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Rabbi Michael Wolk stands in his rabbi-character costume outside the production trailers for “Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret,” which filmed in his synagogue, Temple Israel of Charlotte, North Carolina.

PHOTO | COURTESY MICHAEL WOLK, LOUIS DAVIDSON VIA JTA

Meet the real-life rabbi in the synagogue scene of ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret’

BY JACKIE HAJDENBERG (JTA)

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abbi Michael Wolk was nervous when he stepped foot onto his synagogue’s bimah in May 2021 – but not because his

congregation was returning to in-person prayer after a pandemic pause.

THE JITTERS WERE because he was about to debut as an actor, in a role for which he hadn’t auditioned: as the rabbi in “Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret,” which debuted in theaters on Friday [April 28].

Wolk was initially brought on as a consultant for the synagogue scene in the film adaptation of Judy Blume’s classic coming-of-age novel, published in 1970 — more than a decade before he was born. He was elevated to

on-screen talent when the original actor for the role of Rabbi Kellerman left the project.

“They called me that night and said he doesn’t feel that he can do it – would I be willing to play the rabbi?” Wolk told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. He said "yes."

The story centers on a sixth-grader, Margaret (played by Abby Ryder Fortson), who has a Christian mother, and Jewish father who have raised her

in neither tradition. As part of Margaret’s grappling with her anxiety about growing up, she embarks on an effort to explore religion and visits a synagogue with her grandmother Sylvia, portrayed by Kathy Bates, who is pushing her to identify with Judaism.

In the story, Margaret and her family live in New Jersey, but the filming took place in Charlotte, North Carolina, where Wolk has been the rabbi of Temple Israel, a Conservative synagogue, since 2020. (That year, the synagogue petitioned to have its name removed from a local memorial to Judah Benjamin, the Confederacy’s most prominent Jew.) A Long Island native, he came to the synagogue from a pulpit in Louisville, Kentucky.

The film’s producers asked Wolk to prepare what he referred to as a “sermonette”

and to stand in the prayer leader’s traditional spot on the bimah in Temple Israel’s sanctuary, surrounded by stained glass. Some of his congregants sat in the pews as extras, which Wolk recalled as a breakthrough moment for Temple Israel, coming a year into the pandemic.

“It was my first time being in the room, being on the bimah with the people in the congregation,” he said. “Even little things like that moment of people responding ‘Shabbat shalom’ when I said it to them, there was something very moving about that.”

But the moment was hardly a typical Shabbat service. For one thing, it was a weekday.

For another, Wolk was wearing a black robe, commonly worn by Conservative rabbis and cantors in the mid-20th century but not in fashion

today. And his sermon was interrupted repeatedly.

“It did not feel like I was leading a service at any given time because they would have me say ‘Shabbat shalom’ 100 times and have the people and the extras in the room respond ‘Shabbat Shalom’ over and over again,” Wolk said.

The synagogue scene, which is just a few minutes long, took 14 hours to film.

Besides the rabbi’s attire, there are a few differences between the American Jewish world of “Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret” in the 1960s and 1970s and the one today. The film has a female cantor, which wouldn’t have been the case at the time the movie takes place. While the book and movie don’t specify which CONTINUED ON PAGE 5

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What is Lag B’Omer anyway?

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MONDAY AND TUESDAY, May 8-9, brings one of the oddest holidays of the Jewish year.

Lots of people can tell you that Lag B’Omer is the 33rd day of the counting of the omer (didn’t you know?), but not many have a clear idea about why that is significant or how it came to be a holy day. The story behind Lag B’Omer is one of Judaism’s best tales of transformation, growth and adaptation.

Lag B’Omer has been called the Jewish May Day because many of its traditions – particularly outdoor games and bonfires – are associated with spring and new life.

The word “Lag” isn’t really a word. It’s a number. In Hebrew, letters have numeric values. Lamed is 30 and gimmel is three. Put them together and you get 33.

Thus, Lag B’Omer is the 33rd day of the omer.

But, what is “the omer”?

Really, it should be called fully “The counting of the omer,” the 49-day period from Passover to Shavuot, during which the Torah instructs us to count the days and weeks. The commandment is actually in this week’s Torah portion, Emor:

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Judaism gave Shavuot added meaning; it became not just a harvest holiday, as it is described in the Torah, but also the anniversary of the giving of the Torah on Mount Sinai.

That shift also prompted a new possibility for the counting of the omer. The seven weeks became a transition from Passover, the time of our freedom, to Shavuot, the time of the giving of RABBI JEFFREY the Torah.

GOLDWASSER Neither holiday is complete without the other – just as freedom is meaningless without rules to live by, and laws are tyrannical if we do not have the freedom to choose to obey them. The counting of the omer ties the two holidays, and the two ideas, together.

But, wait, there’s more. The Talmud tells a story that says that Rabbi Akiva, who lived in the second century B.C.E., had 24,000 students who died one year during the counting of the omer:

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From the day on which you bring the sheaf of elevation offering – the day after the sabbath – you shall count off seven weeks. They must be complete. You must count until the day after the seventh week – fifty days; then you shall bring an offering of new grain to Adonai. (Leviticus 23:15-16) ORIGINALLY, the counting of the omer was an agricultural practice. It was about the length of time between two harvests. However, Rabbinic

Rabbi Akiva had twelve thousand pairs of students from Gevat to Antipatris and they all died in one period of time, because they did not treat each other with respect .… It is taught that all of them died in the period from Passover until Shavuot. Rav Chama bar Abba said, and some say it was Rabbi Chiyya bar Avin: They all died a bad death. (B. Yevamot 62b) THE ORIGINS of this legend may be connected to the Bar Kokhba Rebellion, a Jewish revolt against the Romans in the second century, which was championed by Rabbi Akiva, but which was a military disaster for the Jews.

Because of the “bad death” of Rabbi Akiva’s students, a tradition developed of treating

CONTINUED FROM PAGE 4 movement of Judaism the synagogue Margaret visits belongs to, women weren’t ordained in the Reform movement until 1972 and in the Conservative movement until 1985.

“I did point that out and they were interested in representation,” Wolk said. “And that doesn’t bother me that much, but I know that it’s historically inaccurate.”

There are some other continuity issues with the scene: the actors used the prayer books in Temple Israel’s sanctuary, which were only published in the last decade. While

the omer period as a time of semi-mourning.

But seven weeks is a long time to practice mourning when the world is growing lush and green, so a tradition arose at some point to suspend the mourning restrictions on the 33rd day of the omer. Lag B’Omer became a day for weddings and for children to get their first haircuts, activities that are not permitted during mourning.

Our earliest text regarding the special status of the 33rd day of the omer appears in the late 13th century:

There is a received tradition from the Geonim [rabbinic authorities of the early middle ages] that on the 33rd day of the Omer, the deaths stopped ... and we also have the custom not to get married from Passover until this time. (Menachem ben Solomon Meiri) ONE OF RABBI AKIVA’S surviving students, Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, is also deeply connected to Lag B’Omer.

According to the Talmud, Rabbi Shimon lived in a cave for many years to hide from the Romans and to continue the study of Torah. According to tradition, he survived through those years on the fruit of a nearby carob tree.

A legend says that students would come to his cave in the woods carrying bows and arrows, pretending to be hunting, to allay the suspicions of the Romans.

This appears to be the origin of the medieval custom of children playing outdoor games – particularly with bows and arrows – on Lag B’Omer. In this way, the day took on the meaning of playful defiance against an evil authority. But the holiday kept changing after this, and adopted even more new associations and beliefs.

The Zohar, Judaism’s greatest mystical text, tells the story of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai’s adventures

the congregation is well over a century old, its current building wasn’t constructed until 1992. And, Wolk confessed, he is wearing an Apple watch, though it is obscured by his robe.

But, he said, norms around interfaith families like Margaret’s have changed over the decades. In the United States, Jews who married before 1970 married non-Jews 17% of the time, according to a 2013 population study; now, that number is well over 50%. But contrary to what some feared, many of those interfaith couples are raising their children at least in part with Judaism.

as the leader of a group of second-century mystical rabbis called the Hevraya (“Companions”). In one of the Zohar’s most famous stories, Rabbi Shimon makes his final revelation on the day he died, Lag B’Omer: On the day that Rabbi Shimon was to leave the world, while he was arranging his affairs, the Companions assembled at his house .… While they were sitting, Rabbi Shimon opened his eyes and saw what he saw: fire whirled through the house .… He rose and laughed in delight .… Rabbi Shimon said, “Now is a time of favor. I want to enter without shame into the world that is coming. Holy words, until now unrevealed .… (Zohar, Idra Zuta) IN HIS REVELATION, Rabbi Shimon describes how the true nature of God, which he calls “The Holy Ancient One” and “The High Spark,” is concealed and hidden from human perception, knowledge and understanding.

What we perceive of God and the divine qualities is really just the “Garments of the King.” If we were able to truly experience the High Spark, we would realize that it is the only thing that exists.

Rabbi Shimon called the day of his death “my wedding day” and asked the Companions to celebrate it as the day of his greatest revelation. The Zohar describes the death of Rabbi Shimon:

All day long, the fire in the house did not go out. No one reached him; no one could.

Light and fire surrounded him. All day long, I lay on the ground and wailed. After the fire disappeared, I saw [Rabbi Shimon] leaving the world, enwrapped, lying on his side, his face smiling .… (Zohar, Idra Zuta)

Their synagogues have adjusted accordingly.

“At the point when the book was written, there was no expectation that an interfaith family would want to participate in the religious life and Jewish life of a synagogue,” Wolk said. “And we know that’s not true right now. We have any number of interfaith families who are active and involved in Temple Israel.”

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ACCORDING TO TRADITION, Rabbi Shimon was buried in the cave where he had lived in isolation. To this day, hundreds of thousands of people travel to Meron, in the north of Israel, to celebrate the Yahrzeit of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai on Lag B’Omer, his yahrzeit. It attracts Jews, especially followers of Hasidism and Kabbalah, from all over the world. It is the largest celebratory gathering in Israel every year.

This is the origin of the bonfires that are now the most well-known symbol of Lag B’Omer. Those outdoor fires are more than just a lovely thing to do on a crisp spring evening – they evoke the memory of Rabbi Shimon’s final revelation. They also represent the further transformation of the holiday into a celebration of mystical exploration and the intense fire of our yearning for the divine.

It is hardly surprising that there is confusion about Lag B’Omer and its meaning – it has had so many. It is a day for noticing the transition from early spring into a time of lush greenery. It is a day for considering the relationship between freedom and law. It is a day for release from mourning into celebration. It is a day for exploring the deepest realms of our relationship to God and the divine within us.

Happy Lag B’Omer!

RABBI JEFFREY GOLDWASSER is the spiritual leader of Temple Sinai, in Cranston.

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Information and RSVP, deanna@ toratyisrael.org.

Project Shoresh Ladies’ Partners in Torah Night. Sundays 7:45-8:45 p.m. Providence Hebrew Day School, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Partner-based study group. On-site facilitators available.

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Let’s Talk Hebrew. Mondays and Tuesdays. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Current session thru 6/27. In-person classes at Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Monday evening beginner level offered in person; Monday evening intermediate level offered virtually; Tuesday evening advanced beginner level offered both in person and virtually; Tuesday evening advanced class offered in person. No classes 5/29 or 5/30. Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com.

Project Shoresh TNT (Tuesday Night Torah). Tuesdays 7:45-8:45 p.m. Ohawe Sholam, 671 East Ave., Pawtucket. Warm yourself up with the flame of Torah. If you would like a study partner or to be

a part of a learning group, please contact Rabbi Naftali Karp. Drop-ins welcome. Refreshments served.

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Temple Habonim “The Wisdom Literature.” Wednesdays 11 a.m.-noon thru 5/24. (No session on 5/17.) Study the texts found in the Writings, the final section of the Hebrew Bible. These provocative texts offer perspectives on our relationship with God and the meaning and purpose of our lives.

Via Zoom. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim.org or 401-245-6536.

Temple Sinai “Big Issues of Our Time.” Fourth Wednesday of each month 7-8 p.m. thru 5/24. Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser leads this adult education course on Zoom. Each class will tackle an issue in our society and probe Jewish perspectives and impact on the Jewish community. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Temple Habonim Lunch and Learn. Thursdays noon-1:15 p.m.

165 New Meadow Road, Barrington.

Join Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman in person for weekly Torah Study on Pirke Avot: A Modern Commentary on Jewish Ethics. Free. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim.org or 401-245-6536.

Project Shoresh Lively Kabbalat Shabbat. Fridays. Services will begin at the commencement of Shabbat. Be in touch for exact timing each week. Providence Hebrew Day School (side entrance), 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence.

Welcome Shabbat with a few inspiring words, melodious songs and traditional services. Open to all.

Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail.com or 401-632-3165.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Evening Service. Fridays 6 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Song, prayer and reflection offered in person or on Zoom. With Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah Johnson.

Zoom link at templesinairi.org.

Information, dottie@templesinairi. org or 401-942-8350.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Fridays 7 p.m., except second Friday of the month 6:30 p.m. when Family Shabbat Services take place. 145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund.

