The
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THIRD DEGREE The Journal of the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa at the University of Maryland
Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa
Beginning Our Fifth Year and Out of Our Shell with Maryland Pride!
OCTOBER 18, 2014 College Park, Maryland
Maryland Vs. Iowa
HOMECOMING 2014
with the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa
Contents 2 New Heights 7 Eta Chapter News 12 Eta Alumni News 14 Celebrate! 22 Cut-Out 23 Alumni Notes 24 The ‘Fridge 28 SIX COLUMNS 31 Chapter Eternal 36 A Final Thought...
On the Cover Our Cover Photo, featuring our “personal” copy of Testudo greeting visitors at our Open House, was taken by our First Lady, and frequent photographic contributor, Grace M. Criscuoli, Kappa Alpha Theta, Class of ‘83 . Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa 12806 Silverbirch Lane Laurel, Maryland 20708
New Heights.
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e close out our fourth year since the revitalization of our alumni association, and the reestablishment of the Eta Chapter at the University of Maryland, with the eighth issue of our award-winning newsletter...er, magazine, “The THIRD DEGREE.” Frankly, I never thought that we would kill so very many trees on our way to sharing with you all the news about the chapter and our alumni association.
301-206-5472
www.alumni.psk-eta.com We close out our fourth year with a new record in membership - 334 alumni Brothers of the Eta Chapter of Phi Sigma Kappa are reading this very same issue - as are our active members, their parents, and the members of an exclusive “complimentary” subscription list that includes University of Maryland President Wallace Loh. Not too shabby.
alumni@psk-eta.com
We close out our fourth year with additional generous donations to our capital campaign, “Six Columns,” and we are able to boast that our Homecoming and Open House events have all been well-attended.
Executive Committee
In this, our 8th issue, we hope to excite you about what we have accomplished this past year and what we have planned for the coming year. As we enter our 5th year, I hope that I can count on you to help us reach new heights. As you know, now is the time to renew your membership. If there is a Membership Renewal sheet attached to your copy of this issue, I need you to take a moment - just a moment - and please be generous as you renew your membership.
J. Eric Vinson ‘86 Treasurer Ocean City, Maryland
Please don’t wait. And please don’t put this aside. I really want to be able to send you the next issue of our magazine. Please do the right thing - and, of course, enjoy the read. Damn Proud, Joseph E. Criscuoli, ‘82, Editor 2
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Todd B. Hoffman ‘82 Secretary Silver Spring, Maryland
John J. B. Wright, Esq. ‘82 Second Vice-President Burtonsville, Maryland J. Victor Alonso ‘13 First Vice-President Silver Spring, Maryland Joseph E. Criscuoli, ‘82 President Laurel, Maryland
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Inspired by the PlayStation 4 Perfect Day Commercial http://youtu.be/s0d9d-cdxhk your Eta Alumni Association came up with a “unique” way to encourage attendance at the 2014 Open House. If you have not already seen it, take a look: http://youtu.be/ kbxvHwcvXVQ
“HouseMom” Katherine Kipp, having obtained her second (yes, second) Masters degree, has fulfilled her obligations to the University of Maryland and moves on to greener pastures (and paying taxes and saving for retirement). We wish Katherine all the very best in her future and thank her sincerely for spoiling the beejeezus out of us. The shoes she leaves behind will be hard to fill, and later in this issue we’ll get her take on her upcoming departure from #2 Fraternity Row.
We were really pleased to see the issues of The Frieze were scanned and put up online for all to enjoy (see “Eta Online, this issue), With the help of Anne Turkos, University Archivist, we obtained a high-res copy of the 1973 Composite and added it to the Eta Alumni Photo Vault. The only composite photo we are missing from the period 1952 to present is the 1954 Composite. If you have a copy, please let us know!
Photo: University Archives
Only One Left
A “Baker’s Dozen” of New Eta Alumni Graduation is always a time to enjoy, and your very own Eta Alumni Association enjoyed adding these 13 new alumni, listed below and as seen in the photo above, to our rolls.
Photo: Grace Criscuoli
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Raymond Bounds Austin Carroll William Glatz Scott Irace Joseph Keenan Andrew Macaluso Brandon Madsen Noah Mandell Justin Ohneiser Evan Schroeder Austin Sichling Yaniv Stern Eric Struder What’s that you say? There is no photo of our new alumni? Just an image of a graduation cap? Huh. That’s strange, because we’re sure we asked for a photo. Geez. Um, we dunno what to say. Well, maybe by the time the next issue comes out we’ll have that photo for you. Wow, this is embarrassing...I mean, where could it be? We...
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eta online “The THIRD DEGREE” CITED ON WIKIPEDIA It gives us great pleasure to see that content from our award-winning magazine, “The THIRD DEGREE” has been cited in the Wikipedia entry for Major German Horton Hunt Emory (Class of 1903). Rufus S. Lusk III, a distant relation of Brother Emory, undertook the exhaustive process of preparing the Wikipedia entry and called on the Eta Alumni Association for assistance, which we gladly provided. Emory was the subject of an article in the second (Winter 2010) issue of our magazine entitled “The One We Lost.” That article, which fetched us a Silver Award for Best Feature Writing and a Gold Award in Magazine Copywriting in the 17th Annual Communicator Awards, along with all of our back issues can be found and read online at http://alumni.psk-eta.com/ttd/ and, through the wonders of the internet, you can read the entire Wikipedia entry, and learn all there is to know about the life of Brother Emory, when you visit http://tinyurl.com/eta-hunt
WORTH 1,000 WORDS As you probably know, the University Archives has digitized all University of Maryland Yearbooks back to 1897, and you can check them out online at http://www.lib.umd.edu/univarchives/yearbooks Well, in conjunction with the University's celebration of 100 Years of Greek Life, the University Archives has now digitized all issues of The Frieze. Check it out, and see how many faces you remember, at http://www.lib.umd.edu/univarchives/thefrieze
CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE? Think we’re the only ones monitoring the internet for signs of the Eta Chapter? Probably not. Do you have a link that you’d like to share? The Eta Alumni Association invites you to submit links that we can share on Facebook, on our website (at http://alumni.psk-eta.com/) and in the next issue of The THIRD DEGREE. Interested? Drop us an e-mail at alumni@psk-eta.com - you may become our next featured contributor! - TTD. 4
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THIRD DEGREE could be published three times a year by the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa if, and only if, the financial support is there to allow it. Barring the emergence of the support necessary, future editions may be limited to Sustaining Members only, the publication may be reduced to an all black and white document, or the publication may be available only as a digital document available for downloading from the internet. Subscription rates for the USA: a minimum of $35.00 per year, of which only $30.00 is retained by your Alumni Association. Larger donations are eagerly sought. Subscription requests and donations, along with an Alumni Data Sheet, should be sent to: Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa, 12806 Silverbirch Lane, Laurel, MD 20708 This publication was created entirely by the Editor-in-Chief without any financial cost to the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa, beyond those associated with printing and mailing, and was produced exclusively on a HewlettPackard Personal Computer running the Microsoft Windows System 7 operating software, using Microsoft Publisher software for design and layout resulting in a 86MB file that was converted to a 64MB Adobe Acrobat print-ready file. Manuscripts and photographs are submitted at the sender’s risk. Enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope for return of materials. Submission of material implies a right to edit and publish all or in part. © 2014 Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa All Rights Reserved. Your subscription information is protected by our privacy policies. Unless otherwise indicated, the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa does not endorse any individual or company, nor any service, product or event not offered or sponsored by the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa. By these things we stand.
MARK YOUR CALENDARS! The Eddie Becker Band The Eddie Becker Band will be appearing at Silver Spring Swings on Thursday evening August 7th from 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Eddie, Eta Chapter 1970, has been playing in the Washington, D.C. area for over 50 years and is bringing his big band and the soulful sound of the sixties to the Montgomery County Maryland summer concerts for their 4th appearance in this series.
