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Meet the Staff

Contents

Publisher Mary Wynne Cox mary@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2013

Editor Susan Bryant susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

10 | On the Radar Tour de Carmel, Noblesville Chocolate Trail, 1st Red & Blue Chili Cookoff and more!

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12 | DĂŠcor Next Door Design details

14 | Fall "Mom Time" Curriculum As kids return to school, enliven your own autumn schedule!

Associate Publisher Advertising Sales Jennica Zalewski jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com Creative Director Katie Clark katie@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

16 | To Your Health Breast, ovarian and cervical cancer

Advertising Coordinator Karen Ring karen@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

18 | Open House Guide

24 | Blended Families Adjusting to new family dynamics

26 | Distracted Driving

Editorial Assistant Wendy Schrepferman s.wendy@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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What else we do when we're behind the wheel

Business Manager | Accounting Roxanne Burns roxanne@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

28 | A Hoosier Fall Small moments bring out the best of the season

Public Relations and Events Wendy Cox wendy@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

30 | Fall Festivals Your guide to activies and fun this fall

34 | What's Cool After School

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Skating and ice hockey

Karen Ring, Julie Costakis, Michelle Shirk, Elizabeth Henderson, Carolyn Loub, Nicole Turner, Mary Susan Buhner, Susan Bryant

36 | Ask the Expert Preschool teachers

38 | Reci-please

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Fruit and chocolate oat bars

39 | In Our Opinion Then and now

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Family fun activities

Favorite funny family moments

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40 | To Do With Your Crew 42 | The Last Laugh

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Greetings SEPTEMBER/ OCTOBER 2013

Autumn Greetings Whew! Here we find ourselves back in the hustle and bustle of fall schedules: school activities and extra-curricular commitments and practices seem to be ALL GO! Just looking at my calendar makes my head spin. Where did our lazy summer go?

As the kids get involved in their school schedule, this may be the perfect time to consider a new “educational” avenue for yourself. In Fall “Mom Time” Curriculum, we give some great suggestions for advancing your own interests. (Moms deserve “enrichment” opportunities too!)

If you are in the new position of stepmom or stepdad, our article on Blended Families will strike a chord. This family dynamic can be a tough one to navigate and area parents who have been through the ropes share their perspective and advice.

Doesn’t it seem like everyone is on their phones these days? In the checkout line, out to eat… and especially driving! As a mom to a teenage driver myself, this is a constant concern. In Distracted Driving we discuss the “rules of the road” every driver (adults included) need to follow to keep everyone safe.

From fall festivals to pumpkin patches and hay rides, this time of year is jam-packed with fun! And our Fall Festival Guide and calendar of events is loaded with activities for your family to enjoy throughout the season.

As always, thanks for taking time out of your busy schedule to read our latest issue. Autumn is such a wonderful season – we hope you take advantage of all it has to offer.

(I’m going to start with a pumpkin-spiced latte myself!)

Jennica Zalewski Associate Publisher

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On The Radar SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2013 Mark Your Calendar

Get Involved

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Tour de Carmel Grab your bike and see the best parks, businesses and entertainment Carmel has to offer on the Tour De Carmel. Kids are welcome too, so get the whole family on wheels for this fun event.

The tour takes place September 14th from 8 a.m. – 12 p.m. and costs just $8 per person. For more information, contact the Monon Community Center at (317) 848-7275 and register online at www.carmelclayparks.com.

Westfield Historic Underground Railroad Ghost Walk

22nd Annual Red Bridge Rod Run Classic cars a really works of art – and you can admire over 175 of them at the Red Bridge Rod Run in Cicero on September 2nd. Admission is free to this annual event which takes place from 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. at the Red Bridge Park at 697 Jackson Street in Cicero.

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Contact the Cicero Friends of the Park at (317) 984-3475 for more information!

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Come join a walking tour filled with stories of ghosts of the Underground Railroad mixed with modern-day gangsters and spirits from Westfield's haunted history.

The event takes place September 27th, October 18th, October 26th and October 31st at 8:00 p.m. at Asa Bales Park in Westfield. Reservations are required.

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For more information, contact (317) 840-6456 or www.unseenpress.com.

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Downtown Noblesville Chocolate Trail Who doesn’t love chocolate? Pair it with shopping and it’s even better!

Come to downtown Noblesville on Thursday, September 12th to take advantage of the specials and discounts your favorite shops and restaurants are offering – and the chocolate waiting for you!

All participants in the Downtown Noblesville Chocolate Trail will be marked with balloons. Enjoy shopping from 5 p.m. – 8 p.m. and then visit Urban Park on Conner Street from 8 p.m. -10 p.m. for drinks, live music and a raffle prize drawing.

Jabberwocky Fishers Once upon a time takes on new meaning when interesting "jabbers" stand up to the microphone and share personal experiences in this popular program from Storytelling Arts of Indiana now available monthly in Fishers!

Held the last three years in downtown Indy, a northern version of the program will alternate between the Hamilton East Public Library and Ji-Eun Lee Music Academy. Four scheduled nonprofessional storytellers – just regular people from the community – will share their experiences in story followed by anyone from the audience who wants to share a 3-4 minute story related to the month's theme.

Dates run from September 19th – December 19th on the third Thursday of each month, from 7 – 8:30 p.m.

[ Visit www.nickelplatearts.org for more information. [ 1st Annual Red and Blue Chili Cook Off What’s the perfect meal on a cool fall day? A big bowl of chili! Let the Fishers Police and Fire Departments tempt you with their special recipes on October 25th at the Nickel Plate District Amphitheater.

Come be a part of this 1st Annual Red and Blue Chili Cook Off from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. and judge for yourself who makes the better bowl. Purchase tickets prior to the event at the Fishers Parks & Recreation Office or on the day of the event. And don't forget to visit the Boo Bash taking place during the cook off! Contact Fishers Parks and Recreation at (317) 595-3150 to learn more!

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DÉCOR

N EX T DOOR

DESIGN DETAILS:

Adding architectural interest to your interiors by: Carolyn Loub, mom of 4

Good design is in the details.

If you have a space that is beautifully decorated, but still feels “unfinished,” you may be missing an important detail -- architectural features. Charming old homes are beautiful even with empty rooms. Through the use of paneled wall treatments, ornate casings and crown moldings, older architecture provided depth, detail and richness to a home. Unfortunately, not every home today was built with that same attention to detail. The good news is that you can add beauty to even the most basic, builder-grade home with the use of architectural details.

Crown molding and baseboards When it comes to crown molding, the thicker the better. Skimpy crown molding does little to enhance a space. To achieve a dramatic difference in the depth and height of a room, add thick molding or layer pieces of simple molding for a more ornate look. One budgetfriendly option is to use trim paint between pieces of molding to give the appearance that the molding is thicker.

Baseboards should also be substantial.

Replacing short baseboards with taller ones transforms the look of a room.

scoting up 3/4ths of the wall. For an elegant dining room, consider raised paneling. For a rustic look, use barn wood or pallet wood on the walls. Board and batten works well for various styles from arts and crafts to coastal chic. Beaded board or car siding are good options for a country farmhouse look.

Use woodwork in foyers, dining areas, bathrooms, stairways or any room where you want to add character.

Ceilings Let’s face it. Most ceilings are white, bland and boring. But, they don’t have to be that way.