In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook, Cape Media, YouTube and Community Television Comcast channel 99. Services are in person with proof of vaccination; masks optional. Information, 508775-2988 or capecodsynagogue. org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Morning Service. Second Saturday of the month 9-10:30 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Shabbat morning minyan with lay participation incorporating study, Torah and Haftarah readings. In person or via Zoom. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Temple Beth-El Torah Study.

Saturdays except second Saturday of the month 9-10:30 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Delve into the weekly portion with Rabbi Sarah Mack and Rabbi Preston Neimeiser. In person only. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@ temple-beth-el.org or 401-3316070, ext. 100.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual & In-person Saturday Morning Shabbat Services. Saturdays 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Led by Rabbi David Barnett. Information, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Breakfast & Torah Study In-person and via Zoom. Saturdays 9:30-11 a.m. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Breakfast followed by interactive discussion at 10 a.m. with Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser or others in our community. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401942-8350.

Temple Habonim Torah Study.

Saturdays (no Torah Study when there is a Bar or Bat Mitzvah) 10-11 a.m. Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman leads weekly Torah study on current portion. Via Zoom. Information, Adina Davies at office@templehabonim.org or 401-245-6536.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Saturdays 10:30 a.m.

145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook and YouTube. Services are in-person with proof of vaccination; masks optional. Information, Cape Cod Synagogue at 508-775-2988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Morning Service. Saturdays 11 a.m. (10:30 a.m. when celebrating a Bar or Bat Mitzvah). 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

In-person and via Zoom. Information, templesinairi.org or Dottie at 401-942-8350.

Friday | May 5 Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs & Torah Services. 5:45-6:30 p.m. Led by Rabbi David Barnett. Information and Zoom link, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 7-8:15 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. In person, via Zoom or on Facebook Live. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Congregation Agudas Achim Kabbalat Shabbat. 7:30-8:30 p.m.

901 N. Main St., Attleboro, Mass.

Our Reconstructionist community invites you to join us for services.

Information, office@agudasma.org.

Shireinu sings at the United Brothers Synagogue. 7:30-9 p.m.

205 High St., Bristol. Cantor Joel Gluck, Spiritual Leader of United Brothers Synagogue, is also the director of Temple Sinai’s chorus Shireinu and will direct the chorus during the evening service at United Brothers Synagogue. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401942-8350.

Temple Beth-El Death & Dying Series. 8:15-9:15 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join us for a world-class trapeze performance meditation on death, grief and the Mourner's Kaddish, directed

by Kaely Michels-Gualtieri. Third session of four-part series. Also offered on May 6 at 5 p.m. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@ temple-beth-el.org or 401-3316070, ext. 100.

Saturday | May 6 Temple Beth-El Death & Dying Series. 5-6 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join us for a world-class trapeze performance meditation on death, grief and the Mourner's Kaddish, directed by Kaely Michels-Gualtieri. Third session of four-part series. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@ temple-beth-el.org or 401-3316070, ext. 100.

Temple Beth-El Youth Night.

6:30-8:30 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join your friends for games, movies, pizza and snacks.

For ages 7 and up. Information, Rachel Mersky Woda at rmerskywoda@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Sunday | May 7 Temple Torat Yisrael Men's Club Breakfast. 9-11 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Breakfast followed by guest speaker Morey Hershgordon, Sports Director at WPRI 12 and FOX Providence.

Breakfast includes bagels, cream cheese, home fries, scrambled eggs, fruit, pastries, coffee and juice. Menu subject to change. $10 suggested donation. Information, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Spring Plant Sale. 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

Holocaust Memorial Courtyard (by back parking lot), Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Featuring locally grown native, organic and chemical-free garden and house plants as well as compost education and electronic waste recycling. Plan your summer garden with us. Free seeds while supplies last. Information, Lynne Bell at lbell@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111.

Hadassah RI Walk & Talk Series: Welcome Spring. 11 a.m. Frenchtown Park Trail, 1127 Frenchtown Road, East Greenwich (across from the Frenchtown Elementary School). After walking the trail, tour Harry Silverman’s impressive gardens. Learn how to start your own vegetable garden, sample delicious garden treats, and take home a seedling. Information and RSVP, ChapRI@Hadassah.org.

Temple Torat Yisrael Mahjong Tournament. 11 a.m.-4:30 p.m.

1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

Buffet lunch and cash prizes.

Entrance Fee: $45. Information and RSVP (by 5/3), events@toratyisrael. org or 401-885-6600.

Temple Torat Yisrael Rock Spot Family Climbing Event. 12:302:30 p.m. 1174 Kingstown Rd., Peace Dale. Cost: $20 per person (includes climbing time with climbing instruction and rental gear); pizza available for additional $5.

Hosted by Men’s Club. Information and RSVP (by May 5), Lary Norin at 401-524-1356.

4th Annual 10 Pins for ALYN Bowl-a-thon. 1-4 p.m. Bowlero (Cranston Bowl), 1450 Elmwood Ave., Cranston. Join the Precious Warriors Foundation to support the children of ALYN hospital in Jerusalem. Three hours of bowling, raffles, a 50/50 and games for prizes. Cost (includes t-shirt): $15 Adults | $8 Children | $50 Family Lane | $60 Adult Friends Lane.

Information, Paul Medeiros at MadMoose1211@yahoo.com or 401206-7693.

Temple Shalom a Capella Concert with the Alef Beats. 3:45-6:45 p.m. 223 Valley Road, Middletown.

Celebrate Lag B’omer with Brown RISD Hillel's a capella group the Alef Beats. Tickets: $18 Individual | $36 Family. Information and to purchase tickets, templeshalomrhodeisland@gmail.com.

Thursday | May 11 The Women's Alliance presents: “The Postmistress of Paris.” 7 p.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. With New York Times bestselling author Meg Waite Clayton. Story inspired by heiress

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Friday | May 12 Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs & Torah Services. 5:45-6:30 p.m. Led by Rabbi David Barnett. Information and Zoom link, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 7-8:15 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. In person, via Zoom or on Facebook Live. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Friday | May 19 Temple Torat Yisrael Meet & Greet with Rabbi Ari Saks.

4-9 p.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. 4 p.m. schmooze over ice cream; 5 p.m. wine and cheese reception; 6 p.m. Shabbat service with FNL Band; 7 p.m. dinner ($18 Adults | $9 Kids 6 & over | Free for Kids 5 & under). Information and RSVP (by 5/18), Temple@ toratyisrael.org or temple office at 401-885-6600.

Congregation Agudas Achim Kabbalat Shabbat. 6:30-8 p.m.

901 N. Main St., Attleboro, Mass.

Our Reconstructionist community invites you to join us for services.

Information, office@agudasma.org.

Temple Beth-El Hallelu Shabbat Service. 6:30-8:15 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Hors d’oeuvres followed by an uplifting musical service featuring Temple Beth-El musicians and a short D’var Torah.

Will be celebrating our graduating high school seniors. Information, Joie Magnone at jmagnone@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Saturday | May 20 Kids' Night Out – Witches and Wizards. 6-10 p.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence.

Kids have fun while parents have the night off. Activities include gym games/sports, art, board games, free play and a movie. Dinner and popcorn included. Cost: $40 members | $50 nonmembers. Siblings: $20 members | $25 nonmembers.

Information and registration (required), Jimmy Rawl at jrawl@ jewishallianceri.org or 401-4214111, ext. 140.

Sunday | May 21 Temple Torat Yisrael Torah Sprouts: Shavuot. 9:15-10:15 a.m.

1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

Learn about Jewish culture and holidays in this one-hour active program with Morah Leah. For children ages 3-5 and their parents.

Open to all. You do not need to be a member of the synagogue. Cost: $12 per session. Information and RSVP, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Shireinu sings for the residents of Tamarisk. 11 a.m.-noon. 3 Shalom Drive, Warwick. The chorus of Temple Sinai will bring music and a sense of joy to Tamarisk as they sing many songs that the residents will recognize. Information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Israel at 75: A community celebration for Israel's 75th year.

Noon-4 p.m. Farm Fresh RI, 10 Sims Ave., Providence. Children’s activities include face painting, bouncy house, story telling and a scavenger hunt. Local craft, art and jewelry vendors; live music (Kafkafim, TLV Band and Fishel Bresler Klezmer); Israeli dance class. For all ages. Delicious food options.

Information, Elihay at eskital@jewishallianceri.org or 401-864-3786.

Information, Meredith Friedman at mfriedman@jcdsri.com or 401-7512470.

Friday | May 26 Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs & Torah Services. 5:45-6:30 p.m. Led by Rabbi David Barnett. Information and Zoom link, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

reports from the SBHEC including introduction of new board members. Ceremony for the Arts & Writing contest will also take place.

Information, Michaela Hermann at mhermann@hercri.org or 401-4537860.

Saturday | May 27 Temple Torat Yisrael Shavuot Service with Yizkor. 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Led by Rabbi David Barnett. In person with Zoom available. Information and Zoom link, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

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Congregation Agudas Achim Shabbat Services. 10 a.m.-noon.

901 N. Main St., Attleboro, Mass.

Our Reconstructionist community invites you to join us for services.

Information, office@agudasma.org.

Monday | May 31 Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center Annual Meeting and Arts & Writing Ceremony. 7-8:30 p.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Updates and

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Temple Beth-El K’tantan Family Meet-Up. 4-5 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Come meet other families with young children (ages 0-5) on our patio. Information, Rachel Mersky Woda at rmerskywoda@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070, ext. 100.

Tuesday | May 23 Rochambeau Library presents: “Stories of Exile” Reading Groups for Public Libraries.

2-3:30 p.m. 708 Hope St., Providence. Discussion of “The Glatstein Chronicles – Homeward Bound.” In this autobiographical novella, Jacob Glatstein intertwines childhood memories with observations of growing antisemitism in Europe during a visit to his dying mother in his native Poland. Program made possible by the Yiddish Book Center.

Information, rocadults@clpvd.org.

Wednesday | May 24 Jewish Community Day School of RI Community Zimriyah. 6-8 p.m.

Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. JCDSRI’s annual community song festival. Information, Meredith Friedman at mfriedman@ jcdsri.com or 401-751-2470.

Thursday | May 25 Jewish Community Day School of RI Special Visitors Day. 8-11 a.m.

85 Taft Ave., Providence. Relatives and friends join students for a special breakfast and a day of fun.

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Two May holidays that are near and dear to my heart

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I HAD TWO UNCLES who fought for the four freedoms, and I think about them on Memorial Day. One of them, the younger, was wounded in the Battle of the Bulge and came home on crutches. The other, the elder, was a medic among the Asian islands. Two wars, one against Germany and the other against Japan.

Now, their home base, my grandparents’ stucco realm, was a few houses uphill from my boyhood brick house. The duo, visiting their father in later years, might meet and greet each other on the corner sidewalk. They would bow to each other!

When I caught sight of that gesture, I wept, and wiped my eyes, and still do whenever I summon up that memory.

The complexity of that salute!

These uncles had different mothers, from my widower grandpa’s two marriages.

They grew up apart and faced different destinies. And so, what did that salute to each other mean? The brotherhood of a war, with a G.I. veteran’s understanding and unspoken respect.

This month, the holidays of Shavuot and Memorial Day come within a few days of each other.

My usual acknowledgement of Shavuot includes seeking out an old-fashioned cheesecake, plain and simple, plus visiting my closet to choose white shoes and a

white vest, hopefully not too faded.

Some years, I make the gesture of driving to our local coastal Jerusalem, to touch base with the custom of creating a miniature Israel within the borders of our smallest colony, state, retreat, realm.

But this year I would like to focus on a more pretentious purpose: To link the future of Israel and its Torah, the tree of our people, with the future of our nation, with its division and its destiny.

All religions have their MIKE FINK common roots in Eden, and the grains and the laws of our collective species face the same future, hope or despair, like the names of our islands in the nearby bay.

I had a distinguished student in my recent elective class at the Art Club, and he read to us an ode by a Black poet in which God is a wandering minstrel who creates mankind because he is lonely!

And I told the tale I offered above, about my uncles, and even as I narrated my own personal memory, I was celebrating Shavuot and Memorial Day.

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Grandfather George, Yisrael and Snoop Dogg MY MATERNAL GRANDFATHER after deceased relatives. was born in Cincinnati on Indeed, my younger sister’s Feb. 22, 1893, so his name was middle name, Gene, was George Washington Rosenderived from our father’s, thal. You can probably figure Eugene. out when his cousin, BenjaIn 1983, when Betsey and I min Franklin Rosenthal, was were preparing for our wedborn. ding at her family’s temple George’s father, Henry, was in Andover, Massachusetts, also born in Cincinnati. His Rabbi Harry Roth asked father, who left Germany for my Hebrew name. in 1857, was Samuel.

When I explained His wife’s name that my Jewish was Fannie, and education had the 11 Rosenthal never required children gathsuch a name, ered to celebrate he invited me their parents’ to select one.

50th anniverHaving been sary in 1910. born in 1948 and Grandfather having been George loved his GEORGE M. inspired by a name, so his son also GOODWIN recent visit, I became George. And Uncle chose Yisrael.