See ya there! Eddie
The Eddie Becker Band Photos: Eddie Becker ‘70
Silver Spring Swings Thursday, August 7th 7:00 to 9:00 pm.
Edward P. Becker ‘70 Voice: (304) 725-5891 Fax: (304) 728-0229 www.eddiebeckerband.com
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ETA CHAPTER NEWS News Briefs from the Eta Chapter of Phi Sigma Kappa at the University of Maryland
From the President’s Desk
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he Eta Chapter of Phi Sigma Kappa has been very busy this past semester and there was never a dull moment. We have improved in several aspects of fraternity including athletics, alumni relations, academics, community service, Greek relations, and philanthropy. The brothers of the Eta Chapter have shown everyone that we have a lot that makes us Damn Proud. Upon entering my Presidency one of my top priorities was strengthening the actives relationship with the Eta Alumni Association which has contributed so much to our chapter. We started off the Fall semester with the Alumni Homecoming Reception along with the Alumni Homecoming Tailgate that was hosted by the Eta Alumni Association. In the Spring we decided to take it up a notch; we put together a “Meet the Seniors” event at RJ Bentley’s so that the Alumni and the Seniors who will soon join the Alumni can get more acquainted and understand the opportunities from the fraternity post
Daniel Tatum ‘15 -graduation. Secondly, the active chapter decided that we wanted to make this year’s Alumni Open House the best one yet. The brotherhood worked hard to make sure that the Chapter house was prepared and in good shape, and also came out in force to meet and greet the alumni, share stories, and give house tours. Everything worked out well and the chapter is very proud to have the best alumni base at the University of Maryland and will continue to show our appreciation for their support in the upcoming Fall semester. The brotherhood has also continued to show its dedication to recruitment and our desire to grow our fraternity which is why we able to initiate 17 new members in the Spring and raise our total membership to 74 brothers. Our scholarship has also seen a rise from the Spring of 2013 to the Fall of 2014. The Chapter’s overall GPA rose .19 points from a 2.93 to a 3.12, earning our chapter the IFC Most Improved GPA Award. We were also Damn Proud to see our brother Noah Mandell receive the University (continued on next page)
Eta Chapter President Dan Tatum (right) introduces a few friends to one of several puppies that were featured in the fraternity’s charity event, “PSKanines,” held on Fraternity Row on May 8th. The event, organized by Eta Brothers Alex Raul, Joshua Bernstein, and Frank Hackenburg, and cosponsored by the sisters of Alpha Delta Pi, Kappa Delta and Sigma Kappa as well as the brothers of Sigma Chi and Theta Chi, had a great turn out from the community and raised approximately $750 for an animal shelter.
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From the President’s Desk (continued) Medal at graduation for his outstanding academics. This award is the highest an undergraduate can receive from the University. The Chapter also sought to demonstrate its character by improving its community service outreach to the Special Olympics, American Red Cross, and local charity organizations. Overall the chapter had 500+ hours of community service. The main events undertaken by the chapter included a blood drive, a Special Olympics’ Basketball tournament and SOMD’s “Freeze Your Buns Off 5k”. These have definitely been big steps in the right direction and encourage all members to promote the founding values of Phi Sigma Kappa. Not only have we tried to make the chapter stronger internally, but we also focused much of our attention to promoting ourselves in the Greek community and building the good name of Phi Sigma Kappa. There was tremendous success in our fraternity’s athletic endeavors as Brothers Madsen, Lopez, Trainor, Mountain, and Ayken led our 4-on-4 flag football team to a Fraternity A league championship when they dominated Lamda Chi in the final game. The Eta Chapter hosted a new philanthropy event called PSKannines which helped support the local animal shelter. PSKannines had a great turn out from the community as everyone had fun and raised approximately $750 for an animal shelter. We also supported other Greek organizations in their philanthropic events. The chapter participated in events such as Alpha Chi Omega (AXO) and Sigma Nu’s SigNu de Mayo, AXO and Kappa Alpha Theta’s
Run for Love, Delta Gamma’s Anchor Splash, Delta Phi Epsilon’s ANAD Fashion Show, and lastly Tau Kappa Epsilon and Alpha Phi’s Mr. Greek. Greek Week was also a lot of fun this year with the overall Made in America theme and our matchup theme of West Virginia. Greek Week was a good way to build relationships in the Greek community as the brothers became friendly with our matchup consisting of Zeta Tau Alpha and Sigma Alpha Epsilon. Finally, the Eta Chapter is sorry to say good bye to the last of the founding fathers and see more seniors graduate and join the Third Degree. We wish them the best of luck as they join the rest of the world and want them to know that they will always have a family of Brothers waiting for them back in College Park whenever they come to visit. Our Chapter is looking forward to a bright and productive next semester. We have goals to continue improving our alumni relations, keep up our good work in giving back to the community, revamp our new member education process, and exceed previous expectations for recruitment by associating at least ten new members in the Fall. Damn Proud!
Daniel Tatum ‘15 Eta Chapter President
Phi Sigma Kappa offers you not idle meadows and indolent shores: she offers you hills, and a star.
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Eta Chapter Goes to the Dogs - Matt Ellentuck , Public Relations Chair The brothers of Phi Sigma Kappa raised money for local animal shelters by hosting an event, “PSKanines” on Fraternity Row May 8. Joshua Bernstein, Frank Hackenburg and Alex Raul organized the event. For three dollars anyone was permitted to play with the dogs brought in by the shelters and some of the brothers, enjoy some Rita’s Italian ices, play corn hole and grab some free gifts from Vineyard Vines. The Huskies, Beagles and Terriers braved the 84degree heat and attracted many University of Maryland students on the field at Fraternity Row. Along with Vineyard Vines, Southern Tide, Southern Proper, Doggy Style Bakery, the sisters of Alpha Delta Pi, Kappa Delta and Sigma Kappa as well as the brothers of Sigma Chi and Theta Chi cosponsored the event.
Bottom Left: Organizing Brothers Hackenburg and Raul survey the scene from their command post. Left: Brothers (left to right): Zach Goldman, Alex Barmine, Jacques Cassagnol, Joseph Ayoub and Trent Testa at Eta’s Spring philanthropy event, PSKanines! Above: Eta House Mother Katherine Kipp and puppy. Below: Brother Eric Phelps reveals the secret of his success.
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Top Honors to Eta Graduate New Alum Rubs Elbows with University President; Heads to Princeton! By Matt Ellentuck Public Relations Chair Eta Chapter, Phi Sigma Kappa
Noah Mandell ’14 was named University Medalist, an award that recognizes the graduating senior who “best represents academic distinction, exemplary character and service to the campus or public communities.” As well as holding positions as a treasurer and scholarship chair for Phi Sigma Kappa, Mandell also played alto saxophone for the Jazz Lab band while earning a bachelor’s degree in physics and a minor in math. Mandell led Phi Sigma Kappa to the most improved GPA of all fraternities with a 3.98. In the classroom and lab he spent a lot of time with executive director of Maryland’s Honors College and Physics Professor William Dorland. “Noah is the brightest, most highly motivated undergraduate I have ever worked with, and I have worked directly with many,” Dorland said. In fact, a visiting scholar believed Mandell was a second-year graduate student rather than the second-year undergraduate he was. He has received many additional awards, most notably being named a Philip Merrill Presidential Scholar and a Goldwater Scholar. “[At the University of Maryland] I had a good time, I did some good work. The relationships I’ve made are really special,” Mandell said. He will be attending Princeton University’s Plasma Physics Laboratory for his graduate studies in astrophysical sciences in the fall. To see a video of the award presentation, click on this link - http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=y3tvPfjBrxc&feature=share - and advance to 1:05:42.