Why not jazz up the “fifth wall” in a room with the use of ceiling beams, wood panels, tin tiles or even an unexpected paint color.

Ceiling beams come in a variety of styles, from rustic worm-holed wooden beams to sleek and modern metal designs. Faux timber beams are light in weight and easy to install.

The same treatments used on walls can also be added to the ceiling. Beaded board or tongue-and-groove wood panels can make your ceiling a standout.

Walls There are many options and materials available for adding architectural detail to your walls. Paneled wall treatments such as beaded board, wainscoting, and board and batten add dimension and charm to plain drywall.

Whether your aesthetic is elegant or casual, woodwork can help you achieve the look you desire.

The woodwork can be as simple as a chair rail with wood frames below it. Or, for a more dramatic look, run board and batten or wain-

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tication. Don’t forget the hardware. Architectural salvage stores, Anthropologie and Rejuvenation are great sources for unique knobs. Switching out your doors with French doors or sliding barn doors is another way to amp up your home’s architectural impact. A vintage screen door in place of a pantry door is an unexpected element.

Doors and windows Once again, size matters when it comes to trim. Interior doors and windows have more personality with beefed-up trim. Check out online DIY sites to learn how to add thicker or more ornate casings.

Turn your doors from eye sores into eye candy. Simply adding panels to a plain door gives it more depth and interest. Painting doors a dark gray or black adds an element of sophis-

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If you live in a home brimming with architectural details, consider yourself lucky. If your home is lacking such details, you’ll find that adding a few will give your space the finishing touch it needed.

For more great ideas, visit Carolyn’s blog at http://sweetchaoshome.blogspot.com.

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Fall ""MOM TIME""

Curriculum

by: Julie Costakis, mom of 3

As kids return to school, enliven your own autumn schedule!

Autumn brings invigorating change and new beginnings, not only for children returning to school, but also for parents. Think back to the excitement of redefining yourself with each new school year. Moving up a grade allowed for a fresh start, broader learning opportunities and surprising friendships. As you help your children plan for their autumn renaissance, why not do the same for yourself? Consider new opportunities to nurture your spirit, physical wellbeing, intellect or sense of adventure in your own “mom” curriculum.

Sharpen those pencils and begin Step 1:

Think of interests and dreams you set aside through the years. Have you longed to try a new fitness activity, join a book club or launch a small business? Is your heart leading you to volunteer? Write down all possibilities – both big and small aspirations.

Your list may include a major goal like getting your MBA or a minor goal such as making a scrapbook.

Step 2:

It is tougher to stay committed to solitary endeavors. One solution is to partner with another mom who might like to accomplish the same undertaking.

Step 3:

Why is “mom time” so important? All of us are created with unique talents, abilities and interests – but these qualities can be neglected as the busy tasks of motherhood fill up our marginal time. It is vital to our wellbeing to balance our role as parent with a healthy dose of individual fulfillment. Intentionally weaving in a few personal ventures during the busy years of parenting will revive happiness, energy and self-esteem. In order to give generously and joyfully to the many who depend on us, we must renew ourselves.

Separate your ideas into two groups: Major goals (large undertakings such as earning your real estate license or chairing a philanthropic event) and minor goals (short term tasks such as creating a family scrapbook or volunteering at the food pantry).

Prioritize the ideas in each group.

Choose one “major” and two “minors” for your personal 2013 Fall Mom Time Curriculum. Save the remaining ideas for next season. This autumn, your assignment is to make significant headway toward your major goal, and accomplish two minor ones!

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Identify everything you need to begin your major goal. For example, to start working on your MBA, research potential schools, secure applications, course information and costs. Then, take action on your minor activities. If you want to join a book club, fitness class or Bible study for example, talk to friends, check online or make phone calls to start the process. Sign up and add it to your calendar. Do the same if you have a second minor goal. Group commitments are easier to keep because of your accountability to others.

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Hamilton County offers boundless ways for you to begin your personal fall curriculum – here is just a partial list of the many opportunities available in our area. See what appeals to you!

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EDUCATIONAL AND TRAINING OPPORTUNITIES Business, College, Computer and Professional Courses Ivy Tech - Classes held in Carmel and Noblesville www.ivytech.edu (888) 489-5463

EMT Training Riverview Hospital www.riverviewhospital.org/riverviewclasses.cml (317) 705-4350

Professional Skills Groups Toastmasters Find the club closest to you at www.toastmastersclubs.org.

Piano Lessons Indiana Piano Teacher’s Guild www.indianapianoteacher.org

Cooking Classes Cooking Greek, Carmel (317) 657-8084

Art Classes Carmel Arts & Design District www.carmelartsanddesign.com/classes. html (317) 571-2787 Hamilton County Artists Association, Noblesville www.hcaa-in.org (317) 776-2278 Hobby Lobby, Westfield www.hobbylobby.com/ ClassSchedule/?storeno=00182 (317) 818-9217 Hobby Lobby, Noblesville (Grand Opening 8/30/13) www.hobbylobby.com/ ClassSchedule/?storeno=00550 (317) 773-7408

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Book Clubs

Inter-Faith Women’s Groups

Many of the libraries in our county have book clubs to join. Visit your library’s web site to learn more.

Numerous Hamilton County churches and faith-based organizations offer women’s weekday programs, many with child care for preschool children.

ADVENTUROUS OPPORTUNITIES

One centrally-located example with long standing programs open to all women:

Sky Diving Sky Diving Indianapolis www.skydiving-indianapolis-in.com (800) 314-4067

Flying Westfield and Cicero Flight Schools www.indiana-flightschools.com (888) 994-9308 Montgomery Aviation www.montgomeryaviation.net (317) 769-4487

Rock Climbing

“Real Moms” & “Women’s Edition” at Grace Community Church 5504 East 146th, Noblesville www.gracecc.org (317) 848-2722

FITNESS AND HEALTH OPPORTUNITIES Hamilton County YMCA www.indymca.org/centers/fishers (317) 595-9622 Riverview Hospital www.riverviewhospital.org/riverviewclasses.cml (317) 705-4350 Classes In Carmel and Noblesville

Climb Time Indy www.climbtimeindy.com (317) 596-3330

Adventure and Outdoor Courses Check the Parks and Recreation Department in your town for a current listing of activities.

VOLUNTEERING AND SPIRITUAL OPPORTUNITIES Volunteerism Hamilton County Humane Society www.hamiltonhumane.com (317) 773-4974 Conner Prairie www.connerprairie.org (317) 776-6006

Carmel Clay Parks & Recreation 2013 Fall Escape Guide www.carmelclayparks.com (317) 848-7275

Yoga Riverview Hospital www.riverviewhospital.org/riverviewclasses.cml (317) 705-4350 Hamilton County YMCA www.indymca.org/centers/fishers (317) 595-9622

Horseback Riding Habitat for Humanity www.habitathamiltoncounty.org (317) 896-9423

Agape Therapeutic Riding, Cicero www.agaperiding.org (317) 773-7433

“Help Stock the Food Pantry Shelves” White River Christian Church www.wrcc.org (317) 773-2233

Reynolds Equestrian Center, Carmel www.reynoldsequestrian.com (317) 644-9191

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to your HEALTH. Breast, Ovarian and Cervical Cancer What you should know about prevention and early detection Knowledge is power when it comes to your health. Below, get the facts on prevention and early detection of breast, ovarian and cervical cancer courtesy of three area physicians.

