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Welcome to Delaware Metro Woman Magazine Why Choose Us

Delaware Metro Woman Magazine is created and published

by LaTannia Fair, a homegrown Delawarean. Our knowledge and specialty advertising techniques provide extraordinary opportunities to connect and gain new customers. Our goal is to showcase your business and highlight your expertise to increase client traffic and generate a steady flow of clients talking about your specific products or services offered.

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reaches thousands of women, Delaware families and business professionals. Call us today to discover why local businesses are using the Delaware Metro Woman Magazine for their preferred source of advertisement. Don’t hesitate contact us to have your business recognized as a leader in the Delaware market.

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Dr. Patricia G. Contee Interim Director of Teacher Education University of Maryland Eastern Shore Princess Anne, Maryland 21853

NC E A L Women Creating a BA Women are often asked this question, “How do you manage to keep it all together?”

Men scratch their heads and say, “Wow! How did she pull that off?” Children just naturally know that moms are “Super Hero’s”. Everyone depends on and has great expectations for women, and at the end of the day, women may feel as if they have ran a marathon.

Women, it is no secret that you create a safe place for your families, and that you do it well. Some of you are overworked, underpaid and unappreciated, but you continue to do because you love unconditionally. You stay too long in dead end relationships because you have hope; you never give up on your children because you see their potential. You make sacrifices for everyone except yourself, and you hold the light for your sister at the end of the tunnel because you can relate to her struggle.

Ladies, it is time to learn how to create a balance between, home, work, husband, children and extra-curricular activities. The economy has forced many women to find a job or two just to meet the needs of her family. Women of color have gone natural to save money where necessary. Long gone are the days of pampering: a massage, manicure, pedicure, facial, movie and lunch with a friend. Women sacrifice for everyone, and it is time for women to make sacrifices for self.

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balance, so begin this self-sacrifice by purchasing a calendar. Then schedule a day to appreciate the body and make an appointment that includes a physical, yearly pap smear and mammogram, for early detection can save your life. Once that is complete, make an appointment to see the dentist. A healthy smile is priceless, and tooth decay can be toxic to the body. Next, find out if your employer or insurance offer a discount on a gym membership, and if so, then sign up. If not, then find the nearest park and exercise 30 minutes a day.

Creating a balance between jobs, home, significant others, children and extracurricular activities can be a daunting task.

When the work day has ended, it is over.

While home, work is over, so spend quality time with family. Only discuss work related issues if asked and keep responses to a minimum. Spend time with the children, inquiring about their day and activities, checking homework and signing agendas.

However, a scheduled bedtime is important, especially for small children. Keep the marriage fun, exciting and do not forget to keep dating your spouse. Have a date night at least once or twice a month, because extracurricular activities are important.

Such activities could include: fellowship at church, bowling, social engagements, etc., as they serve as stress-free experiences. If an activity becomes overwhelming, then simply choose another one.

Woman know your worth and support your sisters with love and

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Dreams Come True Have you ever thought about where you want to be in life? Your true spirit’s calling? Would you like to be your own boss and follow your passion in life? Would you like to smile at the end of the day and know you have done your heart’s content?

I’m truly blessed and finally have realized my personal and professional dream in life. It’s amazing going on my soon to be 50th year of life, to obtain this inner peace of existence.

Also to have the support and love of family and friends to realize this dream.

Rekindled Spirits has been in existence since 2004, providing Therapeutic Massages to the New Castle County Community. I’ve been very blessed along the way to be associated with many mentors and beautiful places to provide my services. Everything from a beautiful Spa in Newark -Trilogy Salon and Day Spa from 2004 to 2007, to a quaint Gift Shop in Middletown - Purple Sage Herbs & Gifts from 2006 to Current, to several Newark Chiropractors - Abby Medical Center to Blue Hen Chiropractic from 2009 to 2015.

Additional secret locations of rejuvenation include: Penn’s Place in Old New Castle known for the delicious Cup of Coffee and craftsmanship of local Artisans from 2011 to 2013, and beautiful Spa and Heaven for Beauty at Lasting Looks in Hockessin from 2013 to 2014. I’m truly blessed and thank all of the owners and their staff for the comfort and warmth they have provided to my clients over the years.

2015 is the year Rekindled Spirits realizes its dream to have its own Office located in the heart of downtown Newark, next to revitalized Newark Shopping Center at 62 North Chapel Street. Conveniently located, plenty of parking, and a quiet atmosphere.

It’s such an honor to continue to serve the Community in its Therapeutic Massage needs.

Rekindled Spirits has also teamed up with the Newark Natural Foods - Farmer’s Market on Sundays - 10 am to 2 pm - May through November - to provide customers a chance for a few minutes of relaxation while they do their weekly shopping with the

local farmers and vendors. Stop by and enjoy local food, flowers, soaps, massages, & more.

Following our dreams is a matter of taking time for ourselves to relax and rejuvenate. To get out of the hustle and bustle of our daily lives and listen to our inner spirit. Take time to literally smell the flowers, walk through the fields of green grass, hang out underneath a tree… and let Mother Nature re-spark this earthly energy of our spirits.

