Indy's Child // 02.2012

February 2012

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Join us at the 23rd Annual Camp & Summer Program Fair!

Saturday, Feb. 25 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at The Fashion Mall at Keystone

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18 Overcoming Children’s Fear of the Dentist

08 Community Spotlight

12 Pediatric Health

11 Indy Parks

14 Pediatric Health

16 Super Bowl Fun in Indy

45 Pediatric Health

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Local Dentists Share Their Tips

22 Choosing a Pediatrician Referrals are Key

40 Luxuries for New Moms Suggestions from Those in the Know

47 Navigating the Education System Considering Alternative Schooling

in every issue 06 Publisher’s Note 10 Online Buzz

Local News, Events and More

Calling All Campers to Indy Parks!

Celebrate the Super Bowl All Around Indy

Understanding Egg Allergies & Flu Vaccines A Battle for the Heart Focusing on the Family in the NICU

21 Museum Note

Exploring the Science of Flight

24 Summer Camps

special needs

29 Indy on a Budget

32 Developing Community-Based Skills in Kids with Autism

Five Things You Never Knew About Camp Date Night on a Dime (or two)

commentary + parenting

Local Programs Making a Difference

38 Preparing for a Child with Special Needs Learning Before Birth

Summer Camp Guide Special Needs Guide Mommy + Me Guide Education + Childcare Guide Birthday Party Guide Marketplace

calendars 34 53 56 59

Special Needs Daily Events Ongoing Events Fun + Wacky

15 Mommy Magic

Inspire Yourself this February

17 Laurie Puhn

Enjoy a Romantic Married Life

ON THE COVER Cover Models: Nixon & Heather Lipe Cover Location: Gigi’s Cupcakes in Indianapolis Photographer: Hannah Hilliard Photography

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in every issue

[ publisher’s note ]

Indy’s Child FOUNDING PUBLISHER Barbara Wynne | barbara@indyschild.com PUBLISHER & PRESIDENT Mary Wynne Cox | publisher@indyschild.com MANAGING EDITOR Megan Kirschner | megan@indyschild.com SALES & BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT Jennica Zalewski | jennica@indyschild.com From left to right: Riley Lesh, age 9, Dr. James Lemons and Ken Lemons.

Super Baskets of Hope Provide Unique Opportunities 7,000 Children to receive free, six-month memberships to Musical DNA® I am looking forward to helping pack the Baskets of Hope with a bounty of Hoosier gifts on January 30.

I am proud to be a part of the team who has made possible the donation of 21,000 books featuring the amazing stories and accomplishments of the George Taliaferro, Billie Jean King and the late Arthur Ashe.

These three books are part of a series of books being written for children ages 7-11 by the Helen Petersen Hamilton County Community Tennis Association.

Another special enclosure in the Super Baskets of Hope is a musical component developed by Ken Lemons. In the above picture taken at Riley Hospital, you can see 9-year-old Riley Lesh enjoying one of the best parts of Riley Hospital: The Child Life Program. This program is one of the reasons that many Riley families call Riley the House that Love Built.

“It is the purpose of the Child Life staff to enable a child and their family to be a child in the hospital, not just a patient - to continue school, to play, to laugh, to paint, to make a puppet, to play an instrument, to sing a song,” extols Dr. James Lemons.

The Child Life Staff are all trained professionally.

Dr. Lemons is excited that his son, Ken, developed a music system that makes it possible to learn and understand music in an alternative way. You can see young Riley looking at a computer and relating the lesson to her keyboard. This encourages the new generation to transfer some of their computer 6 INDYSCHILD.COM

and gaming experience to learn music in a method more technically friendly. Musicaldna.com combines the patented Musical DNA® technology with the Master Key® Method to visually decode music, transforming chords and arrangements into simple geometric shapes and colors. All of this is part of a computer driven program that unlocks the musical genius in the aspiring student.

Ken Lemons and John Wechsler are proud to donate 7,000 six-month memberships to this unique music education system, developed in Indianapolis, to the Super Baskets of Hope. In addition, MIDI Keyboards are being sent to the Child Life Programs at each Children’s Hospital so children can try the new Musical DNA® technology.

To all visitors to Indianapolis, know that our Super City cares about your visit and wishes each of you a positive experience.

Barbara Wynne Founding Publisher

CREATIVE DIRECTOR Heather Lipe | heather@indyschild.com EVENTS DIRECTOR / PUBLIC RELATIONS Wendy Cox | wendy@indyschild.com BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@indyschild.com ADVERTISING COORDINATOR Karen Ring | karen@indyschild.com

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Indy’s Child apologizes for the omission of the last sentence that was not printed in the Jan. 2012 article “Ready or Not Here Comes Kindergarten”. To read the remainder of the article and for information on St. Richard’s program, visit www.indyschild.com

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[ community spotlight ]

The 23rd Annual Summer Camp Fair

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On Feb. 25 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at The Fashion Mall, families from all over Central Indiana will have the opportunity to explore over 75 overnight camps, day camps and summer programs at the 23rd Annual Camp Fair, hosted by Indy’s Child. If you are looking for a camp or summer program for your child, exhibitors will be on-hand to answer your many questions face-to-face. At our 23rd Annual Camp Fair, you can plan your child’s summer of fun all in one day.

To top it off, we will provide lots of fun entertainment from Radio Disney, face painters, our prize wheel, and much more! Every child who attends will also receive a free ID from Kids BMV.

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National Pancake Day Hopes To Exceed $10 Million In Total Funds Raised For Charity In what may be the world’s largest annual pancake party fundraiser, IHOP will again host its National Pancake Day free pancake giveaway on Tuesday, February 28, 2012 from 7:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. at its more than 1,500 IHOP restaurants nationwide. The celebration offers every guest a free short stack of IHOP’s signature buttermilk pancakes as a way to thank guests for their loyal patronage.

In exchange, guests are invited to make an optional contribution to Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals and other local charities.

The Goddard School of Indianapolis Hosts

Anti-Bullying and Friendship-Focused Goddard Community Games

For the second year, The Goddard Schools® around the Indianapolis-area are taking a proactive approach to bully prevention by offering a week-long celebration beginning on February 6 that places key focus on its FLEXTM Learning Program, a curriculum focused on play-based learning, as well as friendship. The weeklong learning activities will also focus on teaching children about playing well with others and accepting each other’s differences.

To learn more about bully prevention in preschool and beyond or The Goddard School, visit www.goddardschool.com/games.

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This year marks IHOP’s seventh year offering free pancakes on National Pancake Day. In just six years, IHOP and its guests have raised nearly $8 million for Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals and other local causes. In 2012, IHOP hopes to raise an additional $2.5 million. More than four million free flapjacks were served on National Pancake Day 2011.

February = American Heart Month, African American History Month, National Hot Breakfast Month, Library Lovers Month, Pull Your Sofa Off the Wall Month, Relationship Wellness Month, Sweet Potato Month...

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online buzz Do your kids receive an allowance every week for doing chores? Or are they expected to do chores?

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They receive a weekly allowance, however old they are is what they get. It helps them learn to manage money. (1/2 in college savings, 10% to charity, the remainder is spending) Chores are part of being in a family and doing your part to take care of our blessings. —Cindy C.

Chores are Expected Chores are an expected contribution to being part of a family. We pay them based on their report cards, since that is their job as students. They end up making about the same amount as they would getting a weekly allowance. —Laura L.

Chores are Not Expected I am a stay at home mom so I do not expect my children to do chores. As long as they do well in school, they get whatever they want. Now we do expect them to pick up after themselves, put dirty clothes in hampers, clean their area at the dinner table, etc. They earn money from report cards. —Adrienne L.

Pay day is Sunday We have things they are expected to do then they also have chore sticks that they choose daily. We pay them on Sunday and they have to give some, save some, and they can spend some if they choose. —Debra P.

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Calling All Campers to Indy Parks!

Day camps that will rattle the boredom out of your summer Adventure is the spice of life and Indy Parks has Day Camps that will rattle out the boredom of summer with challenges and memories to cherish forever. Time flies when you’re having fun, and that is what Indy Parks provides every day to tickle the creative whims of your child and celebrate the great Parks in your neighborhood.

Indy Parks offers a variety of specialty day camps for kids interested in arts and nature. Garfield Park staffers inspire your child’s creative side by taking the stage and working with puppets in the “Theatre Arts Discovery” camp. “Painta-Palooza” camp teaches basic painting skills with murals and games – getting messy is mandatory!

Indy Parks’ Day Camps are located throughout Indianapolis at select family centers and parks. Camp packages include trained, qualified and friendly staff, low counselor to camper ratios to ensure your child has their focus, exciting weekly field trips, swimming, arts & crafts, fascinating guest speakers, cool camp T-shirts, creative educational programs, extended care services, structured games, activities, sports and more.

If your child loves bugs and trees more than scripts and costumes, check out our specialty Environmental Education Day Camps at Eagle Creek, Holliday and Southeastway Parks. They are truly “crawling” with great times.

Sign up for camps called “Strive to Survive” and “Eco-Excursions.” These day camps provide kids with a week of challenges from compass courses to knot tying and various survival techniques, and wilderness

tips to help you on your next outdoor adventure! Fascinated by birds, fish or other creatures? Our outdoor adventure camps are geared toward your interests!

Indy Parks hasn’t forgotten about your precious little preschoolers. We offer camps called “Wiggle Worms” and “Animal Adventures” for exploring creatures in their habitats, playing games, reading stories, making crafts and exploring the great outdoors.

Camps are American Camp Association (ACA) accredited and all staff are First Aid and CPR certified. Registration begins Monday, Jan. 30. Call 327-PARK or walk-in to any Indy Parks Day Camp site to register. Check out these camps and much more in the 2012 Indy Parks Day Camps Guide available at www.indy.gov/parks.

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health

[ pediatric health ]

Understanding Egg Allergies and Flu Vaccines Research indicates that only about 1 percent of all children are allergic to eggs, and of those children, a very small number have a severe allergy.

Taking the necessary precautions Dr. Girish Vitalpur Pediatric Allergist at Riley Hospital for Children at Indiana University Health

It may be peak flu season, but it’s not too late to have your child vaccinated, even if he or she has an intolerance or allergy to eggs. Flu shots are recommended for everyone ages 6 months and older.

Because the flu vaccine contains a very small amount of egg protein, you may need to take precautions if your child has an egg allergy, but not necessarily avoid the vaccine altogether.

What if my child has an egg allergy?

Research indicates that only about 1 percent of all children are allergic to eggs, and of those children, a very small number have a severe allergy.

Flu shots are recommended for everyone ages 6 months and older. Because the flu vaccine contains a very small amount of egg protein, you may need to take precautions if your child has an egg allergy, but not necessarily avoid the vaccine altogether.

Recent studies show that most people who are allergic to eggs can safely receive the flu vaccine under the care of a doctor. Those who normally have mild reactions to eggs, such as hives, can receive a normal vaccine without being skin tested for the vaccine first. After receiving the vaccine, your child should remain at the doctor’s office for a 30-minute observation period.

Severe reactions may include breathing or heart problems. If your child has had a severe reaction to the

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vaccine or eggs, there are two options. The first is that he or she may receive the vaccine in two parts. The first shot would contain only 10 percent of the full dose.

Once given, your child would be observed for 30 minutes to see if any allergic symptoms develop. If none develop, then the rest of the vaccine would be given, followed by another 30-minute observation period. The shots can be given by your child’s pediatrician or allergist. However this option may not work for everyone and desensitization may still be needed.

Desensitization occurs when the vaccine is given in smaller amounts, usually four or five doses. This procedure should only be done in an allergist’s office.

Why is it important for my child to get a flu vaccine?

The vaccine is the best way to protect against seasonal flu and potentially severe complications from the flu.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, more than 12,000 children are hospitalized and 100 die every year due to seasonal flu or related complications. The shots are especially important for children who are younger than 5 and those who have long-term health conditions like asthma, diabetes and heart conditions because they are at higher risk for complications from the flu.

For more information, visit www.RileyHospital.org.

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health

[ pediatric health ]

A Battle for the Heart William’s story

With a cough and some difficulty nursing, five-week-old William Garcia just seemed to have a minor cold.

“When I took him to the doctor, I thought he had a cold or virus,” his mother, Cindy, recalled. “The doctor didn’t hear anything concerning in his lungs or heart, but decided to have a chest x-ray done as a precaution.”

That choice would prove to save William’s life.

The x-ray revealed an enlarged heart—and the beginning of heart failure. Arrangements were quickly made to transport William from their Fort Wayne home to Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent.

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To learn more about William’s journey, visit PeytonsHeroes.com/William.

“When we got there, we were told an ECHO had revealed more heart defects, which meant William was going to need a series of heart surgeries,” Cindy said. “The first one was right away that morning.”

Despite the whirlwind of activity, Cindy and her husband felt William was exactly where he needed to be.

“We’d never heard of the hospital before, but our doctors said St.Vincent was very specialized in heart issues and the best place for him,” she said.

The first surgery Simon Abraham, M.D., a pediatric cardiothoracic surgeon, corrected an aortic coarctation, a narrowing of the aorta that limits the amount of

oxygen-rich blood delivered throughout the body. With this first surgery, Dr. Abraham hoped to give William time to grow before more complicated surgeries were needed.

The second surgery Four months later, when William was unable to put on more weight, Dr. Abraham moved forward with repair of Taussing-Bing anomaly; a complex defect with a hole inside the heart and abnormal positioning of the blood vessels that arise from the heart.

“It’s amazing that William’s body compensated as well as it did for as long as it did,” his mom said.

