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One Moment In Time

Once Once captured, captured, never never lost. lost.

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The earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein.

Psalm 24:1, KJV

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Editor-in-Chief Sidonie Walsh

Contributors Mekay Francis Dacia Medley Marsha-Gaye Miles Natalya Petrekin Perxii Walsh Joni Wedderburn

Managing Editor Kishanie Whyte Bates

Photographers Front Cover: Erika Lagyjanszki - Ordered steps through Nature: Michelle-Ann Doctor - Photos with articles: Submitted by contributors - Other photo credit in "O" issue: Info with photo Publisher Search Within Publishing, LLC

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CONTENTS 09 EDITOR'S NOTE ONE MOMENT IN TIME

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Overlook - Magic of Ordinary Days Sidonie Walsh Overjoyed Mekay Francis Ordered Steps Through Nature OPPORTUNITY

33 The Opposition Opportunity Marsha-Gaye Miles 36 Oh No! Joni Wedderburn 38 Opportunity Simplified Natalya Petrekin 42 Opportunity Collides with Preparation Dacia Medley 46 Ownership Perxii Walsh 48 Optimising Your Time Kishanie Whyte Bates 57 Oasis No place like home 74 Fall Comforts Treats for the season 90 Ode to Books Hope Matters 94 Love Hope Letters 96 Out & About

50 Special Feature Open Road to 40 Our Editor-in-Chief, Sidonie Walsh travels the road to 40 with intention

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AT HOPE, WE BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE PIECES OF HOPE FOR EVERY SEASON. OUR WRITERS WILL SHARE WITH US THIS FALL ON THE “O” IN HOPE. THE AHA MOMENTS, SPECIAL NUGGETS, CHALLENGES OR LESSONS THAT THEY’VE EXPERIENCED IN THE SPIRIT OF ADDING THEIR PIECE TO HOPE.

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Meet our "O" Contributors Which book/movie could you read/watch again and again?

I thoroughly enjoyed reading Becoming, by Michelle Obama, because it portrays the essence of specific circumstances in my Iife.

Evolving, finding who you are and channeling everything you've got to becoming that better version of yourself are lessons that are depicted through its pages.

Movies I could watch again and again include: The Home Alone Movie Series, Dennis the Menace and My Name is Khan. I love the first two because of their lightheartedness and the latter one because of its dual nature. It serves as great entertainment whilst providing social commentary on important issues.

Natalya Petrekin Writer: Opportunity Simplified

Dacia Medley Writer: Opportunity collides with Preparation

Who Moved My Cheese? by Dr. Spencer Johnson. It's short, easy to read and its message of dealing with change is timeless.

Joni Wedderburn Writer: Oh No! How failure makes us better

My favorite book I could read for eternity is "Children of Blood and Bones" by Tomi Adeyemi. I adore the first part of the trilogy and I am eagerly awaiting the movie.

Perxii Walsh Writer: Ownership

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Without a doubt, "The Lord of the Rings" series! Both the movie and the books (even though the books have a special place in my heart) Mekay Francis Writer: Overjoyed

The movie I could watch repeatedly is JUMANJI. It is super important for me to stay in a state of JOY & LAUGHTER, constantly keeping my vibrations positive & high. This movie, no matter how often I watch it, no matter how much I can recite the lines, will ABSOLUTELY have me belly rolling. I love it. HILARIOUS!!!.

Marsha-Gaye Miles Writer: The Opposition Opportunity

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Typically, I don't like re-reading books (except for I don't make a habit of re-watching movies; though the Bible) or re-watching movies. I'm normally I do have a few favourites I don't mind re-watching very committed, so if I didn't make it to the end, every few years. they probably weren't that good, and if I did, that means time for newness. However... I am a hopeless 1. The Godfather I &II romantic after all. So if Love and Basketball, Sweet 2. The Good, the Bad and the Ugly Home Alabama, Something Borrowed, any of 3. The Lion King Jane Austin's movies or the old ones with Molly 4. His Girl Friday Ringwald are on, I am there front and center!

Kishanie Whyte Bates Sidonie Walsh Managing Editor Editor-in-Chief

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Once captured, never lost

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ONE MOMENT IN TIME A Note from our Editor

The changing leaf will wither and blow away- never to be seen again. And though another leaf may take its place -the precise time we stopped to notice and capture its presence may never be again.

The awareness and clarity in that pause can catapult us to new milestones.

The spirit of Fall reminds us to show gratitude for the smallest of things and observe what is in front of us before it is gone forever. It is also a reminder of our great Creator, who intricately designed and adorned even the life cycle of a leaf with precision and unparalleled beauty for purpose even to the very end.

Change is in the air. We feel it, and we see it. What was, shines brightly for one last time before it fades and falls, making room for newness, making room for more.

Nestled between Summer and Winter is the tranquil Fall season.

This new season allows us to pause so we can organize, optimize,

A unique time when all of our senses are heightened and alive.

own, garner the lessons from our Oh Nos and grab hold of

It is almost guaranteed that all Hope’s issues will be filled with

opportunities; often they come but once. You will seek beauty

elements of nature, and this is no exception.

in the seemingly ordinary, knowing there is more to experience during a pause. So much to glean during Fall, that one moment

A budding bloom, a changing leaf, a fascinating plant or fruit,

when our bounties are ripe and the atmosphere is calm, steady

an agile bird soaring high in the sky, zooming to the ground,

and beautiful.

only to land gently to take a drink in a puddle. You see, all those things, though simple and unrehearsed, become so important

Rest assured that though things may fade away, they are never

as they set the stage for our experiences.

lost once they are captured in our hearts.

Fall offers its share of naturalness and juxtaposed beauty. Some would say stopping them in their tracks to notice the contrasting and changing splendor. It is that stop that we want to hone in on. What happens when we stop?

We get the opportunity to notice what is in front of us. We allow ourselves to be engulfed in the changes, immersing ourselves in the virtues of Fall. The ones that go beyond the hues of nature- the ones that creep into our minds and spirits, guiding the paths that we are on.

Sidonie Editor-in-Chief

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They sow fields and plant vineyards and get a fruitful yield.

Psalms 107:37 ESV

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IN THIS ISSUE MANAGING EDITOR KISHANIE WHYTE BATES

Coming out of a beautiful and hot summer, I welcome the Fall breeze, the changing leaves and Christmas preparations! Hope is excited about Fall because we get to share our "O" issue with you, our Hope family.

