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ASK THE TEACHER Reading requirements, writing feedback and advanced readers
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FAMILIES VACCINATED FROM FLU HELP SHIELD THOSE TOO YOUNG TO GET THE SHOT
GROW I N G H E A LT H Y FAMILIES
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PARENTING THE SIBLINGS OF CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS
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TINY TUNES
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Tips for starting music lessons with your child
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EDITOR’S NOTE
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VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES FOR KIDS
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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT
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ONLINE BUZZ
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FIVE REASONS TO CONSIDER ADOPTING AN OLDER CHILD
RESOURCES & CALENDARS
Embracing a different path to parenting
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OPEN HOUSE GUIDE
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WHEN CANCER HITS HOME
PRESCHOOL & EDUCATION GUIDE
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DAILY EVENTS
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ONGOING EVENTS
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RESOURCE DIRECTORY
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FUN & WACKY CALENDAR
A guide to Cincinnati area organizations that allow kids to give back
A local family shares their experience with childhood cancer
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THE SCIENCE OF GRATITUDE
What to ask to get the most out of the experience
The far-reaching effects of raising grateful children
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The Month of Gratitude
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hanks Mom.” Who doesn’t love to hear that phrase? Whether it’s said over a quick text or at the end of a heartfelt conversation, these are the words that let us know that yes, our kids really do appreciate us. In November, we’re reminded of the importance of recognizing who and what we should be thankful for. The challenge is to keep this attitude of gratitude a year-long goal and not just bring it out with the cranberry sauce on Thanksgiving Day.
Did you know that cultivating gratitude in kids not only makes them happier, but more optimistic, less depressed and more satisfied with school as well? Plus, being thankful is actually a skill you can teach them. This month our article The Science of Gratitude details some research-based methods to encourage this behavior in your family. (And for ideas on how children can give back to others, take a look at our guide on Volunteer Opportunities for Kids!) Speaking of being thankful, how many of us don’t appreciate our good health (or our children’s) until something goes wrong? Until that moment, it’s easy to forget just how much this blessing really means. Read the story of Winn and Emilie Parry in When
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Cancer Hits Home to see how this local family has coped with a cancer diagnosis for their young son, Lach. (That’s him on our cover too!) November is also National Adoption Month. While many families envision holding a newborn in their arms when they think of adoption, having a broader perspective of how to grow your family could open doors you never thought of. Check out Five Reasons to Consider Adopting an Older Child for some insight on why this could be the best decision for your family. There’s lots more to flip through in this issue (children’s music lessons, school open house visits, upcoming holiday events, to name just a few topics) so I hope you’ll take a look and find something that speaks to you. It’s our privilege each issue to bring you the information and resources we hope will enhance your family’s experience. This November, and every month, we say a huge thank you for choosing Cincinnati Parent.
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Celebrate the true holiday spirit The Holiday Giving Tree Program at Spring Grove Cemetery allows tri-staters to play Santa for a family in need. Starting November 21, the park’s gazebo will feature a holiday tree decorated with “wish list” ornaments. Visitors can stop by and take an ornament, purchase the items requested and then return the gifts to Spring Grove to be distributed. This program runs through December 13, and is a great way to get kids to embrace the spirit of giving for the holidays.
Light up the square – and ice skate while you’re there! From now through February 15, Cincinnatians can lace up their ice skates and take part in an annual holiday tradition on Fountain Square at the U. S. Bank Ice Rink. At 7,000 square feet, Cincinnati’s rink is on par with New York’s Rockefeller Center! On Saturday, November 28, take the family to Fountain Square for the annual unveiling of the Cincinnati holiday tree at Macy’s Light Up the Square. Cincinnati’s tree is a sight to behold, measuring some 60 feet tall and fully decked out with lights and ornaments. The festivities begin at 6 pm with live music and an appearance from Santa! http://myfountainsquare.com/event/u-s-bank-icerink-11/2015-11-29/
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Earn that second piece of pumpkin pie One of the oldest and largest 10k run/walks in the nation, Cincinnati’s Thanksgiving Day Race is a celebration of good health, great friends and enduring family traditions! This year marks the 106th anniversary of the race, which starts and ends at Paul Brown Stadium, winds through downtown Cincinnati, Newport and Covington and crosses two iconic Queen City bridges. The proceeds of this turkey trot go toward several Cincinnati charities, making this event the best way to kick off your Thanksgiving weekend! www.thanksgivingdayrace.com/index.html
Get healthy! Everyone knows the holiday season can be draining -- physically, emotionally and monetarily! So before the chaos begins, spend a day focused on getting yourself ready for the season at the Cincinnati Sports Club’s annual Get Healthy! Health Fair, Family Fun Fest and Open House. This event features interactive activities designed to help Cincinnatians become engaged in an active lifestyle, including wellness and cooking demonstrations, health screenings, flu shots, fitness competitions and kids’ games. The 2015 Expo takes place on Saturday, November 7 from 10 am - 4 pm at the Cincinnati Sports Club. www.cincinnatisportsclub.com
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Gingerbread masterpieces On November 27, the winners of Warren County Historical Society’s annual Gingerbread House Contest will be awarded at the museum’s central Village Green. There are several prize-worthy categories, so come see the whimsical and heart-warming creations from Warren County’s most skilled gingerbread builders! After November 27, the winners will be on display at Glendower Historic Mansion’s “Christmas at Glendower” exhibit. www.wchsmuseum.org/ events/holiday_events-18/ gingerbread_house_display-69
Take a ride on the North Pole Express Join Cincinnati Children’s Heart Institute’s annual “North Pole Express” at Lebanon Mason & Monroe (LM&M) Railroad on Saturday, November 21. During the 45-minute train ride, you’ll enjoy narration of the beloved classic, The Polar Express, visit with Santa and his elves and hear carolers croon holiday favorites. Proceeds from this one-day event will support the work being done at Cincinnati Children’s Kindervelt Neurodevelopmental & Educational Clinic. Rides begin at 10 am and run every 75 minutes until 5:30 pm. Tickets are sold through Kindervelt; visit www.kindervelt.org or call 513-588-0074 to purchase. http://www.lebanonrr.com/kindervelt.html
A jump on holiday shopping Get into the holiday spirit at The Greater Cincinnati Holiday Market! From November 13 - 15, shop till you drop at the Duke Energy Convention Center. With aisle upon aisle of unique, one-of-a-kind boutiques and specialty retailers offering an unparalleled selection of gourmet food, home décor, clothing, jewelry and more, there’s sure to be something for everyone on your list! http://cincinnatiholiday market.com
All aboard! Located just over the river in Devou Park, the Behringer-Crawford Museum’s Holiday Toy Trains display is a must for serious locomotive lovers. The display features Lionel trains and Plasticville buildings on more than 250 feet of track. Kids will love the interactive element to this exhibit, which includes more than 30 button-activated accessories, plus a talking Santa! Behringer-Crawford’s Holiday Toy Trains runs November 14 through January 18. www.bcmuseum.org
Can you say Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious? Grab the family and head to The Aronoff Center November 13 – 21 for the Tony Award-winning musical Mary Poppins. Sing along to songs like “Chim Chim Cher-ee,” “A Spoonful of Sugar,” “Let’s Go Fly a Kite” and of course, “Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.” This show is an enchanting mixture of irresistible story, unforgettable songs, breathtaking dance numbers and amazing stagecraft that will enchant kids and adults alike. www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/ mary-poppins
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We start the day off with the Macy’s Parade on TV then usually try to take turns each year between my family and my husband’s. We enjoy a good turkey meal with all the extras like mashed potatoes and gravy, green bean casserole, stuffing and corn bake. – Katy M. Over the river and through the woods, to grandmother’s house we go! – Jennica Z. We have a “Friendsgiving” every year a week before with all of our closest friends, and my husband and I actually make the turkey and ALL of the desserts! (Everyone else brings a side dish.) For the day of Thanksgiving, we switch between heading over to my in-laws and my grandmother’s house! Can’t wait for her famous pumpkin pie! – Katie C. Win Tickets to the Ensemble Theatre’s Cinderella
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Footnotes Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life
Tenderhearted resolutions Kelly Blewett
I had taken two children swimming by myself, an ambitious move, especially as dinnertime was approaching. After giving rides on my back, blowing water through the noodle and floating around the whirl pool, it was time to go. But they did not want to leave. This was the beginning of a downward spiral that climaxed eight minutes later, when I found myself in a locker room with a boy who was alternately threatening to return to the pool to resume swimming and refusing to get in the shower. I had a feeling familiar to moms of young children on the verge of a tantrum: I’ve got to get out of here! Without showering the kids or
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even stripping off their swimsuits, I packed up the bags and hustled us toward the lobby.
him up, but then suddenly I realized that I shouldn’t be.
When we reached the front, my daughter reached down to get a few stickers from a basket by the door. My son began to do the same. “Oh no, sir,” I said firmly. “No stickers for you after that behavior in the locker room.” “Noooo!” he cried as hot tears began to stream down his face. “Don’t take my stickers!” It was the quintessential meltdown moment. I picked him up, jostling the bags awkwardly and making apologetic faces to those around me as I hurried to the car. Appropriately enough, it was raining.
“Stop Caroline,” I said. “It’s not up to you to talk about William’s behavior.” And then to my complete surprise, William responded, “Thank you Mommy.” The anger had drained from his voice. A more peaceful feeling came into the car. What a tender little reversal! What did it mean? Upon more consideration, I think William’s feelings of isolation and shame diminished when I, having already punished him and removed him from the situation, came alongside him.
Once moving toward home, my daughter piped up. “You were very rude, William!” she cried. “You were very mean to Mommy and to me!” He shot back, “I was not!” and cried louder. I was keeping quiet, planning on a talk when we got home. I’d already issued a punishment back in the locker room (“No swimming on Friday”) and didn’t want to escalate things now. But I felt that my daughter was saying the things I wanted to say to my son. I was glad she was working
By not letting his sister tear him down, I communicated to William that I was with him and for him. Being passive in this situation would have been easy, and maybe even satisfying – but ultimately it wouldn’t have helped my boy. Staying attentive and in an alliance with our kids, even when it’s tough to do so, may lead to more sensitivity in conflict and more tenderhearted resolutions. As a mother who wants the affectionate bonds with my kids to stay strong even in the midst of a YMCA meltdown, I certainly hope so!
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A Dad Influence Screened out Pete Gilbert
“No screens on school nights.” It’s the newest rule around our house. Before you think I turned into the sinister dad that banned dancing in Footloose, hear me out. Screen time isn’t evil; it just needs to be used in moderation. Our family started out allowing two 15 minute sessions of screen time per day. All was well. It became a problem when those 15 minutes turned into 30 minutes, then 45 minutes or longer. Our kids were coming home from school, arguing who was getting what screen, and spending far too much time playing Minecraft or watching kids play with toys on You Tube. (Why kids would prefer to watch someone play with a toy rather than actually play with a toy themselves is beyond me).
