AMYMOSTERT
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“IFACEDADVERSITYATEVERYTURN
At45yearsold,reflectingonmylong journeywithMyalgic Encephalomyelitis/ChronicFatigue Syndrome(M.E./CFS)bringsupa whirlwindofemotions.
MydiagnosiscamewhenIwasjust15, buttheroadleadingtoitissomewhat blurred.Whatremainsvividarethe feelingsIexperienced amixtureof confusion,isolation,and determination.
Fromayoungage,Iwasoftenill.Any timeIbecametooexcitedorpushed mylimits,itledtofatigueand sickness.ThoughIhadafunand fulfillingchildhoodwithfriendsand family,therewerealways compromises.
Mybodysimplycouldn’tkeepup.My parents,alwaysinmycorner,fought foranswers.Whenthediagnosisof M.E./CFSfinallycame,Ifeltbothrelief anddespair.Ihadanameforwhat washappening,butnorealsolutionor cure
Overthenextfiveyears,Ihadtolearn tolivewiththiscondition.Somedays,I couldpretendIwaslikeanyother teenager,buttherewerealsodeeply darkmoments.
BythetimeIwas17,myillnesshad progressed.Idroppedtojust5½ stone,struggledtowalkevenshort distances,andspentmuchofmytime inbed Thephysicalexhaustionwas overwhelming,buttheemotionaltoll wasevenheavier.
ThereweremomentswhenitfeltlikeI couldn’tgoon,whenIjustwantedto escapeandfindpeace.
Butthroughitall,Ilearnedsomething crucial:couragedoesn’talwayslook likefightingback.Sometimes,the bravestthingyoucandoismake peacewithyourcircumstances. Acceptingmynewrealityrequireda differentkindofstrength
Tenyearsago,Iwasalsodiagnosed withFibromyalgiawhilepregnantwith mysecondchild,addinganotherlayer tomyhealthjourney.
Eventhoughmedicaladvancements fortheseconditionsremainlimited, I’vefoundwaystomanageand adapt.Livingwithchronicillnessisa constantbalancingact,butithas shapedmeintosomeonemore resilientandcompassionatethanI everimagined.
Myhopeisthatbysharingmystory,I canhelpothersunderstandthatliving withM.E./CFSandFibromyalgiaisn’t justaboutbattlingthephysical symptoms.It’saboutnavigatingthe emotionallandscapethatcomeswith it—thehighs,thelows,andeverything inbetween.
NurturingtheWarriorWithin
Inmyjourneythroughillnessand recovery,therecameaturningpoint whenIbegantoreclaimmylife Slowly,Istarteddoingmore,moving more,andseeingaglimmeroflight ahead.
Eachday,Ifocusedononepositive action,onesmallstepIcouldtaketo feelaliveagain.Thiswasn’taneasy path;itrequiredimmensestrength anddedication.Butinthosemoments, thewarriorwithinmewasborn.
Thisinnerwarriorhasbecomemy guidingforce.Evennow,whenIface challenges,Iremindmyselfofher, howstrong,determined,andresilient shewas She’salwaysthere,readyto supportmewhenIneedhermost.
Myapproachtohealingwasn’t radical.Ididn’tmakesweeping changesovernight Instead,Ifocused onself-care:resting,sleeping, nourishingmybody,andtendingto mymentalwell-being.Iresearched thebestfoodstosupportmyrecovery, eliminatedwhatwasn’tservingme, andembracedmeditationwhen necessary
Ireconnectedwithmyinnerchild, nurturingherwithloveand compassion.Itwasthisdeepself-love andself-carethatsavedme
Lookingback,Iamfilledwithpride.The processofhealingwaslong,butit taughtmesomuchaboutmyself.And now,manyyearslater,Ifindmyselfon asimilarpath,onceagainturning inwardtoheal,knowingIhavethe strengthtodoso.
“Theflowerthatbloomsinadversity isthemostrareandbeautifulofall.” —FaZhou,Mulan
Thisquoteresonateswithmedeeply. Inthefaceofadversity,Ifoundmy strength,myresilience,andmy warriorspirit
Healingisnotjustaboutovercoming physicalchallenges;it’sabout nurturingthesoul,andgivingyourself thegraceandtoolstothrive,no mattertheobstacles.
BookLaunch:Courage
OnOctober10th,inhonourofWorld MentalHealthDay,mybookCourage willlaunch.
Inthisbook,Isharemoreaboutmy personaljourneywithchronicillness, thechallengesI’vefaced,andthe waysI’velearnedtomanageand thrivedespitethem
Ialsoofferpracticaltipstohelpothers whomaybenavigatingsimilar struggles.
Courageisacollaborativeproject, featuringstoriesfromotherswho,like me,aresharingtheirexperiencesto helpothersfindstrengthintheirown battles.
Thisbookalsoservesasthe foundationformydreambusiness a placewhereindividualscanfind support,guidance,andaccountability astheywalktheirownpath.
Throughthiswork,Iaimtoempower otherswiththetools,information,and expertadvicetheyneedtotransform theirjourneysandreclaimtheirlives. FINDAMYMOSERTHERE; mumwifewarrior.com
