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Around Town

06 Letter from the Editor 08 News & Notes 09 Indy's Children

07 Hidden Gems:

Bird Watching at Cool Creek Park

10 Imagine Your Dream

Home, Miniature Style

Parenting 13 Mental Health:

How to Cope with Our Own Anxiety

16 Know Before You Go

Resources & Calendars 28 Open House Guide 30 Education Guide 36 Things to Do in November

39 Fun & Wacky Calendar

to the Game

Sponsored Content Special Needs

12 Step out of the

34 The Internal Struggle is Real

14 Christmas Nights of Lights Makes the Season Bright

24 Be a Champion for

Children This Holiday Season

25 Explore Foster Care Virtually

27 Sycamore School:

A Passion for Gifted Education

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Give the Gift of Experiences

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The Adoption Option

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5 Brain-Boosting Benefits of Music Lessons

Support your favorite local places and small businesses this holiday season.

Are you ready to welcome a child into your family through adoption or foster care?

Music education supports many kinds of learning throughout a child's life.

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

WORDS BY NICOLE SIPE

Founding Publisher Barbara Wynne barbara@indyschild.com

Publisher + Sales Mary Wynne Cox mary@indyschild.com

Editor Nicole Sipe nicolesipe@indyschild.com

Production Manager Karen Ring karen@indyschild..com

Creative Director Katie Clark katie@indyschild.com

November Rush Where did the time go? I feel like just last week I was visiting splash pads with my kids, and then I blinked. Suddenly, we’re barreling into the month of November, the leaves have changed and dropped, and now I’m thinking about Thanksgiving and — what the heck — the holidays after that. Giftgiving season will be upon us before we know it!

As we all continue to deal with this ongoing pandemic, one of the ways you can make a big difference in your community this season is by being intentional with your gifts.

Giving gifts of experience — instead of more “stuff” — is a great way to support your community and help the places and spaces that you love. And not only that, but experiential gifts — such as museum memberships and class passes — make your gift-giving go farther by providing a fun experience to the gift-getter that will last a long time.

In “Give the Gift of Experiences” on page 17, we have a great list of ways to give gifts of experience this year. But our list is just the tip of the iceberg. Think about your favorite places around Indy, and find ways to incorporate them into your shopping list this season. My kids’ relatives have been getting very creative with their gifts recently. Since we can’t really visit all of our usual spots around town, they’ve taken it upon themselves to bring the fun to us, in the form of virtual classes, craft boxes from local art centers and more. We’ve loved getting a little bit of our favorite places delivered right to our home!

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HIDDEN GEMS

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Bird watching at Cool Creek Park My middle child, George, and I started our morning early one Saturday at Cool Creek Park and Nature Center with an eclectic group of birders. Amanda Smith, superintendent of natural resources and education at Hamilton County Parks and Recreation, shared with us that initially, it was the birders — not the birds — that kept bringing her back.

One of the women, Patty, in our group that morning explained that she began birding when she was semi-retired. “I finally had the time to sit on my porch and look around,” she said. She smiled at George and said, “It’s so wonderful that you are starting now!”

Most people become birders when they happen upon what is called a “spark bird.” Patty’s spark bird was a hummingbird that she observed on her patio. She said she had never seen one in the real world before, and she was amazed.

Another person in our group, Michael, shared that his spark bird was a Baltimore Oriole. He said, “I never knew that there were these amazing creatures around us all of the time.”

Smith took our group on a hike through the major trails and into the lesser known side trails. Over the course of an hour we spent our time quietly looking up, listening, whispering and pointing when we found something.

To someone who has never been birding before, I would describe it to be like fishing, but for birds that you aren’t going to catch. There is that same thrill of reeling a big one in, when you spot a rare bird. In a similar way, it requires patience.

Cool Creek Park and Nature Center offers multiple free birding hikes every month, led by naturalists.

Visit their website to learn more.

2000 E. 151st St., Carmel hamiltoncounty.in.gov/296/ Parks-and-Recreation

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NEWS & Notes

Our monthly roundup of news you can use

Give the Gift of Reading

4,500 GRAB THOSE STRETCH PANTS — THIS IS THE AVERAGE NUMBER OF CALORIES CONSUMED ON THANKSGIVING DAY!

DID YOU KNOW? Sarah Josepha Hale, the woman who wrote “Mary Had a Little Lamb,” convinced Abraham Lincoln to make Thanksgiving a national holiday in 1863 after writing letters for 17 years.

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Looking for a unique gift that also supports local talent? Pick up a copy of “Let’s Bother Father,” a beautifully illustrated children’s book by local author Richard D. Colton that will delight young readers. For more unique gift giving ideas, turn to “Give the Gift of Experience” on page 17.

give the gift of hope Help Indiana Children’s Wish Fund grant special wishes to children with life-threatening illnesses by taking part in their annual Christmas in the Kitchen fundraiser on December 3. The event will be virtual this year, but it will still be packed with tons of holiday spirit.

Learn more at CIK.GIVESMART.COM.

INDY'S CHILDREN Autumn is a great season to enjoy Indy, as you can see from these fabulous fall photos that our readers sent us!

Here are some of the pics that made us fall in love!

Joey (3), June (1) and Mason (4) at home Bailey (2) at Spencer Farm

Mason (1.5) at Stuckey Farms

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Pamela (4.5) Delaney Creek Park

Max( 6) at his Kangaroo Discovery Class

Brrr… it’s getting colder, but that won’t stop Indy kids from having fun! Send us photos of your kids bundled up for outdoor play, having a cozy day indoors, dressed up in their best for the holidays, or any other winter memories you’d like to share! Email your pics to editor@indyschild.com, and your picture may be selected to appear here!

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WORDS BY MAYA PATEL, THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF INDIANAPOLIS

Imagine Your Dream Home, Miniature Style The Children's Museum of Indianapolis is helping families share a new kind of story time with little ones through a re-imagined Mini Masterpieces exhibit. These tiny house recreations are more than dollhouses — they are intricate works of art that inspire imaginations of all ages.

Peer through a window of time to see elaborate, hand-crafted pieces of furniture from long ago. Check out tiny books, lighting and other details made by artists and craftsmen who create the miniatures. Manipulate a large magnifying glass to get an up-close look at tiny characters. You will discover one of the rooms hides a secret, as a projection-style illusion makes the scene come to life with people magically moving around the room.

1925) to compare to an actual, life-sized object from the museum’s collection.

The historical and physical accuracies help families become storytellers together, by imagining what it would be like to live in these rooms with all the tiny treasures. By visiting Chateau Beaumont (a gift from the Fortune Family Foundation), you’ll see how one family prepared for their daughter’s wedding day. By using prompts like “Once upon a time…,” you’ll see how elements in the room spur story ideas. Kids and adults can take turns until they have created a complete story. Grandparents also might enjoy joining in the fun by adding a different perspective.

Explaining how craftsmen create these pieces can help children understand math and engineering concepts by talking about the scale of the lamps and books you saw in the exhibit. There are even tiny replicas of artifacts displayed in the miniature Carriage House of the Propylaeum (the original Children’s Museum circa

Kids and their grownups can take on the role of craftsmen and design their own miniature room with a touch-screen interactive and send it home via e-mail. Imagine their delight when they add a photo of themselves that pops up as a miniature portrait on the wall of one of the rooms.

