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RICHARD MANLEY JR. PRIMES MED.TECH THE GIFT OF AGREEMENT KEEP CANCER AT BAY Plus Jason Stone Rogers Pope Joyce Pope Lori Osborne Breneda Mathis Jennifer Harris Shirley Gibbon Shirley Holloway

Congratulations Congratulations toto the the 2018 2018 Stars Stars Over Over Longview Longview Congratulations to the 2019 Stars Over Longview Shalonda Adams Adams Shalonda

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Celebrating 18 Years Celebrating 19 Years Julie Woods

We are known for Stone, but we do much more!

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Speaker: Crosby Celebrating 18 Years Speaker: JackieCaitlin Joyner-Kersey Doors Open at 11:30a.m. a.m.

Doors Open at 11:30 Ceremony and Luncheon begin at noon Ceremony and Luncheon begin at noon Maude Cobb Activity Center Maude Cobb Activity Center 100 Grand Blvd. • Longview 100 Grand Blvd. • Longview

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Speaker: Jackie Joyner-Kersey Complimentary valet parking will be available.

Complimentary valet parking will be available.

Doors Open at 11:30 a.m.

Ticket Information Ceremony and Luncheon begin at noon Ticket Information Individual Tickets $30.00 • $240 for Table of 8 Tickets will be available purchase beginning Maude Cobb Activity Center Individual Tickets $30.00 • for $240 for Table of 8 November 5, 2018.

To purchase, call Longview Regional Tickets willGrand be available purchase beginning 100 Blvd.for • Longview Medical Center’s Marketing Department at 903-553-7400.

November 1, 2017. To purchase, call Longview Regional Complimentary valet parking will be at available.

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Tickets will be available for purchase beginning November 1, 2017. To purchase, call Longview Regional For additional information on this event visit LongviewRegional.com.

Medical Center’s Marketing Department at 903-553-7400.

Congratulations to the 2018 Stars Over Longview

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Cover Story COVER STORY

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Richard Manley, Jr. follows his parents’ example in being married to his best friend and ideal partner. He and wife Carol Lee married 18 months after meeting on a ski vacation in Vail, Colorado.

He relocated to the Rockies to be close to her, and today their aims and actions dovetail ideally.

“She is my match. We fit together perfectly,” he says.

“I make her laugh. She calms me down.” This is their love story for 32 captivating years.

Graphic Designer Sho Labaco

Contributing Writers Cliff Ennico Susan Deitz Kimberly Fish Dick Resch Charlyn Fargo Mary Hunt

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The first of every month prior to month of issue. infinitieplus magazine is not responsible for any discrepancies or changes since the publishing of this issue. At the time of publication, to the best of our knowledge, all information was accurate though not guaranteed.

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As time strings the past, the present and the future; questions can be asked of every individual, group and organization in the community-what have these individual entities done to promote or destroy or do nothing to foster the well being of the community or environment where they live?

Organizations private or public, promote the well-being of their community if it does not practice the zero-some game, but acknowledge that everyone counts despite socio-economic, cultural and physical differences. The opposite is the case for those who instantly or gradually destroy the well- being of those in their community. The third group can be likened to those in events who slept off having neither a recollection of the time nor activities of the occasion.

The past cannot be reproduced with the same experience.

However, the future through careful planning with human faces, humane decision-making can ameliorate the activities of the future for a richer quality of life in our community.

Infinitieplus magazine therefore heartily says THANK YOU for the memorable and worthy activities of 2018 such as: • Longview Medical Center Stars over Longview • Habitat for Humanity Raising the Roof • Keep Longview Beautiful Golf Tourney • The Great Texas Balloon Race • Blue Jeans and Ball Gowns • Spring Hill ISD Legacy Event • Cattle Barron’s Ball • Longview ISD Lamp Lighter • Martin House CAC Bags, Boots and Bingo • St Mary’s Ocktober Fest • Christus Good Shepherd Foundation Gold Rush • And Much More.

We appreciate all advertisers who without them, we cannot carry on with our work. In addition, we are indebted to our readers and businesses where ip magazine is distributed. Lastly, we thank the community for giving us the opportunity to serve. We look forward to serving you again in 2019.

