing areas and upcoming fishing programs on their websites. Our local Bass Pro Shops in Independence and Olathe offer fishing workshops as well. Visit their site, BassPro. com, and use their store locator guide to go to the page of the store nearest you to see what workshops they offer.

Some of the most commonly caught local fish include bluegill, green sunfish, largemouth bass and catfish (bullhead and channel). All of these can be caught on live bait, like fishing worms, crickets and minnows. Artificial bait like plastic

worms and grubs have to be “worked,” cast and recast often, which is better left to older, more skilled children and adults.

When fishing with younger kids, keep it simple. A pole with 8- to 10-lb. fishing line, small hooks, sinkers and bobbers are inexpensive and easy to replace when the line catches in a tree or an underwater snag. A pair of needle-nosed pliers is irreplaceable for removing hooks.

Fishing teaches valuable life lessons like patience, good sportsmanship, respect and an appreciation of nature that can only be learned by experience.

Plus, your child’s first fish, no matter how big or small it is, will be a prize moment neither of you will forget.

Heather Shields grew up in Kansas City with a love for nature and conservation.

She now teaches science at Ruskin High where she shares her passion with students.

Good Local Fishing Spots • Kill Creek Park (Olathe) • Shawnee Mission Park (Lenexa) • Antioch Park (Merriam) • Heritage Park (Olathe) • Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead (Overland Park)

• Englewood Lake (Kansas City North, MO)

• Lake of the Woods in Swope Park (Kansas City, MO)

• Blue Springs Lake (Lee’s Summit, MO) • Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park (Lenexa) • Lake Jacomo (Blue Springs) • Longview Lake (Kansas City, MO)

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enjoying the GREAT outdoors with the family The sun is shining, the birds are chirping, and it’s time to get outside and enjoy fresh air, exercise and family memories. These are a few of our favorite ways to enjoy spring in Kansas City:

Ride a Bike Take a photo safari on a bike trail! These are just a few of Kansas City’s nicest bike trails. Discover more local trails at KCBike.info/KCTrails. You can rent bikes throughout the city at KC.Bicyle.com. Use the BCycle App to access bike locations and details for this super simple way to enjoy a bit of exercise while you explore the city!

Trolley Trail: This 6-mile paved trail connects the Country Club Plaza, Brookside and Waldo in southern Kansas City, MO, at Volker Boulevard/US 56 and Brookside Boulevard and E. 85th Street and Prospect Aveue. This is a great urban ride with many super lunch stops and shops along the way.

Enjoy KC’s Best Outdoor Attractions … Virtually Kansas City Zoo The Kansas City Zoo brings the zoo to you with incredible cameras that allow you to watch the animals live in action in their zoo habitats!

Penguin Cam Underwater Penguin Cam Orangutan Cam Otter Cam Educational Videos: The zoo offers a collection of educational clips featuring their resident animals. Visit YouTube.com/user/kansascityzoo.

Worlds of Fun

Swope Trails: Built for mountain bike enthusiasts, the 13.5 miles of trails wind through the woods at Swope Park. Local volunteers and the KC Parks system continue to improve these trails for athletes. These trails are designed with adventure in mind. From beautiful limestone bluffs to wooded paths, the trails offer nature in the heart of the city.

Smithville Lake Trail: This 4-mile (and growing) off-road trail is great for mountain bikers. Smithville Lake offers a scenic view for the rider to get out and enjoy nature.

Mill Creek Streamway Park: One of the nicest paved trails in Johnson County, this 10-plus-mile byway runs along the creek from the Kaw River, south through Shawnee Mission Park, to 119th Street in Olathe. This popular trail offers a variety of scenery along the way.

Shawnee Mission Park: The park offers mountain bike trails connecting to Mill Creek Streamway Park trails.

Lake, woods and shelters make this a great choice for nature lovers.

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You can enjoy your favorite rides from Kansas City’s number one theme park with great point-of-view videos! Sit back, relax and enjoy the ride ... from the comfort of your own home: KCParent.com/spring-inkc/worlds-of-fun-experience-the-rides-at-home/.

KC Royals Relive great baseball memories, connect with players and learn more about our home team with new content from the Kansas City Royals every Thursday. YouTube.com/royals.

Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead Follow Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead on Facebook to watch their live Goat Cam: Facebook. com/DeannaRoseChildrensFarmstead/.

Stop and Smell the Roses

Go on an Art Hunt

Enjoy the beautiful weather and head outside to one of the city’s prettiest gardens. Whether you’re in the mood for a simple picnic at the park, a relaxing stroll or time to sit and read, or a full day exploring acres of botanical paradise, our gardens offer something for everyone.

Local cities and towns are recognizing the importance of public art more and more. Did you know that Liberty is home to a giant pencil? Or that Merriam is home to a sculpture of a bear family playing in a fountain? Spring is the perfect time to discover the most unique art in the area, and these municipalities have made it easier than ever:

The Overland Park Arboretum (8909 W. 179th St., Bucyrus, KS) is a 300-acre garden, home to a Monet garden, a whimsical train garden, beautiful trails, prairie and ponds to explore.

Kauffman Memorial Garden (4800 Rockhill Rd., Kansas City, MO) is a small free botanical garden near the Country Club Plaza and Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, where something new is in bloom all year long. With fountains, scenic places to sit and read, and paths to stroll, this is an urban oasis.

Loose Park (5100 Wornall, Kansas City, MO) is one of the city’s most beautiful parks, with a rose garden, a beautiful pond, walking trails, tennis courts, a playground and a spray park.

Antioch Park (6501 Antioch Rd., Mission) is home to a rose garden, a beautiful scenic pond with stepping stones, paved trails and an imaginative Wild Westinspired play space.

Merriam: The town is home to many beautiful murals portraying the region’s history, as well as public sculpture including our favorite, Motherhood, a water fountain featuring a mother bear and her cubs. Learn more: ExploreMerriam.com/760/Art. Liberty: The city funds a rotating sculpture program, with three new works on display annually. Learn more: LibertyMissouri.gov/2505/Public-Art---Sculptures.

Blue Springs: The City of Blue Springs prepared a treasure hunt for visitors to discover their public art: BlueSpringsGov.com/1758/Public-Art-Treasure-Quest.

Olathe: This city’s public art collection is eclectic, ranging from modern pieces to art that tells the story of Olathe’s history. Learn more: gis.OlatheKs.org/maps/sculpture/.

Lee’s Summit: Murals and sculptures decorate historic downtown Lee’s Summit. Learn more: CityofLS.net/cultural-arts/public-art.

Powell Gardens (1609 NW US Hwy. 50, Kingsville, MO) is a great day trip adventure. The 970-acre botanical gardens are home to the Heartland Harvest Garden, the nation’s largest edible landscape, and the Island Garden and Waterfall Garden. In the summer, kids love playing in the sprayground fountain where they can cool off on a hot day.

Independence: This city celebrates its heritage as the head of the California, Oregon and Santa Fe trails, as well as its hometown hero, President Harry S. Truman, through much of their public art. Modern pieces are included in their collection as well. Learn more: ci.Independence.mo.us/ArtCommission/Gallery.

Lenexa: Lenexa’s pieces are both two- and threedimensional, housed inside public spaces, as well as outdoors. Learn more: Lenexa.com.

These are just a few ideas to inspire your family’s spring adventures.

You’ll find even more at KCParent.com/spring-in-kc.

Kristina Light loves discovering works of art on her many urban adventures and looks forward to backyard picnics every spring. kcparent.com may 2020

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