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PARTNER SPOTLIGHT: JEWISHCOLORADO p. 4 CLIENT IMPACT: JFS WAS THERE FOR ME WHEN THE PANDEMIC STRUCK p. 6 CARES ACT: WHAT DONORS SHOULD KNOW
KIDS SUCCESS PREPARING FOR BACK TO SCHOOL KidSuccess is an innovative program in which trained JFS therapists work in Denver-area schools, providing children and adolescents access to quality counseling services.
p. 7 SUPPORTING HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS p. 8
THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOR IMMIGRANTS p. 3
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We know that sending kids back to school is a difficult decision for many parents, teachers, and administrators. As many schools start the year virtually, our KidSuccess therapists will be providing teletherapy and when possible in-person services. They had a lot to consider when creating a plan for safely returning to schools and meeting with students in person. The main priority is keeping staff, students, families, and teachers safe and healthy. Protocols have been put in place, and teletherapy services are an option if students or families are not comfortable meeting in person. Protocols include: • All therapists will be tested bi-weekly for COVID-19. • Masks and disinfectant will be provided to the therapists. • If an office is too small to social distance, sessions will be held in an alternate space or outside. • Removal of all toys and supplies that cannot be sanitized.
In the event that schools need to close due to the spread of COVID-19, our therapists are prepared to transition back to teletherapy services. They have talked to families about their technology capabilities, what devices they may need, and if they have an internet provider. If we find that a family is in need of technology, JFS will provide resources. Therapists provide services in 12 Denver Public Schools and one private school. Elementary Schools Ashley Elementary, Godsman Elementary, Gust Elementary, College View Elementary, Goldrick Elementary School, Samuels Elementary, Shoemaker Elementary International Schools IKS at Place Bridge Academy High Schools Thomas Jefferson School-based Health Clinic, George Washington High School, Colorado Charter High School – Osage, Colorado Charter High School – GES Private Schools Denver Academy of Torah To learn more about our mental health services for kids and adults, or to support these programs, visit jewishfamilyservice.org.
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We hope you and your loved ones remain safe and healthy during these challenging times. We have some program updates and announcements to share with you. As it is still not safe to gather in large groups, we have decided to move forward with the Faces of JFS event in a virtual format. The event will honor what JFS has accomplished during the COVID-19 pandemic. You will hear from clients and see the life-changing impact your generosity has made. We know we will continue to see the need for assistance evolve and increase as we recover in the upcoming year, and support from our donors is critical to continue to provide vital services for our community. We hope that you join us for this exciting virtual event on November 18 by sponsoring or purchasing tickets.
In March, we suspended the homemaker service provided by the Aging Care & Connections department. While these clients appreciated our calls and assistance during that time, they greatly missed and even struggled without their homemakers and the critical service they provided. After receiving pleas to restart services, we created a plan to safely reenter homes which included various measures to protect our clients and staff. We resumed the homemaker program in June. Not only do these older adults need their homes cleaned and their laundry done, but our homemakers play a valuable role in reducing social isolation and increasing social connectedness. The ACE: Arts and Community Exploration program and Supported
JEWISH COMMUNITY CHAPLAINCY PROGRAM Rabbi Rick Brody
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Employment Disability services resumed in-person programming with limited participants in July. Our team worked diligently to ensure safety precautions were in place for both participants and staff and met the Department of Health Care Policy & Finance guidelines. The staff had been providing virtual classes twice a day for those clients who could attend and had the technology. After much discussion, we decided that the benefits of opening our doors were important for our participants. Having a daily routine and social interaction improves the participant’s quality of life and can minimize behaviors that had surfaced during COVID-19 isolation. With the ever-changing times, we will continue to adjust our programs and services to meet the needs and do what is best for our community. Your unwavering support of JFS and our COVID-19 relief efforts have sustained the lives of so many in our community. We appreciate your ongoing commitment to JFS and those we serve—together we will get through this crisis. With warm regards,
Linda P. Foster President and CEO
Facing illness, death in the family, or other crisis and wanting support from a rabbi? We provide rabbinic pastoral care—in-person or remotely—to anyone needing it. Ask the chaplain team of your hospital, hospice, or other facility to contact us. Not in such settings? Reach out directly. Contact Rabbi Rick Brody, community chaplain, at rbrody@jewishfamilyservice.org or call 720.248.4647.