Joycelyne Fadojutimi

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COVER STORY

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Richard Manley Jr.: Leatherneck’s Son Primes Medical Technology

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ichard Manley, Jr. follows his parents’ example in being married to his best friend and ideal partner. He and wife Carol Lee married 18 months after meeting on a ski vacation in Vail, Colorado. He relocated to the Rockies to be close to her, and today their aims and actions dovetail ideally.

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“She is my match. We fit together perfectly,” he says. “I make her laugh. She calms me down.” This is their love story for 32 captivating years.

Manley was influenced from the start by two successful parents, mother and father as he grew up in Alabama, where his dad was adopted son of a rural doctor. The elder Richard Manley did a lot with his |

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COVER STORY life. After playing baseball at the University of Alabama, he was a Marine Corps officer and served his country in the Korean War. He served in the Marine Corps reserve for 22 years before retiring as colonel. He used the GI Bill to attend law school at Alabama.

In addition, he was a successful lawyer. Moreover, he served 25 years as a State Representative and Senator. It was only seven years ago, at the age of 78, that he retired from the Marine Corps reserve.

Richard loves his Daddy dearly.

“He is my best friend,” he said.

Manley Jr’s mother was the first in her family to go to college and she took it very seriously.

She earned a master’s degree and PhD in biology. She taught high school, and later served as a college dean of students. She was also director of an educational non-profit organization. Richard was only 21 years old when she died. The close-knit family felt the loss of their loved one.

“They loved us completely, and were terrific role models,” Richard said.

He initially aimed to attend Alabama and follow his Daddy into the field of law, but his college scholarship came from the United States Marines. This meant he had to go to school where there was a Marine ROTC program, and there was none at Alabama.

Besides, he had reservations about this course, anyway.

“When I applied for and was accepted at the University of Alabama Law school, I had to ask myself if this was what I really

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COVER STORY wanted to do, and the answer was no,” he said.

Instead, he packed off to Vanderbilt University and majored in political science.

Like daddy, he played baseball. He also came to deeply love Nashville. He followed his sire into the Corps.

“After four years as a Marine Corps artillery officer, I have worked exclusively in the medical products industry,” he says.

“From there, I have bought three additional companies and started two more.”

He started out by working Richard Manley speaking of for a retired Army general’s employment his wife, Carol. company, where he did a great job placing former military officers in well-paying business positions.

Currently, he community stretches many miles concentrates on state-of-thelong. Just to mention a few: art medical technology recently He has served on the: released from the Federal Drug * Longview City Council Administration. His products are * Junior Achievement Board typically revolutionary, providing * Longview Ballet Board lifesaving new approaches and * Is a First Methodist procedures to treating critical Church trustee. patients. Furthermore, Richard More importantly, Richard owns a small medical manufacturing and Mike Alston have even gone firm in Grand Prairie that his into business constructing small, brother-in-law operates. He does affordable homes in various much more than just earn middle-class neighborhoods. a personal fortune, though.

However, certain things are His service to the Longview very dear to his heart including the

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“Almost love at first sight. I moved to Colorado to be near her and we married 18 months later. She is my match. We fit together perfectly. I make her laugh and she calms me down.”

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Longview Chamber of Commerce.

“That was the most rewarding thing I have done--in addition to helping move the Chamber of Commerce into more of a leadership role in the strategic planning and vision for our city,” he said.

His entry into the world of business seemed the right course for him.

“I was intrigued by what I knew and the opportunities it presented,” he said. His first position in his life’s work was with the American Medical Supply Corporation. “It was a natural for me. It was fun,” he said.

“I loved putting teams in place and working together to achieve our goals.” That was back in 1981, and he has never looked back.

It is important to note, he does not take the credit for himself. As a kid, he grew up involved in church activities.

For example, he sang in the choir, attended youth groups but did not really know God. Nonetheless, the seeds of salvation had been sown.

He became a Christian later in life.

“I believe God sent Jesus Christ to get our attention,” he said.

“The Lord wants us to know He loves us, and He only wants us to believe in Him. Have faith and spread the word to others.” For Richard, it is a wonderful place to be because his faith brings him joy, fellowship and peace.

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Personal Business

Personal Business

Dealing With Fear When Starting a Business B y Cl i ff Enn i c o

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was laid off from a corporate job a couple of years ago.

