Parker County Lifestyle - Spring 2018

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PE ACH E S AR E B IGG E R AN D B ET TE R I N PAR KE R COU NT Y, TE X AS The peach is celebrated each year at the Parker County Peach Festival, Weatherford’s largest event and one of the best-attended festivals in Texas

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R AISI NG U P G R E E N TH U M B S The Parker County Master Gardeners are passionate about learning and sharing their knowledge of local horticulture with the community.

9 WAYS TO PROTECT CH I LDR E N F ROM DROWN I NG Everyone thinks it won't happen to them.

Unfortunately, drowning can happen to anyone. Keep your children safe around water with these nine tips to prevent drowning.

WH E N T WO OR MOR E AR E GATH E R E D They say moms are tough, but they are also intentional. Aledo Moms In Prayer is a group that meets every Thursday morning and brings specific prayer requests to the Lord concerning the students, faculty and staff and community.

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PROJ ECT PR AYE R A group offers a powerful, but simple way to cover every student of a class in prayer, by name.

M I LE STON E S & MOM E NTU M At the age of 54, Rick Hobbs began running laps late at night. Nine years later, and with the help of countless family and friends, he crossed the finish line of his 100th half-marathon.

About the Cover Cover photo is of Taylor Bonham. To read about how he uses music as therapy for veterans, turn to page 54.

Wester n Wordsm ith Teresa Burleson works with words much like a potter works with clay.

Raising Up Green Thumbs The Parker County Master Gardeners are passionate about learning and sharing their knowledge of local horticulture with the community.

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TAYLOR BONHAM—MUSICIAN, SINGER, ENTERTAINER Guitars for Heroes is a VA-sponsored recreational therapy program run by volunteers that helps people transition from active military to civilian life.

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Helping girls find their self-worth in a world full of comparison.

AT HOM E WITH JOAN I E E DWAR DS After ending her 11-year marriage, Joanie Edwards found herself and her two young children, a week before Christmas, lost, homeless and with only $80 to her name.

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TR AVE L HACKS Eight travel hacks to help you put the “vacation” back in your family’s summer vacation.

DE VE LOPI NG TH E YOU NG M E N OF PAR KE R COU NT Y One Parker County school is building gentlemen and leaders one Tuesday and one tie at a time.

Teresa Burleson works with words much like a potter works with clay. She manipulates words to evoke memories, educate readers in Western lifestyle and infuse humor into the cowboy lifestyle.

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HO M ETOWN B U N DLE S O F J OY Welcoming Parker County’s newest residents.

WHAT’S U P, PARKE R COU NT Y? Calendar of Local Events

HO M ETOWN G R ADUATE S Please join us in congratulating Parker County’s 2018 graduates.

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here isn’t a more exciting time to live in Parker County than today! With new growth comes new opportunities.

Opportunities to preserve what we love, change what isn’t working, and embrace fresh perspectives. As a community magazine, we make it our mission to celebrate those who have paved the way and welcome those who are making their own way. Whether you just moved in to the area or never left, we hope you are able to discover something new that affirms your love for the wonderful place we call home.

Nothing says SUMMER in Parker County like this issue! In this issue you will learn about water safety, traveling hacks, master gardeners, and of course peaches! Also make sure you read about Parker County’s very own cowgirl poet, Teresa Burleson, who is a true western wizard with words. We promise every article is worth the read, so grab a cold drink, preferably with an umbrella, soak up some sun, and enjoy discovering why Parker County is the fastest growing area in the state.

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n 1991 the State Legislature named Parker County as the Peach Capital of Texas, because Weatherford and Parker County growers produce the biggest, sweetest, juiciest peaches around. Up to that point our area had been known for its watermelons and other produce.

And since then, the peach is celebrated each year at the Parker County Peach Festival, Weatherford’s largest event and one of the best-attended festivals in Texas. According to the Weatherford Chamber of Commerce, “Last year more than 40,000 folks attended this outstanding one day event!” Since 1984, the celebration has grown to now include live music, the Peach Pedal Bike Ride, a “42” Domino Tournament, crafts booths and children’s activities. Guests enjoy homemade peach ice cream, peach cobbler, peach pie, peach juleps, peach smoothies, and just plain juicy peaches. Across the state, Parker County really is known as the Peach Capital of Texas!

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So How Did Our Area Come to be Known for Peaches?

The peach industry in Parker County can be traced as far back as 1938 when J.K. Johnson, Sr. planted his first peach tree on his property west of Weatherford off of Mineral Wells Highway.

Early on, the Johnson family worked with Tom Denman of the Experimental Station at the Texas Agricultural Research and Extension Center in Stephenville, Texas. Their goal was to improve peach production by improving the pruning process. They also improved the harvesting method, which reduced bruising of the fruit during harvest and transportation.

Many of the methods of peach farming today can be directly traced to these men. Others who contributed to the progress include County Extension Agents Gene Sears and Jimmy McDaniel, as well as growers C.W. Moss, Fred Tucker, Fred Williams, Roland McMinn, Fred Barnett, Fred Cowles, and Bill Clack.

Through research, these growers learned that pruning the trees into the shape of a bowl vastly improved peach production. It allowed more light into the middle of the tree and kept the branches at a height so the peaches can be picked from the ground. Thinning the peaches produces a better, bigger quality fruit and allows the trees

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to have less stress. The ideal spacing of the fruit is about four inches apart. Believe it or not, peaches will have a better flavor and sweeter taste because of the thinning process.

Using harvesting boxes was a direct result of Mr. Johnson’s good sense. The burlap sacks that had previously been used when picking fruit caused bruising, as the fruit was dropped into the sack. He developed a wooden box with a strap that was worn around the neck of the picker.

This made a much better container for the peaches until they reached the market.

Mrs. Johnson sold peaches from a stand on her front porch, and Mr. Johnson sold to vendors at the Weatherford Farmer’s Market. Soon they knew they needed larger markets, so J.K. signed an agreement with a supermarket chain to supply them with peaches.

One year the crop was so large that a new market was needed and he knew Dallas had a large farmer’s market.

From the time the driver pulled into the rental stall until the time he sold his last peach, he did not even have time to get a drink of water. The line of people waiting to purchase the peaches stretched down the walkway.

The family sold at this market until they built a large following of customers who were willing to make the trip to Weatherford for their delicious peaches.

Tips for Choosing the Perfect Peach

When buying peaches, it is best to choose locally grown fruit because it can be picked riper and does not go through long miles of shipping, which can damage the fruit. Look for peaches that are not green next to the stem and firm to the touch but not rock hard. Peaches that are left to grow to their mature size and then picked can still have some of Mother Nature’s heat, and they will continue to ripen if left out of refrigeration. Peaches used for preserving should not be soft but just beginning to give a little. Peaches for eating or freezing should be as ripe as possible but still can hold together.

Parker County orchards grow many different varieties of peaches, each with a unique delicious flavor. Each variety ripens at a different time so there will be peaches throughout the summer. The terms freestone and clingstone (or clings) are used when describing peaches.

"Stone" refers to the seed. The early peach varieties are clingstones, which means the peach flesh “clings” to the seed in the center of the peach. The freestones, or the peaches that pull easily from the pit, ripen later in the season. Both have delicious favor, but the freestone is easier to cut and less messy, thus a bit more desirable to most folks.

An Old Time Peach Farmer and a the Confessions of a Peach Snob

I have to admit, I am a bit of a peach snob. And I’m not ashamed of admitting that fact. I have tried buying canned peaches from time to time, but with each purchase I am left feeling disappointed. The canned variety leaves much to be desired compared to its fresh, juicy, and slightly tart counterpart. I blame this shortcoming on my grandfather…my Papaw Williams. But it’s ok, because my Papaw is one of my most favorite people on the planet.

Fred Williams, my papaw, owned one of the first peach orchards in Parker County. And when you are little and your taste buds are just getting regulated, and your first taste of a peach is one right off the tree, you tend to develop some pretty high standards as far as peaches go. Canned peaches lack the tanginess that accompanies the sweet of a peach that is left to warm and ripen right on the tree. And it’s that tartness that I can’t get enough of.

Every year on June 29th, my birthday, my Papaw calls me to tell me he always remembers my birthday because when my mama was in the hospital with me, he and my Grammer brought a bushel of Ranger peaches to meet me for the first time. He tells me the story of a year later how he held me in his arms while I wiggled and squirmed to reach for peaches in his orchard. I’ve heard that story now over 40 times, but I never mind. The way he describes the old orchard is magical.

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Parker County Peach Recipes PEACH ICE CREAM INGREDIENTS • 4 medium-sized peaches, peeled and chopped • 1 tsp. fresh lemon juice • 1/4 tsp ground cinnamon • 1 C sugar, divided • 2 C heavy cream, divided • 1/8 tsp salt • 1 C whole milk • 2 tsp vanilla extract DIRECTIONS • Combine peaches, 1/4 cup sugar, cinnamon and lemon juice and cook in a skillet over medium heat for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally. Remove from heat and refrigerate until cold.

• In a small sauce pan, combine 3/4 cup sugar, 1 cup heavy cream and salt. Heat just until sugar is dissolved. Cool to room temperature, about 15 minutes.

• In a medium bowl, combine whole milk, 1 cup heavy cream and vanilla extract. Mix in the cooled cream/sugar mixture.

Stir in half of the peach mixture and refrigerate until cold.

• When the mixture is completely cooled, add it to your ice cream maker and churn according to manufacturer directions. Add the remaining peaches during the last 3 minutes of churning.

• Transfer ice cream to a 2-quart freezer safe container and freeze until hard.

GRAMMER’S PEACH COBBLER (MRS. FRED WILLIAMS) INGREDIENTS • 2/3 cup sugar ½ cup milk • 1 cup flour • Dash of salt • 2 teaspoons baking powder • 1-1½ quarts peeled and sliced peaches • 2 tablespoons butter • Cinnamon and sugar to sprinkle on top DIRECTIONS • Heat peaches and butter. Then check and adjust the sugar to taste. The amount of sugar can depend on how sweetness and ripeness of the peaches.