The water is another way to revitalize our spirits. Whether it’s hanging out in the ocean and listening to the waves, feeling the cool breeze on our faces, and sand between our toes. Or escaping to the mountains to revitalize our spirits with the serenity and peace of the beautiful lakes, and listening to the birds chirping amongst themselves.

As our body starts to relax and our Therapeutic needs are being met, then we can listen to our inner spirit and trust in the universe to be led in the direction we need to reach our goals. One of my goals at Rekindled Spirits is to enhance my clients’ well-being and put them in touch with their inner spirits.

Give my clients the space they need to relax and rejuvenate their bodies. I listen to my clients verbally about their Therapeutic needs, and then I listen to their bodies’ needs and intertwine these needs helping the clients to relax, rejuvenate, and revitalize into their inner sense of peace. Thus allowing the clients to tap into this blissful state of existence and begin reaching for their dreams.

Looking forward to meeting you and providing Therapeutic Massage to Rekindle your Spirit. Reach for your Dreams! Please book your appointment today to start your path obtaining this inner peace. Joan Gennarini, LMT, Owner of Rekindled Spirits.

Contact me at Joan@RekindledSpirits.net or at 302-354-9054.

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Sparkle Dazzle Elegance BeadsbyCarol.com Carol@BeadsByCarol.com

After working in the corporate world, 14 years at DuPont Company and 17 years at Accenture as a Service and Innovation lead. Carol decided 10 years ago to start her Jewelry business Beads by Carol. One day a friend of hers asked her to make a necklace and bracelet for her daughter to wear with her wedding dress. Carol designed an exquisite necklace, earrings and bracelet set small enough to fit her petite wrist and 16 inch neck. From that day forward Carol has been designing some of the most beautiful jewelry pieces. Carol uses Swarovski crystals/pearls, Venetian glass and natural stone beads to create her designs. Carol’s necklaces, earrings and bracelets range from $35.00 to $300.00.

Carol has a unique eye for creating custom designs to wear every day or on special occasions. You can find some of Carol’s jewelry at Kirks Flowers in Suburban Plaza, Newark, Delaware. Carol participates in many Bridal Expos throughout the state.

She is a supporter/sponsor of the Miss Delaware America Organization held at Dover Downs in June. Creating custom designed jewelry motivates Carol, and after 10 years she still gets excited about every individual piece. Carol says “You must have something that brings you joy in life.” The smiles on her clients faces when they see her creations brings her that joy. Look for Carol at the Brides and Baseball event at the Blue Rocks Stadium on July 26th 2015.

Carol plans to volunteer with the Cancer Support Community. She has traveled the world helping businesses streamline their computer application processes and has decided to focus on her passion, making every woman feel beautiful and unique.

Contact Carol at 302 593-6982 to make an appointment, schedule a Jewelry party or to inquire about displaying her Beads by Carol collection at your business location.

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In July 2011, Lolita DeVane opened the doors of the L. DeVane Insurance Agency, Inc. Lolita has a extensive mortgage background and business acumen. She chose to become an Allstate Agent not only to help her policy holders with their most precious items, home, autos, life and family, but to serve as a role model and a leader in the community.

She chose a business opportunity which will enable her to pass down from generation to generation. Her main focus is to help business owners, clients, friends and family by enhancing their lives financially and spiritually. The L. DeVane Insurance Agency has been awarded the Allstate “Premier Service Agency” designation for consistently achieving outstanding customer service and high levels of business performance. Lolita states, “Knowledge is power” and she wants to educate her community about the importance of savings, financial freedom, and taking care of business the correct way the first time to avoid unfortunate situations. Over the last several years the Agency has provided sponsorships and participation amongst several organizations in the Tri-State area; Cheyney University, Wade Wilson Golf Tournament (Cheyney “C” Club), Caravel Academy Athletic promotions, Delaware Annual Housing Fair, Stomp & Clay Productions, Michael Jones Mentors Group/Driving School and most recently providing a $1000.00 community sponsorship to the Michael Flagg Foundation. Her goals are to provide the community with educated staff, a professional office environment and a friendly smile. She wants her clients to feel free to talk to her first about their insurance concerns, because we all know less expensive doesn’t mean better. Lolita’s hobbies are reading, exercising and cooking. Yes cooking! Did you know? Lolita is a Sunday School Chef at her church, Highway Gospel Community Temple. She values her family most. She states, “There is nothing more important than raising a family and Delaware is the perfect place to do so.”

Lolita’s agency is only a part of the DeVane Insurance Family. With 3 locations in Delaware, Bear, New Castle and Newark she invites you to stop by and discuss how you can achieve your financial goals and protect your most valued property.

Check out her website

www.allstate.com/lolitadevane or call 302 703-0493 email: Lolitadevane@allstate.com 240 S Dupont Highway, Ste 200, New Castle, DE 19720 16 Fox Hunt Dr, Bear De, 19701 408 Surburban Dr, Newark,

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5 Signs that Mom Might Need a Personal Finance Partner

By Janis Harlow, DMM, MBA Have you recently visited a parent and realized that it is taking him or her a lot longer to get around to doing things that never used to be an issue? It may not be a serious concern at first, but when financial matters start to slide, it can be an early indicator of dementia, depression, or other problems. Often it stems from a lack of familiarity with financial chores, especially when the financial partner in a marriage dies or becomes disabled, because in most marriages one person does that job.

