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25 | WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL

14 | PRESCHOOL ENRICHMENT PROGRAMS

28 | THE HOMESCHOOL HEARTBEAT

CPS is ready for tougher standards

Something to suit every interest

State laws: What is required to provide your home district

20 | FALL FUN

38 | ASK THE TEACHER

An autumnal bucket list

Refusing parental help, school involvement, hopeless handwriting, encouraging responsibility

30 | COPING WITH DIVORCE Helping kids and parents through the process

32 | POP QUIZ

43 | PETE GILBERT... STAY-ATHOME DAD

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Pumpkin patches, s’mores and spider princesses

How much do you know about women’s health?

34 | BEING AN OLDER PARENT Pros and cons of “later in life” parenting

in every issue 08 | PUBLISHER'S NOTE

around town 18 | SHALOM FAMILY... WHERE KIDS AND PARENTS CAN MAKE FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN!

resources

10 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

22 | FALL FUN ON THE FARM

12 | ONLINE BUZZ

37 | education/childcare GUIDE

commentary + parenting 19 | FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE Like father, like son

24 | KIDS AND CASH The currency of Halloween 6 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM · OCTOBER 2013

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40 | OPEN HOUSE GUIDE 50 | MARKETPLACE

calendars 45 | OCTOBER EVENTS 49 | ONGOING EVENTS 51 | FUN + WACKY

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ON THE COVER Louie Mayhew, 19 months Photo by: Lisa Hezlep www.hezlepphotography.com

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Cincinnati

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[ PUBLISHER’S NOTE ]

PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox | publisher@cincinnatiparent.com

SALES MANAGER & CREATIVE DIRECTOR Katie Clark | katie@cincinnatiparent.com

EDITOR Susan Bryant | susan@cincinnatiparent.com

ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Jennifer Baum | jennifer@cincinnatiparent.com

ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Katy Mark | katy@cincinnatiparent.com

ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Melissa Wittenbaum | melissa@cincinnatiparent.com

Welcome to Autumn!

BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@cincinnatiparent.com

Have you had your first sip of cider yet? Admired the brilliant fall foliage on a crisp morning walk? Taken a bite out of a sticky caramel apple? It’s fall – and all these little pleasures mark the season many consider to be their favorite.

EVENTS COORDINATOR & PUBLIC RELATIONS

In this issue of Cincinnati Parent, fall fun reigns! From corn mazes and pumpkin patches to apple orchards and hay rides, we’ve got plenty of ideas to help your family make the most of this special time of year.

Wendy Schrepferman | s.wendy@cincinnatiparent.com

Wendy Cox | wendy@cincinnatiparent.com

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT

WEBSITE DESIGN & GRAPHICS ASSISTANT Maria Tancredi | maria@cincinnatiparent.com

Also this month, we give those of you with preschoolers some great ideas for enrichment classes geared just for this age group. Whether your goal is to start your little one on a new skill or simply just wear him out, check out local options in our article Preschool Enrichment Programs.

Are you one of the many moms or dads considered to be an “older parent”? Later-in-life parenting has its ups and downs and we asked area readers to give their perspective on the subject. Find out what they had to say in Being an Older Parent. For those families who might be dealing with the challenges of divorce, be sure to check out Coping with Divorce for some insight and advice from others going through similar situations.

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Mary Wynne Cox, Sarah McCosham, Katrina Anne Willis, Michelle Shirk, Jennifer Garcia, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Dr. Julia Heath of The University of Cincinnati, Dawn Grady of Cincinnati Public Schools, Alicia Elam of the Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization

CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar@cincinnatiparent.com

CONTACT US Finally, Halloween is just around the corner with trick-or-treaters collecting their candy stash with glee. Sneak in a lesson on economics during their candy-bartering session with tips from this month’s Kids and Cash. (And be sure to negotiate for your favorite sweet treat from their haul as well!)

Mary Wynne Cox Publisher

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[ COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT ]

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S POT L IGH T BATS! BATS! BATS! Did you know there are 13 different bat species in Ohio? Bats are the only mammals that can fly, and their fossil records date back 50 million years! This misunderstood animal is very important to our ecosystem. If you’d like to learn more interesting facts, meet bat experts and view a variety of bats, come to the Cincinnati Museum Center! The museum will host the annual family favorite, BatFest, on Saturday, October 26th, 2013.

Find more details at www.cincymuseum.org/events/batfest.

EXPERIENCE THE MAGIC October 30th - November 3rd, U.S. Bank Arena Join the celebration as more than 60 of Disney’s unforgettable characters from 18 beloved stories come to life in Disney On Ice celebrates 100 Years of Magic! Join the one and only Mickey Mouse, the irresistible Minnie Mouse, Goofy, Donald Duck, Jiminy Cricket, Pinnocchio and many Disney princesses in a skating spectacular you’ll remember forever!

For tickets contact the U.S. Bank Arena Box Office, Ticketmaster.com or 1-800-745-3000.

The Public Library of Cincinnati and Hamilton County is proud to be a part of the Read-On! initiative to promote early literacy. Early reading is one of the most critical academic milestones for young children, and is a leading predictor of future academic success. On Saturday, October 5th from 9:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m., the Main Library is hosting a Read On! family symposium. Bring your family for reading, music, snacks and other fun activities!

Dress for Success Cincinnati needs your help Dress for Success Cincinnati provides interview and work-appropriate clothing to women in need who are entering the workforce. Due to the increased need for these services, inventory is running low. When cleaning closets in preparation for winter, please consider donating new and gently used women's clothing and accessories to this great cause. Individuals and companies are also encouraged to organize clothing drives. Donations are accepted every Thursday from 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and the first Saturday of each month from 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Visit www.dressforsuccess.org to learn more.

Get poppin’ The Dan Beard Council recently kicked off the 2013 annual Boy Scout popcorn sale!

Scouts will be visiting neighborhoods and will also host “show-and-sell” events at local grocery stores and other retail locations. Keep an eye out and enjoy some delicious, gourmet popcorn this fall!

REDUCE YOUR FOOTPRINT BY MAKING FOOTPRINTS (AND TIRE PRINTS) Wednesday, October 9th is National Walk/Bike to School Day! Gather your neighbors and make plans to walk or bike to school together. In addition to helping the environment, the exercise will benefit you, too! Learn more at www.walkbiketoschool.org.

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Michelle Shirk

Something to suit every interest

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he preschool years are a special time in a child’s life. If your little one falls in the two-to-five age group, you’re probably ready to explore some new ways to help him or her learn and grow.

“The preschool years are a very good time to introduce children to new learning opportunities,” says Diane Smiley, Youth Services & Programming Coordinator at the Public Library of Cincinnati & Hamilton County. Smiley notes that a child’s brain experiences more growth between birth and age five than during any other phase of life. Keena Stricker, Event Coordinator and teacher at the Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center, agrees. She believes that encouraging and fostering children’s natural curiosity at a young age will help them continue to love learning later in life.

With many different extracurricular options competing for your time and money, it may seem like a challenge to choose the right one for your child. Smiley suggests parents look for activities that “allow children to use all of their senses and incorporate multiple learning styles.” For example, preschoolers who attend story times at the public library’s branches will enjoy stories, have conversations, sing songs, move and engage in crafts or other hands-on activities.

Parents should also consider their individual child’s personal characteristics, says Stricker. “You know your child best.” She encourages parents to be willing to try something new, but notes that if an activity doesn’t work for the child and he or she feels uncomfortable, the parent should be okay with letting it go.

Of course, in selecting an enrichment option for your preschooler you will also need to take into account your family’s schedule, budget and personal preferences. Check out our roundup of Cincinnati area enrichment programs selected to suit a wide variety of parent “wants.”

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The Mayerson JCC (www.mayersonjcc.org) offers an extensive schedule of group and private swim lessons through the American Red Cross. Preschoolers will begin in a Level 1 class and progress to more advanced levels as they master various water skills.

The Public Library of Cincinnati & Hamilton County is your go-to spot for no cost enrichment. Head to www.cincinnatilibrary.org to find a dizzying array of preschool story times all over the Cincinnati area.

These drop-in events will help you enrich your child without spending a penny. Plus, you can check out some books and CDs while you’re there to keep the learning rolling upon your return home!

Spotlight Dance Center (www.spotlightcincinnati.com) provides kids with plenty of opportunities to move. Little ones ages 2-3 can start in “Tiny Tots,” an introductory dance class, before moving on to a jazz/ tap combination class.

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The Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center (www. theplaceforfamilies.com) offers everything from Spanish lessons to cooking classes to yoga for the preschool set. While classes are organized in series, families new to the center’s offerings can drop in and try a class before signing up for a series, says Stricker.

Each “Culture Kids” session at the Cincinnati Art Museum (www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org) includes storytelling, museum tours, activities and even snacks. The cost is $20 per pair for members or $10 per pair for nonmembers. Reservations are required for this program, which takes place on the second Friday of each month.

As you can see, there’s truly something for everybody in the world of preschool enrichment. Choose the program that best suits your family’s style and enjoy exploring new activities together!

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[ MAYERSON FOUNDATION ]

Shalom Family… Where Kids and Parents can make Friends and have Fun! Finding things to do that are as fun for parents as they are for kids used to be nearly impossible, but now there’s Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation and the Mayerson JCC, which puts on the biggest events for families in the Jewish community throughout the year. Shalom Family events are always free and offer the perfect way for parents and children to spend quality time together. But the best part is there are plenty of opportunities for grownups to get to know one another while their kids have a great time in a fun and safe environment!

