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Getting Your Child Involved in Music

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Be a Shining Light to Kids This New Year

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Talking to Your Kids About Financial Fitness

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Indy’sChild Founding Publisher Barbara S. Wynne Publisher/President Mary Wynne Cox Executive Vice President Richard A. Dickinson Executive Editor Lynette L. Rowland CFO Debbie Klineman Copy Editor Kimberly Laughlin Vice President, Sales Mike Hussey Art Direction & DESIGN Heather Lipe Marketing Coordinator Rachel Wynn On the cover Jessica and Malik with Bob Sanders cover Photography Brandy Cunningham Photography

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Resolutions Revamped We all know that if we write down our New Year’s resolutions and share them with a family member or a close friend, we are more likely to try to keep them. Indy’s Child staffers all shared their resolutions and published them here for you. Does that mean we are going to be more successful and share the results with our readers? We hope so and at the end of the year we’ll let you know how much we were able to succeed with them.

I reflected on my resolutions for 2009, and even though they are cutesy because they all begin with the same letter, I truly plan to do my best to follow through.

My resolutions are to be fit, faithful, frugal, forgiving and family-centered. Our minister, Father Stephen Fales, of St. Christopher’s Episcopal Church in Carmel, had good advice on how to improve oneself: “Have a plan.” He was absolutely right. By setting goals and having a plan of action, the likelihood of being steadfast in my resolutions is even greater.

Fit I plan to rejoin Weight Watchers, exercise on a regular basis and keep a food and exercise diary.

Faithful For me faithful means take time for prayer, service to others and attending church functions.

Frugal Being frugal isn’t always easy and will likely be my biggest challenge. Stretching dollars and following a budget in the current state of our economy is imperative. I never have done the lat-

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ter, so my plan will include writing down grocery lists to avoid impulse shopping—a hard habit to break.

Forgiving I believe in being forgiving. Sometimes it is hard to bury hurt and disappointment, but I know the right thing to do is to start over with difficult relationships. I am going to make a concerted effort to forgive more often and understand that though people disappoint, they have a right to do things their way.

Family-centeredness My last resolution will be the easiest: I want my golden years to be more family-centered. I want to be available to nurture my grandchildren and offer more support to my own children as they make adjustments within their own lives.

I usually write about the challenge of using time wisely. I know that to pursue the goals I have set for myself I must also learn to heed my own advice and make the most of my time. I have always enjoyed challenging myself and tend to take on too many projects, so to prioritize my schedule so I can accomplish all of the above will be a challenge. With enough focus, though, it can be done.

Good luck to each of you in all you do in 2008. Feel free to send me your suggestions, as I know that your encouragement will help tremendously. My e-mail is bb@thewynnes.com, and please feel free to share your resolutions and tips. Thank you for caring and sharing.

Barbara S. Wynne

Last chance to see mythical beasts and Ming bling.

POWER AND GLORY: COURT ARTS OF CHINA’S MING DYNASTY Closes January 11 Celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. Day with art and a special performance, “The Music, Martin and Me” Monday, January 19 / noon-6 pm / FREE Performance at 6 pm / FREE, but tickets required.

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This exhibition was developed by a grant from the Robert H. N. Ho Family Foundation. Additional support was provided by the Henry Luce Foundation, the Starr Foundation and the National Endowment for the Arts. This exhibition is supported by an indemnity from the Federal Council on the Arts and the Humanities. One of Pair of incense burners in the shape of mythic beasts. Reign of the Wanli Emperor (1573-1619), copper alloy with gold gildinolychrome enamel inlays (cloisonné). Palace Museum, Beijing

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Carmel Engineer/Mom Named ‘Climate Change Advocate of the Year’ The Hoosier Environmental Council, Indiana’s largest environmental policy organization, announced that Carmel-based Leslie Webb has been named ‘Climate Change Advocate of the Year’ at its annual awards ceremony. Webb, a chemical engineer by training, has worked to elevate awareness of clean energy policy and the science on climate change in presentations across her community to adults and school-age children. Leslie’s steady, independent effort to raise the issue of global warming spurred her to help found the Carmel Green Initiative, a coalition of citizens and community groups who promote and support the City’s commitment to meeting the climate challenge. “We recognize Leslie for her untiring efforts to raise awareness about the extraordinary challenge of global warming, especially in the midst of a segment of our society appearing to dismiss the science underlying man-made climate change,” said Jesse Kharbanda, Executive Director of the Hoosier Environmental Council. Leslie is one of 1,000 men and women trained in the U.S. by The Climate Project to raise awareness and educate the public about global warming. Prior to her focus on global warming and energy policy, Leslie focused on raising her three children and working in the clay and petrochemical industries. For more information on The Hoosier Environmental Council visit www.hecweb.org.

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The National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) Sponsoring the 2009 Be Money Wi$e National Financial Literacy Poster Contest The NFCC contest is being offered as a way to educate and build awareness with young people on sound money management and financial responsibility. The contest also provides a creative outlet for students to express themselves. The theme for 2009 contest is “I’m going to be a millionaire because I (fill in the blank).” As a member of the NFCC, MOMENTIVE® Consumer Credit Counseling Service is hosting the contest in the Indianapolis area. Entries will be judged in three grade categories (elementary, middle, and high) and must be submitted to MOMENTIVE® Consumer Credit Counseling Service no later than 2/9/09. Local winning grade category entries will be submitted to the National Foundation for Credit Counseling as national finalists.

The national overall contest winner wins an all-expense paid trip to Washington, DC to receive his award. For contest rules and information visit http://www.moneywisepostercontest.org.

Creators of Environments for Children, ReadyGoSet, LLC now serving Indianapolis “A child’s room is more than just a place to do homework or sleep. It’s a place to play, create and pretend. A

place where a child can dream and just be themselves” says artist Mark Schmidt. He is the creative force behind ReadyGoSet. Schmidt and business partner, Greg Fox, have launched ReadyGoSet, LLC which is dedicated to creating spaces that not only stimulate the imagination, but showcase individuality. Through murals, art and illustration they can put together a space as individual as your child. Unique, full range of mural work for any budget and space can go from a simple stripe to an environment on every wall. All murals are one of a kind and created exclusively for your child. From polka dots to a full undersea world, no idea is too large or too small. If you don’t want a mural or you can’t paint the walls, ReadyGoSet offers a full range of artwork to decorate the walls of your child’s bedroom, bathroom or playroom. For the more unique, ReadyGoSet can even do custom made party invitations and painted furniture, holiday or party props, book illustrations and even scenery for a play or musical. ReadyGoSet does it all. To find out more visit www.readygosetart.com, or contact ReadyGoSet, LLC at (317) 691-2134.

Early Readers Club Helps families Build Home Library Children whose parents read to them become better readers and better students. Those are the facts behind United Way of Central Indiana’s creation of Early Readers Club. Members receive 12-high quality children’s books a year until the child’s sixth birthday, providing

countless opportunities for kids and parents to read together. So far, more than 13,500 children are members of the club which helps families build a home library for their preschoolers. It’s all part of United Way’s community priority to better prepare all children to be Ready to Learn when they start school. Parents of Early Readers Club were invited to participate in a photo contest showing their child reading or being read to. Of the 52 entries, Gabriel Moran, age 1, of Indianapolis was selected as the winner. Gabriel’s mother says he “loves the baby faces� in his books and, “all the faces make him laugh!� Early Readers Club currently serves children in Hancock, Hendricks, Marion and Morgan counties. You can register your child for $20 per child (per year). Or, you can request a scholarship. Visit http:// www.uwci.org/index.asp?p=650.

Karate Class for Down Syndrome Indiana Families Broad Ripple Martial Arts will offer a class starting Saturday, January 10, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. lead by instructor Keith Boggs. Classes are for children and adults (age 4 and up) and is open to individuals with Down syndrome and fam-

ily members. Parental or sibling assistance is welcome.

The first class is free to try out. Families are encouraged to attend the first session to see if the class is a good fit.

For subsequent classes, the fee will be $50 per month for the individual enrolled in the class (there is no fee for those who assist). For more information, please contact Keith Boggs at (317) 251-2488 or kaboggs56@yahoo. com. (Although the class is being offered to DSI families, individuals with other disabilities are welcome to participate as well.) Broad Ripple Martial Arts is located at 5145 E 65th St Indianapolis, IN 46220 (317) 251-2488. www.broadripplemartialarts.com.

Arbor Day Foundation Invites Fifth-Grade Students To Participate In 2009 Poster Contest The Arbor Day Foundation is calling all fifth-grade students to participate in the 2009 Arbor Day National Poster Contest, an annual competition that engaged nearly 70,000 fifth-grade classrooms in 2008. The 2009 contest, sponsored by Toyota, will carry the theme, “Trees are Terrific‌In Cities and Towns!â€? The competition is free and open to fifth-grade students nationwide. As a supplement to the poster contest, several lesson plans are available to educators for classroom use.

The lesson plan activities help increase students’ knowledge of how trees grow and the environmental benefits trees provide. Activities correlate with the National Education Standards. The 2009 theme, “Trees are Terrific‌

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In Cities and Towns!� was chosen in part because it helps students better understand the importance of trees in communities. “A lot of students relate to the theme because they can actually see the trees that are a part of their community� said Michelle SaulnierScribner, program director of the Arbor Day Foundation. “Students learn that properly planting and caring for trees plays an important part in the quality of life and environmental health of their community.� As an added angle, the public can vote on the best poster from March 30 through April 3. To enter the contest, students, teachers and parents can visit www.arborday.org/postercontest for contest rules and entry guidelines. The site includes information on how to request the free 2009 contest materials as well as extensive, downloadable activity guides that teachers can incorporate into the contest. The national winner, his or her parents, and the teacher of the winning student will receive an expense-paid trip to the National Arbor Day Awards Weekend in Nebraska City in April 2009. The national winner also will receive a $1,000 savings bond, a lifetime membership to the Arbor Day Foundation, a tree planted in his or her name and a framed color copy of his or her poster. The national winner’s teacher will receive $200.

The second- and third-place winners will each receive savings bonds and trees will be planted in their honor. Prizes also will be awarded on the state level.

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Information & products for Baby Sleeps Safe Infant Safety Product Parents with newborns can now rest easier as Baby Sleeps Safe, an infant safety product designed to keep babies sleeping securely on their backs, is available for order. The American Academy of Pediatrics strongly recommends that infants sleep on their backs to help safeguard against Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). Invented by a mother and perfected by child development experts, Baby Sleeps Safe is a Sleep Panel and Sleep Pouch, made of 100 percent flame-resistant cotton, which work together to position babies on their backs and prevent them from rolling onto their stomachs while sleeping. The Sleep Panel is soft and pliable and is easily secured around a standard-size crib mattress fastened end-to-end with Velcro. The sleeveless and collarless Sleep Pouch allows free movement from side-to-side supporting motor skill development and features a convenient zip-up bottom. The companion pieces attach together by joining the large Velcro patches at the center of the Sleep Panel and back of the Sleep Pouch forming a “T.” Baby Sleeps Safe fits infants up to 9 months and is available in blue, pink, yellow and cream. Order online at www.BabySleepsSafe. com or call (877) 922-1112. Baby Sleeps Safe retails for $39.99 plus shipping and handling.

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The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children and Duracell Help Address New School Year Safety Findings

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The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) and Duracell are partnering for the third consecutive year through the Power of Parents child safety program to arm families with important new information about school year safety. According to new data released recently from NCMEC, most abduction attempts occur after school, between the hours of 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Almost half of non-family abduction attempts happen when a child is walking to or from school or a related school activity. NCMEC also found that the overwhelming majority of children affected by abduction attempts are young girls (74 percent) between the ages of 10 and 14 years old. As 56 million students in grades K through 12 are beginning their school year, it is more important than ever for families to take the time to have important safety discussions. To help parents guide the conversation with their children, NCMEC and Duracell have expanded their child safety resource portfolio with the addition of a new, free Child Safety Handbook.

The handbook has been developed for parents of children who are infants through high school ages. It contains a variety of important safety tools for families including a free downloadable child photo ID guide, seasonal safety tips, a six-month photo ID reminder service, a free children’s book designed to help 4-6 year olds understand safety concepts and Teachable Moments Guides.

Cleanoz® from UBIMED® is the first batterypowered nasal aspirating kit that uses disposable reservoir nozzles, offering a revolutionary new and sanitary way to clear nasal passages of infants and toddlers, while reducing the spread of harmful germs and eliminating time-consuming cleanup afterward. Cleanoz® is designed with safety and comfort in mind and uses soft, flexible disposable reservoir nozzle tips that are gentle enough for even a newborn baby’s delicate nasal passages (unlike most bulb syringes that are awkward to use and can penetrate a baby’s nasal passages too deeply). The mild, yet effective suction can clear a baby’s nose within seconds, eliminating the stress and anxiety usually associated with aspirating a child’s nose. The Cleanoz® MB002 is packaged with three disposable reservoir nozzles, a travel pouch and three AAA batteries for $29.99 (MSRP) through www. cleanoz.com, Target.com, Amazon.com and specialty retailers nationwide. Refill packages of 10 disposable reservoir nozzles are also available for $5.99 (MSRP).

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Information & products for Kid tough dvd player The new Kid-Tough Portable DVD Player is a recent addition to the incredibly successful Preschool Electronics line. This is the first portable DVD Player that is tough enough and easy enough to withstand rugged preschool use. With its unique “kid-tough” design, it is the only Kid-Tough DVD player built to survive drop after drop after drop. Features include a 3.2” color TFT screen, rechargeable batteries with two hour life and battery charger with wall power unit. It also includes a sturdy dual-rail DVD drive; digital anti-skip buffer for the ultimate “kid-tough” viewing experience; dual grip handles; kid-friendly DVD door and DVD controls; CD playback capability; handle for portability; kick stand legs for hands free viewing; video out jack and headphone jack.

An On-the-Go Travel Kit, sold separately, includes kid-sized headphones, a car charger cord, dual headphone splitter and audio/video cables that allow parents to connect the DVD Player to any TV with A/V jacks. Requires 4 “AA” rechargeable batteries, included. $149.99 for kids 3+

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Booda Brand Launches “Conversation Clothing” for Children That Embodies Wisdom, Wonder And The Will To make a difference Words are magical! Booda Brand aims to put children under their spell with the launch of a t-shirt line evoking the power of uplifting language and combining it with visually stunning world imagery and an empowering message of social change. The intent is to facilitate purposeful conversations between parents and children and provide a meaningful way to make a difference through the power of purchase.

Every little boy and girl wearing Booda Brand proudly carries the statement “I Will Make a Difference” and staying true to that promise Booda Brand will gift ONE book to a child in need for every purchase through the organization Room to Read.

Booda Brand tees are available for $34.99 MSRP. Please visit www.boodabrand.com to order online or to find a retailer near you.

the watergeeks introduces new kid friendly stainless steel water bottles The Watergeeks Laboratories has introduced their new BPA-free kid friendly stainless steel water bottle. This water bottle is perfect for both infants and children as the sippy adaptor turns this innovative water bottle into a sippy cup. Priced at only $12.95, this is the perfect addition to pack for any family outing or for kids to bring along to school. The 12 oz. water bottle comes in three colors: stainless, blue and pink, and is made with unlined, 18/0 food grade stainless steel. The Watergeeks mission is to help turn the global water crisis upside down through empowering consumers with compelling new choices that better fit both their active lifestyle and their ecological beliefs. The Watergeeks have created innovative new water consumption products for both adults and children. To learn more about The Watergeeks and their full line of products, visit www.thewatergeeks.com.

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mobigrip cell phone saver Juggling kids, books, sports equipment and fragile cell phones can often result in the expensive cost of a broken phone. That’s why Mobigrip, a new accessory for handheld electronics, is designed to keep the latest tech craze from slipping out of your hands. Mobigrip is an adhesive disc with an elastic finger loop that attaches easily to all cell phones (as well as digital cameras and portable gaming devices) to keep portable electronics securely connected to their users, eliminating dropped and broken devices. Mobigrip can also be personalized with a custom-designed disc allowing you to add your own personal pictures, colors and designs. The concept is simple and the product is affordable ($7.95- $9.95 each, depending on design), yet Mobigrip can save hundreds of dollars in broken or replacement devices.

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Being A Better Me Being a Better Me is the first “How-To” book written to assist children between the ages of 8 through 11 in recognizing their significance and the positive impact they can have on others. Written by a teacher with experience working with children of every background, Being a Better Me takes the novel approach of seeking to give children the tools to accomplish a normally adult-oriented goal, i.e. character building self-improvement, yet in words and themes designed for children.

Being a Better Me provides them with the knowledge children need to become well-liked individuals through storylines about a boy and his dog.

The book not only gives insight to children on how to become decent human beings, but also the positive impact they can have on their own lives and the lives of others by being decent people. Retails for $12.99. Beingabetterme.com.

Girls Against Girls: Why We Are Mean to Each Other and How We Can Change “Mean girls” have dominated the news headlines all year. People are shocked by their girls’ behavior toward each other in everything from vile messages on social networking sites to physical beatings, name callings that lead to increased dropouts and even suicide attempts. Girls Against Girls author Bonnie Burton spent months doing research on a topic that has deep personal meaning to her. It goes further than the typical bullying books by breaking down why girls treat one another poorly and exploring scientific theories, tactics, steps to take and empowerment training, as well as advice from celebrities and girl-power organizations. The book speaks frankly and reminds girls that they have the ability to choose whether they want to be destructive or supportive. The book’s forward was written by best-selling author, Seventeen magazine advice columnist and self-esteem expert Jessica Weiner. The book will be available in February and is just $12.95.

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Overcoming On-the-Spot Pressure “What’s your name?” “How old are you?” “What sport do you play?” Kids learn early on that questions are a means of communicating with peers, a way for their needs to be discovered, a way for other people to get to know them and a way for them to get to know themselves.

But not all questions that kids ask each other have easy answers. With their natural curiosity and still-developing social skills, kids often ask questions about personal or sensitive matters. Young teens who live in single-parent households may face more than their share of uncomfortable questions from their peers—questions like “Why doesn’t your mom live with you?” or “Where’s your dad?”

