June 2013 Cincinnati Parent

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parental UNCONTROL Who’s really competing in kids’ sports?

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contents features 16 | CINCY’S SUMMER OUTDOOR DESTINATIONS Tap into the sensory experience of summer!

18 | FAMILY CAMP DAYCATION A great outdoors getaway for families in the Jewish community

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commentary + parenting 14 | MOMMY MAGIC Kindness counts

27 | TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD Screen saver

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32 | WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL Avoiding summer learning loss

20 | SUMMER SAFETY Staying out of the ER

22 | PARENTAL UNCONTROL Who’s really competing in kids’ sports?

24 | SINGLE DADS

33 | KIDS AND CASH What’s your economic and financial literacy? (part 1)

36 | ASK THE TEACHER End of school blues, summer school, writing proficiency and retaining skills over break

Working through the difficulties of solo parenting

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around town 26 | TWO-MOM FAMILIES Raising children in a nontraditional setting poses unique challenges

28 | GET THE MOST OUT OF CAMP Before and after camp strategies

19 | THE BEACH IS CALLING! Sun, sand and surf await at Mason’s newly renovated waterpark attraction

resources 29 | CAMP GUIDE

in every issue 08 | PUBLISHER'S NOTE 10 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT 12 | ONLINE BUZZ 6 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

34 | education/childcare GUIDE 42 | MARKETPLACE

26 calendars 38 | JUNE EVENTS 41 | ONGOING EVENTS 43 | FUN + WACKY

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PARENT PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox | publisher@cincinnatiparent.com SALES MANAGER & CREATIVE DIRECTOR Katie Pfierman | katie@cincinnatiparent.com EDITOR Susan Bryant | susan@cincinnatiparent.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Jennifer Baum | jennifer@cincinnatiparent.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Melissa Wittenbaum | melissa@cincinnatiparent.com BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@cincinnatiparent.com

Here Comes the Sun!

EVENTS COORDINATOR & PUBLIC RELATIONS Wendy Cox | wendy@cincinnatiparent.com

It’s here! We made it through a freezing winter and a drenching spring to finally arrive at a sunfilled summer. You can almost hear our collective sigh of relief.

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Wendy Schrepferman | s.wendy@cincinnatiparent.com

Summer in Cincinnati is shaping up to be full of fun and exciting things to do. As always, our monthly Calendar of Events details all the must-do activities in our area. There is absolutely no reason the words “I’m bored” ever have to be uttered by your kids! Also, check out Cincy’s Summer Outdoor Destinations for great local events to take full advantage of everything this season has to offer.

INTERN Maria Tancredi | maria@cincinnatiparent.com

Of course the quickest way to derail a perfect summer day is to end up in the emergency room with an accident or injury that could have been prevented. Summer Safety reminds us all about the easy precautions to take to ensure a fun and safe summer.

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Mary Wynne Cox, Sarah McCosham, Abby Hayes, Trisha Shepherd, Michelle Shirk, Mary Susan Buhner, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Dr. Julia Heath of The University of Cincinnati, Dawn Grady of Cincinnati Public Schools, The American Camp Association

Many kids will be playing in their favorite sports this season with moms and dads cheering in the stands. There always seems to be one parent who gets more “impassioned” than is appropriate however, and in Parental Uncontrol we explore why winning becomes more important to some parents than it is to their children.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar@cincinnatiparent.com

Summertime is family time and in this issue we profile Single Dads and Two-Mom Families. As we all know, families come in all shapes and sizes and love is really what makes a home. In this issue we touch on some of the unique challenges these parents face.

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As we step into these long, warm days and firefly-lit nights, we wish you and your family a wonderful start to your summer. Be sure to take Cincinnati Parent along for the ride to keep up-to-date with the best info, tips and events of the season!

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a gem just across the river Summer is the perfect time to visit and explore historic MainStrasse Village in Covington, KY. Upcoming special events include the Brass Meets Bronze visual art and jazz music event held June 7th - 9th and the famous MainStrasse Village Goettafest on June 14th. Goetta is a traditional German breakfast creation introduced to the Northern Kentucky area by immigrants. Come sample a wide variety goetta creations and other festival foods! Families are sure to enjoy Goettafest’s rides, games, arts and crafts, and live entertainment. If you can’t make these June events, there is much to enjoy on any given day such as shopping, dining and historic walking tours.

Visit www.mainstrasse.org to learn about the unique offerings of MainStrasse Village.

take him out to the ballgame It’s Dad’s Day at Great American Ballpark on Sunday, June 16th. Our Cincinnati Reds take on the Milwaukee Brewers beginning at 1:10 p.m. Head to the park before the game to experience the rich history of the Reds at the largest team hall of fame in all of baseball – The Cincinnati Reds Hall of Fame. As you head to your seat for the first pitch be sure to pick up a complimentary Father’s Day gym bag for Dad. If you can’t make the Sunday game, consider purchasing a Family Catch package. This fundraising event benefitting the Reds Community Fund takes place on Sunday, July 7th and includes the opportunity for on-field play, Reds vs. Mariners game tickets, post-game field passes and two authentic batting practice balls. For more information contact Elizabeth George at 513-765-7240.

come out and play The 40th Cincinnati Pride events take place June 22nd - 29th this summer! The celebration culminates with a family friendly event on Saturday, June 29th at Sawyer Point. An enhanced Family Fun Zone will delight visitors this year with face painting, bounce houses and a variety of carnival games. The evening will conclude with a magnificent fireworks display.

Be a part of promoting tolerance and diversity in our communities and celebrate 40 years of Pride!

Visit www.CincinnatiPride.org for a listing of all festival events.

a cup of wellness with a dash of excitement Now through September two area Remke Biggs grocers will host a program entitled A Taste of Learning to promote healthy shopping choices, healthful eating, kid friendly recipes and kindergarten readiness. Children’s wellness experts will be on hand with tips and food samples, and kids can get moving with live music and dancing! A Taste of Learning takes place at the Remke Biggs’ Newport store at 82 Carothers Road in Newport, KY on June 8th and at Remke Biggs’ Highland store at 3240 Highland Avenue in Cincinnati on June 9th. This event is tailored to children ages three to five and their parents.

wishful thinking Spread hope, strength and joy to children with lifethreatening medical conditions through the powerful Walk for Wishes fundraising event. Cincinnati is gearing up to host the tenth annual walk where participants can choose from a one or three mile walk followed by a finish line celebration with music, food and fun. On Saturday, June 19th over 900 walkers, sponsors and volunteers will gather at Sawyer Point to raise funds for the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Contact Meredith Reffner at 513-745-9474 or meredithr@makeawishohio.org to get involved!

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Happy Father's Day Walk a little slower daddy, said a child so small.

I’m following in your footsteps and I don’t want to fall.

Sometimes your steps are very fast, Sometimes they’re hard to see, Sometimes they’re a little slower, Daddy, for you are leading me.

Someday when I’m all grown up, You’re what I want to be.

Then I will have a little child Who’ll want to follow me.

And I would want to lead just right, And to know that I was true.

So, walk a little slower, Daddy, For I must follow you.

– Bobbie Norman

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Kindness Counts After other achievements fade, how we treat others matters most Mary Susan Buhner

I was recently invited to a baby shower where the hostess passed out a 4x6 notecard asking all the guests to write down their best piece of advice for the new mother-to-be. As everyone thoughtfully wrote on their card, I sat their stumped. How was I going to put down all the advice I wanted to share with this new mom? Sleep while you can before the baby comes, don’t be too hard on yourself, make sure to take a date night with your husband, don’t feel guilty over every little thing...the list went on and on in my head. I had to pick one because I was never going to fit all fifty ideas racing through my mind. I looked down at my blank card and settled on: Laundry will always be there – hold your baby, love on her and don’t feel guilty about it. That’s it. My 13 years of mothering experience and that was my sound advice. Not my best moment, but in my defense, I had not been to a baby shower in a long time.

Perhaps I was just out of practice with giving concise words of wisdom on a small index card!

The hostess happily collected the cards and handed them to the mom-to-be who was asked to share them aloud. As she shuffled through the cards and read the typical snippits of advice (like mine), all of which I agreed with, there was one that stopped me in my tracks. It even caused me to put down my delightful mini hot pink iced cupcake to reflect on it. The last card she read was from her aunt. She was a teacher and had over 30 years of experience not only teaching, but observing children. The card read: “Don’t worry about your child making all A’s, teach them kindness. I would rather teach a child who is an average student that is kind, than an A student who is not.”

I think I had crumbs falling out of my mouth as she read it. I was stunned by the amazing and truthful words she had read aloud. I had advice envy.

It was perfect and exactly what I needed to hear at my own point of motherhood. I hold kindness as a paramount character trait in our home.

Other parents may value their children excelling in sports, earning straight A’s or “being popular.” This is not the case for me and my husband – we expect kindness. Kindness doesn’t mean being pushed around or being a doormat for others. To us, it means to worry about your own business, not judge others and be kind to those you encounter.

Now it can be argued that kindness doesn’t get you into college. Good grades will – which is true. But there is a balance, and what I heard this seasoned teacher say was that kindness does matter in what type of student your child is now or will be in the future. So consciously teach kindness in your home. Don’t assume it will just happen. Make it a priority to talk about 14 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

this quality and set high expectations for your children to show kindness to others.

Thinking about the subject, I realize I have no clue what kind of grades my doctor, dentist, grocery cashier, bank teller or even my own friends earned in school. I do know, however, if they are kind to me, my family and others.

Indeed, kindness counts.

Join the Mommy Magic’s Fan Page on Facebook and visit www.Mommy-Magic.com to be a part of the mom community that supports and encourages moms in Cincy with helpful tips for motherhood!

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OUTDOOR

DESTINATIONS Tap into the sensory experience of summer!

Michelle Shirk

As the weather grows warmer, the city and its residents seem to truly come alive. This summer, awaken all five of your senses by spending some time enjoying Cincinnati’s many outdoor events and attractions with your family. We’ve got some great picks to get you started!

SEE art in a variety of media at the Trillium Art Fair, June 9th at Glenwood Gardens in Woodlawn. This free, family-friendly fair will offer food and entertainment alongside works of art on display in a natural setting. Exhibitor categories include ceramics/pottery, glass, photography and jewelry. After the fair, you can continue your outdoor adventure with a stroll on one of the park’s trails. Find details at www.hamiltoncountyparks.org.