George’s son, Henry (the This was long third in our family), named before I learned about my his son George. But I’m also grandfather’s rejection of named after my maternal that very name! grandmother, Marion; my I believe that for most of middle name is – yes – Marmy life I’ve been intrigued by ion. This was also the name names. Perhaps one reason of the street in Cincinnati occurred in grade school, where both my mother and when there were two boys her father had grown up. in my class named RichPresumably, Ellen, the ard Kaplan. So one became eldest Rosenthal grandchild, known as “Fat Richard,” the who lived in Cincinnati, other as “Thin.” could not say or rememHaving always been known ber “Grandpa” and “Grandma.” And of course none of the Rosenthals knew a word of Yiddish, so she dubbed them Boy and Pal, which George and Marion thought were cute. The result was that these names endured. Yes, at 30 years of age, I still called my grandfather Boy. My elder twin, Theodore Sidney, is named after both our paternal grandparents, Betsey Goodwin with Snoop Dogg Isadore and Sadie.

Through genealogical research undertaken about as George, perhaps I was 25 years ago, I discovered also intrigued by such boys’ that Isadore, following his nicknames as Bobby, Chucky, emigration from Romania, Johnny and Randy. In fact, Americanized his name. It my twin, Theodore, origihad been Israel. nally known as Teddy and Needless to say, neither of then Ted, eventually became my parents was acquainted Theo. Dad’s nickname was with or accepted the Jewish Bud, and anybody who called custom of naming children CONTINUED ON PAGE 12

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Despite my objections to the expanded uses of AI, I suspect that corporate tycoons are salivating over getting rid of their workers and replacing them with machines that don’t need pay or benefits.

That could spell the end of civilization as we know it.

My dim view of AI and robots LARRY dates to when I KESSLER read Isaac Asimov’s “Robot series” of books and saw “2001: A Space Odyssey,” the movie where Hal, the cantankerous and devilish computer running the spaceship, dooms that deep-space mission.

Quite frankly, I’m appalled by the recent discussions of AI replacing the creative abilities of my southpaw brain – especially in the wake of us just starting to feel fully normal again after three years of living daily with the fear and isolation caused by the COVID-19 pandemic.

That’s why I’m extremely resistant to the idea of ceding any part of my life to Hal’s 21st-century equivalents.

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WHILE AT FIRST GLANCE, artificial intelligence, friends and pets don’t appear to have anything in common, these topics form the basis for this month’s missive.

Artificial intelligence, or AI, has been a part of our lives for a while now, from robot vacuum cleaners to Alexa to self-driving cars and the robots we see in supermarkets.

For example, the Stop & Shop in my area has a robot called Marty who roams the aisles looking for spills – and spooking kids and customers like me who still aren’t accustomed to robots stalking them while they shop.

But AI has taken on a whole new meaning due to one of its latest applications: the chatbot app. This ingenious, or nefarious, application, depending on your viewpoint, lets students use AI to write essays and complete other school assignments. It also could be used by the remaining media corporations, which want to gut newsrooms even further and replace reporters with AI robots, even though having a glorified computer gather news doesn’t even begin to qualify as news-gathering.

At this point, I can categorically declare that you’ll never have to worry about me abrogating my monthly responsibility as a columnist to artificial contraptions. I

Missing Rick

Sadly, I recently lost one of those friends whose visits, calls and texts kept me going during the dark days of the

pandemic. Rick Thurmond and I were colleagues at The Sun Chronicle, a daily newspaper in Attleboro, for more than 25 years, and for a good deal of that time, we bonded over working the night shift.

Our relationship in a bustling pre-COVID-19 newsroom filled with opinionated editors, reporters and photographers was the antithesis of what working in a mostly sterile AI newsroom would be like. The atmosphere was lively, full of talk and teeming with humanity. We’d have heartfelt conversations and occasional arguments, but always in a way that was respectful. Lasting friendships were often formed, and that was the case with Rick.

Six years ago in March, we took early retirement together, and soon after our last day at work, we started meeting regularly for lunch.

In the process, we took our work friendship to a new level, and we had become quite close when the pandemic hit.

After a few weeks, even COVID-19 couldn’t stop us from getting together. In the summer of 2020, well before vaccines became available, we met in parks for picnic lunches. The following summer, after we were vaccinated, we were able to return to restaurants.

Our friendship flourished, and when my friend’s COPD became too debilitating, we regularly had lunch at his apartment, until he moved to Acton, Massachusetts, about an hour away from the Attle-

boro area, about a year ago.

We kept in touch by phone and text, and I had every intention of visiting him, but life kept getting in the way, which is a way of saying that Cooper my procrastination took its toll. That’s because this past March, I learned Rick had lost his health battle at the age of 68.

Since his passing, I’ve taken solace in our friendship and in all of the stories that we exchanged during our lunches. In the process, I’ve become reacquainted with the old adage that one of the toughest things about growing old is seeing friends and relatives predecease you.

Cooper and Buddy are keepers Another thing that AI can’t take the place of is the bonds that we form with our pets – despite all of their quirks.

Even though my pets – my nearly 10-year-old cat Cooper and my 7½-year-old dog Buddy, a feisty Shih Tzu-Pekingese mix – occasionally test my patience, I wouldn’t trade either of them for a robotic pet.

Cooper remains a typical cat, which means he’s adept at becoming my pal precisely when he wants his nightly tuna snack, but he’s also a

Buddy source of comfort when he climbs on my lap and lets me pet him.

He’s also discovered some new tricks, such as climbing onto a shelf in our family room and pushing a vase of artificial flowers onto the floor. But despite that, he’s much cuter than any AI version of him could ever be.

Buddy also remains a beloved member of our family, even though his latest shtick is really annoying: he insists on barking every time I get up from the couch.

But he’s also pretty good at barking to let me know that the mail carrier, trash truck, delivery people or lawn maintenance crews have arrived.

So, I think I’ll keep them – and continue to keep Alexa and her AI ilk out of my home.

LARRY KESSLER (larrythek65@ gmail.com) is a freelance writer based in North Attleboro. He blogs at larrytheklineup.blogspot.com.

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understanding and accepting a person, even with all of their faults and foibles.

For humans, this is so much easier said than done.

If we can look beyond the annoyances and quirks, and value the steadiness, goodness, reliability and PATRICIA love we gain from our loved ones, RASKIN as we do with our pets, we reinforce the bonds of unconditional love.

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MILLIONS OF PEOPLE love their pets, and there is a compelling reason for that: they give us unconditional love.

Our pets, especially our cats and dogs, love us no matter what mood we are in or how we are feeling. Our pets can often pick up on our feelings, and they console and comfort us, and they are always there for us. That is something we often aspire to in our personal lives with the people closest to us.

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cle, “The 3 Reasons we Love Our Pets So Much,” posted at www.psychologytoday.com in April 2022: “Pets understand us non-verbally. They’re in sync with us emotionally and aren’t distracted by the words and other complexities or nuances in human relationships … they just love us no matter what’s happening.

We bond with pets and each other through emotion.”

Later in the article, he writes, “Brene Brown, Sue Johnson, and Les Greenberg, among other emotion and relationship scientists, have made it absolutely clear: humans are much more emotional than we are cognitive,

and pets get us and use this to connect deeply with us.”

In an article posted at Aish. com, “Noah 5782: Noah’s ‘Arc,’ ” Rabbi Yitzchak Zweig writes: “Americans have a love affair with pets. In 2020 it was estimated that almost 70% of homes owned at least one pet, including almost 58% of American homes owning a dog.”

The article goes on to say: “Both the Bible and Jewish law teach us to treat animals with kindness and respect and to protect nature and conserve its resources. Indeed, such teachings are fundamental to Judaism and its traditions.

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By age 10, Teddy and I belonged to a boys’ youth organization, based on the study of Indian lore, known as Woodcraft Rangers. We learned various Indian words, ceremonies and prayers, and I can still proudly recite a few. Indeed, Philip Roth used several in his 2010 novel, “Nemesis,” which was set in a Jewish summer camp.

Our mother, Madeline (derived from Magdalen), was named after her departed maternal grandmother, who had died at 30 years old. My mother remained a Woodcraft leader for fully 50 years! She became not only the organization’s first woman president of the board, but also its first Jew. She also received Woodcraft’s highest honor, an Indian name – which, of course, nobody could pronounce or remember.

Perhaps in junior high school, having become a devotee of Dickens, I became further intrigued by names. Indeed, on the first day of algebra class, when our teacher introduced himself, he remarked, “I’m not that John Steinbeck.”

When I taught art history, I had a fine student named Maven.

But an important turning point occurred in Providence in 2007, when I met RISD Prof. Mike Fink’s former student Julie

Summersquash. I then decided to keep a list of amazing names, most from newspaper articles. Soon Betsey also became intrigued by this project, and we have now acquired more than 3,000 astonishing names.

We have also established some guidelines. For instance, we do not include victims of murder or other violence. And because they tend to form their own subgroup, we also avoid names of professional athletes – and, for authenticity’s sake, we’re generally reluctant to include entertainers. Once when Betsey and I were in a hotel elevator in Los Angeles, we happened to meet Snoop Dogg, and I called him “Mr. Dogg.” He insisted on “Snoop,” and then agreed to pose for some photos with Betsey.

So, from the beginning letters of the alphabet, here is an almost random sample of our findings over the past 16 years: Michael Angelo, John Badman IV, Krystall Ball, Cindi Canary, Drynx Cohen, Fillmere Crank, Creflo Dollar, Richard Formica, Foster Foster and Kepler Funk.

Ready for a few more? Check out these, from the end of the alphabet: Elwyn Tinklenberg, Butch Trucks, Taylor Twellman, Edward Upward, Weston Wamp, K. Craig Wildfang, Wellford Wilms, Holly Wood, Boris Worm and Dindy Yokel.

Perhaps inevitably, this search

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for remarkable names brings us back to our own children and Jewish tradition. Our older child, known as Molly, is actually Martha Rose. She was named after my mother, Madeline, who was still living when Molly was born,and her maternal great-grandmother, Rose, as well as the Rosenthals.

Our son, Michael Edward, was named after my grandfather, Isadore, whose middle name was Michael, and my great-uncle, Rabbi Edgar Magnin, who was married to Evelyn Rosenthal.

By the way, both our kids received Hebrew names at naming ceremonies at Temple Beth-El. Molly’s is Bracha, and Michael’s is Mikha’el. And both our grandkids, though they live in Brooklyn, New York, also received Hebrew names at Beth-El. Perhaps there’s one more appropriate story related to our family’s names. Grandfather Isadore was an engraver, and he made initial rings for his three sons and seven grandsons. Dad’s was stolen during an armed attack when he and Mom vacationed in Colombia, but Theo and I still proudly and lovingly wear our own.

GEORGE M. GOODWIN, of Providence, is the editor of Rhode Island Jewish Historical Notes.

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Lecky (1838-1903) in his monumental work ‘History of European Morals from Augustus to Charlemagne,’ (published in 1869), observes that ‘the Jews have the longest history of concern for animals of any people,’ and notes that ‘tenderness to animals is one of the most beautiful features in the Old Testament’ and that ‘Rabbinical writers have been remarkable for the great emphasis with which they inculcated the duty of kindness to animals.’ ” As Mahatma Gandhi said, “The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated.”

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Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner IN 1984, a special seder in Providence, hosted by what we then called the Anti-Defamation League of B’nai B’rith, drew more than 200 people. The idea: to bring Jewish and African American celebrants together.

This was the fourth such “Black-Jewish” seder organized by the ADL, and speeches that night touched on shared oppres-

sion and the story of Exodus.

The relationship between Jewish Americans and African Americans is long and complicated, with waves of tension in the 1970s and ’80s. But as Reverend Charles Stith of Boston’s Union United Methodist Church put it that evening: “Both sides must discard lots of excess baggage and rid themselves of

stereotypical images, to seek justice and equity because both communities need each other and because it is logical to come

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Going through our world astonished

Tribute to Rabbi Marc and Jackie Mandel

Dr. Henry and Felicia Spencer Newport, R.I.

the Divine” (St. Martins Essentials, 2023), which brings her remarkable virtues to the reading public.

“God is Here” is, in many ways, a celebration of the many metaphors for God; the author challenges the reader to approach God through the prism of poetry, to attempt to experience God both in the heart and in the head, rather than to reduce God to a set of beliefs A, B and C. Again and again, Rabbi Toba reminds us that a metaphor is not meant to be a definition, that a metaphor is not designed to be judged as either right or wrong. Rather, a metaphor can be, at its best, nothing less than a gateway to living with increased intensity in our world.

In her second RABBI JAMES chapter, Rabbi Toba ROSENBERG writes that “Biblical metaphors for God include Voice, Fire, Warrior, Eagle, Parent, Lawgiver, Water, and many more.” In the following chapters, she focuses on eight of the dozens of biblical metaphors for God: Water, Place, Voice, Rock, Cloud, Fire, Becoming/ Change, the Material World/Electricity.

Rabbi Toba goes on to write that “something new and radical for its time and place was the Bible’s insistence that we resist the urge to represent God in any physical way.” Nevertheless, she continues to remind her readers up to the very last pages that we in the West “are deeply stuck in the ‘God is a Big Person’ metaphor.”

