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GUIDE

camp & summer program

table of contents

features

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MANAGING DIFFICULT DIETS

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ADVANCES FOR AUTISM

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managing difficult diets

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KIDS AND SEX ED

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RAISING ECO-FRIENDLY KIDS

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CAMP AND SUMMER PROGRAM GUIDE

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ELIMINATING HIDDEN TRIGGERS FOR ASTHMA AND ALLERGIES

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THOSE IN THE KNOW

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NEARBY TO TRY

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advances for autism

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WITH SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES, WHY CAMP?

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ASK THE TEACHER

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APRIL HAPPENINGS

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four great family road trip destinations

FOUR GREAT FAMILY ROAD TRIP DESTINATIONS

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TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE

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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

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APRIL EVENTS

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WACKY CALENDAR

on the cover

PAXTON CHERRY

(5 years old)

photo by: Obscura Photography

FIVE RIVERS

BOONSHOFT

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Finally...spring!

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Mary Wynne Cox | Mary@daytonparentmagazine.com

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Katy Mark | Katy@daytonparentmagazine.com

hat a winter for the record books! At last the first brave flowers have peered out from the frozen ground and a few warm breezes have teased us with a hint of the nicer weather just around the corner.

For many people, the first warm days mean one thing – road trip! And we have some perfect suggestions for hitting the highway in Four Great Family Road Trip Destinations. This month families will also be celebrating spring with Earth Day and Raising Eco-Friendly Kids gives parents some easy ideas for incorporating a greener lifestyle in their homes.

April marks Autism Awareness month as well. Even if your own family isn’t personally affected by autism, it’s likely you know someone who is.

Advances for Autism discusses the many ways our understanding and support of autism has increased in recent years.

Something every parent can relate to is the awkwardness of discussing sex with their children. Although we know it’s important to talk about, sometimes the uncomfortableness of the topic gets the best of us. Check out Kids and Sex Ed for some tips on starting – and keeping – the conversation going.

Do you have a child recently diagnosed with celiac disease, Crohn’s or colitis? If so, you may be wondering how you will ever navigate the complicated restrictions these conditions require. Try reading Managing Difficult Diets for suggestions from the experts on making food choices your child can get on board with.

As always, we’re excited for you to crack open our latest issue and tell us what you think. We hope you find lots of useful information and fun ways to spend time with your family. Have an idea for a future issue? Let us know! We love to hear our readers’ thoughts on how to make our magazine an even better resource for Dayton families.

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community spotlight community spotlight

Join the March for Babies!

Enjoy face painting, crafts and games and then off to hunt all of the goodie-filled Easter eggs! Shhhh…the Easter bunny may also make an appearance! This hunt is for children 12 and under and kids will be divided into age appropriate groups for the hunt. Light refreshments will be provided. Registration check-in starts at 9:30 a.m. with the hunt beginning at 10 a.m. Don’t forget to bring all your friends and your Easter baskets! Details: April 12th, 10:00 a.m., Ginghamsburg Church, 6759 S. County Rd. 25A, Tipp City. Call 937667-1069 for more information.

Every year in the United States, more than half a million babies are born too soon, with 18,000 of them right here in Ohio. The March of Dimes helps moms and babies get the best possible start in life. March for Babies promises to be a fun day out with people who share a passion for improving the health of babies.

There’ll be family teams, company teams and people walking with friends. Join the event and walk to raise money for babies right here in our community! Details: April 26th, 9:00 a.m., University of Dayton River Campus, 1700 S. Patterson Blvd., Dayton. Registration is at 8:00 a.m. Join a team or start your own. For more information visit www.marchofdimes.com or call (937) 294-3330.

Celebrate Earth Day with Adopt-A-Park

M is for Monster

Community Easter Egg Hunt

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Join more than 2,000 volunteers at various park sites. Opportunities include litter removal, tree planting, invasive species removal, gardening activities and trail work. Volunteers will be provided with a free T-shirt and complimentary lunch at RiverScape MetroPark as well as project supplies. Details: April 19th, 8:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Registration closes April 7th. Call 937-275PARK (7275) for more information.

“M is for Monster” makes learning for kids easy with preschool activities that are delivered to your home every month. A kid’s subscription box lets parents give their kids the chance to learn all the cool things they want to. In addition to learning materials, an “M is for Monster” box comes with adventurous activities for kids. A monthly subscription box features crafts for toddlers, preschool activities for your 4 or 5 year old and other learning activities for kids of different age groups. Visit www.misformonster.com for more information. (This program was started by a local mom!)

YMCA Healthy Kids Day Over 1,500 Ys across the country are taking part in Healthy Kids Day, holding free community events that are open to all kids and families and filled with fun, active play and educational opportunities. Get your family started on a healthy lifestyle by visiting nutrition and fitness education stations. Details: Healthy Kids Day at the YMCA at the Heights is set for April 12th from 11 a.m.-1 p.m., South YMCA is set for April 19th from 9 a.m.-12 p.m. and the Fairborn YMCA is scheduled for April 26th from 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Visit www.ymca.net to get the dates and times for your local Y.

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FOUR Great Family Road Trip

DESTINATIONS So much to explore just a few hours from Dayton Michelle Shirk

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hose living in the Dayton area are fortunate to have tons of great destinations within easy driving distance. We’ve rounded up a few of the best so you can start planning your summer vacation!

FRENCH LICK,IN

If your kids love the water, set aside time for Big Splash Adventure Indoor Water Park & Resort (www. bigsplashadventure.com), with its pirate-themed tube slides, body slides and lazy river. Day passes are limited but can be reserved in advance. For drier fun, board the French Lick Scenic Railway (www.frenchlickscenicrailway.org) to enjoy a 20 -mile round-trip journey through Southern Indiana.

Village (www.santaclausmuseum.org).

For a more educational experience, the Lincoln Boyhood Home National Memorial (www.nps.gov/libo/) commemorates the 14 years Abraham Lincoln spent in Indiana. Visitors can watch a short film about Lincoln’s youth and tour a simulated 1820’s homestead. The journey into history continues at Lincoln Pioneer Village (www.lincolnpioneervillage.com) in Rockport.

(3 hours, 30 minutes)

Step back in time by booking a room at one of two historic hotels at the French Lick Resort (www. frenchlick.com). The French Lick Springs Hotel offers eight eateries, a bowling alley and organized children’s activities. The more upscale West Baden Springs Hotel boasts seven additional restaurants, an awe-inspiring atrium and a Saturday afternoon tea service. Visitors can also explore five miles of hiking trails or sign up for horse/pony rides at the onsite stable.

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SPENCER COUNTY, IN (3 hours, 46 minutes)

SEVIER COUNTY, TN (5 hours, 7 minutes)

While this area is best known for Holiday World & Splashin’ Safari (www. holidayworld.com), Santa Claus’s holiday-themed amusement park, there are plenty of additional reasons to visit. Those wishing to remain in the Christmas spirit can pick up some gourmet candy canes at Santa’s Candy Castle (www.santascandycastle.com) or write a letter to the big guy at the Santa Claus Museum &

If you haven’t visited the Pigeon Forge/Sevierville/ Gatlinburg region lately, make this your year! Tom Adkinson, representative of the Pigeon Forge Department of Tourism, clued us in to what’s new in the area.

A family-friendly roller coaster called “FireCatcher

Express” will join Dollywood’s (www.dollywood. com) already impressive lineup of attractions this season. Fun-seekers should also check out the milelong, self-controlled Smoky Mountain Alpine Coaster (www.smokymountainalpinecoaster.com).

When it comes to excitement, though, it’s tough to top the natural wonders at Great Smoky Mountains National Park (www.nps.gov/grsm).

Visitors can enter the park via Gatlinburg or nearby Townsend.

The new Island in Pigeon Forge (www.islandinpigeonforge.com) complex offers calmer forms of entertainment including shopping and dining. The Island is home to the popular Great Smoky Mountain Wheel, and Jimmy Buffet’s Margaritaville will be opening there this summer.

No Sevier County vacation would be complete without some great food! For “down home” cuisine including free apple fritters with every order, head to Sevierville’s Applewood Farmhouse Restaurant & Farmhouse Grill (www.applewoodfarmhouserestaurant.com).

