Just Dream Literary Magazine August 2020

JUST DREAM A Literary Magazine August 2020 / Volume 2

Living Through the Pandemic Dear Little Black Girl | Pg. 6 Be Still | Pg. 10 Motherhood at a Time Like This | Pg.

JUST DREAM Copyright Š 2020 by Marquita Antoineå All rights reserved. This magazine or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a review.

In This Issue...

Permanent Fixtures A Letter From the Editor - Marquita Antoineá 3 Black Business Broadcast - Get at the Gloss Cosmetics 7 Talk to Kita Interview Series - Marquita Antoineá 17 *COVID and High School 18 *COVID and Parenting 23

Meet the Authors - Author Biographies 44 Support Black Business - Black-Owned Business Ads

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Pandemic-Related Articles Be Still - Talecia Frazier 10 Peace in the Midst of the Storm - Benita Henderson 13 The Darkness - Marquita Henderson 27 Motherhood at a Time Like This - Deniesha Pratt 29 Farewell "Birthday Buddy" - Ceci Taliaferro 31 A Note From the Principal - Kristie Clark 35 COVID-19 and the Ten Commandments - Monique Somerville 38 Expect the Unexpected - Mercedes Culpepper 41

Extras Dear Little Black Girl - Marquita Antoineá 6 Stars Can't Shine Without Darkness - Marquita Antoineá 43

A Letter from the Editor Happiness is the open-minded acceptance of your past history while bridging the gap between past and present circumstances in an effort to create a more pleasant future.

First of all, I want to send a heartfelt ‘Thank You’ to each and every one of you who purchased the first issue of Just Dream which was released in May 2020. I was simply overwhelmed by the level of support. Just Dream Literary Magazine is a hit! It is with that momentum in mind that I have decided to push forward building the Just Dream brand - grand opening of the merchandise store and offering of editorial services. It’s a wonderful feeling to watch my dreams slowly but surely coming true.

This issue is all about the effects of COVID-19. You will read some powerful words about resilience, strength, passion, and faith. You will see a new black-owned, female-owned business featured in what will now be called the Black Business Blast.

You will also see a couple interviews given by two high school students, one of which was a graduating senior for the class of 2020. Through all of this, it is important to remember the three P's: Prayer, Patience, and Perseverance.

It is with my deepest sincerity that I thank each and everyone of the contributors in this powerful issue of this Literary Magazine!

To all of our readers, prepare to be amazed by the different stories and various points of view all dedicated to Mental Health Awareness! Share the love!

Marquita Antoineá 3

What is a

A pandemic is an outbreak of a disease that spreads around the world. The current pandemic, which originated in China, has changed so much about the way we have to live. If there is ever going to be a chance at normalcy again, it is imperative that we all abide by the COVID-19 guidleines. For more information including how to protect yourself from contracting the disease and specific restrictions, please visit the Center for Disease Control's website.

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WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Wash your hands for at least 20 seconds OFTEN.

Wear a mask or other face covering especially when in public.

Disinfect surfaces daily.

Practice social distancing by keeping six feet between you and others outside of your household at all times.

QUICK

Dear Little Black Girl, You are beautiful. Continue to reach for the stars and never stop dreaming!

Love, A Little Black Girl

During the past few months, this country has experienced some extreme amounts of change, from the forced quarantine due to the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter protests demanding justice for Blacks across the country. I have never been a huge fan of change, but I definitely feel real pain for the children - especially those who are too young to understand what is going on in the world today. In this age of technology, social media has been completely saturated with so much more negativity and hatred than positivity and love. Let’s change the narrative!

While scrolling through social media one day, I came across the picture shown here.

It is extremely powerful to say the least.

The first thing I noticed in this image was the tear rolling down the cheek of a Little Black Girl. As innocent as she may seem, I will bet my last dollar that her mind is filled with thoughts of undeserved hatred, misplaced anger, and constant confusion - all things a child shouldn’t have to experience.

The next thing I noticed while observing this picture were the unmelanated (yes, it’s a made up word! Lol) hands in the shape of a mask covering the mouth of this little black girl not allowing her the freedom of speech. What many people in this country fail to understand, though, is that covering the mouth only silences the words and not the thoughts. So, while she is quiet, her mind is constantly thinking of ways to regain her natural rights. Be careful around her. She’s powerful!

The final thing I noticed in this picture was the faded image of the American flag in the background - signifying the fact the girl is much more important than the country. Let that sink in. There is so much that can be said about this symbol of what was once said to be the “greatest country in the world.” But I won’t make this too political. I will just leave you with this: America will never be great until we, as a whole, begin to love and appreciate each other unconditionally. America will never be great until color no longer matters. America will never be great until we begin to embrace our fellow Americans and collectively celebrate our differences.

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JUST DREAM PRESENTS

Black Business Broadcast Highlighting Black Excellence in the Community

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Meet Clara Hoover Get At The Gloss Cosmetics

Title: Owner and CEO Age: 15 Grade: 11th (junior as of August 31, 2020 School: Suitland High School Website: www.getattheglosscosmetics.com Email: getattheglosscosmetics@gmail.com

Clara Hoover , a high student, is the proud owner and CEO of Get at the Gloss Cosmetics - a cosmetics business focused on lip glosses that leave your lips soft and moisturized.

1. What were your initial thoughts when COVID-19 hit?

I will never forget the day I was shopping with my grandfather at BJ's when all of the sudden lots of people were coming in wiping the shelves clean. The line got so long that we were all the way in the back of the store. I didn't quite know what was going on, then all of the sudden I got a text from PGCPS School saying all schools will be closed for three weeks due to covid-19. I was kind of excited until I realize more than just school would be closing. Now that we are on quarantine, I feel as if this time brought something out of me that I didn't know was there.

2. How has the pandemic affected you directly?

This pandemic made me realize I can do things that I never thought I would do. I sat down and really thought to myself ‘I want to start a lip-gloss business.’ I am not doing this alone; I have a partner – my best friend. We are both so excited to become entrepreneurs.

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3. What prompted you to start your business?

I started this business because I realized that with everything going on right now, I have a lot more free time. I can't just sit around having my brain shutdown when I could be doing something to keep myself busy. So making and selling glosses is hard work, but pretty fun to do.

4. How does it feel to be a black female AND a small business owner at such a young age?

It feels great to be a black female entrepreneur. It shows that young people can do whatever they put their mind to. I honestly love it.

5. Do you think the pandemic slowed you down on your path to greatness?

No, I think the pandemic SHOWED my path to Greatness because if we weren’t in the middle of this pandemic, I would have been focused on other things.