Her entire book, then, can be read as an ongoing attempt to refute the “God is a Big Person” metaphor by probing the depths of counter-metaphors for the God we worship – or attempt to worship.

The first biblical metaphor for God that Rabbi Toba explores is Water.

In her provocatively titled chapter, “Drinking from God,” she points to numerous verses in our TANAKH

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IT IS WITH A HEAVY HEART that our family bids adieu to Rabbi Marc and Jackie Mandel and family. Faithful stewards of the Touro Synagogue in Newport for over a decade, the Mandels touched the lives of every member of the congregation with their caring and compassion. In addition, they spearheaded many educational initiatives, invigorated the Hebrew School, and made social action an important part of their agenda. Also, their children and grandchildren were a welcome addition to the community, gracing us with their talents and warmth.

On a personal level, the Mandels left an indelible imprint on our family during their tenure.

Rabbi Mandel presided over many lifecycle events – the aufrufs (engagement ceremonies) for my daughters Rachel and Shoshana, and officiated at Rachel’s wedding. Our family spent many Shabbats and High Holy Days at Touro Synagogue, where the rabbi encouraged our participation in synagogue life.

Moreover, he was an important role model and mentor for my son Samuel, offering him ample opportunities to hone skills required for a congregational religious leader. These experiences helped propel him forward to complete his studies for rabbinic ordination last year.

We valued his good counsel and appreciated his interest in our spiritual growth. I shall cherish the memory of our liturgical partnerships, and his involvement in my Judaic art projects.

We wish the Mandel family every success in the their future endeavors. They will be sorely missed.

APRIL 18, 2020, the day of my granddaughter Clara’s Bat Mitzvah, dawned with a surprise blanket of heavy, wet, soon-to-melt snow covering southern New England.

Rabbi Toba Spitzer took her place on the bimah in the Dorshei Tzedek synagogue, in Newton, Massachusetts, along with an off-screen technical assistant to help oversee what was to be Rabbi Toba’s first Zoom Bat Mitzvah, made necessary by the sudden and frightening onset of COVID-19.

The Torah from which Clara was to chant had been safely delivered to her family’s home in Cambridge, Massachusetts. Clara and her family would be participating in the worship service from their dining room. The table was set up to receive the Torah, which was being kept in its living room “ark,” separated from the dining room by sliding pocket doors.

Clara’s was to be the first such rite of passage I would experience in the Zoom zone – with Clara and her family in Cambridge, Rabbi Toba in Newton, and my wife, Sandy, and I in Providence.

When Rabbi Toba was leading the service in Newton, she was center screen; when Clara was leading the worship, she and her family filled the screen. This necessity, imposed by the coronavirus pandemic, proved to be the mother of magical and celebratory invention.

Clara’s Bat Mitzvah, despite some minor glitches with the then-novel Zoom technology, turned out to be a miracle of intimacy despite the fact that more than 190 worshippers were logged in from Maine to Florida to California, to Israel and even to Ireland.

This miracle of intimacy could not have happened without Rabbi Toba’s resourcefulness, flexibility and compassion.

About two years after Clara’s Bat Mitzvah, Toba Spitzer published her first book, “God is Here: Reimagining

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(Hebrew Bible) that compare God to water.

Of the many verses she selects for discussion, I am especially drawn to the water metaphor in Jeremiah 2.13, in which the prophet compares God to mekor mayim chayin, source of living waters, an overflowing of Divine, life-giving nourishment.

As she does in her exploration of other biblical metaphors for God, Rabbi Toba strives to demonstrate how this water metaphor pushes us away from that pesky metaphor in which we still find ourselves stuck – “God is a Big Person” – as well as such other images of God as “Man of War” or “Tyrannical King,” who metes out punishments and delivers rewards as he so chooses: “In the metaphor of God as Water, we are given a whole new way to think about God’s power and how that power affects us ….

“If we think about God’s power using water metaphors – as an ocean, a stream, a driving rain – we can move beyond a concept of power as ‘control over,’ and let go of the notion of God as some kind of puppet master … God as Cosmic Flow can show us the way and guide our path, but only if and when we are willing to channel that Power for the good.”

But in this chapter, and the following ones as well, Rabbi Toba is not satisfied with engaging our minds alone; she challenges our hearts, our souls, our bodies, with suggestions for Torah study, for exercises in chanting, mindfulness meditation, even yoga.

In brief, “God is Here” provides us with a wide variety of recipes to help us to go through our world astonished.

By the time I had read the book a second time, I found myself going through our world even more astonished.

JAMES B. ROSENBERG is a rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim, in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@templehabonim.org.

Chabad synagogue hit with anti-Israel graffiti MADRID (JTA) – Vandals defaced the area in front of the Chabad-Lubavitch movement’s Barcelona synagogue with graffiti that read “Why do you kill in Palestine” early on April 26.

The incident, which occurred on Yom Ha’atzmaut, or Israel’s independence day, prompted outrage from the

Federation of Jewish Communities of Spain, the Israelite Community of Barcelona and other Jewish groups.

“This isn’t politics. It’s a synagogue!” tweeted the account of the Israelite Community of Barcelona, which celebrated its centennial in 2018. It is not affiliated with Chabad, the international

Hasidic movement.

This is the second act of graffiti vandalism on one of the city’s synagogues in nine days, following a similar incident on April 17 at the Great Synagogue of Barcelona, coinciding with the commemoration of Yom Ha’Shoah, or Israel’s Holocaust remembrance day. There the graffiti

read: “Free Palestine from the river to the sea. Solidarity with the Palestinian people.”

The Federation of Jewish Communities of Spain umbrella group strongly condemned Wednesday’s act, writing in a statement that “attacking places of worship of Jewish men and women in Barcelona is a clear demon-

stration of antisemitism.”

In February, Mayor Ada Colau decided to end Barcelona’s twin city designation with Tel Aviv, after a 25-year partnership. Colau had said that Israel is guilty of “apartheid,” as well as “flagrant and systematic violation of human rights.”

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Our Annual Showcase of Pets

Elsie, daughter of Karen Borger of Providence, admires her portrait done by an artist at Outsider Collective in Pawtucket.

Zie is owned by Jana Knibb and Ryan Forman of Providence.

Kitty Katz, who loves lounging, is owned by Rachel Furman and Shira Furman Freschet of Providence.

Puggy is the grandson of Arline Cusick of Warwick.

Finnegan, a part Norwegian forest rescue cat, is loved and spoiled by the Stern family of Pawtucket.

Teddy was adopted from a shelter by Reva and Mel Coleman. He loves children and everyone else, Reva, who now lives in Waterford, Conn., reports.

Happy, owned by Marc Bochner of Cranston, brings smiles wherever he goes.

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Harry, left, and Will, right, are owned

by Diane Hanke and Neal Cerel of Warwick.

Cosette is a rescue kitten owned by Lauri and Terry Lee of Providence

Fergus is a golden mountain dog owned by Lauri and Terry Lee of Providence

Willow and Millie are in charge at Sarah and Becca Katz Greenleaf's house in Providence.

Ruby is a 5-year-old calico owned by Joanie Glasser who lives on the Warwick/East Greenwich line.

Gracie is owned by Suzanne Grossman of Riverside.

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Natasha, a Norwegian forest cat, is working undercover on a big case. She is owned

by Alice King of Attleboro, Massachusetts.

Serenity is owned by Kara Marziali of Cranston.

Riley, a 6-year-old female beagle mix, lives with Liz and Neil Golditch in Johnston.

Robot is 2.5-year-old rescue gray tabby adopted by Rebecca Webber of Providence, during the pandemic.

Oliver is owned by Marilyn Kagan of Providence who reports that Ollie just celebrated his 23rd birthday on April 1.

Charlotte is hard at work as the Vice President of Audacious Hospitality at Temple Beth-El in Providence. She is owned by Judith Gilson.

Lazlo recently moved to Israel with his mom Robin Cerel Rittenburg, a cousin of Neal Cerel.

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Elvis Rexley, at 2 1/2 years old, is owned by the Rasnick Family of Barrington.

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Lola Cohen is owned by Deborah Stoloff of Plainville, Massachusetts.

Teddy, 14 years young, is owned by Rachel Hurlich of East Greenwich.

Harry is the faithful companion of Sarah Zeldin.

Lily is 7 years old and owned by Beverly Mann Paris.

Simba and Mitsey have grown up together at the home of Sharon Schwartz-Vanderhoff in Cranston.

Magellan lurks in the sheets during a sick day at the home of Claire Uziel and Josh Berner in Providence.

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Rhode Island playwright wants to inspire dialogue with new show

BY ROBERT ISENBERG IF A CONVERSATION ever gets dull, just bring up the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

Tempers will flare. Grand statements will be made.

Friendships will shatter.

Participants don’t have to be Jewish, or Arab, or even know anything about Israel.

The very mention of this 75-year stalemate will cause immediate emotional fallout, and some relationships may never recover.

But Sandra Laub, 66, does want to bring it up. “Picking Up Stones: An American Jew’s Moral Dilemma” is her one-woman show about the complex political tapestry that Israel has become.

Many sections of Laub’s new show are borrowed from “Via Dolorosa,” a nonfiction play by British dramatist David Hare. But she mixes these with her own stories – of family, creative expression and an eye-opening visit to Israel.

“I don’t have any answers,” Laub said in an interview.

“I’m just asking the questions and putting my body and my mouth where my ideas are.

I’ve had a lot of help, but in the end, it’s just me on that stage. I don’t know what will happen. I really don’t.”

Laub lives in Pawcatuck, Connecticut, and is an English and drama teacher in Rhode Island’s Chariho Regional School District. She studied acting at the A.C.T. Conservatory, in California, and has been a performer and director her entire adult life.

In 2013, Laub performed “Golda’s Balcony,” William Gibson’s stirring solo show about former Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir, for the now-defunct 2nd Story Theatre in Bristol.

The next year, Laub traveled to Israel to further research the role. Her visit occurred during Operation Protective Edge, a six-week war in Gaza that resulted in more than 500 casualties. This brush with history, along with Israel’s more recent political turmoil, inspired Laub to write her play.

Sandra Laub in her rehearsal space.

To tell the story, Laub takes on numerous roles, from Israeli politician Benny Begin to members of Laub’s own family, representing a range of perspectives.

Laub hopes to take the show to other institutions, such as schools and Hillels, to inspire further dialogue about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

“I don’t aspire to fame or acclaim on a scale that, say, Lisa Kron has achieved,” says Laub, referencing the

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acclaimed Jewish monologuist. “[But] I truly believe that theater is a powerful tool. In a non-intimidating way, theater brings people together to think and feel about a subject like this – contentious and divisive though it may be among the Jewish community – which I care about deeply.”

“I want people to feel a sort of energizing exhaustion,” she adds. “I hope it’s something that lets people know that, in their life, they have

stories to tell, too.”

Hear Laub discuss the play and her career.

Go to https://www.jewishrhody.com/stories/ ri-playwrights-show-on-israeli-palestinian-conflict-premieres-april-23,33129 ROBERT ISENBERG (risenberg@ jewishallianceri.org) is the multimedia producer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and a writer for Jewish Rhode Island.

Festival to celebrate Israel @ 75 set for May 21

BY LARRY KATZ

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The top of the building at 100 Westminster Street in downtown Providence, lighted in honor of Yom Ha’Atzmaut.

CELEBRATE ISRAEL @ 75 by enjoying activities for all ages, including live music and other entertainment, local craft and art vendors, family activities and food for all tastebuds and preferences! The celebration will take place on Sunday, May 21, from noon to 4 p.m., at the Farm Fresh RI building in Providence.

Israeli street foods, plantbased fare, American fast food, treats and packaged foods will be available from vendors, including Moshe Kosher Eats, PVDonuts, Oak Bakeshop, Mosaic Table and Plant City. There will also be samples of the world’s best single malt whiskey – Israel’s Milk and Honey Distillery took the grand prize at the 2023 World Whiskies Awards, in London on March 31.

Two well-known bands, New York’s TLV Band and Boston’s

Kafkafim, will perform. Both are cover bands for all types of Israeli music. Fischel Bressler’s Tsibeles will play klezmer and Hasidic music. Accordionists, choral groups and others will also perform. In addition, everyone is welcome to join in Israeli dancing.

The exhibit “Humans of Israel,” by renowned photographer Erez Kaganovitz, will make its Rhode Island debut at the festival.

Activities range from a local henna artist and a bouncy house to a scavenger hunt, PJ Library story times and shopping options galore! Those who eat too much at the food vendors can even burn off some calories in a cardio/core activity.

Vendors will offer a variety of goods, including jewelry, fine art, women’s designer clothing, notecards, prints, paintings, herbal tea and spices, plants, hand-made kippot, microwave bowls, T-shirts,

mugs and napkins. El Al Airlines, a travel agency and Israel-centered organizations will offer information.

Some may know the Farm Fresh RI building, at 10 Sims Ave., Providence, as the winter home of a farmers market and Providence Flea. The large, airy venue also has an outdoor plaza. The parking lot is accessed from Kinsley Avenue or from Sims Avenue.