The third and fourth surgeries As expected, William had two more

surgeries on his heart—at 14 months and seven years old. Much to the Garcias’ relief, Dr. Abraham performed all four surgeries. “He’s been with us through it all. He knows William’s heart problems better than anyone else,” Cindy said. They also found comfort from other St.Vincent staff. “The nurses not only cared for William, but for us as well,” Cindy said. “They made sure we took care of ourselves, and had what we needed.”

Today Now a first-grader who loves to play superheroes with his younger brother, William shows no sign of his rocky start. That is, unless he’s asked to show off his surgical scars – which he does with pride.

[ mommy magic ]

Inspire Yourself this February

parenting

YOU TOLD US ON FACEBOOK

What do YOU do to feel inspired?

Ways to look for inspiration in your daily life

I play a song I really like...especially one that is somewhat inspirational or what-not.

—Ryan C. I go on a run. It clears my head of my stress and allows me to look at things with a fresh state of mind.

—Lauren T.

Mary Susan Buhner marysusan@mommy-magic.com

It is hard to feel inspired in February.

The holidays are over, there is a lack of vitamin D from the sun shining and my car seems to be a slushy pit all the time.

I decided this February, not to wait until spring to feel inspired, but to be an active participant in looking for inspiration. The first thing I decided was to turn the channel on my TV. I have to admit I have gotten in a habit of tuning into reality TV late at night to zone out and relax before going to bed. The problem is, reality TV is rarely relaxing. Instead, getting sucked into a stranger’s drama was leaving me feeling...well, uninspired. I decided in order to feel inspired I had to surround myself with inspiration.

So with that, after I put my kiddos to bed, I decided to turn my trusted TV off at night. It didn’t take me long to find a new routine, in fact, it only took one night for me to fall in love with the peace and quiet in my house.

I started to read more, talk to my husband more (really talk, you know.

The kind when you actually have eye contact). To be honest, I started to think more, pray more and have a feeling of overall gratitude. Turns out, checking out every night in front of the TV made me kind of uninteresting and definitely uninspired.

So if you are looking for easy and fun ways to get inspired and beat the winter blues here are a few tips: Find an inspirational daily tear off calendar. One friend introduced me to a great calendar that I put in my bathroom. Every morning when I am getting dressed I read it. It takes two minutes and it is a great way to start the day on a positive note.

Sign up for a daily email from your favorite author or speaker. Many leaders, motivational speakers and authors today have e-blasts that they send out on a daily basis. It is a wonderful way to stay in a positive frame of mind during a busy day.

Try something new. Next time you drop your kiddos off at school or Mom’s Day Out, try something out of your routine.

Plan on going to a museum and checking out an exhibit, a restaurant you never have been to before or trying a class that interests you.

Surround yourself with inspiring people.

Typically inspiring people are positive thinkers in nature. Start taking note of who you know that lifts you up and makes you feel inspired vs. people who tend to be negative and make you feel guilty. Be deliberate with who you spend your time with this year.

Remember the Calgon commercial growing up where the mom in it says,

“Calgon, take me away?” As moms, sometimes we a need a break from reality. Having a break recharges our battery and only makes us better moms in the long run. Next time you need a break, consider reading a book or magazine that will inspire you, teach you something new or make you laugh. If you are in the mood to watch a movie, select a film that might motivate or inspire you.

Some movies that are listed as inspiring films are: • Field • The

of Dreams

Blind Side

• Pursuit

Of Happiness

• Rudy • The

Rookie

• It’s

A Wonderful Life

• Hoosiers • The

Mighty Ducks

• Rocky

They all leave you cheering and feeling, you guessed it, INSPIRED! So this year, don’t let the winter blues get you in a rut. Take an active role in seeking out inspiring opportunities, people, and an overall attitude!

I like to read an inspirational book.

Matthew Kelly is one of my favorite authors, his books are so inspirational!

—Jamie C. I usually stop what I’m doing and just go spend time with my family. Being with them helps put everything into perspective.

—Veronica C. Once I get organized, there is no stopping me! I feel like my life is in order when I am organized.

—Nicole K. Go on a vacation!

—Virginia K. I spend time with my family, pray or listen to music.

—Heather L.

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Celebrate the Super Bowl All Around Indy A look through of all the happenings Melissa Fears

You don’t have to stay downtown to experience all the fun and excitement of this year’s Super Bowl. We found events happening all around Indianapolis. Check them out!

FRIDAY, FebRUARY 3

13th Annual Super Bowl Gospel Celebration NFL players and Grammy Award-winning gospel artists will join together with host Wayne Brady on stage at the 13th Annual Super Bowl Gospel Celebration. This NFL-sanctioned concert at Clowes Memorial Hall at Butler University serves as a fundraiser benefiting national and local charities.

For more information please visit www.superbowlgospel.com.

Franklin Foot Bowl 5K Run/Walk & 1-Mile Family Fun The race on the Greenway Trail will start at 5 p.m. at the Cultural Arts & Recreation Center. Cost is $15 for those pre-registered before Feb 3rd. Cost is $20 on the day of the race. The One-Mile Family Fun Walk is $2/person. Wear your team’s favorite jersey!

SATURDAY, FebRUARY 4 Athletes in Action Super Bowl Breakfast

The Bart Starr Award will be presented to a current NFL player, voted on by his peers, for outstanding character and leadership on the field, at home and in the community.

Presenting this year’s award is NFL Hall of Fame quarterback Bart Starr and will take place at the Indiana State Fairgrounds Exposition Hall from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m.

PlayFit: Feel the Beat!

Discover the importance of active play and nutrition at the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. for PlayFit, a family-friendly event filled with fun activities and special guests. PlayFit is presented by the Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Foundation and supported by Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent.

For more information visit www.childrensmuseum.org.

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Taste of the NFL: The Party With a Purpose Dedicated to stopping hunger in America for more than two decades, the Taste of the NFL is a non-profit organization and is hosting this year’s fundraiser at the Gleaners Food Bank of Indiana.

The Party with a Purpose food and wine event will take place at 7 p.m. and features more than 35 food stations where guests can sample food, mingle with chefs and players and participate in a silent auction. Special performance by multi-platinum country recording artist Sara Evans will entertain guests.

Tickets are available at www.TasteoftheNFL.com.

The Seventh Annual NFL Charities Super Bowl Celebrity Bowling Classic Hosted by NFL Charities, the Seventh Annual NFL Charities Super Bowl Celebrity Bowling Classic will take place from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. at Woodland Bowl. Attendees range from Pro Football Hall of Fame members to celebrities, local philanthropists and business owners.

For more information please visit www.nflcharities.org/fundraising/sb_funding.

Franklin Tailgate Party and Competition Participants can join the tailgate party from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Team Spirit, Tailgate Food, Football Trivia and Best Touchdown Dance are just a few of the tailgate competition categories, and you can’t forget the big Cornhole Tournament. Cost is $10 per space if pre-registered, $15 per space on event day. Registration is available at the Franklin Parks and Recreation Department For more information please visit www.franklinparks.org

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commentary & parenting

Enjoy a Romantic Married Life From the author of “Fight Less, Love More” Laurie Puhn laurie@lauriepuhn.com

Where did the romance go? If you’re like most couples, including my clients and myself, you get home from a planned date night feeling wonderfully upbeat. The next night you can barely remember where you went to or what you ate. Sporadic attempts at romance are just that – temporary and easily forgotten.

Is your marriage with children in trouble if you don’t have regular, quality couple time? Absolutely not. When kids are in the mix, married couples should expect a more tempered, but certainly visible, daily romantic connection.

There are two kinds of romance, the one that spontaneously happens to you because of a special setting, like watching a sunset over the beach, and the one you make happen anywhere, by choosing to say the right words at the right time to your mate. The first type of romance readily happens during the dating period, the second type requires greater awareness and effort.

The things we say and do, and don’t say or do, can spark or block a loving connection. Our daily word choices become what I call a couple’s “daily communication routine,” as described in “Fight Less, Love More”. Hardpressed for quality time with our partners and spouses, it’s easy to fall victim to a poor communication routine. With a touch of awareness and use of the tips below, you can turn your communication, and romantic life around.

First, let’s put our mate first. When one of you walks in the door, immediately greet each other (not the little kids or your computer first). A gentle touch on the shoulder with a simple “hello, how was your day?” warms up the night. If you’re on the phone when your mate gets home, end the conversation. Yes, your spouse’s arrival takes priority over others.

Second, say “good morning” and “good night” to each other because it is a good day or night when you are lucky enough to have your special someone nearby. In our research we found that 25 percent of couples don’t consistently say goodnight to each other, and of those, 70 percent had thought about breaking up in the prior year.

Finally, show love by highlighting your mate’s positive character traits. Make daily comments like, “I love you for (fill-in-the-blank),” and choose something small, like picking up the pizza. Or, say something like “You are such a good mother because you have so much patience with the kids.” Interestingly, in our research, when we asked people whether they’d prefer their mate compliment them for being good-looking (a visual compliment), or kind (a character compliment) 84 percent answered, “kind.”

A positive daily communication routine is the way to keep love alive when you don’t have time for a vacation. For romance to thrive during child-rearing years you have to choose it, or lose it.

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Written by Brooke Reynolds

Overcoming Children's Fear of the Dentist Local pediatric dentists tell their tips and techniques 18 INDYSCHILD.COM

r. Carol McKown of Carmel Pediatric Dentistry loves being a pediatric dentist. “You have this new little person with no previous dental experience who you can mold into an excellent dental patient with only positive thoughts about dentistry,” she said.

But sometimes it’s not that easy, as there are kids who fear dental office visits. Maybe the apprehension stemmed from past experiences, or they’ve heard horror stories from friends, siblings or relatives. Sometimes parents project their own fear on their children. At times it’s just the unknown or idea of pain that makes kids fearful. But that’s where a good pediatric dentist can step in to relieve children of their fears.

“It is important to be gentle and slow, showing the child each new part of the experience,” McKown said. Pediatric dentists use non-threatening, “happy terms” to tell and show children what they’re going to do during the procedures.

Phrases like “The dental chair goes up and down like the horses on a merry-goround,” or “The chair goes back like a ‘beddy-bye,’” and “The dental light is like sunshine on your teeth” are ones that McKown uses at her practice every day.

Dr. Jennifer Satterfield-Siegel, owner of Special Smiles, said she also uses the “tell, show and do” technique to demonstrate and talk about the procedure and then perform it on the child. She uses playful names for her dental instruments and uses counting techniques to count down how long she’ll be using each tool.

“I stop and put myself in the child’s position and think, what would put me at ease in this situation?” she said.

Pediatric dentists use the tone of their voice and body language, such as frowns and smiles, to discourage misconduct and reinforce good behavior. “If a child reacts negatively for any portion of the treatment, I ignore this behavior and try to redirect them in a positive manner and then praise their good behavior,” McKown said. If a child is too scared, many pediatric dentists encourage parents to sit in the examination area or in the dental chair with their children. “Parents can help me in the examination area by being positive and assuring the child that they are in good hands,” McKown said.

Parents play an integral role in making sure their child’s dental visit is a positive one. Dr. Swati Singh and Dr. Sam Bullard, of Children’s Dentistry of Indianapolis, tell their patients’ parents to pick a time of the day for their appointment when their kids will have the best attention span. They also encourage the parents to prepare their children for the visit by discussing what will happen and getting excited about it. “I suggest parents read and watch stories that capture the basics of a cleaning,” Bullard said. “Do role playing at home for practice. Be positive and supportive about the appointment – no scary language such as the word ‘shot.’ Parents should bring a favorite toy or stuffed animal for the dental chair. And if possible, visit the office before the appointment for a tour to see the sights, sounds and smells so it won’t be as intimidating.”

If you choose to sit in the examination area to take part in the child’s dental experience, be sure to uphold your supporting role for the dentist and put on your poker face to appear at ease with the procedures. “When the dentist is talking to the child, be careful not to answer the questions for them,” SatterfieldSiegel said. “The dentist is checking on the child’s development when they ask him or her direct questions. Intervening in the conversation interferes with the rapport that the dentist is trying to establish with the child.” Also, if you get nervous or uncomfortable, your child will sense that and get nervous or uncomfortable, too. Bring a book or a magazine to distract yourself and allow the dental team to work their magic.

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I suggest parents read and watch stories that capture the basics of a cleaning, do role playing at home for practice.

Be positive and supportive about the appointment – no scary language such as the word ‘shot.’ Parents should bring a favorite toy or stuffed animal for the dental chair. And if possible, visit the office before the appointment for a tour to see the — Dr. Sam Bullard, of Children’s Dentistry of Indianapolis sights, sounds and smells so it won’t be as intimidating.

Sometimes serious anxiety is inevitable for kids, even after the parent has prepped the child and the pediatric dentist has done all they can to make the child feel calm.

The dentist may use sedation to help the child relax and be more comfortable, if necessary. The two most common types of sedation that might be used in children are nitrous oxide (“laughing gas”) or an oral sedative (such as Valium).

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“I watch children’s nonverbal cues to see if they’re uncomfortable with the procedure,” Satterfield-Siegel said.

“If necessary, we have different levels of sedatives for kids.

Maybe the next time they won’t need it, but sometimes a child needs an extra dose of bravery to get them through.”

“For some of the patients that are sensitive to sensory things, we have a beanbag chair that we place in the dental

chair that allows them to feel safe and comfortable,” Bullard said.

“It’s important to find a pediatric dentist for your children because they have two years of advanced training beyond dental school,” Dr. Michelle Edwards, of Children’s Dental Center, said. “Children are not little adults and need not be approached that way. They have different teeth, they are growing, and there is a psychology component involved. Most importantly, pediatric dentists have that little something special about them in how they can connect with children. It isn’t something that anyone can learn in school – it just happens.”