“I tried finding another job, but there was nothing out there for someone older than 50.

“A few months ago, I learned about a local retail business that was for sale. With the help of a business broker, I made an offer, and the seller accepted it. We hired lawyers and prepared documentation, and I got a license from the state for one of the product lines the store was carrying.

“We were scheduled to close last week, but I found I just couldn’t go through with it. Nothing seemed wrong with this business, and everyone — including my spouse — told me it was a good thing to do.

“But I just froze at the last minute. After years of

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working in corporations, I just couldn’t see myself as a shopkeeper. The risks involved just scared the heck out of me.

“Needless to say, there are a few people who are angry with me right now. I will forfeit my deposit (10 percent of the purchase price) and will probably have to pay the broker’s fee. I’m also not sure what the next step of my life will be right now.

“What do you think? Was I just being a baby about this? It’s easy to tell someone to man up when you don’t have to face the consequences.”

I don’t think this reader is a “baby,” although I would have counseled him to give in to his fears before putting a significant amount of money at risk as he appears to have done.

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involves a certain amount of risk. No matter how much research and due diligence you do, no matter how much tire kicking you do, no matter how many experts you consult (including me), you never have 100 percent perfect information before you have to make a go/ no-go decision. If I had to pick the biggest difference between working for yourself and working for an employer, this is it.

I myself know what this reader went through.

About 30 years ago, I left a large Wall Street law firm and struck out on my own in a solo practice in the wilds of Connecticut. For almost a decade, I was accustomed to wearing thousand-dollar suits, riding a train to work each day, having investment bankers return my phone calls and seeing deals I was working on featured prominently in The Wall Street Journal every day.

I was burned out from working for a large firm, but I was absolutely terrified of going off on my own.

Would the clients be there? How would I get the word out? How long would it take before I could pay overhead expenses?

More importantly, how would my spouse, parents and other family members look at me? How would they adjust to the fact that Cliff was now a small-town attorney working out of the house in his bathrobe, no longer a “master of the universe”?

As it happened, almost all of my fears were unfounded, and I have enjoyed being on my own more than I ever did working on Wall Street.

I think this reader needs a little help from someone in his age group — perhaps a SCORE counselor (https://www.score.org) or career coach. The likelihood this reader, given his situation, will find a corporate job is close to zero, and it doesn’t sound as if he’s willing or able to retire. Simply put, he has to find some way to earn a living.

This reader needs to find something to do he is so passionate about that he won’t even feel the fear. In my case, my desire to work with entrepreneurs and smallbusiness owners, giving them the same level of service I gave the Wall Street investment banks at an affordable price and being part of their success, was what got me over my fear of failure. Being a shopkeeper clearly wasn’t enough for this reader.

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intentionally took on a project I wasn’t sure I could do, burning my bridges behind me so that the only way out was forward. When you commit yourself 100 percent to something, you usually do see solutions to problems that seemed insurmountable when you were contemplating them from a safe distance. But without total immersion in the project, you can’t see them.

Find a mountain worth climbing, and then start putting one hand over the other until you are too far up to turn back safely. Trust me, the handholds will be there when you need them.

And if you don’t see them right away, the prospect of a 1,000-foot drop will surely motivate you to find them.

Cliff Ennico (crennico@gmail.com) is a syndicated columnist, author and former host of the PBS television series “Money Hunt.” This column is no substitute for legal, tax or financial advice, which can be furnished only by a qualified professional licensed in your state

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COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS

COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS

Texas Bank and Trust

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t was a cool, brisk midday that called for a cup of Cocoa in one hand and a television remote control in the other. Better yet, a day to stay in and rest from the bustle and hustle of Christmas. However, it was a day with a significant event– the Texas Bank and Trust annual OMNIClub Christmas Open House - a day to share with East Texans, holiday season delights and the Club’s endless and enjoyable services.

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According to many OMNIClub members, valet parking is always a reason to get into a festive mood, leave a warm home and head into the cold to attend the annual Open House. Besides, the food was fit for royalty. The event is among the escorted travel, financial/lifestyle seminars, newsletters, and various special events the bank provides in its drive to make east Texas a better place.

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said, “This is a way to see some friends and acquaintances. It is a delightful gathering.” Jennifer Harris of Texas Bank and Trust added, “It is another opportunity to have the community with us bringing joy and cheer to everyone.”

