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features

commentary & parenting

9 | FALL FUN

20 | ASK THE TEACHER

An autumnal bucket list

Refusing parental help, school involvement, encouraging responsibility

10 | Fall Fun on the Farm The best apple picking, pumpkin hunting and corn maze wandering of the season!

12 | Coping with divorce Helping kids and parents through the process

14 | Preschool enrichment programs Something to suit every interest

22 | TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD

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Pumpkin Patches, S’mores and Spider Princesses

23 | FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE Like Father, Like Son

24 | PREVENTING THE FLU 12

Tips for getting through this flu season

18 | Being an Older Parent

26 | THE HOMESCHOOL HEARTBEAT

Pros and cons of “later in life“ parenting

State Laws: What is required to provide your home district

in every issue

27 | OCTOBER HAPPENINGS

6 | PUBLISHER’S NOTE 8 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

calendars 28 | October EVENTS 30 | ONGOING EVENTS 31 | FUN & WACKY

Will you choose to be delighted or frightened in October?

resources

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21 | Private school Open house guiDE

ON THE COVER Blade Hartley (5) Photo by:

Obscura Photography obscuraphotographystudio.com

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[ publisher’s note ]

DAYTON

Autumn Greetings!

PARENT PUBLISHER

Crisp air, colorful leaves, pumpkin pie and long sleeves are just a few of the things that I think about when the calendar hits October. Although kids may miss those warm summer days, we can remind them of all the fun that comes with fall.

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In this edition of Dayton Parent, you will find plenty of ideas to take advantage of everything this season has to offer. From pumpkin patches to corn mazes, there are so many places to create fun family memories in our area.

web developer Wendy Cox | Wendy@daytonparentmagazine.com

advertising coordinator Karen RIng | Karen@daytonparentmagazine.com

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For those of you with preschoolers at home, be sure to check out our article on Preschool Enrichment Programs to help you decide what activities may best suit your little one. We also invite you to read our features on two topics that affect many families: Coping with Divorce and Being an Older Parent. It’s always helpful to hear how others may be handling a similar situation to your own, so take a look to read insights from those who have “been there.”

These golden autumn days are fleeting, so get outside and enjoy the season while it lasts! Soak up the beauty of the fall colors, visit your favorite pumpkin patch and delight in making new traditions with your family. And when you have a quiet moment, we hope you’ll cuddle up under a blanket and enjoy reading this issue of Dayton Parent!

editorIal assistant Wendy Schrepherman | S.Wendy@daytonparentmagazine.com

Contributing Writers Katy Mark, Sarah McCosham, Katrina Anne Willis, Michelle Shirk, Jennifer Garcia, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Alicia Elam of the Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization, Lisa Seibert of DaytonLocal. com, Dr. Stacy Meyer of Dayton Children’s Hospital Calendar of Events calendar@daytonparentmagazine.com Contact Us daytonparent@daytonparentmagazine.com Copyright Dayton Parent Magazine is published monthly. Copyright 2013

by Midwest Parenting Publications, LLC. All rights reserved.

Reproduction without permission is strictly prohibited. Distribution of this magazine does not constitute an endorsement of products, commentary, or services herein. For information on subscriptions, editorial guidelines, advertising rates and more, visit daytonparentmagazine.com

Katy Mark Associate Publisher

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FIVE RIVER METRO PARKS

BIG BAD BOUNCE

WHITE WATER RAILROAD

PAINT BRUSH POTTERY

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[ community spotlight ]

community spotlight Disney on Ice presents 100 Years of Magic Join the celebration as more than 60 of Disney’s unforgettable characters from 18 beloved stories come to life in Disney On Ice celebrates 100 Years of Magic! You’ll be captivated by the one and only Mickey Mouse, the irresistible Minnie Mouse, Goofy, Donald Duck, Jiminy Cricket, Pinocchio and many Disney princesses. Be thrilled by exciting moments from The Lion King, Mulan, Finding Nemo, The Incredibles, and Toy Story films in a skating spectacular filled with magical Disney moments you’ll remember forever. October 23rd – October 27th at the Ervin J. Nutter Center. For more information, contact www.nuttercenter.com or www.ticketmaster.com

Haunted Castle of Carnage - Lights On Kids Matinee At this event, all lights will be on and NO monsters will be inside the Castle or on the Trail. This is a time for kids with their families to get a behind the scenes look at the haunt and see that the props are fake and it’s all just for fun! Other booths and activities will be set up outside including fire trucks and a police K-9 demonstration. Saturday, October 19th at 12 p.m., 1213 Old Harshman Rd., Riverside, OH. Admission is $3.00 per person, receive $1.00 off with a nonperishable food item (for Matinee Special Event only.) Hosted

by Riverside Jaycees. Food and money from this “Special Matinee” will go towards food for the needy and Kids Shopping Spree at Christmas AKA Jaycees for Kids Project. Go to www. riverside-jaycees.com for more information.

Midwest Outdoor Experience This recreation celebration is free and festival-goers will discover the world of outdoor adventure waiting for them in Dayton. Check out high-flying demos, thrilling competitions and hands-on activities that allow participants to try new recreational pursuits. From camping to biking, kayaking to zip lining, the whole family can get engaged (even pets!) Onsite exhibitors will hook patrons up with gear they need to “Get Out and Live” and kids will love the Subway Fresh Fit Youth Adventure Zone. The Midwest Outdoor Experience offers a host of opportunities for every level of outdoor enthusiast from beginner to advanced. Friday, October 4th, 6 p.m. - 10 p.m. and Saturday, October 5th, 6 a.m. – 8 p.m. at Eastwood Metro Park, 1385 Harshman Road, in Day ton . For more information, contact www.metroparks.org

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Pumpkin Patch Express Join the Lebanon Mason Monroe (LM&M) Railroad for some fall fun!

Come aboard for a train ride through Warren County in Southwestern, Ohio to Schappacher Farm in Mason, Ohio. Walk through a real working farm, pet the animals, find your way through a corn maze and select a small pumpkin of your very own! Parents don’t forget your camera to capture this fun family experience, and perhaps, the start of a cherished fall family tradition! Cost is $18.50 for adults, $15.50 for children (5-16) and seniors (62+), $8.50 for toddlers (2-4), infants- free. Saturdays and Sundays through October at 9:45 a.m., 1 p.m. and 4:15 p.m.

Visit www.lebanonrr.com for more information.

Shop ‘Til You Drop One of Dayton’s largest and most beloved indoor garage sales and flea markets returns to Hara’s East Hall. Patrons can shop ‘til they drop at over 170 booths that include crafts, clothing, jewelry, painted glass, decor items, lapidary, pottery, potpourri, collectibles and much more. An admission of only $2 buys you a full and unique shopping experience.

Saturday, October 26th from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Sunday, October 27th, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. For more information, visit www.haracomplex.com.