6. How confident are you that you will still achieve greatness in the midst of all the setbacks?

I'm confident that achieving greatness, through thick and thin, is always possible will you put your mind to it.

On behalf of The Just Dream Foundation...

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Be Still Achieving and Maintaining Mindfulness During the Pandemic

Written by Talecia Frazier, LCPC Owner of Guided Journeys, LLC Lanham, MD 10 5

As a therapist, mother, fiancé, daughter, and friend, I find myself constantly on-thego! Whether I am meeting with clients, helping family members, giving “free therapy” to my loved ones, socializing, or engaging in research or training for my professional development, I have limited time and space to just THINK. Although I love every role I play in service to others, I do, oftentimes, neglect myself and have to redirect myself to engage in self-care.

unconditionally, and being fully present in the moment. A few points to consider:

As the restrictions on the pandemic begin to lift, I have been searching relentlessly for a purpose, meaning, or lesson for all of the madness the world has experienced over the last few months. Most people I know personally or clients who I have seen professionally have expressed negative emotions related to anxiety and depression due to feeling isolated, helpless, and downright AFRAID! However, the pandemic has forced us to BE STILL!

3) Mindfulness exercises can include mindful breathing, yoga, exercise, and meditation, etc. Therefore, you have a variety of methods to choose from. Try them all until you find exercises that you feel are most effective for you and your lifestyle!

Most of us have had the time and space to THINK, STRATEGIZE, PLAN, and ORGANIZE life past COVID-19! The pandemic’s negative impact on mental health has posed a barrier in motivating individuals to be productive and capitalize on the time .It can be very challenging to find the motivation to stay positive during such an uncertain time. Although very difficult, I have encouraged my clients to use this time to utilize mindfulness strategies. The pandemic has been a reminder that we have limited control over outcomes.

Therefore, mindfulness allows us to make peace and accept that notion and serves as a coping skill to combat some of the negative emotions that have surfaced from current events.

Mindfulness involves letting go of negative thoughts, accepting yourself

1) Research shows that it has significant mental health benefits.

2) It requires PRACTICE just like any skill. Do not be discouraged or feel that there is a RIGHT or WRONG way to achieve mindfulness. All effort is a WIN! And the more you practice, the better you will feel!

4) A trained therapist can help you to learn strategies and facilitate mindfulness exercises. They can also serve as individuals who can hold you accountable and remind you of the importance of self-care.

5) Mindfulness helps with anxiety, as it helps to redirect focus to PRESENT and NOT FUTURE, which is a core contributor of the psychological state of anxiety- thinking about the future and what may or may not happen rather than focusing on the current moment and what we do have control over.

6) Research shows that mindfulness reduces depression. It trains your brain to manage stress and anxiety in a healthier way.

Set a goal to try mindfulness exercises!

Thirty minutes a day can be very effective and can have significant mental health benefits! Commit to add one exercise each day to your daily routine and you are guaranteed to achieve positive outcomes!

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"I really want to go outside, but my anxiety won't let me."

According to the Merriam and Webster Online Dictionary, anxiety is "an abnormal and overwhelming sense of apprehension and fear often marked by physical signs (such as tension, sweating, and increased pulse rate) by doubt concerning the reality and nature if the treat, and by self-doubt about one's capacity to cope with it."

If you can relate to this statement, it may be a good idea to find someone to talk to. Perhaps you can talk to a therapist, a close friend or family member, or even me! Don't be afraid to reach out.

Email marquita-antoinea.com to be connected to someone.

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Peace in the Midst of the Storm

Written by Benita Henderson Author of "From the Depths of My Soul" 13

Psalm 16:11 (NAS), “You show the path of life. In your presence there is fullness of joy, in your right hand pleasures forevermore.”

When we are in the presence of God, we are in a place of peace. God made us in love, He keeps us in grace, and He is with us in all things. God knows us and wants us to have the best that life has to offer. In God, we have an inner calm that exceeds human understanding and measurement.

Every now and then God will give us something that cannot be resolved in our natural mind. I believe that COVID-19 is one of those things.

When I first heard about this virus, I really did not give it much thought. I prayed for healing for the people who contracted the virus, but did not fully understand the seriousness or complexity of it. It wasn’t until everything shut down that I really began to take heed of what was going on around me. Although I was anxious, my focus became finding peace in the midst of this pandemic.

However, how could I do that when I was wondering why God is letting this happen?

Fear and anxiety about a new disease and its potential consequences became overwhelming and emotional. Public health actions, such as social distancing, have made people (especially me) feel isolated and lonely and have increased stress and anxiety; however, I know these actions are necessary to reduce the spread of COVID-19. Many days I would wake up terrified about what has been going on in the world. Some nights, I had trouble going to sleep because my mind would race through the latest news headlines, which only seem to get grimmer and grimmer with each passing day.

I’m no stranger to worry; but with the pandemic, my normal levels of worry have gone into

overdrive. While prayer has been a large part of my life for a while now, the amount of time I spend praying has increased tremendously. I attend prayer calls, online Sunday services, and online Bible studies. Yet and still for me, prayer is the key to finding the peace I so desire. While fear is a very real response to life’s storms, I refused let fear take over.

As the isolation turned from days to weeks and then weeks to months, remaining positive and maintaining or creating inner peace became more difficult. Peace is important to me, so I knew that I would need to do whatever it took. I have always heard that a storm is the most calm in the middle. I would need to adopt this attitude to whether this storm. There were crazy things happening in the world before the announcement that COVID-19 would totally upend our world as we knew it. I’ve actually known for some time that a change was inevitably going to come. Although I had no idea that the change would be this drastic, I had to adjust. Life, as we once knew it, is gone, and I don’t think it will ever be the same again.

As I began to study, I began to journal as I always do. Journaling is my calming agent. It was difficult initially, but I knew that I was searching for my internal peace – a peace I could only receive from the most high. So with pen and paper in hand, I recalled to the words of my pastor who reminds us regularly that when God takes us through something that we have never been through before, he wants us to be still and pray. While praying that God will heal our land, I began to seek God for his peace. Somehow, I knew that this is the only peace that would carry me through.

First, I needed to surrender because I would never understand what was happening naturally.

Next, I had to embrace my faith and trust God like never before. Finally, I had to know in my heart of

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hearts that God loves me just as I am. Below are a few of my encounters with scripture through this time and a few words that reflect my thoughts.

Psalm 2:12 (NKJV), “Blessed are those who put their trust in Him.” Sometimes no matter how hard we try, we cannot understand what’s happening to us. The more details we discover, the more confused we become. Only God can make sense of our circumstances. When we worship God, focus on his almighty power, and tremble in awe of his wisdom, we realize that nothing is too big for him to handle.