What is breast cancer?

“Simply put, breast cancer is cancer that originates in the breast,” says Patricia Rae Kennedy, MD FACS, Medical Director of Breast Care at IU Health North Hospital.

How can I reduce my risk?

While breast cancer is not entirely preventable, women can take steps to reduce their risk, says Dr. Kennedy. She suggests regular exercise, drinking fewer than five alcoholic beverages per week and maintaining an ideal body weight. Medications can help women at high risk of breast cancer significantly reduce their risk.

What methods of early detection are available?

“For the overwhelming majority of women, annual screening mammography is appropriate,” says Dr. Kennedy. Any problems revealed can then be evaluated through diagnostic mammograms, breast ultrasound or a needle biopsy. Dr. Kennedy generally recommends starting mammography at age 40, but may recommend a younger age for women with a family history of breast cancer. IU Health North Hospital also offers women with increased risk a complete assessment in its Prevention Clinic.

In addition, women “should be aware of what their breasts feel

of Medicine. Dr. Rossi explains that most cases of cervical cancer are caused by the sexually acquired HPV virus. In some patients, this virus escapes the immune system and lives in the cells of the genital tract. It causes damages and changes to those cells’ DNA, allowing them to mutate into cancer cells.

How can I reduce my risk?

Dr. Rossi describes cervical cancer as “a highly preventable cancer.” She recommends women be vaccinated against the HPV virus at a young age, avoid tobacco products and begin regular pap smear testing at age 21. Dr. Rossi says vaccinating boys as well as girls against the virus can aid in cervical cancer prevention.

like - their own normal,” says Dr. Kennedy. Any changes such as lumps, areas of skin/tissue thickness, redness, inflamma-

What screening tests are available?

tion, skin dimpling, discharge unrelated to breastfeeding or

Pre-cancer of the cervix is asymptomatic and only detected by

changes in shape should be reported to your doctor.

regular pap smears, says Dr. Rossi. During pap smear testing, cells from the cervix are sampled and examined under a micro-

What is cervical cancer?

scope. This testing has been shown to be “incredibly effective”

“Cervical cancer is cancer that begins in the cervix of the

in diagnosing pre-cancer stages and early cervical cancer. If

uterus or womb,” says Emma C. Rossi, MD, Assistant Profes-

pre-cancer cells are detected, they can be treated before the

sor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Indiana University School

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by: Michelle Shirk, mom of 1

Health professionals can also test for the HPV virus. Dr. Rossi believes this additional screening is appropriate for women over 30 or who have certain types of abnormal pap smears.

What is ovarian cancer?

The most common ovarian cancers start in the cells that make up the outside covering of the ovaries, says Stephanie Flora, MD, OB/GYN with Women’s Health Alliance at St. Vincent Carmel Hospital.

How can I reduce my risk?

Ovarian cancer risk relates to family history and genes. It increases with an early first period, late menopause and not having children, says Dr. Flora. Using an oral contraceptive decreases risk.

What screening tests are available?

“There are currently no recommended regimens for screening normal risk women for ovarian cancer,” says Dr. Flora. For women at higher risk, Dr. Rossi recommends a CA 125 blood test along with vaginal ultrasounds every six months. These tests may also be ordered for women with concerning symptoms.

Wondering what symptoms to keep an eye out for? “Ovarian cancer symptoms are vague,” cautions Dr. Flora. However, some warning signs may include bloating, feeling full early and abdominal distension.

The fear of developing cancer is a very real one for many women. Fortunately, today’s women have access to a variety of tools to aid in the prevention and early detection of cancer. For more information, visit www.cancer.gov, www.komen.org, www.acog.org or www.iuhealth.org/cancer/breast-cancer.

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OPEN HOUSE

Guide

Bishop Chatard High School 5885 Crittenden Ave. Indianapolis, IN 46220 317-251-1451 www.bishopchatard.org Grades 9-12 Open House: November 7, 2013, 5:30pm-8:00pm

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School 2801 W. 86th St. Indianapolis, IN 46268 317-524-7050 www.brebeuf.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: November 3, 2013, 12:00pm-3:00pm, Mass at 11:00am March 11, 2014, 5:00pm-7:00pm

Cathedral High School 5225 E. 56th St. Indianapolis, IN 46226 317-542-1481

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www.cathedral-irish.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: November 14, 2013, 5:30pm-8:00pm, April 27, 2014, 12:00pm-2:00pm

Covenant Christian High School 7525 W. 21st St. Indianapolis, IN 46214 317-390-0202 www.covenantchristian.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: November 1, 2013, January 28, 2014, February 25, 2014, March 18, 2013, 7:00pm

Guerin Catholic High School 15300 N. Gray Rd. Noblesville, IN 46062 317-582-0120 www.guerincatholic.org Grades 9-12 Open House: November 10, 2013, 6:00pm-8:30pm

Heritage Christian School 6401 E. 75th St. Indianapolis, IN 46250 317-849-3441 www.heritagechristian.net Pre-K-Grade 12 Call to schedule a tour.

Culver Academies 1300 Academy Rd. Culver, IN 46511 574-842-8438 www.culver.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: September 21, 2013, October 12, 2013, November 9, 2013

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International School of Indiana Lower School: 200 West 49th St. Indianapolis, IN 46208 Upper School: 4330 North Michigan Rd. Indianapolis, IN 46208 L: 3170-923-1951, U: 317-923-1951 www.isind.org

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Preschool 3’s-Grade 12 Open Houses: Lower School: October 8, 2013, November 14, 2013, February 6, 2014, 8:30am-11:30am & 4:00pm6:00pm Upper School: November 17, 2013, January 26, 2014, 2:00pm4:00pm

Legacy Christian School 470 Lakeview Drive Noblesville, IN 46060 317-776-4186 www.legacychristianonline.org Preschool 3’s-Grade 8 Christian School Information Night: November 12, 2013, 6:30pm-8:00pm

Midwest Academy 801 Congressional Blvd.

Carmel, IN 46032 317-843-9500 www.mymidwestacademy.org Grades 4-12 Call to schedule a tour.

The Oaks AcademyBrookside Campus 3092 Brookside Parkway North Drive Indianapolis, IN 46218 317-822-4900 www.theoaksacademy.org Pre-K-Grade 3 Call to schedule a tour.

The Oaks AcademyFall Creek Campus 2301 North Park Avenue Indianapolis, Indiana 46205 317-931-3043 www.theoaksacademy.org Pre-K-Grade 8 Call to schedule a tour.

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The Orchard School

Our Lady of Mount Carmel School

www.sldmcatholicschool.org Grades K-9

615 W. 64th St. Indianapolis, IN 46260 317-251-9253 www.orchard.org Pre-K-Grade 8 Open Houses: October 8, 2013, November 7, 2013, January 17, 2013, 8:30am-10:30am

14596 Oakridge Rd. Carmel, IN 46032 317-846-1118 www.olmc1.org/school/ K-Grade 9 Call to schedule a tour.

Open Houses: November 7, 2013, March 20, 2014, 8:00am-11:00am

Our Lady of Grace Catholic School 9900 E. 191st St. Noblesville, IN 46060 317-773-4275 www.ologs.org Preschool 3’s-Grade 8 Call to schedule a tour.

