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Volume 6, Issue 12

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On the Road With Ray Magnificent Panama

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Making Their Move: Harvey & Linda McCray

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- Guide To Levels Of Care - The Village of Bedford Walk - Provision Living

of Columbia - Columbia’s Senior Housing Directory

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23 Prime Time Can’t-Miss Events For March 28 Boone Hospital Center Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month 30 Tinseltown Talks William Schallert 32 Tell Me About It Get Angel’s Relationship Advice 34 Fun & Games Crossword, Sudoku, Tiger Vision & More 38 Recipe Box Redefine “Milk And Cookies”

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40 Life Lessons The Search For Dennis 42 Faces And Places Cosmo Pancake Day 44 Readers Share Your Favorite Teen Idols

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46 Columbia Confidential Publisher Fred Parry Takes On The Issues Columbians Are Talking About

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Welcome

What’s Your Retirement Dream?

Our kids are still in elementary school, but already, my husband and I have plans for retirement. Our dream involves selling our house, buying an RV and seeing America.

We figure our daughter and son will welcome regular visits from Mom and Dad, and we can just imagine taking our grandkids on adventures with us.

But if for some reason, that dream doesn’t work out, or if after a decade of traveling, we decide it’s time to settle down again, I’m thinking a retirement spent in a home with no maintenance cares, no need for cooking, friends all around us, lots of community activities and the peace of mind of knowing there are people looking out for our safety sounds like a dream life, too.

In this special Senior Housing Issue of Prime, we explore the options that Columbia’s seniors have for taking advantage of such an active, carefree lifestyle. We start with Harvey and Linda McCray, who made the move to senior housing last June and who have been congratulating themselves for their smart decision ever since.

Find out why on Page 8. We also have a directory of local senior housing facilities, plus a story that explains the different levels of care available.

You’ll also find all the favorite Prime fare — from a travel story with roving reporter Ray Speckman to puzzles, recipes and reminiscing with our readers.

We hope this issue, even more than most, helps you make the most of your prime years. Thanks for spending some time with us.

Prime Magazine is published by OutFront Communications, 47 E. Broadway, Columbia, MO 65203, 573-442-1430. Copyright OutFront Communications, 2013. The magazine is published 12 times a year on the first day of every month. All rights reserved. Reproduction or use of any editorial or graphic content without the express written permission of the publisher is prohibited.

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staff Publisher Fred Parry Associate Publisher Melody Garnett Parry Associate Publisher & Executive Editor Sandy Selby Managing Editor Anita Neal Harrison Graphic Designer Alyssa Blevins Trever Griswold Joe Waner Photo Editor L.G. Patterson Marketing Representatives Rosemarie Peck Samantha Cook Joe Schmitter Operations Manager Kalie Clennin Operations Assistant Lilly Smith Finance Manager Brenda Brooks Distribution Manager John Lapsley Social Media / Digital Editor Drew Van Dyke Contributing Writers Saralee Perel, Angel Donnette Robertson, Ray Speckman, Nick Thomas

SERVING THE BOOMER & SENIOR MARKETS

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Magnificent Panama The Canal Is Just The Beginning

BY RAY SPECKMAN

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There is a lot more to the Isthmus of Panama than the canal that connects the Atlantic and Pacific oceans.

Make no mistake, however — the canal is the driving force allowing this country of 4 million residents to thrive.

Flying direct from Houston, in a southby-southeast direction, my travel companion and I passed over the Eastern Time Zone and then skirted the Pacific Ocean until an astonishing sight appeared before our eyes: towering skyscrapers, hundreds it seemed, lining the ocean and stretching miles inland.

That surprise trumped the dozens of ocean cruisers in Panama Bay, some awaiting their turn to enter the canal and

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others having traveled the approximately 50 miles from the Atlantic, headed to their destinations in the Pacific, whether San Diego, Los Angles or even Hong Kong.

Our trip would include a boat tour of the entire canal from the Pacific to the Atlantic. We started in Panama City and disembarked in Colon. As the tour boat waited in the locks to be lowered to the Atlantic, I reached out and felt the side of the lock. It was strange to touch concrete poured more than 100 years ago and thrilling to think of it being the product of a tremendous and seemingly impossible undertaking, first started and abandoned by the French and then completed in 1914 by the United States.

On our tour, I learned that thousands of laborers worked for years to complete the canal’s three sets of locks, two on the Pacific side and one on the Atlantic/ Caribbean side. The locks lead ships into a huge manmade lake, Gatun Lake, covering 164.1 square miles at an elevation of 85 feet above the levels of the two oceans.

Using the lake, ocean liners traverse the Continental Divide.

During the Jimmy Carter administration, the ownership of the canal was turned over to Panama. Twelve years later, in 1989, President George H. W. Bush invaded the small country to oust Dictator Manuel Noriega, who had been stealing millions from Panama. Then

things began to happen. An autonomous organization was selected to operate the canal, and it showed terrific profit. Some of that money has gone to improve the infrastructure and living conditions in Panama, with the result of it becoming a hub for international banking — thus the number of high-rises. Only two cities in the Western Hemisphere, New York City and Chicago, have more highrises than Panama City.

Currently, there is a huge project to expand the canal. Parallel with the three existing locks, new huge locks are being constructed that will allow larger ships to go from ocean to ocean. That construction project is due to be completed by the end of 2015. To see those huge locks, the immense gates and the shear enormity of the project boggles the mind. The lock gates tower 300-feethigh alongside the dig. Massive cranes, which will move the new locks into place, look like toys in the basin.

In addition to our boat tour, we rode a train — owned, by the way, by Kansas City Southern Railway in the U.S. — from Panama City to Colon. We also vis-

Panama City

ited a jungle lodge on an island in Gatun Lake and played with the monkeys.

I must give a huge shout-out to the most inviting, clean, comfortable and friendly boutique hotel we have ever experienced, Toscana Inn Hotel.

As for the food, select carefully and have menus explained. The highlight was a dinner of huge prawns, shelled but with head and tails not removed,

surrounding buttered mashed potatoes and covered with an orange sauce, all for $13.

All in all, from its beachfront high-rises to its mighty canal to its jungle fauna, Panama is a marvel worth visiting. ❖

Ray Speckman can be found in his office watching Panama YouTube videos or at rayspeckman@emmesattic.com.

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Harvey & Linda McCray Discover A Better Way Of Living

BY ANITA NEAL HARRISON

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Harvey and Linda McCray knew they were doing the right thing.

They had several good reasons for leaving their home in Olathe, Kan. — a home they had built 32 years earlier — and moving into a senior housing community in Columbia. But knowing it was the right thing to do did not mean they weren’t concerned about their adjustment.

“Even when we got here, we were a little unsure about how things were going to work out,” 83-yearold Harvey says, “but we were really amazed at how nice people were and how easy it was to acclimate ourselves to this style of living.

“In fact,” he adds with a chuckle, “I’ve grown really fond of this style of living.”

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TA KING CH A R GE For the McCrays, no crisis spurred their decision to move into senior housing. Instead, it was a desire to avoid a crisis and to remain in charge of their situation.

“We discussed the fact that we didn’t want to move twice, that if we moved, we wanted to move someplace that we could stay,” Linda, 77, says.

There were several reasons a move seemed like a wise choice.

To start, their home had two levels, and their bedroom was upstairs. With three artificial hips between them, Harvey and Linda struggled to get around. A stair glide made it possible to get from one floor to the other, but not convenient.

