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Dear Teachers

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Party Guide

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Calendar of Events

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Time to start planning for

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summer camp adventures.

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o know me is to know I don’t love winter. But in the spirit of looking on the bright side, here’s an A-to-Z list of things that are okay with winter. Arctic: At least we don’t live there! Beijing: Enjoy watching the winter Olympics with the family.

Coffee is great all year, but a warm cup on a cold day is delightful. Days are getting longer at last—yay! Exercise: A walk in the crisp air is refreshing. Fruit: Love to enjoy citrus fruit during winter. Getting a car wash on a warmer day. Hot cocoa tastes better when it’s cold. Ice cream made from snow is fun for all ages. Journey to somewhere warm to beat the cold! Keep warm with fluffy socks.

Lazy days: It’s fun to stay in when it’s too cold to go out. Make chili. Netflix has plenty of shows to binge. Oven: Bake some goodies.

Peace and Quiet: The world seems quieter in winter. Restaurants: Need something fun to do? Check out a new place to eat. Snow days: Is there anything more fun for a kid than an unscheduled day off? Take a spin at an ice rink! Under blankets: Get comfy and cozy on a cold day. Valentine’s Day: a fun way to celebrate love. Winter will end and turn into spring! eXtra time to enjoy a book or a puzzle.

Yeast: A warm, crusty loaf of bread is like mittens to the tummy. Zoo: Animals are fun to watch in the cold, when they’re often more active.

What about you? Do you love winter or dread it? Either way, we’ve got you covered this month with A-to-Z family fun all over Kansas City, starting on pg. 54. Keep a copy of this issue on hand all month long for ways to stay busy and beat the winter blahs!

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CRAFTCORNER

Materials Needed:

• White coffee filters

tie-dye valentine’s day fireplace banner Who doesn’t love love? This simple craft will sure add some Valentine’s festivities to your home!

Step one: Color coffee filters in any pattern you would like.

Step two: On a baking sheet, spray coffee filters with water. We found the more water we used, the more the color blended to make lighter colors. Let dry completely.

Step three: Cut out heart pattern on scrap paper.

Step four: Using pattern, cut out hearts on coffee filters.

Step five: Punch holes at top of the heart.

Step six: String hearts onto yarn.

Step seven: Hang and enjoy!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Overland Park with her husband, two children and two dogs. Janelle is a mediator who focuses on working with families. Janelle loves to help her children learn through play and getting messy with crafts.

String Heart Valentines

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(We used 13 based on our fireplace size.)

• Assorted washable markers • Spray bottle with water • Sheet of scrap paper (cut into the heart) • Scissors • Hole punch • Yarn • Baking sheet

We adopted a dog and he gets very

I have consulted one of our

The American Kennel Club (AKC)

nervous in the car and shakes and

veterinarians at Great Plains SPCA

suggests that puppies can wait for the

whimpers when we are driving. Is there

since I am not a vet. Here is what she

same number of hours as their age

anything I can do to make car rides

had to say, “According to the American

in months up to about nine months of

easier on the little guy? Also, thank you

Animal Hospital Association (AAHA),

age. This means that a one-month-old

for all that you and Great Plains SPCA

core vaccines for dogs include rabies

puppy will need to pee every hour, while

do for the animals. – Katie Bell

and the DAPP vaccine. Other vaccines

a five-month-old puppy will have to go

such as Bordetella and Leptospirosis

every five hours. I recommend taking

There are several things you can do for

are not core vaccines but may be

your puppy out as often as she needs

your dog to associate the car as a good

beneficial to your dog depending on

reflecting her age, crate training, and

place. I recommend exercising him for

lifestyle. Leptospirosis is a common

patience. You can also tether her to your

20-30 minutes before a trip, keeping the

pathogen found in the urine and

belt loop to always keep her close and

car cool, and using toys and treats to

feces of wild animals, so it is often

when she starts sniffing around, take

create a positive experience. Try going

recommended for dogs that have

her out immediately. She should receive

on a bunch of small trips to fun places

access to standing water or grass. To

treats and praise when she eliminates

like the park or drive-thrus. There are

receive a three-year rabies vaccine,

outdoors. Sticking to a feeding schedule

pheromone sprays to calm him and

your pet must first receive a one-year

will also help.

in the worst-case scenario, you can

vaccine. After that point, it is your

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

consult your veterinarian to get anti-

personal preference. I recommend pet

anxiety medication.

owners establish care with a primary

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

care veterinarian and work with them to find the right vaccine schedule for

What vaccines do you recommend for dogs? Do you recommend the Leptospirosis vaccine? Do you

their pet based on their lifestyle and risk factors.” – Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA and Madison Minter, DVM

recommend the annual rabies vaccine or the three-year vaccine? Thank you.

– Jeffrey Thompson

I just adopted a puppy and she is the cutest thing ever and we love her to pieces. What is a normal amount for a new puppy to pee in the house? How can I work on this? – Deanna Marsh

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annually in the Johnson County community. As Kansas City’s premium family shelter, we continue to support the seven municipalities with which we are contracted including Overland Park, Leawood, Lenexa, Shawnee, Lake Quivira and Johnson County Parks and Recreation and unincorporated Johnson County.

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DATENIGHT

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Celebrate Valentine’s Day with a themed date!

CHILI DAY Feb. 24 is National Chili Day, and what better place to have some than at Dixon’s Famous Chili in Independence! What started out as a street cart in downtown Kansas City in 1919 has now become the longest-running family-owned business in KC, serving up good food for more than 100 years.

My husband and I recently made it a point to go visit. He had been there before (ages ago); I had not. Their menu is simple: chili, tacos, burritos, nachos, tamales, burgers and hot dogs. We both opted for the basic chili plate with meat over beans. Our a la carte toppings included onion, cheese, pickles, sour cream and jalapeno relish. We also ended up adding ketchup to our chili because Dixon’s does not use a traditional tomato base and cooks their meat and beans separately. All in all, the chili was warm, comforting and tasty. We agreed that we’d like to try their tacos sometime, especially since they have an all-you-can-eat special every day for $9.99.

PIZZA DAY National Pizza Day is Feb. 9, and because I have rarely met a pizza I didn’t like, this is one day I love to celebrate. So many great places in Kansas City have pizza, and one of our favorites is Sarah’s on the Hill. Located in an old grocery store called Bruson’s in Strawberry Hill, this place has been slinging pies and serving up delicious drinks since 2019. They have an excellent happy hour from 4:00 to 6:00 and again from 9:00 to 10:00 daily. It features $2 domestics, $3 craft beers, $5 cocktails and sangrias and $5 10-inch, single topping pizzas. For just $2 more, you can get one of their specialty pies.

They don’t skimp on toppings, and their crust is some of the best anywhere.

It’s a small place with fewer than 10 tables and a distinct “neighborhood hangout” feel. But don’t let either of those deter you, as Sarah’s is eager to welcome newbies to the shop as well. If you don’t have the time or desire to eat in, they do a very robust and steady carryout business.

HEART MONTH February is American Heart Month, and one of the best ways to reduce your risk for heart disease is by exercising regularly. Because February is one of the coldest months in Kansas City, slacking off of the physical activity, especially if it’s outdoors, is tempting. But the wintry outdoors can be fun.

We highly recommend snow tubing at Snow Creek in Weston, MO. It is one of the most fun things we have ever done as a couple. Even though they have a conveyor belt to transport you to the top of Tornado Alley each time, your blood definitely will be pumping when you spin and slide down their 700-foot hill! Another terrific way to get some exercise in the winter, which is also perfect for a date night, is ice-skating. Of course, Crown Center has their well-known outdoor rink, but there are several others in the area as well. Additional ideas include skiing and snowshoeing. Finding ways to stay active together—even in the winter—gives you time to bond and helps keep your heart strong and healthy.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives in the Northland with her husband. They love to explore Kansas City and try new restaurants and activities.

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With Great Power: The Marvelous Stan Lee, an Unauthorized Biography Written by Annie Hunter Eriksen, illustrated by Lee Gatlin Stan Lee is known for being the creator of Spider-Man and many more superheroes, but few know that Stan was born Stanley Lieber and that while he was growing up in the Bronx, his family could hardly afford to buy groceries.

Stan was able to escape the confines of the tiny apartment his family lived in by reading books. Soon he had stories of his own going through his mind and, at 16 years of age, he headed out to find a job so he could help provide for his family.

A great introduction into the life of the man who gave the world so much.

About being a hero, however, he would say, “. . .anyone can be a hero, as long as they stand for what’s right!”

A Tree Is a Home

Interrupting Chicken: Cookies for Breakfast

Written by Pamela Hickman, illustrated

by Zafouko Yamamoto

Written and illustrated by David Ezra Stein A Tree Is a Home is a beautifully illustrated nonfiction picture book that captures one year in the life of an oak tree and the six animals who call that tree home.

The book opens in summer and introduces the animal inhabitants: raccoon, acorn weevil, opossum, gray squirrel, blue jay and chipmunk. As the seasons change, so does the tree, and so do the activities of the animals within the tree.

When winter arrives the narrator explains, “The animals are surviving the cold in many ways. Like the dormant tree, some are inactive, hibernating for most of the season. Others stay in their cozy homes only during the worst weather but still venture out for food that provides energy to keep warm . . .”

Included in the book are descriptions of the life cycle of an oak tree and each of the animals who live in the tree.

The next in the Interrupting Chicken series, Interrupting Chicken: Cookies for Breakfast does not disappoint.

Still silly, still poetic and still interrupting.

What’s a little chicken to do when she awakens early, hungry for cookies?

Awaken her father, of course, with a breakfast (of cookies) in bed!

Papa isn’t going for it, however, so the two decide instead to read nursery rhymes.

Which gives little chicken a chance to interject her fondness for … cookies!

“There was an old woman who lived in a shoe,” one of the nursery rhymes begins. “She had so many—cookies, she gave me a few!” interrupts little chicken.

Papa responds, “We are not having cookies. I’ll make you a healthy breakfast as soon as I get up.” A few nursery rhymes later it’s Papa who’s hungry.

What is the healthy breakfast he makes? Does little chicken get her cookies for breakfast? Will little chicken stop interrupting? Grab a copy of this delightfully illustrated book and find out!

Sandy Foster is a writer and blogger (NadinesBakery.com) who lives in the Kansas City area.

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10 FAMILY-FRIENDLY FILMS WITH IRRESISTIBLE LOVE STORIES Snuggle Up with a Love-Themed Family Film This Winter Lady and the Tramp Disney’s 1955 classic has been winning hearts for generations.

Dish up some spaghetti and delight in the Victorian-era tale about two charming dogs.

Cinderella We’re partial to Disney’s original animated masterpiece. The transformation of the dress is one of the prettiest pieces of animation ever created, and Jaq and Gus are delightful.

Be My Valentine, Charlie Brown Charles Schulz’ Peanuts films are holiday staples. This lesser-known classic is sure to tug at your heartstrings this February.

The Princess Bride This epic comic adventure you remember from your childhood is a perfect film to share with your own kids. Remember to recount the tale of your “mawwage” as you do.

Enchanted This Disney musical isn’t afraid to laugh at the most iconic heroines from beloved classic fairy tales. Amy Adams’ portrayal of Giselle, the loveable fairy-tale princess who magically lands in New York City, is charming.

Disney Nature’s Bears: The story of the Alaskan brown bear Sky and her unwavering love for her cubs is a beautiful depiction of parental love that is truly perfect for the whole family.

Beauty and the Beast Whether you choose Disney’s animated ’90s classic or the new live action version, this “tale as old as time” is perfect for a family movie night. Serve some gray stuff (it’s delicious) and enjoy this favorite film. Tip: You’ll find the recipe at Family.Disney.com/recipe/ beauty-and-the-beast-food-grey-stuff.

The Sound of Music Rodgers and Hammerstein’s classic musical is a tale of family love, courage and strength that inspires us still today.

Winnie the Pooh, a Valentine for You Winnie holds a special place in our family memories. The delightful bear and his pals from the Hundred Acre Wood learn what love really is all about.

Parent Trap We enjoy both the Hayley Mills and the Lindsay Lohan versions of this comedic story of identical twins helping their parents rekindle a love that is lost. In the process, the two sisters who started as enemies become best friends. kcparent.com february 2022

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TASTYTREATS

Morning Recipes Perfect for Making Memories (Family Features)

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old weather presents the perfect opportunity to spend some time in the kitchen to try out fun recipes and create special moments with family and friends. Pancakes and waffles provide deliciously easy ways to make mornings memorable at the breakfast table with those you love.

