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Cool After School Activities

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The Bully at Home

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Empty Nest Syndrome: Kindergarten Version

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EMPTY NEST SYNDROME: KINDERGARTEN VERSION

THE BULLY AT HOME

A MISSION FOR MOM TIME

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PUMPED UP FOR PRESCHOOL COOL AFTER SCHOOL ACTIVITIES TEN FUN FIELD TRIPS IN DAYTON

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24 A DAD INFLUENCE

EDITOR’S NOTE

ONLINE BUZZ

COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

AUGUST EVENTS

28 CAN YOU DIG IT?

WACKY CALENDAR

30 FROM POOL TO SCHOOL

directories

FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE

ASK THE TEACHER

THE MODERN MILITARY PARENT

AFTER SCHOOL ENRICHMENT GUIDE

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editor's note

It’s just around the corner…

he first day of school. What will this year bring? Maybe tricky math concepts will suddenly click and your son will find out he really does like math. Or your daughter will light up when she reads her first book all by herself. This could be the year when a favorite sport is discovered, a shy student gains new confidence, a love of art or music is revealed… or if your child is really lucky, a best friend is made.

If you’re sending a preschooler off for their very first day, you’ll want to make sure the experience involves more smiles than tears. Try reading Pumped Up for Preschool for a few tips to make this big day a success. And if you have a kindergartener attending school all day for the first time, you might be having mixed feelings about this new phase of independence. It’s not unusual for parents to struggle a bit during this transition – take a look at Empty Nest Syndrome: Kindergarten Version for some advice on making this adjustment. With the kids back in school, a new window of opportunity may open to spend time on something just for you. Is there an activity, class or creative endeavor you’ve been hoping to try? Go for it! Check out A Mission for Mom Time for a list of local opportunities to look into. Now’s the time to think about what your kids will be doing after the school day ends, too. Our article on Cool After School Activities and our After School Enrichment Guide give some great ideas for unique things to do you may not have thought of before. There’s so much more in this special “Back to School” Issue, you’ll just have to turn the page to find out! As the new school year approaches, we wish all your families a great first day – here’s to outfits that everyone agrees on, school supplies not yet lost, lunches that actually get eaten and big happy hugs when your student hops off the bus!

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f we asked: ARE YOU READY FOR THE KIDS TO HEAD BACK TO SCHOOL OR WISHING SUMMER WOULD LAST LONGER?

you said: I wish this summer could last forever... My son starts kindergarten this year. - JOYCE P.

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Catch a Fair!

Party in the Park with Dayton Metro Library

Get your fix for fried Twinkies and funnel cake at any of the upcom-

The entire family is invited to this fun and free event! Highlights will include

ing fairs in our area. Dayton has no shortage of these great fun in

dancing, singing, storytelling, face painting, caricatures, sidewalk chalk art,

the sun outings. Go to one or go to them all! Preble County Fair,

active zones, a superhero costume contest, The Batmobile with Batman and

August 1-8, Preble County Fairgrounds in Eaton. Greene County

Robin, Curious George and so much more! The event takes place both indoors

Fair, August 2-8, Greene County Fairgrounds in Xenia. Champaign

and in the park – rain or shine. Admission and all activities are free. Food trucks

County Fair, August 7-14, Champaign County Fairgrounds in Urbana.

will be on hand for the purchase of food and beverages. During the party, the

Miami County Fair, August 14-20, Miami County Fairgrounds in

Library will introduce its new mascot and sidekick for the first time. There will

Troy. Darke County Fair, August 21-29, Darke County Fairgrounds

be prizes awarded for superhero costumes. For more info, visit Daytonmetro-

in Greenville.

library.org or call 937-463-BOOK. Time: 1:00- 4:00 pm, Date: Sat. August 8, Location: Cooper Park and the Main Dayton Metro Library, 215 E. Third Street

Butterfly House at Cox Arboretum The mission of the Butterfly House is to exhibit native butterflies

in downtown Dayton.

in a natural environment, inspire protection of threatened habitats

Dayton Parent Magazine’s 2nd Annual KIDS FEST

and educate the public on butterfly/moth life cycles and their plant

Come out to this free event designed for the whole family that will include

partnerships. This is a living showcase of native southwest Ohio

inflatables, a balloon artist, face painting, characters, booths from local busi-

butterflies and moths. During the Butterfly House summer, visitors

nesses with giveaways and a COVER KID contest. Sign up today for a booth

can get an up-close encounter with butterfly eggs, caterpillars, but-

or contact Katy@daytonparentmagazine.com. Be sure to mark your calendar

terflies emerging from their chrysalises, adult butterflies

and bring the family out for some big time fun! Time: 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Date:

and native moths. All the monarchs raised in the house

Saturday. September 26, Location: Five Seasons Family Sports Club, 4242

are then tagged and released to make the migra-

Clyo Rd. Bellbrook.

tion to Mexico. Time: 8:00 am - 8:00 pm, Dates: Through August 29, Location: Cox Arboretum, 6733 Springboro Pike, Miamisburg

Sunwatch Flute and Art Festival Enjoy performances by flutists from throughout the region, and sample American Indian foods including Indian tacos, corn and bison burgers. View beautifully crafted flutes and other arts and crafts from vendors on the scenic grounds. Check the website for the entire entertainment schedule. $5 for children (6-16) and seniors/ $8 for adults. Ages 5 and under free. Call 268-8199 or go to sunwatch.org for more info. Date: August 14- 16, Location: Sunwatch Village, 2301 West River Rd. Dayton

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THINK TV

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EMPTY NEST

SYNDROME KINDERGARTEN VERSION Who knew it could be this tough? MICHELLE SHIRK

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s I watched him head toward the doors of the school, with his backpack almost as big as he was, he was quickly lost in the sea of other children. I couldn’t find him again in the crowd…would he really be okay? I was so excited about having this day to myself – finally. But honestly, it was a long afternoon until he bounded off the bus to tell me all about his day.” Are you getting ready to send your youngest child off to kindergarten this school year? Although you might be feeling excited about this important milestone, you may also be experiencing some unexpected sadness about seeing your “baby” enter this new, more independent phase of childhood. Whether you’re an at-home parent or work outside the home, having a child begin all day school will likely have a major impact on your family’s daily routine. If you’re used to having your son or daughter home with you, it may also lead to mixed feelings as you adjust to an empty house during the day. Read on for expert advice on preparing for this new event and handling the emotions that come along with it in a healthy way.

What to expect However you feel as your youngest child’s first day of school approaches, it’s probably normal. Kindergarten teacher Mia Morrison says parents may find themselves feeling happiness, sadness, anxiety, nervous-

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ness and excitement, among other emotions. “Sending their child off to kindergarten is often scary for parents,” says Suzanne Sunshine, LISW-S, Director of Behavior Health at Rocking Horse Center. “Parents lose control at this point and have to trust others to meet their child’s physical and emotional needs all day.”

stayed home for ten years and sent three previous kids to school “may feel very ready for this stage of parenting,” says Morrison.

Finding your new normal

♦♦ Speak positively to your child

about school. Try this kid-friendly phrasing from Morrison: “I am so excited for you to start school. You are going to have so much fun learning so many new things.” ♦♦

♦♦ Get to know your child’s class-

PTO/PTA, serving as room parent, fundraising, chaperoning field trips, helping in the library and coordinating refreshments for evening events. Seek support. Sunshine recommends talking to other parents who are experiencing similar feelings. If you feel overwhelmed with anxiety or depression, contact a professional to help you work through these feelings.

room and teacher by attending a “meet the teacher night” or similar event, suggests Morrison. If no formal orientation is offered, contact the school to set up a visit. While sending your youngest child off to school can prompt some difCome up with a plan for han- ficult emotions for parents, try to dling your new free time. Sun- embrace the positive aspects of this shine suggests pursuing hob- special time. “It is okay to have feelbies, spending time with friends ings of sadness and to be anxious,” or considering starting back to says Sunshine, “but also remember to work. She recommends looking be excited.” Feel confident that you for activities that lead to a feel- have raised your child with the skills ing of accomplishment and a to handle this next phase of their life. Looking for some concrete ways to sense of being valued. And by thinking about your back-tomake this tricky transition easier? Our school game plan early in the process, The number of children in the fam- experts offer the following suggesyou can lay the foundation for a suc♦ ♦ Get involved with your child’s ily can also play a role in how a par- tions. school. Potential volunteer op- cessful school year for everyone in ent deals with this new situation. For portunities include joining the your family. example, a parent of four who has A variety of factors can affect the ease with which a parent handles this transition. Sunshine believes at-home parents generally have more difficulty since they have new free time to fill. Some working parents, on the other hand, may feel relieved when their children reach school age, says Morrison. All day school often means reduced daycare costs or simpler transportation arrangements. Of course, these parents may still experience some sadness if their child is leaving a beloved long-term babysitter or childcare environment.

