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what’s new at Preschool See what Indy area programs offer the littlest learners Eight great Picks not to miss this season!

Kid problems when to step in and when to stay out

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PRIVATE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE GUIDE

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{ F EATURES}

{AROUND TOWN}

{RESOURCES & CALENDARS}

18 // Lowering Your Daughter's Risk of Breast Cancer

12 F I R E B R E ATH I NG FUN

41 PR I VATE SC HOO L OPEN HOUSE GU I DE

What to consider now for her future health

20 // Screen Time Limits

Setting (and sticking to) a reasonable media limit

22 // What's New at Preschool A look at what some innovative Indy area programs offer little learners

26 // Kid Problems

When to step in and when to stay out

28 // Indy Fall Fun

Eight great picks not to miss this season!

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14 ZOOBOO

46 EDUCAT I ON & C H I LDCAR E GU I DE

{PEDIATRIC HEALTH}

53 DA I LY E VENTS

16 CREATING A PAWSITIVE DENTAL EXPERIENCE

57 ONGO I NG E VENTS

{COMMENTARY & PARENTING} 44 AS K TH E TE AC H ER 48 FOOTNOTES

58 M AR K E TP L AC E 59 FUN & WAC K Y CA LEN DAR

{SPECIAL NEEDS}

50 A DAD I N F LUENC E

32 MANAGING HALLOWEEN FOR C H I LDR EN W I TH AUT I S M

{IN EVERY ISSUE}

34 T H E S O C I A L I M PAC T O F DYS LE XI A

06 ED I TOR 'S NOTE 08 C O M M UN I T Y SP OT LIGHT 10 OUR SOC I A L N E T WOR K

35 " F. A .T. C I T Y " PROG R A M 36 S PEC I A L N EEDS GU I DE 38 S PEC I A L N EEDS E VENTS

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E D I TO R ' S N OT E WORDS BY // SUSAN BRYANT

M eet t h e Sta f f FOUNDING PUBLISHER Barbara Wynne // barbara@indyschild.com

PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox // mary@indyschild.com

EDITOR Susan Bryant // susan@indyschild.com

SALES & BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT Jennica Zalewski // jennica@indyschild.com

ADVERTISING COORDINATOR Karen Ring // karen@indyschild.com

31 Days Is Not Enough Don’t you wish the month of October could last just a little bit longer? Time enough to squeeze in a few more golden days before the first snow flurries arrive?

Fall never seems to last quite long enough to savor everything an autumn day brings.

Which is why we at Indy’s Child encourage you and your family to make the most of this October!

This issue is scattered throughout with great activities and events to enjoy the whole month.

Check out our article on Indy Fall Fun and all the events listed in our Calendar to get the scoop on all the hayrides, pumpkin patches, apple orchards and Halloween festivities in our area. There’s so much to do, you better stop reading now and get right on it! (Just kidding, there’s more we want to tell you about!)

October is also Breast Cancer Awareness Month and it’s likely you know someone who has been affected by the disease, with one in eight women getting a diagnosis. While this topic can be scary to think about, especially when we think of our daughters, education and awareness are key. Try reading Lowering Your Daughter’s Risk of Breast Cancer for information on how to influence your child’s chance of developing the disease.

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Have you ever been caught in the parenting conundrum of not knowing when to let your child solve a problem on their own or step in yourself? (I can think of a few!) See if our article on Kid Problems rings a bell – and if you agree with our experts’ opinions on how to handle some common dilemmas. (Keeping with our theme of conundrums, need some help wrangling your child away from their various devices? Take a look at Screen Time for tips on managing the ever-present screens in their life.)

Got a preschooler at home? If so, you’re probably on the lookout for just the right school that works for both your child and your family. The Indianapolis area is loaded with great options – we’ve found a few you might like to know more about in What’s New at Preschool? (How to keep the tears in check while seeing your baby off to school for the first time – well, that’s another article!)

That’ll do it for us – the clock is ticking. Get out and enjoy your October ASAP!

P.S. It’s Private School Open House season! If you’re in the market for a new school, check out our guide on all the upcoming events in our area.

CREATIVE DIRECTOR Katie Clark // katie@indyschild.com

DIGITAL PUBLISHER + EVENTS Wendy Hasser // wendy@indyschild.com

WEB DEVELOPMENT + GR APHICS Kahlie Cannon // kahlie@indyschild.com

DIGITAL EDITOR Jeanine Bobenmoyer // jeanine@indyschild.com

BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns // roxanne@indyschild.com

INTERN Meg Wynne // meg@indyschild.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Maggie Loiselle, Melissa Glidden, Jennifer Thompson, Megan S. Bohrer, Caroline Shanley, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz and Kelly Blewett

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our cover kid {MEET KALLEN} Age: 9 years

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Color // Turquoise SCHOOL SUBJECT // Math Sport // Basketball TV Show // Henry Danger BOOK // Battle Bugs Series SUPER HERO // Spider Man {When I grOW up I want to be} An actor and a photographer

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In case you haven’t planned Fall Break yet, why not zip in to something fun?

We’ve got just the thing: A family zip line trip! Our readers went bananas last month over this post at IndysChild.com detailing all of the zip lines within 60 miles of Indianapolis.

It’s perfect for a day out of fun, especially over Fall Break.

Find the course nearest you: indyschild.com/zip-linesin-indiana/

Don’t lose your head. Leave that to the Headless Horseman.

The Conner Prairie Headless Horseman rides again this fall, and it’s a great way to kick off your favorite autumn activities. Bring the family to Conner Scairie, a haunted land inhabited by fun-loving ghouls. You can also enjoy a ride on the famous Balloon Voyage, pop by the Apple Store and see the Headless Horseman during a haunted hayride!

Get more info on dates and tickets: connerprairie.org/Things-To-Do/Events/ Headless-Horseman

5O Fall Bucket List Ideas.

Run through a corn maze. Take a fall hike. Test your wits at a local haunted house or scream park. And those are just a few of the ideas on our 2016 Fall Bucket List. In fact, we have 47 more worth a peek or weekend plan with the family.

Discover the rest at: indyschild.com/fall-bucket-list-ideas/

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Love getINoutdoors?

Do it for free.

In honor of our state’s bicentennial, and the Indiana State Parks centennial, the Indiana Department of Natural Resources is offering free admission at select state parks on select days. Not so coincidentally, all free admission days overlap with days when the Indiana Torch Relay is running through town. This month’s free days are October 2nd and 9th.

There are plenty of other ways to celebrate the Indiana State Parks centennial: INStateParks100.com

Say BOO! At the Zoo. One of our favorite fall activities returns to the Indianapolis Zoo – ZooBoo! With the animals out enjoying the mild temps, the twist of Halloween-themed décor and boatloads of fun activities, you have even more reason to plan a visit. And we never need an excuse to put on a Halloween costume. Visit on weekends October 7-30!

Get all the details at: indianapoliszoo.com/events-and-groups/ zoo-events/halloween-zooboo

The new West Commons Playground has finally arrived.

Mark your calendar for the first Indy’s Special Child Resource Fair.

On November 5th, Indy’s Child magazine will host our first Resource Fair designed for families of children with special needs who live in and around central Indiana. It’s a chance to connect with other families, local organizations and more at the Monon Center of Carmel from 11 am-2 pm. Watch for more info this month.

Learn more: indyschild.com/indys-special-childresource-fair-registration/

Thank goodness, because we were getting anxious! The new West Commons Playground at Central Park of Carmel opened quietly over Labor Day Weekend and it has been worth the wait. A wonderful play area divided by age group and lots of expression swings and more, this will be your new favorite park stop. Guaranteed.

Take a peek at pics: indyschild.com/carmel-parks-west-commons-playground/

“Ja:” It’s time for GermanFest.

Discover your inner German and don your lederhosen at the Athenaeum on Saturday, October 8th. This unique family event includes an urban flea market with more than 100 vendors, wiener dog races, durstig games, a strong man competition and some of the finest German fare around. Oh and the dancing… you’ll need your dancing shoes.

Purchase your advanced tickets: athenaeumfoundation.org/theatrebuildingevents/germanfest/

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We’re chatting up a storm over on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

Come find us for quick laughs throughout the day, parenting tips, must-sees-in-the-city, giveaways and more!

Our readers were saddened to learn the news of famed children’s author Anna Dewdney’s passing.

Known for her incredible Llama Llama book series, an outpouring of love and stories flooded the Indy’s Child Facebook page last month:

So sad! My daughter just asked me, ‘No more Llama Llama books?’ I had to sadly tell her no.

She loves those books!

– Aimee M.

So saddened to hear this!!! We absolutely love her Llama Llama books! She has brought so much joy to my son and helped instill a passion for reading!

– Amanda R.

May you rest in peace & your books carry on for years to come!

– Marianne C.

We love her books and will read some of them tomorrow. I'm always saying, Llama Llama likes to share!

– Susie F. {FACEBOOK.COM/ INDYSCHILDMAGAZINE}

be on the lookout for this month's online contests!

ZooBoo Tickets, Beef and Boards Tickets, Wine and Canvas Passes, and Tickets to The Children's Museum of Indianapolis!

we're @indyschild We have our nose to the grindstone on Twitter, retweeting your favorite local hotspot announcements, parenting trends and more.

follow us at @INDYSCHILD Come along with our IC Insiders as we check out sneak peeks around town and show off other behind-the-scenes fun.

Exploring the Conner Prairie Apple Store

An apple a day keeps the smiles today!

The Apple Store opened last month - @shellybergman and daughter Soph stocked up on their fave treats.

Riley Health Sports Legends Experience breaks ground

We – actually @luisruvi - stormed the Children’s Museum for the groundbreaking of the new Riley Health Sports Legends Experience complex, opening in Spring 2018.

Children of Indiana Nature Park peek

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IC Digital Editor @themomista1 road tripped to Centerville for a peek at the first Children of Indiana Nature Park, where kids can receive deeds to land parcels of their own.

What a view!

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A R O U N D TOW N WORDS BY // Caroline Shanley, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

Fire-Breathing Fun at The Children's Museum of Indianapolis!

For ages, princesses and knights have tried to defeat her. She flies around her castle, breathing fire on anybody who tries to cross her path! But who is she and why has she cursed the castle?

Here are supplies the witches recommend: • Empty toilet paper rolls • Tissue paper in warm colors like yellow, red or orange • Crayons

Meet Burnadette, the fiery dragon, if you dare. She will fly into the 53rd annual The Children’s Museum Guild’s Haunted House Cursed Castle between October 8-30, 2016. Break the curse as you find out what disaster lurks behind the drawbridge and gate.

Tiptoe through the secret garden, storm the castle or maybe uncover what’s hidden in the dragon dungeon.

Beware - you may find yourself spinning through the tunnel or lost in the witch’s den.

In preparation for the big adventure, you and your little ones can become fierce dragons as well with a craft the whole family can do together. Thanks to our creative witches at the museum, you can make your own dragon snout that breathes fire (don’t worry parents, fire isn’t actually involved!)

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• Construction and tissue paper • Glue sticks Cut construction paper to fit around the toilet paper roll and glue it onto the roll. Next, cut the tissue paper into thin pieces (2” long). Glue the tips of the strips on the inside of one end of the toilet paper roll along the circular opening. You can personalize it with markers by drawing scales or other designs to make the dragon snout truly yours. To “breathe” fire, blow in the end of the toilet paper roll without tissue paper glued to it. Now you can be just like Burnadette!

Be sure to check out some of the other Halloween-themed festivities at the museum such as the Black Hat Dash, presented by Riley Children's Health on Saturday, October 29.