Another problem was keeping up with chores.

“There were a lot of things that were getting too hard to do, so we just decided to get away from all the work around the house,” Harvey says.

That decision was made easier as they watched friends make similar moves.

“When we would visit them, we would have dinner with them and see their apartment and how much they enjoyed it, and we were inspired to do the same,” Linda says.

CH OOSING A NE W PL ACE At first, the McCrays looked at senior housing near their home in Olathe, but then it occurred to them that eventually, it might get difficult for them to make trips to Columbia to visit their son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren.

Columbia’s draws didn’t stop with grandchildren. Harvey was born in Boone Hospital and grew up in Columbia, and both he and Linda, who went to high school in Jefferson City, graduated from MU. When they told their children they were thinking about moving to a retirement community, their daughter-in-law mentioned that the mother of one of her co-workers managed The Terrace, an independent living retirement community.

“We really liked it when we came to visit,” Linda says. “The people were so friendly.”

“It just felt like the place we’d like to come to,” Harvey adds.

Along with the friendly, welcoming atmosphere, the McCrays liked the apartments. They chose an apartment with two bedrooms, so the grandkids could sleepover, and a full kitchen. The dining — both the setting and the food itself — was another attraction, and the McCrays were glad to hear about outings to places such as Hermann, Rocheport and Jefferson City.

“They’ll also take you to doctor’s appointments, so we knew when we couldn’t drive, we’d have a way to get around,” Harvey says.

Other amenities, such as the library, barber/beauty shop, fitness room and billiards room, were just nice extras.

LE T T ING GO “The hardest part was, of course, downsizing,” Linda says.

“It took us seven months of working on it about day and night,” Harvey adds.

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Their house had four bedrooms, a full basement and a double garage. The first step was to choose which furniture and other belongings would make the trip with them to Columbia. Then, they invited their children to come get the furniture, pictures, tools and whatever else they wanted. Harvey and Linda also donated to charities and, finally, had an estate sale.

It was a big job but one the McCrays were glad to be “forced” to do.

“We were just happy that we could do it ourselves, that we didn’t have to rely on our children to do it all,” Linda says. “We could make our own decisions and go through our things and pick out what we wanted to bring.”

The McCrays also liked getting to see their children and grandchildren receive treasured belongings.

“A good example is our baby grand piano,” Harvey says. “Our son has it now because our granddaughter is going to be starting lessons. We look forward to going over and hearing her play.”

Despite parting with more than half of their belongings, the McCrays still ended up bringing more than they needed. They have made good use of a storage room that came with their apartment.

“You think when you first move in, ‘Oh my goodness, I’ll never get rid of all these boxes and put all this stuff away,’ ” Linda says, “but it’s worked out.”

Harvey laughs.

“She doesn’t have to go down to the storeroom,” he says. “I still do that.”

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SE T T LING IN Upon their arrival, a welcome sign on their door let everyone know their names, and more signs in the elevators also helped introduce them.

“People would come up to us and say, ‘Are you the McCrays?’ and we’d introduce ourselves,” Harvey says. “Also, the staff would seat us with different people at meals. That’s how we’ve come to know almost everyone here.”

Harvey and Linda have their son’s family over frequently and also invite friends they’ve made, or reconnected with, in Columbia.

“The food here is really good, so we don’t have any qualms about inviting friends over to have dinner with us,” Linda says.

Harvey and Linda have both been involved in skits and programs at The Terrace and a singing group. Linda joined a bridge group, and Harvey, a pitch group. Outside The Terrace, they both sing in their church choir, and they meet with the high school class of 1949 at the Golden Corral once a month for lunch. Harvey also golfs, and Linda has joined Mothers Singers, a P.E.O. group and a Bible study at her church.

All in all, they say they couldn’t be happier with their choice to make the move to senior housing.

“For people trying to make up their minds, my suggestion is to do it before you get where you can’t manage it yourself,” Linda says. “Do it soon enough that you can make your own decisions and enjoy your retirement. ... It really only took about a week for us to feel at home.” ❖

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Special Section: Senior Housing

Senior Housing 101

Independent Living? Assisted Living? Which Option Is Right For You?

BY ANITA NEAL HARRISON

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Senior housing is a broad category.

Although the first thing to come to mind might be skilled nursing facilities, those are far from the only senior housing option.

Medicare.gov and the Society of Certified Senior Advisors, a national organization that educates professionals to work more effectively with their senior clients, offer information to help seniors find the right options for their needs.

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“senior living communities,” these facilities are designed for independent and active adults who have few or no health care needs. They are built to accommodate an active senior lifestyle by providing recreational, educational and social activities such as exercise classes, guest speakers and organized outings. They also attract people looking for smaller, more efficient homes and fewer maintenance responsibilities for carefree living.

Independent living facilities tend to incorporate universal design elements for greater accessibility and safety. They may or may not include hospitality and support services such as meals and assistance with basic personal tasks of

everyday life, called activities of daily living. Residents who need extra help can privately contract with an agency to provide care services.

These facilities are not regulated by state or federal licensing departments.

ADULT DAY HEALTH CARE An adult day health care facility is a place where the adult who needs supervision and assistance is dropped off just for the day. Programs typically provide meals, personal assistance, medication management, social interaction, therapeutic activities and more.

Transportation to and from the facility may be provided.

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There are three types of adult day health care models: • Social, for individuals who do not need medical-based services. Basic care, supervision, meals, recreation and social activities are provided.

• Medical, for individuals who require medical monitoring because of health conditions. Physical, occupational and/or speech therapies might also be offered.

• Combination, which incorporates both social and medical models.

RESIDENTIAL CARE FACILITY In Missouri, residential care facilities are licensed to provide 24-hour care to residents needing assistance with personal care, which may include diet supervision, administration of medications and supervision of health care under the direction of a licensed physician.

Residents who live in a residential care facility are required to be able to make a path to safety without assistance.

ASSISTED LIVING FACILITIES These facilities are ideal for seniors who do not need much medical care but do need assistance with personal care, medication management and housekeeping. Residents often live in their own rooms or apartments and have some or all of their meals with fellow residents.

Social and recreational activities are usually provided.

Typically, residents pay per month, and any additional fees are due depending on needed services. In Missouri, eligible seniors can receive

help through the Supplemental Nursing Care program.

Assisted living facilities in Missouri must have a licensed nursing home administrator.

NURSING HOMES AND SKILLED NURSING FACILITIES A nursing home is a skilled nursing facility in which nurses are available to offer personal care and 24-hour health services. A nursing home has the resources to help people who can no longer live alone at home or in their own apartments within a retirement community.

Skilled nurses help residents with significant health issues such as heart failure, diabetes and disabilities from a stroke.

Medicare will cover rehabilitation services and short-term nursing home care for a period of time post-hospitalization, and Medicaid may cover costs for people who meet their state’s financial eligibility criteria and minimum level of needed care requirement.

CONTINUING CARE RETIREMENT COMMUNITIES In a continuing care retirement community, a variety of living situation options is available for residents. There are individual houses or apartments for people who can live on their own, assisted living for people who need regular help and skilled nursing for individuals who require more assistance, such as 24-hour health care and prepared meals.

