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PUBLISHER’S NOTE

ONLINE BUZZ

COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

FEBRUARY EVENTS

WACKY CALENDAR

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BABY IS IN THE NICU

TOP TEN BABY NAMES

TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD

13 “TWINDIVIDUALS”

FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE

ASK THE TEACHER

EXPLORING OUTDOORS DURING WINTER

SECONDARY INFERTITLITY

THE MODERN MILITARY PARENT

28 CAMP–THE QUINTESSENTIAL

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20 EDUCATION & CHILDCARE 29 PREVENTING FROSTBITE

Colton Alford (9 Months)

UNDERSTANDING THE MONTESSORI METHOD

GUIDE

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CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCE AND HYPOTHERMIA

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aby bumps, baby advice, baby names – this month in Dayton Parent it’s all baby talk. If you’re pregnant or a new parent, you probably can’t get enough on the subject, and neither can we!

What’s more fun than one baby on the way? How about two…or three…or even four? Babies that arrive in bundles can attract a lot of attention! And although it might be natural to think of multiples as a “package deal,” our article “Twindividuals” talks about how to make sure your twins, triplets or quadruplets develop a unique identity all their own. Some babies decide to come a little earlier than expected, or have concerning health issues at birth, and their first days may be spent in the newborn intensive care unit rather than the crib waiting for them at home. For parents going through this challenge, the worry they feel can be overwhelming. What to Do When Your Baby is in the NICU gives some suggestions for coping with this difficult period – with the best tips coming from our readers who have been there. Are you a mom who got pregnant easily (maybe even accidentally) your first time around but are having problems becoming pregnant again? While this situation can be puzzling and frustrating, it’s much more common than you might realize. In our article Secondary Infertility two moms share their stories of how this experience affected them. Also, just for fun we’ve included a list of the Top Ten Baby Names in 2014. (Spoiler alert: You may be meeting quite a few Sophias and Jacksons at the playground!) We hope you enjoy our special Baby and Maternity Issue this month. Our staff has “labored” hard to “deliver” you with a bundle of information we hope you find helpful!

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community spotlight

Veterans PTSD Awareness 5K Post-traumatic stress disorder effects up to 20% of all combat veterans. Help those men and women serving in our armed forces by supporting the Ghost Rider Foundation, a northeast Ohio group that spreads awareness about PTSD and helps veterans get the treatment they need. This 5K will be held on University of Dayton’s campus in front of the Recreation Complex. T-Shirts are included in the race cost, as well as refreshments following the race. Entry fee is $20 online or $15 cash at the race site. This race is sponsored by Wright State University’s Flying Aces. Race day is Saturday, February 28 at 11 am, 1 Evanston Ave. in Dayton. Contact afrotcdet643. og.cc.cd@gmail.com for more information.

Paws to Read Children who need a little practice reading can come to the Dayton Metro Library and read to a gentle, patient dog from the Miami Valley Pet Therapy Association. Reading to a dog can build a child’s comfort level and confidence as they work on their reading skills. This is a great practice for reluctant readers too. Paws To Read programs are free and take place regularly at the following Branch Library locations: Burkhardt, Kettering-Moraine, New Lebanon, Northmont, Trotwood, and Wilmington-Stroop. Call 937-463BOOK (2665) to be referred to the branch near you. Visit www. daytonmetrolibrary.org to learn more.

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Date Night at Paintbrush Pottery During the month of February, Paintbrush Pottery is offering date night every Friday evening. Grab your “better half” and create something together or make a project for each other – at a 15% savings off your entire bill. Couples can also enjoy a $10 pizza/soft drink special (extra large one topping pizza and soft drinks.) This is a great way to have an inexpensive evening for the two of you, and a “usable” keepsake you will treasure forever! No reservation necessary! Paintbrush Pottery is open until 8:00 pm on Fridays. Located at 255 W. Central Ave. in Springboro. Visit www.paintbrushpottery.com for more information.

Antioch Shrine Circus Time to start clowning around! Who can resist the fun of a circus especially when it is in our own hometown supporting our great Antioch Shriners? The 73rd Annual Shrine Circus at the University of Dayton Arena will take place February 6 -8. Three big days, five big shows! Tickets are $9 - $16 for kids 12 and under and $14 -$19 for adults – all tickets are only $10 on Sunday. Get your tickets early at Antioch Shrine or UD Arena. Call 937-228-0052 for more info.

WWE Smackdown Looking for heart pounding special effects and an exciting nonstop pace of wildness? Make your way to the next WWE Smackdown at Wright State Nutter Center on February 10 at 7:00 pm. With superstars such as Kane, Daniel Bryan, Roman Reigns, Big Show, The Usos and Damien Mizdow (subject to change) you can’t go wrong. Go to www.nuttercenter.com for tickets.

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What to Do When Your Baby is in the NICU Strategies for managing this difficult time

As a parent, bringing your newborn home from the hospital for the first time is one of life’s great joys. But for some parents, this journey can take a little longer than expected. For those families who face a detour through the newborn intensive care unit (NICU), the experience can be emotionally overwhelming. Read on to learn how to best take care of your baby, and yourself, during this challenging period.

Bonding with your new baby “One of the most important and allaround best ways to connect is by engaging in what’s called skin-toskin holding or Kangaroo Care,” advises Sue Ludwig, OTR/L, President and Founder of the National Associa-

Emily Ungar

it’s powerful not only as a bonding tion of Neonatal Therapists (NANT). experience, but for many scientifi“This is when the parents hold their cally proven reasons such as improvinfant (who is dressed only in a diaing sleep quality, decreasing stress, per and sometimes a hat) against stabilizing body temperature regulatheir bare chest and then cover tion and them with enhanca blanket, Know that love whether ing the a wrap through the glass of an immune or their isolette or skin to skin is a system. clothing. It’s also I’ve heard powerful medicine. It will all great for countless go by painfully slow and stimulatm o t h surprisingly fast. Just know ing milk ers report that, “this too shall pass.” p ro d u c that partion for ticipating They are little but fierce. m o m s in skin-to– Dominique T. who are skin holdpumping i n g wa s and/or planning to breastfeed. Even ‘the first time they felt like a moththe tiniest and most medically fragile er’ as tears of relief and joy stream babies can benefit from this practice down their faces. It’s powerful. And

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when the NICU team is experienced in supporting this type of care.”

Helping to care for your little one Even when a newborn is in the NICU, parents can take an active role in the everyday care of their baby. “With the support of nurses, neonatal therapists, and respiratory therapists, parents can change diapers, provide hands-on comfort during stressful times, feed their babies (via tube, breast and/or bottle depending on the baby’s age), read to them and hold them,” Ludwig says. “Once a bit ‘older’ and more stable, they may provide swaddled baths and neonatal massage. Parents can also take temperature readings and

perform diaper changes. Pumping milk (if breastfeeding) and keeping up communication with the health care team are important activities as well.”

Caring for more than one Some families may have twins or higher-order multiples in the NICU at the same time. Because multiples can often be born prematurely, parents may be aware early on that having their infants spend time in the NICU is a possibility. Multiples may find comfort being physically close to one another (if allowed by the health care team). Talk with your doctors and nurses to find out if this is something they feel would benefit your babies.