Mini Masterpieces is now open at The Children's Museum of Indianapolis. The whole family will enjoy experiencing these masterpieces through the eyes of a child. You never know how far their imagination can take them… and you.

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Step out of the ordinary and into the extraordinary ’Tis the Season for A Merry Prairie Holiday at Conner Prairie Give The Gift Of Membership

It’s the most magical time on the Prairie with over 500 holiday light vignettes, 1,046 acres for exploration and countless opportunities to step back in history with our storytellers.

Gift an annual Conner Prairie membership, providing access to fully interactive, historically significant worlds throughout the year. Includes unlimited daytime general admission, free access to Headless Horseman, and discounts on select events, shopping, and dining.

Safety, Our Top Priority This year, safety matters more than ever, and Conner Prairie has taken significant steps to make this festival safe, and will be abiding by all CDC recommendations. For a full list of our safety precautions, please visit: connerprairie.org/reopen.

Conner Prairie Is Giving Back · Take a spin on Kringle’s Carousel under a moonlit night

A Magical Evening Winter Tradition Returns Glittering lights, thoughtful storytellers, and warm fires will transport you from your day-today into the stories of yesterday and the traditions of tomorrow. A Merry Prairie Holiday (presented

by The Hagerman Group) is celebrating its second season at Conner Prairie, starting November 27. It’s time to get into the holiday spirit!

· Zoom down the 150-foot hill (no snow required!) at our Polar Bear Plunge sledding hill

· Step into our historic Prairietown to visit the Christmas Eve traditions of the 1800’s

· See Santa at his North Pole Workshop as he and his elves get ready for the big night ahead

· Visit the 60-foot-long Noah’s Ark or the twenty-five-foot- tall Old Man Winter as you explore our 500+ twinkling light vignettes

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One of a Kind Indiana Gifts for Everyone Shop onsite or at our NEW online store for one of a kind treasures for all ages, including Indiana-themed gifts, old-timey games, and handmade pottery!

Conner Prairie’s service to the youth of Indiana extends far beyond hosting fourth grade field trips. Throughout the year our doors are open to youths facing challenging circumstances via Hamilton County’s Youth Assistance Program and, beginning this year, we’re building a new partnership with A Kid Again, an organization supporting families raising children living with life-threatening illnesses.

This holiday season, we’ve invited over 200 of these families to attend a special VIP adventure at A Merry Prairie Holiday to help provide a timeout from the challenges of lifelong illness.

HOURS & TICKETING Advanced reservations are required and can be made at connerprairie.org

Every Friday through Sunday, November 27th to December 20th & Dec 22 & 23; 5:30pm-9:30pm

PARENTING

WORDS BY KATE FISCH LCSW, FOUNDER AND PSYCHOTHERAPIST, NORTHSIDE MENTAL HEALTH

How to Cope with Our Own Anxiety Three strategies that parents can implement today.

Anyone else feel anxious?

Given the current state of our reality, I am assuming that question would be met with a resounding “YES.” So, what is anxiety anyway? Anxiety can be defined as a feeling of nervousness, worry or unease, typically about a future event or a situation with an uncertain outcome.

Although uncomfortable, the purpose of anxiety is important and can often be helpful. Our experience of anxiety is natural and exists to alert us about possible future threats that might require a heightened state of vigilance. Anxiety can also act as a motivator, helping us to get out of bed in the morning or complete a task that’s been hanging over our head.

But, when we notice anxiety persisting throughout our day, even when the possibility of threat has passed, it might be time for an emotional tune-up.

First, let’s review what anxiety feels like for most people. In addition to a sense of unease, there are also tell-tale physical symptoms that can alert us that we might be feeling anxious. For example, we might have an increase heart rate, sweaty palms, shortness of breath or even indigestion. One client of mine described her anxiety as feeling like her stomach was “a bowl of slithering, oiled eels.” Eek! And, also quite an accurate description, if you ask me.

Next, here are a few ideas on how to cope with feelings of anxiety. I selected these specific strategies

because not only are they quick and effective, they are easy for parents to teach to their kiddos.

Name It to Tame It: Identify and acknowledge the presence of your anxiety. Once identified, we are better able to explore the source of our anxiety and determine if the perceived threat is real. Remember, our feelings are not always accurate representations of our current reality.

Observation vs. Participation: We so often get carried away by emotions, especially ones that feel intense or overwhelming. When this happens, it’s easy to lose sight of what is really going on. Think of it this way: Your intense anxiety might feel like a terrible storm on the surface of the sea. Instead of thrashing around up there trying to stay afloat, sink down underneath where the water is calm and just observe all the activity at the surface of the water.

Be Your Own Coach: When feelings of anxiety are high, you can coach yourself through with encouraging statements, or reminders that intense emotions won’t last forever.

It’s important as parents that we stay in touch with our emotional well-being and health. Our children thrive in environments where they feel secure and safe. And, because they are like little emotional sponges, if we seem to be feeling anxious, our kids will feel it, too.

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Christmas Nights of Lights Makes the Season Bright A safe way for families to celebrate this holiday season.

Who couldn’t use a little holiday cheer right about now? Fortunately, there is a great way to feel merry while also social distancing, and you’ll find it at the Indiana State Fairgrounds with Christmas Nights of Lights, the biggest light show ever built in Indianapolis. Prepare to be dazzled as you drive through an over 2.5mile route that’s full of colorful light displays set to holiday music, a 300-foot tunnel, 240-foot wall of lights and more merriment, all from the comfort of your own vehicle.

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Whether you’re visiting Christmas Nights of Lights with your kids or making it a holiday date night, here are some pro tips to help make your experience extra merry.

Know When to Go To avoid the crowds, plan your visit on a weekday. Mondays and Wednesdays are especially great for experiencing shorter wait times. If the weekend is more your thing, make a night of it and plan to have dinner first, and then stop by around 9 pm when the crowds will have slowed. Christmas Nights of Lights is open until 10 pm daily. It is also open rain, shine or snow, so no matter the weather, the show will go on!

Bring the Whole Fam Christmas Nights of Lights is the perfect holiday activity for the entire family because there is no walking, and you never need to get out of your car. Plus, since you never leave the car, you’re automatically social distancing! It’s a win-win for everyone. Tickets are $7 per person, and children under 3 years of age are free. Or if you’re bringing a big group in one vehicle, opt for the carload special for $30 for up to 7 people. Just be aware that there is a vehicle height restriction of 11 feet.

Buy Your Tickets Online or at the Gate Whether you want to plan ahead and purchase your tickets online, or you’d rather be spontaneous and wait until you’re already at the fairgrounds, the choice is yours!

Major credit cards and cash is accepted in person. And on the day of the experience, be sure to use the entrance at Gate 12 on 42nd Street.

Plan for Potty Stops and Grumbly Tummies in Advance One thing that you WILL want to plan ahead for is a restroom visit before you visit Christmas Nights of Lights. The 2.5-mile scene will take approximately 25 to 30 minutes to experience, and there are no pit stops along the way.

Portable toilets are located at the entrance to the show, so visitors with young kids will want to make sure to visit those before getting in line. Be sure to also pack some hand sanitizer!