• Combine sugar, flour, milk, salt and baking powder.

• Place into a 13x9 inch baking dish.

• Pour hot peaches over mixture to make the crust rise.

• Sprinkle cinnamon and sugar over cobbler before baking.

• Bake at 375 degrees for 30-45 minutes. Bake until peach juices bubble and crust turns a light golden color.

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SIMPLE PEACH MARGARITA INGREDIENTS • 2 parts silver tequila (I used Jose Quervo) • 1 and 1/2 parts peach schnapps • 1 lime, juiced • 1/2 cup peach nectar* • Ice • *Goya sells a brand that is readily available in supermarkets.

Alternatively, you could thaw frozen peaches (about 1 peach worth) and puree with a tablespoon of superfine sugar.

• Lime-Sugar for the Rim of your Glass • 1 tablespoon sugar • 1 teaspoon lime zest DIRECTIONS • Combine the tequila, peach schnapps, peach nectar, and juice from one lime in a cocktail shaker filled with ice cubes. Shake for about 10-15 seconds and serve in a limesugar rimmed glass with ice cubes.

• For the Lime-Sugar, combine sugar and lime zest (I vigorously shake them together in a small baggie). Pour out onto a small plate. Using the lime that you just used for the margarita, rub it around the outside edge of your glass to moisten the rim. Rotate your glass rim through the lime-sugar.

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I love hearing him talk about getting up before the sun to make a thermos of coffee, hopping in the truck to get out to the orchard before daybreak. To him, the sight of the sun coming up over the peach orchard in bloom was nothing short of a religious experience. “I’ve never been one much for organized religion, choirs and preachers and all. But being in nature and growing our food has always reminded me of the divine nature of things. We all have little control of the things of nature, but it is clear to me that someone does.”

He and I have always had this in common.

So instead of buying canned peaches September to June, I would much prefer to wait…to track the peach season's progression through the summer - watching the golden fruit grow bigger, pinker, and cling a little less to their pits as time slips into July. And of course, the best peaches come from right here in Parker County, Texas.

Peaches love the sandy loam soil that is found in the north and west part of the county. As luck would have it my Papaw first bought a piece of property in this area after relocating from Florida. While getting to know his neighbors, he befriended J.K. Johnson, the Cowle family and the Mosses. All were pioneers in the peach industry and were peach producers through the 1970s. My Papaw planted his orchard in the early 1960s with 200 trees and soon opened one of the area’s first fruit stands.

My aunt Karen Henckell remembers having to hand water those first trees with buckets. “It was hot and we had to hand water those little trees. And the next day it rained cats and dogs. And we had worked so hard to make sure those little trees didn’t die.”

When I finally eye the first peaches of the season at the market, I can’t wait to get my hot little hands on them.

It is my experience that the first peaches are not always the best. Maybe the peach pickers are just as excited as I am at the sight of the yellow skins turning to hues of orange and red. But the first peaches to hit the market are not quite ripe and are “clings.” Varieties like Flavorich and June Gold are cling peaches. But as the season moves forward, the freestone varieties come into season such as the Rangers, Red Globes and the Harvesters. And the rangers are my favorite!

The best way to eat a perfectly ripe peach is just like you’d eat an apple. Except while eating a peach, you might hold your face over the kitchen sink to catch the drips of juice snaking down your cheeks and your arms.

Sometimes I peel and slice them, and add them into cereal and yogurt in the morning, happy for those bursts of sweetness in every bite. But in this peach snob’s opinion, the best use of a good peach, is always in peach cobbler or peach ice cream.

My family now lives in Poolville, home of some great sandy loam soil. And of course, we have a small orchard of Loring and Ranger peaches.

I guess peaches are just in my blood. PCLS

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he trees and shrubs have budded and maturing leaves are waggling in the Texas wind. Many with allergies know this all too well. Perennials and annuals in many bright colors have been taken off the shelf and placed in beds of their own. All these plantings attract hummingbirds, butterflies and pests of all kinds as well. If you are like me, you often buy a beautiful

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plant, bring it home to the perfect spot and then watch it wither and die. The Parker County Master Gardeners Association has solutions about nurturing plants of all kinds. From the amateur gardener who is beginning a relaxing hobby to the pro who teaches gardening techniques, the Master Gardeners Association is a one-stop-shop for everything related to gardening in Parker County.

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The Master Gardeners tend to seven demonstration gardens in the county including the green house. The members meet every second Tuesday at the Extension Office to learn and deepen their understanding of selected topics. During the month, members meet at the projects where they weed, design, prune, water, and plant new plants. Other duties include answering the phone, speaking to local groups and supporting the Junior Master Gardner program. Volunteers can experiment with plantings in the gardens.

“I volunteered at the gardens through my church. I would receive donated trees or plants and never knew what to do with them,” said Gay Larson. “I decided I needed to get educated, so I took the course to become a Master Gardener 20 years ago.”

Each project has a signature characteristic.

The Aledo/Annetta Community Project has 30 different varieties of roses and is a Monarch Butterfly Waystation. According to Howell Warner, the website designer, “The most common question from the public is when to prune roses. The members answer questions that come from the website and from visitors that come to the gardens.” A monthly email is sent out with general tips relevant to the season and over 900 are currently on the mailing list.

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The Vietnam Memorial Garden, close to Mineral Wells, incorporates a meditation garden where visitors can relax and reflect under the gazebo or walk the circular pathways lined with over 350 plants surrounded by a Huey helicopter and a memorial wall. Native stones are used to line the pathways and space is provided for memorial plaques and bricks.

Special events such as reunions, anniversaries or weddings can be held in the garden.

The Central Park gardens located in Azle next to the library was truly a community effort from volunteers all over Azle. Texas Parks and Wildlife provided a grant to help build this park. The gazebo is a great area to educate the public on good horticulture practices.

Members of the Master Gardeners enjoy sharing their knowledge with the public. There have been many articles published in local magazines, and the website and newsletter aim to teach the public best gardening practices. “We use a mix of organic and chemical elements based on Integrated Pest

Management approach that solves pest problems while minimizing risks to people and the environment,” Howell explained.

Chandor Gardens is one of Weatherford’s hidden secrets. An Englishman, Douglas Chandor, built the garden, adding Chinese elements alongside English elements. The Master Gardeners work with horticulturist Steven Chamblee in the greenhouse on the property. Steven shares his knowledge and provides continuing education opportunities.

The gardens include an official Monarch Butterfly Waystation.

Sunshine Lockley is the head master gardener at the greenhouse for the Parker County Master Gardeners. She moved to Plano, but enjoyed the Master Gardner program so much that she continues to be a consistent asset. “The greenhouse at Chandor Gardens is where we grow over 2000 plants,” Sunshine explained. “We sow seeds, root plant cuttings, divide and replant. There are over 50 volunteers from fall to April helping in the

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“The greenhouse at Chandor Gardens is where we grow over 2000 plants.”

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greenhouse to prepare for the plant sale.”

“Most the plants for our plant sale in April come from the greenhouse at Chandor Gardens,” Woody Shaw explained. He is the Vice President for the Master Gardeners. “The plant sale is where we get some of the funding for the projects throughout the year,” Woody said. “I have always loved gardening even as a teenager so when I retired from Bell three years ago, I became a Master Gardener.”

One of the most imaginative gardens can be found at the Weatherford Public Library. Sections of the garden are named after literary themes. This is also where they have incorporated some kangaroo blue for WISD. The blue memorial benches that line the path are dedicated to two Master Gardeners who spent countless hours working in the garden.

The Extension Demonstration Garden is the sight of the annual

plant sale and where much training and educating take place. The public is welcome to enjoy the gardens and experience the flowerbeds with their five senses. Many of the plants are drought tolerant and are good examples for our area. There is also a water conservation tank on-site. It collects rainwater for repurposing in dry seasons. The gardens always need enriched soil and water. An on-site composting program and drip irrigation system are other topics the community can learn about.

Volunteers from the Master Gardeners also visit schools. One sixth grader wrote Gay a letter after the presentation that said, “I loved the lettuce growing activity. I want to thank Mrs. Larson because she taught me that plants are a lot like humans. Thank you for the learning experience.” Helping kids become interested in all aspects of gardening is one goal of the Junior

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Members of the Master Gardeners enjoy sharing their knowledge with the public.

Master Gardener program and to foster their interest, a teacher, parent or youth leader can work with the youth with materials provided to them through the Master Gardener Association.

The Master Gardeners offer an intern class every two years. The program consists of 50 hours of instruction on many topics including lawn care, pest control, disease, weed management, plant nutrition, fruits and vegetables and water conservation. To complete the program, 50 hours of volunteer work on a project must be completed within the year. Each garden is changing constantly so they redesign and add to the garden all year.

Jay Kingston is the Parker County Extension agent who is the advisor to the Master Gardeners. He schedules training and guidance from Texas A&M University professors. “I’ve been here two years and I love how everyone comes together and works hard,” Jay said. “They do an absolute marvelous job and I really enjoy being a part of the community and the Master Gardeners.”

The intern program is being offered very soon. Two orientation days are set for July 26th or August 9th. For more information to become a Master Gardener, call the Extension Office or go to www.pcmg-texas.org. PCLS

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hey say moms are tough, but they are also intentional. Aledo Moms In Prayer is a group that meets every Thursday morning and brings specific prayer requests to the Lord concerning the students, faculty and staff and community.

“My kids spend so much time at school, it just makes absolute sense to pray for them,” Carmen Schable, Moms in Prayer attendee, said. “We pray for the big things and small things and finding other women to pray with about these topics was huge for me.” Carmen, who moved from Oregon to Texas in the summer of 2015 for her husband’s work with their four kids, currently ranging from third to ninth grade, was looking for a local chapter of the international wide group when she saw that Corri Peterson served as an Aledo host for the prayer group.