HEAR the music of talented musicians followed by the patriotic crackle of fireworks at Red, White, and Boom! This 4th of July concert featuring the Cincinnati Pops, May Festival Chorus and Classical Roots Community Mass Choir will take place at the Riverbend Music Center. Prices start at $15.00, with no charge for children 12 and under seated on the lawn. Ticketholders also receive free admission to Coney Island’s classic rides on the day of the event. Purchase tickets at www.cincinnatipops. org.

Need more music? The PNC Summer Music Series provides almost nightly opportunities to enjoy free concerts at Fountain Square. With Tuesdays dedicated to “American Roots,” “Reggae Wednesday” evenings, Thursday “Salsa on the Square” and more, there’s something for every musical taste. View concert calendars at www. myfountainsquare.com.

SMELL the pleasing aroma of flowers in bloom at Hauck Botanical Garden. Visitors can relax and enjoy the sunshine in the park’s outdoor gardens, which include a shade garden, herb garden and award-winning daylily collection. The onsite Civic Garden Center of Greater Cincinnati hosts a variety of inexpensive adult and familyoriented classes. Snag a summer schedule at www.civicgardencenter.org.

TASTE fresh, locally grown foods at the Hyde Park Farmer’s Market. The summer market operates every Sunday from 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., June through October.

Fill your basket with enough with flowers, fruits, vegetables, meats, cheeses, coffee and body products and you may just be able to skip your weekly trip to the grocery store! Whet your appetite at www.hydeparkfarmersmarket.com.

FEEL yourself get liberally doused with rainbow-colored cornstarch as you run or walk your way through The Color Run™ CINCINNATI on August 24th. Participants will start this non-timed 5K in white shirts and end it in multicolored ones. The fun continues with “color throws” at the finish line. Adults and children of all ages are welcome, with those five and under receiving their color coating for free. Sign your family up at www.thecolorrun.com/cincinnati.

These fun-filled summer activities will encourage your family to exercise all five senses while creating wonderful memories. Start planning your outdoor adventures today!

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FAMILY CAMP

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A great outdoors getaway for families in the Jewish community

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ant the kids to take a vacation from those video games… a rest from the remote control… an escape from all those electronics? Now’s the perfect time gather up the family and go on a Great Outdoor Getaway for the day when Shalom Family takes over Camp Livingston, featuring 600 acres of fresh air and fun, including a lakefront aqua park, a giant waterslide, climbing wall, zip line, canoes, kayaks, arts & crafts, sports and more, on Sunday, June 9 advanced RSVP, and open to families in with children 12 and under in which at least one parent is Jewish. Older siblings and grandparents are always welcome.

Camp Livingston is located in Bennington, Indiana, just an hour and 45 minutes from Cincinnati. Those families who don’t want to drive can hop aboard the Shalom Family Shuttle Bus which will not only provide free and convenient transportation to and from camp, but will also include magicians, song sessions, snacks and more to keep both kids and parents entertained on both legs of the trip!

The shuttle will depart from the Mayerson JCC in Amberley Village at 10am, and will depart from camp at 4pm. Goodie bags will also be given to all young passengers, courtesy of the JCC’s PJ Library program.

The camp is easy to get to and has plenty of parking for those who prefer to drive to camp on their own.

“Whether you went to camp as a kid, or have never stepped foot in a cabin, much less a canoe, this event is for families looking for a fun new way to enjoy an ‘old school’ day in the great outdoors!” explains Julie Robenson, Shalom Family Event Coordinator. “Thanks to the generosity of Camp Livingston, the entire 600 acre facility will be ours for the day. We are excited to be able to offer amazing amenities such as these to our families for free that would easily cost hundreds of dollars a day anywhere else,” she adds. “Plus, what could be a better way for kids to get their first taste of overnight camp without having to stay overnight?”

“I think I was the first person to RSVP as soon as I heard about this event!” says Shira Frank. “I went to Camp Livingston as a kid and credit it with giving me some of my happiest childhood memories. I can’t wait to go back with my own family so they can experience it for themselves!”

To RSVP for Family Camp Daycation, or to learn more about Shalom Family and all the programs it offers throughout the year please contact Julie at www. myshalomfamily.org or Julie@myshalomfamily.org.

Shalom Family is an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation and puts on some of the biggest events for young families in the Jewish community throughout the year.

Events are always FREE and have included Israel’s 65 Bash, Once Upon a Purim Party, Dream Job-ARama Kids’ Career Fair, the Potato Pancake Arty Party, Circus Sundae, Superhero Hanukkah, the Pirate and Princess Party, Galaxy Glo-Glo and more!

In addition to hosting events at some of the most familyfriendly venues in town, Shalom Family offers Sensory Sunday: Stories, Songs and Fun for You and Your Little One -- private interactive playgroups, offered twice a month at the Gymboree in Mason. Shalom Family also offers Shalom Baby Starter Kits, a series of free gifts, sent three times throughout the year right to the recipient’s front door.

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The Beach is Calling!

Sun, sand and surf await at Mason’s newly renovated waterpark attraction

If sinking your toes into a white sandy beach while enjoying the sway of a summer breeze through palm trees sounds like your idea of a tropical paradise, you’ll be happy to learn that this experience is closer than you might think. Just in time for summer, The Beach Waterpark has reopened under new management – offering Cincinnati families a season full of ocean-inspired fun.

Crashing waves, waterfalls and 2,600 tons of sand set the stage for this unique tropical park. With over $5 million spent on renovations, features include new thrill rides, a heated wave pool, 40+ slides, a 600 gallon dumping bucket and multiple entertainment attractions.

your receipts, old passes or vouchers for a new 2013 season pass.

So grab your suit and flip flops –a day at the beach is hard to beat!

The Beach is located off of I-71 at exit 25-A, 20 minutes north of downtown Cincinnati and 20 minutes south of downtown Dayton. To learn more, visit www.thebeachwaterpark.com.

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Amusement park fun throughout the state!

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SAFETY

Staying out of the ER

hile summer brings plenty of opportunities for fun, unfortunately the possibility of serious injury or illness comes with it. Don’t let a trip to the emergency room derail your summer plans! Below, local experts provide tips to help keep your family safe this season.

Splash Safely Children in a pool should always have adult supervision, says Kenneth Patton, D.O., ER Physician at Good Samaritan and Bethesda North. Even at a public pool where lifeguards are there to help, “the end responsibility is the parents’,” says Dr. Patton. Parents should also enforce rules prohibiting diving, running and horseplay on the pool deck. Dr. Patton says parents can make the pool area safer by keeping potential obstructions away from the deck and having safety devices, such as a hook and ring, around the pool.

Those with pools at their homes must also take precautions to secure the pool when not in use. “Kids gravitate to pools,” says Mike Gittelman, MD, ER Physician at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital and Co-Director of the Comprehensive Children’s Injury Center. Dr. Gittelman stresses the importance of four-sided fencing around pools and other bodies of water. Portable pools should be dumped out and turned upside down at the end of each day.

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training wheels. Dr. Gittelman recommends parents choose a helmet intended specifically for biking and labeled as meeting the Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) safety standard. A bike shop can help ensure a proper fit.

Dr. Patton says parents need to teach young riders the rules of the road before letting them ride independently. For nighttime riding, bikers can make themselves more visible by using reflectors or lights and choosing brightly colored clothes and helmets.

Sun safely When children engage in sports and outdoor play, parents should guard against the “three H’s” of heat stress – heat cramps, heat exhaustion and heat stroke – by encouraging proper hydration. “You have to drink a lot of water because you’re losing a lot,” says Dr. Gittelman. Other helpful measures include wearing a single layer of light-colored, lightweight, absorbent clothing and changing sweatdrenched clothing.

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To protect against sunburn, Dr. Gittleman recommends the use of SPF 30 sunscreen, reapplied through the day. The American Academy Pediatrics (AAP) advises parents to look for “broad-spectrum” sunscreen, which blocks both UVA and UVB rays. Parents should limit their children’s midday sun exposure since the sun is highest and most intense at that time, says Dr. Patton.

“Parents and children should be wearing helmets when riding their bikes – whether it’s in their cul-de-sac, on the bike path or just on the side of the road,” says Dr. Patton. This rule applies even to beginning riders using tricycles or

Browse the AAP’s parent-friendly website www.healthychildren.org for more safety tips. Then have a safe, fun and happy summer season!

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another … because a family member had just been diagnosed with cancer.” It’s natural to bring your own issues to a game, says Splitt, but you need to check these issues at the door.

Crossing the line

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veryone’s seen it: emotions boiling over during a basketball game, shouting matches on the soccer sidelines or perhaps a ball or even a fist thrown during a fit of rage. And sometimes kids can misbehave, too.

Sadly, it’s the parents who can become the most impassioned during a game – and turn a fun match into something ugly. There’s a fine line between being your kid’s biggest cheerleader, and becoming “that” parent who is pushing too hard, yelling too loud and going too far. How can you keep your emotions in check and set the best example for your young athlete?

Why parents act out Dr. William Hansen, a Psychologist in Behavioral Medicine and Clinical Psychology at the University of Cincinnati College of Medicine, says that parents may have to look at their own motivation for having their kids compete in sports. “Are they living through their children on the field? Do they harbor hopes that someday their child will be a professional athlete? Are they fueling or fostering their child’s hopes of a potential professional career, and if so, does this get transmitted in their behavior?”

In truth, parents invest a lot of time, energy and resources in their child’s sports, which can make them think they have a “right” to push their kids. Hansen says parents should set realistic expectations for themselves and their children. Few kids will make it to the professional level – what’s most important are the positive lessons that can be learned by playing sports.

External factors can also play a role in how parents respond on a given day. Are they stressed about work? Did they have a bad day at home with the kids? These stressors, combined with the naturally competitive setting of a game, can create a situation where parents act out. Paul Splitt, a Physical Education teacher at St. Bernadette Catholic Elementary School with over ten years’ coaching experience, says he’s seen “a calm parent lash out at 22 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

The tone and volume of a parent’s voice during a game can be the first clue that a problem is escalating. Gary Tameris, Physical Education Teacher and Aquatics Director at Milford High School, says that when a parent is drawing attention away from the kids, it’s a sign things have gotten out of control. As a swim coach, Tameris has seen parents “run up and down the pool yelling their head off for their child to win their races, and moms on their knees at the end of the lane yelling like crazy for their child. These parents were out of control.”