It’s also a smart idea to pack some snacks and drinks for the ride. Nothing puts a damper in the holiday spirit like a “hangry” attitude!

Turn On Your Radio, Turn Off Your Headlights To really immerse your yourself in the magic, set your radio dial to Christmas Nights of Lights’ radio station. They will let you know the station numbers at check-in. The station plays new and classic Christmas tunes, and all of the light displays are synchronized to the music.

Check out the Christmas Nights of Lights Facebook page (facebook. com/christmasnightsof lightsindianapolis) to stay up-to-date with special events that may happen throughout the season.

And to preserve the magic for everyone else, turn off your headlights at check-in and keep them off throughout your visit.

Trust us: You — and everyone else — will be able to see the light show much better this way!

Put Your Observational Skills to Work Make a game of your visit and try to find the eight elves that are hiding throughout Christmas Nights of Lights. Look carefully — those elves can be sneaky!

Stay Informed

Christmas Nights of Lights is located at the Indiana State Fairgrounds from November 13-January 3, 2021, from dusk until 10 pm, with extended hours on weekends. For more information, visit christmasnightsof lights.com.

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WORDS BY NICOLE SIPE

Know Before You Go to the Game The Indianapolis Colts have implemented a series of health and sanitization procedures for the safety of fans, players and staff.

This season might look different from football seasons past, but as always, the Indianapolis Colts want to protect the health and safety of their fans while also ensuring maximum fun. Here’s a rundown of the precautions and procedures in place at Lucas Oil Stadium to protect your health when you attend Indianapolis Colts home games.

Interested in attending a game? Visit Colts.com/ tickets to secure your seats for an upcoming game!

Be Fit to Play All fans and gameday staff will participate in a COVID-19 screening, including a temperature check and questionnaire prior to entering Lucas Oil Stadium. If you are feeling sick, stay home!

Less Contact Ticketing is fully mobile to create a more secure and safer entry for fans.

Colts games will also be cashless for the 2020 season, and fans can pay by major credit card, Apple Pay and Google Pay. Cash-to-card machines will be available for fans who need to exchange their cash for prepaid debit cards. These machines are located outside sections 116 and 543.

“The entire experience was amazing because of everything the Colts organization did to keep us safe, and how unobtrusive the safety measure all felt,” says Colts season ticket member Justin Mescher, who brought his 5-year-old son, Trent, to a recent game. “Safe family, a once-in-a-lifetime experience with my son, and a Colts win ... you can't get much better than that!”

Two Yards Can Change the Game Fans are required to practice physical distancing — standing/ sitting at least 6 feet away from other people not in their party — while inside and outside the stadium.

Fortunately, Lucas Oil Stadium has multiple entries and exits at four separate gates and more than 1 million square feet of club, concourse and corridor space, so fans will have ample space to practice distancing. Stadium capacity has been reduced to meet local, NFL and CDC guidelines, so stadium seating will be spaced farther apart. As such, seating will be grouped in “pods” to maintain distance between groups who are not known to one another.

Protecting the Team Starts with You Face coverings are required at all times for fans over the age of 2, except when actively eating or drinking. Fans are also encouraged to wash and sanitize their hands regularly.

For more information about gameday safety protocols, visit Colts.com/game-day/knowbefore-you-go.

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GIVE THE GIFT OF EXPERIENCES

S U P P O R T YO U R FAVO R I T E L O C A L P L AC E S A N D S M A L L B U S I N E S S E S T H I S H O L I D AY S E A S O N .

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t’s the start of gift-giving season! This year, make your gifts to loved ones go farther — and support your community — by giving the gift of experience. From lessons to museum memberships to educational opportunities, we’ve got a roundup of ideas for gifting Indy experiences that everyone will love.

R E S TAU R A N T S Looking for a gift for your significant other? St. Elmo Steak House is the perfect place for an extra-special date night experience. For a more casual spot perfect for families and cocktail enthusiasts alike, grab a gift certificate (or two!) to Baby’s. With a menu packed with burgers, broasted chicken, salads, kid favorites, and milkshakes (including non-dairy and boozy options), you’ll find something for the whole family.

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Prefer sweet treats? Give the gift of ice cream with a gift card to BRICS. Waffle cones, shakes, sundaes and more— who says ice cream has to just be a summer treat? And Indy’s donut game is strong: gift cards to Long’s Bakery, Rise’n Roll Bakery or General American Donut Company would make anyone happy.

MUSEUM MEMBERSHIPS Gifting a museum membership is a gift that truly pays dividends, especially when it comes to The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

With five floors of fun, 12 sports experiences, a Dinosphere, space station and jam-packed calendar of rotating exhibits, a family membership to The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis is a gift everyone will enjoy. (Insider tip: The Children’s Museum also has a fantastic gift shop!)

PERFORMING ARTS Art lovers of all ages can enjoy a wide range of classes at the Indianapolis Art Center. With classes in mediums ranging from paint to clay to digital animation, the gift of art classes is the perfect way to get those creative juices flowing.

Tiny dancers can get their kicks at Indiana Ballet Conservatory, a pre-professional ballet school in Carmel. They offer classes for ages 3 through adult, including their unique gentlemen’s program.

Musicians can take their craft to new levels with lessons from Meridian Music. Currently, private lessons are available for most instruments, including voice, and can be taken online or in their studio.

In addition to housing the world’s largest children’s museum, Indianapolis is also home to several top-notch attractions. Conner Prairie offers families a portal into history like never before. With a membership, you’ll have access to a year of wonder and adventure at this local gem.

And for families, a drive-in concert compliments of Actors Theatre of Indiana will get everyone in the holiday spirit. On November 27 from 7-9 p.m., enjoy holiday music with some special guests, including Santa. Purchase tickets at atistage.org.

And the eponymous Indiana State Museum goes well beyond the history of the Hoosier state. Start your journey at Birth of the Earth, dive into the Ancient Seas that once covered the Midwest, explore life in the Ice Age and learn about Indiana’s founding people. An IMAX theater rounds out the fun, making this museum a must on dreary winter days.

FITNESS Do you know a child with energy to burn? Gymnastics and ninja classes are for children of all ages — walking to teenager — and are wonderful ways for children to strengthen their bodies, minds, self-confidence and to just have fun! With six Indianapolis-area locations, Wright’s Gymnastics and NinjaZone makes it easy to find a class near you that fits your busy schedule.

E D U C AT I O N A L O P P O R T U N I T I E S As parents, we want to help our children be the best version of themselves, and the Terrateer Club is here to help. This monthly on-demand program helps children build better relationships, improve confidence and self-acceptance, manage stress, explore the beauty of nature, develop important aspects of brain functioning, demonstrate kindness, practice giving back and cultivate an open-minded world view. This is a great gift for families with children ages 4 to 8, and the perfect gifting idea for grandparents.

Class 101 offers the gift of college planning made

simple. This service helps students in 8th through 12th grade find the best schools, at the best price, for their best future. Their dedicated counselors help high school students identify their college goals, as well as support them in the steps necessary to achieve those goals in the most cost-effective manner possible.

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For the something the entire family will enjoy, give the gift of a fitness membership. At the Monon Community Center, their state-of-the-art facility is more than just a gym: it is an all-inclusive family experience.