Park Tudor 7200 N. College Ave. Indianapolis, IN 46240 317-415-2700 www.parktudor.org Junior K-Grade 12 Call to schedule a tour.

St. Louis de Montfort Catholic School 11421 Hague Rd. Fishers, IN 46038 317-842-1125

St. Richard’s Episcopal School 33 E. 33rd St. Indianapolis, IN 46205 317-926-0425 www.strichardsschool.org Preschool 3’s-Grade 8 Call to schedule a tour.

Sycamore School 1750 W. 64th St. Indianapolis, IN 46260 317-202-2500 www.sycamoreschool.org Preschool 3’s-Grade 8 Open House: October 13, 2013, 1:00pm-3:00pm. Open house for prospective parents of children entering Preschool–Grade 4.

Traders Point Christian Academy 6600 S. Indianapolis Rd. Whitestown, IN 46075 317-769-2450 www.tpcs.org Preschool 2’s-Grade 12 Open House: November 12, 2013, 6:30pm for Grades K–12

University High School 2825 W. 116th St. Carmel, IN 46032 317-733-4475 www.universityhighschool.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses: September 29, 2013, 2:00pm-4:00pm November 3, 2013, 2:00-4:00pm March 9, 2014, 2:004:00pm

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Questions to Ask at an Open House The best way to find out if a school will be a good fit for your child and your family as a whole is to take time to visit the school in person. The staff at GreatSchools has compiled a list of key questions to ask during a school visit:

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Does this school have a particular educational philosophy or mission?

What is this school's approach to student discipline and safety?

How does this school encourage and monitor students' progress toward meeting grade-level standards?

What kinds of library resources are available to students?

How is technology used to support teaching and learning at this school?

How do the arts fit into the curriculum? Is there a school choir, band or orchestra? A school play? Art classes?

What extracurricular opportunities (sports, clubs, community service, competitions) are available for students?

How do students get to school? Is free school busing available?

How does this school support students who have academic, social or emotional difficulties?

What strategies are used to teach students who are not fluent in English?

What professional development opportunities do teachers have? In what ways do teachers collaborate?

What are some of the school's greatest accomplishments? What are some of the biggest challenges this school faces? *Source: http://www.greatschools.org

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Blended

Adjusting to new family dynamics

FAMILIES

Blended families, which are composed of a couple and any children from previous relationships, are quickly becoming the new norm in the landscape of the American family. While blending two families can certainly be a rewarding experience, it can also present numerous challenges. Below we offer advice on making a blended family work.

Breaking the news For the parents, the prospect of starting over and creating this new family can be an exciting time; for the children it may be a time fraught with uncertainty.

Rhiannon Fox of Fishers recalls the night she and her husband broke the news of their impending marriage to her husband’s four children. “Our oldest daughter, who was 14 at the time, just started crying,” Rhiannon says. It turned out they were not tears of unhappiness, just tears of confusion. “She was just so torn between the feeling of loyalty to her mom and the new family unit we were creating,” Rhiannon explains.

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by: Karen Ring, mom of 2

Heather Eberth-Teike, assistant director/clinical supervisor with the Indiana Center for Children and Families, points out it is essential to remember that children in different developmental stages may adjust differently to the idea and advises parents to encourage open dialogue with each child to address any concerns.

Starting off on the same page Coming to an agreement with your future spouse on how you intend to parent together before you get married is ideal. “Attempt to align as a ‘united front’ in parenting the children, but most of all support one another as a parent,” Eberth-Teike advises.

Meg and Jon Perry of Noblesville, who have four children between them, have found that working as a team is essential in making their blended family work. “Jon and I have always shared the same parenting philosophies, but we handled how we parented a little differently to fit our lifestyle. Over the course of time, we have merged our ways and we now parent the same,” Meg says.

This does not mean that differences will not arise; it is how those differences are handled that is key. Eberth-Teike says it is important to model a healthy relationship, engaging in diplomatic discussions when there is a difference of opinion.

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(along with their biological parent) to discuss their concerns/anger,” Eberth-Teike adds.

Meg admits there have been occasions where her daughter becomes frustrated at not having her dad around all the time and she takes this out on Jon. “When this happens and she doesn’t want to hear what I have to say, I make a phone call. Eric never hesitates to explain that disrespecting Jon is not okay,” Meg explains.

Seeking help when help is needed Rhiannon, who takes great pride in her role as stepmom, found that having a mentor helped navigate the ins and outs. “I have a girlfriend in my identical situation and we have saved each other’s sanity more times than I can count!” she says.

Where the children are concerned Eberth-Teike advises if there are uncharacteristic behavioral changes – anxiety/fear, depression/withdrawing, suicidal thoughts, aggressive behavior – professional guidance should be sought immediately. “An effective family therapist that you and the family connect well with can assist in making positive changes fairly quickly. The therapist should take time to get to know each family member individually and build a rapport to gain trust in all members to work effectively toward the therapeutic goals,” she adds.

Children will also adjust better to the blended family if ALL parents – step and biological – work toward a parenting partnership. Meg says for her and ex-husband, Eric, it is simple: “I respect him and he respects me”. The two made a pact when they divorced to not create unnecessary drama or bad mouth one another in front of the children.

“You have to be on the same team… all of the adults,” Meg adds.

Blending families is rarely a seamless process, but with a little preparation and a lot of patience, the payoff is well worth the effort. In the end, Meg concludes: “The most important thing is showing respect for every party involved”.

Easing into the role of stepparent While it has long been vilified in fairy tales, the role of stepparent can be very fulfilling…it just may take some time to establish. “The stepparent should attempt to develop a bond with each stepchild before blending the families,” Eberth-Teike says.

“I had been a big part of [my stepchildren’s] lives for well over a year before we got married... we were already having dinners as a family one night per week and every other weekend and we would cuddle on the couch to watch TV or go to the pool on Sunday afternoons. I think those little things we sometimes take for granted prepared us all for the next step,” Rhiannon says.

Creating the stepchild/stepparent bond requires patience and there will inevitably be those “you are not my mom/dad!” moments. Eberth-Teike reinforces the importance of not making these outbursts personal. “Sit and speak with the child

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distracted

DRIVING

What else we do when we’re behind the wheel While driving, have you ever: • • • • • •

fiddled with the radio station or a navigation system? eaten a meal? broken up your kids’ fight in the back seat? felt very drowsy? put on make up? been lost in a daydream?

While you already know that texting or talking on the phone while behind the wheel makes you a distracted driver, these other every day behaviors can result in the same lack of focus – and the same tragic consequences from not concentrating on the road. Unfortunately, there are a lot of us out there engaging in these activities right now.

Multi-tasking = Multi-risks In a recent Hamilton County Family magazine Facebook poll, readers were asked, “What are the worst examples of distracted driving you’ve seen?” Responses included: “I’ve seen people trying to read the newspaper and drive.”

“A lady painting her nails while talking on the phone.”

“Reading a book while going down the interstate.”

“A woman reaching to the back seat to hold her baby’s bottle.”

“A guy holding his newspaper in front of the steering wheel, holding his cup of coffee, barely holding the steering wheel with one hand and eating something in the other.”

“My husband got hit and totaled our car because a kid ran a red light while texting.”