Ohio Renaissance Festival Be entertained by the most unique entertainment found anywhere with nearly 100 engaging, live shows daily on eleven stages scattered throughout a 30acre permanent village. Come out to be amazed by stunt shows, jousting, comedy, music, fire eating, tricks and tomfoolery. Throughout the village marketplace you will find over 140 world class artisans featuring handmade wares such as clothing, jewelry, pottery, weaponry, home décor, art and more. And no Ren Fest is complete without Turkey Legges, Dragon Wyngs and Fryes and Village Berry Cobbler.

August 31st - October 20th, Saturdays and Sundays 10:30 a.m. – 6 p.m. Adult admission (13+) is $17 and child admission (5-12) is $9, 10542 E State Route 73, Waynesville, OH. Contact www.renfestival.com for more information.

Fall F un An autumnal bucket list Sarah McCosham

Forget summer: fall is king! Many people choose autumn as their favorite season. With cooler temps, vibrant foliage and great outdoor festivals, it’s easy to see why fall is so favored. Make the most of this special time of year with a few of these ideas.

Enjoy the outdoors On any given weekend in September, October and November, you’ll find a variety of fall festivals on the calendar. Events at local apple orchards and pumpkin patches are a “must do” with kids. From hay mazes, pick-your-own pumpkins and fresh-baked goodies, it just isn’t fall without a trip to the orchard.

Tom’s Maze in Germantown is an institution in the Dayton area.

Now enjoying its 16th year of fall festivities, Tom’s Maze offers an eight acre corn maze, pumpkin picking and most notably, a Punkin’ Chunkin’ Cannon - a massive contraption that catapults orange gourds into the autumn sky.

At Tuken’s Orchard and Farm Market, families can find a great selection of apples, pumpkins, indian corn and gourds. Kids can visit with Tuken the dog as well as Bertie and Gertie the geese and other farm animals in the “Critter Corral.”

Celebrate spooky fun

Join a race With summer’s sweltering heat behind us, fall is the perfect time to lace up your running shoes and get moving! There are a variety of fall walks and runs in Dayton to consider.

The Dayton River Corridor Classic Half Marathon on October 13th is one of the oldest road races in Ohio. Now in its 37th year, the race winds around the Great Miami River and the historic streets of downtown Dayton, with a portion of proceeds going toward the American Heart Association.

On October 11th, Dayton also hosts the Glow in the Night 5k in Eastwood Metropark. Event Coordinator Heather Newman describes the event: “Participants will be covered in glow-in-the-dark color dust at night, under the glow of black lights. It’s spectacular to watch racers run through the night!” All proceeds from the event benefit the Children’s Medical Center – and Newman invites Dayton residents to “get messy” for kids in need.

With a veritable cornucopia of fall events from which to choose, there’s sure to be something you and your family can get excited about. No matter how you celebrate the season, find something fun that speaks to you, and start an annual tradition with your family!

With parties, candy and costumes, what’s not to love about Halloween? At the National Museum of the U. S. Air Force, Dayton families celebrate both Halloween and our city’s contribution to aviation. On Saturday, October 26th, kids can visit the Museum in costume for an afternoon full of family-friendly events, including a Halloween-themed story time and aerospace demonstrations.

Older kids and adults can get into the spirit at the Land of Illusion in Middletown. The Land of Illusion is a haunted manor, comprised of the Middletown Haunted Trail, Temple of Terror and the new “Zombie Sniper Trail”. This autumnal attraction is open weekends through October 27th, as well as Halloween night.

For a fun daytrip, consider heading down to the Cincinnati Zoo, where your kids can trick-or-treat with the animals. Every weekend in October, the Zoo offers HallZOOween festivities from 12-5 p.m.

Tiffany Barnes, Public Relations Manager at the Zoo, says HallZOOween is fun for the entire family, with “trick-or-treat stations, Hogwarts Express Train Rides rides on the ‘Scare-ousel,’ encounters with the animals and a new Theater of Illusion Show.”

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FALL FUN ON THE

FARM Barn N Bunk

3677 Wayne-Madison Rd., Trenton 513-988-9211 www.barnnbunk.com Highlights: Corn maze, straw maze, horse drawn hayrides, face painting, Amish baked goods and pumpkins Dates/Times: Sat. 12 p.m. – 6 p.m., Sun. 12 p.m. – 5 p.m.

Brumbaugh’s Fruit Farm

Check out these local farms for the best apple picking, pumpkin hunting and corn maze wandering this season has to offer!

The Pumpkin Barn

Idle Hour Ranch

Tuken’s Orchard and Farm Market

Jack O’Lantern Junction

728 Fairground Rd., Xenia 937-372-8697 www.millerpumpkinbarn.com Highlights: Petting zoo, hayrides and pumpkins Dates/Times: Mon - Sun 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.

6420 Hollansburg-Arcanum Rd. , Arcanum 937-692-8084 www.brumbaughfruitfarm.com Highlights: Corn maze, pumpkin patch, hay bale maze, tractor hayrides, apple picking, petting zoo and gift shop.

Dates/Times: Sat. 11 a.m – 7 p.m. Sun 12 p.m. – 6 p.m.

15725 Eaton Pike, West Alexandria 937-687-3848 www.tukensfarmmarket.com Highlights: Critter Corral, apple picking, fresh market and pumpkin farm Dates/Times: Mon - Sat 10 a.m. – 6 p.m., Sun. 11 a.m. – 5 p.m. Hayrides offered on weekends.

Kleather’s Pumpkin Patch

Young’s Jersey Dairy

90 W. Central Ave.,Springboro 937-748-9826 Highlights: Pumpkins, petting zoo and picture perfect opportunities.

Dates/Times: 10 a.m. - dark

Meadow View Growers

755 N. Dayton Lakeview Rd., New Carlisle 937-845-0093 www.meadowview.com Highlights: Corn maze, farm animals, mini zip line, campfires, pumpkins and more Dates/Times: Sat. 1 p.m. - 9 p.m., Sun. 1 p.m. - 5 p.m.

Sizemore’s Farm

7603 Upper Miamisburg Rd., Miamisburg 937-469-5499 Highlights: Dragon wagon rides, family hayrides, face painting, pumpkin painting, photo ops, and pumpkins Dates/Times: Daily 10 a.m. – 8 p.m.

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6880 Springfield- Xenia Rd., Yellow Springs 937-325-0629 www.youngsdairy.com Highlights: Wagon rides, farm tours, Cowvin’s Corney Maze, petting zoo, ice cream and pumpkins Dates/Times: Sat/Sun 12 p.m. – 7 p.m.

Hidden Valley Fruit Farm

5474 N. State Route 48, Lebanon (513) 932-1869 www.hiddenvalleyfruitfarm.com Highlights: Homemade hot apple cider, hayrides, fresh grown apples, Ohio Cider Fest, and Halloween Fun! Dates/Times: Open Monday- Saturday, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Ohio Cider Fest: October 5-6. Halloween Fun Fest: October 26-27.