The need for hope and inspiration is constant. Now in our second year, we have dedicated days (and nights) to planning, researching, writing and curating four issues with the sole purpose of spreading hope and inspiring women. We are inspired by your stories; we are driven by the aspiration to share those stories with the world.

In this issue, we explore opportunity and ownership and chart a path toward being overjoyed. Learn about "Love Hope letters" brought to you by HOPE Matters, and sink your teeth into Fall treats, decadent desserts and cocktails that you will want to make every week. See the beauty in the mundane in "Ordinary Days" and dive in with our Editor-in-Chief, Sidonie Walsh, in "Road to 40", and hear her plans for the next chapter. See yourself in the stories, travel alongside the writers, and reflect on your life—blessings, opportunities, and challenges.

We are happy to share our fourth issue with you, so nestle and open your heart to hope.

Enjoy!

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So shall thy barns be filled with plenty, and thy presses shall burst out with new wine.

Prov. 3:10 KJV

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SEASON’S BLESSINGS

I wish for you a season of abundance, more incredible than you've ever known.

I wish for it first in your spirit, so you can feel it coming as resonant as a freight train on its track.

So powerful that you are shaken by the vibrations and quickened to your feet to take action.

For you to perceive it so distinctly that even when others don't, you walk with an assured spirit, expecting it without a doubt I want you to discern its might that you make room and prepare every vessel for its arrival.

I pray that He blows your mind —exceedingly, abundantly, above all you can ask or think.

I pray that the abundant blessing will bless those around you for generations to come.

That you will remember and mark this time as the season of the turnaround, the breakthrough and the season of your overflow.

~ Love Hope

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"Don't forget to look up on your way through."

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MAGIC OF ORDINARY DAYS By: Sidonie Walsh

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took out the trash and noticed a big white mushroom growing in my flower pot. Though I’m terrified of lizards, I still smiled a little when two young ones jumped into the nearby hedge shaking it a little.

I inhaled the aroma of the freshly cut grass and admired the perfect yellow hue from the hanging palm tree branch.

I snickered at the ridiculous way the mail lady stretched to steer the car as she drove from the passenger seat to be closer to the mailbox.

I waved to my neighbor across the street as he pulled his chair through his front door to begin his daily 30- minute sitdown.

Back inside, my kids barely noticed that I came in. But my eyes were opened, my other senses awakened- nothing could be overlooked.

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from her AirPods. teenage daughter bellowed My My son in nothing but hisa song she was listening through purpose her AirPods. underpants ranto with from one side of the room to son, indoing nothing but underpants, the My next, hishisbest to ran with purpose from one side of the room recreate what he was watching to the next, doing his best to recreate on the big screen. what he was watching on the big screen.

My My youngest, bendi Kendi, youngest, mymy "bendi Kendi", balanced balanced upside downin on a upside down on a column the middle of the room.

She middle saw me and column in the ofcontorted the her body a crab room.

She into saw me before and skillfully launching to her body feet. contorted her into a crab The bacon fritters on the table were all skillfully launching back before gone except for one half-eaten piece to her feet. that I know my son would get as soon as it was discovered.

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been more perfect. I soaked t Always all lookin, up and around as you're I thanked Himgoing for openi through, and you too can experience the eyes, for His presence in every true magic of ordinary days. and that even the simplest of things were not overlooked.

Always look up and around as you're going through, and you can experience the true magic ordinary days.

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OVERJOYED By: Mekey Francis

"Joy happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognise how good things really are." ~ Marianne Williamson

Stevie Wonder's "Overjoyed" came to mind when preparing for this article.

The lyrics read: "Over time, I've been building my castle of love, just for two, though you never knew you were my reason. I've gone much too far for you now to say that I've got to throw my castle away... And maybe too, if you would believe, you too might be Overjoyed, over loved, over me."

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t played on repeat in my head because of how wonderful joy is. Doesn't it feel wonderful to be overjoyed? Happiness can sometimes be fickle and fleeting, but it is in the simplest things that we find it. Many people are stressed and find it extremely difficult to be joyful in stressful moments. I call them moments because if we think about it, once we get our “second wind”, we may become joyous and then wonder why we were worried in the first place.

Look at the things happening in your life; they may seem horrible, with no way out. However, if you look closer, there is a silver lining on which to focus. You will realise that there are small things that will bring a smile here, a laugh there, and some amount of joy that you did not realise you could have. Standing in the early morning sun and the pitter-patter of tiny raindrops remind us of the joys of being alive.

Whenever I am sad, I find joy and upliftment in reading, planning, writing, discovering that a character in a story will live happily ever after, creating something new in the kitchen, and baking.

Recently, I have found many joyous moments in the kitchen baking up a storm.

Some of these activities— like baking, can be demanding; the preparation and execution take a lot from you. However, when the pastry comes from the oven, and I see the beauty I created, I smile, and all the stress fades, especially when I’ve made something for the first time.

The results and accomplishments are what ease my mind and light a bright spark, and through that spark, my joy surfaces and shines through.

Here are five (5) suggestions for how to find your joy: 1. Practice gratitude – in giving thanks, we can find the silver lining in everything.

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2. Surround yourself with positive people – when you are around people who motivate and encourage you, their belief in self and growth will have an impact on you.

3. Create positive daily routines – start and end your day by highlighting something good you did on that day. Do things that will uplift you and others. Joy will shine through.

4. Celebrate your wins – by celebrating your successes, you are opening yourself to growth and acceptance of all your achievements.

5. Give back/pay it forward - what you share may be something someone desperately needs.

Look for all the silver lining in every situation. Smile as much as possible. When you smile, the world smiles back at you.

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Ordered Steps Through Nature

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Keep on going; the clearing is up ahead

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Feel the wind in your hair

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May the sun kiss your skin and the grass cushion your rest

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Open your heart to the possibilities Envision yourself as an intricate part of God's design

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Soak it all in and say a Prayer

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OUR FATHER A MEDITATION

Behold the Lord, behold his word, behold his love; In reverence, in awe I sit before you Lord Guarding my thoughts Guarding my steps Soberly Devoted In silence Your spirit comforts Your peace sustains You have made your home in me You, abide in me Without you there is nothing All my hope is in you Lord I am empty and you fill me I pray in your sacred name I kneel, lifting my face to the sun and You hear my groans you hear as I cry Holy holy holy holy holy is your name, Lord I die to sin I am united with you in death and in resurrection I offer myself to you I have been brought from death to life Closed away, away from the world I sit before you Lord Praying as day turns to night Praying myself from darkness into your light; Our father who is in heaven hallowed be thy name...