Provided more than
OVER THE LAST 21 WEEKS SINCE THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC BEGAN,
114,942 meals
JFS HAS:
Delivered
Utilized more than
4,130
5,205 hours
to kids living in food deserts
from volunteers
through our Emergency
helping to sort, pack,
Lunchbox Express program
and deliver food
Made
2,337 calls
Provided
2,198
meals to homebound
to older adults to keep
hours of job coaching
individuals and families
them supported and engaged
and employment services to individuals with disabilities
Provided more than
$434,024 in emergency
financial assistance to help 170 families throughout Colorado stay in their homes.
NONE OF THIS WOULD HAVE BEEN POSSIBLE WITHOUT YOUR DEDICATION
Provided
4,486
Distributed
12,216
teletherapy sessions
boxes of food, supplies,
for adults and children
and diapers at the Weinberg Food Pantry
AND SUPPORT.
THANK YOU! As of August 13
Join us for the Faces of JFS event on Wednesday, November 18, at 6:00 p.m. via YouTube Live. Safely gather your friends and family and join us from the comfort of your home as we share the impact we’ve had on the many Coloradans served by JFS during the pandemic and celebrate all of you who made it possible. All funds raised from the event will help us continue to provide vital services to individuals and families in need and help our community recover. Watch for the invitation and more information later this month. To view sponsorship levels and purchase tickets, visit jewishfamilyservice.org/faces.
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THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES
FOR IMMIGRANTS AND REFUGEES By Stacey Weisberg LPC, director of Mental Health Services
According to the UN Refugee Agency, there are more refugees and forcibly displaced migrants today, than at any other time in history. They need our help and support more than ever. Many individuals have sought shelter or a safer life here in America, but after crossing seas and borders, most immigrants and refugees still have a long way to go before they’ve fully adjusted to their new life. They’ve likely endured psychological trauma in the past, and as a new immigrant, they will likely face more in the future. Mental health providers play an enormous role in helping migrant children and families settle into their new communities and make sense of any challenges they may face. Many refugees need treatment to recover from physical abuse, untreated health conditions, trauma, stress, cultural demands, discrimination, fear, and uncertainty. Unfortunately, many immigrants who need mental health services the most are unable to access them due to financial limitations or language barriers. At Jewish Family Service, we provide accessible mental health services for underserved refugees who have settled in Colorado. We believe it’s vital that we
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come together to support displaced families during these trying times. The COVID-19 Pandemic and the Impact on Immigrants and Refugees Social distancing and general fears from the COVID-19 pandemic has led to a spike in anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Everyone should be prioritizing their psychological health and have easy access to counseling services and mental health treatment. Unfortunately, immigrants are uniquely vulnerable to the serious effects of this pandemic. It’s been estimated that roughly six million immigrant workers are manning the frontlines as delivery drivers, grocery store stockers, farmers, employees in meat-processing facilities, and more. Additionally, many do not have access to proper health care; unbiased, culturally and linguistically appropriate informational resources; and personal protective equipment. Jewish Family Service believes that mental health care isn’t just for the privileged–it should be for all who are struggling during this unprecedented time. COVID-19 has affected everyone, and we can’t forget that this includes migrant workers, immigrants, refugees, and others on the fringes of our society.
The Political Climate and What It Means for Immigrants Without taking any kind of political stance, we can confidently say that the current political climate has caused an immense amount of stress and anxiety amongst immigrants and refugees in America. Anti-immigration policies and rhetoric have negatively impacted undocumented (and documented) immigrants across America. People deal with a long-term fear of deportation, which often results in anxiety, depression, or even trauma-related stress. Precarious refugee mental health situations can stem from: • Missed sense of belonging. • Lack of cultural competency. • Broken families and missed loved ones. • Stigmas within the community. •H armful statements and news online, on social media, or on TV. • Stereotyping in person and online. •D iscrimination from neighbors and others. Roughly one in 10 Colorado residents is an immigrant. Chances are, someone you know is directly impacted by immigrant policies and news. If you sense that someone you know may be struggling, encourage them to seek professional help by contacting us.