PHOTO CREDIT // The CHILDREN'S MUSEUM OF INDIANAPOLIS

This 1-mile/5K frightfully fun run and walk is a great way for the whole family to get fit. The Haunted House offers IPL’s Lights-On Hours for the little ones who scare more easily, but older kids will enjoy the ever-scary Frightening Hours. Don’t forget to post your cherished family memories on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter (#HauntedTCM). Cursed Castle is

presented by Old National Bank and The Children’s Museum Guild. Tickets are available at the door, The Children’s Museum Box Office or online. Find out additional info on the Feast with the Witches and more at childrensmuseum.org/ hauntedhouse.

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Enjoy Family-Friendly Halloween Fun During ZooBoo Presented by Central Indiana Honda Dealers There’s no need to fear as summer draws to a close – one of the Indianapolis Zoo’s most beloved fall festivities, ZooBoo presented by Central Indiana Honda Dealers, is back for its 35th year with four weekends of spooktacular fun!

Fall is already one of the best times to visit the Zoo, with the animals out and active in mild temperatures. The Zoo opens daily at 9 am, plus Zoo guests can enjoy Halloween activities with a Zoo flair from 2-7 pm Oct. 7-9, 14-16, 21-23 and 28-30.

Zoo animals enjoy getting into the spirit of the season with extra animal keeper chats, Halloween-themed enrichment and special activities. A few guest favorites include the brown bear bobbing for apples and the pumpkinsplattering fun of the Elephant Pumpkin Smash presented by Sam’s Club.

Children are encouraged to dress up in their favorite costumes and bring a reusable goodie bag to gather a few treats along the Trick-or-Treat Trail presented by Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St. Vincent, located in Plains.

The little ones can also enjoy lots of activities throughout the Zoo. They’ll love dashing through the obstacle

course at Broomstick Alley, located in the Kroger Splash Park. Plus, there will be music, dancing and pumpkin bowling in Spooktacular Square presented by Macy’s, located behind the Simon Skjodt International Orangutan Center.

ZooBoo is included with regular Zoo admission and free to Zoo members.

Guests are encouraged to save by purchasing tickets in advance at Donatos and Indiana Members Credit Union.

Families can climb aboard the Spooktacular Train Ride presented by MedExpress and enjoy an enchanted ride around the Plains exhibit that includes some Halloween surprises and a special treat at the end. The Round-Go-Merry presented by State Farm — the carousel that runs backwards — as well as the Roller Ghoster are also festive favorites.

PHOTO CREDIT // CARLA KNAPP

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P E D IAT R I C HEALTH − B RANDED CONTENT

Creating a PAWSitive Dental Experience At Fishers Pediatric Dentistry Pearly has been with FPD for just over two months, and her personality has definitely changed the energy at the office. “She already has an amazing intuition for helping nervous children, and has been able to make anxious patients feel more at ease,” stated Dr. Ana.

The use of therapy dogs is a growing trend for providing comfort in today’s healthcare facilities and beyond, and Fishers Pediatric Dentistry (FPD) is proud to be a part of this movement.

Meet Pearly, FPD’s newest addition to the team! Pearly is a 4-month-old miniature Australian Labradoodle and is the official mascot and therapy dog for FPD. FPD understands that getting your child to the dentist is not always easy, and there may be fears and anxieties associated with visiting the dentist.

That is why Dr. Ana Vàzquez and Dr. Misti Pratt, owners of FPD, chose to think outside of the box in order to enhance their patient experience by offering animal-assisted therapy.

Research has shown that pet therapy provides both physical and emotional benefits during stressful situations, such as a trip to the dentist. Animalassisted therapy has also been known to provide a sense of calming and support for children with autism, ADHD and other special needs. Being in the presence of a companion animal can significantly reduce stress and anxiety, and provides a dose of comfort and unconditional love that puts patients at ease.

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Pearly has also made a positive impact on her coworkers. “She is one of the first to arrive in the morning, and she takes the time to greet each member of her FPD family as they enter the door to start their day,” Dr. Misti added. When Pearly is not offering comfort and support to patients, she can often be found providing her team members their daily dose of “pet therapy.” It is no wonder dogs are known as “man’s best friend.”

Pearly will continue her extensive training over the next few months and will work chair-side more and more as she grows up. A vital part of her training is to be at the office every day so she can be exposed to all of the different noises and work on developing her socialization skills. She typically works Monday through Thursday, and is often found near the reception area greeting the patients, or chair-side lending a paw to hold.

On your next visit to the office, be sure to ask to meet Pearly – she will definitely be excited to see you!

To learn more about the services offered at Fishers Pediatric Dentistry, visit www.fisherspediatric.com .

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LOWERING

YOUR DAUGHTER'S RISK OF

breast cancer What to consider now for her future health WORDS BY // Megan S. Bohrer

Being a parent is the most beautiful and simultaneously terrifying adventure possible.

The terrible twos, learning to drive, heading off to college – the endeavor of raising human beings can be over- whelming. Yet parents in all stages of the journey have one thing in common, the drive to protect their children from life’s preventable maladies. Cancer awareness and prevention, although scary to think about, is crucial. According to the National Breast Cancer Foundation, one in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime.

Here we’ve asked several local experts to weigh in on the truth about breast cancer and your best course of action for prevention.

heredity vs. habits

Some trials have even found that exercise can be just as effective as

drugs in reducing

the risk of

breast cancer in

high risk

individuals.

According to Dr. Meghana Raghavendra, a medical oncologist with Franciscan Physician Network Hematology and Oncology Specialists, “Only 5-10% of breast cancers are hereditary.

The majority of the patients with breast cancer have a sporadic occurrence.” Joanna Springman, a physician assistant at Breast & Melanoma Specialists adds, “The rest of breast cancers are a combination of aging, environmental factors, lifestyle choice and comorbidities [in layman’s terms, 18 INDYSCHILD.COM // OCTOBER 2016

the simultaneous presence of two chronic diseases or conditions in a patient].”

Dr. Anna Maria Storniolo, an oncologist at IU Health, also says, “Approximately 75% of breast cancer patients have no family history.

Family history isn’t definitive.”

So what does that mean? Pay attention to your family history, but be aware of the many other factors that contribute to breast cancer. While family history can be a predictor, some women may get lulled into a false sense of security of not getting the disease if they have no relatives who have it. Likewise, those with a family history can become unnecessarily panicked for their likelihood of getting breast cancer. Do pay attention to your habits. Dr. Raghavendra lists the following risk factors for developing breast cancer: Age: The majority of breast cancer occurs in women 50 or older.

Weight: Higher BMI (body mass index) has been associated with increased risk of postmenopausal breast cancer.

Smoking and alcohol consumption: Any smoking and significant alcohol consumption are contributing factors. Doctors recommend no smoking and only moderate alcohol use.

Estrogen exposure: Women who give birth at an

increased maternal age with their first child or who have

early menstruation or late menopause are at an

increased risk.

start healthy habits early

“Living a healthy lifestyle is always best – proper nutrition, exercise, limiting alcohol intake, not smoking, etc.,” says Springman. “These lifestyle choices seem to be the most modifiable risk factors for individuals. Taking control of your health is key.” Dr. Raghavendra also recommends eating a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, fish and olive oil. She encourages monthly breast exams saying “Get to know what your normal breast feels like. This makes it easier to detect an abnormality, should it occur.”

Another important factor: exercise. “We need to instill in our young girls that they need to be physically fit, and exercise needs to be a natural part of their day,” Storniolo insists. She says that the value of good habits formed early in life is crucial, and some trials have even found that exercise can be just as effective as drugs in reducing the risk of breast cancer in high risk individuals.

Being proactive about your health and your daughter’s health at a young age seems to be a universally encouraged way to combat the risk of breast cancer.

Modeling healthy behavior and encouraging your daughter to follow in your footsteps could have a major positive health impact. And when you schedule your first mammogram, Raghavendra and Springman both suggest at age 40, discuss this procedure with your daughter. “Age appropriate screening mammography is the earliest way to detect a breast cancer,” says Raghavendra.

While any diagnosis of cancer is scary, breast cancer does not have to be a death sentence. “Breast cancer is a very treatable cancer,” Raghavendra says.

A diagnosis of breast cancer today, as opposed to ten or twenty years ago, can mean “a greater duration of life thanks to improving imaging techniques,

which detect smaller cancer, and improvement of therapy which allows women to continually have less side effects from treatment and the ability to enjoy life through and beyond treatment,” according to Springman.

a mother’s role

Dr. Raghavendra urges mothers to educate their children regarding signs and symptoms of breast cancer and also the proper techniques of self-breast exam.

Springman adds, “The primary obligation [of a mother] is to bring awareness to her child’s body. Being aware of changes and having the confidence to seek help when a change is noticed is important. Boys should also be aware that they are susceptible to breast cancer and should know signs and symptoms of it.”

Dr. Storniolo understands that it can be frustrating to have so many things out of your control as a parent, but urges women to “optimize what is in your control.” Establish healthy eating and exercise habits early with children, so that they become second-nature. She is also a strong advocate for breastfeeding: “Using the breast for what it was meant to do is probably the best way to reduce the risk of breast cancer.”

Lastly, Dr. Storniolo encourages mothers to keep their anxiety about breast cancer and their daughters in check. Become educated, be a good role model for healthy behaviors and then show your daughter how to live your life not with fear, but awareness.

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WORDS BY // Maggie Loiselle

SCREEN TIME Setting (and sticking to) a reasonable media LIMIT

Maybe it’s because we didn’t grow up with smartphones and social media, or possibly it’s just hard to set limits on something we often overindulge in ourselves, but if you’re a parent struggling to keep your child’s screen time in check, you’re not alone.

Kids today spend an average of seven hours a day engaged with media – including TV, computers, phones and tablets, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). The AAP’s recommendation however, is that screen time be avoided for children under the age of 2 and limited to two hours a day of high-quality content for children and teens.

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decreased physical activity, and may even balloon into a full-blown addiction.

“Some children become more attached than others to screen devices, so it’s better to work with this before any type of problem develops, rather than waiting until there becomes a problem,” says Shelley Spencer-Hellmich, a licensed marriage and family therapist and licensed clinical addiction counselor who practices on Indianapolis’ north side.

The key, experts say, is for parents to set and stick with realistic limits that take into account the when, what and where of a child engaging with media: When: How much time are you comfortable with your child spending in front of a screen each day? Is one long stretch of screen time okay, or should it be broken up into small chunks of time?

What: With what kind of media is your child engaging? Can you strike a balance between educational and entertainment-based media?

Where: Are there areas of your home where you don’t want your child to use media, such as at the dinner table, in the bathroom or in their bedroom?

“Given my research, media is often associated with negative consequences and overuse, but it can also be rich and educational,” says Nicole Martins, assistant media professor at Indiana University who studies the effects of media on child audiences. “It’s part of their lives. To eliminate it completely is not practical, but we need to think about how and when we use it.”

Be consistent at an early age Ideally, as soon as a child is old enough to engage with media, consistent limits should be put in place – which parents may want to write down to hold themselves accountable. “You want to set limits in a way that they understand you’re thinking of their best interests, rather than simply trying to control their day,” Spencer-Hellmich says.

Research has found that having a routine around screen time and disengaging at a natural stopping point – such as the end of an episode or once dinner is ready – makes the transition away from media easier for kids. Similarly, if a device’s battery runs out or WiFi is cut off at a certain time each night, experts say kids tend to accept this technology-based finality more readily than a parent’s mandate.

Set screen-free times and locations When thinking about when and where your children use media, you may consider making certain times and areas of the house screen-free.

“You can set a media-free dinner, so that no one brings their devices to the table, including parents,” Martins suggests. “A good rule of thumb is if no one is using media, then shut it off. Everyone’s experiences and interactions will be more rich when there is not that element of distraction.”

Bedtime is another important transition to keep in mind, since the blue light given off by many tablets and phones can hinder sleep and late night text messages and alerts can disturb healthy sleeping patterns. Experts recommend turning off screens at least a half an hour before bed and charging devices overnight in a different room.