Top: Noah Mandell, University Medalist. Middle: Mandell with University of Maryland President Wallace Loh, after receiving the University Medal. Bottom: Mandell with girlfriend Haley Baxter 10
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Legacy Links New Eta Chapter Brother Paul Hazan’s Grandfather was also a Phi Sig!
Photo: Courtesy of Executive Vice President Michael Carey
By Michael Carey Executive Vice President Phi Sigma Kappa
When I heard that Paul Hazan ‘17, an engineering major from St. Louis, Missouri, had been initiated into the Eta Chapter, my thoughts immediately turned to a very special Phi Sig that I have known, and Brother Hazan’s Grandfather, Brother George Duarte of the Zeta Chapter (City College of New York). George Duarte truly lived the motto “Fraternity for Life” and he loved Phi Sigma Kappa, his family, and especially his grandson. Brother Duarte did a great job keeping the Zeta Chapter together, and he had a great impact on me in my position as Executive Vice President. And I was privileged to be present, with Grand President Todd Simpson, when George received from the Zeta Chapter an Outstanding Member Award.
Executive Vice President Michael Carey (left) and Grand President Todd Simpson (right) present Brother George Duarte with the Outstanding Member Award from Zeta Chapter (City College of New York).
For Actives and Alumni Alike
Although George has passed away, I pray he will someday welcome me on the other side with a ice cold beverage and another great story of what he has been up to. In the meantime, I will be interested to learn what his grandson does to distinguish himself within the Eta Chapter.
GOT CAREER? Have you got a resume that truly presents your special skills, attributes, and abilities?
Damn Proud !
Are you really networking to increase your job search power and to uncover unpublished job opportunities?
An Eta Alum Has An Offer You Can’t Refuse!
Do you know how to fully prepare for your next interview?
If you answer “No” to any of these questions I’d be happy to help for no charge. Email me - Terry Chapman, Ph.D., ETA 62’ - at chapmanphd@charter.net and away we go! Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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Eta Alumni Association - By The Numbers
334 107 441
PAID ALUMNI MEMBERS IN “YEAR 4”
ALUMNI MEMBERS DID NOT RENEW IN “YEAR 4”
MEMBERSHIP TOTALS:
2010-2011: 328 2012-2013: 262
OUR FULL POTENTIAL FOR “YEAR 5”
2011-2012: 257 2013-2014: 334
400 34 366 OUR GOAL FOR “YEAR 5”
ALUMNI MEMBERS ALREADY RENEWED FOR “YEAR 5”
NATIONAL SUSTAINING MEMBERSHIP 2013-2014 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10.
MARYLAND Emporia State University University of Alabama Clarion University Shippensburg University Valdosta State University University of Kentucky Indiana University East Stroudsburg University University of Illinois
334 54 42 39 21 19 16 10 8 8
11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20.
University of Southern California University of Calif./Santa Barb. University of Minnesota Hobart College Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute Ferris State University West Virginia University University of Tenn./Knoxville Pennsylvania State University Lehigh University
6 6 5 5 5 5 4 4 3 3
The Top 20 Chapters, in terms of dues paid by alumni (Sustaining Members), have 597 Brothers on their rolls. MARYLAND has 334, or 56%. The Total number of Sustaining Members from all chapters is 671. MARYLAND, with 334, represents 49.8% of that total. 12
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RENEWALS NEEDED FOR “YEAR 5”
WANTED Eta Alumni to:
Join Our Recruiting Team Be a Decade Captain Help Find Lost Brothers Help with Alumni Events Write for Our Magazine Help with Fundraising Pursue New Programs
Lend a hand in the growth of our Alumni Association. Drop a note to us at
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From The First Vice President J. Victor Alonso ‘13 The Eta Alumni Association annual membership renewal date is July 1. Please renew now for this new year and your membership will be paid through June 30, 2015, and to be sure that you continue to receive the full benefits of membership, including a subscription to this awardwinning Alumni Association magazine, The THIRD DEGREE. For your convenience, please find included with this issue of our magazine your personalized renewal form. Please check your form for accuracy and update it as appropriate, then return it to the address at the bottom of the page with your contribution, or use our online renewal link detailed on the inside back cover of this issue. In “Year 4” our average dues donation was $63.00, well above our minimum membership fee. Your continued generous support of this organization has allowed us to sustain an alumni association second to none; that provides strong support to the undergraduate chapter, promotes alumni/active social events, lends support to the Eta Housing Corporation and publishes this acclaimed magazine. As my primary responsibility is membership development and recruitment, I sincerely ask for your help in our effort to reach 400 paid members in “Year 5.” The numbers don’t lie - we CAN do this. Thank you in advance for your anticipated assistance and continued support. DAMN PROUD!!
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400 OUR GOAL FOR “YEAR 5”
Would YOU be willing to make 10 phone calls to grow YOUR Alumni Association? Dial 301-206-5472 to Help! Greatest Decade Awards Year 4
Most Members Gold 60’s Silver 80’s Bronze 50’s Total Contributions Gold 80’s Silver 60’s Bronze 50’s Average Contribution per Member Gold 00’s Silver 70’s Bronze 80’s
RENEW TODAY Paid Members as a % of Viable Alumni per Decade Gold 60’s Silver 50’s Bronze 80’s Fewest Lost Brothers Gold 10’s Silver 00’s Bronze 60’s Look for updates to these awards in our next issue and on our website.
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Celebrate!
Eta Chapter's Open House 2014
by John J.B. Wright ‘82, 2nd Vice President, Eta Alumni Association "There's a party goin' on right here, A celebration to last throughout the years. So bring your good times and your laughter too. We gonna celebrate your party with you. Come on now, celebration! Let's all celebrate and have a good time. Celebration! We gonna celebrate and have a good time. It's time to come together. It's up to you, what's your pleasure? Everyone around the world, come on!" Thirty-four years ago, 'Kool and the Gang' released their chart-topping album "Celebrate." The lyrics of the number one song from that album, 'Celebration', certainly fit the Eta Open House of 2014. It was March 12, 2011 when th Eta Chapter celebrated its Re-Charter and return among the elite fraternities at the University of Maryland. So it was very appropriate that, three years later, the active Brothers, Alumni, Parents and Friends gathered, on April 26th, to celebrate the Chapter's third annual Open House. The Eta Chapter Open House is held in conjunction with the University's annual, campus wide, open house known as MARYLAND DAY,
What a Celebration! Brothers Allen Kogut '75, Phil Catania '75 and Tony Cina '73 reunite at Open House '14.
which drew over 100,000 visitors to the university. While our Open House attendance was not quite that high, it's attendance was in the hundreds and included alumni from many decades (1950’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, 90’s, 2000’s & the 2010’s) and from throughout the country, from Florida to Massachusetts, from Texas to Minnesota, and from California to Pennsylvania. The annual Open House is the Chapter's chance to 'Show Case' their House not only to Alumni, but to their parents. As in prior years, many Parents of Active Brothers took this opportunity to come to the House, meet their son's Brothers, learn of Phi Sig's rich history from the Alumni and see the living conditions within the House. As always the Chapter grasped this opportunity and put their best foot forward. What a Chapter! The Active Brothers of Phi Sigma Kappa, Eta Chapter, welcome Alumni and Parents to the Chapter's Open House 2014.