ST. LOUIS,

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(5 hours, 26 minutes)

The 630-foot tall Gateway Arch (www.gatewayarch. com) is probably the city’s most famous spot. In addition to snapping a photo out front, families can go underneath the arch to view two different films, tour the Museum of Westward Expansion or travel by tram to the top of the arch for dramatic views.

Quirky City Museum (www. citymuseum.org), another St. Louis must-do, offers tons of places for kids to explore, including a multi-storied cave, “Skateless Park,” art studio and more. Finally, top off your trip by getting up close and personal with penguins and hippos at the St. Louis Zoo (www.stlzoo. com). Admission is free, but parking costs $15.00 during peak season.

Ready to hit the road yet?

Wherever your travels take you this summer, we hope you have a fabulous time!

TURNER TRAVEL

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M A N A G I N G

D I F F I C U L T

TI PS FOR HAND L ING A C HILD’S RESTRICTIV E DIETA RY R EQ U IR E M E N TS

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lanning meals the entire family will happily eat is a challenge. If your child is diagnosed with a diet-altering health condition, the task can seem overwhelming.

“All too often family diets consist of ‘on-the-run’ drive-through meals or media-promoted convenience foods. Lifestyle patterns lacking consistent meal planning are not conducive to healthy or special diets,” says Nancy Nevin-Folino, neonatal nutrition specialist at Dayton Children’s Hospital and consulting dietician with Pediatric Associates of Dayton. She suggests parents of children with dietary restrictions begin with a notebook to store all information received from doctors, dietitians and support networks.

Menus, product lists and emergency plans should be included as well. It is also very important for parents to have an “open door policy” letting kids talk about the challenges their diets bring. “I recommend involving the entire family when a diet is impacted,” says Nevin-Folino.

“For example, each child could regularly help plan, shop for and prepare a weekday meal.

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Teaching all family members to be capable of healthy diet practices is your goal.”

G LUTEN INTOLE RA NC E Glutens are proteins found in specific grains of wheat, rye, oats, malt and barley and are often hidden in processed foods and restaurant meals. Celiac disease is an autoimmune disorder in which ingesting gluten damages the small intestine and reduces nutrient absorption.

Treatment is 100% avoidance of gluten for life. Nevin-Folino suggests keeping a list of acceptable snacks, foods and restaurants to share with anyone who cares for your child. Pack provisions or ensure appropriate food is available at school and activities. Go to tasting events at stores and expositions to discover new food possibilities. Involving your child in food choices will increase compliance and acceptance. “Offering opportunities to make choices and exert some control will help transition dietary responsibilities from parent to child,” says Nevin-Folino.

INFLAMMATORY BOWE L DISEASE Crohn’s and colitis are two chronic inflammatory conditions of the gastrointestinal tract. Each patient has a unique treatment. The goal is to control inflammation and achieve remission. Treatment can include medication, alterations in diet and nutrition, and sometimes surgical procedures to repair or remove affected portions of the GI tract. Nutritionists can develop a diet to help reduce symptoms, replace lost nutrients and promote healing. Make sure to include your child in the selection of menu items and preferred snacks. Nevin-Folino says, “Require each child to shop and select items for their weekly snack basket, allowing them to be active participants in their diet.”

MULTIP LE FOOD A LLE RGIES If you suspect your child may be reacting to certain foods, check with your medical professional to determine if the problem is a food intolerance or an allergy.

Diets for both situations can be a challenge. An allergy requires a treatment plan for severe

reactions. Getting a diagnosis from an allergist/immunologist using reliable methods is critical, such as a skin prick test, blood test, food challenge or elimination diet. Parents must be prepared to read every label as ingredients change without warning and familiarize themselves with “hidden” sources of allergens. “It is imperative to educate yourself and everyone who has contact with your child,” explains Nevin-Folino. “Connecting with families in support groups who have ‘blazed the trail’ is extremely helpful.”

BE I NG S E NS I T I V E Strict diets can be a source of embarrassment and frustration for kids. As a parent, be discrete when providing food substitutes at public activities, yet steadfast and consistent despite any objections your child may have.

Communicate with other parents and restaurants in advance to discuss menu decisions, reducing this dialogue in the presence of your child. Try seeking out new and appealing recipes and products. Eventually food favorites will surface and your child will learn that feeling better is worth the sacrifices.

eliminating hidden triggers for asthma and allergies

Eliminating Hidden Triggers for Asthma and Allergies Kohl’s Cares and Dayton Children’s offer green cleaning tips

By Dayton Children’s Hospital

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hen you have a child with asthma or allergies, spring can trigger more than the start of summer. As trees begin to bloom and spring cleaning become top-of-mind, you want to eliminate asthma and allergy triggers such as pollen, dust mites, mold and pet dander. Remember, you also need to be aware of how cleaning itself can be a trigger. This month, the Kohl’s A Minute for Kids campaign offers some green cleaning advice.

“Hidden allergens can be found everywhere in the home,” says Shalini Forbis, MD, general academic pediatrician and Dr. Mom Squad member at Dayton Children’s. “Green cleaning products and practices are not only better for our environment, but they also help reduce the triggers that may worsen asthma and allergy symptoms.”

Dr. Forbis offers these four “green” cleaning tips as you begin your spring cleaning:

1. Use your nose.

Select cleaning products without strong or harsh scents. Always follow instructions on cleaning products and keep lids and caps tightly sealed when not in use. Ingredients from solids and liquids give off vapors that we inhale and may enter our body tissues irritating the eyes, nose and lungs. Try to use as few cleaning products as possible.

2. Read labels.

Avoid products marked “Danger” or “Poison.” Reduce your use of products marked “Caution” or “Warning.”

Lessen your use of

products containing volatile organic compounds (VOCs). These include aerosol sprays, cleaners, disinfectants, moth repellents and air fresheners.

3. Look for “green” products.

Some have been certified by an independent institution such as GreenSeal. Just because something has a “natural-sounding” name doesn’t mean it is free of chemicals you want to avoid.

4. Make your own.

You can make your own cleaning products from simple and inexpensive ingredients such as vinegar, baking soda, lemon juice, salt, soap and water. There are many books and online resources to help you make your own cleaning products.

“Keeping a clean home is a necessity,” says Dr. Forbis. “However, if cleaning odors or scented products trigger your child’s asthma or allergies, move the child to a safe area until the odor is gone.”

In addition to using products that have minimal irritants, there are also many things that you can do in each area of your home to control asthma and allergy triggers.

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stoves and refrigerators where crumbs can hide and attract bugs.

Clean surfaces daily, floors weekly and the refrigerator, cabinets and backsplashes monthly.

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Use dust mite-proof covers for pillows, mattresses and box springs.

Wash sheets and blankets weekly in 130F water.

Vacuum weekly using a closedcanister vacuum with a HEPA filter or double bag.

Keep windows closed during pollen season.

Do not allow smoking in the house or outside near windows and doors.

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Regularly check for water damage or leaks and use a dehumidifier to reduce dampness.

Promptly repair and seal leaking roofs and pipes.

If mold or mildew is visible in the carpeting or wall covering, remove these from your house.

If the mold or mildew cannot be removed, spray straight vinegar on the wall, let it dry and do.

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Use an exhaust fan to control moisture while showering.

Avoid use of aerosol sprays such as hairspray or bathroom deodorizers which can quickly irritate allergies or asthma.

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Use exhaust fans to reduce strong cooking fumes and smoke and to limit moisture while cooking.

Clean and put dishes away after each meal.

Keep all food in sealed containers and dispose of expired items.

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those in the know

Those in the Know: Preschool Teachers How will I know if my child is ready for preschool? I’m on the fence whether I should send him next year or not, and it seems like the decision I make now will affect the rest of his schooling.

Children are ready to be in a preschool program when they are fully potty trained, meet the age requirements of the program you are interested in, and able to communicate their basic needs. The preschool environment provides the social interactions and cognitive enrichment which young children crave. In addition, I have found that children enrolled in preschool are emotionally more prepared for the Kindergarten environment; not to mention the parents! Kindergarten used to be about learning the ABC’s and 123’s.

Now, children are expected to enter Kindergarten with a grasp on letter and number identification, directional concepts, sequencing events and ready to write. They also need to be able to help themselves with tissues, coats, shoes and in the restroom. In addition to all these skills, the ability to interact with other students and teachers in a positive way to resolve issues or work together towards a goal is a key component to early and continued

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success for your little student.