Model responsible media use Even with clear screen time limits in place, don’t underestimate the effect that your personal media habits have on your children.

what you preach” however, your message of the importance of downtime will be lost. Interacting with media alongside your child can present opportunities to talk about the importance of unplugging periodically, what kind of TV shows and games are appropriate and the dangers of sharing too much online.

Of course, there will be days when screen time limits aren’t strictly followed, and that’s to be expected, experts say. As long as you typically follow clear, realistic limits on how your child engages with their various devices and screens, you are on the right track to maintaining a healthy media diet.

“Practice being a role model yourself and self-limit your media intake,” Spencer-Hellmich says, acknowledging that unplugging can be as difficult for parents as it is for kids. Without “practicing

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what's new

at preschool A look at what some innovative Indy area programs offer little learners WORDS BY // Jennifer Thompson

S outhport P res by terian C hristian S chool Southport Presbyterian Church, 7525 McFarland Boulevard, Indianapolis www.myspcs.org This year Southport Presbyterian Christian School is offering something new for students ages three and up called Preschool Plus. Parents may elect to have their child attend extra hours on the same days they have class. “These new hours help transition to full-day kindergarten,” says Preschool Director Christi Shomaker. “During this program we are able to pair older kids with younger ones for mentoring. The PreK students will work with the three-year olds as much as they are able. This is an enriching social opportunity that they may not get otherwise.”

T he C hildren ’s Museum P reschool 3000 North Meridian Street, Indianapolis www.childrensmuseum.org/about/preschool

Choosing a preschool is just THE first decision in a long series of educational choices you will make as your child progresses through school.

Fortunately, many preschools today offer programs that are as unique as the young students walking through the door. Here we highlight a few local schools that strive to make the preschool experience a great one for both kids and their parents.

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At The Children’s Museum Preschool, children have access to the museum from 9:00 to 10:00 am when the museum is still closed. They can enjoy live theater performances and the planetarium, and also visit with paleontologists, archaeologists, actors and interpreters, musicians, astronauts and resident artists. During preschool, students switch between time in the classroom and viewing galleries for a purposeful visit. Children have access to over 115,000 artifacts and objects. Preschool Director Cathy Southerland says, “Object-based learning fosters a sense of wonder and vocabulary. There is an inference piece as children are asked what they think objects may have been used for. Children learn to look carefully, notice details and create stories. I pinch myself that we are able to offer this extraordinary experience for children.”

S t. Mark’s P reschool

G oddard S chool

St. Mark’s United Methodist Church, 4780 East 126th Street, Carmel

8547 East US Highway 36, Avon

www.stmarkscarmel.org/preschool At St. Mark’s preschool, children rotate with their teacher and class to different rooms throughout the day. They have a room for crafts, music and movement, free play, creative drama, snacks, a circle room and more. According to Preschool Director Barri Hicks, “This transition teaches children skills that will prepare them for kindergarten as well as providing variety throughout their day.” St. Mark’s also offers a room typically used weekly by every class called the Make BEElieve Room created in honor of preschool student Henley Romine, who lost her life to cancer.

This room is transformed every four to six weeks to reflect a new theme such as Santa’s Workshop, a circus, a food court, a pizzeria and a beach to name a few.

www.campaign.goddardschool.com Goddard School offers FLEX (Fun Learning Experience) through play-based, child-focused curriculum. Goddard owner Robert Cummins says “Teachers will have goals in mind and sit things out for children to play with reflecting these goals. Children are encouraged to try everything, but will not be forced to do anything they don’t want to.” He gives an example of an activity used to teach spatial relationships where students connect tubes in different ways to build a marble run. They build and rebuild while asking questions like; What if we add a corkscrew? What if we try to place this higher? Now lower? Through this experience of trial, error and play, students come to their own conclusions and learn the objectives that teachers have intended.

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Meridian H ills C ooperative N ursery and K indergarten 7171 North Pennsylvania Street, Indianapolis

developmentally appropriate practices that focus on the whole child in order for them to thrive socially, emotionally, intellectually and physically.”

www.meridianhillscoop.org Parents play a vital role in the success of this cooperative school as they are trained to be assistants in the classroom with a six-hour required workshop, hear expert parent education speakers and attend class meetings. When talking about the importance of parenting, Preschool Director Ginny Hacker says, “It is the one job for which we have the least amount of training.

A cooperative school offers guidance for parents from trusted professionals and opportunities for discussion, sharing, learning and socializing.”

Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery and Kindergarten offers a playbased curriculum. “The work of children is play,” says Hacker.

“Over the years we have worked hard to maintain that philosophy even with the academic push that is so prevalent. Much in our society has changed, but child development has not. It is our job to teach with

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With the variety of preschool programs and options available, deciding on the right environment for your child may be daunting.

Spend some time thinking about what you’re looking for in a preschool experience, research potential schools online and set up on-site visits with programs that interest you. With a little legwork up front, you can find the preschool that you and your little student both love.

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KID PROBLEMS When to step in and when to stay out WORDS BY // Melissa Glidden

Parents know that part of raising confident, independent kids includes encouraging them to solve their own problems. But it can be tricky sometimes to know when a child should be expected to handle a situation on their own or when mom or dad should get involved. Here we presented several common dilemmas to area professionals to get their input on managing this delicate balance.

TEACHER PROBLEM Your 9-year-old son says his teacher doesn’t like him. He feels like she singles him out in class more than the other kids when he makes a mistake. You can’t be sure whether this is true, or just his perception. As time passes, your son appears to be coming home from school more and more discouraged.

The first time your child says this, hear them out. After you have listened, simply say, ‘I am sure your teacher will like you very much once she gets to know you,’ and offer your interpretation of the situation. For example, a child may interpret a teacher’s correcting a poor behavior choice as dislike of him or her rather than of that

behavior. If your child voices this concern a second or third time, that’s when it may be time to schedule a meeting with the teacher.

Hold the meeting in person – the best communication takes place face-toface. Ask the teacher for any advice she might have to help your son feel more positive about school. Treat her as a professional. If the situation doesn’t improve, get the principal or school guidance counselor involved to help repair the relationship between your child and his teacher.

Deb Krupowicz, Preschool, Elementary and Middle School Teacher for over 20 years; Author of Indy’s Child’s “Ask the Teacher” column

COACH PROBLEM Your 12-year-old daughter lives and breathes soccer. She works hard, has steadily improved and is objectively one of the better players on the team. Unfortunately, it seems as though her coach hasn’t noticed. She doesn’t get much playing time and it’s starting to get her down.

First of all, always encourage your child to have fun – it’s the most important thing in youth sports.

Never let your child hear you complain about their playing time; don’t let her take her playing time personally; and continually instill the importance of effort and a positive attitude.

If you feel it’s time to talk to the coach, avoid having the conversation 1 hour before a game, or in the 23-hour window following a game. I call this the 24-hour rule.

During the meeting, ask the coach what your child’s strengths as a player are, what she could be doing better as a player and how she might position herself to see more playing time. Remember that cooler heads prevail.

Steve Franklin, Director of Coaching Education, Indiana Soccer, Indianapolis

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PEER PROBLEM Your 10-year-old daughter has become the target for some recent bullying. She struggles with her weight a bit and some girls at school are making unkind remarks to her about it. She says the teasing doesn’t really bother her, but you suspect it’s upsetting her more than she is letting on.

Empower your daughter to stand up for herself. Talk with her about how to do this, and even consider role-playing at home so she can practice. This could also be a great time to talk to your daughter about her attitude toward food and exercise – sending the right messages regarding eating and exercise habits is so important.

Dr. Jenny Tarbox, Bloom Psychology Services, Indianapolis

Depending on the daughter’s maturity level, the best option may be to first let her try to handle the issue on her own. If you have good evidence that she really is hurting, however, try offering your understanding and then work together to problem-solve. If the situation escalates, then it may be appropriate to involve the parents of the other children or the child’s teacher.

Dr. Donahue, Bloom Psychology Services, Indianapolis

NEIGHBORHOOD KIDS PROBLEM Your 7-year-old son is rather shy and has some difficulty in social situations. He wants to play with the neighborhood boys, but feels awkward approaching them. The boys aren’t intentionally leaving him out of the fun, they simply haven’t noticed him yet.

Find out if your child is struggling with anxious self-talk, like ‘The other kids will not let me play if I ask,’ or ‘They don’t like me.’ Ensure your child is using positive, truthful self-talk. Discuss ways to ask to play, share, carry on a two-way conversation and take turns.

If you’ve been practicing social skills at home and your son still isn’t using them, start by setting up playdates with the children. Setting up these kinds of ‘teaching’ playdates gets harder as the child moves into middle school, so be proactive with your child now.

Additionally, check in with your child’s teacher to find out more about how he’s socializing at school.

It’s never easy to see our kids struggle, and even harder to know when (or if) we should act on their behalf. By allowing them the opportunity to see if they can resolve a problem on their own however, they have the chance to build valuable self-confidence.

Just as valuable though, is knowing that their parents “have their back” and can be relied on to step in when they truly need their help.

Elizabeth Cramer, Licensed School Counselor and Owner of Superheroes Counseling, Fishers

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Eight great picks not to miss this season!

WORDS BY // Jennifer Thompson

Fall gifts us with beautiful foliage, crisp air, football games, fire pits, crockpots filled with comfort foods and pumpkins just waiting for a new face. What better way to celebrate all this season has to offer than with a family outing? Whether you enjoy picking apples, attending festivals or getting a little Halloween scare, there are dozens of fun options to choose from in our area. Here’s a few you’ll definitely want to get on your autumn bucket list!

Celebrate the harvest season at Stonycreek Farm’s 44th annual Pumpkin Harvest Festival, October 1-31. From hayrides to a giant inflatable jumping pillow to the 400-foot zip line, kids (and kids at heart!) will love spending a day on the farm. New this year, the festival will feature camel rides on the weekends. Most activities have a nominal fee. Stonycreek Farm is open daily 10am to 5pm; parking is $5 per car Tuesday through Sunday (no parking fee on Monday). Find complete details at www.stonycreekfarm.net.

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If you like being spooked, head over to the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis where adventure awaits for all ages. Proceed with caution as you enter Burnadette the Dragon’s castle. Cursed Castle, The Children’s Museum Guild’s 53rd Annual Haunted House, is open from October 8-30. IPL’s Lights-On Hours are for those who prefer a less spooky experience, while the lights off Frightening Hours are available for those who dare to be scared (children ages 13 and younger must be accompanied by a paying adult.) Tickets are $7.25 for members, $8 for nonmembers with discount tickets available at all Marsh Supermarkets. To learn more, go to www.childrensmuseum.org/exhibits/ haunted-house.

How about a walk through a spooky nature trail?

Get extra wear out of your Halloween costume as you trick-or-treat through Little Haunt on the Prairie at Ghoul (Cool) Creek Park. This spooktacular event takes place October 27 from 5:00-9:00 pm. Kids of all ages will enjoy nature interpretation, a hayride, craft stations, Halloween games, live owls with a wildlife educator, a dance area and marshmallows at the campfire ring. Cost is $3 per person with canned food donations being collected. For more, visit www.hamiltoncounty. in.gov/DocumentCenter/View/847.

If you are looking for something a little more magical, venture to the Hauntless Halloween at Holliday Park where the park joins forces with the Booth Tarkington Civic Theater for an enchanted evening of fun. This candlelit trail is home to many forest inhabitants who come alive for the weekend.

Hikes last approximately 30 minutes and start every 10 minutes from 5:50-7:30 pm on October 15 and 5:50-8:00 pm on October 16-17. Afterward, take a stroll back to the nature center and enjoy a campfire, refreshments and more. Cost is $8 for guests ages 13+ and $6 for ages 2-12. Pre-registration is required.