4845 W. Fenner Rd. Troy, OH 937-339-9731 www.idle-hourranch.com/ Highlights: Brand new educational corn maze, petting zoo with over 200 animals, mini farm market, camel and pony rides Dates/Times: Friday through Sunday 12 p.m.- 6 p.m.

7379 Squire Ct. West Chester, OH 513-898-8000 www.entertrainmentjunction.com/ Highlights: Indoor pumpkin patch, crafts, free mini pumpkins (1 per kid), trick or treat maze and more Dates/Times: Monday through Saturday 10 a.m.- 6 p.m. Sunday 12 p.m.- 6 p.m.

Tom’s Maze

4677 Germantown-Liberty Rd., Germantown (937) 866-2777 www.tomsmaze.com Highlights: 8 acre corn maze, Punkin Chunkin Cannon, farm animals and more Dates/Times: Through November 3, Thurs.

1- 6 p.m., Fri. 1 – 10 p.m., Sat. 1 – 10 p.m., Sun. 1 – 6 p.m.

HIDDEN VALLEY

SIZEMORE’S TUKEN’S FARM

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COPING WITH DIVORCE Helping kids and parents through the process | Jennifer Garcia

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amilies can be hard work. And sometimes, no matter how much they love one another and how hard they work, things just don’t turn out as planned.

Andrea Carson, of Dayton, never pictured herself as a divorced, single mom, yet two years ago that was a decision that she found herself making.

“I have learned that life doesn’t always turn out the way that you thought it would, but you have to live the one life you get to the fullest,” she says.

Like many parents going through a divorce, Carson’s priority was to maintain a sense of normalcy for her then two year-old daughter – something family counselors highly recommend. Malissa Boyd, a licensed clinical social worker, advises divorcing parents to keep children’s activities and environment as consistent as possible so they can feel secure. “They need to know that life can still be normal and positive despite challenging life events,” says Boyd.

In Carson’s case, she and her ex-husband quickly established separate lives, making sure their child was always surrounded by love and support.

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She says, “Moving quickly helped us move on for the sake of establishing a good routine for her. She knows she has three days with Daddy and four days with Mommy. Routine is key, as is constantly reassuring her that we love her.”

Children are not BFFs

Divorce is painful, and parents may sometimes turn to their children for support, sharing information with them that is not appropriate. Jennifer Wilson, a school counselor, helps many children cope with divorce and has experienced this particular situation herself. Her parents’ own rocky 23 year marriage, which included multiple separations, finally ended in divorce when Wilson was in college. In retrospect, she says her parents’ biggest mistake was using their children as confidants instead of receiving counseling.

“I was my mom’s best friend during this time, which was very unhealthy for me,” says Wilson. “It caused me to become very resentful toward my father. Now that I am older, I wish she hadn’t shared such personal information about their marriage.”

As a school counselor, Wilson tells parents to talk openly about what is happening without inserting negative comments about their spouse. “Keep in mind that the relationship you have with your spouse is different than the one your children have with your spouse.”

Let kids emote

Divorce is a major upheaval in children’s lives and they should understand that it is alright to have strong emotions about it – including anger. “It’s okay [for children] to feel angry about the divorce – they have a right to their own opinions. Anger is a normal emotion and can be channeled in healthy ways,” says Boyd.

Whatever emotions your child is feeling, he or she should be allowed to express them. “Be aware that divorce is not a short-term situation for children,” says Wilson. “It’s a grieving process. Divorce is the loss of a family structure. Reassure your children that they are loved by both parents and they are not at fault.”

Some parents may question whether they have made the right decision for their family. Boyd says that many marriages end due to conflict, and that usually means that the conflict also ends. It can be helpful to remember that by eliminating this stress, you have opened the door to a more positive living situation. While your children may not understand or agree with your choice, they will benefit by your strength and confidence in your decision.

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Moving on

While focusing on how children are handling a divorce is critical, parents should also consider their own healing. Boyd recommends setting new personal, healthy goals. People with support systems, such as family, friends or structured support groups, fare better during a major life change.

As Carson says, “It gets very lonely, but I try to stay busy when I don’t have my daughter. I recommend getting out of the house and enjoying yourself so that the time spent without your child is easier.”

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DivorceCare (www.divorcecare.org) An extensive list of support resources based upon location DivorceCare for Kids (www.dc4k.org) Associated with DivorceCare, geared specifically for children’s issues PsychologyToday.com (www.psychologytoday.com) Find a psychologist or therapist in your area who meets your specific counseling criteria Atrium Counseling Services (www.atriumtherapy.com) Provides therapy for individuals, couples and families in Dayton and has specialists in divorce and parenting Local churches Check local churches that offer divorce support groups for adults and children

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PRESCHOOL ENRICHMENT Something to suit every interest | Michelle Shirk

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he preschool years are a special time in a child’s life. If your little one falls in the two-to-five age group, you’re probably ready to explore some new ways to help him or her learn and grow.

As you may have already realized, the possibilities for preschool enrichment are practically endless. Between dance classes, library story times, sports and museum programs, you could easily find something to occupy your preschooler every minute of the day.

With so many great enrichment options competing for your time and money, it may seem like a challenge to choose the right one for your child. Not to worry – we’re here to help! Below, you’ll find our roundup of Dayton area enrichment programs selected to suit a wide variety of parent “wants.”

You Want: A program that will engage your physically active toddler

Check out: The University of Dayton (www.udayton.edu) offers an extensive schedule of private and group swim lessons. In “Level 1: Intro to Water and Safety,” children will learn beginning water skills like blowing bubbles, kicking, splashing and jumping in the pool. Subsequent leveled classes teach children rhythmic breathing, stroke technique and more. Each session is limited to five students, so register early!

You Want: Fun and free Check out: The Dayton Metro Library is your go-to spot for no cost enrichment. Head to www.daytonmetrolibrary.org/calendar to find a dizzying array of preschool story times all over the Dayton area. These drop-in events featuring songs, games and crafts will help you enrich your child without spending a penny. Plus, you can check out some books and CDs while you’re there to keep the learning rolling upon your return home!

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class, try an activity that’s fun for the whole family. Five Rivers MetroParks (www.metroparks.org) helps parents and kids enjoy the great outdoors with its series of themed Tot Hikes hosted at different area parks. “Nocturnal Adventure” on October 11th will give kids a chance to touch animal pelts, learn about the differences between night and day and go on a nighttime hunt for screech owls. “Creepy Creatures” on October 28th will focus on spiders, snakes and other misunderstood members of the animal kingdom.