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Our kids weren’t interacting with each other or with me or my wife. They weren’t burning off any extra physical energy that didn’t get out of their system during their fifteen minute recess (yes, fifteen minute recess.) They were restless at bedtime, whined when we told them to get off their screens and whined again asking when they could get back on their screens. It wasn’t working out. Limiting screen time didn’t really help and eliminating screens altogether seemed a little unnecessary. My wife and I came up with a new plan, “No Screens on School Nights.”
In the two months since we started this new approach, it’s worked really well for our family. The kids play together more, they are more creative, less whiny and go to bed easier at night, likely because they’ve exhausted themselves with physical play and they haven’t been staring at the blue light of a screen for an hour right before bed. On the weekends, we go back to using tokens for screen time. Since our kids aren’t on screens during the week, we don’t feel bad if we let them stay on their devices a little longer on these days. This system may not be for everyone, but if you’re frustrated with your own kids’ relationship with whatever screen they choose, a “No Screens on School Nights” policy may be something to consider for your family too. For links to all my blog posts please stop by my Facebook page at Facebook.com/adadinfluence and check out my all new page on the Cincinnati Parent web site (formerly True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad).
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T i ps for sta rt i ng m usic l e s sons w i t h you r c h i l d Lauren Lawson
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ntroducing children to the pleasure of making music gives them a gift they can enjoy for the rest of their lives. Parents seeking to begin this process often have many questions. Is there a right time to begin music lessons?
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What instrument should a child start with? How do we find a good instructor? Before you tickle those ivories into a twist, read the advice of local experts on how to hit a high note when starting your child off on their path to creating music.
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A student may drop music lessons not out of a dislike for the instrument itself, but because he or she didn’t click with a great teacher.
W h e n t o begi n “It’s never too soon and it’s never too late,” says Rachel Kramer, President of Baldwin Music Education Center, who believes that parents who are deeply interested in starting lessons should decide early on to involve their children in music.
Is there a guideline to help parents decide the best time to introduce their child to formal lessons? Cincinnati Pops Conductor John Morris Russell emphasizes that every child is different, and the best time to introduce an instrument truly depends on a child’s ability to focus. “My wife and I waited until each of our kids begged us to play an instrument,” he says. “We would attend children’s concerts, chamber ensembles, even Irish fiddling at the local pub, pointing out the instruments up close.” Russell says playing recordings at home and trying real instruments when given the opportunity will open a child’s eyes to the many types of music and instruments out there. “When a child finds a connection to a particular instrument, they’ll let you know!” Taking advantage of the Family Fun Zone, prior to all Lollipops Family Concerts, is a great way to expose kids to music because they can see and touch the instruments before the performance.
Another factor to consider when determining if a child is ready for music lessons is their individual reading level. Bethany Springelmeyer, a private piano instructor, recommends beginning piano lessons when a child is of reading age. Toni Sheffer, Director of the Northern Kentucky School of Music, agrees that a child’s experience is greater when he or she is reading comfortably. For a younger child, Patsy Rabinowitz, the Director of the West Chester Academy, finds that an early childhood music and movement class can provide an enriching environment that can benefit a student as they continue on their musical path.
F i n di ng a n i nst ruc t or With so many music instructors and schools available, how do you find the right match for your child? Springelmeyer says it’s important to find a teacher who will make learning music fun, which can be a great motivator for a student. She also reminds parents: “You can always change teachers if you don’t feel like it is the right fit.” Kramer feels similarly, saying that ultimately a student may drop music lessons not out of a dislike for the instrument itself, but because he or she didn’t click with a great teacher. “Personal recommendations are best, finding a teacher with a personality that suits your child is really important,” echoes Russell.
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When searching for an instructor, Kramer suggests consulting with family and friends who are acquainted with the musical community. Asking for recommendations from local music teacher organizations, music stores, schools and churches are great ways to explore options. If possible, attend an instructor’s recital for more insight into their personality and style. Ultimately, the best teacher will inspire and nurture a student’s musical growth and instill a lifelong love of music
C ho osi ng a n i nst ru m e n t “The piano or keyboard is an excellent instrument to start with because the keys are laid out in a logical manner and it is easy to produce good sound right away,” says Joe Backer, Director of the Cincinnati School of Music. Russell agrees, explaining that piano and string instruments work best for very young children, although percussion and singing have their advantages because
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they can “start on day one.” He also states that, “Once all the ‘adult’ front teeth have come in, a child’s embouchure is ready for all the wind and brass instruments.”
Toni Sheffer from the Northern Kentucky School of Music believes that not every student has to start with piano, but “every musician with a piano background is a stronger musician.” An introduction to piano can provide students with a solid and visual method of learning notes and rhythms. “Good piano lessons incorporate theory as well as key signatures, scales, cords, terminology, intervals and more,” says Rabinowitz.
However you decide to begin music lessons with your child, know that the benefits he or she gains will go well beyond just learning an instrument. Studies consistently show that kids who participate in musical education often enhance their academic and social skills as well as their creativity and discipline – and that’s music to any parent’s ears.
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Parenting the Siblings of Children with Special Needs Recognizing the needs of the typically-developing kids in your family Ashley Albertson, MSW, LISW, Cincinnati Children’s Hospital
Of the many stressors families experience today, perhaps one of the most challenging is having a child with special needs. This experience not only affects parents, but siblings of the child with special needs as well. These kids often voice concerns with regard to their brother or sister that can be important for parents to know.
Attent ion One of the main concerns of a sibling to a child with special needs is the desire for the attention and time of their parent. It can be difficult for parents to manage medical appointments, therapy appointments, school meetings, regular household duties, time for their spouse and time for all their children – especially if both parents work. However, setting aside protected time for all members of the family, including typically-developing children, is imperative to ensure that their emotional needs are met. Try accomplishing this in simple ways, like
cooking a meal together, watching movies or television together, taking a walk or reading stories before bedtime. These small actions can go a long way in making your typically-developing children feel loved and valued.
Gu i lt Feelings of guilt are frequently expressed by siblings of special needs children. Siblings may feel guilty about not being the child with special needs. They may also feel guilty about other strong emotions they have toward their sibling, such as embarrassment, anger and jealousy. Be sure to create a safe environment for your typically developing children to share these feelings with you. Encourage them not to bottle these emotions inside as they can often lead to negative coping skills. If you think your child’s feelings are cause for concern, consider locating a qualified counselor to speak with him or her.
E mbarr a ssment Some children feel acute embarrassment when they are in public with their special needs sibling, especially if their sibling acts or appears different than others. Try to go on family outings where all members can participate, or allow your typically-developing child to participate in different activities for a time and then rejoin the family. Creating an open environment in which your typicallydeveloping child can freely communicate their thoughts and needs can greatly improve the family atmosphere. This approach can help kids feel that they are not obligated to participate in family events that include the sibling with special needs, but instead do so because of a desire of their own.
C are g i v ing Many siblings of children with special needs find themselves in the role of a caregiver. Some typically-developing children are not ready for this kind of responsibility, which can create an unsafe environment for everyone. Parents should always use their best judgment when allowing their typically-developing children to care for the special needs child. Try to reach out to adult family members or friends you trust to watch your child with special needs before relying on your other children.
Pressure Some siblings can feel pressured to develop proficiencies in ways their special needs sibling cannot. Children may attempt to participate in school, sports, extracurricular activities or other social activities to compensate for the ways
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their sibling with special needs is unable to. Make sure your typically-developing kids feel free to pursue their own interests without the pressure to please you.
Suggest ions for parents Remembering these tips can help you be a great parent to all of your children. 1. Create an open line of communication encouraging family support and cohesiveness. 2. Attempt to set aside protected time for your non-affected children to help them feel loved and valued. 3. Allow flexibility when it comes to public outings and be sensitive to your typically-developing child’s social concerns. 4. Be conscious and cautious of allowing your typically-developing children to care for their sibling with special needs, especially if they are voicing concerns about not feeling ready for such a big responsibility. 5. Remember that all your children are unique and have something special to contribute.
[Helpful Resour ces] Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Special Needs Resource Directory http://www.cincinnatichildrens.org/ patients/child/special-needs/directory/ default/ Beech Acres Parenting Center https://beechacres.org/
[R E F E R E N C E s] Eames, A. (2013). Siblings of Children with Special Needs: Emotions. Baby’s First Test. Retrieved September 8, 2015, from http://www.babysfirsttest.org/node/447 Kaiser Permanente, Department of Genetics. (n.d.). Siblings of Your Special Needs Child…Dilemmas and Advantages of Siblings of Special Needs Children. Retrieved September 8, 2015, from https://mydoctor.kaiserpermanente.org/ncal/ Images/GEN_Sibling%20of %20your%20Special%20 Needs%20Child_tcm63-13832.pdf
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Volunteer Opportunities for Kids A guide to Cincinnati area organizations that allow kids to give back Sarah McCosham
With the holiday season approaching, it’s important to cultivate a sense of communit y, compassion and empathy in our kids. Volunteering is not only a great way to teach these values, but a wonderful way to bond as a family as well. In our area , many organizations welcome the help of kids as volunteers. Here’s our guide to some of the many family friendly opportunities avail able in the tri - state area .
Adopt a Book Ohi o} info@adoptabookohio.org (513) 335-5014 http://adoptabookohio.org/ Adopt a Book is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing at-risk kids with books of their own. The program was started by local 12-year-old twins as a way to help every Cincinnati child have access to books. Kids can get involved by donating their used books at a drop-off site, collecting their friends’ books for donations or even organizing a classroom book drive.
The Behringer-Crawford Museum is a center for the collection, presentation, study and enjoyment of Greater Cincinnati’s natural, cultural, visual and performing arts heritage. Jobs for teens include greeting guests, grounds keeping and working with education groups during their visits. During the holidays, teens over 14 can run the train exhibits (following the completion of a 4-hour training session).
Ci nci nnati Nature Center 4949 Tealtown Rd., Milford
Behri nger-Crawford Museum 1600 Montague Rd., Devou Park, Covington
(859) 491-4003 www.bcmuseum.org/index. php?option=com_content&vi ew=article&id=29&Itemid=3
(513) 831-1711, ext. 128 www.cincynature.org/ volunteers/ Volunteers are important members of the Cincinnati Nature Center community and play an integral role in its daily operation. There are many family friendly opportunities for volunteer work, including trail maintenance and cleanup, special event setup and even maple syruping!
Ci nci nnati Zoo & Botanical Garden 3400 Vine St., Cincinnati
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are VolunTeen opportunities in the Education Department, Children’s Zoo, Horticulture, Green Team and T.R.I.B.E.
