Family Matters Easter 2019 | South Bristol

SOUTH BRISTOL EDITION

ISSUE 49 • MARCH/APRIL 2019

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the value of pocket money

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easter play ideas

WELCOME Easter is nearly upon us and we’re excited to share a whole new set of Easter-themed events with you as well as all your school news! It looks like you have all been very busy during the first few months of 2019!

We’re hoping that the weather starts to brighten up so you can enjoy your time off school and have some family time in the sunshine, though lighter nights are on the way, so make sure you make use of them by taking some walks and getting out in the countryside – it’s the perfect way to enjoy each other’s company while working off all that extra energy from the chocolate eggs and treats you'll have been eating!

Have a wonderful Easter break!

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p7 the history of mother's day

p17 staying safe online

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Easter celebrations around the world In the UK, Easter is a time to spend together as a family, some focus on more traditional Christian activities and go to Church services where they celebrate the resurrection of Christ, while others exchange Easter Eggs and enjoy Simnel Cake and Hot Cross Buns. While Easter is an important celebration here, it isn’t something that is celebrated all around the world, but for those that do celebrate it, the traditions are very different to here in the UK. Here are a few of the Easter celebrations across the world:

Dressing up as the Easter Witch

Easter In Sweden, children dress up as urful colo ts, skir long ring witches wea eks. che red ted pain and s arve dsc hea ing trad e hom They walk from home to e hop the in ings draw paintings and of receiving sweets.

Beating up straw dolls

In Brazil one of their main Easter traditions is creating small straw dolls to represent Judas, who in the Bibl e stories was the apostle that betrayed Jes us.

These little dolls are then hung up in the streets and beaten. On Easter Sun day, or SĂĄbado de Aleluia, there are carnivals held to celebrate the end of Lent.

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Decorating trees with eggs

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Egg fights

In Bulgaria, eggs aren’t hidden, they’re thrown! Whoever finishes the game with an unbroken egg is the winner and assumed to be the most successful member of the family in the coming year!

Smashing pots

In Corfu, reside nts have been known to take part in Po t Throwing, w hich takes place on the m orning of Holy Saturday.

People throw pots and pans out of their window s so that they sm ash on the street outside.

Showering girls with water

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HOLIDAY SWIM INTENSIVE LESSONS THIS EASTER At Better, Keynsham Leisure Centre, we run holiday swim intensive courses for children who need that extra boost in their swimming skills. From beginners to stroke improvement, we have something to help all ages and all abilities.

Book today at www.betterlessons.org.uk Better is a registered trademark and trading name of GLL (Greenwich Leisure Limited), a charitable social enterprise and registered society under the Co-operative & Community Benefit & Societies Act 2014 registration no. 27793R. Registered office: Middlegate House, The Royal Arsenal, London, SE18 6SX. Inland Revenue Charity no. XR43398

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13 & 14 APRIL

Join the ‘Star Tugs’ from 1980s children’s TV and take a trip down memory lane! Enjoy a trip onboard Bristol’s historic fireboat ‘Pyronaut’ which will be joining us with short trips on the River Avon*

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Join us this Easter weekend as we celebrate the return to steam of the old Fry’s chocolate factory steam locomotive from Keynsham.

FREE Fry’s chocolate for every child!

Tel: 0117 932 5538

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CHOCOLATE TRAIN

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Bitton Railway Station, Bath Road, Bristol BS30 6HD

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The history of Mother’s

Day

In the UK, Mother’s Day is celebrated on the fourth Sunday of Lent (exactly three weeks before Easter) and is nothing to do with the American holiday of the same name.

Historically it’s a religious holiday in Christianity.

Originally the idea of Mother’s Day was when children who worked as servants, mainly girls, were given the day off of work to spend it at home with their mothers.

Children of poorer families were often sent away to other towns or villages to work, so getting a day off to return home was something to be celebrated.

Because Mother’s Day always falls on a Sunday, it would be expected that when they got to their family home they would also visit their ‘Mother’ church, ie, the church they had attended when they lived with their parents.

