Life’s Brief Reflections
Mrs. Barbara Henrietta Vance Bailey was born on October 29, 1933, in Memphis, TN, to Elijah James Washington, Sr., and Thelma Louise Vance. Her life was deeply rooted in faith, family, and perseverance from an early age. She was baptized at Vance Ave. Church of Christ, and her unwavering belief in God remained her guiding light throughout every chapter of her life.
She attended Hamilton High School and later pursued studies at Owens Junior College and Memphis State University, earning both a Bachelor of Science and a Master of Science. She retired from MLGW as an AA Counselor. Barbara has worn many hats throughout her life, not just metaphorical ones. She was a provider, nurturer, mentor, and friend, with a true flair for fashion, especially regarding her beloved hats. Whether it was Sunday service or a casual afternoon, Barbara knew how to top off any look with style and confidence. Her work ethic was unmatched, and her love for others is the legacy she leaves behind.
Barbara was a woman of remarkable strength, grace, and determination. A gifted seamstress and natural teacher, she poured her talents into every aspect of life. Her hands were never idle, whether sewing with care, sharing wisdom, or nurturing those around her. Her radiant presence and unshakable spirit made others feel seen, valued, and loved. She was a woman of integrity, discipline, and heart, a true matriarch.
She leaves to cherish her memory her beloved children: Pamela Joyce Bailey Morris and Eddie Savoy Bailey, Jr., affectionately known as Butch (Cynthia). She was a proud and devoted grandmother to Terrell Bailey Pickett, Eddie Savoy Bailey, III, affectionately known as Kip (Andrea) Tiff’ny Brooke Bailey Morris, and Erin Shari Bailey, each of whom carries forward her legacy of love, strength, and faith. Her joy multiplied with the arrival of her great-granddaughter, Bailey Marie Brown, who brought light and laughter into Barbara’s later years. She also leaves behind a host of cherished nieces and nephews.
She is preceded in death by her husband, Eddie Savoy Bailey, Sr., her sisters, Dolores West Alexander and TRosa Baldwin Bailey, her brother, Elijah James Washington, Jr., her mother, Thelma Louise Vance Hayes, and her father, Elijah James Washington, Sr.
Barbara’s life was a testament to faith, resilience, and hard work. Though her earthly journey has ended, her spirit lives on in the hearts of those she loved, and her legacy of strength, love, and creativity will continue to inspire generations to come.
The Celebration of Life
Friday, October 10, 2025
11:00 A.M.
Harrison’s Memorial Chapel, Inc.
3320 Millbranch Road • Memphis, Tennessee 38116
Minister DonBurnell Holly
Prelude
Processional.................................................................The Family of Mrs. Barbara Bailey
Words of Comfort & Prayer................................................................Rev. Dr. Earle Fisher Abyssinian Baptist Church
Scripture Readings:
Old Testament................................................................................Michele Jackson
St. Peter C.M.E., El Cerrito, CA
New Testament.........................................................................Rev. McStella Hinds
St. Jude Missionary Baptist Church & Neighbor
Musical Selection................................................................................“Without You, Lord”
Expressions of Love
Donnell“Ricky” Jones Pastor, New Direction Ministries - Richmond, CA
The Pointe at Kirby Gate assisted living facility: Diamonique Avant, Traci Cowan, and Thelma Allen
Terrell Bailey Pickett & Erin Shari Bailey
Musical Selection..............................................................................“No Tears In Heaven”
Acknowledgements..................................Eddie Savoy Bailey, III & Tiff’ny Bailey Morris
Eulogy.......................................................................................Minister DonBurnell Holly Minister of Norris Road Church of Christ
Recessional
herished CMemories
~Acknowledgements ~
The family of Barbara V. Bailey would like to thank you for your calls, prayers, visits, and various acts of kindness shown to us during this challenging time. Your outpouring of love and support will never be forgotten. We are forever grateful and ask that you please keep us in your prayers. “THANK YOU!” from the bottom of our hearts.
Lastly, a heartfelt thank you to Diamonique Avant, Traci Cowan, and Thelma Allen of The Pointe at Kirby Gate assisted living facility for the exceptional care and attention you provided to Mrs. Barbara while she was in your care. Your kindness and dedication meant so much to our family.
Love, the Family of Mrs. Barbara Henrietta Vance Bailey
Honorary Pallbearers ~
Terrell Bailey Pickett
Eddie S. Bailey, III Eric D. Davis Khaleb L. Davis Donnell “Ricky” Jones Isaac White, Jr.