Tips for time in the NICU Talk with your NICU team to learn how you can best interact with your baby without posing any outside risk. These tips are often suggested: ♦♦ Don’t be afraid to hold or touch your baby. ♦♦ Tape up pictures of loved ones inside the incubator. ♦♦ Take photos to have mementos of your newborn’s earliest beginnings.

leave for when your baby comes home. ♦♦ Be aware of signs of postpartum depression and don’t hesitate to ask for help if you need it. ♦♦ If you have other children, make special time to spend with them, too. ♦♦ Take care of yourself. Stay healthy and positive in order to be ready to take your baby home. Reach out to other parents who have babies in the NICU too – they may be able to understand your concerns more than anyone else. Also, check out websites like Sidelines National Support Network (www.sidelines.org) which provides support for families experiencing premature births. As well, the March of Dimes web site (http://share.marchofdimes.org/) allows you to learn from other parents who have gone through similar circumstances. Having a baby, but not having them come home with you, is not how parents envision their first days as moms and dads. Remembering that your child is receiving the best possible care by their NICU team can help. And, when you can finally bring your infant home for the first time, their homecoming will be that more special.

♦♦ Keep a journal of your experiences.

We asked Dayton Parent Facebook readers who have had a baby in The NICU to share their suggestions to others coping with this situation: Ask lots of questions of the staff. The nurses are valuable resources. Don’t be afraid to ask family if you need help getting anything done but also don’t be afraid to ask people not to visit if that’s what you need. Be sure to take care of yourself during this time, that’s actually difficult to do. And don’t let little setbacks bother you too much, we all have good days and bad. – Carolyn S. I agree with taking care of yourself! It’s SO important. I also kept a journal during our time in the NICU. A friend gave it to me as a gift otherwise I may never have thought to do it. I wrote down all of our baby’s stats every day and what the doctors were saying, along with my thoughts and feelings. I wrote letters to our son too while sitting next to him. It was very therapeutic. – Kelly F. Take a deep breath and try to enjoy every experience in the nicu and better times are ahead! Coming from a mom of a 29 weeker who was told he wouldn’t walk or crawl and forever have a feeding tube only.... well my little one has done everything they said he couldn’t. – Sara B. Communicate where you are with your partner - physically and emotionally... even if the words aren’t exactly clear, or they are scary to say out loud. If you can feel heard and understood, it goes a long way to helping you keep yourself centered. When hearing where your partner is, do your best to not make them [feel] wrong or judge them for where they are. You don’t have to be perfect, you don’t have to have all the answers. Listen to your head, and listen to your heart. – Jeremy R. My son was in for 6 weeks. I agree with everyone. My husband and I decorated his isolette, read to him so he would know our voices, took tons of pictures and asked the nurses to let us know when we were allowed to change diapers. I cried a lot but the nurses were there for us. We still run in to many 10.5 years later and we can all look back and know how far my son has come. – Rebecca U.

♦♦ Consider saving your maternity

Top Ten

Baby Names Here’s the ten most popular names of 2014 according to Babycenter.com. Is your child’s name on the list?

Girls’ Names

Boys’ Names

1. Sophia 2. Emma 3. Olivia 4. Ava 5. Isabella

1. Jackson 2. Aiden 3. Liam 4. Lucas 5. Noah

6. Mia 7. Zoe 8. Lily 9. Emily 10. Madelyn

6. Mason 7. Ethan 8. Caden 9. Jacob 10. Logan

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“Twindividuals” Raising multiples to have their own identities Grace Rodecap

arents with new babies are always sure to attract attention when they go out in public, and when that stroller holds two, three or four babies, that attention is… well, multiplied! “Are they twins?” “How do you find time for yourself when you have triplets?” “Your quads are adorable!” Friends and strangers alike usually can’t help but refer to your babies as a package deal (“the twins” or “the triplets”). So how do you make sure your children grow up feeling unique and valued as individuals while still embracing their lifelong special bond?

unique characteristics and differences too. Those differences will emerge naturally and it’s important to acknowledge them.” Dayton mom Leslie Williams agrees. Williams has 16 year old twin girls and says, “We let them know early on that they were not competing against each other. We told them to find their own purpose and go for it. People don’t even realize the girls are identical twins because one has really short hair and the other has dreadlocks!”

Rhonda Mercs, another Dayton mom of teenage twin girls, says that while she and her family talk about their girls’ special bond, she agrees that parents should help their multiples develop a sense of individuality. “We dressed the girls differently and even got them each their own birthday cake.” Indeed, as author Joan Friedman, PhD of Emotionally Healthy Twins: A New Philosophy for Parenting Two Unique Children and The Same but Different: How Twins Can Live, Love and Learn to Be Individu als says, “Twins who aren’t encouraged to develop

Recognize their differences “First of all, I would recommend never referring to your twins as ‘the twins,’” says Amy Theodor, clinical counselor at St. Benedict the Moor Catholic School and mother of four monthold twins. “I like to refer to them as ‘twin-dividuals.’ Nurture their special bond, but praise their daytonparentmagazine.com / february 2015

their own sense of self often feel guilty, frustrated, disappointed or confused when trying to go about their daily lives as adults.” Friedman is also an identical twin and mother of five, including fraternal twin boys. She suggests parents try another tip of buying a single stroller so that each child can be taken out separately to spend one-on-one time with parents and grandparents. Also, if possible, allowing each child to have his/her own room, or at least an area that is just for them, lets multiples have some alone time to develop their own sense of identity.

Appreciate their special bond That’s not to say that multiples shouldn’t celebrate their one-of-a kind relationship. When Dayton Parent Facebook readers were recently asked about their experiences raising multiples, dozens of readers chimed in. Natasha B. writes, “Our 8 year-old identical boys are nearly identical in personality, too. We make sure to spend individual time with them, taking each to his favorite restaurant and place to hang out by themselves. Honestly though, they always want to hang together and do a lot of the same things. Most of the time, whichever one we are out with will wish his brother was there to share the experience.” Twin Kaylynn D. wrote that she and her sister are extremely different in their personalities, but says, “We’re opposites but I like to think that makes us a good team.” Having a twin or triplet really is a special kind of sibling relationship. Who else can say they have been with you from the very beginning? Encourage your multiples to appreciate what makes their connection such a unique bond.

Learn from other parents Raising multiples can be daunting, but thankfully there are resources available. In addition to providing support to parents of multiples, The Dayton Mothers of Twins Club hosts many special events and twice-a-year clothing and equipment sales. Another opportunity to share common experiences and celebrate your multiples is at The Twins Days Festival in Twinsburg, Ohio. Twins Days is the largest annual gathering of twins and other multiples in the world and takes place the first full weekend of August.

Whether your baby arrives on his own, or with a sibling or two in tow, each child deserves to develop his own interests, talents and unique way of looking at the world. Enjoy your front row seat as you watch their journey unfold!

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Exploring Outdoors During Winter Tips for making sure your kids are safe – and have fun – in chilly weather

on’t let a little cold keep your kids from exploring the outdoors this winter.

“It’s important to get kids outdoors from an early age – even as infants – so they are used to experiencing the sensations and are comfortable in nature,” says Joshua York, Five Rivers MetroParks outdoor connections education supervisor. “Let kids touch the snow and embrace the sensory experiences nature has to offer.” Studies show children are smarter, more cooperative, happier and healthier when they play outdoors, according to the nonprofit organization Children & Nature Network. “Playing with snow is wonderful, and winter is a great time for kids to use their imaginations outdoors,” says Doug Horvath, Five Rivers MetroParks outdoor connections education supervisor. “Familiar parks and even the backyard are new and exotic when snow-covered or when frozen water forms beautiful ice formations.” The key to making sure kids are safe and comfortable when playing outdoors is in the clothing. Like adults, kids should dress in layers – and take off hats and gloves, if only for a minute, if they start to sweat while playing. “I have seen children happily flop onto the snow and lay on it comfortably when they are well dressed,” Horvath says. “Sledding, exploring and just hanging out all become fun when you are well padded against the chill. Packing a thermos of hot coca and an extra blanket and going on an adventure can become a favorite family memory.”