Back then, it was customary to return to their family church in the middle of Lent, and as many children would pick wild flowers to take home to their mothers as a gift after the service, historians think this is where the idea of heading to your mum’s home with a gift came from.

These days, Mother’s Day is a way we can all celebrate mothers, whether they are biological mums, step mums, adoptive mums or if your mum is no longer with you.

There are lots of ways to honour your mum on Mother’s Day whether that’s by quietly reflecting on your relationship or indulging her with gifts and treats. However you are choosing to spend the day, we hope that it is one that is filled with love and happiness.

There are some easy and thoughtful ways you can celebrate your mum this Mother’s Day. Dad’s, older siblings, grandparents or mum’s partner are great helpers to help create something special for mum like a scrapbook, memory box, breakfast in bed or a bunch of flowers.

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Award Winning Educational Experiences

Charity Open Day Saturday 13th of April Newton St Loe, Bath

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A fun family day out For more open day dates A chance to meet the please visit our website: horses Tractor tours www.horseworld.org.uk Pony cycles

Food and drink stands

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Cheddar Crazy Golf Family Fun for all ages

18 hole course in attractive setting Open daily from 11am

Only £4.50 per player 01934 741112 The Cliffs, Cheddar BS27 3QE info@cheddarcrazygolf.co.uk

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Should you leave your child home alone?

Leaving your children home alone is a pretty contentious issue, some parents think that at a certain age, children should be left alone for short periods to help them learn independence, others think children should be in their late teens before you even think about it. For the vast majority of parents, they feel safe leaving their children alone for a few hours once they start secondary school, especially if they have older siblings that can keep an eye on them. For some, with busy lives, leaving them alone for a few hours can be the only solution.

If it is something you’re considering, it is important to know that there is no legal age limit for leaving a child on their own, but it is an offence if it places the child at risk. It is generally advised that children under 12 shouldn’t be left alone for long periods of time. The only real question is whether or not your child is mature enough to be left on their own. Just with everything else when it comes to parenting, if you’re worried about it, don’t do it. If you’re worried about being over protective, you could always leave them for a short time, such as popping into the garden or out to the car, to see how you feel and they react.

If you find yourself thinking about whether you can leave the children alone for a little while, here are some things for you to consider.

• How far away will you be and how long do you think you’ll be?

• How mature/responsible are your children?

• Do they feel comfortable being in the house without you?

• How well do they know the neighbours? Would they be comfortable approaching them for help if they need it?

If you do need to leave your children at home on their own for a little while, the general advice is to ease into it. Don’t put any extra pressure on yourself by having a deadline or important appointment the first time. It is also a good idea to be close by for the first few times, so it is easy to get home straight away if you need to. If you decide that your child is mature enough and happy to be left alone for short periods of time, there are some things you can do to ease both your and their minds.

• Make sure they understand how important it is not to answer the door if they are at home alone.

• Leave clear instructions in case of emergency and make sure they know not to use any appliances such as the oven or microwave.

• Tell them what time you will be back and stick to it.

• Leave contact numbers and make sure your children know how to use the phone to get hold of you.

• Leave a contact number for someone else you trust in case you are unavailable.

• Set some ground rules so your child knows what they can and can’t do while you’re not there.

As ever though, you know your child best and everything depends on their maturity and your comfort level. There are so many variables, as your eldest child might be completely trustworthy and sensible, but your younger child might not be. It is all down to your discretion.

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The sweetest race of the year will also be taking place as Shetland Ponies battle it out with young jockeys on board in the track's annual Shetland Pony race. The prize is a family ticket for two adult tickets and up to four kids tickets (under 18s) and a bag of donuts.

Win 4 tickets to Splashdown Poole or Quaywest Spring is in the air and it's time to shake off the Winter blues to get out and about with the family and where better than at a Splashdown Waterpark where there are flumes galore, twisting tyre rides and a whole lot of fun for the family. We have 2 family tickets for 4 people to be won at the south west’s favourite waterparks; best of all you can choose whether you wish to go to Splashdown in Poole, Dorset or Splashdown Quaywest right on the beach in beautiful South Devon (opens for Easter Bank Hols). Tickets may be used anytime in 2019 subject to opening it doesn’t include any transport, just admission for up to four people. Worth over £60 per family.