Admission to the event and parking are both free.

The latest list of participants can be found at www.jewishallianceri.org/Israel75. For more information, contact Elihay Skital, community shaliach, at eskital@ jewishallianceri.org.

LARRY KATZ (lkatz@ jewishallianceri.org) is the director of Jewish life and learning at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Community program marks Warsaw uprising, Yom Ha’Shoah

BY FRAN OSTENDORF PROVIDENCE – The Jewish community marked the 80th anniversary of the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising as part of its annual community Yom Ha’Shoah commemoration.

The evening event, on April 17, the 40th in Rhode Island for Yom Ha’Shoah, or Holocaust Remembrance Day, coincided with the anniversary of the uprising, which began on April 19, 1943.

The program opened with a candlelight procession of Holocaust survivors and survivors’ children, flanked by students from Brown University and the Rhode Island School of Design, that moved down the aisle in the social hall at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center.

During the procession, the approximately 150 people in the audience could watch the names of community mem-

Alice Eichenbaum, Elizabeth Sandy and Andrew Algava. bers’ family members killed during the Holocaust scrolling on a screen at the front of the room.

Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman, reflecting on the events 80 years ago, said, “We must … remember how our ancestors lived” prior to the rise of Nazi Germany. He described the vibrant and sophisticated Polish Jewish community,

Cantor Judy Seplowin and teens from the Temple Beth-El Youth Choir, in Providence, and the HaZamir International Jewish Teen Choir, Providence Chapter.

with its schools and thriving cultural institutions, and urged those in attendance to “build and strengthen our own Jewish culture here in Rhode Island.”

Jewish culture was on display during the course of the program as teens from Temple Beth-El’s Youth Choir, in Providence, and HaZamir International Teen

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Choir, Providence Chapter, sang along with Cantors Judy Seplowin and Brian Mayer.

Pianist Judith Lynn Stillman, a Providence musician and composer, and harpist Judie Tennanbaum, accompanied them.

Rabbi Daniel Kripper led the Mourner’s Kaddish.

Wendy Joering, executive director of the Sandra

Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, who welcomed the crowd to the program, acknowledged the museum’s founders, including Sandra and Richard Bornstein. Richard Bornstein passed away on April 13.

FRAN OSTENDORF is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

Interfaith service promotes social action NARRAGANSETT – Congregation Beth David hosted an interfaith Kabbalat Shabbat service on April 21 with members of the South County Clergy Association and congregants from its participating houses of worship. Those congregations and clergy attending included The Rev. A. Fred Evenson, Peace Dale Congregational Church; The Rev. Dr. Jan Gregory-Charpentier, Kingston Congregational Church; The Rev. Mitch Lindemann, Church of the Ascension, Wakefield; The Rev. Angela Sagesse, Peace Dale First Church of God; The Rev. Beth Sherman, St. Augustine’s Episcopal Church, Kingston.

The collaborative effort to perform and promote social action, in service to those who are underserved, less fortunate or marginalized in the South County community was the com-

mon theme heard during sermons by Rabbi Ethan Adler, of Congregation Beth David, and Fr. Craig Swan, of St. Peter’s By-TheSea. A keynote address was delivered by Adam Greenman, president and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, and remarks regarding the ever-evolving relationship between CBD and St. Peter’s were offered by Bob Fricklas, chair of the CBD tikun olam committee.

Many of those in attendance remained after the service to enjoy a delicious Oneg and engage in lively conversation. “I hope this can be an on-going event” was a comment often overheard.

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100-year-old mahjong maven shares her passion with younger players

BY SETH CHITWOOD

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ARWICK – At The Phyllis Siperstein Tamarisk Assisted Living Residence, the game of mahjong is helping form

connections between generations.

EVERY WEDNESDAY, Florence Katz’s daughter, said she Katz, 100, teaches her daughalways knew her mother ters, daughter-in-law and played mahjong, but it wasn’t friends the popular game. until the pandemic that she “I’ve been playing since and her sister-in-law, Patty the ’60s, when everyone Katz, of Cranston, decided it started playing around was time to finally learn. here,” Katz said during an “It seemed like everyone interview. “I remember was playing it,” Fox said. when it was just one card “And we had a chance to [with the possible winning learn from the best.” combinations]; now they “Now we’re sort of have new cards every year.” addicted. We play online, Katz, who volunteered too,” Patty Katz said. They at Tamarisk when it first also play at Tamarisk with opened in 2006, is now the a friend, Loretta Robin, oldest and longest resident of Jamestown, and Joan at the facility on Sackett, of East Shalom Drive.

Greenwich, ‘It's been Prior to moving Florence Katz’s to Tamarisk, she stepdaughter. fun teaching lived in Cranston, Mahjong is a where she was a tile-based game teacher at Cranthem. I try to usually played ston High School with four players.

East. have snacks.’ The goal is to be “It doesn’t feel the first to form like 100 years, a winning hand but they tell me it has been,” by collecting sets of matchKatz said, showing off photos ing tiles. It’s a game of skill, of her 10 grandchildren. strategy and luck, according “And now to be able to teach to Katz – who added that it this game, it feels nice to be also might be the secret to a able to have some things that longer life.

I can say I left behind for “It gets you thinking, your them.” brain working in all differJudy Fox, of Cranston, ent ways,” she said.

Players cheer for Loretta Robin, of Jamestown, second from the right, who won the last game of the afternoon. Standing over her is her friend, Florence Katz.

Katz may be onto something: According to the National Library of Medicine, mahjong has been proven to help improve memory and cognitive skills, as well as providing an opportunity to practice counting and strategy.

Katz said she is pretty good at learning the new card every year, and once she has, she pretty much knows all the combinations in her head at once.

“That’s the secret, to see the tiles in your hand and know how many different ways you can go to win with them during a game,” she said.

Fox, who said she is nowhere near the player her mother is, said she appreciates the companionship and communal aspect of the game. It has also given her an opportunity to relate to her mother on a regular basis through something her mother is passionate about.

“She is really good,” Fox said of her mother’s play.

“Sometimes she lets us win.

I can see she’ll have ‘mahjong,’ but she won’t say it and lets us try to get one.”

Katz said she looks forward to Wednesdays with her girls and mahjong.

“It’s been fun teaching them. I try to have snacks.

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Tamarisk is so nice to us, too …. We have a good time, I get to see them, and we have fun playing,” she said.

“What more can I say: I love mahjong, and I’m happy to know they’ll love it with or without me.”

SETH CHITWOOD (www. sethchitwood.com), of Barrington, is a features reporter for The StandardTimes, in New Bedford. He is also the creative director of the award-winning Angelwood Pictures production company.

Tikun olam in Narragansett ON A SUNDAY AFTERNOON in March, volunteers at Congregation Beth David in Narragansett gathered on to sew fabric bags for children in foster care.

The bags, which were sewn and stuffed on March 26, were donated to Foster Children of Rhode Island.

The bags were filled with such items as shampoo, hairbrushes, combs, soap, towels, facecloths and diapers. They were donated to Foster Children of Rhode Island. The purchase of materials was funded, in part, by a grant from the Gertrude N. & Seebert J. Goldowsky Foundation.

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Tips for keeping your kids safe in cyberspace this summer Keep your private information private. Model responsible

BY LINDSAY LIEBERMAN

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chool’s almost out, and your kids will probably want to spend lots of time on phones, tablets and computers this summer. While these

devices can be a great way to stay connected, it’s important to recognize the risks lurking online and take steps to keep your children safe in cyberspace.

Here are four tips to help keep your kids safe this summer:

Have cyber-safety discussions early and often!

Talk to your children about their behavior online. While it’s up to you to make the rules, best practices include limiting

their communication with strangers, thinking twice about what kind of photos and videos they share with friends, avoiding posting sensitive information, and steering clear of accessing harmful or misleading content.

behavior by keeping private information off your public social media accounts.

Your kids’ birthdays, the names of their schools and photographs of the front of your house are just a few examples of the type of sensitive information you should avoid sharing.

Modeling this responsible behavior will encourage your kids to follow suit.

Store phones and other devices in common areas.

Implement a house rule that all electronic devices must be placed in a common area for charging overnight.

By keeping phones, tablets and computers out of your kids’ bedrooms, you’ll sleep better because you’ll know that they aren’t accessing questionable material at all hours of the night.

Install and enable parental controls. Before you

purchase your next device, take a look at the safety features to ensure that they include everything you want. For a device your child already has, take the time to research and understand the options available in the device, and consider your child’s age, to determine which controls are appropriate. Consider using a parental-control app

that can help monitor and restrict your child’s online activity. These apps provide information about your child’s usage patterns and block inappropriate content, and can even set limits on screen time.

LINDSAY LIEBERMAN is a cyber attorney with over a decade of experience representing victims of sex crimes, crimes against children and cyberbullying. She is also an adjunct professor at Salve Regina University, in Newport. Reach her at her website, lindsaylieberman. com, or email info@ lindsaylieberman.com.

Congregation Agudas Achim celebrates community at ‘Incorporation Gala’ “THIS IS AMAZING!” Those words were heard over and over at a gathering to celebrate Congregation Agudas Achim and its community.

Dubbed the Incorporation Gala, the March 11 party at the Pawtucket Country Club was organized to celebrate the preservation and restoration of the congregation’s original articles of incorporation, a document dating back to 1911.

Molly Jacobs, president of the Attleboro synagogue, pointed to the articles as evidence of the congregation’s durability, even during difficult times, including the COVID-19 pandemic.

As the pandemic has eased, the synagogue has conducted more services and events in person, and Jacobs encouraged congregants to reengage with the community, to rediscover the joys of being together as a community.

Stuart Freiman, a former president of Agudas Achim who has a lifelong interest in ephemera, took the lead on the restoration project.

“What drew me to this

Congregation Agugas Achim president Molly Jacobs (right) sings a Jewish camp song to conclude her remarks, accompanied by member Ken Freeman on guitar.

Stuart Freiman and Aaron Weintraub unveiled a reproduction of Congregation Agudas Achim’s newly restored and preserved Articles of Incorporation.

Rabbi Talya WesbardShalem greets guests at the Congregation Agudas Achim Incorporation Gala.

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Congregation Agudas Achim welcomes visitors to services and events; for a calendar and more information about the congregation, go to agudasma.org or call 508-222-2243.

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Hadassah R.I. to celebrate 50 years of gift-wrapping fundraisers

BY PAMELA GERSHMAN COHEN AND JUDY SILVERMAN HADASSAH RHODE ISLAND invites its members and friends to celebrate Hadassah’s decades of volunteer work at the Warwick Mall during the holiday season.

The Gift Wrapping Golden Jubilee Potluck will take place on June 11.

Over the years, the gift-wrapping fundraisers have helped raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for medical research and treatments in the two world-class Hadassah medical centers in Israel.

The history of the gift-wrapping initiative began with Ruth Shaffer in the mid1970s, when she was the president of the Pawtucket Chapter. Shaffer had been to a mall in Massachusetts where a local Hadassah chapter had made $200 by wrapping gifts.

She thought it was something that Pawtucket should try.

Pawtucket Chapter member Sarah Cokin contacted Lloyd Bliss, an owner of the Warwick Mall, to ask about getting a spot where the chapter could try to raise money doing wrapping. They were given a spot in front of Jordan Marsh for 10 days before Christmas. That first year they made $500.

The following year, they were stationed at the other end of the mall, in front of Peerless, where they stayed for a few years, until they moved to the current location, near JCPenney.

Abe Gershman was a professional department-store visual merchandiser, and taught the gift-wrappers how to make basic florist bows to put on the packages, as well as helping with the actual wrapping.

Sarah Cokin and Ruth Kimel – Abe Gershman’s sister – saw bigger potential in the project. They took apart a bow from Filene’s, and Jack Cokin, Sarah’s husband, used it to design a flat bow that was perfect for packages. They also created a round bow for use on smaller packages.

The ribbon was bought wholesale at a supply house in Fall River. All the bows were decorated with a

garland and trim that was purchased on sale and then taken apart to refashion. The women had work sessions at various homes, where they would set up assembly lines to make and trim the bows.

Bow-making was done much of the year and became a social event for the women.

Many meetings were held at the home of Trudie Marks.

To be a gift-wrapper, volunteers had to pass Marks’ high standards. If you couldn’t wrap, you could cashier or help keep the workplace clean.

Sarah Cokin was a master at getting area manufacturers to donate wrapping paper, boxes and tissue paper.

To help ease the strain of standing and wrapping for hours, Jack Cokin constructed risers, which are still in use. A sign was also created, informing the customers that the wrappers were members of Hadassah and all volunteers, and that all proceeds would go to support cancer research.

As the project grew, the need for storage grew, so the chapter rented a storage facility. Part of the rent was forgiven in return for an ad in the chapter’s ad book.

Ruth Kimel and Sarah Cokin helped run the project for years. All of Kimel’s family – men included – have participated in it as well. As reported in a news story on NBC 10 WJAR in December, the family is in its fourth generation of wrapping!