Transitioning into a New Culture Can Be Challenging Moving to a new country is hard no matter what your circumstances may be, but it can be especially fear-inducing and challenging for immigrants and refugees. Adults and children alike may need help adjusting to America once they arrive. Whether they’re experiencing culture shock, language barriers, or just general emotional anxiety upon arrival, it’s important that they have access to quality mental health services to get them through the transition. It’s extremely common for parents’ fears and uncertainties, as well as children’s stressful personal lives, to lead to unhealthy mental states and potential psychological trauma.
Children who have been affected by the family separation policy may also be dealing with acute psychological, social, and health problems. These juveniles likely require high-level mental health treatment from trained psychologists to move forward and acclimate well to their new home. At Jewish Family Service, we’re doing all we can to support immigrant and refugee mental health during this chaotic time. We offer teletherapy for people of all ages, both in and outside of the Denver area. Our staff is highly skilled and culturally aware, and they specialize in treating people from diverse backgrounds with mental health needs. Our long-term goal is to strengthen our community by providing vital services to vulnerable individuals and families.
Roughly one in 10 Colorado residents is an immigrant. Chances are, someone you know is directly impacted by immigrant policies and news. If you sense that someone you know may be struggling, encourage them to seek professional help by contacting us. If you or someone you know is experiencing stress or trauma and would like to speak to a mental health professional, contact us at centralintake@ jewishfamilyservice.org or 720.248.4701.
PARTNER SPOTLIGHT: JEWISHCOLORADO
JEWISHcolorado has been a generous partner of JFS for many years, and currently supports the chaplaincy program and the operation of the Kosher Meals program. Through their COVID-19 Community Response Fund, they have provided $147,500 in vital funding for the JFS Weinberg Food Pantry and emergency financial assistance for the Jewish community to prevent homelessness across Colorado. JFS has also received $80,000 from extremely generous JEWISHcolorado Donor Advised Fund holders to support our COVID-19 relief efforts. The services we have provided during the pandemic would not be possible without their incredible support.
“JEWISHcolorado is and always has been committed to strengthening, supporting, and sustaining the Colorado Jewish community,” says Rabbi Jay Strear, JEWISHcolorado president & CEO. “When we began to see normal life curtailed by the initial spread of COVID-19 in Colorado, we anticipated that the needs of that community would grow as the pandemic—and its fallout— would, and we responded quickly.” The initial allocations focused on the most vulnerable in the community, including support for our financial assistance program and the Weinberg Food Pantry, and to cover the cost of essential goods for Kavod Senior Life and Shalom Park residents. JEWISHcolorado has continued to support the financial assistance program at JFS while allocating funds to
support institutional continuity for other sectors integral to Jewish life in Colorado. Among the institutions to which they provided support were summer camps that were either unable to open or operating at limited capacity and early childhood education centers preparing to open their doors to students this fall at limited capacities. “In times of crisis, we are proud to be in a position to coordinate the community’s efforts to provide for those most in need,” says Rabbi Strear. “Such efforts are most effective with strong partners like JFS. JEWISHcolorado is grateful for the opportunity to work closely with JFS to help so many who have faced difficult circumstances during the pandemic, ensuring that they do not go hungry or without access to medicine or lose their home.”
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Para-chaplains Offer Services Virtually COVID-19 has increased the effects of isolation that residents of older adult living communities feel. Our volunteer para-chaplains normally provide the in-person High Holy Day services that help to connect Jewish residents to the Jewish community. Because older adult living communities remain closed to visitors and volunteers, JFS para-chaplains met virtually and came up with a creative solution to this situation. In collaboration with JFS’ community chaplain Rabbi Rick Brody, the parachaplains and several community rabbis and cantors recorded a video which is a combination Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur video service that will be shared widely with countless communities throughout Colorado. If you or someone you know are interested in viewing this video, please contact volunteer@jewishfamilyservice.org.