Other suggestions for enjoying the outdoors include: ♦♦ Help kids create large snowballs and stack them to make snow people or animals. ♦♦ Break some ice from buckets or frozen puddles to use as ice palace walls. ♦♦ Blow bubbles outside and see if they freeze.

♦♦ Monitor the temperature outside to discover the coldest and warmest parts of the day. ♦♦ Look for animal tracks in the snow or mud and see if you can identify them. ♦♦ Have a backyard campfire, combined with Dutch oven cooking. (It’s not just for summer.)

Visit metroparks.org/winter for more on experiencing the outdoors this winter.

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s e con d ar y in f e r t i l i t y Coping with unexpected pregnancy problems Sarah Bricker-Hunt

“This was something my body was just supposed to know how to do,” says Amy M., a mother of three who faced secondary infertility following a more typical first pregnancy. 16

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“I was confused,” she says. “Was there something wrong with me? Was it my husband? How could it work the first time and not now? Would we ever have another child?” The experience left her feeling frustrated, sad and angry, says Amy. This situation is not uncommon. According to Dr. Jeremy Groll, Medical Director at SpringCreek Fertility, around three million women in the United States face secondary infertility. He points to a strong correlation to age: “At maternal age of 25 years, approximately five percent of women experience secondary infertility,” he explains, citing a 2012 study. By age 40, that number climbs to over 20 percent of women.

Groll says potential causes for secondary infertility include age-related ovarian decline, female hormonal imbalances, uterine abnormalities or polyps, and low/declining sperm counts. Allyson S., mother of two, dealt with a metabolic issue. Her endocrinologist described her pituitary system as “all out of whack,” and said it could be difficult to conceive or maintain a healthy pregnancy. In fact, Allyson would experience two miscarriages before experiencing a successful pregnancy. Fortunately, a myriad of fertility treatment options are available. Groll says beyond treatment of underlying metabolic hormone problems or surgery

for anatomic problems, oral medications like Clomid and Femara are often prescribed. More complex treatments include intrauterine insemination (IUI) and in vitro fertilization (IVF). “These are so effective now,” he says, “especially IVF, where pregnancy rates may be over 60 percent in some instances, that these may be appropriate to consider as first line treatments for many couples, particularly when timeliness is a higher priority.” Amy and her husband tried several options. “I went through seven inseminations. The first three were with Clomid. Then I had laparoscopy to clean out scar tissue. I had my final four IUI’s with injectables,” she explains. For Allyson, getting her metabolic issue under control was a major factor. For both women, these subsequent pregnancies felt a little different from their firsts.

“You can’t help but feel different after experiencing fertility issues,” Amy says. Once her twin pregnancy was confirmed, she remembers, “I was paranoid it could all be taken away. Every appointment I was panicked we would not hear the heartbeats. I was sure every worst case scenario was going to happen to me.” But, she adds, “I was more present.” She says she took time to sit and feel her babies move. “When I could quiet the doomsday voices in my head, I allowed myself to enjoy this pregnancy because I knew it could be my last. I didn’t complain as much. I slept in a chair for the final six weeks, but I woke up each day happy.” Allyson describes feeling more anxious compared to her first, “easy” pregnancy. “After two miscarriages, there was lots of worry,” she says.

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“Being told my condition could make it difficult to carry to term was scary.”

ments sooner, not later – particularly after six months of unsuccessful attempts.”

Both moms would assure other women facing secondary infertility that this experience is a common one. “A lot of people don’t realize that secondary infertility is a thing,” says Allyson, “but it is, and there are a multitude of reasons it might occur.”

Groll also recommends the resources at the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (www.asrm. org) and The National Infertility Association (www.resolve.org), where patients can get a list of questions to ask their fertility specialist.

For women concerned about secondary infertility, Groll suggests initial testing with an OB/GYN. From there, consider moving on to more in-depth screening at an appropriate facility. At his practice, they focus solely on fertility issues. He suggests women “let their providers know they are actively attempting to achieve a pregnancy. If people have a concern about secondary infertility, they should seek treat-

Finally, consider Amy’s advice: “You are not alone,” she says. “Do not be afraid to open up about your difficulties to friends, family and neighbors. You will be shocked how many others have experienced this. If a baby is something your heart desires, get a little pushy, and don’t let anyone tell you just to wait and see. The only timeline you need to follow is the one you are personally comfortable with.”

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COLLEGE ADVANTAGE

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trating on a child-centered approach to learning.

HALLMARKS OF THE MONTESSORI METHOD

According to the American Montessori Society, there are several components that must be in place for a program to be considered a true Montessori setting: • • • • •

UNDERSTANDING THE

MONTESSORI

METHOD

The philosophy behind this child-centered approach to learning Mary Casey-Sturk

Imagine a beautiful class- WHO WAS room filled with children who MARIA MONTESSORI? Maria Montessori (1870are fully absorbed in the Italian-born 1952) was a woman who wore many activities that interest them hats: educator, physician and innomost. The setting is inviting, vator, she is acclaimed for the eduindependent and promotes a cational method she developed that focuses on encouraging the way a strong sense of community. child naturally learns. Children of different ages help each other throughout Montessori opened her first school in Rome in 1907. She then traveled the day with various pursuits. the world and extensively wrote and You’ve just described a typi- shared her message about her philosophy of education. Today there cal Montessori day. are over 22,000 Montessori schools in at least 110 countries, all concen-

Multi-age groupings that foster peer learning Uninterrupted blocks of work time Guided choice of work activity Specially designed learning materials An aesthetically pleasing environment

The classroom is prepared in such a way that the child makes use of what the environment offers to develop himself, interacting with the teacher when he needs support or guidance. (Source: www.amshq.org)

deal of time studying child development, assessment and the materials in order to meet each child where they are in their development. It is a respectful way of teaching. Montessori fits a broad range of children, from the typically developing child to children with learning differences. Our goal as teachers is to teach to the whole child. “

WHAT SHOULD I ASK WHEN INTERVIEWING MONTESSORI PROGRAMS?

Taliaferro Lofquist advises parents ask these questions when researching a Montessori school: • •

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WHAT SHOULD I CONSIDER WHEN LOOKING AT MONTESSORI SCHOOLS?

“It’s important that teachers be certified Montessori teachers, this goes a very long way,” says Karen Graham of the Alexandria Montessori School in Centerville. “Classrooms should have Montessori materials, curriculum and well-trained teachers dedicated to the Montessori philosophy. Parents need to be aware that a Montessori education emphasizes following the child, they are individuals. Teachers have the time to get to know your child and work with them to help them learn, grow and succeed.” Gina Taliaferro Lofquist, Assistant Dean at Xavier University’s Montessori Institute and Lab School, describes the Montessori approach in this way: “Montessori allows children to explore their natural tendencies while guiding them in a variety of areas of study. Teachers spend a great

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Are the teachers Montessori credentialed? Does the classroom have a full three year age span, as well as all of the Montessori materials? Is there a mission statement for the school? How do teachers build community? How do teachers track a child’s progress? Will the parent have the ability to observe when they choose to? How do teachers handle discipline? How does the school educate parents to support Montessori in the home and to understand the classroom?