The core group of women – and men – who were the project’s mainstay while it was the Pawtucket fundraiser were Sarah and Jack Cokin, Lillian Fellner, Goldie Goldstein (pipe-cleaner twister), Gert Katz (Mrs. Sweep), Ruth Kimel, Trudie Marks, Gert Max, Dottie Rosen, Ruth Shaffer, Eva Zucker and Jan Ziegler.

By the early 1990s, the seven Hadassah chapters in Rhode Island – Providence, Pawtucket, Cranston-Warwick, Kent County, Newport, South County and Woonsocket – had merged into one Rhode Island Chapter, with seven groups and a Nurses’ Council.

When the Pawtucket group had trouble getting enough

volunteers for evenings, members asked the Kent group for help.

The Kent wrapping volunteers were trained by Trudie Marks, in the then-chapter office, on her wrapping techniques – most importantly, using double-sided tape so that no tape shows. They were also trained on how to make the bows.

After a few more years, gift-wrapping became a project for the whole chapter.

Now, the bows are still made by hand, but simplified from the original design.

A few of the supplies are donated, but most are now purchased. And the trademark double-sided tape is still used. The risers are still in use, but have been repaired and re-covered. The wrapping begins 8 to 10 days before Christmas, with about 50 volunteers, and raises thousands of dollars each

Judy Silverman and Karen Beraha with a nicely wrapped gift. year.

The Gift Wrapping Golden Jubilee Potluck will be a diary brunch at a home in North Kingstown on June 11, at 11 a.m. For more information, please email chapri@ hadassah.org.

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PAMELA GERSHMAN COHEN and JUDY SILVERMAN are longtime Hadassah members.

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THE JEWISH ALLIANCE OF GREATER RHODE ISLAND is chartering a bus on June 4 so Rhode islanders can join over 40,000 (yes, you read that right!) children, teens and adults in marching down New York City’s Fifth Avenue as participants in the annual Celebrate Israel Parade.

The Celebrate Israel Parade is the world’s largest expression of solidarity with the Jewish state.

After marching, spectators can watch American and Israeli community leaders and dignitaries, entertainers, artists, musicians, dancers, celebrities, floats and marching bands.

Since 1965, hundreds of thousands of people have come together annually to march in or watch the Celebrate Israel Parade, expressing their love and support for Israel. Those making the trip to New York on the Alliance’s bus will march together as proud representatives of Rhode Island.

Embracing Jewish people from all over the world and all walks of life, this year’s parade has been expanded to celebrate the 75th anniversary of Israel’s founding. The theme will be: Israel @ 75: Renewing the Hope.

The coach bus is scheduled to depart from the Alliance’s

Dwares Jewish Community Center, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence, for New York City at about 7:30 a.m. on Sunday, June 4. Participants should bring bag lunches; the bus will stop at a kosher restaurant for dinner on the return trip.

The bus is expected to arrive back at the JCC at about 10 p.m. The number of seats on the bus is limited.

Reservations are on a firstcome, first-served basis.

Children in seventh grade or higher are welcome, but participants in grades 7 to 9 must be accompanied by an adult. Everyone who attends must be capable of walking a mile.

The cost is $54 for adults, $36 for children and teens, and $108 for families of three or four, and includes bus transportation, a T-shirt, a kosher dinner and kosher snacks. Special pricing is available for larger families; to inquire, contact Elihay Skital, community shaliach, at eskital@jewishallianceri. org.

LARRY KATZ (lkatz@ jewishallianceri.org) is the director of Jewish life and learning at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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PROVIDENCE —House Deputy Majority Whip Mia Ackerman hosted Jewish leaders from across Rhode Island at the State House on April 27 for Israeli Independence Day. She also sponsored a resolution (2023-H 6337) celebrating the 75th anniversary of that independence.

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The Teverow Fund: A gift that keeps on giving

BY CLAIRE UZIEL THE JOSEPH TEVEROW and Jacqueline Teverow Memorial Fund, an endowment fund established 40 years ago with the then Bureau of Jewish Education, continues to sponsor lectures and other educational programs important to the Jewish community.

The Jewish Federation Foundation (JFF) recently interviewed Joshua Teverow, of Providence, about the fund (now part of the JFF), its origins and future. The following Q-and-A has been lightly edited for clarity.

Tell us about Joseph and Jacqueline Teverow and how they were involved in the community.

My father’s real passion was not work, but rather his family life and Jewish life. He was active at Temple Emanu-El [in Providence], served as a gabbai [assisting with Torah readings], and helped run the Bar Mitzvah Brotherhood program [minyans and

breakfasts for young people].

My mother was active in Pioneer Women [now Na’amat], which often met at our house.

Both of my parents were Labor Zionists, and during the 1950s, the Habonim youth group also met in our home.

What is the origin of the Joseph and Jacqueline Teverow Memorial Fund?

The Joseph Teverow Memorial Fund was established in memory of my father upon his death in 1983. The fund was designated to support programs of adult Jewish education because my father was a big advocate of such programs. He had served as the president of the Bureau of Jewish Education, and my mother was also active in adult Jewish education efforts. Her name was added to the fund name when she died, in 2012.

How is the fund used today?

The fund sponsors lectures and other educational programs. My three siblings and I would like the fund to be able to do this in perpetuity,

so we make frequent tribute and memorial contributions to the fund to keep it growing.

How did your parents’ involvement in the Jewish community affect you? Did they actively teach you about philanthropy or did you learn by their example?

My siblings and I followed my parents’ example in serving the Jewish community. I became involved in the Jewish community as a young professional. I served the Jewish Federation in many capacities and was on the boards of Jewish Family Service [now Jewish Collaborative Services], Brown RISD Hillel and others. But my siblings and I all wish we could have done even half of what our parents did for the Rhode Island Jewish community.

But you have included the Jewish Federation Foundation in your estate planning, a significant way to provide for the community!

Many years ago, I donated a life insurance policy to the

foundation, and I pay the annual premiums. I see that insurance policy as ultimately a substantial cash gift to the Teverow Fund.

Later, I also established a substantial separate bequest in my estate planning to benefit the Teverow Fund.

What would you say to other community members to encourage them to make such a gift?

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The Teverow family in the mid-1960s. Back, left to right: Jacqueline, Joseph, and Paul.

Front, left to right: Joshua, Philip, and Lee.

You don’t have to be wealthy to make provisions to support the Jewish community, especially when you do so with your estate planning. I would suggest that community members talk to their estate-planning professionals about how to leave a family legacy that benefits our Jewish community for years to come.

For more information about using a life insurance policy

as a planned gift or establishing a designated endowment fund with the Jewish Federation Foundation, email endowment@jewishallianceri.org or call 401-421-4111.

CLAIRE UZIEL is Endowment/ Campaign Operations Manager at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island. She was assisted in this article by LARRY KATZ, director of Jewish life and learning at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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OBITUARIES Richard Bornstein, 72

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Richard Bornstein passed away on April 13, 2023. He was born in Providence, the son of Ethel and Harry Bornstein. His family owned Miller’s Delicatessen, one of the landmarks of the East Side. He attended Providence Hebrew Day School and Classical High School, in Providence, where he lettered in basketball.

After graduating from the University of Rhode Island, Richard worked with his father in the family business.

In his mid-twenties, he met the love of his life, Sandra Koffler. They married, and he happily became Sandra’s husband and stepfather to Jo-An, Scott and Terri. He instinctively took on the role of parent and taught the children sports, helped them with their homework and created order in their lives.

Soon after, Richard joined his father-in-law’s business, American Tourister. When American Tourister was sold, Richard created The Koffler Group, a family office that became one of the top real estate development companies in New England. Richard hired a talented team and grew the company for the next 30 years. Under his leadership, The Koffler Group won numerous awards and developed some of the pre-eminent properties in the region.

Richard was an optimist by nature and generous in

his dealings with people. He and Sandra supported many charitable organizations in the state and nationally. Richard was active in the Jewish Federation of Rhode Island (now the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island); Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County; Temple Emanu-El, of Providence; Morse Senior Living, in Florida; Kravis Center for the Arts; United Way; The Miriam Hospital; Brown University; Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University; University of Rhode Island; Classical High School; Wheeler School and Bryant College; and he served on many of their boards.

Richard, along with Sandra, helped establish The Koffler Bornstein Families Institute of Jewish Studies at Temple Emanu-El, in Providence, and the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, in Providence.

Richard was an avid sports fan and often attended Patriots, Bruins and Red Sox games. He played golf with his friends every chance he could. He shared his fatherin-law’s passion for sports cars and could often be seen on the weekends driving his convertible red Ferrari with the top down, golf clubs poking up from the back seat.

During his free time, Richard doted on his family. Most holidays he could be found manning the grill and soon after sitting at the head of the table, enjoying the family banter as if it was the most important conversation in the world.

Richard had many friends and was elected to many social and community roles.

He was active in country clubs in both Rhode Island and Palm Beach. He was president of both Ledgemont Country Club, in Seekonk, Massachusetts, and High Ridge Country Club, in Palm Beach, Florida. He was on the board and served as golf chairman at Palm Beach County Club, in Florida.

Richard had a passion for travel and loved to go abroad with his wife and friends.

His favorite trips included Europe, Israel and Egypt.

Richard leaves behind his wife, Sandra; Jo-An and Paul Kaplan; Scott and Mary Chernick; Terri Chernick and Charles Meyer; and his grandchildren, Kyle, Elissa, Jack, Sydney, Rachel, Allison and Seth and was predeceased by his granddaughter Elissa.

Contributions in his honor may be made to Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence, RI 02906.

Doris Cohen, 91

SUWANEE, GA. – Doris Strauss Cohen passed away on March 25, 2023, in Suwanee. She was born in Providence on Dec. 28, 1931, and grew up in Newport. She married Irvin Cohen in 1955, and they lived in Hickory, North Carolina, for nearly 50 years. They enjoyed their retirement in Bluffton, South Carolina, and then moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to be near their children and grandchildren. Doris attended the University of Rhode Island and received an associate degree with honors from Caldwell Community College.

Doris brought laughter to all those around her every day and performed stand-up comedy for her family, friends and neighbors until age 90. She was also a gifted artist and fantastic cook and loved winning trivia and bingo. But family was most important to Doris, and she dedicated her life to raising her children and enjoying time with her grandchildren.

Doris was preceded in death by her husband, Irvin Cohen; her parents, Gertrude and Conrad Strauss; and her brother, Richard Strauss. She is survived by three daughters and sons-in-law, Faye and David Kahn, Gayle and Randy Podhouser, and Susan and Scott Grunwald, as well as eight grandchildren and their spouses, Michael Kahn and Kelly Trop, Andrew and Megan Hernbroth Kahn,

Jessica and Tim Stephansen, Taylor Podhouser, Samantha Podhouser, Sydney and Colin Sernick, Bailey Grunwald and Zoe Grunwald.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Congregation Dor Tamid, 11165 Parsons Road, Johns Creek, GA 30097; Hillel International or the charity of your choice.

Alan Field, 73

WEST GREENWICH, R.I. – Alan Roy Field, 73, passed away on April 13, 2023.

Born in Providence on May 13, 1949, he was the son of the late Paul and Hannah Joy Field. He leaves behind his wife Lynn, his twin brother Michael and his wife, Sharon. He was the father of Rachel LaButti, her husband, Kurt, Daniel Field, and Adam Field and his wife, Diane. He was the stepfather of Ryan Malloney and Brendan Malloney and his wife, Lauren.

He was the grandfather of Emma, Olivia, Jonah and Elijah. He was the step-grandfather of Jackson and Lindsey, and the uncle of Amanda Field and Laura Kavanagh.

He was the brother of the late Barry Field and brother-inlaw of Kurt Weidman.

Alan graduated from Pawtucket West High School and Roger Williams College. Alan, with his brother Michael, owned Randall Hardware/Randall Wallcoverings in Providence for 20 years. He was a founding member of Gold’s Gym in Pawtucket along with his brothers Michael and Barry.

Alan was most recently employed by E.A. Langenfeld and was a top sales representative. He then retired and enjoyed photography and traveling with his wife Lynn.

He enjoyed tinkering with computers and would keep himself up to date on everything electronic.

Alan was on the board of trustees of Temple Torat Yisrael and a member of the Touro Fraternal Association.

He cherished the times he spent with his children and grandchildren. His family was paramount in his life and he enjoyed every precious minute with them.

They called him “Pops.” His family is especially grateful to Alan’s former wife, Sheryl Moran, for her caring visits to Alan during his illness.

Contributions can be made to Temple Torat Yisrael at 1251 Middle Road, East

Greenwich, RI 02818.

Samuel Gorfinkle, 83

MEDFORD, MASS. – Samuel Gorfinkle, of Medford, passed away May 1, 2023, at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London, Connecticut.

He was the husband of the late Joanne Maxine (Rockoff) Gorfinkle, with whom he shared 47 years of marriage when she passed away in 2016.

Born in 1940, he was the son of the late Michael and Dorothy (Bloch) Gorfinkle.

Sam met his high school sweetheart, Joanne Rockoff, when he was 16 years old.

They married on Oct. 26, 1969. They created a wonderful life with their two children in Sudbury, Massachusetts, with a summer home in Wellfleet, Massachusetts.