CELEBRATING THE HIGH HOLY DAYS
Making the High Holy Days Sweet for Boulder Residents Boulder JFS will be delivering two High Holy Day food boxes to older adults throughout the Boulder community on Thursday, September 17 for Rosh Hashanah, and Thursday, September 24 for Yom Kippur Break the Fast. The Rosh Hashanah goodie box will have a freshly baked “mini” crown challah and honey cake, local organic honey, organic apples, LED candles and grape juice. The Break the Fast bag will have traditional kosher style cookies, mini bagels, cream cheese, and apple juice. Thank you to everyone who donated funds to fill the boxes and to our amazing volunteers for packing and distributing the boxes!
ABBY’S IMPACT: REALIZING RESILIENCE We’re happy to announce that Abby’s Impact: Realizing Resilience, launched on August 4 with three virtual classes, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Living in a Virtual World, and Career Launchpad. The program is currently taking place virtually, but when it is safe, we will offer in-person classes. Abby’s Impact is a client-centered, integrated program for young adults ages 18-26 that builds skills to facilitate resiliency and foster healthy minds. In addition to a series of six classes, participants also work with coaches for in-depth support they need to cope and function despite adversity or trauma. If you would like to learn more about this program or have friends or family members who may be interested in participating, visit jewishfamilyservice.org/services/abbys-impact.
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JFS WAS THERE FOR ME WHEN THE PANDEMIC STRUCK Candace Epperson moved to Denver in 2018 for a fresh start after her divorce. An experienced teacher, she found employment as a substitute for Denver Public Schools and local childcare centers. Since she moved to Colorado, everything was lining up for a smooth transition… until March 12, when schools were forced to close due to COVID-19. Teachers were working remotely, and substitutes were no longer needed.
All of a sudden I’m out of work, living in a new place with no family, and I panicked.
“Every resource and contact led to someone else helping me, and I’m so grateful,” says Candace.
—CANDACE EPPERSON
Candace applied for unemployment, but the system was overburdened, and she didn’t get the money in time to pay her rent. She wasn’t sure where to turn for help, as she’d never needed it before. “All of a sudden I’m out of work, living in a new place with no family, and I panicked,” Candace explains. “In Los Angeles, I worked for some large Jewish preschools and was familiar and comfortable with the Jewish community. I went to the source I knew and contacted Jewish Family Service.” She met with Mitch, a Family Safety Net case manager, and received rent and utility assistance, food from the pantry, and many helpful community resources.
Candace is also working with our job coach, Heather, and attending our weekly virtual Career Launchpad classes. “The classes have been so valuable to not only learn new job search skills, but to connect with others who are in a
I was really embarrassed to ask for help, but everyone at JFS has been amazing. Now I feel hopeful about my future. I hold my head high and proudly share my story with others on the virtual classes. —CANDACE EPPERSON
similar situation. It’s comforting to know that others are experiencing anxiety like I am,” Candace says. Heather connected her with several useful resources and helped her rediscover her passion for cooking. “I’ve always liked to cook, but never pursued it as a career,” says Candace. “While I’ve been home the last few months, I’ve been cooking a lot more. Heather told me about a 23-day culinary program through Work Options for Women, which I’m excited to start soon and see where it leads.” “I was really embarrassed to ask for help, but everyone at JFS has been amazing,” Candace says with a smile. “Now I feel hopeful about my future. I hold my head high and proudly share my story with others on the virtual classes.” Update: We are happy to announce that Candace was hired in August to work in the JFS food pantry!
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NEW WEBSITE This summer, we have been busy developing a new JFS website that includes easy-to-use navigation, a modern design, and can be translated into multiple languages. Watch for the new website at jewishfamilyservice.org in early October!
