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Things change, but family is forever I’VE SPENT A LOT OF TIME in my childhood home in the last few months. My folks still live independently, but they sometimes need a little help from their children, which has given me an opportunity to see the house and its neighborhood at a different stage in my life.

I’ve been hearing about the sandwich generation for years. I guess I now qualify. I’m happy to report that both my parents and my children live very independent lives, but everyone needs help occasionally, right? Even those of us in the middle.

A few years ago, when I hurt my knee, my adult children jumped right in to help. That’s what my siblings and I are now doing for my parents.

Here are a few observations after several trips to the home of my youth, where I sleep in my “old room.”

How did anyone ever come up with the split-level house? My mother has some mobility problems but, after some intensive physical therapy, is perfectly capable of getting around. However, the two steps here and four steps there in their 1960s split-level are a killer. It really makes aging in place quite challenging.

And speaking of aging in place, I am more and more convinced of the value of groups like the Village Common of Rhode Island (providencevillageri.org). My folks have no desire to move to an “adult” community – assisted, independent or otherwise. They want to stay in their single-family home. But none of their children live nearby and sometimes they need trusted help. The Village Common network offers social and other non-medical help like rides and referrals to handymen or those with computer skills to those who want to age in place.

Jewish Rhode Island ran a story on the Providence Village several years ago, and the group now has villages all over Rhode Island. The model just makes sense.

I no longer want all the stuff I thought I wanted. Mementos are lovely, and I definitely want some items from my youth. That apron my grandmother made? Yes! The complete set of dishes that cannot go in the dishwasher? Probably not. Labeled photos? Absolutely! Stuff that will just live in my basement? Nope.

Much has been written about how our Millennial children don’t want our stuff. Rather than accumulating clutter, they prefer to travel and have other “experiences.” I’m starting to understand that thinking.

The old neighborhood has evolved. Mine was a typical Northern Virginia 1960s suburban subdivision of split-levels, raised ranches and ranch homes. Lots of military families bought or rented homes there. My childhood friends would be there for a couple years and then disappear.

Many had dads serving in Vietnam.

Today, it remains a transient community, but many homes have been upgraded and renovated. Some have additions that look odd to me.

I wonder how many residents have been there as long as my parents, who purchased their home in 1966.

I look forward to my continued trips back “home.”

I always find a few treasures in a drawer or a box of photos. But the best treasure of all is the priceless gift of time spent with my family.

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UP FRONT For this Jewish couple, saving children’s lives has become a life commitment

Muso cofounders Ari Johnson and Jessica Beckerman teamed up with retired Malian nurse Nana Niaré, center, in 2008 to begin offering free early-stage and preventative healthcare to Malians in places of extreme poverty.

BY LARRY LUXNER

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hen Ari Johnson and Jessica Beckerman moved to Mali in 2007 – he as a Harvard medical student taking a year off from his

studies, she as a Fulbright scholar studying health care — 15% of all babies born in the West African nation were dying before age 5.

AS THE TWO American Jews learned more about the situation, they decided to try and help. Together with a group of Malian health professionals, they started a nonprofit to deliver doorto-door, rapid healthcare at no cost to the residents of Yirimadio, a neighborhood of Mali’s capital city, Bamako.

The organization, called Muso, which later expanded to other parts of Mali and neighboring Ivory Coast,

was so successful that within a decade Yirimadio’s child mortality rate had dropped to 0.7% – the lowest anywhere in sub-Saharan Africa and on par with the U.S. mortality rate.

Even as parts of Mali were taken over by violent insurgents and war broke out in the country, the rate of child death remained low compared to the rest of the region.

“Today, one in six children globally live in or near

an active conflict zone, and children are bearing the brunt of war,” Johnson said.

“Yet what we have been learning with our partners in Mali is that the lethal consequences of war on children are not inevitable.

We have the power to build systems of care that can reverse some of war’s most devastating impacts.”

Johnson, 41, and Beckerman, 39, are now married and live in Berkeley, California, with their 3-year-old son. Both are doctors, and they’ve turned Muso into a dynamic nonprofit organization that partners with governments in Mali and the Ivory Coast to increase access to healthcare in communities that face extreme poverty.

Beckerman is Muso’s chief medical officer, and Johnson is its CEO as well

as an associate professor at the University of California-San Francisco’s Institute for Global Health Services.

The key to Muso’s success, however, isn’t this extraordinary couple. It’s the 1,100 or so people – some 80% of them women – who lead Muso’s work across 35 sites in Mali and the Ivory Coast.

The organization’s model is based on three pillars: providing care at patients’ homes, rapid-access clinics and zero fees. Community health workers actively search for patients through door-to-door home visits, rapidly diagnosing and treating malaria, diarrhea, pneumonia and other common illnesses on the spot.

They also provide Covid19 screening, pregnancy testing and family planning

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services.

Patients who need more complex care are evacuated by off-road ambulances to receive care from nurses, physicians and midwives at rapid-access primary care clinics. Everyone receives care free of charge.

Beckerman and Johnson met at a Hillel Shabbat dinner while at Brown University, and when they decided to go to Mali the idea was to learn about the structural barriers preventing healthcare access.

“We knew that nearly all the deaths we see in places like Mali are preventable with simple tools that we’ve had for decades, like antibiotics,” Beckerman said. “For example, we can diagnose and treat malaria if it’s caught early, within three days, at home.”

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How to save ourselves from creating Hell on Earth Every dispute that is for the sake of Heaven, will in the end endure; But one that is not for the sake of Heaven, will not endure. Which is the controversy that is for the sake of Heaven?

Such was the controversy of Hillel and Shammai. And which is the controversy that is not for the sake of Heaven? Such was the controversy of Korah and all his congregation.

- Mishna, Pirkei Avot, 5:17

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WE LIVE IN an era that represents an epic crossroad of human history on multiple fronts.

Our material successes have created a large human footprint; combined with materialism, and aided by intractable problems of equity, responsibility and collective action, we are in the midst of a silent yet ongoing sixth extinction, with dramatic declines in biodiversity and catastrophic threats to the geological and biological processes that sustain life on earth.

Our technological successes have yielded improving artificial intelligence, but attendant concerns of morality, responsibility and caution are largely ignored in a world driven by unfettered profit and innovation.

Competing political interests once again threaten existing political systems, with the institutions of democracy hanging in the

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balance and the threat of global war (with even more destructive weapons) a serious possibility yet again.

Times such as these cry out for reasoned debate, give and take across differences of opinion, and collaboration.

Yet our political and civic systems are not currently up to the task.

The JewRABBI BARRY ish mystical tradition of DOLINGER Kabbalah imagines that the seven days of biblical creation can be understood to refer to not only tactile creation of the physical world but to the emanation and negotiation of divine instincts into a harmonious reality. The first day, then, was when chesed, loving kindness, was manifest; the second day, gevurah, strength and critical judgment.

How can these divine polar opposites, charitable loving-kindness and punishing accountability, chesed

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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 4 The problem was that many healthcare systems typically exclude those who can’t afford treatment. Patients, particularly children, often receive care too late or not at all.

When the couple teamed up in 2008 with Malian colleagues, including a retired nurse living in Yirimadio, Nana Niaré, their help had an immediate impact.

“People would come to her house out of desperation because they didn’t have other options, but we had cellphones and cash to get people in a taxi to an emergency room in Bamako,” Beckerman said. “Our role was to accompany neighbors to help them get care.”

In one case, a 4-year-old girl who had just been bitten by a rabid dog was rushed to the hospital in the middle of

the night and survived. But other patients with treatable maladies were less fortunate.

One mother in her 20s died from an infected abscess in her mouth because she didn’t receive antibiotics, which would have cost just $5, in time.

“Again and again, we were going to funerals of neighbors for diseases that in the U.S. you’d never see a death from,” Beckerman recalled.

Muso receives funding from an array of philanthropies, government organizations and corporations, including pharmaceutical giant Pfizer and the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.

Since its formal establishment in 2008, the charity has provided 16.4 million home visits and 1.6 million clinic visits, even in the midst of Mali’s war.

Last November, Muso

and gevurah, reach stasis?

The Zohar, in its commentary on Parashah Breishit, draws and expands on the notions of debate mentioned in Pirkei Avot: “[T]he conflict between Korah and Aaron was left against right. Moses, contemplating the act of Creation, said, ‘it is fitting that I mediate the conflict between left and right.’ He endeavored to reconcile them, but the left was unwilling, and Korah stiffened his resistance. He said, ‘Hell must certainly join in the heat of the conflict of the left. Since he does not want to join above, merging in the right, he will certainly descend below by the intensity of his rage.’

“Korah did not want this conflict to be harmonized by Moses because it was not for the sake of heaven; he cared nothing about the supernal glory and denied the act of Creation” (Zohar, 1:17a, Priztker Edition).

Here, the “right” represents loving-kindness and the “left” strength.

The problem is cosmic and self-automating. Critical energy, a necessary element for all discernment and dispute, is naturally disagreeable. Taken to its extreme, it is not interested in civic discourse or harmony.

While necessary, discord

announced the conclusion of a three-year study that followed more than 135,000 people across 137 rural sites in Mali’s Bankass region, on the edge of the Sahara Desert. Despite the destruction of entire villages and the displacement of communities due to war, the study found that the rate of child mortality declined over the period to 55 deaths per 1,000 from 148 a drop of 63%.

“Things should have gotten much worse for children but the opposite happened,” Johnson said. “No other community has ever achieved this in an active conflict zone.”

He credited Muso’s training and deployment of health workers in villages to provide free diagnostics and medical care, and evacuation of the sickest patients to better-equipped clinics.

“Muso was founded by

always involves playing with fire. Disagreement, rooted in critical judgment, can turn to rage, and rage in turn becomes the basis for the creation of Hell.

This, explains the Zohar, is the Korah problem, and in turn, represents an apt and damning description of our current situation. Current discourse is governed not by the advancement of reason or ideas, or even by a desire to resolve disputes through compromise or accommodation. It’s about “owning” others, manifesting anger and tearing things down.

How then might we respond, spiritually and otherwise? When debate is about the self, about being right, about being heard, it is prone.

And it is not about “creation.” The Zohar urges a mindset centered on “harmony,” “supernal glory” and the “act of creation.”

This is about recognizing our own mortal limits and interdependence, and acting from a holistic perspective where we are not the end-all and be-all but rather pieces of a whole.

When disagreement manifests, we must seek integration, act with humility, recognize the divine within disagree-

ment and encourage the same in our disputants.

The current status of our civic discourse is a reflection of our individualism and hubris. May we learn to have conflicts and debates as a surprising, muchneeded spiritual practice, for the sake of heaven, and save ourselves from creating Hell.

BARRY DOLINGER is the rabbi at Congregation Beth Sholom, in Providence, and president of the Board of Rabbis of Greater Rhode Island.

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Malians and Americans. We are a secular organization with no religious affiliation, including people from many backgrounds. Muso’s group of co-founders – religious Muslims, Jews and Christians – share a common commitment to the immeasurable value of every human life and a common concern for inequities in healthcare,” Johnson said. “That’s what brought us together.”

In 2021, Johnson and Beckerman jointly won The Charles Bronfman Prize for their work. The $100,000 annual award, which is marking its 20th year, recognizes a Jewish humanitarian under age 50 whose work is grounded in Jewish values and is of universal benefit to all people.

Johnson said the prize “elevates global service as a

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holy Jewish act” that spurs further action.

“For Jessica and me, this work is at the core of our own Jewish practice,” he said.

“We understand that pikuach nefesh – the imperative of saving a life – is required of each of us. Every year, 5 million children are dying globally, mainly of diseases we’ve known how to cure for decades. We have the tools.

What we don’t have is the option to wait.”

This story was sponsored by and produced in partnership with The Charles Bronfman Prize, an annual prize presented to a humanitarian whose innovative work fueled by their Jewish values has significantly improved the world.

This article was produced by JTA’s native content team.

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7/26: Midsummer Picnic at Goddard Memorial State Park; bus will leave the JCC at 10 a.m.; bus will leave Temple Sinai at 10:30 a.m.

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Every Wednesday is chair yoga with Neal 11-11:45 a.m. Seniors aged 60 and older as well as younger adults with a disability of all faiths and backgrounds are welcome.

Suggested donation: $3 per lunch.

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Project Shoresh Ladies’ Partners in Torah Night. Sundays 7:458:45 p.m. Providence Hebrew Day School, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Partner-based study group. On-site facilitators available.

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Temple Emanu-El Mahjong.

Tuesdays 11 a.m.-1 p.m. 99 Taft Ave., Providence. Both new and advanced players are welcome.