Freestore Foodbank Freestore Foodbank, 112 East Liberty St., Cincinnati
(513) 482-7550 https://freestorefoodbank. org/take-action/volunteer/ The Freestore Foodbank is one of Ohio’s largest food banks, distributing 20 million meals annually through a network of about 260 community partner agencies serving 20 counties in Ohio, Kentucky and Indiana. A variety of volunteer opportunities are available for individuals, families and groups.
Keep Ci nci nnati Beautiful 1115 Bates Ave., Cincinnati
(513) 352-4380 http://keepcincinnati beautiful.org/volunteer/ opportunities/ Keep Cincinnati Beautiful (KCB) is an award-winning affiliate of Keep America Beautiful. Its mission is to educate and encourage individuals to take greater responsibility for improving their community environment. Families can participate in The Great American Cleanup, schools can take part in service learning programs and there are even large mural projects young artists can participate in!
Matthew 25: Ministries 11060 Kenwood Rd., Blue Ash
Weekday Volunteering: Anita Bowman, anita@m25m.org Saturday Volunteering: Shelly Clos, shelly@m25m.org http://m25m.org/help/ volunteering/ Volunteers play an essential role in the work of Matthew 25: Ministries. Volunteering at Matthew 25 is not only family friendly, but can be a great team-building activity as well. Children under 16 are welcome and must be accompanied by an adult at all times under the following guidelines: 1 adult/ child under 8; 1 adult/2 children 9-11; 1 adult/3 kids 11-16.
Milestones is a nationally accredited non-profit organization whose mission is to improve cognitive, physical and psychological function, as well as nurture the emotional health of members of our community through therapeutic horseback riding activities. Milestones relies on volunteer support to help during lessons, as well as to keep the program up and running. Teens are welcome to volunteer; however, all volunteers must pass a background check and attend training before being admitted into the program.
Ronald McDonald House 350 Erkenbrecher Ave., Cincinnati
Milestones I nc. 12372 Riggs Rd., Independence, KY
skinsella@milestonesinc.org (859) 694-7669 http://milestonesinc.org/
(513) 636-7642 www.rmhcincinnati.org/help/ volunteer Families from throughout Ohio, across the United States and
from around the world come to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center seeking lifesaving treatment for their critically ill children. Volunteers play a key role in the program. Motivated high schoolers can apply for the VolunTEEN Program and help families in the House on a weekly basis. Families can also put together care packages or craft packs, which is a fun way to get small kids involved.
spca ci nci nnati 11900 Conrey Rd., Cincinnati
volunteer@spcacincinnati.org http://spcacincinnati.org/ volunteer-at-our-shelter spca cincinnati is an animal shelter and humane society that continually strives to strengthen the human-animal bond and improve the welfare of animals by fostering the humane care and treatment of all animals.
Volunteers socialize with the dogs and cats, assist in the mobile adoption unit and help with education programs. Each volunteer must attend an orientation class. Volunteers must be at least 15; until a volunteer is 18, they must be accompanied by a parent/ guardian. The parent/guardian is also required to attend an orientation class.
This holiday season, consider having your kids give back to the communit y by donating their most valuable resource – their time. Happy volunteering !
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fi ve reasons to
Michelle Shirk
CONSIDER ADOPTING AN OLDER CHILD Em br acing a differ en t pat h to pa r en ting
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any people associate adoption with bringing a brand new baby home from the hospital. But what if the right child for you is actually a grade schooler or teenager? In honor of National Adoption Month this November, read on to find out why welcoming an older child into your life could be the best decision for your family.
As a prospective adoptive parent, you’ll have many questions about the process. Necco offers weekly foster parent training classes at its Cincinnati office, says Parks. The agency can also access information about children who are available for adoption and review profiles with potential families. Postadoption, parents can take advantage of therapy and case management services as their child adjusts to his or her new environment.
1. There’s an immediate need The Dave Thomas Foundation for adoption reports that over 100,000 children in the United States foster care system are currently available for adoption. The average age for these children is 7½ years old. Per the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services, more than 3,200 waiting children live right here in Ohio. Many Ohio residents have also successfully adopted older children from other countries. Local parents Kristen and Jeff Martin are well-versed on the subject of adopting older children. In 2010, the couple adopted then 9 year-old Jesus and 14 year old Victor from Colombia. In 2014, they adopted then 7 year-old Amier and 8 year-old JD from Ohio foster care. The couple also has three biological daughters, 2 year-old Emma, 7 year-old Grace and 9 year-old Ava. They also care for three additional children. We asked the family to share their insights on adopting older children.
2. Older kids offer unique advantages “When the child [you adopt] is older, you can do so many things together,” says Kristen. As an avid runner, she was able to invite her
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sons to enjoy her hobby with her. “Jesus used to love riding his bike with me while I ran. We would talk and bond,” she recalls. Victor even completed the Flying Pig Half-Marathon with Kristen and her husband. In turn, Kristen was able to get involved in her new sons’ passion for soccer. Adopting an older child allows you the opportunity to have conversations about what’s going in their lives and have the ability to share activities together right away.
3. Not everyone is prepared to care for a newborn For some, the thought of being responsible for the daily care of a baby can be overwhelming. Parents adopting an older child can skip the diapers and bottles, says Jessica Parks, MSW, LSW, Program Director at Necco. Even better? “They sleep through the night,” she says. Kristen explains that having an older child requires a different mindset, which can be appealing to many parents: “When you adopt a teen, you are ushering them into adulthood.”
Looking for helpful reading material? Martin recommends the books The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis, Adopting the Hurt Child by Gregory Keck, and When a Stranger Calls You Mom by Katherine Leslie. She also urges adoptive families to seek support locally.
5. You can choose each other While adopting older children brings its own challenges, Martin believes older kids have a better understanding of the adoption process than younger ones. In her family’s case, Jesus and Victor were able to spend several days with the Martins before being given the choice whether to go forward with the adoption. “This gave them, I believe, a great deal of control and ownership over the process,” she says. “They chose us just like we chose them.”
Do one or more of the reasons listed here resonate with you? Consider contacting an agency to learn more about the adoption process and how you might be able to make an older child’s dream of having a family come true.
Are You a Good Fit for an Older Child? Wondering what it takes to become an adoptive parent to an older child? Here you’ll find some personal traits and characteristics that can make someone a strong candidate. * You’re patient and understanding. * You’re flexible and have a good sense of humor. * You have a solid family support system. * You enjoy spending time with older kids. * You have past parenting experience (helpful, but not required). * You know how to use smart phones, computers and other tech devices. * You will be committed to the experience and will advocate for your child and seek out support when necessary.
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when cancer hits home a local family shares their experience with childhood cancer Summer Daily
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inn and Emilie Parry were on vacation with their 18-month-old son, Lach, when Emilie noticed odd spots appearing on his skin. Lach had already been to the hospital three times that month for a fever and respiratory infection, and she was worried all the antibiotics were causing kidney failure. She called her brother-inlaw, a doctor, to get his opinion.
“Drop what you’re doing. You need to go to the ER,” he told her. Blood tests revealed that Lach had acute lymphoblastic leukemia, and they were immediately medevac’d to Cincinnati. Winn and Emilie were in shock. This happened to people in movies or on the news, not their vivacious son. Shortly after Lach was diagnosed, Emilie gave birth to their daughter, Lila. Lila stopped breathing at birth. For a month, the Parrys divided their time between children on two separate floors of the
hospital. After Lach and Lila were both released, they still had three longs years of treatment for Lach. The harsh side effects of chemotherapy caused Lach to lose all ability to talk, sit, walk and even roll over. Finally in February of this year, Lach finished his last treatment and was declared cancer-free. A cancer diagnosis is often a parent’s absolute worst nightmare. How do families cope with such a grave situation and still manage the ongoing responsibilities of home life? Emilie says, “I felt like my world was literally coming to an end. But I couldn’t let myself break down, because I had to be strong enough for my kids.” Emilie found solace in running. She would bundle Lach up, put him in the stroller and run for miles just looking at him and being grateful that she lived in a time when his diagnosis wasn’t a death sentence. “If I started having those dark thoughts, I’d just go for a long run. You can’t let your head go to that place.”
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I felt like my world was literally coming to an end. But I couldn’t let myself break down, because I had to be strong enough for my kids. – EMILIE PARRY What wasn’t helpful? Friends or family sharing unintentionally hurtful remarks or questions. Someone made the comment about their neighbor who had cancer and had died. Emilie says, “You’re like, ‘What? Really? Why are you telling me this right now? I want to punch you in the face right here.’ If you know someone who had cancer and died, don’t share a scary or sad story. Because in that moment, you already are scared, freaking out and worried.”
Of course, the financial toll of treating cancer can be enormously stressful. The Parrys were able to have the supplemental insurance program BCMH approved which covered expenses their insurance did not. “This was such a stress relief for us. Our medical bills would have been over $1 million the first year,” says Emilie. Another challenge that came with the deluge of treatments and appointments was finding time for Lila. Taking care of Lach and trying to make sure she wasn’t getting slighted was a difficult balance to strike. “When I had her, I thought how am I going to divide my attention equally, and I felt so guilty. But someone told me, it’s okay to have those fears, but just realize that your other child needs you just as much as your sick child,” she says. Ahna Pai, director of the Patient and Family Wellness Center at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, sees families struggle with this situation and says, “It is really important to remember that no matter what their age, siblings will be affected by their sister’s or brother’s cancer too. The most important thing is to keep talking with the siblings and checking in with them.”
When Lila would go to Lach’s doctor appointments, the Parrys would give her little jobs to do, like preparing the masks and gloves. They tried to make the experience as easy as possible for Lach too. Before going under anesthesia for procedures, they would pretend like he was going into space and then collect rocks to put in his room as if he had brought them back from the moon. The Parrys also talked about the treatment, shots and surgeries in a normal way so he would not pick up on their anxiety. After difficult procedures, Lach would go to Target to choose a new toy.
For support in our area: Cancer Support Community www.cancer support cincinnati.org
Super Sibs www.alexs lemonade.org/ campaign/ supersibs
American Cancer Society www.cancer.org
And when Emilie would feel overwhelmed, she found that listening to positive stories helped her keep focus. “Looking at the success stories – it gave me so much more hope when I would see a child who had been through cancer and now they’re in high school. I literally was just grateful for every little thing I could find.”