Shalom Family events are open to families in the Jewish community with children 12 and under, in which at least one parent is Jewish. They attract hundreds of people each time, and take place at some of the most unique, family friendly venues in town. For more information visit www.myshalomfamily.org.

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[ FOOTNOTES ]

commentary & parenting

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Like Father, Like Son Kelly Blewett

My friends like to laugh at my husband, who claims to believe he would make a terrific lactation consultant. As in, the expert with whom one consults when experiencing difficulty breastfeeding. You might notice all the people doing the consulting are women, since it is yet to happen that a man needs such a consultation.

Naturally my response to this suggestion was to give a derisive little laugh.

And no, I did not try the football hold. Successful feeding, as all moms know, is simply when the child is getting enough food to grow a little and not hurting the mother in the process. Case closed. Or so I thought until another uninvited consultant arrived on the scene.

But, alas, when my son was an infant, I needed the consultation. And since I was a brand-new, sleep-deprived and hormonal mama, my husband attended all of the consultations with me. A few years later, at round two, I was more relaxed about feeding my second baby. She just seemed to get it a lot easier. We did not have consultations. Except for the ones my husband offered, free of charge.

“Mom, don’t give Caroline applesauce! You’ll sick her! She only needs milk from you,” my tiny son said recently at lunch. And then, later in that same meal, he made this winning suggestion: “I think she’s ready for the other side now.” Give. Me. A. Break.

“Is that latch really deep enough?” he might ask, critically gazing at my daughter’s lips suckled around my breast. “Do you think you ought to try the football hold?”

Men, take notice. We do not need or welcome your advice in this area of life.

And be careful about doling it out. Little pitchers have big ears, and they are tilted toward you.

Or, to offer up another old but oh-so-true cliché: Like father, like son. God help us all.

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Fall Fun

An autumnal bucket list

Forget summer: fall is king!

Many people choose autumn as their favorite season. With cooler temps, vibrant foliage and great outdoor festivals, it’s easy to see why fall is so favored.

Make the most of this special time of year with a few of these ideas.

Enjoy the outdoors On any given weekend in September, October and November, you’ll find a variety of fall festivals on the calendar. Events at local apple orchards and pumpkin patches are a “must do” with kids. From hay mazes, pick-your-own pumpkins and fresh-baked goodies, it just isn’t fall without a trip to the orchard.

When it comes to fall festivals, Shaw Farm in Milford is legendary. The working farm’s annual festival features a petting zoo, hayrides, a corn maze and pumpkin patch where kids can spend a day of fall fun.

Cincinnatians should also check out “Fall on the Farm” at Blooms & Berries Farm Market in Loveland.

Between hayrides, pumpkin paintball and a giant slide, your kids will never want to leave! Parents can also enjoy caramel apples and fresh cider while the kids run about.

For more fun, the Cincinnati Nature Center (CNC) hosts several autumn-themed events at its various locations. At Long Branch Farm in Goshen, families can enjoy the harvest moon and stars with real telescopes and astronomy experts. Also, the CNC’s Rowe Woods location hosts a Full Moon Walk and Songs, Stories and S’mores singalong during the month of October.

Sarah McCosham

Celebrate spooky fun With parties, candy and costumes, what’s not to love about Halloween? Coney Island’s Fall-O-Ween Festival is fun for all ages with highlights including the Living History Village, live entertainment and trick-or-treating. In addition, all of Coney’s Classic Rides are included with event admission.

At the Cincinnati Zoo, kids can trick-or-treat with the animals. Every weekend in October, the Zoo offers HallZOOween festivities from 12-5 p.m. Tiffany Barnes, Public Relations Manager at the Zoo, says HallZOOween is fun for the entire family, with “trick-or-treat stations, Hogwarts Express Train Rides, rides on the ‘Scareousel,’ encounters with animals and a new Theater of Illusion Show.”

Join a race With summer’s sweltering heat behind us, fall is the perfect time to lace up your running shoes and get moving! There are a variety of fall walks and runs in Cincinnati to consider.

The Dog Jog on October 6th is a 2 mile run or 1 mile fun walk held to raise money for homeless and stray pets in Cincinnati. This event is perfect for dog-loving kids, as participants can bring their pets down to race at the Otto Armleder Park.

For serious runners – and those who don’t scare easily – the Run Like Hell race on October 26th is a must. “The event is pretty unique to our area,” says Event Coordinator Amy Farmularo, as “it’s a 5K costumed run through a cemetery – at sundown.” To kick up the creepy factor even more, event participants are encouraged to run in costume. Proceeds from the event benefit the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation-Greater Cincinnati/Dayton Chapter, whose mission is “both to cure cystic fibrosis and improve the quality of life for those living with the disease,” explains Farmularo.

With a veritable cornucopia of fall events from which to choose, there’s sure to be something you and your family can get excited about. No matter how you celebrate the season, find something fun that speaks to you, and start an annual tradition with your family!

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FALL F UN Check out these local farms & Activites for the best apple picking, pumpkin hunting & C orn maze wandering this S E A S O N has to offer!

Blooms and Berries Farm Market 9669 State Route 48, Loveland www.bloomsandberries.com Highlights: “Fall on the Farm” includes: hayrides, pumpkins, corn mazes, a play area, and farm animals!

Dates/Times: Open Monday- Saturday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Daniel’s Petting Farm and Pumpkin Patch

Hidden Valley Fruit Farm 5474 N. State Route 48, Lebanon www.hiddenvalleyfruitfarm.com Highlights: Homemade hot apple cider, hayrides, fresh grown apples, Ohio Cider Fest, and Halloween Fun! Dates/Times: Open Monday- Saturday, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Ohio Cider Fest: October 5-6. Halloween Fun Fest: October 26-27

Iron’s Fruit Farm

1850 Walton Nicholson Pike, Walton, KY http://danielsfarms.com/

1640 Stubbs Mill Road, Lebanon www.ironsfruitfarm.com

Highlights: Offer hayrides and tours of petting farm, plus learn to saddle a horse, take pictures with the animals and visit the country store!

Highlights: Offer hayrides to pick out pumpkins, farm animals, a 12-acre corn maze, and a bakery full of cider donuts, caramel apples, fritters and pies!

Dates/Times: October 1st through October 31st; Saturday (10:00 am – 6:00 pm) & Sunday (10:00 am – 6:00 pm)

Dates/Times: Open Monday- Saturday, 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Gorman Heritage Farms 10052 Reading Rd., Cincinnati http://gormanfarm.org/ Highlights: The “Sunflower Festival”celebrates fall harvest with pick your own sunflowers and pumpkins, hayrides, crafts and farm games, plus check out the pumpkin slingshot!

Dates/Times: Saturday-Sunday, October 5-6, 2013 from 10:00 am - 4:00 pm

Heritage Village Museum 11450 Lebanon Road, Sharonville www.heritagevillagecincinnati.org Highlights: The “Haunted Village” is a family friendly event featuring the Headless Horseman, wagon rides, the Mad Scientists, the Witch’s House, fortune tellers, games, trick or treating through the village, and much more!

Dates/Times: Every Friday and Saturday, October 11- 26, 6 p.m. to 10 p.m.

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Jack O’Lantern Junction at EnterTRAINment Junction 7379 Squire Ct West Chester www.entertrainmentjunction.com

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Marmon Valley Farm

Station Road Farm

7754 State Route 292 S., Zanesfield www.marmonvalley.com

6749 Station Road, West Chester www.stationroadfarmandlandscaping.com/

Highlights: The “Fall Farm Festival” held one day a year has Christ focused, family friendly activities, horse drawn wagon rides, indoor rock climbing, archery, hay tunnels, fishing, and pumpkin painting.

Highlights: Hayride to Pumpkin Patch: $3 per person, includes pumpkin & Barnyard playground.

Dates/Times: Saturday, October 5, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Dates/Times: Weather permitting Sat. & Sun in October, 12:30 - 4:30

Sunrock Farm Minges Pumpkin Festival 10109 New Haven Rd., Harrison www.mingespumpkinfest.com Highlights: Celebrating 29 years of you-pick pumpkins, glassworks demonstrations, live bands and contests galore (including seed spitting, sack races, pumpkin pie eating & more!)

Dates/Times: October 19th, 10AM-7PM, & October 20th, 10AM-6PM

Parky’s Farm 10073 Daly Road, Cincinnati http://greatparks.org/learn/parkys-farm Highlights: A 100-acre educational farm with live animals, a pumpkin patch, wagon and pony rides, playground, indoor Parky’s Playbarn, children’s celebration parties and more.

Highlights: Enjoy the area’s only indoor pumpkin patch, with Halloween train rides, indoor trick or treat stations, kids’ coloring and crafts, an outdoor straw maze and kid friendly ghosts and skeletons... Halloween fun for the whole family!

Dates/Times: Check website for individual event dates and times

Dates/Times: September 21st through October 31st, Monday-Saturday, 10 a.m.- 6 p.m., & Sunday 12 Noon - 6 p.m.

3829 S. US Rt. 42 Lebanon http://schappacherfarms.com

Schappacher Farms

Highlights: Bring your family for affordable fun, with a free cornmaze and free hayrides on weekends, plus pick your own pumpkin right off the vine and enjoy fresh caramel apples and cider!