Residents live in the appropriate setting for their care needs within the housing community. Typically there is a fee before moving into a retirement community, followed by monthly fees. v

For more information on the different long-term care facilities in Missouri, visit www.health.mo.gov/seniors/nursinghomes.

This section of the Missouri Department of Health & SeniorServices website includes links for “How to Select a Nursing Home,” “Nursing Home Compare,” “How Nursing Homes are Inspected” and “Frequently Asked Questions.”

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Easy Living

One benefit that often surprises new residents of independent and assisted living communities is how convenient their homes are. Most senior housing uses universal design, and, as the name implies, universal design incorporates features that allow people of all ages and abilities to use a home. These features include one-story living, no-step entry, wide doorways and hallways, extra floor space, floors and bathtubs with nonslip surfaces, thresholds that are flush with the floor, good lighting, lever door handles and rocker light switches.

Although handy right from the start, these features become life-changing as seniors age.

Designed to adapt to the widest range of users, universal design features support independence and enable aging-in-place.

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A DVERT IS EMENT

Guide to

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THE VILLAGE OF BEDFORD WALK A NEW KIND OF LIVING

Opening summer of 2015, The Village of Bedford Walk will offer abundant amenities and personalized services to residents of this premier independent living community in Columbia. Designed for individuals 55 and better, the Village of Bedford Walk will offer a unique opportunity to thrive in a community where the details are taken care of, so residents can enjoy living life their way.

A variety of floor plan options at The Village of Bedford Walk will allow residents to find a home suited to their personal needs. A multi-story building will offer unique studio, one-bedroom, one-bedroom with a den, and two-bedroom floor plans. Villa-style living will also be available, offering a spacious two-bedroom, two-bath floor plan and a one-bedroom, one-and-a-half-bath plan with a den. Each villa will include an attached one-car garage with zero-entry for residents’ comfort and accessibility.

The all-inclusive monthly fee will eliminate the inconvenience of managing multiple utility bills each month. Rent will include all utility costs, cable services, Internet access, home telephone services and a daily catered lunch. For resident convenience, concierge services will be

available to assist with scheduled transportation, personal appointments and additional day-to-day resident requests.

Encouraging an active lifestyle, The Village of Bedford Walk will provide community amenities to appeal to multiple interests. Residents will enjoy access to the fitness and wellness center, a billiard and game room, resistance pool, movie theatre, sundry shop, casual bistro and a spacious community area with a private kitchen.

The new community will be conveniently located on the south side of Columbia at the corner of Bethel and Nifong. The Village of Bedford Walk is managed by JES Prime Senior Living Services, who focus on communities for active seniors seeking a vibrant lifestyle. This JES Prime Community will offer individuals opportunities for growth, with a high level of service and hospitality.

Model villa homes are now available for a preview of what this beautiful community will offer. Villa and apartment homes are actively leasing. For more information, or to schedule a private tour, please call Ashley, Community Manager, at 573-303-7252 or visit us at www.bedfordwalk.com.

The Village of Bedford Walk

415 Bailey Drive | 573-303-7252 www.TheVillageofBedfordWalk.com

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PROVISION LIVING AT COLUMBIA WE ARE GETTING READY TO WELCOME YOU HOME.

Are you looking for neighbors with many passions to gather, share and play?

From a full social calendar of events that includes daily entertainment options both on- and off-site to more private tailored events in our library, theater and intimate café, Provision Living will quickly feel like home. The discreet assistance allows residents of Provision to have the opportunity to plan a full day of events or relax in the many private areas of their community, all with nursing professionals on staff available 24/7.

Provision Living at Columbia is a brand-new senior living community opening in Columbia this summer. Provision Living is a lease-only community that will offer residents private apartments with discreet assistance. This 11-acre campus is set in a residential neighborhood rich with parks, walking trails and friendly neighbors. At Provision Living, the discreet assisted living options will offer residents a life made easy, time saved and simply uncompromised living.

Are you ready to enjoy fabulous meals in a gorgeous setting every day?

The Provision Living dining room will fit the bill. The dining room will offer three full meals a day available from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. and served restaurant-style. The gorgeous dining

room offers panoramic wooded views and both indoor and outdoor dining options. All Provision Living meals are freshly prepared on-site by an executive chef.

Are you or a loved one experiencing the challenges of memory loss?

Provision Living has a dedicated neighborhood within the community preparing to welcome them home. This neighborhood will serve residents dealing with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia diagnoses. Residents in this exclusive neighborhood benefit from a robust, scheduled social program that nourishes the mind, body and spirit. The dedicated team of experienced memory care professionals will work to build connections with each resident through genuine friendship and exquisite care and will thus reduce anxiety, resulting in more successful days for your loved one.

The leasing information center is now open daily Monday through Friday. Be in the know: Join our VIP interest list now to be kept up-to-date on apartment availability and community timeline to open. VIPs will also be invited to any upcoming events and dusty shoe building tours. Reserve your apartment early and become a member of our exclusive Founder’s Club offering priority apartment selections and complimentary services. Call or drop by to learn more.

Provision Living at Columbia 2333 Chapel Hill Rd | 573-234-1091 www.ColumbiaSeniorLiving.com

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Columbia’s Directory Senior Housing

Mid-Missouri has several senior housing options covering every level of care. Seniors can choose from a wide selection of floor plans and a variety of amenities. Check out the offerings with this directory.

Bethel Ridge Estates I & II

3711 Santiago Drive Columbia, MO 65203 www.fairwaymanagement.com/property_ websites/Bethel Ridge/ www.fairwaymanagement.com/property_ websites/Bethel Ridge II/ 573-443-0158 Level of Care: Independent Living Number of Units: 42 at each of the two properties Unit Sizes: two-bedroom, two-bath Amenities: community room with fireplace; library and computer area; exercise room; theater room; beauty salon; billiards area; beautiful landscaped patio areas and walking trails; shuttle service; optional meal program; resident activities/events Description: Excellent senior housing in great south/central location! Affordable living in a spacious two-bed, two-bath design, complete with a full kitchen and washer/drawer in every apartment. Age and income restrictions apply. Come home to Bethel Ridge Estates!

Bluff Creek Terrace Assisted Living Community 3104 Bluff Creek Drive Columbia, MO 65201 www.americareusa.net/location/bluffcreek-terrace/ 573-355-9614 20

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Level of Care: Assisted Living and Memory Care Assisted Living Number of Units: 21 Accommodations: private and shared, each with a full bath Amenities: beauty/barber shop; beautifully landscaped exercise/walk area; restaurant-style dining; family room with piano and TV; social events; wellness program Description: We offer a full-time licensed nurse; personal assistance with bathing, dressing and grooming; medication supervision and administration; and therapy services. All meals are served in our lovely dining room, and family members and friends are always welcome! Come see why the smaller size makes the difference!

Colony Pointe and The Arbors at Colony Pointe

1510 Chapel Hill Road Columbia, MO 65203 www.americareusa.net/location/colony-pointe www.americareusa.net/location/the-arborsat-colony-pointe 573-234-4318 Level of Care: Assisted Living Number of Units: 82 Accommodations: five styles/sizes Amenities: full-time licensed nurse; personal assistant 24/7; medication supervision; therapy services available; restaurant-

style dining; assistance (upon request) with bathing, dressing, grooming and other hygiene services; family-style living room; full-time activity director; social events within community; activity room with piano and TV; beauty/barber shop; exercise area; walking area Description: Your job is living life to the fullest. Ours is helping you do just that. The primary job description of our personal assistants? Provide what you need when you need it. At Colony Pointe Assisted Living, you do the living, and let us do the assisting.