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Corri, who was also searching for a local group when she moved to Aledo from Fort Worth, realized she wouldn’t be able to continue praying with local moms in her new town unless she formed one for the area. So three years ago she did just that and started a local chapter and registered the group on the website and promoted it some at open house, but mostly has relied on word of mouth to notify other moms.

“I was willing to open my home and have others come pray with me. Our goal is to intercede on behalf of our children and the community,” Corri said. “I found out that there was a group in Aledo, but those ladies had started long ago and were still meeting even though their kids were college age by the time I was searching for a group. It’s neat for me to think that our group could be meeting together well past high school graduation.”

Moms in Prayer International is simply that, mothers around the world, 140 countries to be exact, coming together weekly to passionately pray for the lives of their children. The group is not a Bible study, nor affiliated with a church, it’s just a time of corporate prayer and small group prayer for those who wish to join.

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THE GROUP DOES MORE THAN MINISTER TO THE STUDENTS AND COMMUNITY OF ALEDO; IT ENCOURAGES THE MOMS AS WELL.

Kristy Bell is a mom of 11 and homeschooled them all until her youngest decided to attend public school. “I knew I couldn’t do this alone and needed a group of ladies to be prayer warriors with me. It’s been very exciting to see other mothers who care that much and to have fellowship with them and the group serves as a reminder to me to make prayer a priority,” she said. Before her youngest enrolled in public school, Kristy was already actively praying for revival in the community and school, as she and a friend would meet weekly to walk seven miles around the football field and simultaneously pray. “We called it our Jericho walk, like the story in the Bible where God told Joshua to walk around the city of Jericho for seven days and then the walls would fall and they could take control of the town. To be at that same football field watching my son play and watch these young men take a knee and pray on the field brings my heart so much joy,” Kristy said.

The group prints off the staff list for each campus and specifically prays for the teachers and faculty by name. “Each week we select from the staff list of each campus several to pray for and then we send a card to them letting them know we were thinking of them,” Corri said, “Our email

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in that day the high school went on lock down. address is on the card and it’s so sweet to hear back “Thankfully no one was hurt during the lockdown, from teachers saying they needed exactly what we but during a time of panic in the community, were praying for or how encouraged they were to we also had peace,” Corri know there was a group of remembered. moms thinking of them.”

The group does more The group considers what than minister to the students is going on for that week and community of Aledo; it and prays over those events. encourages the moms as well.

“Maybe there is a daddy/ Carmen said, “It has changed daughter dance at school, so the way I pray. I have learned we pray no one would feel left to pray scripture over specific out, perhaps it’s raining and situations and it’s provided we know teachers will need me discipline in my prayer patience as the kids can’t go life. It’s been so neat to watch to recess, we pray over the God at work and to be able superintendent search or MATTHEW 18:20 to pray for other women and maybe it’s a state testing week their families.” and so we consider that in Kristy said that the group our prayers,” Carmen said. is a great way for anyone, either firm in their faith The group sees prayers answered constantly and or intimidated by the idea of praying out loud, to keeps praying for the unanswered prayers. Kristy come and find friendship and to see God at work. has kept her sheet of prayers from each week’s “God is not done with Aledo and I’m so excited to meeting and loves to reflect on the prayers that have see what He will do,” she said. been answered, either gradually or instantly, and is To learn more about the group, or to reminded of the things to keep lifting up. find a chapter that meets in your area, visit Last year the group felt led to pray over safety momsinprayer.org PCLS during their Thursday morning gathering and later

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Project Prayer By: Lindsay L. Allen | Photo provided by Debbie Davis

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ike a wildfire - that is exactly how Debbie Davis’ idea of praying for students spread throughout the Aledo community. In 2005 her oldest son was entering the 8th grade and many in the community had made comments to Debbie about the negative state of the incoming class. Debbie, a mom to four boys, grew more and more concerned and knew through her own life and experiences that prayer was the answer. “I just kept reflecting on how God and the power of prayer had helped me and my family so much over the years,” Debbie said. “I thought to myself, ‘I can pray for this class,’ and that is when God gave me the idea for Project Prayer.”

The group, which was founded 13 years ago, offers a powerful, but simple way to cover every student of a class in prayer, by name. Using the yearbook or a roster, every incoming 8th grade student’s name is typed onto a prayer card, with suggestive prayers on the back. Debbie then passes the cards around to parents and others in the community so they can pray over their cards, with everyone receiving roughly 10 students’ names on their card.

“The first year I became overwhelmed when I realized the class had 350 students, but by word of mouth it spread very quickly and within several months I had so many parents wanting prayer cards that I duplicated the list two more times and passed out those cards, having each student being prayed for by multiple parents,” Debbie recalled. “Within the first year, parents of the other classes in Aledo heard about how the 8th graders were being prayed for and wanted their child's class prayed for as well.

Project Prayer for the 8th, 9th, 10th, 11th and 12th grades of Aledo ISD were all started that first year covering roughly 2,400 students in prayer, by name, on a regular basis.”

Each year a new Project Prayer Group for the incoming 8th grade class is started up with all the

student names being put on prayer cards and the result is that over the last 13 years every student in 8th-12th grade in Aledo I.S.D. has been covered in prayer.

“People thank me and the other praying parents all the time for praying for their child. There is a sense of being a large family and caring for all the students, not just your child,” Debbie said, “We exchange prayer cards once or twice a year, so you end up praying for many students. It is neat to see them in the community or hear about them and say to yourself, ‘That's one of my students that I am praying for!’”

The cards are put in passport holders and distributed to parents at a designated “card pick up day” or at any school even the Project Prayer coordinators are at.

“When we exchange prayer cards, the person turning in a prayer card will sign their name and write the dates they had the prayer card on the back. At the next exchange another parent does the same, so when the students are seniors there is a list of signatures and dates showing all who have prayed for them over the years,” Debbie said.

The prayer idea has spread to other schools in the area and for those interested in joining Aledo in prayer or starting their own Project Prayer, visit Projectprayer.org or search for the group on Facebook. PCLS

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he average person is more than a little curious when they learn that Weatherford resident Rick Hobbs has run 100 half marathons.

Even as a growing number of runners tackle endurance-driven, distance running events, Hobbs’ achievement is significant, and a frequent starting ground for conversations.

“Seems like over the last few years I’ve been telling this story a lot,” he said, of his running journey. “I love running, but I’m not a runner.

First, I’m a Christian. Second, my family is extremely important to me. I’m also very involved in my church, but running is what people talk to me about.”

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Finding his stride

“I’m right at nine years in,” he said. “I was 54 when I started, which was a little unusual, but it replaced other things for me sports wise and it ended up filling a void. Now, I’m totally consumed with it. It’s given me opportunities, and I really got into the events.”

Hobbs’ athleticism kept him very involved in several sports in his youth and young adult years. Even so, his first runs were logged after dark at the local track where no one could see him.

“About every other night I would go out there and keep running,” he said. “Sure enough, it didn’t get easy, but it got easier. I built up to at least where I could survive. I did that first 5K (for Grace House) and muddled through it. And, I kind of enjoyed the experience.”

Hobbs doesn’t take on small goals, so after that first 5K he jumped right to training for the Cowtown Marathon in February 2010.

“I skipped right past the half,” he said. “I’m a goal-oriented person, and it became something I was going to conquer.”

A few of his efforts took him within 10 minutes of qualifying for the Boston Marathon, but as he logged more events he discovered his personal sweet spot was the 13.1-mile half marathon.

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Goals and milestones

Even as he settled into a favorite distance, Hobbs’ ambitious nature mandated goals, so he looked to the others in the running community for inspiration and penciled in goals, including completing 100 halfs and completing halfs in all 50 states.

“I won’t do this again, but this past May I went up to the Northeast, all the way up to Maine, and did eight halfs in eight days in eight states,” Hobbs said.

“It was really difficult, but it was a great experience.”

He also enjoys unique events such as the Pike’s Peak Ascent in Colorado.

“They’ve gotten really creative,” he said. “You can find events all over the place, and most of the time you hear by word of mouth.”

As Hobbs neared his goal, he began a careful selection process for his milestone event and chose the first course he ran, now the Dallas Marathon event.

“I was able to schedule everything so I was going to do my 100th in Dallas again in December,” he said.

Health concerns in the middle part of 2017 set him back a few months. “I think God had a hand in that to slow me down,” he said. “I was probably doing a little too much.”

When he returned to running in October he did so with a healthier perspective, learning to back off and enjoy his runs a bit more.

“It’s a good event if you finish upright,” he said.

Instead, Hobbs celebrated in January, with family and friends waiting at the finish line of the Lake Benbrook Half.

“My 3-year-old granddaughter surprised everyone by running to see me about 30 yards from the finish,” he said. “She held my hand and we finished together. I told them, ‘Best finish ever!’ and it’s a memory I will never forget.”

He said he also received support and encouragement from many friends who have helped him over the past eight years and, most of all, from Melodie, his loving and supportive wife of 39.5 years.

“My 3-year-old granddaughter surprised everyone by running to see me about 30 yards from the finish. She held my hand and we finished together. I told them, ‘Best finish ever!’ and it’s a memory I will never forget.”

Future momentum

While 100 half marathons is a huge achievement, Hobbs downplayed it, noting that in the running community he knows others whose achievements are even more awe-inspiring.

“I’ve met a couple guys at some of these events who are close to 90 and still doing marathons. One has done well over 1,000 marathons,” he said, adding this keeps him driving forward toward continued goals.

“Probably, my next goal will be to complete the 50 states,” Hobbs said. “I’m pretty sure once I get past 100 I will probably look at 200. Some of that’s where these people I meet inspire me. I don’t want to overdo it or make it a burden, but if the Lord leaves me here and I make it to my 80s, I think it would be cool if I’m still doing half marathons when I’m 80 years old. I don’t think I will ever quit running unless I physically have to.” PCLS

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Never Stop Starting

Hobbs’ running also has provided an opportunity to encourage others his age to stay active.