Win a family ticket to The Royal Bath and West Show 3 x pairs of adult tickets to giveaway (children go free). Taking place at the Bath & West Showground from 29 May to 1 June; England’s Royal four day show offers an array of attractions for all the family to enjoy.

Keep the little ones entertained with hands-on demonstrations including mozzarella making, butter making and apple juice making. Or meet everyone’s favourite little green tractor, Tractor Ted. Jumping into the Main Ring with their daredevil stunts is this year’s Main Ring attraction, the Extreme Bike Battle! The impressive team will be pushing boundaries twice daily at this year’s show. Adult tickets are now on sale, with children under 15 years going FREE. Visit www.bathandwest.com to get your tickets today!

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10 quick and easy

Easter Play Ideas The holidays were made for play and Easter has to be one of the most fun times of the year for children - I can’t think why?! If you are looking for some suitably themed activities to keep little ones busy over the break without the chocolate component, while hopefully giving yourself five minutes peace for a quick cuppa (and a Malteser bunny!) then here are my favourites, all using everyday items which can be found around the home or sourced cheaply from a pound shop and all super quick and easy to set up.

Salt Dough Hot Cross Buns Paper Envelope Bunnies

All you need are some brown paper bags, a pink highlighter, black marker pen, sellotape, scissors and pink or white fluffy balls. Draw the bunny’s face on the paper bag then cut and colour his ears and feet before sticking on along with the fluffy tail!

Perfect for collecting sweet Easter treats!

Mix together half a cup of flour, half a cup of salt and one cup of water. Make dough and shape! Put in the oven on a low heat for two to four hours then cool overnight before painting and playing! Perhaps you could use some old takeaway coffee cups and get them to open their own bakery?!

Perfect for some Easter role play!

Plastic Eggs Plastic eggs are a great Easter resource, offering so many opportunities for suitably themed play and can be used throughout the year providing real value for money.

Easter Tray

Gather together all of your Easter resources and present them to your child on a dip tray. Then just let the play unfold and develop naturally, inviting your child to use their own initiative and imagination to create whatever activities their mind allows. Simple but effective!

Planting Flowers

Invite little ones to plant their very own spring garden for lots of fun filling, scooping, pouring, planting and smelling. Just fill a tray with soil then provide chickpeas, black beans, pots, tools and faux flowers sprayed with perfume.

Feeding The Rabbits

Fill a tray with beans, lentils, peas and of course carrots (real or fake), pop in some cuddly rabbits and add little pots, utensils and tongs for transporting the food from tray to the rabbits hungry mouths!

Make Noisy Shakers Make noisy shakers by filling with leftovers from your kitchen cupboards i.e. Rice Crispies, sugar or pasta shells.

Alternatively add different herbs to alert their sense of smell! Great for babies!

Practise Hand Muscle Control

Get your child to practice hand muscle control by filling them with rainbow rice or pasta using a spoon.

Easter Egg Hunt Finally, of course, a good old-fashioned Easter egg hunt never fails to keep the kids entertained!

Scooping Practise

Add to a water tray with tongs and a sieve for scooping practise. Great for outdoor play when the weather warm and sunny!

Content supplied Claire Russell, founder of www.playhooray.co.uk

what’s on 19th March - 20th May Spring Escapades Explore St Michael's Hill, steeped in wildlife and history. Pick up a trail from reception. Montacute House, Montacute.

23rd - 24th March Super Hero Weekend Children and their grown-ups are invited to dress up as their favourite heroes and enjoy amazing activities throughout the weekend including fancy dress discos!

Puxton Park, Hewish. www.puxton.co.uk 23rd - 31st March Mothering Sunday Afternoon High Tea This Mothering Sunday, why not treat your Mother to an Afternoon High Tea in our Lavender Lodge Tea Room & Bistro at Whitehall Garden Centre in Lacock.

Book online at www.whitehallgardencentre.co.uk 30th March - 2nd June Explore the Jungle Grotto NEW this 2019 Begin your quest through the Jungle with your map to complete tasks and answer questions. Find the monkeys and spot the parrots. Whitehall Garden Centre, Lacock.