Regardless of what you have going on during the day, a warm stack of pancakes or waffles can bring everyone to the table. Putting together a delicious, crowd-pleasing stack doesn’t have to be a big to-do thanks to recipes like butter pecan waffles and banana walnut pancakes. You can make breakfast the highlight of your family’s day with just a handful of ingredients in each recipe that offer a warm, comforting twist to a breakfast time favorite. These pancake and waffle creations are delicious and easy enough to become go-to’s for nearly any occasion.

An additional benefit: Simple yet flavorful recipes like these allow the whole family to help in the kitchen, providing bonding opportunities and valuable lessons as you make them together.

For more memory-making breakfast time ideas, visit PearlMillingCompany.com.

Butter Pecan Waffles

Banana Walnut Pancakes

Yield: about 6 waffles (4 inches each)

Yield: about 20 pancakes

Browned Butter: 2 T. unsalted butter 1/2 c. chopped pecans

Waffle Mix: 1 c. Pearl Milling Company Original Pancake & Waffle Mix 3/4 c. milk, plus additional if necessary, divided 1 egg

Instructions: To make browned butter: In small skillet over low heat, place butter. Increase heat to medium-low, stirring butter with heat-proof spatula. Cook and stir until butter reaches desired brown color. Remove from heat and stir in pecans.

Place pancake mix in large bowl. Add 3/4 cup milk, egg and browned butter. Stir until large clumps of batter disappear. If batter seems too thick, add additional milk 1 tablespoon at a time to reach desired thickness. Let batter stand 4-5 minutes before cooking.

Pour batter into lightly greased waffle iron. Bake until steam stops or as directed by waffle iron instructions. Top with syrup and toasted pecans, if desired.

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Pancake Mix: 2 c. Pearl Milling Company Original Pancake Mix 1 1/2 c. milk 2 eggs 2 T. oil 2 bananas, mashed

Homemade Whipped Cream: 1 c. heavy cream 2 T. sugar

Toppings: 1 banana, sliced, for topping 2 jars (5 oz. each) walnuts in syrup 24 oz. syrup

Instructions: Place skillet over medium heat.

In large bowl, stir pancake mix, milk, eggs, oil and mashed bananas.

Spread 1/4 cup pancake batter on skillet. When pancake begins to bubble, use spatula to flip. Cook until golden brown on each side. Repeat with remaining batter.

To make whipped cream: In small bowl, whip heavy cream and sugar until thickened.

Top pancakes with homemade whipped cream, banana slices, walnuts and syrup.

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Wordle

Utter Nonsense As kids get older, it gets harder to find games that everyone can enjoy. And when we’re with extended family, we have a big range of ages, so that makes it even more difficult. My sister-inlaw had a new game I hadn’t played before, Utter Nonsense, and it fits the bill for older kids, as well as younger ones and grandparents. The gist is you have a line to say using a specific accent (British or French) or as a character (pirate or baby), and the person who is “it” picks the winner. What ensues is lots of laughter and lots of family fun!

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Usually, I’m late to the party, but I’m surprisingly on time with this! I am a self-proclaimed word nerd and love word games, vocabulary, meanings and usage of words, etc. When I learned about Wordle I had to check it out, and after just one game I was hooked! For the record, it took me five tries to get my first puzzle. It’s simple: You have six chances to guess a five-letter word. No hints to start. With each entry you learn if the letters are in the right place, if they’re in the wrong place, or if they don’t appear in the word at all. It can only be played online, and there’s just one puzzle a day. Check it out and let me know how you do! PowerLanguage.co.uk/wordle

THINGS WE

LOVE RIGHT NOW

Compiled by Margaret Sarver

Vacuum My girls tease me and say that vacuuming is one of my hobbies. I explain to them it’s not so much that I love vacuuming, but that I love clean floors. My trusty old Electrolux hasn’t been working well for a while and needs to be repaired.

I needed something in the interim. Enter the Eureka AirSpeed Upright.

It is amazing! It is small but mighty! Although the cord and hose are a little on the short side, the mere 7 pounds of weight and the impressive sucking power make up for it. If you need a vacuum but don’t want to make an investment, take a look at the AirSpeed Upright. Now my girls may be right—I do love to vacuum!

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Earbuds I enjoy taking a walk and listening to music or a podcast but have been unable to find earbuds I like. Most don’t feel right or fit well, and the majority of the time I end up borrowing my hubby’s.

(Inevitably, one falls out when I’m on my walk, and I hate perpetually losing his.) For Christmas, though, I received the Sony wireless noise canceling earbuds, and my search is over! Not only is the sound quality superb, they come with different sized plastic thingies (that’s not the technical name, but you know what I mean) so that you can find the right size to fit your ear! Available at local retailers.

Café Equinox It’s February, and the winter doldrums have officially set in.

Here’s what you need to do to stave them off…head to Café Equinox at Family Tree Nursery in the Overland Park location.

It’s inside the greenhouse, so while you sip on a latte or tea, you are surrounded by lush, green plants which give off great vibes on a cold day! My older and I recently visited, and while the weather outside was yucky, inside we enjoyed sitting on a couch among the plants and sipping on something warm and tasty. Look for a renovated Café Equinox to open soon in the Shawnee location, as well! CafeEquinox.com

WORDFROMDAD

Because It Makes Her

HAPPY

“So, you’re just going to leave?” Paul stood behind the counter, his elbows resting on the cash register.

Almost everyone has a hobby outside of the house. Some people choose outdoor activities like gardening, hiking, fishing or camping. For others, indoor pursuits are more attractive, with bowling, antiquing or some form of billiards being their recreation of choice. Of course, like the characters of a once-popular tv show, there are people who spend their free time in a bar, soaking up equal amounts of alcohol and ambiance.

Then, there are those who combine a love of competition, art and history with the appeal of a controlled climate. These eclectic few engage in miniatures gaming. Like a free-flowing game of chess, historicallyaccurate painted figures are maneuvered through a landscaped gameboard as players recreate the contests of history, be it ancient, modern, or any age in between. It drew me in like a summer moth to a patio light.

I’d arrived to the Borderlands store after work that evening, planning to play a few games and build up my skills, but Sandi had called and needed me at home.

I faced Paul and the other patrons. “Let me explain. I like making my wife happy. It’s one of the most important things in my life.”

He sniggered. “Aw, she’s got you on a short leash. Be a man and stand up to her.”

“I’m not making myself clear. Sandi’s more important to me than all of you. She’s had a rough life, and when I’m able to make her happy, it makes me happy, too. Good night, gentlemen.”

Nobody said anything, so I slid my coat on and left.

I walked out and went home to the person who loves me more than anyone else ever could. I’ve never regretted my decision.

William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family.

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PRODUCT REVIEW

By Elena Epstein, Director of the National Parenting Product Awards

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Showcases the amazing talents of children’s musicians and family entertainers. Each episode features an artist story, song story and a song. Free, PatrickAdamsBooks.com

SHARON, LOIS & BRAM BEST OF THE BEST LIVE Features live tracks taken from tours in Canada and the United States during the band’s touring heyday in the 1990s. Compiled by super fans, this release is the ultimate throwback experience from one of the top enduring children’s music artists. $14.99, SharonLoisAndBram.com

TRAIN YOUR MIND LIKE A NINJA A card deck with 30 “secret skills for fun, focus and resilience.” Using ninja training and martial arts as a fun framework, these cards help kids increase their focus, compassion, emotional balance and awareness. $18.95, ages 5-9, Shambhala.com

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QEEPSAKE Capture your child’s milestones with this easy-touse app. Members receive daily texts, prompting them to text back a moment or milestone with a photo.

Qeepsake securely builds these texts and photos into a digital journal that can be shared with family and printed into a book. $95.88, Qpsake.com

Describes what anxiety is, how it works and how to manage it. This guide also explains self-advocacy and “translates” the common (and strange) things adults say about anxiety. $14.99, ages 9-13, FreeSpirit.com

OUISI GAMES (“WE-SEE”) A set of 210 photo cards with games and activities that foster creativity and ignite curiosity. Each photo card connects visually with other photo cards in the deck, based on similar patterns, shapes, colors— really, anything you can imagine. $35, ages 4+, shop.OuiSi.co

Unfold the book, turn down the lights and switch on a flashlight to be transported into a world of imagination. These magic books will inspire parents and kids to share nightly stories. $39.90, ages birth+, ShadowPlay.store

MY FIRST PUZZLEDINOSAUR Double-sided puzzle pieces feature dinosaurs on one side and bones/skeletons on the other. Great for building problem-solving skills and imagination.

The number of pieces increase step-by-step to challenge toddlers through their developmental growth. $13.99, ages 2-4, Toiworld.com

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MATH CHALLENGED!

QUESTION: My son hates math with a passion. Right now, he is taking algebra for the second time and getting terrible grades.

I thought math would be easier for him now that students have returned to school in person and are no longer virtual students.

However, my son still struggles with math. He has a tutor at school twice a week, so it is difficult to understand why he is not doing better. Do you have any ideas about things that could be done to improve his math grades?

– Weak in Math

ANSWER: Math is definitely a sequential subject, and if your son does not have a solid foundation, it will be difficult to construct the building. Obviously, the tutor has not been working on filling in earlier gaps in his algebra learning. If your son does not see how the pieces fit together, he will not be able to process the new information he needs to learn. The tutor is probably only helping him with the current problems your son is being assigned. More than likely, your son has one or more key math concepts he has not mastered that are causing a good part of his difficulty with algebra.

This is the reason why tutoring may not help many students in any grade having trouble with math.

Your son needs to be given an assessment test in math that will pinpoint any weak areas (concepts) that are likely to be causing him to have problems with algebra. By addressing those, your son should be able to handle algebra better.

In addition, you should look into the possibility of a learning disability, as your son may be eligible for different support and some accommodations. Finally, you might want to look for a new tutor with a different approach to math. And be careful to watch your attitude toward math. If you hated it with a passion when you were in school, some of your attitude may be rubbing off on your son.

Point out to your son that the more he works on math, the better he is likely to become. Some students really improve when they go beyond the assigned work to do additional similar problems.

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COMPREHENDING FICTIONAL STORIES QUESTION: My child in third grade does not always understand the fictional stories she reads. She frequently does not see what the plot is or the motivation of the characters. Earlier she seems to have had a better idea of what was happening because the books had a lot of illustrations.

Is here any easy technique that might help her? – Seeking Help ANSWER: There is something that you can do as a parent to help your daughter get a better picture of what is happening in a story. Your daughter needs to learn to form a mental picture of what is happening when she is reading a story. Start by reading a story to her. Do not show her any of the illustrations. Stop after a few descriptive sentences or a paragraph and tell her what you see in your mind about what is happening in the story. You can share a mental picture of what a character or setting looks like to you or describe what action is occurring. Do explain that your mental pictures help you understand the story.

Continue sharing your mental pictures as you read through the story. Then tell what you see and ask her to share what she sees.

You will need to do this for some time before seeing mental images becomes a solid and helpful skill for your child.

LACKING SLEEP PARENTS: You may be surprised to learn that your children could be sleep deprived. Elementary school children should have from nine to 10 hours of sleep per night. The effects of not getting enough sleep night after night accumulate and can even cause children to have problems in school. Teachers say they see children doze off in class, and the Association of Elementary School Principals reports that sleep-deprived children can’t concentrate on their schoolwork, have trouble remembering things, may become irritable and fidgety, and may be vulnerable to colds and flu.

Today, a major reason for children’s staying up too late is increased demands on their time.

Your children may be involved in too many activities or may be assigned too much homework.

Children in elementary school should usually have about 10 minutes of homework for every year in school. It’s also possible they are spending too much time on electronic media.

Sometimes, the reason children are staying up later may be physiological. As children move through elementary school, they will naturally fall asleep later even if they have the same bedtimes.

This is especially true when they enter puberty.

Tips for Helping with Homework Set up a homework-friendly work environment.

Schedule a regular study time in a cool, calm place filled with supplies. If your kids have the materials to be successful, that’s one less reason they might not finish their homework. Always have paper, pens and pencils ready to go.

Eliminate or keep distractions to a minimum.

Things like the television, loud music and cell phones are okay for parties or social gatherings, but not so much for an effective homework environment. Be mindful of what you allow in a place of focus. If you allow distractions to happen, you’ll only blame yourself later. Trust me.