When I was reminded of this truth, I surrendered the situation to God’s care.

Psalm 4:8 (AMP), “In peace I will both lie down and sleep, for You, Lord, alone make me dwell in safety and confident trust.”

In the silence of the night when everything is quiet, difficult thoughts can sometimes take over your mind. During these times, it is comforting to know that God hears you and has been waiting for you to invite him into your situation. You never have to feel alone. Call out to him and tell him your concerns. He will listen. He is our comforting presence at all times.

Isaiah 26:3 (NIV), “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you."

We must put our trust in God, always. The Lord God is an everlasting rock. Our trust in God isn’t based on the strength of our faith in Him, but rather who He is. He is an eternal Rock, and because of that, He is trustworthy. When we look for stable ground in this life, we must remember that God alone is the everlasting and steady Rock.

Ephesians 3:16-17 (NIV), “ I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so

that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.“ God will strengthen us with power through the work of his Spirit such that we will think, speak and live by faith. We will be more fully transformed into His likeness and more aligned with Him in our inner being. Our inner being is the place where we gain our strength from His Spirit, learn to trust Jesus, and then to live in that trust.

Romans 5:1–5 (NIV), “Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him, we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearths through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”

You see, God’s magnificence and omnipotence isn’t a magic wand to be waived to make the pandemic disappear; He’s a shoulder to lean on when this world and its struggles become too much for us to bear. He’s the direction to turn at all times (good and bad). He is our inspiration to set aside differences and help others in whatever way we can. And it doesn’t matter where you are in life, whether you are waiting for Him to direct you, or if you’ve been running from Him, He can use you right where you are to do good things, even in the midst of all this horribleness. Even when we aren’t obeying, even when we are running- even when the world is throwing us into such a massive crisis as we are dealing with nowGod will use it to bring us closer to Him.

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Philippians 4:7 (NLT), “You will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”

Peace in your heart makes life wonderful. It counters any turbulence and brings security because you know God is with you always. When we realize how much God loves us we can find peace. God’s peace can guide us in the way we should go as he sustains us through the hills and valleys of this life.

While I have achieved a certain level of peace, I am reminded daily that I am not in control and must always be dependent on God. Thank God for this reminder to be grateful for all things. Thank God for reminding me that I must continually seek you.

So when chaos surrounds me, there is only one thing I can cling to, my God. He has the power to quiet any storm and handle any situation and is always there. He infuses me with his peace, empowers me with his strength and I know there is peace in the midst of the storm.

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COVID-19 and

HIGH SCHOOL

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It is no secret that change is inevitable. In fact, as I often say, change is ironically the only constant in life. As a creature of habit, I sometimes find it difficult to adjust to “new norms” simply because of the mindset that “if things aren’t broken, don’t try to fix them.”

The problem with this way of thinking is that sometimes we can’t see where problems exist with our naked eye. Sometimes, it takes something drastic to wake us up and want to adjust (i.e. COVID-19’s effects on the world and the Black Lives Matter protests across the country, just to name a couple).

During this time, I have seen and heard so much from adults about mental health struggles, financial struggles, health struggles, and so much more. However, my eyes have really been opened to extreme effects this pandemic has had on children. While it is a common fact that children everywhere are quite resilient, it is imperative to their growth and development that we, as adults, do not ignore or dismiss their true feelings.

We must have open minds and realize that tiny humans matter, too!

Kaila Banks (a brilliant young lady who I have had the pleasure of knowing all her life) recently graduated from Bowie High School in Bowie, MD. Like so many others, she unfortunately was cheated out of so many celebrations – graduation being the most important. Because it represents entrance into adulthood, high school graduation is supposed to be one of the most celebrated milestones in a person’s life. However, due to the pandemic Kaila, along the rest of the class of 2020, was not able to walk across the stage to commemorate this glorious occasion. So, here’s to you Kaila – CONGRATS AND I’M PROUD OF YOU!!!

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Morgan Johnson (a caring and sweet young lady who I have known since she was in the second grade) recently completed her sophomore year of high school also at Bowie High School. When life was upended by the pandemic, Morgan had to quickly adjust to our new “norm.” She remained focused and finished the school year strong.

The following interviews were conducted with the intent of highlighting resiliency and perseverance in two very successful high school students – one from the class of 2020 and the other from the class of 2022.

Question #1: What were your initial thoughts when COVID-19 hit?

Kaila: When COVID-19 initially hit I thought it would be similar to the flu. I did not think that COVID-19 would be as severe, long-lasting quickly spreading nor impact the world as it is. I did not imagine that we would be on lock down for so long, having to wear masks everywhere, cancelling events, and no school. I do not think that we will go back to ‘normal' anytime soon, or possibly ever. .

Morgan: When I first heard of COVID-19, I didn’t think it would be so serious. I thought that it would not really spread because it had started in China and China is a pretty advanced country. I thought they would find a cure fast.

Question # 2: How has the pandemic affected you directly?

Kaila: This pandemic has completely changed my life. I was unable to have the senior year that I imagined having. I missed out on all of the senior activities like beach week, prom, graduation, and more. My first year of college has also been affected by COVID-19 because now I will not be living on campus.

Morgan: For me, the only thing that was directly affected was my track season. I had just transferred high schools, and I was looking forward to a successful outdoor track season. That was all changed by the mandatory quarantine. So, instead of training with a team, I had to train alone when I could.

Luckily, I haven’t lost any family members to the virus, but my mom did lose a close friend.

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Question #3: If you could go back and do senior/sophomore year over again, would you?

Kaila: If I could go back and redo my senior year, I definitely would. I wouldn't take anything for granted and would become more engaged. I wouldn't wish the senior that I have had on anybody.

Senior year was the year that I have been waiting for so long and for it to be spent like this saddens me.

Morgan: Yes and no. I would like the chance to do my sophomore year over because I miss my friends and it won’t be long before we all go off to college. But part of me wouldn’t want to change it because we now have more leisure time and we’re not always rushing anymore.

Question #4: Do you think the pandemic slowed you down on your path to greatness?

Kaila: I do not think that the pandemic has slowed me down on my path to greatness. Has the pandemic altered a lot of my plans? Yes, it has definitely made me adjust a lot, but the only thing that can stop me from being great is me.

Morgan: So far, the pandemic has not slowed me down. Reality was altered because I had to figure out a whole new way of learning, but I wouldn’t say it slowed me down.

Question #5: Did your life plans change? If so, how?