Dates/Times: Open everyday during the month of October from 10AM to 6PM

103 Gibson Lane, Wilder, KY www.sunrockfarm.org Highlights: The “Pumpkin Patch Tour” is a two-hour hayride out to a pumpkin patch where you will pick pumpkins, milk a goat, gather eggs, hold chicks and bunnies, be surrounded by farm animals, and drink free hot apple cider.

Dates/Times: Call 859.781.5502 for specific times and reservations.

Tom’s Maze and Pumpkin Farm 4677 Germantown Liberty Rd, Germantown www.tomsmaze.com/ Highlights: Eight fun-filled acres of corn on the cob, with homegrown pumpkin, squash and gourds. Can you solve the puzzle and escape the maze? Plus, see Tom’s Amazing Punkin’ Chuckin’ Canon!

Dates/Times: Daily through November 3rd, Thursdays through Sundays

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[ KIDS & CASH ]

Kids & Cash The currency of Halloween Dr. Julia Health, Director, Economics Center and Professor, Alpaugh Family Chair of Economics, University of Cincinnati

How much value does a snack-size Snickers bar have? How about a little bag of Skittles? You’re about to find out as your children engage in trading Halloween candy in an atmosphere that’s every bit as high-stakes and raucous as the floor of the New York Stock Exchange. What you may not know is that this yearly candy trading ritual gives you a great opportunity to talk to your children about several different economic concepts.

One of the most obvious connections to economics and personal finance is the function of money. Talk to your child about how much easier it would be to get the kind of candy bar he or she wanted by simply buying it from a sibling or another child. Trading requires that both participants are willing to trade and have something that the other wants. Discuss how hard it would be to trade for the things you buy at the grocery store, or when you need clothes.

One of the functions of money is to make exchange easier, but money hasn’t always looked the way it does now. For example, did you know: • One of the first forms of money was probably cows. (How do you buy something that has a value of half a cow?)

• Wampum, strings of shells of the Native Americans, was the first commonly used form of money in North America.

• In 1916, if you thought your money was too dirty, you could take your paper bills to Washington, D.C. and the U.S. Mint would wash, dry and iron them for free.

• Ever wonder why money is called “pieces of eight” in pirate movies? During much of the 17th and 18th centuries, the U.S. unofficially used the Spanish dollar coin as currency. It was cut into pieces to make change.

How about inviting your child to create their own money? I’m not suggesting your child get in the counterfeit business, but they could design and create your own family money. These websites can get you started: www.newmoney.gov/newmoney/dyob and http://mrnussbaum.com/usbillgenerator. Use this family money to pay allowances or for chores. Your child could use it to buy extra privileges or to deposit in the bank of Mom and Dad (to earn interest, of course) and save up for something. Use this as an opportunity to talk about why some of the old forms of currency are not used anymore. For example, for a country to effectively use 24 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM · OCTOBER 2013

money, it has to be divisible (see the cow example above), it has to be portable (hauling around big rocks is a problem), it has to be rare (dirt would not be a good choice) and it has to be durable (ice would not be a good option).

Teach kids about inflation with your family money. Offer up something for sale – an extra 30 minutes of TV time, for example. Ask how much they’d be willing to pay for it. At some later time, suddenly double the amount of family money they have – just give them twice as much. Then ask how much they would be willing to pay for that same extra 30 minutes. The price they are willing to pay will be higher when they have more money. The same thing happens with economies. Inflation can be caused by an increase in the amount of money in the economy, just like the increase in price that happened in your family. (For more money games, see www.education. com.)

And you thought Halloween was just about candy.

commentary & parenting

[ WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL ]

What’s New at School CPS is ready for tougher standards Dawn Grady, Manager, Marketing and Community Relations, Cincinnati Public Schools

The Ohio Department of Education recently released a new A to F report card that totally revamped the accountability system that had been in existence for many years. The new system is designed to raise performance expectations as Ohio and other states implement – and, next year, test students on – more rigorous Common Core academic standards.

Despite the challenges of explaining Ohio’s new report card to parents and community stakeholders, the district is supportive of the move to higher academic standards and accountability.

“The state has thrown out the old yardstick and created a new one,” said Cincinnati Public Schools Superintendent Mary Ronan. “We understand the reasoning, and I am confident our schools and district will adjust to reach the higher bar.”

For many schools and districts – including Cincinnati Public Schools – the new report card appears to show a significant drop in performance levels when that is not necessarily the case. The district’s overall rating would have been about the same as last year’s under the former system: Continuous Improvement, or the equivalent of a “C.” Under the new system, the district received two “Cs,” one “D” and six “Fs.” Similarly, schools that would have been rated “Excellent” had the former system still been in place, are receiving some “Cs,” “Ds,” and even “Fs” on the new report card.

Superintendent Ronan says the district’s improvement strategies focus on four priorities: • Ensuring that students in kindergarten through third grade are competent readers.

• Fully implementing higher academic standards for all students beginning this year.

• Preparing students in 7th through 12th grade to graduate prepared for success in college and careers.

• Infusing technology throughout the learning process.

“We know from survey data that our stakeholders believe we are on the right track with these priorities, and we are fortunate to have hundreds of community partners working with our students to support their implementation,” Ronan says.

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[ HOMESCHOOL HEARTBEAT ]

The Homeschool Heartbeat State Laws: What is required to provide your home district Alicia Elam, President, Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization

One of the greatest advantages of home schooling is having educational freedom. However, as with most freedoms, it comes with certain requirements which vary from state to state. In July 1989, the Ohio State Board of Education adopted a set of rules and policies for districts to follow regarding homeschooling. (These requirements are not just minimum standards.) By reviewing and studying your state laws, you remain compliant and are able to continue exercising your right to homeschool. Also, you can ensure that your home district is not requesting more documentation than required. When notifying the district of your intent to home school, it is important to provide only the standards set by the state. A brief summary of Ohio Administrative code 3301-34 is listed here. (For a copy of the full law, visit http://codes.ohio.gov/oac/3301-34.)

NOTIFICATION A parent must supply the following information to the local superintendent: • School year of the notification.

• Name and address of the parent (required). Telephone number is optional.

(Keep all communication in written format.)

• Full name and birthdate of the child(ren) being home educated.

• Assurances that you will provide the topics required by the state and provide at least 900 hours of education.

• Outline of Intended Curriculum - including textbooks, correspondence courses or other teaching materials. You are not required to list what will be taught for each subject or the intended order of presentation for each subject. (Informational purposes only.)

• The parent must have one of the following: a high school diploma; GED; standardized test scores showing high school equivalence; other equivalent credential found appropriate by the superintendent; or work under a credentialed teacher. You are NOT required to send a copy of your diploma.

ACADEMIC ASSESSMENT Provided at the end of the school year or submitted with the notification for the following school year: • Results of a national standardized test which is administered by a licensed or certified teacher; a person agreed on by the parent and superintendent; or a person authorized by the publisher of the test. The child must score at or 28 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM · OCTOBER 2013

above the twenty-fifth percentile to be deemed performing at reasonable proficiency. (Parent is responsible for payment of the test and/or assessor, if needed.)

• A written narrative from a licensed or certified teacher stating a portfolio of samples has been reviewed and the child’s academic progress is in accordance with the child’s abilities. (Parent is responsible for payment of the teacher’s review.)

• Standardized testing can be conducted with the district during their scheduled testing time. Notify the district early in the school year, if you choose this option. (At no cost to the parent.)

It is recommended that you mail the notification certified or hand deliver the letter and request a signature. The district is required to respond to your notice within fourteen days of receipt.

(This information is not intended to be legal advice and is distributed for informational purposes only. Check for updates at your public library or the Ohio Department of Education’s website.)

For more information on the Southern Ohio Homeschool Organization, visit www.soho-letsgetsocial.yolasite.com.

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WITH Helping kids and parents through the process Families can be hard work. And sometimes, no matter how much they love one another and how hard they work, things just don’t turn out as planned.

Andrea Carson, 33, never pictured herself as a divorced, single mom, yet two years ago that was a decision that she found herself making. “I have learned that life doesn't always turn out the way that you thought it would, but you have to live the one life you get to the fullest,” she says.

Jennifer Garcia

says, “Moving quickly helped us move on for the sake of establishing a good routine for her. She knows she has three days with Daddy and four days with Mommy. Routine is key, as is constantly reassuring her that we love her.”

Children are not BFFs

Like many parents going through a divorce, Carson’s priority was to maintain a sense of normalcy for her then two year-old daughter – something family counselors highly recommend. Malissa Boyd, a licensed clinical social worker, advises divorcing parents to keep children’s activities and environment as consistent as possible so they can feel secure. “They need to know that life can still be normal and positive despite challenging life events,” says Boyd.

Divorce is painful, and parents may sometimes turn to their children for support, sharing information with them that is not appropriate. Jennifer Wilson, a school counselor with Catholic Charities in Covington, Kentucky, helps many children cope with divorce and has experienced this particular situation herself. Her parents’ own rocky 23 year marriage, which included multiple separations, finally ended in divorce when Wilson was in college. In retrospect, she says her parents’ biggest mistake was using their children as confidants instead of receiving counseling.