Finding the right educational setting for your child can mean the difference between tolerating school or truly thriving in it. If a Montessori school is something you’re interested in exploring for your son or daughter, research the philosophy behind the approach, talk with friends or neighbors who may have their children enrolled and visit various schools to ask your questions in person.

“Free the child’s potential, and you will transform him into the world.” –Maria Montessori

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education and childcare guide

education & CHILDCARE GUIDE

Inspire Center for Learning/ Creative World Of Montessori

Address: 1720 Belvo Rd., Miamisburg, OH 45342 | 937-866-2106 | www.inspirechildren.com Inspire Center for Learning and Creative World of Montessori is dedicated to providing a safe and educational atmosphere. Our Montessori School is an ODE Charter school and is for 3 year olds to 6th grade. We have locations in Miamisburg and Beavercreek.

Antioch School

Address: 1160 Corry St., Yellow Springs, OH 45387 | 937-767 7642 | www.antiochschool.org Antioch School was founded in 1921 and is considered among the oldest democratic schools in the United States. Children are encouraged to take the next step, to risk, to make mistakes and to try again as they find their own unique ways of learning. The Antioch School is a place where childhood is respected and children are enjoyed. Nursery - Sixth Grade.

East Dayton Christian School

Address: 999 Spinning Road, Dayton, OH 45431 | 937-252-5400 | www.eastdaytonchristian.org

East Dayton Christian School has been partnering with parents in Christian education for 36 years. Programs include childcare and preschool for ages 18 mos to 5 years, before and after school care, Grades K-12, academic excellence with a Biblical worldview. Open House dates listed at eastdaytonchristian.org

First School

Address: 7659 McEwen Rd., Dayton, OH 45459 | 937-433-3455 | www.firstschooldayton.com First School is an early learning center for preschool and Early 5’s children, ages 2-1/2 -6, conceived and built to promote the maximum development and education of each child within the scope of his/her interests and capabilities.

YMCA of Greater Dayton

Address: 111 W. First St., Dayton, OH 45402 | Phone: 937-6109622 | Website: www.ymcaonline. org The YMCA is dedicated to providing high-quality, affordable care for children. With 49 Miami Valley child care locations, we serve families with infants up through the 6th grade. Our staff members partner with parents and caregivers, working together to help kids grow up healthy, happy and strong. Financial assistance is available. Call 937-610-9622 today.

Dayton Public Schools

Address: 115 South Ludlow Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | 937-5425555 | www.dps.k12.oh.us Dayton Public Schools offers free full/half-day preschool for children ages 3-5. Classes meet Monday through Thursday. We provide a balanced schedule to meet the developmental needs of all children. Staff are licensed by the Ohio Department of Education. Families of all income levels are eligible to apply.

Ascension School Address: 2001 Woodman Dr., Dayton, OH 45420 | 937-2545411 | www.ascensionkettering. org/school/

Ascension Catholic School is a K-8 elementary school that fosters academic achievement, spiritual growth, and differentiated instruction. Ascension’s staff includes intervention specialists, a reading specialist, speech pathologist, and an extensive parent volunteer program called the Ascension Academic Team which offers individualized instruction for students.

Dayton Christian Schools Address: 9391 Washington Church Rd., Miamisburg, OH 45342 | 937-291-1712 | www. daytonchristian.com

Dayton Christian is passionate about providing a biblically integrated, ac-

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ademically rigorous educational experience to preschool through 12th grade students from around the Miami Valley. We make it easy for you to discover the Dayton Christian difference! Check out www.educatingforeternity.com/whatwedo for a schedule of Admissions Events and to see how we are Educating for Eternity!

The Miami Valley School

Address: 5151 Denise Dr., Dayton, OH 45429 | 937-434-4444 | www. mvschool.com At The Miami Valley School, we adhere to a demanding scholarship built on a foundation of integrity and grit. Our teachers empower students to live life to the fullest, to discover their true passion, and then to responsibly pursue their dreams with emotional and intellectual rigor. Students don’t just come to MVS. Here, they become. For early childhood - 12th grade.

St. Charles School

Address: 4600 Ackerman Blvd., Kettering, OH 45429 | 937-4344933 | www.stcharles-kettering.org Working as individuals and a community, we help build a strong foundation of FAITH, foster an unending appetite for KNOWLEDGE, work to achieve BALANCE in our day-to-day lives and instill HONOR by doing what is right.

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true confessions of a stay-at-home dad

The mystery of the frazzled parent…finally revealed! True confessions of a stay-at-home dad By Pete Gilbert

hy are parents so confused and disoriented looking all the time? Maybe it’s because while parenting is based so much on repetition and routine, it is also constantly changing. Just think of some of the ways parents change as their kids age. First, there’s Pre-parenting. Pre-parenting is a delusional stage, where the expectant couple thinks they are going to do things differently than all parents that ever existed before them. Pre-parents think having a child won’t change their weekend and social behavior, and that a child can just be dragged along to all the usual activities (dining out, impromptu weekend getaways, etc.) Pre-parents say things like, “We’ve had a dog as a pet for a few years…how much different could it really be?” The next phase of parenting, The Newborn Phase, hits new parents like a brick wall. The Newborn Phase (also known as the Dark Days) is a scary place to be. Sleep deprivation firmly sets in. Simple things like going to the grocery store or taking a bike ride, now take planning, effort and coordination with others. Spending time with friends is unlikely because of “the

schedule.” When you do see your friends all you do is talk about the baby. One of the worst phases occurs after the Newborn Phase, The Perfect Parent Phase. As the baby gets a little older, parents revert back to their preparent cockiness. Perfect Parents only purchase handmade wooden toys AND put them all away each night. They make their own baby food and later pack lunches on car trips to avoid fast food. Perfect Parents only last so long before they crack under the pressure they put on themselves. They eventually give up the losing battle of neat play areas and organized toy closets. These parents will also be the first to pull over for a Happy Meal if it buys them 15 minutes of peace and quiet on a road trip. Parenting. We’re all on this crazy ride together, so we might as well enjoy it. Stop by Facebook and “Like” my “True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad” page for daily updates and links to all my blogs and columns.

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Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life The case of the blue police car van By Kelly Blewett

hen my son first laid eyes on our new car, a crossover vehicle intended to accommodate our toddler and soon-to-arrive infant, he cried, “It’s a blue police car van!” As the weeks went by, I adopted the new nickname myself. I didn’t think much of it. We have a lot of little names for things around our house. Calling the car “the blue police car van” seemed relatively normal – or so I thought until one April morning. William was taking a bath while I gazed out the bathroom window. And then, through the hedge of my backyard, I saw it. The vehicle was the precise shade of blue as our new car. It was a van. And on top was a flashing red light. “William!” I cried in genuine astonishment, “It’s a blue police car van!” He looked at me blankly. I couldn’t believe it. Not only was the blue police car van a real vehicle, but it was merely an arms-length away. The van,

I found out later, belongs to one of our neighbors. It was as if William had told me about an imaginary monster and then there it was strolling across our back lawn. I try to teach William things all the time: what his nose is called, what a red light means, the importance of saying please. That our car bears a startling resemblance to a blue police car van is one of the first things he has taught me, but I’m sure it won’t be the last. For if the blue police car van exists on our very street, what else is right under my nose that I am missing? What I really learned that day was more fundamental than planes, trains and automobiles. My son is not an extension of me, just as I am not an extension of him. By seeing the world through his eyes, my own vision can become richer and more complete – and, best of all, more fun.