Act now because spots fill up fast. Visit www.apm. activecommunities.com/indyparks/Home.

If you have a dinosaur aficionado at home, then look no more. Bring your T-Rex loving youngster to Waterman’s Family Farm on Raymond Street for the Fall Harvest Festival and witness the giant pumpkin-eating dinosaur demolish pumpkins bite by bite. Admission includes a hayride to the pumpkin patch, two different mazes, straw “mountain,” combine slide, Tire Annie, Spinning Pumpkin and an exotic animal interactive experience. Tour their newest attraction, The Beast, for an additional $5 per person. Waterman’s Family Farm has a second location in Greenwood offering different activities such as a kid’s train ride, farm animals, the little farmer experience, a straw fort and an indoor play school. For pricing and more on both locations, go to www.watermansfamilyfarm.com/ fallharvestfestival.html.

Calling all animal lovers! Don’t miss this opportunity to put on your costume and trick-or-treat through the Indianapolis Zoo during the annual Halloween Zoo Boo. Zoo Boo runs every Friday through Sunday in October from 2:00-7:00 pm. This popular event offers special animal exhibits and Halloweenthemed activities including activity centers, a magic show, pumpkin bowling, a bounce house, cookie

decorating and a costume parade.

With tickets, the guests can ride the backwards carousel, the Roller Ghoster and a special Halloween train ride. For pricing and more, visit www. indianapoliszoo.com/events-andgroups/zoo-events/halloweenzooboo.

For a day devoted to food, music and fun for the whole family, head to Traders Point Creamery for their 10th Annual Oktoberfest, Saturday, October 8 from noon-7pm.

Families can enjoy hayrides, pony rides, a pumpkin patch, face painting, games and more! Be sure to sample the creamery’s products and stay for the evening cow milking. And the fun is for a good cause – a portion of the proceeds benefit Traders Point Rural Historic District. Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the gate. Kids 10 and under are free! Get the details at http://traderspointcreamery.com/ events/oktoberfest/.

And last, but definitely not least on the list is a trip to Conner Prairie. Keep your head down while you ride the haunted hayride. You never know when the Headless Horseman will appear. While walking the grounds, be sure to visit the many creatures that inhabit the land such as the cosmeticsloving witch, Beutisha and the wanna-be-stand up comedian Dr. Acula. The younger guests will be entertained by the child-like monster Holly Ween’s enchanting stories of magic. Conner Scairie runs the evenings of October 13-16, 20-23 and 27-30 and is suitable for all ages.

For tickets and information, visit www.connerprairie.org/ThingsTo-Do/Events/HeadlessHorseman.

Fall is here and the fun is just beginning. With so many activities and events to take advantage of, the hardest part may just be choosing where to start!

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Managing Halloween for Children with Autism Planning ahead for an enjoyable night of trick-or-treating Dressing up. Going door to door. Counting candy. There is no other holiday quite like Halloween. But for some, the spontaneity of the night can take a great deal of planning.

“Halloween can be particularly challenging for kids with autism because there is a lot going on,” explains Tiffany Neal, assistant director of the HANDS in Autism Interdisciplinary Training & Resource Center at the Indiana University School of Medicine in Indianapolis.

“It’s a different atmosphere. People don’t look the same, and things we’ve taught, like reading social cues and facial expressions, can be more difficult.”

Planning ahead allows parents of children on the spectrum to help their kids handle the change in routine, sensory sensitivities and unusual social interactions that come with Halloween. Neal and local parents share their best tips for a fun-filled night:

Choose a costume Try to pick a costume well ahead of Halloween.

Experienced parents stress that selecting a comfortable outfit is key, especially for kids who are very sensitive to fabrics and temperature.

“Our big hurdle was teaching a nonverbal ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) kiddo to be social enough to say ‘trick or treat’ and ‘thank you,’” recalls Tracy Mayer, an Indianapolis mom of a 13-year-old son with autism.

“We used ASL (American Sign Language) and prompted him for the first ten houses or so. He caught on once he saw the candy!”

Visual supports, such as a countdown board and a trick-or-treating schedule of events, can help kids know what to expect that night. It’s also a good idea to talk about costumes, makeup and the difference between pretend and real, especially for children who are very literal.

“We do a lot of prep about the different costumes we might see and why some people like to dress scary, but that they are just kids underneath,” says Kristen DiBella, a Westfield mom of a 5-year-old daughter with sensory processing disorder.

Make sure to take pictures while out trick-or-treating, so they can be used to visually prepare for Halloween next year.

Be flexible

“We do costumes that can be designed around a soft hoodie and sweatpants for comfort and ease of wearing,” says Jenny Holcomb, a Zionsville mom of a 5-year-old son with autism.

Ultimately, the goal of the holiday is to have fun, so even if costumes are taken off and trick-or-treating doesn’t go as planned, be ready to adapt and follow the child’s lead, Neal says.

Neal suggests using a visual choice board with pictures of three to five costumes to allow the child to make his or her own decision. It’s also a good idea to wear the costume a few times before heading out on Halloween night.

“You want the night to be fun for them. You don't want to put them through something they won’t enjoy just for the sake of trick-or-treating,” she says. “Use the supports that they’re used to, bring those along wherever you go that night and just enjoy the holiday for what it is.”

Practice trick-or-treating In the weeks before Halloween, experts suggest that parents use a social narrative to explain what will happen on that night, and then rehearse activities that may be challenging, such as knocking on doors and saying “trick or treat” without running inside.

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HANDS in Autism has a list of Halloween tips online, including a printable social narrative at https:// handsinautism.iupui.edu/pdf/Halloween TipsSN.pdf.

For more suggestions, visit The Autism Society of Indiana at www.autismsocietyofindiana.org/ parent-parent-halloween-tips/ for helpful tips from other parents.

Welcoming trick-or-treaters with autism • Be patient. It may take children with autism longer to approach your house, pick a piece of candy and then leave afterward.

• Some kids with autism are very sensitive to fabric and temperature, so they may only be wearing part of their costume by the time they come to your door.

• Consider having non-food treats for children with allergies or who are on special diets.

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Some children are nonverbal. Just because they don’t say “trick or treat” or “thank you” doesn’t mean they aren’t enjoying the experience!

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The Social Impact of Dyslexia Understanding how this issue affects personal interactions It’s widely recognized how dyslexia affects kids in the classroom, making reading and writing a challenge. But for some children, the learning disorder also makes it difficult for them to fit in at the school lunch table.

Social situations can be difficult for those with dyslexia, who often struggle to find the right words, have trouble understanding sarcasm or miss unspoken social cues.

Nanci Sears Perry, founder of the grassroots education group Decoding Dyslexia-IN, has seen the struggles firsthand as her twin sons, who are both dyslexic, navigate high school. “For those who have difficulty expressing themselves verbally, it can limit their friendships and make it more difficult to make friends,” she says. “For my sons, they do notice that their verbal communication is different from others, and they hold back from engaging with others. My boys will tell you they are not shy. They have a lot to say, they just need more time.”

Word-finding or word-retrieval difficulties, as they’re known, can exclude a child from regular school day banter and lead to social frustrations.

Nichole Freije, CEO of the Dyslexia Institute of Indiana, recalls working with a student who often interchanged the words wedding and funeral, with interesting results. “The actual words ‘wedding’ and ‘funeral’ don’t look alike, but the experiences are similar – you dress up, it might be in a church, there are flowers, you see family,” she recalls. “It wasn’t until he told classmates that his grandpa died and he had to go his grandpa’s wedding that we realized what the student really meant to say.”

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For kids who struggle to find the right words to use in conversation, experts say it’s important to let them know that it’s okay to make mistakes. Try slowing down the pace of your conversations to give them more time to think.

Of course, all of these skills take practice, and that can be frustrating for both parents and kids.

Leonard reminds families that the process of learning how to talk and interact with others can take some time.

Telling jokes and explaining what sarcasm sounds like can also help kids who tend to take things literally. “For some of these kids, the art of conversation has to be taught. You can practice while talking as a family at the dinner table,” suggests Lynn Leonard, training and school-based programs manager for the Dyslexia Institute of Indiana.

“Be patient with your child and with yourself. Do everything you can to understand dyslexia and how it affects your child,” she stresses. “They’re frustrated because even though they’ve been exposed to the skills, they haven’t been able to process and utilize them, but they’ll get there.”

Sears Perry agrees. Her sons work with a speech therapist who specializes in expressive language, and the family is often given “homework” to practice talking together. “She has them practice initiating conversation with us and then with peer groups and friends,” Sears Perry says. “If you ask my sons something, they will respond, but it takes a different level of organization of thought to initiate conversation.”

It’s also not unusual for kids with dyslexia to miss critical social cues, such as body language and facial expressions, as they concentrate on processing what’s being said and how to express themselves. Experts recommend parents talk about emotions with their child, and read books, watch TV shows on mute and people watch to help them identify how others act when they are experiencing a certain emotion.

The Dyslexia Institute of Indiana will host a free Dyslexia Info Night and Simulation on October 24 from 6-7 pm at the organization’s offices at 8365 Keystone Crossing, second floor. Interested families can RSVP online at https://www. facebook.com/events/325665517776375/ or call Dii at 317-222-6635.

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Midwest Academy offers “F.A.T City” program to help community understand children with learning style differences Learning disabilities expert Rick Lavoie was asked, “If you could teach America's parents and teachers one single truth, what would it be?”

differences who are in need of a more hands-on, experiential learning environment.

“We need to understand that kids go to school for a living,” he responded. “That's their job.”

Lavoie’s documentary “How Difficult Can This Be: The F.A.T. City Workshop,” will be screened over two dates: November 16 and January 18. The film looks at the world through the eyes of a child with learning challenges by taking viewers into a series of classroom activities that cause Frustration, Anxiety and Tension (F.A.T.) -emotions all too familiar for these students.

What if you hated your job? What if your days were filled with conflict and you were misunderstood by your colleagues and superiors?

This can be the daily experience of a child with a learning challenge.

In November, Midwest Academy launches a free film series for parents and professionals to learn not only how a student with learning differences such as dyslexia, ADD/ADHD, anxiety or high-functioning autism might struggle, but also how teaching methods can foster student success.

The programs run from 7-8 pm at the school, 1420 Chase Court in Carmel. Midwest is an independent school serving central Indiana students in grades 4-12 with learning style

“It’s designed to be interactive,” explains head of school Kevin Gailey.

“We will view the film, pause it for conversations and activities, and then continue watching.” The program will be most helpful for parents and teachers, therapists, counselors and others who work with students with learning style differences.

To register, visit www.mymwa.org/events or call the school at 317-843-9500.

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Special Needs Guide ABA Autism Services

by Damar ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives. 9905 Fall Creek Road,

Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-813-4690, Email: info@damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism The Applied Behavior Center for Autism is Indiana’s largest ABA therapy provider with 7 different facilities throughout the state. Each our centers offers unique attributes that allow us to provide high quality treatment to children and teens with autism. With nearly 20 years in the industry, ABC is truly building brighter futures every day. In addition to two Indianapolis locations, we have locations in Carmel, Greenwood, Richmond and Terre Haute. 7901 E. 88th St., Indianapolis, IN

46256. Phone: 317-849-5437 x 238; E-mail: missingpiece@ appliedbehaviorcenter.org; http://applied behaviorcenter.org

BEHAVIOR ANALYSIS CENTER FOR AUTISM BACA uses the principles and procedures of ABA to teach language, social, self-help, academic, daily living and life skills to individuals with autism and related disorders.

BACA was established in 2009 by Carl Sundberg, Ph.D., BCBA-D, and a group of highly trained BCBAs. Located in Fishers, Zionsville and Elkhart, IN. 9929 East 126th Street, Fishers, IN, United States, Phone: 317-436-8961, Contact: Colin Clayton, Email: cclayton@thebaca.com, http://thebaca.com/

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services.

BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidencebased strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions. Are you looking for a fresh perspective?

Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks. ​2680 E. Main Street Suite 127,

Plainfield, IN 46234​, Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-436-0037, Email: info@ behaviorworksaba.com, www.behavior worksaba.com

Children's Therapy Connection We’ve grown! Come check out our brand new location, now with more resources than ever to help connect your child with their potential.

Services include: First Steps, PT, OT, and Speech/Feeding Therapy, Social Work/Counseling, Social Skills/ Communication/Feeding Groups, Kindermusik, Hanen Programs, and Therapeutic Yoga for Kids. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and family-centered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we have grown! 7478 Shadeland Station Way,

Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: infochildrenstherapy connection.com, http:// childrenstherapyconnection.com

Easter Seals Crossroads Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT, OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/ Swallowing issues, Augmentative Communication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center, 4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN

46205, Phone: 317-466-1000, Email: info@easterseals crossroads.org, http://www. eastersealscrossroads.org

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LITTLE STAR CENTER Little Star Center is Indiana’s first center-based, therapeutic applied behavior analysis (ABA) service provider serving children, teens and young adults with autism. Since 2002, this professional team has impacted the lives of hundreds of learners affected by autism by building skills and helping them achieve milestones once believed impossible. Little Star's statewide centers are located in Carmel, Lafayette and Bloomington, with the newest center now open in West Lafayette. Little Star Center also provide in-home ABA services. 12650

Hamilton Crossing Blvd, Carmel, IN, United States 46032, Phone: 317-249-2242, info@littlestarcenter.org, www.littlestarcenter.org

St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf (SJI) is Indiana's only full-time school dedicated to helping young children (birth to age 8) who are deaf or hard of hearing develop spoken language and literacy skills with the focus of transitioning into their local, community school. Dramatic advances in technology, including sophisticated hearing aids and cochlear implants, give children with significant hearing loss access to sound. With appropriate speech therapy, auditory rehabilitation and language training, children are able to develop spoken language skills.

St. Joseph Institute offers a variety of Listening and Spoken Language programs including: early intervention services, internet therapy, full-time preschool program, mainstream support, ongoing consultation, and comprehensive educational training opportunities for families and professionals. With over 175 years of experience, we are professional leaders in the field of Listening and Spoken Language education. Visit our website for more information. 9192 Waldemar Road, Indianapolis,

IN 46268, Phone: 317-471-8560, www.sjid.org

Unlocking the Spectrum Unlocking The Spectrum was created with the mission of making ABA Therapy accessible to ALL children with autism by providing high quality ABA Therapy services throughout Indiana. Unlocking The Spectrum specializes in bringing the therapy to the client--in their home and in their community. Clients receive services in a wide variety of settings including their home, school, Unlocking The Spectrum's Centers, and the community to ensure that skills are generalized across all environments. Intensive parent training and collaboration with all members of a client's team are an essential part of every individualized program developed.

Contact us for a free initial consultation. Indianapolis: 8646 Guion Rd.,

Indianapolis, IN 46268; Columbus: 1015 3rd St Suite C, Columbus, IN 47201; Terre Haute: 3464 South 4th Street, Terre Haute, IN 47802; Bloomington: 417 S Clarizz Boulevard, Bloomington, IN 47401, Phone: (855) INFO-UTS; e-mail: info@unlockingthespectrum. com; www.unlockingthespectrum.com/

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October Special Needs Events SAT 01

Leaps and Bounds Location: Gigi’s Playhouse Indianapolis, Time: 11am, gigisplayhouse.org/Indianapolis This program will help promote social, emotional and gross motor development through a variety of activities, including interactive play, sharing, cooperative games and physical activity. Creativity and movement will be incorporated throughout the program. Recommended for children ages 3-6 years old. Registration requested.

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Selective Mutism: How Can I Help This Child?

Location: Fishers United Methodist Church, Fishers, Time: 9am-12pm, autismsocietyofindiana.org/event Children and teens with Selective Mutism have a type of social anxiety where they are able to talk comfortably in some situations, often with families at home, but are persistently silent in other situations. What is this challenging condition? What interventions are most helpful? Whether you are a school counselor, social worker, teacher or private therapist, you will leave with effective, practical strategies.

Gigi’s Playhouse Volunteer Orientation Location: Gigi’s Playhouse, Indianapolis, Time: 6pm, gigisplayhouse.org/Indianapolis GiGi’s Playhouse is a volunteer run organization and rely on the skill and dedication of volunteers of various levels of expertise to keep programs vibrant, educational, fun and free. Parents, family members, clinicians, and individuals who believe in the GiGi’s Playhouse mission act as volunteers in GiGi’s Playhouse programs, events, administrative offices, and on our Board of Members. Volunteer orientations take place on the first Tuesday of every month from 6-7pm. All volunteers must complete an online application prior to orientation.

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AMC Sensory Friendly Films “Storks” Location: AMC Indianapolis 17, Indianapolis, Time: 10am, amctheatres.com/programs/ sensory-friendly-films The program provides a special opportunity for families to enjoy their favorite films in a safe and accepting environment.

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The auditoriums dedicated to the program have their lights up, the sound turned down and audience members are invited to get up and dance, walk, shout or sing!

The 19th Annual Buddy Walk Indianapolis Location: Celebration Plaza at White River State Park, Time: 10:30am, dsindiana.org/ buddywalk.php Down Syndrome Indiana is excited for the 19th Annual Buddy Walk® Indianapolis.

Nationally, Buddy Walk® is the most widely recognized public awareness event for the Down syndrome community. Locally, it is the largest fundraising and awareness event for Down Syndrome Indiana. Buddy Walk® is a family-friendly event is open to all children and adults with Down syndrome, their families, friends and thousands of local supporters.

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Supporting Individuals with ASD in the Home and Community Using Visual Supports Location: HSE Administration Building, Fishers, Time: 6:30-7:30pm, autismsocietyof indiana.org The Indiana Resource Center for Autism staff will present information to parent support groups across Indiana. These parent support group meetings are free and open to the public. However, the content will be geared toward family members of individuals who have a diagnosis along the autism spectrum.

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DSI New Parents Breakfast Location: Down Syndrome Indiana, Indianapolis, Time: 9am, dsindiana.org Please let Down Syndrome Indiana welcome you to the Down Syndrome community by joining them for breakfast at the DSI office beginning at 9am. If you have a new baby, finally feel comfortable connecting with others or are new to the area, this is a great way to get acclimated in a small intimate environment. Please RSVP to register@ dsindiana.org by midnight on Sunday, October 9th.

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All Inclusive Playdate Location: Urban Chalkboard, Carmel, Time: 3-5pm, www.theurbanchalkboard.com/ This monthly Playdate is geared towards children with sensory difficulties and autism in the developmental range of toddler to preschool age. Activities include Water Play on the Patio, Fine Motor and Sensory Play in the Studio, and Gross Motor Play in the Play Café. The All-Inclusive Playdate is generously sponsored by Behavior Development Group.

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Halloween Party at the Autism Family Resource Center Location: Easter Seals Crossroads, Indianapolis, Time: 3-6pm, eastersealscrossroads.org/ Families welcome for trick-or-treating, games and snacks. Costumes are welcome! Come and join the fun.

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Down Syndrome Indiana Dads Hayride Location: Spencers U-Pick Farm, Noblesville, Time: 3-7pm, dsindiana.org We invite all families to join us for a warm fire, good food and fellowship at Spencer's U-Pick Farm in Noblesville, IN. For those who have attended in the past, you can expect the same fun events for the kids (bounce-house, pumpkin decorating, games and of course, S'MORES.) For those of you who have not been able to attend in the past, we hope you will join us this year. The only thing you'll need to bring is an appetite, your favorite warm wool sweater, chairs or picnic blanket and maybe a camera to capture some fun family moments.

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private school open house guide

Considering a private school for your student? Our area has plenty to choose from!

Find the right match by visiting an upcoming open house to get all your questions answered.

A Children’s Habitat Montessori School 801 W. 73rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 726-5584 | www.childrens habitat.org/ Learn more about #ourhabitat at facebook. com/achildrenshabitat.

18 months-12 years Open House: Saturday, November 5, 2016, 1-3pm

Ace Preparatory Academy 5326 Hillside Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46220

(317) 744-9847 | www.aceprep academy.org Grades K-5 Call to schedule a tour.

Cathedral High School 5225 E 56th St, Indianapolis, IN 46226

Open House*: October 27, 2016, 5:308:00pm *pre-registration optional

6401 E 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250 (317) 849-3441 | www.heritage christian.net Grades PreK-12 Open House: Thursday, November 10, 2016, 5:30-8:00pm

Colonial Christian School

Highlands Latin School

(317) 542-1481 | www.gocathedral.com Grades 9-12

8140 Union Chapel Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46240

P.O. Box 4462, Carmel, IN 46082

(317) 253-0649 | www.ccsindy.org Grades K4-12 Kindergarten Round-up and Parent Preview: Tuesday, February 21, 2017, 7:00 p.m.

(317) 519-5501 | indylatinschool.org Grades K-12 Email admissions@indylatinschool.org to find out more.

Covenant Christian 7525 West 21st Street, Indianapolis, IN 46214

Apogee School for Gifted Children 4550 Central Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46205

www.apogeeschool.com Grades K-12 Contact David (DBonner@ApogeeSchool. com) to schedule a private tour and consultation to see if our student centered, strength based gifted education program is right for you.

Bishop Chatard High School 5885 Crittenden Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46220

(317) 251-1451 | www.bishopchatard.org Grades 9-12 Open House: Thursday, November 3, 2016, 5:30- 8:00pm

(317) 390-0202 | www.covenant christian.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses*: November 1, 2016; January 26, 2017; February 21, 2017; March 14, 2017. All open house events begin at 7pm *register online

Culver Academies 1300 Academy Rd, Culver, IN 46511

(574) 842-7000 | www.culver.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses*: Saturday, October 15, 2016, time TBD; Saturday, November 12, 2016, time TBD *registration required

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School

Guerin Catholic High School

2801 W. 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46268

(317) 582-0120 | www.guerincatholic.org Grades 9-12 Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 1:00-3:30pm

(317) 524-7050 | www.brebeuf.org Grades 9-12 Open House*: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 12:00– 3:00pm *online registration required

Heritage Christian High School

15300 Gray Road, Noblesville IN 46062

Horizon Christian School 7702 Indian Lake Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46236

(317) 823-4538 | www.horizon indy.org/school Grades PreK-12 Call to schedule a tour.

Howe Military Academy 5755 IN-9, Howe, IN 46746

(260) 562-2131 | www.thehowemilitary.org Grades 7-12 To schedule a tour call (888) 462-4693 or email admissions@howmilitary.org.

International School of Indiana Upper School: 4330 N Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46208 USA Lower School: 200 W 49th St, Indianapolis, IN 46208 USA

Upper School: (317)923-1951, Lower School: (317) 255-1951 | www.isind.org Grades 3PreK-12 Upper School Open House: Sunday, November 13, 2016, 2:00-4:00pm Lower School Open House: Tuesday, Oct. 18 & Nov. 8, 2016; Thursday Oct. 20 & Nov. 10, 2016, 8:00-11:00am

Hasten Hebrew Academy 6602 Hoover Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 251-1261 | www.hhai.org Grades PreK-8 Call to schedule tour.