Obviously these behaviors are dangerous – but just how dangerous may shock you. Steve Williams, who provides school presentations on distracted driving with the Indiana Trial Lawyer Association College of Fellows Distracted Driving Program, says, “It surprises

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everyone to learn that the risk for a driver who is talking on a cell phone while driving of being in a car crash is the same as a drunk driver. That is, a driver who is talking on a cell phone while driving is four times as likely to be in a car crash.” Also, a driver who is texting while driving is two times as likely to be in a car accident, adds Williams.

“It won’t happen to me” What’s the biggest obstacle to getting teens and adults to see distracted driving as a real problem? They simply underestimate what can happen to them. “Unfortunately, many times it takes the death or severe injury of a loved one, a family member or friend, before a driver realizes just how dangerous it is to drive distracted,” says Williams. “Four thousand people per year are killed, and 500,000 people per year are injured, as a result of distracted driving.

Distracted driving is so dangerous, yet so prevalent, that 39 states have no texting while driving laws.”

In fact, sending or receiving a text takes a driver's eyes from the road for an average of 4.6 seconds – at a speed of 55 mph this is the equivalent of driving the length of an entire football field blind according to the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration.

Rules of the road How can parents encourage teen drivers to keep their focus strictly on the task of driving, and not engage in a multitude of other tasks?

First, model this behavior yourself. As with all parenting advice, if children don’t see that you practice what you preach, they won’t take your rules seriously.

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“We emphasize, as part of our Distracted Driving Presentation to high school drivers that this is not just a teen driving problem,” says Williams. “We equip these high school drivers to educate their parents on the dangers of distracted driving. A recent study showed that 49 per cent of adult drivers text while driving as compared with 43 per cent of teenage drivers.”

Williams suggests making certain rules of the road non-negotiable for all drivers. Send texts and make phone calls before beginning to drive. Pull off the road to send or read texts or to make calls. Give your phone to a passenger to send and read text messages for you. These simple, intuitive behaviors are really life-saving advice.

Finally, the responsibility for safe driving rests with the passenger as well, says Williams. “In the same way that friends don’t let friends drive drunk, friends don’t let friends drive distracted, either.”

Interested in having a presentation on distracted driving at your school? Contact Steve Williams at steve@williamsinjurylaw.com or (317) 634-8841.

To learn more about the ITLA College of Fellows Distracted Driving Program visit www.indianatriallawyers.org.

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Mommy Magic A Hoosier Fall

by: Mary Susan Buhner, mom of 3

Small moments bring out the best of the season I was born a Hoosier and have lived in Indiana most of my life. No matter where I visit or travel, I am always glad to come back home. This time of year in Indiana makes me especially happy.

Autumn has arrived, the leaves are changing and for a small window of time, it feels like I am a kid again. Apple picking, bonfires, choosing a pumpkin to carve with my kiddos – it’s a time to slow down and unplug for a few weekends. Raking leaves together, planning a family bonfire night and especially making time to visit our local treasures in Hamilton County like Conner Prairie and it's Apple Store (one of my favorites), Spencer Farm and Stony Creek Farm are “must do” activities.

As parents, sometimes we actually forget that we are in charge of our family's time and how we choose to spend it. It can be hard to prioritize what we need to do versus what we want to do as a family. I encourage you to think ahead, look at your family's busy schedule this fall and make time to do the simple things that will make lasting memories together.

Last year our family set aside a night for a bonfire party. We

Indeed, their busy life become our busy life as well. This time of

hung Christmas lights from the nearby trees and made s'mores.

year, I have to remind myself to stop and change my perspective

After we turned on some music, all the adults started to dance.

so I can engage more, enjoy more and appreciate the season

Although the kids were horrified that their parents were danc-

more. This is the perfect time, during these handful of beautiful

ing "in public" (I still argue that being outside does not mean “in

Indiana autumn days, to slow down and enjoy the simple plea-

public”) nonetheless, they all decided to join in too. Who would

sures this season offers us Hoosiers.

have guessed that spending a little time outside to do something that cost us only marshmallows, chocolate and graham crackers, turned into one of our kids' most treasured memories.

Parents can spend a lot of time in the car driving from games to

Mary Susan Buhner is a Life Coach for Moms and author of “Mommy Magic: Tricks for Staying Sane in the Midst of Insanity.”

Visit her Mommy Magic Fan Page on Facebook and her website at: www.Mommy-Magic.com.

lessons to practices for our children and their busy schedules.

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Fishers Oktoberfest

Fall

FESTIVALS Sheridan Harvest Moon Festival Sat., September 21st and Sun., September 22nd Come enjoy a fun-filled fall weekend. Craft and food vendors will be on hand. There will also be a carnival, car show, pumpkin chuck competition, 5k run/walk, music and kids activities.

Times: 9:00 AM - 6:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Biddle Memorial Park, Sheridan Website: www.sheridanharvestmoon.com

16th Annual Carmel International Arts Festival Sat., September 28th and Sun., September 29th The 16th Annual Carmel International Arts Festival will offer an array of art, food and activities for attendees.

Children will have fun with face painting, Dooley the Clown, a caricature artist, and brand new to 2013 Carmel International Art Festival...A Chalk Walk!

Times: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM (Until 5 PM, Sun) Cost: Free Where: Carmel Arts & Design District Website: www.carmelartsfestival.org/ Phone: 317-600-6118

Sat., September 28th Enjoy fall fun, German-style, with a day filled with German food, a beer garden, arts and craft vendors, live music, free games for the kids and a canned food and new toy drive to benefit Good Samaritan of Hamilton County.

Times: Noon - 10:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Witten Park at Saxony, Fishers Website: www.fishersfreedomfestival.org/fundraising/ oktoberfest/ Phone: 317-595-3195

Stuckey Farm Harvest Festival Saturdays & Sundays, September 28th through October 27th Gear up for 5 weekends of fun at Stuckey Farm! Each weekend will have a different theme full of family fun! There will also be a Stuckey's Got Talent Competition with the winner being announced the final weekend. There will also be 2 new activities this year: ADVENTURE ACRES, which includes a 30' tall tube slide, pedal car track, barrel train and much more and ZOMBIE PAINTBALL SAFARI where you ride a moving tram through a section of the farm, shooting zombies as they pop up.

Time: 9:00 AM Price: See website for pricing.

Where: Stuckey Farm, Sheridan Website: www.stuckeyfarm.com/events/

Oktoberfest at Carmel City Center Fri., October 4th Oktoberfest has become an annual celebratory fall event for Carmel residents. Join in on the fun, which includes food from area restaurants, a Biergarten and live music by Polka Boy until 9 p.m.! It is free to the public and open to all ages.

Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Carmel City Center Website: www.carmelcitycenter.com/

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Conner Prairie Headless Horseman Fri., October 11th - Sun., October 13th; Thurs., October 17th - Sun., October 20th; Thurs., October 24th - Sun., October 27th

Westfield's Grand Junction Derby Sat., October 5th Build and race your own unique derby car and compete in Westfield’s answer to the Indy 500, which features gravitypowered, homemade derby cars. There will even be deckedout tricycle races for the younger ones.Visit www.westfield. in.gov/parks for rules and race details. Bring the family out to enjoy the race as well for our after-race party featuring live music, food and beverages, yard games, kids activities, and more. **Drivers must be at least 8 years of age or older.