If you’re struggling to let go of your last little one, it’s important to come up with a strategy for handling your emotions productively for your child’s benefit. “A parent’s reaction to their child’s transition to kindergarten can impact the child’s ability to adjust,” ♦♦ explains Morrison. “A classic example of this is the parent who has trouble letting go. The child picks up on this and tends to have more separation anxiety than [the child of a] parent who is ready and confident.”

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BULLY AT HOME WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD IS THE GUILT Y PART Y SARAH BRICKER-HUNT

Imagine this scenario: The principal calls to tell you that your son has been involved in an incident of bullying at school. You are shocked and immediately think of how you will comfort your child when he comes home. To your disbelief however, the principal informs you that your son is actually the perpetrator in this situation. What do you do now?

PARENTAL REACTION The attitude that parents take upon learning their child has bullied others is fundamental to addressing the issue says Cobin Trout, a therapist at Compass Point Counseling Service. She says it is critical that parents really believe that the bullying has happened, that their child is responsible and to take the problem seriously. “Denying the problem and discounting the seriousness of it enables the bullying to continue.” She points to sentiments like “boys will be boys” or “bullying is just part of growing up” as unacceptable, yet commonly held beliefs that downplay the importance of the issue.

Trout says that parents who discover that their child has been involved in bullying behavior often will either blame themselves or come to the defense of their son or daughter. “Either way, parents need to hold their children responsible for their own choices,” she says. Parents must let kids know that they take bullying seriously, that the behavior will not be tolerated and that it needs to stop immediately. Kevin Mabrey, Chairman of the Dayton chapter of the national GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network) antibullying organization, adds that parents also need to make their children understand that bullying others can have serious legal consequences

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LOOKING AT HOME LIFE Although it may be difficult to accept, a child who is a bully may see this behavior modeled at home and could be the victim of a bully in their own family. “Children learn behavior through observation and experiences within their family,” says Trout. “If older or stronger siblings are permitted to boss or mistreat their younger or weaker siblings without consequence, they may in turn act out these behaviors at school with their peers to overcome the feelings of powerlessness that they experience at home.” She stresses the importance of clear and simple house rules saying that “non-hostile consequences for poor behavior need to be consistently reinforced.”

HANDLING AN INCIDENT Parents should carefully monitor their child who has been accused of bullying after the incident to ensure this behavior has stopped. Following up with other parents, kids and school personnel will be important during this process. Trout suggests talking with the child to help them understand their behavior, why it was wrong and how the situation should have been handled differently. “This type of reflection gives the child a chance to see the incident from the victim’s perspective,” says Trout. Parents should also point out when their child is involved in positive, empathic and helpful interactions with peers. And of course, as Mabrey says, “Parents and guardians should model positive and respectful examples for their children in their relationships with other people and with them.” It may also be helpful to have the bully become involved in positive experiences like volunteering to

give them the experience of looking out for and caring about others.

SEEKING PROFESSIONAL HELP Sometimes a child’s bullying behavior can indicate a serious problem that needs to be addressed with someone trained in this area. “Repeated bullying behavior can be a sign of significant emotional problems or self-esteem issues,” says Trout. If a child repeatedly bullies, seems to enjoy hurting others, becomes more covert in the bullying activity or reports a desire to carry out hurtful or vengeful acts, contact a mental health professional for help. As hard as it may be to admit that your child has a problem, taking firm action to address the situation not only prevents more potential victims, but it is an act of love on your part for your own child. A child who bullies others, for whatever reason, is not coping well with the stressors in their life. Reach out to your school, a mental health provider or organizations like The National Bullying Prevention Center (www.pacer.org) or StopBullying.gov (www. stopbullying.gov) for more information and guidance. Locally, many schools offer bully prevention programs. GLSEN Dayton partners with parents, school administrators and educators to help create “Safe Spaces” for kids who are being bullied and to help all children learn respect in their school environments. Join forces with other concerned parents on September 12th when GLSEN will join FLOC (For Love of Children) and New Beginnings for Youth for the second annual city-wide AntiBullying Rally at Dayton’s McIntosh Park.

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C REATIVE E NDEAVORS

A Mission for Mom Time Pursuing the activities that spark your interest Lauren Lawson

Notebooks are packed, lunches are made and backpacks are ready. The beginning of a new school year quietly closes the door on summer. As the kids venture back to academia, the end of one season may suddenly open a new window of opportunity for you. Why not use this precious time to focus on something for yourself? From creative ventures to educational classes, here’s a list of some of the best activities in the Dayton area to help you pursue an interest of your own.

Design jewelry Learn the art of jewelry design with a Lost Wax Casting Class at Mythic Silver. This eight-week course teaches students how to make jewelry and small sculptures using the techniques of lost wax, carving and modeling. Plan ahead and reserve this class for October. To learn more, visit www.mythicsilver. com.

Become a better photographer Hoping to capture that picture perfect moment? Gain some camera confidence from the professionals. From portrait to travel photography workshops, Dodd Camera teaches students proper composition and lighting techniques. To register for a class, go to www.doddcamera.com.

Get artistic Throw on that old smock and let those creative juices flow at Decoy Art Studio. Sign up for a variety of painting workshops including watercolor, acrylic and oil. For beginners, a painting 101 class is the best place to start. Workshops are held throughout the year – check out www.decoy-art.com for more info.

E D U CATIONA L P URSU ITS Learn to sew Grab a needle and thread and head to Sew Dayton for a Sewing 101 Class. Learn basic sewing terms and techniques, including how to operate a sewing machine. Bring your own machine or use a free machine provided on site. To sign up for a class, visit www.sewdayton.com.

Grow a backyard orchard Calling all green thumbs! For those interested in growing their own fruit, the Huber Heights Branch of the Dayton Metro Library is hosting a workshop on the art of backyard orchards. Go online at www.daytonmetrolibrary.org to find out more.

Get back in the classroom Learn something new through the University of Dayton’s minicourse program. These special short-term courses are available for full time students, as well as part-time and non-University of Dayton students for credit or audit. Courses cover a variety of topics and may begin throughout the semester. For

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more information, check with the University of Dayton’s Special Programs and Continuing Education Department or visit www.UDayton.edu.

P H YS I CA L ACT I V I T I ES Put on your dance shoes Get your groove on at Miss Milea’s Dance, Enhance and Advance Studio for an adult tap or jazz dance class. These fun dance lessons offer inexperienced dancers the opportunity to learn basic steps and simple combinations. To register, visit www.smileawhiledance.com.

Join a runner’s club Run on over to the Over River Road Runners Club, a nonprofit organization that promotes running and the local running community throughout Dayton and the Miami Valley. This volunteer-based group provides members with a variety of benefits, including free entry to small club races throughout the year, an annual calendar of races, a summer picnic, holiday party and the opportunity to compete in the 401k Challenge. Check out www. orrrc.org to learn more.

VO LU NT E E R U NDE RTA KI NG S Share your expertise Have a strong knowledge of entrepreneurship? A proficiency in coding? Skills in creative writing? Whatever your interest, consider establishing a club or extracurricular activity for young students in your area. Teaching kids about your passion can ignite the same spark in a new generation. Contact your local school to see how you might become involved in the lives of young people close to home.

Find your perfect (volunteer) match With so many worthwhile organizations out there, choosing the one that best suits your interests and abilities can be a challenge. Try visiting www.volunteermatch.org to help you narrow down a list of opportunities right here in Dayton that may be right for you.

A new school year can be a new beginning for you too. Show the kids that learning is a lifelong pursuit by expanding your horizons with a new activity that piques your curiosity!