In Carson’s case, she and her ex-husband quickly established separate lives, making sure their child was always surrounded by love and support. She

“I was my mom’s best friend during this time, which was very unhealthy for me,” says Wilson. “It caused me to become very

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resentful toward my father. Now that I am older, I wish she hadn’t shared such personal information about their marriage.”

As a school counselor, Wilson tells parents to talk openly about what is happening without inserting negative comments about their spouse. “Keep in mind that the relationship you have with your spouse is different than the one your children have with your spouse.”

Let kids emote Divorce is a major upheaval in children’s lives and they should understand that it is alright to have strong emotions about it – including anger. “It’s okay [for children] to feel angry about the divorce – they have a right to their own opinions. Anger is a normal emotion and can be channeled in healthy ways,” says Boyd.

Whatever emotions your child is feeling, he or she should be allowed to express them. “Be aware that divorce is not a shortterm situation for children,” says Wilson. “It’s a grieving process.

Divorce is the loss of a family structure. Reassure your children that they are loved by both parents and they are not at fault.”

Moving on While focusing on how children are handling a divorce is critical, parents should also consider their own healing. Boyd recommends setting new

personal, healthy goals. People with support systems, such as family, friends or structured support groups, fare better during a major life change. As Carson says, “It gets very lonely, but I try to stay busy when I don’t have my daughter. I recommend getting out of the house and enjoying yourself so that the time spent without your child is easier.”

Some parents may question whether they have made the right decision for their family. Boyd says that many marriages end due to conflict, and that usually means that the conflict also ends. It can be helpful to remember that by eliminating this stress, you have opened the door to a more positive living situation. While your children may not understand or agree with your choice, they will benefit by your strength and confidence in your decision.

For additional support, try these online and local divorce resources: • DivorceCare (www.divorcecare.org) An extensive list of support resources based upon location • PsychologyToday.com ( www.psychologytoday.com ) Find a psychologist or therapist in your area who meets your specific counseling criteria • Family Life Center (Northminster Presbyterian Church) (www.northminsterchurch.net) Provides free support groups, classes and seminars in Cincinnati

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POP QUIZ

Sarah McCosham

How much do you know about women’s health?

Quick poll for the female readers: When was the last time you performed a self-breast exam? Had a period? Visited the gynecologist?

If you can’t remember the answers to these questions, you’re not alone!

As women, it’s easy to put our own health on the back burner, as we regularly care for our partners, kids and family members. However, our health needs to be a priority, too. Check your knowledge of important women’s health issues with our brief quiz.

1. Women should perform a self-breast exam:

A. B. C. D.

Once a year Twice a year Monthly Weekly

Answer: C, Monthly. According to Johns Hopkins Medical Center, “Forty percent of diagnosed breast cancers are detected by women who feel a lump, so establishing a regular breast self-exam is very important.”

An easy way to remember to do this is to have a regular day on the calendar to perform a self-exam, for example, the first day of the month.

2. True or False: It’s important to have regular periods.

Answer: True; however, “regular” is a subjective term. The menstrual cycle, which is counted from the first day of one period to the first day of the next, varies greatly among women. According to the Mayo Clinic, a woman’s menstrual cycle can be regular or somewhat irregular, light or heavy, painful or pain-free, long or short – that is, within a broad range, ‘normal’ is what's normal for you. If you’re not having regular periods, this could indicate ovulatory problems, possible illnesses or certain health issues, so it’s important to see your doctor to determine the cause.

3. Non-pregnant women should visit their OB-GYN:

A. B. C. D.

Every two years Annually If they notice any changes in breast, vaginal or overall health All of the above.

Answer: D, all of the above. Here’s the breakdown: the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends that women ages 21 to 29 get a Pap smear every year, then every other year (unless otherwise directed by your doctor) from ages 30 to 64. However, if you’ve noticed any changes in your breasts, periods or overall health, it’s recommended to make an appointment with your doctor to check for any potential problems.

4. True or false: Breast cancer affects roughly 1 in 8 women.

Answer: True. The National Cancer Institute reports that 12.4% of women in the U.S. will be affected by breast cancer at some point in their lives.

5. While breast cancer is not completely preventable, women can do the following to reduce the risk of developing this disease:

A. B. C. D. E.

Maintain a healthy weight Eat a “rainbow” diet full of healthy, whole foods Stay physically active Refrain from smoking and limit alcohol consumption All of the above

Answer: E. The National Breast Cancer Foundation (NBCF) reports that, while the causes of breast cancer are partially genetic, there are environmental factors that play a role in the disease. By maintaining a healthy lifestyle, women can do themselves a tremendous favor in regards to their chances of developing breast cancer, the NBCF says.

So, Cincinnati women, schedule your annual Pap, get to the gym and set aside some time for your monthly self-exam – you are too important not to!

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BEING AN OLDER PARENT Pros and cons of “later in life” parenting Katrina Anne Willis

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t seems hard to believe that at 35, women are already considered to be of “advanced maternal age” – meaning that pregnancy for them could include greater medical risks. Yet many women are choosing to have children later in life, and find that the social and emotional aspect of being an older parent may be even more complex than the physical component.

In an informal Cincinnati Parent Facebook survey, we asked readers to share their thoughts on being an older parent.

For many moms, the number one benefit of having a child later in life is their own increased maturity. One reader responded, “After many attempts, I finally had my daughter at age 36. She was immediately diagnosed with a heart defect and received a heart transplant at five months old. I’m not sure I would have been able to handle that situation when I was younger.”

Others cited financial security as an advantage of waiting to have children. Father of four, Chris, was born when his parents were both 40. He says, “I had the advantage of entering into the family dynamic when my siblings were nearly grown and my dad was at the pinnacle of his career. The result was that I got to experience a lot of things my siblings didn’t – simply because we had the financial means.”

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“My parents were older when they had me,” says another Facebook respondent. “My experience was that they were able to give me the most precious gift of all – the gift of their time. They had already enjoyed their lives independent of me, so when I was born, they were ready to jump head first into all my activities and interests. There was no doubt in my mind how wanted, loved and supported I was.”

“More patience, more money, more time,” added another mom. “I realize it’s not just about me anymore. I don’t need to worry about establishing a career, traveling the world or attending all the best parties – I already had those opportunities. Now that I’m a mother, I finally feel like I’ve found my true purpose in this world.”

Many children born to older moms and dads, however, fear for the physical health and well-being of their aging parents. “When I was in third grade,” Chris remembers, “I feigned illness almost every day. I was worried that something would happen to my mom while I was at school.

She was so much older than the other moms, and I was convinced that meant she was going to die sooner. Now, I’m fairly certain she’s going to outlive us all!”

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More patience, more money, more time... I realize it’s not just about me anymore. I don’t need to worry about establishing a career, TRAVELING the world or attending all the best PARTIES – I ALREADY HAD those opportunities.

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Chris’s parents – who are now in their 80s – agree. “It was definitely a different and unexpected experience having Chris at 40,” his dad admits.

“We were sending our oldest off to college while we were potty-training our youngest. But that age difference kept us on our toes.”

Another concern that plagues some older parents is feeling out of place within a younger crowd. A Cincinnati Parent mom explains, “The ‘younger’ parents often form friendship groups without you. But the flip side of that coin is that I’m old enough to recognize that game playing and drama are no longer in my repertoire – and I can teach my kids how to act with kindness and empathy toward everyone.”

As is often true with many important family issues, a broad spectrum exists for what works with different people. Although the advantages and disadvantages of becoming a parent later in life may depend on individual circumstances, the majority of our respondents agreed on one key point.

Being an older parent is a decision they wouldn’t change and certainly never regret.

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[ SCHOOL LISTINGS ]

education + childcare guide child care & preschool

montessori

Brand new and beautiful, The Campus (at the world-famous Kids First Sports Center) gives your child an academic edge AND daily physical education. Our carefully selected and loving degreed teachers utilize a relevance-based curriculum combined with child-directed play and rigorous physical activity to make learning FUN and start each child on their journey to becoming a life-long learner. Call today to schedule your enrollment tour and ask about our grand opening specials! 7900

An authentic Montessori school program resting on 6.5 acres.

Extraordinary and rigorous hands-on learning inside and outside of the classrooms creating life long learners, critical thinkers and passionate leaders. 927 O’Bannonville Road,

The Campus at Kids First

E Kemper Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Joanie Metzger Weghorst, Phone: (513) 629-KIDS, Email: info@theCampusKF.com, www.theCampusKF.com, Grades: 6 weeks thru Pre-K

Chai Tots Early Childhood Center

Academic excellence via a unique blend of Jewish and Montessori education offering strong academics, stressing life skills, interpersonal relationship skills and nurturing a love for life-long learning. Individualized curriculum customized for each student, expansive naturally lit rooms, low student ratio.

Specials include yoga, music, Hebrew, dance, art and Tae Kwon Do. Flexible schedules, before and aftercare, web cams and after-school enrichment available. Limited space - now enrolling! 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, (513)234-

0600, www.chaitots.com, Infant, Toddler, Preschool, Kindergarten (6 weeks-6 years), Enrollment: 60

Kinder Garden School

Together with interaction of child, staff & family, we develop the complete child. We provide formative encouragement and knowledge with hands-on staff taking a personal interest in family and holistic education decisions for the child. Devoted to growing a child’s wish to flourish and learn by cultivating curiosity and problem-solving proficiency. Enlightenment Is Our Mission. Blue Ash & West Chester locations. BA: 513-7914300, WC: 513-874-3100, www.kindergardenschool.com, Grades: 6 weeks – K

Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Nursery School Professionally qualified teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star awardwinning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions.

Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler. Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers. 5950 Montgomery Rd.,

Cincinnati, OH 45213, (513)631-0170, www.prpc.org, Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/Child classes birth to 32 months, Enrollment: 65

Weekday Ministries - The Landing & Mason Christian Preschool

Weekday Ministries includes Mason Christian Preschool and The Landing. We have age graded classes from 2’s through 6th grade; excellent staff; and Christian programming. A ministry of Christ’s Church at Mason. 5165 Western Row Rd., Mason, OH

45040, Contact: Wendy Rote, Phone: 229-5403, Fax: (513)229-5410, Email: wendy.rote@ccmason.org, www.ccmason.org, Grades: Mason Christian Preschool 2’s through pre-K; The Landing school age program Kindergarten through 6th grade

Children’s Meeting House Montessori School

Loveland, OH 45140, Contact: Meg Thomas, Head of School, Phone: 513-683-4757, Email: thomas@cmhschool, www.cmhschool.com, Grades: Preschool through Sixth grade, Enrollment: 150

Cornerstone Montessori School

Cornerstone Montessori School is a private school that serves children between the ages of 3 and 14 in the Northern Kentucky and Greater Cincinnati community. We have provided a solid academic, social and collaborative foundation for students since our founding in 1992. Our small, family oriented school offers quality, individual learning programs and low student/teacher ratios. We are conveniently located off I-471 near dowtown Cincinnati and I-275. We are enrolling now, so please call for a private tour 859-491-9960. 2048 Alexandria Pike, Highland Heights, KY 41076, Contact: Anna Wessling, Phone: 859-491-9960, Email: office@cornerstonemontessori.us, www. cornerstonemontessori.us, Grades: Preschool - 8th grade

Country Hills Montessori

Providing programs for 3 to K. Small, individualized classes with low student-teacher ratios, under the guidance of Montessori certified teachers, in an inter-generational environment. Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison and West Chester Ohio and in Ft. Thomas KY. Visit chmschools.com for all location addresses & phones. 4400 Glen Este Withamsville, Cincinnati, OH 45236, Contact: Susan Schreiber, Owner, Phone: 513-752-1066, Email: sschreiberchm@yahoo.com, www.chmschools.com, Grades: 3 - K

The Good Shepherd Catholic Montessori A unique Catholic Montessori school where each child can achieve his or her full potential in academics, faith and life.

Dedicated, well trained teachers, a 12:1 teacher/student ratio, Spanish program beginning at age 3, and unparalleled faith formation with the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd are just few of the things that make GSCM a great school for your child. Students score 36% higher than national average and 88% better on HS entrance exams.4460 Berwick Ave.,

Cincinnati, OH 45227, Contact: Dan Teller, Phone: (513)2714171, www.gscmontessori.org, Grades: Serving 3 year old preschool through 8th grade, including full day Kindergarten, Enrollment: 200

Montessori Academy of Cincinnati

Celebrating 25 years of offering Montessori education in the Greater Cincinnati area. Providing a supportive learning environment, the school focuses on individualized education, through which students are offered opportunities for self-paced acceleration. Experienced, degreed teachers are committed to the success of each student. Self-motivation and an excitement about learning are encouraged. 7.5 acre campus! State Chartered. AMS affiliated. Extended care available. 8293 Duke

resources

The New School Montessori

Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. (Accredited by AMS and ISACS).

Open House dates: Oct 20, Jan 26, Apr 27 from 2-4PM. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, Contact: Jeff Groh, Email: jeff.groh@thenewschool.cc, Phone: (513)2817999, www.thenewschoolmontessori.com, 3 years through 6th Grade, Enrollment: 150

special needs

Applied Behavioral Services

ABS is an educational placement program specializing in serving children and adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorder as well as other cognitive and developmental delays.

2517 Burnet Avenue, Ste 100, Cincinnati, OH 45218, Contact: Lori Watson, Phone: 513-861-0300, Fax: 513-861-0121, Email: abaservices@insightbb.com, www.appliedbehaviorservices.com

Springer School and Center

For more than 40 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to lead successful lives. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6 - 14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area.

The Springer Experience. Success Changes Everything. 2121

Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: (513)871-6080, www. springer-ld.org, Grades: 1st - 8th grade, Enrollment: 200

tutoring

Langsford Learning Acceleration Centers Langsford is a private educational organization dedicated to developing life-long, independent learners. Since 2001, we have been teaching reading, spelling, comprehension, and writing in an atmosphere of enthusiasm and encouragement.Our successful model identifies where the breakdown in the reading and writing process is occurring and then we apply targeted instruction using research validated approaches. 9402 Towne

Square Ave. Ste B, Cincinnati, OH 45242, Contact: Jeff Graham, Executive Director, Phone: 513-531-7400, www.

WeTeachReading.com, Grades: All ages

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CONTACT Jennifer@CincinnatiParent.com

Boulevard, Mason, OH, 45040, Contact: Pat Elder, Head of School, Phone Number: 513-398-7773, Fax Number: 513-398-1031, www. montacademy.org, Ages/Grades: 18 months through grade 8, Enrollment: 250

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commentary & parenting

[ ASK THE TEACHER ]

Ask the Teacher Refusing parental help, school involvement, hopeless handwriting, encouraging responsibility Deb Krupowicz

Q:

My third grader insists on doing his homework without any help or input from me or my husband.

Without our help, he makes errors. How can I convince him to let us look over his work?

A:

Children may be reluctant to accept homework support from parents for many reasons. Perhaps your son interprets a teacher’s comment to do the work on his own to include eliminating parental help. Maybe he is afraid to disappoint you because the work is not perfect. Some children can more easily accept constructive criticism from the teacher than from mom or dad. Remaining patient when corrections need to be made can be a challenge for some parents; a child avoiding that tension is understandable.

If your child struggles with school work, explain to him that your responsibility as his parent includes a homework check. Offer input without emotion or accusation. (For example, “I think #3 and #7 could use a second look.”) Allow him to accept or ignore your advice on the condition that if the graded work shows that you were right and he was not, he will have an established consequence.

A strong student may have earned the right to do his school work independently. Back off if your child has a proven track record for academic success, even if the track record isn’t perfect.

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Q:

Having read so much about the importance of parent involvement in a child’s academic success, I definitely want to be involved in my child’s education.

My concern is finding a good balance between being informed and supportive without going overboard. How do I know where to draw the line?

A:

Every parent should know basic school policies and classroom procedures. He or she should be attentive to communications designed for parents via email, newsletters, web sites or paper notifications. Daily conversations with your child about what went on at school are a given. Encourage your child to “present” returned work to you with explanations of what he enjoyed, what struggles he may have experienced and what his take-away was from the assignment. Additionally, if your child’s school allows classroom volunteers, do what you can in this area to help form your own perspective of your child’s classroom experience.

Beyond that, accept the old adage that “no news is good news.” If you need additional peace of mind, an occasional request of the teacher that all is well is not out of line.

Q:

My daughter’s handwriting is horrible. I have tried to help by purchasing many different kinds of paper and pencils and even special pencil grips to encourage her to practice. I end up frustrated, and she ends up in tears. Do you have any tips for helping my daughter improve her handwriting?

A:

The most important consideration with handwriting is whether or not it is legible. If it is legible, you may need to accept the fact that all of the practice in the world may not turn her penmanship into “A+” quality. Fine motor skills develop at significantly different rates, and your daughter may be doing as well as she can right now. If it is illegible, talk with her teacher. Her perspective on what is normal for children your daughter’s age will provide good understanding of what is reasonable to expect. She will also know if your child’s writing struggles are serious enough to warrant intervention from an occupational therapist.

Q:

My son is a high school senior who just does not take his academic responsibilities seriously. If I am not checking his grades online, he doesn’t get work turned in. He never studies for tests. How can I get him to be more responsible?

A:

Consider if your son is truly irresponsible or if he is just failing to live up to your perception of what he is capable of. Is this behavior typical of all academic areas or in just one subject?

If basic irresponsibility is the problem, discuss his post-graduation plans.

Lay out your clear expectations for him to become independent and responsible effective immediately. Tie those expectations to clear consequences for your role in his post-graduate life. Then step back and require him to earn his successes or deal with the defined consequences of his failures. Do not give in to the temptation to rescue him. What is uncomfortable now will not only be painful later, but will also costs tens of thousands of dollars.

If he is not doing what he is capable of, make sure that your expectations are realistic. If laziness, attitude or other less important interests are getting in the way of his success, don’t be afraid to set out clear expectations and consequences as discussed above.

The results you seek may not be immediate. But until your son is forced to take personal responsibility seriously, you will continue to be frustrated. The more allowances you make, the longer it will take him to accept that he is responsible for his effort and its results.

Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@cincinnatiparent.com.