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H. Christopher Malone ‘86, Jay Gobeil ‘12, and As the mother of a newly initiated Brother said; Ryan Kief ‘12. We congratulate them all, and thank "When my son said he wanted to join a fraternity, I them for their service to the fraternity. was worried. When he said he wanted to live in the Fraternity House, I thought, "No way". All I could Then, Terry Chapman '62, presented a special award envision was the movie 'Animal House'. But after to Joe Criscuoli, President of the Eta Alumni Assoseeing the House and talking to the members and ciation, for his service to the Chapter Alumni, I can see why he wants to “I visited #2 Fraternity Row for and his exemplification of brotherlive here. This House is great." A week after Open House, that mother the third time to attend the 2014 hood. The award was an original Open House. My daughter is fishing fly, specifically tied and mailed in her son's Housing Contract considering Maryland and we framed by Terry himself. to live in the House next Fall. "..It's time to come together, It's up to you, what's your pleasure?.."
We did 'come together'. Over 20 Brothers, alumni from the 1950’s & 1960’s joined us for the Open House. Additionally the alumni from the 50’s and 60’s and their wives gathered the evening before for a reunion, organized by Wayne H. Alumni and Actives interact. The Bethards '59, at the Commons ResAlumni get to see the fine men who Scott Crown '86 taurant in the UMUC Marriott. Satare now maintaining the Phi Sig traurday they toured the campus and dition and the Actives get to know their history and participated in the MARYLAND DAY events, gaththe true meaning of "Brother for Life". ered for lunch at Ledo's Restaurant, attended the Open House and then topped off the event by celePresentations culminated the Open House event. brating with drinks, dinner and stories back at the First, this years honorees for election into the Eta Commons. Members of the Chapter's Executive Hall of Fame were: Walter E. Laake, Jr. ‘65, Todd Board and members from the Executive Committee B. Hoffman ‘82, Patrick L. McGeough ‘85, of the Eta Alumni Association were able to join them Saturday night. The interaction between the Alumni of the 50s and the Actives was educational and entertaining for all. The Alumni learned of the differences in student lifestyle and studies now compared with when they attended the University. The Alumni provided the Actives with many ideas that they plan to incorporate into the Chapter's practices, such as; establishing a scholarship program, brotherhood award programs and even ideas on how to throw a good party. Clearly, throwing a good party is timeless. "There's a party goin' on right here. A celebration to last throughout the years" Special Presentation. Brother Terry Chapman '62 presents Brother Joseph Criscuoli ’82 with Brotherhood Award, an original fishing fly, at Eta Open House 2014; while Brother Robert Pemberton '58 and Brother John Wright '82 look on.
Not to be outdone, the Alumni, from the 1970’s and 1980’s gathered together for a reunion Saturday evening after the Open House at the Cornerstone Loft or, as the 'old guys' would remember it, the Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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All Photos: Grace M. Criscuoli
came to tour the campus. Afterward, we headed down to the The Open House featured an hors house and met with some of the d'oeuvre buffet of wings, shrimp, active brothers. They become subs and sweets. Actives and siblings easily enthralled with anecdotes played cornhole on the side yard, of the classic stunts we used to even a few Alumni joined in tossing get away with back in the 80’s. the bags. Alumni who had not seen Although retelling some of our old stories may be satisfying, I each other in several decades rehad even more fun hearing about united, introduced family and swapped stories. One of the true val- some of the things that they're up to now. ues of Open House, is seeing the Damn Proud,”
'Vous. The reunion was hosted and organized by Jim Allen '77, Stephen Cooper '79 and Todd Hoffman '82. The Alumni enjoyed good food, great music (all from the 70’s & 80’s) and terrific company. As with the gathering of the Alumni from the 50’s and 60’s, the Alumni were joined by several of our recent Alumni (2011-2013) and some of the upper classman Active Brothers. “"Returning to the Phi Sig house after such a long time (even though it wasn't #7), felt like I had returned home. A house is just that: a house. What made # 7 a home for me all those years ago was sharing that home with all my Brothers. Seeing some of their faces at the reunion in the new house brought back a flood of feel-good memories. The stories we told have only gotten better over the years! The new house looks great. The young Phi Sigs look like great "kids" who will do us old farts proud. They are making their house a home just like we did so many years ago. Will see everyone next year. Damn proud!" Phil Catania '75
While the 70’s and 80’s Alumni may not have passed on constructive advice and ideas to the Actives, as did the Alumni from the 50s & 60s, they still exposed the active members to things they did not know, like: How not to keep the 'Bull' from piling up in front of the House, What to do with the Chapter House during a demonstration (the Vietnam War protests) and several old (new to the actives) Phi Sig Songs, whose lyrics cannot be reprinted here (This is a family publication). The reunion was so successful at reuniting the ties of the 70’s and 80’s Alumni Brothers, and establishing ties with our Chapter's recent Alumni, that talk was heard of making this an annual event. So mark your calendar now for April 25, 2015. "It's up to you, what's your pleasure? Everyone around the world come on!" So, ".. What's your pleasure?..". If it was not to have the weekend end, you were in luck. On Sunday, April 27th, as part of the University's celebration of 100 years of Greek Life at Maryland, the University Department of Fraternity and Sorority Life held a very large ceremony on Fraternity Row. The Ceremony honored Greek Alumni who gave exemplary service to their Fraternity and to the 16
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Inducted. Brother Philip Rever '63 on the Greek Centennial Garden above his honoree brick.
University by inducting them into the University's Greek Centennial Hall of Fame. Each inductee was presented with an engraved brick, featuring their name and their fraternity's name. Each Fraternity and Sorority were permitted to induct members based on the length of time their chapter operated at the University. Eta Chapter was privileged to be able to induct nine honorees: Edgar Farr Russell '22, J. Phillip Schaefer '23, James E. Starnes '54, Charles E. Wickard '56, John W. Dorsey '58, Robert Yellowlees '60, Philip R. Rever '63, Christopher P. McBeth '02 and Jay Gobeil '12. The engraved Bricks are placed in the Greek Centennial Garden, recently dedicated at the top of Fraternity Row. Eta Chapter congratulates all our honorees. And we thank all our Alumni, whose support and Brotherhood, made their accomplishments possible.
“A moment in time was revisited when I joined fellow alumni, active's parents and my active brothers at the Phi Sigma Kappa house on Fraternity Row, April 26, 2014 for a day of fun and the University of Maryland's annual Open House. The house was ablaze with smiling faces of parents and alumni over what the young brothers and John Wright, alumni house chairman, had done with the house and their effort in the resurgence of Phi Sigma Kappa on campus. The house was more fitting for a group of young college students, with a living room comfortable enough for actives to join together for recreation and brotherhood. The first Phi Sig house, at #7 Fraternity Row, lost the space to a formal motif, often misused and abused, as with building part of a Homecoming float there. The actives have provided tribute to their aging brothers by dedicating wall space to remember that they, too, are part of this great fraternity. A chart of big and little brothers on one wall expands to cover decades of brotherhood. Composites of brothers through the years festoon the walls that says these brothers were part of it all. I was proud to see how these young brothers have brought us back on campus with aplomb and pride. Pride in themselves, their university, their fraternity and those of us, who are proud to call them our brothers. I know all alumni are very proud of these fine young brothers and wish them the best for the future. Damn Proud!!” Robert G. Pemberton ‘58
Trusted Advisor. Brother Allen Kogut '75, a former Chapter Adviser, talks with active Brothers Dan Straus and Eli Bergman.