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PUMPED UP FOR

PRESCHOOL FIVE TIPS TO GET YOUR LITTLE STUDENT OFF TO A GREAT START BY MEGAN NOEL, PHD

still remember it vividly. Anxiety, apprehension and lots of tears. The first day of preschool was an emotional one…and that was just for me! The beginning of a new school year, especially the very first one, can fill both parents and kids with many different emotions. Having some strategies to help your child start the school year off right will not only make the transition easier, but also allow those first few days to be that much more enjoyable – and even exciting! While there are many ways to help your child adjust to this new experience, following these five suggestions will aid your new student in having a smoother entry on that first day.

Become familiar with the unfamiliar

Children (and adults) often become anxious when they don’t know what to expect. Ease your child’s mind by visiting his or her preschool, classroom or meeting the teacher in advance of the first day. During your visit take pictures of the classroom, personnel, the playgrounds, etc. and put the photos in an inexpensive photo album for your child to revisit leading up to the start of school.

Get something special Who

doesn’t

remember

the excitement of going back-toschool shopping? There’s something about new supplies that gets kids pumped up for the upcoming year. Go shopping and have your new student choose a special backpack, folder, lunchbox or other item they’ll look forward to using.

Develop a routine

Many schools offer some kind of orientation prior to the beginning of school. If your child’s school doesn’t offer an orientation, ask if it’s possible to shadow in the classroom prior to the start of school. Request a classroom schedule or talk to the teacher or a returning parent about daily routines. Once you are familiar with the routine, practice it at home. Getting in the habit of waking up, having breakfast, getting dressed and starting the day now will make this schedule that much easier when the big day arrives.

Talk about it

Asking your child questions, or posing possible scenarios, can help him work through many of the anxieties he may have about school. Christina Miller, founder/director of A Great Start Preschool, reminds parents to be patient with their child during this time. “Many adults are nervous to start a new job, just like your kids are nervous to start the new school

year,” she says. Questions such as “What part of the playground do you think will be your favorite?” help your child begin to talk about what may happen at school, work through any potential fears and begin to get more excited about the first day.

Celebrate!

Attending preschool is a special time in your child’s life – celebrate it! Before the beginning of the year, have an outing, special dinner or event planned especially for your child. On the first day, remind your child that they are off on a grand adventure and assure them that you can’t wait to hear all about it when you pick them up. When your child sees how excited you are, he’ll be excited, too! Megan Noel, veteran educator with ten years of teaching experience and a PhD in Early Childhood Education, enjoys researching childhood through the eyes of her two young children.

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Cool After School Activities ENRICHMENT IDEAS TO SPARK A NEW INTEREST IN YOUR CHILD BY S U M M E R DA I LY

one are the days when t-ball and piano lessons were the only options for after school activities. Now it’s easier than ever to find fun and unique opportunities that will pique your child’s interest and keep them busy after classes let out. Check out these Dayton area places for a new experience your kids might like to try!

Take them to a rock climbing gym where they can test their mental and physical skills on a variety of routes. Rock climbing is the perfect way to wear your kid out after school, and Urban Krag Climbing Center features 8,000 square feet of walls for kids to challenge themselves. Day passes are $14 for adults and $12 for kids 10 and under. And keep your eye on their website – a youth climbing group may be starting soon.

for one of their many events or classes. Guided nature hikes and wildlife tours are planned regularly throughout the week, and admission to the park and their events is free. Special events like the Meteor Shower Campout are scheduled as well, where families can play games, eat snacks and watch the Perseid meteor shower. Follow the park’s Facebook page for updates.

For your budding chef Looking for a fresh and interesting creative outlet for your child? Try out Dorothy Lane Market’s cooking classes. Classes come in a range of difficulty levels to match your child’s skills, with Petite Chefs classes for grades 1-3, Junior Chefs classes for grades 4-6 and Teen Chef classes for kids 12 and up. For $45 your kids can start cooking in the kitchen learning food safety, prep skills and various techniques.

For your sports enthusiast Do you have a kid climbing the walls at home?

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For your talented artist Some kids just have to create! For those with an artistic flair, try Rosewood Arts Centre in Kettering. Classes for kids ages 3-18 offer a variety of mediums. From clay and candy making to dance and theatre, your child can experiment in new ways with each class. Prices range from $20$150 and can take a few hours to a few months to complete.

For your outdoor adventurer If your kid loves learning about the outdoors, consider swinging by Caesar Creek State Park

For your S T EM learner If your child just can’t get enough during science class, try out some of Boonshoft Museum of Discovery’s programs and events. Every day at Boonshoft is packed with activities, from talks and lessons hosted by local educators to shows in the planetarium. Topics cover biology, astronomy, chemistry, and engineering. Kids can get hands on experience outdoors and at their tidal pool. All events are free with admission ($13 for adults and $10 for kids 3-16 years.)

With so many after school activities in our area, who wouldn’t want to be a kid again? Have fun exploring these and other interesting opportunities with your child this school year.

D AY T O N M E T R O L I B R A R I E S (all Montgomery County locations) 937-463-2665 | www.daytonmetrolibrary.org

Looking for fun, free after school activities? Visit your Library! Your child could read to a dog, build a Lego creation, work on craft projects, talk about good books, play video and board games, get homework help and so much more – all free at the Dayton Metro Library! Find the Library nearest you.

D AV I S V O C A L S T U D I O S

937-866-1746 | www.davisvocalstudio.com

After School Enrichment

Guide

Voice and piano private lessons, performanceworkshops and performance opportunities. Pave the way for a future music career or just for fun and growth!

GYMQUEST SPORTS ACADEMY

3820 Kemp Rd. Beavercreek, OH 45431 937-426-3547

Parkour, Break Dance, Infant Classes, Competitive and Recreational Gymnastics for boys and girls.

KUMON LEARNING CENTER 800-ABC-MATH Multiple Center Locations

Kumon is an after-school math and reading program that unlocks the potential of children so they can achieve more on their own. Through daily practice and full comprehension of materials, students increase confidence, improve concentration and develop better study skills. Kumon has 26,000 centers in 48 countries and more than four million students studying worldwide. Visit www.kumon.com to learn more. Join Kumon’s parent community at www.facebook. com/kumon for helpful tips.

MATHNASIUM OF CENTERVILLE

977 S. Main St. Centerville, OH 45458 937-496-5874 | centerville@mathnasium.com

We use the proprietary Mathnasium Method to teach math to kids in grades 1-12, in a way that makes sense to them. Whether to Catch Up, Keep Up, or Get Ahead, Mathnasium is the best math instruction available.

PAINTBRUSH POT TERY

255 W. Central Ave. Springboro, OH 45066 937-609-3300 | www.paintbrushpottery.com

We have “After School Art Club” every other Wednesday from 4:30-6:00 where we do different artistic projects. Usually $25+tax. Includes a light snack. Perfect for ages 6-13. Lots of fun!

S Y LV A N L E A R N I N G C O M P A N Y 441 Miamisburg-Centerville Rd. Centerville, OH 45459 937-435-0222 | www.sylvanlearning.com

Sylvan Learning in Centerville and Beavercreek offers personalized instruction in reading, math, writing and study skills that helps students catch up, keep up and get ahead. We also offer programs in ACT/SAT prep, Robotics and Coding. Call Sylvan today for all of your family’s educational needs!

TOWN HALL THEATRE

27 N. Main St. Centerville, OH 45459 937-432-2830 | www.townhalltheatre.org

Take an acting class at Town Hall Theatre, where children build self-esteem, confidence and character! Start with an introductory class for ages 4-7 or grow as a performer in our 3-tiered acting training program.

VICTORIA THEATRE

138 N. Main St. Dayton, OH 45402 937-228-7591 | www.victoriatheatre.com Victoria Theatre Association offers a variety of affordable Family & Student performances throughout the year (PreK-12). VTA also offers educational workshops, free resource guides, and hands-on master classes with touring Broadway companies. Keep your eye out for new after-school programs!

Y M C A O F D AY T O N

(several locations) 937-610-9622 | www.ymcaonline.org

The YMCA is dedicated to providing high-quality, affordable care for children. With 49 Miami Valley child care locations, we serve families with infants up through the 6th grade. Our staff members partner with parents and caregivers, working together to help kids grow up healthy, happy and strong. Financial Assistance is available.