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Hold on tight to the pillars beside you

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Stand side by side

"For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them" Matthew 18:20 KJV 30

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"Victory comes from finding opportunities in problems" Sun Tzu 32

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THE OPPOSITION OPPORTUNITY By: Marsha-Gaye Miles

KNOW, SHOW, GROW AND GO!

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henever we think of opposition, we automatically think about obstacles, trials, delays, pushbacks, and roadblocks— things set up to stop us. This can be frustrating, especially when you are on the path to purpose.

this opposition. But I must “remember the Lord my God”. He restores, heals, delivers, provides, protects, sustains, equips etc. He is the Great I AM, and He is always with me. “Greater is He that is in me” than any opposition.

2. Show – God permits the opposition so He can But God! He is Intentional. He uses “all things to work show me WHO HE TRULY IS. An opportunity to together for our good”, whether that thing looks like experience Him for myself. Therefore, I must “Let Go & let God” so that I, like David, can confidently say, an opportunity or opposition.

“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow The right information should give us the right of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.” perception. Therefore, if it all works together for our good, then the opposition is actually an opportunity. 3. Grow - God plans to take me “from Glory to Glory.”

He needs to prepare me to be ready for what He has The opposition will also work for our good. in store for me. I must surrender to the process, allow Once I had this perception shift, I also saw the my faith muscle to grow & “let perseverance do its providence shifts. Those moments when the hand work so that I will be made mature, lacking nothing”. of God was present, and He was revealing what He 4. Go - Now I am ready to get up and go. I can needed in my life for His will to be done. continue with more confidence. I may have my plans and desires, but He needs me to stop, pause, return Opposition reveals those opportunities. to Him and reconnect with His plans and desires Here are 4 Opportunities that Oppositions have for me. Then I can go where “He makes my path straight” and “orders my steps”. revealed to me: 1. Know - God wants me to “Be still and know!”. To I have experienced these revelations throughout recognize that He is quite aware that you are facing my life, the most recent being the journey to

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KNOW SHOW GROW AND GO! Go- God’s response to all our “even whens” was “Go!” Not in the way that I thought it would have happened but in His way. He redirected our steps towards His path. A path where the deposit was gifted to us. Where time was allowed to restore the mortgage qualification status. Where a reduced mortgage rate was available to my husband through employee benefits. Where a job was offered to me when I wasn’t even looking to Know- In June, one of my mentors encouraged add to our income. Where we eventually stepped me to shift from finances to faith for my next into our 1st home in June 2022, 1 year after the season. I had to know that God was my provider conversation that redirected me to Know. in a new way.

Glory to God. I am now on a new level of Glory in God. Show- I had to believe for bigger, which meant leaving a bigger space for Him to show me that I encourage you, the next time you face He was bigger. So when my mom asked again a opposition, ask God to open your spiritual eyes few weeks later, in faith, I said, “Okay!” and reveal the opportunities. Then with faith keep seeing, keep believing. The opposition is actually Grow- Within 4 weeks, an opportunity opened for the way. I am so excited for you to Know Him a 3-bedroom townhome in a gated community more, for Him to Show you more, for you to Grow that was way beyond our budget. In faith, I said, more and to Go where He uses the opposition to “Okay!” even when we didn’t have the deposit. take you. When you get there, He will welcome Even when things were not in place for us to you with “exceedingly, abundantly above all the qualify for the mortgage. Even when we weren’t opportunities you could ever ask or think of”. earning enough collectively to sustain it. owning my own home. In 2021 I was married, selfemployed, debt-free and putting things in place for a deposit towards our 1st home. I was convinced that it would be a 2-bedroom apartment to start.

My mom would repeatedly nudge us to start looking, but she was continually met with, “not ready yet.”

But God!

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HOW FAILURE MAKES US BETTER By: Joni Wedderburn

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sat quietly in my car, anxious to press the play button.

I had recently hosted my first episode of an online show, and this would be my first time watching it. As I looked at the footage, it was clear that I was uncomfortable.

My voice was breaking, and my movements were awkward.

It was cringe-worthy! Starting with an embarrassing performance, I could easily have hidden in shame, but instead, I decided to get better.

additional role of scriptwriter. I sliced my shooting time in the studio from a gruelling six hours to one. Now, I’m relaxed in front of the camera and even look forward to being on set.

For me, failure didn’t stunt my growth; it propelled it! It offered a chance to honestly assess where I was and chart where I wanted to be. As a recovering perfectionist, I’ve had to change my mindset about failure, seeing it as a path to success instead of an obstacle.

My stint as a presenter was rooted in failure. The hosting role I applied for went to someone else; I was the first runner-up. Interestingly, failing to come out on top actually worked in my favour. The disappointment made me realise how badly I wanted the job and reaffirmed my desire to become a broadcast journalist. When the show decided to hire a backup host a few weeks later, I set my ego aside and jumped at the opportunity.

After watching an interview with Spanx founder Sara Blakely, I started questioning my relationship with failure. She talked about her nightly family dinners, where her dad would ask her about what she had failed at doing that day. Instead of failure being a source of embarrassment, it was something to acknowledge and learn from.

Admittedly, the first few months were tough. I struggled to write my scripts— they were always returned heavily edited.

On set, my nerves were getting the best of me; I would forget my lines and take forever to get through tapings. I was failing.

Going forward, I encourage you to embrace your failures.

Think of them as stepping stones to a higher level. At the end of each day, take some time to reflect and ask yourself a simple question: “What did I fail at today?”

There were no excuses; I needed to improve. I began scrutinizing the feedback about my scripts.I changed my approach to research and tweaked my writing. Over time, the edits became scarce, and eventually, minimal. Though difficult, I re-watched my episodes, noting what I needed to work on. I asked my director for advice, watched seasoned newscasters, and studied their delivery styles. In the days leading up to a shoot, I’d practice for hours, re-reading my lines and delivering them in front of a mirror. By the time I had to say them on camera, it was like second nature.