Often other parents will observe this distraction and the coaches will get involved. If you witness this type of behavior from a parent, a gentle comment such as “Hey, the kids are playing better today,” or “Your son’s defense is looking good” may be enough to bring that parent’s focus back on the right track.

However, Splitt adds that there aren’t always warning signs, and the mood during a game can change almost instantly. “Parents can go from calm to furious in a heartbeat. It sucks all the good out of the air, and fills it with negativity.”

Splitt says such moments can demoralize a child and their team, so it’s crucial parents remain calm and in control.

Healthy Competition Splitt recommends that parents remember why their kids are participating in sports in the first place. “Sports are a means to teach kids life skills, work hard at something, set forth goals and ultimately find where their line is – and push themselves past that line.”

Let your child’s coach be the one to critique a backstroke or layup. “It is the coach’s responsibility to run the show,” says Tameris.

“Parents should do nothing but encourage their child to keep trying to perform to the best of their ability.”

It helps to remember that as a parent, you are your child’s life coach. As Dr. Hansen says, it’s a parent’s job to model appropriate behaviors and attitudes – which means learning how to win with distinction and lose with grace.

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DADS Abby Hayes

Working through the difficulties of solo parenting

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The 2011 U. S. Census counted 1.7 million single fathers in America. Despite that high number, only 15% of single custodial parents are dads. Parenting in general has its daily ups and downs, and men who are recently single and caring for kids often face additional challenges adjusting to their new situation.

De’Niel’s Story De’Niel Phipps found out that he was going to be a father just before his high school graduation. “Not only did I have a child at eighteen,” says De’Niel, “but where I’m from in Saginaw [Michigan], it’s not the greatest place in the world to grow up.”

Fortunately, in spite of being a very young father, De’Niel was able to continue his professional pursuits over the years. After settling into a Cincinnati-based job at Miami University, De’Niel filed for sole custody of his daughter. “I was in a good place and it was a good opportunity to give my daughter a situation that was better for her as well,” says De’Niel.

After two years of court hearings and negotiations, De’Niel was granted primary custody of his now 13-year-old. Being a single father to a daughter hasn’t been easy for him. “You have to learn how to do the hair and sit at the beauty shop,” he says. “[And] there’s things that she feels I would never relate to.” On the whole however, De’Niel feels he has a healthy relationship with his daughter, who still sees her mom and extended family on a regular basis.

RESOURCES FOR SINGLE DADS Parents Without Partners This nationwide group for single parents has several Ohio chapters, including one in Cincinnati. Learn more at www. parentswithoutpartners.org.

Advice from the trenches

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De’Niel’s most important advice for single parents is to become involved with their community. “When you’re a single parent,” he says, “the more you build relationships with [your kids’] friends’ parents and the more you build a relationship with your neighbors and your church, the better off you’ll be when things come up.” Since his job requires frequent travel, De’Niel sometimes relies on friends to help with after school and even overnight care.

An online community of dads share their knowledge and experience on better parenting practices, dating, fitness, recipes and more. Visit www.singledad.com.

Recent studies cited on www.fatherhood.gov show that involved fathers – custodial or not – raise healthier, happier and better-educated kids. De’Niel says that showing a “willingness to help” with things that are important to your kids – whether that’s career exploration or picking out Easter dresses – helps you stay involved, especially with teenagers.

De’Niel also tells dads, “Don’t be [your kids’] friend. Be their parent.” According to the National Association of School Psychologist’s guide to parenting children through divorce, keeping consistent rules when co-parenting is essential to a child’s long-term well-being.

GreatDad.com “Because Dads don’t always think like Moms” says this site. Click on www.greatdad.com for a wealth of resources devoted to being a father.

Finding a balance between understanding, involvement and appropriate boundaries can be particularly tough for dads without a partner to balance them out say De’Niel. He tells struggling single dads, “Just stick in there. You don’t have to have all the answers. Just tell [your kids] you love them.”

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two-mom families

Raising children in a nontraditional setting poses unique challenges Trisha Shepherd

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When Shannon Gantzer and her partner Lynn Lampe take their kids out to dinner, they are almost always asked a question other families don’t receive: would they like one check or two? On a daily basis, the Montgomery couple doesn’t face major, hurtful incidents – just lots of subtle reminders that families like theirs with two moms are viewed as “different.”

While they’re a growing segment of the population, families with two moms are still relatively rare. The 2010 U.S. Census shows that same-sex couples account for about 1% of the nation’s households that include couples. Ohio had 28,602 same-sex partner households according to the 2010 Census – a 50% jump from the number reported in 2000. Of those couples, 64% were women, and 22% of Ohio’s gay and lesbian couples reported raising children.

Facing Challenges Shannon and Lynn have been together 14 years. They have three sons from previous marriages, plus a 7-year-old daughter to whom Shannon gave birth using a sperm bank. Lynn is an attorney; Shannon works for the law practice and has the flexible hours needed to manage their kids after school. For the most part, they find their community accepting of their “two-mom” family, and they say their children handle their unique family structure with strength and pride.

“The few little blips we’ve had have really been ignorance based,” explains Shannon. One of those “blips” involved one of their son’s friends who stopped visiting because of religious beliefs. “Everybody’s entitled to their own path in life and what their beliefs are,” says Shannon. “We teach our boys if there’s somebody who discriminates against us for who we are, then we don’t want them in our world anyway.

Those aren’t people we invite in.”

Michele O’Mara, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical social worker who specializes in counseling lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender clients.

As a lesbian mom herself, she has advice for same-sex parents on helping their children handle hurtful comments: “My sons were taught early that ‘all families are different.’ We armed them with this phrase before they entered school and it has been a handy response on more than a few occasions.”

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to same-sex couples, from schools, to pediatricians to coaches. O’Mara confronted this challenge when she considered a highly respected preschool for her twin sons. “I vetted the school for their sensitivity to our two-mom family because of its Christian affiliation. The answer I got was, ‘Our program is not well suited for families like yours.’”

But businesses, schools or individuals who want to show a more welcoming face to two-mom or two-dad families have plenty of resources in the greater Cincinnati community, such as local chapters of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Rainbow Families/Lesbian Moms and Allies, and GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network). GLSEN of Greater Cincinnati board member Kathy Laufman says she encourages schools to take advantage of the diversity training they offer. “I wish we had more opportunities to help teachers become more comfortable with this, and find ways to create environments where the fact that a student has two moms or two dads is to be celebrated rather than ‘coped with,’” says Laufman.

Parents are parents As Shannon heads to the bus stop to pick up their daughter, she confesses there is one thing she wishes others in her community would understand: “We’re just an American family like anybody else. We really do just identify as parents. Love is love, and a healthy family is a healthy family.”

And, there’s something else these moms do that every mom can relate to: They love their kids. They want them to be happy, accepted and cherished.

[ pete gilbert...stay-at-home dad ]

commentary and parenting

Screen Saver True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert It started. My son’s favorite activities include computer time, playing the Wii and navigating his way through an iPod touch.

Staring at screens.

If we let him, he would bounce back and forth, from screen to screen, all day long.

We started a list of things he needs to do before he’s allowed screen time. It’s great incentive to get our extrinsically motivated three-year-old boy to get dressed, pick up his dirty clothes, clean up his room and park his Hot Wheels.

The good part about this is, I don’t mind if he’s doing any of these “screen time” activities. In fact, I think it’s really good for him. We spend plenty of time together forming intricate wooden train tracks, ramping Hot Wheels over assorted baby doll parts, serving up five-course meals made of Play-Doh and building entire towns in the sandbox. Honestly, there are times during the day when I want or need to be detached from him. When I want to move over a

load of laundry or when I’m trying to get dinner started, it’s much easier to do this without him in the background telling me how bored he is. I’m already trying to do these things while keeping his little sister from dumping flour on the floor, squeezing a loaf of bread with all her might, swimming in the toilet and walking up and down the stairs with a blanket covering her face.

The games he plays on the PBS website are really cool. I think he may even accidentally learn something from these games too. He’s always doing different counting and spelling activities that are disguised as games. There are so many interesting apps on the iPod. Some of them have helped him form letters, and others (that we will soon be checking out) teach kids how to read.

I say embrace technology. Bring on the screen time!

Happy Parenting! www.facebook.com/petetheblogger

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GET the MOST Out of

Your child’s summer camp experience will be one he or she remembers forever – and one that will help to develop the social, emotional and cognitive skills for success in school and beyond. To get the most out of your child’s experience this summer at camp, send them off with the right attitude and confidence; and when they come home, reinforce those newfound skills and positive outlooks. Here are a few tips for maximizing the benefits of camp.

BEFORE CAMP Share the prep work Camp decisions, like which camp to attend and what to pack, should be made together. When children feel that they are part of the decision-making process, they are more comfortable – a key to a successful summer camp experience.

Talk, talk, talk It is only natural that as the first day of camp approaches, some children may experience uneasiness about going away. Encourage your child to talk about these feelings. Parents should let their child know that they are confident in the child's ability to handle being away from home. Remind the child of other times they have been away from home successfully – sleepovers with friends or family, etc. The expression of confidence is the first ingredient to resilience.

AFTER CAMP Remember to remind When campers come home, they often keep the spirit of camp alive for a week or two, and then things trail off as new experiences reenter their schedules. However, many of the attributes from camp will help your child as they go forward. Use positive reinforcement to remind campers that you appreciate the positive attitude and willingness to help that they developed at camp. Help them name and claim those new skills.

Become camp-like Families can set the example by demonstrating a willingness to change something at home in order to sustain some of the changes campers have made. Perhaps your camper used a job wheel in his or her camp group to outline chores. Why not make one for your home? Camp activities can easily transfer and add value to your home “camp.”

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CAMP Before and after camp strategies The American Camp Association

Everyone gets a say At camp, children help determine how their day is spent. Camp is designed to promote independence and interdependence as an individual and community.

Campers’ advice is actively sought, and their contributions are valued. Emulating this environment at home allows them to continue to make self-disciplined choices and feel like a contributing member of the household.

Avoid the negative compliment Reinforce any new, positive behaviors with positive language. Instead of saying, "you never did this before," say something such as, "I noticed how patient you were with your little brother."