31st March Mother's Day Gert Posh Tea Farrington Farm, Farrington Gurney www.farringtons.co.uk 31st March Sparkling Mother's Day Afternoon Tea Set in the old library of the manor. Bookings must be made

before 29th March 2019 to allow the chef time to create your special menu. Avebury Manor, Avebury 6th April Animals of Lytes Cary Trail Head down to the woodland walk and follow the Explorers' trail to find out more about the animals that lived at Lytes Cary.

Lytes Cary Manor, Somerset.

6th - 24th April Easter Egg Trail Search the museum to find hidden clues in this Easter trail.

Normal admission applies. Somerset Rural Life Museum, Glastonbury.

8th - 12th April Get your Cape On A super hero spectacular of arty, crafty action packed selfytastic fun. Meet our special hero guest plus enjoy the chance to win a super prize bundle.

The Galleries, Bristol.

8th - 22nd April Lacock Easter Egg Hunt Bring the whole family together for fun and nature-filled discoveries as you spot the first signs of spring. Follow the clues to finish your adventure with a delicious, chocolatey treat Lacock Abbey and Gardens, Lacock.

9th April Crafty Cats ‘Bugs and Buds’ The theme will be ‘Bugs and Buds’ and children will have the chance to create bug hand puppets, coffee filter butterflies and a tree blossom picture. www.bishopspalace.org.uk 10th April Make a tissue paper flower - Family Activity Spring is here and the flowers are blooming. Make a tissue paper flower to take home and keep. Normal admission applies - free to members. www.glastonburyabbey.com

For further information about each event

11th - 18th April Nature Ninjas The Palace Garden team will be holding “Nature Ninjas” activity sessions in the Community Garden, aimed at getting little ones engaged with nature and gardening.The team will have lots of horticulturally-based fun activities for all ages. 11am - 3pm.

Included in admission. www.bishopspalace.org.uk 12th April Paint a glass tea light holder - Family Activity Decide on how to decorate your tea light holder and the colours you wish to use before painting or drawing these onto your glass tea light holder with glass pens and paint. www.glastonburyabbey.com 12th - 19th April Easter Trail Follow the Easter trail around the abbey - collect letters to claim your prize. Costs £2 plus normal admission. www.glastonburyabbey.com

13th - 14th April Come along and bring the family to see Magic Moments animals, Chuffy the train, Children’s entertainment, Face painting and Farm Shop Tastings. You can also come and meet the Easter chicks from Lackham College. This is a free event, no ticket or pre-booking needed.

Whitehall Garden Centres, Lacock.

13th & 14th April Fire & Water Join the ‘Star Tugs’ from 1980s children’s TV and take a trip down memory lane! Admire some of the original models from the TV series on their first outing to the Avon Valley Railway.

Enjoy a trip onboard Bristol’s historic fire-boat ‘Pyronaut’ which will be offering short trips on the River Avon at the end of the line (small extra charge applies). www.avonvalleyrailway.org 13th - 22nd April Easter Egg Hunt at Stourhead This Easter the animals have been inspired by Palladian architecture. Judge for yourself who has made the most fashionable habitat to enjoy a chocolatey prize at the end.

Stourhead Garden, Stourhead.

19th - 22nd April Cadbury Easter Egg Hunt Bunny is back and this year he's brought some friends along with him. Hear the tales of famous rabbits throughout literature, solve the clues and claim your Cadbury chocolate prize at the end. Dunster Castle, Dunster.

19th - 22nd April Cadbury Easter Egg Hunt Barrington Court is the best place for a great Easter Egg Hunt. Lots of space to run around, plenty of fresh air and a chocolate prize!

Barrington Court, Somerset.

19th - 22nd April Chocolate Train This Easter sees the return to steam of the old Fry’s chocolate factory steam locomotive from Keynsham. Plus there’ll be FREE Fry’s chocolate for every child! www.avonvalleyrailway.org 19th - 22nd April Cadbury Easter Egg Hunt Hop along to Lytes Cary Manor this Easter Weekend and follow the clues to be rewarded with a Cadbury chocolate prize.