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Reunion. David Henry, Eric Vinson, Jeff Odom, and Sorin Schwartz at the 70’s-80’s Reunion at the Cornerstone Loft;
“The decision made by the Eta Alumni Association to hold an annual Open House at #2 Fraternity Row in conjunction with the University’s Maryland Day each April has resonated with alumni and actives alike. The Open House held over the weekend of April 25-27 was the most successful yet with well over one hundred alumni, parents, actives, University officials and guests attending. The very impressive Phi Sig house was a hub of activity, energy and conversation. Aside from the house itself, the display of composites going back to the early 1950’s and the amazing wall-size Eta family tree poster received a lot of attention. 1950’s &1960’s and 1970’s &1980’s alumni promoted reunions in conjunction with the planned Maryland Day and Phi Sig Open House events. Thirty-nine 50’s/60’s alumni and guests gathered at the oncampus College Park Marriott Hotel and Conference Center on Friday and Saturday evenings for reception and dinner. Thirty-seven 70’s/80’s alumni met at RJ Bentley’s on Friday evening and the Cornerstone Grill on Saturday evening. All alumni and guests enjoyed the terrific Eta Open House from 1 to 5 pm on Saturday. Twenty-one 50’s/60’s alumni and guests stayed at the Marriott; and many took advantage of the beautiful Saturday weather to walk and take in the Maryland Day exhibits on the way to Ledo’s, where eighteen enjoyed a group lunch. From Ledo’s it was a short walk to the Phi Sig house. Some even attended the Maryland soccer game. On Sunday morning many met for breakfast at the Marriott to wrap up the weekend. One sentiment heard was to wonder why all the fraternities don’t hold open houses on Maryland Day because it is such a great thing to do. Phi Sig is doing it best!” Wayne H. Bethards ‘59
“Recently my wife Margaret and I attended a Phi Sigma Kappa Open House Event on Fraternity Row at the University of Maryland and we enjoyed it very much! The entire campus was beautifully showcased for Maryland Day in the clear, early spring weather and the mood was uplifting. With the warm sun shining brightly we were warmly greeted by an active on the front porch of Phi Sigma Kappa, #2 Fraternity Row, and given name tags and a good handshake. We enjoyed refreshments and mixed into an already interactive setting of actives, other students and their friends, parents, relatives, and Phi Sig alumni happy to be once again on Fraternity Row. The house is in good condition and had been groomed wonderfully for the occasion. As we walked through the living room, we enjoyed seeing the Eta chapter photo composites there and in other rooms of the house and also trophies won by the brothers in golf and other sports. A pool table with Phi Sigma Kappa “tumbling T’s” adorned another room and for me would be a difficult diversion to resist in the evenings. The furniture is attractive and functional and the dining room downstairs offers many comforts unknown to us actives in the 1960’s, like the soft drink dispenser! There is a study room with appropriately sturdy chairs around an amply sized table that would encourage serious study. Recorded music was creating a nice atmosphere in the front yard and a game somewhat like horseshoes was being played, whereby you threw sand bags into a hole in a slanted board colored with the colors of the Maryland State flag—just challenging enough to be fun. Age was no barrier at the Phi Sig house that day--I won a game with Victor Alonso, a recent graduate and Phi Sig alumni. A pickup basketball game was underway in the house’s side yard as everyone chatted and enjoyed a light lunch provided by the chapter. Sunny weather in the 70’s just made it even better. Phi Sigma Kappa shone that day too! New Phi Sigma Kappa Hall of Fame members were announced and Joseph Criscuoli received an original framed trout fly that I prepared, commemorating Joe’s contributions in bringing Eta chapter back to the University of Maryland. The applause for Joe was enthusiastic and the assembled folks then continued to mix and enjoy Eta’s hospitality and revel in our regained place on campus. As we walked down the front steps at the end of the program to leave, I turned around and beamed with pride for my brothers of Phi Sigma Kappa and all the future adventures to be lived and accomplishments yet to be achieved.” Terry H. Chapman ‘62
“The Alumni Association did its usual fantastic job in organizing and implementing the Spring Open House. Joe Criscuoli tended to every small detail in welcoming back alumni from over six decades of brothers. Those who attended not only had an opportunity to see old friends, but to enjoy an entire weekend of celebration at the University of Maryland. And, if you haven't been back to campus to see the "new" Phi Sig mansion, you really must do so. John Wright has provided the men with a wonderful living experience. Those of you who have lived in "the house" at some time since 1952 will be amazed at how beautiful, elaborately furnished, and well-kept the new facility is. The Alumni Association and House Corporation have done an amazing job in serving both the alumni and the undergraduates. If you haven't already stepped up to help them - DO SO NOW!!!” Drury G. Bagwell Past Grand President
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Greek Centennial Alumni Honor Roll On Sunday, April 27, University of Maryland President Wallace Loh and Vice President Linda Clement honored past and present leaders of the Greek System at Maryland at the Centennial Alumni Honor Roll Reception at the east end of Fraternity Row. The purpose of the Centennial Honor Roll was to honor the outstanding University of Maryland fraternity and sorority members over the last 100 years, not including anyone who is currently an undergraduate student. Selection guidelines were to honor members who have made great contributions to the Maryland chapter, the University of Maryland Fraternity and Sorority Life community, elevated Fraternity and Sorority Life on a chapter or community level; or any combination of these areas of achievement. Under a formula that based the number of honorees from each chapter on the number of years that organization has had a chapter at the University of Maryland College Park, the Eta Chapter of Phi Sigma Kappa was allowed nine honorees. The Eta Chapter has existed at College Park from 1923-2002 (79 years) and 2010-present (4 years) for a total of 83 years. Phi Sigma Kappa’s 26 years at the University of Maryland-Baltimore (1897-1923) did not count.
It is with Great Pride that we introduce Phi Sigma Kappa’s honorees: Edgar Farr Russell, 1918-1922
Charles E. Wickard, 1952-1956
Philip R. Rever, 1959-1963
J. Phillip Schaefer, 1919-1923
John W. Dorsey, Jr., 1954-1958
Christopher P. McBeth, 1998-2002
James E. Starnes, 1950-1954
Robert A. Yellowlees, 1956-1960
Jay Gobeil, 2008-2012
Eta Chapter Hall of Fame Each year, the Eta Chapter, in consultation with the Eta Alumni Association, has an opportunity to add to the distinguished list of Eta Alumni selected to be honored for all time as members of the Eta Chapter Hall of Fame.
Congratulations to the New Inductees: Walter E. Laake, Jr., Esq. Todd B. Hoffman Patrick L. McGeough H. Christopher Malone Jay Gobeil Ryan Kief
Class of 1965 Class of 1982 Class of 1985 Class of 1986 Class of 2012 Class of 2012
Photos from the Eta Chapter 3rd Annual Open House, the Greek Centennial Alumni Honor Roll Reception and the 50's/60's Reunion held over the Maryland Day weekend of April 25-27 can be viewed at the Eta Alumni Photo Vault when you click this link - http://etaalumnivault.smugmug.com. While you are there, check out the newly added Donald Swain gallery. Thank you to Bob Pemberton for providing many of the 50's/60's photos. If you have photos to add, just email them to me at waynebethards@comcast.net ; and I will have them added to our album. - Wayne H. Bethards ‘59
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Photos: Grace M. Criscuoli
Formal presentations to the inductees will be made as part of our Homecoming festivities this coming October.
A Look Back: Historic College Park & Environs!
See More at: http://www.1959bhsmustangs.com/VintagePhotos_PGcounty.htm
How Many of These Landmarks Do You Recognize?
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Upcoming Events Sponsored by the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa
OCTOBER 18, 2014 - BE THERE!
HOMECOMING 2014 with the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa APRIL 25, 2015 - SAVE THE DATE!
4th Annual Open House
In conjunction with “Maryland Day” festivities hosted by the University of Maryland, the Eta Alumni Association will be welcoming alumni from across the country who will visit our Chapter House, re-connect with roommates as well as Big and Little Brothers, meet the Active members of the Eta Chapter and experience the numerous improvements that will have been made to the new home of the Eta Chapter. Make plans now to be in College Park on April 25th, and RSVP with the number of attendees in your party. We’re also very interested in finding volunteers to help with our 4th Annual Open House – write us with your RSVP, and your ability to lend a hand, via e-mail at alumni@psk-eta.com ! In search of assistance Alumni events don’t come together all by themselves. We could use some HELP and some new ideas. If you are at all interested in helping with these two events, or other events, we’d like to hear from you. Drop us an E-Mail at alumni@psk-eta.com and tell us how you’d like to help. The Alumni Association you assist may just be your own! Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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Photo: Doug Bach
At the Chapter House! Reunite with Alumni - Meet the Active Members! Celebrate the Return of Eta to Fraternity Row!