About ACA The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote, and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-accredited camps that meet up to 280 health and safety standards. For more information, visit www.ACAcamps.org.

summer camp RESIDENTIAL CAMPS Culver Summer Schools & Camps 1300 Academy Road #138, Culver, IN 46511, Contact: Anthony Mayfield, Phone: 800-221-2020, Email: summer@culver.org

www.culver.org/summer Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Traditional Specific Categories: Coeducational resident Dates: June 21 to August 3, 2013 Ages/Grades: Ages 9 to 16 Cost: $5,600 Requirements of Campers: Teacher recommendations Activities Included: Sailing, Aviation, Horseback riding, tennis, golf, swimming, water skiing, SCUBA, theater, band, voice, fencing, baskteball, track, badminton, review academics in Math and English

YMCA Camp Ernst of Cincinnati

Basic Category: Sports Hours: 9:00 AM to 11:00 Am or 12:00 AM Dates: June 3-7 June 10-14 June 17- 21 June 24-28, July 1-5, (closed the 4th) july 8-12, July 15-19 Ages/Grades: 3-6 years 7-12 years old Cost: $142 weekly $150 weekly discounts for taking all sessions Requirements of Campers: No previous martial arts experience needed Activities Included: Bully prevention, Listening skills, building self-confidence, motor skill, building leadership skills, positive motivation martial arts skills Real Kung fu techniques. Tien Shan Pai & Northern Shaolin Kung fu taught by certified Kung Fu instructors. Building life skills, only school in Cincinnati that is member of United State Kuo Shu (Kung Fu) Federation. 2 World Certified Judges,11 members made the United States Kung Fu Team 2000-2009. It’s something you always wanted to do.

Camp•a•Palooza

7615 Camp Ernst Rd, Burlington, KY 41005, Contact: Eli Cochran Program Director, Phone: 859-586-6181, Fax: 859-586-6214, Email: ce@myYcamp.org

7900 E Kemper Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Joanie Weghorst, Preschool Camp; Drew Ross, K-7th Grade Camp, Phone: (513) 489-7575, Email: info@ theCampusKF.com

www.myYcamp.org

www.kidsfirstsports.com

Gender of Campers: Coed Dates: One week sessions June 9-Aug 4; Also offer 24 hour overnights as well as a Half-Week session Ages/Grades: Ages 6-15 Cost: $505-690 Requirements of Campers: Registration is required.

A co-ed residential summer camp, YMCA Camp Ernst is your child’s ultimate summer destination!

Steeped in tradition and built on positive values, YMCA Camp Ernst hosts campers, ages 6-15, who enjoy top-notch counselors and make friends doing a wide variety of activities including a 100-foot water slide, zipline, the BLOB, archery, horseback riding, giant swing, and a banana boat. While participating in our 24 daily activities, your child will also develop in spirit, mind, and body. Come see why people are calling us “The Best Camp On Earth”!

DAY CAMPS Academy Kung Fu Tai Chi 4927 Glenway Ave., Cincinnati, OH 45238, Phone: 513-481-4406, Email: academyofkungfutaichi@gmail.com

Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Adventure/Tripping, Sports Hours: Preschool: 8:30-12:30; K-7th Grade: 9:004:00 Dates: June 3rd - August 16th Ages/Grades: Preschool (half day) thru 7th Grade Cost: Varies Requirements of Campers: Vaccination Records; Preschoolers must be potty trained Activities Included: Gymnastics, Swimming, Basketball, Slip-n-slide, Karate, Arts and Crafts, Putt Putt and MORE! With 108,000 square feet of children’s sports activities under one roof, Kids First is the area’s premier destination for summer camp! Camp-aPalooza offers a full day summer camp for K-7th graders and the brand new early learning center, The Campus at Kids First, offers a preschool camp for 3-5 year olds. There truly is NO summer camp like it!

Chris Mack Basketball Camps

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1624 Herald Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45207, Contact: Jody Geisen, Phone: 513-745-3417, Email: geisenjc@ xavier.edu

Gender of Campers: Coed

www.goxavier.com/camps/xavi-camps.html

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GUIDE

CHRIS MACK DAY CAMPS - Boys Cost: $225.00 Daily 9:00-4:30 June 10-13 Entering grades 2-9 June 17-20 Entering grades 2-9 June 24-27 Entering grades 2-9 July 8-11 Entering grades 2-7 CHRIS MACK LITTLE DRIBBLERS CAMPS – Boys and Girls Ages 4-7 Cost: $60.00 each session or $205 for all 4 sessions 9:00-12:00 June 14, June 21, June 28, July 12

Cincinnati Art Museum ARTventures Classes 953 Eden Park Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45202, Phone: 513-721-ARTS, Email: liz.gardner@cincyart.org

cincinnatiartmuseum.org Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Arts Dates: June 18-August 15 on Tuesdays and Thursdays Ages/Grades: Ages 5-8 and 9-12 Cost: $10/session- members $20/sessionnonmembers, series pricing also available Delve into art this summer at the Cincinnati Art Museum. Each class is packed with exciting art projects, gallery experiences, and more. Children will discover all aspects of art looking and art making through various themes, games, and more.

Cincinnati Parks’ Summer Nature Day Camps Day Camps are located at Ault Park, Burnet Woods, French Park, S, Cincinnati, OH 45216, Contact: Dianne Wente, Phone: 513-321-6208 ext 11, Email: Dianne.wente@cincinnati-oh.gov

www.cincinnatiparks.com Gender of Campers: Coed Ages/Grades: ages 3 to 14 Cost: Fees range from $40 - $75 per camp and discounts are available for multiple camp registrations.

Activities Included: Beyond our themed camps with special activities, all camps include trail hikes, arts and crafts, outdoor games, interactions with live animals, and many more fun, hands-on activities!

Many of our camps are filling quickly…so reserve your spot now! Our summer camps were voted “Best of the City” in 2012 by you and Cincinnati Magazine for the best value in educational, fun-filled outdoor activities…and economical too!

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Hikes, crafts and games are part of the daily schedule. The most popular “Nature Camps in the Parks� camp serves ages 5-12 every week and their preschool siblings can attend Discovery Mornings at the same park during the same week!

Trailside and LaBoiteaux Woods Nature Centers provide some of the best specialized camps such as Astronomy, Parade! And Wild Art. Camp activities are new for your child each year! Register online at: https://parks.cincyregister.com/ summercamp2013.

instruction. Bring a buddy and save $25. Maybe the best baseball camp in America. Camps sold out last year so register early.

Beechwood HS in Ft. Mitchell, KY; Summit Country Day in Cincinnati, Mason HS in Mason, Centerville HS in Centerville, Contact: Tim Rappe, Executive Director, Phone: 855-846-7337, Email: trappe@reds.com

www.reds.com/camps Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Sports Hours: 9a-3p, M-F Dates: Beechwood HS: 6/3-6/7 Summit Country Day: 6/10-6/14 Mason HS: 7/1-7/5 Centerville HS: 7/29-8/2 Ages/Grades: Ages 6-14 Cost: $395 Activities Included: VIP trip to Great American Ballpark, full Reds uniform, 4 game tickets Official Camps of the Reds. 30 hrs. of World Class baseball/softball training and unforgettable Reds experience. Meet a top player at GABP. 30 hrs. of

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8255 Spooky Hollow Road, Cincinnati, OH 45424, Contact: Andy DeLay, Education Director, Phone: 513-891-4227, Email: camps@green-acres.org

www.green-acres.org

Gorman Heritage Farm - Farm Camp 10052 Reading Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45241, Contact: Jamie Stoneham, Camp Director, Phone: (513)563-6663, Fax: (513)563-6659, Email: camp@gormanfarm.org

www.GormanFarm.org

Cincinnati Reds Baseball/Softball Camps

Greenacres Summer Camps

Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Animals Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (Everyday and Specialty camps) Financial Aid Offered: Financial aid is available Hours: Most camps run 9:30-2:30 Half-day options and extended camp options available.

Dates: Camp offered June 3 through August 16 Ages/Grades: Camps for children ages 4-15 Cost: $60-$230/week Activities Included: ALL FARM CAMPERS WILL: feed and groom animals, cook with food grown or raised on the farm, take a hay ride hike to our lookout for lunch and games, make creative crafts engage in age appropriate activities.Theme Camps available.

Be a farm kid! Camp activities include: interacting with barnyard animals, exploring the woods, garden fun, games, hiking, crafts, music and more. Special themed camps for wilderness, art, cooking, vet & science. Camp sessions scheduled by age group; please see our website for full brochure. Thyme for Farming Fun!

Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Traditional Hours/Dates/Cost: Varies by camp Ages/Grades: Varies by camp Requirements of Campers: Open to everyone Greenacres Summer Camps offer something for everyone! We have art, environment, equine, garden, culinary, and aquatic adventure camps various times throughout the summer season.

Each of our camps are hands-on, small group camps led by a caring professional staff. Log onto www.green-acres.org today to view our 2013 Summer Camp Guide. We look forward to seeing you this summer!

West Ohio Conference of The United Methodist Church 3 Locations: Camp Otterbein, 15779 Cox Rd Logan, OH 43138; Camp Wesley, 653 Twp. Rd. 37 E., Bellefontaine, OH 43311; Camp Widewater, 4050 County Rd. 424, Liberty Center, OH 43532 Contact: Rebecca King, Administrative Coordinator, Phone: 614-781-2630, Email: camps@wocumc.org

www.westohiocamps.org Gender of Campers: Coed

Type of Camp: Day AND Residential Basic Category: Arts, Special Needs, Sports, Traditional Dates: Summer Camp runs June 9-August 4; Camps are open year-round for retreats Ages/Grades: Ages 7-18 Ages/Grades: Ages 7-18 Cost: Cost varies, please look online or call for more information. Financial aid is available up to $100 per camper with financial need.

For over 50 years West Ohio United Methodist Camps have served all people for Christian birth, growth, and renewal. We operate at three unique locations, each of which is ACA Accredited and offers age and developmentally appropriate activities and faith-forming programs. In addition to traditional, co-ed resident camp we also offer family camps and fully-accessible buddy camps for those with varying abilities.

YMCA of Greater Cincinnati Summer Day Camps 2013 12 locations throughout the Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky, Phone: 513-362-YMCA Gender of Campers: Coed Specific Categories: Themed Day Camps, Pre-school Camps, Teen Camps, Counselor-in-Training programs, Specialty Camps, Sports Camps Ages/Grades: Ages 3-15 Date/ Cost: Dates vary depending on each camp. Pricing Information is available on our website.

www.MyY.org

At the YMCA, we make learning fun while giving youth the opportunity to engage in creative problem solving and team building. This summer, in addition to all the fun traditional and creative camp activities, all sites will also include time for summer programs integrating the arts with math and language standards.