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Exploring the Science of Flight CSI: Flight Adventures at The Children’s Museum Cathy Southerland

Art Activity

Preschool Manager at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

You will need:

On Feb. 25, The Children’s Museum is opening CSI: Flight Adventures, a new experience exploring the science of flight. For preschoolers, flight can be a complicated concept, but the concept of air can be fun and interesting!

The fact that air is matter is an abstract concept for young children to understand because air is invisible.

Students in The Children’s Museum Preschool will be learning about air as matter through a fun riddle and art activity that you can do at home with your child too.

• Art paper

paint. Help your child conclude that air is all around us and, though we can’t see it, we can certainly feel its force and see how it affects everything.

• Tempera or Watercolor paint • A Spoon • Straws

“You can’t see it, but it takes up space. It can move things. It can make things rise. It has weight. It has strength. What is it?”

Help your child spoon some paint onto the paper. Then, using a straw, have your child blow the paint across the page to create an interesting design. (Work with your child to practice blowing air through the straw before doing this art activity to ensure they understand not to suck any paint back up through the straw.)

The answer is: “Air.” Ask your child to blow on the palm of her hand to feel air’s movement.

Remind your child that it is the force of air coming through the straw that moves the

This entire initiative was developed by employees of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis under Grant No. NNX10AK16G with the National Aeronautics and Space Administration. The United States Government has a nonexclusive, irrevocable, worldwide license to use, reproduce, distribute, and prepare derivative works of this project, and allow others to do so, for United States Government purposes. All other rights are retained by the copyright owner.

Any opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this material are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the National Aeronautics and Space Administration.

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CHOOSING A

PEDIATRICIAN

Written by Andi Wilson

Written by Andi Wilson

Referrals are key in finding the perfect match One of the most important decisions a parent makes is choosing a pediatrician. As are any important decisions, this does not fall under the “easy” category.

Many parents find choosing the right pediatrician for their child is more about choosing the right pediatrician for the entire family. After all, the pediatrician’s bedside manner is sometimes more for the parents and not as much the children.

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discussed how referrals are great in finding a pediatrician. She explained, “If your friends or family are happy and comfortable with their pediatrician and the atmosphere in their office, this is often a great sign you will like them, too.”

Dr. Anne Kelly, medical director of St. Vincent Medical Group pediatrics, explained how referrals “are the best way to find a pediatrician.” She said, “Having someone you actually know go to that doctor gives you an insight to their style of practice and personality.”

Tracie Rhynearson, a stay-at-home mom, stated this was how she and her husband found their pediatrician. “If someone is willing to refer you to a specific pediatrician, this means they’re happy with the treatment they’ve received. My son has been seeing his pediatrician since he was born three and a half years ago. I would recommend his doctor.”

Karla Bledsoe, another local Indianapolis parent, believes in referrals and also believes it is important to receive information and referrals from your obstetrician.

Dr. Calili, a mother herself, understood how many parents feel hesitant to take their child to a ‘young’ pediatrician. As a young pediatrician herself, she discussed how her training was rigorous with all the up-to-date treatments and medicines. She stated one of the signs of a great doctor was their ability to state they may not know the answer and want to discuss it with a specialist.

Many parents may worry whether their pediatrician is a parent. While non-parent pediatricians may not experience the all-night worries when their baby will not stop crying, they have experienced the all-night worries of their patients. This is why Dr. Calili reiterated that comfort level alone speaks volumes.

Aside from the qualifications and bedside manner, some parents wonder if they should feel dissuaded when finding a pediatrician they like, yet do not share their feeding choices.

“Referrals are the best way to find a pediatrician...”

— Dr. Anne Kelly, medical director of St. Vincent Medical Group Pediatrics

children grow up healthy.

“This is a question that I get in the office quite often.

Expectant mothers want to make sure that I will be willing to help with breastfeeding, that I will not push the bottle onto them. I think this is an important question. However, most pediatricians understand the importance of breastfeeding and are happy to work with parents to help them achieve this goal,” Dr. Calili explained.

Dr. Kelly explained how meet and greets assess a parent’s compatibility with the doctor and how they assess the parents’ compatibility with the pediatrician.

If the personalities clashed, then a relationship would not work. Dr. Kelly also emphasized the importance of choosing a pediatrician early as no one wants or needs the added stress of finding a pediatrician the week of the child’s birth.

Many parents also wondered if they should choose a pediatrician or a family doctor. Dr. Kelly stated this was merely a personal preference. She said, “Trusting the doctor you are bringing your child to is the most important aspect in choosing a physician.”

Dr. Calili also explained how a pediatrician’s support staff is equally important. “When you go to the pediatrician you are not just seeing one doctor, you are seeing the entire office.” She wants parents to know that they should feel the nurses and office staff are just as welcoming as the pediatrician. Bledsoe agreed, pointing out several people she knew who stopped going to their doctor’s office because of an unhelpful staff.

Finding a pediatrician with a limited schedule, Dr. Calili explained, could make last-minute emergencies difficult. She stressed the importance of finding a pediatrician that brought comfort, especially as this would be a professional the parents trust with their child’s health. Calili wanted to convey to the parents that they should feel all their questions were answered, especially since the pediatrician’s job is to ensure

To schedule an appointment with Dr. Calili, call (317) 865-6600, or visit IU Health’s website at www.iuhealth. net. To schedule an appointment with Dr. Kelly, call her office at (317) 415-8050.

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[ summer camps ]

5 Things You Never Knew About Camp ©2011 American Camping Association, Inc. Each year, millions of children, youth, and adults head to the time-honored tradition of camp.

There is a lot more to the camp experience than just campfires and canoes. Here are five of the things you may not have known about the camp experience.

5. Camp is “older than dirt.”

Camp started in 1861. The secret behind the longevity? “Camps are constantly adapting to meet the changing needs of today’s families,” said Peg Smith, chief executive officer for the American Camp Association® (ACA). “And yet, in essentials, camp is very much the same as it was 150 years ago – kids still have authentic, life-changing experiences.”

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4. Green is “Zen.” In addition to teaching children how to be good stewards of the environment, camps are teaching children how to enjoy the world around them and take a minute to breathe deep and feel the nature, which ultimately teaches them how to de-stress the natural way.

3. Veggies taste better with friends.

Camps are often at the forefront of things like healthy snack options and vegetarian meals. According to ACA’s research, 90.7 percent of camps list healthy eating and physical activity as an important issue.

2. Camp gets those neurons pumping!

Research shows that participation in programs like camp helps stem summer learning loss. And, because of the “hands-on” nature of camp, often children who struggle in traditional education settings do well at camp.

1. Camp builds leaders for the 21st century and beyond!

Tomorrow’s leaders will need a different set of skills. “Tomorrow’s leaders will be able to relate globally and find common ground with people who are vastly different from themselves — people from different backgrounds and cultures. Tomorrow’s leaders will be made and educated by experiences like camp,” said Smith.

For more information on preparing your child for an independent, fun-filled summer, visit ACA’s family resource page at www.CampParents.org. Or, follow ACA on Facebook and Twitter for helpful hints and camp information.

summer camp resources

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DAY PROGRAMS

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood: “Under the Big Top” Address: 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260 Contact : Joanie Waldman Phone: 317-259-6854 Fax: 317-259-6849 Email : jwaldman@bez613.org http://www.bez613.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Traditional Specific Categories: OPEN TO THE PUBLIC Hours: Flexible hours. Half Days/Full Days. Also available: early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00 pm/5:30 pm on Fridays.

Cost : Call for full brochure.

Activities Included: Weekly creative themes,

arts and crafts, water fun at the Sidney & Lois Eskenazi Aquatic Complex for 3’s, 4’s and 5’s.

Water play for 12 months +, 18 months + and 2+.

Music/Creative Movement, Entertainment, Field Trip Fridays for 4’s and 5’s.

Camp 2012-OPEN TO THE PUBLIC! Our Summer Program recognizes that children learn through play. Play fosters total development and should be interwoven in everything children do. During camp, children will experiment and explore by using all five senses. Our campers will thrive on creativity, exploration, discovery, spontaneity and lots of love.

Bongo Boy Music School--JUNGLE JAMS

Fax: 317-595-9067 Email : lisa@bongoboymusic.com www.bongoboymusic.com Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts Hours: AM Sessions: 9am - 11am PM Sessions:

1pm - 3pm

Dates: Session 1: June 4 - June 8 AM Session 2: June 4 – June 8 PM Session 3: June 11 - June 15 AM Session 4: June 11 – June 15 PM Session 5: July 16 – July 20 AM Session 6: July 16 – July 20 PM

development, music, and a daily art project are

part of the curriculum.

“We Be Jammin!!” Imagine living among our jungle animal friends. What could we learn from a roaring lion, a slow moving sloth, and a tall giraffe? Jungle Jams is a creative summer camp that uses jungle animals to teach us about rhythm, music and movement while emphasizing individual character qualities. Don’t miss the fun and laughter this summer with Bongo Boy Music and Jungle Jams! “It’s All About The Groove”

Camp Invention

Session 7: July 30 – August 3 AM Session 8: July 30

Address: Various Locations in Indianapolis and

– August 3 PM

Surrounding Areas

Ages/Grades: Kindergarten - 3rd grade Cost : $100/session Requirements of Campers: Minimum # 10

Contact : Michele Millikan Phone: 800-968-4332 Email : campinvention@att.net www.campinvention.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Traditional

Dates: Session 1: June 4 – June 29 Session 2: July

Address: 8481 Bash St. Suite 1100, Indianapolis,

campers Maximum # campers 25

2 – July 27

IN 46250

Activities Included: Rhythm based

Ages/Grades: 12 mos.+, 18 mos.+, 2 yrs.+, 3

Contact : Lisa Dehnke Phone: (317) 771-0241

activities-including drumming and percussion

yrs.+, 4 and 5 years +

GUIDE

instruments, games centered on motor skill

Specific Categories: Science Enrichment Hours: 9:00 to 3:30 Times May Vary – Based on

Location

Dates: Visit www.campinvention.org Ages/Grades: Entering Grades 1-6 Cost : $185 to $215 Activities Included: The Camp Invention program immerses children in hands-on learning disguised as fun, summer activities. Children will spend their time designing inventions and exploring connections between science, technology, engineering, and innovation.

Gear up for a weeklong adventure where science and innovation thrive in a landscape filled with real-world challenges and hands-on solutions.

This is a chance to enhance your child’s education while they have fun this summer!

Early and alumni registration discounts are available! Space limited.

Let your child’s imagination soar!

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Summer Camp Series - Carmel Clay Parks and Recreation Address: 1235 Central Park Drive East, Carmel, IN 46032

Contact : Ben Johnson, Manager Phone: 317-573-5240 Email : bjohnson@carmelclayparks.com www.carmelclayparks.com Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts, Sports, Traditional Specific Categories: Preschool, Traditonal, Sports, Nature, Science, Art, Theatre, Tween

Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes. Hours: 7 am to 6 pm Dates: May 29 to August 3 Ages/Grades: 3-15 Cost : $95 to $165 per week Requirements of Campers: must be able to take care of restroom needs

Activities Included: Field Trips, Swimming, Vendors, Variety Carmel Clay Parks & Recreation offers a large variety of camps, which includes Art, Theatre, Science, Tween, Sports, Nature, Preschool, and Full-day Traditional.

Christian Youth Theatre Address: 802 Mulberry Street, Noblesville, IN 46060

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Contact: Mandy Polster Phone: 3174075452 Email: mandy.polster@gmail.com www.cytindy.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts

Fax: 317-251-9493 Email: aatlas@JCCindy.org www.JCCindy.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day

Specific Categories: Musical Theater

Basic Category: Arts, Sports, Traditional, Baseball, Fencing, Golf, Lacross, Soccer and Tennis

Special Needs Camps Offered: n/a Hours: 9:00am-3:00pm Dates: weekly through June-July Ages/Grades: 4-18 Cost: $145 -$160

Specific Categories: Specialty camps include: Glee Club Camp, Arts Camp, Construction Camp, Sports Camps, Equestrian Camp, Eric Gordon Basketball Camp, Pre-School Camp

Activities Included: acting/singing/dancing

Financial Aid Offered: Scholarship assistance Hours: 9:00am-4:00pm Dates: June 4 - July 27 Ages/Grades: preschool - 8th grade Cost: Varies by camp. Camps available by the week.

CYT Musical Theater Summer Camp is one of the most affordable quality musical theatre camps in Indiana. In the morning, they rotate with their team to a variety of theater classes including dance, drama & voice taught by qualified instructors. After lunch, summer campers play exciting outdoor games before they come together with all the teams for showcase rehearsal.

All campers perform in the musical theater showcase at the end of the week, featuring a variety of songs, dances and drama.

Camp JCC Address: 6701 Hoover Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46260 Phone: 317-251-9467

Activities Included: Swimming in the JCC water park, games, arts & crafts, sports, singing, nature and science discovery, cook-outs, overnights (for appropriate ages) and more!

All JCC camps are located on the wooded grounds behind the JCC. Campers make use of every inch of the JCC, including our water park, indoor pools, bball gyms, sports fields, auditorium and stage, and outdoor

pavilion. In addition to traditional camp activities, our visiting Israeli counselors add a cultural component to Camp JCC that no other camp offers.

Extended care for children grades K- 5 is available for specialty camps as well as our regular day camps.

Our Camp JCC Registration Day is Sunday, February 29, Noon-2 pm. We’re offering 15% discounts on most camps and discounted deposits on all camps THIS DAY ONLY! Plus, those interested in JCC membership will enjoy a $0 enrollment fee ($300) savings and 2 free personal training sessions when they join during camp registration.