Failure had pushed me to challenge myself; it forced me outside of my comfort zone into a space where I welcomed constructive criticism and considered a way to address it.

Three months in, self-doubt slowly gave way to growing confidence. As a reward for my hard work, I was given the

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OPPORTUNITY SIMPLIFIED By: Natalya Petrekin

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hance, luck and good fortune are some of the ways we choose to view opportunity.

Opportunity, in my eyes, is about favour, "a favourable situation ordained for a positive outcome." Opportunities come in different shapes, colours and forms; however, you must open your heart, mind and body to receive them. Therefore, no luck or good fortune is involved when you speak of an opportunity. It is favour that has been ordained, and you need to capitalize on it once it’s presented. What may seem like adversity could very well be an opportunity if you have the mindset to receive it.

In the words of Michelle Obama, "Instead of letting your hardships and failures discourage or exhaust you, let them inspire you. Let them make you even hungrier to succeed."

Be Open and Ready to Receive On my journey, I have experienced situations where I had to be open to receiving opportunities at a given moment. Had I been close-minded, the outcome in that situation would have been missed.

A job loss slowed me; however, I quickly realised I needed to pause for introspection. I needed to slow down to focus on relationships that mattered to me. I needed a break. If I hadn’t taken a break, I might have had serious health issues.

The truth is, you never know why things happen the way they do— so why not seize the moment and create a favourable set of circumstances?

Alternatively, you may be elated with a new job offer and believe that you are lucky, that the stars have aligned, but it’s not luck; it's an opportunity that was ordained. Roman philosopher Seneca said, "luck is when preparation meets opportunity," and opportunity is favour that has been ordained.

A few years ago, my family embarked on what would have been the most significant risk we have ever taken. We changed course and migrated to Canada, man, did we face adversities! However, many would believe that our move to Canada was without challenges. We had to embrace humility and find the positives in not having access to health insurance when needed and facing refusals because we did not have adequate credit history when trying to find a home.

Before moving, we had to ensure that our minds were at peace with our decision, allowing us to carve the good out of every obstacle we faced.

My experience is that once you have the right mindset, most things will take their place. This experience now translates into the advice I am willing to share with all who may find themselves in these difficult situations.

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Be Proactive and Take Control Putting aside the reasons why opportunities may have passed and looking inward at what you could have done to better position yourself to receive those opportunities may be beneficial.

It would help if you were clear about your aspirations and goals. More than ever, you need to take ownership of your life and have a vision for your future. Life rarely follows a linear predestined road— there are exciting possibilities, but not without challenges. It throws curved balls at times, and you may land in valleys and on top of mountains. Nevertheless, once you stay focused on your goals, you can pursue that path proactively. Be frank and genuine about your aspirations.

You are your advocate.

My Charge to You Opportunity is not waiting for the perfect situation. Opportunity is not waiting for the right time. Embrace your situation with its ups and downs; accept your ups and downs for what they are. Stay focused on the goal. Make the best of what you have before you. It would help if you always allow yourself grace to recognise that not everything that presents itself as ugly is exactly that.

Instead, the key lies in capitalising on opportunities whenever and wherever they present themselves.

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Opportunity Check!

What challenges and opposition are you facing?

While met with these challenges, were you embodying your best self?

How can you use these setbacks as fuel to get better?

What opportunities can be garnered from these obstacles?

Hope-filled Reminders: As you answer these questions, come with a mind and heart of gratitude.

Believe that there is a reason and purpose for these obstacles. God wastes nothing!

He uses everything for our good.

Use the opportunities from what looks like failure; you may find a new path— a better one; the right one, and a better you may emerge too!

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PreparatiOn Opportunity

“WHEN WALKING OUT THIS CHRISTIAN LIFE, WHEN PREPARATION COLLIDES WITH OPPORTUNITY IT SETS US UP TO LIVE OUR BEST LIFE - THE ONE THAT GOD ORIGINALLY INTENDED FOR US.” ~ DACIA MEDLEY 42

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have always heard the saying that if we fail to prepare, we prepare to fail. To a certain extent, the same principle applies to our spiritual lives. The key difference is with God; failure to prepare does not necessarily mean we will fail. It means we will not be presented with specific opportunities until we are ready to receive them. In the same way that the Department of Motor Vehicle (DMV) will not issue a driver's license until we demonstrate that we are capable of operating a motor vehicle responsibly, God will not present us with certain opportunities until he knows that he can trust us to maintain what will be given. God is very intentional.

Let’s take the story of Joseph in the bible, for example.

Joseph became second-in- command to Pharaoh, which in essence, made him a mighty and influential leader in Egypt. However, the events that precede his ordination are the most important. Before becoming a leader in Egypt, Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers and imprisoned by his employer. Despite all that Joseph endured, there is no mention in the bible of him seeking to exact revenge on his oppressors or cursing God. Joseph remained faithful to God. I believe that all Joseph endured worked together for his good and made him well- suited for the opportunity to become a highly-ranked leader in Egypt.

If Joseph had allowed his experience to make him bitter or vengeful, he would have misused his position or robbed himself of the opportunity altogether.

But, because of Joseph’s faithfulness, God was able to use Joseph to accomplish his (God’s) purpose of

helping the land of Egypt prepare for and navigate a season of great famine.

Joseph's trailblazing leadership throughout this period also benefited those from other countries. This is why it is so important that we must yield to the process of preparation, no matter what it looks like so that we don’t rob ourselves of opportunities that God predestined for us.

"GOD IS VERY INTENTIONAL" The truth is, most opportunities aren’t just for us; they position us so we can work to further the kingdom of God. Esther, who was a Jew and Queen, is an excellent example. Esther’s aptitude for the opportunity to serve as Queen was revealed in a time of chaos. After Esther became Queen, there was a plot to destroy all Jews.

When she was made aware of the plot, Esther opted to pray and fast for three days before going to the king to plead for her people. This led to her ultimately finding favor with the king and saving the Jews. Esther was not chosen by accident.

God knew he could have trusted her to deliver the Jews. Like Esther, we are all created to carry out a specific purpose but must avail ourselves to God so he can use and instruct us as we carry out our purpose.