Although it is more and more common for families to come in different configurations and sizes these days, these questions can still be tough for kids most of whose friends or classmates live in traditional two-parent families. When everyone else comes to Open House Night flanked by a mom and a dad, a child with only one parent in tow may already feel selfconscious. Questions like, “Where’s your dad?” though practically inevitable, can put a child on the spot.

Here are some suggestions for preparing children who live in single-parent households to handle questions like these:

Rehearse answers to uncomfortable questions with your child. Practicing how to handle these

situations with you will help build her confidence. If she can master the challenge in a safe environment first, it will give her more strength to take with her into the world outside of her home. Do some role-playing and give her the chance to take both sides, as both the questioning child and herself, while you take the other role.

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Think of one general answer that can apply to many questions that may come up.

For example, questions such as, “Where’s your dad?” “Why doesn’t your mom live with you?” “Why did your parents get divorced?” or “Doesn’t your dad want to live with you?” can all be answered with something like, “My parents had problems getting along with each other, so they got divorced and live in separate houses. But the one thing they still agree on is that they both love me very much.” Or, “My dad lives in California because my parents got divorced. They couldn’t get along with each other very well, but they get along with me great.”

Teach your child to recognize differences and to value diversity. Help him to see that everyone

is different from other people in some ways, and that these differences are positive things. Help your young teen make a list of the people in his life and identify ways they are different from one another. Give examples of important, respected people who have been successful in their social or professional lives in spite of—or sometimes because of—their differences.

Help your child to understand that life is enhanced by diversity and that society benefits from a variety of individual strengths and weaknesses.

Help your child to accept and cope with her feelings of sadness or loss. Being asked questions about a missing parent can exacerbate feelings of sadness, loss or anger, or cause these feelings to resurface.

Teach your child that experiencing her feelings is normal and expressing them out loud—whether to herself, to you or to trusted friends—can help keep them from overwhelming her.

Give her ample opportunities to express her feelings at home.

If she is having difficulty coping with her situation, seek out appropriate professional help.

Find opportunities for your child to meet with other kids from single-parent families.

Schools, faith organizations, counseling centers and singleparent clubs can offer support groups and social activities for all members of single-parent families. Groups like these give your child a venue for sharing problems and feelings with other kids in similar circumstances. From them he can learn new coping skills, feel less alone and “different” and find out how other kids handle sensitive questions from their peers.

School social workers can often suggest local support groups.

Or, contact Rainbows (www.rainbows.org), a national organization providing peer support programs for children who have suffered the loss of a parent through death or divorce.

Foster healthy self-esteem on a daily basis.

The better your child feels about herself in general, the better she will be able to handle social discomfort or insensitive questions when they arise. Show your child unconditional love, emphasize her strengths rather than her weaknesses and help her accept imperfection in herself and others. Help her to understand that if the other kids see that she feels okay about living in a single parent family, it’s more likely that they will think it’s okay, too, and after their initial curiosity has been satisfied, they are likely to stop asking questions.

Your child may never feel completely comfortable being asked questions like “Where’s your dad?” but he may discover, in answering them confidently, not just a way out of an uncomfortable situation, but also an opportunity to share something about himself with others.

Lisa Schab is a licensed clinical social worker in Libertyville, Illinois, and the stepmother of two, ages 25 and 29. She can be reached at 847-782-1722.

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Organized Kids: A Touch of Strategy and a Ton of Practice Ring in the New Year, Organized and Ready!

Last night I was helping my daughter clean up her room, which was trashed from a sleepover that had ended that morning. Suddenly, I heard something that made my head whip around and wonder where my daughter had gone.

“Mommy, could you help me finish picking up these little things up on the floor? I can’t stand the mess!” Once I realized those words actually came out of my dear, organizationally challenged daughter, I took a deep breathe, smiled and helped her finish the task.

But what happened to my girl? She used to be so messy. Bed made without being told? Shoes, back pack and jacket in the entry, not strewn about like a trail through the living room, dining room and kitchen?

What is going on here? I guess this is just one of those moments when you are reminded that yes, they really are listening.

Research tells us our kids listen, but sometimes it’s tough to believe.

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How do we get our kids to the point of practicing organization? This is such a big issue anytime, but especially after the holidays. We all tend to be full of stuff. We have plenty, so much it can sometimes leave us feeling stifled.

Location, location, locatioN

Here is my formula for organization with kids, complete with a touch of strategy and a ton of practice:

That’s not only true for real estate, you know. When we assign a location for items, we pave the path for organization. We will clip along at a faster pace when we have a spot for everything and we know where that spot exists. Taking the time to put organizational locations in place will save oodles of time and teach your kids the value and power of organization.

Letting go The fine art of purging is

Learning curve I think we have to

essential for true organization; we have to learn to let go. I make it a weekly practice to purge, for myself and my kids. I encourage them to give away and throw away and I make sure they see me doing it and talking about it. At first it is hard. There was a time my kids couldn’t part with a scrap of paper. (Okay, me either.) Now we all have mental lists of people and places we share our used items. For each of my kids, the fine art of letting go was strengthened through practice and modeling.

expect our kids to learn, but I don’t think that means the first time we tell them—or, sometimes the tenth or even hundredth time. It takes a while...a long while. If we don’t take it personally and remain consistent, our kids will eventually get there. I think it probably took 200 times of telling my kids to make their beds before it became checking that it was done and not a reminder to do it—that’s a lot of days. But, if I adapt the mindset that change takes time, if I don’t take it too personally when it hasn’t registered yet, well, why not keep at it? Oh,

and the best way to improve that learning curve? Reinforcement! Kids want our approval almost more than anything. You will make that learning curve SOAR if you catch your kids practicing the changes you want to see. Give it a try and see what happens when you teach your kids to purge, set up organizational locations and accept their learning curve. Who knows when you will turn around and see the table cleared or homework put away or even the bathroom counters wiped down... Dare to dream!

Happy New Year and happy organizing!

Maria Murphy is a speaker, consultant and

writer. Her book and blog column can be found at www.simplyputtogether.com. Her new blog for parents and mentors can be found at www.mentoringsimplyput.blogspot.com.

Maria Murphy writes a monthly mentoring column for Tutor/ Mentor Connection of Chicago. Her column is distributed throughout mentoring agencies of N/E Florida. She is also a columnist for My Nassau Sun, of the Jacksonville Times Union.

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Learning Opportunities For the Family—For Free!

Interactive Fun for All! Four Free Admission Days Four free admission days are available throughout the year, including: Martin Luther King Jr. Day, Jan. 19; President’s Day, Feb. 16; El Día de Los Niños (The Day of the Children), Dec. 26; and Christmas Eve, Dec. 24. Thanks to generous Children’s Museum sponsors and donors, admission is free of charge during all museum hours on these special days (10 a.m.5 p.m. daily, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. on Dec. 24).

Target Free Family Night Did you know you could visit The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis for free? There are several days throughout the year and one night each month for children and families to enjoy all the exhibits and learning opportunities at The Children’s Museum for no charge.

Free admission times are a great way for families to spend time together making memories and learning through interactive fun.

In addition to the four free admission days, the first Thursday of each month The Children’s Museum offers Target Free Family Night from 4-8 p.m. Sponsored generously

by Target, each of these special evenings are filled with activities and events for the entire family to enjoy. Celebrate Black History, learn interesting pumpkin facts or get your little ones ready to go back to school during these evenings of fun, interactive learning.

Each of the free admission times at The Children’s Museum includes activities and events for museum visitors that engage children and their families in fun, learning opportunities. In

honor of the work of Dr. King, special activities take place museum-wide in celebration and remembrance of Martin Luther King Jr. and the legacy he left for all of us. On Presidents’ Day visitors are treated to special activities in commemoration of our nation’s presidents throughout history. El Día de Los Niños is a national celebration of children recognized museum-wide with music, games and activities for the entire family.

Christmas Eve is extra special when spent at The Children’s Museum as visitors enjoy a ride on the holiday-favorite Yule Slide, decorate cookies in the Cookie Café or take advantage of one last visit with Santa before he embarks on his big night.

Memberships Museum Memberships offer free museum visits year-round through a one-time cost. Starting at $80 for the individual + 1 level, memberships are a great value for anyone visiting the museum more than once in a year and pay for themselves in two museum visits for a family of four.

Memberships include free admission for one full year for all immediate family

members, so the larger your family, the more you save.

Museum members enjoy a variety of benefits including: free Carousel rides; a subscription to Extra!, the museum’s quarterly magazine and program guide; a 20 percent discount on preschool and family classes; a 15 percent discount in The Children’s Museum Store; a 10 percent discount on birthday parties; reduced-price Haunted House tickets; and much more. Museum members also enjoy special museum events, advance tickets for theater shows, early admission times and the chance to enjoy new museum exhibits before they open to the public.

The Children’s Museum is a great way for your family to learn and grow together while having fun, and free admission times at the museum are a great way to take advantage of all that The Children’s Museum has to offer.

Jaclyn Falkenstein, Public Relations Coordinator for the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

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Warm Winter Musts for Moms Stay Hot When It’s Cold Outside

Kiss the Difference

Moms on the Move Get Organized While we may not be able to make our lives less busy, we can take steps to streamline our schedules. Mom Essentials from Mommy Track’d can help you get one step closer to an organized life. A purse-sized personal planner, Mom Essentials features a year’s worth of weekly calendar pages that is completely portable. More than just a day planner, Mom Essentials includes tear-out lists for groceries, contact sheets for important people and much more.

So get your busy year off to a well-managed start and see how good it feels to have life under control—at least some of the time. Available from www.mommytrackd.com for $14.95.

Dry, cracked lips aren’t pretty, but they can be all too common this time of year. To keep lips soft and moisturized, keep a tube of Oh Wow! For Lips close at hand. Oh Wow! is all natural and vegan-friendly, with no preservatives or petroleum products. Best of all, it comes in indulgent flavors like spiced chai latte and mint chocolate—proving the old adage “once on the lips, forever on the hips” is not always true. Oh Wow! For Lips is $4.25 for a tube or $11.25 for a set of three from www.ohwowforlips.com.

Wrap Yourself in Cozy Comfort, The cold and dreary days of January leave us wanting to retreat to the sanctuary of our home after a long day, so wrap yourself up in cozy comfort with this lush organic cotton Kimono robe from Under the Canopy. The Kimono robe is both simple and sumptuous, and is available in three subtle shades. Get it at www.nimli.com for $48.

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Your new year’s resolution may be to exercise more, yet your wardrobe just doesn’t make the cut. Baggy tee shirts and frumpy sweat pants just aren’t the motivation you need to drag yourself to the gym or out for your morning run. To get inspired, grab some new workout wear. Treat your workouts as you do any other part of your day and dress appropriately in clothing that fits well and flatters your shape, and also prevents injury and enhances your performance. Not only will you look the part, but your body will be protected from the stresses and strains of exercise while keeping you cool and dry. The time you spend putting on your athletic wear will get your mind in gear for a great workout and give you more incentive to keep it up.

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NEW YEAR, NEW YOU: Taking a Personalized Approach to Weight Loss

A Four-Step Program With A Healthy Approach Obesity has become an American epidemic. According to the National Institutes of Health, nearly twothirds of U.S. adults are overweight or obese, which leads to devastating and costly health problems, reduced life expectancy and negative stigma and discrimination. This epidemic has also lead to a multi-billion dollar weight-loss industry filled with books, pills, products and programs designed to help the masses lose massive weight.

But one local woman, Beth Thompson, takes a different approach: designing a personalized program based on individual body type and needs. Instead of following a program based on averages, Thompson advocates targeting your specific needs to improve your body composition, lose fat and develop a healthy lifestyle.

After earning a degree in kinesiology from Indiana University, Thompson earned an associates degree in paramedicine and worked as a paramedic in emergency medical services. “Living on an ambulance, I became very aware of the portion sizes at fast food restaurants, and their catastrophic effects on people medically and aesthetically,” Thompson says. “But then I realized it was not just the fast food chains. It was everywhere; and America’s ‘fix’ was not to limit portion sizes but to limit certain categories of nutrients to ‘trick’ to body into losing weight. This was very frustrating to watch.”

Thompson returned to school and earned an Indiana teacher’s license for secondary health and physical education. At the high school level, she hoped to change the thinking of Indiana’s youth. But then her plan got bigger.

She learned of a process called Indirect Calorimetry to test resting metabolic rates, which is available to elite athletes and many critically ill patients. “I decided this service should be available to all people,” she says.

Thompson founded Target Metabolism with a simple philosophy: Weight management is a factor of “calories in” versus “calories out” . . . period. Defining your personal weight management goals is the key to Target Metabolism’s program’s four-step program:

Test your metabolism. By simply relaxing and breathing into a tube, FDA-approved equipment measures how many calories your body needs every day. Based on these results, Target Metabolism staff can determine how many calories your body needs to stay healthy and burn fat.

“No more guessing. No more basing your needs on what is recommended for someone else of the same age, weight and height,” Thompson explains. “Many of us assume that if we have not been successful at losing weight then our metabolism must be slow. That is not always true. In fact, we have coached many of our clients to eat more and they are losing weight as a result.”

Body composition testing, instead of scale weigh-ins, to determine fat loss. Using a machine called a BodPod, which is also used by the National Football League, you can determine your percentage of

body fat versus lean tissue and tell whether the weight you are losing is fat (good) or muscle (bad) — something a scale cannot tell.

Consultations with a registered dietician.

A registered dietician reviews all testing results and provides personalized direction to help reach your goals.

“By having access to our medical professionals at all times, you can be certain that you are always receiving credible information, not simply a representative who wants to sell you their weight loss system,” Thompson says.

Make healthy lifestyle changes. Target Metabolism encourages simple lifestyle changes that can have a big impact on your health, from food journaling and trying new fruits and vegetables to getting enough sleep, exercising and taking a few minutes to relax each day. As a reward for implementing these changes, Target Metabolism offers massage therapy to manage stress without reaching for food.

Through ClubMET, Target Metabolism offers its all-inclusive weight-loss program, or clients can schedule independent services, such as metabolism or BodPod testing.

Target Metabolism is located at 10234 E. U.S. 36 in Avon. To learn more, call 271-5030 or visit www.targetmetabolism.com.

Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child

and lives in Brownsburg with her husband and two children.

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Bob Sanders: To most Hoosiers and football fans alike, he is known as a powerhouse. “The Hit Man” had a shining year in 2007, bringing in a Super Bowl win as well as the title of NFL Defensive Player of the Year. And though he was out much of the 2008-2009 season due to injuries, his return to the team was eagerly awaited (and highly appreciated). Yet Bob does not stop there. Another passion near and dear to his heart has also found its way into his busy schedule: helping others achieve higher education. Though this might not bring in the same accolades as does playing football, it allows Bob to reach out to his community and share his blessings, which is highly appreciated in its own right.

Monday, December 8th marked the official launch of the Bob Sanders Chasing Dreams Foundation. Its goal is to inspire potential college students to consider college as a requirement for planning their futures. To Bob, “education is the key to reaching your dreams,” and when he’s not on the field hitting wide receivers, he’s encouraging kids to hit the books. Growing up in Erie, Pennsylvania, he was raised in an environment in which education was stressed, mainly because his parents were unable to finish high school. “They pushed me and my siblings to work hard to go to college in order to have more choices in life,” he says. And work hard he did: he was eventually offered a scholarship to the University of Iowa, where he played strong safety.

It was there that Bob was inspired to start this organization due to his own struggles with time management. He said he “started late in the planning process” of his own career because of juggling a full course load and football simultaneously.

“I would like the Dream Chasers to get their minds focused early and start the thinking process of what they would eventually like to do professionally,” he says.

The Bob Sanders Chasing Dreams Foundation aims are to get kids in the “zone” by offering the tools and resources nec-

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essary when looking into college. Bob sees this as an ongoing partnership with students, through which he will provide leadership and inspiration. Urban middle and high school students will be offered SAT/ACT preparation, tutoring, mentoring, college tours, life skills training and cultural enrichment classes, all in an effort to prepare them for success. His hope is to increase the number of students that become first generation college students, much like he did, as well as to inspire them to tackle higher education head-on.

To kick off the program, the foundation has teamed up with a group of 21 eighth grade students at Crispus Attucks Medical Magnet High School. Bob, along with numerous helpers, will work with these students from eighth grade up to twelfth, providing them with any and all help possible in terms of college preparation. The program will enrich the educational opportunities they already have and show them that their dreams are not unreachable. The inaugural group officially begins in 2009 and Bob sees this as the first stepping stone, with many more students getting help in years to come.

Much like he is on the field, Bob intends to be very hands on with the foundation. He will participate in every aspect of its operations, as it is his vision (and his playbook) the foundation is based upon. Busy as he is, he says it is important to him to be involved, so he will make time whenever he can. But overall, his message rings clear: “I want these kids to realize that your dream has to start somewhere, and to me education is that foundation on which you can work to make your dreams a reality.”

To learn more about the Bob Sanders Chasing Dreams Foundation, visit www. bobsandersfoundation.org.

Kimberly Laughlin, our copy editor, is a graduate of Indiana University’s School of Journalism. She recently moved to Chicago, where she lives in an apartment the size of a shoebox. She enjoys exploring the city (or rather, getting lost in the city), reading anything by Jodi Picoult or Wally Lamb, bargain shopping and spending time with her eight brothers and sisters.

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Find Sanders’ story inspirational? There are ways you too can help area youth in their quest for a brighter future. The children posing on our cover are there thanks to a charity auction through St. Vincent and Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Indiana. It was done to help raise awareness of the need for Big Brothers and Big Sisters in the Indianapolis area. According to CEO Tonja Eagan, the organization served 1,200 kids this past year, and more volunteers are needed to become involved as adult mentors. There is an increase in need among at risk kids, and men (especially African Americans) are being asked to step up and donate their time and talents. Tonja says the waiting list for African American boys can be about six months, and most of these kids are from single family homes in which there are no male role models. These children need someone to look up to as a guide and a friend, and that someone could be you.

There are a variety of opportunities available within this program. With a focus on one-onone mentoring, it has been a time-honored tradition in the U.S. For over 100 years. Just think: if you have time to grab a quick lunch with a friend or make a trip to the mall, you have time to make an impact in the life of someone special. Visit www.bbbsci.com for more details, or call (317) 921-2201.