KinderCare Learning Centers Address: Various Locations Phone: 888-523-6765 www.kindercare.com Gender of Campers: Both All-Boy and All-Girl Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Traditional Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (During everyday camps) Hours: Varies by Location Dates: June 2012 - August 2012 Ages/Grades: Infant - Age 12 Cost : Varies Activities Included: Mighty Bodies, Bendy

Brains; Awesome Art; Gravity Galore and More; The Wondrous World of Food; Wild about Water; Featured Creatures Twelve fun and unique weeks of camp, all summer long! From May through August, KinderCare offers awesome camps for pre-school, pre-k, and school-age kids.

We offer flexible scheduling options to meet the needs of busy families like yours, so join us for all 12 weeks or as many weeks as you like.

The Children’s House Day Camp Address: 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268

Contact : Mary Sexson Phone: 317-253-3033 Email : childrenshouse08@gmail.com www.thechildrenshouseindianapolis.com Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Traditional Hours: 7 am to 5:45 pm Dates: June 11 to August 17, 2012 Ages/Grades: Preschool-8th grade Cost : $150/week Requirements of Campers: bring lunch and snack, including drinks, swimsuit, towel, sunscreen, appropriate shoes

Activities Included: The Children’s House Day

Camp offers a variety of activities, such as field trips, swimming, hiking, art projects, a library reading program, drama, and games The Children’s House Day Camp provides weekly themed activities in a relaxing environment free of competition, where a child can discover his or her own unique talents, and make new friends. We also offer a year-round Montessori preschool that is in session during summer camp days.

The Orchard School Address: 615 W. 64th St. gbievenour@ orchard.com, Indianapolis, IN 46260 Contact: Jane Gailey /Summer Camp Manager Phone: 317-713-5970 Fax: 317-253-9707 Email: jgailey@orchard.org www.orchard.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts, Sports, Traditional Specific Categories: academics, sports, science, canoeing, cooking, drama, hiking, sewing, sports, great outdoors Hours: 7am-6pm Dates: June 4-July 27 Ages/Grades: age 4 -8th grade Cost: varied $125-$250

Requirements of Campers: none Activities Included: varied

recommendation (singers just need to be able to match pitch)

Orchard Summer camp is an opportunity to play, meet new friends and take part in camps that meet your interests. We offer before and after care as well as a special preschool program for 4-6 year olds.

Orchard summer camps offer sports, cooking, drama, arts, hiking, camping, music and academics. Explore what we have to offer and find a passion of your own.

music reading (Full day also includes drumming and Choral Festival introduces a child to choral music! For 5 days they will learn, and experience, the joy of singing in a group setting. Phenomenal teachers will prepare them for a public concert in Clowes Memorial Hall!

Indianapolis Children’s Choir - Choral Festival

Youth Art Camp at Herron School of Art and Design | IUPUI

Address: 4600 Sunset Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46208 Contact: Laura Neidig Phone: 317-940-9640 Email: lneidig@butler.edu www.icchoir.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts Specific Categories: Music Hours: 9am - noon; 1pm - 4pm; and Full Day 9am - 4pm Dates: June 11 - June 16, 2012 Ages/Grades: 3 - 8 Cost: $85 1/2 day; $185 full day Requirements of Campers: Music teacher

Activities Included: singing, movement, basic

Address: 735 W. New York St., Indianapolis, IN 46202

Contact : Susan Grade Phone: (317) 278-9404 Fax: (317) 278-9435 Email : sschool@iupui.edu www.herron.iupui.edu/community/classes Gender of Campers: Arts Type of Camp: Day Basic Category: Arts Specific Categories: Visual Arts, Community Theme

Special Needs Camps Offered: integrated camps

Hours: M-F, 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.; Extended Hour Aftercare Option to 5:45 p.m.

Dates: Camp 1: June 11-15 and Camp 2: June

18-29 (My City, My Art); Camp 3: July 9-13 and Camp 4: July 16-27 (Mixed Media Connections); Camp 5: July 30-Aug 3 (My City, My Art) Ages/Grades: Entering grades 2 to 10 in fall Cost : $200 per camper for 1-week session; $375 per camper for 2-week session; Extended Hour Option : $25 per week per camper Requirements of Campers: visual arts interest Activities Included: drawing, clay/sculpture, printmaking, painting, field trips: Indianapolis Cultural Trail, downtown canal and murals plus pedal boat/bike rides Herron’s Youth Art Camp is a summer day camp for young people who want to experience the visual arts through creating artwork and learning about artists in a fun, university environment.

Residential Programs Academies for Teens

Address: Held at Princeton, Stanford, Yale, and others Contact: Client Services Phone: 1-888-709-TECH (8324) Fax: 408-871-2228 Email: info@internalDrive.com Website: www.iDTeenAcademies.com Gender of Campers: Co-ed

Type of Camp: Residential Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college Specific Categories: Video Game Design, App Development, Programming, Visual Arts Financial Aid Offered: Yes Ages/Grades: 13-18

What could be better than 2 weeks filled with gaming, programming, or visual arts?

Prove that your interests are more than hobbies and apply yourself to learn the different aspects of video game creation, app development, robotics engineering, filmmaking, photography, and more. Small classes (guaranteed max 8:1) taught by top-tier instructors. iD Gaming Academy, iD Programming Academy, and iD Visual Arts Academy are located at prestigious universities nationwide. Accredited Continuing Education Units available.

Camp Carson YMCA Address: 2034 Outer Lake Road, Princeton, IN 47670

Contact : Mark Scoular, Executive Director Phone: 812-385-3597 Fax: 812-386-1654 Email : campinfo@ymca.evansville.net www.campcarson.org Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Residential Basic Category: Traditional

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Specific Categories: Dirt-Bikes and Horseback Specialty Camps. New for 2012 - Type 1 Diabetes Camp Financial Aid Offered: Yes Hours: 1pm Sunday - 7pm Friday Dates: weekly through June and July Ages/Grades: 7-16 years Cost : traditional week ranges $499-$599 (range of all programs from $270 - $1000) Activities Included: Horseback, motorized dirt-bikes, archery, canoeing, sailing, swimming, kayaking, archery, marksmanship, climbing, pottery, woodworking, fishing, crafts, soccer, basketball, mountain-boards “The Blob”, water zip-lines, Tom Sawyer Swing, drumming, radio and so much more.

Only 2.5 hours southwest of Indianapolis. Join campers and staff from over 25 different states and 7 countries at southern Indiana’s premier summer resident camp. YMCA Camp Carson has it all! Truly “An Experience that lasts a Lifetime!”

Rawhide Ranch Kids Horse Retreat Address: 1292 St. Rd. 135 S., Nashville, IN 47448

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Contact: Jennifer Peddycord Phone: 812-988-0085 Fax: 812-988-9022 Email: Jenny@rawhideranchusa. com Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Residential Basic Category: Animals, Sports Specific Categories: overnight horseback riding camp Hours: overnight Dates: June 10-14 and July 8-12 Intermediate June 17-21 and July 22-26 Ages/Grades: ages 8-15 Cost: $475.00 Activities Included: horse care, feeding, grooming, saddling, leading, trail riding, team building, zip lines, hayrides, campfires, crafts, games, hiking, basketball, water games, and much more!!!!

Everyday each camper will be feeding, watering, catching, grooming, saddling, and riding their assigned horse through our gorgeous wooded trails. After a day of horses, campers will enjoy traditional camp activities.

DAY and RESIDENTIAL iD Tech Summer Camps in Indianapolis

Address: Held at Purdue, Northwestern, Princeton and 60+ universities Contact : Client Services Phone: 1-888-709-TECH (8324) Fax: 408-871-2228 Email : info@internalDrive.com www.internaldrive.com/locations/ in-summer-camps-indianacomputer-camps/ Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day AND Residential Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college Specific Categories: Video Game Design, App Development, Programming, Visual Arts Ages/Grades: 7-17 Gain a competitive edge! Create iPhone apps, video games, programs, movies, and more at weeklong, day and overnight programs held at Purdue, Northwestern, Princeton, Stanford, and others. Small classes for ages 7-17. Also 2-week, Teen-only programs (iD Gaming Academy, iD Programming Academy, and iD Visual Arts Academy) held at Stanford, Yale, Harvard, Duke, and more.

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Date Night on a Dime (or Two) Cheap is chic this Valentine’s Day Carrie Bishop

A date with Mass Ave appeal.

Mass Ave is a great getaway in the city. There’s interesting art, hot coffee and a fun toy store that is a If your love is big but your wallet is thin take heart in must-do for parents. On Feb. 3 and 4 the street is also hosting Mass Ave Festival of the Arts, a free event knowing that cheap is chic this February. Consider with live music, gallery openings and late-night these Cupid-approved ideas for dates on a dime. shopping. It is sure to be a great mix of locals and Super Bowl fans. Or for $15 a person give Comedy Be a kid again.

Sportz Indianapolis a go. Watch improvisation teams You visit the Children’s Museum, the zoo and all the compete by playing improv games based on audience kid-friendly spots all the time. But have you done it suggestions. Could be a fun way to inspire a little on your own terms without kids? Consider the spontaneity in your relationship. There’s also the possibilities! You could ride the Children’s Museum Chatterbox Jazz carousel with just Club which your honey or offers free jazz spend some real If your love is big but your wallet is thin take heart Sunday through time with the Thursday. magnificent in knowing that cheap is chic this February. orchids at the Consider these Cupid-approved ideas for dates on a dime.

White River Volunteer Gardens. You together. could even There may be no experience the magic of Peewinkles Puppet Studio’s better way to show your love than to volunteer for an Valentine’s Day Show just the two of you. How nice. organization your significant other is passionate about. In love with an animal lover? Then ask the Humane Society of Indianapolis how you can help this See it live.

Indianapolis’ Central Library is a terrific place in and of month. Maybe it’s cat food donation or walking dogs. itself, and on Feb. 19 take your sweetheart to hear free Or maybe his heart is with the hungry, then check into a nearby food pantry or food bank to see what items chamber music by members of the Indianapolis they most need or if they could use an extra pair or Symphony Orchestra in the facility’s Clowes two of hands.

Auditorium.

Paint your love.

Send the kids out.

Have you heard of Wine and Canvas? This 86th Street shop is a great spot to spend time with your spouse and bring home an original work of art to boot. So it’s not free, but for $35 to $45 you get kid-free time with your guy or gal and an opportunity to unleash your creative juices onto canvas. So skimp on dinner and go crazy with the paint.

How nice, right? This is no time to get excited about spring cleaning either. Send the kids to grandma’s or their best friends’ for an evening then curl up on the couch with a bag of buttered popcorn, some wine and turn on all those DVRed programs you haven’t had time to watch yet. It’s romance at its most relaxing.

Cook up something sweet.

Cooking lessons are a great activity for two, but can be expensive. Luckily 21st century couples can find free and convenient culinary sessions by searching YouTube for cooking lessons. Find a dish that tantalizes your taste buds, hit the grocery store, set the computer up in your kitchen, and begin your culinary adventure together. Voilà and Bon Appétit!

Visit area art museums One obvious choice is the Indianapolis Museum of Art to steal a smooch near the famous LOVE sculpture.

Wouldn’t that make a nice Facebook pic? Plus admission to the museum, gardens and grounds is free.

This month romance may be in the air, but keep your money in your pocket with a few of these budgetfriendly ideas.

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Written by Carrie Bishop

Developing Community-Based Skills In

KIDS WITH AUTISM Local programs making a difference in the quality of life Autism or no autism, as kids grow so do their needs. That’s why many experts say once kids on the spectrum reach 10 and older they need to focus on skills and academics they will use in everyday life.

Enter programs like the Learning in Functional Environments or L.I.F.E. program at the Applied Behavior Center for Autism. This program, which took flight in December, focuses on language and social, vocational and daily living skills within a real-life environment.

Since starting the new program he has begun transitioning daily living skills more readily because he is moving from one house to another. He wants to do his own cooking and can prepare a microwave-ready mac and cheese meal and make his own sandwich.

He’s more involved with laundry.

offering what they call the Middle Star program,

Unlike a traditional center-based approach, L.I.F.E. occurs in an actual home teaching students things like how to go to the grocery store, manage money and use a debit card, and work and socialize within the community. The idea is that people learn best and generalize best when they are taught in environments in which the skills are to be used.

Lane’s parents used to not take him shopping simply to avoid meltdowns when he could not get the toy he saw.

Now that he is learning the process of shopping for a certain meal or thing, he understands that when he goes to a store it’s not to hunt down a favorite toy.

“Part of teaching a skill is not to do it in just one

Through the program Lane also works two hours a week at a car wash. “The idea is to let him learn the skills he needs so when he turns 15 he can have a job there and get paid,” said David, who describes the opportunity as a positive experience for Lane.

The Behavior Analysis Center for Autism too offers

According to Janine Shapiro, speech language pathologist and board certified behavior analyst with the Applied Behavior Center for Autism, the center is not removing any academic targets from L.I.F.E. clients’ Like Lane, many L.I.F.E. students have been placed in data books. They are simply targeting those same volunteer positions around Noblesville. “The target is academic principles within a functional context. not so much the skill they are performing but on the Lane Dickson, 13, of Noblesville, is one of the social relations with different people,” said Shapiro.

L.I.F.E. students. According to his dad, David, before For instance, they are learning how to respond to a L.I.F.E. Lane compartmentalized the center and boss and interact with customers and others. home. “He would work really hard at the center and Shapiro said other centers will likely be heading in do what was asked of him. At home he would check out,” said David. this direction. Little Star Center is one already 32 INDYSCHILD.COM

which focuses on developing functional skills.