Sam was the president and founder of ADCO Printing, and enjoyed a long happy retirement beginning in 2000.

Sam loved the ocean and sailing his boat, Boomerang, which always returned home.

He spent his retirement at his favorite place on earth, sitting on the deck of his cottage on Lieutenant Island, Cape Cod. Every morning he raised the flag, and every evening he lowered it while watching the sunset. His favorite times were spent with family, including his four grandchildren, who he adored.

Survivors include: a daughter, Carrie Gorfinkle Burton and her husband, Timothy Burton; a son, Michael Gorfinkle and his wife, Melissa Russo; four grandchildren, Kate Burton, Grace Burton, Georgia Gorfinkle, and Max Gorfinkle; a brother, Ira Gorfinkle and his wife Maryellen; a sister, Betty Selsky and her husband Leonard, and his many nieces and nephews and their children.

Contributions may be made to Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary, 291 State Highway Route 6, South Wellfleet, MA 02663.

Carol Greifer, 83

BARRINGTON, R.I. – Carol Spiegel Greifer, of Barrington, passed away on April 9, 2023. She was the wife of Dr. Burton Greifer for 55 years as well as a caring mother and

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OBITUARIES active community member.

Born in Boston, Massachusetts, she was the daughter of the late Harry and Shirley (Joffe) Spiegel. A gifted musician, Carol played the piano and the harp and was a board member of the Chopin and Chaminade Music Clubs.

She was also a longtime member of the Barrington Garden Club. Carol spent her post-college years as an elementary school art teacher and talented painter.

Carol had an adoring family to whom she passed on her love of the arts and music. In addition to her husband, Burt Greifer, she is survived by three children, Lauren Johnson and her husband, George, of Virginia; Jason Greifer and his wife, Brenda, of Oregon; and Karyn Giuliani and her husband, Louis, of Massachusetts; eight grandchildren; two sisters, Joy Slatoff and Lois Weber and her husband, Harold. She was predeceased by two grandchildren and her brother, Roy Spiegel.

Roger Gross, 77

WARWICK, R.I. – Roger Lee Gross, of Warwick, passed away April 20, 2023, at West Shore Health Center in Warwick. He was the husband of Rosemary (Botelho) Gross, for the last 30 years. Born in Fall River and raised in Providence, he was the son of the late Irving and Anita (Chavenson) Gross.

Roger attended Hope High School and graduated from Wilbraham Munson Academy in 1964. He received a bachelor’s degree from Boston University.

Roger was a successful business owner, first growing Helen Olevson, a women’s clothing store, into a regional New England chain.

For the past 35 years, Roger owned and operated Franklin Rogers on Westminster Street in Providence. He was truly loved by everyone and became a staple for men’s fine custom clothing in downtown Providence. Although Roger was very involved with his business he was truly at his happiest when he was spending time with his two grandchildren Stella and Benjamin Gross.

In addition to his wife Rosemary, survivors include: his two children, David Franklin Gross, his wife Danielle Harroch Gross and their children Stella and Benjamin and Holly Ellen Gross and her husband Perry Wechsler;

two sisters, Barbara Forman and Arlene Levy and her husband, Mitchell; brotherin-law, Michael Klein; several nieces, nephews and his two beloved Scottish Terriers, Willow and Reggie. He was the brother of the late Marilyn Klein and brotherin-law of the late Dr. Donald M. Forman. In addition Roger maintained multiple lifelong relationships and was a devoted friend to many.

Contributions may be made to the Warwick Animal Shelter, 101 Arthur W. Devine Blvd., Warwick, RI 02886.

Robert Halpert, 81

WARWICK, R.I. – Robert T. Halpert passed away on April 8, 2023, at the HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center in Providence. He was the beloved and devoted husband of Naomi (Finkel) Halpert.

Born in Providence, he was a son of the late David and Etta (Blumenthal) Halpert.

He had lived in Warwick for the last seven years, previously living in Newburyport, Massachusetts, for 25 years and Providence for 49 years.

He was an incredibly talented home chef; he was devoted to making sure his family was as well fed as they were loved.

He was a quality control manager for Electronic Products in Newburyport, Massachusetts, and a quality manager for TCI in Warwick.

But his true passion was fulfilled when he owned and operated the Park Ave Deli in Cranston. He made almost every item on the menu by hand and was sure to leave his family a collection of recipes of his personal favorites.

While Bob was a talented chef and engineer, he found time to support his wife, Naomi. He was a former vice president of Camp JORI, where Naomi was a nurse.

He made sure to make the trip every single day that she was there to be there at night.

He was a founding member of the JCC Summer Canteen and a co-founder of Mystery BUFFS of RI at the Rochambeau Library and JCC with his cousin, Violet. Bob was a former vice president of RIJCC, a twice-elected president and a perpetual board member of Touro Fraternal, as well as a president and regional vice-president of ULPS, and a vice president of the Friends of Newburyport Library. He was a dedicated founder and troop leader for

Boy Scout Pack 104. He was a 1,000-hour volunteer of Joppa Flats MASS Audubon, the RI Radio and Northeastern for Education, and a member of the Conservation Commission in Newburyport.

Aside from his wife, Naomi, Bob is survived by his daughter, Melissa Halpert, of Cumberland, and his grandchildren, Kayla and Zachary.

He was predeceased by his son, David Halpert.

Contributions may be made to the HopeHealth Hospice and Palliative Care Center, 1085 North Main St., Providence, RI 02904.

Marcia Katz, MD, 65

WINTER PARK, FLA. – After a three-year relentless battle against pancreatic cancer, Marcia Katz, M.D. died in the early hours of March 26, 2023.

Although she entered the world just five minutes behind her identical twin, Debbie, Marcia forged her own path. Born to Trudy and the late Jerome Katz, of Cranston, Marcia spent her early years exploring the flora and fauna of Roger Williams Park, which sparked her love for all things plant and animal.

After graduating at the top of her class at Cranston West, Marcia matriculated at Brown University, where she fostered joyous community and friendships that endure beyond her life.

Having graduated with a bachelor’s degree in biology, Marcia began her medical education at Boston University School of Medicine. She then completed an Internal Medicine residency at Boston City Hospital, followed by a Pulmonary and Critical Care fellowship at BU’s Pulmonary Center.

Throughout her career, Marcia strove to reach new heights, and at 4’9,” her fiveinch heels helped her do so.

She served as Baylor College of Medicine’s Associate Chair of Medicine for Clinical Affairs and Medical Director of the Department of Medicine. In addition, she was the Chief of Adult Medicine at Texas Children’s Pavilion for Women and spearheaded the development of Baylor’s Lung Institute.

She was the Medical Director of the Baylor Maconda Brown O’Connor Adult CF Center and sat on the Center Committee of the CF Foundation, the governing body of

CF center accreditation. She also served as the co-principal investigator of the CF Therapeutic Development Center In 2016, Marcia left Houston to live among a more colorful flora and fauna – the peacocks and turtles of Winter Park, Florida. Marcia was hired as the Associate Dean of Clinical Affairs at University of Central Florida College of Medicine. During her time at UCF, she worked closely with UCF hospitals and the community to build an academic clinical service system that will benefit patients and students for years to come. When Marcia retired in 2020 to spend time with her family and travel the world, she earned the title of UCF Professor Emerita.

Marcia was also a full-time mom to her two daughters, Becca and Jess. She never missed a weekly Kabbalat Shabbat sing-along or the opportunity to take her girls shopping.

Marcia faced cancer without missing a beat. She continued to travel the world with her husband, Asher, visiting Rwanda, Botswana and Namibia, to name a few destinations. She took a bike and river cruise on the Rhine with her twin sister, Debbie, and some of her best friends.

Marcia is survived by her daughters, Becca and Jess Wolinsky; mother, Trudy Katz; twin, Debra Katz; sisters, Elyse and Michelle Katz; husband, Asher Aremband; nephew, Sammy Bienenstock; brothers-in-law, Michael Bienenstock and James Darrish; stepdaughters, Lisa Blumenband and Jody Aremband; and grandcat, Tushi.

Contributions may be

made to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, 1500 Rosecrans Ave., Suite 200, Manhattan Beach, CA 90266 (www.pancan.org) or Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, 4550 Montgomery Ave., Suite 1100 N, Bethesda, MD 20814 (www. cff.org).

Marvin Klar, 90

CRANSTON, R.I. – Marvin Justin Klar passed away on April 13, 2023 at Rhode Island Hospital. Born in Providence, a son of the late William and Bertha (Cohen) Klar, he had lived in Cranston for 64 years. He was the pharmacist and owner at Hanover Pharmacy in Providence for 20 years. Marvin was an Army National Guard veteran. He was a 32nd degree Scottish Rite Mason of the Harmony Lodge Masons.

He was the dear brother of the late Arden Klar. He was the cherished uncle of several nieces and nephews.

Contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241.

Dorothy Licht, 101

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Dorothy Shirley Krauss Licht, former first lady of Rhode Island, passed away on April 30, 2023, from complications of COVID. She died in her home surrounded by her loving family. Born on Sept. 27, 1921, and the daughter of Ralph and Bessie (Heller) Krauss, she was a lifelong resident of Providence. Her husband of 47 years, Gov. Frank Licht and her oldest daughter,

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OBITUARIES Beth Ellen (Licht) Laramee predeceased her.

Survivors include: two daughters, Carol Kanin and her husband, Dennis, of Newton, Massachusetts; and Judy Licht and her husband, Rick Tempchin, of Washington, D.C.; eight grandchildren, Jeffrey Laramee, Lesley McClellan and her husband, Michael, Zachary Kanin and his wife, Christina Angelides, Jonah Kanin and his wife, Michelle Shwarzstein, Franklin Kanin and his partner, Lauren Biwer, Marlene Tempchin, Jacob Tempchin and his wife, Hayley Brooks, and Adam Tempchin and five great-grandchildren, Elodie, Max, Sammy, Zoe and Ari. Mrs. Licht graduated from Wellesley College in 1943.

She got a taste for politics when she actively supported her husband’s early campaigns for the state senate and his two successful runs for governor. She later was elected a delegate to Democratic National Convention.

She was a passionate champion and board member of the Rhode Island Food Bank and a patron of the arts as a member of the New England Foundation for the Arts and Rhode Island Arts Council and decades-long supporter of both the Rhode Island Philharmonic and the RISD Museum.

After her husband’s death in 1987, she established the Licht Lecture Series at Brown University that featured such speakers as Barack Obama, John Kerry, Susan Rice, Elizabeth Warren, Adam Schiff and Deval Patrick. Right up to the end of her life, she remained an involved and generous member of the Rhode Island community. Friends and family remember her as warm, generous, funny and no-nonsense. She was a wonderful pie and blintz maker and an avid seeker of news from any source – TV, radio or online.

Funeral services will be held Sunday, May 7, 2023, at 1 p.m. at Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., Providence, with burial to follow in the Lincoln Park Cemetery, Warwick.

Contributions may be made to the Rhode Island Community Food Bank, 200 Niantic Ave., Providence, RI 02907 or online at www.rifoodbank.org.

Leonard Linsky, 95

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Leonard A. Linsky died on April 20, 2023, at Heatherwood Nursing Home in Newport. He was the husband of Barbara L. Linsky for 75 years. Born

in Boston, Massachusetts, a son of the late Israel and Lillian (Moran) Linsky, he had lived in Providence for 63 years, previously living in Woonsocket.

He was a polymer chemist in the plastics industry.

When he retired, he was able to chase his passion for bridge and enjoy watching his favorite team, the Boston Red Sox. Leonard served during World War II in the Army, and he spent most of his time in Belgium and Castle, Germany.

He was father of Debra Wasserman of Bonita Springs, Florida, and her late husband, Alan Wasserman; Stuart Linsky and his wife, Celia, of Rancho Palos Verdes, California; and Alan Linsky and his wife, Cheryl, of Johnston. He was the brother of Anne Klayman of Canton, Massachusetts; Arlene Cohen of Stoughton, Massachusetts; and Charlotte Rosenberg of Potomac, Maryland. He was the grandfather of seven: Jared, Bradley, Leonardo, Thalia, Gabriel, Andrew and Jordan.

He was the great-grandfather of Clara and Zoe. He was predeceased by his brother, Robert Linsky.

Contributions may be made to Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence, RI 02906.

Ralph Rottenberg, 83

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EAST GREENWICH, R.I. – Ralph Rottenberg died April 7, 2023. He was the husband of Toni (Parduski) Rottenberg for 44 years. Born in Providence, a son of the late Louis and Eleanor (Frisch) Rottenberg, he had lived in East Greenwich for 24 years, previously living in Barrington.

Ralph graduated in 1961 from the University of Pennsylvania, Wharton School, with a Bachelor of Science degree in economics. He was a devoted family man who enjoyed spending time with his large extended family, especially at family gatherings and holidays. Ralph had a long and respected career in the lawn and garden industry as the owner of Darbco, Inc., retiring in 2013.

His peers recognized Ralph with a lifetime achievement award by the Lawn & Garden Marketing and Distribution Association, the national organization for the industry.