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Though their lives were not without trials, Esther and Joseph lived in the abundance that God promised all of us. This was all in part to them being prepared when they assumed their respective positions or opportunities that came their way. Throughout the book of Esther, we see that she was well-regarded by all who came in contact with her and was well favored by the king (Esther 2:15, Esther 5:3). Similarly, Joseph was well-regarded by leaders and those around him for his wisdom. The hand of God was on their lives, which led them to find favor with men. God wants to do the same thing for us.

to place us in the career of our dreams, we should be diligent in our preparation so we may be able to seize the opportunity when it comes and in turn experience the fullness of God’s promises. For example, I wholeheartedly believe that God will make good on all his promises concerning my life. However, I am also well aware that faith without works is dead, so I will not wait passively for God to fulfill his promises. As a result, one of the ways I have been preparing to own a home is by being a good steward of my finances. I do this by budgeting and often shopping the sales on my favorite designer brands.

I say this all to say that whatever opportunities we are God’s promises are sure, but we must be ready for praying that God may present us with, whether it is to what he has in store (or, in this case, the opportunities buy a home, for our financial situation to change or that are in store).

"WHEN PREPARATION COLLIDES WITH OPPORTUNITY IT SETS US UP TO LIVE OUR BEST LIVES."

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hen you surround yourself with highly ambitious and industrious people, filled with all the qualities you aspire to embody, conviction invokes motivation for change after a while — to change what you feel is hindering growth. The people you surround yourself with should encourage you to improve your life without using words. I realized how much of a malingerer I was when I entered a room full of people making a difference. I had all the excuses for not achieving my goals and moving forward in life.

One day, in a beautiful park, I took off my shoes and closed my eyes with my arms outstretched. Feeling and connecting with the earth, breathing in and accepting everything around me.

An unsettling thought trickled in “but do you accept yourself?”

My arms dropped, and I cried; I was tired of being a fraud and portraying one thing while not living it. I was giving ideas to others but not following through with my own. At that moment, many thoughts flowed, but the word that stood out the most was ownership.

I chose this word because I began my journey of ownership within myself and transferred it into the world as a business.

The dictionary defines Ownership as the act, state, or right of possessing something. I believe ownership can be broken down into categories.

The first category is leadership — having the drive to commit to your goals, accelerate through hard times, own your outcome and set the vision for those you may lead. You have to become the type of leader you would follow without hesitation.

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LEADERSHIP ACCOUNTABILITY FEARLESSNESS Accountability is the second category — be open to feedback when reprimanded for not living up to your potential.

Understand and wholeheartedly own your actions and be accountable for the results you produce, whether good or unpleasant. When I feel as though I have fallen short, it's not easy to admit to my weaknesses, but it is necessary for growth. It's amazing how I started seeing myself in a different and brighter light.

Last but not least, you have to strive to be fearless. Fear will hinder growth. Overcome it to be victorious in what you do “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it." ~ Nelson Mandela Owning self It started as a self love journey getting my mind, soul, and body right. I hold myself accountable for everything I say and do. Once I was able to care for myself and genuinely love myself, I was able to see my purpose in serving others. Owning this new love, I decided to become a business owner to share this love yourself journey with others. I've suffered long enough, and healing is what I can do for my-

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self, and since then, all I have seen is growth. I cannot be selfish with my discoveries, which is why I created a business to help others as I have helped myself Offering my Eclectic Perx services to the world is how I choose to use my ownership to help others.

ing on God's behalf. Falling more in love with myself showed me more of God's love for me.

Many Blessings.

Fear is not from God Ownership of your emotions, faith, spirituality, physical state, residency, property, and business comes with great responsibility to do what is correct at all times making the proper choices in every moment. It's undeniable that uncanny situations occur unexpectedly, and it is the owner's responsibility to use critical thinking skills to assess the situation.

With God guiding you, you will embody the courage to triumph over fear in any situation, which is an essential part of ownership. Don't be fearful of failure. Failure is growth when deciphered and understood correctly. Failure doesn't mean you have to start over you must be accountable and make a few corrections to your course to get back on track.

Triumph over your fear and doubts, and own your gifts, the opportunities will arise before you, and you will reach goals far beyond what you can imagine. Deuteronomy 8:18 reads, “But thou shalt remember the Lord thy God; for it is He that giveth thee power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore unto thy fathers, as it is this day.

And Psalms 24:1 reads, “The earth is the Lord’s, and the fullness thereof, the world and they that dwell therein.

God has full ownership, and we are stewards. God owns everything; we are simply managers or administrators act-

Eclectic Perx A love yourself company www.eclecticperx.com

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OPTIMIZING YOUR TIME By: Kishanie Whyte Bates

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he word intention has had great PR in the last few years, and with good reason. Selfcare, trauma healing, and 'soft' living are hot topics. To see life-altering results, one has to be calculated, conscious, willful, deliberate, premeditated, and, you guessed it, intentional.

We make mental and physical lists— we have places to be, goals to achieve, and relationships to nurture. There never seems to be enough time in the day for the 8-5, the entrepreneurial grind, time with the kids, assignments, family and friends, one-on-one with your S/O AND prioritizing self-care.

THERE NEVER SEEMS TO BE ENOUGH TIME IN THE DAY 1. Get a good calendar 2. Structure your day around when your brain is at its peak From "thesleepycompany.com"

Sooo Hope will help you sieve through the rubble of your day and find ways and even time to set priorities and check the boxes on your list, all with intention. There are hundreds of internet resources on this topic. I often wonder how we connect with this information beyond momentary conviction (akin to new year's new me gym syndrome); here's what I discovered.

1. Plan for tomorrow today 2. Give yourself time blocks 3. Tackle the tough stuff 4. Be accountable How can we be efficient?

Optimizing your time

My number one tip here is to take breaks!

We first need to evaluate, decide, and write; what we want to accomplish and why we want to accomplish it — in detail.

With this box checked, here are some tips on how to optimize your time from entrepreneur.com and thesleepycompany.com.

Whilst setting timers, having routines and getting rid of distractions are also top of the list, an overwhelmed brain will only accomplish a little. Pace yourself; understand your rhythm, identify when you're most productive and prioritize downtime.

Tips from "entrepreneur.com"

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Bear in mind that scrolling through social media or getting through a few episodes of a show may not provide the relaxation needed— this is because screen time stimulates the brain. Too much screen time can affect creativity and sleep (Harvard Medical School news) and even induce stress reactions (postal.edu). Instead, try: Deep breathing exercises Yoga Meditation or music therapy According to Mayo Clinic, these activities slow heart rate, lower blood pressure, reduce the activity of stress hormones, reduce anger and frustration and improve sleep. Additionally, the benefits of regular exercise, sufficient rest, and outdoor time cannot be overstated. So get outside, meditate, exercise and SLEEP. We want to be healthy, more productive and available for God to use us when and where He sees fit.