Students in this program work both at the center and at home, some also receive help from the center in their workplace.

spot. Can they take clothes out of a dryer here, at home, at the laundromat, grandma’s house? That’s how we know someone’s successful,” said Mary Rosswurm, executive director of Little Star Center.

BACA Prep, which is housed in a 22,000 squarefoot facility. It focuses on employment skills, academic skills, language skills, safety skills, self-care skills, leisure skills, and other areas that will strengthen each student’s life.

Shapiro hopes parents see that these types of programs are not them giving up on their child but as programs that support their child’s future. One thing is for certain though, L.I.F.E. is already making a difference in the quality of life for kids like Lane.

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february CALENDAR special needs resources

[ childcare ]

Game Night

Date: Thursday, February 02, 2012 Times: 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM Price: $20 Phone: 317-573-5245 Location: The Monon Community Center. 1235

Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032 Thursdays, Feb. 2 – 23

Price: $20

Price: $10

Phone: 317-573-5245

Phone: 317-573-5245

Location: The Monon Community Center. 1235

Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032

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Tuesdays, Feb. 21 - March 27

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The Arc of Indiana 5th Annual No Limit Texas Hold’em Poker Charity Event

Down Syndrome Indiana D.A.D.S. Lifetime Fitness Event

Date: Sunday, February 26, 2012

Young Athletes Date: Tuesday, February 07, 2012

Date: Saturday, February 18, 2012

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Location: 401 East Michigan St.,

Price: $6

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Creek Parkway, Indianapolis, IN 46250

Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032

Center. 1235 Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032 Tuesdays, Feb. 7 - March 27, 6 - 6:45 p.m.

Get Fit

Valentine’s Day Dance

Date: Saturday, February 04, 2012

Date: Saturday, February 11, 2012

Times: 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM

Times: 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Karaoke Night

Location: The Monon Community Center. 1235

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Times: 12:00 PM

Date: Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Parents’ Night Out: Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Night Out

Times: 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Date: Friday, February 03, 2012

Price: $85

Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM

Phone: 317-573-5245

Phone: 317-466-2001

Come Act with Me

Location: Easter Seals Crossroads. 4740

Kingsway Dr., Indianapolis, IN 46205 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th Friday of every month

Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Night Out Date: Friday, February 03, 2012 Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-466-2001 Location: Indian Creek Christian

Church. 6430 S. Franklin Road, Indianapolis, IN 46259 1st Friday of every month

Parents’ Night Out Date: Friday, February 10, 2012 Times: 5:30 PM - 8:00 PM Price: $15 Phone: 317-573-5245 Location: The Monon Community

Center. 1235 Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032

Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Night Out Date: Friday, February 17, 2012

Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-466-2001 Location: Trinity Wesleyan Church. 11552

Fishers Landing Dr., Fishers, IN 46038 3rd Friday of every month

Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Night Out Date: Friday, February 24, 2012 Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-466-2001 Location: Speedway United

Methodist Church. 5065 West 16th St., Speedway, IN 46224 4th Friday of every month

Autism Family Resource Center Teen Night Out Date: Friday, February 24, 2012 Times: 5:30 PM - 9:30 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-466-2001 Location: The Monon Community

Center. 1235 Central Park Dr. East, Carmel, IN 46032

Lectures/Open Houses: Brain Balance of Indianapolis Open House Date: Thursday, February 02, 2012 Times: 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-843-9200 Location: Brain Balance of Indianapolis.

1950 N. Meridian St., Suite d, Indianapolis, IN 46260

Planning for Your Dependent with Special Needs. Making Their Future More Date: Monday, February 06, 2012 Times: 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM Phone: 317-567-2212 Location: College Park Church. 2606 W.

96th St., Indianapolis, IN 46268

Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Support Group Date: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-466-2001 Location: Easter Seals Crossroads. 4740

Kingsway Dr., Indianapolis, IN 46205

Planning for Your Dependent with Special Needs: Making Their Future More Secure Date: Thursday, February 23, 2012 Times: 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM Phone: 317-567-2212 Location: Fishers Train Station. 11601

Municipal Dr., Fishers, IN Zip

Brain Balance of Indianapolis Parent Lecture Date: Tuesday, February 07, 2012 Times: 6:15 PM Price: Free Phone: 317-843-9200 Location: Brain Balance of Indianapolis.

1950 N. Meridian St., Suite d, Indianapolis, IN 46260

Planning for Your Dependent with Special Needs: Making Their Future More Secure Date: Thursday, February 23, 2012 Times: 2:00 PM - 3:30 PM Phone: 317-567-2212 Location: Independence Academy. 612

West 42nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46208

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special needs resources

[ childcare ]

Applied Behavior Center for Autism

takes place in an actual home, complete with kitchen,

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offers a supportive community of parents and

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certified professionals. Our programs focus on

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Autism Society of Indiana We strive to improve the lives of everyone affected by

Brain Balance Achievement Center Indianapolis

autism in Indiana. We provide information and

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Applied Behavior Center for Autism Transition to L.I.F.E House

Behavior Analysis Center for Autism (BACA) BACA Prep BACA Prep is a facility that utilizes the principles of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to teach essential living skills to young adults with autism ages 8-20.

BACA Prep helps strengthen each individual’s life by addressing the areas of employment, leisure and living

Recognizing the importance of developing real-world

skills, hygiene, self-help and sexuality while decreasing

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and replacing maladaptive behavior. BACA Prep is

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Functional Environments (L.I.F.E.). The initiative aims

St., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Devon Sundberg, Phone:

brainbalancecenters.com,

www.BrainBalanceIndy.com

Hopebridge-Pediatric Specialists Hopebridge-Pediatric Specialists is an Occupational, Speech, Physical and Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy provider servicing Indianapolis and the surrounding areas. Hopebridge-Pediatric Specialists offers both in-clinic and in-home therapy for children diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and other special needs. Locations in Kokomo, Lafayette, Marion and Fort Wayne, Contact: Kim Strunk, Phone: 855-324-0885, Email: kstrunk@hopebridge.com,

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Indiana Autism Scholarship Foundation

Special Smiles Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Satterfield-Siegel is a Board Certified Pediatric Dentist specializing in providing dental care for infants, children and patients that have special needs. We provide routine dental care, fillings, in office sedations and hospital dentistry for all of our patients. We build long-lasting relationships with our families through active listening and understanding.

New patients are welcomed! 10801 N Michigan Rd Suite 210, Carmel, IN 46077, Contact: Jennifer Satterfield-Siegel, D.D.S., Phone: (317) 873 3448, Email: info@specialsmilesdentistry.com, www.

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The Arc of Indiana The Arc of Indiana, established in 1956 by parents of children with developmental disabilities, works every day to empower families with information and resources, empower people with disabilities to be as independent as possible, and inspire positive change in public policy and public attitudes. Contact us.

We’re here to help! 107 N. Pennsylvania St., Suite 800, Indianapolis, IN 46204, Phone: 317-977-2375 or 800-382-9100, Email: thearc@arcind.org

The Arc of Indiana Master Trust The Arc of Indiana Master Trust helps families who have a child with a disability provide for their child’s financial future through a Special Needs Trust; and

The Indiana Autism Scholarship Foundation’s mission is

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special needs

[ special needs awareness ]

Preparing for a Child with Special Needs Learning before birth

Carrie Bishop At her eight-week ultrasound Courtney Beyers’ baby looked perfect. Twelve weeks later a routine ultrasound showed a very different picture. The baby’s stomach was abnormal. A heart defect was noticed. Ultimately the baby was diagnosed with having Heterotaxy syndrome, a disorder that results in certain organs forming on the opposite side of the body.

and a pediatric cardiologist. “My doctor was great and got us in with the right kind of people and followed us along the entire process,” she said.

At the time of the interview Lucy was 8 days old and receiving treatment at Riley Hospital for Children at Indiana University Health. “She’s doing okay. There’s a roller coaster of emotions and it’s hard with a 3-year-old at home. We hope to be out soon,” said Beyers, who then conceded Lucy’s expected hospital stay seemed to change every hour. Sometimes doctors were talking about Lucy In December Beyers gave birth to baby Lucy. According to staying in the hospital Beyers, Lucy is likely a week or two, only one of a handful sometimes it was of babies born with “It seems to me most parents do better when they know what months. The only this condition last known at the time they are facing. It’s less scary when you know what’s coming.” year. Upon learning was that Lucy would of her child’s have open heart disorder, Beyers shed — Beth DeHoffrank, family support coordinator for special care nursery/ surgery within the a lot of tears and felt year. maternal-fetal health with IU Health University Hospital a great deal of emotions.

Her husband quickly “It was awful. Just devastating...When you first hear of Heterotaxy it’s like a death threat,” Beyers said.

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got in the habit of visiting Lucy before and after work each day. She juggled visiting Lucy in the middle of the day while still caring for her 3-year-old son the rest of the time.

Because the Beyers were aware of Lucy’s condition prior to her birth they were able to better prepare themselves for decisions on medical options they were facing in the short-term.

This is one reason many parents opt for prenatal tests. Of course there are screening tests for only a handful of disorders such as neural tube defects and Down syndrome.

Many disorders like autism cannot be predicted.

Megan Tucker, licensed genetic counselor with St. Vincent Health, said part of her goal is to find out how much information families want to know. She said if expectant parents don’t want to know if their child has a disorder then they shouldn’t have certain tests. Other families want to know for sure. “Our job is to help them figure out where they are and let them know which testing options will help the most,” she said.

Tucker said most patients who walk through her door for prenatal screenings leave with good news. She estimated that about 10 percent of her patients learn their child will be born with a special need.

Beth DeHoffrank, family support coordinator for special care nursery/maternal-fetal health with IU Health University Hospital, recommends families who know their child will be born with a special need find out as much as they can about the special need they are going to deal with.

“It seems to me most parents do better when they know what they are facing. It’s less scary when you know what’s coming,” she said.

DeHoffrank has been there too. When she was 16 weeks along with one of her pregnancies she learned she was

carrying a baby with Down syndrome. “Nobody is really prepared for that diagnosis. It was a shock and it was hard to face at the time,” she said.

Families who receive a prenatal diagnosis are thrown a lot of options they may never have wanted to consider and it can be very scary DeHoffrank said. They are sometimes asked whether or not they want to keep the child, put it up for adoption, terminate the pregnancy or forgo heroic measures once the child is born. It can be tough.

“What I found to be most helpful was to talk to other parents,” she said.

Supports are in place to help families make more informed decisions on their pregnancy and to help them understand what lies ahead for them and their child.

For instance, St. Vincent and IU Health connect families with a team of medical professionals who can help them understand what’s going to happen before it actually does. Many times they can also connect parents with families who have already gone through a similar situation.

“Our job is to help them figure out where they are and let them know which testing options will help the most.”

— Megan Tucker, licensed genetic counselor with St. Vincent Health

Indiana is also lucky to have an organization called About Special Kids that is set up to help answer parents’ questions about children with special needs and to connect them with the support they need. MUMS National Parent to Parent Network is another organization that can provide help.

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oms get tons of attention when they’re expecting, everything from baby showers resplendent with gifts and cake, to complete strangers touching their bellies in elevators or the grocery store.

The daddy-to-be won’t let his fragile little flower lift a thing, whereas a year ago he let her move a couch by herself.

Then the baby arrives and all attention shifts to him or her and the new mom is often left exhausted, sleep-deprived and probably feeling less than attractive.

It doesn’t have to be this way, say the experts. All it takes is a little creativity and forethought.

Westfield resident and happily married mom of four, Marsha Rearden knows for a fact it doesn’t have to cost big bucks to feel pampered after the baby arrives. “My husband always would give me foot massages,” she said. “It would only take a few minutes and it made all the difference.”

(Rearden is a strong believer in getting that guy across the breakfast table from you involved from day one in caring for the new arrival.)

Luxuries

for New Mothers

Spot on suggestions from those in the know Written by Gretchen Keene

“Sleep is the most important thing a new mom needs and it’s in short supply,” continued Rearden. “My mom always told me to sleep when the baby sleeps. A lot of women might want to use that time to get things done, but in the beginning at least, it’s crucial to sleep. Nap when the baby naps!” If you have other children, ask a neighbor or family friend to take them outdoors to play or to a kid-friendly movie. “That extra sleep time will make all the difference.”

“Get your hair cut in a cute style right before the baby is born. Also, invest in a trendy, fun outfit or two that will fit you before you lose all the baby weight,” said Rearden. It’ll make you feel good about yourself and you won’t be stuck in maternity clothes till the child is walking.

“Don’t feel bad about taking a few hours for yourself to unwind and relax,” urges Sara Carl, general manager of the Woodhouse Day Spa in Carmel.

“You are worth it and you deserve it!”

Of course running a spa gives Carl insight into specific treatments that will do a new mom’s body good. “I believe a wide range of treatments can be enjoyed by new moms,” she said. “But a Swedish massage with our signature Minkyti facial and a pedicure are always popular choices. The massage is light to medium pressure to help work out all the kinks and knots, but it’s still a very relaxing experience. The Minkyti facial is great for all skin types,” Carl continued. “It’s a great way to brighten up the skin and get that healthy glow back. And, as you can imagine, a nice foot massage with upkeep after being on your feet 24/7 is a nice way to end your experience with us here at Woodhouse.”

Rebecca Welch, a mom who works in the accounts payable office at Butler University, echoed Carl’s pedicure suggestion. One of her favorite indulgences after the birth of her baby, was heading out for a pedicure with her mom and sister.

“Meals provided by friends,” was a real luxury for Welch, too, as was “having a friend or family member come over and help clean up a little bit. I had a friend come over and she did dishes while she was here.” Clearly, it’s the little things like this that make all the difference to a new mom.