Drop-ins welcome. Information, Shosh@teprov.org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Service.

Fridays 6 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Song, prayer and reflection. With Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah Johnson.

In July, first and third Fridays in Chapel, and second and fourth Fridays in Sanctuary. 7/26 is Rabbi Goldwasser’s 10th anniversary.

Information, dottie@templesinairi. org or 401-942-8350.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Fridays 7 p.m., except second Friday of the month 6:30 p.m. when Family Shabbat Services take place. 145 Winter St., Hyannis,

Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund.

In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook, Cape Media, YouTube and Community Television Comcast channel 99.

Information, 508-775-2988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Temple Beth-El Torah Study.

Saturdays except second Saturday of the month 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join us for Torah study. Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook and YouTube. Information, Cape Cod Synagogue at 508-7752988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Morning Service. Saturdays 11 a.m.

30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. We meet in the chapel. Information, templesinairi.org or Dottie at 401942-8350.

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Temple Sinai Shabbat Breakfast & Torah Study. Saturdays 9:30-11 a.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

Breakfast followed by interactive discussion at 10 a.m. with Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser or others in our community. Breakfast RSVP and information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Temple Beth-El Kabbalat Shabbat Service. 5:45 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Friday evening service. Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@templebeth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext.

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Temple Habonim Torah Study.

Most Saturdays 10-11 a.m. Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman leads weekly Torah study on current portion. Via Zoom. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim.org or 401245-6536.

Splash into Summer with PJ Library and Temple Habonim.

4-5 p.m. The Splash Pad at Police Cove Park and Boat Ramp, 100-106 County Road, Barrington. Join Lyndsey from PJ Library and Rabbi Howard from Temple Habonim to meet other families for water play and a frozen treat. Information, Adina at office@templehabonim or 401-245-6536; or Lyndsey at lursillo@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 141.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Saturdays 10:30 a.m.

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Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island Young Professionals Happy Hour. 5-7 p.m. The Hot Club, 25 Bridge St., Providence. Celebrate summer with a drink as you chat with other young professionals in a relaxed setting on the water. First drink is free. Information, Devorah Phillips at dphillips@jewishallianceri.org.

Friday | July 12 Story Time under the Gazebo with PJ Library and Temple Sinai.

11 a.m.-noon. Garden City Gazebo, 100 Midway Road, Cranston. Join Lyndsey from PJ Library and Rabbi Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah from Temple Sinai to celebrate Shabbat with PJ Library books, songs and a craft. Information, Lyndsey Ursillo at lursillo@ jewishallianceri.org.

Temple Beth-El Kabbalat Shabbat Service. 5:45 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Throughout the summer celebrate Shabbat with song, prayer and friends.

Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs & Torah Services. 5:45-6:15 p.m. By Zoom only. Information, temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Temple Habonim Shabbat by the Sea. 6:15 p.m. Barrington Beach, 87 Bay Road, Barrington. Bring your own chair or blanket, and welcome Shabbat on the beach with us. In case of inclement weather, the services will be moved inside to Temple Habonim. Information, Adina at office@templehabonim.org or 401-245-6536

Saturday | July 13 Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. In-person service.

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Temple Torat Yisrael Shabbat Services. 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. In person with Zoom available. Information, temple@toratyisrael.org.

Tuesday | July 16 Behind the Book Presents: All the World’s a Stage Fright. 6:30-8 p.m. LitArts RI, 400 Harris Ave., Providence.

Bob Abelman’s fast-paced, laugh-out-loud, fictional memoir in which a clandestine critic is embedded in a production of Shakespeare’s As You Like It. Moderated book discussion and book signing.

Suggested donation: $10.

Books available for purchase.

Information, Devorah Phillips at dphillips@jewishallianceri. org.

Friday | July 19 Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Service.

5:45-6:15 p.m. By Zoom only. Information, temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Under the Stars. 7 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Monthly musical Shabbat service and oneg. Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Saturday | July 20 Temple Torat Yisrael Shabbat Services. 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. In person with Zoom available. Information, temple@toratyisrael.org.

Sunday | July 21 Congregation Beth David Presents Music through the Ages. 7:30-9:30 p.m.

Narragansett Community Center, 53 Mumford Road, Narragansett. Renowned for his rich baritone voice and inimitable enthusiasm, Argentinian-born Elias Rosemberg’s concerts are a musical journey, blending Latin rhythms, opera, cantorial melodies and Broadway tunes. $45 per ticket; $480 sponsorship includes eight tickets. Information, cbdri.org.

Friday | July 26 Temple Beth-El Kabbalat Shabbat Service. 5:45 p.m.

70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Throughout the summer, celebrate Shabbat with song, prayer and friends.

Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@temple-beth-el. org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Saturday | July 27 Temple Torat Yisrael Shabbat Services. 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. In person with Zoom available. Information, temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Beth-El Bring and Sing Havdalah. 7:30 p.m.

(Time may change.) 70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Join Rabbi Preston Neimeiser for a musical Havdalah and delicious vegetarian potluck on the temple’s patio. All are welcome. Information, Jillian Brosofsky at jbrosofsky@ temple-beth-el.org or 401-3316070, ext. 100.

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Challah taste test reveals many good choices in Providence area

BY FRAN OSTENDORF

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o you like your challah soft and fluffy or with a dense, firm bite? Do you prefer a loaf with seeds? Is a golden crust important to

you? Do you have definite opinions on the best braid for a Shabbat challah?

REGARDLESS OF YOUR preferences, chances are that you can now find the challah of your dreams at a Rhode Island bakery.

There are many more choices now than just a few years ago.

We chose five loaves from Providence-area bakeries to taste test. This wasn’t meant as a contest for the “best challah,” since that is truly a matter of personal preference. Instead, we focused on popular choices. The tasting did not include egg-free or gluten-free challahs.

The tasters were about a dozen staff members of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

You may be surprised to know that one taster admitted to never having had challah before!

Loaves were sliced and then cut into pieces, and were tasted without spreads or dips.

We were surprised at the subtle differences in the five loaves, which showed that there really is a challah for everyone. And not one challah “failed” our taste test, although some were more popular than others.

The tasters were enthusiastic about the challah at the Oak Street Bake Shop. The smallest of the challahs, it is tightly braided with tapered ends. Tast-

ers said it was dense and chewy with a good, sweet flavor.

The loaf at Maven’s Delicatessen, in Pawtucket, looked like the ideal challah, tasters said.

It was pillowy with PHOTO | ALEX FOSTER The challahs lined up for sampling: (left to right) Miami Onion Bakery, Maven’s a nice shine and great golden color.

Delicatessen, Navad Bakers, Oak Bake Shop, Seven Stars.

The tasters liked the not as eggy and dense as usual. texture, but many THE DETAILS In other local challah news, wanted the challah to be a little we were unable to test the loaf sweeter. Several tasters said it MAVEN’S DELICATESSEN (mavensdeli.com). at Like No Udder, because would be great as toast.

Challahs in a square loaf or a long braid the vegan ice cream shop was The loaf from Miami Onion available in the deli or by preorder daily. moving to Hope Street when we Roll, available in Whole Foods, $12.95. did our tasting, in May. Like no was described by several tesMIAMI ONION ROLL BAKERY. This braided Udder has since reopened, and ters as tasting store-bought, challah was on the shelf at the Waterman though others termed it light and has vegan challah available on Avenue Whole Foods midweek. $5.99.

Fridays via online ordering. slightly sweet.

These sell out quickly!

Navad Bakers, in East ProviNAVAD BAKERS (navad.com). Challahs are Look for more tastings in dence, offered the only loaf with available at various outlets around Rhode Jewish Rhode Island in future seeds – ours had sesame seeds Island and Massachusetts, as well as at the months. We may try honey – which gave it a completely East Providence production facility. $7. before Rosh Hashanah and different look. Several tasters OAK BAKE SHOP (Oakbakeshop.com). horseradish before Passover. mentioned that the seeds did not Braided challahs are available for preorder Want to join the fun? Send an fall off! Tasters called this chalon Thursdays and for pickup on Fridays. email with your ideas to editor@ lah airy, yeasty and beautiful.

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I am endeavoring to cite the lyrics to bygone songs as a way to sum up the decades of my own lifetime and lifeline. I hope to create a course in a July/August program inviting students to play musical instruMIKE FINK ments, create scenes with tap-dancing, and present poetic, thoughtful words,

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all to tell the biographical chapters of their own time, their personal story, its tastes, sounds, images. I mean, Eleanor Powell’s dancing toes, or maybe Anne Miller’s lively sole and soul.

I like one-line titles, such as “Don’t cry Joe.” Or, earlier by a decade, the Ink Spots’ patient pledge “I’ll Be Around” as a postwar promise.

The subtler the song, the better, because as the students compose their exam essay, and explain what

they were experiencing along with the composer and performer, the vocalist or musician at piano or sax or violin, it might invite the proper compromise between the actor/actress/ dancer and the sensitive memoirist or mere listener, to sum up a romantic or nostalgic lifetime.

I hope I get enough students to sign up and pay up so I can present this invitation between Independence Day and Labor Day. And tell the story of my own life the same way. Judy’s depth

and dignity, Marlene's and Greta’s beautiful close-ups, mixing tragedy and pathos into an exotic cocktail at a noir nightclub. Astaire and Rogers whirling absurdly and comically with class, verve and elegance, all the way to the Beatles, with the tribute to “Yesterday,” when “all my troubles seemed so far away.”

MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol. com) is a professor emeritus at the Rhode Island School of Design.

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Think Jewishly to make the most of summer I RECENTLY GOT some great tips from ChatGPT about summer activities that incorporate Jewish values. Then I added my own thoughts, and came up with some suggestions:

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good advice any time of the year, but we are often in contact with more family members, friends and strangers at the many events planned for warm weather.

SPEND TIME IN NATURE:

Outdoors, we can feel our connection to the natural world and to God. You could hike, walk, picnic, boat, sail, bicycle, garden, or simply just “be” outdoors.

BUILD FAMILY MEMORIES:

The more relaxed pace of summer offers us time to share our family stories, and our smartphones make it easy to record those stories. Sitting around a campfire is where stories were often told back in the day.

Find a place where you all feel together – perhaps at a backyard picnic, during a camping trip, or near or on the beach – and let the reminiscing begin.

PRACTICE SELF-CARE:

Eating healthy and getting enough sleep, exercise and movement can add years to your life, and life to your years. It is often easier to eat healthy in the summer, when fruits and vegetables are plentiful, and to take advantage of the many ways to keep our bodies moving with outdoor activities.

THINK LIGHT: As the temperature rises, it’s a good time to pare down, carry light, wear light, eat light and think about how we can add more light to our lives. This includes the light added to our days from the sun’s rays and PATRICIA the light that others bring RASKIN into our lives.

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more opportunities in the summer to volunteer at outdoor events. Tzedakah (charity) comes in many forms, and volunteering for a cause that you believe in can feed your soul – and the souls and physical well-being of many others.

BE GRATEFUL: The summer

LEARNING AND GROWING:

Since the days are longer in the summer, we have more time to attend classes, form study groups and embrace the beauty of Shabbat.

Learning and growing as a person are part of our Jewish values and tradition.

In her article “10 Jewish Blessings for Summer,” at Jewishunpacked.com, Shaked Karabelnicoff offers blessings for things like going off to summer camp and the natural world, including blessings for the sea, the sun and other wonders of nature. Check it out at jewishunpacked. com/10-jewish-blessingsfor-summer.

Have a wonderful summer!

PATRICIA RASKIN, owner of Raskin Resources Productions, is an awardwinning radio producer, business owner and leader. She is on the board of directors of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence.

Her “Positive Aging with Patricia Raskin” podcast is broadcast on the Rhode Island PBS website, ripbs. org/positiveaging.

Summer J-Camp June 24 – August 23

J-Campers | Grades: K-6 Counselors in Training (CITs) | Grades: 7-10 Summer J-Camp provides a diverse and welcoming environment for all our campers.

Using an experiential learning model, campers will participate in swimming lessons, sports, the arts, science, and many more activities. The daily schedule will rotate through every activity we offer, as we strive to focus on the specific interests of each camper. We provide lunch daily and have weekly field trips and specials guests.

Registration now open! Visit JewishAllianceRI.org/Camp or scan the QR Code:

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Israel Emergency Fund The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island stands with Israel and has opened an emergency fund to provide immediate financial assistance and relief to victims of terror and war.

100% of your donation will go toward supporting victims of terror and addressing the unprecedented levels of trauma caused by these horrific attacks.

To support the fund, visit JewishAllianceRI.org or scan the QR Code below.