“I had a guy in our church ask me to write something to encourage people in our age group about exercising,” he said. In response, he jotted down a few paragraphs outlining the agony of his first attempts.

“My first ‘training’ run was around the track at Hall Middle School,” he wrote. “I made it around once (barely) and thought I was going to throw up.

This time I persisted … and about every other day went to that track and ran … well, ‘moved.’

A few weeks in he had found a new hobby.

“Seven months after that awful trip around that track, I ran my first half marathon in December of 2009, at the ripe old age of 54. I soon began to notice how much better I felt - better than I had felt in many, many years.”

Now, he’s an advocate and encourager to everyone around him. “I ride bikes and got into hiking,” Hobbs said. “For me, the whole deal is just to try things; I want to stay active. You don’t have to be a runner, but walk or get you a stationary bike. Never stop starting.”

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fter serving ten years in the military, including time in the Gulf War, Taylor Bonham struggled with anxiety and sleeping. He tried to talk to his grandfather, a WWII veteran. His grandfather simply said, “We have to drive on.” So Taylor accepted it and continued living with the pain. With a wife and three children, he didn’t feel he could afford to take time off to seek help.

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Taylor said, “I didn't really know what was wrong with me. It affected every part of my life. I was stubborn as well. I kept telling myself, I was a hard charging warrior.

This is weakness. If I’d only known how serious it would become. A person can have PTS from lots of things: car accidents, acts of violence, loss of a loved one, etc. It’s not something you really are ever cured of. Therapy and fellowship with my fellow veterans provide me with tools to deal with the triggers of PTS—no longer called PTSD because it is not a disorder. It’s an injury.

“I started abusing alcohol in 2007 to numb everything.

Before I knew it, I was addicted. My body had deteriorated to a point where my doctors said if I kept drinking I would surely die. By 2013, I was at my lowest of lows and wanted all the pain and suffering to end. I started drinking one night and didn’t wake up until two weeks later in the hospital. They said I had died several times and was in a coma for three days. Though my body was in shambles, for some reason my heart felt calm. Like I knew what I had to do, but I didn’t really know what that was. After a couple of months in the hospital, I transferred to the VA PTSD/Addiction inpatient program affectionately known as 5 North. It’s a 31 day program. It took me 60 days due to my health. I had to be re-hospitalized several times. When I was finally released, I was told I had 6-12 months left, and I needed to make arrangements.

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“After getting the news I was terminal, I was waiting at the VA for my mental health provider.

The room I was waiting in had a guitar. I asked what it was for. They explained about this guitar class they had on Wednesdays. I told her I had been playing since I was eight years old. She said they needed instructors. My wife, Brandi, started driving me up there more as a patient at first. I wasn’t all that talkative, but I enjoyed the comradery.”

Guitars for Heroes is a VA-sponsored beginning guitar class for veterans that runs in 12-week cycles on Wednesday evenings at the Fort Worth VA. Guitars for Heroes is a recreational therapy program run by volunteers that helps people transition from active military to civilian life. Each Veteran is provided with an acoustic guitar and accessory kit for the duration of the sessions. The self-expression through music and social interaction helps veterans reintegrate into the community.

Taylor said, “Guitars for Heroes helped save my life. It gave me hope and an outlet of expression.

I teach in a classroom environment in front of a whiteboard. It’s being in the same room with my brothers and sisters who understand. Very few are there just to learn guitar. The rewards are two-fold for me. First, spending time with my brothers and

Therapy and fellowship with my fellow veterans provide me with tools to deal with the triggers of PTS—no longer called PTSD because it is not a disorder. It’s an injury.

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sisters is therapy for me. Second my goal is to be an inspiration for others to seek help. I’m not a doctor or an expert in PTS, but I can say there’s relief if they’re willing to seek help.”

Taylor enjoys playing regularly at VFWs because they’re fun and he enjoys being with fellow veterans.

“I was playing for an event here at the Weatherford VFW, and in the audience was Millie Holland, Texas VFW Auxiliary President. She loved what I did and invited me to play the next weekend in Austin at the 2018 VFW Texas State Mid-Winter Voice of Democracy Banquet. Every Texas state VFW officer, as well as Governor Abbott, was there. I got up and played ‘Same Star’ then had dinner with the Texas State VFW President, Eddy Torres.”

Wherever he plays, if Taylor is offered a drink, he answers, “Yes, water please,” and the look in people’s eyes is priceless. “It doesn't bother me at all.

If anything, I look at it as I’m setting an example.

Alcohol is not bad thing until it’s used for its unintended purpose. I have lost 70% of my liver due to alcohol. Drinking again for me is not an option.”

In 2017, Taylor competed in the National Veterans Creative Arts Festival. “I didn't know it existed before that. I walked in to teach class one day and Donna

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Gerron, the VA Rec Therapist grabbed me and asked if I would do something for her. She brought me into a room with a videographer. She asked me to play one of my originals. The song I played, ‘Same Star’ won “Original Vocal, Solo Category” in the Texas division, which includes every VA in Texas. Then I went on and competed nationally and won first place out of 2500 submissions. It was truly an honor. My wife and I got to go to Buffalo, NY. I got the honor of playing my song for 1800 people at the University of New York Buffalo. Grammy award winning country music artist, Michael Peterson was the emcee. He gave me some invaluable tips backstage. I was with the 60 best musicians and artists. I was humbled to be a part of such a special event.”

Last year, Taylor was on 1620 am Alliance for the Brave Radio Show with Pat Harrington and Patrick James. He said, “They referred me to Tim Klund, sports agent and celebrity event organizer.

He invited me to play in the 2017 Celebrity Softball Tournament for The Lone Survivor Foundation.

I got to play with Toby Keith, Billy Dawson, Scott Brown (Scooter Brown Band), Ryan Weaver, Matthew McConaughey and many more. Tim and I are now workout partners. Tim invited me to play

a fundraiser for The Miracle League of Parker County last St. Patrick’s Day. I also sang the National Anthem for their first game on March 14th. Those kids are so cool!”

Taylor sings and plays for the Honoring Our Wounded Military banquet and golf tournament in Trophy club. He also volunteers for Patriot Anglers of North Texas. When he couldn’t walk, the guides carried him to the water so he could fish. Lew Duckwall, the founder, is now one of his best friends.

Taylor received an invitation to do a private audition with the producers of The Voice this June for the next season. He said, “If that goes well, I pray I’ll still have time to play my VFWs.” I hope it goes well, and I wish him the best as he continues to use his talents to help other who are struggling with PTS. Taylor wears a 22Kill Honor ring when he plays, because 22 veterans commit suicide every day. The healing power of music helps soldiers cope. You can help a veteran by donating to Fort Worth http://www. guitars4heroes.org. PCLS

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VBS | Willow Park Baptist Church

Wine Down Wednesday: Every Wednesday | Peacocks Feed

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Couples Partnership | Squaw Creek Golf Course | 5:00 7:00 pm

2018 Daddy Daughter Dance | Parker County Sheriff’s Posse | 7:00 pm

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Ladies Night Out | Historic Downtown Weatherford | 5:00 - 8:00 pm

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Weatherford’s First Monday Trade Days

4TH Art Camp @ Trinity Christian Academy

5TH 2018 PRCA Extreme Bull riding | Parker County Sheriff’s Posse Summer Spectacular: Laca Bridges, Storyteller | Weatherford Public Library | 6:00 pm

5th Annual Memorial Butterfly Release | Chandor Gardens | 3:00 pm

11TH - 15TH WinShape Camp | Weatherford Christian School

12TH Dinner and Detailed Decisions | Galbreaith Pickard Funeral Home Willow Park | 5:30 pm

PCSP Rodeo Parade | 5:00 pm

Lights, Camera, Action! With WCAT Academy | the Doss | 10:30 am

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Summer Film Festival: Frozen | Weatherford Public Library | 2:00 pm

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Concert Series- Live 80’s | Heritage Park Amphitheater | 7:00 pm

17TH 10-Week Birth Boot Camp Series Begins | The Chiropractic Place for Mommy and Me Papa Palooza | Heritage Park Amphitheater | 11:00 am 7:00 pm

20TH Clay Sports Ranch Summer League | Defender Outdoors Clay Sports Ranch

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Summer Spectacular: Safari Guide | Weatherford Public Library | 9:30 & 11:00 am, 2:00 pm Book Club | Weatherford Public Library | 6:00 pm World’s Largest Swim Lesson: 9:30 am | Splash Kingdom

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Teen Legion: Teen Tech Challenge - Coding with Scratch | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm

Casa Hope for Children 2018 Aim High for Kids Sporting Clay Shoot

TCA Elementary/Junior High Boys Basketball Camp

19TH Southwest Dairy Farmers Mobile Classroom | the Doss | 10:30 am Needlework Group | Weatherford Public Library

26TH “I Spy” Bottle Make and Take | the Doss | 10:30 am

28TH Throw Back Summer Movie Series: The Borrowers | the Doss | 5:30 pm

Summer Spectacular: Secret Agent Magic Show | Weatherford Public Library | 9:30 am, 11:00 am, 2:00 pm

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Discovery Station | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm

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Barnyard Fun! Ag Petting Zoo | the Doss | 10:30 am

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Teen Legion: Teen Tech Challenge- 8 Bit Music | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm

Storytime: Monkey Mess | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

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Storytime: Monkey Mess | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

11TH Storytime: Luau Time | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

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Summer Film Festival: Sing | Weatherford Public Library | 2:00 pm

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2ND Teen Legion: Super Funny Improv for Teens | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm

3RD Discovery Station | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm

4TH Spark in the Park | Heritage Park | 2:00 - 10:00 pm Hudson Oak’s Boomin’ 4th | Gene Voyles Park | 6:00 pm