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FAMILY HEALTH // BRANDED CONTENT
Families Vaccinated from Flu Help Shield Those too Young to Get the Shot Premier Health
While the influenza virus – commonly called the flu – can be harmful for many healthy people, it can present added risks for pregnant women and newborns. There is a safe and simple way, however, that both groups can be protected. The flu vaccine will protect pregnant women and once they give birth, their newborns will be protected for up to six months, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). The flu vaccine is safe for pregnant women and can stave off potentially dangerous effects of the virus. This can be especially important because pregnant women can face more serious complications from the flu including
pneumonia, preterm labor and premature birth, the CDC said. Since a woman’s immune system is lowered slightly during pregnancy, getting the flu shot is an important step in protecting pregnant women against the flu. Prevention shouldn’t stop there. Newborns are especially vulnerable and not able to receive the flu vaccine until they reach six months of age, so parents should be sure caregivers and other family members are vaccinated. If moms were not vaccinated before giving birth and are breastfeeding, getting the vaccine once the baby is born will still provide benefits for both parties.
Children under age 2 have the most serious complications from the flu, so the CDC suggests additional common-sense ways to protect babies. Beyond vaccinations for everyone in a child’s immediate circle, take everyday precautions such as diligent hand washing and staying away from people who already have the flu. Talk with your pediatrician or family physician about any pre-existing conditions that might make the flu even more serious for your newborn. For more information on the flu vaccine or to find a Premier HealthNet or Premier Health Specialists physician near you, visit www.premierhealthnet.com/ doctor.
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THE PRIVATE SCHOOL
OPEN HOUSE VISIT What to ask to get the most out of the experience
Sarah Bricker-Hunt
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isiting multiple school open houses in a short time frame can become a dizzying blur. What key areas should parents hone in on during this brief window into a school’s environment? We reached out to several private schools in the Cincinnati area for some “insider tips” on navigating this sometimes overwhelming process.
What to expect Each school will handle their open house experience in a different way. For example, at Archbishop McNicholas High School, families are given student-led tours. Shannon Kemp, Director of Marketing and Communications, says each visiting family is assigned a student ambassador who shares his or her own experience while leading family tours. “Each of our Student Ambassadors has his or her own story and reasons that McNicholas is the right fit, and hopefully, our prospective students will see how McNicholas is a good fit for what they are hoping to do in high school and beyond,” she says. At Saint Ursula Villa, open houses are offered during school hours so parents can visit classes in progress. Natalie Pfister, Enrollment Director at Cincinnati Hills Christian Academy, says their goal is to create an open house experience that “resembles the interactive learning environment taking place in our classrooms on a daily basis.” She says the emphasis is on the experiential. “We want families to actually experience for themselves what makes our school unique, not just hear about it at Open House.”
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At Montessori Academy of Cincinnati, the school encourages parent-to-parent conversations and also allows parents to speak to current middle school students, some of whom have been attending Montessori Academy since preschool. “They are our best ambassadors,” says Erin Karnofski, Head of School. What questions and suggestions do these school representatives have when visiting an open house? Here’s a brief list:
Mission/Philosophy • What is your school’s primary philosophy or mission? • How is this philosophy or mission statement embodied in various aspects of the school? • What about this school appeals to you? • How would you describe the atmosphere of the school? (Ask current students if possible.)
Academics • What is the average class size? • How do teachers engage students in the learning process? • What is a typical day or week like in your classroom? • What kind of hands-on or project-based learning do you do? • What do you see as the goal of homework and how much support are parents expected to provide? • Can I see some samples of students’ work? • How do you promote a student’s independence and ownership of his or her education in the classroom and beyond? • How do teachers differentiate instruction for students working at various levels? • How do you integrate technology into the classroom?
• What academic clubs, sports and electives are available? • What kind of standardized testing do you do? How is student success gauged? • Do you offer any unique academic programs? • What types of financial assistance are available?
School Environment • Ask to observe classrooms of students younger and older than your child so you can get a sense of the full educational trajectory. • Note whether classroom environments are colorful, organized and easy to use. Look for student work being displayed. • Take notice of student engagement and participation and teacher enthusiasm. • If possible, observe behavior in hallways and non-classroom spaces. • Look for student projects or artwork and where it is displayed throughout the school. • Follow the school’s social media presence (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) for insight into what types of activities and events are highlighted. Be sure to jot down notes during your visit and take some time to write down your impressions soon after you leave as well. This will keep all the information you’ve received organized and help you and your student make a final decision. After your visit, make sure to contact the school representative with any questions you may have forgotten to ask or get clarification on any issues important to you. Being prepared in advance of your open house visit will help ensure that you’ve made the best choice possible for your student.
Good luck!
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{CINCINNATI PARENT}
OPEN HOUSE GUIDE Interested in checking out a new school for your student? The Cincinnati area has plenty of great options. Visit an upcoming open house or schedule a tour to get all your questions answered.
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Art Academy of Cincinnati
1212 Jackson Street Cincinnati, Ohio 45202
(513) 562-6262 www.artacademy.edu {Open House DATES} Sat., November 14th 9 a.m.-12 p.m., 2015 and Sat. March 26, 2016 9 a.m.-12 p.m.
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Bethany School
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Cincinnati Christian Schools
Elementary Campus, serving Pre-K through 6th grade, located at 7350 Dixie Highway, Fairfield, OH 45014 Junior/Senior High Campus, serving 7th-12th grades, located at 7474 Morris Road, Fairfield, OH 45011
www.cincinnatichristian.org {Open House DATES} Sat., January 30, 2016 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.
555 Albion Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45246
(513) 771-7462 www.bethanyschool.org {Open House DATES} Sun., January 31st from 2-4:00pm
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Central Montessori Academy
1904 Springdale Rd. Cincinnati, OH 45231
(513) 742-5800 www.centralmontessoriacademy.com Call for a personal tour.
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Chai Tots
7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040
(513) 234-0777 www.ChaiTots.com Call for a personal tour. * Children’s Meeting House Montessori School 927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140
(513) 683-4757 http://cmhschool.com Call for a personal tour.
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Cincinnati Hills Christian Academy
11525 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH 45249
(513) 247-0900 chca-oh.org {Open House DATES} Sat., November 7th & Sat., January 30th {Campus Visit DATES} Wed., March 9th & Mon., April 26th
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4460 Berwick Street, Cincinnati, OH 45227
(513) 271-4171 www.gscmontessori.org {Open House DATES} Sat., November 14th from 1-3:00pm & Sun., January 24th from 1-4:00pm
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Guardian Angels School
6539 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45230
(513) 624-3141 gaschool.org {Open House DATE} Sun., January 31st from 1-3:00pm * Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool 1345 Grace Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208
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Country Hills Montessori
Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison & West Chester, OH and Ft. Thomas, KY
www.chmschools.com {Open House DATES} Sunday, January 24 from 1-2:30 or parents may call to schedule a private tour.
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Creative Tots
Madeira: 7803 Laurel Avenue, Madeira, OH 45243
(513) 272-2223 Mason: 6408 Thornberry Court, Ste. 210, Mason, OH 45040
(513) 770-6776 www.creativetots.com {Open House DATES} December 9th, 9:30-11:30am January 14th, 12:30-2:30pm May 18th, 5-7:00pm (Family Art Show)
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* The Good Shepherd Catholic Montessori
(513) 979-8191 http://hydeparkpreschool.org {Open House DATE} Sat., November 14th from 10am-Noon
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Immaculate Heart of Mary School
7800 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45255
(513) 388-3020 OHOMschool.org {Open House DATE} Sun., January 31, 2016 from 12:30-3:00pm {INFORMATIONAL COFFEE & TOUR} November 2nd, December 7th or January 11th from 7:30-8:30am or 10-11am
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The Kinder Garden Schools
Blue Ash: 10969 Reed Hartman Highway, Blue Ash, OH 45242
(513) 791-4300 West Chester: 5900 West Chester Road, West Chester, OH 45069
(513) 874-3100 www.KinderGardenSchool.com {Open House DATES} Thurs., November 5th, 12th and 19th from 4:30-5:30pm
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La Salle High School
3091 North Bend Road, Cincinnati, OH 45239
(513) 741-2365 www.lasallehs.net {Open House DATES} November 8, 2014 from 1:00-4:00pm
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Liberty Bible Academy
4900 Old Irwin-Simpson Road, Mason, OH 45040
(513) 754-1234 www.libertybibleacademy.org {Open House DATES} Sat., November 14th and Sat., January 30th, from 11am-2:00pm
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Mercy Montessori Center
2335 Grandview Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45206
(513) 475-6700 www.mercymontessori.org {PRESCHOOL Open House DATE} Sun., November 15th from 1-3:00pm
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Montessori Academy of Cincinnati
8293 Duke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040
(513) 398-7773 www.montacademy.org {Open House DATES} Sunday, November 8th & Sunday, January 24th
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Montessori Center Room
2505 Riverside Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45202
(513) 321-3282 http://montessoricenterroom.com {Open House DATE} Sun., November 15th from 12-2:00pm
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Mother of Mercy High School
3036 Werk Road, Cincinnati, OH 45211
(513) 661-2740 www.motherofmercy.org
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The New School Montessori
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St. Gertrude School
3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229
6543 Miami Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45243
(513) 281-7999 www.newschoolmontessori.com
(513) 561-8020
{Open House DATES} Sun., January 24th, & Sun., April 24th from 2-4:00pm
{Open House DATES} November 4, 2015 from 9-11am & 7-8pm January 24, 2016 from 1-3pm
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Redeemer Preschool
2944 Erie Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208
(513) 533-5980 Redeemerpreschoolhydepark.com Call to schedule a tour.
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Rockwern Academy
8401 Montgomery Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236
(513) 984-3770 RockwernAcademy.org Call for a personal tour.
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Seven Hills School
Hillsdale Campus - 5400 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati, OH 45227 Doherty Campus - 2726 Johnstone Place, Cincinnati, OH 45206
(513) 728-2400 7hills.org/welcome {INFORMATIONAL MEETINGS} Lower School (Gr. PreK-5), Tues., November 3rd at 9am, Hillsdale Campus; Lower School (Gr. PreK-5), Weds., November 4th at 9am, Doherty Campus
www.stgertrudesch.org
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St. Ursula Academy
1339 E. McMillian Street, Cincinnati, OH 45206
(513) 961-3410 www.saintursula.org {SHOWCASE NIGHTS} November 11 & December 8 from 6:30-8:30pm {Open House DATE} Sun., October 25 from 1-3:30pm
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St. Ursula Villa
3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226
(513) 871-7218 www.stursulavilla.org {INFORMATIONAL COFFEES} from 8:30 – 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, November 11: Showcasing Traditional Preschool for 2, 3, & 4-year-olds and Montessori for 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds Friday, November 13: Highlighting Traditional Kindergarten through Junior High
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COM M E N TA RY & PA R E N T I N G
Ask the Teacher Reading requirements, writing feedback and advanced readers Deb Krupowicz
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My son’s teacher requires him to read for twenty minutes five nights a week. We spend twice that amount of time trying to get him to complete the reading. I am sure these battles will result in him hating to read. How can I make this a positive experience?