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open house guide PR I VATE SCHOOL

Bethany School

Cincinnati Waldorf School

Grades: K-8 Contact: Teri Mauntel (ext. 104), Email: mauntel@ bethanyschool.org 513.771.7462 · bethanyschool.org Open Houses: Sundays, November 3rd and Sunday, February 9th, both from 2:00-4:00 pm

513.541.0220 · www.cincinnatiwaldorfschool.org Grades: Pre-school through grade 8 Contact: Karen Crick, Email: enrollment@ cincinnatiwaldorfschool.org Open Houses: MAIN CAMPUS: November 9, 2013, 10:00 am-1:00 pm & February 8, 2014, 10:00 am-1:00 pm; MESHEWA CAMPUS: April 12, 2014 10:00 am-noon

495 Albion Avenue, Glendale, OH 45246

Chai Tots Early Childhood Center 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040

513.234.0600 · www.ChaiTots.com Contact: Rachel Kalmanson Email: rochel@ChaiTots.com Open House: Call for personal tour.

Children’s Meeting House Montessori School

6743 Chestnut Street, Mariemont, OH 45227

Cornerstone Montessori School 2048 Alexandria Pike, Highland Heights, KY 41076

859.491.9960 · www.cornerstonemontessori.us Age 3 – 8th Grade Contact: Michelle Earle, Email: office@cornerstonemontessori.us Open House: January 26, 2014

[ ADVERTORIAL ]

The New School Montessori 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229

513.281.7999 · www.newschoolmontessori.com Grades: 3-year-olds through 6th graders Contact: Jeff Groh, Email: Jeff.Groh@thenewschool.cc Open Houses: Sunday from 2-4PM on October 20, January 26, April 27

The Seven Hills School

Hillsdale Campus (PreK–12): 5400 Red Bank Road, Beechmont Ave., Cincinnati, OH 45227 Doherty Campus (PreK–12): 2726 Johnstone Place, Cincinnati, OH 45206 513.728.2400 · www.7hills.org

Contact: Admission Department Open House: Sunday, October 20, 12:30–2:30 pm (Both campuses)

927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140

513.683.4757 · www.cmhschool.com Contact: admissions@cmhschool.com Open House: October 20th, 2013 from 2-4

Cincinnati Christian Schools

Elementary Campus: 7350 Dixie Highway, Fairfield, Ohio, 45014 Junior/Senior High Campus: 7474 Morris Road, Fairfield, Ohio, 45011

513.892-8500 · www.cincinnatichristian.org Contact: Lisa Coombs, Admissions and Enrollment Director, Email: lisa.coombs@cincinnatichristian.org Open Houses: Sunday, November 3, 2013, 2-4:00 p.m. (Both campuses); Sunday, January 26, 2014, 2-4:00 p.m. (Both campuses)

Country Hills Montessori

Locations: Eastgate, Ft.Thomas, Harrison,Oakley, Springboro, and West Chester: See website for contact information for individual locations.

St. Ursula Academy

Programs for children 3-6 years of age.

Contact: Susan Schreiber 513.793.2808 · www.chmschools.com Open House: (AT ALL LOCATIONS) Sunday, November 3rd - 1:30-3:00 p.m.

513.961.3410 · www.saintursula.org Contact: Michelle Dellecave, Director of Recruiting Open House: Sunday, October 27th 10:30 am – 1:00 pm Showcase Nights: 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. on October 17th, November 13th and December 10th (RSVP at Admissions@ saintursula.org)

The Good Shepherd Catholic Montessori 4460 Berwick Street, Cincinnati, OH 45227

513.271.4171 · www.gscmontessori.org Contact: Nancy Toon, Email: ntoon@gscmontessori.org Open House: Sunday, January 26, 2014 from 1 to 4 p.m.

Cincinnati Hills Christian Academy

513.247.0900 · leanintoCHCA.org Contact: Admissions Office, admissions@chca-oh.org for more information.

Open Houses: November 9, 2013; February 1, 2014 & March 11, 2014 11525 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH 45249

Immaculate Heart of Mary School 7800 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati OH 45255

513.388.3020 · www.ihomschool.org Preschool-Grade 8 Contact: Debbi Hill, Admissions Administrator, DebbiH@ihomschool.org Open House: Sunday, Jan 26, 12:30-3PM

Liberty Bible Academy 4900 Old Irwin-Simpson Road, Mason, OH 45040

513.754.1234 · www.libertybibleacademy.org PreK -- 8th Grade Contact: Charlotte Smith, Email: csmith@libertybibleacademy.org Open House: November 16th, January 11th, April 5th; 11 a.m. - 3 p.m.

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1339 East McMillan St., Cincinnati, OH 45206

St. Ursula Villa 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226

513.871.7218 · www.stursulavilla.org Contact: Marta Runnels, Email: m.runnels@stursulavilla.org Informational Coffees: Showcasing Montessori and Traditional Preschool: Wednesday, November 6th from 8:30 – 10:00 a.m., St. Ursula Villa’s Manor House Highlighting Traditional Kindergarten through 8th grade: Thursday, November 14th from 8:00 – 10:30 a.m., St. Ursula Villa’s Main School

Rockwern Academy 8401 Montgomery Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236

513.984.3770 · www.rockwernacademy.org Contact: Jennifer Grubbs, jegrubbs@rockwernacademy.org Open House: (For K-8) October 17th, 830am-10am, November 12th, 7pm-830pm & December 11th, 830am10am; Please RSVP

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[ PETE GILBERT...STAY-AT-HOME DAD ]

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Pumpkin Patches, S'mores and Spider Princesses True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert Now that I have kids, October is probably my favorite month of the year. There's so much to do with little ones this month. Unlike June, July and August you don't have to lather them up with sunscreen and bug spray before you head out the door either. It's also nice that it's still too soon for kids to need mittens, winter hats and snow boots like they will in just a couple of short months. So what do I have planned with my kids this month? Well, my to-do list looks something like this:

Attending a pumpkin festival Going on a hayride, helping my kids navigate their way through a corn maze and picking out a pumpkin make for a great day of family activities. Also, we have a house rule about the size of pumpkin our kids are allowed to pick out. My wife and I tell them they can have any pumpkin in the entire pumpkin patch, as long as they can carry it to the car by themselves.

Oktoberfest There are always lots of kid-friendly Oktoberfest celebrations going on. I personally love getting a large stein of beer and showing off my polka dancing skills to my kids (By the way, I have no polka dancing skills.) There's also usually

a booth set up for kids to do face painting and, of course, loads of great food to be eaten.

S'mores If we don't feel like leaving the house, I love making s'mores with my family on cool, fall nights.

And I haven't even mentioned my kids' favorite day of the month, Halloween! My kids haven’t thought of their preferred costumes yet this year, but hopefully they will come up with something creative. One year my daughter was a “spider princess.” She had a full spider outfit topped off with a wand and crown.

So there you have it, my to-do list for the month. I hope you and your family are enjoying some of these great October activities as well!

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Nature Stories: The Night Time: 11 a.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513) 563-4513 Location: Sharon Woods/ Sharon Centre, Sharonville

Families are invited to join the naturalist for a story all about nighttime! We will learn about what animals do when the sun goes down. 11 a.m. & 1 p.m.

02 wednesday Homeschool Sampler

Time: 2 p.m.

Price: free Phone: 859-342-2665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Burlington

Shapes, lines, and angles, oh my! The Cincinnati Art Museum will help you discover how artists use math, using works from their collection.

Registration encouraged.

03 thursday

Thursday Art Play: Bottle Art

Time: 10:30 a.m.

Price: included with admission Phone: (513)345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati www.contemporaryartscenter.org

Plastic bottles are more than just something you drink from! Join us as we learn more about the artist Diane Landry and find new ways to take a simple bottle and make outstanding art.

04 friday tgif at Kids First

Time: 6-10 p.m.

Price: $30 for first child $20 each additional child Phone: 513-489-7575 Location: Kids First Sports Center, Cincinnati www.kidsfirstsports.com

PARENTS drop off their kids knowing they’ll be in the best of care with Kids First-wizards at children’s sports and creative activities. We know what kids love. Kids will be served pizza and a night time snack.

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Donauschwaben Oktoberfest

Through Sunday, October 6th Price: $3 Phone: 513-385-2098 Location: Donauschwaben Park, Cincinnati.

German music, dance group performances and Trachten Parade. Wide selection of food and drink with 20-plus German and Domestic beers and wines. Pit-roasted Bavarian pork and chicken, sausage and goulash dinners. Car show on Sunday.

06 sunday

08 tuesday

Time: 1 p.m.

Price: See website for pricing Phone: 513-621-3550 Location: Paul Brown Stadium, Cincinnati www.bengals.com

09 wednesday

Cincinnati Bengals vs.

New England Patriots

Come cheer on the Bengals as they take on the Patriots! Who dey!

05 saturday Time: 6 p.m.

Price: $1 per person Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Miami Whitewater Forest, Harrison www.greatparks.org

Fun activities and refreshments will be available. Girls and their parents will be able to explore different Girl Scout opportunities (camp, troop, series, as well as other events) and sign up for the pathway that best works for them and their schedules.

Paws in the Park

Time: 1-3 p.m.

Price: Free Location: Blue Ash Summit Park, Blue Ash http://blueashevents.com/

Calling all dog lovers..You are invited to check out Blue Ash’s Summit Park with your four legged friends. The Blue Ash staff will be on site with information about the development of the park, which includes a Dog Park, and later phasing.

Time: 7-8:30 p.m.

Price: $10 per person or $15 per family Phone: 513-836-3624 Location: The Anderson Center, Cincinnati www.AllAboutTheMouseTravel.com

10 thursday

Thursday Art Play: Paper Pieces

Time: 10:30 a.m.

