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rejuvenate before heading back out to elcome to the 15th annual meet more exhibitors. Kamloops Bridal Fair, hosted (left to right) The Kamloops Bridal Fair is used by the TRU Conference Centre Amy Verge, as an opportunity for students to gain in partnership with Viva Bridal Boutique Sonali Arora, experience in their future careers. and Common Sound. Jenn Pallett from Amy Verge, an events and conventions Join us at the Campus Activity Centre at Thompson Rivers University on TRU Conference Centre, management student, is volunteer Sunday, Jan. 27. Anthony Salituro from co-ordinator, ensuring attendees and are looked after by the fair’s Doors open at 10 a.m. and the fair runs Viva Bridal Boutique and exhibitors large group of volunteers. Volunteers until 3 p.m. This event is free to attend Jesse Faubert from will include students from various and will feature more than 60 exhibitors Common Sound. from a variety of wedding sectors. programs. Sonali Arora, an MBA student, is marketing co-ordinator, assisting in Exhibitors include venues, marketing the fair to all attendees. accommodations, formal wear, photography, Follow the Kamloops Bridal Fair social media videography, health, beauty and more. Exhibitor booths channels — on Facebook or Instagram will include displays, samples, specials and other @kamloopsbridalfair — for updates about what important information to help you tick some wedding to expect at the event as well as day-of posts and planning items off your checklist. information. For a full listing of the exhibitors, as well as event The Kamloops Bridal Fair would not be the event information, visit the website at kamloopsbridalfair.ca. Plan to spend the day speaking with exhibitors, it is today without show sponsors GK Sound, Avenue Media House, Kamloops This Week, B100, 98.3 and LB setting up future meetings and making decisions Photography. about your upcoming wedding. The Den will be open Make sure to pick up and fill out the passport to win for attendees to sit and have a bite to eat during the busy day. This will give you time to refresh, relax and some great prizes from bronze, silver and gold sponsors.
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ALTERNATIVES TO ENGAGEMENT RINGS E ngagement rings are often sizable investments. Money magazine reports the average engagement ring costs around $5,800. An engagement ring symbolizes the start of a lifelong commitment and may even set the tone for a couple’s wedding day. Jewelry styles are personal, and groomsto-be should carefully research their significant others’ preferences in terms of precious metals, colors and gemstones. Even though tradition holds that a diamond gemstone is classic for engagement rings, these precious stones are not the only options. In fact, before World War II, just 10 percent of proposals involved diamond engagement rings. That number jumped to 80 percent by 1990. However, many modern couples now lean toward other offerings not only for the uniqueness they provide, but also for the potential cost savings. Those seeking something unique can embrace these engagement ring options.
KNOT RINGS
These rings do not have a center stone. Rather, they’re designed to be a tied knot or infinity symbol. These rings can be particularly sentimental as they represent true, unbroken love.
SAPPHIRE
While sapphire stones often are blue, they can also be yellow, green, pink, and white. Sapphires are the third hardest mineral. A white sapphire can be the perfect diamond replacement.
OPAL
Gemstones, like flowers, have been assigned certain meanings. Tying the engagement ring to one of them can infuse more symbolism into the relationship. Opal, for example, represents love, passion, creativity, spontaneity, and inspiration. Those traits seem tailor-made for surprise proposals.
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Red is the definitive color of love. A Valentine’s Day proposal can be made even more special by presenting an engagement ring with a red gemstone.
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The jewelry source Brilliant Earth says moissanite is a gemstone first discovered in 1893 by Henri Moissan in a meteorite that fell to earth. It is remarkably similar to a diamond in appearance and strength. Moissanite also has heightened brilliance, with a refractive index higher than that of a diamond.
AMETHYST
This vibrant, lavender-hued stone can be breathtaking when cut the correct way. Purple shades have long been associated with royalty, making an amethyst fitting for such an occasion as special as an engagement. Because amethysts, which are less expensive than diamonds, are a seven on the Mohs scale for gemstone hardness, they can be very durable.
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Wedding Dress Fitting B ecause fashion preferences were once ornate and dependent on precise fits, ready-to-wear clothing really did not become widely available until the early 20th century. Such attire is now available in just about any retail store. Because of this, the average person may be unfamiliar with custom-made or tailored items. In fact, a couples’ wedding may be the only instance in their lives when they require the services of a seamstress or tailor. Fittings are a part of wedding planning, and here’s how brides-to-be can navigate the process of finding and being fitted for a dress.