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ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

No BFF, second semester slump, indoor exercise options By Deb Krupowicz

My second grade daughter does not have a best friend at school. She seems to like school well enough, but she doesn’t show particular interest in any one person or ask to have anyone over. Should I be concerned?

Provided that your daughter has friends at school, don’t worry about her not having a “best” friend. Perhaps she takes greater pleasure in having a larger group of friends for recess play and lunch company. Some of the less desirable characteristics of girls’ friendships can start at a very young age. By getting to know many different girls, she will have options that keep her from feeling isolated when a “best friend” does not want to spend time with her. And by seeing how many different people treat others, she will develop a better sense of the kind of friend she wants to be. Your daughter may not feel drawn to an intense school friendship if she is close with a sibling or cousins. Strong bonds with family members that have developed throughout her lifetime may give her such a sense of love and security that she doesn’t see the point or feel the need to develop deep friendships at school. You can nurture the idea of building strong friendships by inviting a few classmates for playdates rather than focusing on one person in particular. Having a small cluster of children together will give you a good sense of how your daughter interacts in the group as you observe her firsthand. This can give you the opportunity to talk through

situations you overhear, chat about the feelings of others as well as her own feelings in various scenarios, and discuss who she might like to spend more time with.

Every year at this time, my daughter’s grades tend to drop and I’m not sure why. It seems like teachers go through material so much faster the second half of the year – why is this?

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February and March are the toughest months of the school year for many students. A teacher works to set the foundation for success early in the year. As the school year moves past the mid-point, expectations are raised with an eye on things wrapping up and on the year ahead – all in the context of what was accomplished in the earlier part of the year. It may be natural to expect

that things would get easier as your daughter gets more accustomed to the teacher and her classroom. However, it is the teacher’s job to continually raise the bar of expectation so that learning happens in an increasingly challenging environment. The mid-year slump may also be attributed to the winter doldrums. The excitement of a new teacher, different classmates and new information to learn has likely worn off

My son’s school tends to have indoor recess often during the harsh winter weather. When he comes home, he is bouncing off the walls. What can I do to help him burn off some of his extra energy?

Physical activity is such a necessary component of an elementary child’s day, and during the winter months it can be tough to get that in at school. There are several things you can do at home to provide the movement your son needs. Playing outside after school is the best and easiest way to get some much needed exercise and fresh air. If the weather is not conducive to being outdoors, consider closing the garage door to allow your son to run around or even ride a bike without having

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to worry about being too loud or rambunctious. Or set up an obstacle course with trash cans for him to dribble a ball around. If being inside works better for your family, time your son to see how many times he can go up and down the stairs in three minutes. Pretend to be his personal trainer and take him through a short exercise circuit. Put on some music and have a dance party. Play “Simon Says” using large motor movement as the directives. Any activity that gets him moving and having fun will work!

Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

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and the end of the year is still months away. Perhaps you can help instill some excitement by doing some fun activities related to the topics your daughter is studying. Research some aspect of what she is learning together; greater understanding of any topic is often, in and of itself, motivational. Kindle a deeper incentive in your daughter’s success by helping her set small, attainable goals and then celebrating her progress. A greater perspective or a defined goal may spark the necessary motivation for your daughter to demonstrate greater commitment to her grades.

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the modern military parent

The Modern Military Parent House-hunting tips for your next move By Molly Blake

is the season of orders! It feels like we all just finished unpacking that final box and hanging that last picture but many military families will soon or have already received word that they will be moving to a new duty station in the coming months. It might be a dream spot, like Italy or Florida. Or it might be a place you’ve never imagined living. But that’s part of the military adventure, right? Once the orders are written, and you’ve notified the masses on Facebook, it’s time to start house hunting. Whether you are renting, buying or moving on base, relocating into new digs takes some detective work. Here are a few tips to watch for when searching for a home.

Check out militarybyowner. com. This is the premiere source for all sorts of rental and sales options including homes, condos and apartments, all near military bases. Photos and video tours are included in the ads as well as relevant contact information.

If you have the chance, visit the house in person. Download the militarybyowner app. It comes in handy when tooling around searching various streets for listings.

Don’t be fooled by room descriptions that include words like “quaint” or “funky.” Those can be pseudonyms for “small” and “awkward.”

Take note of high-end touches like a built-in wine cooler, upgraded pendant dining room lights or heated bathroom floors. It shows the homeowner or builder spent time on desirable improvements.

Research the recycling rules in your new zip code. Is there a good place to put compost bins and recycling receptacles? If it’s a rental, consider asking the landlord to install roll-out bins for waste.

Do your homework. Websites like Militarytownadvisor.com are flush with honest reviews of subdivisions, their proximity to schools and even whether it’s kid friendly. For example, here is one detailed review written by a reader: “This is a very social neighborhood. It is located downtown within walking distance to restaurants, bars, shopping etc. It has a children’s play park and a large gathering green for social events. During the summer, the neighborhood has potluck dinners and wine parties. Also, during the holiday season, the neighborhood has an open house. Buy lots of candy for Halloween!”

If you are planning to buy a home, take your time. Buying real estate on impulse is a recipe for disaster. Talk with real estate agents and your financial planner to make sure you can afford the home. What will your mortgage payment cost each month? What happens if you have to move in a year? Will you recoup the costs if you have to sell? Do you want to hang onto the home and rent it out? Real estate can be a tricky investment so make sure it’s the right time for you.

Don’t be shy and ask for help. Reach out to your networks and ask around about places to live near your new base. When my husband and I moved to Northern Virginia, I didn’t know a soul there. We were off-schedule from most of our peers so while they were going to the fleet, we were on our way to fly a desk at the Pentagon. A friend connected me to a

friend via email. I’d never met the woman, but she answered tons of questions about the area. She even arranged for the house we bought to be cleaned before we moved in. Most importantly, keep an open mind. While your next place may not be your dream home, you’ll still create tons of memories – even in a charming historic home that in actuality, was cramped and boxy, had creaky steps, a spooky dungeonlike basement and a bathroom in the kitchen.

Molly Blake is a freelance writer. Her husband recently retired after serving 20 years in the United States Marine Corps. She attended the University of Dayton and writes about issues affecting military families and other parenting issues. Follow her on twitter @mblakewrites.

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camp - the quintessential childhood experience

Camp - the Quintessential Childhood Experience By the American Camp Association

Camp is an equal opportunity life changer. It addresses universal childhood needs not specific to a particular racial, ethnic or socioeconomic group. Nobody is left out. It’s all about childhood development.

hildhood is a time of profound change and development. It is exciting and cause for trepidation at the same time. When it comes to our children, we must strive to ensure change is a growing opportunity that will stand them in good stead for the future. The fact that our kids will inherit all the economic, social and environmental challenges we’ve created makes both the tangible and intangible skills they learn in their youth all the more important. So, how do we prepare our children with the competencies they will need to tackle changes in our world? We could start with a positive camp experience. A quality camp experience provides children with the opportunity to learn powerful lessons in community, character-building and healthy living in a meaningful, engaged and participatory environment – not to mention a laundry list of invaluable developmental skills.