You Want: Single session enrichment activities Check out: The Dayton Art Institute’s (www.daytonartinstitute. org) weekly “Tiny Thursdays” sessions include story times, art gallery visits and hands-on activities. The cost is $6 per child with member caregiver and $8 per child with non-member caregiver. If you can’t make it to the museum on a Thursday, don’t worry – you can still give your child an interactive art experience at “The Art Place for Young Learners,” a permanent exhibit targeted towards three to six year-old visitors.

You Want: A wide variety of enrichment options at one location Check Out: The YMCA of Greater Dayton (www.ymcaonline.org) offers everything from language lessons to tae kwon do to art classes for the preschool set. With 11 different locations available around the Greater Dayton area, you’re sure to find one that is convenient for your family.

As you can see, there’s truly something for everybody in the world of preschool enrichment. Choose the class or activity that best suits your family’s style and enjoy exploring new activities together!

You Want: Activities to enhance coordination and strength Check out: Dayton Academy of Gymnastics & Dance (www. daytongymnastics.com) offers young kids plenty of opportunities to move. “Creative Movement” provides an introduction to dance, while “Gymlet” classes allow three and four year olds to learn basic gymnastics skills. Older preschoolers can also choose from beginning ballet, cheer, martial arts and more.

You Want: A family activity for your shy preschooler Check out: If your little one isn’t quite ready to jump into a solo

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Being an Older Parent Pros and cons of “ later in life” parenting Katrina Anne Willis It seems hard to believe that at 35, women are already considered to be of “advanced maternal age” – meaning that pregnancy for them could include greater medical risks. Yet many women are choosing to have children later in life, and find that the social and emotional aspect of being an older parent may be even more complex than the physical component.

In an informal Dayton Parent Facebook survey, we asked readers to share their thoughts on being an older parent.

For many moms, the number one benefit of having a child later in life is their own increased maturity. One reader responded, “I’m much more relaxed in my 40s than I was in my 20s. I wasn’t a mother until after 40, so I don’t know what kind of young parent I would have been. But in general, it’s much easier for me to roll with the punches now. I think I’m calmer and more rational as an older parent.”

Others cited financial security as an advantage of waiting to have children. Father of four, Chris, was born when his parents were both 40. He says, “I had the advantage of entering into the family dynamic when my siblings were nearly grown and my dad was at the pinnacle of his career. The result was that I got to experience a lot of things my siblings didn’t – simply because we had the financial means.”

Chris’s parents – who are now in their 80s – agree. “It was definitely a different and unexpected experience having Chris at 40,” his dad admits. “We were sending our oldest off to college while we were potty-training our youngest. But that age difference kept us on our toes. Chris was also blessed with older siblings who treated him like royalty. Once they got over the initial shock of their baby brother’s impending arrival, they doted on him. He had lots of ‘parents’ growing up.”

“More patience, more money, more time,” added another Dayton Mom. “I established a career, traveled the world – I don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything. Now I’m more mature, more relaxed, and better equipped to focus on my family.”

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Many children born to older moms and dads, however, fear for the physical health and well-being of their aging parents. “When I was in third grade,” Chris remembers, “I feigned illness almost every day. I was worried that something would happen to my mom while I was at school. She was so much older than the other moms, and I was convinced that meant she was going to die sooner. Now, I’m fairly certain she’s going to outlive us all!”

Another concern that plagues some older parents is feeling out of place within a younger crowd. A Dayton Parent mom explains, “The ‘younger’ parents often form friendship groups without you, so it can be challenging to nurture those types of relationships. It’s tough for me, personally, to compare myself to the other mothers – many of whom are young enough to be my children! And we’re still trying to recover from the ‘gap year’ – the lost wages and career setbacks I experienced when my ‘bonus baby’ arrived right before my 41st birthday.”

As is often true with many important family issues, a broad spectrum exists for what works with different people. Although the advantages and disadvantages of becoming a parent later in life may depend on individual circumstances, the majority of our respondents agreed on one key point. Being an older parent is a decision they wouldn’t change and certainly never regret.

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commentary & parenting

[ ask the teacher ]

Ask the Teacher

Refusing parental help, school involvement, encouraging responsibility

By Deb Krupowicz

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My third grader insists on doing his homework without any help or input from me or my husband. Without our help, he makes errors. How can I convince him to let us look over his work?

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Children may be reluctant to accept homework support from parents for many reasons. Perhaps your son interprets a teacher’s comment to do the work on his own to include eliminating parental help. Maybe he is afraid to disappoint you because the work is not perfect. Some children can more easily accept constructive criticism from the teacher than from mom or dad. Remaining patient when corrections need to be made can be a challenge for some parents; a child avoiding that tension is understandable.

If your child struggles with school work, explain to him that your responsibility as his parent includes a homework check. Offer input without emotion or accusation. (For example, “I think #3 and #7 could use a second look.”) Allow him to accept or ignore your advice on the condition that if the graded work shows that you were right and he was not, he will have an established consequence.

A strong student may have earned the right to do his school work independently. Back off if your child has a proven track record for academic success, even if the track record isn’t perfect.

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Having read so much about the importance of parent involvement in a child’s academic success, I definitely want to be involved in my child’s education. My concern is finding a good balance between being informed and supportive without going overboard. How do I know where to draw the line?

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Every parent should know basic school policies and classroom procedures. He or she should be attentive to communications designed for parents via email, newsletters, web sites or paper notifications. Daily conversations with your child about what went on at school are a given. Encourage your child to “present” returned work to you with explanations of what he enjoyed, what struggles he may have experienced and what his take-away was from the assignment.

Additionally, if your child’s school allows classroom volunteers, do what you can in this area to help form your own perspective of your child’s classroom experience.

Beyond that, accept the old adage that “no news is good news.” If you need additional peace of mind, an occasional request of the teacher that all is well is not out of line.

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My son is a high school senior who just does not take his academic responsibilities seriously. If I am not checking his grades online, he doesn’t get work turned in. He never studies for tests. How can I get him to be more responsible?

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Consider if your son is truly irresponsible or if he is just failing to live up to your perception of what he is capable of. Is this behavior typical of all academic areas or in just one subject?

If basic irresponsibility is the problem, discuss his post-graduation plans. Lay out your clear expectations for him to become independent and responsible effective immediately. Tie those expectations to clear consequences for your role in his post-graduate life. Then step back and require him to earn his successes or deal with the defined consequences of his failures. Do not give in to the temptation to rescue him. What is uncomfortable now will not only be painful later, but will also costs tens of thousands of dollars.

If he is not doing what he is capable of, make sure that your expectations are realistic. If laziness, attitude or other less important interests are getting in the way of his success, don’t be afraid to set out clear expectations and consequences as discussed above.

The results you seek may not be immediate. But until your son is forced to take personal responsibility seriously, you will continue to be frustrated.

The more allowances you make, the longer it will take him to accept that he is responsible for his effort and its results.