Provision Living at Columbia

2333 Chapel Hill Road Columbia, MO 65203 www.ColumbiaSeniorLiving.com 573-234-1091 Level of Care: Assisted Living and Memory Care Number of Units: 95 Unit Sizes: studio; one-bedroom, onebath; two-bedroom, two-bath Amenities: private apartments; social, recreational and educational activities and events; breakfast, lunch and dinner served restaurant-style daily; light housekeeping and linen services; comfortable studies and lounges; private dining for families and guests; fitness and physical therapy areas; 24-hour staff and emergency response Description: Coming to Columbia this summer, the Provision Living lifestyle

encourages strong connections between residents, friends, family and community resources while providing privacy and support tailored to each resident’s lifestyle.

Enjoy what Provision Living has to offer.

Gentry Estates

4150 Bethel Street Columbia, MO 65203 www.fairwaymanagement.com/property_ websites/Gentry Estates/ 573-443-0437 Level of Care: Independent Living Number of Units: 42 Unit Sizes: one-bedroom, one-bath and two-bedroom, two-bath Amenities: large community room with full kitchen; computer lab and library; fitness room; billiard game room; theater room; multipurpose room; outside patio with grilling area; walking paths; resident-controlled access; shuttle service; meal program Description: Each apartment includes a full kitchen with a range and oven, refrigerator with ice maker, garbage disposal and dishwasher; ceiling fans; and a full-size stackable washer and dryer.

Certain age and income restrictions apply. Call 573-443-0437 to arrange a private tour.

The Neighborhoods by TigerPlace

3003 Falling Leaf Court Columbia, MO 65201 www.americareusa.net/location/theneighborhoods-by-tigerplace/ Level of Care: Skilled Nursing Number of Units: 88 Accommodations: private or shared, many with their own half baths Amenities: self-contained 14-room neighborhoods, each with its own restaurant, living area, spa and outdoor courtyard; physical, occupational and speech therapies; aquatic therapy; medication management;

restorative nursing programs; specialized wound and skin care program Description: The Neighborhoods by TigerPlace offers expertise with an innovative spirit. From life-changing technology through collaboration between Americare and the MU Sinclair School of Nursing, to a community-wide focus on healthy living, our on-site care is different from anything else you’ll find.

The Terrace

1408 Business 70 W Columbia, MO 65202 www.terraceretirement.com 573-875-2538 Level of Care: Independent Unit Sizes: studio; queen studio; onebedroom.; two-bedroom, one-bath; twobedroom, two-bath Amenities: courtyard and gazebo; fitness center; resident vegetable gardens; daily activities; library; computer classes; music area; barber/beauty shop; convenience store; guest parking; staff available around-the-clock; two daily meals; weekly housekeeping; scheduled transportation; utilities (excluding phone and cable); individual storage locker; maintenance services; use of all on-site facilities Description: The services offered at the Terrace Retirement Community are many. As individuals, we all have our own preferences about meal times and activities. That’s why the Terrace offers so many options, to make your day the best it can be.

Tiger Place

2910 Bluff Creek Drive Columbia, MO 65201 www.americareusa.net/location/tigerplace 573-256-4620 Level of Care: Independent Living Number of Units: 54 Unit sizes: studio; alcove; one-bedroom; two-bedroom; custom Amenities: full kitchens with all appli-

ances; washer/dryer in each unit; weekly housekeeping; meals; all utilities and trash included (excepting phone); emergency call/intercom in each unit; concierge, weekly shopping and transportation services; consumer-planned social events on and off campus; daily exercise classes; deluxe Tiger Total Fitness Center; nursing staff onsite 24/7; pet-friendly Description: Developed by Americare in affiliation with the MU Sinclair School of Nursing, Tiger Place is designated as an “Aging in Place Community.” This designation nearly eliminates the need for residents to ever have to move to a higher care setting.

The Village of Bedford Walk

415 Bailey Drive Columbia, MO 65203 www.thevillageofbedfordwalk.com 573-303-7252 Level of Care: Independent Living Number of Units: 88 Unit Sizes: one-bedroom plus den and twobedroom villas; studio, one-bedroom plus den and two-bedroom apartment homes Amenities: all utilities, including cable, telephone and Internet services, included in rent price; concierge services; daily catered luncheon; scheduled transportation; casual bistro; fireside patio; scheduled social events; fitness and wellness center; resistance pool; movie theatre; lounge with private kitchen; billiard and game room; library and business center; sundry shop; Wi-Fi services throughout the community; beauty salon/barber shop; resident storage; garage parking; pet-friendly Description: A brand new senior community for individuals 55 and better is coming to Columbia in the summer of 2015. The Village of Bedford Walk will offer premier independent living by combining extraordinary amenities, personalized services and elegant interior design. v

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03.15 March MARCH 1 It’s the final conference game of the 2014-15 season as Mizzou matches up against Arkansas in women’s basketball at Mizzou Arena. Be there courtside to catch all the action. $5 adult, $3 seniors & youths; 2 p.m.; 1 Champions Drive; 800-CAT-PAWS (228-7297); www.mutigers.com

MARCH 1, 5–8 The Columbia Entertainment Company presents “Love, Loss & What I Wore,” a play of monologues and ensemble pieces about women, clothes and memory, covering all the important subjects — mothers, prom dresses, mothers, buying bras, mothers, hating purses and why we only wear black. Based on the best-selling book by Ilene Beckerman, it will make you want to laugh and cry. $10 adults, $9 students, $8 seniors; 7:30 p.m. curtain Thursday through Saturday, 2 p.m. matinee Sunday; 1800 Nelwood Drive; 573-4743699; www.cectheatre.org

MARCH 2 Catch KONGOS at The Blue Note. These multicultural, multifaceted, multi-instrumentalist brothers craft a unique and irresistible sound spawned from shared DNA, diverse influences and spot-on melodic and lyrical sensibilities. KONGOS is already a star overseas, playing its numerous hits off “Lunatic,” its 12-song Epic Records debut, for crowds of up to 65,000 at South African festivals. $20–$300; doors open at 7 p.m., show at 8 p.m.; 17 N. Ninth St.; 573874-1944; www.thebluenote.com

MARCH 2 The University Concert Series presents Sing-Along Grease, an audience participation version of the popular 1978 movie “Grease,” at the Missouri Theatre. The evening begins with your Sing-Along Grease host leading a vocal warm-up before showing you how to use your free fun pack during the film and suggesting some appropriate heckles and accompanying actions. Then watch Danny, Sandy and the

MARCH 18 The Missouri Concert Series presents the 1971 movie “Fiddler On The Roof ” at the Missouri Theatre. The multiple Oscar-winning classic that focused on a tiny Jewish village in pre-revolutionary Russia wowed audiences with its passion, intensity and, of course, the songs! Reminisce to beloved favorites such as “Tradition!,” “Sunrise, Sunset,” “If I Were a Rich Man” and more, all beautifully composed by the legendary John Williams. $8; 7 p.m.; 203 S. Ninth St.; 573-8822-3781; www.concertseries.org gang, while singing (and dancing) along to the lyrics on the screen to hit songs such as “You’re the One that I Want” and “Hopelessly Devoted to You.” Grease is the word … $15; 6:30 p.m.; 203 S. Ninth St.; 573-882-3781; www.concertseries.org

are no longer available, but there are plenty of individual tickets for sale. $10 at box office, $12 at door, $7 students; various downtown and campus venues; 573-442TRUE (442-8783); www.truefalse.org

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Enjoy a Comedy Night FUNdraiser at Déjà Vu starring comedian Greg Warren, presented by the Friends of Missouri Wrestling Foundation. Warren, a Mizzou grad, is perhaps best-known for his “Flute Man” routine, one of the most requested bits on “The Bob & Tom Show.” All proceeds go to the Olympic Training Center.