Watch for signs of frustration.

It’s so easy to get caught up in whether the assignment gets finished or pushed to the side.

But be conscious of the student—your child—and whether he is showing signs of discomfort or frustration. If he is, have him take a second to relieve a little stress. Deep breaths usually work. Inhale relief and exhale stress. Have him step completely out of the work environment and back into it when he’s ready. You want to make sure the assignment gets completed, but you also want to make sure your child is learning along the way. Stress free.

Don’t do it for them.

Being suckered into doing homework isn’t as crazy as it may sound. Kids are tricky, and parents don’t like to see their children struggle. Especially if you can be their relief. But guiding them and completely taking over are two completely different things. Just make sure you let them do the work. If you do all the work, what exactly are they learning?

Motivate, supervise and praise

Let your children know you care. Ask about quizzes and upcoming tests. Don’t hover over them while they do their homework, but make sure you’re available to answer or walk through any difficult questions they may have. Periodically check in to make sure the work gets finished. Let them know all the great things that come from finding out the answers themselves. Last but not least, PRAISE them! Encouragement goes a long way.

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Jessica Samuel lives in Kansas City and is a freelance writer and photographer.

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PRESIDENTS DAY ACROSS MISSOURI AND KANSAS Originally set aside as a day to honor George Washington and Abraham Lincoln, Presidents Day is now a day to remember and honor all U.S. presidents. Celebrate the presidency locally with these outings:

Special Events in February with Presidential Connections: Jabari Dreams of Freedom Feb. 11 at Midwest Trust Center.

Ten-year-old Jabari loves to paint. Through these paintings, he escapes the turbulent world around him and the reality of a friend’s violent encounter with police. In his dreams, he meets children and young people from the Civil Rights Era, including Ruby Bridges and Claudette Colvin, who teach him how to be fearless. He also meets his hero, former U.S. President Barack Obama, as a young boy on the eve of the assassination of Martin Luther King, Jr. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center/events A Toast to General Washington Feb. 25 at Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. This adults-only event celebrates General George Washington’s birthday. Enjoy 19th-century tavern games and sample some adult beverages of the time.

Pre-reg at Mahaffie.org.

The Man from Missouri: President Harry S. Truman: Harry S. Truman Presidential Library: The library reopened in 2021 with newly renovated and fresh exhibits. The new permanent exhibit, “Harry S. Truman: An Ordinary Man, His Extraordinary Journey,” tells the story of Truman’s life beginning with his early years as a Midwestern farm boy who never went to college. It then follows his early careers and rise to leadership and examines his enduring character. The exhibit is biographical, inspiring future generations “to understand both the possibilities and the responsibilities of American citizenship.” Throughout the museum, guests experience the Truman era through historical exhibits, tour the Truman working office and visit gravesites. Hours: Wednesday through

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Saturday 9:00-3:00 and Sundays noon-5:00. Timed entry tickets are required and must be purchased online in advance.

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Truman Courtroom & Office: The Truman Courthouse has a history that dates back to before Independence’s most famous (and only) U.S. president served as the presiding judge of Jackson County. Available for guided tours Monday through Saturday at 11:00 and 2:00. JCHS.org Truman Home: Tour the home where President and Mrs. Truman lived, see the famous apple green kitchen, simple furnishings and artifacts. NPS.gov/hstr

Kansas Likes Ike: President Dwight D. Eisenhower: Eisenhower Presidential Library and Museum: The Eisenhower Presidential Library and Eisenhower Museum also recently celebrated a renovation and reopening to the public with brand new exhibits. The all-new 25,000 square feet of museum exhibit space includes recent innovations in technological components and interactive exhibits to engage audiences of all ages and learning styles. The site includes a visitor center, Dwight D. Eisenhower’s boyhood home, the Place of Meditation and the library and museum, all in a parklike setting. Eisenhower.Archives.gov

Presidential Statues and Artwork across Kansas City: George Washington Statue: Located in Washington Square Park (Pershing Road & Grand) near Crown Center, the 16-foottall, 11,000-pound statue depicts General George Washington astride his horse at Valley Forge during the American Revolution.

Abraham Lincoln and His Son Tad Statue: Located on the south plaza of the Kansas City, MO, City Hall, the 10-foot-tall, 2,500-pound statue shows President Lincoln sitting in a chair holding a book and gazing at his son Tad.

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arly education lays the foundation to help kids make a smooth transition from infancy into the school years. Research has found that kids who attend preschool programs are better prepared for kindergarten. Are you searching for the right early learning program? Follow these tips to help you find the right preschool for your child.

Start Your Search Early Many schools have a waitlist, so it’s important to start the preschool search months before your child is ready to enroll.

Researching preschools can be a lengthy process, so start early. Some communities offer early education fairs, and many preschools hold open houses. Take advantage of these events to help make your decision early. The earlier you decide on a school, the more likely you will be able to secure a spot

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experiences and what the pros and cons were of the school. Referrals will give you an idea of what schools you might want to tour and learn more about. You can also read reviews about schools online, but don’t rely simply on online reviews to make your decision.

Meet the Teachers for your child when he reaches enrollment age. Never assume you are starting your search too early. I joined a waitlist for a childcare facility when I was pregnant and didn’t receive a phone call about an open spot until my daughter was 3 years old.

Referrals Talk to your friends, family and neighbors about what preschools they chose for their children and why. Ask about their

You will usually meet with the preschool director when taking a tour. However, the teachers are who your children will be spending most of their time with. Studies show that teachers with higher education usually translate to higher levels of care.

Search out teachers who have formal training, such as a college degree in child development, early childhood education or a related field. You will also want to see whether the teacher is positive and in good

spirits with the students. Ask whether you can sit in on a classroom. Is the teacher interactive and engaging? Does she use positive discipline? Is the classroom under control? And most importantly, are the children learning and having fun? It’s also important to look at the staff turnover rate.

Constant staff changes can be distracting to your child’s learning environment. Every school has minimums regarding teacher to child ratio. Does the school meet the minimums?

Full Time or Part Time?

A big decision when selecting a preschool is whether your child is ready for a full day of school or would do better in a part-time program. According to a study by the Journal of the American Medical Association, children are better prepared for learning and social interaction in full-time preschool than in part-time programs.

However, every child is different. Not all children will be prepared to start a full-time program. For example, a child who has never been in childcare outside of her home might not feel as comfortable spending an entire day away from her parents, and a child who takes a two-hour nap every day might be better suited for a half-day program, so he can get home in time to rest.

Many children start part-time preschool at the age of 3 and transition to full-time preschool when they turn 4.

Ask About Philosophy Kimberly Cordonnier, children’s program director at UCP of Northwest Missouri and mother of two from St. Joseph, MO, says parents should make sure the philosophy of the school aligns with what they value in their child’s early education. For example, some programs focus mainly on academics while others incorporate social skills along with academics.

Cordonnier says there are two different types of learning structures in the preschool setting. Teacher-led structure is more academic based. “The teacher is the one deciding what to teach young children and what experiences they should have,” she says. “Classroom time is devoted to learning letters and sounds, distinguishing shapes and colors, telling time and other

Preschool programs for young children are becoming more and more common. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, 68 percent of 4-year-olds and 40 percent of 3-yearolds were enrolled in a preschool program in 2017. However, the National Institute of Child Health and Development (NICHD) found that fewer than 10 percent of the facilities it surveyed fall in the “very high quality” category.

skills. The teacher seems to follow a thematic curriculum that involves drills and practice. The focus seems to be more on memorization and not focused on developing the whole child.”

Child-led learning is more play-based.

Teachers observe the children’s interests and choose topics that align with those interests. “Teachers are able to introduce social emotional skills along with academic concepts that include hands-on experiences based on the children’s interests,” Cordonnier says. “Child-led activities are more meaningful to young children, and more learning is taking place. Child-led activities allow children to be creative and work on their problem-solving skills.”

Read the Handbook Before you enroll your child, make sure you read the entire parent handbook. Ensure the school’s hours, holiday schedule, tuition rates, vacation and other policies work for you and your family. Typically, schools have other fees that aren’t included in the tuition, such as registration fees, supply fees, technology fees, fees for field trips and daily

snacks. Calculate all costs involved before signing the agreement. Some schools also have annual tuition increases, so keep that in mind as well.

Trust Your Gut A parent’s intuition is usually right, so trust your gut instincts. If the classroom looks fun and joyful while you’re taking a tour, and the children seem engaged and excited, that’s a good sign. If you and your child feel comfortable and have a good first impression of the school and its staff, you may have found the right preschool.

If something doesn’t seem right, ask more questions and address any concerns you might have. Feel free to make an unexpected visit to see how the preschool runs outside of visiting hours. The most important thing is to find a place where your child loves to come learn every day.

Regan Lyons is a girl mom and freelance writer. She lives with her husband, Cale, and daughters, Atley, 7, and Ensley, 1, in St. Joseph, MO. kcparent.com february 2022

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ecrets of less stressed parents” sounds like a direct contradiction of terms, doesn’t it? Believe it or not, although there aren’t really secrets, there are some simple and fairly easy ways to not only destress yourself, but also to lessen the stress in your life!

One important, and probably overlooked, way to lessen your stress as a parent is to plan ahead and manage your time. This will look different depending on your family dynamics, work obligations, extracurricular activities and similar variables. Some people feel having a plan is too restrictive to their days, weeks, years. However, having a plan helps quell stress before it even has a chance to creep in.

Lauren Sasche, Overland Park mom of two, says, “Managing stress for me is planning ahead as much as possible, like by batching as many of my tasks as I can. I do all my laundry on Mondays, try to throw together outfits as I go, and have them set out so there is less to do in the morning. I plan the week’s meals on Sunday and do a big Instacart order to get us through the week. The more I can do in one sitting the more my brain is freed up for other things, and this limits my stress.”

Planning ahead also helps you manage your time and be more productive and efficient. Vicky Payne, an Overland Park mom of three, says, “With kids in a lot of different activities and most of our nights busy running around, I try to squeeze in exercise in conjunction with their activity (like walk the track during swimming lessons). I need exercise to sleep well and need to sleep well to function properly. It’s a win for all: My boys get their activities, and I get my exercise!”

Aside from planning ahead, channeling your inner Elsa and “letting it go” is another stress reducing technique. As a parent, you certainly can’t do all or be all, so something has to go. Carly Hughes, Shawnee mom of two, agrees. “I’m learning to let things go more,” she says. “I just can’t do it all! I was/am a control freak, but trying to be in charge of everything just makes me too stressed out and anxious.

I’ve said ‘no’ more, not worried as much if things don’t get done, and honestly, I’ve just ‘let’ my husband do more because I finally realized how much I need his help. Luckily, he was happy to take more on, and I couldn’t be more thankful.” Letting it go might not mean asking your husband to help, but maybe for

you it looks like setting a timer and cleaning what you can in 30 minutes. Or maybe it looks like hiring someone to clean your house once a month. It could look like you saying no to things, even if they are good things! It might even mean prioritizing yourself first.

Speaking of prioritizing yourself, the final secret for lessening stress is ... you guessed it … self care! We already know this, but why is it so hard to do? You may think you don’t have time for, or can’t afford, self care. You may feel unworthy of self care or not even know what it looks like at this stage of your life. But if you have ever heard the phrase, “You can’t pour from an empty cup,” then you know how important taking time for yourself is. In fact, Melody Anderson, Overland Park mom of two, says this: “Humanizing ourselves as parents and taking a break, even for 60 seconds, can change how we handle a situation and how much stress builds up during the day.” A 60-second break can be as simple as walking outside for a breath of fresh air, sipping your coffee, lighting a candle or putting some music on. If you feel like you have a little more time for a break, try Jeanna

Repass’s 10-minute stress relieving idea. An Overland Park mom of three, Repass shares, “A tip I use is 5 + 5 for 10. When I am super stressed, I tell myself 10 minutes is all I need. I do a five-minute devotion or prayer, which gives me five minutes to think about something other than what is causing me stress. Then, I put on a song—any kind of song—and lie flat on the floor and listen to the music for five minutes. That 10 minutes helps drain the stress away. The best and hardest part is the 10 minutes. Most of us don’t have any more than that to give.”

For others like Katie Horner, an Overland Park mom of two, self care is a way of life.

“Being a wife, mom and teacher doesn’t leave much self care time. But when I set aside time for myself, I am a better person, which in turn helps me handle stress. For me, this looks like getting up every morning at 4:40 to work out. I use this time to work out because it is something I love to do that clears my mind and gives me a fresh start to every day.