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Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

PRIVATE SCHOOL open house guide Alexandria Montessori School

Chaminade Julienne High School

175 East Franklin Street Centerville, OH 45459 937-435-5392 | www.alexandriamontessori. org

505 South Ludlow Street Dayton, OH 45402 937-461-3740 | www.cjeagles.org/

Ages 3 - 14 Call to arrange a school tour.

Grades 9 - 12 Open House: Sunday, October 27, 2013, 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Alter High School

Dayton Christian School System

940 East David Road Dayton, OH 45429 937-428-5394 | www.alterhs.org

9391 Washington Church Road Miamisburg, OH 45342 937-291-7240 | www.daytonchristian.com

Grades 9 -12 Open House: Sunday, November 3, 2013, 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Pre-K - Grade 12 Call to arrange a school tour.

Antioch School 1160 Cory Street Yellow Springs, OH 45387 937-767-7642 | www.antiochschool.org

Pre-K - Grade 6 Call to arrange a school tour.

Bishop Leibold School - West Campus 24 South Third Street Dayton, OH 45449 937-434-9343 | www.bishopleiboldschool. com

Pre-K - Grade 3 Open House: Sunday, January 26, 2014 12:00pm - 2:00 pm

Bishop Leibold School - East Campus 6666 Springboro Pike Dayton, OH 45449 937-434-9343 | www.bishopleiboldschool. com

Grades 4 - 8 Open House: Thursday, March 27, 2014 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Carroll High School 4524 Linden Avenue Dayton, OH 45432 937-253-8188 | www.carrollhs.org

Grades 9 - 12 Call to arrange a school tour.

Open House: Sunday November 17, 2013 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Dayton Islamic School 3662 East Patterson Road Beavercreek, OH 45430 937-429-9477 | www.dis4u.org

Pre-K - Grade 8 Call to arrange a school tour.

First School 7659 McEwen Road Dayton, OH 45459 937-433-3455 | www.firstschooldayton.com

Pre-K - Kindergarten Call to arrange a personal tour.

The Goddard School - Beavercreek 1423 Grange Hall Road Beavercreek, OH 45430 937-427-2966 www.goddardschool.com/dayton/ beavercreek-grange-hall-road-OH/tourthis-school

Infants - Kindergarten Open House: February 2014 (date to be determined)

The Goddard School - Centerville 10685 Dayton Lebanon Pike Dayton, OH 45458 937-866-0800 www.goddardschool.com/dayton/ centerville-dayton-lebanon-pike-oh?mmg=1

Infants - Kindergarten Call to arrange a school tour.

resources

The Goddard School - Springboro 250 West Central Avenue Springboro, OH 45066 937-748-8911 www.goddardschool.com/dayton/ springboro-central-avenue-oh?mmg=1

Infants - Kindergarten Call to arrange a school tour.

Hillel Academy 305 Sugar Camp Circle Dayton, OH 45409 937-277-8966 | www.daytonhillel.org

Kindergarten - Grade 6 Call to arrange a school tour

Miami Montessori School 86 Troy Town Drive Troy, OH 45373 937-339-0025 | www.miamimontessori.org

Pre-K - Grade 6 Call to arrange a school tour.

Miami Valley School 5151 Denise Drive Dayton, OH 45429 937-434-4444 | www.mvschool.com

Pre-K - Grade 12 Call to arrange a school tour.

Open House: Friday December 6, 2013 8:30 am - see us in action open house; Thursday January 23, 2014 6:30 pm lower school open house; Sunday February 9, 2014 1:30 pm all school open house

Nicholas School 1306 Garbry Road Piqua, OH 45356 937-773-6979 | www.rcnd.org

Kindergarten - Grade 8 Special needs charter school Call to arrange a school tour.

Temple Christian School 1617 Ohmer Avenue Dayton, OH 45410 937-253-5288 www.templechristiandayton.com

Kindergarten - Grade 12 Call to arrange a school tour.

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[ true confessions of stay-at-home-dad Pete Gilbert ]

Pumpkin Patches, S’mores and Spider Princesses True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert Now that I have kids, October is probably my favorite month of the year. There’s so much to do with little ones this month. Unlike June, July and August you don’t have to lather them up with sunscreen and bug spray before you head out the door either. It’s also nice that it’s still too soon for kids to need mittens, winter hats and snow boots like they will in just a couple of short months. So what do I have planned with my kids this month? Well, my to-do list looks something like this: Attending a pumpkin festival Going on a hayride, helping my kids navigate their way through a corn maze and picking out a pumpkin make for a great day of family activities. Also, we have a house rule about the size of pumpkin our kids are allowed to pick out. My wife and I tell them they can have any pumpkin in the entire pumpkin patch, as long as they can carry it to the car by themselves.

Oktoberfest There are always lots of kid-friendly Oktoberfest celebrations going on. I personally love getting a large stein of beer and showing off

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my polka dancing skills to my kids (By the way, I have no polka dancing skills.) There’s also usually a booth set up for kids to do face painting and, of course, loads of great food to be eaten.

S’mores If we don’t feel like leaving the house, I love making s’mores with my family on cool, fall nights. And I haven’t even mentioned my kids’ favorite day of the month, Halloween! My kids haven’t thought of their preferred costumes yet this year, but hopefully they will come up with something creative. One year my daughter was a “spider princess.” She had a full spider outfit topped off with a wand and crown.

So there you have it, my to-do list for the month. I hope you and your family are enjoying some of these great October activities as well!

Happy parenting! www.facebook.com/petetheblogger

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Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Like Father, Like Son Kelly Blewett My friends like to laugh at my husband, who claims to believe he would make a terrific lactation consultant. As in, the expert with whom one consults when experiencing difficulty breastfeeding. You might notice all the people doing the consulting are women, since it is yet to happen that a man needs such a consultation.

But, alas, when my son was an infant, I needed the consultation.

And since I was a brand-new, sleep-deprived and hormonal mama, my husband attended all of the consultations with me. A few years later, at round two, I was more relaxed about feeding my second baby. She just seemed to get it a lot easier. We did not have consultations. Except for the ones my husband offered, free of charge.

“Is that latch really deep enough?” he might ask, critically gazing at my daughter’s lips suckled around my breast. “Do you think you ought to try the football hold?”

Naturally my response to this suggestion was to give a derisive little laugh. And no, I did not try the football hold. Successful feeding, as all moms know, is simply when the child is getting enough food to grow a little and not hurting the mother in the process. Case closed.

Or so I thought until another uninvited consultant arrived on the scene.

“Mom, don’t give Caroline applesauce! You’ll sick her! She only needs milk from you,” my tiny son said recently at lunch. And then, later in that same meal, he made this winning suggestion: “I think she’s ready for the other side now.” Give. Me. A. Break.

Men, take notice. We do not need or welcome your advice in this area of life. And be careful about doling it out. Little pitchers have big ears, and they are tilted toward you.