The Israel Emergency Fund is chaired by Cindy & Mark Feinstein.

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Paying our respects

memorials. Some cemeteries too.

IN APRIL, when riding from Florence to southern Tuscany in Italy, our driver asked if we would like to take a slight detour to visit the American military cemetery known as Via Cassia (since it adjoins the ancient Roman road built by Cassius).

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received a Purple Heart.

By the way, Rita was a nursing student at Boston State Hospital in 1945 and married in Boston six years later. She died at age 91.

Doesn’t every American Jew know somebody named Seymour Levine? That’s why it was so difficult – nearly impossible – to gather information about a private first class who served with the First Armored Division and died in Italy on April 19, 1945. He too was decorated with a Purple Heart.

I was able to identify three Seymour Levines who served in the Army during World War II. One Seymour was the son of David, who lived in Brooklyn. This Seymour was born in 1919 and, before enlisting, lived at 940 Lafayette Ave. I was able to learn the most about a fourth soldier buried in Tuscany, Herbert Friedwald, a sergeant with the First Armored Division, who perished on June 25, 1944. He was the recipient of a Purple Heart, a Silver Star and France’s Croix De Guerre. Yes, a cross.

The 1930 federal census shows that the Friedwald family lived at 545 West 111 St. in Manhattan. Herbert’s father, Paul, a salesman in a dress shop, was 40 years of age and was born in Paris.

His wife, Gladys, four years younger, was born in New York. Herbert, then 13, had three younger siblings.

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in Dickson City, Pennsylvania, died on June 14, 1944, in Orbetello, Tuscany. His father, Benjamin, was born in Austria and emigrated to Pennsylvania in 1904. His mother, Sarah, also Austrian-born, had emigrated to Pennsylvania in 1883, but died before reaching 50 years old.

Jerome was the youngest of the four Friedman siblings. The eldest, Helen, passed away in 2005 at 94 years of age. All the Friedman siblings are buried in Jewish cemeteries.

In September of 1943, before enlisting in the Army in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, Jerome had lived in Jermyn, in Lackawanna County. A college graduate, he worked as retail manager for Jermyn Mill & Grain.

Standing only 5-feet-4inches tall (about my height), he weighed 150 pounds.

Jerome, a private, earned a Purple Heart.

Arnold Meckenberg was born on Oct. 8, 1924, in Brooklyn, New York. Both his parents, Philip and Grace, were native New Yorkers, but their parents were Russian-born. Philip enlisted in 1917, proudly serving in the American army for three years during World War I. He later worked as a chauffeur and a “public hack.” Arnold, who was Rita’s elder brother, had registered for the draft in December 1942 while a student at the University of Oklahoma in Norman. He was 5-feet-11-inches tall and weighed 195 pounds.

A private with the 350th Infantry, Arnold was killed on Sept. 28, 1944, and

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pated in a brief, nondenominational service before wandering through countless rows of American graves, including some adorned with Stars of David.

Tuscany’s serene cemetery, dedicated in 1960, holds the remains of about 4,400 American servicemen, or about 40% of the members of the Fifth Army, who lost their lives in northern Italy during World War II. Rather than feeling temporarily deprived of more pleasurable pursuits to see a cemetery, Betsey and I were stirred by enormous respect and gratitude for our heroes.

As in Normandy, we searched for the tiny number of Jewish graves, and I took some photos.

After returning home, perhaps I could learn more about a few of these young men – far younger than our two children. Here are some facts that I gathered: Jerome A. Friedman, who was born on Feb. 25, 1909,

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God and man: Partners? through all generations. It is a sign of Deuteronomy. And the book of between Me and the people Israel Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) is essentially a world-weary lament on the unfair- for all time ….”

Brit, covenant. Herein lies a ness of life. central paradox of Jewish conThe rabbis of old may have sciousness: we worship a God who wished that the author of Deuteronomy was correct in his pious convic- is all-powerful, omnipotent; at the same time, we worship a God who tion that God always rewards the craves a relationship with you and righteous and punishes the wicked; with me, with the Jewish people, nevertheless, experience taught and – by extension – with every our rabbinical forbears man, woman and child on earth.

Rasha v’tov lo, Tsadik Within the structure of the covev’rah lo (It goes well for nantal relationship, we all need God the wicked and poorly and God needs all of us; we serve as for the righteous.) partners in the ongoing process of After Auschwitz, creation. religious individuals To echo the title of Abraham of all faiths have been Joshua Heschel’s 1955 exploraforced to question the tion of modern Jewish religious notion that God is thought, “God in Search of Man,” RABBI JAMES omnipotent, that perhaps God is in search of you ROSENBERG God can do everyand me. After all, the search that thing. How could an metaphorically began in the Garden all-powerful God remain silent and of Eden – with God calling out to do nothing as the Nazis and their Adam, “Ayecha? Where are you?” accomplices murdered 6 million (Genesis 3, 9) – continues with the Jewish men, women and children? divine covenantal call to Abraham, While traditional Jewish texts “Lech lecha! Go forth largely affirm God’s from your native land omnipotence, other such texts endorse a ‘Perhaps God and from your father’s house to the land that I widely held idea that show you,” a search contradicts, even is in search of will for divine-human undermines, the notion involvement reaching to that God can do everyyou and me.’ this very day. thing. Consider the Perhaps, in our desidea of brit, which is perate attempt to make commonly translated as sense of our world, which seems to “covenant,” the idea that ever since be coming apart, we are twisting God’s call to Abraham (Genesis biblical, rabbinical and liturgical 12.1-3), God and the Jewish people texts to accommodate our hopes have been engaged in a special and dreams for a better future. Or relationship, a covenant, closely perhaps it is these sacred texts that linked to the challenging and, yes, problematic notion that we Jews are are twisting us into a yet-to-be covenantal reality, a brave new world in a chosen people, chosen by God. which God needs us as much as we The V’shamru, the text of Exodus need God. 31.16-17, serves as a prayer within the context of the Shabbat evening JAMES B. ROSENBERG is a rabbi worship service and is an explicit emeritus at Temple Habonim, expression of the brit, the covenant between God and the Jewish people: in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@templehabonim.org.

“The people of Israel shall keep the Sabbath, to maintain it as an everlasting covenant (brit olam)

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Annette and Roy Nassau made their home in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, and died at ages 90 and 84, respectively. They had four sons, including one with mental retardation and cerebral palsy who died at 55 years old. An infant boy, born prematurely in 1951, lived for only two days.

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DOES GOD NEED US? Does God need you? Does God need me?

At first glance, these questions seem absurd … if not blasphemous.

If God is God – that is to say, if God is omnipotent, if God is all powerful – then God does not need anybody or anything; God is self-sufficient.

The first sentence of our TANAKH, our Hebrew Bible, proclaims God’s infinite creative power: “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.” Our TANAKH, a library composed during the course of almost 1,000 years, in large part sings the praises of the all-powerful God. To this very day, our siddurim, our Jewish prayer books, shaped by our ancient, medieval and contemporary rabbis, continue to affirm God’s omnipotence. The central prayer of our weekday, Shabbat and Holy Day worship – often called the Amidah (said standing) or simply Ha-Tefilah (The prayer) – describes God as “the great, mighty, awesome, most exalted God.” It would seem, then, that it makes no sense at all to say that God could need either you or me in any way, shape or form.

But like just about everything else Jewish, this issue is more complicated than it seems at first.

Even a superficial look at biblical, rabbinical and liturgical texts suggests that God can’t do everything; in particular, God cannot be counted on to reward the righteous and punish the wicked.

Despite the insistence of the author of Deuteronomy that God always rewards goodness and punishes evil, the book of Job accuses God of punishing Job unjustly – this is the very same Job who is described as “blameless and upright,” a direct and flagrant contradiction to the rewards and punishments meted out in the book

by a slight detour to Via Cassia Cemetery. Most likely, any other American military cemetery would also bestow comparable pride and gratitude during these gut-wrenching times.

GEORGE M. GOODWIN, of Providence, is the editor of Rhode Island Jewish Historical Notes.

IN THE NEWS Israel’s Labor, Meretz parties merge

BY BEN SALES (JTA) – Israel’s Labor and Meretz parties announced on Sunday [June 30] that they would unite ahead of the next election in a bid to revive the country’s left and maximize its share of parliament.

The new party, called the Democrats, is the latest attempt to stem the more than 20-year decline of the Israeli left. Labor, which governed Israel for its first three decades, is now the smallest party in Knesset, Israel’s parliament. Meretz, to Labor’s left, did not receive enough votes in the most recent election to enter Knesset at all.

The merger hopes to avoid that result in the future and win the left a larger bloc of seats. The new party will be led by Yair Golan, a former Israeli general and Meretz lawmaker who gained acclaim for rescuing several people during Hamas’ invasion of Israel on Oct. 7.

He has become an outspoken critic of the right-wing government’s management of the war.

“The union of Labor and Meretz is a necessary step on the road to building a broad home for the liberal, democratic community in Israel, and a necessary condition for replacing the government,” Golan posted on X. But the war poses a challenge for the new party, whose members have for decades been identified with dovish policies and support for a Palestinian state, an idea that has increasingly fallen out of favor with Israeli voters after decades of failed negotiations and conflict. Surveys show that Oct. 7 and the war have pushed Israeli society further to the right; a survey taken earlier this year found that just 19% of Israeli Jews feel a Palestinian state can coexist in peace with Israel.

Polls have shown that a majority of Israelis support early elections, but by law the government is not required to call a vote until 2026.

One longtime Middle East analyst noted the significance of the party’s name, particularly in a year when Israel has been at the center of American political discourse. Aaron David Miller, a senior fellow at the Carnegie Endowment, wrote on X that the party’s stances are “likely reflecting where most US Democrats are; and with Likud and right wing holding a Vulcan mind meld with the GOP, Israeli and US politics merge with two very different images of Israel.”

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From the President

The Alliance comes of age The following remarks were delivered June 10 at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s 13th annual meeting. They have been lightly edited.

milestone in Jewish life. It is when our young people

the support of police departments across the state, who keep us safe, and give us the freedom and ability to pray and come together without fear. But rather than retreat into our community, our history has prepared us to share who we are, to invite others to join us. This building is a great example of that.

come of age. And in many ways, like the young people

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t’s an honor to be here with you all this evening for my seventh annual meeting as President and CEO of the Alliance, and the 13th annual meeting

of this amazing organization. Thirteen is a major

of our community who experience their Bar or Bat or B Mitzvahs each year, the Alliance is coming of age.

IT HAS BEEN 13 years since the Alliance was born out of the merger of the Jewish Federation of Rhode Island, the Jewish Community Center and the Bureau of Jewish Education. And in those 13 years we’ve grown up. We’ve experienced our early childhood, where the organizations learned to work together, where Jeffrey Savit and the team turned three organizations into one.

As we grew, our immediate needs became clear, and the Alliance raised more than $6.5 million to renovate and update the Dwares JCC, turning it into the beautiful building we are gathered in this evening.

In the last seven years, we have worked to build on the foundation of those early years, continuing to learn, grow and meet the needs of our Rhode Island Jewish community. We experienced highs and lows in the last seven years. We’ve navigated COVID as a community and as an organization.

We’ve supported communities in Ukraine as they fight for their independence and survival. We’ve brought the community together to celebrate and to mourn.

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who stand on the bimah to share what they have learned in their Jewish education as they have their first aliyah, it feels like the Alliance has had to apply everything we have learned as an organization over the last 12 years to our work this year.

We have brought our community together before in times of tragedy; earlier

wars in Israel, Pittsburgh, Poway, but nothing compares to the level of tragedy that our collective Jewish community faced on Oct. 7.

As the scale and the horror of that day settled in, the Alliance and our team did what we have learned to do, we brought the community together. We checked in on those in our community whose relatives were in harm’s way, some of whom lost family and friends. We brought the Rhode Island community together to grieve with us, to process yet another tragedy. We prayed for those held hostage and continue to pray for their release. And then we turned tragedy to action, raising more than $1 million to support our Israeli brothers and sisters. While we continue to mourn the innocent lives lost in this conflict on both sides, and as we pray for an end to this conflict, we remain steadfast in our support for the Israeli people and their right to have what we all desire, the ability to live safely, freely and without fear of attack from those who seek to do them harm.

The lessons we have learned over our 13 years have not only prepared us for the worst of times, but also the best of times. It can be easy to look at the dramatic rise in antisemitism and focus on the negative.

That our community is under attack, that we need to close ranks, secure our facilities and hunker down.

We are incredibly fortunate to have our security director, Nappy Brito, and

easily drive people away from the Jewish community, the Alliance and the Dwares JCC are thriving.