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The one thing that made all the difference to Welch was the presence of her own mother. “The absolute best thing was having my mom stay with us for a week within the first month of the baby being born,” she said. “There’s just nothing like a mom to help you, give you advice and encourage you.”

Shartisha Ellison knows plenty about luxuries for new moms. She is the spa director of Transformations Salon and Spa, as well as the mother of a 2-month-old baby. She, too, suggests getting a good pedicure. “A pedicure can provide relief to feet that have been swollen for the last couple of months, not to mention neglected because you haven’t been able to reach them.”

“A facial is a relaxing and rejuvenating treatment,” Ellison continued, “that can even out the skin after having the hormonal pigmentation problems a lot of us deal with during and after pregnancy.”

And, if you have the time and money, Ellison suggested a day of beauty.

“That would really be best for a new mom,” she said. “This will remind her she is still a woman and not ‘just’ a mom.”

Finally, suggests Ellison, whatever luxury or luxuries you choose, “Basically, just do it. If you are stressed and neglected and not feeling taken care of, you will not be able to exercise the patience needed for a newborn. You can take care of others only when you have been taken care of.”

“You can take care of others only when you have been taken care of.”

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Motherhood Three new moms share all

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“Remain calm and carry on is a good motto. I find when my kids are wound-u p and screaming, elevating my voice only makes it worse,” Chan said. “Letting them know calmly wha t I expect and moving on with our day seems to be the strategy that works best.”

According to Chan, parenting thre e sons is challenging since each child is different in regards to personality and understanding. Luca s is inquisitive, Alden is the prankste r and Bennett is a love-bug.

“It’s amazing that you remember them so vividly and so quickly they have their own personality, thoughts and [are] discovering the wor ld for themselves. I’m raising them to not only be good boys, but good men, husbands and fathers,” Chan said.

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health

Focusing on the Family in the NICU St.Vincent Carmel’s private NICU rooms While it’s comforting to know a hospital is equipped to handle the specialized health care needs of young ones, it can be difficult to deal with it all in the midst of a stressful environment that can include other high-risk infants—and their worried parents...St.Vincent Carmel hopes to alleviate some of that stress in its Level III NICU with new private rooms.

From the time a woman learns she is pregnant she dreams of those first moments in the hospital with her new baby, gazing at her infant child for hours on end. But that dream can be quickly altered with a premature birth or other condition that requires a stay in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). While it’s comforting to know a hospital is equipped to handle the specialized health care needs of young ones, it can be difficult to deal with it all in the midst of a stressful environment that can include other high-risk infants—and their worried parents.

“It is very typical for NICUs to have an open bay environment where there are multiple babies being cared for at the same time,” says Michelle Slayman, RN, Director of Perinatal Services, St. Vincent Carmel Hospital. “It’s not uncommon to hear multiple alarms

or see several parents in a shared NICU space, which can be stressful for the baby as well as the parents.”

Better for baby St.Vincent Carmel hopes to alleviate some of that stress in its Level III NICU with new private rooms.

Now babies can have a quieter place to rest and grow, and parents can be more easily involved in the daily care of their infant.

“Private NICU rooms provide a more peaceful environment for babies and parents because they take into account that a stay in the NICU is a family experience,” explains Anne Marnocha, M.D., a neonatologist at St.Vincent Carmel.

Dr. Marnocha says that, ultimately, private NICU rooms – which can also accommodate twins and even triplets – provide better control of

the baby’s environment, with less noise and activity, fewer interruptions to sleep, and an environment that is more conducive for improved developmental outcome.

Privacy for families The private NICU rooms – with soothing artwork, music and a family space – enhance the parents’ experience as well by giving them a place to process the health care concerns and spend more one-onone time with their child.

“Sometimes anxiety increases simply by watching what’s going on with others, Slayman says. “We’re able to reduce some parents’ fears by giving them a more private, intimate and comfortable setting.”

Putting the patient at the center St.Vincent Carmel’s private NICU rooms are an extension of its new Monogram Maternity program that centers on creating a personalized experience for mother, baby and family.

“We’ve seen over and over that medical care provided with the patient as the central focus will improve the health outcome as well as the overall patient experience.”

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mommyprograms + me PROGRAM

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St. Franciscan Health,

PARENT & CHILD TUMBLE TYKES

The Monon Community Center in

3131 E. Thompson Road

Carmel, 1235 Central Park Drive East

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www.stfrancishospitals.org

In this class, you will interact, communicate, touch, play and have fun with your little one while getting your postpartum body back in shape.

www.carmelclayparks.com

Learn safe tumbling technique, terminology, poise, and rhythm. Your child (2-3 years) will learn the basic fundamentals needed to be successful in gymnastics, cheer, or any sport.

MYGYM CLASSES

10290 E. 96th Street, Fishers

www.my-gym.com

Children have loads of fun as they gain strength, balance, coordination, agility and flexibility while developing social skills, confidence and self-esteem.

PlayScape at the Children’s Museum

The Children’s Museum of

www.childrensmuseum. org/playscape

The activities in Playscape are designed to provide young children with an opportunity to learn through the method that is most successful for them—play.

http://iuhealth.org

Meet with a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner to discuss topics of interest to mothers of young babies and have fun meeting other mothers.

www.gymboreeclasses.com

Gymboree Play & Music’s creative classes are perfect for every stage of your young child’s life, with activities expertly designed to boost every facet of development.

www.danamannixgymnastics.com

These classes are for children 18 months - 3 years in age. Classes are 35 min. and meet once per week. These classes not just for mommies!

We welcome dads and caretakers to participate.

www.geistsportsacademy.com

Our Itty Bitty Gym Jams are open to anyone walking to 5 years of age. The itty bitty’s will enjoy the trampolines, pit, inflatables, play set and more! Of course, we wouldn’t want you to miss out on the fun, we ask that you participate with your child.

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Geist Sports Academy 11960 East 62nd Street, Indianapolis

FIND MORE ON THE WEB For more ideas on fun things to do with your child, visit our Web site at IndysChild.com

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Navigating the

Education System Considering alternative schooling for your child

Written by Amy Seng Holtzman

If you haven’t done it yet, now is the time to start thinking about where you want to send your child to school. Why now? What better time to tour the local schools than when class is in session? There are plenty of options beyond the neighborhood public or parochial school. We’ve done some research for you on what’s out there.

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Parents have a lot more school choices than they used to and Indianapolis is filled with great options. The hard part is choosing the best one for your family.

Magnet Schools Let’s start with magnet schools. These are public schools with specialized themes. Indianapolis has the broadest range of magnet choices in the state. You’ll find programs focusing on law and public policy, environmental studies, languages and more.

The IPS/Butler University Laboratory School is a Reggio-inspired program that focuses on problem solving and the arts. Amy Goldsmith of Irvington has a kindergartner at the school. Goldsmith has two children at Sidener Academy but wanted something different for 5-year-old Sascha.

“I was concerned that a traditional school environment would squelch some of her creativity and inquisitive nature. I really wanted to find a hands-on learning environment for her, and everything they described in the vision for the Lab School met that criteria.”

Goldsmith has been very happy with her choice and considers herself lucky to get in. Parents are required to apply to magnets a year in advance and most are put on

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waiting lists. Many magnet schools are hosting information sessions this spring. Go to www.magnet.ips.k12.in.us for more information.

Charter Schools Charter schools are another option. These are privately operated public schools. Each school must meet state academic expectations. If it fails, the school will lose its charter and must close. Marcus Robinson is the chancellor of EdPower – the group behind the Charles A. Tindley Accelerated School for grades 6-12. He said, “I think charters are important to our community because they allow some educators to innovate.” They also allow parents other choices when they can’t afford private school. Tindley has 500 students in grades 6-12 and is growing. In the fall, Tindley Preparatory Academy - Indiana’s first all-male, middle school, college-preparatory academy – will open, and next year, Tindley Collegiate, an all-female middle-school will open.

Like magnet schools, most charter schools have a theme. At the Irvington Community Elementary

School, its themes are character development and creative arts. The school boasts a full time behavior coach to provide character education lessons. Irvington is also unique because it operates on a year-round, 195-day calendar. Jodie Lannan, the school’s director said, “Year-round programs have been studied across the United States, and they are shown to improve student achievement by reducing the regression of skills that often occurs over long summer breaks.”

Andrew J. Brown Academy is another charter. It offers a moral curriculum along with school basics. Principal Thelma Wyatt said, “We believe that if we instill in students certain moral virtues, their academic and social development will be positively impacted.”

The Goodwill Industries created Indianapolis Metropolitan High School. The school’s primary goal is to prepare students for success after high school with college-level courses and even internships.

Online Schools Online schools are another option for busy families.

Indiana Connections Academy (INCA) is an

accredited, tuition-free online public school for grades K-12. Principal Melissa Brown said there are misconceptions about online learning. Some believe that it’s an easy way out, but students are required to meet state requirements in all subjects. Brown added that a lot of people assume online students lack interaction with other kids, but INCA students are able to meet each other through organized field trips and picnics.

Hoosier Academies is a free charter online program with a parent acting as a learning coach to help their children work through their lessons. The group also operates blended-learning programs that include online learning at home and a learning center where students work with teachers.

of WestClay Montessori said it’s actually the opposite. “Our classroom is set up in an organized, purposeful way, giving the child easy access to the activities neatly placed on low shelves. The child works with the material, cleans up, then places it back in the same spot from which it was taken.”

Regina McShay at the Montessori Centres of Indianapolis said this type of environment encourages children to learn at their own pace and the teachers are able to meet them at their individual level. “They learn through hands-on activities and learn through discovery of what works and what doesn’t.”

Another education choice is Montessori. Montessori education allows for hands-on learning in mixed age classrooms. Indiana Montessori Academy in WestClay educates children from ages 3-6 together in one classroom.

School directress, Kris Spence, said the older children become natural leaders of younger students, and the younger ones learn and grow from working with older students.

Ranee Dhadialla, the president and principal of International Montessori, said another misconception is that Montessoris are only for the wealthy.

“Daycare centers cost just about as much as the Montessori schools.” She added that many Montessori schools are diverse.

International has students from American, Asian, Russian, Middle Eastern, Spanish and other backgrounds.

There are misconceptions about the Montessori method.

Some people believe the environment is chaotic with children choosing their own work, but Sharon Emanuel, the founder

The Children’s House is one of the few Montessoribased schools in

Montessori Schools

February 2012

Indianapolis that goes up to 8th grade. Mary Sexson, a teacher and administrator, said their school is unique because it is a non-graded setting.

Children have goals to meet and regular progress reports, but there are no As and Bs here. Sexson said that the system works. Their students have gone on to almost every high school in Indianapolis without any problems.

Parents have a lot more school choices than they used to and Indianapolis is filled with great options. The hard part is choosing the best one for your family.

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education +childcare resources

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Schools & Education Carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc.

Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 13 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, 317-580-0699, info@carmelmontessori.com,

www.carmelmontessori.com

Clay Montessori

A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old.

Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Maria Montessori Spanish Immersion Academy

Maria Montessori Spanish Emmersion Academy offers a 2

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day halfdays or 3 day half days price at $250 to $295 per month for Toddlers to Kindergarten program. The program is located inside of Holy Trinity Greek Chruch from 9 to noon.

This program is a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image. Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language (Spanish all day).

Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! Now accepting applications for all ages toddlers, Pre-K and Kindergarten. 3500 106th intersecting Shelborne, Carmel, 46032, Phone: 317-852-3900, Email: mariamontessori-intl. org, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

The Montessori Learning Center

The Montessori Learning Center offers a Montessori elementary program for grades 1-5. We focus on developing the whole child through interaction with an interdisciplinary curriculum. Our program specifically meets the needs of each child and is aligned with Indiana State Standards.

1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Elizabeth Williams, 317-846-8182, elizabeth@ themontessorilearningcenter.com,

www.themontessorilearningcenter.com

Starting Line Preschool

The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discoving learning is fun! * Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes. 575 W. Carmel Dr., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.com,

www.startinglinepreschool.com

WestClay Children’s Montessori

WestClay Children’s Montessori preschool & kindergarten offers a small, structured, nurturing learning environment for children ages 3-6 to explore, learn and grow at their own pace. Guided by a certified Montessori directress and assistant, each child receives hands-on, one-on-one or small group instruction, in life skills, grace & courtesy, sensorial activities, reading, math, music, French, cultural studies. 3085 West 116th Street, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Sharon Emanuel Ip, Phone: 317-697-8460, Email: admin@westclaymontessori.com,

www.westclaymontessori.com

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Fall Creek Montessori Academy

Fall Creek Montessori Academy is a culturally diverse environment where children grow and develop their unique talents and gifts. Through child-centered learning, children excel physically, academically and emotionally.

Conveniently located one mile east of I-69 on 96th St. FCMA serves children at all levels. Programs are available two to five days per week. 8888 Fitness Ln, Fishers, IN 46037, Contact: Diana Brugh, (317) 436-8606, diana@fallcreekmontessori.com,

www.fallcreekmontessori.com

Fishers Montessori

A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society. 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

INDIANAPOLIS - NORTH Arthur M. Glick JCC

Our loving caregivers and teachers demonstrate by example and encourage children to behave according to these values

as the children are learning, playing and socializing with one another. The JCC embraces a learning-through-play teaching method to engage children in activities that promote creativity, accelerate learning and stimulate social interaction, all at each child’s individual pace. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260, 317-251-9467, emills@ JCCindy.org, www.JCCindy.org

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center

OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Ages 12 months old+ through full day Kindergarten! Choice of days/hours! Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts’ Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, 317-259-6854, jwaldman@bez613.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

The Children’s Day In traditional preschool and nursery school program provides a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values in a play based setting. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced teachers

and caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. Children may attend up to 3 days a week. 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, 317-253-0472, cwhaley@ meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church

Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org,

www.childrenscircle.org

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing

Our Mothers Day Out (12-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, a wide variety of learning materials, & friendships, with readiness activities woven through each study unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 2-PreK. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake or Kelly Belt, 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, jdrake@golove. org or kbelt@golove.or

Fairview Early Childhood Program

Fairview ECP has a developmental, expereinced based curriculum in a warm and inclusive environment. Curriculum is designed to promote positive social behavior, respect for

diversity, positive self-concept, independence, creativity and critical thinking skills. Fairview is Accredited by NECPA. Come and visit us! 4609 N. Capital Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Melissa Peterson, 317-253-4990, mpeterson@ fairviewpresbyterian.org

Heritage Christian School

Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA. HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Prep K – 12.

Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA Athletics. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, In 46250, Contact: Emily Iglendza, Director of Enrollment Management, 317-849-3441, Admissions@ heritagechristian.net,

www.heritagechristian.net

Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery School

Share your love of learning with your children. Founded in 1960 by involved parents like you, Meridian Hills Cooperative provides a positive, nurturing environment wherein children explore and learn by doing. Spacious classrooms. Beautiful, wooded playground. Caring, experienced staff. Adult/child ratios 1:4 - 1:6. Find us on Facebook. Address: 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: See �Admissions/Tours� Info Online, Phone: 317-255-0831, www.

meridianhillscoop.org

Meridian Street Preschool Cooperative

Pop-in and visit our school’s open house this February and learn more about the benefits of a Co-op school. Open House Dates: February 15th and 16th: 9:30-11:30 am. 5500 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Amy Bultinck,

317-767-3003, abultinck@gmail.com, http://

meridianstreetco-op.org

Montessori Centres

Stressing peace and respect for all, we’ve worked with children to develop critical-thinking and time-management skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Our classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced.

Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, and computer labs.563 Westfield Blvd. W. Dr., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-254-3034, Email: montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net

The Orchard School

The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasized experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org,

www.orchard.org

Park Tudor School

Park Tudor School’s exceptional educators and extraordinary opportunities prepare students to become confident and resourceful lifelong learners. The school community creates an inspiring college-preparatory learning environment for highly motivated young people. Two-year Global Scholars program for juniors and seniors; 19 AP classes; full-day kindergarten; Spanish beginning at age 3. 7200 N. College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: David Amstutz, 317-415-2777, info@parktudor.org, www.parktudor.org

St. Richard’s School

Independent Episcopal day school offering a diverse community filled with academic rigor, faith based ecumenism and long-standing traditions. Its mission is to instill knowledge and values for a lifetime through the implementation of five Pillars for Success: Faith, Classic Curriculum, Leadership, Civic Responsibility, and Global Readiness. Pre-Kindergarten (3) through Grade 8. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Melinda W. Fisher, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, mfisher@ strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Sycamore School

At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners.

Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501,. skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org,

sycamoreschool.org

INDIANAPOLIS - NORTHEAST Compassionate Angels Child Care Ministry

We are a family ran business. We have over 30 years of experience. We accept children ages 6 weeks to 12 years and provide before and after school care. We are a Christian based ministry, using the bible and God’s word to teach morals and values. We teach through play and creativity so the children learn, and have fun doing it. We have a very strong educational program that prepares your little one for first grade. From infancy through Kindergarten we have proper age appropriate curriculum and teaching. We are dedicated to the

love, education and safety of your child or children. 2626 Ruth Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: Jody Teipen-Holbrook, Phone: 317-205-9264, Fax: 317-205-9263, Email: compassionateangelsministry@gmail.com, www.

compassionate-angels.com

Polly Panda Preschool and Bridgford Kindergarten Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net,

www.pollypanda.com

Tomorrows Child Daycare Ministry

We offer an excellent program for the academic as well as spiritual development of each child. For over 25 yrs we have given the children in our care a “home away from home” atmosphere. We use the Abeka Christian Curriculum, giving kids a great head start when they enter school. From infants to Kindergarten, your child can grow up with us! Check us out!

You won’t be disappointed. Great references, low ratios, great rates. 7920 E. 82nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Mary Copeland, Phone: 317-491-5000, Email: m7509t@aol.com

INDIANAPOLIS - NORTHWEST A Children’s Habitat Montessori Preschool and Kindergarten Type of School: Montessori. For over 40 years, A Children’s Habitat Montessori Preschool & Kindergarten has been

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providing a place where children thrive and discover their love of learning. We offer a traditional Montessori preschool experience for families seeking a half day preschool and kindergarten program. Habitat is a not-for-profit school based on the principles of Maria Montessori. We have earned and maintain Full Membership in the American Montessori Society (AMS).Open House Dates: February 26, 2012. 801 W. 73 STREET, Indianapolis, IN 46260 Contact: Sarah Henning, Phone: (317)726-5584, Email: info@childrens-habitat.org, Ages/ Grades: 18 months - 6 years www.childrens-habitat.org

International Montessori School, Inc.

A unique & warm place for children ages 3-9 years providing quality Montessori Education including exposure to diverse cultures, languages, art, music and more. 2150 West 96th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Ranee Dhadialla, 317-575-8733, Fax: 575-873, rkd1948@sbcglobal.net, www.

intlmontessori.com

International School of Indiana

At the International School of Indiana, we share your wish to prepare your children for the future we cannot imagine, and to give them the foundation and attitude to thrive in a changing world. An education that combines internationally respected academic standards with a truly international outlook. 4330 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Sarah Harrison or Kate Lock, 923-1951 Ext. 369, admissions@isind. org,, www.isind.org

Maria Montessori International Academy

Maria Montessori International Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and to be treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image. Children

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participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. The lead teachers possess bachelors degrees and certification in Montessori Education. Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! 7507 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-291-5557, Email: mariamontessoriintl. org,

www.mariamontessori-intl.org

St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs

St Luke’s Community Preschool is a weekday, developmentally appropriate and experience based program. Two well-trained, degreed teachers are in each classroom. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience that provides parents some time for themselves on a regular basis on M, Th, F. We provide a warm and loving Christian environment in which children can learn and grow. Tours available upon request. Visitors welcome. 100 West 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Bobbi Main-Jackson, Dir., 317-844-3399, mainb@ stlukesumc.com, www.stlukesumc.com

Traders Point Christian Academy

Fully accredited by ACSI and AdvancEd, Traders Point is a nondenominational Christian college prep school serving 600 students age 18 months to 12th grade. Offering Fine Arts, Spanish, Technology, Honors, AP and dual-credit options within a Biblical viewpoint. Interscholastic athletics in grade 2 - HS varsity. Preparing students for high school and college, for a world without borders, and for a life of significance.

Located at I-65 North/SR 334, Zionsville exit. Visit us - for more information contact Mrs. Toni Kanzler, tkanzler@tpcs.org, at 317-769-2450., www.tpcs.org

INDIANAPOLIS - SOUTH Busy Bee Childcare Ministry

We offer quality care to ages 6wks and up in a Christian environment. Providing Diapers, Wipes, meals, Formula and

all preschool curriculum using Abeka lessons daily. 4002 Southport Road, Indianapolis, IN 46237, Maggie Sumner, 317-605-4145, msumner317@comcast.net

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Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives: ICPC

Indianapolis Area Preschool and Kindergarten Cooperatives Preschools: great for your child, great for you! Children and parents learn and grow together in the classroom with caring, experienced teachers. Multiple Locations in Indianapolis Area, ICPC Line: 317-767-7596

Kindermusik by Musical Beginnings

Kindermusik is a music and movement program for children, ages 0-7. You’ll play, listen and dance to music that will impact your child in profound ways. That’s because every song, story and two-step has a carefully chosen purpose in this creative curriculum - one that’s designed to stimulate and strengthen the vital neural wiring taking place in your child’s mind right now. 606 S. Union Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Kim Bemis, Phone: 317-867-3077, Email: kimusik@musicalbeginnings.com, www.

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NOBLESVILLE

Polly Panda Preschool

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified

and loving staff. 17645 Oakmont Dr., Noblesville, IN 46062, Contact: Heather Hilbert, Phone: 317-773-0387, Email: pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net, www.pollypanda.com

Primrose School of Noblesville

Primrose School of Noblesville distinguishes itself by creating a safe and nurturing environment where children will take their first steps toward a lifetime of achievement.

You will find certified, professional staff and many programs such as spanish, technology, music and physical fitness that will consistently challenge your child. 15707 North Point Blvd., Noblesville, IN 46060, Contact: Jackie Bell, 317-773-4900, Fax: 317-773-4433, jbell@primrosenoblesville.com

WESTFIELD

Montessori School of Westfield, Inc.

Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child.

The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years, and we are adding a new Toddler room for the 2012-2012 year. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, 317-867-0158, montessoriwestfield@gmail.com, www.

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ZIONSVILLE

Maria Montessori International Academy Maria Montessori International Academy offers the only infant and toddler program in addition to elementary (1st

to 6th grade) in the Greater Carmel/Zionsville area. The Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image.

Children participate in chess, math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language Spanish and Manderin). The lead teachers possess bachelor degree and certification in Montessori Education.

Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! Now accepting applications for all ages starting 3 months to 12 years located in Zionsville, IN. 4370 Weston Pointe Dr., Zionsville/Carmel, IN 46077, Phone: 317-769-2220, Email: mariamontessori-intl.org,

Childcare Wee Folk Childcare

Quality in-home child care serving caring families for 20 years. (CPR, 1st aid certified, and state licensed).

Two meals and one snack provided daily along with baby food and regular formula. We provide quality learning through play in a non-smoking Christian environment. Preschool program providing Kindergarten prep is available. Meridian Kessler Neighborhood, 317-926-3640

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Even if you don’t have tickets, there is plenty of fun to be had as the Super Bowl comes to Indianapolis! Lucas Oil Stadium. 500 S. Capitol Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46225. Phone: 317-262-3452 See a complete schedule of events at www.indianapolissuperbowl.com.

25 Fancy Nancy Valentine’s Day Celebrate Valentine’s Day with the fanciest gal you know! Come dressed in your most elegant outfit as we hear story, eat delicious snacks, and make the most beautiful Valentines around! JCPL White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood, IN 46142. 2:30pm and 4:30pm. www.jcplin.org

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Times: 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-275-4370 Location: Flanner House Library.

2424 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Street, Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.imcpl.org

Times: 3:30 PM - 4:30 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-774-2500 Location: Groundhog Day Program. 20001 E. 151st St., Carmel, IN 46033 http://www.co.hamilton.in.us/ parks_details.asp?id=2923

Super Spirit Craft Program

Children ages 6 and up are invited to make a headband for their favorite sports team using recycled materials and clever attachments. Local artist Sofiya Inger will lead this fun program. Call to register.

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Groundhog Day Program

Why does this rodent deserve its own holiday? Come find out as we celebrate Groundhog Day! Learn cultural history and folklore as well as the natural history about this local “furry friend.” Due to hibernation, no actual groundhogs will be in attendance.

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Indy’s Child 23rd Annual Camp Fair Families from all over Central Indiana will have the opportunity to explore over 75 overnight camps, day camps and summer programs. At our 23rd Annual Camp Fair, you can plan your child’s summer of fun all in one day. Fashion Mall. 8702 Keystone Crossing, Indianapolis, IN. 11:00am - 3:00pm. www.indyschild.com

Pepsi Super Bowl Fan Jam

Price: FREE Phone: 317-535-6206 Location: JCPL Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland, IN 46184 www.jcplin.org/

A premier, nationally-televised (live on VH1) concert featuring star-studded performances by award winning artists and guest appearances by top celebrities and NFL players. See website for ticket info.

We’ll enjoy a silly movie and a craft that’s sure to please the crankiest wolf.

Times: 6:00 PM Phone: 317-927-7536 Location: Pepsi Coliseum. 1202 E. 38th St., Indianapolis, IN 46205 www.1Iota.com

fri 03 Friday Family Fun: That Big Teeth You Have!

Times: 4:30 PM

sat 04 PlayFit: Feel the Beat

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Free with museum admission Phone: 317-334-3322 Location: The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. FEBRUARY 2012 [ indy’s child ] 53

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Discover the importance of active play and nutrition as you participate in family activities, meet special guests, and learn how to keep your heart healthy and strong.

sun 05 Holliday Park Wool Sock Winter Walk Times: 1:30 PM - 3:00 PM Price: $5/individual Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park. 6363 Spring Mill Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260 www.hollidaypark.org

After the hike enjoy the warmth of a campfire complete with hot chocolate and marshmallows to roast. You’ll be home in plenty of time to see the big game!

All ages, pre-registration required.

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Superhero Training Camp Times: 7:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-579-0300 Location: Hamilton East Library. Five Municipal Dr., Fishers, IN 46038 www.hepl.lib.in.us/

Calling all superheroes! Come show off your superpowers and skills at Superhero Training Camp with activities and crafts designed for the super-powerful among us! (Ages 3-12).

thurs 09 Make It & Take It: Loads of Valentines Times: 3:30 PM Price: FREE

Phone: 317-262-3452 Location: Lucas Oil Stadium. 500 S. Capitol Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46225 www.indianapolissuperbowl.com

Even if you don’t have tickets, there is plenty of fun to be had as the Super Bowl comes to Indianapolis! See a complete schedule of events at www.indianapolissuperbowl.com.

mon 06 Bookworms: Super Bowl After-Party Times: 4:00-4:45PM Price: FREE Location: Carmel Clay Public Library. 55 4th Avenue S.E., Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us

For children in grades 1-2. The day after the Super Bowl let’s continue the party! A hula hoop and foamie football may make an appearance. And Miss Nelson may just have a field day. Candy and a craft too.

tues 07 Paws to Read at Eagle Times: 5:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-275-4340 Location: Eagle Library. 3325 Lowry Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46222

Location: JCPL: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland, IN 46184

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sat 11 AAA Travel Planning Expo with Radio Disney Times: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM Phone: 317-566-3400 Location: The Fountains. 502 Eash Carmel Dr., Carmel, IN 36032

Join the Radio Disney Road Crew from 1-2:30 PM for some free entertainment including music, games, activities and prizes while learning about wonderful vacations that AAA Travel provides for families.