Whether you're looking for an indoor track, yoga, basketball courts, cardio equipment, lap swimming, weight lifting or cycling, there is something for everyone. And little ones up to age 12 can enjoy all that the KidZone has to offer, including an indoor playground, creative arts area, computers for interactive learning and a reading nook.

With 12 locations throughout Indy, a membership to the YMCA of Greater

Indianapolis offers easy access for the entire

family. With classes, programs and activities for

all ages, there is something for everyone. And

parents can enjoy a worry-free workout knowing

their little ones are being cared for by the largest

provider of child care in the country.

This year, skip the “things” that will quickly be

forgotten, and instead give a gift that will last all year long.

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T H E A D O P T I O N O P T I O N Are you ready to welcome a child into your family through adoption or foster care?

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here are many ways a family can grow, and two of those ways are through adoption or foster care.

With adoption, the goal is for the child to find a permanent home. With foster care, “[the goal is to] offer a child a safe, family environment while their biological parent(s) do what is needed to achieve family reunification,” says Andra Martinez, vice president of communications and development for Children’s Bureau in Indianapolis.

The thought of bringing a child into your home, whether through adoption or foster care, can be exhilarating, and can also raise a number of questions. You may be wondering if you are ready to welcome a child into your family through adoption, or if foster care may be a better option for you.

What to Consider When Thinking About Adopting “Adoption is another road to parenthood,” says Meg Sterchi, one of the founders and executive director of Adoptions of Indiana. “It's not second best, or the last resort. Adoption isn't always the right option when you're struggling with infertility. Being able to separate being pregnant from being a parent can help. It's important to allow yourself to grieve what might have been, so you can open your heart to what can be.”

When thinking about adoption, Sterchi suggests considering how important it will be to understand and respect your child's birth history and birth family, and have an open heart toward your child's birth family.

Sterchi says that when thinking about adopting with a partner, you and your partner will both want to move forward with adoption or fostering only when you’re both ready. “If one person isn't ready, you shouldn't proceed,” she says. “Give them the time they need to decide if it is right for them, too.”

The Steps to Adoption Take time to consider the right type of adoption for your family, and do your homework. Most agencies offer free consultations to help

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you understand their programs and process. It will become clear to you which program best fits your family.

Also, you will want to be sure to look for an agency that provides strong services to expectant parents and birth parents long-term, and who believes strongly in adoption education and support for adoptive families.

The Foster Factor The foster licensing process can take a long time and require a decent amount of paperwork, according to Kris, a foster mom and blogger for Children’s Bureau, who breaks down the process of getting a foster care license in her blog, Kris’ Corner: childrensbureau.org/ news/kris-corner-it-takes-so-long-to-get-licensed.

However, the process is worth it, as foster families are greatly needed. “Foster parents are needed in Indiana,” Sterchi says. “Reach out and learn more about the foster programs in your community. It's important to have a strong relationship with your agency so you know you'll receive the training and support you will need ongoing.”

Sterchi recommends talking with other foster parents, and joining a foster parent support organization. Having these resources will help you as you navigate foster parenting.

Adoption and foster care can be a wonderful opportunity for you and your family to grow. There are many resources, and support systems, available for parents who would like to learn more about this option for their expanding family.

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Be a Champion for Children This Holiday Season "Every child deserves a champion; an adult who will never give up on them, who understands the power of connection and insists that they become the best they can possibly be."

That powerful statement from Rita Pierson, an educator from Texas, encompasses The Villages of Indiana’s mission to champion every child’s right to a safe, permanent, and nurturing home.

The Villages is Indiana’s largest child and family services agency serving 11,000 children and families across Indiana ever year.

The non-profit organization works closely with the Indiana Department of Child Services to license foster families and place children in loving homes while providing support every step of the way. “Our team knows becoming a foster parent and taking the next step to adopt a child is a big decision and responsibility,” says President and CEO Sharon Pierce.

“It’s why we are dedicated to be a partner to each family every step of the way.”

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Youth Services. “Our team knows not every family can be a foster or adoptive family. Yet there are so many ways to give back to support The Villages children and youth during the upcoming holiday season,” says Pierce.

The Villages Spirit of Giving campaign continues through Dec. 31. The community is invited to sponsor a child’s toy wish, host a virtual toy drive or make a donation. For details and information how to support The Villages visit villageskids.org/ HolidayGiving.

The Villages also provides support and services to children and families through programs including Post Adoption, Kinship Care, Healthy Families and Older

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Not biologically related, but now adopted brothers forever! These two sweet boys were both adopted in 2020 by their Villages’ foster parents.

Sharvonne and Joseph

YOUR DONATION MAKES THE DIFFERENCE Brynnley Brynnley requires specific care for her special needs. Her biological parents were unable to provide or take care of her because of their addictions. Her new, adoptive parents (previously her foster parents) are giving Brynnley all the love and support that a child could ever wish.

Sharvonne assumed guardianship for her then 10-year-old brother Joseph when she was 23 years old.

As guardian, Sharvonne juggled studies, work and caring for Joseph. She joined The Villages Kinship Care Program, which she calls a lifesaver. “I felt like I wasn’t alone in this journey. To meet once a month with people going through similar things made a big difference.”

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Explore Foster Care Virtually

Schedule your 1-on-1 meeting to learn more about becoming a foster parent Virtual meetings have made life more convenient for everyone involved. The Therapeutic Foster Care team at Adult & Child Foster Care utilizes them often, from trainings to meetings with foster parents.

Sometimes, though, life gets in the way of those types of meetings, too.

Schedules fill up. Emergencies happen.

That’s why the team at Adult & Child Foster Care is offering virtual informational meetings via Zoom that fit your schedule. You pick the day and time, and they’ll meet you online.

How the virtual meetings work If you’re interested in learning more about becoming a foster parent, the foster care team offers informational meetings. But they don’t happen sporadically. They happen whenever you want them to happen, and the 1-on-1 environment allows prospective parents to ask more personal questions that might not be comfortable in a group setting.

Trainings have historically been set up one time monthly, but this allows the foster care team to do an informational meeting for a shorter

time commitment. Then, prospective foster parents can determine if they are ready to take the next step to begin the training process.

“It allows me to individualize training when necessary,” said Lynn Farmer, Community Outreach Development Specialist. “For example, we still do pre-service trainings on Saturdays even virtually. However, occasionally Saturday doesn’t work around work schedules. Virtual training allows me to meet the prospective parent on their timeline.”

The 30-minute informational sessions cover the basic requirements to become a foster parent, the required training, the placement process and more. Prospective parents can ask questions at the end of the meetings.

Those advantages complement the convenience that virtual meetings provide.

How you can register for a virtual meeting Would you like to schedule your own 1-on-1 virtual meeting to learn more about becoming a foster parent?

Call 317-893-0207 or email Lynn Farmer. Once you’ve settled on a meeting date and time, the foster care team will send you a link via email to join the meeting.

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Sycamore School: A Passion for Gifted Education Sycamore School is Indiana’s only private, independent school for gifted students in Preschool through 8th grade. One of very few gifted schools in the country, Sycamore’s focus is on meeting the academic, social, and emotional needs of gifted learners, in and out of the classroom, while having students be known and loved.