Any stresses, worries and concerns go out the door when I start my workout. Once I am done, I can take on anything!”

So there you have it! You are equipped to destress yourself! Only kidding, of course, because I know it’s not quite that simple. That stress has harmful effects on our bodies is no secret, so don’t delay trying to reduce it. Just pick one thing you can do today and one small action step you can put into place. Write it down in your planner or on your bathroom mirror or, better yet, tell a friend who can hold you accountable. Start the slow, but important, process of letting go of the stress in your life.

I guarantee you’ll be glad you did.

What causes the most stress in your life?

• job • money • relationships • family • kids • time (lack of!)

• societal expectations

Julie Collett writes from her home in Overland Park, where she is a wife and mom of four.

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aking our children feel special and loved is always a top priority, and it’s especially important around Valentine’s Day. Spending quality time together is one way to make our children feel cherished, and scheduling a date night with your child can build your relationship while making unique memories.

Finding the time for a date night with your child is only part of the struggle.

Figuring out what to do once you set aside that time can also be quite the task. Many are the possible activities for a date night with your child, but simply spending time together is most important.

Finding your sense of adventure Doing activities on your child’s level of enjoyment is key to making great memories.

Does your child run high with energy and have a sense of adventure? If so, play laser tag, go to the trampoline park or do indoor skydiving, roller skating or rock climbing for an ideal evening together.

These activities may or may not be your idea of a fun night out, but your child will enjoy engaging with you in the activities that bring him joy. And the inevitable unplanned or comical moments resulting from these activities will bring laughs for years to come. In the end, you might also be surprised by how much you enjoy getting a little crazy yourself.

Instead of planning a single date with your child, consider an ongoing activity you learn together, whether that be taking martial arts classes or learning a musical instrument. Learning new skills side by side can create an important bond, and your child will always remember the intention you gave to learn something together. There could even be some friendly parent-child competition to see who can progress more quickly in the skill.

Outings with a purpose Being adventurous and learning new skills is one way of spending quality time, but it’s also fun to have more formal experiences and get dressed up for a night out. To that end, father/daughter dances are always thoughtful ways to make memories and make girls feel special.

Of course, going out to eat at a favorite restaurant is always an option for a date with your child, and it gives the opportunity to have a great conversation when you are not engaged in other activities. Consider making it a progressive dinner and visiting different restaurants for appetizer, main dish and dessert.

Another memorable date could be going to a fine arts performance. Not only will taking in a concert or theater performance together make an extraordinary outing, the experience will cultivate in your child an appreciation for the arts. Kansas City offers a wealth of opportunities to experience the arts, from events at the Kauffman Center to productions put on by local high schools.

Doing hands-on art together is always fun, too, so consider attending an art or crafting class or even going to a series of classes to see how your work improves over time.

Try checking out museums such as Science City and plan a day of activities while you are at it. In the past, my son and I have enjoyed parking and eating at Crown

Professional sports games are always great ways to bond and build lifelong memories. One of my favorite memories with my dad when I was growing up was going to Columbia for Mizzou football games and eating out before the game.

Hunting and fishing also provide hours of bonding time, the ability to teach a skill to your child—and it’s something you can continue to do together for years to come.

Low-cost ideas Spending a quality day or evening with your child does not have to cost money. For a date with a young daughter, a tea party at home can be perfect. Making dinner or baking together is another way to enjoy special time at home without spending much money.

Game night at home is a simple way to make memories, so have a collection of games you can turn to whenever you have some down time. Local mom Jennifer Foley says she enjoys card games and Candy Land with her daughter.

Quality one-on-one time with the kids demonstrates love, intention and fun.

Center followed by going over to explore Science City, checking out the free train exhibit at Union Station and then taking the streetcar to the River Market. There is so much to do along this route we cannot do it all in one outing, so we’ve gone back repeatedly.

Another parent-child date idea might involve doing a familiar activity but with more focus and attention than before.

Perhaps you have been to the zoo countless times with your child and groups of friends, but you might find it even more meaningful to go, just the two of you, and discuss your favorite animals and observations.

Local mom Michelle Aldrich says she enjoys taking her son to Brookside Toy & Science, where there are no electronic toys, and everything requires family interaction.

She also enjoys bowling and riding the Ferris wheel together at Scheels, going book shopping at KD’s Books in Lee’s Summit and having family dinner nights with her son at Lulu’s Thai Noodle Shop.

“Anything that can remove us from technology for a while is a win,” Foley says.

Hikes and bike rides are also inexpensive ways to make memories, encourage conversation and discover new places.

Stepping away from the distractions of life and into the great outdoors gives special times to talk with each other. A date with your child could simply be a bike ride to McDonald’s for ice cream, but this could also become a go-to activity whenever there is something important to discuss.

When kids learn early on that you greatly value your time and conversation with them, they will feel secure in the foundation of your relationship and that fosters a delightful family closeness.

b b b b b b b b b Allison Gibeson is a Lee’s Summit writer and mom who enjoys going bowling with her son. kcparent.com february 2022

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ids love to feel special, and it can be a challenge to find the time to come up with ways to make a birthday a knockout. Never fear! Below are four ideas for birthday traditions to start with your own kids. Pick and choose a few of them each year—and stick with the ones you and your birthday kid love!

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Rise and shine. I like to wake my kids up on their birthday not with “Get up!

It’s time for school!” but with an extra long snuggle and the condensed version of the day they were born. Who doesn’t like to hear their birth story?! Adopted and foster children can be told how they were meant to be brought into the family and how special they are.

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Birthday letter. Every year I type

up a birthday letter for each of my children, telling them what great things they did and said and learned during the past year. I give the birthday child a

Birthday slideshow. With just a few

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You even can add some music if you like.

After your child watches it about a zillion times, save it to a CD and pop it in a special place (safe deposit box, fireproof box, etc.) so your child will always have it.

Four Birthday Traditions 4 Special treat.

You’ll Want to Try copy, then save a copy in a binder and on my computer for myself, because we all know kids can’t keep track of stuff.

The plan is to give each of my children a copy of all their letters when they move out, which means they’ll have somewhere between 18 and 30 letters to enjoy!

We like to hit the cupcake restaurant or grab huge, frosted cookies from a local baker and share with our friends and neighbors to spread the celebration around. A cheap— and just as special—route would be to make your child’s favorite dessert at home.

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Privacy and Teens: How Much Is Too Much?

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nce upon a time, your children loved hanging out with you. They felt comfortable telling you every detail of their day, snuggling up to watch a movie, and didn’t mind if you asked them questions. Then, as if overnight, they grew taller, their voices began changing, and they slowly morphed into teenagers. During this sometimes bewildering time in their lives, their brains are rapidly developing, they’re gaining new thinking skills, and they’re developing new social interests. What’s more, they crave more privacy and space as they figure things out. Although the desire to seclude themselves is a natural part of growing up, how much privacy should parents allow?

Giving teens their own space is a huge adjustment at first. And though you may fear your teen wants privacy because she has something to hide, giving her the benefit of the doubt will help you build trust with her. Think back to when you were a teenager. You, too, wanted to be trusted and thought of as mature, independent and responsible. Allowing your own teen some

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space and privacy will work wonders for his development.

In today’s world, however, new technologies pop up every day—such as GPS tracking. Some parents are using tracking apps and devices to track their teen’s location throughout the day. Some parents don’t see this as an issue, but others believe it goes too far.

“I think tracking our teens is okay,” Kansas City mom Tanya Henre says. “There are so many dangers that weren’t around when we were teens. Plus, teens tend to feel invincible, and some are gullible when it comes to danger.”

Kansas City mom Yvonne Fee, however, admits to having mixed feelings. “I believe tracking apps only work best when kids are old enough to be more independent, but I have mixed feelings. On one hand, I’d like to think that my relationship with my child is secure enough for them to be honest about their whereabouts, and using an app undermines that trust. On the other hand, using an app for location tracking gives me peace of mind that shows my teen is where they are supposed to

be,” she says. “Ultimately, I think if parent and teen both view the app as mutually beneficial, it’s okay.”

Experts say that for some, location tracking can possibly damage the connection between you and your teen. Not all teens will be cool with having their location tracked.

In fact, those who resent being watched digitally might disable the location features or figure out ways to work around the GPS to throw their parents off their track. And if you think attaching a secret GPS device to their vehicle will work better, you might be fooling yourself. Some teens may get suspicious and search their car for evidence that you’re watching them. This, in turn, can harm your relationship. But if you work collaboratively with your teen, location tracking can be a positive thing that contributes to your adolescent’s safety. For instance, you may both agree that you only check her location if she’s running late rather than texting her or calling her.

“A location-tracking app can be a useful tool depending on how you use it with your

teen. We use Life360. I think it’s important for safety reasons, so if something happens, you can find each other,” Kansas City mom Vickylyn Acuna says. “However, depending on how parents present it, teens can have a negative perception about it, thinking their parents distrust them. There needs to be a clear understanding of its use and a family discussion on how it’ll be used.”

Fee says, “The need to follow the path of my teens is important when there are no set pickup times for student school activities involving bus arrival. We use Life360 for our entire immediate family. It’s been very helpful with location and knowing what may be happening when text or verbal contact may not be possible.”

Many parents, however, don’t feel that tracking their teens is a good idea. If you decide to completely forego location tracking, try talking with your teen about why. Let him know that when he’s not with you, he is in charge of himself. Reassure him that you’re there for him if he needs help, but he won’t be protected from the choices he makes.

There are a multitude of other ways you can give your teen privacy. Here’s a list of ideas to show your teens you respect their wishes to have more freedom: • Knock on his door before entering his room.

• Give her alone time.

• Don’t snoop through texts or emails on his cell phone.

• Leave her journals and notebooks alone.

• Ask before looking through his backpack or wallet.

• Allow him to see the doctor privately (if it’s his preference).

• Respect her privacy by not snooping in her room.

• Allow him to have private conversations with friends.

How do you know how much freedom your teen is ready for? Experts say to gauge how responsible your teens are with their obligations. Does she get to school on time? Does he respect his curfew? Do they do their homework regularly and

complete chores? If teens are able to do these things without much nagging from you, then it’s probably okay to give them a little more privacy. But remember: too little monitoring can leave teens without the help and support they may need to make safe decisions about their life and relationships. By no means, though, does this mean you should hover over their shoulders and demand details about everything. That can backfire and make your teens think you don’t trust them.

Your goal as a parent should be to invoke a trusting environment for your teens where they can get the support they need to learn how to navigate life and make responsible decisions. With a little extra space and privacy, your teens will be able to build the confidence and independence they need.

Gina Klein resides in Kansas City with her husband, two daughters and houseful of rescue animals.

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Keys to Raising a Reader

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aising readers has been one of the delights of my motherhood journey. I loved to read all throughout my childhood and into young adulthood. Then my love for reading perked up a little when I had my first baby, as I would read to her a few books before each nap and even read the Narnia series to her before and during her afternoon nap while she drank her milk.

I enjoyed it so much that I did the same with both of my sons as well, so that series will always hold a special place in my heart.

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about 2 years old, I discovered podcasts, specifically the What Should I Read Next? podcast with Anne Bogel. It reignited my love for stories and made me want to read the books they were discussing. Then we moved four years ago—within a mile of our new beautiful library that we pass each time we leave from or return to our house and can easily walk to on the trail from our house to downtown. That convenience has made my trips to the library much more frequent. Another thing that allowed me to read more books was diving into audiobooks which are also conveniently available from the library!

But how do you raise readers? First of all, the common phrase that each child is different is important to remember even within the same family. But I think early and frequent exposure is key to associating reading with pleasure. Reading to babies is a special bonding moment and such a learning experience for them whether they are infants, toddlers, early readers or middle grade readers. Books can teach young children so many new words and concepts in a safe place like your lap or in bed.

Snuggling in and reading stories together can become a favorite part of their day, as well as yours. Kelly Stanczyk, mother of two, says, “We have ‘book parties.’ We gather a big stack of books and a yummy treat and read, read, read.

Sometimes we bake something special together or pop popcorn. My son has known from an early age I’ll drop most anything to read him a book. It’s a priority to me to read and for him to love books.

He’s used and abused this knowledge on many occasions.”