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Getting Your Child Involved in Music Melodious Benefits Just Might Ensue

During my first Mommy and Me class, the instructor asked us parents to share favorite ways we use music to play with our babies. It was a simple icebreaker, yet I was like a deer in headlights. The only thing that came to mind was the jingle from the Oprah and Friends satellite radio station, for crying out loud. That was the one ditty I caught myself humming on a regular basis--not particularly impressive or entertaining for my son. I realized at that moment that talk radio was all I ever seemed to play. I felt like the worst mother in the room.

It’s an understatement to say that I am musically challenged. I never played an instrument and my singing career ended in the sixth grade when Mrs. Sears relegated me to the boys’ section of the school choir due to my inability to hit even one note.

Years later in this Mommy and Me class, I realized that my son was suffering from my lack of musical knowledge and that I had better change my ways for his sake. I started by turning the dial from talk to tunes on my car radio on my way home from class that day.

Science shows music has profound impact on a child’s physical, cognitive and emotional development, and the effect starts from the very beginning of life. Helene Silver Freda, the senior program developer and trainer for Gymboree Play and Music, says that research reveals infants have memory for songs heard in utero and they can perceive and recognize many aspects of music. A friend of mine, who is much more musical than I can ever dream of being, attests to this. She and her husband frequently played music for their son before he was born, and she literally felt that he was most responsive to Beck songs. Once he was born, Beck was the only sure thing to calm him down the first few days of his life.

Hillary Blake, director of education for Meridian Music, a Central Indiana music store and education center, says it’s never too early to start helping your child develop an appreciation for music. “You can start from infancy by singing and dancing with your children and moving around with them,” she says.

“When they get a little older, take them to different events like concerts.”

Gymboree’s Freda agrees. “Activities that stimulate a child’s sense of sight, hearing, touch and movement are the vehicle for all physical, social-emotional and intellectual development. Music making involves singing, listening, playing, moving and interacting,” she says. “The multi-sensory nature of music is precisely why its impact on learning is so broad and supports every area of a child’s development.”

“The sequences and patterns of melody and rhythm found in songs, combined with interactive musical play between parent and child stimulate brain activity and literally grow the brain. Consider how songs in childhood support language and memory by making it easier to learn and remember a series of verbal information such as the alphabet, your name and address, or the states of the union,” adds Freda.

Sally Eppert, owner of Eppert Piano Studio in Fishers, says that music is good for the mind as well as the heart. “Music makes you smarter,” she says. “It makes it easier for you to understand science and math. It also touches your soul in a way that no other extracurricular activity can. It helps develop your emotional well being in a way that soccer cannot and is something you can do for the rest of your life.

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Here are a few tips I learned from these experts, as well as other parents, that you can use to help get your child interested and involved in music.

• Listen to and sing music at home and in the car. There’s more to radio than Oprah and Friends, after all.

• Learn about other kids who play music.

Famous kids like Miley Cyrus are interesting, but so are regular kids who post performances on sites like YouTube.

• Sing to and with your children everyday. Even make up songs and sing them during daily routines like brushing teeth, cleaning up toys or driving to school.

• Introduce your child to a variety of musical styles. Young children don’t have musical preferences yet, so make it a point to help broaden their musical perspective from the beginning.

• Attend live concerts and band performances. Be sure to arrive at events early enough to watch the band warm up.

• Create a music area complete with age-appropriate instruments in your child’s play space.

• Have fun with Wii Music or a child-sized Karaoke machine.

• Enroll in a music class taught by a qualified music instructor. The earlier you start with regular exposure, the more quickly your child will progress in his or her musical development.

• Participate with your child in the music programs and encourage their efforts.

• Watch videos on iTunes and dance your heart out with your kids.

Fortunately we now know enough about music and its ability to influence the brain and soul to see great value in providing a musical foundation for our kids. And for those of us parents who could use a little more music in our lives, the good news is it’s never too late to start. I’m even considering piano lessons.

Carrie Bishop is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

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Camp: Fulfilling the Promises of a New Year The Benefits Extend Beyond the Fun

The first of January speaks to most people about hope. Like a brand-new notebook, the New Year says “fresh start” and brings change large and small in our lives. To create those changes, we make promises to ourselves to do new things—or to do familiar things a different way.

Merriam-Webster defines “promise” as “to pledge to do, bring about, or provide.” If “resolution” seems like the New Year’s “R word,” maybe a new tradition of New Year promises—in the place of resolutions—is just the thing to help all of us make positive changes.

Many of your New Year’s hopes and desires probably center on family, especially your children. In the coming year, you can promise your child new experiences, growth, fun and caring. The special moments of childhood that provide those learning experiences come from many sources. The unique experience of camp gives children all of those things—and more.

In the New Year, you can promise your child . . .

Independence and resiliency

Many parents have understandable concerns about their children growing up in today’s world. Those worries become counterproductive, though, when they get in the way of children’s experiences in taking healthy risks. Camp offers the chance for them to take those risks in a structured, nurturing community of professionals who can guide children on a journey of selfawareness and self-reliance.

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Life experiences that increase self-confidence “I can do this!” “I’m good at this!” “I thought this would be hard, but it wasn’t so bad.” “I guess it’s OK to try something new.” Exploration and discovery are key elements of the camp experience. At camp, children experience successes that promote self-confidence and future academic growth. Independent research published by the American Camp Association® (ACA) shows that parents and camp staff, as well as children, report significant growth in several areas, including independence and values and decisions.

A new perspective

Maybe your son or daughter has discovered a special interest in photography or the performing arts. There are camps to encourage those newly-found passions.

Beyond traditional camp activities, camps offer programs that address many interests. The opportunity to explore these means of self-expression in a noncompetitive environment allows for natural development of curiosity and talent—and maybe even starts your child on a new academic or career path.

Broaden horizons

Not only does camp enhance campers’ skills, it also provides the chance to learn more about the world through new friendships, activities that promote cooperation and challenges that foster decision-making abilities and leadership. “Mentor” time spent with caring adults, as found at camp, helps children learn new ways of being part of a wider social world.

Valuable time spent in nature

Whether it’s a hike in the woods or a wilderness trip, immersion in the natural world teaches children how to appreciate the environment. Studies have also shown that nature can be therapeutic, reducing the stress of everyday life and, in some instances, improving academic performance.

You can even promise yourself that this year you’ll know just where to go to find the information to help you decide how to provide your child with the camp experience. To discover the right camp for your child, research camp options online. All types of camp programs can be found in ACA’s searchable database at www.CampParents.org. The Web site also provides an extensive array of articles that will give you suggestions about how to choose a camp, as well as plan for it. If you’re wondering if there’s a camp that will fit your budget, the database helps you search by cost. Also, keep in mind that 90 percent of camps offer some sort of financial assistance.

This year, you can promise yourself and your children new experiences and new ways of doing things to bring you closer to your dreams for you and your family. One of those ways is to explore for your child the promise of camp. © 2009 American Camping Association, Inc. With

nearly three decades of experience working with children, youth and families, Peg L. Smith is the chief executive officer of the American Camp Association® (ACA). With up to 300 health, safety and programming standards, ACA is the only national association that accredits camps and promotes a safe and fun camp experience with developmental benefits backed by independent research. To learn more about ACA, please visit www.

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Private Schools

Private School Review offers these preparation tips: • Dress as if you were meeting the governor or another important official. This is not the time to make a fashion statement or dye your hair green.

• Don’t chew gum.

• Be polite and respectful.

• It’s OK to be nervous, but keep smiling. The staff member knows you are nervous. How you handle this new and unfamiliar experience is something she is watching out for.

• If you have questions, don’t be afraid to ask them.

Selecting the right school for your child is just the first hurdle in getting your child the best private school education. Next comes the application process, filled with tedious forms, crucial deadlines and a list of requirements that can range from tests and interviews to work samples and transcripts.

It can be a daunting task; but we have done some of the legwork to make it more manageable. After talking to local admissions staff, here are a few simple tips to help your family navigate the world of private school admissions.

Get Organized

All school assignments have due dates, and the admissions process is no different. Carefully read through all the material you get from your child’s potential school, and make a list of any upcoming deadlines—both for admissions and financial aid. Keep the list handy and review it often.

Gather report cards, results of standardized tests and any academic review information for the past few years.

Many schools will want to review this information with the application.

Ace the Interview

Private schools want to get to know potential students, and the best way to do that is to talk with them.

Information in an admission packet—test scores, letters of recommendation, an applicant essay—provides a snapshot of a potential student. With the interview, admissions staff is able to gain a broader understanding of a student’s personality, goals and character. “We want to learn more about them as individuals rather than just looking at them as an application,” says Diane Szymanski, vice president for enrollment management and financial aid at Cathedral High School.

Interviewers work hard to put students at ease.

“They should be themselves more than anything else,” Szymanski says. In most situations, parents attend the interview with their children; although, the meeting is distinctly centered on the student. “It is helpful for a family to be able to articulate what their child likes to do, what is difficult for them, and the type of environment that reflects their family style,” says Melinda Fisher, director of admission and communications at St. Richard’s School.

“This enables us to determine if the match between family and school will likely be successful.”

Students & families can also get a more in-depth picture of the school’s values and philosophy. It should not be a one-way meeting.

“The interview process should not be stressful,” Fisher says. “An interview at St. Richard’s is really a time for us to get to know each other. We provide information about our curriculum and the strengths of a St. Richard’s education and find out the type of environment a family is looking for. Because the investment in a private school education is substantial, it is important that a family chooses a school that reflects their family values and lifestyle. It is a partnership that deserves honesty and thoughtful consideration and should not be viewed as an uncomfortable process. St. Richard’s wants to be an active partner with parents; to do this, we need to know that both the school and parents have the same goals and objectives for the child.”

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• Send a simple hand-written thank you note the day after the interview.

For younger children, a small-group observation is more common than a formal interview. Not all private schools conduct the traditional formal interview. At Sycamore School, a private school designed for academically gifted students in preschool through eighth grade, staff members get to know potential students during campus visits. “At Sycamore, we don’t conduct formal interviews for admission. Instead, we meet with each family when they come to tour the school, and we have each child visit the school as part of the admissions process,” says Susan Karpicke, Ed.D., interim co-head of school and director of admissions at Sycamore School. “Our youngest applicants visit in small groups for a play-based observation.

Our teachers interact with the children and provide feedback about academic, social/emotional, and behavioral characteristics. Older children shadow in their current grade level. This gives them a chance to see what a typical day is like at Sycamore, and it gives our teachers the opportunity to do some academic assessments with them.”

St Richard’s, an independent Episcopal day school for children in preschool through eighth grade, also conducts shadowing days to give potential students a chance to interact with peers and become familiar with the school’s teaching style. “From the school’s standpoint, shadow days allow teachers to view learning styles and social fit of incoming students,” Fisher says. “To make a good impression, a student should come to a shadow day with genuine interest and enthusiasm for classroom activities and should be polite to peers and adults.”

Surviving standardized tests

Some type of testing is part of nearly all private school admission requirements. Commonly used independent school tests are the HSPT (High School Placement Test), the ISEE (Independent School Entrance Examination) and the SSAT (Secondary School Admission Test).

These tests typically assess language and mathematics skills, including reading comprehension, vocabulary, reasoning and mathematical concepts and problems. Students are tested on knowledge that has been learned over several years, so cramming isn’t helpful. But learning more about the test is. Guides and practice tests are available in print and online to help students familiarize themselves with the format of standardized tests and try sample questions. Take a practice test and understand how they are scored.

While students can’t really study for a standardized admissions test, they can come to a test well rested and relaxed. “I always tell parents that the best way to prepare is to make sure their child gets a good night’s sleep and has a good breakfast,” Karpicke says. Parents often put added pressure on their child before an admissions test. It’s important that parents model a worry-free attitude. “Oftentimes, parents are more stressed than the children are about the evaluation,” Karpicke says. “That kind of anxiety is contagious! If the parents are relaxed about the evaluation, the children will most likely be relaxed.”

Encourage children to do their best on tests, but don’t put undue pressure on the results.

Remember that the result of a standardized

test is not the only criteria used for admission. “Encouragement for a child to do their personal best is always appropriate, with reassurance that their best abilities are absolutely perfect. All students have different skills, and schools recognize that,” Fisher says. “Educational testing provides educators with a snapshot of a child’s academic abilities,” Fisher says. “It is but one part of the admission process and should not be viewed by families as the sole determining factor for admission.”

For younger children, schools often evaluate students through observation and skills-based activities. “Testing for young children resembles play, and they should enter the testing looking forward to playing with new toys and manipulatives,” Fisher explains.

Tame Tuition

The thought of funding a child’s private school education—often amounting to the cost of college tuition—can be overwhelming; but help is available. As you submit your child’s application materials, begin asking about financial aid, payment plans, scholarships and other tuition options. Nearly all schools offer some kind of financial aid, and your family might qualify for assistance.

Regardless of your income, it doesn’t hurt to investigate the options; but simply applying to a school does not mean you have applied for financial aid consideration.

“It’s a separate applications process from the admissions process,” Szymanski explains.

Many schools use an independent organization to help assess a family’s ability to pay for private education and to help families feel confident that their request for financial aid is being treated objectively and professionally. Completely different forms and deadlines apply, so ask for specifics.

Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child

and lives in Brownsburg with her husband and two children.

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—W.B. Yeats

Brownsburg

Maria Montessori International School 431 E. Northfield Dr. Brownsburg 317-852-3900 brownsburgmontessori@msn.com www.indymontessori.org Ages: 2 to 6 years Offering a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive selfimage. Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. The lead teachers possess bachelor degree and certification in Montessori Education. Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori School!

Carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Emily & Scott Rudicel 1402 W. Main St. Carmel 317-580-0699 info@carmelmontessori.com www.carmelmontessori.com Ages: Pre-school through Kindergarten.

Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 10 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available.

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Clay Montessori Peggy White 463 East Main St. Carmel 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850 Ages: 3-6 Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori). Morning, afternoon and full-day programs.

The Little Lamb Amy VanBruggen 1609 E. Greyhound Pass Carmel 317-848-3580 thelittlelamb@sbcglobal.net www.thelittlelamb.com Ages: We accept children ages 12 months- 12 years. Full, part time, before and after school care.

We are an independent, non-denominational childcare center providing care from a Christian perspective. We offer full-day, half-day, part-time, full-time, kindergarten and before/ after school schedules. The A Beka curriculum is implemented for ages two through Kindergarten. Please call or visit for more information. Financial aid available. Accept CCDF.

The Montessori Learning Center Elizabeth Williams 1402 W. Main St. Carmel 317-846-8182 elizabeth@themontessorilearningcenter.com www.themontessorilearningcenter.com Ages: Grades 1-3 The Montessori Learning Center Elementary program focuses on developing the whole child through interaction with an interdisciplinary curriculum.

Our program specifically meets the

needs of each child and is aligned with Indiana State Standards.

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Montessori Academy of Indianapolis 7507 N. Michigan Road Indianapolis 317-291-5557 montessoriacademyofindy@msn.com www.indymontessori.org Ages: 1 year to 9 years old Montessori Academy is international in every sense of the word from teachers, students, curriculum and language. Montessori Academy has the only Montessori Toddler program in Indianapolis. Montessori Academy recruits worldwide to find the best educators where 50% of our teachers hold Master Degrees along with Montessori Certification. Our highly trained staff has a strong passion for teaching, are dedicated to the education of all children and devoted to nurturing the whole child academically, physically and socially. Our children are happy to come to school and enthused about learning all in a calm, respectful and safe environment. Discover the Montessori Academy Difference. Low student to teacher ratio of 1:5 for toddlers and 1:10 for pre-k through elementary. $395+ with financial aid available. 7-5:30 year round.

Central IUPUI Center for Young Children Beth Jeglum, Director 321 Limestone Indianapolis 317-274-3508 bjeglum@iupui.edu childcare.iupui.edu

Ages: 2-5 year olds NAEYC Accredited; State Licensed. Spanish at age 2. Located on the IUPUI campus, the Center for Young Children offers a hands-on approach to learning and play that helps children develop to their full potential. The 30,000-square-foot facility was designed to foster the development of young children. $162-$221 per week. 6:30-6 M-F. Call today for a tour!

Fishers

Fishers Montessori Peggy White 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd. Fishers 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850 Ages: 3-9 A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary.

Certification through American Montessori Society. 9-12, 12:30-3, 9-3.

Primrose School at Gray Eagle Mindy Smith 12290 Olio Road (Olio Road between 116th street and 126th street) Fishers 317-577-9480 mindy@primrosegrayeagle.com Ages: Infants thru full day kindergarten.

Before/after care available.

At Primrose School at Gray Eagle we offer much more than a daycare experience. Our exclusive Balanced Learning curriculum prepares your child for academic success while fully integrating character development - creating a well-rounded young individual. Our safe, secure environment will provide you with peace-of-mind, knowing that your child is safe, happy and growing everyday! Full Time: $220 - $320 per week depending on age. Visit www.

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Geist

My Backyard Fine Arts Preschool at Geist Sports Academy 11960 East 62nd Street Indianapolis 317-823-7734 www.geistsportsacademy.com Ages: 2 year-Pre K (5 year) NOW ENROLLING FOR 2008-2009. Children will discover their unique selves and learn about the world around them through exploring the visual arts, creative movement and music appreciation. 9-11:45 a.m. M-Fri; MWF 9-1:30pm.

Meridian Kessler Wee Folk Child Care

Meridian Kessler Neighborhood Indianapolis 317-926-3640 Ages: 4 weeks+ Quality in-home child care serving caring families for 20 years. (CPR, 1st aid certified, and state licensed). Two meals and one snack provided daily along with baby food and regular formula. We provide quality learning through play in a non-smoking Christian environment. Preschool program providing Kindergarten prep is available. $130/week. 7:15-5:30 M-F.