SUMMER PROGRAMS Baldwin Music Education Center 3799 Hyde Park Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45209, Contact: Rachel Kramer, Phone: 513-351-1109, Fax: 513-351-3934, Email: baldwinmusiceducenter@gmail.com

Dates: May 13 - August 16, 2013 Ages/Grades: Ages 3 and Up Cost: $60.00 - $325.00 Come and join one of our summer dance program. We have wide selection of dance fun for all ages and all levels.

Indian Springs Academy Music Camps 9690 Cincinnati-Columbus Road, Cincinnati, OH 45241, Contact: Sheila Vail, Phone: (513) 779-7070, Email: sheilavail@indianspringsacademy.com

www.indianspringsacademy.com Gender of Campers: Coed Type of Camp/Summer Program: Arts, Traditional Dates: July - August Ages/Grades: K-12 Cost: $150 - $375 Students will enrich their musical knowledge and have a wonderful experience in our age appropriate Summer Camps for Guitar, Violin, Music Theory, Music Harmony and History!

Music Rocks Sharonville Fine Arts Center: 11165 Reading Rd, Five Seasons Sports Club: 11790 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH, Contact: Paulette Glaser, Director, Phone: 513-779-9402, Email: sharpschool@fuse.net

sharpschoolofmusic.com Type of Camp/Summer Program: Arts Dates: June 10-July 1 Ages/Grades: ages 5-8 Cost: $40 Music Rocks explores the basics of music and rhythm through age appropriate singing, movement and instruments. This small group setting allows creativity to flourish with a different lesson plan each week. Music Rocks is a fun way to appreciate music and develop interest in the arts. The class is a great pre-requisite for those interested in future music lessons. For more information about piano, voice, guitar, violin, bass or saxophone lessons call Sharp School of Music 779-9402.

www.baldwinmusiceducenter.com Type of Camp/Summer Program: Music For 50 years, Baldwin Music has offered unique, specially designed preschool music classes for ages 6-months to 4-years and piano classes ages 5 on up. Classes taught by trained group music teachers, convenient location, 6-day schedule, family discounts. The mission of BMEC is to enrich lives, believing that every life needs music!

Cincinnati Dance Academy Summer Dance Camp and Evening Classes 4122 E. Galbraith Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45236, Contact: Tatyana Makarova, Phone: 513-985-0111, Email: nextgen@ fuse.net

www.cincinnatidanceacademy.com Gender of Campers: Coed Type of Camp/Summer Program: Arts

Summer Dancer Sampler Classes 7398 Liberty One Drive, Liberty Twp., OH 45044, Contact: Mary St. Romain, Director, Phone: 513-7790135, Email: sdastudios@aol.com

www.sda-studios.com Gender of Campers: Coed Type of Camp/ Summer Program: Arts, Special Needs Dates: July 1st - August 2nd, 2013 Ages/Grades: Ages 2.5 & Up Cost: $28-$50 per session All dance samplers are 3 or 4 days in length for one week and may include ballet, tap, jazz, tumbling, modern, lyrical or contemporary dance. Join us for a FREE summer dance performance at Keehner Park Aug 2!

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[ what’s new at school ]

What’s New at School Avoiding summer learning loss Dawn Grady, Manager, Marketing and Community Relations, Cincinnati Public Schools

The last day of school is fast approaching, as May 30th marks an end to another fantastic school year for Cincinnati Public Schools. Hopefully, you have some exciting plans to keep your children occupied this summer. But, while fun is always a goal, make sure that learning doesn’t fall by the wayside.

Studies show that over the summer, children lose, on average, one month of what they learned during the school year. Cincinnati Public Schools views summer learning programs as opportunities to reduce the learning loss students experience, and is partnering with the community to engage and enrich students with activities that make learning fun.

This year, we’re launching our Summer STARS program to serve select students in grades K-5.

Our priority will be students in grades K-3 who are struggling to build their reading skills. Their siblings in grades 4 and 5 also are eligible to attend, and will focus on reading, math and STEM (science, technology, engineering and math) proficiency.

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The educational component of Summer STARS will run from 7:45 a.m. to 12 noon each weekday. Cincinnati Public Schools is partnering with other summer programs throughout the city to offer fun, enrichment activities for students during the afternoon.

If your child isn’t attending a Summer STARS school, there are still ways you can encourage learning during the extended break. Cincinnati Public Schools partners with the Public Library of Cincinnati and Hamilton County to create a Free-Time Reading List packed with great book suggestions for every grade level. All titles are available at your local library. Why not create a neighborhood book club and encourage children to talk about some of the stories in depth?

And, just like we’re partnering with dozens of other summer programs to give our students some enrichment

opportunities, you can take advantage of many of these programs on your own. The goal is to make sure that learning isn’t placed on hold until the fall. That way, when school returns, your child is ready to shine!

[ kids and cash ]

commentary and parenting

Kids and Cash What’s your economic and financial literacy? (Part 1) Dr. Julia Heath, Director, Economics Center and Professor, Alpaugh Family Chair of Economics, University of Cincinnati

A reader recently posed the question: I think I’m fairly knowledgeable about the economy and financial literacy, but how can I be sure? Good question.

Below is a quiz that will test your knowledge. Understanding the correct answers will help you explain these important concepts to your children.

6. In the United States, who determines what goods and services should be produced? a) Producers and government b) Consumers and government c) Producers, consumers, and government

1. The resources used in the production of goods and services are limited, so society must: a) Make choices about how to use resources b) Try to obtain additional resources c) Reduce their use of resources

2. When a person rents an apartment, who benefits from the transaction? a) Only the person renting the apartment b) Only the landlord c) Both the person renting the apartment and the landlord

3. When deciding which of two items to purchase, one should always: a) Choose the item that costs less b) Choose the item with the greatest benefits c) Choose an item after comparing the costs and benefits of both items

4. If the United States stopped importing automobiles from Country X, who would be most likely to benefit? a) Automobile manufacturers in Country X b) Consumers in the United States c) Automobile manufacturers in the United States

5. A large increase in the number of fast-food restaurants in a community is most likely to result in:

Answers: 1(a). It is important to recognize scarcity and what it implies – that we have to make choices. Children often think they can have everything since they don’t pay for the things that parents provide to them. They think it’s all free.

Even free things have a cost because the resources used to produce them could have been used for something else. Understanding this opportunity cost leads to better decisions and more responsibility.

2(c). Recognizing that voluntary exchange benefits both parties is important for individuals as well as in understanding the role of trade between countries.

3(c). Being able to weigh the costs and benefits of alternatives is critical to making good decisions in all aspects of life.

4(c). Understanding trade between countries is important for individuals so that they can make appropriate spending decisions, and have more informed opinions about trade policies and how restrictions to trade benefit certain groups.

5(a). The role of competition is important to understand as children assess their own place in a competitive market in terms of what kind and how much education to acquire, goods and services that are available to them and evaluating public policy that can affect competition in markets.

6(c). It is important that children understand the U.S. market system and how it answers the questions of what should be produced, how it should be produced and who will consume it. Knowledge of our market system – where consumers, producers and government all have a role in answering those questions – allows more thoughtful comparisons to systems in other countries.

a) Lower prices and higher quality b) Lower prices and lower quality

Look for part 2 next month!

c) Higher prices and higher quality

Questions taken from those developed by the Council on Economic Education

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resources

[ school listings ]

education + childcare GUIDE Child Care & Preschool The Campus at Kids First

Brand new and beautiful, The Campus (at the worldfamous Kids First Sports Center) gives your child an academic edge AND daily physical education. Our carefully selected and loving degreed teachers utilize a relevance-based curriculum combined with childdirected play and rigorous physical activity to make learning FUN and start each child on their journey to becoming a life-long learner. Call today to schedule your enrollment tour and ask about our grand opening specials! 7900 E Kemper Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Joanie Metzger Weghorst, Phone: (513) 629-KIDS, Email: info@theCampusKF.com, www.theCampusKF.com, Grades: 6 weeks thru Pre-K

Chai Tots Early Childhood Center Academic excellence via unique blend of Montessori method and traditional Jewish education. Chai Tots teaches children the culture and traditions of Judaism, while developing their creativity skills and promoting independence. Flexible schedule. Before and Aftercare.

7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, (513)234-0600, www.chaitots.com, Grades: 6 weeks - 6 years, Enrollment: 40

The Compass School Ages 6 weeks-6 years plus after school & summer camp up to age 12. Offering outstanding Reggio-Inspired full and part-time Infant, Toddler, Two’s, and Preschool programs, as well as Kindergarten, After School, and Summer Camp for school-age children. Degreed teachers, extensive parent communication, and welcoming family environment. Setting the standard in early care and education. Call today for your personal tour. 9370 Waterstone Blvd., Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Laura Carr, Phone: 513-683-8833, Email: CompassLC@yahoo.com, www.TheCompassSchool.com

Cornerstone Church Preschool A Step Up To Quality award winning preschool committed to nurturing the whole child socially, emotionally, cognitively, physically, and spiritually. CCP provides high quality early childhood education based on sound knowledge of child development and appropriate practices. Daily lessons include Bible concepts, language skills, emergent math, discovery opportunities, music, creative art and more! 7600 Princeton Glendale Road, Liberty Township, OH 45011, Contact: Denise Taylor, Director, Phone: (513) 874-7870, Email: preschool@ cornerstonechurch.org, www.cornerstonechurch.org

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interests of their children. By playing an active role in your child’s early development and preschool education, we prepare our children for kindergarten and beyond. 4309 Cooper Road, Blue Ash, OH 45242, Contact: Jill Staggs Co-Director, Phone: (513) 400-3727, Email: fscops71@gmail. com, www.firststeppreschool.org, Grades: We have 2 different classes. The Early Childhood Development Cless (ECD) is for children ages 1-3. The Pre-Kindergarten class is for children ages 3-5. Enrollment: You can enroll at any time during the school year (September-May) Tuition is $60/year for each child, or $30/semester. Classes meet Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 9-11:30 a.m.

Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool HPCUMC Preschool is a Christian preschool and is proud to be a Three-Star Step up to Quality program. At HPCUMC Preschool, our goal is to encourage the development of each child’s cognitive, social, emotional, and physical skills, as well as spiritual growth in order to prepare each child for the formal learning experience. We provide a learning environment where student-centered learning takes place through exploration, play, experimentation, and discovery. Your child will be encouraged to try new tasks, use their imagination, make friends, follow directions, focus their energy and develop a love of learning. We are currently accepting registrations for the 2013-2014 school year. If you have any questions please call Julie Vail at 513-979-8191 or email to jvail@hpcumc.org. 1345 Grace Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Julie Vail, Phone: 513-979-8191, Fax: 513871-1180, Email: jvail@hpcumc.org, hydeparkpreschool. org, Grades: 30 months to 5 years of age

Kinder Garden School Together with interaction of child, staff & family, we develop the complete child. We provide formative encouragement and knowledge with hands-on staff taking a personal interest in family and holistic education decisions for the child.

Devoted to growing a child’s wish to flourish and learn by cultivating curiosity and problem-solving proficiency.

Enlightenment Is Our Mission. Blue Ash& West Chester locations. BA: 513-791-4300, WC: 513-874-3100, www.kindergardenschool.com, Grades: 6 weeks – K

Little Bud Preschool Little Bud is a star rated program with highly qualified teachers and aides. Watch your child bloom in our spacious classrooms and wonderful facility. We believe that children need to explore, investigate, manipulate to learn their world. Choose from 2, 3, or 4 day AM sessions with affordable rates. Located in the Northgate area. 3301 Compton Road, Cincinnati, OH 45251, Contact: Teresa Sedam, Phone: 513-385-8404, Email: tsedam@christ-lcms. org, www.christ-lcms.org, Grades: Ages 3 - PreK, Enrollment: Enroll your child today for Fall. Our 3’s class is Monday/Wednesday or Tuesday/Thursday. Our 4’s class is Mon/Wed/Friday or Tues./Thurs. Our PreK class is Mon.Thursday or Mon/Wed./ Thurs.

Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Nursery School Professionally qualified teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star award-winning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions. Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler.

Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers. 5950 Montgomery Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45213, (513)631-0170, www.prpc.org, Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/Child classes birth to 32 months, Enrollment: 65

Tender Years Cooperative Preschool

Tender Years Cooperative Preschool offers parents a quality program for their child at a reasonable cost. You have the privilege of participating with your child in the classroom and contributing your ideas, talents and experience to the school. Our classes are taught by highly-trained teachers with degrees in Early Childhood Education or Elementary Education. 360 Robin Avenue, Loveland, OH 45140, Phone: 513-588-4975, Email: lovelandtenderyears@gmail.com, www. lovelandtenderyears.com, Grades: 3 and 4 year-olds

Montessori

Central Montessori Academy We invite you to call and schedule a tour to come see our new Natural Playground and Outdoor Learning Environment, as well as our redesigned Elementary classrooms! For parents of Toddlers and Preschoolers, be sure to ask about our new “Montessori My Way” flexible early childhood programs designed for today’s familyfriendly work schedules. 1904 Springdale Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45231, Contact: Laura Saylor, Phone: 513-742-5800, Email: info@centralmontessoriacademy.com, www. centralmontessoriacademy.com, Grades: Infancy-6th Grade, Enrollment: 110

Children’s Meeting House Montessori School An authentic Montessori school program resting on 6.5 acres. Extraordinary and rigorous hands-on learning inside and outside of the classrooms creating life long learners, critical thinkers and passionate leaders.

927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140, Contact: Meg Thomas, Head of School, Phone: 513-683-4757, Email: thomas@cmhschool, www.cmhschool.com, Grades: Preschool through Sixth grade, Enrollment: 150

Country Hills Montessori Providing programs for 3 to K. Small, individualized classes with low student-teacher ratios, under the guidance of Montessori certified teachers, in an intergenerational environment. Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison and West Chester Ohio and in Ft. Thomas KY. Visit chmschools.com for all location addresses & phones. 4400 Glen Este Withamsville, Cincinnati, OH 45236,

Contact: Susan Schreiber, Owner, Phone: 513-752-1066, Email: sschreiberchm@yahoo.com, www.chmschools. com/, Grades: 3 - K

Garden Montessori School Celebrating over 40 years, member of Cincinnati Montessori Society. Certified/degreed Montessori teachers with combined 70 years experience.

Montessori program,full day, and Kindergarten.

Individualized instruction, small class size, 1:8 teacher/ child ratio. Offer Spanish, music, dance, and gym.

Large, fenced-in outdoor playground. Come celebrate our anniversary on Wednesday, May 29th at our annual picnic at 6:30 on school grounds. 318 Nagel Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45255, Contact: Jackie Wofford/Director, Phone: 513-474-4933, Email: gms@cinci.rr.com, Grades: pre-school thru Kdg. ages 3-6 years old.

Montessori Academy of Cincinnati Celebrating 25 years of offering Montessori education in the Greater Cincinnati area. Providing a supportive learning environment, the school focuses on individualized education, through which students are offered opportunities for self-paced acceleration.

Experienced, degreed teachers are committed to the success of each student. Self-motivation and an excitement about learning are encouraged. 7.5 acre campus! State Chartered. AMS affiliated. Extended care available. 8293 Duke Boulevard, Mason, OH, 45040, Contact: Pat Elder, Head of School, Phone Number: 513-398-7773, Fax Number: 513-398-1031, www. montacademy.org, Ages/Grades: 18 months through grade 8, Enrollment: 250

The New School Montessori Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, (513)281-7999, www.thenewschool.cc, 3 years through 6th Grade, Enrollment: 150

Non-Public

Cincinnati Country Day School CCDS is an independent, co-educational school dedicated to educational excellence serving students 18 months through Grade 12. The School is nationally recognized for its innovative, integrated laptop computer program. Extended day and tuition assistance is available. 6905 Given Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45243, Phone: (513)979-0220, www.countryday.net, Grades: 18 months–12th grade, Enrollment: 800

St. Ursula Villa Academic excellence in the Ursuline tradition for boys and girls in preschool through 8th grade. Whole-child development, family atmosphere, dedicated faculty, Montessori or Traditional preschool options, small class size, individual attention, outstanding high school preparation. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226, (513)871-7218, www.stursulavilla.org, Preschool – 8th grade, Enrollment: 496

SPECIAL NEEDS Springer School and Center For more than 40 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to lead successful lives. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6 - 14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area. The Springer Experience.

Success Changes Everything. 2121 Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: (513)871-6080, www. springer-ld.org, Grades: 1st - 8th grade, Enrollment: 200

TUTORING

Langsford Learning Acceleration Centers Langsford is a private educational organization dedicated to developing life-long, independent learners. Since 2001, we have been teaching reading, spelling, comprehension, and writing in an atmosphere of enthusiasm and encouragement.Our successful model identifies where the breakdown in the reading and writing process is occurring and then we apply targeted instruction using research validated approaches. 9402 Towne Square Ave. Ste B, Cincinnati, OH 45242, Contact: Jeff Graham, Executive Director, Phone: 513-531-7400, www.WeTeachReading.com, Grades: All ages

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commentary and parenting

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Ask the Teacher End of school blues, summer school, writing proficiency and retaining skills over break Deb Krupowicz

Q:

First grade was such an awesome year. My daughter enjoyed everything about it. She has been so down in the dumps about ending the year. What can I do to help her move on?

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Help your daughter bring closure to the year by finding ways to celebrate it. Have her write a letter to her teacher, gather special mementos into a scrapbook or host a gathering of her classmates.

Gradually shift her focus to next year by having her list her own behaviors and attitudes that contributed to her great year. Once she has a comprehensive list, have her create a future-focused set of commitments. For example: I will make second grade a wonderful year by starting each day cheerfully. Teach her to recognize that her positive contributions have an important influence on the whole classroom environment.

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My son’s second grade teacher recommended that he attend summer school. He hates school and the thought of having to go when everyone else is off is just more than he can handle. I am worried that by forcing him to go, I will make him hate school even more.

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The teacher recommended summer school after a year’s experience with your son. She has seen something about his academic progress that indicates it is in his best interest to experience the boost of additional school time. Not acting upon this recommendation would be like not taking your child to the dentist when he has a toothache. Following through on this recommendation should be a given.

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There seems to be so much focus in school now on writing. My fifth grader struggles a great deal to put anything down on paper; he just can’t be bothered. He would much rather slap anything down just to be done. Is there anything I can do to change his attitude?

It is likely that your son is concerned that his summer will be all school and no fun. Create a summer calendar that highlights some summer activities that your son enjoys: hikes, trips to the ball park, bike rides, outings to the zoo or amusement parks, visits with special friends, road trips to see family, etc.

When he sees that all of the things he enjoys will still happen, he will be less likely to feel so negatively about summer school.

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Reward your son for making the most of the summer school time. Keep a chart to track positive starts to the day, reports by his teacher of a good work ethic and other indicators of progress. Provide an extra-special treat or outing to celebrate when things go well. After all, he is going above and beyond.

Consider keeping a journal when you take vacations. Have everyone in the family contribute a few sentences to recap special experiences you have. Or work together to create a funny story like “The Car Trip That Would Not End” or an article of advice for young travelers like “Avoid the City Museum of Any

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As more and more of our communication is in written form, the importance of writing has increased significantly in our technological age. Success is directly dependent upon the ability to communicate effectively. Use summer as a way to develop some positive associations with writing. If you work along with your child to make writing fun, his attitude may improve.

Town at Any Cost.” Patterning stories after fun books like The Diary of a Worm is fun for would-be writers of all ages.

If getting the words down on the paper is the challenge, have him record the story and then you write it down. Starting a blog and publishing his stories there may give your child the sense of accomplishment that he needs to boost him over the “I hate to write” road block.

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We are not in a year round school, but I have read a lot about how much kids lose in terms of academic skills over the summer. What can I do to prevent that?

First, take a few weeks off and enjoy the less stressful routine of summer! Resist the urge to drill, drill, drill every day. Adopting a casual approach to learning will not hurt your child academically, provided you encourage some reading and some math. Check your local library for a reading program that offers incentives, or custom design one yourself. Play games that require math and reasoning skills. A few weeks before school resumes, review some basic math facts to dust off the cobwebs and help build the attention stamina that the school day requires.

Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@cincinnatiparent.com.

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Times: 8:00 AM Phone: 513-765-7234 Location: Great American Ballpark, Cincinnati cincinnati.reds.mlb.com/cin/ community/race.jsp 10K — The 6.2–mile course starts at Great American Ball Park, winds through downtown and finishes inside the ballpark near home plate. 5K — The 3.1–mile course starts at Great American Ball Park, winds through downtown and finishes inside the ballpark near home plate. One Mile Family Run — The 1-mile course starts at Great American Ball Park and finishes inside the ballpark near home plate. Gapper’s Kids Fun Run — This course is along the warning track of the ballpark.