Checking out story times offered at local libraries and bookstores can be a fun outing to meet others, hear other people read in various voices and make the library a fun place to go. The library is also a place where kids can choose books that interest them, and they can choose however many books they can carry home—within reason of course. Katie Lee, mom of five, advises, “Lots of library visits when they are little, sometimes multiple times a week, for story times and to bring home lots of different books. Books are always available at home, and they read a lot alone and together. If they want a book, I try to let them read what they want as they get older. My four older kids are avid readers, and our toddler is hopefully on the way to that as well.”

Reading increases vocabulary so much in these young kids. There are definitely differences in attention spans, however. You you may have a child that will sit in your lap all day listening to you read, or you may have a child you have to encourage or reward for listening to one book before you move on to the next activity. If your child is of the second variety, don’t be discouraged or give up. That five-minute story you insist

on adds so much vocabulary to your child’s brain each time you read. Our library also offers a program you could treat like a challenge to complete together. It’s called 1000 Books Before Kindergarten, and you can check out the website to learn more at 1000BooksBeforeKindergarten.org.

When children move on to learning to read, patience is required! This can be a hard time for parents to remember not to rush reading and that each child has her own pace for when things to start to click.

Children really do need to learn things in order, such as identifying letters, learning sounds and moving on to sounding out words and recognizing sight words.

Beginning with simple challenges like BOB books boosts kids’ self-esteem. They know that they really can read a book—even if you are tired of hearing the same tiny book over and over. As they progress along their reading level, stay patient and engaged.

Sometimes it’s nice to alternate pages of your reading to them and their reading to you to keep the story moving along. It’s also imperative during this stage that you’re still reading picture books and early chapter books to your kids like you did before they were learning to read. This keeps reading fun for them—not just work—because they get to listen to the stories they love.

As children become more advanced readers, continue to read to them. I still read bedtime stories to all of my children who are 6, 10 and 11. It’s just part of our evening routine we enjoy doing together before bed. I usually read one or two picture books for my youngest son’s sake (though most children still enjoy picture books even if they’re older), and then we read one or two chapters of a middle grade book they all can enjoy. This way my middle son still gets reading time in at night, even if it’s my reading aloud to him, because he doesn’t care to read on his own that much. I love when we have inside jokes from some of those books we’ve read!

We also like to choose books that have a movie we can watch after we’re finished reading, like Charlotte’s Web, The BFG and Harry Potter.

Another way I promote reading with my kids is to let it be the only thing they can do before bed to help them wind down

until lights are turned off. My oldest is then allowed to read for 30-60 minutes after our family reading time—it’s one of her favorite times of day because she adores reading.

Stanczyk has a similar rule in her house: “We have a light in my son’s room that stays on for about an hour after bedtime, and he can look at books as long as he wants until the light goes out (he can turn it off early if he wants). This gives us the early bedtime we need as parents to have some kid-free time before bed, but the later bedtime he needs, as well as encouraging reading time.”

Another way to raise readers who relish reading is making sure you are open-minded about what they are reading.

Comic books and graphic novels are still books that children are reading, even if you would love for them to read a favorite of yours that you read at their age. Find books with topics that interest your children, whether that be nonfiction books about dinosaurs, Lego books, a series on horses or a series on dragons.

Letting them read what interests them and trying various types of reading, picture books, chapter books, ebooks, audiobooks, read-alouds or even buddy reading a book together, allows reading to stay fresh.

Take kids to author visits, let them get excited about their Scholastic book fair and orders, hunt for Little Free Libraries together, help them start their own book club and frequent your local library and indie bookstores together. The library has a variety of ways to listen to audiobooks these days, including playaways, CDs and

apps for tablets and smartphones. Utilize your school and public librarians to assist you in finding titles to have your child try.

Modeling reading is another important aspect of raising readers. Show your children that you choose to spend time reading and enjoy doing so, and you show them they can choose to spend their time reading too. Discuss what you’re reading for some fun, too. As your children get a little older, listen to audiobooks together in the car or before bed for a fun way to bond, too. We have listened to a few on audio while running errands and traveling to and from their extracurricular activities.

It’s always fun when they don’t want you to turn the car off so they can keep listening!

There are many ways to encourage your child’s love of reading, so just keep trying the tips mentioned above, sampling new genres or exploring different book formats until you find what sticks for your child. Gina Tireman, mother of two, has another fun way to invigorate her daughter’s interest in reading. She says, “My daughter was not a big reader, which I am, so it was disappointing. I found this monthly box subscription for tween girls at BetweenTheBookendsBox.com that has gotten her interested in reading.”

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 11, Mason, 10, and Slade, 6, and enjoys reading every day with her kids. She also shares some favorite titles on her Bookstagram account @stephanielovesbooks on Instagram.

Cara Johnson, teacher and mother of three, shares these tips: • Read to and with your kids. We like to make it part of the bedtime routine.

• Use graphic novels to kickstart reluctant readers or just as a good starting point for early readers. Dog Man was/is a favorite for my boys.

• Read a book and then watch the movie together.

• Get them their own library cards and let them choose what they think looks interesting.

• Don’t forget about nonfiction reading. My boys loved to read about animals and their habitats.

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Pampering Your Spouse TIPS FOR BUSY PARENTS

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hen you become a parent, life seems to become very busy very quickly. Lack of sleep and busyness with work, school, activities and care of little ones often weigh down the grownups at home.

While juggling schedules and managing the household, parents must become more intentional about spending quality time with each other. Show your spouse love and appreciation with a little extra pampering this Valentine’s Day. Here are some ideas that are meaningful—but not impossible—for a busy couple.

GO TO THE SPA What could make your spouse feel more pampered than a day at the spa? Offer to take care of the kids and send your partner off to the salon for a day of relaxing—or get a babysitter and go as a couple. If a spa isn’t your partner’s thing, offer to take the kids while he or she spends the day doing a favorite pastime. Your spouse is sure to come home rejuvenated.

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When our children were young, a babysitter was not in the budget.

My husband and I would put the kids to bed early once a week and either get takeout or cook a special meal at home. No television, phones or electronics. Just conversation and quality time together. For busy parents, a quiet night in is a perfect way to unwind.

Let your spouse know you are thinking about him or her by sending a surprise to the workplace. Flowers are nice but also try cookies, balloons or a homemade treat. You could even mail a card with a special note to the workplace or take your spouse to lunch if schedules allow.

DATE NIGHT A date night is another great way to connect with your spouse. Plan a night on the town doing things you and your spouse enjoyed before you became parents. If hiring a babysitter isn’t an option and family is unable to help, try swapping with another couple. Watch their children for them while they enjoy a date night one weekend, and they can watch your children the next weekend while you and your spouse go out on the town.

DO THEIR “JOB” In most relationships, responsibilities are divided up between the two people, whether intentionally or not. As a way to pamper your significant other, do one of his or her “jobs” without being asked. For example, if your spouse always mows the lawn, you do it one weekend. If your spouse usually does all the grocery shopping, offer to do it one evening. Another idea is to let your partner have a “day off ” when you take over all the responsibilities that day.

LEAVE A NOTE If you want to make your spouse feel special, leave love notes. Simple and sweet notes like “Thinking of you,” “I love you” or “Have a great day” will let your partner know you care. Have fun with it and try leaving notes in a coat pocket, in that favorite coffee mug, in the car or anywhere else you know will be sure to surprise.

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PICK UP A FAVE One of my favorite ways to let my husband know I am thinking about him is to just pick up a favorite of his while I am out. If I am at the gas station, I grab his favorite drink, gum or candy. At the grocery store, I pick up his favorite ice cream or snack. I rent a movie he likes, cook his favorite meal or buy him a shirt with his favorite sports team logo. It doesn’t have to be an expensive gift, just something to let him know I was thinking of him while I was out.

The demands of parenting can leave little time for romantic dates with your spouse. This doesn’t mean that working on your marriage and making your spouse feel loved and appreciated isn’t high priority. During the busy years of parenting, try these tips to show your spouse you care and keep your marriage going strong.

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BREAKING BAD BEHAVIOR The Big Ones to Stop Now

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hildren know how to press their parents’ buttons. It’s how they’re wired.

In fact, on a number of occasions I have wondered if their actual job title is “Make Mom Crazy at All Costs.” Whether that means jumping on the couch (again) or running away from sight at the grocery store and giving us a heart attack (again), kids are constantly nudging their boundaries.

And although we cannot possibly harp on every little misdemeanor, we need to address some of them swiftly, before they become habits.

Here are three bad behaviors to nip in the bud.

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TYPICAL KID BEHAVIOR: Talking, talking and more talking Unacceptable Kid Behavior: Interrupting Children do not inherently perceive conversational points of entry. In their minds, everything is urgent because they are the most important thing in the world.

Teaching how to find an appropriate moment to share a story or join in a conversation requires practice. An ideal time to do this is at dinner. During a meal, conversations will ebb and flow naturally, but a young child has a hard time discerning when it’s appropriate to tell the table, “I like elephants the most!”

If your child interrupts during a conversation between you and another person during a meal, stop him politely in the moment. Look your child in the eye and explain why he needs to wait to speak. Most importantly, help your child find a natural lull in a conversation to simply say, “Excuse me,” and then share his thought on why he likes elephants the most. This will require a lot of stopping and starting of conversations, but over time, your child will begin to understand why it’s important to wait. When he does adhere to your guidelines, be sure to offer him praise and positive reinforcement.

Unacceptable Adult Behavior: Unreasonable expectations Like expecting a child to sit quietly for 35 minutes while you discuss the NASDAQ performance for the day. Understand you have littles with small amounts of patience and save deep conversations for later.

TYPICAL KID BEHAVIOR: Physicality Unacceptable Kid Behavior: Hitting Kids touch everything, all the time.

They are tactile little beings who are quite literally feeling their way through their surroundings and constantly changing environments. Those little bodies also come with big feelings and emotions. When those emotions are positive, a pat on the back or hug might occur naturally. When those emotions turn negative, little minds don’t always know how to navigate the need for a physical response. When a child gets angry, her blood begins to boil, she feels hot—and she wants to hit something.

Something? Fine.

Someone? No. It’s completely natural to want to direct anger toward whatever is in front of you, like a friend who took your toy. But there must be a hard stop between the want to hit and the action of hitting. Teaching your child to redirect her anger toward something innocuous (and inanimate) is crucial to her development. Find a pillow to punch or a big stuffed bear to squeeze. Better yet, learn to walk away and wait for those emotions to subside. Anything to prevent putting your hands on another person.

If your child struggles with rectifying her behavior despite your best efforts, don’t feel alone. Children don’t come with handbooks and occasionally additional help is needed. Do not feel like a failure if you need to seek out a counselor or anger management professional to help. You’re the better parent for it!

Instead, praise your children appropriately for what they’ve accomplished.

Then when the time comes to really rave (like receiving an A+ on a project that took a lot of hard work), your response will feel genuine, because it is genuine.

If you can teach your children now that telling the truth always, even if it’s less than exciting, results in true, genuine reactions and trusting relationships, they will be set up for a more authentic life later.

Unacceptable Adult Behavior: Hitting

It’s never too late to redirect a bad behavior, even if it’s gone on for a long time.

Yes, there might be some growing pains as you both navigate changing bad patterns that have developed, but the eventual positivity that will arise from a behavior change will be worth it. Stay diligent, stay consistent and model good behaviors as often as you can. It will pay off!

This is not a time for “do as I say, not as I do.” Children learn by example. Show how you can control your own anger by walking away and waiting to calm yourself. Over time, your child will begin to understand that there is an alternative to hitting.

TYPICAL KID BEHAVIOR: Telling really, really long stories Unacceptable Kid Behavior: Lying “And then I hit my baseball 3,000 feet and ran a home run and I got a special award from the coach!”

Being accepted into the social stratosphere is a big deal for our littles.

They want to be loved and feel like they belong, so sometimes they stretch truths to make certain they’re accepted. But children need to learn how to be recognized for their own true merits, not tall tales.

The most difficult aspect about this behavior is it can be tough to catch, and it fast becomes a habit. We’re all guilty of fostering it, too. How many times have you seen your child’s less-than-stellar artwork and raved, “That is the most beautiful drawing of a tree I have ever seen!” While it may seem harmless—and, largely, it is— you are potentially teaching your children that they are the best at everything. It’s an impossible precedent to live up to.

Unacceptable Adult Behavior: Stretching stories for effect You did not “legit” eat your weight in chips at the Mexican restaurant today at lunch. Be willing to check your own bad habits and scale back on your white lies, at least when your kids are around. As they grow and understand nuance, you can dial back up your tall tales.