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to coming to this event. It’s nice the bank takes out time to appreciate their customers.”

Furthermore, the OMNIClub newsletter keeps members and interested parties briefed on services (such as special financial products) and activities the Club offers. For more information, please visit the bank downtown Longview at 300 East Whaley or call 903-237-5568.

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BODY SOUL AND SPIRIT

BODY SOUL AND SPIRIT

Processed Food Primer

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hen is a processed food a good choice?

Some would say never. But that’s really not the case. Many processed foods offer good nutrition and convenience.

The buzzword when it comes to healthy foods is to eat “whole” or “clean,” choosing foods such as arugula, “I think there is a widespread misunderstanding that a processed food is unhealthy,” writes Alicia Romano, a registered dietitian at Tufts Frances Stern Nutrition Center in the Tufts Health & Nutrition Letter. “The term ‘processed food’ is so broad it covers an array of foods — including ones that many people consider healthy but do not know are processed.”

How do you tell?

Read the label. If a food contains added sodium, unhealthy fats, sugar and calories, it’s probably not a good choice.

The U.S. Department of Agriculture defines a processed food as everything besides raw “agricultural commodities” like fruits, vegetables and grains. When those foods are

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Q and A Q: Are there any benefits to “teatoxing”?

A: Of all the nutrition misinformation, the idea that one can “detox” tolose weight and get healthy is among the most popular and potentially most harmful. Proponents claim that you can “flush your system” by drinking special concoctions.

Teatoxing, a hybrid of “tea” and “detox,” adds a new twist to an old story; a special tea drunk twice a day will “remove toxins” and help you lose weight. The problem: there’s little scientific evidence that it works. In order to lose weight,

you must reduce calorie intake. And “detoxing” is a premise with no scientific foundation to prove it’s correct. Our bodies regularly remove toxins through our liver and kidneys. Many teatoxing teas contain senna leaf - a known herbal laxative. Consumers of the tea may have increased bowel movements which might give the impression of a detox. This could also result in weight loss, but not in a healthful way. On a bright note, teatoxing plans also may include recommendations for healthy eating. One such program suggests eating a diet comprised of fruits, vegetables, beans, tofu, oats and brown rice. That’s a recommendation worth trying — no special tea required. — Environmental Nutrition.

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Choosing healthy processed foods can be a little more complicated.

“The USDA definition of processed food can be confusing to consumers because it encompasses so many foods,” said Romano. “In many people’s minds, it puts an ‘unhealthy’ label on foods that have great nutritional value.”

She recommends focusing on the ingredient list on the label. Red flags are added sugars, refined flours and high levels of sodium. Highly processed foods can have more calories, sugar, salt

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and saturated or trans fats, and they can lead to higher risks for chronic diseases.

“If a frozen meal or packaged breakfast cereal is really convenient for your, I would recommend looking at the food label and doing some investigation into the ingredients,” said Romano.

“Choose varieties with the lowest added sugars and lowest sodium.”

The bottom line is many foods need to go through processing to make them edible and easier to use, such as cans of stewed or diced tomatoes.

Processing can also extend shelf life and make food safer, such as pasteurizing milk and juices.

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Business and Finance

Business and Finance

Stone Works:

When it comes to lighting, again, Stoneworks is the place to go. Besides carrying unique and latest lighting, they have their own line of lighting. Ask for Connie Taylor and she will make sure you are satisfied.

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tone Works owner Jason Stone and his employees are an industrious, expert cast who are enthusiastic about their work and how best to satisfy their customers.

They make certain clients are happy and impressed with whatever they have built or remodeled. Stone started his business in a warehouse and built it into a major local and national industry.

His vocational mission statement is short, simple and sincere. “I like my work very much, and I enjoy working with people to make their dreams come true.”

He started out as a tile business, but this modest genesis grew into a firm providing everything needed to construct (or reconstruct) a beautiful, comfortable home.

His mind is as productive as his work ethic. When the economy went into a tailspin he perceived an opportunity to explore new possibilities, and added granite to his selection of homebuilding materials and more.

In addition, Stone also took the opportunity to be as diverse as possible in the choices he offers his customers. His is the only company in East Texas that carries Sonoma and Original Style tiles. He also

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makes sure customers are aware of their choices.