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Significant factors in creating a good reading experience are the level of the material and the subject matter. Help your son select a book about something he enjoys with a reading level that is easy for him. This should help pique his interest and keep him from feeling frustrated. Types and levels of books can be adjusted later. Create a positive environment for reading that is relatively free from distractions. Engage your son by reading alongside him. If that does not work, read together. Read a
paragraph or a page and have him read the next one. Periodically stop to talk about what you have read. Involve other readers in the house if they are available to help keep the atmosphere light. Another option is to check out audio books from your local library along with their hard copies. Have your son listen to the book for a few minutes and then read some of it on his own. Consider reading the first 25-30 pages aloud so that your son becomes hooked on the particular story. If focusing is a challenge, set a timer for ten minutes and encourage him to do something physical like jumping jacks for just a minute or two, then return to ten minutes of reading. Gradually increase the amount of time spent reading by small increments. Decrease the duration of the breaks. In no time, your son will be reading for the full allotment required. You can also try turning the assignment into a challenge. Make a chart and graph how long your son is reading without becoming
distracted or without complaining. When he meets the 20 minute challenge, offer a small reward like doing his chores the next day. Perhaps seeing his own progress will be the encouragement he needs to persevere.
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I am really disappointed in my fifth grader’s writing experience at school. His teacher encourages the students to write, but he does not provide feedback about what he sees – positive or negative. How can I help?
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There are many theories about how writing skills develop best in children. Some suggest that by reading good writing, good writers are born. Others think that by writing a great deal, skills improve. Both reading and writing practice are important to developing writers, but instruction and feedback are necessary to help children become effective writers. Start by using the pieces that your son has already written for school. Use those pieces to determine if he is writing clearly. To help him understand where clarification is needed, look at the thesis or topic sentence first. Discuss whether everything in the piece contributes to the topic. If the body of the writing needs clarification, jot down a question that the writing creates in your mind on a sticky note. Limit yourself to a couple of questions per selection. Have your son incorporate the answers into his writing. As you see that his writing has become clearer, give some attention to the mechanics of the piece. Typically, a student will hear errors in punctuation or word usage if he reads the piece out loud.
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When his piece is clearly and correctly written, circle a few words for him to “spice up” with more interesting vocabulary choices. Finally, underline a sentence or two for him to write in a variety of ways to help him understand how to vary the structure of his sentences. These steps should result in improved writing without adding significantly to your son’s work load.
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How do I find books to help my daughter grow as a reader? She is reading well above her peers, but her school library does not seem to have books at her level.
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Matching high level readers with appropriate reading material is certainly a challenge. Most elementary schools do not house books beyond the highest level of students in their buildings, making it very difficult for fourth, fifth or sixth grade students to find challenging books. The classics are the answer. The vocabulary is much richer and the sentence structure much more complex than contemporary literature. The problems that are explored in the books are presented in a way that is appropriate for middle grade readers. Consult the librarian at your community library or conduct an online search for a good list of titles. Michael Clay Thompson’s Classics in the Classroom is a great resource. Thompson articulates well the case for reading classic literature and provides a thorough categorized list indicating appropriate ages for reading particular books.
Ask t h e T e ac h er is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@cincinnatiparent.com.
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the science of gratitude
{ T he - far reaching effects of raising grateful children } Sara Konrath, PhD
Social relationships are filled with moments of giving and receiving. Gratitude is an important way that these relationships stay smooth. As parents, we are continually giving to our children. Think about a time when you slaved over the stove for an hour, cooking a delicious, healthy meal, only to have your child give you that “ew” face. Now try this same scenario, but in the end your child’s face lights up, with an exclamation of “Mmmm, thank you, this looks yummy!” Here’s a reality check: research finds that children ages six and younger only say thank you about 20% of the time when receiving things. So don’t take it too personally. But by the time they hit age ten, this dramatically rises to about 80% of the time, thankfully. What happens? Children start to develop cognitive empathy skills, which helps them to notice when other people are intentionally doing kind things for them. Gratitude is intimately linked with empathy.
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If you know several children, you won’t be surprised to learn that research finds that gratitude is a personality trait. Some people are naturally more grateful, while others struggle to notice the good in their lives. But it is possible for people to become more grateful through daily practices or direct teaching about gratitude. In fact, the research shows that these exercises work even better for those who struggle the most to be grateful. Gratitude-building studies have been done on both children and adults, finding similar results. When people try to be more grateful, not only does it work (they become more grateful), but the benefits start to spill over into other areas of their lives. They start to feel happier, more optimistic, less depressed, and for children, more satisfied with school. Children who are more satisfied with school end up doing better academically, so gratitude could potentially boost students’ motivation to study. Adults start to sleep better, exercise more, and feel physically healthier.
Not surprisingly, since gratitude is so intimately embedded within social relationships, people start to feel closer and more connected to others, and their relationships begin to improve. These experiments also find that people are even more willing to help strangers after spending time reflecting on the things that they are grateful for. All of these outcomes can happen in as little as two weeks of practice, and the research finds that they can last up to six months. Who knows how much longer they can last, since there is limited research looking beyond six months. But pulling out gratitude as a once-a-year platter to go with the Thanksgiving turkey is probably not going to cut it.
Here are some research-based practices to help increase gratitude. These work for both children and adults.
1. Counting blessings Keep a daily gratitude journal for two to three weeks. At the end of each day, write down five things that you are grateful for that day. Pay special attention to the ways that other people gave to you. Yes, there are apps for that, if you would prefer to jot things down on your phone throughout the day.
2. Gratitude letter Write a letter to someone whom you have never properly thanked. Then read the letter to that person, preferably in person. This could be an excellent Thanksgiving tradition – to pick a name of a family member out a hat and then read these letters around the table. It might seem ridiculous for those of us who struggle to pass the potatoes without conflict, but in those cases, it might be especially worth a try.
3. Gratitude lessons Research finds that this direct teaching method, which was developed by Jeffrey Froh at Hoffstra University, works well in elementary school children. It involves teaching children that when others are nice to us, they do it on purpose (good intentions), using their time, treasure, or talent (cost to others), and that it helps us (benefit to us). You can find free lesson plans on his website, or check out his book Making Grateful Kids. Gratitude is about shifting your perception. No one has a perfect life, even though it might look that way through the distant filtered lenses of social media. But everyone has something to be grateful for. One of the most powerful ways to raise grateful children is likely to be a grateful adult. Raising grateful children means raising our own gratitude levels as well. Sara Konrath, PhD, is an Assistant Professor at the Indiana University Lilly Family School of Philanthropy. Her research has found that empathy is declining among young Americans since the late 1970s. In her current work, she is testing whether an empathy-building smartphone app can help increase teens’ (ages 12-17) empathy and prosocial behavior.
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education guide [CHILDCaRE // PRESCHOOL] Cha i T ots E arly Ch i ld hood Center Academic excellence via a unique blend of Jewish and Montessori education offering strong academics, stressing life skills, interpersonal relationship skills and nurturing a love for life-long learning. Individualized curriculum customized for each student, expansive naturally lit rooms, low student ratio. Specials include yoga, music, Hebrew, dance, art and Tae Kwon Do. Flexible schedules, before and aftercare, web cams and after-school enrichment available. Limited space - now enrolling! 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, Phone: (513)234-0600, www.ChaiTots.com, Ages/Grades: Infant, Toddler, Preschool, Kindergarten (6 weeks-6 years), Enrollment: 60
CHI LD RE N I NC . Early Education and Care (including Montessori and traditional curriculum) offered at multiple sites throughout Northern Kentucky and Cincinnati. Nationally accredited and multi-STAR quality rated. Generous tuition assistance is available for qualifying families based on income and family size. Phone: (859) 431-2075, www.childreninc.org, Grades: Infant through 12 years
T h e Compa ss S chool Ages 6 weeks-6 years plus after school & summer camp up to age 12. Offering outstanding ReggioInspired full and part-time Infant, Toddler, Two’s, and Preschool programs, as well as Kindergarten, After School, and Summer Camp for school-age children. Degreed teachers, extensive parent communication, and welcoming family environment. Setting the standard in early care and education. Call today for your personal tour. 9370 Waterstone Blvd., Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Laura Carr, Phone: 513-683-8833, Fax: 513-683-8456, Email: CompassLC2004@gmail.com, www.TheCompassSchool.com
Cre at i ve Tots , M a son Creative Tots has specialized in the private education of Toddler, Preschool and Pre-K children for 20+ years. Our holistic approach allows children the opportunity to learn, explore, play and grow while engaging in the fine arts and Montessori activities. Our modernized curriculum is rich in opportunities to use creativity, solve problems, use language, develop new vocabulary and reading skills, while engaging in intellectual
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activities. Enrichment Programs: Spanish, Music, Art, Yoga and Science. 6408 Thornberry Ct.,, Mason, oh 45040, Contact: Emilie Parry, Phone: 513-770-6776, Email: creativetotsmason@gmail.com, www.creative totsmason.com, Grades: Toddler: 18 months-3 years, Preschool: 3-4 years; Pre-K: 4-5 years
T h e K i n der G arden S chools Together with interaction of child, staff and family, we develop the complete child. In our Kinder Garden, we provide formative encouragement and knowledge with hands-on staff taking a personal interest in family and holistic education decisions for the child. Kinder Garden School is devoted to growing a child’s wish to flourish and learn by cultivating curiosity and problem-solving proficiency in a full supportive, fertile, fun setting. ENLIGHTENMENT IS OUR MISSION. Blue Ash: 10969 Reed Hartman Highway, Blue Ash, OH 45242, Phone: 791-4300; West Chester: 5900 West Chester Road, West Chester, OH 45069; Phone: 874-3100, www.KinderGardenSchool. com, Grades: 6 weeks through kindergarten, Enrollment: Please call the school 791-4300 or email Tami Lanham at tami@kindergardenschool.com
Re deemer P res chool Redeemer Preschool offers a part-day preschool experience for children in a Christian setting. Toddlers through pre-kindergarten classes are available. Special activities include Spanish, Music and Chapel.
YM CA of Gre ater C i nc i nnat i The YMCA of Greater Cincinnati offers state licensed before and after school care at over 85 locations throughout Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. 1105 Elm Street, Cincinnnati, OH 45202, Contact: Trish Kitchell, VP Youth Development, Phone: 513-362-YMCA, Fax: 513-651-3540, Email: tkitchell@ MyY.org, www.MyY.org, Grades: Ages 3-12, Enrollment: Stop by any YMCA of Greater Cincinnati location or check with your local school district.