Three Additional Behaviors to Block: • Whining – No one likes an adult who whines, so do your best to raise a child who knows how to be disappointed within reason. If your child starts to whine, immediately disengage until she can return her voice to a respectable tone and volume.

• Disrespecting you – You are the authority over your child. He can disagree with you and what you’re asking, but he should never disrespect you.

• Invading privacy – There are times and places to engage with people. Reinforce which moments are just for you, and those that are just for your child.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son. kcparent.com february 2022

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Choose an action-packed camp adventure with Lenexa Parks & Recreation. From sampling art in the great outdoors and hands-on science experiments to performing exciting live theatre, your kids will explore new activities, stay active and have a great time. Camp options include spring, summer and winter break camps, as well as other school’s out days. Learn more and register at www.Lenexa.com/GetActive or 913.477.7100. See display ad on pg. 44.

Oakhill Day School Every day is a vacation at Oakhill Fully Charged! Our flexible weekly themed day camps for campers ages two years old Middle School are a high-energy combination of play and creativity! Embark on a journey of what summer should be through field trips, camp-wide water balloon fights, trips to the pool, and more from our fantastic crew of Fully Charged counselors! Enroll online: www.OakhillDaySchool.org/summer. See display ad on pg. 48.

SOAR Special Needs SOAR Special Needs Summer Day Camp is open for all individuals with special needs ages 3 y/o and older. We offer camp in-person from 9:00–4:00 Monday through Friday in Lee’s Summit, Overland Park, and Gladstone. This year our camp theme is SOARing for the Son–Space! We cannot wait to enjoy a variety of fun activities including outdoor, craft, sensory, missions, story time, and more. Registration opens February 28 at www.SOARSpecialNeeds.org.

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Whether you are looking into single day or weeklong camps, or even overnight ones, the best place to start is by figuring out what interests your children. Just because you want them to participate in something doesn’t mean they will want to … and why waste the money or haggle with your kids each time they must go? Meredith, mom of one, says, “My husband and I both enjoyed playing tennis when we were in elementary school, so we signed our 8-year-old up for a weeklong half-day camp. She didn’t enjoy it, and luckily we hadn’t made a long-term commitment of time and money to lessons.”

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which days and weeks are available. While doing this in February can be difficult, at least plug in the things you know to be nonnegotiable. At this time, you’ll also want to consider just how busy you want the schedule to be, which can be different depending on how many children you have and what they are involved in. I thought scheduling several activities into June and basically nothing in July last summer would be great for our family. The reality was, having so much downtime in July was difficult for all four of our kids—and me— so we’ll definitely plan things differently this year!

Once you have determined interests and schedules, do the actual research to see what last piece of the puzzle will fit … the camps!

Angie, mom of two, says, “Start researching camp options early. Some camps offer a discount if you register early, plus this also guarantees a spot for your child in the camp that best fits with your schedule.” Meredith says, “We waited too long to enroll last year

and missed out on a few opportunities we had hoped to participate in.”

Don’t let the many local and nearby options overwhelm you. Chat with other families to see what camps or places come recommended—and maybe even see whether a classmate wants to join your child in camp. This could be particularly helpful if considering an overnight camp.

Summer camp is a time-honored tradition that can create a lifetime of memories. “We are lucky to live in an area with so many great resources!” Meredith says. “City and county recreation centers, school districts, gyms and dance studios offer a wide variety of camps that last anywhere from an hour to a full day. You name an activity, and I bet there is a camp for it!” So, get out there, do your research and start registering!

Julie Collett writes from Overland Park and is hoping her children will want to try a new camp this summer.

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ummer camp? Already? It’ll be here before you know it, and believe it or not, it’s not too soon to begin researching what overnight camp(s) your child may want to participate in this year. It’s not as easy as just signing up, though. At least, it shouldn’t be. As a parent, you’ll want to make sure your child will be happy and well cared for in someone else’s charge. In order for this to happen, be sure to do your research ahead of time and ask questions before you hand over your money—or child.

Here are some important things to ask to ensure you find the perfect camp.

Is my child ready for overnight camp?

How does your child do at sleepovers with friends? Is he excited about the idea of going away? If your child has reasonable social skills and relates well with others, she will do well at camp. Once you’re sure your child is ready, look at the basic requirements. Some camps are open to all kids, while others require certain skills or have other admissions criteria.

Math, science and technology camps, in particular, may have prerequisites.

How long has the camp been in operation and what licenses does it have?

Be aware that state licensing requirements vary widely, and in many cases are minimal. Great news if the camp is accredited by the American Camp Association, but remember that

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some programs are too new or small to get ACA accreditation. And if the camp isn’t the right match for your child’s personality, even an accredited one can be a thumbs-down.

What is the camp philosophy?

What kind of experience do you want your child to have? Will your child get to work in a group, collaborate with other kids and/or learn how to work with a team? Find out how much flexibility the children will have in making their own schedules, how many activities are available and how much unstructured social time there will be. Only you know what your child will need.

What are the qualifications of the director and staff and the ratio of staff to children?

Some camps employ high school or college students, while others require college degrees and more experience.

Both are fine, but make sure the staff is engaged and interested in interacting with the kids. As for the director, it’s important to know how long that person has been directing the camp and what his or her background is. The leader-tochild ratio varies depending on the type of camp. ACA accreditation requirements range from 1:5 for overnight campers who are 4 and 5 years old, to 1:12 for day campers ages 15 to 17.

What are their safety procedures?

Make sure the camp does background checks on all employees, has EMTs nearby, staff trained in CPR and first aid and lifeguards if there will be swimming. If transportation is involved, ask about the training and licensing of drivers, how often vehicles are inspected, etc.

What is their approach to conflicts that may arise?

Too much unstructured time can sometimes lead to conflicts between campers. Ask the camp director directly how they deal with situations like this, and make sure you’re comfortable with it.

What do others say about the camp?

Learn more about the reputation of the camp by checking these three things: its return rate, accreditation status and references. If it’s a good camp, people come back. Ask the director for references. Check out the camp website and online reviews, and you may even visit the physical site.

Happy camping!

Gina Klein is a homeschool mom and author who resides with her two daughters and husband in Kansas City.

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SUMMER 2022 JUNE 6 - AUGUST 5 | TODDLER (AGE 2) - 8TH GRADE Weekly Field Trips Themed Camps Before/After Care Lunch Offerings Optional Swim Lessons Fees Start Under $50/Day

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Summer at Barstow Kansas City’s favorite summer camps for kids ages 3-14! Choose from 600+ offerings. Campers love Summer at Barstow’s action-packed adventures in creative arts, athletics, academics and STEAM, plus field trips to the city’s best attractions. Parents love our experienced instructors, 4:1 camper-to-staff ratio and extended care options. Summer at Barstow offers camps for every budget, age, interest and schedule. May 23Aug. 12. View catalog & enroll at www.BarstowSchool.org/summer. Email summer@barstowschool.org or call 816.277.0445 for more information.

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Summer at Pembroke Hill Summer at Pembroke Hill offers a comprehensive summer camp that provides a variety of academic, athletic

and enriching classes that always include an element of fun! Open to all students ages 2 through 18. Registration begins on Feb. 21, 2022. Classes have limited enrollment, so you are encouraged to enroll early and ONLINE at www.PembrokeHill.org. See display ad on pg. 49.

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Youthfront Camp Happy starts here! Youthfront Camp provides a fun and faith-building camp experience full of outdoor adventure.

We offer day camp for younger campers and overnight stays for elementary, middle and high school students.

Camp features include our splash park on the lake, theme nights, sport courts and more. At Youthfront, kids can grow in their relationship with God and make friendships that last a lifetime! Learn more and register at www.Youthfront.com/summercamp.

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day camps • overnight camps • grades 1-12 splash parks • ropes courses • faith-building activities youthfront.com/summercamp Not sure of your plans? No worries!

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Secrets From the Parenting Trenches

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Sixteen years have melted away since motherhood planted itself firmly into my heart, wrapped its tendrils around my soul and lovingly commandeered my life. I’m amazed at how much I’ve learned in such a short space of time, but I also know raising two boys to develop into responsible, generous and kind young men is a daily education and a work in progress. Nonetheless, here are a few golden lessons I’ve chalked up so far that I can share with you …

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Learn together and take as many opportunities as possible to explore science, nature, music and art.

When your child presents you with a handful of sweaty, wilting dandelions, they become your favorite flowers.

When you are mired in sick days, feeling unappreciated and bonetired, remember that tomorrow is a new day.

Every mom needs a “been-there, donethat” seasoned mom in her life to help put parenthood into perspective, calm anxieties or provide resources.

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Keep a quotes journal for the funny, sweet and poignant things your child says.

The $100 interactive dinosaur exhibit isn’t nearly as fun as the free model train exhibit.

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Kids will forget their backpacks, socks and coats, but they’ll never forget a promise you regret making three days and 21 hours ago.

Sitting in a bathroom in the middle of the night with the shower running to create steam helps a baby suffering with croup.

The steam is also a great way to get a 3:00 a.m. facial.

The ring of dirt left around the bathtub after evening baths is a tell-tale sign that your child had a top-10 day.

When stuck in an airplane with a toddler in meltdown mode, sometimes the only thing you can do is pretend you don’t know him.

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The best time to find out about your child’s day is during car rides, when he doesn’t want to eat his dinner, or bedtime.

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Keep your favorite photo of your child nearby to remind you of his inherent sweetness, especially for those moments when he’s acting like the ultimate punk.

It’s okay if your son doesn’t like sports.

Follow your instincts. The pediatrician isn’t always right. Find a new one if he blows you off or is condescending.

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You’ll discover which of your children has the worst gag reflex when you bring home a new puppy who gets really sick in his crate.

You won’t be the first parent to pick up your wailing child and abandon your shopping cart in the middle of the store.

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Warming up to sing opera in the middle of the grocery store will turn spotlight-averse fighting siblings into model citizens almost immediately.

Counting together backwards from 20 helps an upset child (and parent) calm down.

Pursuing personal interests and goals teaches your children that care-taking is only one of your roles.

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Little boys’ pockets contain a treasuretrove of discoveries.

You may have to ask for your meal to go sometimes, but taking your children to familyfriendly restaurants helps them learn social graces and boundaries in public places.

Share you interests with your child.

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Little boys think it’s fun to sneak up on you and scare you. But if they truly catch you unprepared and you scream, you might make them cry.

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Find a trustworthy, dependable sitter your children like.

Breaks are healthy for both you and your children.

Mud, dirt and boxes provide hours of entertainment.

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Teaching kids to say please and thank you matters.

And chocolate.

Dark. For your heart.

Write notes to your child.

Going outside for a breath of fresh air while your spouse takes over the bedtime routine is a sanity saver on rough days.

A parenting strategy that works with one child might not work with another.

A glass of wine works, too.

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If you want an honest opinion, ask your child.

Chances are he’ll tell you anyway.

Parent time-outs can help you remain calm, cool and collected in a heated moment.

Hugs make everything better. The run, tackle, squeeze hug nearly knocks me off my feet every time.

Teach your child that it’s perfectly acceptable to spend a little time alone to brood, create, read, pray and rest.

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Scheduling time just for you isn’t selfish. Selfcare makes you a better parent.

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Play board games and cards together. Not only will your children learn math and reading skills, they will learn how to win and lose gracefully.

Nurture your children’s interests. Even if they seem a little unusual.

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Spending time with your spouse making dinner and watching a movie after the kids go to bed is almost as fun as a night on the town.

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Talking with and listening to your kids matters, too.

Incentives and rewards work for kids ... and parents.

Begin and end every day with a hug and a kiss.

Experiences are more valuable than stuff.

Kids are curious.

Be curious, too.

Take walks with your child. Walking side by side encourages conversation.

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Boo-boos don’t hurt as much when you stick an Avengers Band-Aid on them.

Save the notes your child writes you.

Forgive yourself. Parenting is tough, and sometimes you do and say the wrong thing.

Every child has the potential to change the world.

Your child already changed yours.

Writer Christa Melnyk Hines resides in Olathe with her family, including a golf-impassioned husband, two busy boys and a lovable mutt.

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Easy Ways to Improve Memory

veryone forgets things from time to time, but it seems the more kids I have, the more forgetful I become.

Forgetting an appointment or an important deadline occasionally is frustrating, and sometimes costly, but when you notice it happening regularly, it’s time to get organized.

What are some easy tips parents can use to improve memory?