5TH Summer Spectacular: Sounds of Science | Weatherford Public Library | 9:30 am

6TH Storytime: Dancing Feet | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

8TH Couples Partnership | Squaw Creek Golf Course | 5:00 7:00 pm

9TH Teen Legion: Starship Design Workshop | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm Willow Park Baptist Church’s Youth Alive 2018

Summer Spectacular: Preschool Dance Party with Willy Welch | 10:30 am

Discovery Station | Weatherford Public Library | 2:30 pm Leather Working with Tandy Leather | the Doss | 10:30 am

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Throw Back Summer Movie Series: Babe | the Doss | 5:30 pm

Storytime: Mother Goose Rhyme Time | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

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Family Science Day: States of Matter | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

Summer Spectacular: Stage Stars | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

Peach Festival

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Willow Park Baptist Church’s Kid’s Camp

Jam Camp @ Trinity Bible Church

17TH Recycled Environment-Make a Bird Feeder | the Doss | 10:30 am Summer Spectacular: Snake Awareness | Weatherford Public Library | 6:00 pm

18TH Storytime: Let’s Listen | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

19TH Ladies Night Out | Historic Downtown Weatherford | 5:00 - 8:00 pm Throw Back Summer Movie Series: Paulie | the Doss | 5:30 pm

AUGUST 1ST Storytime: Move It! | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

2ND Summer Spectacular: Silly Strings | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am Summer Reading Challenge Ice Cream Social | Weatherford Public Library | 6:00 pm

3RD Storytime: Move It! | Weatherford Public Library | 10:30 am

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16TH Ladies Night Out | Historic Downtown Weatherford | 5:00 - 8:00 pm

18TH Cars and Coffee | Vintage Grill | 8:00 - 10:00 am

25TH 3rd Annual Sporting Clay Shoot | Parker County Cowboy Church

31ST Sugar Rush Children’s Advocacy of Parker County Gala | Parker County Sheriff’s Posse | 6:30 pm

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Wordsmith

By Erin E. McEndree Photos by Lindsey Sullivan Photography and provided by Teresa Burleson

any times it takes a handful of years and a nudge from the Holy Spirit to step into our gifts. That is what happened to Teresa Burleson. She always knew she loved to make words rhyme growing up, but it wasn’t until later in life that she was encouraged to share her words with the world. When she did, she discovered a long suppressed love for transforming words into a cadence that accompanied her western way of life and faith.

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“My parents were farmers, but decided they wanted better for us and moved us to the city,” Teresa said. “Little did they know that being on the farm was a better way of life.” Teresa continued to enjoy the western icon since her cousins had horses.

She and her husband, Bobby, have lived in Parker County for 21 years. They have always owned horses and been immersed in the western way of life.

Teresa describes her life in this portion of her poem Handled.

My hands have done some living…

They have brushed a horse’s silken coat and pulled the cinch up tight and choked the horn and clawed for leather when it was full of buck and fight.

They’ve stacked hay, cleaned stalls and braided manes and tails, And hauled water to frozen troughs totin’ heavy sloshin’ pails.

My hands have lightly held the reins while riding as an easy trot, And wiped the nose of horse and child when covered in dirt and snot.

At times you’ll find them manicured with pretty painted nail, And they’ve also been manured from twisting a heifer’s tail.

The right hand holds pen to paper to write out clever thought out lines And has paused in mid-sentence while trying to make it rhyme…

But the best thing these hands have every done and still do every day, The strongest these hands have ever been, is when they fold to pray.

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Teresa was encouraged to share her poetry by her co-workers while employed with the American Paint Horse Association. “I sent a poem to the Quarter Horse News and it was accepted,” Teresa said. “That sparked my interest in learning to write. I took a Business Communication class, but little did I know it was more about public speaking than writing.”

Although she was out of her comfort zone, it would serve her well in the future when she needed to fall back on the skills.

The spark of wordsmithing was further ignited when Teresa and Bobby attended the Red Steagall Cowboy Gathering and Western Swing Gathering 26 years ago. “It was the first time I had heard Cowboy Poetry,” Teresa said. “It was like a revelation to me. It moved me like a religious experience.”

Teresa’s favorite cowboy poet was the late Larry McWhorter of Weatherford. “His style and sensitivity was the real deal,” Teresa explained.

When Larry passed away in March 2003, Teresa’s passion was set in motion. “I admit I was angry and asked God why him? He and his wife Andrea were involved in a great ministry,” Teresa said. “God used this situation to tell me my life was about to change.”

Teresa had shared her poetry sparingly, but now she was determined to perform during the Open Mic

Session at the Red Steagall Cowboy Gathering and dedicate it to Larry. She wrote a special poem to perform entitled My Hero.

“I remember going into the woods under the shade tree to practice my presentation. I recalled what I learned in the public speaking class,” Teresa said. “I was so nervous that I swore I’d never do this again, but they kept inviting me back.” Teresa has been performing at the gathering every year since 2003.

God put it on her spirit to share her poetry every opportunity she had. Teresa performed at a Cowboy Church in Weatherford. She entered a contest with Cowboys for Christ and became a finalist who was asked to recite her poems. Many other opportunities came along like joining the Cowtown Opry. She has also been hired by the Cowboy Symposium in Lubbock, Durango Cowboy Poetry Gathering and the Cochise Cowboy Poetry Gathering in Arizona.

“I can see every door God has opened,” Teresa said. Her diligence and persistence to use her gift with words has come with rewards. In 2010 she was the Academy of Western Artists (AWA) Cowgirl Poet of the Year. She has three CD’s and her latest CD, The Calf Book, won 2017 Poetry CD of the Year

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by the International Western Music Association (IWMA) and she was also awarded 2017 Female Poet of the Year.

“Being recognized by your peers is a wonderful feeling,” Teresa said. “Most of my poetry speaks of the Lord because that is such a big part who I am. One of my greatest honors is to share at women’s conferences at Cowboy Churches. I would like to share more at women’s conferences.” She explains how her experiences have shaped her life in an excerpt of the poem Rhythms.

I’ve danced to the rhythm of a horse and cadence of his hooves.

I’ve sat atop that power and become one with its moves…

There are melodies to loneliness and to the loves that are embraced and the chances not taken and the dreams that are chased…

Each rhythm has made me who I am and brought me to this place in time…

Each beat has fulfilled a destiny that is uniquely mine.

Teresa has always been around the rich western heritage from which she draws so many of her poems content. She was in the publishing aspect of a western magazine until they downsized. Teresa learned to trust God. She worked for Chris Cox Horsemanship for a while until the position she currently holds became available: Director of the Stockyards Museum in

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the Historic Fort Worth Stockyards. This includes being the administrative assistant to the North Fort Worth Historical Society. “I love the history and our mission is to preserve the history of the Fort Worth Stockyards and North Fort Worth,” Teresa said.

Bobby also follows the Lord’s leading in his life.

“My husband is steady, dependable and stable,” Teresa said. “He is very artistic.” Bobby makes bits, spurs, buckles and jewelry by forging metal. “We are blessed to be steeped in Western heritage and we love it,” Teresa said. They are very involved with the Parker County Cowboy Church where Teresa is on the Women’s Ministry Team and Bobby is an Elder.

They have eight grandchildren that Teresa admits are not so young anymore.

“I can look back and see everywhere the Lord led me, I see God’s fingerprints on my life,” Teresa said. Teresa’s legacy will be much like that of her grandmother that she speaks of in song and verse.

It will be the legacy of faith in God’s provision and pointing others to God’s goodness and it is all recorded for future generations. PCLS

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Girls Rule By: Delaney McKeown | Photos provided by Delaney McKeown

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rowing up in today’s society is not easy for anyone, including impressionable young girls. Having a strong willed mother and a kind, loving father, I was raised to see that girls have a special power and uniqueness about them. I remember being 7 and playing soccer on a team of girls from elementary schools all over. As we were deciding on a team name/mascot, I decided that rather than an animal like the tigers or a cool name like our rival team Blaze, that our soccer team should be called “Girls Rule”, a phrase I had picked up from the playground chant “Girls rule, boys drool.” And so our soccer team went out into every game with a girl power like none other—the girl power of unafraid, unstoppable little girls.

As time moved forward, I still always believed that girls truly did rule; however, with age came interest in boys. This started from having a TOP SECRET crush who I wrote about in my diary (which had a kitten in a tiara on the cover, I just felt you should know that) and it progressed to junior high love

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stories about falling in and out of love with multiple boys who came my way. Throughout this time were many girls who received lots of attention from the boys and I didn’t. So I started to question who I was. And naturally, because I did not have what they had, I began to totally trash their every attempt at having a relationship in the 7th grade. Despite the fact that I preached about how dating at 13 was stupid, self worth comes from Jesus, and that you don’t need a boyfriend to be amazing, on the inside I was feeling sad that I did not receive attention from boys the way they did.

What made us different? One of the girls in my class explained to me that because she started blooming early - at the prime age of 12 - made her worthwhile. And another explained through her actions—simply being loud and extroverted made you likable. Or being naturally stronger than the other girl made her better. Being of quiet nature and having a love for reading, I was labeled as the quiet girl in the back with her nose in a book.

Or at least that the image I stuck to because I

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felt that I was limited to the nerd role of the class because I was an “outcast.” (I really was dramatic in junior high, the whole thing is like a never ending saga!)

This summary of junior high DOES have a purpose though. Through the secret jealousy I was harboring throughout junior high, I realized my potential as an individual and as a girl. I found out through Mrs. Mooney’s Bible class that my value is entirely in Jesus. I learned that I don’t need to base my view of myself based off of what the “cool kids” thought. That’s why I did so many cringe worthy things, because I didn’t care what anyone thought of me. This honestly has affected my every day, even now in high school because I know that I no longer have to question who I am.