As of today, we have 957 membership units, up from around 400 at the valley of the pandemic. About half of those members do not identify as Jewish. These are people choosing to be a part of our community because we have created a welcoming environment here at the JCC, because we are a true community center. And never has that been more evident than at our inaugural Jewish Culture Fest. It was so inspiring to see so many people, Jewish, Jew-ish, or not at all Jewish embracing everything we love about our culture. Not just the food, or the klezmer music, but the art of making a Torah, or Mezuzah making. We shared all of who we are, and the community embraced it. It gives us much to build on, and I’m excited to do just that.

B’nai Mitzvahs can be a blur, and as we age, the details fade into the background and we remember the highlights. One of the things I remember from mine, 29 years ago, aside from how long the service was (thank you mom and dad for choosing the perfect storm of a double parshah, Israel Independence Day commemoration, and having both my sister and I go together). Anyway, I digress.

One of the things I remember is looking out from the bimah at all of the friends who joined me. That’s true for all of us, and as the Alliance turns 13, I’m grateful for our friends as well. The deep relationships we have built over the last 13 years that have made us who we are and sustained us.

After Oct. 7, I was sustained by the number of calls, texts and emails from clergy, from community leaders and from political leaders wanting to make sure our community was okay, and asking how they could help.

I was proud to cowrite a Boston Globe commentary with the President of Black Lives Matter Rhode Island. At a time where other chapters were saying terrible things about Israel and engaging in antisemitism, our local chapter stood with us, stood beside us. And at the State House, our political leaders stood with us, literally on stage with us at the community vigil, and then when it counted in passing an antisemitism resolution we supported. Sometimes it is easy to forget that the loudest voices get the most attention, but that the loudest voices aren’t always the majority. At a time where we can feel isolated, we should take a step back and look out to our friends.

As any Rabbi will tell you, 13 is when you come of age, but it is a beginning, not an end. In many ways, it is when our growing begins.

And as a community, we are poised for tremendous growth, with the Alliance leading the way. I’m certain of this because I’ve spent the last year working with 23 incredible community leaders in our Leadership Development program, who have been deeply engaging in how to sustain and grow our community now and into the future and how to create the kind of community we all desire. Each month, my ride home from those gatherings have been some of the most satisfying of my seven years at the Alliance, because after each one I am more and more sure of our community’s growth for the next generation.

I know we are poised for growth because of the incredible board we have at the Alliance, and because of all the incredible volunteers.

A community organization like ours is only successful when the community is truly involved, and over the last year I have seen that

time and again. Under Harris’ leadership, our board has dug even deeper to demonstrate leadership, volunteering to help us make thank you calls, showing up at events and bringing their friends, and supporting the organization with your time, talent, and treasure. I feel very fortunate to work with each of you, and Harris, I’m grateful for your steady leadership, your passion and your mentorship, and your friendship, and look forward to another year of working closely together.

And I know better days are ahead because of the amazing team of staff we have here at the Jewish Alliance.

I am so inspired each and every day, by the dedication of our team. Dedication and passion for their work, but also a deep dedication to every member of our community. You can see it in nearly every interaction that they have. They are always willing to help, always willing to lend a hand, always striving to do more. Please know that I’m grateful to each and every one of you, and on behalf of the community, thank you.

As the Alliance goes forward through adulthood, there will be many ups and downs, there will be trials and tribulations, good times and harder times. But our first 13 years have prepared us for all of it. And like those children who become Jewish adults, our adulthood is rooted in our Jewish values, rooted in our desire for a vibrant, thriving Jewish community for all, rooted in our deep and abiding belief that even in tough times we must find and lift up and spread Jewish joy. With such strong roots, with such a strong foundation we go forward, together. And I’m excited to take this next step in our journey with all of you.

ADAM GREENMAN is president and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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We need to speak with candor

BY RABBI HOWARD VOSS-ALTMAN This D’var Torah was presented at the Alliance annual meeting June 10. It has been lightly edited for publication.

FOR THOSE OF YOU who were at last year's Alliance annual meeting, I'm guessing you didn't see this year coming. To put it mildly, it's been a tough year for the Jews. The truth is, most of my conversations since Oct. 7 - outside of the ones I've had with my family - and even many of those - have been about Israel. And if the conversation is not about Israel directly, it's about our nation's response to…

Israel. With my current congregants, my former congregants, my fellow rabbis, my non-Jewish colleagues or anyone else in the world I've met since Oct. 7, there's only one subject to discuss.

And my guess is that most of you know exactly what I mean. Ever since Oct. 7, you've been unwittingly drafted - on an almost daily basis - to play a variety of roles; ambassador, critic, expert, neutral observer, source of inspiration, hard-bitten realist or all of the above, depending on the conversation. It's maddening, tiring, dispiriting and uplifting; and that was just today. As for me, I've been on this merry-go round for the past eight months, and I'm starting to feel a little wobbly. In the words of the great Jewish cartoonist, Roz Chast, "Can't we talk about something more pleasant?"

Alas, we cannot. So here goes. We're

no strangers to war. We're no strangers to terror, and we're certainly no strangers to self-defense. Most of us have lived through Israel's many battles, two frightening intifadas, too many "military operations" to name, and countless border skirmishes that remind us what a dangerous neighborhood Israel lives in. But this feels like an entirely different animal.

It's the extremes. The unprecedented viciousness of Hamas's attack.

Israel's punishing military response and the tens of thousands killed. The

anxiety surrounding the hostages.

The extremity of Netanyahu's coalition; the extremity of the anti-Israel campus protests; the extremity of the rising incidents of antisemitism; the almost paralyzing divisions in the Jewish community; the disturbing polarization in this country, and in Israel as well. Not only are we divided; but we feel even more divided than we are. Indeed, when I read Franklin Foer's infamous essay in the Atlantic, "The Golden Age of American Jews is Ending," I thought, "This could never have been written before Oct. 7." Which only goes to show that our so-called "Golden Age" wasn't nearly as golden as we imagined.

And while it's never a good idea to make predictions - especially when we're in the middle of a crisis - it might be prudent to think about the future and what role Jewish communal leaders are going to play as we navigate these uncertain times.

On May 29 and 30, a few hundred Reform Jews gathered at the Stephen S. Wise Free Synagogue in Manhattan for an event called "Recharging Reform Judaism," a conference dedicated to a much more vigorous pro-Israel stance in our movement.

Jodi Rudoren, the editor-in-chief of The Forward, attended and facilitated a program on how to talk to people you disagree with about Israel. In her description of how it went, she wrote, "Another rabbi in the room pointed out that this whole struggle over difficult conversations can be distilled into two fears. We’re afraid of losing a generation, he said, and we’re afraid of losing our identity."

I think this unnamed rabbi hit the nail on the head. We haven't felt these fears in a long time - or maybe ever - and now we are facing both of them simultaneously. And, even worse, we're not at all sure of how to go forward.

But for what it's worth, I think the path - the "derech" if you will - begins right here in this room. If we are afraid of losing a generation - and I presume the rabbi meant the younger

generation - then we'll need to speak with candor about the Israel they have come to know. The only Prime Minister our children and grandchildren have known is [Benjamin] Netanyahu, who has, with the exception of a few months, held the reins of power for more than 15 years. During this period, this generation has witnessed a rapidly expanding West Bank occupation, a ruling coalition that continues to be more extreme with every iteration, a proposed judicial overhaul that divided the nation, and the worst terrorist attack and loss of civilian life in Israel's history.

On our home front, Netanyahu's disdain for President Barack Obama, his disrespect for President Joe Biden, and his public embrace of President Donald Trump, has demonstrated a profound disregard for the voting preferences - and values - of the vast majority of American Jewry.

Fifteen years is not a snapshot, it's not a blip, it's not an aberration. It's the only Israeli leadership our youth has known, and it has been - objectively speaking - a political, spiritual and moral challenge for us all.

I don't have to guess, or speculate,

about the feelings of this generation.

All I have to do is ask my children, ages 28, 24 and 22. For years, all of them went to a Zionist summer camp in British Columbia; my son spent a gap year living on an urban kibbutz in Petach Tikvah, and is now the director of Habonim Dror North America, the Labor Zionist youth movement. He was in Tel Aviv on Oct. 7.

My daughters want to love Israel, but feel estranged and ashamed, while my son spends his days tilting at windmills, organizing the moribund Israeli left. All of them are serious, thoughtful Jews who feel disillusioned and sad. Not because of the war. They feel sad because they have never known the Israel they read about, sang about and were taught about. We're not losing a Jewish generation because they don't care: we're losing a generation because they do care; because they no longer believe

that the Jewish values we've taught them, the ones they cherish - hold sway in the State of Israel.

If we're going to keep the next generation engaged, the answer is - as the Torah teaches - neither in the heavens nor beyond the sea. It is, right here, in this room. It's our chance to offer a different narrative, a Jewish community in close alignment with their Jewish values, and their Jewish identity.

A narrative that begins here, with the Alliance's financial support for our community's day school, a school positively bursting at the seams with children and young families, a day school whose success and growth is inseparable from its core Jewish values.

A narrative that includes the story of Jewish Collaborative Services, its care for our seniors, its compassion for the vulnerable, its direct aid to the poor and the marginalized. It's the success of the Jewish Culture Fest last week, and the display of the breadth, diversity and talent of our remarkable people. And how about the hundreds of people who walk through these Alliance doors on a daily basis. They also testify to the ruach - the energy - that has sustained our people's endurance and vitality.

Every agency we support tells the

story of our people; every partner we work with demonstrates the Jewish values we live by. Every program we organize binds us closer together and affirms the Jewish identity we share; an identity that requires us to do justly, love mercy and walk humbly with our God. In every Alliance office, gymnasium, sanctuary and classroom, let us tell that story! May we be the ambassadors of this identity; may we show it - by our deeds - to the next generation, and may we, as a community, go from strength to strength.

RABBI HOWARD VOSS-ALTMAN is the rabbi at Temple Habonim in Barrington.

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Donald Dwares speaks to golfers before the start of play.

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Golfers enjoy some post-golfing refreshment. Daniel Kertzner is in the foreground.

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Annual Richard Bornstein golf tourney raises $90,000

BY BRIGITTE BAUM

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IDDLETOWN – As Donald Dwares prepared to fire the shotgun start for the 38th Annual Richard Bornstein Memorial Dwares JCC Golf Classic, on June 17, he told

the golfers, “It’s a great day to be here together, it’s a great day for golf, and nothing pleases me more than seeing everyone here for the same cause: the Dwares JCC!” THANKS TO THE EVENT SPONSORS and the 27 foursomes who participated, the event has raised $90,000 to date for the Alliance and the still-growing Fund-A-Need, which specifically benefited youth and family programming at the Dwares JCC. This year’s co-chairs, Peri Ann

Golfer takes a shot.

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Aptaker and Lisa Maybruch, exemplified true leadership and dedication. Their planning and commitment ensured that every detail was tended to, upholding the tournament’s reputation for excellence.

The atmosphere at the tournament, at the Wanumetonomy Golf and Country Club, was electric.

A golfer looks out over the course on a gorgeous day.

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Participants and spectators alike enjoyed the friendly competition, the camaraderie and the joy of knowing that their involvement directly supports vital family programs at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center, in Providence.

From the opening tee-off to the awards ceremony, there was a palpable sense of unity and shared purpose.

The tournament was named in memory of Richard Bornstein, a beloved community figure known for his commitment to philanthropy and community service. The event has become a cornerstone for the Alliance’s Dwares JCC, raising funds that support essential community programs and initiatives.

One of the key factors contrib-

The carts are all lined up and ready to go.

uting to the tournament’s continued success is its ability to bring together individuals who share a common goal. Participants, ranging from avid golfers to community leaders and supporters, gathered not only to enjoy a day on the greens but also to make a meaningful difference through their contributions.

If you would like to get involved in next year’s golf classic, and for more information on everything the Alliance’s Dwares JCC offers, email the development team at the Jewish Alliance, at jzwirn@jewishallianceri.org.

BRIGITTE BAUM is manager of donor engagement and events at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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A camper makes his way through the relay race.

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One of the CITs practices floating in the pool.

Camp is in session!

A camper creates his own superhero.

A camper high fiving a counselor during the relay race.

Painting during art elective.

Campers have the opportunity to choose an elective and this was the art elective period. During art electives, the campers can express themselves through a variety of art projects.

Running at camp is the best!

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Hadassah R.I. celebrates its past presidents at early summer gathering

Members and guests included 13 past presidents of Hadassah Rhode Island.

BY YARDENA KAPACH WINKLER

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adassah Rhode Island had a memorable celebration on June 9, honoring its past presidents and recounting sweet memories

at the North Kingstown home of Hadassah board member Monika (Curnett) Szynkarski.