CARES ACT AND CHARITABLE GIVING: WHAT DONORS SHOULD KNOW The CARES (Coronavirus Aid, Relief, and Economic Security) Act is a new law designed to help nonprofits facing economic hardship during the coronavirus pandemic. The law includes several provisions designed to encourage charitable giving that we want you, our generous supporters, to know about. THREE, NEW TAX BENEFITS TO DONORS Universal Deduction for Donations Up to $300 The CARES Act grants taxpayers an above-the-line deduction for up to $300 in charitable donations starting in 2020. Married filing jointly taxpayers will get an above-the-line deduction of up to $600. Normally, you must itemize deductions to get a tax write-off for charitable donations. Raising the Charitable Giving Deduction Cap The law also lifts the existing cap on annual contributions for those who itemize, raising it from 60 percent of adjusted gross income to 100 percent. For corporations, the law raises the annual
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limit from 10 percent to 25 percent. Food donations from corporations would be available to 25 percent, up from the current 15 percent cap. Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) from Qualified Retirement Plans are Suspended Due to the unlimited charitable deduction allowed for cash gifts this year–even exceeding 100 percent of AGI– donors can ask IRA holders to sell assets (above the amount of the RMD) and distribute the proceeds to them in cash. They can then turn around and donate the cash, realizing an offsetting income tax deduction for the full amount. Your opportunity to take advantage of these changes closes on December 31, 2020. Donate now! The tax information provided is general and educational in nature. Jewish Family Service of Colorado does not provide legal or tax advice. Always consult a tax professional regarding your tax situation.
SUPPORTING THE SURVIVORS JFS is a very good and useful service for myself and other survivors of the Holocaust atrocities. I’m very grateful for all of the support and the companionship they provide. —SOPHY CHURCHES
We have a long tradition of caring for and supporting survivors of the Holocaust. This vulnerable population deserves special attention and care, particularly as they age and their health declines. Many live on limited incomes and struggle to make ends meet. They need extra support to take care of day-to-day needs. JFS is providing vital services to survivors, including care management, in-home services, food, emergency financial assistance for dental expenses and medication, and companionship. We are providing services to keep them healthy and living in their residence of choice
and social programs that keep them supported, connected, and engaged. We expanded these services during the COVID-19 crisis to ensure these important members of our community are cared for during the isolating and lonely stay-at-home restrictions. Last year, Jewish Family Service provided life-saving services to 80 Holocaust survivors—and we did it with care and compassion. Survivors benefit from JFS care management, homemaker, and Friendly Visitor services.
JFS needs to raise $54,000 in matching funds for the Claims Conference on Material Claims Against Germany to demonstrate that that our community is invested in the welfare of our survivors. Sophy, JFS client, says, “JFS is a very good and useful service for myself and other survivors of the Holocaust atrocities. I’m very grateful for all of the support and the companionship they provide.” Help JFS bring hope and help to survivors in need by donating at jewishfamilyservice.org/honor.
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JOIN THE JFS LEGACY SOCIETY When you make a legacy gift to JFS, you’re leaving your mark on our community. It’s a personal gift that will continue to deliver the values that are important to you, long after you’re gone. It’s your legacy. As a planned giving donor, you can help ensure that the lifetransforming work of JFS will endure for generations to come. There will always be needs from vulnerable members of our community, and your gift will provide a safety net of hope.