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Ten Fun

Field Trips in Dayton Local destinations for your group to check out! Sarah McCosham

Somehow, we blinked and it’s already August! Back-to-school season is upon us, which means new backpacks, new friends and new places for class field trips. Whether you’re a teacher, parent or even a scout troop leader, here are some options for interesting, educational and fun field trips around Dayton.

Boonshoft Museum of Discovery 2600 DeWeese Parkway, Dayton | (937) 275–7431, ext. 125 | www.boonshoftmuseum.org/plan-your-visit/educators

STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics) education should be fun – and that’s the mission of Boonshoft Museum of Discovery. This interactive children’s museum has loads of activities and educational experiences for kids. The museum offers field trips for public, private or homeschool educators that are designed to provide a high-quality learning experience for students while maintaining a fun atmosphere and meeting Academic Content Standards.

Carillon Historical Park 1000 Carillon Blvd, Dayton | (937) 2932841, ext. 127 | www.daytonhistory.org/ educational-programs/field-trip-opportunities/

For a hands-on historical experience, you can’t beat Dayton’s Carillon Historical Park. Kids will marvel at the original 1905 Wright Flyer III, an authentic 1835 B&O (Grasshopper) Steam Locomotive and the first automobile self-starter. Your group can also tour Dayton’s oldest buildings, including Newcom’s Tavern (c. 1796), the William Morris House (c. 1815) and Locust Grove School #12, a one- room schoolhouse built in 1896 in Springfield.

The Dayton Art Institute 456 Belmonte Park North, Dayton | (937) 512-0152 | www.daytonartinstitute. org/learn/tours/school-tours/currentschool-tours

Encourage an appreciation for the arts with a trip to The Dayton Art Institute. Tours are available for students in preschool through high

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school, and tour topics vary depending on grade level. All tours are designed to comply with Ohio Academic Content Standards.

Dayton Aviation Heritage National Historical Park 16 South Williams Street, Dayton | (937) 225-7705 | www.nps.gov/daav/learn/ education/planafieldtrip.htm

Given Dayton’s significant contributions to aviation, this national park is a must for young residents. The park contains two interpretive areas: the Wright-Dunbar Interpretive Center and the Huffman Prairie Flying Field Interpretive Center. Kids will learn about three prominent Daytonians: Wilbur Wright, Orville Wright and Paul Laurence Dunbar, along with their accomplishments and their legacies. Field trips are free, but must be scheduled in advance.

Dayton Dragons Fifth Third Field, 220 North Patterson Blvd., Dayton | (937) 228-2287 | www. milb.com/index.jsp?sid=t459

Want a “just for fun” field trip? Head to the ball park! There are many Dayton Dragon home games to choose from, and group discounts are available if you purchase through the ticket office. For Girl and Boy Scout troops, the Dragons offer special events, clinics and even overnights.

Idle-Hour Ranch 4845 Fenner Rd. Troy | (937) 339-9731 | www.idle-hourranch.com

Experience a one-of-a-kind outing that includes visiting and feeding unique animals like monkeys, goats, zebras and peacocks. Kids can also take a pony or camel ride, go gemstone mining and wander a corn maze. Educational topics focus on education about agriculture, wildlife and animal welfare.

Learning Tree Farm 3376 S. Union Rd, Dayton | (937) 8668650 | http://learningtreefarm.org/programs/educational-programs.html

A trip to Learning Tree Farm gives kids a hands-on learning experience in a traditional farm setting. Check out their website for a list of field trip options available or customize a visit especially for your group.

SunWatch

Indian Village/ Archaeological Park

2301 W. River Road, Dayton | (937) 2688199 | www.sunwatch.org/plan-your-visit/educators-and-childrens-groups

This park was slated to become a sewage treatment plant in the 1960s, but historians and archaeologists excavated the site to reveal a three acre village. Today, SunWatch serves as a visitor and educational center for archaeology, Native American culture and heritage stewardship. The park offers five unique tours each lasting about 90 minutes.

Victoria Theatre 138 N. Main St., Dayton | Education & Engagement Department: (937) 228-7591, x3039 | www.victoriatheatre.com/series/discovery/

The Frank M. Tait Foundation Discovery Series at Victoria Theatre contains carefully selected plays aimed at teaching kids specific curriculum and themes. Teachers can download study guides from the website, or have their class come early or stay late for a special workshop to enhance the theatre-going experience.

Young’s Jersey Dairy 6880 Springfield-Xenia Rd., Yellow Springs, OH | (937) 325-0629 | http:// youngsdairy.com/tours/

At this day-long tour (which runs from 9:15 am – 2:15 pm), kids will see a variety of farm animals, get the opportunity to pet and feed goats, take a wagon ride, learn about farming and get a complimentary cup of (homemade) vanilla ice cream!

Every kid loves a field trip, so liven up your kids’ learning and schedule an adventure at one of these local spots today!

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Every kid gets a trophy...as it should be A Dad Influence By Pete Gilbert

arlier this summer, my son finished his baseball season. It was the first time he’d participated in an organized sport. When the coach sent out an email asking parents how they felt about getting trophies for the kids, it took me a minute to consider. My first thought was, “A participation trophy? Isn’t that what everyone says is wrong with kids today? Win or lose everyone gets a trophy.” They didn’t win a championship, heck, since no score was being kept, they didn’t even win a game. Did they need trophies? Of course not. Did they deserve trophies? 100% yes! The progress these kids made throughout the season was simply amazing. My son is five. He was in the youngest age group that offered baseball, which meant not one kid on his team had played any type of organized baseball before. Many of the kids had not yet been involved in any team sport. At the beginning of the season the kids showed about as much potential as the Chicago Cubs; they couldn’t run, catch, throw or hit. Practice looked like the monkey exhibit at the zoo. Kids were climbing the fence, throwing sand

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and balls were haphazardly tossed in every direction at once. Chaos. Total chaos. Eight weeks after that first practice, on the day of their final game, everything was just the complete opposite. The kids did their warm-up stretches together as a team, they played catch with one another and actually caught the balls that were thrown to them. They understood where the positions were on the field and they knew how to make an out at first base. Over the course of the season, the kids also progressed from hitting off a tee to hitting a real pitch. After hitting the ball, they knew to run to first base. And at the end of the game, they learned to line up and shake hands with the opposing team. So, did they win a championship? No. Did they deserve trophies for all they accomplished? Absolutely. For links to all my blog posts please stop by my Facebook page at Facebook. com/adadinfluence and check out my all new page on the Indy’s Child web site (formerly True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad).

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Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Questions, questions… By Kelly Blewett

hen I was a kid, I used to watch movies with my cousin Ross. One evening, circa 1990, while sitting on the floor watching the old Batman movie starring Michael Keaton, he decided he’d had enough of me. “Quit asking questions!” he cried. “We’re watching the same movie! I don’t know why all these things are happening!” I can newly appreciate Ross’s position. I’ve recently had my comeuppance, sitting with my son watching Frozen. He’d just gotten a nasty gash in his head from a playground tumble. It was bloody and scary enough to send us to urgent care, where he eventually was patched back together with a staple. But, as anyone who has been to urgent care knows, even the simplest procedure can take hours. So we passed the time snuggling, him in a stained t-shirt with a bandage around his head, watching Frozen on the iPad. “Why is Princess Anna not allowed to know about Princess Elsa’s powers?” he asked me. I paused the movie to discuss. But this was only the beginning. Question followed question in mind-numbing succession. When we’d been watching the film for over an hour but hadn’t yet gotten beyond the first 20 minutes, I knew he was even worse than I’d been as a child. Simple questions were easily fielded. But then he started in on the stumpers.

“Whose fault is it that the castle froze?” he queried. “Is it Anna’s fault, because she made Elsa mad – or is it Elsa’s fault, because she couldn’t control her power?” I looked at him, laughing in spite of myself. “Maybe,” I said, “it’s actually the parents’ fault, since they told Elsa to keep it a secret.” He considered this, and then said, “Is that the right answer?” I shrugged. “It’s an interpretive question, William. It depends on what kind of approach you take to the movie.” Suddenly I realized what I was saying and backtracked. We weren’t in English class, I reminded myself, but instead the urgent care. “Well, what I’m really saying is, you could argue it either way.” And so we did, looking at the issue from multiple perspectives and discussing the evidence for each. I was amused, to a point. On the one hand, here is someone to debate with! On the other hand, can’t we just get to the part where Elsa sings “Let it Go”? I found myself echoing my cousin from so many years before. “William, can’t we just watch the movie?” Secretly, though, I hope this is only the beginning, a memorable first in a lifetime of movie discussions. We’ll just be two English majors, hanging out and passing the time.

daytonparentmagazine.com / august 2015

ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

Problem-based learning, no more letter grades, school screen time By Deb Krupowicz

Can you explain what “PBL” means? My daughter’s new teacher has this term listed on her classroom webpage but I’m not sure what it refers to.