Sycamore begins with a program for three-year-olds and continues through Middle School. Students ‒ and their parents ‒ find a peer group of kids who think and learn like them, a curriculum designed for gifted students, and teachers who understand and respect them and who are trained to teach gifted kids. Experiential, hands-on, differentiated learning is the norm at Sycamore. Students benefit from many speakers and field trips that bring learning to life. In fact, a student who is at Sycamore from Preschool through 8th grade will experience more than 90 speakers and 80 field trips!

The school’s passion for educating gifted children extends beyond the classroom to art, music, theatre, athletics, academic competitions, and more. Sycamore students often win local, state, and national awards and are in an environment where they feel accepted and where their achievements are celebrated.

Character development is emphasized, as Sycamore’s four core values ‒ respect, moral courage, empathy, and relationships ‒ are taught, practiced, and exemplified by students in all grades.

Sycamore invites you to experience the school’s positive atmosphere and energy for yourself. You can learn about gifted education, take a virtual tour, explore academics, understand the enrollment process, and more at sycamoreschool.org.

You can also attend a Wednesdays with Sycamore event and/or schedule a personal tour by contacting the Enrollment Management Office at 317-2022544. Sycamore is still accepting applications for many grades for this school year while also accepting applications for 2021-2022!

Gifted kids are Sycamore's mission and passion. Come see for yourself!

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2020 SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE GUIDE CONSIDERING A NEW SCHOOL FOR YOUR STUDENT? OUR AREA HAS PLENTY TO CHOOSE FROM! FIND THE RIGHT MATCH BY VISITING AN UPCOMING OPEN HOUSE TO GET ALL YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED. BREBEUF JESUIT PREPARATORY SCHOO L 2801 W. 86th St., Indianapolis, IN 46268

(317) 524-7050 brebeuf.org/openhouse Grades: 9-12 Visits and tours available virtually and in-person.

CATHEDRAL HIGH SCHOOL 5225 E 56th St., Indianapolis, IN 46226

(317) 542-1481 gocathedral.com Grades: 9-12 Open House: Virtual Tour, November 12, 6-8:30 pm

CULVER ACADEMIES 1300 Academy Rd., Culver, IN 46511

(574) 842-7100 culver.org Grades: 9-12 Visit admissions.culver. org/portal/virtualevents to register for a virtual event.

CURTIS WILSON PRIMARY SCHOOL AND ACADEMY 7850 S. Emerson Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46237

(317) 882-8636 cwpsa.com Preschool – 6th grade Please call to schedule a private tour.

GUERIN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL 15300 Gray Rd., Noblesville IN 46062

(317) 582-0120 guerincatholic.org Grades: 9-12 Open House: Sunday, November 1, In-Person and a Virtual Experience Available

HASTEN HEBREW ACADEMY OF INDIANAPOLIS 6602 Hoover Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 251-1261 hhai.org Grades: 12 months-8th grade Email Enrollment@hhai. org for more information and to schedule a tour.

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HIGHLANDS LATIN SCHOOL P.O. Box 4462, Carmel, IN 46082

(317) 519-5501 indylatinschool.org Grades: K-12 Open House: Virtual open house: December 1, 10 am

INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL OF INDIANA Upper School: 4330 N Michigan Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46208

(317) 923-1951

Lower School: 200 W 49th St., Indianapolis, IN 46208

(317) 255-1951 isind.org Grades: 3PreK-12

Visit isind.org/tours-andopen-houses/schedule-atour/ to schedule a tour.

KINGSWAY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL 7979 East County Road 100 North, Avon, IN 46123

(317) 272-2227 Kingswayschool.org Grades: P3-8th Grade If you are interested in the current year, please visit kingswayschool. org/apply. Applications for 2021-2022 will be available in January 2022.

LEGACY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL 470 Lakeview Dr., Noblesville, IN 46060

(317) 776-4186 legacychristianonline.org Grades: Preschool-12 Open House: November 10, 6:30 – 8:00 pm (in person)

(317) 423-8200 ltschools.org Grades: Preschool-12 Open House Dates: Lawrence Central: November 11, 6-8 pm Lawrence North: November 5, 6-8 pm MCIT: November 12, 6-7:30 pm

PARAMOUNT SCHOOLS OF EXCELLENCE Brookside: (317) 775-6660

MSD LAWRENCE TOWNSHIP

5770 Whitestown Parkway, Whitestown, IN 46075

(317) 769-2450 tpcs.org Grades: PreK-12 Open House: Fall Open House November 5, 2020, 5-7 pm; On Campus Tours by Appointment. Virtual Tours at Mytraderspoint.org

3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201

THE OAKS ACADEMY

1203 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis, IN 46202

Brookside Campus: 3092 Brookside Parkway North Drive Indianapolis, IN 46218

3029 E. Washington St., Indianapolis, IN 46201

Fall Creek Campus: 2301 North Park Avenue Indianapolis, IN 46205

Cottage Home: (463) 231-2880 Englewood: (463) 231-2830 Virtual Learning Office:

Middle School: 1301 East 16th Street Indianapolis, IN 46202

(317) 379-4753 paramountindy.org Grades: K-8 Please call for the tour schedule.

(317) 931-3043 theoaksacademy.org Grades: Pre-K-8 Virtual Parent Preview: 9:30 - 11:00 am, November 18, or January 27

(317) 910-8551

PARK TUDOR 7200 North College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46240

(317) 415-2700 parktudor.org Grades: JK-12 Visit parktudor.org/admissions/ visit-campus to learn about virtual tour options.

ST. RICHARDS EPISCOPAL SCHOOL 33 East 33rd St., Indianapolis, IN 46205

(317) 926-0425 strichardsschool.org Grades: PK3-8 Virtual Tours available

SYCAMORE SCHOOL Locations: Lawrence Central High School: 7300 E 56th St, Indianapolis, IN 46226 // Lawrence North High School: 7802 Hague Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46256 // McKenzie Center for Innovation & Technology: 7250 E 75th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256

TRADERS POINT CHRISTIAN SCHOOLS

1750 W 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 202-2500 sycamoreschool.org Grades: PreK-8 Visit sycamoreschool.org/ admissions/visit to learn more about admissions and how to schedule a tour.

THE ORCHARD SCHOOL

615 W 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 251-9253 orchard.org Grades: PreK-8 Open House: Virtual open house, Tuesday, November 17 at 9:30 a.m.

Register at orchard.org/visit.

UNIVERSITY HIGH SCHOOL

2825 W. 116th St., Carmel, IN 46032

(317) 733-4475 universityhighschool.org Grades 9-12 Open House: Sunday, Nov. 15 (1-5 p.m.)

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Carmel Montessori Schools Carmel Montessori School is located on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 18 years head-teaching experience and we a a full member of the American Montessori Society. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. • 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@ carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion. Research also shows that 90% of Primrose Students perform twice the level of their peer group. Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family.Currently enrolling, space is limited. • 3746 West 98th Street, Carmel, IN 46032. Contact: Lisa Housh, 317-876-0123, primrosewestcarmel.com

Starting Line Preschool

The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academicbased curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in The Little Lamb school while discovering learning is All of our classes focus on an Christian School fun! introduction to colors, number and The Little Lamb Christian School is a letters with exciting art and science home away from home for children 6 projects. Math, social studies and weeks to pre-kindergarten. Since sight words are taught in the older 1987, we have been the go-to private classes.Develop Social Awareness & preschool for Carmel families who Friendships, Build Confidence and are interested in a Christian Master Academic Skills for Kindereducation. We are a place where garten. • 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN children can learn, explore, create, 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: grow and play! • 1609 Greyhound Pass, 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.

Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-848-3580, Email: kayley@thelittlelamb.com, thelittlelamb.com/, 6 weeks to Pre-Kindergarten and after school care

The Primrose School at WestClay An accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion.Research also shows that 90% of Primrose Students perform twice the level of their peer group.

Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family Currently enrolling, space is limited. • 13096 Moultrie Street, Carmel, IN 46032. Contact: Kendra Dunagan, 317-873-0123. primrosewestclay.com

The Primrose School at West Carmel The Primrose School at West Carmel is an accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced

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Space Center with a planetarium, and an operating farm. Paramount Brookside is designated a 2018 Blue Ribbon School by the U.S. Department of Education and an “A” school by the Indiana Department of Education. • 3020 Nowland Avenue,

Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Toria Graham at 317.775.6660 or contact@ PSOEBrookside.org, paramountindy.org

Paramount Cottage Home Paramount Cottage Home serves K-4th grade students as a free public school. Founded in 2010, Paramount Schools of Excellence accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana Academic Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics and experiential learning activities. The 2019 ILEARN results placed the school among the top-performers statewide. Cottage Home’s new, state-of-the-art facility features bright, spacious classrooms with contemporary furnishings, advanced technology capabilities, and a farm STEM discovery center. •

com, startinglinepreschool.com

1203 E. St. Clair Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Amie Smith at 463.231.2837 or contact@PSOE Community.org paramountindy.org

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IUPUI Center for Young Children The IUPUI Center for Young Children offers childcare and early childhood education for children ages six weeks to six years old and believe children learn through play, experiences, and interaction with their environment and peers. • 321 Limestone St., Indianapolis, IN 46202, Phone: 317-274-3508, childcare.iupui. edu/index.html

Paramount Brookside Paramount Brookside is a top-ranked, free, public school that educates K-8 grade students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Founded in 2010, Paramount Schools of Excellence accomplish its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana Academic Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics and experiential learning activities.

Integral to the school’s approach to education are project-based investigations, community partnerships, and three on-site Discovery Centers – an Eco-Center,

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Paramount Englewood Paramount Englewood, a free public school, serves 5-8th grade students.

The school shares the state-of-theart P.R. Mallory campus with Purdue Polytechnic High School. Paramount Englewood is an extension of Paramount Schools of Excellence’s successful education model. The flagship campus is designated a 2018 Blue Ribbon School by the U.S. Department of Education and an “A” school by the Indiana Department of Education for six consecutive years.

• 3029 E. Washington Street, Indianapolis, IN 46201, Contact Peggy Purvis, at 463.231.2830 or contact@PSOE englewood.org, paramountindy.org

INDIANAPOLIS – NORTH

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity,

curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/ Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure. Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available.

Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class) (3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. • 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259- 6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, bez613.org

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School seeks to prepare the next generation of leaders with the intellectual and technological competence, loving and open hearts, faith inspiration and social responsibility to bring about a more just, humane and loving world. Students from all backgrounds, faiths, and ethnicities are welcome at Brebeuf Jesuit, where all are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents. Each student is therefore challenged and inspired to strive for academic excellence, to engage whole-heartedly in co-curricular activities, to develop confidence in leadership abilities, and to discover God’s presence in everyday life through serving others.

• 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Colleen Cannon, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-524-7090, Email: admissions@brebeuf.org, brebeuf.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. • 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, childrenscircle.org

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Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool Children's Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values and learning through play. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate first school experience in the care of experienced and loving caregivers.

We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. For the older kids, our program Includes weekly Christian Life Skills, Music class taught by Indianapolis Children’s Choir instructors and Book Club. Please call, e-mail or visit for further information and registration Forms. Tours are individually set up at your convenience! • 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet.org, meridianstreet.org/cdi

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Parents Day Out (16-35 mos) and Part Day Preschool (3 yrs-PreK5) provide relaxed, secure, playful environments that nurture creativity and the exploration of God’s world.

A variety of learning materials & readiness skills are woven into each unit. Oldest classrooms utilize “Handwriting Without Tears” curriculum. Various days, 9am-2pm.

Some extended days. Need longer hours? Try our All Day Classes designed for 16 mos – Pre K5 with class times 6:30am-6pm • 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake, Phone: 317-5756508, Email: ecc@golove.org

Maria Montessori International Academy Maria Montessori International Academy provides children with structure, but also the freedom to choose and explore in their own way. We work on independence from an early age. Children are empowered in their surroundings and then are able to grasp concepts such as early literacy taught through the Montessori method. Infantelementary • 7507 N Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46268. 317-769-2220, Email: hello@inmontessori.com, inmontessori.com

The Orchard School

The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning.

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curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship.

Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYC accredited. • 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Jessica Aiyasami, Admissions Coordinator, Phone: 317-713-5717, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: jaiyasami@orchard.org, orchard.org

The Sapling School The Sapling School offers a year round Reggio-inspired preschool for children ages 3 to 5 in conjunction with extended after care hours for working families. We empower children to discover themselves and the world around them as they become critical thinkers, creative problem-solvers, and collaborative community members. We value our students and their passions, curiosities, and joys. Their interests guide the holistic, emergent curriculum and our learning environment. • For more information or to explore our virtual tour please visit our website or facebook.com/ saplingschoolindy. To schedule a private tour please call (317) 319-8228.

Contact: Kelsey Livingston. Phone: 317-319-8228. Email: kelsey@ saplingschoolindy.com, saplingschoolindy.com

Sycamore School At Sycamore School, Indiana's only accredited, independent, private school for Preschool - 8th grade gifted students, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, physical education, technology, extensive field trips, athletics, financial aid, and after school activities are offered. • 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions, 317-202-2500, Email: karpicke.susan@sycamoreschool.org, sycamoreschool.org

INDIANAPOLIS – NORTHEAST

MSD of Lawrence Township The ninth largest and one of the fastest growing school district in the state, the MSD of Lawrence Township serves approximately 16,000 students across four Early Learning Centers, eleven Elementary Schools, two Middle Schools, two High Schools and a Center for Innovation and Technology, and an alternative setting high school. Lawrence

Township strives to be the district of destination, a reputation built over the years based on the district’s award-winning staff, accomplished administrators, high-achieving students, supportive community, and innovative educational programs. To learn more, please contact our Welcome Center at 317-423-8375. Pre-K through Grade 12. Tours available at all buildings by appointment. Please contact your building of interest directly. Off site virtual option is available for families K-12. • 6501 Sunnyside Road, Indianapolis, IN 46236. Phone: 317-423-8200, LTschools.org

Inc., promotes the emotional, physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual development of each child.

Our exceptional teaching staff is dedicated to presenting a challenging and enthusiastic learning environment that recognizes each unique learner. With a dedication to personal excellence, all members of our school family are challenged to practice and exhibit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in daily life. Stateaccredited with exemplary ratings.