Kaila: My life plans haven't changed that much. My life plans have always been to be successful and happy in all that I do. COVID-19 will not stop me from succeeding and being happy although it has changed many of my plans that just means that I have to create new ones.

Morgan: My life plans have definitely changed during this time. I have had time to think about my future and my career path. Now I am considering junior college before going to a 4-year college because it will be more cost effective.

Question #6: How confident are you that you will still achieve greatness in the midst of all the setbacks?

Kaila: I am very confident that I will achieve greatness in the midst of all these seatbacks because I believe and tell myself that great things are to come. I fully believe that God has a plan and that we will be ok.

Morgan: I am definitely confident that I will still achieve greatness because if I can make it through this, I can make it through anything.

Kaila and Morgan, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your willingness to open up and be vulnerable. I have definitely learned a lot from both of you, and I look forward to watching you continue to grow!

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COVID-19 and

PARENTING

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Parenting is undoubtedly the hardest job that anyone can have - even without everything out of the ordinary that has occurred this year. As I sit and think about the negative stigma associated with the title “Stay-at-Home Mom,” I can’t help but feel a little guilty for once feeling that “Stay-at-Home Moms” were lucky. Well, let me tell you something. This pandemic has completely changed the way I think about parenting. Don’t get me wrong, I am not new at this parenting stuff since my oldest child is almost sixteen. However, no amount of experience could have prepared me for how much my parenting style would have to change. It took me a while to accept the fact that the state of this world was out of my control, but here we are - adjusted and well for the most part.

I decided to ask two of my siblings (some of my favorite people in the world) how this pandemic has directly affected them. Specifically, I wanted to know how their parenting has changed. Take a look at our conversation.

1. What were your initial thoughts when COVID-19 hit?

Mercedes: I thought that it was something that was being over exaggerated and not as serious as they were saying it would be. On the other hand, I was also concerned because if it was serious, I knew many people I know could be negatively impacted by it.

Michael: Initially, I honestly didn’t think much of the novel coronavirus, now known as COVID – 19, due to how it evolves in the body once contracted. I’d say this is so because the initial reports of this coronavirus came out of a province in China, which is half way around the world, so I wasn’t really concerned about being affected by it at all.

And even after the first reports came out that there were some positive cases in the US, I still was not concerned or didn’t give a second thought to how this was about to influence life as we knew it. I had of a lack of knowledge about the severity, or at least the unwillingness of the people with the knowledge to be transparent with dispelling information that would be relevant for taking it as serious as we now know that it should be taken.

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2. How has the pandemic affected you directly?

Mercedes: My job has remained open but some staff has been furloughed and salaries have been reduced. I had to readjust my budget and cut back on unnecessary things that we are used to having and doing.

We had to cancel our annual summer vacations as well. We generally take a weeklong vacation and a couple mini-vacations while the kids are out of school. Unfortunately, and to the dismay of the kids and adults alike, we are unable to have any sort of vacation whatsoever. Even if we could, my husband is restricted in what he can do because he is in the Navy, so we would have to do everything without him.

I have also been unable to see my family because my dad is at great risk for contracting the virus and possibly dying from it. I have been unable to quarantine due to work, so I do not want to chance getting him sick if we visit. I have never gone this long without seeing my family and it is tough for me and my kids who look forward to our roads trips to see our family.

Michael: I do my best to take an approach of gratitude in my everyday life, and that has not changed. But this pandemic has definitely made me become more aware of small things that are overlooked often times, as I have seen some direct effects of life in our ‘new normal.’ I could expound greatly on how I have been affected directly, with many examples, but I’ll magnify 2 ways in particular, one being a dramatic reduction in human interaction, and the other being a significant loss in earnings and the ability to continue on the path that I was on to continue to make progress in life. And these two things, for me, are almost interchangeable. Let me explain…

I had the privilege of operating my own business within a federal government building where I interacted with customers constantly. Now, I say customers, but some of these people became friends – people who I developed affinities for, and who returned that affinity towards me. The privilege to build relationships with people in that why is rewarding beyond what I can accurately describe in words, and yet I now know that I took that for granted, feeling like my life was meant for so much more. I was rich though, extremely so, in the aspect of having genuine human connections that cannot be mirrored over phone calls,

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FaceTime calls, zoom meetings, and especially not texting. Lesson learned. Introspectively, genuine connections are to be cherished, life teaches us this all too often. Being out of that business now only exacerbates the things that I miss most, the things I took for granted, because my main source of income was taken away as well. However, that is nothing different from what many other people are experiencing during these times that have become an anomaly.

3. How did you explain all the changes to your children?

Mercedes: I let my kids know that in order to keep our family safe, we would not be able to do certain things right now. I explained that we might not know if we encounter someone who has the virus or who has been exposed to the virus. My oldest daughter was worried about school and I have been trying to reassure her that we will try to make learning fun and that she will still learn what she needs to do so she won’t fall behind. She was also sad about not being able to see her friends but I explained that we need to keep our distance so they can all be safe.

Michael: My child is now 15, 14 at the time schools were closed. At first, I, along with many other parents with school aged children were not in anticipation of the entirety of the remainder of the school year would be completed from home; I did have some life advice for my daughter though once that was known. I imparted to her that change is constant in life, and the people who ultimately do well consistently are those that can adapt to change with as much grace as possible. I encouraged her not to get discouraged and continue to work hard and get as much as she could out of the remainder of the school year. Having that taken away, even briefly could have lingering effects, especially for an athlete like my daughter, who also had sports taken away. I see it as adversity though, and for this generation of school-aged children, I believe it will make them more resilient, more ready to adapt to change, once they are taking on the world and chasing their dreams.

4. Do you think the pandemic slowed you down on your path to greatness?

Mercedes: I do not think the pandemic has slowed me down on my path to greatness, I think it has caused me to take a much needed pause to look at what I have accomplished. It has also caused me to reevaluate my plans to reach my goals and greatness. We don’t always take the time we need to adequately prepare and plan to reach our goals. I think the pandemic has positively influenced me in allowing me the time to be still and make necessary adjustments in order to succeed.

Michael: This is a tricky question to answer outright, and I say that because from what I understand about life to this point in mine is that no matter how many of the right choices we feel like we make, sometimes the results still won’t look like what we envisioned. So no, I do not believe this has slowed me down on my path. Maybe it caused a necessity to detour a little, or change destinations all together, but with the proper will and determination, mixed with focused actions toward whatever destination you have in sight, with breath of life in your lungs, things can still be achieved.