There’ll be food, beverages and great entertainment. $75 per person, $240 for a table of four, $400 for a table of eight; doors open at 5:15 p.m.; 405 Cherry St.; 573-8820375 or email SmithBQ@missouri.edu; www.dejavucomedy.com

Catch all the hoop-la as the Mizzou men’s basketball team takes on Auburn in conference play at Mizzou Arena. It’s sure to be a Tigeriffic time. From $15; 8 p.m.; 1 Champions Drive; 800-CAT-PAWS (2287297); www.mutigers.com

MARCH 5–8 The True/False Film Fest returns with more films, music and art than ever, to make “all of downtown feel like a whirlwind of art and culture,” says festival cofounder David Wilson. True/False passes

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MARCH 6 Mizzou Arena will be hoppin’ when the Tigers host Alabama in the annual “Pink Out” gymnastics meet. One dollar of every ticket sold will go to benefit the Ellis Fischel Cancer Center. Tumble on, Tigers! $5 adult, $3 youth & seniors; 6:30 p.m.; 1 Champions Drive; 800-CAT-PAWS (2287297); www.mutigers.com

MARCH 6 The first Friday of every month, the North Village Arts District collectively opens its doors for First Fridays in The North Village Arts District, encouraging residents, visitors and tourists to explore and appreciate Columbia’s ever-growing collections of art and entertainment. The event includes free entertainment and light refreshments. Free; 6–9 p.m., South 10th Street; 573-864-6641

MARCH 6–7 The Stephens College Spring Dance Concert features a variety of dance forms such as classical ballet, modern and contemporary dance.

World dance selections choreographed by visiting guest artists highlight the evening in Macklanburg Playhouse. $16 adults, $8 students and seniors; 7:30 p.m.; 100 Willis Ave.; 573-876-7194; www.stephens.edu/events

MARCH 6–8 The Stephens College theatre department presents “Bethany” in Macklanburg Playhouse. First produced by the groundbreaking New York City-based Women’s Project Theatre, this darkly comic thriller is set at the height of the recent foreclosure crisis and explores just how far we’ll go to get back what’s ours. When single mother Crystal loses more than her house, her desperate quest to regain what she’s lost turns into the fight of her life. $14 adults, $7 students & seniors; 7:30 p.m., 2 p.m. Sunday matinee; 100 Willis Ave.; 573-876-7199; www.stephens.edu/events 24

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MARCH 7 Be bowled over at the Columbia Senior Activity Center’s Second Annual Chili & Soup Contest Luncheon. Enter your best chili or soup to be judged and then served for lunch. First-place cash prize awarded for best chili and for best soup. Entries must be received by 10:30 a.m. $6 per person for lunch, served 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.; 1121 Business Loop 70 E.; 573-874-2050

MARCH 7 Columbia Chamber Choir, a subset of the Chorale, will premiere a new choral work commissioned for the ensemble at the Columbia Civic Orchestra’s annual new music concert. This concert at Broadway Christian Church will feature the winners of the Missouri Composers Orchestra Project and other new works supported by the Sinquefield Charitable Foundation. Free; 7:30 p.m.; 2601 W. Broadway; www.columbiachorale.com

MARCH 7–8 There will be grapplers galore when Mizzou plays host to the Mid-American Conference Wrestling Championships at the Hearnes Center. Nine teams will face off over the weekend. Let’s see if Mizzou can capture the conference championship again! All-session passes $20–$25, single session $15, $10 students & youth, $5 groups; doors open 1 p.m.

Saturday & 11 a.m. Sunday; 600 E. Stadium Blvd.; 800-CAT-PAWS (228-7297); www.mutigers.com

MARCH 8 Don your running duds and get ready to sip some suds in a unique pre-St. Paddy’s Day race! Plan to participate in Columbia’s firstever Beer Mile, which takes place in conjunction with the ShamRox 5K and 15K. Each Beer Miler will run on a closed course, lapping up a 6-ounce beer before each lap. Fastest time wins. $25; 8:30 a.m. packet pickup begins, 9:45 a.m. race start; Les Bourgeois Vineyards; 14020 W. Highway BB, Rocheport; 573-4452664; www.shamroxrun.com.

MARCH 11–15 “Argonautika” is a stunningly imaginative, moving and highly entertaining retelling of Jason’s quest for the golden fleece and his illfated meeting with Medea, the princess and sorceress who betrays her family to aid him.

Adapted by Tony-Award winning writer/ director Mary Zimmerman, this Corner Playhouse production captures the wonder and power of the ancient Greek myth with fresh and contemporary energy. $12 general public, $10 faculty, staff, students and seniors, $5 Mizzou New Play Series; 7:30 p.m., 2 p.m. Sunday matinee; 1101 University Ave. (MU campus); 573-8822021; theatre.missouri.edu/onstage Prime Magazine March 2015

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MARCH 13–15 What lies at the heart of the creative process?

Local performing artist and Stephens College music faculty member Tom Andes explores this compelling question in his original new musical “Color Blind” in Macklanburg Playhouse. When Michael Stevens, a struggling art professor, loses the ability to see color, a student and a hallucination (in the form of Pierre August Renoir) try to help him though it. $16 adults, $8 students & seniors; 7:30 p.m., 2 p.m. Sunday matinee; 100 Willis Ave.; 573-876-7199; www.stephens.edu/events/

MARCH 15 Tabbed by the media as the “American Led Zeppelin,” Get the Led Out brings the catalog of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s greatest bands to life on stage with a highly acclaimed tribute band performance. Focusing on Zeppelin’s early music with songs such as “Whole Lotta Love,” “Kashmir” and “Ramble On,” Get the Led Out also features an acoustic set with fan favorites “Tangerine” and “The Battle of Evermore.” No wigs and fake accents here, just rock ‘n’ roll Zeppelin-style at the Missouri Theatre. From $17; 7 p.m.; 203 S. Ninth St.; 573-882-3781; www.concertseries.org

MARCH 16 Do good and dine well at the 30th annual Taste Of Mid-Missouri fundraiser at Reynolds Alumni Center. Sample food and drinks from close to 40 Columbia and surrounding area establishments to benefit students in MU’s Hospitality Management Program. $25 in advance at the Heidelberg, Schnucks, Hy-Vee, $30 at door; 5:30 to 8:30 p.m.; 700 Conley Ave. (MU campus) ; www. morestaurants.org/30th-annual-taste-ofmid-missouri/

MARCH 17 Grab something green to wear and start off your St. Patrick’s Day with a 5K with the Columbia Track Club in the District and MU campus. The overall male and female winner will receive a $100 gift certificate toward a pair of New Balance running shoes at Tryathletics. $20 on or before March 11 (online), $30 race day; 8 a.m.; Sixth & Ash streets; www.runrace.net 26