[MONTESSORI] Ch i ld ren ’ s Meet i ng House Montessor i S chool An authentic Montessori school program resting on 8 acres. Extraordinary and rigorous hands-on learning inside and outside of the classrooms creating life long learners, critical thinkers and passionate leaders. 927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140, Contact: Casey Reed, Director, Phone: 513-683-4757, Email: reed@cmhschool.com, www.cmhschool. com, Grades: Preschool through Sixth grade, Enrollment: 160
Country H i lls Montessor i Providing programs for 3 to K. Small, individualized classes with low student-teacher ratios, under the guidance of Montessori certified teachers, in an inter-generational environment. Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison and West Chester Ohio and in Ft. Thomas KY. Visit chmschools. com for all location addresses & phones.
2944 Erie Ave., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: (513)533-5980, Email: rpsdirector03@gmail.com, Redeemerpreschoolhydepark.com, Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Enrollment: 90
Contact: Susan Schreiber, Owner, Email: susan@ chmschools.com, www.chmschools.com/, Grades: 3 - K
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Skidaddles offers convenient, flexible, reliable care without reservations. Drop by days, evenings and weekends for a few hours or all day. Feel confident knowing your children will have fun while learning from a qualified staff in a safe and clean environment. Florence: 8660 Bankers Street, Florence, KY 41042, Phone: 859-647-7529, MasonL 5939 Deerfield Blvd Suite 104, Mason, OHIO 45040, Phone: 513-2043482, www.skidaddles.com
Mercy Montessori provides a world-class education and a strong foundation for learning and discovery as Greater Cincinnati’s first and oldest Montessori school. Started in 1969, Mercy Montessori is a private, independent Catholic Montessori School offering personalized educational experiences for children from preschool through eighth grade. 2335 Grandview Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45206, Contact: Amanda Grimm, Admissions Director, Phone: (513) 475-6700 ext. 210, Email: agrimm@ mercymontessori.org, www.mercymontessori. org, Grades: Preschool - 8th Grade, Enrollment: 292
T h e N ew S chool M ontessor i Centrally located and surrounded by wooded play yards and gardens, students benefit from a nurturing environment where Montessoricredentialed staff support high academic and personal achievement. Full-day, half-day and part-time AMS and ISACS accredited programs with healthy lunches included in tuition. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, Contact: Ceara Comstock, Phone: (513)281-7999, Email: ceara.c@newschoolmontessori.com, www. newschoolmontessori.com, Grades: 3-year-olds through Grade 6, Enrollment: 125
[NON–PUBLIC] Bet ha ny S chool Bethany School is an independent preparatory school where students experience an appreciation for many cultures. Laptop computers, on-line grading, a dynamic music program, rigorous curriculum, and a variety of extracurricular programs provide a truly extraordinary educational environment. 555 Albion Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45246, Contact: Teri Mauntel, Phone: (513)771-2462, www.bethanyschool.org, Grades: Grades: K – 8th grade, Enrollment: 250
CI NCI NNAT I HI LL S CH R I S T IA N ACADE MY CHCA’s college-prep curriculum sparks creativity and fuels mastery. CHCA’s culture of vigorous inquiry and persistent effort develops agile, innovative thinkers. As they wrestle with timeless, essential questions, students strengthen their minds and their faith. 11525 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Natalie Pfister, Enrollment Director, Phone: (513)247-0900, Email: admissions@chca-oh.org, www.chca-oh.org, Grades: Preschool 3 - Grade 12, Enrollment: 1350
GUARDIA N A NGE L S S CHO OL Guardian Angels School was named a Blue Ribbon School of Excellence in 2007 and continues to lead the way in education by providing programs and employing teaching strategies that are engaging and challenging for all students. Every day we foster the development of the whole child in a value-enriched environment. Visit our Open House is January 31 from 1-3pm at the school! 6539 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45230, Phone: 513.624.3141, www.gaschool.org/, Grades: K through 8
Mot h er of Mer c y H igh S chool Mother of Mercy is a Catholic College Preparatory School for young women, sponsored by the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas and members of the Mercy Education Collaborative of Cincinnati, inspiring, educating and empowering young women to become faith-filled leaders through the Core Values of the Sisters of Mercy: Faith, Compassion,
Service, Leadership and Excellence. Join us at our Open House on Sunday, November 1 from 1 - 3 p.m. to explore all that Mother of Mercy has to offer! 3036 Werk Road, Cincinnati, OH 45211, Contact: Cara Hyland, Director of Admissions, Phone: (513) 661-2740, Email: hyland_c@motherofmercy.org, www.motherofmercy.org, Grades: 9 - 12, Enrollment: About 500 students
R o ckwern Ac ademy Rockwern Academy is a premiere Jewish day school focused on academic excellence since 1952. Rockwern Academy, formerly known as Yavneh Day School, is a community of learners where students, families and teachers join together to ensure that every individual child is free to rise to challenges and soar, academically and personally. Rockwern Academy has created a culture of excellence, reflected by our teachers, programs, curriculum and our commitment to fostering a love of Jewish life and learning. 8401 Montgomery Road, Montgomery, OH 45236, Phone: 513-984-3770, Email: info@ rockwernacademy.org, www.rockwernacademy. org, Grades: 18 months - 8th Grade, Enrollment: 210
S t. U rsul a V i ll a An extraordinary family atmosphere and Christcentered spirit of St. Angela Merici cultivates independent learners who achieve their potential through small classes, individualized instruction, and nurturing of the whole child. Program offerings begin with Toddler/2-yearold and Traditional or Montessori preschool continuing through Junior High, recognized for outstanding high school preparation. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226, Contact: Marta Runnels, Phone: 513-871-7216 x 2101, Email: m.runnels@stursulavilla.org, www.stursulavilla. org, Grades: 2-years-old through 8th grade, Enrollment: 465
[PUBLIC] C i nc i nnat i P ubl ic S Chools Our goal is to provide a rigorous curiculum that cultivates critical thinking and technology skills while encouraging collaboration, real-world connections and endless creativity. It’s not just about getting your children ready for graduation. It’s about getting them into college and preparing them for a thriving career! Phone: 513-363-0123, cps-k12.org
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Gre at Oaks C areer C a mpuses
An award-winning Independent, non-sectarian and co-educational school serving students two years through grade 12 on two campuses. An intellectually vibrant environment encourages personal attention and the average class size is 15. Educating the whole child with a college-prep, 21st century curriculum.
Great Oaks offers career development training for high school students and adults. With four campuses--Scarlet Oaks in Sharonville, Diamond Oaks in Dent, Live Oaks in MIlford, and Laurel Oaks in Wilmington, high school students prepare for careers and college, and adults get training and certification to begin a new career or advance in a current career.
Hillsdale Campus - 5400 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati; Doherty Campus - 2726 Johnstone Place, Cincinnati, Phone: 513-728-2400, www.7hills.org, Grades: Pre-K through 12
3254 East Kemper Road, Cincinnati, OH 45040, Contact: Jon Weidlich, Phone: 513-771-8840, Email: weidlicj@greatoaks.com, www.greatoaks. com, Grades: High school (grades 11-12) and Adult
S t. U rsul a Ac ademy St. Ursula Academy is a top high school choice for students from more than 90 grade schools across Greater Cincinnati! A St. Ursula education develops the whole person and helps each student develop her own unique gifts and talents. St. Ursula nurtures each young woman to become a confident leader who is ready to achieve her own goals and dreams. Students develop great friendships, work with talented teachers, and pursue their personal interests in the more than 40 clubs, student service organizations and 12 athletic programs. St. Ursula is committed to educating its students to become women of faith, integrity and courage committed to building a better world. 1339 East McMillan, Cincinnati, OH 45206, Contact: Michelle Dellecave Director of Admissions, Phone: (513) 961-3410 ext. 183, Email: admissions@ saintursula.org, www.saintursula.org, Grades: Girls grades 9-12, Enrollment: 665
[SPECIaL NEEDS] S pr i nger S chool a n d Center For more than 40 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to lead successful lives. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6-14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area. The Springer Experience. Success Changes Everything. 2121 Madison Road, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Carmen Mendoza, Admissions Director, Phone: 513 871-6080 ext. 211, Fax: 513 871-6428, Email: cmendoza@springer-LD.org, www.springer-LD.org, Grades: 1 through 8, Enrollment: 200
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CCM M ainstage Musical – Carousel Set in a Maine coastal village toward the end of the 19th century, Carousel is the story of carefree carnival barker Billy Bigelow and his reckless adventures with women, gambling and the wrong side of the law. Declared “Best Musical of the Century” by Time Magazine in 1999, it’s easy to understand why Carousel became Rodgers and Hammerstein’s personal favorite. Time: 2 p.m., Location: The Corbett Center for the Performing Arts, http://ccm.uc.edu/boxoffice/ calendar.html#/?i=3, Phone: 513-556-6638
MON 02 Share Our He arts of Re ading Event! Help us kick off this week celebrating literature and the joy of reading! Who is your favorite author? What’s your all-time favorite book? Share with us and all week long by adding a heart to our Book Lovers Display! We’ll read our staff favorites and play a fun game of Title Tag outside (bundle up if it’s chilly!). We will wrap up our time together by enjoying a tasty treat and a warm cup of hot cocoa. $2/child; call to reserve a spot!