“PBL” is an acronym for Problem Based Learning. It is an approach to education that is hands-on and student-centered. Typically, students work in groups to solve real world problems. Children are actively involved in selecting the problems, so they have a high level of interest and enthusiasm for their work. The teacher acts as a facilitator, helping students to develop strategies that result in actual solutions. Kids learn and apply the necessary content knowledge and curriculum standards are incorporated naturally. With PBL, students are developing reasoning, cooperation and communication skills in addition to learning academic content. An emphasis is placed on students thinking about their own progress and learning to identify possible next steps, recognizing when outcomes have a low likelihood of success and altering their direction.

students and parents have a clearer a list of very specific learning skills understanding of what kids are actu- based upon those the state and the school corporation have identified as ally learning. appropriate and necessary for each For example, consider the traditional grade level. They select levels of grading system in which one overall mastery which are clearly explained In short, students are developing reading grade would include assess- to communicate how effectively the skills and strategies that are em- ments on how fluidly a child reads, student has learned the content. how well he comprehends both fic- Rather than point to a general grade ployed in the work force. tion and non-fiction material, how that a student received on tests or My son’s school is chang- effectively he can write about the assignments, the teacher should be ing their report cards to material and how well he can speak able to provide specific evidence to be “standards based” about the reading in front of the show where gaps in understanding instead of using grades. class. Because such a wide variety are occurring so those deficits can How will I know how well he is doing of skills is averaged to get a grade, be filled. and if he is learning what he should a weakness in a specific skill can be masked. It may appear that the stuWhen my son starts be? dent has mastered all skills when, in school this year, he will be doing most of his Many school corpo- actuality, there are areas that require work on a computer. Are rations have moved more attention and practice. all those hours of screen time really from using the letter grades of A,B,C,D,F to In standards based report cards, good for him? standards based reporting so that teachers and administrators develop

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Education experts debate how much technology should be used by children and at what age it should play a dominant role in academic life. We cannot deny that we live in a technology saturated world and that being tech savvy is expected in personal as well as professional pursuits. Your son’s school corporation has obviously determined to emphasize the educational benefits of using computers. You are right to be sensitive to how beneficial the hours in front of a computer screen are for your son’s overall well-being. One concern of having a great deal of screen time is the lack of physical movement this often means for a student. You can easily compensate for this potential problem by encourag-

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Technology can also infringe upon time when children should be sleeping. It is easy to get caught up in research, reading, gaming or social media and lose track of time. Be sure that your son’s computer and phone are off and inaccessible for 30 minutes or more prior to bedtime. This will help your son “disconnect” and

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prepare to rest. Monitoring this behavior is critical to ensure that your son is actually sleeping when you believe he is. Having portable equipment that is left in another room is the easiest way to accomplish this. Another area of concern is how technology affects children’s abilities to develop appropriate social behavior. Encourage your son to spend time with friends in a way that doesn’t involve screens. Learning to read facial expressions, pick up on non-verbal body language and understand inflection and tone of voice are skills necessary to building good human relationships that can only be developed by spending quality time with people.

Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

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ing your son to play outside and restricting the time he spends watching TV and playing video games. Whether that outside play comes in the form of organized sports, playground play or a bike ride, the more opportunities for physical activity your son has, the healthier he will be.

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Can You Dig It?

Get everyone in the garden and enjoy the fruits (and vegetables) of your labor! By Tracy Staley

HOW DO I COOK SWISS CHARD? HOW CAN I GET MY KIDS IN THE GARDEN WITH ME? AND WHAT DO I DO WITH ALL THIS KALE? Find out the answers to these questions and more at two events this August through Five Rivers MetroParks, where families can learn more about digging into their gardens and into fresh foods. Families in the Garden, held August 15, will give children and adults activities and information about gardening together. While kids can enjoy painting a pot and planting seeds, parents will learn how-tos and the benefits of incorporating their children into home gardening. “There’s a lot of research that shows if kids are in the garden growing their own food they are more likely to try various types of vegetables and fruit,” says Ashley Coning, a Five Rivers MetroParks outdoor connections education specialist. “Gardening encourages them to eat in a way that’s healthy and just be outside and engage in the world and get their hands dirty.” A second event, Veggie-Palooza, will help families learn what to do with all that fresh food. In partnership with the United Way of Greater Dayton, MetroParks staff will be joined by nutrition experts from the University of Dayton and the Montgomery County Department of Public Health. “We are hoping people will walk away knowing what to do with the summer bounty from their gardens, their CSAs or the food pantry,” says Luci Beachdell, community garden supervisor at MetroParks. Attendees will have the opportunity to watch grilling demonstrations, learn tips for preparing unusual vegetables, preserving food and much more. Be sure to visit the create-your-own pizza station, where families can prepare pizzas with toppings from the garden. Both events are designed to help families discover nature, enjoy the outdoors and learn about healthy eating and lifestyles. “We want to emphasize that it’s never too late to start a garden,” Coning says. “There are plenty of things that go into the ground starting in August for fall harvest.”

UPCOMING KIDS GARDENING PROGRAMS GARDENING BASICS FOR KIDS

FAMILIES IN THE GARDEN

VEGGIE-PALOOZA

August 3 & August 10, 10 - 11 am Wegerzyn Gardens MetroPark 1301 E. Siebenthaler Ave., Skeeter’s Shelter $5/child. Pre-register at metroparks.org

August 15, 10 - 11:30 am Possum Creek MetroPark 4790 Frytown Rd., Education Building $5/child. Pre-register at metroparks.org

August 22, 1- 4 pm Grace United Methodist Church (enter at Salem Avenue and Dartmouth entrance.) Free. Pre-register at metroparks.org.

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daytonparentmagazine.com / august 2015

from pool to school

From Pool to School Getting kids back into the school year routine By Dayton Children’s Hospital

arents often find that their children have trouble moving from their summer daze and flexible schedule to the structured routine the academic year brings. Perhaps bedtime crept later and later and the kids had full days of pool time and leisurely activities over summer vacation. Of course, this would be hard for anyone to give up! How can you make this point in the year easier on you and your children? Stacy Meyer, MD, endocrinologist and Dr. Mom Squad blogger at Dayton Children’s Hospital says, “Routine and familiarity are huge factors in success when preparing kids for back-to-school, especially those who are very young. It helps them anticipate what is coming next, but also sets current expectations for behavior.” Here are some tips to help you make the best of this transition.

ADJUST BEDTIME ROUTINES AT LEAST TWO WEEKS BEFORE CLASSES BEGIN Parents are usually a little more lax about bedtime during the summer months, which can lead to problems when the school year comes back around. To avoid fatigued children during those first couple weeks of school, start pushing sleep and wake time up 30 minutes each night until you’re back on schedule. It may also be beneficial to establish a household routine of going to bed earlier yourself, which means powering down those devices before bed. Although many kids enjoy games and activities on tablets and cell phones, using these devices as bedtime rolls around can be harmful to your adjustment efforts. Meyer says, “The AAP has a recommendation for two hours or less of screen time and no screen time for children under two years of age. If screen time is typical for your child, make sure it happens well before bedtime, especially when they are approaching the school year.” Not only can these games be too stimulating for a pre-bedtime ac-

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tivity, the light from the screen itself impacts the ability to fall asleep. Consider choosing activities such as playing with playdough, doing puzzles or reading a book before bedtime instead.

BE CLEAR ABOUT CLASSROOM EXPECTATIONS Help your child have a positive start to the school year by creating habits at home that can translate to the classroom. Having kids pick up toys and be responsible for their own play space are habits that will ultimately end up serving them well in a classroom setting. While small rewards are great for re-establishing routine and getting past that summer slump, be realistic about what kids can expect in the classroom. Summer is great for relaxing, but school won’t always be fun. “Help them understand that teachers are not entertainers,” says Gregory Ramey, PhD, pediatric psychologist at Dayton Children’s. “Their jobs are to help our children learn, which can be terribly exciting at times but also boring and tedious. Prepare your

children to expect and accept both parts of the learning experience.”