Lytes Cary Manor, Somerset.

26th - 27th April Wells Film Festival - The Kid Who Would Be King The Bishop’s Palace in Wells is delighted to be hosting the Wells Film Festival for its 4th outdoor screening on the Croquet Lawn. This year’s film is “The Kid Who Would Be King”, a family fantasy action-adventure film about a band of young kids embarking on an epic quest to thwart a medieval menace. www.bishopspalace.org.uk 6th May May Day Fun With plenty of fun activities going on, there will be something for everyone to enjoy at Barrington Court's May Day celebration – including a traditional maypole dance!

Barrington Court, Somerset.

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KEEP THEM SAFE ONLINE With the amount of gadgets and phones being given as Christmas presents, it is likely that your children are accessing more and more digital features and spending more time on social media. Cyber bullying and children being groomed or scammed online is a huge problem, it’s something that parents and schools are doing their best to tackle, so we’ve put together some resources to help navigate the difficult world of the internet.

ACCORDING TO STUDIES ON CYBER BULLYING: Girls are more likely to be victims of cyber bullying Children are 7 times more likely to be bullied online by people they consider friends than strangers.

70% of students have reported seeing bullying online.

Children who are being bullied online are also more likely to be the victim of identity theft.

Victims of cyber bullying have a higher risk of the behaviour having a negative impact on their mental health in comparison to more traditional methods of bullying.

Bullies aren’t using the internet to find victims but are accessing the profiles of people they are already having issues with.

BUT WHAT CAN WE DO TO HELP THE SITUATION? Without alienating your children by banning all devices that connect to the internet, there are a few things that can help the situation.

• Create a safe environment where children feel comfortable enough to discuss the harassment, either at home or at school, so that the situation can be monitored and the perpetrators spoken to. Listening to your child’s concerns is an important first step and talking to them through the situation will help them feel supported.

• Become familiar with parental controls on social media sites and how to use them.

• If your children are actively using social media platforms, make sure they know about blocking, muting and reporting when they see bullying taking place.

• Use parental controls on games consoles, this is an important thing to do if your child is regularly messaging others when playing games.

• Because the majority of cyber bullying cases involve people that are known to each other, make sure the school is aware of any examples of bullying.

• Collect as much information as you can, screen shots can be helpful if you need to go to the school or if something criminal has taken place, for you to hand over to the police.

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The Value of

Teaching children the value of money and how to budget is an important lesson and one that can be stressful to parents, especially if your child’s peers are receiving large allowances each month that are just out of your price range.

Pocket money can be the cause of many family arguments, we’re sure your children use the “but (insert name here) gets more than me” routine all the time but it is important to stick to your guns when it comes to your children and pocket money.

Clear boundaries will ensure you remain in control and that your children get the chance to learn more about how money works.

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POCKET MO NE Y With society becoming more and more consumer focused, it is no wonder that studies are reporting that 71% of under sixteen year olds are using savings accounts or current accounts to keep track of their spending. According to reports the average child is now earning around £13 a week, which amounts to over £600 a year, so showing children how to understand the value of money and the importance of saving and budgeting is becoming more and more important.

Financial advisers are therefore handing out information to parents on how to make their kids as money savvy as possible, so here are a few tips to help you out along the way.

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Start talking to them about money from a young age

We understand that this isn’t always easy, explaining wages and taxes is something that goes over most adults’ heads, let alone kids and we’re not all comfortable talking about our finances, but letting them play with coins or handing them money and letting them pay for goods when out shopping is a good way to equate money with products. It will also help them not only understand the value of money, but also will give them a head start when it comes to adding and subtracting, especially if you supervise them counting out what they’ll need or get them to wait for change.

Show them the importance of saving

These days children, particularly older ones, will get given money for their birthdays or as Christmas presents and this can really add up, particularly if you are part of a large family. While they might be tempted to blow the lot, see if you can encourage them to save the money instead. Many banks offer savings accounts to under sixteens and some even have current accounts with differing interest rates.

Encouraging the use of an account like this can be useful in helping them save for something really big or even just as a useful tool for understanding how interest rates work.