Price: Included with admission Phone: (513)345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati www.contemporaryartscenter.org

Enjoy a night in the park with a leisurely stroll on a nearby paved path. The walk is followed by “s’more” fun around a fire near the lake as the sun sets.

Time: 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m.

Phone: 800-537-6241 Location: Girl Scouts of Western Ohio, Cincinnati www.girlscoutsofwesternohio.org

Disney 101 Workshop

Want to know how to have an amazing Walt Disney World vacation? Going on a budget? Is this the trip of a lifetime? Learn all the ins and outs, walk away with loads of information or maybe even win a raffle prize.

Fall Walk & S’more Fun

Girl Scout Recruitment Fair

For more fun events visit CincinnatiParent.com!

Hyde Park Square Art Show

Time: 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Price: Free admission, fee for some activities Location: Hyde Park Square, Cincinnati www.hydeparksquare.org

Featuring artists working in all media including painting, sculpture, photography, ceramics, jewelry, fiber, crafts and multi-media.

07 monday Songs and Stories

Time: 10:15 a.m.

Price: $5 per child Members; $7 per child Nonmembers Phone: (513)287-7000 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.com

It’s never too early for story time! Bring your baby for a fun research-based literacy development program with different books, songs and finger-plays each month. Amy Schardein, who has a B.A. in Elementary Education and M.L.S. in Library Science, leads this workshop.

Designed for ages birth to 3 years old.

Let’s examine the shredded paper pieces by artist Joey Versoza. We’ll rip and tear colorful and pattern pieces to create a unique collage. Afterwards our friends from Moksha Yoga will host a creative movement session.

11 friday Culture Kids

Time: 10-11:30 a.m. & 2 p.m.

Price: $10 per pair, member; $20 per pair nonmember Phone: (513) 721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org

Here’s something wonderful for you and your preschooler to enjoy together.

Storytelling, snacks, tours, and handson art activities help you and your child learn all about art while you spend special moments together. This program is exclusively for preschoolers ages 2–5; children must be accompanied by an adult. Reservations required.

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School’s Out Pop-In Playtime

Spooky Spiders

Magic Forest Halloween Hikes

School’s Out, so come play at Pump It Up. Enjoy a special session of Pop-In Playtime in both of our arenas and play on all the gigantic inflatables. Jump on over to Pump It Up for some friendly family fun and remember at Pump It Up parents and grandparents are always FREE!

Did you know you are never more than three feet from a spider?

These spooky eightlegged creatures are all around. Come discover the amazing world of spiders and meet a few live specimens.

Walk through pumpkin-lit trail meeting costumed characters from nature and history. Non-scary.

Time: 11 a.m.-1 p.m. & 1 p.m.-3 p.m.

Price: $8 per child Phone: (513) 829-7867 Location: Pump It Up, West Chester www.pumpitupparty.com/oh/west-chester

12 saturday Beats, Arts & Eats

Time: 5-11 p.m.

Price: Free admission Location: Blue Ash Town Square, Blue Ash http://blueashevents.com

This event will feature free entertainment and an opportunity to celebrate the arts through the sounds of music, culinary experiences and on-site exhibits. Craft beer, food, local art displays, music, and wine tastings!

Books by the Banks

Time: 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513)419-7300 Location: Duke Energy Center, Cincinnati booksbythebanks.org

The day-long festival will feature over 100 national, regional, and local authors, book signings, author panels, and activities for the entire family to enjoy. All events are free and open to the public! Attendees will have the opportunity to purchase signed copies of the author’s books.

13 sunday

Cincinnati Chocolate Festival Time: 12-5 p.m.

Price: $7, free ages 12 and under; $5 advance at Kroger Phone: 513-325-5239 Location: Cintas Center, Cincinnati cincinnatichocolatefestival.com/

Chocolate tastings from local vendors, celebrity chef demonstrations, live vendor and amateur competitions, contests, raffle baskets, children’s activities and more.

Time: 2 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Woodland Mound, Cincinnati www.greatparks.org

19 saturday

Cincinnati Cyclones vs.

Wheeling Nailers

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Time: 7:30 p.m.

Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: (513) 421-4111 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.cycloneshockey.com/

Kids’ Day at the Park: Leaves for Little Folk

Time: 10 a.m. & 1: p.m.

Price: $5/child Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve, Cincinnati www.greatparks.org

Let’s learn all about leaves! Bring your little naturalist to have some fun with leaves. A craft, hike and more is included.

Then to Now

Time: 9:30 a.m. & 12:30 p.m.

Price: $5/child, $3/ adult, Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati www.greatparks.org

Hike into the woods and all over the farmyard to compare fossils and discover what’s happening to the land.

Let’s see how much Parky’s Farm has changed over the centuries!

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16 wednesday Half Pints Kids Club

Ongoing each Wednesday Time: 10-11 a.m.

Price: free Phone: 513-398-9358 Location: Whole Foods Market, Mason www.wholefoodsmarket.com/mason

Each class engages young children to make healthy eating fun with crafts and other activities.

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Through Saturday, October 19th Time: 7-8:30 p.m.

Price: $5 Phone: 513-761-4313 Location: Caldwell Nature Preserve, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com

17 thursday

Spooky Campfire Stories Time: 7 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve, Cincinnati www.greatparks.org

Join us as the Greater Cincinnati Storytelling Guild conjures up some ghoulish Halloween entertainment by the amphitheater fire. Bring your own hot dogs and roasting sticks, and come early from 6–7 p.m. to cook them over the fire.

Come cheer on your Cyclones as they take on the Wheeling Nailers. Also, join the Cyclones Power Play 5K Run/Walk just before the game! See website for details.

Public Library’s 160 Anniversary Celebration

Price: Free Phone: (513) 369-6945 Location: The Public Library of Cincinnati and Hamilton County, Cincinnati www.CincinnatiLibrary.org

Bring your friends and family to the Main Library for an afternoon of funfilled activities, music, and refreshments.

There’s something for all ages.

18 friday Freaky Friday

Time: 6-7:30 p.m.

Price: $5 Phone: 513-985-0900 Location: TriHealth Fitness and Health Pavilion, Cincinnati www.trihealthpavilion.com

Costumes encouraged for Halloween carnival. Activity stations ranging from face painting to special activity hosted by Starglazers.

Annie JR.

Through Sunday, October 20, 2013 & October 26th Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: (513)569-8080 Location: Taft Theatre, Cincinnati www.thechildrenstheatre.com

Leapin’ Lizards! The popular comic strip heroine takes center stage in one of the world’s best-loved musicals.

With equal measures of pluck and positivity, little orphan Annie charms everyone’s hearts, despite a next-tonothing start in 1930s New York City.

20 sunday

Third Sunday Fundays

Time: 1-4 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513) 241-0343 Location: Taft Museum of Art, Cincinnati www.taftmuseum.org

Bring the whole family to the Taft Museum of Art on select third Sundays to explore, create, and play. These free afternoon programs offer great art, kidsized art info, hands-on fun, and familyfriendly performances. Most activities are ongoing, so drop in when you have time and stay as long as you like. This week’s event lets you explore the exhibition.

21 monday Bengal’s Tailgate

Price: Free admission Phone: (513) 398-9358 Location: Whole Foods Mason, Mason www.wholefoodsmarket.com/stores/mason

Fans from across the Tri-State can come together to watch football on Fountain Square’s big screen while enjoying ice cold beverages! Join us for live music and plenty of adult beverages before the

home games. For away games, tailgating begins an hour before kickoff and continues through the start of the fourth quarter, as we watch the game on the big screen with fellow hometown fans.

Swan Lake

22 tuesday

The tragically evocative love story of mistaken identity and retribution, Swan Lake, returns to Cincinnati Ballet once more in a tour de force collaboration with BalletMet Columbus.

Itty Bitty Halloween Party (ages 2-5)

Time: 8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Price: free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Union

Halloween fun for little ones Wear a costume and party with us. Registration required.

23 wednesday The Secret of the Cardboard Rocket

Time: 1-2 p.m.

Phone: (513)396-5578 Location: Drake Planetarium, Norwood www.drakeplanetarium.org

Drake Planetarium is proud to offer one of the most popular space journeys for children and their families, “The Secret of the Cardboard Rocket.” Thanks to our creative and talented friends at Clark Planetarium, you’ll see and feel the highest levels of detail and animation of any planetarium in the world.

24 thursday Thursday Art Play: Windy Wonders

Time: 10:30 a.m.

Price: included with admission Phone: (513)345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati www.contemporaryartscenter.org

Come learn about a new exhibit that’s coming in November! Make your own chandeliers and mobiles inspired by the artist Diane Landry.

25 friday Harvest Swirls

Time: 7 p.m.

Price: $35 Phone: 513.271.2793 Location: Cheers to Art, Madeira www.cheerstoart.com

Paint this popular painting in FALL colors and if you want - make your tree spooky for Halloween! Add a black cat, witch or bats - if you choose!.

Through Sunday, October 27th Price: tickets start at $32 Location: Proctor & Gamble Hall at the Aronoff Center for the Arts, Cincinnati www.cballet.org/50/swanlake

26 saturday BatFest

Time: 10 a.m.-3 p.m.

Phone: (513)287-7000 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.com

BatFest continues to be a family favorite among Museum Center visitors. Join in on the fun and and learn the importance of bats in our ecosystem from experts. You’ll discover that they’re not so scary after all!