MORE THAN 30 guests attended, including 13 past Hadassah R.I. presidents and current Southern New England Region President Jody Fredman. The former presidents were presented with gifts and presidential awards with a Chagall painting image and a biblical verse in appreciation of their leadership, devoted service and longstanding commitment to Hadassah.

The biblical verse, Proverbs 21:21, is: “One who pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.”

Before 1991, there were seven Hadassah chapters in Rhode Island – Woonsocket, Pawtucket, Providence, Cranston-Warwick, Kent County, South County and

Newport, Records Administrator Judy Silverman told the group. In 1991, they combined to form the Rhode Island Chapter, with seven groups. Later, a Nurses Council was formed, making eight groups. Then the groups were dissolved and became just one Rhode Island Chapter.

The following accounts, read at the meeting, are from two former Hadassah presidents, Rita Slom and Diane Ducoff.

Rita Slom

I was a bride at age 20 and had three sons by the time I was 24. If any of you had that experience, you know I had to get out of the house often.

My husband was good enough to let me have a babysitter fairly often. I

joined every group I could find and attended meetings, including Hadassah, which met during the day. Most of the women there were in their 40s or older. Therefore, I became secretary, then treasurer, and finally president when I was in my 30s!

The Newport chapter was part of the New England Region of Hadassah and eventually became part of the Western New England Region. Nobody could figure out the name, but we joined.

I was also involved in the new young women’s chapter in Providence.

After speaking in Worcester during an afternoon meeting, I was driving home when a drunk driver crossed the road and hit me head-on.

With both ankles broken and a few other injuries, I spent a week in the hospital in Newport.

It was Hanukkah and the hospital allowed my husband and sons to come every night to light the candles and give gifts. Fortunately, I had bought gifts for the family, and a nice lady in the hospital took them home and wrapped them for me.

It took me about five or six months to recover and get back to being president of the region.

My election to regional president gave me an automatic position on the National Board of Hadassah.

I often went to New York to attend the national board meetings.

In my first year, the presidents of the various regions were taken to Israel for a two-week visit. That was my first of four trips. My presidency was for three years and then I was on a service committee.

In 1995, the Hadassah National Convention was to be held in Jerusalem.

As president and a former National Board member, I was sent to represent Rhode Island, and went for my fourth visit. Nobody wanted to go with me, except my son Peter’s Catholic mother-in-law. She always wanted to visit the Holy Land. She got to see so much of her religion – it was wonderful. She also attended our sessions and visited sites with us.

While we had our meet-

ings, she went to see where Jesus had died. During our biggest session, we both heard [Israeli Prime Minister] Yitzhak Rabin speak. He was, unfortunately, killed two weeks later. That was my last trip to Israel.

I have been very fortunate to have these many Hadassah years. As I was ending my six years with National Hadassah, a friend who was vice president asked me what I was going to do with my spare time. Good question! I was 44 years old with nothing to do.

Well, within a year I was offered a job in the office of the Speaker of the Rhode Island House, and I spent [the next] 20 years in the Statehouse. My life had changed again, and I was commuting to Providence every day.

During that time, the local chapters of Hadassah decided to join together into the Rhode Island Chapter of Hadassah. We opened an office in Cranston and had a staff to run it. I became the second president of the CONTINUED ON PAGE 17

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Alliance holds 13th annual meeting, honors community members

BY FRAN OSTENDORF

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ROVIDENCE – Community members gathered on June 10 for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s 13th annual meeting, held at the

Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center.

IN ADDITION to installing a new board and voices of hate. The and officers, the event celebrated the Alliance leaders, lay past year's accomplishments and and professional, look recognized leadership. fear in its face and disRabbi Howard Voss-Altman, of play strength, courage Temple Habonim, in Barrington, and confidence. gave a D’var Torah that addressed “By educating and PHOTOS | FRAN The audience listens to speeches at the annual meeting of the Jewish Alliance the situation in Israel. Read his forging alliances with OSTENDORF of Greater Rhode Island. remarks on page 13. our local, state and Richard Licht, chair of the first federal officials, by takincluding serving on the Alliance’s going above and beyond in her work Alliance board, installed the officers ing a solidarity mission to Israel, by board and as vice chair of communiand commitment to the Alliance. and board members of the Jewish confronting antisemitism whether cations.

Special recognition went to retirAlliance of Greater Rhode Island, on college campuses in any of our The Tillis Award for Community ing staff members Sara Foster and the Jewish Federacities or towns or Relations was presented to Ryan Rebecca Darezzo, who Greenman tion Foundation and wherever it appears, Forman by Community Relations said have both had a big impact on the Alliance Realty or by celebrating Council chair Cara Mitnick, who the community.

Board.

Jewish life, as was spoke of Forman’s efforts at building Greenman also reflected on the He began his predone a week ago [at community and his advocacy, as well Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode sentation by saying, the Jewish Culture as his interfaith outreach.

Island’s Bar Mitzvah year. The Alli“These are challengFest, June 2], we are “I appreciate his low-key approach ance brought together as one entity ing times for Jews not only safer, but to solving problems,” she said. the Jewish Federation of Greater wherever they may Rhode Island is a R.I., the Jewish Community Center Alliance President and CEO Adam be. The forces of better place to live.” and the Bureau of Jewish Education.

Greenman presented a Special antisemitism, which Licht went on to “The Alliance is coming of age,” Award to Miriam Esther Weiner for include antizionsay that the newly he said. “We have grown up.” her years of service to Providence ism, are rampant installed leaders He challenged the audience to step Hebrew Day School and the Rhode in our nation and will surely serve up their community service, saying Island Jewish community. the world, and in with distinction the community can only be suc“She is a passionate advocate for too many quarters and effectiveness, cessful when everyone is involved. all of Jewish Rhode Island,” Greendemonizing our like those who have Adam Greenman You can read Greenman’s complete man said. people is not only served before them. statement on Page 12.

Weiner is moving to Phoenix this accepted but chamThe Reisman summer to become head of a private pioned.

Leadership Development Award FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@ girls school.

“We are fearful. But we are fortuwas presented to Avi Rosenstein by jewishallianceri.org) is the editor of Greenman then presented the Gail nate that here in our small but wonboard chair Harris Chorney, who Jewish Rhode Island.

Putnam Award to Alcira Tetreault, derful state, the Alliance is a bastion cited Rosenstein’s significant service the Alliance’s director of wellness which tirelessly combats the forces to the Alliance and the community, and member experience, for always

CONTINUED FROM PAGE 16 chapter and spent one year in this role.

After I left my position as a state worker, I became canvassing secretary in Newport, running elections for 10 years. I also became the first woman president of Touro Synagogue, a position I kept for one year. I have been on that board for almost 50 years. And I am 91 years old.

Diane Ducoff

It was a time of very mixed feelings when National Hadassah advised its seven existing chapters in Rhode Island to unite. The goal was to form a statewide chapter and reorganize the existing

structure of Hadassah life in Little Rhody.

If one does not reside in Rhode Island, it is difficult to comprehend the mentality of driving more than 20 minutes to a meeting or an event being a huge obstacle for volunteer participation.

But, alas, in our compact and unique state, such a reality was quite accurate.

But change was in the air, and the seven individual chapters in Rhode Island would soon relinquish their individual charters, and the Rhode Island Chapter of Hadassah was formally created.

I had the honor of being the very first statewide president

of the Rhode Island Chapter of Hadassah, and the fond memories I have of that experience are very special to me.

With an incredible team of dedicated and talented women, a location was selected for an official Rhode Island Hadassah office, in Cranston. We ordered stationery with our Hadassah logo, and an administrative assistant was hired. It was a very exciting time. We were off and running and, as the saying goes, the rest is history!

What I remember most fondly from my one-year tenure as the first president of Hadassah R.I. are the opportunities I had to form friendships with women from all

across the state and throughout Western New England.

My involvement in Hadassah has always strongly influenced my Jewish and Zionist pride – a commitment that has only strengthened over time. This commitment gives me hope for a bright future … even as we endure the unimaginable crisis in Israel. Am Yisrael chai!

Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, was established in 1912. Working to advance philanthropy as well as women’s leadership, advocacy and health, Hadassah has over 300,000 members and supporters.

Hadassah Rhode Island and

the Southern New England Region invite everyone to join us on Wednesday, Aug. 7, for the Books on The Beach luncheon and author program, at the Wyndham Newport Hotel, in Middletown. All proceeds and donations will go to support the new Hadassah Gandel Rehabilitation Center, in Jerusalem, and are much needed in this time of war.

For more information and to register, email chapri@ hadassah.org or call (857) 404-0599.

YARDENA KAPACH WINKLER is the president of Hadassah Rhode Island.

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Moving on THE JEWISH COMMUNITY DAY SCHOOL of Rhode Island’s Class of 2024 crossed the stage on June 14 in the JCDSRI Goldberg Gymnasium.

The 10 fifth graders plan to attend various middle schools in the fall and look forward to sharing all that they’ve learned with their new classmates. A special shout out

to the fifth grade teaching team, Erika Rusley, Andrea Allgood, Tal Ginzburg and Tiferet Rose for preparing these confident, strong and compassionate learners as they embark on middle school. Also, a special todah rabah (thank you) to Principal Jill Davis for overseeing and planning the special event.

Rosalie Furman addresses the audience.

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Priya Licht addresses the audience.

Head of School, Andrea Katzman, shares words of wisdom with the graduates.

Elias BouRamia addresses the audience.

Milestone moments New England Academy of Torah graduates with their Principal, Marsha Gibber, at their graduation on June 9.

PHDS Kindergartener Etti Borenstein with her teachers, Lynn Jakubowicz and Miriam Klein, at the PHDS Kindergarten moving up celebration on June 17.

Providence Hebrew Day School eighth grade girls at their graduation on June 16.

PHDS Pre-Ker Yosef Bielory with his teachers, Lynn Jakubowicz and Caraline Connor, at the PHDS Pre-K graduation on June 18.

STUDENTS AT THE Providence Hebrew Day School and the New England Academy of Torah celebrated various milestones at the East Side of Providence school in June.

Providence Hebrew Day School eighth grade boys with Head of School, Rabbi Menachem Z. Weissmann, and Judaic Studies Teacher, Rabbi Yechezkel Yudkowsky, at their graduation on June 16.

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JCS Kosher Food Pantry celebrates 15 years of compassion and community

BY JESSICA MURPHY HOARD

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ROVIDENCE – May marked a significant milestone for The Full Plate Kosher Food Pantry – for 15 years, the pantry, in

partnership with the Rhode Island Community Food Bank, has provided nutritious kosher food to individuals and families in need.

ESTABLISHED DURING the in particular, highlighted Great Recession as the first the vital role of the Kosher kosher food pantry in Rhode Food Pantry in providing Island, the Full Plate Kosher nutritious food and essential Food Pantry has been a testahousehold and personal-care ment to the enduring values supplies to people facing of tikkun olam – repairing unprecedented challenges. the world – and communal With the support of genersolidarity. From its humble ous donors and community beginnings in 2009, operatpartners, including the ing out of the former Jewish Rhode Island Community Seniors Agency of R.I. office Food Bank, the Rhode Island on Niantic Avenue in ProviFoundation and the Jewish dence, to its current home at Alliance of Greater Rhode Jewish Collaborative SerIsland, in addition to many vices, at 1165 North Main St., generous individual donors, the pantry has continuously the pantry has been able to evolved to meet the needs of expand its outreach efforts the community. and enhance its operational Led by capabilities.

Kristany As the Jaycox, the pantry celepantry coorbrates its 15th dinator, and anniversary, supported by a the staff and dedicated team volunteers of volunteers, look to the the pantry future with has become a optimism and lifeline for over a determina200 households tion to serve each month. all in need.

The original pantry signage.

Open on The food Wednesdays, Thursdays and pantry accepts kosher food Fridays for “shopping,” and donations. Current food offering delivery options items that would be espefor those unable to visit in cially helpful include canned person, the pantry ensures salmon, sardines, jellies/ that no one in the community jams and toiletries. For more goes hungry. information, email Kristany The dedication and selfless- Jaycox, pantry coordinator, ness of the pantry’s volunat Kristany@jcsri.org, or call teers have been integral to 401-415-8218. its success. From shopping, To make a financial gift, go stocking and bagging food to to https://jcsri.org/donate/ delivering groceries, volundonate-now and designate teers have played a pivotal your gift for The Full Plate role in upholding the pantry’s Kosher Food Pantry. mission. Their commitment If you are interested in to service illustrates the volunteering with the pantry, spirit of community and email volunteer coordinator compassion that defines the Laura Cole, at Laura@jcsri.