WRITE IT DOWN “I am a paper person. I have a spiral notebook I write everything in,” says Olathe mom Jean Janner. “I use them for menu planning, shopping lists, to-do lists, notes from phone calls and doctor appointments, and holiday and vacation planning. I write the date on the front so I can look back if needed.” According to a study done at UCLA, taking notes, rather than typing on a laptop, improves memory. So it follows that taking notes during a meeting, writing to-do and shopping lists and using paper calendars and planners should help you remember more easily.

THERE’S AN APP FOR THAT If you prefer to go paperless, technology offers great tools to help you remember what you have on your plate today.

“Everything, no matter how trivial, goes on a list or calendar in an app I use on my phone,” says Colorado mom Kara Thomas. “I cannot imagine motherhood without it.” Many families like the ease of electronic calendars because they can be shared easily with all family members. “My husband and I have a calendar where we store all our information, which is automatically shared,” says Holly Searls, Olathe mom of four. “I also utilize the alarm function on my phone. I set alarms and name them for recurring events and select the days I want them to go off.” Try alarms for appointments, or as reminders to take medicine or grab the library books for school. The key to using technology effectively is to be diligent about entering the information as soon as it’s received.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF When you are overtired, hungry or stressed, prioritizing, organizing and remembering what needs to be done can be difficult.

A good night’s sleep can do wonders to help improve memory.

Similarly, a healthy diet of food low in saturated fats can help keep your mind sharp. Eating empty calories will cause you to feel tired

and sluggish, making it difficult to focus. If you are already eating and sleeping well, try adding cardiovascular activity to your day. Exercise can greatly improve memory. Depending on your fitness level, start with 10 to 20 minutes of brisk walking each day to give yourself a boost.

THE ART OF MULTITASKING Parents become great multitaskers. We simultaneously pack school lunches, feed the kids breakfast, watch the news and go through a mental checklist for the day. Although this can be a very useful approach, it also can adversely affect memory. When our minds are occupied with multiple things at once, forgetting one of them is far too easy. With the constant bombardment of information in today’s society, breaking this habit can be hard. Try sitting down for a few minutes in the morning to focus on what needs to be done. Prioritize your tasks, set reminders on your phone, make lists and check the calendar to ensure you don’t miss anything important.

CHALLENGE YOURSELF You can improve your memory by doing things you enjoy or trying something new. One way to keep the mind sharp is to take on new challenges on a regular basis. Learn to play the piano or take up knitting, read a book or work on logic puzzles—or simply visit a museum and learn something new. When we keep our minds active and sharp, our memory improves.

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Learn to play an instrument.

Take up a new hobby.

Learn a new language.

Play logic games and puzzles.

Take up knitting or crochet.

Do crafts and/or scrapbook.

Read a book or magazine.

Listen to music or audiobooks.

Play games that involve hand-eye coordination, like tennis or basketball.

• Play videogames.

Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her husband and six children. kcparent.com february 2022

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JUMP to new heights through the Warrior Obstacle Course or Slam Dunk Zone at Urban Air, the ultimate indoor trampoline park with locations in Overland Park and Lenexa (UrbanAirOP.com).

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ART Paint your own ceramic creations at Ceramic Cafe (913.383.0222). They supply the ceramics, the paints and the brushes … you just supply the creative budding artists!

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BUILD an “earthquake proof” Lego tower at Legoland Discovery Center LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com/kansascity), where you can play with the world’s biggest box of Legos, watch a film in the Lego Studios 4D cinema, enjoy rides and explore a miniature Kansas City in Lego Miniland.

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EAT OUT KC boasts several super fun restaurants for families, but the ultimate top pick for KC kids is consistently Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant (FritzsKC.com). Model trains deliver burgers and shakes to your table.

KANSAS CITY ZOO (KansasCityZoo.org) visits are especially fun in the winter, as the animals are especially playful, and the zoo isn’t crowded. The indoor exhibits at the Polar Bear Passage, Helzberg Penguin Plaza, Tropics and Discovery Barn are great on chilly days. Bonus: Weather permitting, enjoy a ride on the carousel or train for more fun.

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FIND TREASURE In 1856, the Arabia steamboat was traversing the Missouri River when her paddle wheel caught a tree snag and she sank. The treasure is now on display at the Arabia Steamboat Museum (816.471.1856).

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COLLECT MONEY The Money Museum (816.881.2683) is a free museum where you’ll learn how the Federal Reserve Bank works and its role in the U.S. economy. Peek into one of the nation’s largest cash vaults, create your own monetary artwork and view coins from each U.S. presidential administration.

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DEDUCE CLUES at the ultimate family-friendly escape room at Tick Tock Escapes (TickTockEscapeRoom. com). Their Pyramid Paradox room is a favorite with incredible special effects reminiscent of an Indiana Jones film.

Teams of six to 10 people are “locked” in a room for an hour, and they solve puzzles trying to figure out how to escape. Each room features a different theme and a different set of puzzles.

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GET OUTSIDE Kansas City is home to many wonderful nature centers. Two favorites: Burr Oak Woods (MDC.mo.gov) offers a large aquarium of Missouri’s freshwater fish, snakes, turtles, toads and more. Lakeside Nature Center (LakesideNatureCenter.org) is home to some of the best animal exhibits in the area.

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LISTEN TO MUSIC Kansas City is known for jazz, and the American Jazz Museum (AmericanJazzMuseum. com) is the perfect place to introduce young music lovers to the local genre.

With wonderful hands-on exhibits and listening centers to explore, the museum invites children to enjoy listening to classic jazz, compose their own pieces and learn about the history of 18th and Vine.

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MARVEL AT MINIATURES The National Museum of Toys and Miniatures (ToyAndMiniatureMuseum. org) is home to dollhouses, miniatures and toys from yesteryear. One of the most fascinating exhibits requires visitors to look at artwork on a grain of rice through a magnifying glass.

The miniature detail in so many pieces throughout the museum is intriguing and delightful.

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NOSE-TO-NOSE views of historical U.S. aircraft include the first Lockheed Constellation ever restored, a Martin 404, a DC-3 and a Lockheed L-1011 TriStar at the Airline History Museum.

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RIDE THE STREETCAR Explore downtown aboard the free Kansas City Streetcar and participate in our free KC Streetcar scavenger hunt (on KCParent.com).

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SPREAD SOME JOY by purchasing a plant to give to a loved one for Valentine’s Day, or just because. Check out Family Tree Nursery (FamilyTreeNursery.com) for a great selection of plants, trees, greenery, shrubs and more!

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VOLUNTEER Help with Harvester’s Food Pantry (Harvesters.org), Children’s Mercy Hospital (ChildrensMercy.org/helpour-kids/volunteer), Great Plains SPCA (GreatPlainsSPCA.org) or another local organization through your house of worship or school. Giving back to the community is an important part of growing up.

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OREGON, CALIFORNIA AND SANTA FE TRAILS The trails played an integral part in shaping Kansas City. At the National Frontier Trails Museum (816.325.7575), you can participate in interactive exhibits as you learn about Western expansion.

The Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm features tours of the farm home and Santa Fe Trail stagecoach stop, as well as actual stagecoach rides.

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PLANETARIUM SHOWS The Gottlieb Planetarium at Union Station (UnionStation.org) offers spectacular presentations featuring starry skies. Programs specialize in interactive astronomy education, public shows and telescope viewing opportunities.

TAKE A SPIN ON THE ICE Our two favorite outdoor rinks are open for the season. Crown Center Ice Terrace (816.274.8411) is open through March 13. The Rink at Zona Rosa (816.208.3690) is open daily through February for public ice-skating, pond hockey, special events and more. For more local rinks, search Winter Sports on KCParent.com.

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UNDERWATER EXPLORATION Walk through an underwater tunnel at Sea Life Kansas City (VisitSeaLife.com/kansas-city). Enjoy up-close views of more than 5,000 sea creatures.

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WALK around Legends Outlets. Shop, take in a movie, eat dinner and learn about local legends with their outdoor sculptures celebrating famous local heroes.

Be sure to head to their website (LegendsShopping.com) to download a fun family scavenger hunt!

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QUELL YOUR CURIOSITY spending a day among the shelves at the local library looking for new books and exploring sections of the library you’ve never explored before. Increase your chances of making a new discovery with a visit to a new branch.

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Nerman Museum offers Contemporary Creations and Early Explorations classes on Saturdays.

View art in the museum and then create a masterpiece.

Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

Backyard Specialists offers Pay for Play on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom!

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Visit the Cupid’s Gems Jewelry Show Feb. 5 in the Thompson Barn.

Enjoy a day with girlfriends or a mother-daughter outing. Shop for handcrafted jewelry.

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Bring stuffed animals to the Teddy Bear Clinic on Feb. 19 at the Kansas City Zoo. Volunteers will nurse stuffed friends back to health.

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On Feb. 21 head to Science City!

School is out for the holiday. but Science City is open today! Bring the kids for a day of learning and fun.

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1 Tuesday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Outdoor Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Kids Glass Fusion 5:00, Ceramic Café. Get instructions to craft a one-of-a-kind creation led by one of our experienced glass creative staff members. CeramicCafeKC.com

Open House 9:00, the Barstow School. Learn all about Barstow! Our admission team is ready to help you find the right school fit.

BarstowSchool.org/admission

For the Love of Chocolate 5:00, Downtown Leavenworth. Enjoy sampling 15+ chocolate inspired offerings. Tickets at LeavenworthMainstreet.com.

Animal Tales Story Time 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Listen to a story and meet a special animal friend. Today’s theme: Groundhog Day. 913.826.2800

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Ice-Skating 3:00, the Rink at Zona Rosa. The rink is open daily for public ice-skating, pond hockey, special events and more. ZonaRosa.com

Winter Reading Challenge Thru March 15, MCPL. Moms and Dads, bundle up with a good book and win a prize! Read five books and enter the challenge. Ages 18+. MyMCPL.org

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Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away. Thru March, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org

3 Thursday Snow-Ventures 9:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Dive into a winter wonderland with a sock skating rink, learn cool science and more! KansasDiscovery.org Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos get their energy out! KawPrairie.org Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Kindergarten Preview 8:30, Summit Christian Academy. Learn about what our kindergarten program can offer your child. Pre-reg at Summit-Christian-Academy.org.

Underground Today & tomorrow, Kauffman Center. Storling Dance presents a powerful and inspiring portrayal of the Underground Railroad. CultureHouse.com Happy Birthday, Newberry! 2:00, Olathe Indian Creek Library. Play a fun quiz game, learn some new facts and enjoy some birthday cake. Pre-reg at OlatheLibrary.org.

KC Remodel and Garden Show Thru Sunday, American Royal Center. The show features highinterest exhibits, experts and the latest trends.

KCRemodelAndGarden.com Father Daughter Dance 6:00, Legacy Park Community Center. Enjoy a night of fun for fathers and daughters! Pre-reg at CityOfLS.net.

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South Pacific Feb. 19,, Midwest Trust Center. Enjoy the classic musical set on a tropical island in the Pacific during World War II. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center

Daddy Daughter Dance Today & tomorrow, Vesper Hall (Blue Springs). Event includes a dinner, dancing, photo booth pictures and raffle prizes! Pre-reg at BlueSpringsGov.com.

First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues located in the Crossroads Art District showcase art. KCCrossroads.org

5 Saturday Cupid’s Gems Jewelry Show 10:00, Thompson Barn (Lenexa). Enjoy a day with girlfriends or a mother-daughter outing. Shop for handcrafted jewelry. Lenexa.com Contemporary Creations 10:00 or 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about functional vessels and then create a clay pinch pot. Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

Discover Nature 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Learn about the ins and outs of groundhogs’ burrowing strategies. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

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Powerpalooza 10:00, Roger T Sermon Community Center. The gymnasium becomes a fun-filled space with games, special performances and more.

CityTheatreOfIndependence.org Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Join for a journey through forests, streams and other magical places as we read select books. Pre-reg: 816.759.7300.

Chocolate Tour 11:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. For $20 you can sample scrumptious sweet treats at more than 25 participating locations and have access to the trolley.

DowntownLS.org Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

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A Modern Night at the Gem 7:30, the Gem Theater. Showcase celebrates contemporary and modern dance in Kansas City. CityInMotion.org

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Valentine Ball 6:00, Merriam Community Center. Princesses and princes are called to join us for a night of tasty treats, DJ and dancing.

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6 Sunday Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo. See our penguins up close as they take a stroll in front of Helzberg Penguin Plaza. KansasCityZoo.org Daddy and Me Sweetheart Tea 1:00, Riverfront Community Center (Leavenworth).