At preschool, we work with children and families on a daily basis introducing, practicing and re-enforcing all the skills and concepts needed to be ready cognitively, socially and emotionally on that very first day of Kindergarten.

Submitted by Gretchen Carey, Director, Mother Brunner Preschool

My daughter is very shy and having a hard time participating in activities at school and making friends. What can her teacher and I do to help her?

There are many simple things you can both do to encourage her to take part in classroom activities and make new friends. Try suggesting opportunities for play and interaction, for instance, you could say, “Wow! Look at what Elsie is doing! She is playing with sand in the sensory table.

There is a spot open next to her. You could go over and play in the sand too!” If she is still resistant, you can host a play-date with another child at your home, where she is most comfortable. By building a relationship with another child outside of school, where there is less transition, stimulation and new situations, she

may feel more comfortable approaching and playing with that friend in the classroom environment. The teacher can also provide opportunities for the children to bring, show or incorporate things from their home into the classroom. At our school, we have a weekly “Show & Share” which gives children an opportunity to get involved and share something that they are excited about and that is special to them with the class. When she interacts and participates, reinforce the behavior by praising her and talking about it together.

It may be a slow process, but with your support and encouragement, she will further develop those social skills.

that program is right for your child and your family.

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What programs do they offer? Is it a stand-alone preschool or also a daycare?

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What is the student to teacher ratio?

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Is the school teacher-centered (art is prescribed, there is teacher or storebought materials on the walls) or student-centered (children continue activities if they are learning, art is based on the process and children’s unique work is evident)?

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What type of parent communication is used? Ask for examples.

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Ask to speak with a teacher while they are on. Ask about a typical day and what she is excited about in her class and the school.

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Is there time in the day for large motor, noisy, joyful expression? How long?

Submitted by Krista Curry, Center Director, Kids R Kids of Springboro

I will be interviewing potential preschools soon. When I walk in the door, what should I be looking for that would indicate that this will be a good setting for my child?

When picking a preschool it is a good idea to outline what is important to you and optimize your time by reading their entire website prior to your visit.

The answers to the following questions and the way you are treated will give you an idea if

You are your child’s advocate and first teacher and good programs will appreciate the value that you place in your child’s first educational program.

Submitted by Meredith L. Florkey, Director of Curriculum, First School

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MANAGING DIFFICULT DIETS

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ADVANCES FOR AUTISM

SUPPORT AND UNDERSTANDING OF ASD CONTINUES TO GROW SARAH MCCOSHAM

In fact, Ware says that nutrition is a major component of today’s autism therapy. She explains that many children with autism are unable to fully break down casein and gluten and have compromised GI tracts, resulting in undigested proteins “leaking” into the bloodstream. Removing high allergen and GMO foods helps facilitate the GI tract to heal, which can help alleviate hyperactivity and attention issues common in children with ASD. Ware adds that allergy and blood tests are commonly used to determine allergies or nutritional deficiencies of kids with autism spectrum disorders.

As far as speech and behavioral therapies are concerned, Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy is most commonly used, as years of study and research have verified its effectiveness. ABA therapy works to modify various forms of behavior, including language, socialization and daily living skills. Because ABA therapy has been so widely researched and studied, many insurance companies now cover this form of treatment.

PUBLIC SUPPORT

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pril is Autism Awareness Month – and it’s quite possible you know someone whose life is impacted by autism. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimate that one in 88 children is affected by an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), which includes Asperger syndrome, pervasive developmental disorder and autism.

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support networks and a growing acceptance from the general population, there are numerous reasons to be hopeful about the future for those dealing with autism.

NEW APPROACHES

Kara Ware, Owner of Dayton’s Integrated Connections, says that today’s approach to treating autism is more comprehensive than ever – combining speech, occupational, and physical therapy; psychiatric interventions; and even diet.

Awareness for autism has grown significantly in recent years. Due to the number of children being diagnosed, it’s likely that neurotypical kids have shared a classroom with a student with ASD. Dayton Autism Society President Elizabeth Redmon says that autism awareness has helped make the public more tolerant. “As the world becomes more aware of what autism is, they are more understanding of those affected by it. We notice that most people know someone with autism, so they are more sympathetic when seeing an adult or child with

a disability like autism who is out in public and having a difficult time,” she explains.

Ware adds that the early diagnosis of children with ASD has affected public perception as well. “We are seeing more and more families begin treatments between the ages of 2 and 5. People are now beginning to understand that autism is treatable – and beginning treatment early gives kids a much better chance to live independent lives,” she says.

CARING COMMUNITIES

Families living ASD today have the support of a very extensive community. The Dayton Autism Society is a great place for families to start, says Redmon. “We provide information, resources, financial assistance and events for families in the Miami Valley area.”

Ware says that connecting with the larger ASD community is key for maintaining perspective and a positive attitude.

“Families need to understand this is a lifetime commitment to supporting our health,” she says. “It’s not just about supporting our kids; it’s about healing our families.” Ware adds that Integrated Connections offers many programs to support parents.

Because of public support, awareness and advances in ASD treatment and therapy, the future is looking brighter than ever for those affected by ASD. “By continuing to focus on early intervention, we hope to see a lessening in the effects of autism,” says Redmon.

“More students with ASD are going to college than ever before, which we hope will lead to more adults being integrated into the community.”

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By Vivian O’Connell, Communications Manager, United Rehabilitation Services

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arenting is a commitment filled with a multitude of challenges and responsibilities. The degree of difficulty increases significantly when your child has a disability or special need with the added stress of juggling doctor’s appointments, therapies, behavioral issues, and school integration. United Rehabilitation Services (URS) understands these challenges and provides solutions for both children and parents.

URS is the region’s leading provider of high-quality Early Childhood Education Programs for infants and children, ages 6 weeks to 17 years, not just for children with developmental delays or disabilities but

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also typically developing children.

Licensed by the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services, URS’ Childcare Center has 3 Stars in the “Step Up To Quality Program”, a voluntary “star” rating system in Ohio that ensures centers meet an extensive list of quality benchmarks including low child-to-staff ratios, staff education, specialized training, and early learning standards.

The excellent services offered also address the gamut of unique and special needs including Autism, Sensory Processing Disorder, Down syndrome and Cerebral Palsy. The center offers programs for Infants, Toddlers, Preschoolers, Schoolaged as well as Latchkey programs for youth ages 12 to 17 with before and after school and all-day summer enrichment. URS is the only center of its kind offering acute-care services with two onsite nurses providing g-tube feedings, catheterization, breathing treatments, and seizure monitoring. This level of care is reassuring to working parents who require childcare that meets the critical-care needs of their child. URS offers a monthly family support group using the “Parent Café” model in the evening with complimentary childcare and dinner for the whole family. Group activities are facilitated by parents providing resources and educa-

tion to families.

URS offers specialized Therapy Services onsite to the children in the Childcare Center, as well as hundreds of other outpatients weekly.

A team of ten highlyskilled and licensed therapists provide Physical, Occupational, and Speech Therapies, including Therapeutic Listening, VitalStim Swallowing Therapy, Augmentative Communication, and the Region’s only Pediatric Aquatic Therapy Program. Having therapies under the same roof saves parents time and the daunting task of attending multiple appointments after work. The therapy team also works with classroom staff to integrate clinical goals into the classroom environment resulting in more rapid progress.

Caden, 5, was born with several genetic disorders including a cleft lip/ pallet and apraxia, making speech more difficult due to lack of muscle memory. When his family came to the Wright Patterson Air Force Base three years ago, his parents, Drew and Stacy, searched for the best option for Speech and Occupational Therapies and found URS. Because of his limited attention span and inability to control his impulses, Caden’s therapy team recommended Therapeutic Listening, an Occupational Therapy Modality that is highly effective for treating people

Caden of all ages who have difficulty processing sensory information, listening, and communicating. Caden’s progress has been life-changing for him and has dramatically changed how he interacts with his family and his friends. Therapeutic listening has given him the ability to develop a filter, control his reactions and follow directions.

United Rehabilitation Services (URS) was founded in 1956 as the Dayton Chapter of United Cerebral Palsy and today serves more than 3,000 children and adults annually with a variety of disabilities or special needs, including Cerebral Palsy, Down Syndrome, Muscular Dystrophy, Autism, and Alzheimer’s.