Kingsway Christian 7979 East CR 100 North, Avon, IN 46123-7915

(317) 272-2227 | www.kingswayschool.org Grades 3 years-8 Open House: Friday, November 11, 2016, 7:00-9:00pm OCTOBER 2016 // INDYSCHILD.COM

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Legacy Christian School

Park Tudor

St. Maria Goretti

The Orchard School

470 Lakeview Drive, Noblesville, IN 46060

7200 North College Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46240

17104 Spring Mill Road, Westfield, IN 46074

615 W 64th St, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 776-4186 | www.legacychristian online.org Grades Preschool-12 (highschool will be added in fall of 2016) Open House: Tuesday, November 15, 2016, 6:30pm-8pm

(317) 415-2700 | www.parktudor.org Grades JK-12 Open House for Grades 9-12: Thursday, October 27, 2016, 6:00 – 8:30pm

(317) 896-5582 | www.smgonline.org Grades K-8 Call to schedule a tour.

(317) 251-9253 | www.orchard.org Grades PreK-8 Open Houses: Sunday, November 6, 2016 1pm-3pm

Midwest Academy

Visit website for dates and times of “See Us in Action” Days throughout the year.

33 East 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205

1420 Chase Court, Carmel, IN 46032

Phalen Leadership Academy

(317) 843-9500 | www.mymidwest academy.org Grades 4-12 Call or email kfoster@mymidwest academy.org to schedule a tour.

(317) 333-6980 | www.phalenacademies.org/ Grades K-5 Open House: Thursday, November 6, 2016, 3-5pm

Our Lady of Grace Catholic School 9900 E. 191st St., Noblesville, IN 46060

(317) 770-5660 | www.ologs.org Grades Preschool-8 Call to schedule a tour.

Our Lady of Mount Carmel 14596 Oak Ridge Rd Carmel, IN 46032

(317) 846-1118 | www.olmc1.org Grades K-8 Call to schedule a tour.

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St. Richards Episcopal School

2323 N. Illinois Street, Indianapolis, IN 46208

St. Louis De MontFort 11441 Hague Road, Fishers, IN 46038

(317) 842-1125 | www.sdmlfishers.org Grades JK-8 Open House: Thursday, November 3, 2016, 8am-11am

Traders Point Christian Academy

(317) 926-0425 | www.strichardsschool.org Grades PK-8 Call to schedule a tour.

6600 S Indianapolis Rd, Whitestown, IN 46075

Sycamore School

*RSVP requested at admissions@tpcs.org

(317) 769-2450 | www.tpcs.org Grades PreK-12 Open House: Tuesday, October 25, 2016 6:30-8pm

1750 W 64th St, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 202-2500 | www.sycamoreschool.org Grades PreK-8 Open House: Sunday, October 23, 12:00-2:00pm *Weekly tours offered most Wednesdays at 9:00-11:00am

The Children’s House 2404 W. 62nd St. in Indianapolis, IN 46268

(317) 253-3033 | www.thechildrens houseindianapolis.com Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 1:00pm

University High School 2825 W 116th St, Carmel, IN 46032

(317) 733-4475 | www.university highschool.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: Sunday, September 25, 2016, 2-4 p.m.; Sunday, November 6, 2016, 2-4 p.m.; Sunday, March 5, 2017, 2-4 p.m.

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COMM E N TARY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // DEB KRUPOWICZ

Ask the Teacher

Handling the dinnertime rush, maintaining academic motivation, helping a shy student

Q:

My fourth grade daughter insists that I sit with her while she does her homework. I have so much going on getting dinner ready and meeting the other demands of my family that I find this time to be very frustrating.

That leads to me feeling guilty. How can I better handle this situation?

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Your daughter may be craving time with you after a long school day. Perhaps she thinks that asking you to sit with her while she does her homework is a legitimate way to get your one-on-one attention.

Try sitting down with your daughter for five to ten minutes when you both first get home to go over the highlights of her day. Then look over that evening’s homework and estimate together how much time each assignment will take to complete. Write down a quick plan for the evening on a sheet of paper with rough time frames, including her commitments on the left and yours on the right. Factor in checkpoints where you can quickly look over her work.

When she sees that you will be prepping dinner while she is doing her assignments, she will begin to understand that you have work that must be completed just as she does.

Together identify ways that she can help with dinner prep as well as times when you can quiz her on her spelling, for example, while simultaneously completing another task.

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By developing a plan together, she will get the attention she wants, and you will be able to accomplish what needs to be done for the evening.

Q:

Can you tell me how to help my son stay motivated through a mid-fall slump? He starts out the school year so excited and ready to work but by mid-October, he has lost his drive.

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The excitement of a new school year, a new teacher and new classmates brings a special kind of enthusiasm that is hard to maintain. Once students are comfortable in their situation and the work-load shifts from review to new material, it is tough to keep from feeling a little tired and even a bit overwhelmed.

Make sure that you are maintaining interest and enthusiasm in his studies!

Take a deeper look at what your son is learning and let him see that your interest is piqued. Ask questions about what he is studying. Help him see how what he is focusing on now will help him later, making specific connections.

For example, you could say that you didn’t really understand how important the three branches of government were until you started voting and could see how necessary a balance of power in government is. You might also talk about how learning to write well is important across all types of communication – even when using email.

Do not be tempted to “bond” with him over a shared hatred of a subject. It is perfectly reasonable to tell him that algebra was tough for you, but follow up with a comment saying you were glad you had mastered it by the time college entrance tests came around. If you focus on how much you dislike a subject or how worthless you thought something was, he will see that as your endorsement for little effort on his part.

Q:

We moved to a new school, and my second grade daughter is very shy. She is having a tough time making friends. I am not sure how to help her find other girls she would enjoy getting to know.

A:

Ask your daughter’s teacher to recommend a child or two who she thinks might be compatible with your daughter. Arrange an afterschool or Saturday morning play date. Because your daughter is shy, it might be a good idea for you to plan a few activities for their time together.

Having something specific to do will help the girls have something to talk about as they are getting acquainted.

Pick up a craft kit, or make some cookies for them to decorate. Teach them to play a new game. Save a movie or a trip to the park until they have gotten to know each other better.

Because these activities are focused on something or someone else where other people are in close proximity, the girls won’t have a chance to truly get acquainted.

If your daughter’s teacher is reluctant to suggest anyone, have a Saturday morning tea party for the girls in your daughter’s class and their mothers.

Observe how the girls interact.

Someone who is similarly shy might make a good friend for your daughter, but someone who is outgoing might also be a great complement to her quiet nature.

Don’t overwhelm your daughter with trying to cultivate a large number of friends for her. She may be more comfortable getting to know one or two people rather than having many acquaintances.

Ask t h e T e ac h er // is written by Deb

Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@indyschild.com.

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E D U CAT I O N R ES O U R C ES

Education & Childcare Guide // SCHOO LS + EDUCATIO N carme l Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 18 years head-teaching experience and we a a full member of the American Montessori Society. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information.

(Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Midwest Academy Midwest Academy inspires and equips students to achieve their potential by providing a progressive educational environment that fosters academic achievement, self-acceptance, personal growth, and individual accountability. We serve students in grades 4-12 in need of a small classroom environment, those living with school anxiety, students with ADD/ADHD, high functioning autism and learning differences. 1420 Chase Court, Carmel, IN, United States 46032, Phone: (317) 843-9500; e-mail: kfoster@mymidwestacademy.org, http://www.mymidwestacademy.org

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discovering learning is fun! All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes.Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, http://www.starting linepreschool.com

DOWNTOWN KIPP Indy Public Schools KIPP Indy is a network of free, college preparatory, public charter schools that prepares students for college and beyond!

Transportation available. 1740 E 30th St, Indianapolis; Phone: (317) 547-5477; e-mail: fjohnson@kippindy.org; Contact: Fatima Johnson, http://kippindy.org/

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Paramount School of Excellence

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School

Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment.

Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org, www.paramountindy.org

You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090. Email: admissions@ brebeuf.org, www.brebeuf.org

fishers Fishers Montessori A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society.

12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

indianapolis – north ACE Prep ACE Prep is a brand new, tuition free, public elementary charter school currently enrolling students in Kindergarten and First Grade for the 2016 school year. With a strong focus on literacy, numeracy and character development, ACE Prep offers a longer school day, small group instruction, enrichment opportunities, and an unwavering commitment to the families and community we serve.

5326 Hillside Avenue, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 759-1315; e-mail: ashults@ aceprepacademy.org; www.aceprepacademy.org

Apogee School for Gifted Children The Apogee School for Gifted Children is an affordable private school for students in grades K-12 where every detail was designed to be an ideal learning environment for gifted children. The focus is to serve the social, emotional, academic, and physical needs of gifted students and be exceptional at it.​Contact: David Bonner, info@ ApogeeSchool.com, ApogeeSchool.com

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative ArtsEnrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class)(3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole childphysically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

Children's Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values and learning through play. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate first school experience in the care of experienced and loving caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. For the older kids, our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, Music class taught by Indianapolis Children’s Choir instructors and Book Club. Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms.

Tours are individually set up at your convenience! 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org/cdi.

The Children's House, INC The Children's House was founded in 1971 to provide a classical education through individual instruction. In an atmosphere free of competition, the child can discover her or his own unique talents on the way to becoming a self-actualized person. 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Mary Sexson, Phone: 317-253-3033, Email: childrenshouse08@gmail.com, www.thechildrenshouseindianapolis. com, Hours/Dates: 9 am to 3 pm (Extended care available), School Year: September through May, Ages/Grades: Preschool through 8th Grade

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (16-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK5) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours?

Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 16 mos - Pre K5. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake, Whitney Carriger, or Robin Crum, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or wcarriger@golove.org

Fall Creek Montessori Offering the highest quality of early-childhood education based on the Montessori method. Our traditional Montessori academic program is offered in multiple formats to fit your families needs. 7770 E. 88th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46256; info@fallcreekmontessori.com; www.fallcreekmontessori.com/

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA, HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Preschool-12. Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA ATHLETICS. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250.

Contact: Admissions Department, 317-849-3441, Admissions@heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

The Orchard School The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

indianapolis – SOUTH Center Grove Montessori and Indiana Montessori Community School Center Grove Montessori Program offers: Hands-on learning, multi-aged students learning together, a key element to the Montessori philosophy, a focus on the intrinsic motivation of children, carefully prepared classrooms balancing children's choice with structure, large blocks of uninterrupted time for learning and building concentration, peace education through global awareness, structured, self-directed learning. 1674 West Smith Valley Rd., Greenwood, IN 46142 and 531 US 31 S, White land, IN 46184, Contact: Brenda Enderle, Phone: 317-833-0335, Email: office@centergrovemontessori.com;info@centergrove montessori.com, http://www.centergrovemontessori.com

westfie ld Montessori School of Westfield, Inc.

Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www. montessorischoolofwestfield.com

// AfTER SCHOO L EN RICH M ENT FOX HILL DANCE ACADEMY, INC. Ballet, tap, hiphop. Adults and children. Walk in registration Mon. & Fri. 1-5 and Weds. 2-6. 2255 Fox Hill Drive, Indianapolis, IN, Phone: 317-255-0173, e-mail: Bjzwdancer@gmail.com, www.foxhilldanceacademy.com

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Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered.

1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org, www. sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis – northeast Polly Panda Preschool

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@ pollypanda.com, www.pollypanda.com

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COMM E N TARY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // KELLY BLEWETT

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom's life Tweak and Dashy Forever

“I really want you,” says my daughter to me. “You can work on the computer with me on your lap.” She nuzzles her face in my neck, wrapping her arms tightly around me. And then she decides to turn around. “I need to see what you’re doing, Mama! ” she says, shifting her weight awkwardly, “I need to see the computer! ” So now, having settled herself again, she watches as the words fill the screen, as my hands move quickly over the keyboard. I’m writing, though she doesn’t know it, about her. “Keep pushing! ” she says, urging me to keep moving my hands across the buttons, “Push fast, Tweak! ” Last summer our family went on a weeklong vacation to a lake. After two days, Caroline (age 3 ½) decided to give everyone in the family a nickname. My nickname, culled from one of her favorite television shows, was to be Tweak.