Walk good.

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OPEN ROAD TO 40 Kishanie Whyte Bates interview with Sidonie Walsh

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ave you wondered about the next season of your journey? How you’ll approach the next chapter and what it has in store? Well, Sidonie has!

I had the opportunity to chat with the jet-setting Editor-in-Chief of hope the magazine to find out how she is preparing for the season ahead and what she has learned this season.

As she reminisced on her days in St. Elizabeth, rocking Jeri curls with mango stick in hand, Sidonie doted on her years at an all-girls school in Kingston, where she believes she experienced sisterhood and family; she described this as one of her fondest memories— beaming with pride even as she explained how her first impression of a school without boys was that it would be boring. I dug in to find out how this accomplished woman of God sees love, life and ageing, I learned about her love for sugarcane, mangoes, and all things grey and how she remains hopeful on the road to 40.

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What comes to mind when you think of year 40?

I think of being established, comfortable in who I am, self-assured, and self-aware.

What were the most joyous and fulfilling times in your life?

The milestone moments for sure - completing my degrees, marriage, having kids and becoming an author, were big for me.

How do you think your life will be different in year 40?

All the other years, I was working towards finding my place, looking for purpose. At this point, I’m done with trial and error and on the path, I should be on. Things should be streamlined; voids should be filled. At this point, I know that my purpose is to spread hope in this world.

Which lessons are you bringing into 40?

Always finish what I've started; there is always another way to my dreams and goals. If one doesn’t work, reroute. God is the Master Orchestrator — He has put something in me that someone needs, so remember to act with purpose and intention.

Tell us about your childhood in Jamaica?

It I could describe my childhood in one word, it would be freeing. I had the opportunity to dream and have experiences that, when I look back, I can only smile. Whether it was track and field, drama, festival or carnival competitions, I was always busy. Life at home was full of homegrown ventures allowing ingenuity and creativity to make the most of the little that we had, like picking a branch from a tree in my yard and adding lights making the best Christmas tree. With a free-spirited mom like mine, we were often on a road trip around the island, and at times, just enjoying our Sunday brunch at the top of the hill, looking down at beach. To ensure I was well rounded, I was enrolled in modeling and grooming school. While there, I participated in the “Mini Miss Jamaica” pageant, receiving the sectional prize of “Most Promising." A title that, years later, would have me striving for more— pulling out those promises hoping to live up to that charge. Knowing that there is more if I keep searching within.

What was the motivation behind NCFYF? My love for Jamaica. Lived there until my teen years. When I would visit, I fell in love with the parts of it I didn’t experience as a kid and the parts that I took for granted, like driving by the sea with mountains as the backdrop. The infectious hustling and jovial spirit of the people. I also

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love coming-of-age stories, the transformations, and the innocence of a budding love story. I like writing about a young persona and giving them complexities, highlighting many of the realities of a young person's issues like anxiety, insecurity and parental separation.

What kind of music do you dance and listen to?

Any plans as you approach 40?

Describe Sidonie’s 'me time'.

Too many! But the main one will help the others along. Live like I'm on borrowed time, and accomplish what I want to achieve by focusing on my goals. like publishing my very many children’s books inspired over the years by my children.

Getting my publishing company off the ground, so I can help others to tell their stories and publish book two of NCFYF.

Shopping when I get the time, running in the park with TD jakes in my ears, mani-pedis, reading, writing, a good TV series and rearranging my house every few months.

Travel more before and during year 40— and plan a real nice trip for my 40th. Life is short, and anything you want to do, you can do. Experiences broaden your horizon. That’s how you see more of God in the world. I will work on a healthier me, building routines to optimize my physical and mental health to accomplish all God wants me to do.

The world is made of people, so it is important to me to be mindful of the people. It is nurturing the relationships that God has ordained in my life, like my husband, children, parents, siblings, extended family and friends. It is also the people that cross my path each day, whether it’s offering a kind word or smile to a person at the grocery store, showing gratitude to the mail man or giving a helping hand to someone in need. My journey to making a difference begins with the people in front of me. I offer them the essence of God and who He has made me to be. To spread hope, to show grace, mercy, kindness, goodness, forgiveness and love. Doing this can change a life, plant a seed that will grow and help make a difference in this world.

Seed into a cause for the "least of these"-everything we do should be done to the glory of God, so focusing on giving back based on my gifts—bringing hope to people. Setting things in motion so I can hit the 40th year running.

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These days my car radio stays locked to Gospel stations and I love going to Gospel concerts when I get the chance. But I do like all kinds of music - Pop, R&B, Reggae.

What does it mean to make a difference in the world?

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REMINDERS ALONG THE ROAD

MOST PROMISING

She's on the open road to 40— ignoring speed limits set by others & abandoning the things that no longer serve her. She is taking the lessons that molded her & bringing her ten-year-old self along as a reminder that she is most promising because she has God & hope.

BE EVERYTHING YOU'VE ALWAYS DREAMED OF BEING!

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OASIS Our homes have the power to be our oasis. We can set the stage for what we want to evoke.

Even if every area is not perfect, we hold the key to unlocking potential and bringing out what is needed. Sometimes with just a layout change.

We ask some of our hope-filled readers to send us areas in their homes—a space or an item that brings them peace and centers them. A place that, in this season brings them joy, inspires gratitude and helps in adding life to their home— their oasis.

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FLOWERS There are always fresh flowers in my home. I pick colors and type of plants or flowers based on my feeling at the time and the feeling I'm hoping to evoke. They brighten up my home and make me happy.

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ANYONE FOR MOSS? I love unique pieces, like a bowl of moss. Perfect to put smiles on faces and leave a question in their minds.

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I GRAVITATE TOWARD NUDE WOODEN PIECES—THEY BRING ME SO MUCH JOY. THE RAW TEXTURES, AND SIMPLISTIC BEAUTY CREATE AN APPROACHABLE SPACE BEGGING FOR COMPANIONSHIP, OPEN TO BE ADORNED BY UNIQUE PIECES AND READY TO BE ENJOYED.