The agency is committed to providing compassionate care for the span of a person’s life, from infancy through the senior years.

URS’ signature event is the annual Rubber Duck Regatta in September at Riverscape, which supports the agency’s mission of enhancing the quality of life for children and adults with disabilities or other special needs in the Miami Valley. For more information, visit www.ursdayton.org or call 937-233-1230.

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KIDS & SEX ED

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Pushing past “awkward” to convey what kids need to know | Rebecca A. Hill

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f you are like many adults, your first introduction to the topic of sex came from a book handed to you from an embarrassed parent or an awkward one-time conversation on the subject from mom or dad. Likely, the important messages they wanted you to understand were never conveyed because of their own uncomfortableness with the situation. Although talking to a child about sex may never be easy, the stakes of not having the discussion are too high to ignore. How should parents approach this vital topic?

It’s also key to remember that a question from a young child like “where do babies come from” doesn’t require great detail at this age. Although it may feel awkward, Beck says it is important to show your willingness to address these topics so your child will feel comfortable coming to you with these types of questions over time. Equally important, says Dr. Claire McCarthy, Assistant Professor in Pediatrics at Harvard University, is to engage your child in a discussion rather than preaching to them, letting them talk about what they know and what they’ve heard.

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More than just “The Talk”

Start early

Talking about sex with kids is easier if you begin the conversation when they are young and curious about their bodies.

Dr. Candace Beck of The Children’s Medical Center of Dayton says that because we live in a sex-saturated environment, our children are being exposed to sexual messages and images on a regular basis – so it is important to start talking about the subject when they are still small.

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A single conversation on the subject of sex can’t cover the many facets of sex education kids need to understand. As children grow, more questions come to light, which makes maintaining an ongoing conversation critical. When Dayton Parent’s Facebook readers were asked for their input on the subject, Kimberly W. said that keeping an open line of communication and always being available to answer ques-

tions is critical. “We point out that questions should come to us, instead of friends.”

Dr. McCarthy agrees. “Parents need to establish that these are conversations they can have together, that their child can come and talk to them if they have questions or worries.”

Looking at the statistics however, one wonders how many parents are having these conversations. According to the Guttmacher Institute’s Facts on American Teens’ Sources of Information about Sex, most teens initiate sex in their late teen years and most sexually experienced teens did not receive formal instruction about contraception before they initiated sex. While this doesn’t mean that parents aren’t talking to their kids about sex, it could mean that we need to get better at it.

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Beyond school sex ed Many parents let the topic of sex education become the responsibility of their child’s school. Dr. McCarthy however, is adamant that school sex

education is not a substitute for parent-child conversations.

“While they supplement and often say things that parents can’t say, kids need to hear things from their parents.”

Dr. Beck says moms and dads need to cover the physical and emotional aspects of sex as well as their values surrounding the subject. “Parents should find opportunities to engage in discussions about the meaning of sex, what goes into the decision to have sex and how to cope with the pressure to have sex,” said Dr. Beck. Other topics like mutual sexual respect, sexual orientation and abstinence should also be discussed.

When parents put in the time to address these topics with their kids, their messages do stick.

Research shows that teens who talk to their parents about sex postpone sexual activity – especially risky behavior. Studies also show that parents are more influential in their children’s attitudes about sex than any other person.

The take-away from all this?

Although it may be uncomfortable at times, establishing an ongoing conversation about sex with your kids pays off in the long run. They’re listening.

Nearby to Try: Music Classes F

rom childhood to old age, music is something we enjoy our whole lifetime. And learning how to create music on one’s own – what a gift. Whether it’s playing an instrument or expressing oneself through song, incorporating music into a child’s life adds an element of creativity and satisfaction hard to beat in many other activities. Starting music lessons early opens the door to a lifelong pleasure.

Consider beginning your child’s musical journey with one of the many qualified instructors in our area.

mary focus is on healthy singing to preserve and encourage the voice to reach its potential. I also want to preserve and encourage the joy of singing and help people go beyond their fears of singing.” To schedule lessons or ask questions, contact call 937866-1746 or email www.davisvocalstudio.com or rjoydavis@ hotmail.com.

class facility and outstanding faculty offer children and adults a creative place to grow musically! Summer registration begins in April. Mention Dayton Parent Magazine to receive a 10% discount. Contact Jennifer Shoup at 937-426-6920 or online at www. pianopreparatoryschool.com.

The Piano Preparatory School

495 Miamisburg-Centerville Rd., Centerville

Davis Vocal Studio

For eight years, The Piano Preparatory School has provided exceptional music programming for the Dayton community. Our Early Childhood Music Program, which includes Beginning Violin Class, Beginning Piano Program and Music Makers, provides an excellent foundation for children expressing musical interests. Private lessons and group classes for children, teens and adults introduce piano, guitar, voice and violin in a professional setting.

Each summer we also offer engaging camps like the Science and Music Exploratorium, Philharmonious Strings and Music Theatre Workshop. Our first-

Miamisburg, Centerville and South Park Historic District Sing with Joy! Davis Vocal Studio offers students of all ages high quality vocal instruction in all genres of music. Instructor Joy Davis has a master’s degree in vocal pedagogy and performance as well as over 30 years teaching and performing experience. Students can take performance workshops as well as private lessons. In addition Joy has recitals to give her students the opportunity to perform in front of a live audience. Piano lessons are also available. “My pri-

3899C Indian Ripple Rd., Beavercreek

Guitar Lessons by Trent Guitar Lessons by Trent has been serving the south Dayton area for many years. I teach the electric guitar, acoustic guitar, bass guitar and the ukulele. Students of all ages and skill levels are welcome. I offer weekly half hour private lessons so the student will work one on one with me as they learn to play the correct way. I will “teach you the music that you want to play.” As one of my students you are free to bring in any type of music, the choice is yours. Local studio, theory and composition, BCI/FBI background checked, no contracts, very reasonable rates. You can reach me at trentsguitar@ gmail.com. Playing the guitar is fun! Sign up today.

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Bella Musica Lesson Studio & Music Store 2240 E. Central Ave. Suite 4, Miamisburg Bella Musica Lesson Studio & Music Store provides quality instruction on a variety of instruments.

Lessons and classes are offered for students ages 3 & up, and we are the only Dayton area studio to offer the Music for Young Children program – an interactive, multi-sensory approach to learning music. We also provide our students with a variety of performance opportunities throughout the year. Interested to see if music lessons are right for your child? Call us about our Try-it-for-Two Lesson Package. This $50 package includes two individual, 30-minute lessons on the instrument of your choice. Visit our website for more information www.bellamusicadayton.com or call us at 937865-6539.

Here are few other places that offer music lessons in the Dayton area: Centerville Music Hauer Music Company Kimberly’s Kindermusik Kincaid’s Is Music McCutcheon’s Music Music Together of South Dayton That Music Place

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RAISING ECO-FRIENDLY KIDS Simple ideas to encourage “being green” in your home | Jennifer Garcia

the more natural green practices are to them.”

“UNLESS SOMEONE LIKE YOU CARES A WHOLE AWFUL LOT, NOTHING IS GOING TO GET BETTER. IT’S NOT.” - The Lorax Many parents first heard the environmental message of Dr. Seuss’s The Lorax when the book came out in 1971. Encouraging these same “green” ideas for our children today is easier than one might think.

Before kids can learn to take care of the world around them, they have to learn to love it. That’s why environmental education experts encourage families to get outside and play in nature in order to build an appreciation for the environment.

“Starting young, even as early as a toddler, children learn environmental practices as a social behavior,” says Robin Ramsey, educator at the Boonshoft Museum of Discovery in Dayton.

“The earlier they learn,

Children are handson learners, so making a game out of environmental lessons helps these messages sink in. Kids can aid with recycling by smashing cardboard boxes, and sort cans and bottles by color, size or recycling numbers.

With a parents help, they can shred junk mail and repurpose it into paper mache art. Working together with your children provides an opportunity for you to talk about how our actions impact the environment, in good and bad ways.

“PLANT A NEW TRUFFULA. TREAT IT WITH CARE. GIVE IT CLEAN WATER. AND FEED IT FRESH AIR.” - The Lorax “Playing outside helps to build an appreciation for nature, which in turn helps build an appreciation for the environment.” says Ramsey. She suggests giving your child a portion of the back yard and allowing them the freedom and responsibility to manage the space.

