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Soulmate... Myth or Real?

Soulmate… Myth orReal?
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Copyright Angelika Christie
Freeport Bahamas 1977
“Yes, yes, of course, …go go.. dance” my husband says, and with a gentlemen’s bow, our Bahamian friend offers his arm and guides me to the dance floor. I love dancing. The island rhythm vibrates deep in my body ….and his moves are intoxicating; We’re moving as if we’d danced a lifetime.
What happened next changed my life forever. Lightning struck. I am breathless and I am on fire. He ignites my body… but most of all, he ignites my Soul. My soul knows this man.
Deep inside I know we are meant to be together. Only one year later I leave my husband and my home in Germany and follow my Soulmate to the Bahamas.
I feel like the Star in my Fairytale. Love and Passion in Paradise. Everything is perfect, even though we are an unlikely couple, different in age, culture, and race.
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Twelve years later, what was supposed to be my ‘happily ever after’ left me feeling trapped and confused. I thought my Soulmate was supposed to satisfy my every need. But I felt profoundly disappointed, and heartbroken; I left him.
In my work with clients who are devastated about the end of a relationship, I guide them to love free what has come to an end and create space for that which wants to come in. Or I help prepare for a new fulfilling relationship.
At that time, I did not understand the role of my Soulmate in my life.
I learned much about myself during 11 years of Divorce. Both of us suffered… and also tested our core values while apart. It turned out that our hearts never stopped loving each other.

Rarely, Soulmates come back together. We did. And we married a second time. Our new understanding and trust in each other help us now with challenges that every relationship faces.
Fact is: A Soulmate is not a Bliss Bunny! Nor a Pleaser Yet hundreds of women I met, coached and wept with, hold this misconception.
Are you looking for a Soulmate to fill the void in your life, an emptiness you feel in your heart?
It is easy to fall for the seemingly perfect romances in books andmovies that stir your desire for the Perfect Mate.Sadly, anxiety about not finding your One can fracture your heart.
Yes, it feels great to fantasize about The One. It is bliss to be in love.
Yet when you ask the Universe for your Soulmate, your Soul calls into your life a partner who can challenges you beyond your imagination.
Why? Because you and your Soulmate are meant to help each other grow individually. You can’t truly discover all of YOU without being challenged, can you?
If your partner defies and triggers you ---you may be in a relationship that is designed to facilitate your personal and spiritual growth by exposing illusions and insecurities of your ego.
Rather than yearning to be completed by your partner, know that you are complete. Your Soulmate can help you realize this so that you become fully your magnificent self. The way this is accomplished can be painful, and also gentle. Why? Because Love is the driving force.
Even a committed relationship can come to an end. Letting go of a Soulmate can feel heartbreaking. Be assured that Your Soul’s wisdom knows when a purpose is fulfilled.
In my work with clients who are devasted about the end of a relationship. I guide them to love free what has come to an end and create space for that which wants to come in. Or I help prepare for a new fullfilling relationship.
Whether you are in a relationship or not, you are never alone.
The most profound relationship guaranteed to last a lifetime is the one with yourself; that relationship started at your first breath….and ends when you surrender life once more.
Learn how to evoke your happiness!
Your Soul is your eternal Mate…ageless, wise, and by her nature your greatest source to experience Love itself.
You have everything within you to experience Bliss! When you have fully realized this, you can attract the partner you enjoy sharing your life with. -Angelika Christie
Curious? Let’s start this conversation. https://www.vcita.com/v/angelikachristie
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