HELP KIDS GET EXCITED FOR THE START OF A NEW YEAR With a few small activities, you can help your youngster look forward to the big day! Shopping with kids for school supplies and letting them pick out their own materials is not only fun, but can encourage responsibility to care for their belongings. Also, have kids participate in packing their own lunches. Using cookie cutters to liven up sandwiches or making aesthetically pleasing (and healthy) snacks like celery boats can be a great nightly activity for kids and parents alike!

While getting back into the swing of things can be tough as summer comes to a close, making some time to prepare in advance sets the stage for a successful school year.

daytonparentmagazine.com / august 2015

the modern military parent

The Modern Military Parent Online military bashing By Molly Blake

here’s been a lot of buzz lately about online bashing and bullying, specifically regarding military families, with scenes playing out on Facebook and other social media websites. Spouses and family members, including children, are tagged and labeled with the term “dependapotamus” – a nasty word for a completely stereotypical military dependent who doesn’t work, wears her spouse’s rank and lays around all day milking the government for all its lavish benefits. And it turns out that most of the online aggressors are military spouses and service members. Really? I admit when I first heard about this phenomenon I was skeptical that people had enough time to sit around and manage a Facebook page or Reddit account, post comments and screenshots of military family members and let the trolls do their thing. I had heard the stories and read articles about online abuse but didn’t have any idea how bad it actually was – until I spent about an hour on Reddit. I was stunned. The language was beyond hateful and vitriolic. I don’t dare quote any of the posts or give the haters any more play than they’ve already received. And don’t even get me started on the atrocious grammar, punctuation and spelling used. Many of the commenters need to head right back to fifth grade for a good old-school sentence diagram lesson. But beyond just using appropriate subject-verb agreement, this idea that military spouses are bashing one another and their family members seemingly without consequences is frightening. I did read that one branch of the military is working on a policy regarding online conduct, but it still begs the questions: are we teaching our children about the power of online anonymity? Can we, as a military population, lead the charge so perhaps the next generation of Internet users behaves more thoughtfully? Shouldn’t military spouses and service members hold themselves to a higher standard even – no, especially when no one is looking and teach our children this same lesson? As a writer for several organizations, I’ve been subject to some awful comments in the space below my articles. One guy called a piece I wrote about sequestration, military pay and benefits a “chicken-little fluff piece.” Tame, but really necessary? Thankfully, another commenter (a USMC

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veteran) came to my defense. Of course I realize that the original poster (who did not attach his real name to his remark) is entitled to his opinion, but I wonder if he could have said his comment to me in person. My daughters are on the cusp of technology becoming a daily part of their lives. So far, I work hard to limit their use of electronics. When they do want to read articles online, enter debates and discussions and share updates, we’ll have to have a serious conversation about what’s appropriate to share, what constitutes a smart comment, when to wait and think about a comment before

just tap-tap-tapping away at the keyboard and when to just say nothing at all. I don’t ever want my children to cloak themselves in anonymity simply to be mean. And for goodness sake, if they choose to make their voices heard, they had better use “their” and “there” correctly! Molly Blake is a freelance writer. Her husband recently retired after serving 20 years in the United States Marine Corps. She attended the University of Dayton and writes about issues affecting military families and other parenting issues. Follow her on twitter @mblakewrites.

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education and childcare guide

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CHILDCARE GUIDE Antioch School

Address: 1160 Corry St., Yellow Springs, 45387 937-767 7642 | antiochschool.org Antioch School was founded in 1921 and is considered among the oldest democratic schools in the United States. Children are encouraged to take the next step, to risk, to make mistakes and to try again as they find their own unique ways of learning. The Antioch School is a place where childhood is respected and children are enjoyed. Nursery - Sixth Grade.

Love is a Hug

201 West Market Street, Germantown, 45327 937-855-2150 | loveisahug.org

Cambridge Christian

We are a quality preschool for children 2 1/2 to prekindergarten. Our goal is to make sure every child is ready for Kindergarten. We are open 6:30 am to 6:00 pm. Preshool is from 9:00 am to 3:00 pm. We offer day camps and school days out for Kindergarten to 5th grade when school is not in session.

Homeschool your child with a Christ-Centered Christian education. Grades K-12. Founded in 1974. We are currently enrolling for 2015-2016 school year. Call 513-783-3388 for more info!

The Overfield School

Satellite | 513-783-3388

Dayton Public Schools 115 South Ludlow Street, Dayton, 45402 937-542-5555 | www.dps.k12.oh.us

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flexibility to complement your family’s needs (schedules range from one class to full-time). Our unique academic community cultivates a joyful love for truth, goodness and beauty.

Dayton Public Schools offers free full/half-day preschool for children ages 3-5. Classes meet Monday through Thursday. We provide a balanced schedule to meet the developmental needs of all children. Staff are licensed by the Ohio Department of Education. Families of all income levels are eligible to apply.

Dominion Academy 925 N. Main St., Dayton, 45405 (937)224-8555 | dominionacademy.org Ages/Grades: Grades 1-12

As a classical Christian school, Dominion Academy of Dayton is committed to learning well to love well. Our collegiate-model structure for grades 1-12 means

172 S. Ridge Ave., Troy, 45373 937-339-5111 | www.overfield.org

At Overfield, young children and teachers explore, problem-solve and build an exceptional educational foundation using indoor and outdoor classrooms on 83 acres. Serving ages 18 months-Kindergarten, with full-day options for ages 3-6. Established in 1960. Voted Best Preschool in 2014 in Dayton Magazine’s Best of Dayton.

YMCA of Greater Dayton

111 W. First St., Dayton, 45402 937-610-9622 | www.ymcaonline.org The YMCA is dedicated to providing high-quality, affordable care for children. With 49 Miami Valley child care locations, we serve families with infants up through the 6th grade. Our staff members partner with parents and caregivers, working together to help kids grow up healthy, happy and strong. Financial assistance is available. Call 937-610-9622 today. daytonparentmagazine.com / august 2015

august calendar

t s u g au v e n t s e

SATURDAY | 1 Lebanon Blues Run

Downtown Lebanon, Main Street and Sycamore Street, Lebanon, OH 45036 | 513228-3156 | www.lebanonohio.gov/calendar. aspx?eid=327

This annual event raises money for our local parks! Cost is $30 per person. Kids’ run (12 and under) is free.

14th Annual Vintage Truck Show Young’s Jersey Dairy, 6880 Springfield-Xenia Rd., Yellow Springs, OH 45387 | 937-325-0629 | youngsdairy.com/truck-show/

Join us for our annual vintage truck show! See over 100 antique trucks from around the country.

Mom2Mom Kids Sale Ginghamsburg Church, 6759 S. County Road, Tipp City, OH 45371 | 937-667-1069 | www. facebook.com/kidsavenuegum

Consignment sale featuring brand name kids clothing, maternity, toys, games, furniture, nursery items and more!

14th Annual Old-Fashioned Family Sundae Social Charity A. Krueger Farm Discovery Center, 9101 Frederick Pike, Dayton, OH 45414 | 937890-7360 | www.facebook.com/AullwoodAudubon

Join us for the 14th Annual Old-Fashioned Family Sundae Social at the Charity A. Krueger Farm Discovery Center! Admission is free at Aullwood Farm and the Nature Center. Ice cream is $2/dish. Guests can walk in the herb and vegetable gardens, relax on the shaded porches in rocking chairs or enjoy a wagon ride for $1.

TUESDAY | 4 Under the Sun Tour

Fraze Pavilion, 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, Ohio 45429 | 937-296-3300 | www. fraze.com/under-the-sun-tour/

Under The Sun, the annual festival tour celebrating the golden age of alternative pop rock ‘n’ roll, will make a stop in Kettering again this summer with a spectacular line-up! Enjoy performances by Sugar Ray, Better Than Ezra, Uncle Kracker and Eve 6.

