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ask AUNTYJI MATRIMONIALS
from 2017-07 Perth
by Indian Link
SEEKING BRIDES
Well-settled professional match invited for Sydney-based Punjabi girl. Never married 43/5’6” Masters in IT from Sydney. Jolly nature, good mix of Indian and modern values. Working in an MNC. Australian citizen. Educated family. Parents in Delhi. Respond with photo and pro le to sydgirl09@gmail.com
Seeking professional match for Australian born and brought up Hindu Brahmin girl. Chartered Accountant, 25 years old, 5’4”, working with a bank. Family well settled in Australia for over 27 years. Prefer boy settled in Australia. Please send details with photo to fairfree1@mail.com
Match required for my sister. Australian citizen, Hindu Punjabi, non-vegetarian. 5’0, slim, fair, beautiful. 1988-born, Masters of Professional Accounting, working in Melbourne. Australian Citizen or PR required. Email to melbournejodi@yahoo.com
Seeking professionally quali ed settled match for Sydney-based, never married Australian citizen. Hindu, Punjabi Khatri 44, 5’3” slim, fair, attractive. The girl is a postgraduate and is working on a good position in a government organisation. Please send details with photo to indsyd2016@gmail.com
Seeking Grooms
Well-settled professional match invited for Sydney-based Punjabi girl. Never married 43/5’6” Masters in IT from Sydney. Jolly nature, good mix of Indian and modern values. Working in an MNC. Australian citizen. Educated family. Parents in Delhi. Respond with photo and pro le to sydgirl09@gmail.com
Seeking professional match for Australian born and brought up Hindu Brahmin girl. Chartered Accountant, 25 years old, 5’4”, working with a bank. Family well settled in Australia for over 27 years. Prefer boy settled in Australia. Please send details with photo to fairfree1@mail.com
Match required for my sister. Australian citizen, Hindu Punjabi, non-vegetarian. 5’0, slim, fair, beautiful. 1988-born, Masters of Professional Accounting, working in Melbourne. Australian Citizen or PR required. Email to melbournejodi@yahoo.com
Seeking professionally quali ed settled match for Sydney-based, never married Australian citizen. Hindu, Punjabi Khatri 44, 5’3” slim, fair, attractive. The girl is a postgraduate and is working on a good position in a government organisation. Please send details with photo to indsyd2016@gmail.com
Yes, this is a terrible situation you are in - and there are many people hurting at the moment. Ok, so look at it from your DIL’s point of view. Her life is slowly falling to pieces. She is hurting. And she is probably not coping well. In this situation, you can’t make demands such as it is my right to see my grandkids. If you really loved your family, which includes the mother of your grandkids, here is what you would do. Back away, and leave them alone. Let your DIL grieve for a while. Do not interfere or take sides. Do not request or demand to see your grandkids. Give them all time to get over this life challenge. You will need to put a stone on your heart to get through these months. If you can, have a word with your DIL and let her know what you will give her time, and you are there for her. When she is ready, she can bring the kids for a visit. And if DIL is ok, then maybe you will prepare a meal for the kids. But you need to make a few sacri ces here, for the sake of the family. An unhappy mother is a terrible thing for kids - so don’t let your grandkids see their mum as unhappy. Never ever speak badly of her. Do not take sides between your son and DIL. This is a no-win situation. And whatever you do, don’t start giving your son your two-paisa worth of advice. He does not need it. Unless you are echoing the words of saints such as be kind and don’t ever let a nasty word escape your mouth. You get my drift. Hang in there. It will get better. But you need to work towards it. Let me know how you go.