Camp makes a lasting impact. One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is a sense of success and achievement. Through active participation, camp teaches kids to ask questions, ask for help and try new things. They leave understanding that it’s okay to feel a little uncomfortable sometimes, because that’s generally what happens when they’re getting ready to learn something. And they also see that failure is an acceptable and inevitable part of the learning process. It breeds resilience and translates into a cando attitude long after a child has returned to the real world. According to the Search Institute, young people have seven developmental needs:

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.

Physical activity Competence and achievement Self-definition Creative self-expression Positive social interactions Structure and clear limits Meaningful participation

Camp addresses each of these needs within a community created to show kids how to live together and care for one another. There are norms and negotiation of boundaries; there are rules. Camp allows kids to “practice” growing up, stretching their social, emotional, physical and cognitive muscles outside the context of their immediate family. Camp teaches critical thinking. We need to remember how important it is to be actively involved in the learning process, and camp affords that. We’ll need really strong problem solvers in the next century.

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While children need courses like science, math and biology, without the ability to relate, connect, empathize or inspire innovation, how will they learn to truly make a difference in the face of the challenges to come? While our children have fewer and fewer opportunities to be outdoors, the camp experience embraces the natural environment and advances outdoor learning. The environment must be experienced to be appreciated. Kids need to catch tadpoles in the creek, wander among the trees, and feel the sun on their faces to understand the importance of those things. Every child should experience firsthand the wonder of a sky full of stars in the dark of night. Camp creates future leaders. The camp experience offers kids a closeup look at compassionate leadership through the camp director, counselors, resident nutritionist and other camp personnel. And kids get loads of opportunities to practice being a leader themselves – song leader, lunch table leader, team captain, the list goes on and on.

Indeed, the camp experience is uniquely positioned to provide growth opportunities in each of the skill areas necessary to foster future life success in our children. Camp is the antidote for the world’s challenges. It is the perfect complement to family, school and community youth activities in helping kids learn independence, decision-making, and social and emotional competence — all under the supervision of positive adult role models. Camp is the quintessential childhood experience for preparing youth to be happy, healthy, well-adjusted adults.

The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-Accredited camps that meet up to 290 health and safety standards. For more information, visit www.ACAcamps.org.

preventing frostbite and hypothermia

Preventing Frostbite and Hypothermia Simple steps to avoid these winter weather dangers By Dayton Children’s Hospital

old and wet. The two most dangerous words in winter. Put them together and you have a recipe for frostbite and hypothermia. To prevent these conditions, parents need to provide their children with the proper gear to stay warm and dry. “When temperatures dip into single digits, it’s really not safe for children to be outside for almost any length of time,” says Lisa Schwing, RN, trauma program manager at Dayton Children’s Hospital. “Despite the snow that begs for a sled, it’s better to put off outdoor play to a warmer day.” If your child has to go out, for example to wait for the bus, remember frostbite can begin in a matter of minutes in single digit temperatures. Frostbite is characterized by numb fingers, ears and noses and eventually can lead to redness and pain. Sometimes the affected skin feels hard and looks waxy.

Here are five ways to protect your child from these numbing temperatures.

Stay inside.

If there is no reason you must take your children out, keep them inside. Sub-zero wind chills are not suitable for playing outside. Only essential trips should be made in the cold.

any clothing or outerwear gets wet, change it immediately. If children sit in wet, cold clothing they may be more susceptible to illness including hypothermia or abnormally low body temperature.

Insulate. Wear layers. Double up

on shirts and pants, socks and mittens.

Cover up. Pay particular atten- Choose mittens.

tion to those areas that are more susceptible to the cold, such as ears, fingers and toes. Zip up the coat, pull the hat down over the ears, use a scarf to protect the face and neck and cover the hands with mittens.

Keep dry.

Select waterproof boots, coats and gloves or mittens. If

Mittens are warmer than gloves because they allow fingers to “snuggle” together and share warmth. If your child complains of fingers, toes or ears that hurt or have gone numb, you will need to warm the area carefully to avoid damage. Dr. Krzmarzick and Dayton Children’s recommend these tips for treating

areas of the body that have been affected by the cold: ♦♦ Remove wet clothing and give your children warm, dry clothes. ♦♦ Soak the area in warm, never hot water (less than 108 degrees). ♦♦ Avoid rubbing the area, which could damage tissue. ♦♦ Cover the body part loosely with a non-stick, sterile dressing or dry blanket. ♦♦ Have your child drink warm beverages, such as hot cocoa, tea or milk. Parents should contact their diatrician with any concerns. If child’s skin looks discolored or child has lost sensation, call 911 mediately.

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Another danger of the cold is hypothermia, a dangerous decrease in body temperature, which can affect brain and muscle function. “Younger children are more susceptible to hypothermia,” says Tom Krzmarzick, MD, medical director of the Regional Pediatric Trauma and Emergency Center at Dayton Children’s Hospital. “Children can’t compensate for heat loss as well as adults. Infants are especially at risk for hypothermia.” Children are more at risk for several reasons. Children have thinner skin than adults and their blood vessels are closer to the surface. In addition, people lose most of their body heat from their heads. Children have proportionally larger heads in comparison to adults, so more surface area can leak heat.

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Coretta Scott King and the Antioch Shrine Circus Price: $9-$19 | Phone: (937) 229-4635 | LocaFight for Freedom Price: $5 per ticket | Phone: 937-228-7591, x3039 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 N. Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/ coretta-scott-king-and-the-fight-for-freedom/

Born in Alabama, Coretta Scott King overcame childhood adversity in the segregated South and attended Antioch College in Yellow Springs, Ohio. A talented singer, she would go on to play an integral role in the American Civil Rights movement, not only as the wife of Dr. Martin Luther King, but as an independent woman. For years after her husband’s death, Coretta continued to inspire the nation and the world. Grades 3-8, 60 minutes.

tion: UD Arena. 1801 Edwin C. Moses Blvd, Dayton | www.antiochshrinecircus.com

Join us for the 73rd Annual Shrine Circus at the University of Dayton Arena. 3 Big Days, 5 Big Shows! Time to start clowning around!

SATURDAY | 07 Antioch Shrine Circus

Price: $9-$19 | Phone: (937) 229-4635 | Location: UD Arena. 1801 Edwin C. Moses Blvd, Dayton | www.antiochshrinecircus.com/

Join us for the 73rd Annual Shrine Circus at the University of Dayton Arena. 3 Big Days, 5 Big Shows! Time to start clowning around!

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A Musical Zoo - presented by the Dayton Philharmonic Price: Adults $22; Children $12 | Phone: 1-888228-3630 | Location: Schuster Performing Arts Center. One West Second St, Dayton

Panthers and horses and bears…oh my! The DPO explores the animal kingdom as it proudly presents an afternoon of songs all about animals. There will even be an “Old MacDonald” sing-along, so come prepared to shout out your best animal sounds! Come early at 2:00 pm for pre-concert fun activities.

Antioch Shrine Circus Price: $9-$19 | Phone: (937) 229-4635 | Location: UD Arena. 1801 Edwin C. Moses Blvd, Dayton. http://www.antiochshrinecircus.com/

Join us for the 73rd Annual Shrine Circus at the University of Dayton Arena. 3 Big Days, 5 Big Shows! Time to start clowning around!