Ralph was also an active member of the community, both as a Mason at Redwood Lodge and in support of the Jewish community. He has been a member of Temple Sinai for over 50 years and a former member of the board.

Ralph also actively supported Chased Schel Amess Association (Lincoln Park Cemetery), including serving for many years as president. Ralph was an avid traveler with his wife, Toni. Together, they visited over 100 countries and every continent.

He was the father of James Rottenberg and his wife, Amy (Salk), of Reisterstown, Maryland; Steven Rottenberg and his wife, Susan (Swensen), of Warwick; and Julie Rottenberg, of San Francisco, California. He was the stepfather of Bradford Webb and his partner, Amy Harrison, of East Providence, and the late Christine Webb and Wayne Webb Jr. He was the brother of Murray Rottenberg and his late wife, Joan (Berger), of Ossining, New York, and Alan Rottenberg and his wife, Debora (Dunn), of Newton, Massachusetts. He was the grandfather of Joshua, Jennifer, Kyle, Mark, Rachel, Zachary and Grace.

Contributions may be made to Temple Sinai – Kaplan Improvement Fund.

Lynda Samdperil, 73

HOPKINTON, MASS. – Lynda B. Samdperil, 73, a retired manufacturer’s representative for children’s clothing whose personal style reflected her flair for fashion, died April 19, 2023, in Hopkinton.

A 1967 graduate of Hope High School and then of Garland Junior College in Boston, she was the daughter of the late Albert and Edwyna Samdperil of Providence and Florida, and the sister of Fredda Korber (Michael) of Colorado, formerly of Barrington, and the late Paul Samdperil of Cranston.

A Boston resident for many years, Lynda represented several clothing lines in the Bayside Expo Center.

Born May 2, 1949, in Lowell, Mass., she was the aunt of Maurice Dressler (Abigail) of Concord, Mass., and Allison Dressler Kramer (Glenn) of Natick, Mass. She was the great-aunt of Charlotte and Teddy Dressler; Talia, Lulu and Rae Kramer; and the late Eddie Kramer.

Lynda’s love of fashion was evident in both her personal wardrobe and in the decor wherever she lived.

In her later years, visits from her beloved sister, nephew and niece were highlights of her week. Her sharp wit and strength of character will be deeply missed.

Donations may be made to hospice.

Jerome Schrager, 94

FRANKLIN, N.J. – Jerome Stanley “Jerry” Schrager, born May 19, 1928, passed away at home on April 12, 2023, in Franklin.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, Jerry lived in Northern New Jersey for most of his adult life. He was a past member of Temple Agudath Israel, of Caldwell, New Jersey, for many decades as well as a past member of the Pinebrook Jewish Center.

Jerry was a graduate of Midwood High School, in Brooklyn. He earned Bachelor of Science degrees at both Lowell Tech School of Textile Engineering (now U Mass Lowell) and City College for chemical engineering prior to earning a master’s degree in polymer science and chemical engineering at NYU. After a successful career in the engineering field, Jerry spent many years as a consultant designing factories for Foster Wheeler, of Summit, New Jersey.

Jerry had a famous green thumb and was an avid gardener. His tomatoes, asparagus, zucchini and English peas were legendary.

He introduced Swiss chard and kohlrabi to a generation of youth and adults. He was an early advocate of growing flowers along with his vegetables. Jerry grew his vegetables organically, never using pesticides, before it became fashionable to do so.

Tennis was another of his passions, playing with his best buddies almost daily for decades.

Jerry is survived by his wife, Helen Steil Schrager, of 25 years and was pre-deceased by his wife, Sandra Druin Schrager, of blessed memory.

He is survived by his children, Mindy (Stanley) Wachtenheim and Bonnie (Jeffrey) Padulsky, both of Miami Beach, Florida; Amy Schrager, of Lake Hiawatha, New Jersey; Dr. Harry Schrager (Dr. Lynn Halpern), of Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts; and Eric (Debbie) Schrager, of Livingston, New Jersey.

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OBITUARIES He was the grandpa of Arielle (Nick) Werner, Denille (Jordan) Sachs, Remi (Steven) Feld, Zachary Padulsky, Samy Schrager, Sydney Schrager and Andrew Schrager and great-grandpa to Lucas, Annabelle, Mila and Lila.

Jerry was the stepfather of Michelle (Ed) Specht, Mark Steil and Larry Steil, of blessed memory.

Contributions may be made to: Avidd Community Services of NJ, 92 Broadway, Denville, NJ 07834 (Aviddnj. org) or Jewish Alliance of Greater RI, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence, RI 02906 (jewishallianceri.org).

Philip Segal Jr., 96

CRANSTON, R.I. – Philip A. Segal Jr. passed away on April 5, 2023, at home.

He was the husband of Barbara (Kopel) Segal for 75 years. Born in Cambridge, Massachusetts, he was a son of the late Philip and Nanette (Marks) Segal. Philip had lived in Cranston for 69 years, previously living in Belmont, Massachusetts.

Philip was the father of James Segal and his partner, Gail Sullivan, of Woburn, Massachusetts; Joan Segal, of Wayland, Massachusetts; and Adam Segal and his wife, Julie Sears Segal, of Ellington, Connecticut. He was the grandfather of Jennifer, Michael, Spencer and Joshua.

He was the great-grandfather of Maiya, Brielle and William. He was predeceased by his parents; his grandparents; his brother, John N. Segal; and his daughter-inlaw, Cheryl Segal.

Philip attended Underwood Grammar School and Bigelow Junior High. He graduated from Newton High School in 1943 and briefly worked as a football manager before joining the armed forces.

Philip was a sergeant in the U.S Army, honorably serving during World War II in the infantry in Okinawa, Japan, 27th Division. He was later assigned to be a USO guide for the athletics program for the 11th Airborne, where he also worked as a resort hotel manager responsible for soldier R&R. After discharge, he attended Dartmouth College, where he received a bachelor’s degree in economics in 1948, and he was a member of Pi Lambda Phi.

He joined Commonwealth Grocery as a co-buyer and later joined Almacs, Inc. as a store manager. He soon became a buyer and later executive vice president, then president, retiring in 1992.

In 1958, Philip was a co-founding member of Temple Sinai. From 1960-1963, he served on the board of directors as president. He served as an officer for the Cranston YMCA, YMCA of Greater Providence, Rhode Island Food Dealers Association and the Providence Coalition for a Drug Free America. He was a supporter of the RI Philharmonic Orchestra. A proud member of the Jewish Community Center, he was a RI Commodore with the Providence Chamber of Commerce.

He was a board member for the RI Jewish Historical Assoc. and the RI Zoological Society and a life docent for Roger Williams Park Zoo. Philip still found time for his hobbies: tennis, photography, traveling and gardening.

Contributions may be made to Dartmouth College, (payable to the) Trustees of Dartmouth College, Gift Recording Office, 6066 Development Office, Hanover, NH 03755-4400 or to Roger Williams Park Zoo.

Stephen Shenfield, 72

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Stephen David Shenfield (Schmuel David), of Providence, passed away unexpectedly April 27, 2023, at The Miriam Hospital. He was the husband of Ai Hoa Han, with whom he shared 40 years of marriage.

Born in the United Kingdom in 1950, Stephen is a son of the late Dr. Leonard Shenfield and Cicely Shine.

Stephen was a lifelong activist, contributing to causes including prison reform, environmentalism and economic justice, in both his personal life and his career.

Stephen began his career as a statistician for the British government and became a graduate student in 1979 in the Centre of Russian and East European Studies (CREES) at the University of Birmingham. He then earned a Ph.D. in Soviet Studies and Economics from the University of Birmingham (UK).

He first developed an interest in Slavic, East European and Eurasian studies as a small child when his grandmother told him stories about

growing up in the former Soviet Union before the revolution. His interest was heightened in the 1970s when his family discovered and visited relatives still living in Russia. This trip solidified his desire to understand the functioning of diverse economic systems.

Stephen’s involvement in the movement for nuclear disarmament, as well as serving as an interpreter and assistant to the Soviet reformer Fyodor Burlatsky during his visit to Britain in 1983, led to his authorship of “The Nuclear Predicament: Explorations in Soviet Ideology” (Routledge & Kegan Paul, 1987) – the first book-length analysis of Gorbachev’s “new thinking” to appear in print.

From 1984 to 1991, throughout the period of perestroika and post-Soviet transition, Stephen was one of a group of Soviet studies people who brought out 19 issues of the journal Détente, which played a unique role as a channel of communication between Soviet reformers and the interested Western public. He was also on the journal’s editorial board.

In 1989 Stephen came to the United States to live in the Summit neighborhood in Providence with his wife and children in order to take a position at Brown University’s Watson Institute for International Studies. In the 1990s his research and teaching at Brown focused on international relations among the post-Soviet states.

Since 2000, Stephen worked as a freelance researcher and translator.

In 2006 Stephen rejoined the World Socialist Movement (WSM) by becoming a member of the World Socialist Party of the United States (WSPUS). Since then, many of his articles have appeared (under his old pen name of Stefan) in The Socialist Standard (monthly journal of the SPGB) and World Socialist Review (occasional journal of the WSPUS).

In addition to his wife, Stephen is survived by his two children, Kian Xie and his wife, Jennifer, of Uxbridge, Massachusetts, and Meili Shenfield of Providence; one sister Rosemary Kemp and her husband, Robert, of the United Kingdom and two nephews, Aaron and his wife, Julia, and Matthew Kemp.

Donations in his honor may be made to Critical Resistance, an organization focusing on prison reform: www. criticalresistance.org

Lillian Shwartz, 98

DARTMOUTH, MASS. – Lillian Shwartz passed away on April 18, 2023, at home.

Lillian is survived by her three children, Steven (Elaine), Ken (June), and Janna Renzi (Mike), as well as six grandchildren, Ben, Becky, Jordan, Aly, Brady and Carly, and four greatgrandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband of 55 years, Merrill, and her brothers Mel and Jack Levine.

Lillian's family is grateful for the love and care provided by her incredible caregiver and friend, Stella Ndibuuza, during the last chapter of her life.

Lillian lived a full and rewarding life, and she cherished time spent with her family and friends. She loved traveling with Merrill and their friends, playing bridge and playing golf. Lillian loved learning and was a proud graduate of Wellesley and Brown universities, where she earned her degrees with honors.

Lillian's greatest joy in life was caring for her family.

She had a heart of gold and was always worrying about everything from whether her grandkids would be warm enough without a jacket to how the current economic situation was affecting her children's businesses. She always had drawers filled with games and toys ready to be enjoyed whenever the grandkids visited.

Lillian was an active volunteer in her community, serving on the boards of the Jewish Federation, Sisterhood, Hadassah, Professional Women's Club, National Council of Jewish Women and the Interfaith Council.

She also served as the president of the League of Women Voters.

Contributions may be made to Tifereth Israel Congregation, 145 Brownell Ave., New Bedford, MA 02740.

Alan Weinberg, 71

NORTH KINGSTOWN, R.I. – Alan Jay Weinberg passed away on April 8, 2023. He was the husband of Barbara J. Nauman-Weinberg.

Born in Manhattan, New York, on July 18, 1951, Alan was the

son of the late Benjamin and Bessie (Rice) Weinberg.

Alan worked 38 years in the jewelry import and wholesale business in Rhode Island. He was a sales manager for E.A. Adams, Inc., of Pawtucket; vice president of sales for First-In Imports, of Providence; and a customer sales representative for John F. Allen & Son, Inc., of Warwick. Early in his retirement, he worked part time for six years at Trader Joe’s, in Warwick.

A private second class (PV2) in the Army National Guard, Alan trained as a medical corpsman. He went on to earn an associate degree from Manhattan Community College and a Bachelor of Arts in communication sciences with a minor in education from Hunter College, both in New York.

An avid golfer, Alan most often could be found on the links of North Kingstown Golf Course or Midville Golf Club, in West Warwick. His greatest joy, however, was sitting on the sidelines of a Rhode Island soccer field, in his gray Coleman folding chair, to watch his grandsons’ games.

Besides his wife, Barbara, Alan is survived by his daughter, Deena Riess, and her husband, Christopher, of Warwick; his son, Brian Weinberg, of Ridgeway, Colorado; and his son, Jason Weinberg, and his wife, Lucy Bergen, of Portland, Maine.

Alan has eight grandchildren, who affectionately called him “Mustache Papa”; they are Bryant, Jacob, Travis and Haiden Riess; Barrett and Cameron Weinberg; Fela Young and Frances Bergen.

He also leaves behind his sister-in-law, Coleen Nauman, and her wife, Cindy Bisner, of Southampton, Massachusetts; his sister-in-law, Kati O’Donnell, of Chicopee, Massachusetts; and his brotherin-law, Joel Berenson, of New Jersey. His nieces include Erin O’Donnell, Donna Lederman, Cindy Schwartz, Shannon Weinberg and Kim Hallenbeck. Alan was predeceased by his first wife and the mother of his children, Frances G. Weinberg; his brother, Harvey Weinberg, and his wife, Claudia; his sister, Phyllis Berenson; his sister-in-law, Lily Salzberg; and his nephew, Rusty Weinberg.

Donations may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692.

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