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Un-Valentine’s Day Party Times: 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-885-1330 Location: JCPL: White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood, IN 46142 www.jcplin.org

Hate the sentiment, but love the candy?

Come dressed in black or red, take the candy trivia challenge, and make cards or black duct tape roses. Then we’ll enjoy chocolate and other sweets!

tues 14 Fancy Nancy Valentine’s Day Times: 2:30 PM Price: FREE

School Age Lock-In

Phone: 317-885-1330

Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, February 11, 2012 Through Sunday, February 12, 2012.

Location: JCPL White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood, IN 46142

We’ll provide all the supplies for you to make a Valentine for a special friend, family member, or teacher.

Bring your creativity, and we’ll help you design a treasured keepsake.

Times: 5:30 PM - 8:30 AM

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Price: $65 ($55 for JCC members)

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For Grades K-5. Saturday nights fly by at the JCC with a mix of field trips and full-night lock-ins complete with snacks and activities. Register by Wednesday, February 8 before save $5.

Celebrate Valentine’s Day with the fanciest gal you know! Come dressed in your most elegant outfit as we hear story, eat delicious snacks, and make the most beautiful Valentines around! Also at 4:30PM

Valentine’s Dance

Times: 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-881-4545 Location: Greenwood Community Center.

100 Surina Way, Greenwood, IN 46143 www.greenwood.in.gov/parks

Join us for the 11th annual Valentine’s Dance for parents and children. This special evening is a dressy event featuring dancing, refreshments and crafts.

Each child recieves a goody bag.

Pack the House Night with Radio Disney Times: 6:00 PM - 8:30 PM Phone: 317-917-2500 Location: Bankers Life Fieldhouse.125 S. Pennsylvania St., Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.indianaice.com

Join Radio Disney for an oldfashioned pep rally before and during the Indiana Ice game It’s sure to be a rockin’ time fill with nonstop fun.

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School-age children are invited to improve their reading skills and boost their confidence by reading to a trained therapy dog. Though not required, registration is recommended for a 15-minute session with Midnight, a black Labrador retriever.

Fri. 5-10PM; Sat. 10AM - 10PM; Sun. 10AM - 7PM. Discount tickets available at O’Reilly Auto Parts.

Phone: 317-535-6206

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O’Reilly Auto Parts World of Wheels

Friday, February 10 Through Sunday, February 12, 2012.

Price: $15.00; Children 6-12 $5.00 Phone: 317-927-7500 Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds. 1202 E. 38th St., Indianapolis, IN 46205

Phone: 317-251-9467 Location: Arthur M. Glick JCC. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260 www.JCCindy.org

Valentine’s Day Show

Saturday, February 11 Through Sunday, February 12, 2012.

Times: Sat., 10:30AM and 1PM; Sun., 1 and 3PM Price: $10, under two, free Phone: 317-917-9454 Location: Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio. 25 E. Henry St., Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.peewinklespuppets.com

Treat your little sweethearts to a high spirited marionette show. Tickets include a special sweet treat as well. Ideal for ages 2 10yrs. Optional postshow workshops $3.

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weds 15 Fishers Parks and Recreation: Father Daughter Sweetheart Dance Times: 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM Price: R$8/NR$12 Phone: 317-595-3150 Location: The Mansion at Oak Hill. 5801 E. 116th St., Carmel, IN 46032 www.fishers.in.us/parks

Fathers and daughters are invited to join us for a special evening of fun and dancing. Prizes and refreshments will round out the evening. Semi-formal dress. Tickets go fast so don’t delay!

thurs 16 American Girl Club: Mardi Gras Costume Gala

Jazz Piano with Dave Hepler

Times: 4:30 PM - 5:30 PM

Times: 2:00 PM - 5:00 AM

Price: Free

Price: $10 ($6 for JCC Members)

Phone: 317-885-5035

Phone: 317-251-9467

Location: Greenwood Public Library. 310 S. Meridian St., Greenwood, IN 46143

Location: Arthur M. Glick JCC. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260 www.JCCindy.org

Virtuoso jazz pianist Dave Hepler, accompanied by bassist Frank Smith, returns to the JCC for an intimate afternoon performance.

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Join us as we celebrate Mardi Gras just like the new American Girls, Cécile and Marie-Grace. We will learn about Mardi Gras, decorate masks, and play some fun party games to determine who will be GPL’s Queen of Mardi Gras.

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Childhood Moments told by Donald Davis

Magic School Bus Live The Climate Challenge

Indy’s Child 23rd Annual Camp Fair

Price: $5 for children ages 5 - 12 and $10 for adults

Price: $8.00

Phone: 317-576-9848

Phone: 317-940-9697

Location: Indiana History Center. 450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis, IN 46202

Location: Clowes Memorial Hall . 4602 Sunset Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46208

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Times: 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

Donald Davis is a prolific recording artist and author and has published several books for children including The Pig Who Went Home on Sunday and Jack and the Animals - both stories his grandmother use to tell him.

sat 18 Engineer’s Day

Times: 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: Free with museum admission

Times: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM

Grades K-4. Ms. Frizzle’s students are putting on a play about global warming, and they need some cold hard facts. Based on the book of the same title, this student favorite is sure to energize your classroom.

thurs 23 Storytime Express @ the Monon Center: Funny Frogs

Phone: 317-334-3322

Times: 11:00AM

Location: The Children’s Museum . 3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208

Price: FREE Phone: 317-848-7275

www.childrensmuseum.org

Location: MCC. 1235 Central Park Drive East, Carmel, IN 46032

Join The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis for Engineers Day Local engineers will lead heads-on activities and the event will highlight interesting facts about African American engineers.

sun 19 For more ideas on fun things to do, visit indyschild.com!

For children ages 2-5 & their caregivers.

This fast-paced interactive mix of funfilled stories, rhymes, and songs paired with a simple craft is designed to introduce and practice critical early literacy skills.

Registration for this free program is required through Carmel Clay Parks & Recreation.

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Annual Student Show

President’s Day -- Free Day

Phone: 317-255-2464

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Rd, Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org

Come for a day full of excitement and fun as we celebrate our founding fathers. Enjoy historic toys and games, crafts, good food and learn how to build your very own timber frame house.

Make sure to stop by the Featherstone Barn to learn the George Washington Birthday Dance.

tues 21 Family Game Night at Fountain Square Times: 6:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-275-4390 Location: Fountain Square Library. 1066 Virginia Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46203 www.imcpl.org

Families are invited to play a variety of fun and educational board games with their children.

Times: 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM Location: Indianapolis Art Center. 820 E. 67th St, Indianapolis, IN 46220 www.indplsartcenter.org

Students of all levels (beginning through professional), all ages and in all mediums compete in a juried show. The winning entries are displayed throughout the building.

The show runs through April 15.

So You Think You Can Farm?

Times: 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM Price: $2 per student Phone: 317-232-1637 Location: Indiana State Museum. 650 W. Washington St, Indianapolis, IN 46204

Times: 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-722-8500 Location: Fashion Mall. 8702 Keystone Crossing, Indianapolis, IN www.indyschild.com/callpage-13698.1121122011-education-fair.html

Families from all over Central Indiana will have the opportunity to explore over 75 overnight camps, day camps and summer programs. If you are looking for a camp or summer program for your child, exhibitors will be on-hand to answer your many questions face-to-face. At our 23rd Annual Camp Fair, you can plan your child’s summer of fun all in one day. To top it off, we will provide lots of fun entertainment from Radio Disney, face painters, our prize wheel, and much more! Every child who attends will also receive a free ID from Kids BMV.

21st Annual Woodcarver & Turner Exhibit/Sale

Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, February 25, 2012 Through Sunday, February 26, 2012.

Times: 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Free admission; $5 parking per vehicle Phone: 317-327-7110 Location: Eagle Creek Park. 7840 W. 56th St., Indianapolis, IN 46254 www.indygov.org/eGov/City/DPR/Parks/ List/Eagle+Creek+Park.htm

More than a dozen woodcarvers from across the state will showcase a variety of artwork. Many of the carvings and sculptures on display will be available for purchase. A percentage of proceeds will benefit the Eagle Creek Park Foundation, Inc.

sun 26 SymFUNy Sundays: The Language of Music

Times: 3:00 PM Price: $25-$40 for adults and $12-$20 for children Phone: 317.639.4300 Location: Hilbert Circle Theatre . 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.indianapolissymphony.org/

Children can wiggle and giggle in their seats all they like during SymFUNy Sundays concerts.

Families are encouraged to take part in fun and interactive pre-concert activities, including the Instrument Petting Zoo, and are invited to meet many of the artists after the performance.

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Forget what you think you know about virtual farming and come see if you have what it takes to run a farm. Don’t worry – you will have real world farm techs in machinery, the lab researchers in genetics and the agricultural engineers in the field on hand to guide you on your quest for farming success! Also on 2/25.

mon 27 Family Films

Times: 10:00AM and 11:00AM Location: Carmel Clay Public Library. 55 4th Avenue S.E., Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us

For young children & their caregivers. Featuring:

Good Night, Gorilla; Happy Birthday, Moon; Harold and the Purple Crayon.

tues 28 It’s a Teen Thing: Captain America

Times: 4:30 PM - 6:30 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-885-5036 Location: Greenwood Public Library. 310 S. Meridian St., Greenwood, IN 46143 www.greenwoodlibrary.us

Join the Teen Advisory Board as they host programs for teens by teens. This Tuesday’s movie is Captain America Join us for free popcorn and a fun movie in the Teen Room.

weds 29 Clifford the Big Red Dog Live

Times: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM Price: $8.00 Phone: 317-940-9697 Location: Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46208 http://cloweshall.org/education/event. lasso?-KeyValue=77&-Token.Action=

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Art of the American Indian The Thaw Collection Through Sunday, February 12, 2012.

Phone: 317-920-2659

Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.imamuseum.org

Revealing the extraordinary range of art produced by Native American cultures, Art of the American Indians: The Thaw Collection features more than 100 outstanding works from one of the premier collections in the country.

Black History Month at Conner Prairie Select days through Through Sunday, February 26, 2012.

Times: 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: Free with Admission Phone: 317-776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Rd, Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org

Who are the most famous African Americans? Come to Conner Prairie and test your knowledge as you explore top politicians, gold medalists,

business leaders, sports professionals, civil rights leaders, astronomers, mathematicians, surveyors and much more. For more information, call (317) 776-6006 or visit www.connerprairie.org.

The Adventures of MR. potato HEAD® Through Sunday, May 06, 2012.

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Free with museum admission Phone: 317-334-3322 Location: The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.childrensmuseum.org

In this exhibit, the wacky and adventurous character MR. POTATO HEAD leads visitors on a series of interactive explorations undersea, in outer space, in the jungle, and on an archaeological dig.

Dora the Explorer Live Dora’s Pirate Adventure

Friday, February 24 through Saturday, March 31, 2012.

Times: Fridays 10AM; Saturdays 10AM and 1PM

Price: $14

Phone: 317-872-9664 Location: Beef & Boards. 9301 N. Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46268 www.beefandboards.com

It’s excitement on the high seas with Dora the Explorer, Boots and Fridays at 10 and Doors open 30 minutes prior to show.

Each musical is one hour long with no intermission. Includes juice and snack.

Legally Blonde, The Musical

Friday, February 17 through Friday, April 06, 2012.

Price: $37 to $60 Phone: 317-872-9664 Location: Beef & Boards . 9301 N. Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46268

Through Sunday, April 01, 2012.

Times: See website for hours Price: Free with Admission Phone: 317-776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Rd, Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org

Stop by the Science Lab and find out why a spiral throw is so important, how speed and weight affect how hard players get hit, and how they keep their balance and direction while swerving through the air. Then it’s your turn to test your skills and learn about the forces behind every swing, kick, and throw you make.

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Legally Blonde, The Musical is based on the hit movie of the same name, and has all the fun of the famous film. On stage through April 6, Legally Blonde, The Musical has 57 performances scheduled in the intimate space of Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre. Tickets include Chef Odell Ward’s dinner buffet. Parking is free.

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Public Ice Skating

Through Monday, April 30, 2012.

Price: $5; Kids 12 and under $4 plus skate rental Phone: 317-927-7536 Location: Pepsi Coliseum. 1202 E. 38th St., Indianapolis, IN 46205 www.in.gov/statefair/fairgrounds/ skating/public.html

Once again, the Pepsi Coliseum at the Indiana State Fairgrounds has transformed into Indianapolis’s largest ice skating rink. If you aspire to play hockey regardless of your age, spin around like Kristi Yamaguchi, have a Friday night out with your closest friends, a special birthday party, or want a cool place to “Chill”, the Pepsi Coliseum is where you belong.

See website for complete schedule.

OMG Orchids

Through Monday, September 03, 2012.

Times: Wed-Sun, 9:00AM-4:00PM Price: $9.50 adults, $7.50 seniors 62+ and youth 2-12 Phone: 317-630-2001 Location: Indianapolis Zoo. 1200 West Washington St., Indianapolis, IN 46222 www.indianapoliszoo.com

Come in from the cold and enjoy the warmth of the Hilbert Conservatory,.

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