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School House Rock! Live Times: Showtimes vary; check website | Price: $7-$22 | Phone: 513.569.8080 ext. 10 | Location: 5th & Sycamore Streets, Cincinnati, OH 45202 | www.thechildrenstheatre.com/mainstage/shows

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a nerve-wracked school teacher who is nervous about his first day of teaching. He tries to relax by watching TV when various characters representing facets of his personality emerge from the set and show him how to win his students over with imagination and music, through such songs as “Just A Bill,” “Three is a Magic Number,” and “Conjunction Junction.”

Alice (in wonderland) Times: Showtimes vary; check website | Price: Tickets start at $32 | Phone: 513-621-2787 | Location: 650 Walnut Street, CIncinnati, OH 45402 | www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/ alice-in-wonderland

We cordially invite you and your guests to tea with Alice in Wonderland! When you reach the bottom of the rabbit hole, please promptly follow the White Rabbit (he’s got a very important date). He will escort you to the tea party, where you will be greeted by various guests. Please RSVP to Cincinnati Ballet promptly. We look forward to following you down the rabbit hole!

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Dayton Flyers vs. St. Bonaventure Price: varies | Phone: (937) 229-4635 | Location: University of Dayton Arena. 1801 Edwin C. Moses Blvd, Dayton | www.daytonflyers. com/schedule.aspx?path=mbball

Super Saturday Family Days at Dayton Art Institute Price: $5 members; $10 non-members; $2 each additional child Beginning January 2015: $10/family of four for members; $15/family of four for non-members; $2/each additional child | Phone: 937-512-0167 | Location: Dayton Art Institute. 456 Belmonte Park North, Dayton | www.daytonartinstitute.org/event/supersaturday-family-day-1

Looking for a fun and creative Saturday afternoon for you and your family? Join us on the second and fourth Saturday of every month (unless otherwise noted) for art-making fun! February 14 theme: Be My Valentine.

will be greeted by various guests. Please RSVP to Cincinnati Ballet promptly. We look forward to following you down the rabbit hole!

Based on the Emmy Award-winning Saturday morning animated educational cartoon series and pop culture phenomenon which aired on ABC-TV from the 1970’s -1980’s, Schoolhouse Rock Live! JR. hits the Taft Theatre stage with a rock-and-roll revue, headed up by local rock sensations, The Rusty Griswolds! Schoolhouse Rock Live! JR. follows Tom, a nerve-wracked school teacher who is nervous about his first day of teaching. He tries to relax by watching TV when various characters representing facets of his personality emerge from the set and show him how to win his students over with imagination and music, through such songs as “Just A Bill,” “Three is a Magic Number,” and “Conjunction Junction.”

SUNDAY | 15 Frosty Cheeks 5K

Price: $30 day of race; register early to save! | Phone: 937-417-5772 | Location: The Adventure Summit. Wright State University, Dayton | www.rocketshipsports.com/frosty.html

Join us at The Adventure Summit at Wright State University February 15, 2014 for a frosty 5k run through campus. Along the course will be three donation stations for you to shed unwanted clothing you began the race with. While your cheeks will be frosty your heart will be warm as all the clothing you shed will be donated to charity.

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National Geographic Live Series: Carsten Peter Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 N. Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/carsten-peter/

Take an electrifying journey into some of our planet’s most extreme environments with Carsten Peter, a German photographer and filmmaker whose dramatic images have garnered both World Press Photo and Emmy Awards. Ages 10 and up. Lecture: Approximately 60 minutes. Q&A: Approximately 30 minutes.

TUESDAY | 17 The Lightning Thief

Price: $5 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 N. Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/the-lightningthief

Percy Jackson is about to be kicked out of boarding school…again. And that’s the least of his troubles. Lately, mythological monsters and the gods of Mount Olympus seem to be walking straight out of the pages of Percy’s Greek mythology textbook and into his life. Percy will have to do more than catch the true thief: he must come to terms with the father who abandoned him; solve the riddle of the Oracle, which warns him of betrayal by a friend; and unravel a treachery more powerful than the gods themselves. Based on the book series by Rick Riordan and produced by Theatreworks USA. Grades 2-7. 60 minute runtime.

2015 Dayton Auto Show Price: $6 online and $8 at box office. Children under 10 free with paid adult. | Phone: 937333-8400 | Location: Dayton Convention Center. 22 E. Fifth Street, Dayton | www. daytonautoshow.com

Each year the Dayton Auto Show rolls into town with displays of the latest and greatest models and automotive technologies. See all your favorite sports cars, sedans, SUVs, minivans, and motorcycles from 26 different manufacturers, and enjoy some fun for the whole family. It’s an auto show, and so much more!

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2015 Dayton Auto Show Price: $6 online and $8 at box office. Children under 10 free with paid adult | Phone: 937-333-8400 | Location: Dayton Convention Center. 22 E. Fifth Street, Dayton | www. daytonautoshow.com

Each year the Dayton Auto Show rolls into town with displays of the latest and greatest models and automotive technologies. See all your favorite sports

cars, sedans, SUVs, minivans, and motorcycles from 26 different manufacturers, and enjoy some fun for the whole family. It’s an auto show, and so much more!

Hot Fudge Sundae Sale Weekend Phone: 937-325-0629 | Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy. 6880 Springfield Xenia Rd, Yellow Springs | www.youngsdairy.com/hotfudge/

By the end of February, we are still cold but ready for spring to arrive. We felt a good way to say goodbye to winter was to have a Hot Fudge Sundae Celebration as February ends and March starts. Friday through Sunday at either The Dairy Store or The Golden Jersey Inn a one dip Hot Fudge Sundae is only $2.59! A two dip Hot Fudge Sundae is only $3.59! You choose the flavor of homemade ice cream you want us to make it from, and we’ll add the hot fudge, whipped cream, nuts, and a cherry! What a deal!

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Family Day: Globe Trotting Price: free | Phone: (937) 255-3286 | Location: National Museum of the United States Air Force | 1100 Spaatz St. Wright-Patterson AFB, Dayton | www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/education/family/index.asp

Commemorate the birthdays of Galileo and Copernicus and the anniversary of the first GPS satellite by learning about astronomy and satellites! Participants can make their own “satellites” from recycled materials.

Pinkalicious the Musical Price: $15 each | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 N. Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/pinkaliciousthe-musical-family/

New York’s multi-award-winning Vital Theatre Company brings a fresh new PINKALICIOUS to the Victoria stage! Pinkalicious can’t stop eating pink cupcakes despite warnings from her parents. Her pink indulgence lands her at the doctor’s office with “Pinkititis,” an affliction that turns her pink from head to toe-a dream come true for this pinkloving enthusiast. But when her hue goes too far, only Pinkalicious can figure out a way to get out of this predicament. With book and lyrics by Elizabeth and Victoria Kann, this musical is sure to captivate the entire family. Ages 3-10. Runtime: 60 minutes.

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Hot Fudge Sundae Sale Weekend Phone: 937-325-0629 | Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy. 6880 Springfield Xenia Rd, Yellow Springs | www.youngsdairy.com/hotfudge/

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Hot Fudge Sundae Sale Weekend Phone: 937-325-0629 | Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy. 6880 Springfield Xenia Rd, Yellow Springs | www.youngsdairy.com/hotfudge/

You choose the flavor of homemade ice cream you want us to make it from, and we’ll add the hot fudge, whipped cream, nuts, and a cherry! What a deal!