WEDNESDAY | 5

Miamisburg Touch-a-Truck Riverfront Park, 3 N. Miami Avenue, Miamisburg, OH 45342 | 937-866-8999 | www. PlayMiamisburg.com

See, touch, climb, play, discover and explore amazing trucks and other vehicles up close -- just don’t drive them away! Over 30 big rigs, ambulances, trucks and other really cool vehicles will be available from 12:30-2:30 p.m. Rep-

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resentatives from the Helping Hands Food Pantry will be on-site with collection bins. Help support them by bringing non-perishable food items. This free event is held rain or shine.

THURSDAY | 6 The Beach Boys and The Temptations

Rose Music Center, 6800 Executive Blvd., Huber Heights, OH 45424 | 937-610-0288 | www. rosemusiccenter.com/events-tickets/eventlist/event.html?event_id=14

The Surf and Soul Tour will make a stop at Rose Music Center at The Heights on August 6. As The Beach Boys mark more than a half century of making music, the group continues to ride the crest of a wave unequalled in America’s musical history. The Temptations began their musical life in Detroit in the early sixties, and have propelled popular music with a series of smash hits and sold-out performances throughout the world.

FRIDAY | 7

ready to get wet, wild and jam all weekend long. The best seat in the house just may be from a canoe or tube!

Runway Fest Dayton-Wright Brothers Airport, 10550 N Springboro Pike, Miamisburg, OH 45342 | www.flydayton.com/index.php?page=runwayfest-2015#.VX2NqOfT5Gs

This year’s Runway Fest features live music, displays, airplane rides, a hot air balloon launch, inflatables, pony rides, food and drink and fireworks! Free admission and parking!

SATURDAY | 8 42nd Annual Englewood Festival

Centennial Park, 321 Union Blvd., Englewood, OH 45322 | 937-836-5106 | www.englewood. oh.us/events_festival.php

The festivities begin with the 5k race at 8 am on Saturday, followed by the parade which runs down Union Boulevard from Wenger Road to Centennial Park.

Canoegrass

Color Bash 5K

Adventures on the Great Miami, 1995 E. Ross Rd, Tipp City, OH 45371 | www.canoegrass.com

Eastwood MetroPark, 1385 Old Harshman Rd., Dayton, OH 45431 | www.nrroadracing.com/ races/colorbash5k-dayton-oh/

Canoegrass is a weekend celebration of bluegrass music, the best of the human spirit and river life. The banks of the Great Miami River will come alive with the best entertainers in the region. Get

Be prepared to get completely covered in color while walking or running the 3 mile course. All ages and runner/walker levels are welcome to participate! This is

august calendar a family friendly event that will leave you colorful from head to toe! Proceeds benefit Crayons to Classrooms.

Canoegrass Adventures on the Great Miami, 1995 E. Ross Rd, Tipp City, OH 45371 | www.canoegrass.com

Canoegrass is a weekend celebration of bluegrass music, the best of the human spirit and river life. The banks of the Great Miami River will come alive with the best entertainers in the region. Get ready to get wet, wild and jam all weekend long. The best seat in the house just may be from a canoe or tube!

Peach Daze Hidden Valley Fruit Farm, 5474 N. State Rt. 48, Lebanon, OH 45036 | 513-932-1869 | www.hiddenvalleyfruitfarm.com/festivals.html

Peach Daze is all about the homegrown peaches: peach pies, peach sundaes, peach everything! Entertainment provided for the kids outside -- the bounce house, train ride and barnyard will be open. Bring the whole family for a day of fun! Free parking and admission.

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42nd Annual Englewood Festival Centennial Park, 321 Union Blvd., Englewood, OH 45322 | 937-836-5106 | www.englewood. oh.us/events_festival.php

Events on Sunday include a Volksmarch, a Cruise-In and musical entertainment.

Art on the Commons

Canoegrass Adventures on the Great Miami, 1995 E. Ross Rd, Tipp City, OH 45371 | www.canoegrass.com

Peach Daze Hidden Valley Fruit Farm, 5474 N. State Rt. 48, Lebanon, OH 45036 | 513-932-1869 | www.hiddenvalleyfruitfarm.com/festivals.html

FRIDAY | 14

15th Annual Germanfest Picnic 5K and 10K Carillon Historical Park, 1000 Carillon Boulevard, Dayton, Ohio 45409 | www.keysports. net/#!Germanfest-Picnic-5K-10K/cra1/i2l2vq8v101

Presented with the 32nd Annual GermanFest Picnic. Post race celebration will be in the Park.

Sun Watch Native Flute Festival

Civic Commons, 675 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, OH 45420 | 937-296-0294 | www. ketteringoh.org/play/rosewood-arts-centre/ events/art-on-the-commons/

Sun Watch Indian Village, 2301 West River Road, Dayton, Ohio 45418 | www.sunwatch. org/program-a-events/special-events/14sunwatch-flute-and-art-festival

One of the most popular Dayton-area art festivals returns this August for its 27th year! Each year, Art on the Commons features fine arts and crafts by 100 talented artists from around the country. Works for sale include jewelry, ceramics, paintings, photography, metals, watercolor, sculpture, glass, fibers and wood creations.

Enjoy performances by flutists from throughout the region, and sample American Indian foods including Indian tacos, bison burgers and corn. View beautifully crafted flutes and other offerings from arts and crafts vendors on the scenic grounds.

Heart to Heart: Donny and Marie

Doggie Dash n’ Splash Fest

Mead Theatre, Schuster Center, 138 N. Main St., Dayton, Ohio 45402 | 937-228-3630 | https://my.ticketcenterstage.com/single/ eventDetail.aspx?p=1138

Donny and Marie never fail to dazzle audiences. The brother-sister duo has been performing their Las Vegas stage spectacular since 2008. Their timeless roster of material is captured in this homage, showing off both of their well-known pop duets and covers as well as solo numbers.

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Greene County Fairgrounds, 120 Fairground Road, Xenia, OH 45385 | www.greenecountyfairgrounds.com/

Greene County Parks and Trails brings you the annual Doggie Dash n’ Splash Fest, a community-wide celebration of our favorite four-legged friends. Bring your furry friends to enjoy a unique splashground, puppy pools, canine demonstrations, vendors, contests and more. Proceeds from Doggie Dash ‘n Splash Benefit the Scout Burnell-Garbrecht Dog Park.

15th Annual Germanfest Picnic

SUNDAY | 16

Carillon Historical Park, 1000 Carillon Boulevard, Dayton, Ohio 45409 | 937-429-9251 | www.daytongermanclub.org/?q=germanpicnic

Join the Dayton Liederkranz as we celebrate the 32nd Annual Germanfest Picnic at Carillon Park in Dayton! One of the best festivals of the summer with plenty of fun for the whole family.

Sun Watch Native Flute Festival Sun Watch Indian Village, 2301 West River Road, Dayton, Ohio 45418 | www.sunwatch. org/program-a-events/special-events/14sunwatch-flute-and-art-festival

Troy Festival of Nations Great Miami River Levee, Troy, OH 45373 | www.troyfestivalofnations.com/index.php#rtbottom-panel

The event is free and is open to the public---and will include the Parade of Nations at 4 pm. Experience and celebrate 15-20 nations and cultures from around the world through interactive booths/ displays, food, dance, music, story-telling and arts and crafts. For kids, there are games, face painting and other activities.

Sun Watch Native Flute Festival Sun Watch Indian Village, 2301 West River Road, Dayton, Ohio 45418 | www.sunwatch. org/program-a-events/special-events/14sunwatch-flute-and-art-festival

Bacon Fest 2015 Fraze Pavillion, 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, Ohio 45429 | 937-296-3300 | www. fraze.com/bacon-fest-2015/

Free and open to the public, savor the flavor of breakfast’s favorite side item – the greatest food on planet Earth: bacon. Whether you’re in the crispy bacon or chewy bacon camp, you’ll love this summer festival.

WEDNESDAY | 19 Happy Together Tour

Fraze Pavillion, 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, Ohio 45429 | (937) 296-3300 | www.fraze.com/happy-together-tour-2015/

Don’t miss out on tickets to this compilation of some of the best music of the 60s! So “invest a dime,” and “imagine how the world could be so very fine” with tickets to the Happy Together Tour 2015!