Enjoy an afternoon of fun and refreshments.

Pre-reg at VisitLeavenworthKS.com.

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

7 Monday Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center.

Play items are available, including push toys, riding toys, balls and inflatables. Lenexa.com Sensory-Friendly Days 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Limited occupancy session for kids with sensory processing differences and autism spectrum disorders. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com

Weekly Life on the Farm Tour 5:30, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chicken, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

Story Time for Families 10:00, various branches (MCPL). Hear stories, sing songs, join in movement activities and create memories together. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

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8 Tuesday Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Too cold to play in the park? Ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace.

Spend the day skating with the family on Kansas City’s public outdoor rink. CrownCenter.com

9 Wednesday Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center. Hear a story from long ago read by a guest from the 1950s All-Electric House! Craft included. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com Visit Sea Life 11:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

11 Friday Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away. Thru March, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org Jabari Dreams of Freedom 10:00 & 1:00, Midwest Trust Center. Using songs, history and humor, play explores what it means to have courage. JCCC.edu/Midwest-Trust-Center Daddy Daughter Dance 7:00, Olathe Community Center. Evening full of dancing, refreshments, photos and other surprises. Prereg at OlatheKS.org.

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1. ICONIC LANDMARK The Country Club Plaza, the first shopping district designed for shoppers traveling by automobile, is the pride of Kansas City. Throughout the year, this district along Brush Creek is home to several festivals and fairs. With shops, restaurants, spectacular architecture, fountains and art, this is a favorite site for locals and visitors alike.

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2. TOYLAND A visit to the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures is a trip through pure imagination, charm and whimsy. Explore a delightful world of toys with interactive exhibits that take visitors on a stroll down memory lane.

View dozens of intricate dollhouses in every style and size and one of America’s largest collections of antique toys.

ToyAndMiniature Museum.org

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The NelsonAtkins Museum of Art, one of the largest galleries in the United States, maintains a permanent collection representing art from throughout history and around the world. This museum offers free admission to visitors who enjoy the galleries, the landscaped museum grounds and sculpture garden.

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Kansas City is home to many free nature centers, including one just a few blocks from the Plaza. Anita Gorman Discovery Center offers exhibits on Lewis and Clark, native animals and plants, and beautiful woodland trails right in the heart of the city. The urban trails are wonderful to explore year-round for the family.

MDC.mo.gov/ discover-nature/ places

Kauffman Memorial Garden is a free urban oasis open to the public yearround. The indoor orangery is home to beautiful plants all winter long. With beautiful orange trees and other plants, the space is inviting and relaxing. The 2-acre garden offers a fresh urban landscape to enjoy with seasonal plants on display.

Kauffman.org/ our-campus/ memorial-garden

The John Wornall House Museum offers both self-guided and guided tours. The antebellum home, built in 1858, is one of the few homes in Kansas City that survived the Civil War. Used as a field hospital during the Battle of Westport, the home tells the story of KC life in the 19th and early 20th centuries.

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Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. Kids enjoy fun activities while you shop at Colonial Gardens or savor a coffee at the Bean Counter.

Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Valentine’s Day

Early Explorations 10:00 or 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about people in art and create an imaginative self-portrait. Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

Winter Speaker Series 10:00, Grinter Place Historic Site. A historic program presented along with tours of the house. GrinterFriends.com Owl Pellet Dissection 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Join us as we take a close look at the fur, feathers and teeth packets produced by owls. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

Harlem Globetrotters 2:00, T-Mobile Center.

Don’t miss ankle-breaking crossovers, ballhandling wizardry and an all-new in-game dunk contest. HarlemGlobetrotters.com Mission Chili Cook-Off 3:00, Shawnee Indian Mission. Curbside chili pickup at the mission lets you enjoy the cook-off at home! Pre-reg at ShawneeIndianMission.org.

Family Valentine’s Dance 6:00, Raymore Activity Center. Dancing, treats, games and a photo booth await you at the Family Valentine’s Dance! Pre-reg at 816.322.2791.

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Cuter than Cupid 10:30, Meadowbrook Park Clubhouse. Make valentines, play games and enjoy a few sweets. Ages 2-5 with adult.

Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Valentine Cupcakes 1:00, Olathe Indian Creek Library. Celebrate Valentine’s Day! Drop in to decorate a tasty to-go treat. OlatheLibrary.org Ice-Skating 3:00, the Rink at Zona Rosa.

The rink is open daily for public ice-skating, pond hockey, special events and more.

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15 Tuesday Toughest Kid in the World 10:00, City Stage.

A boy named TK learns a new meaning of the word tough in encounters with his family and friends. TYA.org Trees: Sap to Syrup 10:00 or 12:30, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Program covers the basics of tree selection, collection and processing. Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Tots on Tuesday is now virtual! Sing songs, read books, explore art and more. Pre-reg at KemperArt.org.

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’80s Daddy Daughter Dance 6:00, Meadowlark Event Center (Spring Hill). An ’80s-themed dance party for dads and daughters. Pre-reg at SpringHillRec.org.

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos get their energy out! KawPrairie.org

City Center Live 6:30, Lenexa City Center. Grab a drink or bite to eat from the Lenexa Public Market and enjoy a performance by Mandolin Orchestra of Kansas City. Lenexa.com

Visit Legoland 11:00, Legoland Discovery Center.

Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

13 Sunday Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

Weekly Life on the Farm Tour 5:30, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chicken, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

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American Girl Doll Club 1:00, St Joseph Museum. Explore a doll’s historical time period through a variety of activities. This month’s doll: Addy. Pre-reg at StJosephMuseum.org.

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air (Lenexa). A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl! UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Sunday Family Series 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Explore the similarities and differences between amphibians, reptiles, birds, mammals and insects! Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

Story Time for Families 10:00, various branches (MCPL). Hear stories, sing songs, join in movement activities and create memories together. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

CeramicCafeKC.com Free Family Fun Nights 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Come explore a special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org

18 Friday Outdoor Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Campus Visit Day 1:00, Summit Christian Academy. Schedule your visit to see all we have to offer your children! Pre-reg at Summit-Christian-Academy.org.

Local Life Today & tomorrow, downtown Overland Park. Explore locally owned businesses, activities and more. Head to DowntownOP.org for details about this month’s theme.

Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries. View live performances and artists on the sidewalks in front of shops. EnglewoodStation.com

19 Saturday Photo Scavenger Hunt 10:00, Lexington Lake Park. Grab your family and hunt for locations around the park. Take pictures at each location.

Pre-reg at 913.856.8849.

Teddy Bear Clinic 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Bring your favorite stuffed friends to the Teddy Bear Clinic and let the volunteers nurse them back to health. KansasCityZoo.org Contemporary Creations 10:00 or 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about different materials artists use and then create a mixed media collage. Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

All About Babies 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Learn about wildlife babies through animal encounters, talks plus much more!

816.513.8960 Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Join for a journey through forests, streams and other magical places as we read select books.

Pre-reg: 816.759.7300.

South Pacific 3:00 & 8:00, Midwest Trust Center. Enjoy the classic musical set on a tropical island in the Pacific during World War II. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center kcparent.com february 2022

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Family Formal 5:30, the View Community Center. Dinner, sweet treats, dancing and the opportunity to create some picture-perfect memories. Pre-reg at Grandview.org.

Cupid Family Shuffle Dance 6:30, Memorial Station (Belton). Enjoy a fun photo booth, a DJ with dancing and games, savory food and sweet treats. Pre-reg at BeltonParks.org.

20 Sunday Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Winter Olympics Pinewood Bobsled Competition 2:00, Indian Creek Library. Design your own pinewood bobsled and compete for the fastest times. Pre-reg at OlatheLibrary.org.

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PRESIDENTS DAY Kids Day Out 8:00, Johnson County Museum.

Explore KidsScape and museum exhibits, play games, enjoy activities and more! Pre-reg at 913.715.2570.

Free Music Lessons Thru Feb 24, Music House. Register online to try out a music lesson for free! Hurry, spots are limited.

MusicHouseSchool.com Mondays at MHMA 9:00, Maur Hill-Mount Academy. Hear from one of our boarding alumni who currently lives in Kansas City.

MH-MA.com/Boarding-Life Science City Open 10:00, Science City (Union Station). School is out, and Science City is open today! Bring the kids for a day of learning and fun. UnionStation.org

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Call Spring Terburgh at 913-636-4472 LOCATED RIGHT OFF I-35 AND 119TH ST IN OLATHE AND IN SOUTH KCMO

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Drive-Thru History Tuesdays 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Drive into Missouri Town to explore the village and visit with our living history interpreters. MakeYourDayHere.com Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Too cold to play in the park? Ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park

23 Wednesday Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos get their energy out! KawPrairie.org Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink on Mondays and Wednesdays. SummitLanes.com Visit Sea Life 11:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Weekly Life on the Farm Tour 5:30, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chicken, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

24 Thursday Story Time in the Barn 10:00, Alexander Majors Home. Preschoolers enjoy themed activities and crafts based on a storybook.

WornallMajors.org Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com Ice-Skating 3:00, the Rink at Zona Rosa. The rink is open daily for public ice-skating, pond hockey, special events and more. ZonaRosa.com

25 Friday Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Read a book, then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack.

CeramicCafeKC.com Homeschool Play 1:00, Urban Air (Overland Park). A chance for homeschool families to come in, get active and play during the day. $15.99/child. UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

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Tween Night 6:00, Shawnee Civic Centre. Visit stations around gaming, creativity, movies and more! Dinner & snacks included. Pre-reg at CityOfShawnee.org.

26 Saturday Life on the Farm 8:00, Colonial Gardens.

Meet the livestock and help feed them their breakfast. ColonialGardensKC.com Winter Farmers Market 10:00, Lenexa City Hall.

Support local growers and makers at Lenexa’s annual Winter Farmers Market. Lenexa.com

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Outdoor Ice-Skating Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

Early Explorations 10:00 or 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about abstract sculpture and create a wire creature. Pre-reg at NermanMuseum.org.

Pottery Workshop 10:00, Raymore Art Studio Co-op. Learn the basics to hand-building pottery in this class for all ages- kids included!

Pre-reg at RaymoreArtStudioCoop.com.

Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo. See our penguins up close as they take a stroll in front of Helzberg Penguin Plaza.

KansasCityZoo.org Maple Sugaring 11:00 or 1:30, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Learn how to tap trees, collect sap and make delicious syrup from native trees.

Pre-reg at MDC.mo.gov/events.

A Toast to General Washington 5:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Stagecoach ride, tavern games and adult beverages. Ages 21+.

Pre-reg at Mahaffie.org.

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27 Sunday Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour.

SaveOurSiberians.org Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Sunday Family Series 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. See Kansas snakes and explore the facts and fallacies of these legless wonders. Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

28 Monday Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Play items are available, including push toys, riding toys, balls and inflatables.

Lenexa.com

Auschwitz. Not Long Ago. Not Far Away. Thru March, Union Station. Exhibit features more than 700 original objects, 400 photographs and hundreds of artifacts. UnionStation.org Story Time for Families 10:00, various branches (MCPL). Hear stories, sing songs, join in movement activities and create memories together. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Outdoor Ice-Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is celebrating its 48th season. Pre-reg at CrownCenter.com.

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BY THE NUMBERS On Feb. 9 of this year, the KCMO City Council approved a plan to build Kansas City’s Liberty Memorial on the property south of Union Station. The Liberty Memorial Association envisioned a monument that would be among the world’s most spectacular memorials to World War I veterans.

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On Feb. 22 of this year, the Town of Kansas was incorporated by Missouri as the City of Kansas.

Heart boxes sold annually by Kansas City company Russell Stover as valentine gifts.

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It has been two years since the Kansas City Chiefs won the Super Bowl.

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In this year, Hallmark first offered Valentine’s Day cards.

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A polar bear nose can smell through 3 feet of ice and up to several miles away. Berlin and Nuniq, the Kansas City Zoo’s resident polar bears, are celebrated on Feb. 27, National Polar Bear Day.

26 COUNTIES Number of counties served by Harvesters. In the local area, one in seven people is food insecure. February is Canned Food Month; visit Harvesters. org to learn how you can donate canned goods, time or money to help feed the hungry in our community.

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Penguin Marches Are Back!

See our penguins up close as they take a stroll in front of Helzberg Penguin Plaza.

Through February 27 11:00am | Weekends only

Open Year Round kansascityzoo.org | 816.595.1234