Or, to offer up another old but oh-so-true cliché: Like father, like son. God help us all.

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[ pediatric health ]

Preventing the Flu Tips for getting through this flu season Stacy Meyer, MD, Pediatric Endocrinologist, Dayton Children’s Hospital

It’s that time of year when the dreaded flu rears its ugly head. Ensure your family has put up a defense system to keep your home flu-free.

“Germs cause the flu, and many other sicknesses from the common cold to more serious illnesses such as meningitis, bronchiolitis, hepatitis A, and most types of infectious diarrhea,” says Stacy Meyer, MD, pediatric endocrinologist and a member of the Dr. Mom Squad at Dayton Children’s.

These germs can be transmitted many ways, including touching dirty hands, changing dirty diapers, through droplets released during a cough or sneeze, through dirty surfaces or contaminated water and food.

“To minimize the germs passed around your family, make frequent hand washing a rule for everyone,” says Dr. Meyer. “Key times for hand washing include before eating and cooking, after using the restroom, after cleaning the house, after touching animals and family pets, before and after visiting sick friends or relatives, after being outside and after blowing one’s nose, coughing or sneezing.”

In addition to good hand washing, here are a five more things that you can do to prevent getting or spreading the flu.

1. Get vaccinated. Every child age six months and older should get the flu vaccine.

2. Cover coughs and sneezes with a tissue. If children don’t have a tissue, teach them to cough or sneeze into their shirt sleeve.

What if my child gets the Flu? Even if you follow all the precautions, a child may still come down with the cold or flu. How do you know which is which?

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The flu: High fever, chills, muscle aches, headache, cough (sometimes severe), exhaustion, loss of appetite and sore throat.

The cold: Low fever if any, runny nose, little coughing; child’s appetite and energy level are usually not affected.

Dr. Meyer says the best way to treat children who have the flu is to make sure they get extra rest, drink plenty of fluids and eat light, easy-to-digest foods like applesauce. Go to your pediatrician, family doctor or urgent care if you have any concerns about the flu.

“Parents should pay close attention to children younger than 2 years old because they have smaller airways and cannot handle illness as well as older children or adults would,” says Dr. Meyer.

“Parents should contact a pediatrician if children have any serious symptoms.”

When is it an emergency?

There is no need to go to the emergency department for the flu unless your child has a pre-existing condition or has any of the following symptoms: • • • •

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Fast breathing or trouble breathing Bluish or gray skin color Not drinking enough fluids Not waking up or not interacting (not responding to your voice or making eye contact) Being so irritable (cranky) that he or she does not want to be held Not urinating (peeing) or no tears when crying Symptoms improve, but soon return with worse cough and fever

3. Never share cups and eating utensils.

4. Keep sick children at home. Children should stay out of school or day care until they are better – usually

seven days after the illness starts.

5. Eat healthy and get enough sleep. Start building up your flu defenses today by following these germ busting habits!

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[ the homeschool heartbeat ]

The Homeschool Heartbeat

State Laws: What is required to provide your home district Alicia Elam, President, Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization One of the greatest advantages of home schooling is having educational freedom. However, as with most freedoms, it comes with certain requirements which vary from state to state. In July 1989, the Ohio State Board of Education adopted a set of rules and policies for districts to follow regarding homeschooling. (These requirements are not just minimum standards.) By reviewing and studying your state laws, you remain compliant and are able to continue exercising your right to homeschool. Also, you can ensure that your home district is not requesting more documentation than required. When notifying the district of your intent to home school, it is important to provide only the standards set by the state. A brief summary of Ohio Administrative code 3301-34 is listed here.

(For a copy of the full law, visit http://codes.ohio.gov/oac/330134.)

NOTIFICATION A parent must supply the following information to the local superintendent: • School year of the notification.

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Name and address of the parent (required). Telephone number is optional. (Keep all communication in written format.)

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Full name and birthdate of the child(ren) being home educated.

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Assurances that you will provide the topics required by the state and provide at least 900 hours of education.

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Outline of Intended Curriculum - including textbooks, correspondence courses or other teaching materials. You are not required to list what will be taught for each subject or the intended order of presentation for each subject.

(Informational purposes only.)

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The parent must have one of the following: a high school diploma; GED; standardized test scores showing high school equivalence; other equivalent credential found appropriate by the superintendent; or work under a credentialed teacher.

You are NOT required to send a copy of your diploma.

ACADEMIC ASSESSMENT Provided at the end of the school year or submitted with the notification for the following school year: • Results of a national standardized test which is administered by a licensed or certified teacher; a person agreed on by the parent and superintendent; or a person authorized by the publisher of the test. The child must score at or above the twenty-fifth percentile to be deemed performing at reasonable proficiency. (Parent is responsible for

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A written narrative from a licensed or certified teacher stating a portfolio of samples has been reviewed and the child’s academic progress is in accordance with the child’s abilities.

(Parent is responsible for payment of the teacher’s review.)

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Standardized testing can be conducted with the district during their scheduled testing time. Notify the district early in the school year, if you choose this option. (At no cost to the parent.)

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It is recommended that you mail the notification certified or hand deliver the letter and request a signature. The district is required to respond to your notice within fourteen days of receipt.

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(This information is not intended to be legal advice and is distributed for informational purposes only. Check for updates at your public library or the Ohio Department of Education’s website.)

For more information on the Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization, visit http://www.soho-letsgetsocial.yolasite.com/

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October Happenings

Will you choose to be delighted or frightened in October?

Lisa Seibert, Community Executive, DaytonLocal.com If your family is like mine, you’re going to spend a lot of time this month perusing the internet, your closets, costume shops, Goodwill and thrift stores in an effort to come up with unique Halloween costume ideas for beggars’ night and Halloween parties. Not to mention carving and lighting jack-o-lanterns to signal your participation.

Need more spooky fun? Here are some other haunted happenings to consider:

The 37th Annual Fall Farm Pumpkin Festival at Young’s Jersey Dairy

and Saturday, October 26th from 10 a.m. to 11 p.m.

Featuring rides, live entertainment, costume contests, vendors, and concessions. The Spooktacular Parade starts at 6 p.m. on Friday.

PhilharMonster Halloween Concert Schuster Center, One West Second Street, Dayton OH // Sunday, October 20th, 3 p.m.

Concert, 2:00 p.m. Pre-concert activities including the annual Halloween

6880 Springfield-Xenia Rd., Yellow Springs, OH // Saturday and Sunday October 5 & 6, 11 a.m. – 6 p.m. (Costs vary) This family fun event is Young’s most popular attraction of the year and features Caramel Apple Making, Pumpkin Painting and the Human Powered Pumpkin Launcher, among other activities.