Times: 9:00 AM Price: $6.00/child, $4.00/adult Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org Brush and decorate a real pony and learn how to care for it. Program includes Playbarn and a wagon ride.

12th Annual Redlegs Run

Baby Boom Kid Bloom Times: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Location: EnterTRAINment Junction, West Chester www.babyboomkidbloom.com For families with children of all ages; filled with exhibitors that specialize in healthcare, retail, educational and informational services.

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Family Rewards Movie Day Times: 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org Did you fill up your Family Programs Reward Card this year? Then use it as your ticket to this exclusive family movie night, complete with a special art making project in Artworld! Please see www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org for more details.

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iSpace Science presents: Blast Off (grades 3-5) Times: 11:30 AM - 1:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Union Build and launch your own paper rocket with specially designed high powered air launchers. Register.

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Pretty Pony Fun Pack

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Times: 11:00 AM Price: Free Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parks, Cincinnati greatparks.org It is dinosaur dance day for children 3–6 accompanied by an adult. We will explore the amazing world of these awesome giants in an outdoor setting.

Bring your favorite dinosaur friend.

Wednesdays on the Green: The Comet Bluegrass Allstars Times: 7:00 AM - 8:30 AM Price: Free Phone: 513 497-2860 Location: Clifton Cultural Arts Center, Cincinnati www.cliftonculturalarts.org/wotg2013.htm CCAC is thrilled to bring you Season 5 of Wednesdays on the Green – 11 weeks of free outdoor concerts. Bring a picnic, kick back in the grass and meet some new friends as you enjoy The Comet Bluegrass Allstars on the beautiful lawn at CCAC. This week is sponsored by Greendale Friends and Neighbors and on-site food vendors include the Habanero Burrito Truck and Dojo Gelato.

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Times: 10:30 AM Price: -$9/child, pre-registration is required, as space is limited Phone: 513-731-2665 Location: blue manatee, Cincinnati www.bluemanateebooks.com Join Hollie Nesbitt from OMYA Studio in Northside for a yoga class for children ages 2-4, with an emphasis on focus, flexibility, and fun!

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Cincinnati Reds VS St. Louis Cardinals Phone: (513) 765-7000 Location: Great American Ballpark, Cincinnati cincinnati.reds.mlb.com Come cheer on the Reds as they take on the Cardinals! Plus, stay for Fireworks Friday: Postgame fireworks show with soundtrack starting approximately 15 minutes after the end of the game. Plus, “Sam” the Bald Eagle from the Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden will perform a flight from the roof of the Cincinnati Bell Technology Pavilion in center field to the pitcher’s mound during the singing of the national anthem.

Banana Split Festival Through Saturday, June 8 Phone: 937-382-1965 Location: J.W. Denver Williams Memorial Park, Wilmington Banana splits, music, games, crafts, food, car show and more.

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Lebanon Country Music Festival Times: 11:00 AM - 11:00 PM Phone: 513-932-1100 Location: Downtown Lebanon, Lebanon www.ci.lebanon.oh.us This 1st annual event will include live country music, food vendors, art, crafts and more.

Queen City Vintage Base Ball Festival Times: 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: Free with Admission to Sharon Woods Phone: 513-290-8711 Location: Heritage Village Museum, Cincinnati www.cincyvbb.com/queencityfestival/ Come out and experience the exciting play of base ball before gloves, the sportsmanship of ballists who played before contracts and freeagency, and the unique atmosphere of our national pastime as it was meant to be played.

This year, nines from Springfield, Cleveland, Columbus and Indiana will play ball against our two host teams, the Cincinnati Buckeyes and the famous 1869 Cincinnati Red Stockings...

Be sure to give them your heartiest “Huzzah”

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Trillium Art Fair Times: 11:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 771-8733 Location: Glenwood Gardens, Cincinnati greatparks.org Stroll the gorgeous gardens while viewing the artwork of highly talented local artists. Spend the day with the artists, view their original pieces and enjoy an array of local music.

Refreshments will be available for purchase.

Cincinnati Reds VS St. Louis Cardinals Phone: (513) 765-7000 Location: Great American Ballpark, Cincinnati cincinnati.reds.mlb.com Come cheer on the Reds as they take on the Cardinals! Sundays are family days at the ballpark! One member of the family pays full price and may purchase up to three nonpremium tickets at half-price in advance of game day only. Excludes Outer View Level and Kroger Bleachers. As part of family day at the ballpark, free full-size plastic Jay Bruce bat offered to the first 8,000 kids 14 and younger.

Shalom Family’s Family Camp Daycation: A Great Outdoors Get-a-Way Just for the Day! Times: 10:00 AM Location: Camp Livingston, Bennington www.myshalomfamily.org Take a vacation from video games at Camp Livingston in Bennington, Indiana (1 hour and 45 minutes from Cincinnati). Featuring a lake front aqua park with a giant waterslide, climbing wall, rope swing and more! Plus: ropes course, zipline, canoeing, kayaking, arts & crafts, sports, campfire cookout & so much more! Don’t want to drive? Hop aboard the Shalom Family Shuttle featuring magicians and other entertainment and snacks on your ride to and from camp.

The shuttle departs Cincinnati at 10am and will depart from camp at 4pm. To RSVP by June 6th, please visit our website or contact Julie Robenson at info@myshalomfamily.org.

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Miss Meghan’s Music Price: $5 per child/Members; $7 per child/ non-Members, plus museum admission Phone: (513) 287-7021

Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Miss Meghan’s Music is based on the Musikgarten curriculum, a child-centered program perfect for introducing music concepts.

This family class is imaginative and interactive. It uses movement, instruments

and the children’s own ideas throughout the lesson.

Designed for children 2-5 years old (older and younger siblings are welcome). 10:15am

Come learn about the Japanese artist, Yayoi Kusama’s love for spots. Design your own t-shirts, mosaics and sculptures, inspired by these dots. Especially for children ages 3 to 5 years old, and their parents and caregivers.

Italianfest Occurring Through Sun., June 16 Phone: 859-292-3666 Location: Festival Park, Newport Italian food and music, exhibits, contests, rides, games, family photo booth and more.

German immigrants, Goetta has always been a breakfast staple in the Greater Cincinnati area. Now it’s not just for breakfast! Games, children’s activities and rides, arts and crafts and music and entertainment will fill the tree lined, Sixth Street Promenade and Goebel Park.

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Art Boardwalk Times: 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE. Reservations not required.

Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org We’re transforming our land-locked front parking lot into a beach boardwalk oasis to kick off our ten weeks of Cincinnati Summer programming! Join us for live music, food trucks, sand sculptures, a box truck photo booth, DIY screen printing and more!

Summer Solstice Lavender Festival Occurring Through Sun., June 16 Price: FREE Phone: 513-322-2415 Location: Peaceful Acres Lavender Farm, Martinsville www.peacefulacreslavenderfarm.com Brand new lavender cuisine catered by gourmet chef Benjamin Mentrup.

Events for children, classes and workshops available.

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Rockin’ Rockets by Mad Science Times: 10:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-388-4513 Location: Beech Acres Park, Cincinnati www.andersonparks.com Children’s entertainment followed by lunch in park at Grilled Cheese Wednesdays.

Wonders of Wind Kite-a-Thon Times: 1:00 PM Price: $1.00 or $2.00/kite Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Park, Cincinnati greatparks.org Bring your own kite or buy one for a nominal fee at the event (while supplies last) and come join the fun. Gather a carload of youngsters for an afternoon of windy skills and thrills.

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Thursday Art Play: Polka Dot Party Times: 10:30 AM - 11:30 AM Price: Members: Free. Nonmembers: CAC admission Phone: 513.345.8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org

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Fathers Day Special - Dad Paints Free

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Cincinnati Reds VS Milwaukee Brewers Phone: (513) 765-7000 Location: Great American Ballpark, Cincinnati cincinnati.reds.mlb.com Come cheer on the Reds as they take on the Brewers! Plus, stay for Fireworks Friday: Post-game fireworks show with soundtrack starting approximately 15 minutes after the end of the game.

Goettafest Occurring Through Sun., June 16 Price: FREE Phone: (859)491-0458 Location: Main Street, Covington www.mainstrasse.org/ Brought to Northern Kentucky by the early

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Clay Creations for a Treehouse or Garden Occurring Through Fri., June 21 Times: 9:00 AM - 12:00 PM Price: $165.00 per student for week camp (5 days - 9am - 12pm) Phone: 513-683-2529 Location: Whistle Stop Clay Works, Loveland www.whistlestopclayworks.com Potter, Heloise Besse’ (with 14 years of clay experience), will teach your child how to make ceramic pieces from raw clay using their hands, molds, found objects and clay tools.

The joy of manipulating the clay by pinching, squeezing, patting, and rolling with fingers and tools to create both functional and nonfunctional forms will be a daily experience. The children will acquire a solid grounding in pottery fundamentals while having fun creating a variety of items. Fun and creative self-expression will be encouraged using folk tales, famous artists work and stories to inspire the children.

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Nibble & Gnaw Fun Pack Times: 9:00 AM Price: $6.00/child, $4.00/ adult Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org With tooth and claw! Explore ways animals find and eat tasty tidbits! Program includes Playbarn and a wagon ride.

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Wednesdays on the Green: Baoku Moses and The Afrobeat Band

Times: 1:00 PM Price: $40.00 Phone: 513.271.2793 Location: Cheers to Art, Madeira www.cheerstoart.com Treat your dad to a wonderful afternoon painting our NEW “Pebble Beach” - famous 7th hole!

Dad paints for FREE with your paid reservation (2 seats for $40) Simply register yourself (1 SEAT) and add your Dad’s name in the “Are you meeting friends” section of the online reservation form and we’ll reserve you 2 seats. Please, the free painter must be YOUR dad - Thanks!

Times: 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM Price: Free Phone: 513 497-2860 Location: Clifton Cultural Arts Center, Cincinnati www.cliftonculturalarts.org/wotg2013.htm CCAC is thrilled to bring you Season Five of Wednesdays on the Green – 11 weeks of free outdoor concerts. Bring a picnic, kick back in the grass, enjoy the show and meet some new friends as you enjoy Baoku Moses and The Afrobeat Band on the beautiful lawn at CCAC. This week is sponsored by Middleton Avenue Friends and Neighbors and on-site food vendors include Fresh Table and Dojo Gelato.