Times: 3:00 PM - 7:00 PM Cost: Business/Civic Organization: $50; Non-Business: $25 Where: South of Union and Main Streets, Westfield Website: www.westfield.in.gov/parks Phone: 317-804-3182

2013 Fishers Renaissance Faire Sat., October 5th through Sun., October 6th Experience the Golden Age of Queen Elizabeth I at The Fishers Renaissance Faire. There will be over 250 costumed characters, jousting, period music and dance, roving comedy, swordplay, knighting ceremonies, free kid’s games and much more!

Times: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM Cost: see website for ticket pricing Where: Saxony Development, Fishers Website: www.fishersrenfaire.com/

Cost: See website for ticket pricing Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: connerprairie.org/ Phone: 317-776-6000

Trader's Point Creamery Oktoberfest Sat., October 12th Dust off your lederhosen and head to Traders Point Creamery to celebrate in the German tradition with fabulous home-cooked food and toe-tapping live music. There are many fun activities the kids will enjoy: Face painting, games, hayrides, a pumpkin patch, and watching the cow milking!

Cost: $10, $8 in advance.Children under 10 Free Where: Trader's Point Creamery, Zionsville Website: www.tpforganics.com Phone: (317) 733-1700

Haunted Trails

14th Annual Potter’s Bridge Fall Festival Sat., October 5th Enjoy a special autumn day at Potter 's Bridge Park during the 14th annual Potter 's Bridge Fall Festival. Listen to live music, visit the many artisan, craft and food booths, watch your little ones play in the KidZone, or simply take in the natural beauty of Noblesville's most scenic park on the White River Greenway Trail.

Times: 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Potter's Bridge Park, Noblesville Website: www.myhamiltoncountyparks.com Phone: 317-770-4400 www.hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Gather family and friends close and prepare to be scared silly as the Headless Horseman of Sleepy Hollow rides again at Conner Prairie Interactive History Park. Take a haunted hayride through the woods for an eerie encounter with the Headless Horseman. Families can also enjoy spooky stories, scary-o-ke, shocking science activities, the Legend of Sleepy Hollow puppet show and many more ghoulishly fun activities.

Tues., October 22nd through Thurs., October 24th Make your way through the "boo-tiful" woods of Cool Creek Park for our annual Haunted Trails Halloween event!

Ghouls and goblins are lurking at every turn and waiting for you to arrive. After the horrifying experience, gather around the campfire for some storytelling and music. Trail not recommended for kids under 12, but there will be lots of non-scary activities for little ones in the Fright-Free Zone - a campfire, free hayrides and more!

Cost: $5 Where: Cool Creek Park, Carmel Website: www.hamiltoncounty.in.gov Phone: (317) 774-2500

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WHAT'S

AFTER SCHOOL

SKATING and ICE HOCKEY

by: Elizabeth Henderson

As school is now in full swing, parents are eager to give their kids a break from the books and engaged in physical activity after the bell rings. With a variety of great iceplexes in the community, ice sports are a growing trend among Hamilton County families. Below are a few local rinks that will have your kids gliding on the ice in no time.

In a world often dominated by male sports, the IYHA offers an all-girls hockey program in addition to their other programs. “Hockey is a tremendous self-esteem booster for girls,” says Kris May, coach at Indiana Youth Hockey Association. “It is one of the only sports that requires proficiency in a lifelong fitness activity itselfwhich is skating. This specialized skill can level the playing field a bit especially at the younger ages when girls find themselves competing with boys. Hockey is a sport that allows and encourages girls to be aggressive in a world where they often receive social messages that tell them to hold back.”

The Forum at Fishers offers opportu-

The Carmel Ice Skadium is also pleased to offer a variety of leagues, classes and birthday party options. Learn to Skate classes are available as well as private instruction for figure skating. For more information, check out: www.iyha.com and www.carmeliceskadium.com.

nities for families of all ages to get on the ice. The premier indoor ice skating facility features a fully equipped pro shop, concession stand, skate rental and party rooms to celebrate special occasions.

In addition to offering public skating, the Forum is home to the Fishers Figure Skating Club and also provides a variety of hockey programs for adult and youth. Elite Skating, a sanctioned member of United States Figure Skating and USA Hockey, offers a variety of programs at many Indianapolis locations, including The Forum at Fishers. “Ice sports are a tremendous fitness option for those looking to live an active and healthy lifestyle,” says Devan Heiber, executive director of Elite Skating. “Besides our group lesson and Learn to Skate/Learn to Play classes, we also offer special needs sessions, classes for the deaf and adaptive hockey for our physically disabled participants. Our programs encompass something for everyone and there are certainly options for those who wish to compete as well.”

The Arctic Zone Iceplex in Westfield provides the community with fun, familyfriendly activities on the ice. From adult to youth, the Iceplex offers an assortment of hockey leagues, family skate nights and school trip options. They regularly partner with the Ice Skadium coaching staff in Carmel for a 5-6 week group Learn to Skate series led by professional instructors. Birthday parties, camps and clinics are offered throughout the year as well. To learn more, visit: www.thearcticzone.net.

As the weather gets colder and outdoor sports dwindle, skating is a great indoor activity. With so many options available in our area, now is a great time to get on the ice!

To learn more, visit www.theforum-fishers. com and www.eliteskating.com.

The Indianapolis Youth Hockey Association (IYHA) based at the Carmel Ice Skadium has been teaching children the love of ice sports since 1956.

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ask THE

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EXPERT:

PRESCHOOL TEACHERS

“What questions should a parent ask a potential preschool to determine if it will be a good fit for their child?”

When you go to look for a preschool, it is important you tour the facility and feel good in your decision. You as a parent know your child the best and if you feel unsure, I would keep looking until you find a perfect fit. The school should welcome drop in tours and parents at any time of the day. You should be allowed to meet the teachers, meet the owners and tour the classrooms. If possible, talk with a couple other parents that also send their child to the school or see if the school has testimonials on file for you to read. Another important factor is making sure the facility is a licensed childcare center in good standing with the Indiana State Department. As a parent on a tour, I would ask the facility about their teacher turnover rates, student to teacher ratios, curriculum, extracurricular activities, opportunities for parent involvement and the owner’s background and philosophy on education. If you are still having trouble deciding, ask the school to do an exploration day where the child could attend the school free of charge to see if it is the right fit.

As a parent, you should see a happy, healthy and well-rounded child if you are attending the right preschool.

Submitted by Julie Bowman, Owner, The Primrose School at WestClay and The Primrose School at Bridgewater

“Young children vary so much in their development – how can a parent know when their child is ready for preschool?”

Choosing to send your three- and four-year-old to preschool should not be based on readiness but on what program will best enhance your child's educational experience. I believe that all three- or four-year-olds will benefit from a preschool program regardless of where they are developmentally. Children are capable of learning so much at an early age and this is the prime time to help develop the skills needed for school. I think that the foundation that preschool provides is invaluable.

When choosing a program based on your child's "readiness" you should consider the following options: Mothers Day Out programs may be beneficial to young children that do not need child care every day.

The child who has separation anxiety or very little opportunity to play with other children will benefit from an MDO program.

Preschool programs can be a wonderful option for the independent, social child who thrives on peer interaction and a learning environment. This child is independent and ready to attend a program every day or several times a week.