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Montessori Academy of Indianapolis 7507 N. Michigan Road Indianapolis 317-291-5557 montessoriacademyofindy@msn.com www.indymontessori.org Ages: 1 year to 9 years old Montessori Academy is international in every sense of the word from teachers, students, curriculum and language. Montessori Academy has the only Montessori Toddler program in Indianapolis. Montessori Academy recruits worldwide to find the best educators where 50% of our teachers hold Master Degrees along with Montessori Certification. Our highly trained staff has a strong passion for teaching, are dedicated to the education of all children and devoted to nurturing the whole child academically, physically and socially. Our children are happy to come to school and enthused about learning all in a calm, respectful and safe environment. Discover the Montessori Academy Difference. Low student to teacher ratio of 1:5 for toddlers and 1:10 for pre-k through elementary. $395+ with financial aid available. 7-5:30 year round.

Multiple Locations AYS Inc.

Various Locations throughout Indiana 317-283-3817 Ages: 3 yrs - 6th grade AYS operates youth programs At-YourSchool, including before- and after-school, early childhood, kindergarten, and summer programs. At AYS, children receive homework help, hands-on learning, art & music enrichment, exercise, nutritious snacks, socialization and FUN! Our highly trained staff makes AYS the safest place for kids. Visit our website to see if we are at your school!

Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives: ICPC Multiple Locations in Indianapolis Area For schools, see below. ICPC

Line: 317-767-7596 Ages: Preschool classes for ages 2-5; other programs vary - Kindergarten, Stay & Play, Enrichment/Extended Days.

Indianapolis Area Preschool and Kindergarten Cooperatives Cooperative Preschools: great for your child, great for you!

Children and parents learn and grow together in the classroom with caring, experienced teachers. Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives (ICPC) member schools are: Apple House: 6121 E. County Rd 100 S, Avon, 797-5925 Butler: 2411 Indianapolis Ave, Indy, 226-4287 Downey: 111 S. Downey Rd, Indy, 359-5304 Edgewood: 4040 E. Thompson Rd, Indy, 767-7730 Fishers Point: 9959 E. 126th St, Fishers, 767-4312 Geist Orchard: 7879 N. 700 West, McCordsville, 336-7008 Meridian Hills Nursery School and Kindergarten: 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indy, 255-0831 Meridian Street: 5500 N. Meridian St, Indy, 767-3003 Northeast Cooperative Preschool and Kindergarten: 5805 E. 56th St, Indy, 592-9790 Parkview: 4550 central Ave, Indy, 380-0628 Speedway: 3000 N. High School Rd, Indy, 356-2804 Willowcreek: 8170 Hague Rd, Indy, 578-5488

Polly Panda Preschool and Bridgford Kindergarten Gail Hacker & Tammy Clark Shannon Ford & Mandy Galle 2944 E. 56th St. and 17645 Oakmont Dr. Indianapolis/Noblesville 317-257-9128 (Indy) 31773-0387 (Noblesville) pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net Ages: Six weeks through Kindergarten Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment, which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff.

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A Little Angel’s Child Care Center Alice Glenn-Artis 2254 W. 86th Street Indianapolis 317-872-8080 alittleangel@att.net Ages: 6 weeks - 12 years (before & after care) Description: A Christian learning environment with a very diverse student population. We strive to satisfy all children’s needs and offer a well-rounded program stressing learning through directed play, which emphasizes “Reading, Writing, Arithmetic and Respect.” Conveniently located at North Willow Mall (86th & Township Line Rd). Summer programs for 1st-6th grade. Extended care available.

Beginnings Parents’ Day Out and Preschool First Baptist Church of Indianapolis 8600 N College, Indianapolis, IN 46240 Carol Mann 317-574-6454 cmann@fbcindy.org www.fbcindy.org Ages/Grades: 6 months - Preschool Beginnings is designed to provide secure, loving care for young children and to of-

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fer parents a consistent time to care for themselves. Offering flexibility for days of choice, Beginnings strives to meet the physical, spiritual, social and emotional needs of children from six months through age five. Openings available now.

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center

Joanie Waldman 600 W. 70th St. Indianapolis 317-259-6854 jwaldman@bez613.org www.bez613.org Ages: 12 mos.+, 18 mos.+, 2’s+ (8:5012:30 or 3pm and choice of days).

3’s+ (8:50-3 pm and choice of days).

4’s+/PreK and K (5 full-day program 8:50 am-3 pm) OPTIONS FOR ALL: Flexible early drop off at 7:30. After school program until 6pm/5:30 on Fri. School opens on August 19, 2009.

Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts’ Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love!

Bureau of Jewish Education Elaine Fairfield, E.C. Director 6711 Hoover Rd. Indianapolis 317-255-3124 efairfield@bjeindy.org Ages: 2 years to Kindergarten The BJE offers Preschool, Jr. Kindergarten and Full Day Kindergarten programs for ages 2 - 6. Special area teachers for: Music, Library, Creative Movement, Swim, Gym, Hebrew and Art. Our developmental program encourages your child through curiosity, exploration and active participation. Extended days and morning care are offered.

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool Christy Whaley 5500 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis 317-253-0472 cwhaley@msumc.org www.msumc.org Ages: Nursery School and Preschool The Children’s Day In Nursery School is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values. It is designed to offer children 9 months to 3 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced caregivers.

Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. CDI Preschool program provides a quality developmentally appropriate education for 3, 4 and 5 year olds.

Program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, First Steps in Music (ICC) and Book Club. 3’s: T & Th, 4/5’s MWF. 9-2:30 pm. Summer Camp available.

Children’s Circle Regina Covey for Registration Director Susan Stewart for Curriculum 7700 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis 317-252-5517 rcovey@secondchurch.org Ages: 7 months to 5 years Children’s Circle is a weekday, developmentally appropriate, activity-based

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Christian program. We embrace excellence in education by nurturing the whole child -- physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually. Activities are designed to develop motor skills, problem solving, creativity, and independent thinking. Mother’s Day Out provides an opportunity for young children to be cared for safely and lovingly.

Most children come two or three days per week from 9-2:30.

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing John Drake or Kelly Belt 9111 N. Haverstick Rd. Indianapolis 317-575-6508 jdrake@churchatthecrossing.org www.churchatthecrossing.org Ages: 12mos - Pre-K 5’s Our Mothers Day Out (12-35mos) 9:152:30 and Preschool (3yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, a wide variety of learning materials, & friendships, with readiness activities woven through each study unit.

Need longer hours? Try our childcare ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 2-PreK 6:30-6pm M-F. Call for information and to schedule tours.

Fairview Early Childhood Program Melissa Peterson 4609 N. Capital Ave. Indianapolis 317-253-4990 mpeterson@fairviewpresbyterian.org www.fairviewpresbyterian.org Ages: 12 mo-5 yrs. (or up to Kindergarten) Fairview ECP has a developmental, experienced based curriculum in a warm and inclusive environment. Curriculum is designed to promote positive social behavior, respect for diversity, positive self-concept, independence, creativity and critical thinking skills. Come and visit us!

International School of Indiana

Bob Brown 4330 N. Michigan Road Indianapolis 317-923-1951 bbrown@isind.org www.insind.org Ages: 3 years old-12th grade ISI is founded on the belief that an introduction to a second language, exposure to different nationalities and ethnic backgrounds and an International Baccalaureate-driven curriculum all work together to foster critical and independent thought. $12,250 pre-k through 8th grade and $12,960 for High School. Financial aid available for qualifiers.

KinderCare-Woodfield Crossing Meagan Koeneman 8485 Woodfield Crossing Indianapolis 317-257-3911 070739@klcorp.com www.kindercare.com/070739 Ages: 6wks - 12 years Monday-Friday 6:30am - 6:00pm. Tuition varies with phonics and math programs.

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Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery School & Kindergarten 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indianapolis School phone 255-0831 Ages/Grades: Ages 2, 3, 4 and Kindergarten Founded in 1960, Meridian Hills Cooperative School is dedicated to helping children, parents and teachers grow together.

Classes provide a positive, nurturing environment for 2-year-olds through Kindergarten with a special emphasis on parent education. Parents help daily in the spacious classrooms, on a beautiful half-acre playground and with a caring, experienced staff. Northside.

Montessori Centres Lynne Boone, Director 563 Westfield Blvd. W. Dr. Indianapolis 317-257-2224 montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net Ages: 2 1/2-3rd grade Stressing peace and respect for all, we’ve worked with children to develop criticalthinking and time-management skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 2 1/2-3rd grade. Our classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced. Our wellrounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, and computer labs. True Montessori environment serving children at all levels from gifted to special needs. Pre/K: 8:30-11:30 or 8:30-3:15.

Northside Montessori School Judy Edwards 1224 E. 52nd St. Indianapolis 317-251-2979 judithe9@aol.com Ages: 3 to 6 year olds and 1st through 6th grade Located in Broad Ripple area. NMS provides an environment with dedicated teachers to meet each child’s curiosities and natural love of learning. Call for an appointment to visit us to fully appreciate Montessori in action! 8:30-11:30 or 8:30-3pm.

Park Tudor School David Amstutz 7200 N. College Ave. Indianapolis 317-415-2700 info@parktudor.org Ages: Preschool (age 3) - Grade 12 An independent school for students in preschool through grade 12, Park Tudor School’s mission is to provide the highest quality, well-rounded college preparatory education within an atmosphere that is responsive to the needs of the child and parents. Call for more information on Open House dates.

College prep; Global Scholars program; 21 AP classes; Spanish beginning at age 3. Pre/ Jr K (1/2 day) - $8,750; Senior K-5th - $14,590; 6-12th - $15,470. Financial aid available. Contact Reba Cooper at 317/415-2776.

St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs Bobbi Main-Jackson, Dir. 100 West 86th Street Indianapolis 317-844-3399 mainb@stlukesumc.com www.stlukesumc.com Ages: Preschool 3 yrs (by Sept INDY’S CHILD * JANUARY 2009

1)-5 yrs, Parents’ Day Out 10 mos (by Sept 1)-3 yrs.

Developmentally appropriate play-based curriculum provided in which children grow socially, emotionally, cognitively, and physically. Readiness skills, motor development and music incorporated into curriculum. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience in a warm and loving environment for parents of young children to have time for themselves. Open registration for 2009-10 Feb 9 @ 9:30 am. Tours available. Hours are 9-1.

Sycamore School Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions 1750 W. 64th Street Indianapolis 317-202-2500 skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org Ages: 2 years 8 months - 8th grade.

At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners.

Art, music, Spanish, PE and computer technology are taught at all levels. Field trips, athletics, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. Admission testing required. Scheduled parent tours most Wednesdays throughout the school year. Private tours may be arranged. $4,900-$13,155 (08-09). Financial assistance available. Please contact dridings@sycamoreschool.org

The Orchard School Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions 615 W. 64th St. Indianapolis 317-713-5705 khein@orchard.org www.orchard.org Ages: Preschool 3/4 through Grade 8 The Orchard School, an independent, nonsectarian, progressive school, emphasized experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. Call to schedule a personal tour, and check our Web site for the date and time of our annual Open House.

Applicants are selected without regard to their ability to pay tuition. Every effort is made to provide financial assistance where needed. Tuition is all-inclusive. Before/after care available.

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Indianapolis Jr. Academy Crystal Willis 2910 E. 62nd. St. Indianapolis 317-251-0560 ijacademy@comcast.net www.ijacademy.com Ages: Preschool - 8th Grade Founded in 1963, Indianapolis Jr. Academy provides a well-rounded educational program with emphasis on spiritual, mental, physical, and social development.

Our teachers are dedicated Christians who desire to prepare children academically and socially in an accepting environment where Christian principles are modeled and taught. Offering grades Pre-K-8th and 3’s Pre-School program M-Th 8:15-3, Fri

8:15-2:30 with before/after care. Admission is subject to review by School Board.

We participate in the Educational CHOICE Charitable Trust Program, call for rates.

Northwest Bethel Nursery School 5252 W. 52nd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46254 Becky Forsythe 317-293-1555 rebecca.forsythe@us.army.mil Ages/Grades: Ages 2We’ve provided high quality preschool for over 50 years. Among our many goals for education of young children is to provide experiences which help a child express himself creatively and to maintain an environment which stimulates and nurtures intellectual curiosity. One of the first NAEYC accredited preschools in the area.

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Our Shepherd Lutheran Church Nancy Heber 9101 West 10th Street Indianapolis 317-271-9100 nheber@ourshepherd.org Ages: 3 years-8th Grade Enrollment begins in January. Call the school office to set up a time to visit or come to one of our open houses. Check out our view book on our Web site. Visiting Our Shepherd Lutheran School is the most important homework you can do for your child. Scholarships are available for those that qualify. Jan 11th and 12th from 8:303:00 pm and 11th from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm.

February 8th and 9th from 8:30 am to 3:00 pm and February 8th at 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Financial aid and extended care is available.

The Children’s House

Susan Catania or Louise Brannon 2404 W. 62nd St. (near Michigan Rd.) Indianapolis 317-253-3033 childrenshouse@sbcglobal.net Ages: 2 1/2 years - 14 years of age The Children’s House offers a Montessori preschool. The four areas of our preschool are practical life, sensorial, math and language. The Montessori preschool is available on a nine or twelve month calendar. The elementary level is an ungraded, continuous-progress school where children discover and pursue their unique talents and needs. 9-3 with extended care available.

Westfield

Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Mary Lyman, Directress 800 E. Sycamore Street Westfield 317-867-0158 montessoriwestfield@gmail.com Ages: Toddler- 15 months to 3 years; Ages 3-Kindergarten; Elementary 1: Grade 1-3; Elementary 2: Grade 4-8 Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Aug-June Summer School-call for more information.

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Parents: Talk To Your Kids About Financial Fitness It’s Never Too Early to Teach Responsibility

When I was growing up, I remember there being a distinct line between topics of discussion for adults and children.

Many issues simply were not

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discussed within earshot of the kids’ table.

Raising my own children, who are now in their 20s, I saw that line blur—and probably for good reason. We have come to understand the importance of talking to children as early as possible about the dangers of cigarette smoke, talking to strangers and sharing too much information online.

These subjects may not make for comfortable conversations, but we learned that the earlier we impart this knowledge, the more of a lasting impression it makes.

One subject that most families still do not talk about is money—specifically, money management. For that matter, most adults don’t talk about money either. Perhaps the fact that it remains a taboo topic for dinner time chat at both the kids’ table and with the grown-ups is a contributing factor to our current economic concerns. As a culture, we have not yet embraced the importance of financial fitness, nor have we regarded good money management as a skill that can be taught from a very young age.

The good news is that we can reverse that trend.

Within a short timeframe, we can create a positive cultural

shift that leaves our children equipped to effectively manage money and to have the peace of mind that comes with financial stability.

The message is simple, and it’s one that resonates well with children, even toddlers. It doesn’t matter how much you start with.

Whether you have one dollar or $1,000, you can set savings goals and develop a plan to meet those goals. Instead of doling out allowance money in whole dollar bills, try providing the same amount in change—something that divides easier between money to save, money to spend, money to invest and money to donate.

And most importantly, talk to children, not only about their own money management, but also about the family’s financial goals.

If they understand that a family vacation is dependent upon the amount of money the family as a whole is able to save, they will likely be much more willing to make small, day-to-day sacrifices if it contributes to the family reaching its goal. Parents who read this and think the idea has merit but find the topic of financial fitness daunt-

ing are not alone and are certainly not without resources to help get the conversation started. Some good places to start include: • Indiana Council for Economic Education: www.econedin.org/resources • Money Bus: www.moneybus.org/ • Money Savvy Generation: www.msgen.com • US Financial Literacy and Education Commission: www.mymoney.gov Teaching the next generation about being good stewards of the resources they have—regardless of the dollar amount they start or end with—will help them achieve stability throughout their childhood and adult lives. It is a legacy we are more than capable of leaving, and it begins simply by talking with our children about money.

They are eager to learn if parents are eager to teach.

Winnie Ballard,

First Lady of the City of Indianapolis and Spokesperson for Indy’s Campaign for Financial Fitness.

PEDIATRIC

Be a Shining Light for Kids This New Year Advocacy for Our Future The time you spend with your child is the most important time you will spend since you are shaping his future. A child who spends his free time alone or in the company only of other children may or may not learn all he needs to know about himself, his abilities or his future.

Most parents are challenged to find time to do the basics done every day: meals, child care, homework, paying bills. Many parents work more than one job or long hours just to support the family.

As a new year begins, it is an important time to re-evaluate how we all invest in our most important commodities: time and resources to support our children. How we invest in both says much about what we value most of all.

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CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING: 1) Mentor a Child. Mentoring is a commitment of time and talent by a caring older teen or adult who is willing to dedicate his or her resources to help a child gain confidence and grow. Are you a grandparent, aunt, uncle or great grandparent? Share the power of your life experiences with children you love. Encourage and support success through listening, spending time together and investing into experiences that help challenge a child’s abilities.

2) Support People who Serve Children. Riley Hospital was a proud sponsor of the annual Kids Count in Indiana Conference presented by the Indiana Youth Institute on Dec. 2–3. The annual conference draws participation from nearly 1,500 youth workers and leaders from across the state and regionally.

Programs, presentations and networking provide a venue for youth workers and leaders to get refreshed, inspired and informed to return back to their daily service of children and families. Take the time to ask the youth workers and leader—social workers, nurses, doctors, social service professionals, teachers, counselors, youth program leaders—what they need and how you can help.

Volunteer; contribute your time. Be a part of their efforts to support children.

3) Advocate for Change. Follow the Indiana General Assembly this session and encourage your representatives to support legislation that addresses priorities to improve the lives of children and families. On March 2, 2009, the 11th Annual Children: Our Best Investment will take place in Indianapolis. This annual forum brings together hundreds of advocates to learn about and join together to voice their support for key issues, priorities and legislation addressing children and family needs.

Fourteen organizations, including Riley Hospital for Children, have joined together every year to present this event as a spotlight on the importance of speaking up and shaping our public policy to support improved quality of life for our children and families. To preregister for this event, visit: www.childrensbureau.org/adv/index.cfm.

By Karen Bruner Stroup, PhD, director, Community Education and Child Advocacy, Riley Hospital for Children. For more information, visit www.rileyhospital.org/kids1st or call 1-888-365-2022.

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Tips for Navigating Rough Financial Waters For many families, January is often a bleak money month; it’s when the credit card bills for holiday splurging arrive. But this year, local families are in financial crisis mode. With the recent trends of unemployment rates, food prices and foreclosure rates rising while the stock market plummets, many local families are struggling.