Kosher Food Pantry. org.

Over the years, the pantry has had a profound impact on JESSICA MURPHY HOARD is the health and wellness of the senior manager of marketing and communications at Jewish community, particuJewish Collaborative Services. larly during times of crisis.

The COVID-19 pandemic,

A visit to the Full Plate Kosher Food Pantry gives local students a chance to hear about its important place in the community.

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Congregation Beth David presents Music through the Ages with Cantor Elias Rosemberg

Renowned for his rich baritone voice, inimitable spirit and irresistible enthusiasm, Argentinian born Elias Rosemberg is cantor at Newton’s Temple Emanuel and has performed in concert, on radio and television from Buenos Aires to New England. Featured on three of the Cantor Assembly CDs, his concerts are a musical journey, blending Latin rhythms, opera, cantorial melodies, and Broadway tunes.

Sunday, July 21, 2024, 7:30 p.m.

Narragansett Community Center, 53 Mumford Road, Narragansett, RI Tickets: $45 each; sponsorships - $480 (includes eight tickets and preferred seating)

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Ticket Order Form Name:_________________________ No. tickets ___ sponsorships ___ Address: _______________________________ Phone:______________ Email: __________________________________ Make checks payable to Congregation Beth David and mail to Congregation Beth David, PO Box 3299, Narragansett, RI 02882.

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Chased Schel Amess Assn. installs officers THE 111TH ANNUAL Meeting of the Chased Schel Amess Association (Lincoln Park Cemetery) was held on Sunday, June 9, at Tamarisk Senior Living Residence.

The following officers were installed for a term of one year:

President: Aaron Weintraub, 1st Vice President: David

Mossberg,

2nd Vice President: Michael Weiner,

Financial Secretary: Susan Vederman,

Treasurer: Steven Sholes Board Members at Large installed for a term of three years: Arline

Elman, Steven Hershey, Lowell Lisker, Michael Penn, Mona Scheraga, Garrett Sock

Board Member at Large installed for a term of two years: Ried Redlich

Board Members at Large installed for a term of one year: Cheryl

Adessi, Lynda Golditch

The following Board Members at Large have a term of two years remaining: David Altman, Andrew Gilstein, Aaron Guttin, Bruce Wasser, Linda Weisman

The following Board Members at Large have a term of one year remaining: Marc Gertsacov, Sam

Mendelowitz, Gerald Sherman, Marvin Stark The Installing Officer was Murry Gereboff.

Submitted by Publicity Chairman Lowell Lisker

Temple Sinai offers new members 6 months free CRANSTON – For Jews who are feeling the pull to return to synagogue, Temple Sinai is offering free membership for six months, from July through the end of December.

“Being Jewish has never been easy, but we are now living through a moment when many disconnected Jews are looking for the support and comfort of a meaningful Jewish community to help them deal with the rise of antisemitism, the war in Gaza and the pressures of everyday living,” said Sinai’s Rabbi Jeff Goldwasser.

He contin-

ued, “We understand that many people are interested in connecting with a like-minded congregation, but it may seem daunting, especially if they’ve never joined a congregation before.”

The offer of free membership includes tickets to the congregation’s High Holy Days services for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. New members will still need to pay tuition for Religious School if they have children who will attend.

“We are living in a new era,” Goldwasser said.

“Once upon a time, Jews joined synagogues just

because it was what you are supposed to do. Those days are over. Jewish families and individuals want to find a place in a Jewish community that reflects their values and that gives them a place to discuss and process the challenges they face.

“They want to experience being part of a real community, engaging in real learning, and attending services that are meaningful and fulfilling.”

For more information about Temple Sinai, call the office at 401-942-8350, or email dottie@templesinairi.org.

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Autism treatment inspires movie

Rick Granoff and director Tony Goldwyn at the movie premiere.

“EZRA” FOLLOWS MAX, a stand-up comedian who lives with his father Stan and struggles to co-parent his autistic son Ezra with his soon-to-be ex-wife. The movie stars Bobby Carnnavale, Rose Byrne and Robert De Niro and was directed by Tony Goldwyn. The movie’s producer, William Horberg, brought his son to the out-pa-

tient program at Bradley Hospital’s Autism Center for life-changing treatment in 2021, after connecting with Rick Granoff who is on the board at Bradley. Granoff was instrumental in bringing the movie premiere to Rhode Island in May. “Ezra” can be streamed online on Netflix, Prime, Apple TV and other streaming services.

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The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association holds annual meeting

TMH Women’s Association Officers 2024 (left to right): Amy Page DiBlasio, Fredda Sharfstein, Paula Cofone (President), Susan Guerra (Installing Officer), Marianne Litwin, Ellen Golden, Nancy Riffle, Barbara Kahn. Not Pictured: Mary Gagnon, Celia Harms, Sara Masri

BY BARBARA BROWN SEEKONK, Mass. – The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association held its 127th Annual Meeting and awarded its 39th Annual Recognition Award on June 5, at Ledgemont Country Club.

Past President Susan Guerra installed the incoming officers for 2024: Paula Cofone, president; Fredda Sharfstein and Sara Masri, co-vice presidents, Program Development; Amy

Page DeBlasio and Ellen Golden, co-vice presidents, Membership; Celia Harms and Barbara Kahn, co-vice presidents, Equipped for Exceptional Care; Marianne Litwin, treasurer; Nancy Riffle, correspondence secretary; and Mary Gagnon, recording secretary.

Rabbi Sarah Mack and Cantor Judith Seplowin led prayers for the 60 people gathered for the meeting.

Then Riffle presented a check to Maria Ducharme,

president of The Miriam Hospital, for equipment that will be purchased as a result of the Women’s Association’s fundraising efforts, which were doubled this year to pay for an i-STAT Analyzer for the Medical Imaging Department and a BD Prevue II Ultrasound Console for the Vascular Access Team.

Maria Ducharme gave a report on the hospital, including future plans for Building A.

Lenore Leach, the originator of the recognition award, presented this year’s award to Sherry Cohen, a past president.

Cohen was then praised by many speakers, including Rabbi Mack, who noted that Cohen was a leader who has been the Sisterhood president at Temple Beth-El, in Providence, and who started Hineinu, the friendly-visitor program at the temple. Past presidents Robin Engle and Barbara Horovitz Brown

spoke about how Cohen has been a role model.

For more information about The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association and how to become a member of this historical organization, email vickie.scott@lifespan. org or call 401-793-2520.

BARBARA BROWN is a past president of The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association.

Rhode Island Foundation offers grants to R.I. Jewish groups

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ROVIDENCE – Jewish community charitable organizations, synagogues and day schools serving the greater Providence

area have until July 12 to apply for more than $40,000 in grants through the Bliss, Gross, Horowitz Fund at the Rhode Island Foundation.

“TAKING ON HUNGER and hatred and encouraging brotherhood and understanding are at the core of our tradition of civic leadership and tikkun olam,” said David N. Cicilline, the foundation’s president and CEO. “We are grateful to be able to offer this additional source of support for the important work our com-

munity does.”

The Bliss, Gross, Horowitz Fund awards grants to proposals that develop connections between the Jewish community and greater Rhode Island; deepen the understanding of Jewish life and culture through scholarship and historic preservation; or provide for basic needs such as food

and housing.

In addition, Jewish charitable organizations that provide these services can apply for a grant to support capacity-building activities such as board development, strategic planning, nonprofit business development, fundraising or program evaluations.

Synagogues and religious day schools are eligible to apply only for project support, and their proposals must be non-sectarian in nature and designed to reach beyond their own constituents. Capital requests are not eligible for funding under this grant program.

Grants typically range from $5,000 to $10,000.

Priority will be given to proposals that have clearly stated goals and objectives, measurable outcomes and a clear sustainability plan.

Organizations that received funding recently include the Jewish Alliance, to offer educational programs for audiences beyond the Jewish community; Jewish Children’s Homes of R.I., to provide summer camp scholarships and to encourage interfaith families to attend; and Jewish Collaborative Services, to buy kosher food for the Full Plate Kosher Food Pantry.

For more information about applying for a grant from the Bliss, Gross, Horowitz Fund, go to rifoundation. org.

The Rhode Island Foundation is the largest and most comprehensive funder of nonprofit organizations in Rhode Island. Through civic leadership, fundraising and grant-making activities, often in partnership with individuals and organizations, the foundation aims to improve the lives of all Rhode Islanders.

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Thank you, Rhode Island DEAR RHODE ISLAND. I was very happy and touched to see my name in the Jewish Rhody this week [June 2024]. It warms my heart to know you still remember me, even 10 years after my last summer at the JCC’s summer camp.

Even though I haven’t been able to visit since then, please know you are always in my heart and thoughts, and I will always consider your wonderful community as my home away from home.

As it was written, my home, Kibbutz Holit, was attacked on October 7th. The kibbutz was taken by tens of terrorists, and we have lost 15 people from our community who were murdered that day. During the fight of the IDF to take the kibbutz back, we also lost 2 brave soldiers who rushed into the fight to save us.

My family and I weren't at the kibbutz at the time of the attack, and watched with horror the texts on the

kibbutz’s WhatsApp group how our friends are fighting for their lives and calling for help that came only later that day.

I was drafted with my reserve unit on that day and was busy fighting on different fronts since that day, some of that time literally guarding my home, and fighting in Gaza to try and bring back the safety that we felt until that horrible day.

I am writing to you now from a special course for reserve fighting officers that I am attending in order to continue my reserve service as a platoon leader in the IDF infantry corps.

Our community was evacuated from the kibbutz that is still considered a restricted military zone to a hotel in a kibbutz in Ein Gedi, and we are busy rebuilding our community and home.

At the moment, it is estimated we will be able to get back to Holit only in 2 years from now since there

is heavy damage to repair in the kibbutz.

We are now working on building our temporary kibbutz in Revivim where we will move to this summer, and we will plan and rebuild our kibbutz.

This is a very difficult time for us, but we are doing all that we can in order to get back to our home that will be better, safer, and even more beautiful than it was before.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers for us.

It really makes us stronger to know that you are with us, and hopefully, sooner than later, I will be able to invite you to visit our flourishing beautiful home.

Miss you all!

Maor Maor Mintz served as J-Camp shaliach during the summers of 2013 and 2014.

On page 25 of the June JRI, we ran photos from Kibbutz Revivim submitted by Nitza Attali and mentioning Mintz.

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Maor Mintz sent this photo and writes: 10 years ago, during Operation Protective Edge 10 years ago, my reserve company was drafted to protect Kibbutz Be'eri, while I was a summer camp counselor at the JCC’s J-camp. Thanks to your kindness and the amazing efforts of Mel Alperin and Nitza Attali we sent to my company a donation of backpacks. As you can see, we still use these backpacks, and wanted once again to show our gratitude and appreciation for your kind help!

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Alliance, other groups receive $400,000 grant to fight hate crimes

BY EMMA NEWBERY

T

he Rhode Island Attorney General’s Office has been awarded a Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Program grant to

increase education on reporting and combating hate crimes across the state.

THE $400,000 grant, awarded by the U.S. Department of Justice, will provide crucial support in Rhode Island’s efforts to battle bigotry and discrimination and promote tolerance and understanding.

To confront the alarming trend of hate crimes head-on, the attorney general’s office has named five organizations as sub-recipients of the grant: the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, the Non-Violence Institute, the Center for Southeast Asians, Youth Pride, Inc., and the Rhode Island Commission on Prejudice and Bias. Each organization will play an

integral role in implementing programming aimed at increasing public awareness and reporting of hate crimes.

Hate crimes remain a persistent problem in Rhode Island, with statistics highlighting the urgent need for action. According to recent data, Rhode Island experienced a rise in hate crimes in 2022, with “religion” outstripping “race/ethnicity/ ancestry,” “sexual orientation,” “disability,” “gender” and “gender identity” as the top bias motivation category.

Across the country, 2,042 hate crimes based on religious bias were reported to the FBI in 2022,

with over half of those acts perpetrated against Jewish Americans. These acts of bigotry and intolerance not only threaten the safety and well-being of individuals but also undermine the fabric of our communities.

All 49 of the law-enforcement agencies in the state of Rhode Island report their hate-crime data to the U.S. Department of Justice, forming a meaningful picture of how hate has spread across the state. The importance of reporting hate crimes – both knowing how to do so and the act of doing so – is at the heart of the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crime Program grants.

The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island has a steadfast commitment to combating hate and fostering inclusivity and has been working to raise awareness about hate crimes and provide support to those who experience them.