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Into the Darkness

Out of the Darkness

The Darkness Acknowledge the Darkness and Move On

Written by: Marquita Antoineรก Editor-in Chief

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In my book “The New Mind,” winter represents darkness in thought or prolonged sadness, and a time of mental cleansing in order to make space for more positive things to blossom in the springtime. One of the pieces in this section of the book is called “Into the Darkness.” It reads: Into the darkness because darkness is comfortable Into the darkness because darkness is the usual Into the darkness because darkness is real Into the darkness because it's what I feel Unable to express what's really inside out of fear of what others may think When what I truly feel is like a permanent blink Some can't see clearly; I choose not to see at all.

Careless, withdrawn, and detached; my world just became so small.

Don't need to be watched just pray for me please; don't want to talk about it or cause a scene.

As always, I will be ok eventually But there's no need to come into the darkness with me In the darkness is safe for me. The darkness is peace just different than yours.

No confusion for me in this place because you can't see the scars and sores.

I'm fine right here alone in the darkness.

As a response to that dark-minded thought process, I decided to sit down and dig a little deeper. There is so much that can happen as a result of positivity. Here is that response: I’m at the point in my life where I realize that my “usual” won’t do...

My usual negative disposition that always leaves me blue.

I have come to the realization that the comfort I once found in darkness was nothing more than a mental block to protect my heart from the pain I would inevitability experience on the way to the light.

I have learned to openly express myself regardless of what those around me might say, think, or feel.

I have allowed myself to heal and no matter what I’m gonna be real, with myself.

The choice I made to be blinded by negativity and pain was ironically keeping me stuck out in the rain.

If I never chose to address the hurt, I would never be able to truly enjoy the sunshine.

Been living in the comfort of my own darkness The tunnel has been dreary and long Time to step out of my comfort zone and into the light It’s time to sing a new song, A song of hope.

Of course my days won’t always be perfect But my mood will no longer be dictated by circumstances I will keep my eyes open letting the light inside I will open up my heart and take more chances I will come out of the darkness and enjoy the ride.

I’m ready for the light.

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Motherhood At A Time Like This

Written By Deniesha Pratt Business Owner/Master's Degree Student 29

According to The New York Times (2020), the first reported case of the Coronavirus (COVID19), in the United States was on January 20, 2020. Little did I know life as I’ve known it, would soon change drastically. I must admit, initially, I was one of those people saying, “Ah it’s not that serious”, especially with the virus being compared to the Flu. I’ve had the flu before and although I was “Man Down”, I recovered within a week. I figured it would be just like Ebola in 2014, here and suddenly gone. The media is good at “Agenda Setting” – telling us what to think about instead of what to think. I did not realize how serious the virus was until it caused the NFL and NBA shut down. Do you know how much money that is?

HA! In all seriousness though, once it was declared a pandemic and state officials began implementing stay at home orders, I got a little worried.

That meant kids would begin attending school remotely, and non-essential employees would work from home, or worse, lose their job. I have always wanted the luxury of working from home to allow me more flexibility and time with my family, but not under these circumstances. I am, however, grateful my employer afforded me this opportunity instead of letting us go.

With my already full plate as a wife, mother of 2, full-time employee, small business owner, and a full-time student, I involuntarily also became a teacher in the blink of an eye. I have a 5th grader and a 1st grader, and let me tell you, I am NOT smarter than a 5th grader.

Whose idea was it for students to learn Common Core Math? Working from home and assisting my children with distance learning was a challenge; however, surprisingly both my children adjusted fairly well. My daughter, Dylan, who is my 1st grader, was able to adapt

to this new way of learning a little quicker than my son, Larry, learns. Dylan only attended twice a week, and she didn’t have as many classes as Larry. I think she struggled mostly with missing her friends. Larry, on the other hand, had a little more difficulty adapting to these sudden changes. Larry has Autism, a complex, lifelong developmental disability that typically appears during early childhood and can impact a person's social skills, communication, relationships, and selfregulation. That said, if you are familiar with the disability, you know many people on the spectrum like to have a routine, and when that routine is broken it can be hard for them to process. When we initially started, some mornings it would be a struggle just to get him to the computer. Once there, although he was physically present he was mentally zoned out. It was as if I could not get him to focus. Nevertheless, as time went on and he had processed distance learning as his new normal he excelled and performed like he was physically back in the classroom among his peers. I am really proud of them both and look forward to the new school year, whatever that may look like.

I could probably go on and on about how this virus has affected my family and our day to day, but I am sure you understand. They said we would get a second wave; I hope they are wrong. I wonder if life will ever be “normal” again. Stay safe and be blessed.

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Grieving During COVID Written By Ceci Taliaferro Daycare Owner / Inspirational Speaker 31

The COVID-19 Pandemic – Wow! What does each person think and feel when they think of COVID19? We all have had an experience that will cause us to be forever changed. Many carry emotional stress as a result of their faith being tested. Others carry devastation because of their financial hardships. Still others are overwhelmed with the thought of leaving their houses from fear of contracting the virus. Unfortunately, for many, it is the loss of someone special and important in their lives. You know – someone who fought the good fight, but did not win his or her battle with COVID-19. Eventually, succumbing to this disease and becoming a national and global number. To those who loved them, they are a mother, father, sister, brother, aunt, uncle, neighbor and friend. I have had the misfortune of knowing five people that had the unfortunate battle with COVID-19. On March 28, 2020, one of them lost his battle at the age of 71.

Eastern Stewart Jr., known by most as “Stu,” was not a number. He was a loving husband, father, brother, grandfather, mentor, and friend. To me, he was a friend, brother and father. He was my “Birthday Buddy”. As we have just passed July 23rd (my birthday) and July 24th (Stu’s birthday), I think of how my birthday celebration, like most, will be impacted by COVID-19. But for me, celebrating will never be the same. Every year on July 23rd, Stu, Wanda (his wife), and I would go out to a different casino. We would play the slot machines, have lunch, and celebrate our birthdays together. Wanda and Stu were married, but they never made me feel like a third wheel. They always invited me, and if she and I went out, he would come along as well. They were old enough to be my parents, yet very young at heart.

I met Wanda 14 years ago in a nail salon, and she invited me on a bus trip to Atlantic City. That would be the day I met Stu. Wanda and I became fast friends and soon we felt like sisters and mother/daughter. So naturally, Stu would quickly become like a brother and father, as well as a friend. Over the years, I would learn just how special to my life they would both become.

Stu was a native of New Orleans. He served 20 years in the Air Force. He was a member of the Shriners; a fraternal organization that is a part of the Freemasonry (runs the Children’s Hospitals).

Stu loved kids! He became the adoptive grandfather to my children, and they called him Grandpa Stu. He had a lot of love to go around when it came to children. One controversial thing about Stu living in the Washington, DC area was his love for the Dallas Cowboys. What bravery living in Redskins territory!