In our last issue you met "Eta Terp," better know as "ET" (Spielberg is always copying us), the official mascot of the Eta Alumni Association. "ET" is on a mission, in this, the 5th year of the Eta Alumni Association, to travel the nation and meet all the distinguished Eta Alumni and see what interesting activities in which they are engaging. So, next time you travel or are involved in some interesting activity, take "ET" along and send us a picture. We will publish all pictures in the next issue so all the Eta Alumni can appreciate where our members are travelling.
“Eta Terp”
Cut him out and take him along on your next adventure!
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“ET” in the Poconos with his pal, a Blue Heron, in the background.
Alumni Notes
“Damn Proud” On June 10, 2014, the Prince George’s County (Maryland) Bar Association honored Brother Walter E. Laake, Esq. ‘65 when they bestowed upon him the Judge James H. Taylor Award for his outstanding contributions to the bar association and to the community. The annual award was created by Judge Nicholas E. Rattal, Associate Judge, Prince George's County Circuit Court, 7th Judicial Circuit, and his Board of Directors, in 2011 and named after Judge Taylor for his outstanding leadership. The award was presented to Brother Laake at the annual meeting of the association, during which Brother Laake was thanked “for setting an example in the profession and for inspiring all of us with his commitment to the community.” “Golf, Boating, and Fishing” Dennis W. Sirman ‘67, a new member of the association, writes: “After graduation from Maryland in 1967, I taught physical education, coached a variety of sports, became an athletic director and then an assistant principal in the Baltimore County Public School System. In 1977, I received a Masters Degree in Education Administration from the University of Utah which I attended on sabbatical (the skiing was awesome and I met my wife out there, ironically a Baltimore native). I retired, after 38 years,
in 2005. I was married 27 years (now divorced) and have four children -- Brian, 34; Rebecca, 32; Kevin, 30 and Caitlin, 24. I also have two grandchildren -Hallie, 4 and Bennett, 2 months. My wife, kids and I resided in Carroll County, Maryland until I retired. I then moved to West Fenwick Island, Delaware where I now reside with my loveable 12 year old female yellow Lab, Abby. I still follow the Terps and, along with several friends, have season tickets to football games. A part time job with West Marine gives me golf money and good discounts on boat and fishing supplies. Thus golf, boating and fishing are among my hobbies. Other interests include military history and collecting and shooting firearms. I also enjoy sharing a variety of social and political BS via email with friends, taking very few things seriously.” Making a List Claude A. Bogley ‘70, is putting together a listing of Eta Brothers who served our country in the armed forces. So far he has: “Jim Comi (USAF), Nelson Kimmey (US Army), Jim Kirlin (Uncle Sam's Misguided Children), Cecil Given (USMC), John Matthews, (US Army), Charles Trayers (USN), Gerald Haser (USN), Harvey Gannon (USN), William Furber (USMC), Rick Anderson, (USMC), James Hyatt (US Army) John Silva (US Army), Claude Bogley (USN), William Brewster (US Army), Greg Man-
gum (US Army), George Braley (USAF), Dave Crowley was also (USMC), Robert Reppa (USMC), Omar James Jones III (US Army), David Michaud (USMC), Steve Ludwig (USMC), Charles Yount (U.S. Army), and James D. Reese (USMC). Whatever your service, whatever the tenure, we thank you for it and encourage you to write in and help us to compile a more complete listing. Damn Proud!
Blaker’s World Nathan Blaker ‘11 writes, “College is amazing. It's wonderful. If you don't agree, you aren't doing it right and you need a swift kick in the ass. But life after college is amazing and wonderful in different ways. I remember thinking that when I graduated, things would be more straightforward, that I would do my management training program, move to the next position, and take over the company one step at a time. I know that sounds a little ladder climbing cliche, but there it is. So I started my job, did everything that was expected of me (I would say) and was ready for the next one, or at least needed to get off that step. All I really needed to do was keep it up for a few months, keep my network strong, and I'd have hit the next rung on the ladder. But I got itchy. All those stories and experiences you hear about in college start to catch up to you. "What if..." Started to be a bigger part of my day then the "I need to..." part. This was pretty
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The Eta “Fridge” Chris Malone ‘86, Nick Mirable ‘86, Dave Etzel ‘90, Pat McNamara ‘88, David Schwartz ‘91, Andrew Rondepierre ‘87, Doug Vinson ‘87, John McLane ‘88, and his son, Jack (officially, John Carroll McLane - a future Phi Sig) at the Men’s Lacrosse Final Four events.
Congratulations to Kayla Mayberry and Christopher Flood ‘13 on their engagement!
Just another Friday Golf Outing for Eric Vinson ‘86, Dave Schwartz ‘91, Ian Hiltner ‘90, Tom Walters ‘88, and Ryan Daiger ‘86.
David Lamolinara ’82 - always a prize-winner?
Congratulations to Dawn Kellogg and Cameron Merriman '13 on their engagement!
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stressful. I talked to my boss about it, I talked to my fraternity brothers, I talked to my family, and I got a lot of great advice, all of which I already knew and none of which helped me make my decision. In the end I followed my gut. I quit my job and started helping my friend launch a photography company, which I knew nothing about and honestly had little interest in, except it would let me be my own boss and I would have the chance to build something again. (The first one was Eta. I like to think that turned out all right.) As I expected, I didn't really take to photography. Not one to live in the past, I like to look forward. Plus I'd rather be in front of a camera then behind it. So I kept my ear to the ground and had a friend that owned a restaurant and needed someone he could trust to come be the general manager. Again, no restaurant experience whatsoever but we gave it a shot. In the end, it was too far in the hole already and we had to shut it down. Sad for some, but for the owner (and me) it was the right thing. It's funny, often you look at a fork in the road and see two options. And then a hidden door in a tree opens up and a tiny gnome says "Come with me if you want to live!" Well I didn't really see a gnome and I don't think my life was ever in danger, but the point is the unexpected will happen. And it happened to me because I stay positive, I seek out conversation, and when I visit people I clean up after myself. Also be26
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cause my brother-in-laws friend was looking for a sales person. BUT he never would have recommended me if I hadn't done the other three things. So the next time you stay at your older sisters place, or your aunts, or a friend of a friend, fold the blankets. Put the pillow back. And damnit, do the dishes when no one expects it. So I got an interview, and then the next one, and then after round three I found myself packing up a truck and driving from Virginia to San Francisco to start in a new industry/job/life. The first week was amazing and frustrating- my house wasn't ready, so I slept on a high school friend’s couch for a week. Super random, never ever underestimate how the people in your life will come back later and be a big part of your journey. That was the end of February 2014, I've been in my job for a month and a half and when I look at life now, versus a year ago, I know the last year of my life happened so I could be here doing what I'm doing. Which I know is only so the next step can be even better. Or at least pleasantly different. Today I'm a Publisher Development Associate at iSocket, an ad tech company automating the direct buying and selling of reserved, fixed price online advertising inventory. Two months ago I would have heard that and said “Excuse me?” A year ago I was a sales manager at Macy’s helping sales people put together outfits for customers and discussing expectations.