Most notably, the Alli-

ance’s outreach efforts include fostering partnerships with non-Jewish organizations and leaders to combat prejudice and promote inclusivity, as well as educating the local Jewish community and partners about understanding modern antisemitism and how to report incidents of bias.

The Jewish Alliance’s professional team also offers connections to law enforcement and other needed support when a community member experiences an act of hate or bias.

When acts of hate have been perpetuated against other marginalized communities, such as the arson threat to Shiloh Gospel Temple Ministries, in North Providence, the Alliance reaches out to connect and reaffirm the importance of connectivity and acceptance in Rhode Island, and Jewish representatives show up in solidarity.

In addition to community support and solidar-

ity, reporting hate crimes is essential in ensuring that perpetrators are held accountable and victims receive the support they need.

For individuals who have experienced or witnessed a hate crime, resources are available for reporting. The Rhode Island Attorney General’s Office provides a Hate Crimes Reporting Form on its website, allowing individuals to report incidents of hate or bias.

For reports specifically involving antisemitism, victims and witnesses can also use the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s Antisemitism Tracker, at https://www.jewishallianceri.org/connect/education-resources/antisemitic-activity-tracker.

EMMA NEWBERY is the policy and community engagement manager at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

Plans to create a Community Hevra Kadisha in R.I. move forward

BY MARSHA MILLER PROVIDENCE – About 50 people gathered in a circle in the social hall at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center on May 30 to talk about death, specifically Jewish rituals surrounding death.

The group talked about their own experiences of having lost someone they loved, about preparing Jewish bodies for burial, about sitting with bodies (sh’mirah) and sitting shivah.

The evening, supported by the Rhode Island Board of Rabbis, was a start to a broader community conversation about developing an inclusive Community Hevra Kadisha (Holy Society).

Currently, most Jewish

Rhode islanders who have tahara (the washing and preparation of the deceased for burial) are tended to by the Chevra Kadisha of Rhode Island. This group has been doing this beautiful ritual for more than 20 years. But membership in this group is only extended to Jewish people with a specific level of observance.

It is the goal of an inclusive Community Hevra Kadisha to open up this mitzvah to all Jewish people in Rhode Island.

The event on May 30 was the first step in getting the word out and learning about the Jewish rituals for taking care of our dead.

One of the most lovely aspects of these rituals is that any Jewish person can perform them; one need not

be a “medical person” or a rabbi – just being a Jew enables one to volunteer for the Hevra Kadisha. Jews of all backgrounds and genders are welcome to join in this sacred mitzvah.

Ten years ago, the Community Hevra Kadisha of Greater Boston was formed, and it now attends to the greater metropolitan area of Boston. With 130 volunteers, this group has been an inspiration to us in Rhode Island.

The Rhode Island Board of Rabbis is working to support the steps it will take to develop a Community Hevra Kadisha, including training on how to perform tahara and “living room learning sessions” to explore Jewish end-of-life rituals.

Even if you are not drawn

First meeting at the Dwares JCC. to becoming a member of the Hevra Kadisha, having a chance to discuss and understand Jewish rituals can be a valuable learning experience.

To learn more about the planning for a Community Hevra Kadisha, email Com-

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munityHevraRI@gmail. com.

MARSHA MILLER is the organizer of the Community Hevra Kadisha, with the support and endorsement of the Rhode Island Board of Rabbis.

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OBITUARIES Zita Brier, 94

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Zita Brier passed away on June 29, 2024, at the HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center in Providence. Zita was a lifelong Rhode Island resident and was predeceased by her husband, Milton, to whom she was married for 62 years.

Zita, a 1951 graduate of Pembroke College (Brown University), cofounded the Personnel People, a temporary placement company in Providence. Previously she worked as a research assistant to Dr. J. Walter Wilson at Brown University and as a travel agent at Fine Travel.

Zita is survived by her three children: Neil Brier of Brooklyn, New York; Jeffrey (Jessica) Brier of Boynton Beach, Florida; and Judith (Kevin) Donnelly of Wellesley, Massachusetts. She was the grandmother to Beth (Heiberg Gonzales) Brier z”l, Jacob (Dani) Brier, Lisa (Peter Jarow) Donnelly and Jennifer (Miles) Grimshaw and great-grandmother to Soren Brier, Charlie Jarow, Tate Grimshaw, Hallie Grimshaw and Emmanuel Gonzales.

Donations may be made to The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association, 164 Summit Ave., Providence, RI 02906 or to a charity of your choice.

Marcia Golden, 91

NARRAGANSETT, R.I. – Marcia Golden died June 22, 2024, at the South County Hospital in Wakefield.

She was the beloved wife of the late Shelton Golden. Born in Providence, a daughter of the late Harry and Jenny (Belford) Zakoff, she had lived in Narragansett and Hallandale Beach, Florida, previously living in Cranston.

She was a social worker and Senior Rate Analyst for the State of RI for 37 years, retiring in 1995. Marcia was a member of Congregation Beth David.

She was the devoted mother of Brent Golden and his wife, Laurie, of Narragansett. She was the dear sister-in-law of Paul Golden. She was the loving grandmother of Lynzie Ford and her husband, Sorran; andJoshua Golden and his wife, Emily. She was the cherished great-grandmother of Shiye, Sloan, Jett and Caroline. She was the dear sister of the late Edith Perlow, Estelle Hodosh and Evelyn Gersten.

Contributions may be made to the National Kidney Foundation (https://www.kidney. org/?campaign=497078), Gift Processing at National Kidney Foundation HQ, 30 East 33rd St., New York, NY 10016 or American Parkinson Disease Association, P.O. Box 41659, Providence, RI 02940.

Jason Golditch, 56

CRANSTON, R.I. – Jason Alan Golditch died unexpectedly on June 6, 2024. He was the beloved husband of Lynda (Zenofsky) Golditch for 18 years. Born in Providence, he was a son of Marian (Malenbaum) Golditch and the late William Golditch. Raised in Providence, he later moved to Cranston. He attended Rhode Island College and received a bachelor’s degree in communications. He was a senior producer and director of production with Capitol Television by the RI General Assembly for over 35 years.

He was a member of Temple Beth-El, its Brotherhood and the Touro Fraternal Association.

He was the devoted father of Jeffrey Golditch, of Newark, Deleware; Ethan Golditch, of Bloomington, Indiana; and Ryan Golditch, of Cranston. He was the dear brother of Neil Golditch and his wife, Liz, of Johnston; and Gary Golditch and his wife, Manuela, of Cranston.

Contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.

Samuel Jarcho, 93

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Samuel Jarcho died June 23, 2024, at The Miriam Hospital. He was the beloved husband of Gloria (Perlman) Jarcho for 67 years.

Born in Providence, a son of the late Robert and Sarah (Russian) Jarcho, he was a lifelong Providence resident.

He was a math teacher at Johnson & Wales for over 25 years and owner of Hovey’s TV Repair for 30 years, prior to his retirement. Samuel was a Korean Conflict Army veteran, serving in Germany. He was a member of Providence Hebrew Free Loan, Touro Fraternal Association, Temple Beth-El and its brotherhood, the NEA, RI Teachers Union and the Jewish War Veterans. He earned a B.S. from RIC in 1990.

He was a former member of Temple Emanu-El. He was the devoted father of Sheryl Tareco and her husband, Joseph, of Florida and Amy Debiaso of Providence.

He was the dear brother of the late Myer Jarcho, Harold G. Jarcho and Harriet Herskowitz. He was the loving

grandfather of Sarah (Blake) Bjornstad of Florida and Andrea (Anthony) Caldwell of Illinois. He was the cherished great-grandfather of Coraline.

Contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.

Edward Kaufman, 76

OCEANSIDE, CALIF. – Edward (Eddie) Kaufman passed away on June 17, 2024.

He was the beloved husband of Sandi Kaufman. He was the son of John Kaufman and Rose Gregerman Kaufman. He was the brother of Barbara Kaufman Rubin. He was the father of Rande Kaufman Levine of Poolsville, Maryland, and Stacey Kaufman of Oceanside, California. He also leaves three cherished grandsons.

Eddie was born and raised in Cranston. He was a Navy veteran. He raised his family with his then wife, Carol Levin Kaufman, in Potomac Maryland. He later relocated to South Florida for many years.

More recently, he and his wife, Sandi, moved to Oceanside.

Ed was a great cook and chef. He ran a successful restaurant, Petito’s in the Washington, D.C., area at one time.

Milton Nachbar, 90

NORTH PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Milton Nachbar, of North Providence, passed away June 18, 2024, at Greenville Health Center. He was the loving husband of Rona (Namerow) Nachbar, with whom he shared 62 years of marriage.

Born in Providence, he was the son of the late Nathan and Bessie (Arons) Nachbar, and father of the late Stephanie (Nachbar) Rainey.

Milton earned a bachelor’s degree from Bryant College (now Bryant University) and a master’s degree in Education from the University of Rhode Island. Mr. Nachbar was a teacher in the Business department at Dighton-Rehoboth Regional High School for many years before retiring. A long-time member of Temple Beth-El and its Brotherhood, he was the producer of the cable television show, Access Rhode Island (A.R.I.), sponsored by the Brotherhood.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by: three granddaughters, Rachel, Elayna and Rebecca; a son-in-law, Neal Rainey and his wife, Alyssa, and many nieces and nephews.

He was the brother of the late Sylvia Penn, Evelyn Rose, Isadore, Robert, Leon and Howard Nachbar.

Memorial contributions may be made to: Rabbi Leslie Y. Gutterman Religious School

Endowment, 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence, RI 02906 or to a charity of your choice.

Charles Mandell, 82

Dr. Charles H. Mandell, known to all as "Charlie," a beloved husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, brother and uncle, passed away on June 17, 2024. A friendly, kind-hearted person with the gift of gab, he will be missed by all who knew him.

Charlie was born on May 5, 1942, in Providence to Dr. Israel Mandell and Claire (Katz) Mandell. He grew up in Providence, attending public schools and spending many summers at Camp Bauercrest in Amesbury, Massachusetts.

He also attended Sunday school at Temple Emanu-El where he first met his wife of more than 60 years, Jane (Finberg) Mandell.

Charlie graduated from Classical High School in 1959 and was elected president of the senior class. He attended Brown University, where he majored in International Relations, graduating in 1963.

Next came medical school at Tufts University and radiology residency at Albert Einstein Medical College.

Charlie practiced radiology for over 50 years, a feat very few physicians achieve. His career began at Rhode Island Hospital in Providence and continued for more than 25 years at then Charlton Memorial Hospital in Fall River, Massachusetts. In his 60s and beyond, Charlie shifted to an independent contractor, traveling the country with Jane – to work short-term stints at hospitals from Nantucket to

Naples.

As those who knew him can attest, Charlie was also a serial entrepreneur – forming and building businesses in a variety of fields, some of them medically-related. These included variety of rental and renovate-and-flip real estate projects, solar and hydroelectric energy ventures, and an orthopedic business. Over the past 15 years, he has helped build the telemedicine company American Radiologists, Inc. and the medical software firm Umedex.

Beyond his work, Charlie enjoyed travelling to more than 50 countries, reading, going to dinner, seeing friends, spending time with his family – all with Jane by his side.

Charlie is survived by Jane, his sons David and Kenneth Mandell, daughters-in-law Sheila and Jacqueline Mandell, grandsons Zachary and Harrison Mandell, numerous cousins, nieces and nephews and a wide circle of friends.

Contributions can be made to National Jewish Health in Denver, Colorado, where Charlie volunteered his energies.

Louis Pulner, 66

CRANSTON, R.I. – Louis M. Pulner passed away on June 10, 2024, at Rhode Island Hospital, in Providence.

A proud Rhode Islander, Lou was born in Providence on July 13, 1957, to Norma (Shapiro) Ryan and the late Sidney Pulner. He attended Classical High School before heading off to Providence College and, eventually, Suffolk University Law School, in Boston, Massachusetts, where he received a JD. For all of Lou’s achieve-

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OBITUARIES ments and passions, nothing was more important to him than his family. He is survived by his adoring mother, Norma, and his sister, Pamela Pulner.

He was a loving and devoted father to Stephanie Pulner and Andrew (Lauren) Pulner, grandfather to Jonathan and Madeleine Pulner, and uncle to Alexa Auerbach. He also leaves behind his chosen family, Stacey and Eugene Mihaly, of Jamestown.

Never one to shy away from a good debate, Lou was an accomplished attorney and litigator. He began his legal career at the RI Attorney General’s office as a Special Assistant Attorney General, where he soon made a name for himself prosecuting drunk drivers in conjunction with the state’s crackdown tied to the campaign “In Rhode Island, Drunk Drivers Get Court.”