6070 Springboro Rd., Lebanon, OH // Friday and Saturday nights, sundown to 11:30 p.m. starting September 20th.

Admission $12 per person for Hayride, $12 per person for Bog, $22 per person includes both attractions Over one mile of tractor drawn, twisting terror! Rated “Best Scare” and overall “Grand Champion” in the Tour of Terror!

4355 Valley St., Dayton, OH // Friday and Saturday, starts at dark and runs until midnight, thru October 26th. Admission $20 per person includes all 3 attractions Three attractions including a horrifying 30 minute walk through the woods with more than 25 terrifying scenes and maze, and Hell Ride on 22 acres of land.

4663 S. Union Rd., Miamisburg, OH // Saturdays in October 11 a.m. – 9 p.m.

Hay rides and horse rides are $5 per person. Children under 3 are free. Other activities such as Tattoos, Sand Art, Face Painting, and Build A Scare Crow range in price from $.50 to $15. Bowling, Corn Hole and other games are free.

Slash Moraine 3800 Main St., Dayton, OH // Friday and Saturday starts at 8 p.m., runs until 12:30 a.m. Dates include: October 11 & 12, 18 & 19, 25 & 26. Admission is $8 per person, ages 10 and under must be accompanied by an adult.

Slash Moraine is one of the Miami Valley’s scariest haunted attractions. Enter at your own risk!

Foy’s in Fairborn

The Fairborn Chamber of Commerce 2nd Annual Halloween Festival

Springboro Haunted Hay Ride & Black Bog

Nightmare on Valley Street Haunted Trail

Fall Activities at Bear Creek Farm

Main St., Fairborn, Ohio Foy’s operates six locations on Main Street in Fairborn. Of these, the Halloween & Variety, Adult Costume stores and RockN-Roll Grill have year round hours. They also operate a Haunted Museum, Children’s Costume Shop and The Haunted House Store that are only open during special hours in October. Check out their Facebook page for updated information.

If you’re up for the “Fright of Your Life”, check out these terrifying locations:

costume contest. Tickets range from $12 - $19.

Music Director Neal Gittleman will continue his tradition of onstage Halloween hilarity when he shows up as…sorry, we can’t say… it’s a surprise! Neal will lead a costumed Dayton Philharmonic Orchestra through a program that includes DPO Concertmaster Jessica Hung performing Autumn from Vivaldi’s The Four Seasons.

For more family events, please visit Dayton Parent Magazine’s online calendar, powered

by DaytonLocal.com.

Friday, October 25th from 4 p.m. – 11 p.m.

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Backpacking Babies: Supersized Wildflowers Date: Thursday, October 3, 2013 Time: 10 AM Price: Free Location: Sugarcreek MetroPark, Bellbrook Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/Sugarcreek/ Feel like ants while exploring flowers and grasses taller than people! A baby backpack or carrier is required for this program as trails are not stroller-friendly. No registration required. Ages 0-2 with parent.

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Midwest Outdoor Experience Date: Friday, October 4 and Saturday, October 5 Time: Fri., 6-10 PM; Sat., 11 AM-8 PM Location: Eastwood Metro Park, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ outdoorx/ Midwest Outdoor Experience offers something for the budding weekend warrior to the hardcore outdoor enthusiast. With over 15,000 visitors during last years event, Midwest Outdoor Experience is one of the largest festivals celebrating the outdoor lifestyle in the Midwest.

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Date: Friday, October 4 through Sunday, October 6 Time: Fri., 2-11 PM; Sat., 7AM-11PM; Sun., 10 AM-6 PM Location: Heritage Festival of Flight, New Carlisle Website: www.heritageofflight. com/ The biggest community Parade ever held at Heritage of Flight!

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Enjoy the Flying Angels Parade of Planes. There will also be live Entertainment including The Fleez Classic Rock & Roll, The New Carlisle Community Chorus, The Amazing Shaner Magic Show and much more!

Annual Fall Farm Pumpkin Festival at Young’s Dairy Farm Date: Saturday, October 5 and Sunday, October 6 Time: 11 AM-6 PM Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy, Yellow Springs Website: http://youngsdairy.com/ pumpkin-festival/ If you enjoy farm animals, homemade ice cream, good food, thousands of pumpkins, and friendly conversation, head to Young’s for their 37th annual Fall Festival! The event is held rain or shine.

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Pumpkin Patch Express @ LM&M Railroad Date: Saturday, October 5, Sunday October 6 and Saturday, October 12 Time: see website for schedule Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe (LM&M) Railroad Website: http://lebanonrr.com/ pumpkin.html Join the Lebanon Mason Monroe (LM&M) Railroad on a train ride through Warren County in Southwestern, Ohio to Schappacher Farm in Mason, Ohio. Walk through a real working farm, pet the animals, find your way through a corn maze, and select a pie pumpkin for your very own! Homemade snacks are for sale (Cash Only) at the Schappacher Farm Barn.

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Tike Hike: Nocturnal Adventures Date: Friday, October 11, 2013 Times: 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM Price: Free Phone: (937) 275-7275 Location: Hills & Dales MetroPark, Kettering Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/HillDales/ Join us on a night hike just for preschoolers and their families.

We’ll discuss the differences between night and day, talk about our fears of the night, and explore pelts of nocturnal animals.

Afterwards, we will venture out in search of screech owls, and attempt to lure one in close for children to see. Registration requested, walk-ins welcome.

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Family Spider Search Date: Saturday, October 12, 2013 Times: 10:00 AM Price: Free Phone: (937) 275-7275 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/CarriageHill/ Fall is spider season so let’s explore different habitats and investigate which ones spiders like best.

We will take a close look at the spiders we find and will also look at preserved specimens of the Black Widow and Brown Recluse Spiders. No registration required.

Sauerkraut Festival Date: Saturday, October 12 and Sunday, October 13 Time: 9 AM-8 PM (until 6PM, Sun.) Location: Main Street, Waynesville Website: www.sauerkrautfestival. com/

The Ohio Sauerkraut Festival is one of the premier craft festivals in the nation. Over 450+ vendors are juried to ensure all the items are indeed handcrafted, and select items based on quality and variety. Unique food offerings range from sauerkraut pizza to sauerkraut fudge.

Costume 5K and Family Festival Date: Saturday, October 12 Time: 10 AM Location: Dayton Masonic Center Website: http://themasonic.org/ Take part in this fun family event to help raise funds for the Dayton Learning Center that focuses on helping children with dyslexia.

Pumpkins are Amazing Date: Saturday, October 12, 2013 Times: 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM Price: Free Phone: (937) 276-7062 Location: Possum Creek MetroPark, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/PossumCreek/ What’s fall without pumpkins?

Learning the amazing history behind why pumpkins are so popular. Experiment with making pumpkin treats.

Registration required.

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Corn Husking and Husking Bee Date: Sunday, October 13, 2013 Time: Noon-4 PM Price: Free Phone: (937) 278-2609 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/CarriageHill/ During the 19th century, corn was a common staple crop throughout the Midwest. Help

husk corn that will be food for the livestock throughout the winter. No registration required.