SATURDAY | 28 Super Saturday Family Days at Dayton Art Institute

Price: $5 members; $10 non-members; $2 each additional child | Beginning January 2015: $10/family of four for members; $15/ family of four for non-members; $2/each additional child | Phone: 937-512-0167 | Location: Dayton Art Institute. 456 Belmonte Park North, Dayton | www.daytonartinstitute.org/ event/super-saturday-family-day-1

The Sleeping Beauty Price: $20 Adult and $18 Seniors/Students | Phone: 937-530-0515 Location: Dayton Masonic Center. 525 W. Riverview Ave., Dayton | www.mvso.org/performances/Sleeping_Beauty

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Riverscape Ice Skating

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(Open daily through February 28)

(Saturdays beginning January 10 - February 14)

Price: free | Phone: 937-433-8091 | Location: Washington-Centerville Public Library | www. daytonlocal.com/events/monday-music-festragtime-riverboat-rats-with-piano-banjo-horn. asp

Price: Admission fee: $5 daily ice skate rental: $2 daily; Ages 3 and younger are free with a paying adult | Phone: (937) 278-2607 | Location: 111 E. Monument Ave., Dayton, OH 45402 | www.metroparks.org/Parks/RiverScape/IceRink.aspx?id=2014dl

Imagination Yoga uses an adventure theme to guide children through a kids yoga class flying like birds, mooing like cows, or shooting through space in a rocket ship. Each adventure stimulates creativity and incorporates developmentally appropriate kids yoga poses, calming techniques, and kindness exercises. Our program helps kids get physical activity while having fun and integrating the wonderful mind, body and heart benefits of yoga. This session will introduce the Kindness Curriculum - benefits of which may extend well beyond the yoga mat. Yoga mats and other materials needed for class will be provided.

Back for the 15th year. Enjoy the sounds of music while visiting the library each Monday night in February! For all ages. This year’s schedule: Feb. 2, Acoustic Percussive Guitar at Woodbourne, performed by Keith Lykins Feb. 9, Bluegrass With Style at Woodbourne, performed by Vernon & Kitty McIntyre Feb. 16, Ragtime Riverboat Rats at Centerville, performed by members of the Kettering Banjo Society Feb. 23, Boogie Woogie Jam on Keyboard at Centerville, performed by Matthew Ball of Detroit and Ricky Nye from Cincinnati.

STOMP Price: $30-$50; Student Rush: half off any price ticket day of show at Box Office or by phone with student ID (limit 1 ticket per ID). Military Discount: 25% discount at Box Office or by phone with military ID (limit 2 tickets per ID) | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 N. Main St., Dayton. | www. victoriatheatre.com/shows/stomp/

STOMP is explosive, inventive, provocative, witty, and utterly unique-an unforgettable experience for audiences of all ages. The international percussion sensation has garnered armfuls of awards and rave reviews and has appeared on numerous national television shows. The eight-member troupe uses everything but conventional percussion instruments-matchboxes, wooden poles, brooms, garbage cans, Zippo lighters, hubcaps-to fill the stage with magnificent rhythms. Year after year, audiences worldwide keep coming back for more of this pulse-pounding electrifying show.

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Imagination Yoga for Kids Ages 2-4 Price: $66 for series (6 weeks) | Phone: 513-491-3573 | Location: 8933 CincinnatiDayton Rd, West Chester, OH 45069 | www.clients.mindbodyonline.com/classic/ home?studioid=10015

The Sleeping Beauty is a charming fairy tale and one of the most beloved ballets of all time. Tchaikovsky’s magnificent score, enchanting choreography and costumes, and a cast of fanciful characters all set the stage for a performance the entire family can enjoy together.

MetroParks Ice Rink will be open through February 2015, including special holiday hours while the kids are out of school. With its appeal to both young and old, the experience of skating at the MetroParks Ice Rink is fast becoming a holiday tradition for Miami Valley families looking for something fun to do together.

Whacky Music Makers (Thursdays beginning January 22 – February 26)

For kids ages 5-10, this 6-week class (January 22 through February 26) will use Boomwhackers to explore being part of a musical ensemble. We will play lots of simple, fun games to experience musical turn-taking and learn the basics of building chord. There are no materials required for this class.

Lego Stop Motion Saturday Workshop for Kids (Saturdays in February) Price: $12 per session or $40 for 4 weeks | Phone: 937-723-6747 | Location: Grass Roots Enrichment and Wellness Center. 400 E. Fifth Street, Dayton | www.grassrootsenrichment. com/ Build sets, characters and new worlds all out of

Direct, Produce and Film your very own Lego Movie!

Price: $95 | Phone: 937-865-6539 | Location: Bella Musica. 2240 E. Central Ave, Miamisburg | www.com/things-to-do/kids/bella-musicawhacky-music-makers.asp

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The Beach Mountain (Open daily beginning Friday, November 21, 2014 through Sunday, March 1, 2015) Price: $17-$22 | Phone: 513-398-4356 | Location: The Beach Waterpark. 2690 Waterpark Dr., Mason | www.thebeachmountain.com

Slide down the snowy 400 foot long run and then conveniently ride the magical moving carpet back to the top. The Beach Mountain will have 10 lanes for tubing with sessions starting at 2 hours each. Visit the park’s winter chalet to warm up and enjoy hot food and beverages. There’s even a play area for small children 3 and under to make snowmen or snow angels, and enjoy a tube ride on a mini slope.

Penguin Days (Saturdays and Sundays January 4 – February 28) Price: free with admission | Phone: 513-2814700 | Location: The Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden. 3400 Vine Street, Cincinnati, OH 45220 | www.cincinnatizoo.org/events/ penguin-days/

March to the Cincinnati Zoo and save a waddle of cash! Experience cooler prices and even cooler animals during Penguin Days, with half-price Zoo admission every day and special animal encounters every Saturday and Sunday, January 4

through February 28. Plus, enjoy heated indoor animal exhibits throughout the park.

Martha: A Story of Extinction (Daily December 6, 2014 - March 1, 2015) Price: Free with admission | Phone: (513) 2877000 | Location: Cincinnati Museum Center at Union Terminal. 1301 Western Avenue, Cincinnati | www.cincymuseum.org/exhibits/marthaa-story-of-extinction

The passenger pigeon thrived in North America until the early 1900s, when the last surviving passenger pigeon, Martha, died. Martha: A Story of Extinction shares the story of Martha and her species, one of the best-known examples of modern day extinction. Visit the Cincinnati History Museum to learn more about Martha and her species and check out these hands-on activities for all ages, including how to make your very own origami version!

Pump Boys and Dinettes (Shows daily January 15-March 1) Price: Tickets range from $55-$71 for adults; children under 13 are $30 | Phone: (937) 7464554 | Location: La Comedia Dinner Theatre. 7 65 W. Central Ave, Springboro, OH 45066 | www.lacomedia.com

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Somewhere between Frog Level and Smyrna, North Carolina, way down on Highway 57, the ‘Pump Boys’ sell high octane and the ‘Dinettes’ serve up plenty of pie and sass at the Double Cupp Diner next door. Together, they perform a rousing down-home mix of country western, rock ‘n’ roll, and blues, in this charming tale of friendship, romance, and heartbreak.

Storytime at Barnes and Noble Booksellers (Occurring every Saturday) Times: 11 am | Price: free | Phone: 937-4330750 | Location: 2619 Miamisburg-Centerville Rd, Dayton, OH 45459 | www.store-locator. barnesandnoble.com/store/2777

Join us every Saturday at 11:00 am for children’s Storytime! Children in preschool and up will enjoy a story followed by a craft!

FOR MORE FUN IDEAS, VISIT DAYTONPARENTMAGAZINE.COM At Dayton Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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