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MARCH 19 Relax in the elegant surroundings of Historic Senior Hall and support Stephens students as they perform in Bach’s Lunch Student Recital Series. This free recital, one in a monthly series, brings uplifting art to your lunch hour. Free; 12:30 p.m.; 100 Waugh St.; 573-876-7199; www.stephens.edu/events

MARCH 23 The Blind Boone Piano Concert Series presents percussionist Julia Gaines, featured in “Vibraphone Heaven.” Gaines, the director of the University of Missouri School of Music, has been an international soloist but now rarely performs outside of the university environment, so the evening of duets will be a special event. $20; 7 p.m.; Montminy Art Gallery; 3801 Ponderosa St.; 573-443-8936, ext. 310; www.boonehistory.org/boone-concert-series

MARCH 31 The University Concert Series presents “Potted Potter: The Unauthorized Harry Experience” at the Missouri Theatre. Watch the BBC’s Dan and Jeff take on the ultimate challenge — all seven Harry Potter books parodied in 70 minutes, with the help of endless costumes, brilliant songs, ridiculous props and a generous helping of Hogwarts magic.

This fantastically funny show features all your favorite characters, a special appearance from a very frightening fire-breathing dragon and even a game of Quidditch involving the audience! $28 & $35; 7 p.m.; 203 S. Ninth St.; 573-882-3781; www.concertseries.org

SAVE THE DATE APRIL 3–4 Columbia Chorale and the Missouri Contemporary Ballet present Carl Orff ’s “Carmina Burana” utilizing the composer’s original conception of “total theater,” combining music, words and movement to produce a thrilling effect. This concert also features some members of the Columbia Youth Choir treble choirs. $22; 7:30 p.m.; Missouri Theatre; 203 S. Ninth St.; 573-882-3781; www.columbiachorale.com

APRIL 11 Have a good time for a good cause by attending the 7th annual Rainbow House Masquerade Ball at the Holiday Inn Executive Center. The ball captures the imagination of mid-Missouri supporters with a unique fundraiser to help make a difference in the lives of children at Rainbow House. $100, $90 before March 13; 6:30 p.m.; 2200 I-70 Drive S.W.; 573-445-8531; www.rainbowhousecolumbia.org v Prime Magazine March 2015

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Tinseltown Talks

The Ubiquitous William Schallert From Bartender To Reverend, He’s Acted The Part

BY NICK THOMAS

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If you have watched television since the 1950s, there’s no avoiding William Schallert.

His distinctive, mellow voice and comfortingly familiar face have appeared on series ranging from “Father Knows Best” to “Desperate Housewives” and everything in between.

“I’ve never added up the total, but I did work a lot!” Schallert says from his home in Pacific Palisades, Calif.

The tally of his television appearances is close to 300, and he appeared in 100 feature films, the first being an uncredited role in “The Foxes of Harrow” in 1947, which Schallert still vividly recalls.

“I had one line as a banker delivering a message to the New Orleans stock exchange: ‘Gentlemen, gentlemen, the bank of the United States in Philadelphia has closed its doors!’ ” he says.

He adds the scene was memorable because it called for another actor to shoot himself, but that actor was unable to coordinate firing the gun with the gunshot sound produced by crew backstage.

“They couldn’t see each other, so the shot would go off sometimes before or sometimes after the trigger was pulled,” Schallert says with a laugh. “It got to be hysterical. But they kept me over, and I ended up getting three days’ pay for one. So I figured this was a great way to make a living!”

In the beginning, Schallert says, roles came slowly, but by 1959, he was hot.

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a recurring role on ‘Dobie Gillis,’ and of course, as the father on ‘The Patty Duke Show’ in 1963,” he says.

However, the uncertainty of series work could be unsettling.

“I knew the show was coming to an end and was concerned what would happen,” he says of “The Patty Duke Show.” “Fortunately, I started doing voiceover work in commercials, and that really paid the bills for the next 20 years.”

Schallert has been invited to scifi conventions due to roles in ’50s film classics such as “The Man from Planet X,” “Them” and “The Incredible Shrinking Man.” He also guest starred in “The Trouble with Tribbles,” one of the most popular “Star Trek” episodes.

But he says one of his favorite TV guest roles was in “Get Smart,” where he appeared in several episodes as the very elderly and unsteady Admiral Hargrade, who would fall over at the slightest touch — an irony not lost on the 92-year-old Schallert, now coincidentally the exact age as his character during the 1968 season.

“The admiral was a charming character and looking back as an actor, I still think the ways I made him tumble over were funny,” he says. “But now I am the age his character was supposed to be, and the actual falling down part isn’t funny anymore! Falls can become serious health issues for seniors.”

While Schallert says he has experienced some falls, his main health issue is his legs.

“I have peripheral neuropathy and wear braces,” he says. “They help me stay balanced if I use a walker, but it’s just easier to get around in a wheelchair.”

Despite the physical limitation, Schallert doesn’t entirely rule out working in the future.

“Although I’m more or less retired, if someone offered me a stage role and it was something I could manage, I’d probably do it,” he says. “But working in film or TV would be too difficult now.

Besides, I did my share!” v Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University at Montgomery, Ala., and has written features, columns and interviews for more than 500 magazines and newspapers.

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Prime Advice

Tell Me About It

With Angel Donnette Robertson

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My father left my mother, my two brothers and me when I was in the third grade. He immediately married his other woman. We rarely had visitation with him, and he often missed child support payments. After I was married, I tried to reach out to him a few times, but he never seemed interested and was certainly never sorry because he “deserved to be happy.”

His current wife has recently reached out to us. He has lung cancer and wants to see us before he dies. Is it worth my time now?

Or is it simply too late?

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I think you have to decide which you would regret more: seeing your father or not seeing your father.

A little simplistic, I know, but my point is I don’t think you want to decide based on any expectations of him but instead on expectations of yourself.

If he is dying of cancer and you choose not to visit him, you will never have another chance. You will not get a “do over.” You will never know whether you would have received an apology or answers or even healing, if not for the relationship then for you in some part. Only you can determine whether the possibilities, as slim as they may be, will haunt you later.

On the other hand, if you decide to visit your father,

you need to let go of the outcome. Facing death does not always cure individuals of the type of selfishness your father has displayed towards you. And even if he has had a personal awakening, you may not find any particular satisfaction in a repentance that comes so late. If you expect to receive any peace from him, you are likely setting yourself up for another disappointment.

Often, in these situations, no option is a “good” one, and we are stuck picking the “least bad” one. Only you can decide which is the least bad for you.

Q:

I have never had much success in saying “no.” And honestly, when I do, no one seems to listen anyway. But I am overwhelmed and stressed, especially at work, because I know I cannot keep up with everything I have taken on. How can I just say “no, thanks” and make people believe me?

Have a relationship question for Angel? Contact her through her blog at www.angeldonnette.wordpress.com.

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“No” is harder for some of us to say than it is for others. But for your emotional safety and now your career health, you simply cannot always be saying “yes.”

So first, just say, “No, thank you.”

You shouldn’t prevaricate with “I don’t think so” or “I don’t think I can.”

You don’t want to use phrases that allow the other person a glimpse of uncertainty, which translates into a chance for him or her to convince you to take on the task.