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or vegetables, build a fort, or simply let their imaginations run wild.

“You would be amazed at what your child will do with a little green space of their own,” she says.

Try some of these fun activities to get kids out and enjoying nature: •

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Plant a butterfly garden and watch the insects flock to your yard.

Make a bird feeder out of used plastic containers.

When possible, walk or ride a bike instead of driving.

Make compost out of table scraps and have fun preparing an “earthworm picnic.”

Install a rain barrel and use it to water their garden.

Volunteer to help clean a park or river.

“A PERSON’S A PERSON, NO MATTER HOW SMALL.” - HORTON HEARS A WHO Children – and parents too, for that matter – may feel that their efforts are too small to make a difference against a challenge as big as saving the environment. But there are many things families can do that really add up to significant change.

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Turn water off while brushing teeth.

Switch to environmentally friendly cleaning products.

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Lower your thermostat by one degree.

While driving, slow down by two mph.

Change incandescent bulbs to LED light bulbs.

Use reusable food containers to pack your lunch.

Turn off lights, computers and electronic devices when not in use.

Use reusable bags at the grocery.

Write an “Earth Day Pledge” with your children, promising to follow through on whatever actions you decide to take as a family.

“IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT IT IS; IT’S ABOUT WHAT IT CAN BECOME.” - The Lorax How can you relay to small children the big picture of how their actions today can change the world around them?

By choosing to model the positive behaviors that you would like to see them embrace. “If you start having your child practice green practices it will become natural to them and they should see it as a normal behavior,” Ramsey says.

Talk with your kids about what they would like to do to care for the planet and begin incorporating a few green practices in your home today!

In honor of the 40th anniversary of Earth Day (Tuesday, April 22), Five Rivers Metroparks is giving away free tree seedlings at 2nd Street Market on Friday, April 11 from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. and Saturday, April 12, 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. No registration required. 600 E. Second St., Dayton.

To learn more, visit www.metroparks.org.

with so many opportunities, why camp?

With So Many Opportunities, Why Camp?

The many benefits of a camp experience By the American Camp Association

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amilies today have more options than ever before – a buffet of movies, museums, picnics, parks, classes, vacations and so much more. With all of these options, why should families choose camp?

Choose to learn Camp is an experiential education like no other. Children learn life lessons like independence, leadership and self-confidence in an environment designed specifically for them. Camp is made up almost entirely of teachable moments.

Through fun and hands-on experiences, campers have the opportunity to grow and develop the skills needed to be productive, successful adults.

“Childhood is not passive, and children are natural learners when provided the appropriate environment,” says Peg Smith, chief executive officer for the American Camp Association. “Camp serves as the solution to many of the gaps in our current education system – teaching values such as self-esteem, teamwork and caring.” And because of the hands-on nature of camp, everyone, not just the “A” student and the athlete, has the opportunity to thrive and enjoy the process of learning.

Camp is fundamental in the national discussion around the need for high-quality summer programs to keep students engaged in learning, and encourage them to develop new skills and previously unseen talents. According to the National Summer Learning Association (NSLA) and research conducted by Johns Hopkins sociology professor

Karl Alexander, intentional summer programs, like camp, help stem summer learning loss – providing experiences that challenge children, develop talents, keep them engaged and expand horizons.

chores, music lessons and organized sports, children are losing time to play. Emerging research continues to show that good, oldfashioned play is important to physical and psychological development.

The camp community is committed to providing positive experiences for all children. It is projected that ACA camps provide more than $216 million annually in tuition assistance. There is a broad range of camps that serve every interest and every family situation – there is literally a camp experience perfect for every child.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, free and unstructured play is healthy and, in fact, essential for helping children reach important social, emotional, and cognitive developmental milestones, as well as helping them manage stress and become resilient.

Choose nature

Choose camp

Camp also provides critical contact with the natural world. In her article, “A Field Guide to Preserving Childhood,” Smith writes, “For generations, children grew up outside.

They walked to school, rode their bikes and walked barefoot through the grass. Childhood was characterized by innocence, imagination, wonder and laughter.”

Camp allows children the opportunity to relax and just be kids. They can unplug from electronics, and plug into the world around them – taking time to really invest in developing relationships with peers and mentors. Camp teaches that friends come in all shapes and sizes, and from all backgrounds. ACA research indicates that 96 percent of campers made new friends, and 93 percent of campers met people that were different from them.

The camp experience helps develop authentic friendships and a sense of community, while making children more aware of the world around them.

Today’s generations are losing more than just time in the outdoors. In a study by two Cornell University environmental psychologists, findings show that being close to nature can help boost a child’s attention span. And studies show that time in nature can help reduce stress and protect children from future stress.

In some instances, camp may be the only time a child is in contact with the natural world.

Choose powerful play Kids often spend over seven hours each day plugged in to some kind of electronic medium. That’s more time than they spend doing anything else besides sleeping. With schedules packed with homework,

should families choose camp? Because it’s good for life!

How can families begin their own camp experience?

By visiting ACA’s family resource site, www.CampParents.org, families have access to information and guidance as they search for the perfect camp experience. ACA’s Find A Camp search allows families to look for a camp based on region, activity, cultural focus, budget, session length and much more! In addition, families can follow ACA on Facebook and Twitter for helpful hints and camp information.

The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote, and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-Accredited camps that meet up to 290 health and safety standards. For more information, visit www.ACAcamps. org.

For over 150 years, camp has been about making memories, honoring traditions and being a part of something bigger. Why

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camp & summer program guide

Dayton Rowing Club

Camp & Summer Program

Guide Busy Kids Gymnastics

3061 Wilmington Pike, Kettering, OH 45429 | 937-298-9191 | BUSYKIDSGYMNASTICS.COM | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 16-June 20, June 23-June 27,July 21-July 25 | 4-12 years of age | Cost: $125.00 per week Busy Kids Gymnastics Summer Camps are right around the corner! Are you ready to flip out? Gymnastics, Tumbling, Arts & Crafts, Fitness Games, Board Games, Karate, Hip-Hop and tons of more FUN!

Camp Invention

800.968.4332 | campinvention.org | 1st through 6th graders | Cost: $195-$220 Led by local educators, the weeklong Camp Invention experience immerses elementary school children in handson activities that reinvent summer fun.

Children spend their time building original prototypes, creating a personalized motor-powered vehicle and taking apart electronics to construct a pinball machine. Discounts available - register today!

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Cape Cod Children’s Farm

3187 E. Centerville Rd., Spring Valley, OH 45370 | 937-901-2826 | Specific Categories: 2 hour day camp in Petting zoo with crafts and pony rides | Dates: starting June 2nd Mondays only 10 -12 2-4 thru August 30th | 4-10 years of age | Cost: 50.00 per 2 hour session Children will enjoy hands on with the animals/ mini riding lesson or pony ride/ zip line/ fishing/ playground.

Settler SurvivaL Camp

1000 Carillion Blvd., Dayton, OH 45409 | 937-293-2041 | Specific Categories: Day Camp, Week-long | Dates: June 16-20, July 14-18, July 28-August 1 | Ages 8-12 | Cost: $140-$150 Experience a week long adventure of life in the Miami Valley from an early settler’s perspective. Learn about the journey to and founding of Dayton. Campers will participate in hearth cooking, creating tools for writing letters, candle dipping, and woodworking. Musket demonstrations and dancing are other highlights of the week.

124 East Helena St. (across from Island MetroPark), Dayton, OH | www.DaytonJuniorRowing.org/LearntoRow | Dates: June 23- August 23 | Grades 7-12 | Cost: $90 | Requirements of Campers: must be 5’3” or taller | Activities: rowing Youth Learn-to-Row A 3-day introductory course that teaches rowing terms & technique, how to handle equipment, water safety, and teamwork. Prerequisites: • must be able to swim • students in grades 7 -12 (as of Fall 2014) • 5’3” or taller.

Decoy Art Studio

1561 Grange Hall Rd., Dayton, OH 45432 | 937-431-4838 | Hours: www.decoy-art. com | Specific Categories: Summer Art Camps | Dates: Throughout the Summer Grades: K-12th | Cost: $95-200 At Decoy Art Studio, we thrive in helping others find their creativity. Learn the history, uses and create in each of our camps: pottery/clay, jewelry making, multi media super hero, painting, drawing, and graffiti art. Early enrollment rates - camp shirt included.