Time: 4-5 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.bluemanateebooks.com/ home/activatees.html, Phone: 513-731-2665
WEDS 04 TaLEs to Tails Practice reading to Peaches, our certified therapy dog. Call the branch at 513-369-4442 to sign up for a 10 minute session with Peaches. For ages 5-12. Time: 7-8 p.m., Location: Harrison Branch, http:// programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/lib/ eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4442
THURS 05 Baby Ja m Calling all Babies! Babies and their caregivers are welcome to join us for a special playtime. The 1st Thursday of the month will include a Librarianled storytime with songs, puppets and more. A Librarian will be on hand at all other play days to answer questions, and provide tips on early literacy. Time: 10:30-11:15 a.m., Location: Main Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/ lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6900
FRI 06 Antique Christm as Celebr ation Get into the holiday spirit with this free party at the Taft! Enjoy cookies and treats while listening to your favorite carols and seasonal tunes. Make a festive ornament to take home. Time: 6-8 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, http:// www.taftmuseum.org/holidays-at-the-taft, Phone: 513-352-5134
How Anim als Prepare for Winter Survival is tough enough without adding in frigid temperatures and wintry precipitation. Explore the strategies used by local wildlife to make it to spring. We’ll even see a few of the animals we discuss up close. Free! Time: 11 a.m.-12 p.m., Location: Woodland Mound, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe An enduring story of family, trust versus mistrust, and finding courage is brought to life in Hamilton from the beloved novel by C.S. Lewis. Dramatized by Joseph Robinette, this story follows the four Pevensie children as they leave a dangerous London and enter an equally dangerous land where they battle the White Witch. Discover Narnia as you’ve never seen it before! Time: 7:30 p.m., Location: Fitton Center for Creative Arts, http://fittoncenter.org/event-series/ fitton-family-fridays/, Phone: 513-863-8873
SAT 07 Homem ade Pasta 101 Calling all pasta lovers! Do you know how to make fresh pasta by hand? Join us for a night of exploring different recipes and shapes for your favorite pasta dishes. We’ll share our delicious and easy dough recipe and learn the basics of kneading, rolling, and cutting fresh pasta. Of course, no pasta is complete without a delectable homemade tomato sauce! Bring your friends and your own drinks for fun filled night of pasta! Time: 6-8:30 p.m., Location: Gorman Heritage Farm, http://gormanfarm.org/visit-a-local-cincinnatifarm/gorman-heritage-farm-calendar-of-events/, Phone: 513-563-6663
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CALLING ALL YOUNG READERS AT BLUE MANATEE ON WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 11TH
Farm By the Stars Step into the night sky and listen to the secrets of the stars. From when to plant crops to when to breed animals, the stars have told farmers what to do for centuries! We will be outside as well as inside, so dress for the weather. For all ages. Children must be accompanied by an adult. $2/ person; register by 11/5. Time: 6 p.m., Location: Winton Woods/Parky’s Farm, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
He ads Up Pumpkin Chuck Bring pumpkins to see them loaded onto handbuilt trebuchets and watch them fly. Includes music, WNKU live broadcast, Pumpkin Olympics for kids, food, drink and 0.08K race. Time: 12 – 5 p.m., Location: Stansbury Park, http:// www.mwcc.org/
He alth Fair , Fa mily Fun Fest and Open House Presented with The Christ Hospital, this event is free and open to the public. See how fun healthy can be at this unique interactive and engaging event! Time: 10 a.m. – 4 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Sports Club, http://www.cincinnatisportsclub.com/, Phone: (513) 527-4000
SUN 08 Outdoor Archery Learn the basics of shooting a compound bow on our outdoor range, then try out your skills with a little target practice! Program is led by a trained archery instructor, and all equipment is provided. For adults and children ages 8 and up. $15/person; register by 11/6. Time: 1 p.m., Location: Winton Woods, http://www. greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
TUES 10 Fa mily Night at Hofbr auhaus Face-painting, balloon animals and prizes. Kids 12 and under eat free 6-9 p.m. Time: 6-9 p.m., Location: Hofbrauhaus, http://www. hofbrauhausnewport.com/event/family-night-2ndtuesday-each-month/?instance_id=16411, Phone: 859-491-7200
WEDS 11 Calling All Young Re aders! It’s National Young Readers Week! How should we celebrate, you ask? Come today to find out! Hint: we’ll be reading some of the silliest & hottest books on our shelves right now and laughing until the cows come home! Let’s add to the fun by
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making some “goo” (or “oobleck” or “blurf”) to play with and take home! $2/child; best for ages 4-9. Call 513-731-2665 to reserve your spot. Space is limited. Time: 2-3 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.bluemanateebooks.com/ home/activatees.html, Phone: 513-731-2665
THURS 12 Cooking Club Kids can cook! Learn how to prepare delicious, healthy snacks. Time: 3-4 p.m., Location: Oakley Branch, http:// programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/lib/ eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6038
FRI 13 Mini M akers Club Join us for some fun exploring our creative sides! We will be creating and engaging in sensory play. For preschool aged children and their caregivers. Time: 11 a.m.-12 p.m., Location: Oakley Branch, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/ lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6038
FRI 13 - SUN 15 Gre ater Cincinnati Holiday M arket More than 100 displays from one-of-a-kind boutiques and specialty retailers. Includes gifts, women’s apparel and accessories, home and holiday decor, children’s clothing, decor and books, personalized items, one-of-a-kind items, gourmet food, jewelry, hand-made pieces and toys. Time: Nov. 13: 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 14: 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 15: 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Location: Duke Energy Convention Center, http://cincinnati holidaymarket.com/, Phone: 513-797-7900
SAT 14 Cincinnati Cyclones Throwback Night The Cyclones are throwing back the prices to $10 tickets, plus $1 John Morrell hotdogs, Donatos pizza and soda! Time: 6:30 p.m., Location: U.S. Bank Arena, http://cycloneshockey.com/game/2015/11/13/ throwback-night
School of Gl ass: Turkey Gobble gobble! Its Turkey-time and we are celebrating with this brand new class. Students will design and create a lovable glass turkey using a range of glass sheet and accessories. Celebrate Thanksgiving season with this 6’’ hangable glass treasure. Fun for all ages! No experience necessary. Ages 4+. Time: 1 p.m., Location: Brazee Street Studios, http://www.brazeestreetstudios.com/products/ turkey, Phone: 513-321-0206
Thanksgiving on the Ohio Frontier Step back 200 years in the past to the first Thanksgiving on the Ohio frontier. The Society of Northwest Longhunters reenactors will portray Shawnee Native Americans, early European settlers and military personnel. Exchanges between Native Americans and settlers will occur on the half hour. Samples of period fare will be available. Free. Time: 2-5 p.m., Location: Shawnee Lookout, http:// www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
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SUN 15 3rd Sunday Funday: Turkeys Fly! Get ready for Thanksgiving with this turkey of a Funday! Make a bird to take home, explore different animal textures at the Art Cart, and hunt for birds in the art collection. Tom “The Space Painter” Sparough will get things flying with his juggling show at 2 p.m. Time: 1-4 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, www.taftmuseum.org/, Phone: 513- 241-0343
K atniss’ Field Guide Curious as to what Katniss might be foraging for in the Hunger Games trilogy? Draw or color some of the possible plants found in her edible plant field guide, and then learn how to bind your creation into a book you can add to for years to come. Cost is $15/book; register by 11/13. Time: 1-4 p.m., Location: Miami Whitewater Forest, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
MON 16 Tinkerl ab: M arvelous Motion Join us as we put the 3 simple laws of motion into action with fun projects. Ages 7-14. Registration required. Time: 4-5 p.m., Location: Green Township Branch, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/ lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6095
TUES 17 Kid’s Activity Hour - Turkey Time! Gobble! Gobble! Let’s talk turkey. Enjoy a turkey book, songs, jokes and make a turkey treat! All materials provided. Families welcome. Time: 6:30 p.m., Location: Miami Township Branch, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/ lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6050
KINDERVELT’S NORTH POLE EXPRESS AT LEBANON MASON MONROE RAILROAD ON SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 21ST
WEDS 18 Homeschool Science E a st: Tree Adaptations Home-schooled students ages 5–12 and parents are invited to explore interactive learning stations, take part in lessons and enjoy a guided hike. $6/child, register by 11/16. Time: 9:30 – 11:30 a.m., Location: Woodland Mound, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
THURS 19 Mia mi Township Holiday Par ade Parade route: Proceeds down Business 28 starting at Meijer and ending at the Miami Plaza. Features high school marching bands, lighted floats, businesses, Miami Township fire, police, service and recreation departments, churches, school groups and civic organizations participate. Bring seating. Time: 7-8 p.m., Location: Meijer Parking Lot, http://www.miamitwpoh.gov/
Wee Wonder About Birds Register your 3–5 year-old to learn about some of our local birds with the naturalist. Children will enjoy making a craft, reading a story, an activity and meeting a live bird. $6/child, register by 11/17. Time: 11 a.m. – 12 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
FRI 20 Astronomy Friday In awe with the beauty of the night sky? Have questions about the Universe? This is where you can get the answers. Astronomy Fridays include short presentations on a wide variety of topics and plenty of time for your astro questions. Tour of the Cincinnati Observatory, which as a National Historic Landmark played an important role in the history of Cincinnati and our nation. Time: 7:30p.m.-11 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Observatory Center, http://www. cincinnatiobservatory.org/publicevents/ calendar-3/, Phone: 513-321-5186
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Z ak Morgan With a background in children’s literature plus a GRAMMY® nomination for his kids’ songs, Zak Morgan brings all of his life experiences and a simple delight in words and music to his live performances. His interactive concerts are warm, full of humorous wordplay, and fun for all ages.Recommended for grades preK-4. Location: Calico Children’s Theatre at UC Clermont College, Time: 7 p.m., Admission is $5 per person or season tickets $15, all three shows, http://www. ucclermont.edu/community/arts/calico_ theatre.html
SAT 21 Cincinnati Cyclones Superhero Night Come dressed up as your favorite superhero! Meet and get your photo taken with many of Marvels best super heroes! The Clones will wear specialty jerseys that will be auctioned off after the game. Kids in attendance will also take home an exclusive Cyclones Cape! Time: 6:30 p.m., Location: U.S. Bank Arena, http:// cycloneshockey.com/game/2015/11/13/ throwback-night
Holiday in Lights 5K Bring the family out for some fresh air in November. Run or walk 3.1 miles through the lit-up Holiday in Lights pathway in Sharon Woods. Pre-register by 11/18: $26/person, $21/child ages 12 and under; Race day: $31/person, $26/child ages 12 and under. Time: 5:30 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods, http://www. holidayinlights.com/home, Phone: 513-769-0393