Having knowledge of where my worth comes from did help tremendously; however, it does NOT mean that I don’t question a million things about who I am.

GIRLS: I know that there is an image in society of what the perfect girl is supposed to look like. Because it is a rarity in society to see girls being modest, entire bodies are on display for everyone to see. In magazines, commercials, TV, Snapchat, Instagram, and any other social media platform you will find either the plastic, altered bodies of other women who were pressured by the same desire to be “perfect,” or you will see girls much like you sacrificing the sacredness of their body for attention. How can you view these things and not ask yourself, “should I look like that?”

“If she is getting attention for her body showing like this, should I do the same?” “Why doesn’t my body look like hers?”

If you don’t ask yourself those questions, CONGRATS. I find myself still struggling with these questions from day to day. With the media constantly giving women an ideal image to compare to, we will always feel imperfect. As they prey on the sins of the flesh that boys dominantly struggle with, we are left to be compared to these altered images of women. We will constantly think of who all our significant other has seen and how she is a perfect image of a body you can NEVER attain. This leaves girls feeling hopeless, imperfect, and forever flawed.

THESE FEELINGS ARE A LIE FROM THE DEVIL. I’m not here to trash those with the “perfect” body type. I believe that every body type is the perfect body type and that every body type should be celebrated.

If we compare ourselves to photoshopped models on a screen or plastic filled celebrities on movies, how can we ever love our own bodies?

The same bodies that the God of all the galaxies created, by the way. God can see the beauty of all of the earth: the oceans; mountains; sunrises; sunsets; jungles; cities, and on and on... God can see the millions of stars and galaxies with beautiful supernovas of color. He can see all beauty in heaven. He can see every animal he uniquely designed with awesome features to help it survive.

You should know that you are exactly who you were designed to be. You are God’s masterpiece.

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And guess what? When God looks at your body, he is more in awe of it than of any other wonder in all of heaven and earth.

I have to tell myself this: your stretch marks; your cellulite; your eye that looks a little weird when you smile; your big feet; your curved nose; your small chest; your short legs... He sees all these things and He thinks “Wow. Look at my greatest creation growing into who she is meant to be: my daughter.”

Who you are in Christ is who you are all the time.

And we are forgiven, valued daughters to God. As we continue to battle the never-ending battle for self worth, I want to encourage girls everywhere to place their worth in the only thing that will never change: Jesus. You should know that you are exactly who you were designed to be. You are God’s masterpiece.

Girls: as we gain insight into this true understanding of our value and worth, let us continue to encourage girls around us to seek their value in Jesus as well. Let’s cut out the judgment that this shallow, harmful society has taught us to accept. Let’s SPREAD THE ENCOURAGEMENT. Celebrate your unique qualities and the unique qualities of others.

Look at your flaws as qualities of your body that NO ONE ELSE HAS. You have a body unique to you—no one else on the earth can ever be you—and no one can stop you once you embrace that power and you GO LIVE IT. Keep on being strong. Do not accept the fact that the world is so broken as an excuse to try and keep the light from spreading. Do not be discouraged by the seemingly endless spread of comparison - be fueled by it.

The next time you hear a boy make a sexist joke, the next time someone insults your body, the next time you are told that you will never look like her, the next time you question your worth, the next time you feel like you have to expose your body in order to be liked, the next time you feel like you used your body to impress a guy, remember: You are not your body;

you are a soul with a body. Anyone who judges your outside appearance in a negative aspect has a shallow mindset.

Take time this week to thank God for your flaws and all the unique parts of your body. Thank Him for knowing you before you were born. Thank Him for fearfully and wonderfully creating you. Thank Him for loving you and seeing what you see as physical flaws to be what makes you, you.

Also take time this week to tap into that girl power that we have. Remember that resilience to fight the “image” we are supposed to obtain can be used in all areas of life. Remember to celebrate who you are!

Remember that you are a daughter of the one true King. Remember that He has a specific purpose for you, just as He did Esther, maybe even for such a time as this. Remember that your worth is not in what a boy thinks but rather in what the all-knowing creator thinks.

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By Tori Mortensen Photos by Lindsey Sullivan Photography and provided by Joanie Edwards

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fter ending her 11-year marriage, Joanie Edwards found herself and her two young children, a week before Christmas, lost, homeless and with only $80 to her name. The young mother was liter ally and figur atively at the intersection of her past and what would become her future. It was only by surrendering, that she was able to actually find her way HOME.

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The petite, porcelain skinned brunette stretches out casually across her chair in the study of her perfectly polished Brock, Texas home. “You know, I studied journalism in college, but ya can’t tell it,” she grins.

She’s wrong. We can tell, and she proves herself an evocative storyteller.

“Some call it a Cinderella story. I guess it is.”

“I was a young mother. I was real stubborn. I knew all the answers. I find that when I speak to young mothers in crisis today too. There’s the girl who thinks she’s got it all together and the girl who is completely void. She’s all out of fresh ideas.”

Edwards is able to recognize these traits in others, because she’s lived it first hand as a woman in crisis after her first marriage ended. “I kept thinking that he would see that I was right. That's a perfect scenario for a crisis to develop. There was a long time where I kept telling God that He could go help other people, that I had it all under control. But I realized in the final year…this is not going to be okay.... I left.”

Joanie stayed in her relationship for 11 years before finally leaving her husband.

The mother and her children, initially took shelter for several months living as ‘double ups,’ a term that refers to individuals who are unable to maintain their housing situation and are forced

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to stay with a series of friends and/or extended family members. Eventually, the family would find themselves without any place at all to call home at.

One fateful night, in an attempt to make it to Fort Worth, Joanie found herself lost at an intersection in Graham,Texas.

“I had $80 in my back pocket after having pawned everything I had and my two children asleep in the back seat. I realized the situation was out of control.

At that point I thought that I couldn't do anything right. Heck, I couldn’t even drive right. We were lost.”

“There was no control to be found. I had a nervous breakdown. I thought, ‘this is so messed up. How did I get here? I can’t figure this out. It’s over’. ” “And at that very moment I turned it all over to God.” The young mother made a left turn and spotted a church. She went in and pleaded to borrow their phone to make a call to her sister in Fort Worth.

The church’s choir director greeted her and listened compassionately to her story asking, “Do you have to make these decisions today? It's the week before Christmas?” “Yes,” she cried. “I don't even have presents for my kids.”

“It was the most defeated I had ever been.” She says.

He told her he had a place for her, a Crisis Center, there in the Texas town where she and her son and daughter would be safe and could get back on their feet. Reluctantly, Edwards agreed. She had nowhere else to go.

“I didn’t want to go. I had actually worked in a crisis center in college and I knew what to expect… the black eyes, the stories. But, again, I gave it all to God and from that point… He’s continued to lift me up. He knew what I needed and just kept opening doors.”

Within a year and with the support of the Crisis Center and those around her, Joanie’s life looked completely different. Her life was stable, her children were involved in the community and she was introduced to Jud Edwards, a fourth generation rancher and the man who would become her husband. “In eleven months, I had a great job, a great guy and two more children. I wouldn't change it for anything. Looking back, I can see how I was actually in the middle of a miracle.”

The story of her personal miracle would be the foundation for Edward’s first book, God At the Intersection and the beginning of her advocacy for those in crisis.

She was inspired to share that story only when confronted by another woman in crisis. After leaving the Crisis Center, Joanie worked her way up

Within a year and with the support of the Crisis Center and those around her, Joanie’s life looked completely different.

Her life was stable, her children were involved in the community and she was introduced to the man who would become her husband.

and had found great success in the corporate world, eventually becoming a talented sales trainer. When an attendee in one of her sessions accused her of “not having a clue,” Joanie quickly let the woman know just how clued in she was. Others heard Edwards share her journey that day and encouraged her to put the story in writing.

“You know, I had ‘made it’ I didn’t really need to make it any more. But when they contacted me to write a book it really opened me up. I didn't realize how my heart longed to help people. You have to find what opens up your heart!”

And Joanie has a heart for helping others who have felt the sting of homelessness and crisis. “Women in crisis are always going to be there. Abuse is rampant.

When I speak to groups I’m always sure to share that the things that happened to me were a direct result of me… because of decisions I made. I chose to stay too long. I chose to be a victim. You are only a victim once the next time you become volunteer.”

It took extreme struggles to prepare Edwards to be able to help others not to be volunteers in their own destructive circumstances.

“Actually writing the book also showed me there was a better way to live and it got rid of so many people in my life. I couldn't only paint these magical

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pictures. I had to tell…the truth.”

That truth is, homelessness hits closer to home than most of us would like to admit.

Having spent time without a place to call home, the author and entrepreneur seems to have made HOME a consistent theme in her professional life as well. Maybe even unknowingly, the talented businesswoman has focused her career on the homes of others through real estate sales and investments, her staging business and her estate sale services company, The Nest. Understanding the incredible significance of the word HOME gives her a unique perspective on the importance, almost sacredness of a family’s property and its contents. Joanie sees a client’s home and the lifetime’s worth of items found in that home as more than things to sell or purchase, but a stories to be told and shared.

Always the advocate, Joanie donates any items not sold in her company’s estate sales to those in need and the proceeds from the sale of the book benefit the Crisis Center in Graham, Texas that took in Joanie and her children.

Edward’s path from abuse to advocacy, from Crisis Center resident to champion for others in crisis, was certainly not an easy one, but Joanie appears to have truly redefined what it means to be a victim.

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Looking back, I can see how I was actually in the middle of a miracle.

And those two sleeping children who accompanied Joanie the night she decided to turn left at life’s intersection? Edward’s daughter, Lilly has her masters in Psychology with a focus on Women’s Health Studies and serves on an international board helping women in crisis.

That little boy in the back seat, Daniel, is a Black Hawk pilot and Texas attorney.

"You know, Jud always told me during those tough moments raising our four kids together that, ‘the cement’s not dry yet.’”