TRY ON SAMPLE GOWNS
First make your rounds to various gown shops and try on the samples they have available. Most sample sizes will not be the size you wear every day, so expect them to be ill-fitting. Do not be discouraged. Once a gown is chosen, the dress shop will take your measurements and order the gown according to the manufacturer’s sizing guide. Again, this can be shocking, since the size will likely be larger than what you wear in street clothes. Some shops will also order a little larger to allow for adequate tailoring.
SPEAK UP
Speak up at fittings if anything is uncomfortable or needs tweaking. Seamstresses are masters at their crafts, but only if they understand your desires. Open communication can ensure brides-to-be get a dress that fits like a glove.
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SCHEDULE THE FIRST FITTING
The first fitting should be anywhere from eight to 12 weeks before the wedding date. This is the time it takes to complete most standard alterations. Complex customizations can take even longer. Brides should also budget a minimum of $500 for alterations, which may or may not be included in the price of the dress.
BRING SHOES AND UNDERGARMENTS
Remember to bring along the exact shoes and undergarments you will wear with your gown. A change in shoes or bra/corset can result in the alterations fitting poorly the next time. Bring these items along to all subsequent fittings.
CHECK THE DETAILS
The second fitting is designed to check that all issues from the first fitting have been addressed, the gown is comfortable and you can move freely. At the last fitting, ask the maid of honor to come along so that she understands how to bustle or help you handle complicated straps or closures. 2019 Kamloops Bridal Fair
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GET SCHOOLED ON WEDDING TERMINOLOGY
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ouples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly married. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.
Blusher: A short, singlelayer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony. Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party. Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a reception. Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a council official or justice of the peace at a municipal location rather than in a house of worship.
Cocktail hour: Typically an hour-long interlude between the wedding ceremony and the main dinner of the reception. Guests have time to arrive and mingle before being seated. Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine. Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated. Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to a vendor to secure a date for their services. Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that appear on wedding cakes. Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct reception guests to their seats.
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Lear ning some basic wedding terminology can simpl if y wedding planning.
Fondant: A sweet, plyable product used to decoratively cover layered cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight buttercream. Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps around the stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carries. Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the woman who assists the bride and stands closest to her at the altar. “Maids” are those who are unmarried, while “matrons” are women who are. Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the DJ or band to announce the various components of the wedding reception.
Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typically given to the mothers of the bride and groom before the ceremony. Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding ceremony. Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding who welcome and greet guests. Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invitations, programs and enclosures. Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple components of centerpiece designs.
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WEDDING REGISTRY TIPS
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uilding a wedding registry is a task unlike any other couples may encounter during their lifetimes. Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples’ loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries. Building a wedding registry can feel like walking a tightrope. Couples likely won’t want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests.
REGISTER WITH MORE THAN ONE STORE
It’s important to register with more than one store. Doing so makes things as convenient as possible for guests and increases the chances they will be able to shop at stores they’re familiar with. Unless your guest list is predominantly local, try to register with at least one national chain so guests who live in different regions can shop for gifts in-person if they prefer to do so.
MAKE A LARGE LIST
Some couples are hesitant to make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they’re asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options to choose from. Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options.
DON’T HESITATE ON EXPENSIVE ITEMS
Couples also may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding registries. However, the couples’ parents and other close relatives may be honored to purchase more expensive items, so couples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. It’s also important to note that many retailers, after couples’ wedding days have come and gone, discount registry items that weren’t purchased. So even if no one purchases the more expensive items, including them on a registry may significantly reduce their cost for couples who want to buy such items themselves after tying the knot.
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B uilding a wedding registry is a unique task that couples can embrace as the big day draws near. VARY THE PRICES OF ITEMS ON THE LIST
In addition to including more expensive items on the registry, make sure to include moderately priced and inexpensive items. This gives guests more options and ensures guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets.
PERIODICALLY UPDATE THE REGISTRIES
Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have already been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests.
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FACTORS THAT CAN AFFECT THE LENGTH OF YOUR ENGAGEMENT
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ach year, millions of couples around the world tie the knot. But before couples walk down the aisle, the proposal to get married must take place. Many couples mutually agree to get engaged, while the experience may be a surprise for others who have thought about it, but may not have been sure when one partner or another would “pop the question.” Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last. There is no perfect answer, and engagement length typically depends on personal preference and the needs of the couple. In fact, according to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average length of an engagement is 14.5 months. A number of factors affect the length of a couple’s
engagement, and couples should not feel as if they need to hurry down the aisle. For example, couples who will be financing their own weddings may need a longer engagement than those whose parents will be chipping in. In such instances, longer engagements give couples more time to save and may help them ensure their weddings are everything they hoped for. Others may prefer a shorter engagement if they are financially stable and prepared to tie the knot. Couples in their late 30s may feel the tug of a biological clock and want to ensure there is ample time to get married and have children. A shorter engagement can facilitate that. Some couples may have little choice in the matter, as the length of their engagements may be dictated by the availability of their favorite venues.