Hand 2 Hand Gymnastics

270 Hiawatha Trail, Springboro, OH 45066 | 937-743-1466 | www.hand2handgym.com | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Hours: Day Camp 8:30am 12:30pm | Dates: June 23 - 27 July 14 - 18 August 4 - 8 | Ages 4 - 10 | Cost: $99 per child now through April 30 -$125 after Join us for camp at H2H - each week is carefully planned with snacks, games, a daily craft and lots of gymnastics. Pick one week or come for them all! All Creatures Big & Small (June), Summer Blockbusters (July), Just Being a Kid (August)! 15% Sibling discount available. $99 through April 30 - $125 after April 30.

Kettering Parks and Recreation

our popular recreational day camps. Extended care hours are offered to participants in many of our summer camps. Full day and half day weekly camps are available. Register before April 26 for 10% off.

Miami ValleY School

5151 Denise Dr., Dayton, OH 45429 | 937434-4444 ext. 301 | www.mvschool.com/ summer-at-mvs | Specific Categories: Summer camps for pre-school through high school | Dates: June 16 - July 25 | Age 3 through twelfth grade | Cost: $260 - $325 per week Summer At MVS offers fun, enriching day camps, athletic clinics, academic camps and special interest programs for children from age 3 through high school. Our camps offer opportunities for innovative learning, inspired by curiosity and active exploration. They provide a safe, loving and encouraging environment. The strength of our camps comes from small group sizes, personal attention to every individual, and an experienced, professional staff committed to enriching students’ lives.

Camp ChillerNTPRD Chiller Ice Rink

301 W. Main St., Springfield, OH 45504 | 937-323-7465 | www.ntprdchiller.com | Dates: June 16-20, July 14-18, August 11-15 | Ages 4-11 | Cost: $150 for the week, $35/day pre-registration, $45/walk up | Activities Included: Ice Skating Camp Chiller introduces your child to ice skating with more than an hour on ice daily. Off ice activities include skating & hockey themed games, art projects, indoor and outdoor activities and more.

Precious Ones Learning Center Summer Camp

3600 Shroyer Rd., Kettering, OH 45429 | 937-307-0593 | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 2 - Aug. 11 | Ages 3-17 | Cost: $50 - $150 per week

3009 Shakertown Rd., Beavercreek, OH 45434 | 937-429-9858 | www.beavercreekchristian/polc | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Ages 3-12

Swimming, art camps, field trips, sports camps, environmental education and more fun-filled activities are offered at

Fieldtrips, onsite arts and crafts, sports, community service and more. Part time and full time programs available!

camp & summer program guide

Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camp

Address: Xavier University, Kenyon College, University of Notre Dame | 330333-2267 | www.wilsontenniscamps.com Specific Categories: Residential & Day Camp Options | Dates: June and July 2014 | Ages/Grades: 8-18 / Grades 2-12 | Cost: $375 - $735 Beautiful college campuses set the background for the Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camps. It’s here where boys and girls, ages 8 – 18, experience a structured curriculum. Catering to all skill levels, our camps offer 51⁄2 – 6 hours of tennis ev eryday. Each camper is exposed to personal instruction as well as various formats of match play.

Spring Valley Academy Preschool Summer Camp

1461 E. Spring Valley Pike, Centerville, OH 45458 | 937-433-0790 | Specific Cat-

egories: Day Camp | Dates: June 2-July 3 & July 7-Aug 8 | Ages 3-5 (fully potty trained) | Requirements of Campers: fully potty trained Oh The Places We’ll Go! Now enrolling preschool children to travel this summer on a journey of exciting discoveries, creativity, fun and learning through different means of transportation. Children will enjoy enriching experiences through special guests, field trips and hands-on exploration. Call today to reserve your spot!

TWIGS Kids

1900 S. Alex Road, West Carrollton, OH 45449 | 937-866-8356 | www.twigskids. com | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: All Summer Long! (June 9-Aug. 15) | Ages: 4-13 | Cost: $150.00 Weekly Rate or $1,200 for the full summer!

TWIGS Kids has AWESOME week long summer camps for kids that like to move!

Each week has a special theme with games and activities. Each week includes: gymnastics, trampoline, swimming, giant slip and slide, field trips, and crafts. (Full and half day options available).

YMCA Camp Kern

5291 St. Rt. 350, Oregonia, OH 45054 | 513-932-3756 | www.campkern.org | Specific Categories: Residential & Day Camp Options | Dates: June 15th - August 9th | Ages 5-16| Cost: $265-$665 YMCA Camp Kern is a year round facility offering a various range of experiences in the outdoor world. Our Summer Camp Program run as individual one week sessions throughout the eight week summer. We have a variety of programming from Day Camp and Residential Camp, to Teen programs and fully themed Literary Camp such as Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Rangers Apprentice and Star Wars!

University of DaytonCampus Recreation

300 College Park, Dayton, OH 45469 | 937-229-2731 | go.udayton.edu/campusrec | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Hours: 7:30a - 5:30p | Dates: Eight weekly sessions, June 2 - August 1 | Ages 6-12 | Cost: $160/week

Inspiring 6 to 12 year-olds to lead healthy, happy lives. Eight weekly sessions are designed around a fun and interactive theme where campers and counselors become designers of their own learning through engaging activities. There will be opportunities for swimming, climbing, playing sports, creating art projects, and so much more.

School of Rock Mason Summer Camps

755 Reading Road Suite 1, Mason, OH 45040 | 513-770-1257 | http://mason. schoolofrock.com | Specific Categories : Day Camp | Dates: June 16-20 and 23-27; July 7-18; August 4-8 | Ages: 7-18 | Cost Range: $400-450 per week Put on a concert in a PERFORMANCE CAMP (Led Zeppelin June 16-20 and Hard Rock June 23-27). Make a CD in two-week SONGWRITING & RECORDING CAMP (July 7-18). Just starting off ROCK 101 CAMP (August 4-8).

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ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

Timed math facts, test success and reading stamina

By Deb Krupowicz

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Why do teachers insist on kids doing timed tests on math facts? The pressure is more than my daughter can handle.

The research is mixed on whether timed math fact quizzes are recommended or even valuable. Many students do experience anxiety and frustration when trying to beat the clock.

Rather than console your daughter by telling her these quizzes don’t matter, focus her attention on the real goal: quick recall of those facts. When a student has mastered these facts, she has laid a solid foundation for more challenging and advanced math skills.

She will move into double- and triple-digit multiplication, long division and fraction work with much greater confidence if those facts are second nature to her. Without that solid foundation of basic math facts, she may understand the more advanced concept, but she will be frustrated with the time it takes her to complete problems.

She will likely be disheartened that even following all of the correct steps results in an incorrect answer because of an error with a basic fact. That may lead her to think she is not a strong math student.

Knowing basic math facts well can put her on the path to being a successful math student.

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My daughter works hard and does well in school except when it comes to tests. She just doesn’t seem to test well.

What can I do to help her?

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Test success comes from preparing early and preparing well.

Help your daughter carefully reflect on when she starts studying for a test and what she does specifically to prepare.

Encourage your daughter to set aside time for studying for short periods each day as soon as she knows a test is coming, or even in anticipation of a test at the end of a unit before a test date has been announced.

Reviewing lessons daily will make actual test preparation much easier.

Kids typically lock in on one preparation strategy and keep using it whether or not it is achieving the desired result. Rather than rely on one method (oral quizzing, for example), try something different.

Have your daughter write a test for you and then have her grade it. Write a song together using the key ideas she is studying. Have her create a cartoon that tells a story with the concepts that will be on the test.

It may take some experimentation to find out the most effective study strategies for your daughter, but the effort will pay off throughout her educational career.

Q

My son is in fourth grade and reads fairly well. However, he does not seem to be able to read for very long periods.

How can I get him to read for more than ten minutes at a time?

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Learning to read for a prolonged period of time takes practice, just like most skills. Before your son

starts to read, have him engage in something physically active for ten or fifteen minutes. Then, set a timer for ten minutes and read alongside him. When the timer goes off, time him doing something active for two or three minutes. Reset the timer for ten minutes and read some more. Repeat this daily for three or four days.