Giving out pocket money

We know this can be a tough one, but it is a great way to give children control over their own spending and to gain a real insight into saving and budgeting.

The trick is to be consistent about how much you give them and when, so start out with small amounts over a regular payment cycle that is in line with your own budgets. This can help them get used to being paid on a certain day and how to make their money last until the next pay day. You can also use house hold chores as a way to teach them how to earn money, so instead of paying for a cleaner or a gardener every week, save a few jobs for the kids to do and pay them instead.

Learning by experience

We never want to let our kids make mistakes and it can be particularly difficult where money is concerned, but one great way to teach your children about the value of money is to let them learn by experience. If they want to spend all their cash in one go, let them but be sure that they know they won’t be getting any more until the next pay day and if they have an advance, they’ll have it docked from their usual amount. They’ll soon learn about the importance of budgeting and saving when they realise that the Bank of Mum and Dad has a limit.

Don’t overcompensate

If you are co-parenting with an ex, it can be tempting to overcompensate with money, particularly if it is a messy break up. It’s important that you are on the same page when it comes to pocket money.

Grandparents can also feel that they have a right to spoil the children and can compete with each other and you with pocket money. Make sure you speak to everyone involved so that they understand your goals and come to a compromise, perhaps the Grandparents would like to open and maintain an ISA or something similar, so that they are giving pocket money without undermining what you’ve decided.

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At the end of the day, whether or not you give out pocket money and if so, how much, is entirely down to you and your family.

If you want to find out more about the benefits of pocket money, there are lots of online guides that offer great resources.

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News and Reviews HISTORY BROUGHT TO LIFE ON TITANIC DAY TRIP Pupils from Fairfield School had an appointment with history when they flew from Bristol Airport on an early morning flight to Belfast to see the Titanic Exhibition.

Headmistress, Mrs Lesley Barton, said: “A very early start saw some sleepy children arriving at Bristol Airport at 5am to take the 7am Easyjet flight to Belfast. Once there, they had a guided tour of the Titanic Exhibition and went aboard the SS Nomadic, which was the tender for the Titanic. “They saw the slipway where the famous ship was launched and loved the interactive galleries, special effects and full-scale reconstructions and we have had some really excited children on the return journey having seen something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

BUMBLE BEES AND BUTTERFLIES ENJOY BRISTOL ZOO VISIT The Bumble Bee and Butterfly classes at Saltford School had a fantastic day visiting Bristol Zoo. As well as seeing the penguins and the seals, they also had an informative lesson about animals that live in polar regions. The children were very enthusiastic and represented the school brilliantly. Everyone wants to thank Miss Honeybell for organising the visit and the staff who came along to support them.

WHITCHURCH SS GREAT BRITAIN VISIT Years 1 and 2 at Whitchurch Primary School visited the SS Great Britain as part of their Broad Curriculum brought alive project. They learned about history, science, technology and engineering.

FIREFIGHTERS JOIN CASTLE PRIMARY FOR HISTORIC FIRE LESSONS CHANDAG INFANTS CELEBRATE CHINESE NEW YEAR Children at Chandag Infant School dressed in red on 5th February to celebrate Chinese New Year with some of the pupils and the staff coming to school wearing traditional Chinese dress. The theme for the day continued at lunchtime when they had a dinner of noodles and spring rolls.

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Year 2 students at Castle Primary are learning about the Great Fire of London. This term they had a visit from firefighters at the Hicks Gate fire station. They had to delay their visit because they were off fighting a fire!

During their time at the school they talked about what they do, such as rescuing animals and people who get trapped in mud, cutting people out of car accidents and of course, putting out fires.

They also told pupils they will fit fire alarms in houses for free!

Every time the children got a question right, they were allowed to fill in a piece of a puzzle and everyone learned what to do if they were ever on fire: Stop, Drop and Roll, they all had a lot of fun practicing that! They got to look at the fire engine and helped the fire fighters squirt a target across the field with the hose!