From his varied experiences under two Attorneys General, Lou moved into the areas of law tied to divorce and family law as an associate with Lipsey and Skolnick, where he spent two years before beginning his own practice with a concentration in divorce, family, custody, adoption, personal injury and criminal law.

Closest to his heart and central to his character were his many, many years of pro-bono work, earning him numerous recognitions and awards from

the Bar Association.

He gave his time and expertise to help those who needed it most. He found hope and meaning in moments of goodwill and navigated his career with heart. Helping families and children was a great source of pride for Lou, as was his 35-year term as solicitor for the Town of Barrington. His tenure would often be a source of amusement as he’d joke it was his longest relationship.

Lou was also a legal analyst for Rhode Island news for many years, making regular radio and television appearances, including on Rhode Island PBS’ “A Lively Experiment.”

When not working, he was connecting with family and friends over food, the latest stand-up comics and his beloved Patriots, Red Sox and Celtics. A Sunday didn’t officially begin until Lou started the NYT Sunday Crossword.

He was a logophile through and through. He appreciated the power of words, as was quickly evident to everyone who knew him.

He was sharp, funny and always authentically himself and had the kindest heart. His ability to deliver a punchline was only accentuated by his ability to bring joy and comfort to so many.

To know Lou was to love him, and he will be deeply and forever missed by his family

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and friends. Contributions may be made to RI Community Food Bank, (https://rifoodbank.org/donate/) 200 Niantic Ave., Providence, RI 02907.

Audrey Robbins, 91

NEEDHAM, MASS. – Audrey Forman Robbins passed away on June 11, 2024. She was born on April 19, 1933, to Mack and Sylvia Forman in Providence. She lived most of her life in Providence before moving to Needham in recent years.

Audrey was the loving wife to Barry Robbins and devoted mother to her children, Lisa Kantor and Joy Kaplan (spouse, Becky Brooker). She was predeceased by her son, Peter Joseph Kaplan. She was grandmother to Rachel Eve Kantor, Shayna Pearl Kantor, Benjamin Brooker Kaplan, and Zoe Brooker Kaplan.

Audrey also was the loving stepmother to Seth Robbins and Nancy Ashbaugh. She was a devoted aunt to her close nephews, nieces and their children. In addition to her family, she leaves behind her beloved longtime aide and companion, Gina Robinson.

In addition to her parents and her son, she was predeceased by her brother, Roy Forman and sister, Jill Forman Starr.

Audrey attended high school at Lincoln School in Providence before earning a bachelor’s degree in Economics from Wellesley College.

After raising her family, she made a career working in her family business at Marathon Company. She relished her work life and was honored to receive the RJO Lifetime Achievement Award for her career in the jewelry industry.

Audrey was also a lively member of the Rhode Island Debate Club. She enjoyed keeping up to date on current events and discussing politics. She also felt a strong connection with her Jewish identity. Some of her happiest times were spent in the summers with family at her home on Cape Cod, in Falmouth, Massachusetts, where she served as the hub of family gatherings. In recent years, she also enjoyed the good friends she met in Needham. She was also grateful for the support of her aide, Elaine Walker.

Donations may be made to Temple Beth-El, Rabbi Gutterman Discretionary Fund, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence, RI 02906

Myrna Rosen, 93

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Myrna Krassner Rosen died peacefully at her home on Providence’s East Side on June 5, 2024. While we are deeply saddened by the loss of a truly remarkable woman, a lively storyteller and a consummate hostess who made everyone feel welcome, we take comfort in knowing (and having heard her say emphatically) that she had a great life filled with family, friends and experiences she treasured.

Myrna was born in Providence but grew up in New Haven, Connecticut, the daughter of the late Ethel (Stroh) Yale and William Krassner and sister to the late Leonard Krassner. She always retained a fondness for her New Haven roots, from its “hamburgs” and famous pizza to pre-Broadway tryouts of the latest musicals, which solidified her love of the stage. After graduating from Hillhouse High School, she attended James Madison University, in Virginia.

A longtime resident of Barrington, she raised her two devoted daughters, Sally and Wendy, with her first husband, Philip Lapides, and managed the women’s department at her husband’s clothing store Harvey Ltd. For years, Myrna delighted audiences in local theater productions, starring in many shows such as “Hello, Dolly!” and “South Pacific” with the Barrington Players, as well as roles at Barker Playhouse and Trinity Rep. Her successful career as a sales associate in local real estate, in which she rose to the positions of Broker and later Manager, was recognized with awards from the Greater Providence Board of Realtors.

A founding director of the Barrington Jewish Center (now Temple Habonim), Myrna was active in the Jewish community throughout her life, acting as a campaign chair for the Jewish Federation of Rhode Island, followed by roles as president of its Women’s division and vice president of the Federation. Myrna was also director of the National Women’s Board of the United Jewish Appeal.

Her third act was spent living happily in Providence and South County with her adoring late husband, Harris (“Hershey”) Rosen. Together they made major contributions to the Jewish community through the Jewish Federation of RI. In 2000, she was the

proud recipient of the State of Israel’s Unity Award. Myrna and Hershey were also deeply involved with funding efforts for The Miriam Hospital, Women & Infants Hospital and the Foundation for Repertory Theater. Into her eighties, Myrna was a compassionate and dedicated volunteer for Planned Parenthood and never stopped touching people’s lives with her good humor, outgoing nature and brilliant smile.

She is predeceased by her husband, Harris Rosen, and survived by two children and their spouses, Sally Lapides (Arthur Solomon) and Wendy Lapides (John McCann), as well as three stepchildren and their spouses, Elizabeth Rosen Payne (Mark), John Rosen (Ashley) and Robert Rosen.

Myrna also leaves behind 10 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

Donations may be sent to The Sunshine Fund at Jewish Collaborative Services, 1165 North Main St., Providence, RI 02904 or Planned Parenthood of Southern New England, 175 Broad St., Providence, RI 02903.

Elaine Schwartz, 89

KENSINGTON, MD. – Elaine Schwartz (nee Broomfield), of Reston, Virginia, passed away on April 13, 2024, in Kensington. She was born on Dec. 26, 1934, in Providence.

Elaine died of complications related to dementia.

Elaine was the daughter of Max and Betty Broomfield.

She was married to Roger Schwartz, who predeceased her in 1991 and was the love of her life. She is survived by her children, Karen Schwartz McGady and Paul Schwartz, and her grandchildren, David McGady and Emily McGady.

She was predeceased by grandchild Rory Schwartz. Elaine is also survived by her brother, Paul Broomfield, and her close cousin, Sandra Kopel. Elaine will be dearly missed by her family and friends.

She was a passionate teacher/educator for 35 years, world traveler, lifelong learner, inveterate reader, and opera and classical music lover.

Elaine also enjoyed plays, museums and fighting for justice.

Miriam Snell, 97

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Miriam Snell, of Providence, passed away at the home of her daughter on June 8, 2024, surrounded by her loving family after a brief illness. She

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Miriam loved to dance and sing and was always the life of the party. She would always say that no matter what the day brings, I am always smiling. She played the piano and organ, and began playing the accordion at 7 years old (she still has that accordion at home) and was able to still play it into her 90s. She was a volunteer at the former Jewish Home for the Aged.

For many years, she was a bookkeeper for her brother’s business, retiring at the age of 93. Her desk is still set up in the basement of her home with the old-fashioned adding machine with the handle and a roll of paper in it. She would sit for hours if her handwritten ledger was off even by 10 cents until she found the error. The family said she was like a bull because nothing ever stopped her no matter how she felt. She cared for her own mother every day for many years, tending to her every need with grace and dignity. Recently, before her illness, she entertained her family by playing the keyboard and had everybody singing, dancing and, of course, smiling.

Miriam fiercely loved her family, which consisted of her son, Jerry Snell with whom she lived, and daughter, Sheryl (Warren) Moran. She was known as Mima by her grandchildren, Adam (Diane) Field, Daniel Field and Rachel (Kurt) LaButti; and great-grandchildren, Elijah, Jonah, Olivia and Emma.

There are not enough ways to say thank you to Beacon Hospice, of East Providence, for the caring and compassion shown to Miriam and her family during a very difficult time.

Donations may be made to the charity of your choice.

Raya Stern, 87

BRISTOL, R.I. – Raya Stern died June 22, 2024, at the Warren Skilled Nursing & Rehab Center. She was the dedicated mother of Dea Haupt. Born in Leipzig, Germany, she was a daughter of the late Dr. Josef S. and Leontina (Weissbrem) Stern.

In 1938, her parents sought asylum in the United States after fleeing Germany. They settled in Clarence, New York,

and together they raised Raya to be a brilliant marine physicist who would go on to be published in countless scientific journals about her lifelong work with underwater acoustics. She attended the University of Michigan, where she received her bachelor’s in science and her master’s in mathematics. She moved to Washington, D.C., where she truly began her career and in 1963, she relocated to Massachusetts.

She had lived in Watertown, Massachusetts for almost 60 years. During her time in the Watertown community, she was a trustee for the Watertown Public Library for 32 years. She was also a subscriber to the Boston Ballet and Boston Symphony Orchestra. She was a president and dedicated member of the League of Women Voters of Massachusetts: Watertown Chapter.

Raya was a devoted mother of Dea and her husband, Rob, of Bristol; as well as a cherished grandmother to 4. She was predeceased by her dear brother, J. Michael Stern.

Contributions may be made to the National Cancer Institute, Director, National Cancer Institute, Building 31 Room 11A-16, 9000 Rockville Pike, Bethesda, MD 20892 or the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 7023 Merrifield, VA 22116-7023

Walter Szrek, 72

EAST GREENWICH, R.I. – Walter Szrek, of East Greenwich, our dear friend, husband, father, grandfather, and colleague, passed away June 28, 2024, at home, surrounded by his family, after a five-year battle with cancer.

He was the loving husband of Irena (Morawska) Szrek, with whom he shared 47 years of marriage.

Born in Warsaw, Poland, a son of the late Emil and Maria (Walach) Szrek, he immigrated to the United States in 1979 after completing his MSc in Computer Science from the Warsaw Technical University and working at a technical institute of the Polish Academy of Sciences.

Once in the United States, he started working in a startup company that became known as GTECH, later IGT as one of its first system architects and developers.

During his 24-year tenure, Walter created many de-facto standards and solutions used in lottery systems and

his technical contribution cannot be overstated in its importance to the industry.

After leaving GTECH in 2003, Walter and Irena pioneered a random number generation solution known as Trusted Draw. Their company, Szrek2Solutions, became the leader in advanced and auditable RNG solutions for the lottery industry and continues to thrive after his retirement a couple years ago.

An avid collector, throughout his life Walter gathered many collections, including Polish posters, beer-bottle openers, white advertising figures (Michelin-men and others), and finally for the last 24 years, calculating machines. His calculating machine collection grew to become notable internationally. Prior to his death he donated the collection in its entirety of 700+ artifacts to the Collegium Maius Museum of the Jagellonian University, in Krakow, Poland, one of the oldest universities in Europe.

Walter also co-created an important mechanical calculator reference website Rechenmaschinen-Illustrated, as well as his own personal calculator website (calculators.szrek.com), and until his final days worked on a book-catalogue of his calculating machine collection, which the family will make available on the websites in a few weeks.

In all his professional and personal life Walter, also known to many as Włodek or Wally, developed friendships with all people he encountered, and he was always kind and generous. Even though he was not able to maintain many close friendships during his last years, his old friends were very dear to him. He was a devoted family man, with a particular sense of humor and love for the outdoors, travel and photography.

In addition to his wife, Irena, he is survived by three daughters, Monika Szrek; Asia Szrek and her husband, Hal, and daughter Emilia; and Helena Szrek Sousa Pereira and her husband, Nuno, and children Hanna, Sophia, Dawid, Maria; and many good friends and family, who live in Poland, France, Israel, Sweden, the United States and elsewhere.

Donations may be made to Chabad of Warwick, 3871 Post Road, Warwick, RI 02886 or the Jewish Cemetery in Warsaw, Poland.

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HOW TIMES HAVE CHANGED: An advertisement in the Herald from July 1975 extols the virtues of nuclear power. The company in question was Narragansett Electric, which established the Yankee Rowe Nuclear Power Station in northern Massachusetts in 1961. While many experts still consider nuclear power a prudent alternative to coal, that “unmatched safety record” was tarnished only four years later with the meltdown at Three Mile Island, Pennsylvania.

The accident caused local evacuations and widespread protest against nuclear energy and its potential side-effects. The Rowe station ended operations in 1991.

Newspaper courtesy Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association

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