According to Jason, his company have built a showroom for everything and anything that anyone will need to build or remodel a home without making a special trip to Dallas or anywhere else. He said, “Stone Works brings the world to east Texas so, customers can take advantage of our low prices and excellent customer service.

“We now have an appliance division with same week delivery,” Jason said. “Our prices are better than any store in town. Come and see for yourself.” His appliance specialist has more than 40-year experience with major appliances.

It even gets better.

He has granite at unbeatable prices.

Just go see for yourself. “Our promise is to beat any price in the area because we have the best prices,” he said. There is no need travelling outside the region to buy granite.

We got it right here at Stoneworks, in Longview, Texas.” There is more.

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Stone Works now specializes in: ✔ Appliances ✔ Mattresses ✔ Counter Tops ✔ Swimming Pools ✔ Lighting ✔ Assorted fans ✔ Floorings ✔ Decks ✔ Landscape Lighting ✔ Iron Entry Doors ✔ Outdoor Kitchens ✔ Pergolas ✔ Stone ✔ Marble ✔ Granite ✔ Windows ✔ Custom Doors ✔ Iron Doors ✔ Iron Gates and Fencing ✔ Counter Tops ✔ Flagstone ✔ Shutters and Blinds ✔ Fireplaces ✔ Bar-B-Que Grills ✔ Firepits ✔ Plumbing Fixtures ✔ Hardware ✔ Indoor and Outdoor Rugs ✔ Unique Cabinets ✔ Outdoor Living Spaces ✔ Smokers, Barbeque ✔ Kamados Joe Grills The company also employs expert, experienced people. One is Connie Rich who loves and is proud of her job. “I enjoy working with people,” she said. “It is a positive time every time someone comes into our showroom. Whether they are building, remodeling or even if disaster has struck and they must rebuild, it is still a positive time because something new and better is being designed and built.” The man she works for and the people she works with makes her career not only

“We now have an appliance division with same week delivery.

Our prices are better than any store in town.

Come and see for yourself.”

Jason Stone enjoyable, but fulfilling. “Jason has an incredible amount of knowledge.

Everyone that works here likes each other, and we have a good time working with our clients.”

Her own career philosophy is revealing and profound. “I like to know that I am giving good value to the client, that I am not letting them do something that is not to their advantage.”

Stone recently hosted a Longview Chamber of Commerce Business mixer an end of the year “Thank You” bash. Bankers, realtors, builders, developers, mortgage companies, television and other news media plus many other successful East Texans also attended the event, which featured irresistible grilled cuisine, assorted beverages.

Attendees left delighted, warmed and filled. For more information on Stone Works, call (903) 663-3344, visit stoneworks. net or drop by the showroom at 4523 Judson Road in Longview, Texas.

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Paralyzed byToo Many Choices

A B y M a r y H un t

perfectly orchestrated backyard party took an ugly turn when the bounce house was emptied, and all 15 little friends and twice as many adults gathered around to watch 5-yearold Melissa open a mountain of gifts. That’s when the birthday girl melted into a puddle of tears.

Melissa’ s embarrassed parents threatened punishment if she didn’t stop right then, which only made things worse.

She ran to her room and slammed the door.

I’m sure a child psychologist would have had a field day citing poor parenting skills, hidden anger, deep-seated fear or some form of an attention deficit.

I saw it as much less complicated: Melissa was the victim of too many choices. I know, because I feel the same way when I go to a supermarket or try to determine which cellphone plan is the best.

When I have too many choices, my brain goes into overload, and then it just stalls.

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The Gift of

Agreement

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W I cannot make a decision, and all I want to do is to run to my room and slam the door!

In his book “The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less,” author Barry Schwartz says that freedom and individual choice have a downside. “As the number of choices grows further, the negatives escalate until we become overloaded,” he writes.

“At this point, choice no longer liberates, but debilitates. It might even be said to tyrannize.”

Recently, I attempted to count the number of choices in the cookie aisle at the supermarket in my neighborhood. When I hit triple digits, I stopped. That makes me crazy! How can I expect to make the right choice when I have so

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many options? Schwartz says so many choices may be bad for us. Several choices, not hundreds, give us the freedom to show our individuality without pushing us into the maddening dilemma of having to make the perfect choice.