HAPPY 30TH ANNIVERSARY TO THE PETREKIN'S. WISHING YOU A LIFETIME OF HAPPINESS AND LOVE!

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MY OASIS Oasis Space submitted by Kathleen Denis-Frankenstein

My laundry room is my oasis —this was by design. As a mother of three with a family of five, laundry is a reality. It’s a chore not often raved about. It can be daunting, constantly increasing, beyond our level of control and nonetheless, still our responsibility. My laundry room represents life to me.

I designed it to reflect what I’ve always loved about the ocean. The movement of the waves is represented in the quartz counters and the blue porcelain tiles chosen for the flooring.

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The backdrop of white clouds and sand in the shiplap for walls and also in the counters and cabinetry. Even the wood of the shiplap was meant to give me the sensation of being cast off to sea.

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I have also embraced the practical nature of the laundry room by adding functional art in the piping used for the hanging rod and the floating shelves.

Clear glass jars showcase the scented beads and laundry pods are reflective of ocean life.

I wanted the starkness of the black against the Mediterranean aesthetic of every other design element in the room to symbolize that we can achieve calm or peace amid chaos, whilst doing things we abhor.

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Oasis Space submitted by Teri- Ann Petrekin

A small quiet space that brings so much peace. Sitting, watching the sun rise or set and seeing all the beauty the Lord created. The chippers of the bird, their wings flapping ferociously; landing on palm trees, the barking of my neighbor’s dog, and the faint sounds of cars travelling to their destination help to focus and center my energy.

This space was barren for years until I recently found its purpose. Now it’s my safe haven for afternoon naps, video conference calls, school assignments, or a late-night glass of wine. It’s more than a back porch— it's another reason home is my favorite place to be.

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VIEW FROM MY PORCH Little touches that help to add order and joy to the space.

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HERITAGE ON DISPLAY Oasis Space submitted by Renata Powell

I HAVE A SPACE IN MY HOME DEDICATED TO ACKNOWLEDGING AND PAYING HOMAGE TO MY JAMAICAN ANCESTRY. THE SPACE HAS DIFFERENT ARTWORK, HANDMADE FAMILY MEMBER GIFTS, AND KEEPSAKES FROM TRIPS AROUND THE CARIBBEAN. EACH TIME I PASS BY THIS SPACE, I REMEMBER MY HERITAGE AND MY FAMILY'S LEGACY. I LOVE THE PEACE AND THE COLORFUL ASPECTS AND HOPE TO ADD MUCH MORE KEEPSAKES IN THE FUTURE.

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Colorful hand painted pieces from my rich Caribbean heritage

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Paying homage to loved ones and bringing in unique pieces from my culture

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With hope at the table, great things are in store!

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THE HOLIDAYS ARE HERE AND THE FORMALITIES AND MUST HAVE DISHES HAVE ALREADY SATURATED THE SCENE — GROCERY STORES AND SOME TAKING SPACE IN OUR FREEZERS, BUT UNTIL WE TAKE THEM OUT TO THAW, WE STILL HAVE SOME TIME TO PARTAKE OF SOME OF THE SEASON’S COMFORT FOODS. ENJOY RICH AND CREAMY PASTA, JAZZED UP WITH FRESH AND VIBRANT BOUNTY COURTESY OF THE SEASON. WE WILL ALSO FEATURE SOME NOSTALGIC, DECADENT TREATS AND FULL-BODIED LIBATIONS, AS WE RAISE OUR GLASSES, BEFITTINGLY USHERING IN THE FESTIVE HOLIDAY SEASON!

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OH, PASTA!

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Bring your Pasta to life with the freshest veggies!

Use ones that are in season or just your favorites.

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INGREDIENTS • 10 plum tomatoes • 1 can tomato paste • 1 chopped onions • 6 cloves minced garlic • 1/4 cup basil • 2 tbsp Italian seasoning • Salt and pepper to taste • 1 cup chopped mushroom • 1 cup spinach • 1/4 cup green peppers • 1 tbsp sugar • 1 lb Italian sausage • 2 tbsp olive oil

COOKING DIRECTIONS Sauce

• In a medium to large skillet add olive oil and sauté Italian sausage until brown

• Chop and add all vegetables, add Italian seasoning and simmer for 30 minutes

• Add can tomatoes and 1/4 cup water • Add sugar, then salt and pepper to taste • Simmer on low for 45 minutes to an hour (add additional water as needed)

• Last 10 minutes add 1/4 cup parmesan cheese Spaghetti

• Bring to boil a large pot of lightly salted water • Add Spaghetti and cook for about 10 minutes or until al dente

• Drain spaghetti and set aside until sauce is finished

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Oils help to give sausage a nice brown color

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Breathe in the aroma

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Add chopped parsley to spaghetti for garnish Add remaining parmesan cheese to sauce and serve!

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DECADENT CARROT CAKE INGREDIENTS • • • • • • • • • • • • • •

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1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour 1 tsp baking power 1/2 tsp baking soda 1/2 tsp salt 1 tsp ground cinnamon 1/2 tsp ground ginger 1/4 tsp ground nutmeg 1/2 cup vegetable oil 1 cup brown sugar 2 large eggs 1/3 cup unsweetened applesauce 1/4 cup sour cream 1tbsp vanilla extract optional: 1/2 cup walnut, pecans or raisins

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INSTRUCTIONS

Combine flour, baking powder, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, ginger, and nutmeg together in a large bowl. Set aside.

Whisk the oil, brown sugar, eggs, applesauce, sour cream and vanilla extract together until combined, and then whisk in the carrots. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients and fold together until completely combined.

Preheat the oven to 350°F. Line a muffin pan with cupcake liners or grease and flour the bottom and sides of the containers.

Bake for 21–23 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. For around 30 mini cupcakes, bake for about 12– 13 minutes, same oven temperature.

Allow the cupcakes to cool completely before frosting.

Pour the batter, filling about 3/4 full to avoid spilling over the sides.

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CREAM CHEESE FROSTING INGREDIENTS • • • • •

8 ounces block cream cheese, softened to room temperature 1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened to room temperature 3 cups confectioners’ sugar 1 tablespoon pure vanilla extract 1/8 teaspoon salt

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In a large bowl using mixer, beat the cream cheese and butter together on until smooth and creamy. Add confectioners’ sugar, vanilla extract, and salt.