If there were one statement to sum up the determination of Joanie Edwards, it would surely be in those wise words of her husband.

The Texas gem’s story is a powerful example that what we are experiencing today does not have to be the final product. She spreads a message about having the power to choose, to move, to step, to shift and adjust, no matter our circumstances because the “cement’s not dry yet.” She reminds us that God’s miracles are actually happening each day at intersections in our own lives, but whether we see only the despair or our own Cinderella story is entirely up to us. PCLS

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omething for everyone. Weatherford residents don’t have to go very far to truly find something for everyone. Experience Weatherford, a resource and branding element, is a symbol of exactly what the city is and has to offer. A simple visit to experienceweatherford. com will link visitors to all the events taking place in the area, along with attractions, lodging, dining and details on how to partner with the city events.

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County, but arguably one of the largest in North Texas.

The site and the concept didn’t happen overnight and Operating under the Weatherford Parks, Recreation nor did all the events that create the endless opportunities and Special Events Department, an event is taking place for those of all ages. “In 2015, my colleague Shannon and at least monthly, if not weekly, that I led the way for the creation of our first encourages the citizens to get out and Holiday in the Park,” Blake Rexroat, AN EVENT IS “experience Weatherford.”

Director of Communications and “The goal of both Experience Marketing for the City of Weatherford, TAKING PLACE Weatherford and the Parks Department recalled, “Then event coordinator AT LEAST is to increase quality of life. As city Michael Howard created a Fourth of July event, which added a new element MONTHLY, IF NOT employees we recognize that it is our job to do this and we are constantly to our event offerings and every year WEEKLY, THAT listening to suggestions and desires of since we have been building our sponsor ENCOURAGES our citizens,” said Blake. “Experience program and trying to add a new event annually for the city of Weatherford.” THE CITIZENS TO Weatherford is one central place people can go and see what local businesses and Spark in the Park, the Fourth of July GET OUT AND the city are doing. If you are looking for event, hosted approximately 20,000 EXPERIENCE night life or family life in Weatherford, spectators throughout the city in 2017 with fireworks as high as 600 feet, WEATHERFORD. ” or something in between, you can find it on this site.” Another perk of using the compared to most shows at 300 feet. This site for lodging needs is that a portion of event, which features a headline singer tax for hotels booked through the site are given back to and family entertainment, is one of the bigger events the city because of the vendor used for the site, whereas that the city hosts through sponsorships from local and that same money earned through hotel bookings from regional businesses in Dallas/Fort Worth. Needless to well known travel sites is often not sent to the city. The say, it’s not only the largest firework display in Parker

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With all the additions as well as the events, the city of Weatherford allows citizens to stay close to home without driving far into Dallas/Fort Worth, which is exactly what Blake, Shannon and the rest of their team are trying to accomplish.

From concert series at the amphitheater to food truck nights with local music at Heritage Park, First Monday the weekend before the first Monday of each month, movies at the Cherry Park pool and more, there are plenty of reasons to get out each night and to stay in town each time too. The city is always looking for the trendy event and then create it in Weatherford.

There are more ways to get involved than by just attending though, the city has a number of partnership and sponsorship opportunities for

tax collected through these reservations is used to support more events in the town and continue the mission of giving citizens everything they need in Weatherford.

It’s not just events that are being created as an answer to the desires of the citizens, but a number of venues as well. “We opened an allinclusive playground last summer after years of planning, along with a large dog park after several in the community expressed a desire for this,” said Shannon Goodman, Weatherford Parks, Recreation and Special Events Director. “We are excited to open a new splash pad at Marshall Park for the north side of town this summer and over the winter we will complete $1M+ in renovations at the Cherry Park pool.” He went on to explain that the master plan for the parks department is guided and fueled by the annual parks survey for the citizens. In fact, a focus group has been formed to research the feasibility and need for a recreational center in Weatherford based on feedback received in the 2016 survey and public meetings. This is exactly how the all-inclusive playground at Heritage Park came to fruition; a group of parents making the request and supporting the proposal when it went before the city council.

“We are building parks based on the input we receive from our citizens,” Shannon said, “It may take some time to get the necessary resources, support and installations complete, but we are actively looking at ways to meet needs.”

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businesses at each event, which offers significant value and exposure as Experience Weatherford’s social media and advertising reached over one million people last year.

Any group or business within Weatherford can list their event for free on the website. “This website is a space for people to be proactive about getting their event out there. We want this to be the community’s tool to share information and build events, while increasing quality of life programs,” Blake said.

Volunteers at these events are always welcome and can sign up at the Parks, Recreation and Special Events Department website.

The only problem that all this fun creates is the need to clear your calendar to make all the city’s events! One doesn’t have to go very far to find an activity that suites the whole family!

When asked what the best-kept secret in Weatherford is, the reply is that the city is trying to keep nothing a secret! When your community offers something for everyone, it is important to make sure people know about every opportunity that leads to a healthy quality of life. PCLS

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UPCOMING EVENTS JUNE TBD Grand Opening of Marshall Park Splash Pad JUNE 16 Concert Series at Heritage Park JUNE 29 - JULY 1 July 1 First Monday at Heritage Park JULY 4 Spark in the Park at Heritage Park AUGUST 3-5

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I’ve been hit a new revelation this year: I’m not getting any younger.

I know, I know, this should be an obvious thing, but it hasn’t been for me. In my mid-thirties, I am becoming keenly aware of the fine lines framing my eyes and laughing smile. The furrowed brow of concern when my children are sick, and the sunspots on my hands won’t lessen over the years without some cosmetic intervention.

I will now always look back on photos from years gone by and wish I had “fill-in-theblank” again. Smooth skin,

no stretch marks, a bikiniready body all year long. Here for a moment, gone the next.

"Age" is painted by society as the great betrayer. We feel fresh-faced and vigorous on the inside, but our outer shell defies us. Women once confident in their appearance begin to question their value, their very worth, simply because what they see in the mirror no longer reflects what they feel on the inside. These signs of aging can create a tailspin into negative selftalk, or at the very least a mad dash to the cosmetics counter.

“Tighten this!” “Lift that!”

“Cover it all!” We scramble to reverse the signs of aging and capture the youthfulness once taken for granted.

What scares me for women who struggle with this? If we can’t get it right in our current stage of life, I wonder how will we handle

the next few the Bible decades? sink down “Cha rm deep into the is deceptive, most vulnerable “ and beauty places of your is fleeting; heart. Let the but a woman truth of God who fears become the the Lord is to source of your be praised.” confidence and (Proverbs content ment .

31:30) God calls us to The only invest in that ” beauty that which lasts surpasses forever, not – Coco Chanel the physical spend our days is a deep, wishing we were abiding relationship with someone younger, prettier, God. Over time, any faith or skinnier. For what value placed in “looks” will be is it to place all our hope in crushed. Sure, taking steps something that is here today, to care for our body is but vanishes in an instant? important, but it cannot be Let’s spend our energy in the the most important. If we get word of God, not the worries the inside right spiritually, of the world. then the outside will shine physically.

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TRAVEL HACKS 8 TRAVEL HACKS TO HELP YOU PUT THE “VACATION” BACK IN YOUR FAMILY’S SUMMER VACATION BY: TORI MORTENSEN

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va·ca·tion

noun: vacation; plural noun: vacations NORTH AMERICAN • an extended period of recreation, especially one spent away from home or in traveling: "he took a vacation in the south of France" synonyms: break, time off, recess, leave, leave of absence, furlough, sabbatical, spring break • the action of leaving something one previously occupied.

TRUTH: FAMILY VACATION AS A PARENT ISN’T REALLY VACATION AT ALL.

Sure it may be an exciting adventure, but the sooner we accept it for its true self the sooner we can get to “work” enjoying it.

As parents, our primary occupation is just that… parenting. So when we take off and go on “family holiday” we still aren’t really off the clock. We’re still working. Feeding folks, breaking up sibling squabbles, teaching, bathing, wiping noses, we’re still parenting our tails off. It’s just that, for a week, we’re in a satellite office (hopefully one with a great view).

However, with a little advanced planning and the use

of a few of these travel hacks, you may just find yourself with a few more pockets of time here and there this family vacation season. Time to enjoy the fleeting window of opportunity in which you get to see the great, big world through the little, tiny eyes of your children.

Our family of four recently had a bucket list opportunity to travel across three countries over 16 days.

10 planes (3 red eye flights,) 5 trains, 6 buses, more than a dozen car rides, 5 types of accommodations and multiple border crossings and only 2 suitcases.

Did I mention our traveling party included our 9 and 11-year-old sons? It was a recipe for disaster, but with some attention to detail on the front end, we had very few hiccups and experienced a trip of a lifetime.

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3. PLAN A DELAY.

To most folks LAYOVER is a dirty word. But what if that layover is somewhere really amazing? What if you can show your kids something completely incredible, something you may otherwise never see, just because it was “on the way?” Whether you are driving or flying, a pit stop to catch even a glimpse of a different culture, food or some new scenery can turn out to be the most memorable part of the trip.

4. PLASTIC PERKS.

First be sure to notify all of your card companies of the dates and locations of your travel to prevent Discover from calling you in the middle of a walk down a cobblestone street in Spain to tell you your cards have been turned off because someone just used it in a meat market just outside of Madrid.

Next, while you have them on the phone, ask what promotions they have in the cities to which you are headed.

Credit card companies often times have exclusive tickets to shows, private events and cool experiences available only to their card holders.

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1. PHONE A FRIEND.

We live in a time when people love to share what they know. When looking for a vacay destination, first try places were you “know a guy.” There’s truly no substitute for a local friend on the ground. They are the ones who will truly hack your travel for you, identifying the best places to stay, eat, play and the local not to be missed secrets. One of our very best friends set up an opportunity for us to camp with wild elephants in Zambia. Something we may never have found on our own!