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EXTREME EARTH LESSONS FOR LONGWELL GREEN PRIMARY Over the last term, Year 3 at Longwell Green Primary have been learning all about natural disasters on Earth. During these lessons they were visited by Paul Incledon, a parent of two children at the school, who works for SARAID as a disaster relief worker. The children loved his visit and it made them very thankful that they don’t live near an active volcano or near the edge of a tectonic plate. He shared pictures from several places he’d been around the world that showed the devastation people face following natural disasters and the teams of people that go to support them.

HOT CHOCOLATE AT CASTLE PRIMARY Castle Primary have launched their own Hot Chocolate Friday as a way to recognise good behaviour. Hot Chocolate Friday is a growing movement in schools across the country. At Castle, a child from each class each week is chosen to have this treat at break time and one will then select a member of staff to be invited the next week.

The first took place at the end of January and the children were treated to hot chocolate topped with marshmallows and the odd biscuit!

RUGBY TOURNAMENT AT WELLSWAY SCHOOL A group of Year 6 children from Saltford School were invited to Wellsway School recently to take part in a tag rugby festival. The children were split into several groups with a range of pupils from across our MAT. They warmed up with a variety of different activities, led by some fantastic sports ambassadors from years 8 and 9, which included former Saltford pupils. The children then moved on to a fastpaced rugby skills game which helped them to practice their throwing and catching. The session was rounded off with a few friendly matches where the children got to show off what they had learned during the day. It was brilliant to see the children having a go and really improve as they played each match. Everyone at Saltford School want to congratulate the Year 6s for representing the school so well.

SAFER INTERNET DAY IN KEYNSHAM Chandag Infant School marked Safe Internet Day 2019 with a series of different lessons for each of the school’s age groups. One of the lessons was on e-safety and Year 1 pupils made the World Wide web out of string and got in a tangle unravelling it! Part of the lesson involved asking for permission before passing the string on to the next person.

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KEYNSHAM’S YOUNG LIFESAVERS EXCEL In a national competition at Warwick University in February, young lifesavers from Keynsham held their own against 25 teams. Their best results came in the simulated emergency situations designed to asses their ability to perform first aid and water-based rescues under pressure. The first incident was set in a restaurant where there was a gas explosion. In the water incident, the team had just two minutes to locate and rescue seven casualties. Despite being up against tough competition, the Keynsham Lifesaving Club secured a top ten place thanks to their actions with the first incident and fared well in the water races. Keynsham Lifesaving Club is affiliated with the Royal Lifesaving Society and holds weekly training sessions teaching members how to deal with life threatening emergencies.

LEARNING FIRST AID Earlier this term, pupils at Chandag Junior School in Keynsham had a visit from St John’s Ambulance who taught them some first aid skills. They learned how to treat someone if they are choking as well as how to look after someone if they are bleeding. It was very interesting and the children would all recommend it.

SCHOOL CLOSURE CONFIRMED The Wellsway Multi Academy Trust has confirmed that following careful consideration, they will be closing the Bath Studio School at the end of the summer term 2020. This follows a period of discussions with WMAT and the Department of Education. The Studio School opened in 2014 and was the first studio school to open in the West of England, no further students will be admitted from September 2019. The Wellsway Multi Academy Trust will continue to work individually with students to support their on going education and will be available to talk to any parents and carers with concerns.

Plans are in place to expand Aspire Academy, which shares a site with The Bath Studio School and the trust’s other studio school IKB, which is in Keynsham and is focused on STEM subjects will continue to provide school places.

SWEET TRIP FOR LITTLE STOKE Year 5 at Little Stoke Primary were very excited to visit Cadbury World in Birmingham recently. They took part in an interactive exhibition all about the history of chocolate and in particular, Cadbury.

They learned about how chocolate is made through 4D cinema shows and hands on activities where they were able to write their names in melted chocolate and temper it, it was very difficult for them not to sample them! Luckily, on their way around, they collected multiple chocolate bars and free samples which were very much enjoyed. The visit ended with an educational talk about the Mayan people. They dressed in traditional Maya dress, involved in our own game of pok a tok and completed quizzes. Year 5 had a fantastic time on the trip and it was made all the more sweet as they were able to buy and bring home 850g bars of Dairy Milk!

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