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engagement diminishes their excitement about getting married. That “new engagement shine” can wear off as family and friends wait months or years for the wedding to take place. Couples generally are advised to stick with what feels right to them regarding the length of their engagements. Just like all aspects of the wedding, couples can weigh the opinions of others but follow through with what works best for them.
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any people play a role in a wedding. The bride and groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ring bearers, and flower girls are front and center on the day a couple ties the knot. Another central, and very important, figure on a couple’s wedding day is the officiant. Officiants perform the wedding ceremony and are the first to introduce the newlyweds to their guests as an officially married couple. Understanding each type of officiant can help couples find the right one for them.
RELIGIOUS OFFICIANT
Couples who want religious ceremonies often choose a religious officiant, such as a parish priest or rabbi, with whom they’re familiar. For example, couples who grew up attending a particular church might choose the priest who’s been preaching to them since they were children, while others might choose the priest at their current place of worship. Religious officiants may be governed by certain rules that restrict them to performing ceremonies in a house of worship, which might rule them out for couples who want outdoor or destination weddings. Couples should inquire about such restrictions as early as possible in the planning process so they aren’t caught off guard.
CIVIL OFFICIANT
Civil officiants are officers of the court, such as a judge or justice of the peace. Many couples who are planning destination weddings abroad still choose to have a civil officiant perform a wedding ceremony at home. This is because some overseas officiants may not be authorized to marry couples in their home countries, meaning their marriages won’t be recognized once they return home. Civil officiants make sure marriages are legal, and they also make great options for couples who just want to get hitched without a grand ceremony.
PROFESSIONAL OFFICIANT
Professional officiants are not affiliated with a particular religious organization. That makes them great choices for couples who aren’t religious as well as those who come from different religious backgrounds and won’t be converting to the same faith. Professional officiants typically meet with a couple once or twice to get to know them before writing the speech they will give during the ceremony. Many will share the speech with the couple in advance of the big day, and some even allow couples to write the speech.
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Plan your wedding with us We will work with you to make sure your special day is everything you envisioned. We are a full service florist that can provide you with everything floral for your wedding, from the bridal bouquet to rose petals for the aisle and everything in between.
250.828.6211 • events@kamloopsflorist.ca • weddings.kamloopsflorist.ca 605 Victoria St, Kamloops, BC V2C 2B3 Published by Kamloops This Week
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You have attended the Kamloops Bridal Fair
Now W hat?
You took the first important step in your planning by attending this year’s Kamloops Bridal Fair. Sorting through all of the information you received can be a daunting task, so we have come up with some suggestions on how to de-clutter and organize the information to help you find what you need.
STEP 1: PILES
This step is like being a kid on Halloween. Find a large empty space and dump your bridal bag out to get a look at all the loot. Start sorting all the contents of your pile into smaller, more manageable piles. Determine the best sorting style for you. Some examples are by industry, by services or by type of vendor. You can also sort by what you want or need or by what you know doesn’t apply.
STEP 2: TAKE A BREAK
Walk away from your piles. Chances are you have already started reading while you were sorting, so now you need to take a break to clear your mind. This step can be repeated as necessary as it is an important point in this process.
STEP 5: DEEP RESEARCH
By this step, you have likely narrowed down your choices based on all the information you have collected. Now you can start getting deeper into what the exhibitors of your choosing can truly do for your wedding. Visit the exhibitor websites to better learn about the company. This is also a great time to check out pricing and start comparing your exhibitor choices with your budget. A note of additional advice for this step is to ensure you are comparing apples to apples. One of the biggest mistakes during this step is assuming something is the same. Make a list of what each package or service includes. This will help you see if the packages or services are actually similar.
STEP 6: CONTACT
After all your research, you are prepared to ask the questions you need to ask, as well as confirm and pay deposits. Set up meetings with your exhibitors to confirm the details on which you have decided.
STEP 3: READ AND REVIEW
This step can take anywhere from a day to a week or more. Start reading the information in your piles so you can compare and review services, pricing and packaging to find your best fit. Make sure you have a notepad and pen or a device on which you can make notes. Depending on the type of researcher and planner you are, you may need to take breaks to create lists, spreadsheets or just to step away to process.
STEP 4: BUDGET
One more step before contacting the exhibitors to confirm bookings and paying deposits. Double check your budget to ensure the exhibitors, packages and products you have chosen fit within your budget. Consider packages or products that will be less than your expected budgeted amount. You may have wiggle room to make some of your higher budget items a reality.
All t he best wit h your planning.
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