And her name, she decided, was to be Dashy. The summer trip is long gone and the nicknames seem to be fading for others in the family. (Which is good because my husband was eager to lose “Captain Barnacles” – although I personally thought this name was especially fitting given that he’d served for years in the Army). Tweak and Dashy, though, have remained. “Where’s my

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Tweaky?! ” Caroline, I mean Dashy, will shriek from the bottom of the stairs. “I need you, Tweak! ” Sometimes at night, when I’m done singing “Old McDonald” for the umpteenth time, she’ll pull my head down close to her and put a hand on my cheek. “Dashy loves you, Tweak,” she whispers.

And Dashy, as a name, seems to suit the girl. She races, feet moving quickly, hair flying in different directions (unlike the show’s counterpart, whose hair is neatly pulled into a clip). She’s a girl in motion, a fun little sprite. Tweak and Dashy are not best friends on the show, but how glad I am that for us, the bond runs deep. I am the Tweak to my daughter’s Dashy. “I really want you,” she says to me today, a million times a day it seems. You know what, little Dashy? I really want you, too.

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COMM E N TARY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // PETE GILBERT

A Dad Influence

How to Make Trick-or-Treating a Success (for Parents, That Is) Ready or not, here comes Halloween!

There are hundreds of articles out there with tips guaranteeing a successful night of trick-or-treating for your kids, but nothing for the parents...until now.

If your children are young, you’ll need to go trick-or-treating with them. Before leaving the house, set out an empty basket on your front porch (make it look like it’s been tipped over), with a sign that says, “take one.” Kids (and more importantly their judging parents) will think you’ve already run out of candy and not that you’re too cheap to buy enough in the first place.

If you’re planning on wearing a costume while walking around with your kids, think it through. If you’re like me, Halloween is the only day of the year you even speak to half of your neighbors. Do you really want to have a conversation with them dressed as a clown or wearing a Trump wig?

In regards your kid’s costume, conventional wisdom says children should not wear masks that obscure their vision. I say, make sure your child’s costume has a full mask! With their impaired eyesight you’ll have no problem freely reaching into their candy basket for all the Krackel you can eat.

Also, while walking around your neighborhood, make sure you have a flashlight.

Your neighbors will think you are being a responsible parent keeping your child safe, but you can actually use it to look for dropped candy along the sidewalks.

At the end of the night, every good parent needs to check their child’s candy before letting them eat any. I could not agree more with this tip. Don’t forget to “inspect” all the candy and remove anything that seems suspect (or contains gooey caramel and milk chocolate that you can further “investigate” after the kids are in bed).

Happy Parenting and Happy Halloween!

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SAT 01

First Saturday Member Morning Location: Children’s Museum, Indianapolis, Time: 9-10 am, childrensmuseum.org/ Get your hands on all the fun an hour before everyone else! Enjoy all of your favorite exhibits at the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis on the first Saturday of the month as the museum opens an hour early just for members. Ride the Carousel, scale the Rock Wall (a limited number of tickets available at 9am), and beat the crowds. No need to register ahead of time… just show up and start having a ball!

Comic Book in A Day Location: Nickel Plate Arts, Noblesville, Time: 10 am-9 pm, nickelplatearts.org/event/ comic-book-in-a-day/ Nickel Plate Arts’ third annual Comic Book in a Day event is back with expanded attractions, more artwork for sale, and more activities for artists, comic book fans, adults and kids. All day, we will be offering comics-inspired activities, including creating a collaborative comic book. Visit with our Challenge Artists, get inspired, and then make something of your own to take home!

Free to attend.

Family Day at the IMA: Harvest Festival Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 11 am-3 pm, imamuseum.org/specialevent/family-day-harvest-festival Celebrate fall at the IMA with stunning pumpkin and gourd displays, hay rides, seasonal food tastings, live music and family activities all afternoon long.

Cereal Cinema: Coraline Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 10 am-12 pm, indyfilmfest.org/events/ cereal-cinema/ Cereal Cinema is an event created by the partnership of Indy Film Fest, The Athenaeum and the Indianapolis Museum of Art (IMA). The event features a classic movie that the whole family can enjoy and a cereal bar! The collaborative project takes place on select Saturdays of the month at 10 a.m.

Tickets are just $5, and include admission to the film, as well as the cereal buffet.

SUN 02

Children’s Tea Party Location: Ritz Charles, Carmel, Time: 1-3 pm, ritzcharles.com/ Tea party for opening of exhibit: Fashion Dolls from the Private Collection of Elizabeth Kraft Taylor. Fifty 14” dolls will be dressed in fabulous designer fashions. Each has been given a name, a backstory, and is authenticated by both the doll and the fashion designers, such as Jason Wu. Call (317) 575-9466 to register.

MON 03

Dinosaurs!

Location: Fountain Square Branch Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 11 am, Indypl.org Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 are invited to join Silly Safaris to learn about dinosaurs. They'll meet modern day reptiles and compare them with the reptiles of the past.

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Community Tuesday in downtown Indianapolis Location: Select White River State Park attractions, Time: 10 am-5 pm, indyschild. com/community-tuesdays-downtown-indy/ Community Tuesdays take place the first Tuesday of the month, with special savings at select White River State Park attractions such as $6 adult/senior admission at Eiteljorg (youth free!), ½ price tickets at Indiana State Museum, $2 off IMAX movie tickets and $3 NCAA Hall of Champions admission.

First Friday Food Truck Festival Location: Old National Centre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 5 pm, facebook.com/ FirstFridayFoodTruckFestival/ New in 2016, the First Friday Food Truck Festival will couple their amazing food truck offerings with the Indie Arts and Vintage Marketplace. Come on out and enjoy over 25 food trucks, cold drinks, and vendors specializing in arts and vintage goods!

Plenty of family fun from local vendors + live music to get the toes tapping.

Homeschool Program: Learning about Bats Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 6-8 pm, Childrensmuseum.org Come to this special evening event all about your favorite flying mammal. Learn about bats from chiropterologist Rob Mies and the author of Stellaluna, Janell Cannon, as they explain why bats are fascinating and important members of the ecosystem. Take part in bat-themed activities to complete your learning at this special night reserved just for Homeschool families.

Sk8 Night Location: Monon Community Center Skatepark, Carmel, Time: 7-10:30 pm, carmelclayparks.com/ Grab your board and come to show off some tricks! Under the lights with a live, local band, all levels are welcome. Highlight your talents and get prizes for best trick, most “used” board, and more. RISE Skateboard Shop staff will join all night to emcee the event and play-by-play.

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Target Free Family Night at Children’s Museum – ScienceWorks Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 4-8 pm, indyschild.com/family-nightschildrens-museum-indianapolis/ Explore the world’s biggest and best children’s museum for free! Come one, come all for Target Free Family Nights. Make discoveries, spark your creativity, be transported to other times and places, get your hands in sand and water, climb and jump... and have a ball doing it all.

Free Admission at The IMA Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 4-9 pm, imamuseum.org/visit/admission Following suit with some of our local museums and hotspots, the Indianapolis Museum of Art also offers free admission on the first Thursdays of every month from 4-9 pm. Perfect for a date night, evening out with the family or a little ‘me’ time.

Swap Your Stash Location: Toasty Baby, Indianapolis, Time: 10 am-4 pm, facebook.com/ events/1046690335445226/ Join the wonderful folks at Toasty Baby on this date to shop their annual cloth diaper consignment sale. Show up early for the best deals! In addition to the sale, new products will be on sale in-store while supplies last.

Oktoberfest at Trader’s Point Creamery Location: Traders Point Creamery, Zionsville, Time: 12-7 pm, traderspointcreamery.com/ events/oktoberfest/ Families can enjoy hayrides, the pumpkin patch, face-painting, games, crafts, and an artisan market at this annual fest with live music and delicious food to boot. Sample the creamery’s products and watch the evening cow milking! $10 Pre-sale tickets; $15 at gate; kids ages 10 and under FREE.

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Stories in Music Location: The Palladium, Time: 7:30pm, thecenterfortheperformingarts.org This performance by the Carmel Symphony Orchestra focuses on the stories behind the music. The program features childhood favorite Peter and the Wolf along with “Pictures at an Exhibition” – vividly depicting in music the stories portrayed in his friend Victor Hartmann’s paintings.

Coxhall Children’s Garden Tour Location: Coxhall Gardens, Carmel, Time: 11am, http://hamiltoncounty.in.gov Take a tour of the Children’s Garden located at Coxhall Gardens with a Naturalist, who will let you in on the ideas that went into designing this magical spot as you walk and play.

Shake, Rattle & Roll Location: Bongo Boy Music School, Time: 9:30-10am, www.bongoboymusic.com/ Shake, Rattle & Roll is a fun rhythm and movement program for Infants – 2 year old kiddos. Babies will groove with the help of their parents and toddlers will rattle, roll & shake…and giggle! All materials, instruments & REMO drums will be provided

by Bongo Boy Music School.

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Teddy Bear Sleepover Location: Hamilton East Public Library, Noblesville Branch, Time: 6:30-7:15 pm, hepl.lib.in.us/ Come dressed in your pj's at 6:30 p.m. and bring your second favorite stuffed buddy for a Teddy Bear Sleepover. The Library will have stories, songs, a craft and a bedtime snack. You will tuck in your buddy and they will have their own special sleepover at the library. Come back the next morning at 9:30 to enjoy a light breakfast with your buddy and find out what adventures they had during the night! For ages 3-8.

Family Skills and Drills Camp Location: Indiana Farm Bureau Football Center, Time: 5-9pm, www.colts.com/ fanzone/events/familyskills.html Join the Indianapolis Colts for Family Skills and Drills Camp, which offers participants the opportunity to get an "inside" look at Colts football; not to mention tips on improving your game and perfecting your end zone dance! Activities include on-field drills and a Q & A session with current and alumni Colts Players. Recommended for children ages 4-16 and their families.

THURS 13

Pumpkin-Palooza Location: Garfield Park and Conservatory, Indianapolis, Time: 2-3 pm, garfieldgardensconservatory.org Join Garfield Park and Conservatory during fall break as they celebrate autumn’s arrival with all things pumpkin! They will have a story, craft, and more. For ages 3-12.

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Haunted Indianapolis Downtown Ghost Walk Location: Soldiers and Sailors Monument, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 7:30 pm, maxkade.iupui.edu/soldiers.html Visit society and the wicked backlife of Indianapolis: Haunted theatres, businesses and other areas where the living chose to become dead and walk forever. This tour lasts 1:45-2 hrs. and begins on the north side of Monument Circle. Cost: $18/adults; $13/kids and seniors. Takes place other dates throughout October.

SAT 15

2016 Kellogg’s Tour of Gymnastics Champions Location: Bankers Life Fieldhouse, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 7 pm, kelloggstour.com/info/ Members of the 2012 and 2016 U.S. Olympic Team will kick off the national Kellogg’s Tour of Gymnastics Champions.

Three-time World all-around champion Simone Biles, 2012 Olympic team and all-around champion Gabby Douglas, 2012 Olympic team and floor exercise champion Aly Raisman, 2008 Olympic all-around champion Nastia Liukin, and 2012 Olympic team gold-medalist Jordyn Wieber headline the cast of the Tour, which includes 38 performances in 36 cities.

IndyFamilyFest Time: 10am-3pm, Location: Ritz Charles, Carmel, indyfamilyfest.com/ The fun and festive IndyFamilyFest returns this fall with over 100 exhibitor booths offering attendees valuable information on the latest and greatest products and services, engaging activities and contests for the entire family, swag bags and other fun. Stop by the Indy's Child booth for giveaways, games and more - we're proud to be a media sponsor of IndyFamilyFest once again this year!

TUES 18

Octoboo Location: Hamilton East Public Library, Fishers Branch, Time: 6-8 pm, hepl.lib.in.us/ Join the Fishers Branch Library for their annual Halloween celebration! Enjoy tricks and treats all evening long at this rain-proof Halloween celebration. Costumes encouraged!