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Get Outside Book Club Storytime: Happy Harvest Helpers Date: Tuesday, October 15, 2013 Times: 1:30 PM - 3:00 PM Price: Free Phone: (937) 278-2609 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/CarriageHill/ Miss Amanda will be visiting Carriage Hill MetroPark for a harvest themed storytime! She’ll read some books about things that grow, we’ll sing harvest songs, and help the staff at Carriage Hill with some fall chores. Don’t miss the husking bee and country dance!

Meet at the plaza behind the Visitor Center Registration requested, walk-ins welcome. Ages 2-6.

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Family Farm Chores Date: Saturday, October 19, 2013 Times: 8:30 AM Price: Free Phone: (937) 278-2609 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/CarriageHill/ Join the farm staff person to feed animals, gather eggs and clean stalls. Get to know some of the farm animals up close and personal. Meet at the farm.

Registration required. Ages 6-18.

MVPTA 8th Annual Happy Howl-OWeen DOG Walk Date: Saturday, October 19 Time: 9 AM Location: Indian Riffle Park, Ketter-

ing Website: www.mvpta.com/ There will be a Costume contest for both dogs and people. There will also be other fun activities like Door Prizes, Raffle, Canine Cadence Drill Team, Food Vendors and shopping! A great day for the WHOLE FAMILY!

Riverside Jaycees Haunted Castle - Lights ON Kids Matinee Date: Saturday, October 19 Time: see website for times Price: $3 per person (discount for canned food donation) Location: Riverside Jaycees Website: www.riverside-jaycees. com/ All lights will be on and NO monsters inside the Castle or on the Trail. This is a time for kids with their families to come, see behind the scenes, and look at the haunt. This will allow children to see that the props etc. are fake and that it is all just for fun. There will be many other booths and activities set up outside including a Police K-9 demonstration as well as Fire Trucks will be on hand.

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PhilharMonster Halloween Concert Date: Sunday, October 20 Time: 2 PM Price: $12-$19 Location: The Schuster Center, Dayton Website: http://daytonperformingarts.org/ Music Director Neal Gittleman will lead a costumed Dayton Philharmonic Orchestra through a program that includes DPO Concertmaster Jessica Hung performing Autumn from Vivaldi’s The Four Seasons. There will even

be a light show designed by the Schuster Center’s Steve Williams, and the fun continues when the Orchestra’s musicians stage their own costume contest. Come early at 2:00 pm for pre-concert fun activities including the annual Halloween costume contest.

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Stroller Struts: Where Will I Stay?

Date: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 Times: 9:00 AM Price: Free Phone: (937) 434-9005 Location: Cox Arboretum MetroPark, Dayton Website: http://metroparks.org/ parks/CoxArboretum/ Fall is underway so winter can’t be far behind. What do the animals of the arboretum do in the winter? Come and discover which trees and plants make nice cozy winter homes. As we explore the arboretum we’ll find out who’s making preparations for the winter months ahead. Registration requested, walk-ins welcome.

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Date: Wednesday, October 23 through Friday, October 25 Time: see website for schedule Location: Wright State University Nutter Center, Dayton Website: www.nuttercenter.com/ Join the celebration as 65 of Disney’s unforgettable characters from 18 beloved stories come to life in Disney On Ice celebrates 100 Years of Magic!

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Spooktacular Fun at Air Force Museum Date: Saturday, October 26 Time: 10 AM-3 PM

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Price: Free admission Location: Wright-Patterson Airforce Base Website: www.nationalmuseum. af.mil/ Celebrate Halloween at the National Museum of the United States Air Force by learning fun aerospace principles through Halloween-themed activities! Come dressed in your favorite costume.

Also features story time and aerospace demonstration stations.

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Tike Hikes: Creepy Creatures Date: Monday, October 28, 2013 Times: 10:00 AM Price: Free Phone: (937) 275-7275 Location: Germantown MetroPark, Germantown Website: www.metroparks.org/ Parks/Germantown/ Lots of people think spiders, snakes, bats, and other creatures are scary, but do we need to be scared of them? No! So come out and learn more about these commonly misunderstood animals before hiking to try and find them. Registration requested, walk-ins welcome. Ages 3-5.

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Date: Wednesday, October 30 and Thursday, October 31 Time: dusk Location: Stoddard Avenue, Dayton Phone: 937-657-2407 The Miami Valley’s most extreme jack-o’-lantern display is the annual Stoddard Avenue Pumpkin Glow in Dayton’s historic Grafton Hill neighborhood. The pumpkins will be lit at dusk.

At Dayton Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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ongoing events Halloween Leaping Toads and Treats Date: Fridays, October 4 through October 25 Time: Pre-school age, 9:30 AM; All ages 1:30 PM Price: $9.35 per child. Parents & Grand Parents FREE Location: Leapfrogs Party & Play Ctr., Miamisburg www.leapfrogsplay.com/ Every Friday in October, kids can come play in their costumes and have a Spooktacular time.

Big Bad Bounce “T-Shirt Sunday” Date: Last Sunday of each month Time: 12 p.m-10 p.m Place: Big Bad Bounce, 6196 Poe Avenue, Vandalia www.bigbadbounce.com

Wear your t-shirt (purchase for $13) on the last Sunday of each month for 1 free hour of bouncing.

The Cat in the Hat at Town Hall Theatre Date: Select days, October 18 through November 3 Time: see website for schedule Location: Town Hall Theater, Centerville www.washingtontwp.org/recreation/theatre/ A door opens…and in pops the Cat! Complete with his signature striped red-and-white hat! What marvelous tricks he has stuffed up his sleeves and listen to the fantastical tales he endlessly weaves! And the mess! Oh the mess! When mommy returns, what WILL she say? Little Sally

and her brother will find out this very same day! Recommended for Youth ages 4 & Up / Approximate Running Time: 70 minutes.

War Horse @ Schuster Center Date: October 22 through 27 Time: see website for schedule Location: The Schuster Center, Dayton http://daytonperformingarts.org/ A heart-warming tale of loyalty and friendship, WAR HORSE tells the story of young Albert and his beloved horse, Joey.

This powerfully moving and imaginative drama, filled with stirring music and songs, is a show of phenomenal inventiveness that is currently playing to packed houses in London and around the

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world. At its heart are astonishing life-sized puppets created by South Africa’s Handspring Puppet Company, that bring to life breathing, galloping, charging horses strong enough for men to ride. Suitable for ages 12 and up.

Pony Rides Date: Saturdays, October 05 through October 26 Times: 12:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: $5.00 Phone: (937) 274-3120 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton www.metroparks.org/Parks/CarriageHill/ Hand-led pony rides, for youngsters ages 2-8, are offered on Saturdays.

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