Activities in the Rotunda are free. Activities in our museums are free for Members or included with your All Museums Pass for $12.50 for adults and $8.50 for children.

For each paying adult, one costumed child will receive a FREE All Museums Pass!.

Frisch Marionettes: The Wizard of Oz

Times: 11:00am and 1:00pm Price: $5.00/person Phone: (513) 745-5705 Location: Muntz Theater, UC Blue Ash College, Blue Ash http://ucblueash.edu/performingarts/ artrageous.html

Cincinnati favorite Frisch Marionettes will return to ARTrageous Saturdays to celebrate America?s rich musical heritage with their production of The Wizard of Oz. Travel down the yellow brick road and find out why Lion, Tinman, and Strawman are singing the blues.

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29 tuesday

Time: 3-4 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (859) 291-0550 Location: Newport on the Levee, Newport www.newportonthelevee.com

Time: 6:30 p.m.

Price: free Phone: 859-342-2665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Burlington

BOOport on the Levee

Bring the entire family down for an afternoon of Halloween fun at Newport on the Levee! (Children must be 10 years of age and under to take part in trick-or-treating.)

Playhouse in the Park presents: “Fake Flowers Don’t Die” Time: 1-2 p.m.

Price: FREE with RSVP Phone: 513-761-7500 Location: Mayerson JCC, Cincinnati www.JointheJ.org/arts

Three students discover a magic lamp that may or may not grant them three wishes in this thought-provoking and touching world premiere play. For families & children ages 7+. Winner of the Macy’s New Play Prize for Young Audiences.

Spook-A-Palooza at Kids First Sports Center

Time: 3-5 p.m.

Price: $5 per child 3 and up, kids 2 and under and adults- FREE Phone: 513-489-7575 Location: Kids First Sports Center, Cincinnati www.kidsfirstsports.com

Celebrate Halloween with your family in a safe environment Trunk or Treat from 3-3:30 PM in the Kids First Sports Center parking lot. Have car in place by 2:45 PM. Contest for best decorated trunk wins $100 gift certificate to Kids First Then, celebrate the season with our inflatable slide, outdoor playground, putt putt golf, climbing wall, games, food, Magic show at 4 PM by Brett Sears, open swim in our indoor pool, and more.

Wear your costume and have some Halloween fun Registration required.

30 wednesday Wee Wednesday

Time: 10 a.m.-12 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: (513) 721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org

A great program keeps getting better!

Our popular “open house” program for preschoolers and their parents offers storytelling and touchable objects for a memorable learning experience every month. We hope you’ll like our new ideas for the season!

Disney On Ice: 100 Years Of Magic

Through Sunday, November 3rd Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: (513) 421-4111 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.disneyonice.com/

This magical moment in entertainment history combines Disney’s unforgettable stories and enthralling characters that have entertained families all over the world. The captivating production features the largest cast ever of lovable Disney stars on ice – Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, Buzz Lightyear, Woody, Pinocchio, Jiminy Cricket, Stitch, Nemo and the Incredibles – and exciting moments from Disney’s Mulan and The Lion King. See website for schedule.

31 thursday Thursday Art Play: Spooky Stories, Scary Art

Halloween Walk in the Woods

Time: 10:30 a.m.

Price: included with admission Phone: (513)345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati www.contemporaryartscenter.org

Time: 12-3 p.m.

Price: Free Location: Blue Ash Nature Park, Blue Ash http://blueashevents.com

Meet in the Nature Park for a fabulous Trick or Treat walk! Mother Goose’s friends will be there to greet you with special treats, along with a Halloween Magic Show and crafts. This event is free and open to the public. Event is geared to children ages 10 and under.

Halloweeen Howls (grades K-2)

28 monday

Join us for some monster stories, scary tunes and Halloween-themed art. We’ll make feathery owl lanterns, monster hand puppets, and decorate pumpkin muffins.

For more fun events visit CincinnatiParent.com!

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Ohio Renaissance Festival

Dr. Crawley’s Insectorium

Occurring Every Sat & Sun Through Sun., October 20th

Occurring Daily (except Mon) Through Sun., December 29th

Times: 10:30 AM - 6:00 PM Phone: 513-897-7000 Cost: $20, $10 ages 5-12; discounts available online Where: Ohio Renaissance Festival, Harverysburg

Times: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM Phone: 800-778-3390 Cost: Included with admission: $29.95 ages 13-59, $23.95 ages 60 and up, $15.95 ages 5-12, free ages 4 and under Where: Creation Museum, Petersburg

www.renfestival.com/

Fair with 16th century theme. Jousting, displays, costumed performers, entertainment stages, arts and crafts shops and concessions. Rain or shine.

October Family Open House: Jack-O-Lanterns Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Sat. October 5th Through Sat., October 26th Time: 10 a.m.-1 p.m.

Price: 15.00 Phone: 513-321-0206 Location: Brazee Street Studios, Cincinnati

http://creationmuseum.org

Learn interesting facts, such as, not all insects are bugs, but all bugs are insects. Collection represents a lifetime of collecting by Dr. Crawley. With an animatronic person, named Dr. Arthur Pod, who answers many questions about insects.

Pumpkin Patch Express Occurring Every Saturday & Sunday Beginning October 5th Through October 27th Price: $18.50, $15.50 ages 62 and up and ages 5-15, $8.50 ages 2-4, free under age 2 Phone: 513-588-0074 Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe Railroad, Lebanon

www.cincinnatisymphony.org/home2.asp

Music Hall is one of Cincinnati’s most iconic buildings, and a National Historic Landmark. It’s also said to be haunted! Many of the stories about Music Hall have deep historical roots, beginning in the Cincinnati of the 1800’s, and the graveyards formerly located on and around the site. For those who are fascinated by the history and paranormal potential of this unique venue, special after-hours tours have been scheduled.

Jack O’Lantern Junction Occurring Daily Beginning Sat., September 21st Through Thurs., October 31st Phone: 513-898-8000 Location: EnterTRAINment Junction, West Chester www.entertrainmentjunction.com

Pet farm animals, select pumpkin and find way through corn maze. Departures at 9:45am, 1:00pm and 4:15pm

Halloween fun for the whole family! First walk-thru our trick or treat maze and see kid friendly ghosts, skeletons and more. Stop and color, or see Halloweenville our miniature animated display. Plus come and enjoy the area’s only indoor Pumpkin Patch, where kids get a free mini pumpkin. Also open this year are our two outdoor kid’s train rides themed for the Halloween season.

Halloween Nights

Rocktober on the Square

Occurring Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday, October 3rd Through October 27th

Ongoing Each Friday Through Fri., October 25th

Fall-O-Ween

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Bring the whole family to create their own Jack-OLanterns in fused glass. Design and decorate works of art using our glass accessories, that you’ll be able to hang for years to come. All ages welcome. No experience necessary, registration recommended.

Time: 6-10 p.m.

Price: $7; $6 preorder; Free under 23 months old Phone: (513)521-7275 Location: Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati www.greatparks.org

Join in on the spooky fun at Parky’s Farm. Featuring tens of thousands of lights, dozens of whimsical Halloween light displays and family-fun entertainment. Purchase tickets online or by calling 513-521-7275, ext. 285.

Haunted Village Occurring Every Friday & Saturday Beginning October 11th Through October 26th Time: 6-10 p.m.

Price: $8/person Phone: (513) 563-4513 Location: Sharon Woods/Heritage Hills, Sharonville

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Time: 5-11 p.m.

Phone: (513) 352-4066 Location: Fountain Square, Cincinnati www.myfountainsquare.com

Fall celebration of seasonal beers, entertainment and chances to win Bengals’ tickets.

Dinosaurs: Giants of Patagonia

Occurring Daily Through Sun., January 5, 2014 Price: $4.50-$7.50 Phone: (513)287-7000 Where: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati

Time: 3-9 p.m.

Price: $10.00 per person, 2 and under free; $5 parking Phone: 513-232-8230 Location: Coney Island, Cincinnati www.coneyislandpark.com/

Fall favorites plus Halloween fun make for one great family event! Enjoy the NEW Fright Lights musical light show , Trick or Treat Trail, Coney’s Classic Rides, musical entertainment, farmyard friends and more!

www.cincymuseum.org/omnimax/

Trick-or-Treat with the Dinosaurs

Visit sites of major dinosaur discoveries in the Patagonia region of South America and travel back in time to see these beasts come to life. Journey through the lives of two specimens of these achievements of evolution. Various show times daily.

Price: $5 with park admission Phone: 513-754-5700 Location: Kings Island, Mason

www.heritagevillagecincinnati.org

This spooktacular family-friendly event is filled with ghostly attractions! Take a wagon ride through the village, but stay on the lookout for zombies or the Headless Horseman!

Dance the night away at the Monster Mash Dance and enjoy games, face painting, balloon animals, a fortune teller and more! Refreshments will be available to purchase.

Occurring Every Saturday & Sunday Beginning September 28th Through October 13th

Occurring Every Sat & Sun Beginning Sat., September 28th Through Sun., October 27th

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Guided Ghost Tours of Cincinnati Music Hall Occurring Daily Beginning Mon., September 23rd Through Fri., November 22nd

Trick-or-Treat from dinosaur to dinosaur in world’s largest animatronic dinosaur park.

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