Stu and Wanda spent retirement traveling. They were inseparable. They had a date every Friday at 3:00 pm. She was definitely spoiled. He drove her everywhere! Bought her gifts. Treated her like a queen. They frequented balls, parties and countless events. They loved to dress up. He was a sharp dresser and she, beautiful and sassy. They would always match each other’s outfits when they went out.

On March 5, 2020, Stu was not feeling well. It would be a week before he would go to see his doctor.

He was given antibiotics and sent home. Days went by and he became worse, unaware of just how

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much danger he was really in. He developed a fever and a nasty cough. Wanda took him to the hospital.

This time, he was admitted and tested positive for COVID-19. He responded to treatment, so he was released and sent home.

On Sunday, March 23, Wanda called to let me know that Stu had a special request. He wanted orange sherbet. Now at this point, everyone was terrified of COVID-19, terrified of the unknown – exactly how we could get it or how long it lingered in the air, etc. I made the decision to go out anyway and search for his orange sherbet. I went to three stores before I found anything close to it. As we all know, the grocery stores were bare during this time.

I placed the ice cream outside of the front door. I am happy to know that Stu enjoyed his orange sherbet. You see, it literally was a dying man’s last request. The next day, Stu was struggling to breathe, but he refused to go back to the hospital. The day after, still struggling to breathe, he still did not want to go back. I am sure that he was in disbelief that this thing called COVID-19 would end up killing him.

Wanda really had to convince him that he needed to return. This was Wednesday, March 25.

Wanda put Stu in the car and drove him back to the hospital. During this time, there was pandemonium at the hospitals, and she was not allowed to accompany him. She had to leave the love of her life at the entrance of the hospital and watch them wheel him away. It would be the last conversation they would ever have. Soon after, the hospital physician called to let her know that Stu was placed on a ventilator called her. The next day, his heart stopped, but he was revived. On March 27, Wanda was called in to say goodbye to her best friend, her boo, her love. From behind a glass, she told him that she was there. The kind of love that these two had was not like most. I believe that he knew that she was there and he felt that he could let go of his battle and suffering.

On Saturday, March 28, 2020, Eastern Steward, Jr. passed away from COVID-19. When Wanda called me, I could feel it before she spoke it. When I hung up the phone, I sat in my vehicle and cried. I was shocked. How could this be! How is it that just days ago, I was running around town to find him sherbet ice cream expecting him to recover? Now I listen to my friend on the phone, alone and heartbroken.

Trying to process this horrible event and not being able to comfort her was nearly unbearable. You see, NO ONE could go inside of her home because she now had to quarantine because of Stu. So now, you have someone you love, grieving and processing it alone. How horrible can this be?! I felt so helpless. To not be able to put my arms around her and let her cry or scream! No one should have to be alone to deal with such news. COVID-19 has truly changed the face of how we grieve, how we support those who are grieving, and how we lay our loved ones to rest.

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able to say goodbye was the hardest. For fear of contracting and spreading COVID-19, there were only 10 people allowed at a time for his viewing. That included the funeral home staff. On the day of his funeral, we had to line the road outside of the fence at the cemetery with our hazard lights on. It seemed like an eternity waiting for the hearse to drive past to enter the gates of the veteran’s cemetery. There was no 21-gun salute. Just two service members, a folded flag and Wanda driving back out of the gate. All in the name of social distancing.

Grief during COVID-19 is nothing like anything anyone has ever experienced. For the most part, she had to endure that alone, well at least physically alone. No one could sit with, hug her, or comfort her for 14 days as she was quarantined in loneliness. It may take a long time for any of us to fully process these events and the loss of our loved ones. I am a believer that no matter how dark a situation, you can choose to see the light ahead. I am happy to say that Wanda did not test positive for COVID-19. I have spent this time helping her through her grief and redirecting her energy to all of the beautiful memories that they have shared. Encouraging her to remember all of the joy that filled their lives together. To be grateful for her own life having been the caregiver for someone with COVID-19. I am grateful that I did not lose them both. Farewell “Birthday Buddy.� You are deeply missed. You will never be just a number.

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A Note

Written by Kristie Clark Elementary School Principal 35

When I initially heard about COVID-19, I thought this was a virus similar to the various versions of the flu that have surfaced over the last few years. I thought it would be around during flu season and then go away like they all did. Even when school was out for the initial two weeks, I was thinking, “They just need to thoroughly clean the school, then we will be back.”. As time went on, I soon realized that we were really in a pandemic…a state of emergency. Then I went into panic mode.

At first I was paranoid about me and/or a member of my family catching the virus. I constantly cleaned and sprayed Lysol on doorknobs and handrails, each time anyone left the house and came back. I was nervous when going into grocery stores to get essential items and felt contaminated when I returned home. I watched the news several times a day hoping the number of coronavirus cases would go down but they continued to climb. I finally settled down after a couple of people that I know survived after having the virus. Eventually, the numbers started going down and the Maryland area began to open back up little by little. Still today, I’m nervous leaving my home to go to work or run errands. But I use all of the recommended safety precautions to ensure my chances for contracting the virus are slim to none.

I am a Principal of an elementary school in Bowie, MD. I have been in the field of education for 18 years. I have 7 years teaching experience and 11 years in various leadership positions in this field.

This fall will begin my 5th year as a principal. Prior to this field, I was in the Information Technology field for 9 years.

I am proud to be an African American female Principal during this time of COVID and social justice reform. This platform allows me to ensure equity in education and continue important conversations with my staff and community. My school district is engaging in a system-wide book study with the book Biased, written by Jennifer L. Eberhardt, PhD. I decided to facilitate a book study at my school, utilizing the same book. The basic premise of this reading reveals to each of us that we all carry biases based on our own personal experiences and upbringing. These biases shape what we see, think, and do. Having my staff engage in this conversation will ultimately impact the children we serve.

The pandemic did not slow me down on my path to greatness. In fact, it’s caused me to stretch my thinking and become more creative in how I engage with my school community. I’ve always wanted a technology driven school and COVID has allowed this to happen. My teachers embraced the use of technology to engage students in learning, my parents are more involved in their child’s education, and we have experienced school-wide perfect attendance for the first time ever. Even though the pandemic has slowed society down, I believe the education realm stepped up their game.