2. AIR TRAVEL.

When searching for your tickets, be sure to set your browser to private. This can eliminate the price of a ticket increasing upon you revisiting the site. Check out websites like Seat Guru. Here, I was able to look at the configuration of certain planes, even photos of the seating.

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You can spend your entire trip handing out sunscreen wipes and gum and hand sanitizer and Chapstick and notebooks and pencils and snack bars and ear plugs OR you can give each traveler his own gallon sized Zip Lock full of the essentials. P.S. Wipes are a gift from God to mothers who are on the go. Check out Amazon for both sunscreen wipes and bug repellant wipes that most children can manage ALL on their own!

6. CONSIDER FABRICS WHEN YOU CONSIDER FASHION.

When it comes to traveling with kids, if you can’t wash it in the bathtub and hang it out to dry, why pack it? Companies like Under Armour, Columbia and Nike now make all-purpose, heat gear type lines at all price points and perfect for family vacations. UA has a pair of shorts they call Amphibious. They are suitable to swim in, comfy enough to travel in and nice enough to be worn to dinner… killing three birds with one pair of shorts.

7. BUDGET AND BARTER.

Eliminate the constant “ask” state so many of our kids are living in today by having them earn their spending money for the trip in advance or, at the least, by giving them a budget to stick to when it comes to trinkets. Have them budget for something small to take back to their neighbor, BFF or Sunday school teacher also. And don't forget to teach your kids how to barter with merchants and vendors! But, meeting and talking to the folks selling wooden turtles and making a bracelet with your name on it is the best so remember not to barter too hard. After all it is their livelihood and it’s simply your vacation.

8. CHECK AIR TRAVEL, ENTRY AND EXIT REQUIREMENTS FOR TRAVELING WITH CHILDREN.

For instance, sometimes an airline requires a birth certificate for a child to travel even though the TSA has no such requirement.

And we learned this one the hard way, sometimes, a passport just ain’t enough. Especially when it comes to

traveling with children. Sometimes, you have to call and wake up your kids’ football coaches’ wives and ask them to send you copies of your kids’ birth certificates in order to gain entry to a certain country.

Finally, sometimes, another country finds out you are a writer and requires that you sign a document issued by the national government stating that you “will not write or work at anytime while you are within their borders or you will risk facing prosecution.”

At times like that, you KNOW for CERTAIN how great HOME is and you’ll want to be sure you have the proper documentation to get back there!

But even if you DO have to sign a formal document stating that you are on “official family vacation” and that you are absolutely not there to work… you and I both know that we are simply ALWAYS working.

Working to show our children what things look like outside of their bubble.

Working to introduce them to people, places and ideas they've never thought of before.

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ONE PARKER COUNTY SCHOOL IS BUILDING GENTLEMEN AND LEADERS ONE TUESDAY AND ONE TIE AT A TIME.

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While conducting research for his Ph.D. program, former University of Houston football player and current Tison Middle School Assistant Principal, Trace Craft stumbled upon a young men’s program that seemed to echo many of his personal ideals.

“My dad raised me to be a gentleman. My mom expects it. My wife and I are raising our sons to be gentlemen.“

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The administrator reached out for additional information on the school-based program and others like it before ultimately sharing with Principal Eric Sams that he would like to develop a customized pilot program at Tison. The program would help middle school boys navigate the sometimes-confusing journey they must take in order to become good men. Craft developed a timeline and a curriculum and called his program Boys to Men. The boys meet together each month to discuss the traits and attributes that are so often left out in conversations about young men in America, things like citizenship, manners and what it means to be prepared to be a part of the world and to develop skills like problem solving, decision making, and goal setting.

“I wanted them to know about character. We’ve brought in guest speakers to discuss how to respect women, how to talk to peers and adults. We challenge them to a random act of kindness everyday. We ask that they greet others with a handshake, that they thank their teacher and shake his or her hand on the way out of class.” And Craft’s effort is being fully supported by Head Principal Eric Sams who adds, “If we want to grow the leaders of tomorrow we have to teach them.”

Oh and each and every Tuesday, a walk down the halls of the middle school will showcase the 60 members of the organization. You will know them when you see them. Their dress shirts, slacks or nice jeans and tie are certainly a stark contrast to the athleisure gear most their age will be sporting. It’s not as though the group teaches that clothes make the man, but rather that Dressing for Success on Tuesdays is representative of so much more. It is an outward symbol of an inward commitment.

In that same vein, Craft insists that the club not be elitist. Teachers are asked to nominate boys whom they feel have qualities that can be built upon and an invitation is sent to those boys in order to encourage those that may otherwise not be quick to participate.

But any boy who wants to join is welcome. Boys to Men is not a fraternity. There is no Rush Week. There are no dues. In fact, you don't even have to own a tie. The community has provided an outpouring of support as well ensuring no child is left out. And, you can clearly see the evidence of that support as the assistant principal’s office seems to double as a tween closet of sorts, housing the bags of shoes, boxes of ties and a corner full of shirts. A multitude of items all donated by those who simply heard about what the school was doing and wanted to help.

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With all its success and attention, it’s easy to forget that the program is in its inaugural year, the team is essentially still testing the pilot and asking themselves questions like, “Will it work? Will we have enough buy in?” For instance, they determined that their once monthly meetings and weekly checkins by the boys’ staff mentors might not be enough.

“Next year we are looking at getting together twice a month.” And the school is we already organizing a similar girls’ organization based on what they have learned this year with the boys’ pilot. “We just felt that too much at one time would be just that: too much.”

When asked about his primary motivation, he references a poster hanging in his office highlighting the ideals of Clemson head football coach Dabo Swinney. “Basically,” Craft paraphrases the poster, “We can win, win, win, but if we aren’t creating good husbands, good fathers, good men, we lose.”

Coach Dabo has also been quoted as saying, “To be an overachiever, you have to be an over believer.” Well, some may describe Trace Craft as just that, an over believer. The teachers and administrators at Tison simply believe that this generation CAN confidently and successfully navigate the middle school experience on the road to becoming true ladies and gentlemen and sharply dressed, competent leaders. PCLS

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“It has taught me respect, responsibility, perseverance and how to build character. The club has helped me to grow as a gentleman and helped me become nicer and more respectful towards others.”

- AUSTIN MARKWARDT

ACCORDING TO THE NATIONAL CENTER FOR EDUCATIONAL STATISTICS: • Boys are 30 percent more likely than girls to flunk or drop out of school.

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• Boys are four to five times more likely than girls to be diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).

• Women outnumber men in higher education with 56 percent of bachelor's degrees and 55 percent of graduate degrees going to women.

“The Boys to Men Program has taught me many things.

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Addington & Associates....................................................................100

Lindsey Sullivan Photography...........................................................30

AIM Mail Centers....................................................................................93

Lone Star Guns Gallery........................................................................117

American Concrete................................................................................61

Mike's Westside Rental........................................................................ 73

Associated Well Services.................................................................. 108

Nana's Place Flowers and Gifts......................................................109

Blow and Go Blow Dry Bar............................................................... 108

Olive Jane Photography......................................................................45

Borrowed Treasures Vintage Rentals.............................................65

Optimum Healthcare.............................................................................41

Bow & Arrow Bridal and Formal...................................................... 52

Paralegal Services of North Texas...................................................88

Brooke Ladouceur, Worthington Realty.........................................81

Parker County Grafix.......................................................................... 108

Carly Klassen, DDS.................................................................................81

Parker County LifeStyle Magazine.................................................. 27

Clark Real Estate Group.........................................................................7

PlainsCapital Bank................................................................................. 27

Clear Fork Assisted Living................................................................ 120

Professional Firehouse Roofing........................................................93

Clear Fork Veterinary Clinic................................................................. 3

Red Horse Boutique..............................................................................92

College Park Rehabilitation and Care Center...............................41

RedFin Pools...............................................................................................2

Couts Christian Academy................................................................... 72

Resurge Clinic..........................................................................................89

Crazy Imagination Travel.....................................................................89

Slocum Heating & Air...........................................Inside Front Cover

Cross Custom Homes......................................................................... 103

Sweet Southern Peaches Photography.........................................92

CSG West................................................................................................ 102

Taylor Your Tan........................................................................................93

Dale's Ridglea Pest Control.................................................................61

Teskey's.......................................................................................................16

Dar Electric.............................................................................................. 116

Texas Health Willow Park................................................................... 80

Diamond H3 Ranch...............................................................................64

The Design Center/Western Heritage........................................... 44

DOC Homes.............................................................................................. 53

The Nest Estate Sale Services......................................................... 108

East Parker County Chamber of Commerce............................. 102

The Schoolhouse..................................................................................... 17

Edward Jones—Brent Gough..........................................................100

The Swim Lesson People..................................................................109

Edward Jones—Mike Smith................................................................117

Thompson Custom Homes................................................................ 116

Ernie's Tire & Automotive....................................Inside Back Cover

Totally Graphic Designs.......................................................................65

Facial Cosmetic and Surgical Center........................................9, 118

Trinity Bible Church...............................................................................26

First National Bank..............................................................Back Cover

Trinity Christian Academy..................................................................117

Galbreaith Pickard Funeral Home....................................................65

Vintage Grill . Museum . Event Center......................................... 103

Goodwin Dental....................................................................................... 31

Weatherford Christian School.......................................................... 40

H Lanoue Photography........................................................................ 72

Weatherford OB/Gyn...........................................................................93

Hilltop Park Rehabilitation and Care Center.................................41

Weatherford Truck Equipment.......................................................109

Home Zone Furniture............................................................................. 5

West Texas Landscaping.................................................................... 116

Jami Scull Photography.......................................................................88

White's Funeral Home.......................................................................... 73

Jerry's Chevrolet....................................................................................... 1

Willow Park Baptist Church.............................................................. 60

Le'Tan Tanning Salon..........................................................................109

Willow Park Rehabilitation and Care Center................................41

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