Karen, an Indianapolis mom who asked that her full name not be used, has made tough decisions over the past few months. With her husband’s salary based on commission, Karen’s family has had to slash spending.

“We have definitely been hit by the financial situation,” she says. “A lot of people we know are in the same boat.”

Touch Choices Since Karen and her husband are generally frugal, they didn’t have a lot of luxuries to cut when money got tight this fall. The most obvious choices were cutting family vacations, scaling back Christmas or removing their two daughters from private school. Because any decision would have an impact on their children, they involved the girls in the process. “We felt like we needed to tell them,” Karen says of their initial conversation last fall. “We’ve been open with them.”

Given the choice, the girls, second and fourth graders at St. Richard’s, decided to stay in private school. Karen has a third daughter in preschool, which also requires tuition payments. “They realize that their education is expensive, but it’s really important to them,” Karen says.

“They really do love St. Richard’s.”

That decision has lead to many others. The family used to enjoy restaurant meals, but now they rarely eat out. Karen and her husband used to have a regular date night, but those have been replaced by family night at home.

Shopping has evolved into bargain-hunting. During a recent outing for winter boots, Karen’s fourth-grader was thrilled to find a pair she liked on sale—and even more excited to use a 20 percent store coupon on top of the sale price. Karen’s second-grader often reminds the family of the new rules. “She’ll say, ‘Remember, we’re on a budget. We’ve got to make smart choices,’” Karen says.

While the girls are aware of the family’s money-saving choices, Karen is careful not to be too alarming. “The fact that we are concerned makes them concerned,” she says.

“It’s important to be honest with children, but don’t put them in panic mode.”

Develop a Plan A shrinking income can be devastating for a family, whether it’s from job loss, a recession or a personal tragedy. It’s important that families not panic and take control, says Rebecca Haynes-Bordas, MA, AFC, extension educator with a specialty in family resource management at Purdue Extension–Marion County. “There’s a lot of tension out there,” Haynes-Bordas says of the current financial climate. “Take a breath. Take stock of your current situation.”

Haynes-Bordas urges families to take a hard look at their current financial situation by determining net worth: your assets (what you own, including money in checking or savINDY’S CHILD * JANUARY 2009

ings accounts) minus your liabilities (what you owe). Review the information to see where your assets are and how easily they can be turned into cash.

Determine monthly expenses and calculate how long your savings will last if you use them to pay living expenses.

Think creatively about where you can cut costs and how you might be able to produce more income. Do you have hobbies or skills that you could turn into a part-time job? Could you trade or barter for services instead of paying?

Create a spending plan based on your current income. By comparing your income and potential expenses, you can identify where cuts must be made.

The Purdue Extension fact sheet “Set Priorities for Spending” offers these questions for consideration: • Which expenses are essential to your family’s well-being?

• Which expenses have the highest priority?

• Which areas can be reduced to keep family spending within its income?

• How much can you afford to spend in each category. Flexible expenses might include food, clothing or entertainment.

Haynes-Bordas urges families not to panic, despite the current financial crisis. “Don’t do anything rash,” she says. “This will pass; it’s just a matter of when.”

Face the Future While some local families are struggling to make ends meet day-to-day, others fear their future may be in jeopardy. Opening a retirement account statement—with balances sometimes down many thousands of dollars from one year ago—can be terrifying. “The main question I hear is ‘Am I OK?’” says Jason Johnson, Edward Jones financial advisor in Indianapolis. “They want to know if there is anything else they should be doing.

They have a plan in place, but they start to secondguess themselves.”

The first key to protecting your family’s future is to develop an emergency fund, Johnson says. Make sure you have enough cash in reserve to weather a financial storm. Then, sit down with a professional adviser to determine your financial goals. “Have a financial roadmap that you follow, and be consistent,” Johnson advises. “If you just react on emotion, more than likely the market’s going to tell you the wrong thing to do.”

For example, when the market is high, as it was, many people get excited and want to invest—but prices actually might be overvalued. And when the stock market plummets, people want to bail out instead of viewing the situation as a chance to buy at discounted prices. “Don’t let the current environment scare you away from one of the best opportunities we’ve had in our lifetime,” Johnson says. “Stocks are lower, but this could be a great time to invest.”

Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child and lives in Brownsburg with her husband and two children.

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No matter what your financial situation, talk to your children in concrete terms they can understand. Don’t try to hide the facts or pretend that everything is fine. Children pick up on a parent’s stress—which can lead to their own worry and stress. “I always recommend talking about things sooner rather than later,” says Kimble Richardson, MS, LMHC, LCSW, LMFT, physician and referral liaison at St. Vincent Stress Center. “And it absolutely cannot be a one-time conversation.”

Choose a calm moment at home to begin the discussion. “It’s not best to bring it up at the mall when you’re shopping,” Richardson says. “It’s best to do it in a neutral situation.”

For young children, be direct. Simply tell them that your family needs to make some changes—stop going to the movies, stop eating out, stop attending dance class, stop buying treats at the grocery store or whatever cost-cutting measures are needed. If you have alternatives in mind, share them. Instead of going to dance class, you might attend a free library program.

Instead of buying ice cream cones at a specialty store, you might make sundaes at home with the economy-size vanilla ice cream from the grocery store.

With older children, parents can be more specific. Show them your family budget or create a hypothetical scenario so they can see how making little changes will affect family finances. If they understand the situation, they may be more likely to cooperate with any changes to family routine. If your child has to drop a beloved activity, such as dance class or karate lessons, be empathetic. “Tell them that the plan is to re-enroll in the future when finances are better,” Richardson says. “Then, try to find creative alternatives.” Perhaps your daughter and her dance friends can meet after school to choreograph their own routines, or a high school student who has a particular talent in karate can give your son private lessons at a lower rate.

Karen, an Indianapolis-area mom who asked that her last name not be used, involved her fourth-grade and second-grade daughters in the family decision to scale back Christmas and cut family vacations when her husband’s commission-based income diminished this year. Because they were involved in the decision, the girls understood that the amount of presents under the tree would be much slimmer than previous years. She also made certain that the girls realized the changes were not a reflection on their behavior. “They were OK,” Karen says. “If you’re cutting something out, make sure they know it’s not because of them, because they’ve been bad.”

Find personal ways that you can cut spending, and model those for your children. “Tell them, ‘Here’s what Mommy’s going to do, here’s what Daddy’s going to do, and here’s what you guys are going to have to do,” Richardson explains. Don’t feel as if you have to hide the situation from your children. “As long as kids know that Mommy and Daddy are going to be OK and that Mommy and Daddy can take care of themselves, it’s OK for them to see you worried or cry,” Richardson explains. “But if you have to fall apart— Purdue Extension has and by that I mean get hysterical — don’t do it in front of the kids.” developed a series of fact sheets to Check your local library for children’s books that might help exhelp families struggling through a financial plain the situation, says Rebecca Haynes-Bordas, MA, AFC, crisis. The series includes information on taking extension educator with a specialty in family resource mancontrol, handling stress, community resources, setagement at Purdue Extension–Marion County. Options ting spending priorities and more. The fact sheets are include Berenstain Bears’ Trouble with Money, Berenfree and available online at www.ces.purdue.edu/extmedia/ stain Bears and Mama’s New Job, Tight Times by Barbara CFS/CFS-704-1-W.pdf. For more information, call 275-9305.

Rebecca Haynes-Bordas of Purdue Extension– Marion County, recommends two other websites to help families manage their finances: • America Saves (www.americasaves.org) to help set a savings goal •Power Pay: Healing Debtors Become Savers (www.powerpay.org) to help plan a strategy to eliminate debt

Shook Hazen, or Alexander, Who Used to Be Rich Last Sunday by Judith Viorst. Your local librarian can provide other financially-oriented children’s titles.

“This is a teachable moment,” Haynes-Bordas says. “You don’t’ have to scare kids, but you do have to be honest.”

Richardson says, “It’s OK to tell them the facts, but you always want to offer hope.”

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Taking the Sting Out of Drawing Blood Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital Eases the Pain The thought of a needle and blood is enough to make even brave adults anxious. Imagine a little 4- or 5-year old who needs to have blood drawn. It could be a nightmare for child and parent alike.

But Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent has come up with a kid-friendly solution to this dilemma—a solution that no longer causes children to fear a “scary needle.” In fact, many children never feel or see the needle anymore when they come for a blood draw.

Housed in a brightly colored room on the first floor of the hospital, just behind the Hilbert Pediatric Emergency Department, the new clinic uses techniques designed to ease the fear and discomfort of having a blood sample taken.

Can I come back? “We had one child who wanted to come back because he had such a good time,” laughs Julie Garrison, R.N., B.S.N., director of the Hilbert Pediatric ED. She credits positive experiences like that one to the experienced pediatric technician who conducts most of the blood draws.

“She’s trained to work with kids and, because she conducts an average of 10-12 blood draws a day, she’s quite proficient,” explains Garrison. “Half the time, the children—especially the younger ones—don’t realize what she’s doing because it’s over quickly.”

Making it “uneventful” Garrison says the child-life specialists on staff at the hospital also play an important role in helping make blood draws an “uneventful” experience for children. Sensitive to the special needs of children, the child-life specialists have a number of ways they distract kids from the blood draw. For example, children about to have their blood drawn may be encouraged to sing a song, hug a toy or think about something they like as a way of taking their mind off the technician’s needle.

“Our child-life specialists are well versed in how to distract kids and in helping them understand what’s about to happen in a friendly way,” Garrison shares. “They may engage kids by blowing bubbles or by reading a largesized book that can conveniently put a visual buffer between the child and the technician and needle on the other side,” Garrison shares.

Older children may prefer to watch TV, listen to music on headphones or play video games on a handheld device, all of which are available on site.

Treating kids as kids Understanding that kids are not miniature adults, specialists at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent use smaller needles than those used on adults. They draw blood from infants and children using what are known as butterfly needles, which are appropriately sized for pediatric patients. Additionally, the clinicians offer a cream that numbs the puncture site, thus reducing any pain.

Parents play a role Garrison advises parents to relay a calm attitude about the blood draw. She says if children are young, it’s best not to say too much. “Giving too much information to children under 10 years of age may prove to be counterproductive. It can result in kids spending too much time worrying, instead of feeling more confident,” she advises.

However, telling your child that it’s not going to hurt is only likely to arouse suspicion. She encourages parents to be honest and say that the needle may hurt somewhat, but no more than a pinch.

Another important preparatory step is making sure your child is adequately hydrated. Locating a suitable phlebotomy site on a small child can be a challenge for a lab technician, and is more easily accomplished when your child has had enough fluid prior to the procedure. Even if the test requires fasting beforehand, water is still allowed.

When the procedure is over, be sure to give your child plenty of praise. And don’t be surprised if they ask to come back!

Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent is the only facility in central Indiana known to offer a childfriendly blood draw service, which is part of its commitment to offering high quality, family-oriented pediatric health care.

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Teens and pre-teens have taken to texting like the proverbial ducks to water. They like it because, unlike a phone call, it’s quick and can be done surreptitiously while you are doing something else. The code-like messages are fun (especially when they are unintelligible to adults). And micro-blogging sites like Twitter let kids use text messages to keep an entire network informed about the minutiae of their lives.

For all these reasons. texting has become the preferred method of communication for most 13-17 year olds, according to a Disney survey done last summer. That research found a typical teen spends three hours a day texting during the school year (more during the summer) and sends almost 2,000 messages a month. The Pew Internet and American Life Project released a report about how texting (and other Internet activities) are creating “connectedness” in families.

Visit the following link to view the report: http://www.pewinternet.org/ PPF/r/266/report_display.asp.

Many parents are unsure about how to supervise all this activity. The good news is that unlike chat, which often happens in online “rooms” with strangers, texting is usually a way of keeping up with real life friends. Still, texting occurs on a mobile phone, so kids can do it anywhere at anytime and that makes parents understandably anxious.

Many phone companies are responding to this anxiety with parental controls. Among other things, these controls allow parents to block text messages from certain sources (including spammers), limit phone use to specific hours, prevent cell phone purchases and even obtain a detailed log of text messages.

Discretion You can tell your child not to text with strangers, but is someone who’s a friend of the guy you met at an away football game a stranger? A better rule is don’t text about sex. Following this rule makes it much less likely that a teen will be groomed or seduced by a predator. And it eliminates the risk that a message your child thought was private will be forwarded to everyone in the eighth grade.

The features vary hugely from carrier to carrier, so it’s best to ask before signing up for service. (After the fact, you can find out what’s available by going to your phone carrier’s Web site and typing “parental controls” into the search box.) If a carrier doesn’t provide adequate controls, parents can supplement with surveillance programs such as Mobile Spy (www.mobile-spy.com) and My Mobile Watch Dog (mymobilewatchdog. com) that will record text messages as well as numbers called and websites visited.

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Valuable as these controls may be, most parents simply don’t have the time—or patience—to do anything more than spot check the text messages their kids are sending. That’s why it’s so important for teens to have their own inner controls, a.k.a. common sense, about how text should be used. Here are some things you’ll want to discuss:

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Expense Some families discover their carrier charges for each text message only after getting a nasty phone bill. Although your child can control the number of messages he or she sends, many plans also charge for messages received. Unlimited text messaging is the obvious answer but it usually costs more. Consider having your child earn the extra money to pay for the extra service.

Safety It may seem obvious to parents that texting and driving don’t mix, but one insurance poll found that 67% of teens admitted to texting behind the wheel. To protect your child, sign a pact stating that neither of you will read or send messages while driving.

If a message is urgent, pull over.

Courtesy Teens like texting because they can do it anywhere, any time. But there are settings in which texting should be suspended so a young person can devote his or her entire attention to real people. Most schools now expect students to leave cell phones in their lockers because it’s impossible to teach a class, much less administer a fair exam, when kids are texting under their desks. Parents may want to make similar no-texting rules about family dinners and church services.

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Because texting isn’t face to face, kids may send and forward messages and photos that they later regret—or should regret. Remind your child that all communication—regardless of the medium—should be respectful and considerate. Encourage your child to follow the F2F rule—if you wouldn’t say something to a person’s face, don’t put it in a text message.

For some kids, texting can become obsessive, interfering with schoolwork, sleep and other essential activities. In fact, doctors now have a name—”text thumb”—for repetitive motion injuries caused by too much typing on tiny keyboards. Parents should also be aware that excessive texting, especially with one person, may be a sign that a teen is in a controlling or predatory relationship. The quickest way to help a teen get a grip is to “borrow” the phone—during homework, at bedtime or before family outings.

Finally, don’t underestimate the power of text as a way to communicate with your child. Obviously, text is ideal for quick logistical messages like “When is practice over?” but many parents also find these mini-messages can be used to sidestep unnecessary adolescent drama. Try using text for reminders that might provoke argument—”Plz take out the trash,” for messages that sooth hurt feelings—”I’m sorry we argued B4 school” or simply for friendly encouragement—”Good luck on your test!” Don’t worry too much about mastering the lingo (a translation service is available at lingo2word.com). Instead think of text just as one of many ways you can stay in touch with the teens you love.

Carolyn Jabs, M. A ., has been writing about families and computers for over 15 years. Other columns are available on her website: w w w.growing-up-online.com.

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2) Shopping at Wal-Mart necessitates making a list (writing and spelling), clipping coupons (fine motor skills), shopping (asking directions and assistance), adding up the potential cost of the purchase and pay receiving change (multiple math skills).

Humans tend to view the world as a whole. All parts of our environment are integrated and work as a team to create the world we see. Yet, education traditionally breaks down material to be learned into isolated, seemingly unrelated con-

cepts. If we recognize

â&#x20AC;&#x153;soup and sandwichâ&#x20AC;? and the

â&#x20AC;&#x153;horse and carriageâ&#x20AC;? as inseparable pieces that make a whole, then isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t it reasonable that educatorsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and even parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;should integrate ideas and concepts when teaching students?

Beginning with how one concept affects another helps students conquer both, particularly when teaching students with developmental disabilities and other special needs who often find learning challenging. And parents should recognize that opportunities for integration are all around us. Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s look at three â&#x20AC;&#x153;commonplaceâ&#x20AC;? experiences that are challenges for special needs students and yet can be powerful learning experiences.

1) What youngster doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t enjoy eating at McDonalds? Consider the processes required in order for your child to receive that beloved Happy Meal. Someone must read the menu, communicate the food order, calculate the cost, count out the appropriate amount of money and check to make sure the proper change has been returned. By allowing your child to participate in this process, he uses reading and communication skills as well as basic addition and subtraction­­â&#x20AC;&#x201D;all to order food.

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3) Teaching students to cook requires reading and number sense.

When cooking with a recipe, reading, measuring and computing fractions are emphasized. For younger students, the sorting of ingredients, measuring spoons, utensils and pots and pans are pre-math and pre-vocational skills.

While these ideas may seem over-simplified, when a concrete action is integrated with an abstract process, both skills are reinforced. There is virtually nothing that can not be taught in this manner. Parents should also be aware that in their childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s education environment, integration should extend beyond the concepts taught. Integration of concepts, instructional staff and locations are important and help create a solid foundation upon which to build educational activities.

A speech clinician or occupational therapist might pull a student from class for oneon-one instruction, or may choose to work with a student within the classroom. Instruction on concepts and tasks can then take place within the context of classroom activities and peers. In this way, the classroom teacher teams with the specialist and becomes an additional instructor who can reinforce concepts on a consistent basis.

Counselors, autism specialists and social workers often find working with a student while in a busy classroom atmosphere yields more significant insight into how a student actually behaves among his/her peers. Most importantly, students with special needs students seem to learn best in this type of flexible atmosphere.

The bottom line is simple: children can learn in a variety of places beside the traditional classroom. Stores, buses, restaurants, parks and homes can all become learning centers by using a little creative thought.

William â&#x20AC;&#x153;Billâ&#x20AC;? Strauss is the Director of Education Services at Damar Services, Indianaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s premier provider of residential and community-based treatment and services for children and adults with developmental disabilities and severe behavior challenges.