No matter the cause, these are some signs that financial help may be needed.

Mary and Charles were married for many years. Mary was the social calendar manager and Charles took care of household maintenance and finances. When Charles passed away, Mary had to take over the things that she had never dealt with before.

On a visit to her mother some time later, her daughter, Ann, noticed: 1. Stacks of paperwork in various places that didn’t look organized.

Mary was not handling all the items that appear in the mail every day. She didn’t know how to create a system to manage it all.

2. Late fees, finance charges and unpaid bills.

Because she had no system, things were getting lost and even though she had money to pay the bills, she didn’t have the interest or skills to stay on top of it all. Mary’s home was not protected because, although she had received several notices, she had neglected to pay the insurance bill.

3. Numerous financial requests from charities.

It gave Mary a good feeling to donate to charity, but she didn’t realize that she was giving multiple times per year, and that new charities

were now asking for donations. She had no budget for giving and no idea how much was going out the door.

4. Un-deposited checks.

Ann found several checks that had never been taken to the bank, leaving her mother at risk for overdraft problems.

5. Receipts for a large number of Home Shopping television purchases.

Mary was lonely and shopping from home was a way to fill time and briefly make her feel happy.

Ann did not live near her mother, and had her own busy household to manage. She realized that her mother was not managing financially, and although she was physically able to live independently, she was going to need help with her personal affairs. Mary also had years and years of paperwork saved, and neither mother nor daughter was comfortable with knowing what to keep and what to get rid of.

Feeling the pressure mounting, she did some research and found the American Association of Daily Money Managers (www.AADMM.com).

These professionals bring order to chaos, and can work in conjunction with an older adult, an adult child or caregiver, financial planners, tax advisors, and attorneys, to provide the handson assistance that is sometimes needed, but at a lower cost. The need for services can arise from busy schedules or travel, as well as from unfamiliarity with finances, physical disability, or mental decline.

Daily Money Managers assist with monthly bill paying, account reconciliation, tax, insurance, & medical paperwork, and a host of other personal affairs needs. Their services offer peace of mind to both those who need the help and those who care about them.

Janis Harlow, DMM, MBA is CEO of Paper Tigress Personal Finance Care, LLC which provides Daily Money Management Services in Chester County, PA, and northern Delaware. She specializes in helping busy professional women and senior women to manage their finances and personal business, and is available for speaking.

Contact Janis at www.papertigresspfc.com or call 484-727-8444.

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June Events St. Anthony’s Italian Festival

Amusement rides for kids. Enjoy dancing, singing and eating all week long. June 7-14, 2015.

The festival will be held at Wilmington’s very own Little Italy.

Dogfish Head Analog-A-Go-Go

Held at the Milton brewery and Rehoboth Beach brewpub, the fest includes live music, vendors and a vinyl swap shop. June 12-13, 2015.

Separation Day in Old New Castle

The celebration includes Colonial games and music, an arts and craft festival, and amusement rides. Delaware declared separation, from both Britain and Pennsylvania on this day. June 12-13, 2015.

Clifford Brown Festival

Held in Wilmington, the festival features top musicians and free admission. June 17-20, 2015.

Mid-Atlantic Sea Glass & Coastal Arts Festival

Here’s a chance to see the magic of more than forty sea glass artists, along with other coastal artisans.

June 27-28, 2015.

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FAMILY TIES-

“A Celebration of Color”

Kimberly Reading is a

Kimberly Reading

Cancer Awareness Advocate and a Board Certified Mastectomy Fitter. In her thirteen years of experience as a fitter, she worked with numerous women who had undergone breast surgery. It is a career that was very rewarding to her, but most importantly, it kept her connected by learning more about Breast Cancer.

Twenty-one years ago she lost her mother to the disease. With the knowledge she has gained over the past decade, she has been able to provide awareness to others. By hosting an annual “Pink Party” in her mother’s honor, she promotes and advocates for early detection of the disease. Kim also stresses the need to educate yourself on not only your body and health history, but also the importance of knowing your family history.

In January 2015, she released her first self-published book entitled, “Family Ties”. The book is an inspirational story that not only gives details of her own personal journey with cancer, but also her family’s history with several diagnoses of cancer. This is a story that she wants to share, that goes “beyond the pink ribbon.”

She currently promotes an initiative that focuses on the other colors of cancer. Kim wants to educate and ensure that people are being screened annually for diseases that can be cured and treated if they are detected at an early stage. She calls this her, “Color Journey”. A journey where she has decided to spread her message at local churches and community events. Her goal is to enlighten others that each cancer not only has a ribbon color, but a month on the calendar that is dedicated to the awareness of the specific disease.

To purchase a copy of the book, you can order online at www.thebookpatch.com or you can contact her Facebook Page @ Family Ties A Celebration of Color.

The book sells for $15.95

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