Beat on low speed for 1 minute and then switch to high speed and beat for an extra minute.

Refrigerate and pipe your frosting on cooled cupcake or you can use a spatula to apply. Top with your favorite garnish.

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2 large sweet potatoes (4-5cups) 1 cup all-purpose flour 3/4 cup corn meal 1 tsp salt 1.5 cups brown sugar 2 cans coconut milk 1/4 cup white rum (optional) 2 tsp vanilla 1/2 tsp nutmeg 1/2 tsp cinnamon 1/4 cup raisins

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INSTRUCTIONS • Pre-heat oven to 360°F • Grease and flour baking pan • Soak raisins in rum, to soften and absorb • • • • • • • •

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flavor, then let sit and continue to next steps Grate potatoes on medium side of grater In a large bowl combine dry ingredients (except sugar )- flour, cornmeal, salt, nutmeg and cinnamon.

In a separate bowl- combine coconut milk, vanilla, sugar Add 3/4 of the liquid ingredients to dry mixture, add in grated potato and fold until all combined Add in raisin and rum mixture Pour in batter and bake for 1 hour Add remaining liquid mixture and bake for another 45 minutes Cool pudding, slice and enjoy!

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1 bottle Guinness stout 1 can Supligen or 1 cup whole milk 1/2 cup condensed milk 1/2 tsp nutmeg 1/4 tsp cinnamon 1 tbsp vanilla extract 2 cups ice cubes *For a creamier taste add1/2 cup oats and or 1/2 cup vanilla ice cream

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CRANBERRY MULE MOCKTAIL INGREDIENTS • • • • • •

8 ounces Ginger beer or Ginger Ale 2 limes Mint leaves 1/4 cup cranberries 8 ounces Cranberry juice Crushed ice cubes *For cocktail- add 2 ounces of Rum

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Add ice to 2 copper mugs.

Add ginger beer/ale, cranberry juice, one lime juiced in cocktail shaker and shake well.

Pour juice in iced copper mugs.

Garnish with fresh cranberries and mint leaves.

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Ode to Books A good book will undoubtedly evoke emotion and alter how we see the world and ourselves.

Through stories, we experience happiness and sorrow; we are whisked away on adventures as wild as our dreams. Research indicates that reading can slow cognitive decline, alleviate depressive symptoms, and improve sleep. With all these benefits, I know you're excited to start your next reading adventure.

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HOPE FALL READ

AVAILABLE NOV. 15TH ON AMAZON OR WHEREVER BOOKS ARE SOLD!

The book that Hope recommends this season is the Revised edition of Priscilla Shirer's, "The Resolution for Women." Aligned perfectly with the mission of Hope - to embody hope and live with intention a purpose-filled life. This book challenges women to be women of resolve- women who are not perfect, but purposeful and intentional about charting their pathway in the direction of God's promises and purposes for their lives.

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Hope the Magazine 4 issues strong!

Hope is never out of season.

Download all 4 today.

Print copies available Please reach out to us on Instagram or reachhope@hopethemagazine.com to request your copy!

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In case you haven't heard, HOPE is a big deal around here!

And there is enough for everyone!

Join us this holiday season as we share hope with "Love Hope Letters."

"Know someone showing up each day, determined to stay the course, no matter the obstacles?

Let's cheer them on with a "Love Hope Letter", because Hope... matters!

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How can I help in spreading hope?

Send the hope letter recipient's name and address (mailed letter) or email address to reachhope@hopethemagazine.com (a short questionnaire will follow). Our HOPE team will send a personalized letter in November and December (signed 'Love Hope') that will undoubtedly spring hope and brighten their day.

Because this is the season of giving...

A select few will also receive a gift bag with something special during the Christmas season! Submit names by Saturday, December 17th, and instructions will follow about providing a $5 donation for each recipient submitted.

Please consider this...

Remember, we all need hope; sometimes, even people who seem to have it all together need a hopeful reminder. They may be in a season where they need hope the most, so let us send a 'love hope letter" to everyone we know, and even submit one for yourself— a little hope can go a long way, and there is never too much.

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OUT & ABOUT

MAKING ROOM FOR YOUR MOMENTS Find the place your soul needs at any given moment.

Some days I wake up and all I want is the beach. On other days it's the smell of fresh air, music, family or good food.

Other times its solitude to think and recharge. While other times, it's togetherness and a night of laughter until my face hurts.

Some places I go because I long for whimsy and inspiration like a good ole bookstore.

When I want to be closest to God, I engulf myself in nature gazing — in wonderment at a beautiful mountain in the distance.

Your soul needs its moments.

Whatever it is, find your people, find your place and just be!

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"Keep your head up, stretch your feet out and smile.

Remember you are God's greatest creation.

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You are more majestic than even the picturesque ocean and the lofty clouds in the radiant sky"

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The last oohs and ahhs

OPEN THE GATES! Sooo much in store

The opportunities are palpable! We get a chance to squeeze and taste the sweet juice from the Season's fruitfulness and abundance. Not just tangible provisions, but also intangibles, which are needed for the next leg of the journey.

It is so tempting to close the gates, lock ourselves inside, lay next to the fireplace, tuck ourselves into our pumpkin spiced scented rooms and take a long rest. But, alas! It’s not quite that time yet. The almost forgotten chilly winter nights eagerly loom in the distance. And yes, you deserve a rest, and you’ll have plenty of time for that, but a pause will have to do. The pause has a purpose though, it fills you with virtue, clarity and gratitudegiving ode to the fruits of our labor and breathing in the saturated atmosphere's divine favor. Enlightened, we carry an overwhelming desire to be good stewards, moving with intentionality and fervor. Time to take our foot off the brake and get ready to move!

The seeds that we've planted have had time to germinate, blossom and is in full bloom. Now is time to harvest them, and the chance for one last push to accomplish the goals for this year. It’s reaping season, everything we've gone through this year carries with it opportunity- the opportunity to bring forth and produce.

Open the gates! There is so much in store. You have a lot to pick from, so grab your baskets, hold them tight and gather all the goodness of the season. Bask in them, share them, store some up for when they are needed in the Seasons ahead. You see, you have planted, waited and toiled. Now, it's reaping season (the ordained and opportune time), so count it all joy, because the good, the bad and the seemingly ugly— all of it, has led you to this harvest that's all yours and waiting for you!

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