My personal life changed tremendously because of COVID. My youngest son plays basketball for a local AAU travel team. We were scheduled to go out of town eight times between March

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and July. All tournaments and practices were cancelled, which left a big hole in our schedule of weekly practices and games on the weekend. At first, we were thankful for a break from the constant running around. After a few weeks, it finally hit us that we didn’t have any weekend plans for the foreseeable future. The blessing in all of this was quality family time with my husband and three children. We have enjoyed sit down dinners, playing games, walks around the neighborhood, and finally getting rid of clutter. So in some ways we were sad that the basketball season ended early, but in other ways, my family is closer now than we have ever been. COVID has been a blessing in disguise.

With plans for the fall of full distance learning for my students through January 29th, I am busy with my school leadership team trying to figure out new processes and procedures. In some respects it’s exciting because we are embarking on new territory. In other ways the fear of the unknown can be unsettling. Nevertheless, we will rise to the occasion and do what needs to be done to educate our children.

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Written By Monique Somerville Playwright 38

By now, everyone knows that the Corona Virus (COVID-19) forced the entire world into a pandemic and caused us to be quarantined. Being quarantined gave me time to sit and reflect on so many things, most importantly the 10 commandments in the Bible. People have been somewhat forced to live more consciously, to live more cautiously, to live better. Allow me to take a moment of your time to expound upon the commandments with hopes of providing insight and enlightenment in this time of darkness and uncertainty.

1 - “Thou shall have no other Gods before me.”

The US had given Trump too much power. COVID-19 shut down everything. Perhaps we should see this as a reminder that even money has less power than God. 2 - “Thou shall not make unto thee any graven image or idols.“ The world’s leaders (US, China, etc.) thought that they were untouchable. It seemed as if they thought they ruled the world. However, the pandemic lets us all know who the true ruler of this world really is.

3 - “Thou shall not take the name of thou God in vain.”

People were using the words “Goddamn President” so frequently it became a part of his name.

We must remember not to use God’s name in vain, no matter what the reason.

4 - “Remember the Sabbath day and keep it Holy.”

According to most Christina teachings, Sunday is supposed to be a day of rest. However, money has allowed people to forget both this commandment and the terrible effects of COVID-19.

Churches have become big businesses, and Sunday is far from holy. I remember a time when nothing was even open on Sundays. We would go to church then spend time with family. In recent history, though, shopping malls and businesses have begun being open on Sundays, with employers are making Sundays a part of their regular schedules. Sunday has become a day for laundry, grocery shopping, sleeping late, etc. But God shut down everything, including the churches.

5 - “Honor thy father and thy mother.”

The quarantine forced some people to be with their parents 24/7. Others were forced to miss their parents, and reflect on their childhoods. All-in-all, the pandemic has helped to bring families back together by reminding us all what is important in life.

6- “Thou shall not kill.”

Across the country, the murder rate decreased due to the quarantine – at least at the beginning, that is. Then the world watched the police murder George Floyd, and at that point the entire world knew and felt his pain. God said it’s time for a drastic change.

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7 - “Thou shall not commit adultery.”

The quarantine forced husbands and wives to spend more time together, and to be more accountable for their time away from home. In many cases, excuses within couples have become a thing of the past - “I had to work late” was no longer a plausible reason to be outside of the home. People had to begin being honest about everything with their significant others.

8 - “Thou shall not steal.”

With stores all shut down, there were fewer places to steal from. People were home more, so home burglaries were at an all-time low. This fact, however, does not include the rioting and looting that has been taking place across the country. That is a whole different set of statistics, and a story for another day.

9 - “Thou shall not bear false witness against thy neighbor.”

Love thy neighbor! The Black Lives Matter Movement is finally getting the attention it deserves through protesting, revamping police departments, laws being changed, and racism being called out all over the world. Communities rallied together in unity for justice. Even during the pandemic, where lives could be at stake, people continue to come together to stand against injustice. Such a beautiful site!

10 - “Though shall not covet.”

The pandemic made all of man equal. It didn’t matter If you were a celebrity, a millionaire, homeless or an ordinary person, your money nor your status meant anything. We all had the same fear of the unseen and the unknown. We all lost some loved ones, friends, or family members. Parents were forced to become teachers when schools were closed. The extra time spent at home forced parents to learn more about who their children are. We all found our true friendships. We were forced to confront our addictions – no more running and hiding them. Most importantly, we began to pray together for one another and for this world.

Some call it Corona Virus, some say COVID-19, some say the pandemic, but I say it was all God! And I thank him for it – the good, the bad, and the ugly. If nothing else, this time has made me draw closer to my Lord and Savior.

The Time for Change is NOW!!!

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Expect the Unexpeted

Written By Mercedes Culpepper Attorney-at-Law

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I honestly did not know what to expect when I married my husband, who is an enlisted sailor in the United States Navy. I was illequipped to deal with the reality of what it means to be a military spouse. Being a military spouse is harder than I ever thought it would be. It is one of the hardest things I have had to deal with in my life. Needless to say, I have learned to expect the unexpected.

I mean, I knew it would be challenging with my husband being away on deployments for extended periods of time. I knew I would not see my family everyday or at least every weekend like I was used to due to my husband receiving different orders. I knew I would have to move somewhere without knowing anyone. I knew these things would be inevitable.

On my husband’s first deployment in 2013, I was away from home for the first time with a one-year-old daughter. I did not know anyone and I did not know the area where we had moved to a couple months prior to his departure. I left everyone and everything I knew behind. Even though I was only a few hours away from my family, I felt isolated and alone. So, I drove back and forth to Maryland many times to stay sane. He was gone for 9 months that time. He returned home the day before our daughter’s second birthday.

Even when he returned home, he was in and out for a week, or a few weeks, at a time doing work-ups. This is the process where the ship is evaluated, repaired and prepared for the next deployment. He was “home” but not really. As soon as we got into a rhythm, he was gone again. Then we got used to him being gone and he was back home. This was the cycle that kept going on and on for months. Then he left ..

again on another deployment. This one was only supposed to be for 7 months, but it was extended to about 8 and a half months.

However, this deployment was different and a little more bearable. I was now working at a place where my daughter could go with me. I did not have to worry about her being in daycare and the fears that come with that. I knew a few people from work and they became friends. I still travelled back and forth to Maryland on the weekends, but the time passed much easier. I even took the Virginia bar and passed while he was gone! Needless to say, I was able to cope much better while my husband was gone fighting for our freedom.

COVID-19 has brought a new level of challenges as a military spouse. Even though the states have certain phases on when certain businesses may reopen and what people are allowed to do, the Navy has its own restrictions. My husband cannot be in groups of more than 10 people or travel more than 50 miles from home. Since both of our families are out-of-state, we have not seen them in months. If the Navy finds out that he has done anything not allowed, he can get into serious trouble.