Daycare is an invaluable option for the working parent. Choosing a daycare that will provide both a nurturing and sound, age appropriate learning environment is a winning combination in giving your child the head start he/she deserves.

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“How can a parent help a child who may be having separation anxiety at preschool?"

This may be your child’s first major separation from the secure and familiar world of home and family. This transition marks the entrance into a new world of friendships, learning and adventure, and we understand parting is easier for some than others. Your child will transition much easier to a new environment by using a few of these tips: Use a goodbye that is not long. A quick, definitive goodbye; well wishes for a great day; and being happy when you say it, all will help your child come into school more confident and happy. Like the reflection of a mirror, children easily read the tender hearts of reluctant parents. Your loving, confident, happy, matter-of-fact approach will help your child take this big step positively.

Talk about what is happening. Build excitement for your child about starting a new school. For a child who has separation anxiety—this is real to them, so don’t dismiss it, but definitely be positive with your child.

I have found that the quicker the goodbye is with the parents, and the sooner we bring the children in and engage them with our Montessori classroom, the easier the transition becomes. All children are different, and it is important we follow their lead and not push them into doing something they are not ready for.

Keep the routine consistent. The sooner you establish and keep a consistent routine with your child, the easier the separation will become, and before you know it,

your child will be saying goodbye

without any tears! Just know, we as educators, really want to help you and your child come to school happily!

Submitted by Kris Spence, Head of School, Indiana Montessori Academy in The Village of WestClay

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Reci Please by: Nicole Turner, Registered Dietician, mom of 2

A new school year brings many exciting changes and a wide array of possibilities for children. Fueling a child’s body to meet those opportunities is key. Data shows good nutrition can support a child’s function and learning during the school day. For that reason, if you pack your child’s lunch, what you include can have an impact on more than just their taste buds. If you’re like me, you may need a little help with ideas for tasty, healthier items to pack in your child’s lunch. Here’s an alternative to cupcakes or candy. The carbohydrates, vitamins and fiber in this recipe provide nutrients needed to sustain brain power and energy during your child’s day at school.

Fruit and Chocolate Oat Bars • 1 cup dried fruit (such as raisins, cherries, blueberries or cranberries) • 1/4 cup orange juice • 1/2 cup all purpose flour • 1 cup whole wheat flour • 1 1/2 cups oats • 1 teaspoon baking powder • 1/4 teaspoon salt • 1 1/2 sticks softened margarine • 1 1/2 cups packed brown sugar • 2 eggs

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• 1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate morsels • 1/2 cup chopped nuts (pecans, walnuts, peanuts or almonds) (Allergic to nuts? Try adding raw pumpkin seeds instead.)

STEPS 1. Preheat oven to 350. Coat 13 x 9 inch pan with cooking spray and set aside.

2. Place orange juice and dried fruit in a microwave safe bowl. Microwave on HIGH for 30 seconds.

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3. In another bowl, combine flour, oats, baking powder and salt; set aside.

4. In a separate bowl, beat margarine and sugar with an electric mixer until light and fluffy.

5. Add eggs, one at a time until well blended. Gradually add flour mixture, mixing well after each addition.

6. Stir in fruit mixture, chocolate morsels and nuts or pumpkin seeds.

7. Spread dough into greased pan. Bake for 20-22 minutes, or until center is set.

8. Cool completely, then cut into 32 pieces.

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Then and Now Ask many parents to recall their childhood and they will often remember filling their free time playing with neighborhood kids or figuring out how to occupy themselves at home. Kids today usually have most of their free time scheduled – with an adult leading the activity.

Family time can easily get consumed by the activities of children. While kids certainly benefit from having involved parents, our focus on their interests has definitely changed the landscape of childhood from our own experience – in both positive and negative ways. That’s my opinion. What’s yours? – Susan Bryant, Editor

Does today’s family life revolve too much around kid-centered activities? How is this different from your own childhood experiences?

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I can't speak for all families but I know for our family of six it's tough to balance. I think it's important for kids to have involvement in sports, music or academic activity but I'm finding even if each child chooses one activity it has us busy (and separated) most nights of the week. I was an only child so I can't compare my childhood to how I'm raising my larger family but I'm certainly trying to find ways to have deliberate family time. – Fay W.

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I think that when you have kids, that's just how it is. Kids grow up so fast and before you know it they are moved out and on their own. That said, it is important to not get taken over by your busy schedule and learn to prioritize. We only allow one activity/ sport at a time for each of our three kids. Also, we make sure to have dinner together as many nights of the week as possible. – Birgitta H.

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Sometimes I think it does.

All too often I see families who are just going from activity to activity and don't take time to actually DO something together as a family. Or have dinner together.

They are so busy with their kids’ activities there isn't any time for anything else. Although I do recall a lot of sporting events/ activities when I was growing up that my family attended. My parents came to everything. And there were 6 kids!

– Erin A.

We want to know what parents in our community think about important topics affecting our children.

Send me a message at susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com to join our email panel.

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To Do With Your Crew SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2013

sundays | September 08 - Oct 06 Concerts in the Centerpiece Times: 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Coxhall Gardens, Carmel Website: www.myhamiltoncountyparks.com Phone: 317-770-4400 Sundays, through October 6, enjoy an evening relaxing on the stately grounds of Coxhall Gardens while listening to the area’s best jazz and instrumental performers. Concessions are not available, but picnicking is welcome. This concert series is presented by St. Vincent Carmel Hospital.

September | sat 07 Barktember Times: 12:00 PM - 3:00 PM Cost: $10/dog Where: The Waterpark, Carmel Website: http://www.carmelclayparks. com/be-active/events#barktember Bring your four-legged friend for a dip at The Waterpark and support the Humane Society of Hamilton County. Dog vendors, live music, free swim, dock-diving, and socializing make this event fun for dogs and their families. Please visit the website for vendor list, waivers, and more detailed information.

September | sat 14 - sun 15 Curiosity Fair Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Phone: 317-848-7275 Cost: Included with museum admission Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: http://connerprairie.org/ This weekend, investigate and explore the whos, hows and whys of science, technology, engineering and math. Take part in interactive science, the Tinker Lab and the Tent of Curiosities.

September | sat 21 2013 St. Vincent Cancer Walk Times: 7:00 AM Cost: See website for registration fees Where: Lions Park, Zionsville Website: http://www.stvincentcancerwalk.org Phone: 317-776-6000 Join St. Vincent Hospital for their 2013 Cancer Walk. 100% of the funds raised at the Walk support programs, services, technology, equipment and research that help St.Vincent Hospital provide patients with the most personal, effective, holistic care from diagnosis through treatment. Be sure to stop by the FREE Kids Zone after your morning walk through Zionsville and take advantage of all the great games and activities.

September | thurs 12 - sat 14 September | weds 25 - sat 28 Indy Kids Consignment Fall Sale Times: 9:00 AM Cost: Free admission Where: Hamilton County Fairgrounds, Noblesville Website: http://indykidssale.com Indy Kids Sale offers new and gently used children's clothing up to teen sizes, toys, furniture and gear. If you like to buy brand name clothing, gear and toys at a fraction of the retail cost then Indy Kids Sale is the place for you!

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Schoolhouse Rock Live!