Preschool - Sixth Grade. • 7850 South Emerson Ave., Indianapolis , 46237, 317-882-8636, jhaywood-rollins@ beechtreehouse.com, cwpsa.com

Polly Panda Preschool Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. • 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@ pollypanda.com, pollypanda.com

Primrose School of Geist Provides high-quality, educational experiences to support children’s social-emotional, cognitive, creative and physical development. It is made up of an exclusive standardsbased curriculum that enables teachers to help children gain the knowledge and skills that will enable them to move successfully from one level of development to the next as well rounded individuals.

Our school offers developmentallyappropriate materials and equipment for all classrooms; multiple forms of assessment; and extensive training for teachers. We believe the right foundation to build active minds, healthy bodies, and happy hearts® starts in the younger years. Call for more information or to schedule a tour! • 7615 Oaklandon Road, Indianapolis, IN 46236. Contact: Anita Boyd. Phone: 317-855-7808. Email: aboyd@primrosegeist.com, primrosegeist.com, 6 weeks old through Pre-K and before and after school up to age 12

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Curtis Wilson Primary School and Academy Curtis Wilson Primary School and Academy, a division of Beech Tree House Center for Child Development,

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Guerin Catholic High School St. Theodore Guerin High School is a Roman Catholic college preparatory school located on 72 acres one mile north of 146th Street in Hamilton County. Guerin Catholic has the largest number of students participating in the IB Programme in the State of Indiana. The school serves students from diverse backgrounds and prepares them to be servant leaders through authentic faith formation, academic excellence, and student life opportunities. • 15300 Gray Road Noblesville, IN 46062, Phone: 317-582-0120, Email: admissions@ guerincatholic.org, guerincatholic.org

WESTFIELD

Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child.

The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years.

• 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN

46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, montessorischoolofwestfield.com

The Primrose School at Bridgewater An accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion. Research also shows

that 90% of Primrose Students perform twice the level of their peer group. Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family. Currently enrolling, space is limited. • 14711 North Gray Road, Westfield, IN 46062, Contact: Nikki Knott, 317-848-0123. primrosebridgewater.com

SPECIAL NEEDS

Mindful & Modern ABA Therapies At Mindful & Modern ABA Therapies our behavior analyst, speech therapist and occupational therapist create a unique treatment plan for each child. In our AIMS Academy children experience a Montessori setting where they engage in daily living activities such as assembling lunch, clean up, communication and play with typical peers. • 7507 N Michigan Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46268, 317-827-7777, Email: hello@montessoriaba.com, montessoriaba.com

Easterseals Crossroads Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT,

OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/ Swallowing issues, Augmentative Comm-unication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center. • 4740 Kingsway Drive,

Indianapolis, IN 46205, 317-466-1000, Email: info@ easterseals crossroads.org, eastersealscrossroads.org

VIRTUAL

Paramount Virtual Learning Not sure about your K-8th grade students returning to school?

Make the Change that makes Difference - choose virtual learning at Paramount Schools of Excellence. Whether on one of Paramount's three state-of-the-art campuses or virtual learning from home, you can expect top-ranked academics, experienced certified teachers, and support. • Call 317.519.4588 or check out paramountindy.org for more information.

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WORDS BY JENNIFER THOMPSON

The Internal Struggle is Real How parents can help their children with special needs manage — and even embrace — their anxiety.

How can I tell the difference between a typical amount of anxiety versus an actual disorder?

Anyone who has struggled with anxiety knows it’s a struggle, and this is for both children and adults alike. During this unpredictable time, anxiety in children is on the rise. With one in eight children diagnosed as having an anxiety disorder, it’s important for parents to know what to look for, as well as ways to help their children manage, and even embrace, their anxiety.

Colleenia Korapatti, licensed mental health counselor and the founder of The Anxiety Relief Center in Fishers, offers advice for parents who might be wondering if their child is struggling with anxiety, and what they can do to help.

How can I tell if my child is struggling with anxiety?

The first signs of anxiety in children are not always obvious. In such unsteady times, it’s common to write things off by telling yourself, “All kids are stressed.”

Anxiety may require treatment if your child is demonstrating an impairment in one of the following life areas: sleep, school, spiritual life, recreation or family life.

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How do I help my child manage their anxiety?

How can I help normalize the behavior?

Modeling is the most important way to help your child manage their anxiety. As parents, we can verbalize advice, yet our children see what we do by the way of nonverbal behaviors. Ask yourself, “Is my own presentation anxious?”

If you do not struggle with anxiety yourself, modeling coping with worrisome thoughts will not be difficult. If you recognize you are feeling overly anxious yourself, it may be time to modify some of the things your child sees or hears.

Make it a priority to incorporate relaxation and coping skills into the family routine, such as meditation, physical activity, art or spiritual practices.

Without professional guidance, parents must remain cautious about normalizing anxious behaviors in case a diagnosable condition is present. Over a period of time, an anxiety disorder can impact our physical health if it is not treated properly. If your child is not showing impairments in their day-to-day functioning, validation needs to be a key component of family discussions. Listening, paraphrasing and summarizing the information your child complains of will reduce worried feelings.

Remain mindful of sharing your own stressors with your child.

Attempts to solve problems for your child can have negative consequences, as well. Focusing your energy on presence with your child will help reduce worry.

2020 seems to have brought about a plethora of emotions for everyone because our life has changed dramatically. Emotional ups and downs may come with the territory. However, excessive worry, panic attacks and physical complaints that last more than two weeks may be dealt with by consulting with your child’s school counselor, licensed therapist or a medical professional. Objective guidance will help you feel confident that your parenting decisions are healthy for your child and your family.

It’s important for parents, and children, to know they aren’t alone in their struggles with anxiety, and that there are many resources available for families. If you feel your child is struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. It may be life changing: not only for your child, but also for your family as a whole.

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THINGS TO DO

NOVEMBER PLEASE NOTE DUE TO COVID-19, THESE EVENTS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. PLEASE CHECK TO VERIFY EVENTS ARE STILL BEING HELD AS SCHEDULED BEFORE MAKING PLANS TO ATTEND BY CALLING OR VISITING THE BUSINESS OR EVENT WEBSITE.

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DIA DE LOS MUERTOS MUSIC CELEBRATION

Join the Eiteljorg to listen to A Flor de Piel performing traditional Día de Muertos (Day of the Dead) themed songs, including songs from Oaxaca and other favorites. • Location: Virtual, Eiteljorg Museum, Time: 7 pm, eiteljorg.org

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FAMILY CRAFT TIME: LEAVES

Create and decorate nature-based crafts and learn about Indiana nature topics on a naturalist-led hike through the park. All materials are provided. Activity is designed for children ages 3-5. Adult supervision is required. Face masks are required and social distancing will be enforced. • Location: Holiday Park, Time: 2:30-3:30 pm, hollidaypark.org

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AUTUMN ART FAIR

Garfield Park Arts Center’s art fair is online this year and will be up for a whole month! GPAC will feature samples of handcrafted and original artworks, as well as information about local artists, so patrons can explore and purchase handmade art and goods. • Location: Garfield Park Arts Center, Time: 9 am, gpacarts.org

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$5 FIRST THURSDAY NIGHTS

Admission is just $5 per person for the entire museum. That’s a savings of more than 75% per ticket! It’s the ONLY time the museum is open to the public in the evening, so it’s a perfect after-hours night for your family. • Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 4-8 pm, childrensmuseum.org

sat 07–sun 08 MEMBER MORNING WEEKEND

Beat the crowds and be the first to play! On these special mornings, members get an exclusive hour in the museum on the first Saturday and Sunday of each month. • Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 9 am, childrensmuseum.org

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HOMESCHOOL TUESDAYS MAYFLOWER VOYAGER

Let your child learn in the museum for a day during this two-hour class exploring different topics in science, art, history and culture.