Thankfully, I’ve discovered ways to escape the tyranny of too many choices.

1. I stay away from places known for an abundance of choice. I depend on experts to narrow the possibilities to a number I can easily manage.

2. I avoid shopping malls and prefer warehouse clubs. Their buyers narrow my choices from hundreds to just one or

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two. I can deal with that.

3. A written list narrows my choices. When I create a list based on items that are on sale and the coupons I have for that store, my choices are made for me long before I walk through the door.

Researching online in the quiet of my office helps me to narrow my choices even before I leave home.

If Melissa’s parents had asked me, I would have suggested they move the mountain of gifts inside, bringing out just one or two gifts at a time. Or better yet, scale the party down to just a few friends to avoid being overwhelmed by too much of a good thing.

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e are bombarded by messages that Americans are divided, angry, and intolerant. I’ve wondered if those posts are true, maybe you have also, but then something huge happens and the rage feels tempered by a better emotion—hope. There are countless examples of Americans coming together to help each other in a moment of calamity, disaster, or sadness. But in Longview last month, we did something good that speaks to our collective hope for the future—we voted Author and Speaker Kimberly Fish for a bond package that promises to touch every part of our city—from streets to My takeaway from those parks to civic spaces—and we did stunning outcomes was that the it with an overwhelming margin of people of Longview gave their vote registered voters. of confidence to the research and

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elbow grease of the Longview Comprehensive Plan and said— in a clear voice—get it done.

It may take some time to see the new fire training facility built away from Stamper Park, but it’s going to happen. The smart road system designed for Mobberly Avenue will not be created overnight, but the folks needing sidewalks and bike lanes to navigate their way to the city center will, one day, have a safe path. Neighbors will be seeing and meeting neighbors again in parks because there will be reasons to be outdoors and away from those blue screens we’re addicted to holding. The thing that inspires me the most about this vote of confidence for these elements of the Comprehensive Plan is that the we’re supporting moving Longview forward. We’re in agreement—and that’s a gift that will never lose its shine.

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By Dick Resch

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hoever thought walls and doors could go out of style?

Apparently, that’s what has happened at offices nationwide. Seven in 10 American offices now have an open floor plan, rather than cubicles or private rooms.

The open office aims to boost creativity, productivity and collaboration by making it easy for employees to interact.

But that hasn’t been the case for everybody. A study published this summer by researchers at Harvard Business School found that in-person interactions actually dropped more than 70 percent after workers moved from a cubicle to an open-plan workspace. Employee productivity also declined.

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Open offices and isolating cube farms aren’t our only choices.

Borrowing the best from both design approaches can give workers what they’re really after -- control and ownership of their workspace.

When people decide for themselves where and how they work, they’re happier and more productive. That pays dividends for employees and employers alike.

The mystique surrounding open offices is due in part to their popularity in Silicon Valley. But tech companies are not alone in trading walls for side-by-side work.

Citigroup recently converted its headquarters to an open floor plan.

Former New York mayor Michael Bloomberg preferred a wall-less “bullpen” setup during his tenure in City Hall.

Evangelists for open-plan workspaces often cite the serendipitous interactions they encourage. As Citigroup CEO Michael Corbat told the Wall Street Journal, “You’re going to be forced to bump into people. ... I want people interacting around our business and ideas.”

But all that mingling doesn’t help everyone. A 2011 analysis of over 100 studies found that openplan offices can elevate workers’ stress levels, undermine motivation, and make it harder to concentrate.

To some, open offices can be stressful, noisy and distracting. It’s no wonder people don’t thrive in them when that’s the case.

It’s far better for employers to empower their workers to choose how and where they work.

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the afternoon to brainstorm with colleagues or recharge.

Some businesses are already embracing this flexible approach.

Last summer, financial services firm Northwestern Mutual opened its new Milwaukee headquarters.

employees to control the design of their workspace increases productivity by as much as 32 percent.

When people can take ownership over how they work, they care more about that work.

Nobody wants to work in complete isolation—or utter chaos. Fortunately, they don’t have to choose between the two. Employers looking to maximize happiness and productivity must give workers control over their space.”

Before designing the 32-story office tower, the company surveyed its employees on how they wanted workspaces to look, feel and function.