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When your son is able to stay focused on his reading for two ten-

minute blocks, his reading blocks should increase to 12 minutes each.

Follow the pattern of gradually increasing the number of minutes in the block to 15. Then start shortening the break period between the reading blocks.

As your son’s reading stamina increases, he will likely become more engaged in what he is reading. In no time, you will be able to eliminate using a timer.

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Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

april happenings

April Happenings

Springtime fun!

By Lisa Seibert, Community Executive, DaytonLocal.com

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o many things to do – so little time. Spring has sprung and there are many opportunities to learn new skills and have fun inside and outside! Remember to visit www.DaytonLocal.com for hundreds of events this month including a comprehensive list of Easter events.

The Dayton Metro Library’s Semi-annual Book Sale Hara Arena’s East Hall 937-278-4776 1001 Shiloh Springs Rd., Dayton, OH 45414 | April 4, 4 p.m. - 8 p.m., April 5, 10 a.m. - 7 p.m., April 6, 1 p.m. - 3 p.m.

Thousands of hardbacks, paperbacks, books for children, books for

adults, audio cassettes, CDs, videos and more, all at bargain basement prices. All proceeds benefit the Friends of the Dayton Metro Library.

Saturday Night Fox Hollow Rodeo 513-317-8725 | 1909 St. Route 73, Waynesville, OH 45068 | Admission: Adults $8, Children (6-12) $4 | April 5, 12, 19, 26 at 6 p.m.

Fox Hollow Rodeo offers both novice and jackpot bull riding, calf riding and sheep riding for the younger cowboys and cowgirls. Free pony rides and line dancing held during intermission with “The Old Music Box” DJ services playing all of your favorite line dancing tunes.

Seedling Saturdays at Carriage Hill MetroPark

advice from the Wildflower Volunteer Group to find the plants most suitable for your garden.

Registration required. (This program is weather dependent.) 937-278-2609 7800 E. Shull Road, Dayton, OH 45424 April 12 & 26, 9 a.m. – 12 p.m.

Family Day: Kites

Join the reforestation efforts and help plant tree seedlings. More than 4,000 new tree seedlings will be planted this spring in locations throughout MetroParks.

Wildflower & Native Plant Sale at Cox Arboretum 937-275-5053 | 6733 Springboro Pike, Dayton, OH 45449 | April 26, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

National Museum of the U.S. Air Force, | 937-255-4704 | 1100 Spaatz St., WrightPatterson AFB, OH 45433 | April 19, 10 a.m. – 3 p.m.

Celebrate Spring through fun demos and hands-on activities. Watch fascinating demonstrations of the incredible art of indoor kite flying and build and fly your own kite! Features story time and aerospace demonstration stations.

Browse the selection of unique wildflowers and native plants and get

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confessions of a stay-at-home dad

Death by a Thousand Kids Songs

True confessions of a stay-at-home dad

By Pete Gilbert

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t’s naptime. Scratch that, it’s supposed to be naptime. Instead of sleeping my two-year-old daughter is working on her own version of “What Does the Fox Say?” As she’s up there reciting the chorus over and over and over again I’m reminded of all the bad music my children have listened to over the years.

Of course I take no blame for this. The only musical influence I’m responsible for is my son’s love for Queen. He loves to walk around the house singing “We Will Rock You” and “Another One “Busta Dusta.”

No, the blame for this falls squarely on the shoulders of my wife. Currently, the two favorite songs in our house are “What Does the Fox Say?” and “Gangnam Style.”

Then, of course, with YouTube not only do you have to listen to the original version, but there are plenty of other horrible versions out there as well. For example, what’s worse than “Gangnam Style”?

How about the Chipmunks singing “Gangnam Style”? The SpongeBob version isn’t much better. Have you ever seen videos of peoples’

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Halloween decorations set to the beat of “What Does the Fox Say”?

I have probably 25 times. Once was enough.

The blame for the latest musical obsession around our home goes to Disney. Ever since seeing Frozen my two-year-old is obsessed with the song “Let It Go.” Anytime we turn on music she demands we change it to “Ready Go” as she says it. I noticed the YouTube video has over 100 million hits. Unbelievable. Doubtful it’s been seen by over 100 million people, more likely it’s a million households like mine that have watched it 100 times each.

Maybe I should stop resisting the Frozen soundtrack and just go along with it. “The cold never bothered me anyway.”

-Pete Follow “True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad” on Facebook for a link to blog posts and daily updates.

footnotes

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Sloppy little kingdom

By Kelly Blewett

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very parent needs a place where they can close the door and just relax. I imagine some parents have elaborate on-suite bathrooms where they while away the hours soaking in a tub.

Others likely luxuriate in some kind cozy sitting room, perhaps with a fireplace crackling in the background. I know these spaces exist, because I’ve seen them on HGTV. For me? I’ll take my basement.

No, it’s not actually a finished basement, technically. And there are no spa treatments or aromatherapy. My basement, like most basements, serves multiple purposes: off-season clothing storage, Christmas decoration depository, guest room, laundry room…and Mom’s little getaway.

I come down to the basement, snap on the lamps, gaze upon my always-in-progress laundry, and settle atop the guest bed with my laptop perched on a pillow. Black coffee is next to me in a Valentine’s Day mug. I survey my surroundings and I’m enormously grateful.

Grateful I know where the Christmas CDs are, and where I can find all those mix-tapes I made with friends during high school. Grateful for the pictures of my family and friends perched around the room in old frames. Grateful for the wooden desk that we will move to my son’s room when he gets old enough. And grateful for the peace and quiet!

I love this sloppy, little kingdom with all its layers of my past and my future. And though I’m at once its Queen and its Scullery Maid, I’ll embrace both jobs wholeheartedly – and try to guide the little people in my court as best I can. I feel reoriented, typing down here in my basement retreat, more sure of who I am and where I’m going.

I could spend hours down here, and maybe I should. I might be a better person for it. And I’ll go upstairs, really, in just a minute. I just need a few more sips of coffee.

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TUESDAY | 01 Busy Bee Kids’ Classes

Occurring Each Tuesday Price: $35 Beavercreek Resident; $40 Non resident Phone: 937-427-5514 Location: C. I. Beaver Hall, Beavercreek http://ci.beavercreek.oh.us/city-offices/ parks-and-recreation/ This wonderful parent and tot class was designed with the preschooler in mind Keep them moving, laughing, and learning while we dance, play and sing together. Grow your child’s imagination while we create a different craft each week. During the last class we will cook or bake something special. Please bring an old shirt for a cover-up to each class.

Material fee included. PRE REGISTRATION REQUIRED.

Drawing Club for Teens

Occurring Each Tuesday Price: $15 Phone: 937-431-4838 Location: Decoy Art Studio, Beavercreek www.decoy-art.com An after school program held weekly for teens grades 6-12th for those students

variety of aromas from leaves while appreciating the vibrant colors and shapes of wildflowers. A baby backpack or carrier is required, as trails are not strollerfriendly. Ages 0-2Y.

FRIDAY | 04 Children of Eden

Through Sunday, April 6th Price: $10 adults, $8 students, $5 K-8 Phone: 937-461-3740 Location: Chaminade Julienne Catholic High School, Dayton http://www.cjeagles.org/ CJ performing arts presents its spring musical, Children of Eden. Based on the story of Genesis, this heartwarming journey examines the relationships between parents and children. Storytellers weave the story of Adam and Eve, and Noah and the Ark to deliver the bittersweet, but inspiring message: The hardest part of love, is letting go. Tickets are $10 for adults and $8 for students ($5 grades K-8).

SATURDAY | 05 Father/Son Day!

who want to learn more and perfect their skills. Each month is a new medium of study which all supplies and materials are provided for. Students may bring in pieces they are currently working on or start fresh in class.

Price: $42 per father/son couple; $15 each additional member Phone: 937-431-4838 Location: Decoy Art Studio, Beavercreek www.decoy-art.com Children ages 8+. Canvas painting with Dad! All materials included. Snacks & soda will be provided.

THURSDAY | 03 A Plant’s Life

Gem City Comic Con

Price: FREE Phone: (937) 275-7275 Location: Sugarcreek MetroPark, Bellbrook http://www.metroparks.org/Parks/ Sugarcreek/ Explore trees, shrubs and wildflowers as we hike through the forest celebrating plant life. Babies will feel and smell a

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Through Sunday, April 6th Phone: (937) 775-3498 Location: Dayton Nutter Center, Dayton http://www.gemcitycomiccon.com/ Gaming, dealer booths, featured guests & speakers, tournaments, prizes and all things Comics!