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To my brothers out there let me know how your journey is going. Call me. LinkedIn me. Text me funny pictures and jokes. If you need advice, a confidential nonjudgemental ear, I'm your man. Brand new associate at Maryland? Hit me up. Older then my grand uncle? Send me a smoke signal. I'm at long short short long. I've got nothing but love for you all, and I wish you and your people success and happiness. Damn Proud, Nathan Blaker 919-475-4283 Nblaker1@gmail.com Be a part of the next "Alumni Notes" page. Tell us what you've been up to, tell us about your family, your work, your awards, or send a message to a Brother you haven't seen in a while. Send your submissions for Alumni Notes to alumni@psk-eta.com
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Our Campaign - by the Numbers
184 Pledges Received To-Date
$136,903 Raised To-Date
$13,700 From the Class of ‘85 - #1
$750 Average Pledge
Days of Active Fund-Raising
$10,250 From the Class of ‘63 - #2
Seeking Our First Donations from the Classes of: 1946 1947 1948 1949 1972 1974 1993 1996 1998 2000 2001 2002 2010 2011 2012 2013
Exclusive Naming Rights Are Still Available
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Tax-Deductible* Contributions to the “Six Columns” Fund are still being accepted.
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See the Six Columns Honor Roll of Donors when you click on this banner at our website - www.Alumni.PSK-Eta.com
Donations by-Class 1985 1963 1962 1986 1957 1964 1982 1973 1977 1960 1961 1956 1981 1958 1965 1987 1954 1959 1952 1970 1966 1979 1976 1980 1984 1955 Non-Eta 1968 1978 1967 1953 1989 1971 1975 1950 1999 1951 1994 1990 1969 1992 1997 1991 1988 1945 1995 1983
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Missing in Action... These Eta Classes await their first donation: 1946 1972 1998 2010
1947 1974 2000 2011
1948 1993 2001 2012
With a Very Special Thanks to: Campaign Directors: Wayne H. Bethards ‘59 Joseph E. Criscuoli ‘82 Peter J. Della-Croce ‘99 Todd B. Hoffman ‘82 Phillip R. Rever ‘63 John J. B. Wright, Esq. ‘82
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Naming Rights Still Available There exists a unique opportunity for a donor, and/or groups of donors, to secure naming rights for many parts of the new home of the Eta Chapter of Phi Sigma Kappa. Naming rights are offered on a first-come first-donated basis, and are acknowledged with a decorative plaque to displayed for a period of twenty-five years from our move-in date of January 25, 2012.
Dial 301-206-5472 TODAY to Reserve Your Naming Rights, Register Your Pledge, and make your Tax-Deductible* Donation. *Gifts in support of the University of Maryland are accepted and managed by the University of Maryland College Park Foundation Inc., an affiliated 501c(3) organization authorized by the Board of Regents. Gifts are tax deductible as allowed by law. Please consult your tax advisor.
Lary L. Acker ‘57 James E. Allen ‘77 Drury G. Bagwell ‘64 Edward P. Becker ‘70 Lance J. Billingsley ‘61 Terry J. Billingsley ‘63 Claude A. Bogley ‘70 Andrew D. Cameron ‘89 James A. Charanis ‘87 Jim H. Fields, Jr. Esq. ‘85 Bruce L. Gordon ‘79 Hon. James E. Kenkel ‘55 Allen J. Krowe ‘54 Walter E. Laake, Jr. Esq. ‘65 David E. Lamolinara ‘82 H. Christopher Malone ‘86 Patrick L. McGeough ‘83 Hon. Thomas V. “Mike” Miller ‘64 R. Russ O’Haver ‘81 Robert G. Pemberton ‘58 Oscar L. Reksten ‘73 James E. Starnes ‘55 Adrian G. Teel ‘64 Jerry C. Tobin ‘52 John R. Tydings ‘63* Warren B. Wimer, Esq. ‘62 Leslie David Young ‘62 Francis P. Zurmuhlen ‘53* *Deceased
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Eternal
The Executive Committee regrets to report that the following Brothers of Eta Chapter have entered the Chapter Eternal since the publication of the last issue of The THIRD DEGREE, and ask that you join us in prayers for our departed Brothers and their families. Leslie E. Davies John R. Tydings
1952 1963
Robert O. Whiteley Richard J. Wieland
Leslie Eugene “Gene” Davies
1956 1951
Eta Class of 1952
November 3, 1928 – December 17, 2013 Gene died unexpectedly on December 17, 2013 at his home in Issue, Maryland. He was a realtor, insurance agent and certified property appraiser for more than fifty years with County Services, Inc. He is survived by his wife, Gloria Davies, of sixty years, nine children: Leslie (Larry) Hilliard, Christopher (Brenda) Davies, Sharon (Lee) Flick, Gregory (Darlene) Davies, Carol (Adam) Frank, Theresa (James) Hill, Loraine (Lou) Hennessy, Victoria Davies, Peter Davies, eighteen grandchildren, one great grandchild, and his brother Neal Davies. He was predeceased by his daughter Charlotte, brother, Harry Davies, and sister, Eileen Bucher. Gene was the son of Dr. and Mrs. Harry F. Davies of Upper Marlboro, MD. He was a graduate of Charlotte Hall Military Academy, a World War II veteran of the US army of Occupation in Japan and a graduate from the University of Maryland earning a BA, American University - Law and Appraising, University of Washington - Psychology, Economics, University of Miami - Insurance Management, Graduate of Realtor Institute of Maryland. He was a lifelong Democrat and served on the Central Committee for 19 years. He was a founding member of the Southern Maryland Board of Realtors and the John F. Kennedy Council Knights of Columbus. Member of the Southern Maryland Board of Realtors, Past president of the Realtors Land Institute, Maryland and National Assoc. of Realtors, Western Charles Business Assoc., Charles County Chamber of Commerce, a life member of American Legion, Lions International, VFW and Knights of Columbus, member of Amvets, Izaak Walton League, Elks, Maryland and Charles Historical Society, the Fourth and Fifth Democratic Club, the Western Democratic Club and the Northern Democratic Club of Charles County, Phi Sigma Kappa, Alpha Phi Omega, NAACP, the Arts Alliance, Master of the Bryans Road Grange, a Boy Scout leader, and an usher at Holy Ghost Church. Gene was most proud of his family and being a Democrat. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the charity of your choice in memory of Gene Davies. Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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John R. Tydings
Eta Class of 1963
October 27, 1941 - November 16, 2013 Brother John R. Tydings entered the Chapter Eternal of Phi Sigma Kappa peacefully on November 16, 2013. Survived by Donna Thomas Tydings, his beloved wife of 50 years; son John Michael (Keri) Tydings and daughter Lynnly Tydings (Philip Lynch); adored grandfather of Aidan, Maeson, Amelia Grace and Reece. Cousin Barbara (Ron) Gregory and their daughter Dawn (Paul) Norris. A Mass of Christian Burial was held on Thursday, November 21 at 11 a.m. at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 9200 Kentsdale Drive, Potomac, MD. Born in Washington, DC, Brother Tydings was a 1959 graduate of Oxon Hill High School. He was a 1963 graduate of the University of Maryland at College Park with a BA in History and Psychology and held an Honorary Degree in Public Policy from The George Washington University in Washington, DC. Following five years at Pepco, in 1968 Brother Tydings joined the Greater Washington Board of Trade, where he served as president for 24 years until his retirement in 2001. He was the longest serving president of the Washington Board of Trade and as its president was seen as a business leader in Washington and an influential citizen who was responsible for initiating community based programs, such as Heroes, Inc. Heroes, Inc., of which Brother Tydings was Senior Vice President, is dedicated to aiding families of law enforcement officers and firefighters who have died in the line of duty in the Washington, DC, metropolitan area. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Heroes, Inc. Scholarship Program, 1200 29th Street NW, Washington, D.C. 20007.