Second, you do not have to explain your reasons, but if you choose to do so, you need to keep the answers short, polite and honest. You do not need to lie or expound. For example, you could say: “I am already on two committees and could not bring the time and commitment to your committee that you deserve. But thank you for thinking of me.”

Finally, you need to keep saying “no.” If you have always given in after a token refusal, the other person will always push. Consistency is a must if you wish to change the dynamic.

So you say, “no,” then “no” again, and keep saying “no” until the other person accepts the new reality. Do not allow any discomfort to force you into elaborating or tacking on additional reasons. Just keep saying “no.”

With a little practice, you will improve and, eventually, you may even lose those knots in your stomach when anyone approaches you with a new suggestion.

You need to keep in mind that saying “no” is not rude or lazy. We all have limits on the workload we can handle productively. You help no one if you are pulled in too many directions to accomplish any one task completely.

So, know your limits and protect your work efficiency and, more importantly, your emotional health by just saying “no.” v Prime Magazine March 2015

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Fun & Games Sudoku

Do You Have Tiger Vision?

We’ve hidden this tiger face somewhere in the magazine. Find it, and send an email to prime@insidecolumbia.net telling us the page number where the tiger is hiding.

Readers with a correct answer by March 31 will be entered into a drawing for a $25 Sycamore restaurant gift card.

WINNER! Congratulations to Alan Heidbreder! He was the winner of our January Tiger Vision contest and a gift card to Bleu Restaurant!

Cryptogram Decipher this quote by unraveling the secret code. Each letter stands for another letter. We’ve given you a few hints to get you started.

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Recipe Box

Cookie Flavors Inspire New Desserts

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A hot new dessert trend is here: Cookies are getting a makeover. As identified in the McCormick Flavor Forecast 2015, favorite cookie flavors — such as snickerdoodles and gingersnaps — are being reimagined in new decadent desserts. From peanut butter mousse tarts to chocolate chip biscotti with a creamy dipping sauce, these desserts redefine “milk and cookies.”

“Here in the kitchens, we looked at the distinctive flavors of popular cookies for inspiration,” says Mary Beth Harrington of the McCormick Kitchens. “Cinnamon sugar is the signature flavor in snickerdoodles, so we reimagined that cinnamon sweetness into a peanut butter mousse and peanut crust, resulting in a delicious tart.”

For more twists on classic cookie flavors, check out www.McCormick.com. v

PEANUT BUTTER SNICKERDOODLE TART WITH CINNAMON PEANUT CRUST Prep time: 30 minutes Cook time: 8 minutes Refrigerate: 1 hour Servings: 8 (1/2 tart) servings

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Mix peanuts, sugar, butter and 1/2 teaspoon of the cinnamon in medium bowl. Remove 1/4 cup and spread on small baking sheet. Divide remaining peanut mixture among four 4-inch tart pans with removable bottoms.

Press firmly onto bottom and up sides of each tart pan.

Bake tart crusts and peanut crumble mixture together in preheated 350°F oven 8 minutes. Cool on wire racks.

Meanwhile, microwave chocolate milk in medium microwavable bowl on high 45 seconds.

Add chocolate; stir until chocolate is completely melted and mixture is smooth. Set aside.

Beat peanut butter, sweetened condensed milk, vanilla and remaining 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon in large bowl with electric mixer on medium speed until smooth. Add heavy cream; beat until soft peaks form. Spread in prepared tart crusts. Spread chocolate mixture over top.

Refrigerate at least 1 hour or until ready to serve. Cut each tart in half. Sprinkle with toasted peanut crumble.

Serve immediately.

CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE BISCOTTI WITH WHITE CHOCOLATE DIPPING SAUCE Prep time: 20 minutes • Cook time: 45 minutes Servings: 16 servings (2 cookies and 2 1/2 tablespoons sauce each) BISCOTTI: 2 1/2 cups flour 1 cup firmly packed brown sugar 1/4 cup instant nonfat dry milk 2 teaspoons baking powder 1/4 teaspoon salt 3 eggs 1 teaspoon McCormick Extra Rich Pure Vanilla Extract 1 cup miniature chocolate chips WHITE 2 8 1/4 2

CHOCOLATE DIPPING SAUCE: cups half-and-half ounces white chocolate chips cup Irish cream liqueur teaspoons McCormick Extra Rich Pure Vanilla Extract

For the biscotti, mix flour, sugar, dry milk, baking powder and salt in large bowl with electric mixer on low speed until well-blended. Mix eggs and vanilla in medium bowl until well-blended. Gradually add to flour mixture, beating on low speed until well-mixed. Stir in chocolate chips.

Divide dough in half. Shape each half into a 12-inch-long log. Transfer logs to parchment paper-lined baking sheet. Flatten logs to 1-inch thickness.

Bake in preheated 350°F oven 20 to 25 minutes or until slightly risen and firm to touch. Cool logs on wire rack 10 minutes or until cool enough to handle.

Transfer to cutting board. Using a sharp serrated knife, cut logs diagonally into 3/4-inch thick slices. Place slices, cut sides down, in single layer on parchment paper-lined baking sheets.

Bake 10 to 15 minutes or until crisp and golden, turning biscotti over halfway through cook time. Transfer biscotti to wire racks; cool completely.

For the dipping sauce, place all ingredients in medium saucepan on medium heat. Simmer 5 minutes or until heated through, stirring constantly. Serve with biscotti.

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Life Lessons

The Search For Dennis How Losing My Pet Helped Me Find What Matters

BY SARALEE PEREL

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On a frigid night, our cat, Dennis, who has never been outside, was nowhere to be found. For hours, my husband, Bob, and I searched through our tiny three-room cottage looking for him. I was sure he’d just appear out of nowhere, but he didn’t.

With flashlights, we searched outside, calling his name and singing the silly song he always came to. To the tune of “We’re Off to See the Wizard,” we sang: “Dennis, the menace, The wonderful, wonderful cat.

It’s time to eat; we’ve got good grub, So put on your fanciest hat.”

We sang our hearts out through the dark, empty neighborhood.

“He’d never survive these temperatures,” Bob said. He cried as he looked at me with agony in his heart. “He must have — have,” he could hardly finish his sentence. “He must have died — cold, alone and scared.”

I held Bob’s face to my chest. He sobbed, “He was my friend.”

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shelters. I described Dennis, a little 3-year-old plain black cat.

Every 10 minutes, we went back outside in the freezing night, singing for our sweet cat to come home. Then, an idea struck. Earlier that day, we had brought in a couch we bought at a yard sale. We took our old junky couch outside and put it in the bed of our truck to take to the dump.

“Bob, what if he’s hiding in the couch in the truck?”

Bob climbed into the truck bed and searched. Suddenly I heard, “I’ve got him!”

He was cradling poor little Dennis.

Gently, he placed him in my arms.

Shivering, Dennis looked up at me with wide-eyed fear.

“Dennis, the menace,” I whispered our song. He ate a tiny bit. Then he took his nighttime position and nestled in our bed, in the crook of Bob’s knees.

I probably walk by my dog and cats 20 times a day without petting them as they look up at me with hope that I’ll touch them. But I don’t even acknowledge them.

I just continue whatever I’m doing that

I’ve decided can’t wait one lousy minute.

How could I do that? It’s not like they’re going to live forever. Anything can happen at any age.

I cherish them. Now they’ll know it more often. What task that I’ve ridiculously deemed a priority could possibly be more important than love and connection?