THANK YOU TO THE FOLLOWING JFS LEGACY SOCIETY MEMBERS WHO HAD THE VISION TO INCLUDE JFS AS A BENEFICIARY IN THEIR ESTATE PLANS: Gloria Abrams z”l Sanford Alpert z”l Judy Altenberg Joy Anderson-Jones z”l Anonymous Elaine and Max Appel Dr. Hilary and Rabbi Eliot Baskin Michael Baum z”l Samantha and Robert Baumgarten Jennifer and Bruce Bendell Sandy and Steve Berkowitz Jack Bernstone z”l Joscelyn Blumenthal Mel Brody William Bromberg z”l Janice and Abe Burnstein z”l Bobbie and Jerry z”l Carr Barbara and Jay Chapman Allan Cohen Alissa and James Cohen
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Larry Cohn The Winters Creasey Family Jana Eisinger and Scott Bergstrom Sheryl and Ken Feiler Gloria Fine z”l Terry Fisher z”l Senator Joyce and Rabbi Steven Foster Linda and Bill Foster Max Frankel z”l Laurie and Brad Friedman Nicolette Gagliano Lynn and Bill Geller Rob Gettinger Annie Sarah Gilbert z”l Richard Gilbert z”l Lillian and Benjamin Ginsburg z”l Melvin Goldberg z”l Lewis J. Goldsmith z”l Richard C. Goldstein z”l Sheryl and Jon Goodman
Ann and Sidney Grazi z”l Cindy Gross Melanie and Rabbi Salomon Gruenwald Louise F. Guggenheim z”l Zelda and Jerry Gutman z”l Betty Ann Halperin z”l Leanna and Jamie Harris Isaac Heller z”l Dr. Linda Heller Peggy Hermann Lisa Herschli Gareth Heyman Jacquie and Irwin Hoffman Alan Hurst Leland Huttner z”l Barbara Kabakoff Gale and Ron Kahn Ruth and Sterling Kahn z”l Melinda Kassen Margit Katz z”l
John Kayser z”l John Keith Nathan Khodadad Lottie and Rafael Klebe z”l Lawrence Kopf Elizabeth S. Krash z”l Elizabeth and Steven Kris Shelley and Buzz Krovitz Alan Laff z”l Marilyn and Harold z”l Lande Mary Latanik z”l Blanca and Howard Lerman Rona and Guscile Levin z”l Myra B. and J. Leonard Levy z”l Edith Lewitt z”l Sylvia and Leonard z”l Litvak Robyn and Bob z”l Loup Rima Manas Irene Mayer z”l Barbara Altenberg McDonald Bonnie Merenstein Estelle R. Meskin Sally Steele Metzger Edith Schwartz Meyer z”l Walter Mielziner z”l Lois and Jay Miller Ruth Milzer z”l Betsy Mordecai Susie and Perry Moss Lois and Stephen Nadler The Novins-Montague Family Gail Nussbaum Mindy Levy Peckar and Steve Peckar Gail Pennington Essie and Jordon z”l Perlmutter Shirley Politzer The Pollock Family Dean Prina, M.D. Gerald Quiat z”l Renee and Andy Raabe Irene Rantz z”l Henry Rasof Alexander Rezmovits z”l Dawn Richard Jane E. and Stanton Rosenbaum Lore and John Roth z”l Minnie Rothchild z”l
Corinne Rottman z”l Robert Rottman Ruth and Merle z”l Sachnoff Evelyn and Richard Saliman z”l Joanne and Dr. Richard Sanders Jamie and Jon Sarché Louise and Chet Schwartz Jean B. Seeman z”l Marian and Dan Seff Pearl Shames z”l Evelyn Shamon Amy Shapiro Helen Shapiro z”l Melanie and Lee Siegel Debbie and Donald Silversmith Regina and Barry Silvestain Teena and Bud Slatkin Adele Sollender z”l Lillian Stein z”l Samuel H. Sterling z”l Susie Strait z”l Cathy Summer and Steve Ellis Lisa and Lynn Taussig Jay Taussig Francine and Jorge Topelson Barbara and Thomas Trager
Marvin Tyor z”l Walter Vasen z”l Ann and Dan Veenstra Yana Vishnitsky and Jim Wolfe Alan Irwin Wandel z”l Lori and Lary Weintraub Sandor Weisz z”l Mary Ann Wilner Elle and Phil z”l Winn Joyce and Kal Zeff z”l Debbie Zimmerman and Charles Van Gundy Tara and Royce Zimmerman Shira and Marty Zimmerman z”l – May their memory be a blessing. This list is current as of June 30, 2020. The individuals with bolded names have made the legal provision to formalize their planned gift and notified the agency of this action. For more information on legacy giving, please contact Melanie Foster at 720.248.4630 or mfoster@ jewishfamilyservice.org.
I did not come from an affluent family, but I was taught to give what you can—to give Jewishly. Whether that is of your time or money, I will give this gift because I am so impressed with JFS and how they have changed and addressed needs as they arose. I started as a donor. The more I learned about JFS, the services they provide, and got to know the staff, the more I was touched. I had a personal need to not only write checks but to work directly with the clients. Each type of giving touches me differently. —LISA H., LEGACY SOCIETY MEMBER
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