THURS 20

Harp Songs and Stories: Infant and Toddler Music Class Location: College Avenue Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30 am, Indypl.org Babies and toddlers under the age of three and an adult are invited for a special introduction to the concert harp. They’ll explore the connection between language and music and share stories. Call 317-2754320 to register.

Preschool Reader’s Theatre Location: Garfield Park Branch Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 10:30 am, Indypl.org Preschoolers and an adult are invited as The Ripple Reader's Theatre from Broad Ripple Magnet High School for the Arts and Humanities will perform a reader's theatre version of a favorite picture book, followed by interactive activities and a craft. Call 317-275-4410 to register.

FRI 21

Boo Bash with Fishers Parks and Recreation Location: Nickel Plate Arts District, Fishers, Time: 6:30-8:30 pm, Fishers.IN.US/ PARKS One of our favorite events – the Fishers Parks and Recreation Boo Bash is a fun Halloween Village filled with local businesses, games, music, costume contests and candy, located right in the Nickel Plate Arts District in downtown Fishers.

Best of all – it’s FREE.

SAT 22

Purplicious Fun at Carmel Clay Library Location: Carmel Clay Library, Carmel, Times: 10 am, 11 am, 2 pm, carmel.lib.in.us/ Come have a purple-tastic time at the library celebrating the book Purplicious!

Enjoy crafts, games, and even a photo opportunity on our purplicious backdrop!

This program will be held in the Storytime Room and is for children ages 3-7 and their caregivers. Free.

FRI 21 – SUN 23

Cirque de la Symphonie Goes Broadway!

Location: Hilbert Circle Theatre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 3 pm, indianapolis symphony.org The amazing acrobats, aerialists, strongmen and jugglers of Cirque de la Symphonie are back for another set of heart-stopping, gravity-defying shows, this time, set to the sounds of Broadway’s greatest showpieces. This concert is designed for children ages 4-12 and offer engaging musical experiences for the whole family.

MON 24

Author’s event: Nick Bruel Location: Kids Ink Bookstore, Time: 4-5 pm, Kidsinkbookstore.com Author and illustrator of the Bad Kitty series will deliver a presentation, sign books, and help Kids Ink staffers with some Halloween surprises.

THURS 27

Family Fright Festival Location: Brightwood Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 3:30-5:50 pm, Indypl.org Families and children of all ages are invited for a hauntingly good time. Come dressed up in family friendly costumes or just hang out with other ghouls. There'll be games, face and nail painting, crafts, coloring pages, mask making, goodies and children's stories with author Devon Dondaki!

Little Haunt on the Prairie at Ghoul Creek Park Location: Cool Creek Park, Carmel, Time: 5-9pm Cool Creek Park becomes Ghoul Creek Park on this spooky evening! Featuring fun, age-appropriate activites for preschool to school-age children and their families. Enjoy hayrides, crafts, a spooky nature trail, Halloween games and much more.

Giggly Ghosts and Goblins Location: Carmel Clay Library, Carmel, Times: 5 pm, 7 pm, carmel.lib.in.us/ Put on your costume and come to the library for some slightly spooky Halloween fun, stories, and songs. This program will be held in the Program Room and is for children ages 0-5 and their caregivers.

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone Symphony Orchestra Performance Also on October 30th Location: Hilbert Circle Theatre, downtown Indianapolis, indyschild.com/harry-potterfilm-concert-series-comes-to-indy/ The Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra is pleased to announce six performances of The Harry Potter Film Concert Series, as part of the Global concert tour celebrating the Harry Potter films, at Hilbert Circle Theatre. The tour will feature a live symphony orchestra performing, to picture, every note from Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. Indianapolis audiences will be able to relive the magic of three films in one of the world’s most beloved franchises on a 40-foot highdefinition screen while hearing the orchestra perform John Williams’ unforgettable scores.

FRI 28

Halloween Moonlight Egg Hunt Location: Broad Ripple Park, Broad Ripple, Time: 7-8:30 pm, broadripplepark.org/ Venture into the moonlight for a monster egg hunt at Broad Ripple Park for a howling good time! Costumed kids receive a special prize and registration is required. $10/child.

SAT 29

Octonauts Live! The Deep Sea Volcano Adventure Location: Old National Centre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 5 pm, oldnationalcentre. com/ The Octonauts is a British children's television series, produced by Silvergate Media for the BBC channel CBeebies. The series is animated in Ireland by Brown Bag Films but uses British voice actors. The TV series is based on American-Canadian children's books written by Vicki Wong and Michael C. Murphy of Meomi Design Inc. The Octonauts follows an underwater exploring crew made up of stylized anthropomorphic animals, a team of eight adventurers who live in an undersea base, the Octopod, from where they go on undersea adventures with the help of a fleet of aquatic vehicles.

Indy Author Fair: Illustration for Kids by Kids Location: Central Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 12-1 pm, Indypl.org Children of all ages are invited to this special children's art illustration workshop presented

by Art With a Heart. As a program of the Eugene & Marilyn Glick Indiana Authors Award and the Library, this event will be held in the Learning Curve Arena.

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Dia de los Muertos Location: Eiteljorg Museum, downtown Indianapolis, eiteljorg.org/explore/ festivals-and-events/2016/10/29/ default-calendar/day-of-the-dead The Eiteljorg will offer FREE admission to experience Día de los Muertos/Day of the Dead with partner, Nopal Cultural Center, a multicultural arts organization that seeks to enhance Latino-American arts in Indianapolis and surrounding cities. See traditional papel picado, the cut paper decorations hung for Hispanic celebrations and get ideas for your own memorial by seeing the elements on the community ofrenda (offering place). Watch performances, meet artists in residence, explore artwork and a variety of altars, browse the marketplace and create art.

FREE.

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ongoing calendar {OCTOBER 2016}

Day of the Dead Altar Exhibition Runs October 1-November 5, 2016 Location: Indiana State Museum, downtown Indianapolis, indianamuseum.org/ The Indiana State Museum will host a month-long celebration of El Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead. See aspects of this traditional Mexican holiday which honors the lives of the deceased and celebrates the continuation of life with a belief that death is not the end, but rather the beginning of a new stage in existence. Price is included with museum admission ($8.50-$13).

Halloween ZooBoo Oct 7-9, 14-16, 21-23, 28-30 Location: Indianapolis Zoo, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 2-7pm, indianapoliszoo.com/ events-and-groups/zoo-events/ halloween-zooboo Each year, ZooBoo provides all the fun festivities the season has to offer in a family-friendly event. Fall is already one of the best times to visit the Zoo with the animals out and active in mild temperatures. Add a Halloween twist full of decorations, photo opportunities and all your favorite ZooBoo activities for a day your family will love! The little ones are encouraged to dress up in their favorite wild costumes! Children are encouraged to bring a re-usable goodie bag for a little trick-or-treat, too.

Cursed Castle Haunted House Runs October 8-30, 2016 Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org Hear ye, hear ye! Storm the castle and raid the village on a journey through Cursed Castle, The Children’s Museum Guild’s 53rd Annual Haunted House.

Enter Burnadette the Dragon’s castle with caution! Through the centuries, many knights and princesses have failed to break the dragon’s curse. The Haunted House offers IPL’s Lights-On Hours (for children who scare easily) and Frightening Hours (with the lights off, for children who dare to be scared). Tickets $8/pp.

The Slightly Haunted Puppet Studio October 8-29 Location: Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio inside the Indiana State Museum, downtown Indy, peewinklespuppets.com/ Once again Witch Gertrude will cackle her way on to the Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio stage to put all her visiting gremlins into the Halloween spirit!!

Ghosts, skeleton, alien, juggling scarecrow and more will amuse the whole family. Tickets are $12; children two and under free. Free popcorn is provided to every attendee and an optional post-show workshop also available for an additional $3 fee.

Conner Prairie Headless Horseman Runs October 13-16, 20-23, 27-30 Location: Conner Prairie Historic Interactive Park, Fishers, connerprairie.org At the annual Headless Horseman fun with Conner Prairie, enjoy a haunted hayride, and join in a variety of family friendly activities such as a costume runway show for kids, catapult fun, and Scary-o-ke, where your vocal chords can scare or thrill the crowd. See magic shows, Ed's Electrical Spectacle, and returning favorite, the Legend of Sleepy Hollow marionette show. Enjoy caramel apples, hot pretzels, warm cider and other treats for your stomach. It's a hauntingly good time for all ages and a beloved fall tradition for many families.

The Little Mermaid Runs October 14-November 12, 2016 Location: Beef and Boards Dinner Theatre, Indianapolis, beefandboards.com/children/index. html This whimsical retelling of the original 1837 fairytale features an adventurous mermaid named Melody, who wants to emerge from the safety of the deep sea and explore what's beyond the ocean surface: the human world. When Melody slips away from her own birthday party, she winds up rescuing a drowning prince and falling in love with him. Along with her friends Bobell, the frog, and Turtell, the turtle, Melody sets out to find her land legs and true love! Tickets $15.50/pp.

Historic Irvington Halloween Festival Runs October 22-29 Location: Irvington Neighborhood District, Indianapolis, irvingtonhalloween.com/ This annual festival and its associated events are designed to bring commerce to local business and sponsors and provide fun for the children of Irvington and Indianapolis. The celebration now includes a week of events including a 5-mile run, music, Halloween-themed movies, storytelling, ghost tours, live theater, masquerade ball, a haunted puppet show and dozens of other events.

Mini Golf At The IMA Through October 2 Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Indianapolis, www.imamuseum.org/ Mini Golf at the IMA combines original art with playful competition. The course, located on the IMA’s Alliance Sculpture Court, features 18 holes, each inspired

by Indiana history, heritage and landmarks. Afterwards, players can grab refreshments from King David Dog and Sun King Brewing at the course’s clubhouse, open Thursday through Sunday.

Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures Occurring daily through November 27 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ exhibits/future-exhibits Tales of pirates, princesses, knights and other adventurers captivate us through books, movies, TV shows and in childhood daydreams. In Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures, children and families are heroes of their own adventures, role playing as royals and rebels in an inventive exhibit that inspires the imagination.

Beyond Spaceship Earth Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org This all-new, immersive exhibit will tell the dynamic story of space exploration from NASA’s Project Mercury program, which sent the first Americans into space, to the International Space Station (ISS). Experience the real scientific

work of ISS astronauts, both inside the space station and outside the airlock!

Discover the future of space exploration that is being developed by NASA and partners like SpaceX, and don’t miss the Indiana Astronaut Hall of Fame, celebrating the many astronauts and engineers connected to Indiana. Exit the ISS into the all-new Schaefer Planetarium and Space Object Theater featuring the NASA space capsule Liberty Bell 7—which was piloted by astronaut and Indiana native Gus Grissom in 1961 on America’s second manned space flight.

Doc McStuffins The Exhibit Now through January 31, 2017 Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org Doc McStuffins has checked in to the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis with the first-ever collaboration the Museum has hosted with Disney. Fans of the show will be delighted by the large interactive experience where children can explore health care in a fun environment. Children are invited to help Doc perform checkups and diagnose toy patients, while learning about healthy habits, compassion and nurturing care.

Bongo Boy Music School Family Drum Circle Saturdays Time: 10:15-11 am, Location: Bongo Boy Music School, Indianapolis, bongoboymusic.com/RMC/ Programs/Kids.aspx Imagine a community where music, rhythm, movement, and drumming have become a weekly outlet for socializing and living a happier, healthier lifestyle. At the weekly Bongo Boy Family Drum Circle you’ll enjoy recreational music making through rhythm, movement and rhythm based games. Older kids and parents play supportive rhythms from the circle while younger kids explore the various instruments in the center of the circle. Parents are highly encouraged to participate and must stay with their kids.

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