MONDAY | 07 Home School Day

Price: Free Phone: 937-255-3286 Location: National Museum of the U.S. Air Force, Dayton http://www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/education/homeschool/index.asp Tours, hands-on workshops and activities for home school students.

TUESDAY | 08 The Short Tree and the Bird Who Couldn’t Sing

Price: $5 Phone: (937) 382-3643 Location: The Murphy Theatre, Wilmington http://www.themurphytheatre.org/ A wacky and charming fable of an unlikely friendship between a tree that resents its roots and a spunky, unflappable bird with a horrible singing voice.

As their relationship builds around the joys of music, storytelling, the weather and stars, the friends must navigate the ups and downs of getting to know one another. An entertaining and original story for children.

WEDNESDAY | 09 Sensory Friendly Roller Skating

Price: (937) 294-4032 Location: Skateworld, Kettering http://www.skateworldofkettering.com/ 2nd Wednesday of every month - no loud music or flashing lights!

$5.25 Wednesdays at Cinemark

Occurring Each Wednesday Phone: (937) 490-4900 Location: Cinemark on the Greene, Dayton http://www.cinemark.com/

// APRIL 2014 WEDNESDAY movies are just $5.25! *Restrictions apply. Available at Cinemark at The Greene in Beavercreek.

FRIDAY | 11 Date Night Train Ride

Phone: (513) 933-8022 Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe Railroad, Lebanon www.lebanonrr.com Want to do something different with your significant other, friends, or family that won’t break the bank? Come join the LM&M railroad for a memorable night! Departing every 2nd Friday of the month, take a nostalgic train ride from historic Lebanon to The Brazenhead Irish Pub in Mason.

SICSA’S SPRING EASTER BAZAAR

Through Saturday, April 12th Phone: 937.294.6505 Location: SICSA, Kettering http://www.sicsa.org/ Join us for our annual Easter Spring Bazaar! Dog and cat related crafts and gifts, T-shirts, homemade dog biscuits, pet and people gifts, spring gardening and planting items, collectibles, and much more. Visit our adoptable adoptable animals too! (Photos with the Easter Bunny are Saturday Only, 9am-3pm and $10) All proceeds benefit benefit SICSA!

SATURDAY | 12 5k/10k Run for the Health of It

Price: $25-$40 registration fee Phone: (937) 274-0126 Location: RiverScape MetroPark, Dayton www.jldayton.org This outdoor community recreation opportunity is sponsored by the Junior League of Dayton. Additional informa-

april calendar tion on the Junior League of Dayton’s website. See contact info to register.

From Sheep to Shawls

Through Sunday, April 13th Price: FREE Phone: (937) 278-2609 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark, Dayton www.metroparks.org Sheep played an important role on any 19th century farm. Watch as the sheep are sheared for the spring at 2 PM. Help card wool and watch as fabric is dyed using traditional methods. Come hear about the spinning process and factory production of wool. Watch spinners and weavers process the wool into yarn.

TUESDAY | 15 From Egg to Egg

Price: FREE Phone: (937) 276-7062 Location: Possum Creek MetroPark, Dayton www.metroparks.org Learn how an egg becomes a chick, who in turn becomes a hen, who then lays an egg. You will see how chicks grow in their eggs, touch a real chicken and do a chicken-related activity to take home. Ages 3Y-6Y.

THURSDAY | 17 The Generations Big Band

Price: $5 Phone: (937) 732-5173 Location: Jazz Central, Dayton http://www.jazzcentraldayton.com Family friendly event, bring the kids.

Tiny Thursday

Price: $6/child with member caregiver; $8/child with non-member caregiver Phone: (937) 223-5277 Location: Dayton Art Institute, Dayton http://www.daytonartinstitute.org Join us on Thursday mornings at The Dayton Art Institute for our popular child and caregiver preschool program, Tiny Thursdays. Ages 2-5 and a caregiver (baby siblings welcome) are invited

for storytime curated by The Dayton Metro Library, movement activities, a gallery visit and a make-and-take art project.

SATURDAY | 19 Be A Bunny Day

Price: FREE Phone: (937) 228-2088 Location: 2nd Street Market, Dayton www.metroparks.org Bring your kids to the Market a day before Easter and they can craft a funny bunny mask. They’re sure to hop out happy!

Celebrate Earth Day Adopt-A-Park

Phone: (937) 275-PARK (7275) Location: RiverScape MetroPark, Dayton metroparks.org/adopt Adopt-A-Park brings together volunteers of all ages and backgrounds to make the parks and river corridors healthier and friendlier places to visit.

There are many sites throughout the area where volunteers will participate in projects aimed at improving the environment. Opportunities include litter removal, tree planting, invasive species removal, gardening activities, and trail work. Registration closes April 7, 2014; groups are encouraged to register early.

Family Day: Kites

Price: Free Phone: 937-255-3286 Location: National Museum of the U.S. Air Force, Dayton http://www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/education/family/index.asp Celebrate Spring through fun demos and hands-on activities. Watch fascinating demonstrations of the incredible art of indoor kite flying and build and fly your own kite Features storytime and aerospace demonstration stations.

SUNDAY | 20 Annual Easter Egg Hunt Price: FREE Phone: (937) 325-0629

Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy, Yellow Springs http://youngsdairy.com/ This will mark the 32nd time we have hardboiled and dyed over 4,000 eggs for our Easter Egg Hunt. This event starts promptly at 2 PM for children ages 4 and under. At 2:20 PM we do it again for ages 5 to 7. At 2:40 PM we have the final hunt for ages 8 to 10.

Barnabe, our mascot, will be present, so bring your cameras and have your child’s picture taken with him for you to cherish for years to come. Rain (or snow!) or shine. After all, what else can we do with 4,000 hardboiled and dyed eggs?

TUESDAY | 22 Bring It On: The Musical

Through Wednesday, April 23rd Price: $30-$70 Phone: (937) 228-3630 Location: Benjamin & Marian Schuster Performing Arts Center, Dayton http://www.schustercenter.org Bitingly relevant and sprinkled with sass, it is inspired by the Bring It On film, takes the audience on a high-flying journey filled with the complexities of friendship, jealousy, betrayal and forgiveness. BRING IT ON: THE MUSICAL tells the story of the challenges and unexpected bonds formed through the thrill of extreme competition. With a colorful crew of characters, an exciting fresh musical sound, dynamic choreography and aerial stunts, this all-new musical is sure to be emotionally gratifying in its story of redemption and breathtaking with amazingly vibrant athleticism.

SATURDAY | 26 March for Babies

Phone: (937) 294-3330 Location: University of Dayton River Campus, Dayton www.marchofdimes.com/ohio We’re getting ready to walk in March for Babies! It promises to be a fun day out with people who share our passion for

improving the health of babies. There’ll be family teams, company teams and people walking with friends - it’s a great feeling knowing we’re all helping real families. Join our event and walk with us to raise money for babies right here in our community!

Train Rides at Carillion Park Railroad

Through Sunday, April 27th Phone: (937) 293-2841 Location: Carillion Park, Dayton www.daytonhistory.org Family Fun at the Carillon Historical Park Museum - take the kids for a train ride on their 1/8th scale railroad! Weather permitting at all passenger operations. Park admission required.

SUNDAY | 27 Student Music Recital

Price: FREE Phone: 937-865-6539 Location: Parkview United Methodist Church, Miamisburg http://www.bellamusicadayton.com/ The students of Bella Musica Lesson Studio will be presenting a music recital on Sunday, April 27, 2014 at 3:00 PM. There will be performances on a variety of instruments. If you are considering putting your child in music lessons, come meet the teachers and see what our students are learning.

WEDNESDAY | 30 Worm Composting Workshop

Price: $15 Phone: (937) 434-9005 Location: Cox Arboretum MetroPark, Dayton www.metroparks.org Learn the science and art of vermiculture and vermicomposting! Self-proclaimed “worm wrangler” Connie Duncan will lead you through all aspects of worm bin care and send you home with a functioning bin. We’ll provide small starter bins, worms and materials to get started. Ages 16 & up.

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