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Robert O. “Bob” Whiteley
Eta Class of 1956
January 24, 1934 – February 26, 2014 Williamsburg, Maryland. - Robert Orem Whiteley, better known as "Bob," of Williamsburg passed away on Wednesday, Feb. 26, 2014, at his home. Born in Williamsburg on January 24, 1934, he was the son of the late Walter Orem and Margaret Bradley Whiteley. After graduating from North Dorchester High School, Class of 1952, he attended the University of Maryland and while there he pledged the Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity. He graduated, Class of 1956, with a degree in accounting. As a young man he moved to New York to pursue a career in accounting. He later moved back to Williamsburg to take over the family business, W.O. Whiteley & Son, as a grain and cucumber dealer. He was a member of Elks Lodge 1272 in Cambridge and a member of Masonic Lodge Choptank 138 in East New Market and a member and supporter of the Honga Blackwater Annual Game Dinner for many years. He is survived by one daughter, Julia Whiteley Killian and her husband, Brad, of Raleigh, North Carolina, two granddaughters, Lila Grace Killian and Lucinda Jones Killian of Raleigh; and a dear friend, Carolyn Jones of Salisbury. He was preceded in death by his brother, Walter Whiteley Jr., who passed away in 1932. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to the Baywater Animal Rescue, 4930 Bucktown Road, Cambridge, MD 21613.
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Richard J. “Dick” Wieland
Eta Class of 1951
October 10, 1929 – June 9, 2013 Col. Richard J. "Dick" Wieland, USAF Ret. Richard J. Wieland, 83, of Lockhart, Texas passed away peacefully at home Sunday June 9, 2013 after a prolonged period of declining health. Dick was born on October 10, 1929 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, the only child of the late Ralph Wieland and Margaret Metz Wieland. He grew up in Tacoma Park, Maryland before attaining his BA in Education from the University of Maryland at College Park in 1951. While in college Dick was active in ROTC and entered the US Air Force as a 2nd Lieutenant after graduation. While on active duty, he was stationed at five bases in Texas and Okinawa during the Korean War. After seven years of service, he went to Washington, D.C. to attend Georgetown University Law School. He then returned to Houston where he served as the first law clerk of Federal District Judge James Noel, after which he was hired as one of the first two attorneys at NASA's Johnson Space Center. His time there during the Gemini and Apollo missions was a highlight of his career. At that time he joined the USAF Reserves on flying status as a navigator, eventually earning the rank of Colonel. It was also during this time that he met and married Sally Ann McEver of Lockhart. After fourteen years at the Johnson Space Center, he was transferred to NASA Headquarters in Washington, D.C. as an assistant general counsel. He retired from NASA and the USAF Reserves and moved to Austin, Texas where he practiced law and taught in the MBA program at St. Edward's University. He served as national president of the Federal Bar Association, and was instrumental in the creation of both the Austin chapter of the FBA and the Austin chapter of the American Inns of Court. In 1997 he and Sally moved to her hometown of Lockhart where they chaired the dedication of the newly renovated Caldwell County Courthouse. He was active in community organizations and the First United Methodist Church, as well as being elected to three terms on the Lockhart City Council. Dick is survived by his wife of 48 years, Sally, and his daughter Cari Wieland of Austin. In lieu of flowers, those so moved are asked to donate in his name to Hospice Austin or Camp For All in Burton, Texas.
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Brandon Jae Kwan Baker October 23, 1995 – February 28, 2014 Suddenly, and without warning, a year that seemed so very filled with promise has turned oh, so filled with pain and sadness. The news was, as it usually is, conveyed by a telephone call late in the night. And that is how I learned on February 28th of the tragic and premature end of the life of my friend, Brandon Jae Kwan Baker. The loving and only son of Steven (H’82) and Kim Baker, and big brother to his sister, Marissa, Brandon’s passing has plunged all who knew him, and all who know his family, indeed an entire community in southern New Jersey, into a feeling of loss that simply cannot be measured. Brandon was 18 years old when, in the fading light of a Friday afternoon, a motor vehicle accident snatched him away from us far too soon, and ended a life that was filled with tremendous happiness and great promise. Brandon did something that few others have done. He happily attended just about every Maryland football game in recent memory. And he loved the very concept of tailgating, especially Phi Sig tailgates. He brought smiles to everyone and was enthusiastic about everything having to do with the University of Maryland. At the services for Brandon it seemed that his entire hometown came out to pay tribute to a life well lived, to a person who brought joy to others, and to a friend that they will not soon forget. Baseball was his game, and his team arrived in uniform - they have since retired his number. As I attempt to write this memorial his parents are attending Brandon’s high school graduation ceremony. The school has placed an empty chair at the ceremony. His classmates, to this very day, express a deep feeling of emptiness brought about by his absence. Brandon Jae Kwan Baker would have made a great Terp, and a terrific member of Phi Sigma Kappa. He always did, and I know he would always, make us “Damn Proud” of him, his accomplishments, and his character. I think I’ll place a Phi Sig pin on this page so, whenever I look at this magazine, I’ll be reminded of what might have been, and of how very much I miss my friend...and “nephew.”
- Joseph E. Criscuoli, H’82 Brandon, Kim, Steve, and Marissa Baker Summer 2014 The THIRD DEGREE
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n the future, when I’m asked to describe my experience working as Phi Sigma Kappa’s House Mom for the past two and a half years, what will I say? Perhaps I’ll talk about how I was asked to away weekend every semester without fail. Maybe I’ll gripe about DJ and his constant messes, the highlights being the yogurt-covered basement and his name written in blood on the door. I still have yogurt on my bike, by the way. Or perhaps I’ll reminisce on all the Greek Life events I worked, where I always took a tally of the number of PSK’s present and reprimanded their low attendance (in the form of Instagram photos and notes left on the dry-erase board). Maybe I’ll talk about the countless lunches in the basement, or the many times I was serenaded by the boys, or the long conversations, or the fact that I had someone to talk to when I came home, no matter what. But at the end of the day, these are all stories, that together amount to one overall message: living with PSK and watching them grow as individuals and a chapter has been one of the best adventures of my life. I knew coming to Maryland that I loved working with college students, but I never dreamed I would get to work in such close quarters to 30 college-aged guys—literally, close quarters. The house smells to high heaven when the air conditioner is out and all 30 boys are sweaty. And even though I occasionally overheard conversations I didn’t want to hear (“would you tell your mother that?!”), and even though they sometimes pissed me off when they erased my messages or drew dirty pictures on them, and even though they have a different concept of the idea of “clean,” I consider them all to be my brothers. With the title “House Mom,” it seems I’d be more inclined to refer to them as my children. And even though I had to remind them to clean up after themselves sometimes, or move their laundry from the washer to dryer, or just general damage control, I don’t consider them my children. Instead, I know I’ve developed relationships more akin to brotherhood, and that I have made many friends for life through this experience. Even though I am not a member of Phi Sigma Kappa, I will forever hold the organization, and the Eta Chapter in particular, dear to my heart, for they have provided for me some of my best memories from the University of Maryland. I will forever be thankful that I got to share a home with them. Now that the house is empty yet again, another summer upon us, I have the house to myself for two months before I move out, and on, as well. But there’s something strange about living in the house in the summer months, 36
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because a key component is missing: the guys. The noisiness, the techno music (how can anyone study with that in the background?), the cursing that accompanies video games…it’s all gone, and I’m sad knowing I’ll never once again live with 30 guys. While I’m excited for this next chapter of my life, I’ll always miss my little home at Phi Sigma Kappa. Thank you to the amazing brothers and alumni that have welcomed me into their lives and have made me feel so at home. I am so excited to keep in touch and see where your lives take you. Also, DJ: thanks for the “Thanks for putting up with me” chocolates. They are delicious. Damn Proud, Katherine Kipp Eta Chapter House Mother 2012 - 2014
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