Family Day: National Aviation Day

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National Museum of the U.S. Air Force, 1100 Spaatz Street, Wright-Patterson AFB, OH 45433 | 937-258-1218 | www.nationalmuseum. af.mil/education/family/index.asp

Fraze Pavillion, 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, Ohio 45429 | (937) 296-3300 | www.fraze.com/the-menus-5/

Commemorate National Aviation Day (and Orville Wright’s birthday) by learning about aerospace technology and history from 1903 to 2015 and beyond through fun demos and hands-on activities.

31st British Car Show Eastwood MetroPark, 1385 Old Harshman Rd., Dayton, OH 45431 | 937-293-2819 | www. britishcardaydayton.com/

The 31st British car show will feature over 300 British cars. Attractions include a popular vote car show, vendors, swap meet, full service concession stand, dash plaques to first 325 entrants, spectators admitted free, children’s activities, vendors selling memorabilia and British car parts. Show goes rain or shine.

The Menus

This is the second of two performances at Fraze Pavilion this summer by The Menus as part of the $5 Friday Concert Series. In an energetic give and take, The Menus bring the flair, the tunes and the jokes, while the audience gives thanks with shattering cheers, pumping fists and swaying hips.

SATURDAY | 22 The Super Underwear 5K, 10K and 1-Mile Run/Walk Eastwood MetroPark, 1385 Old Harshman Rd., Dayton, OH 45431 | http://thesuperunderwear5kand10krun.itsyourrace.com/event. aspx?id=2971

Every hero puts on their super underwear and parades around town; we want you to do the same. Dress-up or dress down, but be sure you express yourself!

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Hollywood Series: Guardians of the Galaxy National Museum of the U.S. Air Force, 1100 Spaatz Street, Wright-Patterson AFB, OH 45433 | 937-258-1218 | www.afmuseum.com/ attractions/theatre/upcoming-events

Hollywood comes to... The Air Force Museum Theatre! Experience your favorite films on the region’s largest screen. Tickets are $5 per person.

GospelFest Fraze Pavillion, 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering, Ohio 45429 | (937) 752-2063 | www. fraze.com/gospelfest-3/

The Second Annual GospelFest starts at 3 pm, with local/regional groups performing for approximately 20 minutes each on the Fraze stage. The day caps off with a performance by Francesca Battistelli at 7:30 PM.

FRIDAY | 28 Back to the Future

The Cool Films Series at Victoria Theatre Victoria Theatre, 126 N. Main St., Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-3630 | www.victoriatheatre. com/series/films/

Perhaps one of the most popular films of the ‘80s, Michael J. Fox stars as a high school kid who is accidentally sent 30 years into the past via a time-traveling DeLorean. Now celebrating its 20th anniversary!

The Lebanese Festival St Ignatius of Antioch Maronite Catholic Church, 5915 Springboro Pike, Dayton, OH 45449 | www.thelebanesefestival.com/

The festival will feature Middle Eastern dancing and entertainment, cultural displays, crafts booths and amusement rides for all ages. Authentic hand-made Lebanese foods will be available for sale

including kibbee, kafta, beef and chicken shawarma, tabouli and salata salads, stuffed grape leaves, homemade bread, hummus and fresh pastries.

SATURDAY | 29 Back to the Future

The festival will feature Middle Eastern dancing and entertainment, cultural displays, crafts booths and amusement rides for all ages. Authentic hand-made Lebanese foods will be available for sale including kibbee, kafta, beef and chicken shawarma, tabouli and salata salads, stuffed grape leaves, homemade bread, hummus and fresh pastries.

The Cool Films Series at Victoria Theatre Victoria Theatre, 126 N. Main St., Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-3630 | www.victoriatheatre. com/series/films/

The Lebanese Festival St Ignatius of Antioch Maronite Catholic Church, 5915 Springboro Pike, Dayton, OH 45449 | www.thelebanesefestival.com/

SUNDAY | 30 The Cheetah Run

Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden, 3400 Vine St., Cincinnati, OH 45220 | (513) 2814700 | http://cincinnatizoo.org/events/ cheetah-run/ Guests of all ages can join the fun during the 3.1 mile run and walk through the beautiful Cincinnati Zoo. The course will feature the Zoo’s unique gardens and exotic animal exhibits, providing scenery unlike any other venue in town.

ongoingevents Peanuts… Naturally (May 30- August 30) Centerville Public Library, 111 W. Spring Valley Rd., Centerville, OH 45458 | (937) 610-4429 | www.wclibrary.evanced.info/signup/EventDetails.aspx?EventId=6906&lib=

Peanuts ... Naturally is here! This traveling exhibit takes a light-hearted look at Charles Schulz’s exploration of the natural world through Peanuts comic strips objects, and interactive stations. Exhibit pieces are located throughout the Woodbourne and Centerville Libraries. Join us all summer long for Peanuts-related activities and events, too!

Pony Rides at Carriage Hill (Saturdays through October 31) Carriage Hill Farm & MetroPark, 7800 E. Shull Road, Huber Heights, OH 45424 | www.metroparks.org/Parks/CarriageHill/ Home.aspx

Hand-led pony rides, for youngsters ages 2-8, are offered on Saturdays only beginning June 6 through October 31, 2015 from 12 - 3 pm. Reservations are not required. Fee is $5 per child per ride.

Ohio State Fair (Daily, July 29 – August 9) Ohio Expo Center, 717 E. 17th Ave. Columbus, OH 43211 | 888-646-3976 | http://ohiostatefair. com/

Concerts, livestock competitions, games, a fine arts exhibition, entertainment, food and more -- plus 30 different types of food on a stick ranging from Fair favorites like corn dogs, candied apples and cotton candy to more adventurous options like chocolate-dipped cheesecake, deep-fried manicotti and chicken and waffles!

Disney’s The Little Mermaid (Shows run Wednesdays – Sundays, July 8 – August 30) La Comedia Dinner Theatre, 765 W. Central Ave., Springboro, OH 45066 | 800-677-9505 | www.lacomedia.com/playbill/

The Little Mermaid is a classic Disney favorite designed for all ages. This production is sure to thrill in every way as it features beautiful sets, dazzling costumes and the classic soundtrack from the movie.

Preble County Fair (Daily, August 1 – 8) Preble County Fairgrounds, 722 South Franklin Street, Eaton, OH 45320 | www.preblecountyfair.org/

Come for camping, county idol, demolition derby, tractor pull, ATV drag, rodeo, tug-a-truck, lawn mower derby and more!

Cowvin’s Corny Maze

Street, Greenville, OH 45331 | 937-548-5044 | darkecountyfair.com/

(Open daily August 1 – October 31, weather permitting)

The Great Darke County Fair begins each year on the third Friday of August. Join us for live entertainment, food, rides, harness racing, animal shows, tractor pulls and much more. Hunter Hayes will perform Aug 23 at 8pm!

Young’s Jersey Dairy, 6880 Springfield-Xenia Rd., Yellow Springs, OH 45387 | (937) 3250629 | www.youngsdairy.com/cowvins-cornymaze/

Cowvin, the baby of the Cow Family, has created a family fun maze at Young’s Jersey Dairy. The maze is created from over 150,000 square feet (more than 3+ acres) of cornfield and has over one mile of paths. The maze opens 11am everyday starting the first weekend in August (weather dependent). We close around 6pm to give the last group at least an hour before it starts getting dark to find their way out. The price is $5.50 a person age 5 and older. Age 4 and under are free.

Greene County Fair

(August 21 - 23 and August 28 30) LM&M Railroad, 127 S. Mechanic St., Lebanon, OH 45036 | 513-933-8022 | www.ticketweb. com/snl/VenueListings.action?venueId=15011& pl=thomas15&REFID=lmmrweb

Celebrate your friendship with Thomas! Take a ride with Thomas, meet Sir Topham Hat, have fun in the Imagination Station, see authentic engines and enjoy tons of other activities! Train rides last approximately 25 minutes.

(Daily, August 2 – 8) Greene County Fairgrounds, 120 Fairground Road, Xenia, OH 45385 | www.greenecountyfairgrounds.com/

Join us for rides, kiddie/calf scramble, tug-a-truck, harness racing, demolition derby, truck/tractor pull, karaoke, corn hole, live entertainment and much more!

The Great Darke County Fair (Daily, August 21 - 29) Darke County Fairgrounds, 800 Sweitzer

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