Times: Wednesday-Friday 10:00 AM; Saturday 2:00 & 5:00 PM Cost: $15 Adults, $10 Youth under 18 Where: The Tarkington at the Center for the Performing Arts, Carmel Website: www.civictheatre.org/ The pop-culture phenomenon “Schoolhouse Rock” comes to the theatre stage featuring fun lessons, like “Unpack your Adjectives” and “Conjunction Junction”.

The musical stage presentation of the TV

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show is much more than entertainment; it is a learning experience through music, song and live action.

September | fri 27 Westfield Family Movies in the Park Times: 7:30 PM – 11:30 PM Cost: Free Phone: 317-843-3800 Where: Asa Bales Park, Westfield Website: www.westfield.in.gov/parks The City of Westfield Parks and Recreation and CitySpring Church presents Family Movies in the Park. Tonight will be a double feature night, with "Thunderstruck" starting at sunset, followed by "The Hunger Games". Parking is available at Westfield High School.

September | sat 28 Museum Day Live!

Cost: Free Where: Participating museums Website: www.smithsonianmag.com/ museumday/ticket/ In the spirit of Smithsonian Museums, who offer free admission everyday, Museum Day Live! is an annual event hosted by Smithsonian magazine in which participating museums across the country open their doors to anyone presenting a Museum Day Ticket... for free. Conner Prairie will be participating, as well as the Benjamin Harrison Presidential site and the Indiana Historical Society in downtown Indianapolis. See website for free ticket details.

Digging through the Past; Building to the Future Times: 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Strawtown Koteewi Park, Noblesville Website: www.myhamiltoncountyparks. com

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Join in on an archaeology event that's as entertaining as it is educational. Along with park tours, Archaeology Month programs, and artifact identification, guests will be able to enjoy engaging performances by American Indian musicians, wagon rides, arts and crafts, and a host of activities for everyone in the family.

October | fri 04 Pajama Rama Times: 7:00 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Cool Creek Park, Carmel Website: www.hamiltoncounty.in.gov Phone: 317-804-3182 Put on your cutest pair of pajamas, grab your favorite teddy bear, pack up an old blanket, and join in on Pajama-Rama!

Families looking for a fun program to enjoy with their toddlers and preschoolers will love the Music Educator from Moriah Music who will lead us in songs and stories about some of our favorite animals.

This event is best for families with children ages 1-7 and registration is required.

saturdays & sundays | October 05 - 27 Hamilton Harvest Train Times: Saturdays, 10:30 AM and 1:30 PM; Sundays 11:30 AM and 2:30 PM Cost: Adults $12, Children ages 2-12 $8, under 2 free Where: Indiana Transportation Museum, Noblesville Website: http://itm.org/ Ride the train about 20 minutes to a local pumpkin patch and enjoy a variety of outdoor, family-friendly activities that include a farm animal petting zoo, face painting, and a child-size hay bale maze.

October | sat 12 Christmas in October Craft Fair Times: 9:00 AM - 3:00 PM Cost: 13 and older, $5; Seniors $3; 12 and under Free Where: Fishers High School Website: http://www.fishersfreedomfestival.org Over 150 Juried Arts and Craft Vendors will be present. Food will be for sale by Fishers Tiger Stripes PTO and all proceeds from the raffle will benefit the “Roy

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Holland Backpacks for Kids” program.

Bring in canned goods or new toys for a local pantry and receive $1 off admission.

Sk8night Times: 7:00 PM - 11:00 PM Cost: $5/person Where: Skatepark at the Monon Community Center, Carmel Website: http://carmelclayparks.com/ be-active/events Phone: 317-573-5243 Under the lights with live, local bands, all levels are welcome to skate with on this fun-filled night. Highlight your talents and win prizes for best trick, most “used” board, and more. RISE Skateboard shop staff will be joining us all night to emcee the vent and give play-by-play up-dates as you try new tricks and learn from others.

October | fri 18 Prairie Tykes: Raggedy Scarecrows Times: 9:30 AM Cost: $12/youth ($11/member youth) Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: http://connerprairie.org/ Phone: 317-776-6000 Connect with your little ones during these fun children’s classes that include stories, games, snacks and crafts. This week, come search for the scarecrows on the grounds of Conner Prairie and make a small scarecrow to place in your own yard. For children ages 2-5 who must be accompanied by an adult (at no charge).

Reservations required. Also at 12:30PM.

October | fri 18 - sat 19 Just Between Friends Toy/ Holiday Sale Times: 9:00 AM - 7:00 PM Cost: Prices vary Where: Hamilton County Fairgrounds, Noblesville Website: http://www.jbfsale.com This is a great chance to sell your gently loved children's items and shop for retail brands at bargain prices…just in time for the holidays!

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October | sat 19 Costume Swap Times: 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Cool Creek Park, Carmel Website: http://www.hamiltoncounty. in.gov Phone: (317) 774-2500 Bring an unwanted costume or costume accessory and swap it for another one.

This is a great way to reuse costumes that no longer fit and save money at the same time! Also held on Saturday, Oct. 12.

October | fri 25 Boo Bash!

Times: 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM Cost: Free Where: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Fishers Website: http://www.fishers.in.us/ The Goblins are haunting, the Monsters will mash. Families of all ages are invited to participate in a costume contest, take a hayride, vote in the chili cook off and more! Finish out the night by enjoying a family friendly Halloween movie! No registration required.

October | weds 30 - thurs 31 Conner Prairie Ghost Walk Times: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Cost: Members: $13 / Non-members: $15 Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: http://connerprairie.org/ Phone: 317-776-6000 You will get the chance to explore Conner Prairie at night and search for any ghostly apparitions that may haunt the old buildings and land. Guests will enjoy a spooky guided tour through Conner Prairie's historical grounds when everything is at its quietest time. Or is it? Learn about the history of true local legends, and hear supernatural stories and personal accounts of unexplained happenings on the property.

Visit Prairietown, Civil War Journey the Conner Home and the Chinese House for an evening of spooky fun. For ages 12 and older. Tours leave every 30 minutes.

At Hamilton County Family, we work hard to ensure our calendar information is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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Last LAUGH

What makes a child see a tiny object and think “I should put that up my nose” or have some other ill-conceived plan? If you haven’t had a trip with your child to the ER trying to explain how something got somewhere it had no business being, consider yourself lucky. Almost every parent has a horror story in this regard, and we asked our readers to share theirs.

What's the strangest thing your child has swallowed, put up his nose or inserted in his ear?

Play doh in the ear and an eraser up the nose...not a fun trip to the ER and ENT! – Tricia M. My nephew put small square magnets in his ear at school. About 5 of them! – Brittney G. When my oldest was about 6, she put a couple small pebbles in her ear.

It took a trip to the ER to get them out. She never put anything in her ear again. – Erin A. My ten year old managed to accidentally get an unpopped popcorn kernel in her ear. After an unsuccessful trip to the UTC that evening, followed by an unsuccessful trip to the ENT the following morning, she had to have it surgically removed by the ENT. That unpopped popcorn kernel ended up being worth about $4,000! – Kelley F. My younger brother inserted his Vitamin C up his nose! I remember the doc said "It'll dissolve but it might sting. On the up side, he still got his vitamin!"

And then my oldest daughter inserted a playground pebble up her nose.

That required a trip to the ER and some very special, tiny tweezers.

Fun times. – Veronica S.

Have something funny you can share?

Send it to susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com to be included in our next issue!

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