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Animation Exhibit at the Children’s Museum Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 04, 2009. Explore the science and art of animation first hand. Tues-Sun 10am-5pm plus Mon 10am-5pm until Labor Day. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum.org. (317) 334-3322.

Broadway Across America Happy Days Musical Occurring Daily Beginning Tuesday, January 13, 2009 Through Sunday, January 18, 2009. A New Musical reintroduces one of America’s best loved families, the Cunninghams, and the days of 1959 Milwaukee complete with varsity sweaters, hula hoops, and jukebox sock-hoppin’. The famed drive-in malt shop and number one hang-out, Arnold’s, is in danger of demolition, so the gang teams up to save it with a dance contest and tvworthy wrestling match. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4600 Sunset Ave, Indianapolis. www.

BroadwayAcrossAmerica.com. 317-940-6444.

Chakaia Booker Installation Occurring Daily Through Wednesday, April 01, 2009. This New York City sculptor will present nine pieces made from recycled tires throughout the downtown area to enliven the city. Downtown Indianapolis.

Chocolate Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 04, 2009. M-Sat 9-5, Sun 115. $7/$6.50 seniors/$4 children 3-12.

Members free. Indiana State Museum.

650 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.in.gov/ism. 317-232-1637.

Collected Thoughts: Works from the Dorothy and Herbert Vogel Collection Occurring Daily Through Sunday, April 12, 2009. Tues., Wed. & Sat. 11 am - 5 pm; Thurs. & Fri. 11 am - 9pm. FREE. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www. imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Comic Book Heroes Occurring Daily Through Sunday, May 03, 2009. Holy comic books! Visit the new comic book exhibit at The Children’s Museum! Find out about all kinds of comic books, the artists who create them and the amazing characters they feature - then take a moment to create your own! Featuring selections from the Max Simon Comic Book Collection, an impressive collection of nearly 20,000 comics, Comic Book Heroes will introduce families to the vast world of comic books and will inspire families to read, collect and create. 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.

Free with museum admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.ChildrensMuseum.org. (317) 334-3322.

Thursday 01 Free Community Drum Circle Bongo Boy Music School is proud to announce our new affiliation with REMO, Inc. Bongo Boy Music School hosts a FREE Community Drum Circle every Thursday Night. No experience necessary. All ages and levels are welcome. Drums will be provided by Bongo Boy Music School and REMO. Parents bring your kids. Kids bring your parents and friends. 7:30-8:30pm. FREE. Bongo Boy Music School. 8481 Bash St. Suite 1100, Indianapolis. www.bongoboymusic.com.

317-595-9065.

Friday 02 Celebrate the New Year Celebrate the New Year by making your own 2009 calendar. Decorate it however you like and take it home with you.

Grades K-5. 4pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www. jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Don’t Dress For Dinner Occurring Daily Beginning We d n e s d a y, January 07, 2009 Through Sunday, February 08, 2009. One of the funniest shows you’ve never seen.

A side-splitting farce with the perfect recipe for mad-cap hilarity. One part cheating husband, two parts confused and flabbergasted lady loves, several cases of mistaken identity, and a bumbling friend to spice things up then bake until you explode with laughter. Tues/Sat 6-8, Weekdays 11:30-1, Sunday Matinee 12-1:30, Sunday 5-7. Buffet included. $38-$51. Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre. 9301 N. Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.beefandboards. com. 317-872-9664.

Emma and Addison’s World: Childhood Stories of 19th Century Zionsville - An Exhibit Occurring Daily Through Saturday, October 31, 2009. Through October, 2009.

This exhibit features four areas around which the Higgins children’s childhood revolved: their home, their school, the I.C.&L railroad depot and businesses along Zionsville’s main street. Plus the back center of the exhibit space will feature a small porch, which will serve as a stage for intimate programs for approximately 20

Monkey Mania Children of all ages are invited to eat monkey treats, read monkey books and watch a movie about Curious George. Register to receive a special surprise! Call 275-4410 to register. 2-4pm. FREE. Glendale Library.

6101 N. Keystone Ave., Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org.

317-275-4410.

First Friday Evening at WonderLab Enjoy extended evening hours at one of the top 25 science museums in the United States! The museum will be open from 9:30 am, with reduced admission of just $3 per person after 5:00 pm. Pizza and juice will be available to purchase in the evening. 5:00 8:30 pm. Reduced admission: $3/person after 5:00 pm. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www.wonderlab.org. 812-337-1337 ext. 25.

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe As the houseguests of an old professor who lives on the outskirts of London, four children playing inside a wardrobe discover a magical world called Narnia.

In Narnia, the White Witch has declared that it will always be winter, but never Christmas. The children and their Narnian friends, including Aslan the lion, join together to defeat the White Witch, bring Aslan back to power and spring back to Narnia. 1 and 3 pm. Free with museum admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www. childrensmuseum.org. (317) 334-3322.

THE WIZARD OF OZ Occurring Every Sun, Thu, Fri & Sat Through Sunday, January 04, 2009.

Faithful to MGM’s popular movie, this all-new production of Civic’s signature holiday extravaganza brings the film to life in a wild and wonderful musical journey to that magical place where dreams come true. Thu. & Fri. 7pm, Sat. 2pm & 7pm, Sun. 2pm. $34 (Thu.-Sun.), group discounts available.

Indianapolis Civic Theatre. 3200 Cold Spring Rd, Indianapolis. www.civictheatre.org. 317-9234597.

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children. Sullivan Munce Cultural Center.

225 W. Hawthorne St., Zionsville. www. sullivanmunce.org. 317-873-4900.

Experience History in a Whole New Way Occurring Every Wed, Thu, Fri & Sat Beginning Wednesday, December 24, 2008 Through Saturday, January 03, 2009.

Destination Indiana. Control a time-travel machine and bring to life the IHS’s vast collection of historical photographs and documents, taking “journeys” around Monument Circle to the places, events and eras you’d most like to explore. You Are There: 1945 Hoosier Home Front Step back in time to January 1945 through a historic photograph of Mr. Zwerner’s Citizens Market. 10am-5pm. FREE. Indiana Historical Society. 450 West Ohio Street, Indianapolis. www.indianahistory. org. (317) 232-1882.

Girls Night Out Ongoing on the fourth Saturday of each Month.

Massage, Hand & Foot Treatments, Food & Fun. Bring a friend and come hang with the girls. 6-9PM. $30 includes everything. Eden’s Pathway. 2700 E. 55th Pl. STE. 5, Indianapolis. www.edenspathway.com. 317.205.9377.

Hansel and Gretel: Local Artists Exhibit Occurring Daily Through Saturday, January 10, 2009. As part of IMCPL’s “Hansel & Gretel: Lost in the Arts” presentation, patrons are invited to view the works of 18 local artists who have visually interpreted this classic story and made it their own. “Hansel & Gretel: Lost in the Arts” is presented

by IMCPL, the Indianapolis Museum of Contemporary Art and the Indianapolis Opera. During library hours. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

Free Community Breakfast Occurring on the first Saturday of each Month Through Sunday, August 02, 2009.

Breakfast served to the community every first Saturday of the month (excluding November). Free will offering accepted.

7am. FREE. Eden United Methodist Church. 2122 East Eden Rd., Greenfield. www.gbgm-umc.org/eden. 317-326-2212.

Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird Occurring Daily Beginning Friday, January 23, 2009 Through Saturday, February 21, 2009. Racial tensions run high in a small southern, Depression-era town, in this highly theatrical adaptation of Harper Lee’s best selling Pulitzer Prize winning novel.

Atticus Finch must teach his children, Scout and Jem, difficult lessons about racial tolerance, violence and prejudice when he

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be provided. Don’t forget your bathing suits. 6-9pm. $5. LaShonna Bates Aquatic Center. 1450 S. Reisner St., Indianapolis.

317-327-PARK.

Community Drumming Circle Tony Showa (Navajo) brings a holistic approach to release stress and anxiety from everyday living. Tony, a Sweat Lodge Leader, a Pow Wow drummer and drum maker, will do his best to help you through group drumming to stay focused and strong on your path. Are you now asking yourself, “I don’t even know my own path” or “what path?.” 12:301:30pm. $3 per session. Bring a friend for a discount, 2 for $5. Eiteljorg Museum.

500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.eiteljorg.org. 317-636-WEST. O.K. Program (For Boys) Police officers work with boys who want to follow the right path in life. Boys will learn how to address diversity, respond to problems at school and how to handle other issues. 10 am - 4 pm. FREE. Windsor Village Park. 2501 Kenyon Ave, Indianapolis. www. indygov.org. 317-327-7162.

Parents Night Out Parents, do you need a night out without the kids? Bring them to Bates on the first Saturday of the month for a few hours of freedom. Kids will be able to swim, watch movies, and participate in other activities. Snacks and drinks will

Y-Teen Zone A safe, fun hangout for teens ages 11-19.

Tournaments, guest speakers, basketball, ping-pong, games, music, fitness and nutrition workshops, swimming, other special events and computers. Participants may enter using their YMCA membership cards; those who are not members of the YMCA must have a school identification card and all must complete a registration form. 7-10pm. Free to members; $5 for all others. Benjamin Harrison YMCA. 5736 Lee Rd, Indianapolis. www.indymca. org/locations/branch.asp?id=18.

317547-9622.

Friends of the Library Bookshop Friends of the Library Bookshop is open to the public. Most materials sell for 50 cents. Book bags, calendars, book lights, and bookmarks are also available. 102pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

goes against the community by defending a young black man falsely accused of a crime against a white woman. One of America’s greatest stories movingly adapted for the stage, and a must-see in every generation.

Various prices. Indiana Repertory Theatre.

140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. indianarep.com. 317-635-5252.

Hearthside Suppers Occurring Every Sun, Fri & Sat Beginning Saturday, January 03, 2009 Through Sunday, March 22, 2009. You’re invited to an intimate dinner in central Indiana’s first brick home. Help with preparations by the hearth, sip on hot cider and indulge in a delicious multi-course meal. Great fun for individuals or groups. Eat a delicious, 19th—century meal by candlelight, tour the 1823 Conner House, visit with a costumed host and other guests, enjoy evening entertainment Reservations are required. Recommended for ages 10—adult. 6-9pm. $55/non-members.

Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers. www.connerprairie.org/events/ hearthside_suppers. 317-776-6000.

Holidays in the Heartland Occurring Daily Through Saturday, January 03, 2009. Tuesday - Saturday 10 am - 5 pm. FREE. Indiana History Center.

450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis. www. indianahistory.org. 317-232-1882.

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Open Gym Open Swim The times are 1-5pm at the Westfield HS Pool and Multi-purpose Facility.

The cost is $5, children 2 and under are free. All Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Lifeguards will be on duty. For more information, please call 317-804-3185. 1-5PM. $5.

Westfield High School. 18250 North Union Street, Westfield. westfield. in.gov. 317-804-3185.

Fireside Stories for the Family: New Year Fun Relax by the library’s fireplace and enjoy stories for the whole family. Pajamas optional.

7 pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Owls in Winter: A Live Animal Presentation at WonderLab Meet three live owls of different species and find out whether they migrate to warmer places or how they adjust their lives to Indiana’s coldest season. Shows are one hour. Seats will be available on a first-come, first-served basis the day of the program. No advance reservations.

WonderLab has been named a top 25 science museum by Parents magazine.

Saturday: 11:00 am and 1:00 pm; Sunday : 2:00 pm. $2/person, plus museum admission. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www. wonderlab.org. 812-337-1337 ext. 25.

Bookworms Stories, activities and a craft. Themes for the month: Snow Day, Penguins, Fairy Tale Films. For more information, call the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 8443363. 4-4:45pm or 6:30-7:15pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us.

Toddler Time Programs consist of activities such as finger plays, songs, stories and a simple craft. For children, three and under, with a caregiver.

Registration is required. 2-2:30pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

Wiibrary Everyone is welcome to compete in our weekly gaming event. 5pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

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Jolly Days Winter Wonderland Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 04, 2009. 10 am - 5 pm. FREE with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum. org. (317) 334-3322.

Orly Genger Occurring Daily Through Sunday, April 26, 2009. Known for transforming common nylon ropes into elaborate, monumental sculptures, New Yorkbased artist Orly Genger ’s work for the IMA is her largest and most ambitious to date. Thousands of feet of painted rope piled into an allencompassing installation, Genger ’s sculpture is conceived in response to its surroundings and invites viewers to explore its interior. 11 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Saturdays; 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursdays and Fridays. Free. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd., Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Power and Glory: Court Arts of China’s Ming Dynasty (1368-1644) Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 11, 2009. Featuring a full

range of objects used at the imperial court, Power and Glory is the first major exhibition to focus solely on the court arts of the Ming dynasty. 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Saturdays, 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursdays and Fridays. Members: Free/ Public: $12. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd., Indianapolis. www. imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

President Benjamin Harrison Home Tour Info Occurring Daily Beginning Thursday, January 01, 2009 Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. Tours are on the hour and half hour, 10 a.m. to 3.30 p.m.

Monday through Saturday. Sunday tours in June and July from 12.30 3.30 p.m. Holiday closings: Harrison Home is closed Jan. 1 - 18, Indy 500 Parade and Race days, Memorial Day, Labor Day, Thanksgiving Day, and December 24, 25, 26 and 31, 2009 and Jan. 1, 2010. AAA discounts are available; $5 adults and $2.50 students. Group rates are available; reservations must be made two weeks in advance. Please call to schedule (317.631.1888.) 10 a.m. - 3.30 p.m.

Adults (18-64) $8; Students (5 to 17) $3; Seniors (65 and older). President Benjamin Harrison Home. 1230 N.

Delaware St., Indianapolis. www. pbhh.org. 317.631.1888.

Sleeping Beauty Occurring Daily Beginning Friday, January 16, 2009 Through Sunday, February 08, 2009. An elegant, amusing version of the Perrault romance, with just the right balance of comedy and suspense, and a touch of classical dance. Sleeping Beauty will be sure to delight even the most discerning young princess! Don’t miss this wonderful evening of classic fairy tale theatre, spend a moment with your child, create a memory that will last a lifetime. Multiple times. $15/ adults, $11/12 and under. The Artist Studio. 12810 Ford Dr., Fishers. www. artists-studio.com. 317-594-5070.

Target Free Family Night Occurring on the first Thursday of each Month Through Thursday, June 04, 2009. Sponsored by Target, the first Thursday. 4-8pm. FREE. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.

ChildrensMuseum.org. 317-334-3322.

The Wizard of Oz Occurring Every Sun, Thu, Fri & Sat Through Sunday, January 04, 2009.

Faithful to MGM’s popular movie, this all-new production of Civic’s signature holiday extravaganza brings the film to life in a wild and wonderful musical journey to that magical place where dreams come true. Thu. & Fri. 7pm, Sat. 2pm & 7pm, Sun. 2pm. $34 (Thu.-Sun.), group discounts available. Indianapolis Civic Theatre.

3200 Cold Spring Rd, Indianapolis. www.civictheatre.org. 317-923-4597.

This Wonderful Life - A Play Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 04, 2009. Also December 28. It’s Christmas Eve: a distraught George Bailey stands on the bridge, sure he has failed his family and community. Clarence, an angel-inwaiting helps George see how vital a role he’s played in the world and restores George to his family while earning his own wings. One actor plays more than 30 roles and adds insight about the film’s iconic place in our lives. Anyone who’s ever loved this movie won’t want to miss this charming theatrical tour de force.

7:30pm. Adults: $32-$37 Seniors: $22$27 Students: $19. Indiana Repertory Theatre. 140 Washington Street, Indianapolis. www.irtlive.com. 317635-5252.

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Preschool Storytime: Grab Your Passport Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 and an adult are invited for stories, songs and activities.

The theme of this program is “Let’s Travel to India.” 1:15pm. FREE. Franklin Road Library. 5550 S. Franklin Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4380.

Scottish Highland Dancing Join us on Wed. evening Jan. 7, to see what highland-style dancing is all about. This one time introductory class is free of charge.

Offered for children, youth, and adults 8 years of age and older. Classes will continue in 4 week sessions at the Forest Park Inn, 701 Cicero Rd., Noblesville. Cost is $44 per four weeks for Noblesville residents, $54 for non-residents. Noblesville Parks Department. Forest Park Lodge, 701 Cicero Rd, Noblesville. www.cityofnoblesville. org/parks. 317-770-5750.

Baby Building Blocks Babies up to 23 months and an adult are invited for stories, songs and fingerplays. 11am. FREE. InfoZone Library Branch.

3000 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4430.

Let It Snow Sleds have been a practical and fun way to travel on snow for a long time. Get the chance to climb aboard our historic sleigh on display in the Museum Center. Make a snow craft to take home and sing along with snowman songs. 9:3011am and 12:30-2pm. $9/member youth, $10/non-member youth. Conner Prairie.

13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers. www. connerprairie.org. 317776-6000.

Rhyme Time Babies Babies up to 18 months and an adult are invited for stories, rhymes and activities just right for babies. 10:15am. FREE. Franklin Road Library. 5550 S. Franklin Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4380.

Tax Law Changes How will tax law changes affect your 2008 return? Bring your questions for tax professional Karen Lunsford, and she’ll tell you what you need to know. 7pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood. www.jcplin.org. 317-885-1330.

Paws for Stories at Haughville School-age children and their families are invited to meet Annie, a certified therapy dog, who will help reluctant children become better readers. Several children will be chosen to read to Annie, who loves to listen to stories. Sign up to read weekly to Annie at the library. 5-7pm. FREE. Haughville Library. 2121 W. Michigan St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4420.

Preschool Storytime at Southport Preschoolers ages 3 through kindergarten and an adult are invited for stories, songs and rhymes. 11am. FREE. Southport Library. 2630 E. Stop 11 Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4510.

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WonderLab’s Discovery Time Stop by for a special story, animal demonstration or hands-on science activity! Call 812-337-1337 ext. 2 to find out the topic this week. This program is intended for children, age 6 and younger, with their caregivers. Older siblings are welcome. 10:30 am - 11:00 am (dropin format). Included with museum admission. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www. wonderlab.org. 812-337-1337.

College Ave Kidz Club School-age children are invited for after-school stories, crafts, and fun activities. 4pm. FREE. College Avenue Library. 4180 N. College Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4320.