Kindervelt ’s North Pole Express Join Kindervelt in their annual “North Pole Express”! The 45-minute round trip vintage train ride through the countryside is full of holiday spirit. During the train ride, kids will enjoy a reading of The Polar Express, plus a visit with Santa, elves, caroling and more! Times: Train rides at 10 a.m., 11:15 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 1:45 p.m., 3:00 p.m., 4:15 p.m. and 5:30 p.m., Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe Railroad, http://lebanonrr.com/ kindervelt.html, Phone: 513-588-0074
SUN 22 Home Alone Film with Orchestr a This beloved comedy classic features John Williams’ charming score, performed live to picture. Hilarious and heartwarming, Home Alone is holiday fun for the whole family! Time: 7 p.m., Location: Location: Aronoff Center, http:// www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/home-alonefilm-with-orchestra, Phone: 513-621-2787
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20+ artists! Pottery, glass, fabric, photography and paintings. Original art at reasonable prices! With the holidays coming up, the works of art would make great gifts! Enjoy music and food, plus there is no admission fee, but visitors will be asked to make a one- dollar donation that will go to the Freestore Foodbank. Location: Northern Hills Synagogue, Time: 11-4, http://nhs-cba.org/ArtsFair11-22-15.htm
TUES 24 Turkey Bowl Celebrate the return of the U.S. Bank Ice Rink with 2015 Turkey Bowl event on Fountain Square! Join us out on the ice Tuesday, November 24, as the rink transforms into a bowling alley—complete with bowling pins and frozenturkeys-turned-bowling balls. In order to play, participants must bring two non-perishable food items or a $5 cash donation to Fountain Square the day of the event. Time: On-site registration opens at 11:00am and the competition begins at noon., Location: Fountain Square, http://myfountainsquare.com/event/ turkey-bowl-4/, Phone: 513-621-4400
THURS 26 The 106th Thanksgiving Day 10k R ace One of the oldest and largest 10k run/walks in the nation, the Thanksgiving Day Race is a celebration of good health, great friends, and enduring family traditions! Time: 9 a.m., Location: Paul Brown Stadium, http:// www.thanksgivingdayrace.com/index.html
FRI 27 Thanksgiving Cl assic Enjoy the holiday with family and friends in this four-player modified scramble. Your team will play from all four sets of tee markers with challenging pin placements. Entry fee includes greens fees, carts, coffee, juice, tee gift, contests,
skins game and individual shootout. Registration and range balls available 8:30–10 a.m. $240/ team, register by 11/23. Time: 10 a.m., Location: Miami Waterwater Forest/ Golf Course, http://www.greatparks.org/ calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
FRI 27 - SAT 28 After Thanksgiving Fun Days Leave the leftovers for later, and bring the kids to the park for some real family fun! Drop by to participate in crafts, games and a scavenger hunt for prizes. $1/craft, payable at the door. Time: 12-4 p.m. on 11/27 and 11/28, Location: Miami Waterwater Forest, http://www.greatparks.org/ calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275
SAT 28 M acy ’s Lights Up the Square On Nov. 28, make a point of taking the family to Fountain Square to see the annual unveiling of the Cincinnati holiday tree at Macy’s Lights Up the Square. The festivities begin 6 p.m. with live music and an appearance by the Giant Elf himself! Time: 6 p.m., Location: Fountain Square, http:// myfountainsquare.com/event/u-s- bank-icerink-10/, Phone: 513-381-0782
Home Alone Film with Orchestr a This beloved comedy classic features John Williams’ charming score, performed live to picture. Hilarious and heartwarming, Home Alone is holiday fun for the whole family! Time: 7 p.m., Location: Music Hall, http://www. cincinnatisymphony.org/concerts-plus-events/ special-concerts-and-events/home-alone, Phone: 513.381.3300
SUN 29 Cincinnati Bengals vs. St. Louis R a ms Cap off Thanksgiving weekend at Paul Brown Stadium when the Cincinnati Bengals take on the St. Louis Rams! Time: 1 p.m., Location: Paul Brown Stadium, http://www.bengals.com/schedule/
Holiday Se ason Kickoff Enjoy free activities for the whole family at the Holiday Season Kickoff. The house will be decorated inside and out with lights, garlands, and displays of antique ornaments on oldfashioned feather trees. Enjoy lunch in the Lindner Family Café and do some holiday shopping in the Museum Shop. Time: 11 a.m.-4 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum.org/holidays-at-the-taft, Phone: 513-352-5134
Westwood’s Deck the Halls To brighten the darkest nights of the year, Westwood invites the community to celebrate the holidays! Start the afternoon making an ornament in our Holiday Workshop, and afterward, join us for food and fellowship while we enjoy a musical treat from four of Westwood’s best choirs, and featuring Westwood’s own renowned Madcap Puppets as our Master of Ceremonies.. Finally, cap off the night with the first annual lighting of the Westwood Community Tree. Location: Westwood Town Hall Recreation Center, Time: 3-6pm, https://www.facebook.com/ WestwoodDecktheHall
North Pole Express Take a half hour train ride to the decorated LM&M Junction to visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus! Take a moment to visit Santa and tell him your Christmas wishes. Each child will receive a small gift from Mr. Claus himself! Stop at the “Holiday Post Express” to color pictures or write letters to be delivered to Santa. Enjoy a holiday cookie and a cup of hot chocolate to keep you warm while you are entertained by Santa’s talented Elves! Time: Trains depart at 11:30 a.m., 2 p.m., 4:30 p.m. and 7 p.m., Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe Railroad, http://lebanonrr.com/northpole.html, Phone: 513-588-0074
MON 30 Fa mily Holiday Workshop Make simple crafts to brighten your family holidays! Especially for families with kids ages 3-6 years old. Time: 6:30-7:15 p.m., Location: Covedale Branch, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/ lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4460
AFTER THANKSGIVING FUN DAYS AT MIAMI WHITEWATER FOREST ON THURSDAY, FRI & SAT NOVEMBER 27-28TH
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ONGOING EVENTS U. S . B a nk Ice R i nk Oct. 30 - Feb. 15, 2016 The U.S. Bank Ice Rink on Fountain Square is now open for business! Amenities include skate rental, lockers, benches, and concessions options. Cost: $6.00 admission and $4.00 skate rental. Events during the holidays include: Turkey Bowl on Nov. 24; Macy’s Light Up the Square on Nov. 28; Santa Skates: Nov 28 & Nov 29, Dec 5 & 6, Dec 12 & 13, Dec 19 & 20; and New Year’s Eve Blast: Dec 31. Make a family tradition at Fountain Square! Times vary by season; check website for details., Location: Fountain Square, http:// myfountainsquare.com/event/u-s-bank- icerink-10/, Phone: 513-381-0782
A Ch r i stm a s S tory: T h e Mus ic al Nov. 4 - Dec. 31 Ralphie Parker wants only one thing for Christmas: An official Red Ryder Carbine-Action 200-shot Range Model Air Rifle! A Christmas Story: The Musical is the hilarious account of Ralphie’s desperate quest to ensure that this most perfect gift ends up under his tree this Christmas. Tickets are $57 and $73. Times: Shows on Wednesdays-Sundays., Location: La Comedia Dinner Theatre, http:// lacomedia.com/playbill/, Phone: 800-677-9505
Ant iq ue Ch r i stm a s Nov. 6 - Jan. 3, 2016 Escape to a winter wonderland of Christmas past at the Taft’s annual display of antique ornaments, decorations, and toys. Learn more about the festive display here. Kathy and Steward “Greg” Gregory, lenders to the exhibition, will discuss their collection in upcoming gallery talks. Times: Open daily Nov. 6-Jan.3, 2016. Closed Mondays, Nov. 26 and Dec. 25, Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum.org/ holidays-at-the-taft, Phone: 513-352-5134
P oi nsett i a E xpress Nov. 14 - Jan. 3, 2016 The traditional holiday show at Krohn with trains, flowers and holiday magic! Open daily 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Adults $7, Youth (5-12 years old) $4 and Children (1-4 years old) free! Time: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. daily, Location: Krohn Conservatory, http://www.cincinnatiparks. com/cinciparks-full-calender#year=2015&mo nth=11&day=1&view=month, Phone: 513-3524080
Hol i day Junc t ion fe atur i ng t h e Duke E ner gy Hol i day T r a i ns Nov. 6 - Jan. 3, 2016 Holiday Junction is back and it’s going to be one of the best years yet! With more lights, new trains and lots of family-friendly activities, you’ll have plenty of reasons to be a part of the magic all season long. Duke Energy customers can get free vouchers to this beloved event. Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, http:// www.cincymuseum.org/holiday/duke-energyholiday-trains
Hol i day i n L igh ts Nov. 20 – Jan. 3, 2016 Come out for a Cincinnati holiday tradition! Enjoy more than a mile of fantastic seasonal lights all from the warmth of your car. See more than 120 moving and standing holiday-themed figures depicting everything from Santa to the 12 Days of Christmas. Cost is $13/car, $45/buses & 15-passenger vans. Times: Sun–Thu 6–9 p.m. & Fri–Sat, 5:30–10 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods, http://www. holidayinlights.com/home, Phone: 513-7690393
S a ntal a n d Nov. 20 – 22 and Nov. 27 - Dec. 23 After your tour of Holiday in Lights, head inside Sharon Centre for some more holiday magic. Enjoy live family friendly entertainment, share your wish list with Santa, check out the train display, do some holiday shopping at Nature’s Niche and pick up a sweet treat at Mrs. Claus’ Confectioneries. Times: Sun–Thu, 6–9 p.m. & Fri–Sat, 5:30–10 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods, http://www. holidayinlights.com/santaland.html, Phone: 513-769-0393
PNC F est i val of L igh ts Nov. 21 - Jan. 2, 2016 The PNC Festival of Lights has been a family holiday tradition for over 30 years and is the largest holiday light display in Cincinnati. This display has over 2 million LED lights, and features a Fairyland, Candy Cane Forest, Madcap puppets, Wild Light Show on Swan Lake, North Pole Express train rides and visits with Santa!
M ary P oppi ns Nov. 13 - 21 Tony Award-winning musical. Includes such songs as Chim Chim Cher-ee, A Spoonful of Sugar, Let’s Go Fly a Kite and Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. Location: Aronoff Center, http://www. cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/mary-poppins, Phone: 513-621-2787
Irv i ng Berl i n ’ s W h i te Ch r i stm a s Nov. 24 - Dec. 6 Irving Berlin’s White Christmas tells the story of two buddies putting on a show in a magical Vermont inn and finding their perfect mates in the process. Full of dancing, laughter and some of the greatest songs ever written, Irving Berlin’s White Christmas promises a merry and bright theatrical experience for the whole family! Time: Shows run Tuesday-Sunday from Nov. 24-Dec. 6; check website for times, Location: Aronoff Center, http://www.cincinnatiarts.org/ events/detail/white-christmas, Phone: 513-6212787
G i ngerbre ad House Di spl ay Nov. 27 - Dec. 30 See the imaginative, whimsical, and heart-warming creations from our Gingerbread House Contest on display on the museum’s central “Village Green,” the heart of the museum where one can browse “shops” of downtown Lebanon. Beginning December 1, the first place winners will be moved to Glendower Historic Mansion’s “Christmas at Glendower,” but the rest of the entries will remain on display at the History Center through December 30. Time: Nov 27, 10 am-4 pm and 6:30 pm-8:30 pm; December 1-30, Tuesdays through Fridays, 10 am to 4 pm, Saturdays 10 am to 5 pm. Closed Sundays and Mondaysm=, Location: Warren County History Center, http://www.wchsmuseum.org/events/ holiday_events-18/gingerbread_house_ display-69, Phone: 513-932-1817
T h e Le gen dary L igh ts of Cl i fton M i ll Nov. 27 - Dec. 31 For 27 years Clifton Mill has celebrated the Christmas season in a very special way. Our light display is one of the country’s finest with over 3.5 million lights illuminating the mill, the gorge, the riverbanks, trees and bridges. Every night until the night before Christmas Eve you can peek into Santa’s Workshop to see a live Santa at work and then, every 15 minutes or so, watch him check his list and go up the chimney to load his sleigh!
Location: Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden, http://cincinnatizoo.org/events/festival-oflights/, Phone: 513-281-4700 PLEASE NOTE // At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.
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