If anything good came from that night when Dennis was scared, alone and shivering in the dark, then it’s this: I’m not going to pass by my animals without communicating — with a soft touch or a gentle word, even if it’s for one precious moment — that I love them. For that is life. That is beauty.

That is connection. That is why we adopt our pets.

Oh, to love and be loved by others.

Isn’t that why we are here? v Award-winning nationally syndicated columnist Saralee Perel can be reached at sperel@saraleeperel.com or via her website: www.saraleeperel.com.

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Faces And Places

2015 Cosmos Pancake Day For decades, the various Cosmopolitan Clubs in Columbia have come together for the annual Pancake Day to raise money for local charities. Here are some photos of the early birds who showed up on the morning of Jan. 31.

Tony Bartal and Hank Schneider

Rolando Barry and Milton McHenry

Royce and Susan Palmer

Judy Parsons and Cleo Kottwitz

Chuck Bowman and Tim Gaines

Mackenzie Avalos, Jeremy Evers, Brittany Parmenter, Carroll Highbarger and Bob Steinman

Jane Poore, Karen Pierce and Beatrice Besecky

Shirley and Jim Beckett

Greg and Cathy Wilcox

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Readers Share

Your Favorite Teen Idols!

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ur February Blast from the Past question asked, “Which teen idol did you crush on, and why?”

“David Cassidy. ‘Partridge Family’ show. Great hair!” ~ Anna Osborn

“Ricky Nelson. Dreamy voice and eyes.” ~ Katie Kane

“Barry Williams. I liked his hair and his singing.” ~ Tara Winn

“David Cassidy. He was so good-looking, and I loved his music.” ~ Lauren Bauer

“Donny Osmond. Great smile, great singer and dancer.” ~ Amy Myers

“Maureen McCormick. She was the best-looking Brady girl by far, and I loved her character, as well.” ~ Shaun Bauer “Ricky Nelson. Because we watched him on TV every week, he seemed normal. Plus, really cute and talented.” ~ Phyllis Ward

“Olivia Newton John. She was hot — ’nuff said.” ~Randall Durk

“Ringo Starr. We share the same birthday. Also he was the least popular of the Beatles, and I guess I thought I had a better chance with him.” ~ Pam Smith

And the winner of the gift card to Bleu Restaurant, Margie Lechner, wrote: “Donny Osmond. He was adorable, and he sang the song ‘Puppy Love’ to me!”

“Dr. Strangelove”

Sudoku Puzzle

Blast From The Past: Prime Question Of The Month

Which 1960s movie best deserves the title “classic”? Tell us for the chance to win a $50 gift card to ElevenEleven, a fine dining restaurant at The Broadway. Find the survey with a list of movies on the Prime Facebook page, www.facebook.com/PrimeMagazineOnline. Deadline to enter drawing is noon March 11.

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Crossword Puzzle

“Barry Williams. So handsome!” ~ Katharine Whitener

“Donny Osmond. The face, the music, and I was 12.” ~ Jackie O’Rourke

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Challenge your brain with this month’s puzzles found on Page 34 & 36.

“Donny Osmond. Dark hair, and he could sing and dance. Very clean-cut image!” ~ Della Bell-Freeman

“David Cassidy. The hair.” ~ Tracy Pickens

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Cryptogram Answer “Hope is the feeling that the feeling you have isn’t permanent.” ~ Jean Kerr

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Columbia Confidential: Publisher Fred Parry On The Issues Columbia Is Talking About

It’s Time To Get Back To The Basics

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Much of the debate in Columbia’s City Council chambers in recent weeks seems to have centered around the idea of banning plastic bags and whether or not local citizens would be willing to carry their trash to their curbs in roll carts. By my way of thinking, our city’s leaders have more urgent matters with which to contend.

Wouldn’t it be nice if our city’s leaders focused their energies on job creation, affordable housing and the state of our city’s crumbling infrastructure? It is time Columbians set priorities for City Council members and hold them accountable to a clear set of expectations.

As human beings, we have a natural tendency to spend our time focusing on the things that interest us versus the mundane tasks associated with everyday life. For example, many of us would rather spend time invested in a hobby we’re passionate about instead of taking care of routine chores such as cleaning the house, mowing the yard or paying monthly bills. I dare say our City Council representatives are no different. Their preoccupation with environmental issues, bike paths and finding ways to impede growth prevents them from focusing on the pressing issues to move our city forward.

I’d like to see our City Council members borrow a page from Newt Gingrich’s 1990s playbook and forge an agreement with the citizens of Columbia called the “Contract With Columbia.”

Such a document could be embodied in the form of a pledge or oath where council members promise to place a priority on the basic responsibilities of city government before they divert the attention of city staff and public resources to pet projects.

Council members would pledge to focus their attention first on issues such as infrastructure, public safety and creating economic opportunity in the city.

While I appreciate the often-touted amenities that are integral to our quality of life in Columbia, it has become obvious that our elected officials have taken their eyes off the most important ball in play. As a city, we find ourselves challenged by inadequate sewers and power supply in the core of this municipality. We don’t have an appropriate number of police officers patrolling our neighborhoods, and we’ve broken our promise to police officers and firefighters to fund their pensions. Rather than focusing our energies on finding solutions to these problems, we find ourselves consuming hours of lost time haranguing over issues such as banning plastic shopping bags.

The “Contract With Columbia” would require council members to deal with the tough issues first. Rather than kick the can down the road for future councils to deal with, we could avoid a crisis if we deal with the issues that need our attention now. Here’s what I would include in the contract: • A Long-Term Infrastructure Plan: This plan would identify areas of immediate concern and then show multiyear forecasts on which infrastructural components the city must replace or improve. The fact that 30 percent of Columbia’s sewer lines are more than 50 years old should concern every citizen.

• Economic Opportunity & Job Creation: One of the metrics by which we should measure the performance of the

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City Council is the number of new jobs created in a given year. To grow and prosper, we must create economic opportunity for all classes of people. We need manufacturing, white-collar and high-tech jobs to keep our economy moving.

• Public Safety: Another performance metric up for review is crime statistics. Are Columbians as safe and protected as we were five years or 10 years ago? Are we retaining talented police officers “It is time and firefighters? Are we doing all Columbians set that we can to prevent crime in priorities for our•city?

Youth Initiatives: Although it City Council may be difficult to find meaningful members and metrics, the council must concern itself with the health and wellbeing hold them of Columbia’s youth. Are there accountable to abundant educational and recreational activities available to a clear set of our children? Are there mentoring expectations.” opportunities in place? Have we adequately addressed the nutritional and mental health needs of our teens?

• Future Needs: The City Council must concern itself with Columbia’s long-term needs as they relate to growth and economic development. A city either grows or it dies.

Will we have adequate infrastructure in place 20 years from now? Will our transportation needs be met? Will we have an airport that can support Columbia’s need to be connected to the rest of the world?

There certainly are other areas of priority that should merit the attention of council members, but these five areas make a great place to start. The council must lead on these issues rather than rely on city staff to carry the torch while juggling the whims and wishes of every council member’s pet projects.

The bottom line is that we must run the city more like a business than we have in the past. Our City Council is essentially the board of directors and must be accountable to the citizen stakeholders. We have entrusted the future of the community to the council. As citizens, we must do a better job of communicating our expectations and then holding our elected officials accountable to the task of moving this city forward.

Fred Parry, fred@insidecolumbia.net

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