People wanted workspaces they could control. That led to workstations where employees can sit or stand. They can raise privacy screens to shut out distractions.

And they can quickly reconfigure their workspaces with mobile tables, stools and whiteboards for impromptu meetings or brainstorming sessions.

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Employees who can move to a variety of workspaces are 1.3 times more likely to be engaged than other employees.

Nobody wants to work in complete isolation—or utter chaos.

Fortunately, they don’t have to choose between the two. Employers looking to maximize happiness and productivity must give workers control over their space. Research shows that they know full well what to do with it.

Dick Resch is chief executive officer of KI Furniture (www.ki.com).

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Keeping cancer at bay

BODY SOUL AND SPIRIT

BODY SOUL AND SPIRIT

in 2019 By

Cancer Prevention

Screening for cervical and colorectal cancers as recommended helps prevent these diseases by finding precancerous lesions so they can be treated before they become cancerous. Screening for cervical, colorectal, and breast cancers also helps find these diseases at an early stage, when treatment works best. CDC offers free or low-cost mammograms and Pap tests nationwide, and free or low-cost colorectal cancer screening in six states.

Vaccines (shots) also help lower cancer risk. The human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine helps prevent most cervical cancers and several other kinds of cancer. The hepatitis B vaccine can help lower liver cancer risk.

You can reduce your risk of getting cancer by making healthy choices like keeping a healthy weight, avoiding tobacco, limiting the amount of alcohol you drink, sugar intake and protecting your skin.

Eat a cancer-risk-reducing diet. The role of diet in cancer is far from established, but research suggests that a plant-based diet is associated with reduced risks for several cancers, especially for colon cancer. Guidelines include: Keep your intake of red meat to no more than 4 ounces of red meat (about the size of a deck of cards) per day on average Avoid processed meats such as sausages and bologna Eat a variety of non-starchy vegetables and fruits, at least five servings daily Minimize your intake of sugared drinks

Juices

Desserts and candies

Refined breads

Bagels, and chips.

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What Is Cancer?

Cancer is a term used for diseases in which abnormal cells divide without control and can invade other tissues. Cancer cells can spread to other parts of the body through the blood and lymph systems.

Cancer is not just one disease, but many diseases.

There are more than 100 kinds of cancer. For more information, visit the National Cancer Institute’s What Is Cancer?

Types of Cancer

There are more than 100 types of cancer. Types of cancer are usually named for the organs or tissues where the cancers form. For example, lung cancer starts in cells of the lung, and brain cancer starts in cells of the brain. Cancers also may be described by the type of cell that formed them, such as an epithelial cell or a squamous cell. You can search NCI’s website for information on specific types of cancer based on the cancer’s location in the body or by using our A to Z List of Cancers.

The states with the highest incidence rates for cancer are Kentucky, Rhode Island, Delaware, Louisiana and New Jersey. The states with the lowest rates are New Mexico, Arizona, Wyoming, Alaska and Virginia. Incidence rates can vary widely. The difference between Kentucky and New Mexico, for example, is 193 cases.

Though Texas is not on the list, the incidences of cancer is high in the East Texas region. For this reason, UT Health Northeast MD Anderson Cancer is in Tyler, Texas.

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COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS

Volunteerism and Connection to Community B y S usan D e i t z

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he recent wildfires in Northern California were a dramatic testament to the need for community, proving that all of us are — without question — our brother’s keeper.

And what better population to energize compassion than the unmarried, sandwiched between generations (usually with fewer obligations) and freer to use their time and energy for the greater good? Start this new adventure with a bit of self-inquiry.

“How much time can I give?” Better to underestimate at first so you don’t hurl yourself into demanding commitments that leave a bitter taste in your mouth. My advice is to start slowly, with a short-term project.

There will be plenty of time later for deeper involvement.

“What do I want to give to volunteer work?” This is where your list of strengths we discussed in earlier columns enters the picture. Which of them do you want to contribute to your community?

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intentionally choose a job you loathe to feel like a martyr. (For Pete’s sake, don’t sign up for hospital work if you hate the very sight of blood!) You’ll get so much more from volunteering if you choose areas that jibe with your natural bent.