And while they do not have control over me, they strongly encourage the spouses and families to abide by their rules as well. So I can travel or gather with people if I want, but will have to do so without my husband. This means that we will not be able to do anything this summer- no weekend trips to Maryland, no amusement park road trips, no week-long summer vacation. States are opening up but the military says No! Such is the life of a military spouse.

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Take a moment to think about the feeling you get when you look up at the night sky. Do you feel in awe? Do you feel at peace? Do you feel refreshed?

For me, it’s all of the above. For me, the stars represent hope and light in the darkness. For me, looking up at the night sky and seeing stars represents finding the good within the bad or the uncertain. But there’s just one problem with these huge, magical, celestial balls off in the distance - they can only be seen in the dark.

So, just like the image implies, embrace the darkness. Use the darkness (or mental/emotional shortcomings) as motivation to do more, be more, be better. Dream bigger and never forget to reach for the stars.

Remember, you are a star. You will shine your brightest when it’s completely dark around you. Shine bright my friend!

-Marquita Antoineá

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Meet the Authors

Talecia Frazier is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who is trauma informed, and is experienced working with clients to process and heal from trauma. She also has experience working with clients that present with anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral issues, relationship conflict, stress and anger management, self-esteem issues, mood stability, and psychotic disorders. My goal for my clients is to guide them towards Hope, Happiness, and Healing through selfexploration, analyzing thoughts and beliefs, and making positive behavioral changes.

Talecia is a Rehabilitation Specialist for a Psychiatric Rehabilitation Program, supervising Direct Care Staff. She is also a therapist at both a mental health clinic and for her very own private practice - Guided Journeys, LLC, in Lanham, MD.

Email: guidedjourneysllc@gmail.com

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Benita Henderson, a “closet writer for years, has devoted her life to her family. She is a proud wife, mother of four, and grandmother of ten. She has always believed that following your dreams is of the utmost importance, and she proved this when she received her Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration at the age of 50. Her newest feat becoming a published author has given her a newfound hope that she will be able to continue her mission of expressing her love for God through her writing. She considers herself to be an encourager to all. There is a silver lining behind every cloud.

Aside from the importance of family and education, Benita also values honesty, love, peace, spirituality, and friendship. To know her is to love her. In her book "From the Depths of My Soul," Benita allows readers to take a glimpse into her life by sharing some of her innermost thoughts in journal-style snippets each complete with vulnerability and humility.

Benita is sure to be a promising author as she succeeds at whatever she puts her mind to.

Email: mommy_girl_421@gmail.com

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Monique Somerville is a 56-year-old mother of 2 young women, Paris and Unique. She has 1 daughter-n-law, Jasmine(Paris) and 4 grandchildren. She is the writer and director of 5 gospel plays.

She also has a collection of spoken word and poetry not yet published. Monique comes from a very talented family of 10 children - 9 of which are girls. She enjoys laughter, music, dancing, traveling, sports and family. She is a lover of all people but her first love is that of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ .

Email: msomerville118@gmail.com

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Ceci Taliaferro is a native of Washington, DC, a 55 year old mother of five and grandmother of four. She is an author, inspirational speaker and daycare owner. She is currently producing new oral and written content for future release. Ceci’s gift of transparency allows her audience to connect with her and obtain encouragement and hope to transform their lives. Her hope is that they will walk away inspired with an understanding that they are enough and to live life big, without fear or limits.

Email: ceci.taliaferro@gmail.com

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Deniesha Pratt was born in New Rochelle, NY and raised in Prince George’s County, MD. She is a wife to a supportive husband and mother to, two amazing children. She is currently pursuing her masters degree in Digital Forensics and Cyber Security, while also running Dream A Little Slumber Parties, a slumber party service catering to children and adults. In her free time, she loves spending time with her family, traveling, and doing all things creative.

Website: www.dreamalittleslumberparties.com

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Kristie Clark was born and raised in Washington, D.C. and is a loving wife, mother, sister, and friend.

She earned a B.S. in Information Systems and Decision Sciences from Virginia State University in 1993, an M.S.A. in Software Engineering from Central Michigan University in 1995, and an M.S. in Educational Leadership and Administration from Capella University in 2012. She will receive her Doctorate of Education from Walden University in 2021. Kristie is the principal of Kenilworth Elementary School in Bowie, MD. She began her career as a teacher. She joined Prince George’s County Public Schools (PGCPS) in 2007 in neighboring school districts in 2002, where she engaged in many roles such as Teacher, Test Coordinator, PBIS Coordinator, PBIS Coach, School Planning Management Team Chair, Extended Learning Opportunity Coordinator, Technology Curriculum Writer for PGCPS Middle Schools, and Assistant Principal of Dwight D. Eisenhower and Thomas G. Pullen Academy, prior to her appointment as Principal of Kenilworth Elementary School. During the 2015-2016 school year, Mrs. Clark was selected to participate in the Maryland State Department of Education’s Aspiring Principal’s program and Prince George’s County Public Schools’ Aspiring Leaders Program for Student Success. Lastly, in 2018 Kristie became a trained facilitator in PGCPS for Mindset Change, created by The Arbinger Institute. In her free time, Kristie enjoys spending time with family, real estate, and party planning.

Email: kristieclark49@gmail.com

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Mercedes Culpepper was born and raised in Prince George's County to very loving parents. She is now the wife of a sailor and the proud mother of two sweet little girls. From the time she was a child, Mercedes always knew that she wanted to become a lawyer, and she stuck with that plan. She earned a Bachelor's Degree in Political Science from University of Maryland, Baltimore County in 2009. Right on track with her life's plan, she went straight to law school at the University of Baltimore, where she received her law degree in 2012. Mercedes is now barred in two states: Maryland and Virginia. She has high hopes of one day becoming a Supreme Court Justice.

Email: mercedes.culpepper@yahoo.com

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Marquita Antoineå was born and raised in Prince George’s County, MD. She is a single mother of three beautiful children and a two-time published author. For the majority of her life, Marquita has enjoyed helping other people in whatever way she can. Alongside her brother, in 2012, she co-founded The Just Dream Foundation, Ltd., a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering children, teens, and young adults through mentoring and tutoring.

Marquita has big dreams of owning her own literary agency one day where individuals will be able to learn creative writing skills and enhance story-telling capabilities. She has hopes of creating a platform for people everywhere to share their stories of strength and perseverance. Writing has always been a hobby for Marquita, but now she realizes that her writing is therapeutic and healing for both her and those around her. With this in mind, Marquita plans to continue writing for as long as she can.

Website: www.marquita-antoinea.com

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