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Times: 2:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods, Cincinnati greatparks.org Come share Father’s Day in a memorable way as we explore the hills by Kingfisher Creek.

Outdoor exercise and nature-themed fellowship will be on deck for this day. All ages welcome!

Wild About Wine Times: 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM Price: $40/person Phone: 513.281.4700 Location: Cincinnati Zoo, Cincinnati cincinnatizoo.org As part of our Toast to the Wild series, presented

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are returning to the Zoo for their eighth year.

Held in various locations throughout the park, each event features wine sampling, food-bythe-bite from local restaurants, live music, a silent auction, and up-close animal encounters.

Ohio River Kids Outdoor Adventure Expo Price: FREE Phone: 513-304-3004 Location: Coney Island, Cincinnati www.coneyislandpark.com Divided into four villages, kids learn about everything from fishing to paddling to Zumba, Tai Chi, recycling, water safety, bike safety, gardening and more. Queen City Riverboat ride $2. Part of Paddlefest Weekend. Morning session 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Afternoon session 1:30-4:30 p.m.

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Great Parks Backyard Campout Occurring Through Sat., June 22 Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Lake Isabella, Loveland www.greatparks.org Join us in supporting the National Wildlife Foundation’s (NWF) Great American Backyard Campout initiative. Families can camp in the park and connect with nature. One hundred primitive sites will be available on a first-come, first-served basis. Sites are free, with an optional $5.00/ site donation to the NWF. Free programing and events start at 6 pm. Registration is required.

Mary, Queen of Heaven Parish Funfest Occurring Through Sun., June 23 Price: FREE Phone: 859-525-6909 Location: Mary Queen of Heaven Parish, Erlanger www.mqhparish.com Rides, games, raffles, food and drink. Shuttle parking from St. Henry District High School.

Ohio River Paddlefest Music and Outdoor Festival Phone: 513-588-6936 Location: Coney Island, Cincinnati www.coneyislandpark.com Boat drop off and registration open for 8.2mile float, 11 and 14 mile races, poker run and kayak fishing tournament 10 a.m.-9 p.m.

Kayak clinics on Lake Como 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Boat demonstrations on Lake Como noon8 p.m. Basket raffle noon-9 p.m. Gearfest begins noon-9 p.m.Roots on the River Music Festival 5-11 p.m. Scheduled to appear: Jake Speed and the Freddies, Wheels, Jeremy Pinnell and the ‘55s, The Lewis Brothers and Reverend Peyton’s Big Damn Band.

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Times: 11:00 AM - 11:00 PM Phone: (859)261-7777 Location: Roebling Bridge, Covington Foods from local restaurants, beverage booths, music, art show and sale showcasing local talents and variety of tours.

Times: 10:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-388-4513 Location: Beech Acres Park, Cincinnati www.andersonparks.com Children’s entertainment followed by lunch in park at Grilled Cheese Wednesdays.

Roeblingfest

Vectren Dayton Air Show Occurring Through Sun., June 23 Phone: 800-585-3737 Location: Dayton International Airport, Vandalia www.daytonairshow.com Come see planes like never before at the 2013 Dayton Air Show! Tickets available at area Kroger stores, DaytonAirShow.com, and at 800-585-3737. Gates open at 9:00 AM. Flying from 12:00 PM until 4:00 PM.

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Sensory Sunday: Stories, Songs and Fun for You and Your Little One Times: 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE, RSVP online!

Phone: 513-703-3343 Location: Gymboree, Mason www.myshalomfamily.org Now Shalom Family has a great new way for parents and babies to get connected to one another and the Jewish community. Presenting private interactive playgroups that take place on the second and fourth Sundays of each month. Featuring the popular Miss Meliss, who keeps babies and their parents engaged and entertained with her unique brand of fun.

A program of Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation. Open to families in the Jewish community with children two years and younger in which at least one parent is Jewish. Plus, two families will each win a $50 Target Gift Card at every event!

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SENSORY NIGHT Times: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Price: $8.00 per child. Parents are free!

Phone: Call 513.829.7867 Location: Pump It Up, West Chester www.pumpitupparty.com/oh/west-chester For Special Needs kids, and their siblings and families! Kids with autism and those on the autism spectrum love the active movement of jumping and climbing on our safe, giant inflatables. It also helps build large muscle groups and coordination. And it’s really FUN!

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“Feathery & Fuzzy Farm Friends” Puppet Show Fun Pack

Explorer’s University: Microscopy Times: 2:00 PM Price: $5 per child/Members; $7 per child/ non-Members, plus museum admission Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Join us in the lab to explore some of earth’s tiniest creatures and take home your own microscopic pet. These interactive family workshops are designed for 9 to 15-year-olds!

Times: 9:00 AM Price: $2 Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org There are many feathery, fuzzy friends around the farm. Learn what makes them fluffy or furry in this interactive puppet show.

Afterwards, meet the live animals.

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Occurring Through Sun., June 30 Price: $2; free ages 12 and under Phone: 513-591-0030 Location: Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, Cincinnati www.holytrinity.oh.goarch.org/92.html Authentic Greek cuisine, pastries, music, dancing, raffles, games and amusement rides. Free parking at and shuttle from St. Xavier High School. Portion of admission price donated to Freestore Foodbank.

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Cincinnati Pride Parade and Festival Times: 3:00 PM - 10:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Sawyer Point, Cincinnati www.cincinnatipride.org/ Parade kicks off at 2 p.m. and goes through downtown and the Banks. Festival begins following parade and features two stages of entertainment, vendor booths, food, beverages and family-fun zone.

Fireworks over the river at 9:30 p.m.

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Butterfly Hike Times: 2:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parks, Cincinnati greatparks.org Did you know butterflies can be picky eaters? Did you also know that butterflies may have their own GPS? These marvelously delicate creatures bring joy to so many.

We will take a walk to find these colorful masters of flight. Won’t you join us?

At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

ongoing events Flight of the Butterflies Occurring Daily Through Sun., June 30 Price: $7.50, $6.50 ages 60 and up, $5.50 ages 3-12; members: $5.50, $4.50 ages 3-12 Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Omnimax Theater at the Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Join hundreds of millions of real butterflies on a journey to a remote and secret hideaway.

Shrek The Musical Occurring Every Fri, Sat & Sun Beginning Fri., June 7 Through Sat., June 15 Price: $8 Phone: 513-871-7427 Location: Blue Ash Amphitheatre, Blue Ash www.blueash.com Based on Oscar-winning DreamWorks film that started it all. Outdoor amphitheater, bring seating.

OTR Performs Occurring Each Sunday Beginning Sun., June 2 Through Sun., August 4 Times: 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM Phone: (513)352-4080 Location: Washington Park., Cincinnati washingtonpark.org Family-friendly arts programming from puppet shows to Shakespeare. Dress for weather.

Butterflies of Morocco Occurring Daily Through Sun., June 30 Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: $7 adults, $6 seniors, $4 children, 4 & under are FREE! Phone: (513) 421-4086 Location: Krohn Conservatory, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com/krohn Enter the showroom filled with the exotic Butterflies of Morocco, and these brilliantly colored, soaring works of art will be your guides as you are immersed in a spectacular feast for the senses. Experience the essence of Morocco— etched by nature into one of the world’s most beautiful countries!

Half Pints Kids Club Occurring Each Weds.

Times: 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM Price: free Phone: 513-398-9358 Location: Whole Foods Market, Mason

www.wholefoodsmarket.com/mason Each class engages young children to make healthy eating fun with crafts and other activities. For kids age 3-9.

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FRIDAY NIGHT GRILL OUTS

ON THE WEB

Occurring Each Friday Beginning Fri, May 24 Through Fri., August 30 Times: 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM Location: Lake Isabella, Loveland www.greatparks.org Bring the family and enjoy grilled meals, dine on the patio by the lake or enjoy your meal in the airconditioned dining area. Live music nightly! Playground and boathouse open before or after dinner.

world of trains, from the small garden railway to the history of steam and diesel. You may see some of your favorite train characters in the garden this week!

SHIPWRECKED! AN ENTERTAINMENT

Tot Tuesdays

Occurring Every Tue, Wed, Thu & Fri Beginning Tues., May 21 Through Sun., June 16 Phone: (513) 421-3888 Location: Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park, Cincinnati www.cincyplay.com Recommended for ages 8 and up. Hear the fantastic and amazing story of Louis de Rougemont, a would-be explorer who embarks from Victorian England on a daring expedition only to find himself marooned on a remote desert island. That’s when the real adventure begins for Louis and his faithful dog Bruno: Typhoon! Killer octopus!

Flying wombats! Cannibals! As Louis’ breathless tale grows larger and larger, the boundary between truth and fiction blurs. Inspired by a true story, this charming, family-friendly frolic by a Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright celebrates the magic of theatre and imagination.

Green Week Occurring Daily Beginning Tues, June 11 Through Sun., June 16 Price: Free Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Farbach Werner Nature Preserve, Cincinnati greatparks.org Visit this exhibit to see how nature recycles and learn how we can live more lightly on the earth through games, crafts, live animals and other activities. A craft is available for a small fee.

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Occurring on the third Tuesday of each Month Times: 10:30 AM - 11:30 AM Price: Price of Admission +$1 craft fee Phone: 859-491-4003 Location: Behringer Crawford Museum, Covington Join in the FUN at Behringer-Crawford Museum.

The Third Tuesday of each month is Tot Tuesday.

Parents and grandparents can bring in their preschoolers for a story, craft, and activity

CHARITABLE PLAY at Recreations Outlet Occurring Every Tue, Wed & Thu Times: 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM Price: $1 per family for donation Phone: 513-831-7383 Location: Recreations Outlet, Milford www.recreationsoutlet.com Maybe it’s raining and they need to burn off some steam... Or you want to beat the weather... Or they have just been “extra good” lately? Bring them into our temperature controlled showrooms for the best indoor play available. You will have fun watching them and they will sleep well tonight! All proceeds are donated to a charity (Charities rotate on a monthly basis).

Trains!

Occurring Daily Beginning Tues., June 25 Through Sun., June 30 Price: $4.00/child, $5.00/adult Phone: (513) 771-8733 Location: Glenwood Gardens, Cincinnati greatparks.org The Train Station at Highfield Discovery Garden will be buzzing with activity this week as we explore the

NOTE: At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate.

Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press.

Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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