“What environment is best for me? An inside job or an outside job? With people or in research? A local setting, where I can see a direct result of my actions, or in a bigger, world-community project?”

The details are not all that important; what matters is that you do your work in a setting right for you. There you will be at your very best.

Finally, think hard about — and ask close friends for — names of organizations that might interest you and utilize your strengths.

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“Where to begin?” Well, if you’re interested in local opportunities, consider food banks, crisis hotlines, tutoring children, recording books for the blind, working with the mentally or physically impaired, Meals on Wheels or providing transportation for the infirm, disabled or elderly.

If you’d rather get involved in national organizations, some suggestions: Mothers Against Drunk Driving, March of Dimes, Sierra Club, the handgun control movement, Save the Whales, Planned Parenthood.

And don’t forget international causes. For example, Save the Children; Oxfam, fighting world hunger; PeaceNow.com; and Amnesty International, fighting for human rights.

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Delcine Johnson:

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agnanimous Star over Longview

B y J o y c e l y n e F a d oju t i m i

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elcine Johnson and husband Wade got married 26 years ago, and it has been a busy marriage.

They have six children and a daughter-in-law. Delcine’s parents made careers out of the Army, so their children grew up in quite a few places here and overseas. Like most successful people, Delcine’s parents were major, positive influences on her life.

“My mother was very independent and raised me to be the same way. She made every stopping place a home--not just a house,” Delcine says. “We were immediately involved in our community as a result of our mother’s actions.”

Her family made Tyler their home hence, Delcine graduated from the University of Texas at Tyler. Her and Wade’s next step was to start Johnson and Pace, Inc. 25 years ago.

“I am president of our firm at this time, and handle the daily activities of our business,” she says. “I take care of the financial end of our business daily.”

Johnson and Pace is an engineering, architectural and surveying business.

Delcine and Wade love their work, considering it a blessing to earn a living with employees they look upon as family members.

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For years, she has worked with the American Heart Association, and currently is on the local Boys and Girls Club board of directors. She works closely with the Great Texas Balloon Race, assists with the city’s annual Independence Day fireworks display, with the yearly Buckner shoot, school athletic boosters and PTA. She recently began working as a mentor at Ware Elementary School.

“I am normally available when a call comes in to meet a need. We will be there,” she says. “I also promote community involvement and volunteering at our firm and am thrilled to see our people doing so much.”

She considers selfless volunteering as a vital responsibility to demonstrate to others so, they will pick up on this good example.

“I told my daughter once, that you are not allowed to complain about your community if you haven’t taken the t ime to give back and make an impact,” she says.

Delcine Johnson practices what she preaches in a most beautiful way. It is no wonder she is a 2019 Star over Longview. Congratulations and thanks for all you do.

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GRUBS UP

Just for fun

Simple vegetarian dish

packed with flavor

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egetarian dishes are often loaded with flavor, which might come as a surprise to those who do not adhere to vegetarian diets. In fact, many dishes that originated in India, a country known for its flavorful, spicy cuisine, are vegetarian dishes that are popular the world over, among vegetarians and meat-eaters alike. For those who want to try something simple, flavorful and vegetarian, the following recipe for: Lentils with Spinach Serves 4 3/4 cup yellow lentils (toor dal), washed 3 large handfuls spinach, chopped 2 tablespoons sunflower oil, divided 1 teaspoon coriander seeds 3 dried red chiles 1/4 cup freshly grated coconut 1 teaspoon tamarind concentrate, diluted in 1/4 cup water 1/2 teaspoon turmeric Salt, to taste 1 medium onion, sliced

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1. Put the lentils and 11/2 cups of hot water into a saucepan and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat and simmer until the lentils are mushy, about 35 minutes.

2. In the meantime, place the spinach in a pot along with a little hot water and heat it for a couple of minutes. Add it to the lentils.

3. In a separate pan, heat half the oil and fry the coriander seeds until they turn dark, then add the chiles and coconut. Reduce the heat and stir for a couple of minutes. Remove from the heat, let it cool slightly, then tip it into a blender along with the tamarind and a few tablespoons of water and blend until you get a fine paste.

4. Add this to the lentils, along with the turmeric and the salt.

5. Heat the remaining oil in a small saucepan and fry the onions until golden, then add them to the lentils. Reheat thoroughly and serve hot with rice.

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