Young Rembrandts Drawing Classes Young Rembrandts step-by-step curriculum and engaging subject matter makes drawing fun! Once a week classes help children grow, develop, and excel while creating memories.

Noblesville Parks Department. Forest Park Lodge, 701 Cicero Rd, Noblesville. w w w. c i t y o f n o b l e s v i l l e . o r g / parks. 317-770-5750.

Snow Paint Have you ever wanted to paint with snow? Puffy paint gives your painting a fluffy touch.

4pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch.

424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www. jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Baby Storytime at Nora Babies and an adult are invited for stories, music and fingerplays. 10:30am. FREE. Nora Library. 8625 Guilford Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4470.

Homeschool Link: The Boxcar Children Read Gertrude Chandler Warner’s classic mystery novel, with help from your librarian.

1pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Magical Mystery Tour Barnes & Thornburg LLP / Irwin Union Bank is sponsoring this all-time, best-selling production - a full length work presented in two acts and filled with the transcendent music of the Beatles and stunning, psychedelic costumes. Thurs: 12 & 7pm, Fri: 8pm, Sat: 8pm, Sun: 2:30pm. Prices vary. Visit Web site for more details. Indiana Repertory Theatre. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. dancekal.org.

317-940-6555.

Magical Mystery Tour Barnes & Thornburg LLP / Irwin Union Bank is sponsoring this all-time, best-selling production_ a full length work presented in two acts and filled with the transcendent music of the Beatles and stunning, psychedelic costumes. Thurs: 12 & 7pm, Fri: 8pm, Sat: 8pm, Sun: 2:30pm. Prices vary. Visit Web site for more details. Indiana Repertory Theatre. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. dancekal.org. 317-940-6555.

Holistic Moms Network North Indy Monthly Meeting We welcome all area moms (and dads) with an interest in natural health and mindful parenting. Holistic Mom’s Network - Delaware Township Building. 9090 E. 131st St, Fishers. home.homewebs.com/hmnindianapolisin.

Saturday 10 Community Drumming Circle Tony Showa (Navajo) brings a holistic approach to release stress and

Y-Teen Zone Ongoing Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, December 27, 2008. A sage, fun hangout for teens ages 11-19.

Tournaments, guest speakers, basketball, ping-pong, games, music, fitness and nutrition workshops, swimming, other special events and computers.

Participants may enter using their YMCA membership cards; those who are not members of the YMCA must have a school identification card and all must complete a registration form.

7-10pm. Free to members; $5 for all others. Benjamin Harrison YMCA. 5736 Lee Rd, Indianapolis. www.indymca. org/locations/branch.asp?id=18. 317547-9622.

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anxiety from everyday living.

Tony, a Sweat Lodge Leader, a Pow Wow drummer and drum maker, will do his best to help you through group drumming to stay focused and strong on your path. Are you now asking yourself, “I don’t even know my own path” or “what path?” 12:30-1:30pm. $3 per session. Bring a friend for a discount, 2 for $5. Eiteljorg Museum. 500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. eiteljorg.org. 317-636-WEST.

Frank Callendo - Comedy 8:30 pm. Prices vary. Murat Theatre. 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis. www. livenation.com/murat. 317-231-0000.

Minority Family Down Syndrome Network Hosts Panel of Experts Minority Family Down Syndrome Network presents An Open Panel Discussion with Some of Indianapolis_ Leading Health Care Practitioners. This is a FREE event including a light lunch and a question and answer session that will include the following professionals to discuss matters of health and nutrition with doctors and professionals from Indiana. Open to everyone and strongly encourage service providers, minority families and expecting and new parents of children with disabilities to come out and take this opportunity to speak with such a diverse panel of experts. Both the panel discussion as well as print materials will be in English and Spanish.

Lunch will begin at 11:30, followed by the open panel discussion that will begin at 12:30. To RSVP please email register@ indianadsf.org or by phone at 317.925.7617

by Monday, December 22, 2008. Childcare is available on a reservation basis by email or by calling the IDSF directly

at 317.925.7617. Childcare reservations must be made no later than the morning proceeding the meeting. 11:30 am - 2:30 pm. Lawrence United Methodist Church.

5200 North Shadeland Ave., Indianapolis.

317-925-7617.

Saturday Movie Matinee Grab a handful of free popcorn and enjoy a new DVD on the big screen. 2pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www. jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Sumo Mice and Power Rice: Storyteller Mokoto Motoko is an award-winning storyteller who enchants children of all ages with folktales from her native country, Japan.

No registration required. For more information, call the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 844-3363. Kids K-5. 1010:45am in Program Room. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us.

Tales of Now and Ten Tales of Now & Zen is a travel itinerary to places as strange and exotic as ancient China and the interior of our own heart. Motoko takes us on an excursion like no other, including such stories as “Japanese culture 101: The Art of Bowing,” a comical view on Japanese manners, “Cost of Racism,” a funny yet heartfelt monologue about raising a son in the U.S. and “Boundless Strength,” a wisdom tale about sumo wrestling. Multiple times. $15 in advance or $18 at the door.

Indiana History Center. 450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis. www.indianahistory.org. 317232-1882.

World of Families: Second Saturdays Biligual Storytime Families are invited for an interactive bilingual story time celebrating the languages and cultures of the world! This program will be held in The Learning Curve. 2pm. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

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Back Home Again: Raggedy Ann and Andy Families are invited to learn the history of Raggedy Ann & Andy through stories, fingerplays, games and crafts. 2pm. FREE. Nora Library. 8625 Guilford Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4470.

Classical Concerts at Central Individuals of all ages are invited to experience the dynamic world of chamber music with members of the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra. This program, to be held in the Clowes Auditorium, is provided with support from the Arts Council of Indianapolis and the City of Indianapolis. 2pm. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www. imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

Open Gym Open Swim The times are 1-5pm at the Westfield HS Pool and Multi-purpose Facility. The cost is $5, children 2 and under are free. All Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Lifeguards will be on duty. For more information, please call 317-804-3185. 1-5PM. $5. Westfield High School. 18250 North Union Street, Westfield. westfield.in.gov. 317-8043185.

Magical Mystery Tour Barnes & Thornburg LLP / Irwin Union Bank is sponsoring this all-time, best-selling production full length work presented in two acts and filled with the transcendent music of the Beatles and stunning, psychedelic costumes. Thurs: 12 & 7pm, Fri: 8pm, Sat: 8pm, Sun: 2:30pm. Prices vary. Visit Web site for more details. Indiana Repertory Theatre.

140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. dancekal. org. 317-940-6555.

Monday 12 Fireside Stories for the Family: Snow White, Snow Bright Relax by the library’s fireplace and enjoy stories for the whole family. Pajamas optional.

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7 pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Bookworms Stories, activities and a craft. Themes for the month: Snow Day, Penguins, Fairy Tale Films.

For more information, call the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 844-3363. 4-4:45pm or 6:30-7:15pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel. lib.in.us.

Toddler Time Programs consist of activities such as finger plays, songs, stories and a simple craft. For children, three and under, with a caregiver.

Registration is required. 2-2:30pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317579-0304.

Wiibrary Everyone is welcome to compete in our weekly gaming event. 5pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317878-9560.

Tuesday 13 American Girls Thrill to the adventures of your favorite American Girls! If you’d like, bring your own doll to show and tell. 4pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-7382833.

Preschool Storytime: Grab Your Passport Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 and an adult are invited for stories, songs and activities. The theme of this program is “Let’s Travel to Japan.

1:15pm. FREE. Franklin Road Library. 5550 S. Franklin Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org.

317-275-4380.

Parents Night Out Parents, do you need a night out without the kids? Bring them to Bates on the first Saturday of the month for a few hours of freedom.

Kids will be able to swim, watch movies, and participate in other activities. Snacks and drinks will be provided. Don’t forget your bathing suits. 6-9pm. $5. LaShonna Bates Aquatic Center. 1450 S. Reisner St., Indianapolis. 317-327-PARK. Friends of the Library Bookshop Friends of the Library Bookshop is open to the public. Most materials sell for 50 cents. Book bags, calendars, book lights, and bookmarks are also available. 10-2pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

Magical Mystery Tour Barnes & Thornburg LLP / Irwin Union Bank is sponsoring this all-time, best-selling production full length work presented in two acts and filled with the transcendent music of the Beatles and stunning, psychedelic costumes. Thurs: 12 & 7pm, Fri: 8pm, Sat: 8pm, Sun: 2:30pm. Prices vary. Visit Web site for more details. Indiana Repertory Theatre.

140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. dancekal. org. 317-940-6555.

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Tuesday Night at the Movies for Teens Join us for movies on the big screen and free munchies! No registration is required, but you must be between the ages of 12 and 19. 6-8pm.

FREE. Hamilton East Library (Noblesville).

One Library Plaza, Teen Programming Room, Noblesville. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-7703242.

www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

Paws for Stories at Haughville School-age children and their families are invited to meet Annie, a certified therapy dog, who will help reluctant children become better readers. Several children will be chosen to read to Annie, who loves to listen to stories.

Sign up to read weekly to Annie at the library.

5-7pm. FREE. Haughville Library. 2121 W. Michigan St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org.

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Free Community Drum Circle Bongo Boy Music School is proud to announce our new affiliation with REMO, Inc. Bongo Boy Music School hosts a FREE Community Drum Circle every Thursday Night. No experience necessary. All ages and levels are welcome. Drums will be provided by Bongo Boy Music School and REMO. Parents bring your kids. Kids bring your parents and friends. 7:30-8:30pm. FREE. Bongo Boy Music School. 8481 Bash St. Suite 1100, Indianapolis. www.bongoboymusic.com. 317-595-9065.

Beaded Snowflakes Make your own beaded snowflake to hang from a necklace or to decorate your room.

4:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

WonderLab’s Discovery Time Stop by for a special story, animal demonstration or hands-on science activity!

Call 812-337-1337 ext. 2 to find out the topic this week. This program is intended for children, age 6 and younger, with their caregivers. Older siblings are welcome. 10:30 am - 11:00 am (drop-in format). Included with museum admission. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www.wonderlab. org. 812-337-1337.

College Ave Kidz Club School-age children are invited for afterschool stories, crafts, and fun activities.

4pm. FREE. College Avenue Library. 4180 N. College Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org.

317-275-4320.

Nursery Time Nursery Time is for ages newborn up to two years of age. A parent or caregiver is required to attend. Program consists of activities, fingerplays, songs and a craft. Registration is required. 10-10:30am. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers.

Toddler Time at Pike Toddlers 18 - 36 months and an adult are invited for stories, songs and movement activities that foster a love of books and reading. 10:15am and 11am. FREE. Pike Library. 6525 Zionsville Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4480.

Teen Gaming Night - Wii We’re bringing out the Wii, bring your friends and come game. We’ve got Guitar Hero, Sports and more! . 6-8pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Noblesville). One Library Plaza, Teen Programming Room, Noblesville. www. hepl.lib.in.us. 317-770-3242.

Homeschool Link: The Boxcar Children Read Gertrude Chandler Warner’s classic mystery novel, with help from your librarian.

1pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Terrific Twos Storytime Treat your child to an hour of fun activities that will encourage the development of preliteracy skills. 11am. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www. jcplin.org. 317-535-6206.

Thursday Night at the Movies for Teens Join us for movies on the BIG SCREEN!!

Snacks will be provided. Registration is requested. 6-8:30pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0315.

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Friday 16 Friday Family Fun: Happy Birthday, Pooh!

It’s Winnie-the-Pooh’s birthday. Help us treat that silly old bear to a spot of something sweet. Wear your favorite Pooh clothes and bring your favorite stuffed animal. 4:30pm.

FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www.jcplin.org. 317-535-6206.

Knit It! Young people ages 9 - 18 are invited to learn how to knit their own hats, leg warmers, cell phone covers or iPod covers by using a loom.

2-5pm. FREE. Pike Library. 6525 Zionsville Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-2754480.

Drop In Craft at College Ave Children of all ages are invited to drop in to create a fun craft for home. During library hours. FREE. College Avenue Library. 4180 N. College Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4320.

Saturday 17 Community Drumming Circle Tony Showa (Navajo) brings a holistic approach to release stress and anxiety from everyday living. Tony, a Sweat Lodge Leader, a Pow Wow drummer and drum maker, will do his best to help you through group drumming to stay focused and strong on your path. Are you now asking yourself, “I don’t even know my own path” or “what path?” .

12:30-1:30pm. $3 per session. Bring a friend for a discount, 2 for $5. Eiteljorg Museum.

500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. eiteljorg.org. (317) 275-1310.

Cowboy Roundup Cowboys, cowgirls and Indians ages 4 - 9 and an adult are invited for stories around the campfire with games, crafts and refreshments.

2-4pm. FREE. East Washington Library. 2822 E. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4360.

John Mueller’s “The Winter Dance Party” John Mueller’s _The Winter Dance Party_ is the official live and authentic re-creation of the final tour by Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens and the Big Bopper (featuring the Big Bopper’s own son paying tribute to his father!). 8 and 10:15pm. Adults: $20/$24, Seniors/Students: $18/$20. Pike Performing Arts Center. 6701 Zionsville Rd, Indianapolis. www.pike.k12. in.us. 317-216-5450.

Little Richard in Concert 8 pm. Madame Walker Theatre. 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. www.walkertheatre.com.

317-236-2099.

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Peace Learning Center’s 11th Annual Martin Luther King Community Fest Watch the Christian Theological Seminary come alive with music, spoken word, family yoga, art workshops, drumming, plus FREE LUNCH all celebrating the life of MLK. Rupert Bonham will be honored for his works at Rupert’s Kids that helps 18-24 year old youth learn job and life skills in Indianapolis.

Also, there will be over 25 local organizations offering programs and recruiting volunteers.

Great for families! . 11-3pm. FREE. Christian Theological Seminary. 1000 W. 42nd St., Indianapolis. www.peacelearningcenter.org.

317-327-7144.

Parents Night Out Parents, do you need a night out without the kids? Bring them to Bates on the first Saturday of the month for a few hours of freedom. Kids will be able to swim, watch movies, and participate in other activities. Snacks and drinks will be provided.

Don’t forget your bathing suits. 6-9pm. $5.

LaShonna Bates Aquatic Center. 1450 S. Reisner St., Indianapolis. 317-327-PARK. Friends of the Library Bookshop Friends of the Library Bookshop is open to the public. Most materials sell for 50 cents. Book bags, calendars, book lights, and bookmarks are also available. 10-2pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

Greater Indy Garage Sale and Marketplace Bargain Buys! Discounts Galore! More vendors, more unique items, MORE FOR YOUR MONEY. The hunt is on. Indy’s Bargain hunter’s paradise is back with over 600 booths, offering a plethora of items at unbelievable prices. Treasure seekers will find antiques, collectibles, jewelry, new and used clothing, arts and crafts, furniture and more. $1 off adult admission in The Trader Paper, Wheels and Deals starting January 5, 2009. 9-6pm on Sat, 10-4pm on Sun. $3.50 for one day, $5 for a twoday pass, kids 12 and under FREE. Indiana State Fairgrounds. 1202 E. 38th St., Blue Ribbon and Champions Pavilion, Indianapolis. www. familyevents.com. 317-236-6515

Sunday 18 Hometown Roots Concert Series As the first of five planned programs in the Library’s new Hometown Roots Concert Series, individuals of all ages are invited to a musical performance inspired by American culture traditions. This program will feature Otis Gibbs, with performances by Cliff Snyder and The Breakups. This program will be held in the Clowes Auditorium. 1:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

Greater Indy Garage Sale and Marketplace Bargain Buys! Discounts Galore! More vendors, more unique items, MORE FOR YOUR MONEY. The hunt is on. Indy’s Bargain

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Martin Luther King Jr. Day Celebration Families can spend an afternoon at the IMA making art, seeing art, hearing music and watching films that honor Dr. King’s messafe of equality and non-violence.

They may start by touring a gallery of restored murals originally installed at Wishard Hospital.

Galleries open Noon6 pm. Free. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317923-1331.

The Music, Martin, and Me To conclude the Martin Luther King Jr. Day Celebration at the IMA, visitors can see this dramatic musical exploration of the relevance of Dr. King’s messafe today, conceived and performed by Bill Myers and featuring Indiana jazz Divine Performing Arts Chinese Dance legends. Check www.imamuseum. and Music Company Performance The world’s premier Chinese dance and music org for details. 6pm. Free. company comes to Indianapolis performing a Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 gloriously colorful and exhilarating show. With Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www. masterful choreography and graceful routines imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331. and gorgeously costumed dancers moving in Wiibrary stunning patterns this is a show not to be missed.

Everyone is welcome to compete 2 and 7:30pm. $120-$20. Murat Theatre. 502 N. in our weekly gaming event. 5pm.

New Jersey St., Indianapolis. www.livenation.

FREE. Johnson County Public com/murat. 317-239-1000.

Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www. jcplin.org. 317-878-9560 hunter’s paradise is back with over 600 booths, offering a plethora of items at unbelievable prices. Treasure seekers will find antiques, collectibles, jewelry, new and used clothing, arts and crafts, furniture and more. $1 off adult admission in The Trader Paper, Wheels and Fit for the New Year Deals starting January 5, 2009. 9-6pm on Sat, The new year brings new resolutions to become 10-4pm on Sun. $3.50 for one day, $5 for a two- fit and healthy. Improve your chances for success day pass, kids 12 and under FREE. Indiana by reviewing the foundations of a comprehensive State Fairgrounds. 1202 E. 38th St., Blue Ribbon fitness plan with personal trainer Emily Collins. and Champions Pavilion, Indianapolis. www. 6pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. familyevents.com. 317-236-6515 www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

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Drop-in-on-your-day-off Martin Luther King Day For grades kindergarten through 6. Drop in to celebrate Martin Luther King Jr., and his part in the Civil Rights Movement. Learn about the significance of this important leader through books and activities and take the opportunity to write your thoughts on a special scroll.

This is a drop in program, so no registration is required. 2-4pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Noblesville). One Library Plaza, Teen Programming Room, Noblesville. www. hepl.lib.in.us. 317-770-3216.

Fireside Stories for the Family: Dreams Relax by the library’s fireplace and enjoy stories for the whole family. Pajamas optional.

7pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Happy Birthday, Dr. King!

Honor the civil rights hero who answered violence with non-violence and hatred with love. Grades 1+. 2pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Research Basics for Kids Just because it’s on the internet doesn’t mean it’s true. Learn how to sort the good from the bad and how to find additional information using library databases. These skills will help you all the way through college! Grades 3-5.

4:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood. www.jcplin.org. 317-885-1330.

Preschool Storytime Treat your child to an hour of fun activities that will encourage the development of preliteracy skills. 11am. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www. jcplin.org. 317-535-6206.

Storytime Under the Sea Preschoolers ages 3 - 5 and an adult are invited for stories, songs, crafts and fun.

10:30am. FREE. College Avenue Library. 4180 N. College Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4320

Wednesday 21 Travel Club: Egypt Warm up with a trip to Egypt. Discover what the lands of mummies and pyramids is like today. Grades K-6. 4:30pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424

Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317878-9560.

Alphabet Preschool Storytime at West Indianapolis Preschoolers and an adult are invited to explore a letter of the alphabet with stories and crafts. 2:30pm. FREE. West Indianapolis Branch Library. 1216 S. Kappes St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4540.

Baby and Toddler Storytime at East Washington St. Library Babies and toddlers up to 24 months and an adult are invited for stories, songs and activities. 1pm. FREE. East Washington Library. 2822 E. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4360.

Nursery Time Nursery Time is for ages newborn up to two years of age. A parent or caregiver is required to attend. Program consists of activities, fingerplays, songs and a craft. Registration is required. 10-10:30am. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

Shake, Rattle and Read: Storytime Toddlers and a favorite adult will experience the discovery of books. This action-packed program encourages the child’s emerging language skills. For more information, call the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 844-3363. 9:15, 10:15-10:45 or 11:15-11:45am.

FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us

Thursday 22 A Modern Re-Telling of Two Classics Families are invited as members of the Young Actors Theatre (YAT), the city’s oldest notfor-profit children’s theater, present “Alice in Wonderland,” a modern version of the classic that begins in the year 2009 involving a 9thgrader named Alice. This program, presented

by YAT’s TEENZ, an acting troupe of 8th - 12th graders, will be held in the Clowes Auditorium.

7 pm. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

It’s Not a Box! Hear a few stories about imaginative uses for boxes and then transform a refrigerator box into a space ship, a house, a boat, a cave, or whatever else strikes your fancy. Space is limited, so be sure to register in advance. K-3.

4pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www. jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Free Community Drum Circle Bongo Boy Music School is proud to announce our new affiliation with REMO, Inc. Bongo Boy Music School hosts a FREE Community Drum Circle every Thursday Night. No experience necessary. All ages and levels are welcome. Drums will be provided by Bongo Boy Music School and REMO. Parents bring your kids. Kids bring your parents and friends. 7:30-8:30pm. FREE. Bongo Boy Music School. 8481 Bash St. Suite 1100, Indianapolis. www.bongoboymusic.com. 317-595-9065.

Preschool Storytime At Pike Preschoolers ages 3 - 5 and an adult are invited for stories, songs and other activities to encourage their love for books and reading.

10:15am and 11am. FREE. Pike Library. 6525 Zionsville Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org.

317-275-4480.

Thursday Night at the Movies for Teens Join us for movies on the BIG SCREEN!!

Snacks will be provided. Registration is requested. 6-8:30pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0315

Friday 23 Clay Play Spend this session working with clay and make a coil pot. Watch as a Conner Prairie potter makes a small pot. 9:30-11am. $9/ member youth, $10/non-member youth.

Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers. www.connerprairie.org. 317-776-6000.

Extreme Readers Join us for a new winter book club. This month’s book is My Side of the Mountain

by Jean Craighead George. Registration is required and begins Friday, January 2, either in person or by calling 844-3363. Copies of the book will be available for check out when you register. Grades 3-5. 2-3pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us

Saturday 24 A Modern Re-Telling of Two Classics Families are invited as members of the Young Actors Theatre (YAT), the city’s oldest not-forprofit children’s theater, present “The Spell of Sleeping Beauty,” a modern version of the classic that begins in the year 1992 in a castle in the inner city of Never Nod. This program, presented by YAT’s KIDZ, an acting troupe of 3rd - 7th graders, will be held in the Clowes Auditorium. 11 am, 3 pm. FREE. Central Library. 40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www. imcpl.org. 317-275-4100.

American Girl Party for Kit Come dressed as your favorite American Girl character or bring your favorite doll if you wish. We will hear a story about Kit and life in the 1930s, see a magician and enjoy a snack. Free tickets are required and will be available beginning Saturday, January 17 at the Children’s & Youth Services desk. For more information, call 844-3363. 11-noon or 1-2pm in Program Room. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us.

Community Drumming Circle Tony Showa (Navajo) brings a holistic approach to release stress and anxiety from everyday living. Tony, a Sweat Lodge Leader, a Pow Wow drummer and drum maker, will do his best to help you through group drumming to stay focused and strong on your path. Are you now asking yourself, “I don’t even know my own path” or “what path?” . 12:301:30pm. $3 per session. Bring a friend for a discount, 2 for $5. Eiteljorg Museum. 500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. eiteljorg.org. (317) 275-1310.

Kids Helping Kids Indoor Garage Sale This garage sale is for kids, by kids! Come join the fun at the Forest Park Inn, 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. Money raised will go towards Noblesville Parks and Recreation children’s program scholarships. Children run their tables, with adult assistance. All items for sale must be fun stuff: toys, games, dress-up attire, books and videos. No clothes please!

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Admission is $1 per person, each table is $10 for vendors. For more information, and to register for a table, call the Parks office at 770-5750. Tickets for admission will be sold at the door - no pre-sale. Noblesville Parks Department. Forest Park Lodge, 701 Cicero Rd, Noblesville. www.cityofnoblesville. org/parks. 317-770-5750.

Girls Night Out Massafe, Hand & Foot Treatments,Food & Fun. Bring a friend and come hang with the girls . 6-9PM. $30 includes everything. Eden’s Pathway. 2700 E. 55th Pl. STE. 5, Indianapolis. www. edenspathway.com. 317.205.9377.

Year of Ox Celebration Presented by Butler University and Lilly Chinese Cultural Network. Celebrate the Chinese New Year with music, dance, theatre and more in this family friendly event. Adults: $30, $25, $20. Students/ Seniors: $24, $20, $16. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis. www.cloweshall.org/calendar/event. lasso?-KeyValue=140&-Token.Action=.

317-940-9697.

Sunday 25 A Modern Re-Telling of Two Classics Families are invited as members of the Young Actors Theatre (YAT), the city’s oldest not-for-profit children’s theater, present “The Spell of Sleeping Beauty,” a modern version of the classic that begins in the year 1992 in a castle in the inner city of Never Nod. This program, presented

by YAT’s KIDZ, an acting troupe of 3rd 7th graders, will be held in the Clowes Auditorium. 3 pm. FREE. Central Library.

40 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4100.

The Bizarro West with Dan Piraro Dan Piraro takes us through The Bizarro West - his alternative take on his Western and Native themed Bizarro cartoons. Part lecture, part comedy an all access looking into his writing and illustrations followed by meet and greet and book signings. The Museum Store will carry several Bizarro titles and Dan will also be a featured guest speaker at the Western and Native Reflections in Comic Books program. 3-5pm.

Eiteljorg Museum. 500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.eiteljorg.org. (317) 2751310.

Open Gym Open Swim The times are 1-5pm at the Westfield HS Pool and Multi-purpose Facility. The cost is $5, children 2 and under are free. All Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Lifeguards will be on duty. For more information, please call 317-804-3185.

1-5PM. $5. Westfield High School. 18250 North Union Street, Westfield. westfield. in.gov. 317-804-3185.

Monday 26 Art and Book Adventures: It’s a Winner! Caldecott Medal Art Today the American Library Association will award the Caldecott Medal to the year’s best picture book. Flip through the finalists and decide which one you like best. Then find out which book took the top prize. 4:30pm. FREE. Johnson County INDY’S CHILD * JANUARY 2009

Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www. jcplin.org. 317-535-6206.

Chinese New Year The Year of the Ox begins today. Celebrate by learning more about the Chinese Zodiac.

4pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Ishmael Beah Presented by: Celebration of Diversity Distinguished Lecture Series. FREE a d m i s s i o n . Ti c k e t s required. Limit 2. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis. www. cloweshall.org/calendar/ event.lasso?-KeyValue=140&Token.Action=. 317-940-9697.

Job Searching on the Internet Learn to search for job listings on various websites, how to search for information about companies such as annual reports, and look up resume, cover letter, and interview tips. 5-7pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Computer Training Lab, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us. 317-776-6939 or call Brian 770-3229 for more info.

Mother-Daughter Book Club January Book: Lunch Money by Andrew Clements. Special treats! Registration is required and begins Monday, January 5, either in person or by calling the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 844-3363. Grades 4 & 5. 6:30-7:30pm in Storytime. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us.

Wiibrary Everyone is welcome to compete in our weekly gaming event. 5pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin.org. 317-878-9560.

Tuesday 27 Chair Exercises for Wellness Get moving, and get energized without getting out of your chair. Chair aerobics are a low impact, high energy way to work out all the muscles of the body. It’s never too late to Improve your strength, flexibility, and cardiovascular fitness. 2:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www.jcplin.org. 317-535-6206.

Reader’s Theater Club Have you always wanted to act but were afraid you might forget your lines? Never fear, reader’s theater is here! Read scripts based on popular books and “play” your way to greater confidence. 4:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood. www.jcplin.org. 317-885-1330.

Resume Workshop Learn the basics of creating a resume section by section, how to create a functional versus chronological resume, how to improve a resume with employment gaps, and how to protect your resume info from identity theft. 5-7pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Computer Training Lab, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317776-6939 or call Brian 770-3229 for more info.

Tuesday Night at the Movies for Teens Join us for movies on the big screen and free munchies! No registration is required, but you must be between the ages of 12 and 19. 6-8pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Noblesville). One Library Plaza, Teen Programming Room, Noblesville. www. hepl.lib.in.us. 317-770-3242.

Wii Gaming Night: Shake Things Up! We’ll be moving and shaking with a sporty stack of Wii games, including Wii Sports, Mario Kart Wii, and other fun titles.

Bring a friend and get ready to play.

No experience necessary. Grades 6-12.

6:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www.jcplin. org. 317-535-6206.

Preschool Storytime at Southport Preschoolers ages 3 through kindergarten and an adult are invited for stories, songs and rhymes. 11am. FREE. Southport Library. 2630 E. Stop 11 Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4510.

Your Curious Child and You Early Literacy Program This early literacy program is for Early Talkers and Talkers (newborn through four years) and a parent or caregiver. Hear stories and participate in activities that encourage one of the six skills children need to be ready to learn to read. Registration is required.

10-10:30am and 11-11:30am. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Noblesville).

One Library Plaza, Children’s Programming Room, Noblesville. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-770-3242.

Wednesday 28 ”Life of an Actor” The debate between teaching evolution, creationism and intelligent design in classrooms continues across the country. A panel comprised of experts in their fields will focus on the current educational and legal environment for teaching evolution and the long term legacy of the Scopes trial. Leaders of various faith traditions, faculty from the Butler University College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, and the Indiana University School of Law will be invited to sit on the panel. The evening will be moderated by Professor Michael Zimmerman, Dean of the Butler University College of Liberal Arts and Sciences and Founder of The Clergy Letter Project. 7pm. Free admissionTicket Not Required. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis. www.cloweshall.org/calendar/event. lasso?-KeyValue=145&-Token.Action=.

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Duct Tape Crafts Come explore the many creative uses of duct tape. Create your very own, one-of-a-kind duct tape tie or a CD holder. Tape will be supplied just bring your enthusiasm! Space is limited so register today. 2-3pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib. in.us. 317-579-0304.

Nature Crafts We’re going to use items from nature to make fun and creative crafts to hang in

your home and share with your friends and family. 5:30-6:30pm. $6. Raymond Park/Indy Island. 8575 E. Raymond St., Indianapolis. 317-327-PARK.

Alphabet Preschool Storytime at West Indianapolis Preschoolers and an adult are invited to explore a letter of the alphabet with stories and crafts. 2:30pm. FREE. West Indianapolis Branch Library. 1216 S. Kappes St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl. org. 317-275-4540.

Haughville Baby and Toddler Storytime Babies and toddlers up to 2 years old and an adult are invited for age-appropriate stories, songs and fingerplays (1/7 and 1/21). Pre-K Storytime: Stories, songs and fun activities (1/14 and 1/28). 11am on 1/7 and 1/21, 4pm on 1/14 and 1/28. FREE. Haughville Library. 2121 W. Michigan St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4420.

Toddler Time at Pike Toddlers 18 - 36 months and an adult are invited for stories, songs and movement activities that foster a love of books and reading. 10:15am and 11am. FREE. Pike Library. 6525 Zionsville Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4480

Thursday 29 All About Chinese New Year This week starts the Year of the Ox on the Chinese calendar. Come learn about Chinese New Year and participate in our celebration.

For more information, call the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 844-3363. Grades 1-5. 5 or 6:30-7:30pm in Storytime Room.

FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us.

School Age Extra: Spectacular Super Bowl Stuff We’re suiting up for the Super Bowl with winning stories, activities, games, movies and crafts. Wear your favorite team’s colors. And of course, no Super Bowl party would be complete without snacks.

6:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Clark Pleasant Branch. 530 Tracy Rd., Ste. 250, New Whiteland. www.jcplin. org. 317-535-6206.

Thursday Night at the Movies for Teens Join us for movies on the BIG SCREEN!!

Snacks will be provided. Registration is requested. 6-8:30pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us. 317-579-0315.

Preschool Storytime Treat your child to an hour of fun activities that will encourage the development of preliteracy skills. . 10am and 1:30pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: White River Branch. 1664 Library Blvd., Greenwood. www.jcplin.org. 317-885-1330.

Nature Discovery Programs Groundhog Predictions - Learn about hibernation and why we look to our animal friends to determine when spring will come! Join us for activities, songs, crafts, stories, and making new friends. 3 to 6 yr. olds: offered Thurs., Jan. 29 and Fri. Jan. 30 9:30-11:00 a.m. and 1:30-3:00 p.m. Cost is $8.

Registration required at least 1 week prior to program. Parent/child 2’s and 3’s: Offered on Fri, Jan. 30 from 11:00-12:00, these classes

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allow a parent or caregiver to explore the natural with their special little one. Cost is $5. Registration required at least 1 week prior to program.

Noblesville Parks Department. Forest Park Lodge, 701 Cicero Rd, Noblesville. www.cityofnoblesville.org/parks. 317-770-5750

Friday 30 LA Theatre Works presents The Great Tennessee Monkey Trial starring Ed Asner In 1925, a trial that ignited one of the great debates of American society played out in a rural Tennessee courthouse. Eight decades later, the issues and oratory of the Scopes trial - pitting evolution against creationism - have a hauntingly familiar ring. L.A. Theatre Works performs a radio-play format production of the Great Tennessee Monkey Trial - based on actual transcripts - with a cast of renowned stage and screen actors. 8pm. Adults: $35, $30, $25; Students/Seniors: $28, $24, $20. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis. www.cloweshall.org/calendar/event.lasso?-KeyValue=140&-Token.

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Birth of Soul: Music from Motown to Modern Days Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t miss â&#x20AC;&#x153;Birth of Soul,â&#x20AC;? an original stage play written and directed by featured singer/actress Joyce Licorish, as it opens Friday, Jan. 30 at 8 p.m. $30, $25 and $15. Madame Walker Theatre. 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. www.walkertheatre.com. 317-236-2099.

Nature Discovery Programs Groundhog Predictions - Learn about hibernation and why we look to our animal friends to determine when spring will come! Join us for activities, songs, crafts, stories, and making new friends. 3 to 6 yr. olds: offered Thurs., Jan. 29 and Fri. Jan. 30 9:30-11:00 a.m. and 1:30-3:00 p.m. Cost is $8. Registration required at least 1 week prior to program.

Parent/child 2â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and 3â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s: Offered on Fri, Jan. 30 from 11:00-12:00, these classes allow a parent or caregiver to explore the natural with their special little one. Cost is $5. Registration required at least 1 week prior to program. Noblesville Parks Department. Forest Park Lodge, 701 Cicero Rd, Noblesville. www.cityofnoblesville.org/parks. 317-770-5750

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Saturday 31 Digital Photography Are you still feeling intimidated by your digital camera? Bring it to the library, and photographer Jim Sparks will show you how to take better pictures every time. 1pm. FREE. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-2833.

Divine Performing Arts Chinese Dance and Music Company Performance The worldâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s premier Chinese dance and music company comes to Indianapolis performing a gloriously colorful and exhilarating show.

With masterful choreography and graceful routines and gorgeously costumed dancers moving in stunning patterns this is a show not to be missed. 2 and 7:30pm. $120-$20. Murat Theatre. 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis. www.livenation.com/murat. 317-239-1000.

Rhythm of Life Drum Festival The Eiteljorg will be booming with the sounds of live drums at this program that shows how we are all connected through the rhythm of percussion! Learn about pow wow drumming and dancing with drum maker Tony Showa (Dine), try out various instruments with our exhibitors, watch diverse performances and listen to drum groups from around Indiana. Bring your own percussion instrument, or make one in our education center and join us for the community drum circle. 104pm. Eiteljorg Museum. 500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. eiteljorg.org. (317) 275-1310.

Parents Night Out Parents, do you need a night out without the kids? Bring them to Bates on the first Saturday of the month for a few hours of freedom. Kids will be able to swim, watch movies, and participate in other activities. Snacks and drinks will be provided. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forget your bathing suits. 6-9pm. $5.

LaShonna Bates Aquatic Center. 1450 S. Reisner St., Indianapolis. 317327-PARK. Friends of the Library Bookshop Friends of the Library Bookshop is open to the public. Most materials sell for 50 cents. Book bags, calendars, book lights, and bookmarks are also available. 10-2pm. FREE. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Program Room 169/170, Fishers. www.hepl. lib.in.us. 317-579-0304.

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