Adults join their learners for an interactive family experience. Bring along your sea legs while learning about the Mayflower’s voyage to the New World and the science behind the ship’s sails. • Location: Indiana State Museum, Time: 10 am-Noon & 1:30-3:30 pm, indianamuseum.org

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MASTERWORKS 2

Featuring Beethoven’s Symphony No. 1 in C Major, Mozart’s Violin Concerto No. 3 in G Major and Rossini’s Barber of Seville Overture. This concert will feature CSO’s 2019 Young Artist Competition Winner, Cooper Olsen. • Location: The Palladium at

the Center for the Performing Arts, Time: 7:30 pm, carmelsymphony.org

KIDS' NIGHT OUT

An evening out while the kids play!

Kids will enjoy games, a movie, swimming and activities. Dinner included. • Location: Benjamin Harrison YMCA, Time: 5-10 pm, apm. activecommunities.com/indymca/ Activity_Search

POWER RECYCLING DAY

Most electronics will be accepted, including cell phones, wires, cables, all batteries, TVs, microwaves, computers and peripherals. Basically, anything with a plug! No need to get out of your car, just pull into the designated recycling zone in the Zoo parking lot and let their partners at Technology Recyclers unload your items for you. •

Location: Indianapolis Zoo, Time: 9 am, indianapoliszoo.com

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TODDLER TIME: ANIMAL ALPHABET

In this special class just for toddlers, children enjoy circle time, stories, station explorations and movement time. Explore your ABCs with the help of some animal friends. Kids will enjoy a collaborative art project, sensory play and other hands-on activities.

• Location: Indiana State Museum,

Time: 10-11 am, indianamuseum.org

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CIRCLE OF LIGHTS

Santa will help flip the switch to illuminate Monument Circle, marking the kick-off to the holiday season. All spectators will enjoy the show from the comfort of their homes. Instead of congregating downtown, the show will be seen

exclusively on WTHR Channel 13. • Location: Virtually, only on WTHR Channel 13, Time: 7 pm, downtownindy.org

DRIVE-IN THEATRE

Join Actors Theatre of Indiana as they celebrate the Holiday Season.

Come hear the music we all know and love sung by the gang at ATI with some sensational guests, including Santa. Purchase tickets online. • Location: Monon Square Shopping Center, Time: 7-9 pm, atistage.org

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COCOA & COOKIES WITH SANTA

Follow Santa down the Ave as he arrives, courtesy of the Indianapolis Fire Department, to the Indianapolis Firefighters Union Hall on Small Business Saturday. Bring your little ones to visit Santa and enjoy complimentary cookies and cocoa thanks to their sponsors at Old National Bank on the Avenue. • Location: Downtown-Mass Ave, Time: 2-4 pm, massavelydifferent.com

SMALL BUSINESS SATURDAY

Shop Small with merchants on the Ave because it makes a BIG difference for their business and community. Grab your favorite shopping buddy, a cup of coffee to go, and plan MassAvely shop small. • Location: Downtown-Mass Ave, Time: 9 am-7pm, massavelydifferent.com

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SANTA'S MAILBOX STARTS

Drop off your letters to Santa in their special mailboxes at City Hall and the Fishers Parks office through December 15 and receive a reply from St. Nick when you include a self-addressed, stamped envelope. • Location: Fishers Parks

Office, Time: 8:30- 4:30 pm, play fishers.com/218/Holiday-Fun FREE

ONGOING EVENTS JOLLY DAYS WINTER WONDERLAND Through January 3, 2021

Celebrate family traditions and holidays with Jolly Days Winter Wonderland! Enjoy favorites like the 47-foot Yule Slide, Jingles the

Jolly Bear and visits with Santa. •

Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, childrensmuseum.org

JINGLE RAILS: THE GREAT WESTERN ADVENTURE Through January 18, 2021

A Merry Prairie Holiday is returning for its second season, where glittering lights, thoughtful storytellers, and warm fires transport you from your day-to-day into the stories of yesterday and the traditions of tomorrow. •

The exhibit features miniature versions of local treasures of downtown Indianapolis, including the Eiteljorg Museum, Monument Circle, Union Station and Lucas Oil Stadium. The trains then head through the national parks of the American West, passing legendary sites, including grand railway lodges, Northwest Coast Native villages, and wonders both natural and human-made. • Location:

CHRISTMAS AT THE ZOO

CHRISTMAS NIGHTS OF LIGHTS

MERRY PRAIRIE HOLIDAY November 27-29, December 4-6, 11-13, 18-20, 22, 23

Location: Conner Prairie, Time: 5:30-9:30 pm, connerprairie.org

Through December 30

For their 52nd year, there will be even more lights to fill the Zoo with a warm glow. And the best part is, it’s all included with regular admission! Get ready to meet the Jolly Old Elf under the Bicentennial Pavilion, stop by Santa’s Barn, head through the tunnel of lights, get up close at the Penguin Encounter and much more! • Location: Indianapolis Zoo, indianapoliszoo. com

Eiteljorg Museum, eiteljorg.org

November 13, 2020-January 3, 2021

Christmas Nights of Lights is the biggest light show ever built in Indianapolis. Prepare to be dazzled as you drive through an over 2.5mile route that’s full of colorful light displays set to holiday music, a 300-foot tunnel, 240-foot wall of lights and more, all from the comfort of your own vehicle. Open from dusk until 10 pm, with extended hours on weekends. • Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds, christmasnightsoflights.com

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CALENDAR 11.2020

SUN

MON

TUES

1 SCENTED CANDLE DAY

WEDS

2

THURS

3

FRI

4

SAT

5

NACHOS DAY DEVILED EGG DAY

USE YOUR COMMON SENSE DAY

7

6 HUG A BEAR DAY

PROJECT MANAGEMENT DAY

ELECTION DAY

8 TONGUE TWISTER DAY

15

9 WORLD FREEDOM DAY

AMERICA RECYCLES DAY

GO FOR A RIDE DAY

29

SESAME STREET DAY

16 CLARINET DAY

22

10

23 FIBONACCI DAY

11

VETERANS DAY

17

18 PRINCESS DAY

12 FANCY RAT & MOUSE DAY

19 PLAY MONOPOLY DAY

HOMEMADE BREAD DAY

24

SARDINES DAY

25

JUKEBOX DAY

26

14

13 WORLD KINDNESS DAY

PICKLE DAY

20 UNIVERSAL CHILDREN’S DAY

21 RED MITTEN DAY

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27 NATIVE AMERICAN HERITAGE DAY

FRENCH TOAST DAY

30 MOUSSE DAY

SQUARE DANCING DAY

SOURCE: daysoftheyear.com

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